I am a single mum of one son not with choice coz I lost my husband 2016 nikiwa 28 yrs old, am now 35 years and not regretting as a single mum, my dear in this life jipange ujitambue na ujikubali then forcus and know who you are as a single lady. Keep yourself busy you will never feel lonely my dear. 🙏🙏
My story too....I left in 2010...I tried that talking about the child ikawa ngumu and I stopped and carried all the burden on my own from middle class all the way to now form two....and I thank God for all the favours
The laughter is marvelous!!! Thnx Wilbroda for sharing your story. Single mums tuko wengi. Baraka tele mummy. This is my first time here and Just subscribed to your channel.
I went hell in the name of marriage 6 years down the line single raising my beautiful daughters but if God me another man I will try second time. Marriage is tricky
JG your level of professionalism is in another world. Open ended questions, precise and relevant. We love you. Wilbroda we love you. Keep it up jaber. God loves you and your son. It is well with your God. His Grace is sufficient
It is true shouting is not good but find out why? talk to his relatives. Is it his nature? When you meet a friend and you see when you notice people listen keenly how he or she talks, that is a good person, but if everybody shrinks as if they are not there or somebody who is always ready to fight or abusing others, always overspending drinking too much complaining about others, you are in for trouble. Even though, the bottom line is there is no perfect person. We try to cope where necessary. Matilda
Ata mimi naeza acha juu ya ku shoutiwa,kama kuna kitu nachukia ni mtu kunishoutia,weather am wrong or not dont shout at me,tuketi tuongee kama watu mature,not only my man but i dont like mtu yeyote akinishoutia am not rude i just hate it.
Bad marriage costed my biological second born sister in depression since 208 upto date she left her house out of stress until today 2020 we don't know her whearbouts but I believe and trust God that one day it shall come to pass and come back to us
Am sorry sorry for that. May God protect your sister wherever she is. May Mother Mary return her child to her family. In jesus we pray. Soon you will find your sister just believe.
Yenyewe God does things dramatically, it happened to me and i moved with only my chid and clothes and now indeed God is great,he has brought me from nothing to something
J.G it's my first time to follow you and I can confess that all the stories ,interviews and your own testimony has touched my heart .I cry I cry,u laugh I laugh and indeed have known that God has a purpose for every challenge we go through as minister and He definitely makes away out.Shalom Swry..God bless the work of your hands
really touching and almost similar to my story. i also left with my son 4 months old... now he is 1 and half years nashukuru mungu am, happy. bt i wonder r there good men really.
A man who will mentor her son... Very good viewpoint. If men understood that aspect of us, everything else would be less significant. Very few and far in between of them in existence though.
This is the funniest interview I ever watched in my entire life! Haki nyinyi! You should both be imprisoned for making us laugh 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 But this sister is strong! If a man yells at the mother of his child, he's sick! Muache!
I also do not understand wife material………been married for 35yrs n I still fall in love with him every morning I wake up……Jackie nyarluo beautiful. Jah bless
Very interesting and inspiring stories.... Let's also have single father's telling their story and what the go through and how they found themselves in such scenerio
As for me i sold all that belonged to me and left with only my clothes..but i was fair enough i left him a stove that i had bought na gas ilikua imeisha having in mind kurefill gas is much more expensive than buying kerosene and by that time he wasn't doing well financially..it took me long to heal but God has been so good to me
I love Jacky testimony..what I can say is;before a man/partner there should be God,never date a man who can't go before God,he can't take care of you coz he is not listening from God.
Mine was born again bt after kukosana he get the lady immediately after two weeks Sema kusomewa nijipange, Sema kuambiwa ni move on nisiwaste tym wee I fear men 🙌🙌🙌
@@rachelandayi2172 pole dia🤗 such men give Christian a bad posture..and don't fear men,one man can't let you take him and project over othe all men.just stay in God's presence,I won't tell you now to pray God to give you the right man but pray for healing now and help you forgive yourself which wil help you extend it to even those who hurt you💔 there is stil hope in our Lord🙏🏻
Quite enlightening. When I see fellow women bashing another woman due to marital woes, I shudder because this can happen to the best of us. Most women suffer silently because of the kids. Having courage to quit a toxic relationship is everything. The realization that no man can complete us is so liberating.
marriage should be a very serious commitment where both man and wife live in love ,responsibility, hard work, respect ,I caring ,forgiveness and above all the fear of God.
Found you the other day and I so much laugh with you Joyce when you laugh. It’s contagious. ...As we grow older as women, we have so much to pour into the young girls seeking love.
