How I Learned To Love Again
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- Опубликовано: 5 июн 2024
- I know the fam wants to hear about me and Jay. And trust, that’s DEFINITELY in the works... 😏🥰But I gotta explain how I got there first.
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Take a deeeeep breath, inhale summa YOU. I'm Jeannie Mai, and, baby, it's time to OWN ur life! Together let's get 💯about fashion, fitness, finance & everything to crank up ur confidence. Thursdays, with me, 10am PST. Ya ready? #HelloHunnay
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What are some things u love about yourself?
Playing fun games!
I'm nice and amazing guy!
My personality 💜 and my big curly hair LOL 😆
My heart, my Spirit and my Soul ❤
my personality and kindness
“At the end of the day, you are already with the one person you are gonna spend the rest of your life with, and that’s yourself.” Jeannie. SAY IT LOUDER FOR THE PEOPLE IN THE BACK
Yea I like that one also.
Wow!
“We’re not broken just bent, and we can learn to love again”
Yes pink and Nate reuss!
Love that song!!
I like to say "Everyone's broken just some are glued together better than others. Over time your glue will harden and you'll be better!"
@Zahira Llanes lol really??? Not a deep thinker I see...
She’s so well spoken. I love hearing her speak
Me too. I wish I could be as fluent and articulate as her
You MUST go into a relationship as a WHOLE person, not looking for someone to Complete you. Great share Jeannie!
Voleta Chapman I absolutely love this. Because looking for our other half implies we’re only half, and we’re not, we’re whole, we are our entire person, only ourselves.
The right person comes to add, not to complete.
"I could not have fallen in love again if I didn't fall in love with myself." You are speaking SO much truth into light!
Jeanie must love Jeezy so much, she cries every time she talks about him. Jeezy must love her so much too, they are just so perfect.
Added later: Oh! my god!! Whatt?? I have 1.4 k likes?? wow. I guess being positive and thinking good about others is good. I GOT LOVE FROM OUR JEANIE MAI. WE LOVE YOU.
Love from NEPAL.
Honey that's what happens when you're loved the right way!!! This Queen here deserve every ounce of happiness!!!
Yep, when you cry just talking about them, its the real deal!👍🏾 Congrats!
But she is telling too much. Keep some things personal Jeannie. Don't tell everything!
@@kwynkaq I don't think she is 🤷🏾♀️
@Win From Within
Don't consider your own opinion as a fact, if its not a fact.
I have noticed how much Jennie has changed/ matured from her pain. I'm proud of you girl.👏👏
I felt her when she said she learned to love herself when she
started spending time by herself.
I felt that too , that’s how I met my husband, focusing on me 💛
tupacamaru2 Bro, most asians (and we do look a lot different, but my family is huge) remind me of some family member. Thanks, but no. I don’t want to be fucking someone and then suddenly think they look like my cousin. You know those couples that look like they could be siblings? Not my thing.
Same
We need a “ how jeezy asked you to marry him “ video
Agreed!
we need jeezy on the show period !
Watch The Real on Monday💖💖
It was at his house in California ! Was supposed to be on a trip to Vietnam he had planned, but obviously that had to be cancelled !
Yeah..and why you're not wearing your ring😁
Can we all acknowledge how intelligent this woman is?!? Her way of thinking is mind blowing
Absolutely yes hell yes!
Ali Azmie
Doesn’t make any sense I don’t understand simps
Absolutely! This woman’s ability to meaningfully self-reflect and then relate it to others in a helpful way... she’s awesome.
An calming an peaceful. She always so open calm and seem to b at peace with things, people and their thoughts and opinion. Good listener too.
You sound like a bitter dusty! Men by nature are to protect and provide! Men always took pride in that! I dunno where you dusty trash came from!
YOU SAID SOMETHING THAT HELPED ME! It is 10pm and I'm sitting in my home office. My husband and I are quarantined and not speaking. I don't feel that he loves me and I just can't be with him anymore, but I have been scared. We have 2 big homes together large financial bills. We just moved into our dream house! It hurts so much because I do love him but I feel that it is not reciprocated. After looking at your video with Jeezy's proposal and I knew! I KNEW I need love like that, and not someone who would watch me cry and not say a word and walk away. The thing that you said was, you envisioned your fears and how you would work through it. I am going to do that and move forward. I love myself and sense he doesn't, I'm going to tear down everything that we have built and build a new life with someone who loves me...that person is me. Thank you so much Jeannie... I'm in tears...
