Let’s talk birth… | Liana Jade

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  • Опубликовано: 2 ноя 2024

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  • @cherilynncrosby
    @cherilynncrosby 2 года назад +1382

    I’m going for a scheduled C-section in October and my first baby was an emergency C-section so it makes me feel so good to see how proud you are of your body and not ashamed of your C-section! Love you and am so happy and proud of you!

    • @cherylsorrell74
      @cherylsorrell74 2 года назад +27

      I am wishing you all the best and a quick recovery once you have your baby ❤️ I, too, am proud of Liana not being ashamed of having a c-section. Too many women tell us c-section mamas that we didn't go through a "real" birth 🙄

    • @ihidemyname8011
      @ihidemyname8011 2 года назад +9

      Congrats to u and hope it would go well for u💕💕

    • @Spookzs
      @Spookzs 2 года назад +8

      Hope it goes ok and you recover quickly

    • @cherilynncrosby
      @cherilynncrosby 2 года назад +2

      @@Spookzs thank you

    • @cherilynncrosby
      @cherilynncrosby 2 года назад +5

      @@cherylsorrell74 right and if they only knew it’s so much more recovery than if it was a vaginal birth both are equally hard just in separate ways if anything a. C-section is harder to recover from.

  • @sophiaschult
    @sophiaschult 2 года назад +205

    Hi liana. I'm 15, and this is completely different because I've never had a child, but I completely understand the fear of thinking you are having symptoms of something. I have chronic migraine (been diagnosed for 6 years), and whenever I have one it is very traumatic for my body (vomiting, half body numbness, fuzzy brain/slurred speech, headache for days). My main symptoms that tell me one is coming are numbness in half of my body, and auras in my vision. Whenever I get floaters in my vision from looking in the sun, or part of my body falls asleep, I go in full panic mode. For me, focusing on drinking water, and cracking my knuckles (weird, I know), helps. I know how hard it can be, having to always be overly aware of your body, and I am so sorry that you have to go through that. You and Connor are such amazing parents and you have been so strong. Koazy is lucky to have parents as dedicated and loving as you!

    • @saak5444
      @saak5444 2 года назад +13

      I'm so sorry❤. I imagine that must be so difficult to manage .

    • @syedahajrasameen4456
      @syedahajrasameen4456 2 года назад +16

      So sorry for u. I am seventeen and I've been also diagnosed with chronic migraine since I was 13. For me just laying in dark room waiting for the migraine to go away helps. I know it's hard ❤

    • @lauraklabe2259
      @lauraklabe2259 2 года назад +6

      Chronic migraine sucks, I have it too. I'm 20 and I've had them my whole life but they weren't diagnosed until 14. As a kid I'd take tylenol everyday bc it hurt so bad and it got to the point that tylenol stopped working. My doctor wasn't even concerned about how much pain killers I was taking and just told my mom to switch me to ibuprofen if tylenol wasn't working anymore. When I turned 12 the doctor had me start on excedrin. The problem is that excedrin is actually addictive. So by 14, I was taking excedrin every day and sometimes several times a day. I had to switch doctors because mine refused to give me a referral to a neurologist bc she swore I didn't need it. A neurologist got me on migraine meds, got me on steroids to deal with excedrin withdrawal, got me pain meds, etc. I did however find that the go to hospital migraine med imbitrex makes mine worse, it doesn't work for me. But good luck with yours girly, it does get better with proper medical care

    • @syedahajrasameen4456
      @syedahajrasameen4456 2 года назад +5

      @@lauraklabe2259 same here I used to take pain killers almost everyday after coming from school. It was until my vision got blurry my parents finally took me seriously and took me to the neurologist. Now I don't have them everyday but once in a three days.

    • @lauraklabe2259
      @lauraklabe2259 2 года назад +4

      @@syedahajrasameen4456 yea as a kid I'd pass out from the pain and throw up in my sleep, it was bad. My parents were fed up with my doctors dismissing me and actually made an appointment with a neurologist, and THEN found me a new doctor to write the referral for the already scheduled appointment lol

  • @victoriamichele6336
    @victoriamichele6336 2 года назад +337

    Being in labor/delivering a child is so much more serious than social media makes it out to be! All of this “My positive natural birth experience 😌” ok that is really great, but many women without modern medicine die as a result of giving birth-if they are able to do it!
    Thanks for sharing your story 🤗 Congrats to you & Connor on your beautiful baby Boy.