Hi Atieno my dear sis remember this person you call mwanaume you had a positive lovely feeling towards him 'I mean friendship" before you started staying together. Please both of think of your first meeting. see where the rain started beating you. If you made the wrong joice, there is always a second chance. Matilda.
Yangu ndoa ilikuwa worse niliyo pitia machungu na uvumilivu hadi alikua ananiita kupe unanishikilia kama ng'ombe uoni mateso ninayo kupea uwezi enda, nikijenga nyumba isimbomoke but ilibidi wazee wanitoe pale na kuniambia hata kama unampenda vipi sisi kama wazee tumesema wachana naye na mungu atakupea bwana mzuri zaidi yake.just now am a single nanashukuru mungu sana kwa hao wazee walikua kama daraja wzmetumwa kwangu kusikiliza ndoa nini mbaya na uamuzi wakasema hiyo mateso na madharau umefanyia bibi yako mungu atamlipia yote.maana niko single nafikiria kuolewa but naogopa naona mens ni wale wale.but Alhamdulillah napambana na life na my 2children kutokea for now 9years ago, God is great
good for you for leaving. That was verbal abuse! Also as a side note unrelated, kids also have the same feelings when they are yelled at all the time. No yelling/shouting at kids please , there are better ways to talk with your kids.
You aren't alone, I was told to leave right after my Dad went to be with the Lord and I thought he'd be my shoulder to cry on. Hmmm! I learnt the meaning of not putting our trust in man .
Ata mimi siezi kaa na mwanaume ana shout...... kwanza wanaume wa south nyanza wanapenda ku shout , I left my ex after he started these kinds of mannerisms , I tried to hold on but I had to move on .He Also used to say "Toka hapa uende kwenu" but siku nilitoka hakujua niko serious and upto date ananiulizanga if nitawairudi .
Huyu Wilbroda some how alifikiria vile mimi nilifikiria...now 6yrs down the line..but hadi saa hii hata sioni any man mwenye naeza songa na yeye mbele but am still waiting...I know God's time is better...na si ati niko job poa ama nini naona tu niko sawa...but I'm working hard niwachukue niishi nao:
Wengine wanaachana, wengine kama sisi tulifukuzwa 😂 but si ni life 😅. Toxic marriages damage kids big time. Low self esteem and all that bad stuff. Had to seek therapy in adulthood
Take heart, though its a tough situation through such a period. Take care of yourself,avoid stressful thoughts otherwise it might lead to total depression and stress related illness.
I love the show. That phrase of Jacky that good men like our fathers do exist. It's such a coincidence... I once told my husband that that he told me i dont respect her mum who died 10yrs ago same as my father and he packed me out and brought me back to my mum... And he's sorry after 4months and wants me back
What women look for when they leave marriage is peace of mind...which is everything! All the best
And you should be careful when moving out less you step mkojo ukanyage mavi
We dont necessarily move out to get involved with someone else. Peace is paramount
At some point in life being single is peace....though we are empty and lonely God is always there for us
The loneliness is sometimes too much...
@@saraha618 sure,trust in God,is our ever present friend
I am a single mum of one son not with choice coz I lost my husband 2016 nikiwa 28 yrs old, am now 35 years and not regretting as a single mum, my dear in this life jipange ujitambue na ujikubali then forcus and know who you are as a single lady. Keep yourself busy you will never feel lonely my dear. 🙏🙏
We are not empty...
Amen
My story too....I left in 2010...I tried that talking about the child ikawa ngumu and I stopped and carried all the burden on my own from middle class all the way to now form two....and I thank God for all the favours
The laughter is marvelous!!! Thnx Wilbroda for sharing your story. Single mums tuko wengi. Baraka tele mummy.
This is my first time here and Just subscribed to your channel.
Never judge a single parent.
You mean single parent I love that it's applies to all
I love when wilbroda says take ur time and pray about it .... And a man who fears God.... Amen sis!
I met a guy a luyha guy and after 3 days of talking he says lakini nyinyi wakikuyu na pesa I cut him and blocked immediately..
typical luhyas... stingy AF
I think that was just a joke... like I would say Walhuya na kuku.
No sometimes we take things as a joke and their voice can tell it all
Ulimsaidia sana aki
Nambu U did very nice 👍👌
Mimi nmebaki tu hapo kwa "man love your wife as christ loves the church" be blessed beautiful ladies for great conversation.
I went hell in the name of marriage 6 years down the line single raising my beautiful daughters but if God me another man I will try second time. Marriage is tricky
JG your level of professionalism is in another world. Open ended questions, precise and relevant. We love you. Wilbroda we love you. Keep it up jaber. God loves you and your son. It is well with your God. His Grace is sufficient
9o9
Two grown up women
I have enjoyed watching your show
Asante and karibu
Hakuna marriage mbaya isipokuwa marriages needs a lot of prayers .As a woman u have to stand with your marriage and God will intervene.