I pray that you find love again❤❤
Wish you all the best love be strong and follow your Heart🧡😃
Wishing you the best on your new journey ❤️
You will find love again and you will love your self first when that happens you will see you want different things it’s a new beginning it’s so exciting I did it and I have never looked back be strong good luck
Yes ma’am start focusing solely on yourself and what is going to benefit you, also amp up you’re self care and beauty routines. He is bound to notice you but by then it’ll be too late
You are allowed to be both a masterpiece and a work in progress, simultaneously -Sophia Bush
"You're already with the one person you're gonna spend the rest of your life with and that's yourself so you gotta love you" - Jeannie Mai.
Yo that hit different. We always think we need to find the one to love but neglect ourselves and put others first a lot of the time. Great advice!
Absolutely
That only works with fur babies and children, other adults can be very heartless :(
“I’m dating myself and this guest can join me” Jeannie Mai, that is a line I’ve never heard before. I will gladly put it to use. 😂😂
😩😭😭😭😭
The insecurity is strong in this one
If you can speak English, dislike the following video:
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Amen seriously I LOVED THAT☺️❤️
Malisha Guerrier
Hi,
This is fine ... (By the way) ...
I would love to talk to jeannie about my life problems. She just seems like such an understanding person and someone who could give such great advice x
You ok x
I'm single and actually have never been in a relationship BUT oh the things that I learned from this woman! There are so many gems and important life lessons you can take from this no matter where you're at in life. God bless Jeannie Mai🙏🏾
Same with me
Jeanie is so deep
Hey Seattle! I’m from there too #206
Right!!!
We're in the same boat, I love the idea of dating someday and knowing that I love myself and I KNOW what healthy love feels like AND saying NO to what doesn't feel right.
Hi how let talk
"If you don't have fears how will you know how to be brave"...one of the best quotes I've ever heard
livelaugh _love Yesssssss!!!
The way Jeannie’s complex way of thinking and navigating her thoughts and way of life is just beautiful.
Very complex descriptions
"you're already with the person you're gonna spend the rest of your life with, and thats yourself."
She literally lit up soon as she started talking about J...
. Love is a beautiful thing ♥️
"I could not have fallen in love today had I not fallen in love with myself." Cousin Jeannie (in my head) always giving it to us straight. She's the real deal Hunnay!✌️
Jeanie should have a movie about her life! I love her journey as a person
Agree
Gemini Empress are you a gemini?
@@meowchinchilla4009 yes, what gave it away? 🤣
She should write a book
@@jebiusenvy I would definitely read it but sadly not many people do read 😂 I was going to write book but thought, ah fuck it. People these days don't know how to appreciate a good book
I see why jeezy fell in love with this beautiful intelligent woman. Peace to Jeezy you found a one of a kind.
I was also in a 10 year relationship that was over years prior. We finally split when I found him with someone else. Although I was unhappy in our relationship, I didn’t think I would ever have to start over. Starting over was such a scary thought to me. I was with that person from 14 to 24. We moved in together at a young age and I never experienced having my own place. I am now 25 and since our relationship ended I’ve moved out on my own and have met someone new. It’s hard being on my own for the first time but it’s getting better.
SOUNDS LIKE YOU LET FEMINISM RUIN UR LIFE.
Maciie Muniz
You have gone thru a very long relationship at such a young age. Please understand that there is no need to be in a hurry, you are so young...25!!! I cannot stress enough how important it is to learn who you are, who you want to be, & what you want...it is so important to gain that strength and personal knowledge.
Make yourself your first priority. You’ve got so much time...enjoy you! Go take some random classes...like cooking or dance or art...be open to something a little different to enjoy and learn and grow from.
Enjoy your new place! Have some girlfriends over for some wine therapy, girl talk and movies. Even better, plan a weekend getaway with friends or vacation! (Of course after covid 19)
Good luck with the new relationship...just don’t rush anything. It’s ok to take time to take a step back and “do you” and learn to really understand and love yourself...you have so much ahead of you, now is the time for you!
This is also my story. It was painful as I grew with him. I had to rediscover me, my purpose outside of him. To finally fall in love with me. There are times that I want him to come back, and others where I'm grateful I made it out and I'm still young to experience someone else other than him. But it rough. I'm fearful of being alone but also fearful in being in another entrapment like that relationship
B
@@kwonderz19 YOU DONT SOUND HUMBLE AT ALL.