    • @LianaJade
      @LianaJade  2 года назад +134

      I work on social media and was still sucked into the whole fairytale birth 🥲 I know it is the case for some but wow… I don’t think I even got a glimpse of it!🤣

    • @victoriamichele6336
      @victoriamichele6336 2 года назад +35

      @@LianaJade No worries girl, I wouldn't be surprised if some of those fairytale birth stories aren't even completely true. Congrats again--God bless you! Enjoy your baby. Mine is 7 months 💖

    • @92Eww
      @92Eww 2 года назад +7

      I completely agree with you on this, but also, all the positive birth stories (didn’t even have to be natural births just all positive ones in general, unmedicated/medicated/vaginal/sections) really helped me to be calm the weeks before giving birth 🙈😂 just because you normally hear about all the bad birth experiences and when it’s your first you have nothing to compare it to… so I have to admit I binged on them before my first 🙊😂

    • @victoriamichele6336
      @victoriamichele6336 2 года назад +5

      @@92Eww hello Elan,
      Good point 🤗 I can see where you are coming from on this too. Thanks!!

    • @craftyliv1392
      @craftyliv1392 2 года назад

      Yes

  • @almond_114
    @almond_114 2 года назад +691

    Liana, I don't leave comments almost ever, but I wanted to say that I'm just so touched by what an amazing and strong person you are and I'm so happy for your sweet little family ❤

  • @amymarie1581
    @amymarie1581 2 года назад +32

    We love you Liana, you’re such a breath of fresh air to watch. Both you and Connor are real and we will support you guys for as long as you’ll let us. It’s so nice to see an honest and open discussion. When I was pregnant with my son I couldn’t help but be anxious - he was 2 days overdue, my labour didn’t go to plan but my boy was healthy and that’s all that matters.. safe and sound. Please listen to your instinct and forget about the people who are throwing negative advice. He’s your and Connor’s babi not anyone else’s.. everyone’s values are different. Keep it real chick ❤️ (Koazy is a gorgeous name) 💙

  • @AlishaA32150
    @AlishaA32150 2 года назад +134

    I’d definitely say that because of having an emergency C-section at 18 years old it for sure scared me to have more but does want another but due to complications from failed epidurals and also carrying a heavy weight baby I’d plan for a C-section purely because it complicated me for trying to go naturally and failed first time round. But I’m hesitating to have another as of it affecting me mentally and I do still remember the worst parts of it all. But so so greatful to have a healthy and happy baby in the end of it all ❤️

    • @The_Ingvar
      @The_Ingvar 2 года назад

      I didn't have a C-section, but I wouldn't want another baby. Just bc I remember every minute of the 17-hour journey🫣. And no thanks. You didn't miss anything special in natural birth trust me.

  • @tehillahfaith
    @tehillahfaith 2 года назад +143

    I think after being the eldest and my mother and having my three baby sisters and seeing how Liana’s birth has been I’ve learnt that Pregnancy is very beautiful and emotional too , so happy that you are recovering slowly and Connor and you are being strong , Sending love to Koazy 💖

  • @alyssas5565
    @alyssas5565 2 года назад +58

    Girl you are 1 million percent right when you say you just have to do it and do what feels right for you when it comes to baby. I have gotten so many comments over the years and judgment from people on how I have raised my son. You learn to ignore most and then you also learn to see if any of them make sense for you and will what is being said be beneficial to your mommy stylings or not. The biggest two things I got were let baby cry it out and don’t give him a pacifier. Firstly, before the age of 9 months you are supposed to pick up baby when they cry. They are so uncertain about their surroundings still and depend on your comfort as reassurance. I held my son constantly. And I got so much crap for doing so. Well to all those who said I shouldn’t , should be taking a really good look at him now. He’s so independent and has been since he was about 2 2/2 years old. Secondly, I gave him a pacifier. My reasoning why always shut people up real quick too. My logic is, either give him a pacifier or let him suck his thumb, because he’s going to do one or the other. Only difference is this, you can ween off the pacifier much more easily then the thumb. Pacifiers (or as my son called them “boos”) you can throw away and do not have to purchase any more. The thumb you can not. And seeing how you can’t cut off and throw away a child’s thumb I decided that I would go with a pacifier to make the transition a bit more smoothly. I always say when it comes to kids, especially toddlers, pick your battles. You will completely understand what I mean by that one day. There is so much more I could say about raising a child. But like you said in this video, you just do it and learn as you go along. Glad to see you are feeling well and love seeing videos and pictures of baby. He’s so stinking cute 🥰

