Congratulations!!! I actually mused to my therapist a couple months before meeting my husband that maybe my ideal match would be an autistic person because of my communication style. I married an autistic guy and we discovered that I was autistic too after we already had a toddler. That would've been useful to know a bit earlier! Hahaha. Autistic people aren't broken and we aren't incapable of having healthy relationships. If monogamy is your style, you need only find one person you sync up with. For many, but obviously not all of us, that will be another neurodivergent person. Is it hard to find someone compatible among billions of incompatible people? Of course. But it's hard for NTs to find too. I hope your viewers don't settle for anyone who isn't right for them.
I tried to share a little of my story of relationships through my long life with ASC and ADD, but it's now gone. Mine has been a long, and often times, frustrating journey, and I've shared on many other's channels (ASC advocates) and been warmly received. When I do share I take much consideration with what I have to say, how others may gain from my incites, and how well written it is. I have commented here on you channel before, but now I'm a bit hesitant. Sorry Allie - I really do enjoy your videos and your perspective and will continue to follow and recommend you.
Congratulations!!!
I actually mused to my therapist a couple months before meeting my husband that maybe my ideal match would be an autistic person because of my communication style. I married an autistic guy and we discovered that I was autistic too after we already had a toddler. That would've been useful to know a bit earlier! Hahaha. Autistic people aren't broken and we aren't incapable of having healthy relationships. If monogamy is your style, you need only find one person you sync up with. For many, but obviously not all of us, that will be another neurodivergent person. Is it hard to find someone compatible among billions of incompatible people? Of course. But it's hard for NTs to find too. I hope your viewers don't settle for anyone who isn't right for them.
I tried to share a little of my story of relationships through my long life with ASC and ADD, but it's now gone. Mine has been a long, and often times, frustrating journey, and I've shared on many other's channels (ASC advocates) and been warmly received. When I do share I take much consideration with what I have to say, how others may gain from my incites, and how well written it is. I have commented here on you channel before, but now I'm a bit hesitant. Sorry Allie - I really do enjoy your videos and your perspective and will continue to follow and recommend you.
I'm very interested in more videos about relationships. Congratulations!
Good luck, Allie! I hope you get to know each other well before you actually get married. And when you do, you both do with all sincerity.
Well good for you. I always envisioned nyself aa having a romantic life, but once I realized it easnever going to happen, I stopped trying.
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