Wow, she handled her divorce so well that I forgot she was even married before. I’m happy for you and how you’ve jumped back into love after all you’ve been through.
Oi
I don’t know how this was misunderstood as a rude comment, but it was definitely a compliment on how mature and wise she is.
@【登録者数200人目標】魚きんに do you even understand English? There is nothing wrong or bad with her comment.
Backhanded complement 😂😂
Stacy Mcload how? What am I missing?
Jeezy came a long way since Trap Or Die
He put on, went to get money, became an inspiration, survived the recession, started ballin, then met Jeannie and said
"I'm a Go Getta."
😭🥰❤
Everytime I see her I hear him sing “go get her” lol
Yasss
Jeannie I wholeheartedly agree with this! I was single for a little over a year after a break up (was with someone for 2+ years) before meeting my husband. In that year I invested in myself- I tried new activities, focused on my own personal projects, started meditating and before I knew it I was really enjoying being single. I started to think about the type of relationship I wanted the next time around. I got really specific about the type of partner I wanted and legit a few weeks after I did that I met my husband. I always joke that I manifested him into reality. Like you, I knew the moment I met him. We both felt it instantly on our first date (Aug 2017), the rest is history. It sounds cliche but once you get in the groove of REALLY loving yourself the universe reciprocates that energy by sending you more AUTHENTIC Love.
Thank you
I receive 👏🙏❤️🙌🦋
As a women who has gone through a divorce, I have to agree with everything you mentioned. It’s been 5 years after my divorce and just now I am ready for a relationship. Spending time with yourself and figuring out who you are is so vital ladies! Don’t settle or jump into a relationship too fast.
Omg!!! Jeannie, your eyes SPARKLE- they literally ILLUMINATE- when you talk about Jeezy. Thank you for sharing this journey with us. I've learned so much from you. Jeezy has an amazing woman by his side!.
I’m experiencing my first break up and I’m trying to learn to be okay again without him. It’s just hard when you want to fix something or accepting that someone doesn’t want to be with you at this moment. So this video came at the perfect time I’m trying to manifest that I will heal again. The shame, starting over, all of this I’m trying to deal with! And I’m only 22 and i know it’s silly but it really is hard! I’m afraid of accepting that you can love again because that means the other party can too, and then I’m afraid of feeling that rejection all over again. But I’m really inspired by you Jeannie! You grew from this so well!
Wow. This exactly happened to me. I'm 22 years old and I had my first breakup last year December from a 7 year relationship. It left me shattered, I still feel as if am not enough, I sometimes cry myself to sleep because I've been with this person for a very long time and we both made plans that would never come true. I'm getting better and learning to love myself each passing day, I hope you do the same. Sending you love and light Alex
I am 21 years old, going through the same exact thing!
Alexgrl99 it gets better with time stay strong
Alexgrl99 I had break ups when I was 21 with the same boyfriend but we’re still together now working in progress however I still think about the times when we had the choice to go separate ways. I hope you know you’re making a great decision and doing yourself a favour and I applaud you for your braveness Alex! My colleague always say “I’m gonna build a bridge and get over it” whenever we encounter a problem or something unnecessarily that’s bothering our lives. So keep building your bridge! 🥰
Alexgrl99 I am 22 and in the position right now and have started healing from previous relationship and this video could not come at the right time 🙏🏽
"Once you felt heard you get motivated" that was golden Jeannie
I had to write notes on my book literally as you speak ❤️you are wise
Thank you for verbalizing this. That is EXACTLY how I felt after I divorced my husband of 17 years. I was 37 and feeling so defeated because I had wasted so many years with someone and had nothing to show for it. 💕💕💕💖 I completely lost myself in that relationship.
I hear you, I'm currently two weeks into feeling this way and sometimes I just don't what do to.
@@shilpahosny4177 how's it going now?
"At the end of the day end of the day you're already with the one person you're going to spend the rest of your life with, and that's yourself." DAMN i love you wisdom and honesty.
That was so beautiful.
If you cry about the person you love ... that’s the one.