    • @LianaJade
      @LianaJade  2 года назад +36

      Thank you so much! I completely agree with everything you’ve said! Babies only ever cry because there is something wrong! Our Babi barely ever cries, usually only for food, nappy change or if we’ve put him down and he’s confused about where he is! And I said exactly the same about the pacifiers! Or a dummy as we call them over here!😅

  • @sabine46
    @sabine46 2 года назад +48

    I remember my first shower a few days after my C section. Fully assisted because I could barely step in the bath! C section recovery can be tough! I laboured for over 36 hours with super painfull back contractions (son was back to back) and became an emergency c section because his heart beat started dropping. But I couldn't be prouder of my scar now! ♥️

  • @Potatoandfries
    @Potatoandfries 2 года назад +37

    My mum had 3 c-sections and she described it as a overwhelming experience since when baby was out you just felt pressure leave your body and she said the worst part was healing after and thinking “I should have..” “it’s my fault…” etc, now she has 3 boys in uni 20 years down the line and says it was all worth it! 💕

  • @byebyee.
    @byebyee. 2 года назад +220

    ah can’t wait to watch this video!! you guys inspire me so much

    • @Isrurn
      @Isrurn 2 года назад

      @꧁ keyla martin --------👇💋 ꧂ .

    • @emilyscharmxoxo6134
      @emilyscharmxoxo6134 2 года назад +2

      Omgg izzy I saw you comment on dad v girls a few days ago!! Haha you are so kind commenting stuff like this it’s so kind x

    • @imaiyla
      @imaiyla 2 года назад +1

      Koazy is so cute 🥰

    • @byebyee.
      @byebyee. 2 года назад +1

      @@emilyscharmxoxo6134 yeah!
      I really get inspired by these RUclipsrs

    • @emilyscharmxoxo6134
      @emilyscharmxoxo6134 2 года назад +1

      @@byebyee. same and they all seem like such kind sweet people like you! (Also sorry I just subscribed to you now I swore I was already xx)

  • @rachel3591
    @rachel3591 2 года назад +18

    Honestly when Liana says she has no friends, I relate completely. I’ve lived where I have for 3 years and have yet to have made any lasting friendships and stuff (like all my friends are across America back home) I just love how much comfort she brings to her videos ❤️

  • @MarigoldHollow
    @MarigoldHollow 2 года назад +35

    I had two traumatic births with my boys… and wish I could have more kiddos now, but can’t due to other health stuff. I wouldn’t say you forget how hard/ scary/ painful birth is, you just know that the reward of that squishy, lovely babe is worth all of the scary and hard things that come with birth! It’s totally normal to not want more kiddos, too. Don’t feel pressured by others if pregnancy is too much for you. You’re still strong and amazing!

  • @leilani2109
    @leilani2109 2 года назад

    I love how open u are it’s so refreshing

  • @Blessed_SAHM_Of3
    @Blessed_SAHM_Of3 2 года назад +51

    **TW** I also had a severely traumatic birth with my first (Loads of blood loss, unmanaged pain, failed epidural). and my best advice is KEEP TALKING ABOUT IT!!

    • @hannahgodsoe
      @hannahgodsoe 2 года назад +6

      I agree! Like you said, talk about it until it doesn’t feel like a big deal anymore or that you have at least flushed it out and can understand it! I had a somewhat traumatic intake into the hospital (nearly passed out from the pain of the first cervical check by a rough nurse), then threats of a c-section due to my son’s heartrate dipping, and then had postpartum psychosis afterwards and was unavailable to my husband and child for the first month (including 3 hospitalizations) literally at the beginning of C-19. It was scary and traumatic for everyone. Now, nearly 2.5 years later, I have finally come to a place of peace and understanding of why things went the way they did, am actually grateful for the experience (which I thought impossible), and we plan to get pregnant again within the next 1.5 years.
      That is just my story. Everyone has theirs and is entitled to their own decisions moving forward. Health and healing to everyone reading!

    • @Blessed_SAHM_Of3
      @Blessed_SAHM_Of3 2 года назад +3

      @@hannahgodsoe Thanks for sharing your story too! Glad to hear you are in a good place💗💗💗

    • @user-sq7yh7nj7o
      @user-sq7yh7nj7o Год назад

      Hope birth was well & you & baby are doing ok.