Well put
Mimi wacha niketi wenye wako na nguvu ya kusimama na marriage good luck
most people who shout are narcist, and you can go through hell with them, you die silently emotionally
very true my uncle is one of them...very very true
Wah, I have the experience
She has so much power in motherhood I love it sanaa
Shouting a minor issue it may seem to be but it affects one so emotionally and it stays in ones head for a very long time.
It is true shouting is not good but find out why? talk to his relatives. Is it his nature? When you meet a friend and you see when you notice people listen keenly how he or she talks, that is a good person, but if everybody shrinks as if they are not there or somebody who is always ready to fight or abusing others, always overspending drinking too much complaining about others, you are in for trouble. Even though, the bottom line is there is no perfect person. We try to cope where necessary. Matilda
Alot & alot of maturity 🙏real talk thank u both💗
Karibu
Ata mimi naeza acha juu ya ku shoutiwa,kama kuna kitu nachukia ni mtu kunishoutia,weather am wrong or not dont shout at me,tuketi tuongee kama watu mature,not only my man but i dont like mtu yeyote akinishoutia am not rude i just hate it.
Strong woman I like You Wilpi, n mtoto ni wa mama hadi afike 18 accord to our law, am happy U r taking it head on, God bless you
Wisdom, wise lady. Wish you and your son well.
I. Y y. Y. Yy. Yy.
Bad marriage costed my biological second born sister in depression since 208 upto date she left her house out of stress until today 2020 we don't know her whearbouts but I believe and trust God that one day it shall come to pass and come back to us
Am sorry sorry for that.
May God protect your sister wherever she is.
May Mother Mary return her child to her family. In jesus we pray.
Soon you will find your sister just believe.
A BIG AMEN 🙏🙏
This reminded me when he use to shout at me pointing a finger...until my 3yr old son runs and hides in the bedroom....I thank God I left.....
I hate those finger pointing shouts
God katoto 😭
I just wonder why a man can't get such an amazing woman. Wanaume hata nyinyi ni useless kabisaa. Good things namnawacha zinapita.
😂😂😂😂😂😂
😂 😂 😂 Wanaume tuko
Yenyewe God does things dramatically, it happened to me and i moved with only my chid and clothes and now indeed God is great,he has brought me from nothing to something
@@phaniceosimbo6456 if you would like to share your story kindly email me on joyce.gituro@gmail.com
True
J.G it's my first time to follow you and I can confess that all the stories ,interviews and your own testimony has touched my heart .I cry I cry,u laugh I laugh and indeed have known that God has a purpose for every challenge we go through as minister and He definitely makes away out.Shalom Swry..God bless the work of your hands
Don’t ignore the Red flags 🚩 they are very important..
Jackie thanks for sharing ur story...
JG, I love your articulate interview. You are my woman, blessingd
Wilbroda's view of life is amazing
really touching and almost similar to my story. i also left with my son 4 months old... now he is 1 and half years nashukuru mungu am, happy. bt i wonder r there good men really.
Women your gut feel is everything. Listen to it. Jackie wish you all the best as you navigate the dating scene and single Parenthood
A man who will mentor her son... Very good viewpoint. If men understood that aspect of us, everything else would be less significant. Very few and far in between of them in existence though.
This is the funniest interview I ever watched in my entire life! Haki nyinyi! You should both be imprisoned for making us laugh 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 But this sister is strong! If a man yells at the mother of his child, he's sick! Muache!
Never see people laughing our pasts are terribly terrible but who's God??? Be blessed jackie
I also do not understand wife material………been married for 35yrs n I still fall in love with him every morning I wake up……Jackie nyarluo beautiful. Jah bless
Very interesting and inspiring stories.... Let's also have single father's telling their story and what the go through and how they found themselves in such scenerio
Wow I like Jackie's accent... Used to her drama accent... She is mature in her reasoning... God bless
To those castigating Joyce interviewer abilities,
I think she is doing better than her critics,
I love the way Jackie and boldness.
Wisdom detected may God give you the kind of man you want! May you find happiness and may God surely bring peace your way!
JG I love your Shows,You are indeed an inspiration.thanks For Having The Show Changing many Lives 🙏👏🏽🎁💝
As for me i sold all that belonged to me and left with only my clothes..but i was fair enough i left him a stove that i had bought na gas ilikua imeisha having in mind kurefill gas is much more expensive than buying kerosene and by that time he wasn't doing well financially..it took me long to heal but God has been so good to me
You are thief!