“It’s okay to be a work in progress” YES JEANNIE👏🏽
Girl I cried when you said “ I could see he had been broken like me” ugh 😩. I love this message. I’m currently going through this as well ❣️ loving myself
Been there hun. Mark my words...have his shit blocked! No contact rule. Bc once you're looking right and living life he'll make the Biggest U-turn! Narcissistics hate a woman they couldn't keep down. He'll hear about your best days ahead thru the vine. Keep his negativity from you. In the meantime remind yourself how you felt like shit and down all the time with that person. Thank God for the freedom and be smiling without them. You're lucky you got away some never do. 🥰👏❤
Amen to EVERYTHING that you said about narcissists! I almost married one last year, but was wise enough to finally walk away and dodge a “hollow point” bullet, lol. Their ego and delusional superiority complex prevents them from being able to wrap their minds around how the woman they did everything in their power to emotionally destroy and break could walk away from THEM in the end. Healing, moving forward, and ultimately being happy and whole is the narcissists worst nightmare.
Man dont get beoken they nreak. Hardly ever thwy get cheated on..
But if they do its a good reason.
"I was attracted to myself" GOALS! BTW, Jeannie, we are trending! yas girl!
Omg...WE ARE SIS..
#9 trending at the moment! Looks like people are interested in the recent engagement!!
@@jyn88 Yes! They sure are. So excited for her!
@@HelloHunnay will u ever have a baby
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Jeannie, you made me cry. Hearing you talk about your must haves and meeting J, I'm encouraged to keep working on myself and growing 'cause at the end of the day, my good matters.
I love that I always find a way to be positive, even when things are crashing down around me. I love that I am my own cheerleader. I'm starting to love my face, I always say I'm not photogenic but that's just me being insecure. Thank you Jeannie! Congrats on your engagement, kisses!
Yes! Work those affirmations! Love to see u owning and celebrating YOU! ❤
“Crazy kindness.” And that connection. That’s all you had to say girl. That’s the most important thing. Many congratz and best wishes to you both. This was so beautiful.
"Its ok to be a work in progress and be ok with that". I love that you said that because so many people feel the need to "have it all together" or to "have all the answers" and I'm glad you let people know that's they don't need to have all the answers or have it all together. We also dont have to stop working on ourselves when we do get it all "together". Its ok to keep working on yourself and find out who you are, as well as taking a step back when needed to acknowledge the progress we need to make
I CRAVE HER CHANNEL AND ANY OF HER STORIES .URGHHH SHE'S THE BEST. I WISH HER NOTHING BUT THE BEST 💕💕💕
Thx fam! I love sharing this all wit U!
Tears of joy when talking about her man that’s true love
prolly makes her ohh and ahhh when he tickles
Nah she will just cheat on him later in marriage.
@@nicholaiginovaef7516 word she's just there for the SBC he has
@Miss Maddie not every black guy packs like he's from congo .anything above average is just a big deal for asians 😎
@Miss Maddie i hear ya 🤣
We always feel ashamed whenever a relationship fails, especially if it's a long term relationship. And people always think that they should jump to the next available person. Big up for focussing on yourself and loving yourself enough to take your time.
Wow there’s something powerful about Jeanie’s self awareness. That’s so important rather your by yourself or in a relationship. I think I’m going to start journaling again.
I love how deep she is. I’m a very deep and passionate person myself, and not a lot of ppl get it. I just want to hear all of her life experiences and how she overcame things.
YESSSSSS!
I feel the same way! 💯! 💛
Same ❤️
I hear you and relate 100000 percent
This message is universal. Should be translated in every language.
I just ended a relationship after 10 years and this video really spoke to me. She hit the nail on the head. It’s Inspiring that she not only found love again but it seems like she found her soul mate. That’s encouraging.
When she started tearing up, gosh! The tears were there before I knew! SO HAPPY FOR YOU!
I know even if Jay wasn't Jeezy that Jeannie would still fall in love! Jeannie is so genuine and doesn't come across as superficial! She just wants pure love heart to heart,mind to mind ,and soul to soul ♥️🙏
I just want her to be careful though. He was already engaged, bought the lady a beautiful ring, and a white Range Rover, but broke it off. I also didnt know him and the last lady have a 4 year old daughter together. So Jeannie, just be careful.👍🏾
@@resourcegyrl some of these men will treat a new woman like a queen when the last one put in years with them 🙄
“It’s okay to be a work in progress.” I needed to hear that. 🥺
When we stop searching and fall in love with ourselves, that's when we find true love. It's never when we are searching for something outside of ourselves.
She’s honestly an inspiration, her words have given me hope
I know Jeannie doesn't want kids... but can you IMAGINE how beautiful and perfect her and Jeezy's babies would be
They would be so cuteee
I think she met her match and her equal sooo THaT will make her want to share that and create babies with the man she loves sooo much!! I see baby Jeanine and a baby Jeezy in their future💕💕
The heart can open up to new things when your heart is at peace and fulfilled. Anything can happen😊. I believe
@@melanieblueglam me too!
