Fixing the Family
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- Опубликовано: 27 апр 2021
- The plaintiff says the defendant constantly cheated on her when she was pregnant with his child. She says other women harassed her and now the defendant is denying paternity, so she petitioned the court for a DNA test. The defendant insists he never denied paternity and claims the plaintiff asked him to sign away his parental rights.
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She really seems like a sweet girl but she gotta slow down. 22, 4 kids and she’s been married and divorced already?! Sheesh. Wish them all the best though, they both have some maturing to do for those babies.
Girl, yes. She has more than enough to occupy her free time (if there is such a thing for her now lol).
It's her fault I guest they don't make birth control where they live
Preach queen!
Girl she had kids with her husband it didn't work out and she got divorced I'm pretty sure your mama got a bunch of kids and ain't never been married and you bout to follow in her footsteps let that girl live the way she want to at least she ain't out here having 5 kids with five baby daddies
Starts with the father. No father figure to teach and be a woman’s first love in a Man. I guarantee her father was a bum who wasn’t involved in her life. I truly feel for her because we all have so much potential to explore within ourselves and she seems far away from believing that. Never too late to begin
ain’t no way ima drive to another state to meet a man & i got 3 kids already & divorced 🥴🥴
She got a decent man tho! Do you?
@@beecher127 i do ! one i didn’t have to drive to a whole different state for & he keeps me & our child well taken care of 🥰🥰🥰
@@beecher127 & he can’t be too decent if he denied his namesake even belonging to him . mine never questioned if his child was his love
They stay on the states line/border. The cities they're from in ALABAMA are no more than 30 miles from COLUMBUS GEORGIA.
@@lKINIGIHITOIN i live in ga & i said what i said 🤣🤣🤣
Whew four children, at 22, is a lot of work and financial responsibility.
High sex drive or poor choice in men. But I hope she gets her things together.
@@deuceswild6350 both
Financial responsibility for the tax payers
That's why she'll never leave dude.... 😂 😂 😂
@@deuceswild6350 wow. You do know it takes two people to create a child right?
Fathers we have to step up with our daughters.....
Absolutely agree. And also agree that men and women must choose their partners wisely.
Step up with your daughter sir
They are rebellious and don’t listen!!
I stay on birth control even when I'm single. My worst nightmare is to be a single mother. You can't just be out here reproducing with everybody like that 🤦🏽♀️
That was my worst nightmare too. I'm a single mom now. Rough stuff. Just make sure you have kids with the right person when that day comes
That’s was my biggest fear as well. Unfortunately I am a single parent after 8 years of togetherness. Unfortunately in life being a single mother is something you cannot run. from.
That was also mines but one thing I know for a fact. When people say pick someone blah blah is a croc of BS because you can know someone for years and they can truly be good humans but soon as kids come into play people change for better or worse! So to all my strong, beautiful super moms that's reading this comment...dnt feel like your a single mother because of anything you did or because you decided to give the deadbeat some of your cookies. Men can truly become bums and deadbeats right after you become pregnant, during the pregnancy, after the birth of the child or at the same damn time!!
Wow girl you are smart 🤓, I appreciate u
@@BeenJanky very true
She’s a beautiful young woman. She reminds me of my mom. She was married with 4 children by the age of 21, It was financial and stressful. My mom left my dad for his multiple adulterous affairs. My dad attempted to murder my mom, committed suicide. My mom survived but was paralyzed with a spinal cord injury from the attack. We children always had everything we needed, and I thank God she knew how to manage her finances. 🙏🏾👏🏾
God Bless!
Bless you
Thank you for sharing god bless...
Wow God bless you and your family
I’m so sorry to hear what how your mother suffered.
I'm 32 with 3 kids and it's not always easy. I couldn't imagine being 22 with 4. I hope she focus on her and the kids and build something for herself💙
And get some birth control
Whose watching her other 3 kids?? While traveling state to state
@@lisai2110 exactly! I feel for her, she's so young with 4 kids however like you stated birth control. There are different forms of birth control these days no excuses. We women have to take control of our sexual health because at the end of the day raising kids lies on the woman. Hell I'm 35years married with 2 kids and I'm on birthday control because not only is it hard having 2 kids, I refused to be getting pregnant every damn year.