  • @ebony3419
    @ebony3419 2 года назад +1

    Literally have not had anyone explain the panic attacks so well I have them all the time.. I feel like “it’s my time” but they really are THAT horrible, you feel like you’re dying. Over and over again. Thank you for being so open and honest with us. You are truly amazing. Thank you!❤️🇦🇺

  • @aubsss03
    @aubsss03 2 года назад +18

    It is absolutely amazing that you have gone through all that and can talk about it openly!! You are a strong, beautiful, and amazing mum, girlfriend, and woman! I’m so excited to watch your journey for years to come! I love you and your family so much!! If I ever get the chance my dream is to meet you guys!! Your such amazing and inspirational people!! Love you guys and wish you the best!
    -Aubrielle

  • @sunflowervol.6666
    @sunflowervol.6666 2 года назад +38

    you guys are such inspiring parents

  • @caitlingrosser6056
    @caitlingrosser6056 2 года назад +27

    ❤❤ don't worry Liana I have no friends either hahaha (mum of 3 & step mum of 3 lol) but we love and appreciate you all here and are absolutely 100% here for you every step of the way 💙 Koazy is absolutely blessed to have you guys as parents x x x

  • @HStacey2011
    @HStacey2011 2 года назад +9

    Love hearing you talk for days!!!! You could shoot a podcast and so many people would tune in just to hear you talking about life.

  • @margiecook6879
    @margiecook6879 2 года назад +36

    My daughter is due with her baby in December. This is my 7th grandchild, but it never stops being exciting! This is my last grandchild, so that makes it special as well. My son can't have anymore, and my daughter is having surgery right after this little guy is born.
    I just love to watch you kids videos. You're such an adorable couple, and what a sweet little family you have made. Warmest, well wishes from "across the pond."
    ❤😊❤
    Alabama, U.S.A

  • @belen_vlogs
    @belen_vlogs 2 года назад +146

    Liana you are so strong and Koazy is adorable. Not to mention how strong Connor is to. And I hope you guys will always be safe, healthy, and happy!!!🤍🤍🤍

  • @koalabear3427
    @koalabear3427 2 года назад +8

    Liana has the best personality ever! She's humble too. Love Connor as well! Thank you for sharing your life with us!

  • @helencampbell4460
    @helencampbell4460 2 года назад +2

    Thank you for sharing your panic attack issues… my son is now 17 and was born by emergency caesarean.. I have suffered with anxiety since he was born and am on meds for panic attacks.. so much of what you have spoken about rings true for me.. thank you for sharing .. light plays such a big role in bringing on anxiety…I also have astigmatism..

  • @z3p3t0F5nS
    @z3p3t0F5nS 2 года назад +70

    I love how she just trusts us and talks about her Scary Birth, I’m so glad baby Koazy is Safe and Healthy!
    I love You, Connor and baby Koazy

  • @exitedmatress1161
    @exitedmatress1161 2 года назад +10

    I'm so glad to see you feeling confident as a parent. You are doing an amazing job. Thankful Conner is such a fantastic partner and Father.

  • @Rhiles44
    @Rhiles44 2 года назад +10

    This is why I pretty much had no expectations for my first birthing experience. As a first time mom I knew everything could change at the drop of a hat so I was really ready to expect the unexpected and just go with the flow. I was induced at 41 weeks and honestly looking back I’m so glad I had that experience because it made for a calm birth and wasn’t stressful at all. I also struggled postpartum and my husband did so much for me it really does make you feel guilty.

  • @nimayo3068
    @nimayo3068 2 года назад +2

    This is the earliest I’ve been!! I love u guys so much!! ♥️

  • @julierichardson284
    @julierichardson284 2 года назад +2

    Only discovered you very recently and think you are the most beautiful person inside and out. Thank you for sharing your story and for being so authentic. You're amazing xx

  • @cheyennenicole1753
    @cheyennenicole1753 2 года назад

    I think talking about your L&D experience is so helpful! And it also shows other parents who have been through similar experiences that they aren’t alone in their trauma (yes I’m using “trauma” because it’s traumatic). I’ve been through 2 traumatic births and talking about it helps me so much❤️

  • @breannastaten9112
    @breannastaten9112 2 года назад +1

    I’m expecting my first baby in a few months, and before getting pregnant I was SO NERVOUS about everything. Watching your journey, listening to you be so open about everything, has absolutely helped me heal and get excited to meet my own little one soon. Thank you so much for sharing your experience. You are helping more people than you know ❤