She said she was open to it now a little while back.
Firstable, CONGRATULATIONS ON THE ENGAGEMENT!!! I'M SO HAPPY FOR YOU & JEEZY!!! I'M EVEN MORE HAPPY THAT YOU FOUND THE ONE THAT MAKES YOU HAPPY AS WELL!!! THIS IS HANDS DOWN THE BEST THIS TO HAPPEN DURING THIS "QUARANTINE SEASON" FOR ME. I MEAN I WAS CRYING TEARS OF JOY IT WAS THAT SERIOUS!!!
Secondable, This video was GREAT advice. I've kinda been trying to find love myself (by that I mean I just work so much that I don't have much time really), but when I think I found someone, I don't know, It just doesn't end well for me. And I be thinking, was it something I did, or is she just not feeling me or what is it? And I think I been trying to find love because I been alone (meaning single) mostly all my life & nobody will ever love me. But now that I watched this video (like I watch ALL your videos) & listened to YOU, I'm gonna figure out what all my fears are, play out scenarios (in my head) of what not to do, & avoid them, figure out what specifically it is I want in a relationship & also spend time with myself, just be myself & love myself also & see what happens from there. THANK YOU JEANNIE FOR INSPIRING ME ONCE AGAIN & I HOPE YOU GUYS ARE STAYING SAFE OUT THERE & LOVE YOU GUYS!!! ❤❤❤
Sorry I typed most of it in all caps, I'M JUST SO HAPPY FOR YOU TWO!!!
Trashawn W. Was the sweetest news during this rough time
Are they engaged?
Elizabeth Anders yes
Trashawn... Thank you for taking the time to send me this detailed message. I can feel you from here and I wish I could give you a hug! Firstable I am very very proud that you understand to acknowledge you are fears. That's the 1st step! After you identify it, literally throw that shit out of your circumference and just step out in love. When you know where it is come up you won't let it interfere with you, and you'll understand how to love yourself without letting it get in your way. I am excited to hear more from you so keep in touch.
Thank you for making this conversation so much more about the relationship you have with yourself and the ways to build that rather than your relationship with others. The private time you discussed is so critical and beautiful! That self-love glow that exudes through you is gorgeous!
I love this! I'm in the stage of post break up after 7yrs with someone, I moved out 2mos ago and I'm getting to know myself and work on me, I'm excited for my future and I'm so happy u have found happiness!!
Jeannie Mai is my FAVORITE hands down.🙌🏿 This chick is EVERYTHING; beauty, brains, real, positive, etc. Definitely someone to look up to. Her first husband has to be kicking himself to be such a fool to lose her. Glad her and jeezy found each other. 💖
Lakoye B do you not see how happy he is with his new wife and newborn babies? Why would he be kicking himself over Jennie mai? 🤔🤔. He left her for a reason!
Nah I dnt think they were meant for eachother, they neva was supposed to be married, jeanie happy n he seems happy as well!
@@xaviourcammon1475 all of a sudden shes an expert....hilarious...
Her ex had been cheating and already had someone. He’s doing fine.
@@kkjannah she is the one who left him smh she asked for the divorce you guys really don't even know what your talking about
I love this video, because everyone always throws around "love yourself," but you rarely see what that looks like in practice. You honestly make being single (and I don't mean the, single-but-desperately-trying-to-hook-up-and-date type of single) seem so fun and fulfilling. You're the only reason I watched The Real anyway, I'm so glad you have your own channel.
Not sure what you mean...she is very much not single
@@nikkidee9383 😕 Did you watch the video?
@@Prosper927 no i am ignorantly commenting. Duh i watched the video. I am commenting on her.comment not the content. Of course someone in a relationship can make "being single look fun"...the point i am making you have seemed too have missed...
@@nikkidee9383 Hence why I asked if you watched the video... which is all about Jeannie's journey as a single woman after her divorce. The original poster is thanking Jeannie for her honesty regarding her single journey in which she spoke about discovering herself and really finding (not faking) love within and for herself before entering into another relationship.
What point were you trying to make?
@@Prosper927 the point that I am trying to make is that the commenter should be more thoughtful in their word choice as it comes off as she is disillusioned.
That’s the type of friend I would love to have. Always amazing wisdom. Amazing energy. I adore you.