Her youth being spent taking care of kids, these young women should want better for themselves in my city a young woman had twins last month and ended up killing them a couple of days ago. I think she was 23 😔
@jojo bean bean yes she was
Poor girl doesn't know how to take time out to love self first. From one guy to the other😰
She can love herself 100xs more over and she probably still will never have a healthy long term relationship. People aren't raised to be husband or wives
Baby from each one. I just can’t get the logic.
22 with 4 kids and an ex husband!?!...sheesh. Talk about baggage 😂🤣🤞
Yea a lot of it 🤦🏽♂️
23 with 3 kids and married since 18
How many have 4 and no ex husband
@@brightmeme2419 why would you marry at 18???
She sure knows how to pick them. Keep bringing innocent kids in their mess. It was a shock, but you were sleeping with him. Work on your SELF ESTEEM!!!!
Smh sad
Maybe it's not the Men
Let her live her life. She gone be 40 with already grown children so will have her time to splurge.
I Mean... Bc She Is Clueless. Poor lil tink tink
@@omarbagent9829 40 and broke with grown children
Why on Earth would you raw dog a 22 year old with 3 kids? She super fertile. Like the breadbasket of America.
You get comfortable with the situation and next thing you know, you're in child support court.
Y'all people real reckless with your genitals
@@thatlsk fr that concept is insane to me. It's ridiculous to raw dog anyone that you're not planning on having a life long commitment with or else it's the child that truly suffers.
They're gonna have 3 mo...watch!
Just 22 years old and going through all this???? Wow
With four kids at that
With four kids at that
This girl don't learn.
Dumb, and Dumber😢
That’s sad that she wants to start over with a guy that has already been cheating on her 🤦🏾♀️
She 22 with 4 kids, she better take what she can get.
@@thatlsk it would be better for her to be alone with her 4 children than to settle for this low grade man who will have her stressed out, being an emotional wreck, exposing her to diseases, and possibly having side babies. No sir. What is he bringing to the table besides a bunch of stress. Goodbye 👋🏾
She needs to be alone because of the kids sake because she is picking the wrong men. She needs me time n healing.
Right, that is sad, but just look at the comments; the internet exposes that the avg blk person has ZERO standards for men and thinks he's a prize just b/c; they'll tell her it's all her fault and she should be glad she can even find him, so just settle for what he has to offer (nothing). I'm starting to see how as a community "we" don't value the women and children enough, and I use "we" very loosely since we all don't subscribe to this sad foolishness, but many of us do, and this helps keep us a disenfranchised struggle group collectively... Settle for less, "we" get less. We can't afford to carry on like yte trash when we don't have yte privilege to compensate.
she’ll have 8 kids before she’s 30 and he will be running around as usual. them guys know they don’t want to be home with nobody with a bunch of kids even tho it’s their own kids
Birth Control is a Real Thing people for men and women. Recently divorced woman with three children, Dude! This is sad state of affairs.😐
We men need to be putting on condoms. If I'm being blunt and honest here it doesn't slow us down....much and for men who just aren't interested in having children at all they should proceed with a vasectomy and get off this Macho BS that has them thinking that it makes them less of a man. I got one at 40 and I never looked back and I never once regretted it
4 kids i believe
Who else binge watching 👀
Me 👀👀
I Love This Show
I’m GUILTY
@@evette2867 this and paternity court
@@toyatierra3034 Dont forget Divorce Court now I love me some
Judge Lynn Toler
I don't even know why I am though 😂
In spite of everything y'all are saying, they both seem like good people.
Nah fr everybody so judgmental smh not one person in the comments knows them personally lol
They really do
Exactly just a little misguided no one is perfect u can see they love each other and they are both tryiing
💯💯
Well i know some folks are perfect but for me, i see that they both are young and can change for the best. I give blessings to change, even if someone is 80 years old. 🌼
He doesn’t have to focus on the baby bc they’re arguing, but she does? Tf judge? They need Judge Lynn advice.
And Judge Faith well sometimes
👏👏👏👏
Judge Mathis is so sexist sometimes it makes me dislike him
Sad they knew each other only 6 months before bringing a baby into the world. They didn’t know each other well enough for that type of relationship, especially a 4th kid!
Not at all 😮
Her body language was priceless when she asked 'Can we start over'. Wish my wife would act like this. Half the time she is yelling at me. 🤣
lol
Lol
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Sorry, but she’s more interested in having a man than she is raising the children she has. Smdh. She has a lot of growing to do.