@@mugikale6844 really? how?
Would you like to share your story? Talk to me on joyce.gituro@gmail.com
Nimebeba wengi wilbroda nimekwamia hapa...umegonga ndipo
I love Jacky testimony..what I can say is;before a man/partner there should be God,never date a man who can't go before God,he can't take care of you coz he is not listening from God.
Mine was born again bt after kukosana he get the lady immediately after two weeks Sema kusomewa nijipange, Sema kuambiwa ni move on nisiwaste tym wee I fear men 🙌🙌🙌
@@rachelandayi2172 pole dia🤗 such men give Christian a bad posture..and don't fear men,one man can't let you take him and project over othe all men.just stay in God's presence,I won't tell you now to pray God to give you the right man but pray for healing now and help you forgive yourself which wil help you extend it to even those who hurt you💔 there is stil hope in our Lord🙏🏻
He also shouts at me until my 10year girl sympathies with me. Am thinking to leave with my two kids.
Don't go to that extent sister, you still have a chance to solve your marriage problems
Quite enlightening. When I see fellow women bashing another woman due to marital woes, I shudder because this can happen to the best of us. Most women suffer silently because of the kids. Having courage to quit a toxic relationship is everything. The realization that no man can complete us is so liberating.
True
marriage should be a very serious commitment where both man and wife live in love ,responsibility, hard work, respect ,I caring ,forgiveness and above all the fear of God.
@@janemburu8575 saw
Jacky God's time is the best and your situation wasn't a coincidence. The best is yet to come. I like your confidence 👏👏👏
Found you the other day and I so much laugh with you Joyce when you laugh. It’s contagious. ...As we grow older as women, we have so much to pour into the young girls seeking love.
This resonates with me especially now. Good interview Joyce.
God's tym is the best Andy Wilipi n may He reward yo patience n bless you wth a husband who'll bring you closer to Him...
another one told me i love you bt wanawake wakikuyu ???//till todate namuonanga nasikia headache
Please make sure you interpret every time she says something because many people all over the world is watching.
Jacky am a single mum but ithank u ladies for advice let me take tym God will full fill my dream of marriage.
Jacky the drinking will not be a problem hapo mbele... it is a problem already. Don’t it yourself in the mud
Yes, don't hurry into evil marriages.
😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 Team kubeba tuko juu.... Vitu zenye nmenunua na pesa zangu siwezi achia mwanaume
iko hivo
Nyinyi ni watu wa huruma hamwezi
Hi Atieno my dear sis remember this person you call mwanaume you had a positive lovely feeling towards him 'I mean friendship" before you started staying together. Please both of think of your first meeting. see where the rain started beating you. If you made the wrong joice, there is always a second chance. Matilda.
At some point time ya kubeba haiko you only think of carrying the children and kanyanga makubwa without looking back
And you you want eti tuwaachiee vitu tumenunua idiot ibilisi utabaki single mpaka yesu arudi
Waaaah..... Jacky even the way she explains it..... She is just funny..... Encouraging and real life story. Great.
You did the right thing my blood cousin sister cause your life is very much important to us and because of God your life is now super amazing
I have come across this interview today,Jackie can be this serious and of great words of wisdom. Am glad to hear this.may God bless you jaber.
I have fallen in love with this woman.. hugssss mum xxxxxxxxx
Ooh YES... we’ve got only one life to live. Just know what you want in life. Just focus. Life is great
Yangu ndoa ilikuwa worse niliyo pitia machungu na uvumilivu hadi alikua ananiita kupe unanishikilia kama ng'ombe uoni mateso ninayo kupea uwezi enda, nikijenga nyumba isimbomoke but ilibidi wazee wanitoe pale na kuniambia hata kama unampenda vipi sisi kama wazee tumesema wachana naye na mungu atakupea bwana mzuri zaidi yake.just now am a single nanashukuru mungu sana kwa hao wazee walikua kama daraja wzmetumwa kwangu kusikiliza ndoa nini mbaya na uamuzi wakasema hiyo mateso na madharau umefanyia bibi yako mungu atamlipia yote.maana niko single nafikiria kuolewa but naogopa naona mens ni wale wale.but Alhamdulillah napambana na life na my 2children kutokea for now 9years ago, God is great
HOST LOOKS BEAUTIFUL WITH THAT HAIR .
I Love this two women humble down to earth and independent.
Wow Jacky, you are a mentor, i love the show.
The power of motherhood,she can do anything to save her child.
good for you for leaving. That was verbal abuse! Also as a side note unrelated, kids also have the same feelings when they are yelled at all the time. No yelling/shouting at kids please , there are better ways to talk with your kids.
waoo wilbrodah I like your advice you made my day, what you said is what am passing through.