This is amazing! I love when you said that yo would go out with yourself and whoever your with is joining you.. and whatever happens happens. That takes so much pressure off 😩🙏
I was in a bad relationship years ago, and I remember leaving, having my own place with my son. I didn’t know what to do, who I was anymore, I took two and a half years to myself. I went to college, got my G.E.D. And I went back to my old self. I met a good man, I’ve been with him 10 years (married 9 years now). I now know, what a healthy marriage is supposed to be about. I am so happy for you HONEYYYYY!!🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍
Yessssss congrats!
Thank you for this. I had a breakup in late 2018, it went fine, though once my ex moved on late in 2019 it devastated me. It’s 2020 and I’m still just feeling guilty about all of it. The fact that you said it took you 2 1/2 years REALLY helped me not feel alone. So far it’s been a year and a half and I know it will take me longer to get over this. I think everyday that I’m never gonna get over this tho....But I know I will. I believe in myself.
Amy Sue you got this girl. And NEVER feel guilty for it not working out. When your in a relationship, both of you should put your pet to make it work. I took my time, and I loved every minute of it. I spent so much time with my parents (been married 46 years now). Sadly, my daddy has cancer right now so it’s been so hard this last week... but I know all of these tough times pass for all of us. Life is meant to make mistakes, and learn from them as well. And it’s ok to cry, be angry, and let your self heal mentally and emotionally. I did, times are tough right now, but we will get through this together. Wishing you nothing but the best. 🌻🙏🏼🥰😘 Don’t give up on your happiness!!!!
Hello Hunnay with Jeannie Mai thank you for responding omggg. 😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😌😌😌😌😭😭😭😭😭🤍 your a sweet soul.
Even though I wasn’t married I still needed this episode... I got out of a relationship last yr and I’m starting to date again and honestly it scares me... and I needed this!! Thankyou Jeannie💜
I cried when you explained the rough patch of getting to know yourself and really getting in tune with your thoughts because that’s were i’m at in my life, but i couldn’t help but cry again when you explained the beautiful feeling you felt when you met jeezy! I hope to experience the same. Thank you Jeannie ❤️
I’m soooo happy for you! My boyfriend and I just broke up the other day .. and I had been feeling like it was a low-vibrational relationship for a while. I didn’t feel like it was serving either of us & we were on the verge of making some major life changes. I’m still processing it, but I know that it wouldn’t be best for us to reconnect. Your video helped me to look forward to this journey of self-love. I know when the time is right, I’ll meet the man who I am supposed to be with. Thanks, Jeannie!
“I was making myself feel stuck by not listening to myself.”
“I was making myself feel stuck by not listening to myself”. I agree writing is so therapeutic. Jeannie pls write a book 🤍
I’ve never been heartbroken yet this was still so necessary for me, wow.❤️
Such a beauty inside out.
This vid is so inspirational and hopeful for someone who is lost after a breakup or a divorce. Thank you for sharing your testimony ♥️
As a divorcee of 2 yrs in my mid/late thirties- This was a blessing to listen to. Thank you for sharing. So happy for this new journey for you!
U don't need a map u will find the way
All divorced hunnays let's gather here. Thanks Jeannie for the great advise and congratulations on your engagement.
This is one of my favorite episodes Jeannie. It really touched my spirit and I learnt so much from it. Thanks for being vulnerable and allowing us into your world.
"Years later, you realize you should've gotten out a long time ago." 🎯
🙌🏾
@Austin Blake Do you have any idea how much money this woman makes? She probably earns more in a month than you make in a year.
That part
Yes, you're deeply and sincerely in love. Not only with yourself but also with the man who was sent for you, Jay. Be blessed in life, and love, and the love of God.
The part where Jeannie started talking about Jeezy particularly about the 1st time their eyes locked got me teary 😢😢😢😢from gladness. I'm so happy that they found each other. True love is just so beautiful ♥️♥️♥️♥️. May the Almighty keep their union tighter🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
I needed this video. I’ve been working on myself. But I can’t lie and say that not having love hasn’t been on the forefront of my mind. I’ve come a long way in the self love department and I’m excited about the change. I feel more beautiful and confident that I’ve ever felt.... but I know something is missing in my growth process and I know that’s the reason certain things won’t completely manifest in my life. I’ve been rushing myself to be this better person to “myself” and I haven’t completely trusted the process. Thank you for this video. I have some work to do. ❤️
I’m watching this again after almost a year of being separated from my 10 year relationship and you’re so right. I’ve really been in a space of loving myself, liking myself, learning about myself and naturally I’ve gotten so clear on what I want. I’m in such a surrendered and blissful state. I’m excited for whatever will come! 🙏🏾🙏🏾 also praying for your speedy recovery. Much love!