There comes a time one must ask themselves, what is it about me that I keep having babies by trifling men. Maybe I should find away that I don't get pregnant.
No home training
Must be something in the air that keeps her getting pregnant.
Yep....her damn legs!!!! 🤣🤣
Why not talk about the men that’s not taking care of their kids?!?
@@deetheefoodie Avoidance, a lack of accountability, never discuss responsibilities. Smh@these high value men.
She needs some serious therapy.... falling for someone w/o really knowing them is a huge red flag. Plus she should be leery of allowing ppl around her kids -- no telling what kind of person they might be 😳
Doyle standing back there like a proud pops lol
His baby is so cute.
Forreal
@@GayYxmy ,
I've been in her shoes. I hope she sees this is a destructive pattern of meeting/dating uncommitted men. She can't change his cheating. Long term, I hope they get some counseling & develop a healthy relationship for the sake of their son.
He was back and forward with both of those ladies that why the other women always harassing her i believe.
Not necessarily, the other one didn't want to let go
I was dying when JM was explaining what “catfish” is ,,, he said it , as if it was something brand new ! And he was laying knowledge on them hahaha 🤣 poor JM
He knows his audience is mostly old people and kids home sick from school with they granny
You’d be surprised how many people fall for scams. It’s still people out here who fall for the e-mail from a nigerian prince who claims you’ve won millions of dollars but can’t access it until you send him a couple of hundreds/thousands 🙁🙄
@@melissalsmith883 Yeah- you’re absolutely correct especially for the older generation who is finally learning how to access the computer and use the Internet it is all brand new to them, so you’re right , i stand corrected. It’s sad to be honest:( my son has fallen victim to it. So I can’t even say the older generation!
The young young young people learning the internet also falls victim to the BS too :(
And these shows are old…sometimes many years older
When trust is broken “sorry” means nothing.
Nope not at all. Just best to go your separate ways🤷🏾♀️
Exactly!
So she 22 with 4 kids damn
She was MARRIED with 3 kids, people. But I can't front, when she said she was 22, I was like "whoo that cat hot and fertile". With all due respect.
"I was on the show previously for a paternatest.." Lol When your nerves are acting up you make up new shorter word's... I like that one.. Lol
LMAO Did she say that??!! LMAO
I'm in the middle I slid all the way back to the beginning to hear paternatest 😅
😂
😂😂😂😂😂
She liked him cause he took to her kids well but then she got pregnant with his baby and he had second thoughts hahaha come on bru
I pray that they are able to figure it out... 22 is really young WOW!
Yea they both to damn young an don't have the maturity of raising 4 kids an playing house together
How can getting pregnant be a shock? The decisions these chics make!
And men. They dont wear condoms then get upset about ending up on child support lmfao
@@kuroichan101 and the women that fake being on birth control to have babies with those very same men…ain’t that something
I hate when ppl say that! Its like they dont think of the possibilities when having sex...idk maybe I was raised different
They both doing those kids a disservice 🤡🤛🏾😒
Safe sex is best sex👌
She was thirsty. These women be having babies by men they don't even know 5/6 months. You don't know a person in 5/6 months... I have realized you really don't know a person until after 1 1/2 years.
Not at all 😮
This is so random but that lady in the pink shirt tattoo clean af 🔥 I see ya Sis 😂
Awww I pray that God stays in the mist of this Beautiful Union they just babies with babies
I Love your Comment.Youre a Sweet Person.
4 kids at 22 years old... she's a strong girl. Good luck to them and I hope they work out and get counselling (together and separate)
I don't think that makes her strong, more like irresponsible.
But she seems like a good person.
@@casiousleggett4804 it makes her strong because she stayed and is raising them. She is strong.
Silly young woman and man
"Finally, all of you, be like-minded, be sympathetic, love one another, be compassionate and humble."
1 Peter 3:8
Praying for this young couple and their children.❤️
Deuteronomy 22:5
the ending melted my heart 💕
The judge demonstrated more (much needed) therapy and guidance, than legal judgement on this one. Kudos JM, and good luck to these young people.
I disagree with the judge... you're supposed to separate your feelings from the father/mother when it comes to your child
I agree, didn't like that comment at all. Even though many carry on this way, it's unacceptable, and the burden shouldn't be placed on her only to keep the peace.