You aren't alone, I was told to leave right after my Dad went to be with the Lord and I thought he'd be my shoulder to cry on. Hmmm! I learnt the meaning of not putting our trust in man .
Went through the same ukifkiria uyo ndo atakusupport unatendwa
Pole aki
Fantastic Jackie, you are such a blessing. We pray for you Nyathurwa.
Ata mimi siezi kaa na mwanaume ana shout...... kwanza wanaume wa south nyanza wanapenda ku shout , I left my ex after he started these kinds of mannerisms , I tried to hold on but I had to move on .He Also used to say "Toka hapa uende kwenu" but siku nilitoka hakujua niko serious and upto date ananiulizanga if nitawairudi .
I just left one few months ago😂😂😂😂😂
True dia they brag alot forgetting where they came from.
Kwani anaota
Don't go back girl, he does not deserve you. South Nyanza is a no go zone they feel like the know everything.
I beg your pardon, am from southnyanza n can't remember the last time I shouted at her
Best description of FINANCIAL STABILITY so far.
Toxic marriages affects kids big time... Ask me and I'll tell you.
Wilbe you are right.siyopoa kushautiwa.
This was owesome keep up JG ilove my wilbroda my gorgeous lady
This exactly my story...nilipitia hii yote but Mungu ni mwema am at peace.. It's exactly 7yrs and am still pressing on
J.G came here from Jeridah and i just loved it big up ❤
Huyu Wilbroda some how alifikiria vile mimi nilifikiria...now 6yrs down the line..but hadi saa hii hata sioni any man mwenye naeza songa na yeye mbele but am still waiting...I know God's time is better...na si ati niko job poa ama nini naona tu niko sawa...but I'm working hard niwachukue niishi nao:
wauh,so inspiring and full of wisdom,a strong woman upstairs
Of course Jacki you are right you have to tell God the kind of a person you want to spend the rest of your life with. God is going to see you through.
I did the same... Now is 10yrs. An the happiest divorcee.
Aki unasema ukweli ...mm ckujua wanaume wakua n mdomo ..til I got one..WillB u r right
7. Mistakes Married Women Make.
You Must Be Prayerful, Respectful and Telling the Truth....
My kinda of thinking.....and almost the same thing that made me leave.
JG l love this,may God bless you.lam really inspired with your interview
Take your time young ones that's a good advice
Didn't know Wilbroda and Jackie are so different😂. You're a great actor💕
How ?
True
Her real names are Jacque Nyaminde a kisii queen
@@wetetewambetsa1768she is Luo
I love Jacky she's real that's what life is about. Ofcourse not forgetting putting God first
That's the way out sweetheart, just love you coz you are friendly and down to earth. God will continue blessing you.
Wengine wanaachana, wengine kama sisi tulifukuzwa 😂 but si ni life 😅. Toxic marriages damage kids big time. Low self esteem and all that bad stuff. Had to seek therapy in adulthood
JG I have learned a lesson wen I wl marrie. I wl not shout to May wife also wise people learn mistakes from other ppl
Wow God will help you
@@nivandalulaxy9376 amen
I am sure I wl get one
Am here ooh
I love you Jackie and may God be with you always.
Mhh,gone through hell for 30 yrs.I thought things would change but are worsenning.It is hurtful but God will one day reward me.Depressed though.
Take heart ,hugs to you
Get out dear! I have made it to the other side after 20 years! I thought it would get better. It got worse. Its hurting you.You deserve better
Take heart, though its a tough situation through such a period. Take care of yourself,avoid stressful thoughts otherwise it might lead to total depression and stress related illness.
What i needed to hear i love it thanks
Powerful beautiful woman.❤
Great convo about the Xfactor and this being the only life we have therefore the need to live it in peace not in pieces! Thanks Wilbroda!
Mark this tweet, divorce lawyers are going to be the richest folks after politicians
You are really a strong woman jackie, and for you my sister Joyce you are doing a good job
I am happy you Left that family, not only the guy. You saw the light Early
You have inspired me as a single mom ❤❤❤ my duplicate story. The best decision I made in my life❤❤❤❤❤
I love your openness and your positivity
Jackie Mimi nilibeba Hadi pegs 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂I was asked to leave too
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
ulifagia kila kitu🤣🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂
I love the show. That phrase of Jacky that good men like our fathers do exist. It's such a coincidence... I once told my husband that that he told me i dont respect her mum who died 10yrs ago same as my father and he packed me out and brought me back to my mum... And he's sorry after 4months and wants me back
Too unfortunate for men who mistreat such ladies like you.
Thank you for your teaching ❤