"once you feel heard, you feel motivated. It's when you don't feel heard that you start feeling stuck." OMG. I CRIED WHEN YOU SAID THIS. On this month of April, I was going to have my college graduation ceremony. I am first-generation and the past 4 years have been the toughest years of my life. I will be graduating debt-free. I also wrote an original song and worked on the track. I had it all done and ready to perform at my graduation party. Now, everything is canceled. I am a student worker so once I technically graduate, I will be jobless. I worked my but off, managing 2 jobs (3 if youtube counts), and had a total of 5 internships just to be jobless after graduation. I feel like my family does not understand nor my friends (again,). My dream is to create my own company that will impact students and the community (& hopefully the world). I truly feel stuck Jeannie! But after writing this comment, I feel heard. Whether anyone reads this long comment.
Do not give up! You are on the right track. You already know what you want and have the answers to your own questions. 👉" My dream is to create my own company that will impact students and the community(&hopefully the world)." You already have a RUclips channel and I'm sure social media. What are you waiting for? Let this be your focus. You are not stuck! Do not let the pandemic shift your focus.
@Jazmin Miguel, I hear you and I'm rooting for you. Like Jeannie, take time to listen to you. You know what to do. We love you! And you're not alone.
You'll get through this, and all your dreams will manifest... perhaps not in the way you intend but your visions for yourself and your future will come in a way that is more right and perfect for you than you could have imagined. I have faith for you. Everything in its own time sis. and if someone hasn't told you yet you are a badass chick and I am proud of you. Maybe God is giving you this time to rest and breathe because the next period of your life will be this beautiful chaos.
Jazmin Miguel you got this girl
@@mauritius786 👌👌🙏🙏
I’ve been divorced for almost 5 months now, and no one has understood me when I’ve said I’m taking this time to heal myself, to learn and grow before I date anyone else. And to see this video of you, its a reassurance to me that everything will be okay and that I am doing the right thing for myself. Much love and light Jeannie.
What are you going thru as far as thoughts and emotions??? How are you handling the Divorce.
I'm sorry, im currently separated from estranged husband and wanted to connect with woman in my position
Hello Dear friend, I am so sad for your divorced, I want to support to u
@@tamekabest425 it will be hard I have been estranged and separated for 3 years but like Jeannie says take time for yourself to understand what you want, what makes you happy ,Career ,home, emotionally spiritually, then when you really start to know what makes you happy trust everything else will come I have been on this journey myself for 2 years and I am so happy bc when I do date again I will be ready.
this is the kind of talk show I want to see - you articulate and communicate or explain so clearly, taking time with so many details - that's definitely something I don't think we don't do enough - process what happened and where we are emotionally, mentally and etc. - love you and your mom and the amazing growth you guys share with everyone, the highs and lows.
She's way too matured and beautiful
"Once you feel heard you feel motivated. When you dont feel heard you feel stuck."
Wow such a deep video. Thank you
How could anyone dislike such a genuine and encouraging video like this
I never knew I could connect with her on the show, but this connected with me on so so many levels. Absolutely love this!
OMG soooo many of us WANT to hear from a strong woman who has learned from a marriage that ended in divorce. My husband of 17 years literally walked out the day he told me he was leaving me (and our 3 kids!). I really needed to hear from other women who had the same thoughts, doubts, insecurities and fears going through this. You helped me and inspired me to grieve the loss and then pick myself up and listen to my voice and my needs in order to move on HAPPILY as a single mother and WHOLE person. THANK YOU JEANNIE MAI. You have been my inspiration 💖💖
I just started the vid but are we gonna pretend like Jeannie isn’t engaged to J?!?!?! I haven’t seen any comments acknowledging it 😭
It's on the next video 🙂
I was so excited and still is, I can't wait for her wedding and having a family!😘😛
The message she is preaching is bigger than that for most in the comment section,😊
YESSSSS I know this was pre-filmed, but I kept looking for a ring on her finger😂😂 I'M SO EXCITED!!!
Pre filmed but THIS IS IMPORTANT TO KNOW in order to understand how I got engaged !