Facts, but that's too mature and too much like right in this dysfunctional azz backwards culture/ community🤷🏾♀️
Lol JM dudnt have to call him out on the watch like that
I love the ending😍god bless😇💕
Finally something positive instead of all the judging these people are doing!🙏❤️
Lol!! Now she really has the proof he’s the child’s father! So next time they fight, she gonna throw it in his face about taking him to court for child support, not let him see the baby, etc. Unfortunately to parents that young, they tend to use the child as a weapon in their fights!! Sad, but very true!
Why dole was shaking his head answering the questions at the end 🤣😂🤣
This comment makes me wanna fast forward to see Doyle 🤣🤣🤣
@@larhondalivelife he’s hilarious
Seems like a nice couple...hope it works out with them.
Having 4 kids are hard regardless of her age. That being said, hopefully she will slow down and if she’s not on birth control she need to get on birth control and focus on herself. She is so young with 4 kids already.
She need 2 more
Poor choices on both sides
Sis I gotta catch up lol im 28 no kids, no man 🥴
You ain’t missing nothing sis! Take your time your doing wonderful!!!
@@generationalcursebreaker5397 thank you sis 💕
Chillleee let's enjoy the freedom
What's up Somali? I'm 40 with no kids work in corporate america, own property have good credit and no woman.
This was one of the best paternity cases I’ve seen no telling,name calling,disrespect or screaming occurred they both conducted themselves like civilized people 👏🏾 I’m glad they’re willing to work things out not only for them but,for the well-being of their son it would truly be a blessing if there were more couples like them 💯 May God bless them and their family especially their newborn son 👏🏾👏🏾
🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️ why does this stuff happen seriously....
Because they refused to keep the laws of God
I love this judge, he has a great sense of humor and fairness.
She looks very sad
And tired.
All them kids
How tf can you be off and on for two months 😒🙄
She really love her fb crush , he doesn’t love her the same 😕 I feel so sorry for her . 🙏🏽🙏🏽♥️
the ending turned out great 👍🏾
SPOILER ALERT
She seems like such a sweet young lady but stop having all those babies....
It was a heavenly ending
@@alifan3285 you right about that 😌
@@monicajones7058 I’m only commenting bc you have my whole name !!! 😂😂
So hey girl heyyyy 😂
Tevin? Give that name back to the original Tevin Campbell 🎶🎵... Can We Talk🎶🎵
U CRAZY 😆
Stupid as hell😁😖😁
He’s handsome and she’s beautiful
Beautiful Comment
She needs to stop having kids Jesus... is it fun?
You do not have to allow yourself to get pregnant just bc you’re in a new relationship. Women learn you are in control of your fertility.
Exactly 💯
22, and 4 children 🙄
A sweet young couple. Learn to communicate without arguing and you guys can make it. Be blessed. You both seem really nice.
Ikr! They're broken up as of 2022😭 oh well though hope they're both happy and taking care of their son.
@@angelfrmheaven true
@@angelfrmheaven Aww that’s disappointing
Hasn't she learned from baby number 3 that babies won't keep a relationship? But then baby number 4...God bless this young woman!
I agree Israel,it's good that they both decide to work things out between the two of them,instead giving up on each other.
"How many months after meeting or weeks after meeting did you get pregnant?"....3:36. Then every time she says I drove from Georgia to Alabama Judge is like Wow.....
She was embarrassed cuz she knew it was a short period of time
Hopefully they grow up so these babies can grow up.
I wonder how many children were born from a relationship that started on FACEBOOK 🤔
Lmao... she's too adorable. Good bless and hopefully get better
I love how Doyle be in the Amen corner when JM makes a point. Doyle be like umm hmm lol
That’s a really big family at such a young age. I couldn’t imagine being in her shoes. Pregnancy scares the daylight out of me.
People always "finding out" they're pregnant; amazing how people don't know how that happens! It's always such a shock! 😲
I hope and PRAY they both break the mold of this world and recieve ALL God has in store for them and their family 💥👊🏾💯
She was shocked she got pregnant 😳. Four kids and she still don't know how babies are made. Smh
The judge diss you, then laughed mockingly to say he's just playing with you. He's not playing. He's serious.
Behind EVERY JOKE there’s truth
A BEAUTIFUL ending to the story. That was really lovely.
When she first came out and the camera was all on her,you could tell she was getting uncomfortable, like hurry the f up and get that out of my face😂 i don't blame her i would have stared making weird faces 😋😝🤤😂
I Like Her, She's Cute and Seems Nice. I Believe She Had 3 Young Children From Her Ex and 1 With Him. Yeah, I Think it Would Be Best She Not Have Anymore Children Anytime Soon, She is Pretty Young. Dude Don't Seem So Bad Either. He Just Needs To Grow Up and Put That Cheating in Check, if He Really Wants To Hold Their Family Down.
People have negative things to say about her and her children but he is 26 and living between a woman with 3 children and his Parents. He has a son now, time to get somewhere to live of his own.
Right. People keep saying she has 4 kids blah blah. Rarely blame the trifling asss man.
@@gritsnwavy3059 which is why they continue to be trifflin', no accountability.
22 with 4 kids and divorce is just an example of poor home training and or some kind of dysfunction emotionally that hasn't been addressed. I was always SCARED to get pregnant as a young woman, like I knew the consequences and burdens esp financially. All these women who has multiple babies by bummy men and act like it's a lifestyle. Where are the parents teaching their daughters AND sons morals? I was taught to not even think about babies until I can financially take care of them, hopefully with a married man in a stable home and lifestyle. Older brother was taught the same. Telling your teens "don't have sex" isn't enough. We MUST build our daughters up emotionally, mentally and spirtually. Too many are insecure and sleeping around for validation from these guys, just making stupid choices. P.S if you have sex without BC you will most likely have a baby smh. Not rocket science. Having children is a big deal.
Like I couldn't imagine doing it any other way smh. Way too stressful. She's so young still, I hope she finds a great mentor or even case manager (I'm a case manager) and help lots of young mamas with lots of fundamental things. Best wishes.
Judge knows lol love the end with his impression lol 😆
Oof, I hope this girl realizes that these results isn’t going to stop him from cheating. That’s a lot to go through especially when you have 4 children.
She’s beautiful and seems nice.. she looks a lot like my beautiful daughter in law
Why would you want to be with any woman with three young kids? I wouldn't even say hi to a single mother with 3 kids!!!
It was a shock to fall fall pregnant when not using protection and she already had 3 kids. Yeah no. She needs to learn about contraception and so do her partners.
She's young so she has that snap back body. 4 kids and still petite. Driving to meet a dude off Facebook within a week from a rando who saw her on the show was a dangerous move but I'm happy it worked out. Hopefully they work out. If it doesn't, it's gonna be hard to get a good man when you're already a household of 5, no matter how good you look. Best wishes to them both.
That is So freaking beautiful! Makes my heart swell up
Messy... With a beautiful ending. Too many babies involved anf Their just babies. I hope they stick together for the kids and both need some college!!
The energy between the two is almost non existent..
I was 18 going through all this with just 1 baby though. Except nobody chased me on the interstate lol but yeah I’ll tell anybody to be picky with you chose to have kids with take your time Fr
Girl I'm taking my time too many men out here destroying lives.
@@jacks4009 ABSOLUTELY
So glad we got a black love-inspired happy ending!!! ❤️❤️❤️
Good job young brother. Stay with her and be patient with her. The two of you can do something special. She was very excited to start over. You said be too.
Should be , I mean..lol
Awwww the ending is so sweet
She ain't wasting none of that juice, she taking all of it
Aww I hope they make it 😍
Sometimes you have to be like...Boy Bye!...and mean it. Especially with children.
This episode made me tear up. JM is so WISE. I’m not much younger than him, but just…
Judge Mathis is so hilarious 😂😂😂😂😂😂 I love him ❤❤❤
She is a really pretty lady... inside and out. Also, very articulate.
Whew yall Judgemental! Smh. Im so Thankful that GOD is the ONLY true judge because yall condemning this young lady and have never walked a mile in her shoes.
Going to have critics when you air out your dirt on national television.
She went on TV, we gonna judge cause she went on TV to get some answers 😒🙄
@jojo bean bean well that would be sad
@@laranini9660 umm. Yeah
@@laranini9660 I wouldn't say judge. It's my opinion of what I see. She allowed us to look thru her window of life
Awwwww! The ending💕
He’s a lovely young man and she seems sweet also