Jeannie's Ideal Relationship must have traits:
- Thorough Communication (attracted to somebody else, embarrassed sexually, etc)
- Brutal Honesty (Like Mama Mai)
- Respect
- Understanding Her (Not agree with everything but understand her life. Example- Reasons why she stopped talking Mama Mai)
- Vision (on the same page for the future so you can grow together)
- Forgiveness (in a working relationship you are going to make mistakes and let people down)
- Unity (be passionate about certain aspects - not everything)
- Healthy Love (Healthy- nurturing each others souls, holding each other, 5 love languages)
Thank you, such an effective list 😊
Goodness, thank you for the summary again.
So a simp...
Also money
What about loyalty? Or is their relationship open?
When we love hard, we put everything into that person. When that love is taken for granted, nothing hurts more. Its been 3 years and I am still broken. Time does heal but healing takes time.
Thanks for sharing.
Rediscovering self, facing fears, appreciating your experiences, accepting being a working progress, identifying must haves....amazing quality advice :)
Mama mai's brutal honesty.... I CAN'T 😂😂😂😂
For real 😂😂😂😂
...."I was making myself feel stuck, because I want listening to myself." Totally need to hear that
This made me tear up, Jeannie! Such a powerful look into what we need to see for ourselves before we jump into the relationship that’s meant for us! I really connected with your advice and your story about Jeezy.
I am going through a divorce after 21yrs. I am 40 and this truly gave me a life with myself to look forward to . Thanks Girl 🖤
As someone who lacks that self-confidence and self-love, this video truly helped me answer a lot of the questions that I have been asking myself for years. Thank you Jeannie for your empowering message ❤️
This just inspired me, empowered me, and encouraged me all at the same time. Thank you for your vulnerability and drive to lift others up. 💗
“At the end of the day, you’re already with the one person you’re going to spend the rest of you life with and that’s yourself.
So you have to really really enjoy who that person is.”
This spoke to my heart ❤️
I believe once I started growing closer to Christ I truly began loving myself again, or should I say loving myself at the start. I began to realize that if God loves me through all I've done, through all I will do, and have been through than I too can love myself.
I had to realize that when God forgives me I am truly forgiven and I had to stoop holding myself accountable for things that I can not change, things others did, and how I treated myself. I forgave myself, and that is truly when I started to love myself, accepting Jesus Christ truly changed my life.
God bless, Jesus loves you. He forgives you and accepts you, now it is time to forgive and accept yourself. You are no longer of your old ways, or of sin. You are changed, move on and don't look back unless he tells you to. God bless. - Tiara words from God.
A prayer to be saved by Jesus Christ:
Lord, forgive me of my sins. I repent of all my sins to you Father. Allow me to see myself in you again, let go of my past, Lord. Allow me to be renewed, allow me to see the light in you. In times of darkness I became of the shadows, but in you I want to be of light again. Bless me Lord, Keep me Lord. I accept Jesus Christ as my Lord and Savior today and I declare and decree that I am changing my ways. I look to you in dark times, in rough times, in all times God. I am now a Child of God through Jesus Christ.
Lord, You alone are my fortress, You are my refuge. In Jesus's name I pray this prayer and ask for protection over my life, accepting the covenant now over me and my family to come, as I say Amen.
Congratulations on now being a child of God. I love you, but most importantly Jesus loves you!
A prayer to forgive yourself:
Dear Lord, you forgive me. You say I am free, free from it all. Allow me not to see myself as hurt and bruised. Allow me to see me the way you do, as clean, beautiful, and as a child of God the one true King. Keep me safe Oh Lord, renew my thoughts and my mind. Deliver me from evil and keep me safe in your hands. Shield me from darkness and allow my eyes to see the YOU in ME. Thank you Lord, I am redeemed by you, therefore I forgive myself and will no longer see myself as unclean, dirty, ugly, angry or broken. I am not of my past, I will not worry about the future. Instead Lord, I will trust in you. Allow me to remember the greatness you have and that it is instilled in me. In Jesus' name I prayer this prayer. Amen.
thank you so much for making videos. you have always been such an inspiration to me even as a kid, watching “how do i look” and watching you grow as a person. it is beyond beautiful to see u happy with yourself in order to be happy in a relationship with the right person. hope u and j have many more blessings and nothing but love.
Jeanie the way you think and self-rationalize is just absolutely amazing. Thank you for inspiring me and SO many others on preserving thru the highs and lows of life 👊🏻🥺
Men want to be left alone.
But they don't want to be by themselves.
-Patrice O Neal
More wisdom in that sentence than 1000 "books"