  • @ellacagle.16
    @ellacagle.16 2 года назад +34

    i’m just glad nothing to bad happened. we’re all blessed for such an amazing person like u

  • @ellabishop9390
    @ellabishop9390 2 года назад +4

    Your so strong Liana! Thanks for sharing with us u must’ve been so scared after having a Koazy and dealing with it all U are an inspiration to me and I will always be here for u

  • @nicolelarsen3238
    @nicolelarsen3238 2 года назад +2

    You and Connor have grown so much, it's amazing to see from an outside perspective just how fast time goes. It seems like your pregnancy announcement to Connor video was like weeks ago...enjoy every minute! You are absolutely right. People love to give unsolicited parenting advice but you know what works for you, your baby and you family. So happy for you both 💓

  • @alona270
    @alona270 2 года назад +1

    I am so happy that you are all healthy. Thank you for sharing the struggles too…it is not talked about enough. I never knew there are postpartum anxiety and it makes soooo much sense

  • @aforeman6965
    @aforeman6965 2 года назад +1

    You are SO unbelievably strong. I cant imagine how scary and traumatic this was for you, but you were worried about connor and the baby more than yourself. You are a super hero. Im sorry the birth happened in the way it did, but im glad youre getting better, and Im SO grateful you and babi are alive and well. Also connor is awesome, hes been so supportive

  • @bbuuttercupp
    @bbuuttercupp 2 года назад +2

    I‘ve been dealing with health anxiety for a while and it’s so exhausting and overwhelming, so i understand you, Wishing you the best!

  • @jacquerablack
    @jacquerablack 2 года назад +1

    I nearly died four years ago from pneumonia, pleurisy and empyema, once I was finally home, and recovering, I had a lot of anxiety and panic attacks, it’s natural, you’ve been through a traumatic experience, just take each day as it comes, don’t expect to much of yourself, and listen to ambient sounds, first of all rain sounds, water sounds, things like that, really helped get me through. Massive hugs.

  • @addisondunn1333
    @addisondunn1333 2 года назад +1

    Liana you realise you have more friends then ever because every subscriber is your friend and we would always be with you no matter what.

  • @maggieroodt
    @maggieroodt 2 года назад

    Liana I'm not even the kind of person who likes watching people but I'm here for you guys! You are lovely and genuine. Thank you for sharing your journey with us!

  • @lindsaylovestorun
    @lindsaylovestorun 2 года назад +1

    I'm 16 weeks pregnant right now. This video was really useful to me. Thanks for sharing.

  • @NeoSpaceRanger
    @NeoSpaceRanger 2 года назад

    It's so cool how real you are about your experiences. I haven't had children myself, but you do tend to hear more about the fairy light versions as you say pertaining to pregnancy. I think it's healthy to hear about a more difficult chaotic side too, because you really never know what could happen, and it's good to weigh your options.
    Thanks for being honest. Wishing you all the best 💕

  • @jasmineclfam1089
    @jasmineclfam1089 2 года назад +1

    Liana you are actually so strong ❤ I have watched you and Connor for way over a year now and always imagined you as amazing parents one day, and here you are now, honestly being the best parents ever to Koazy

  • @tracyhabovick3412
    @tracyhabovick3412 2 года назад +3

    As a old Mother of a different generation this is amazing what your doing. Plus the wonderful support you've received is a blessing. Keep being your kind loving self we all care about you.
    Best wishes to your family of
    3 now! 💙😇😊💞👍

  • @colleenrichardson5339
    @colleenrichardson5339 2 года назад +1

    I get a lot of anxiety about that kind of stuff too, medical stuff in particular. so you’re not alone!❤️ You’re so strong Liana, we love you! I hope I can be as half as strong as you when I give birth!

  • @katieelizabethxo
    @katieelizabethxo 2 года назад +7

    I love how open you're about your birth experience, your little baby is so adorable! Congratulations once again💙
    I've always wanted a child but to be honest everytime I want one I get scared, I think about what if I was and what if this happens or that, because one I'm a petite person and I'm scared to go through the pain, but I know it's a beautiful thing bringing your child in the world and what happens to your body as well💗 but I think as well whenever the right time comes it will happen

  • @alisa7782
    @alisa7782 2 года назад +6

    You’re so strong! This really inspires me. Sending love through this comment to you, Connor and Koazy🤍

  • @lounirs
    @lounirs 2 года назад +1

    I absolutely loved listening to you talking like that

  • @omgitspaige203.2ndAccount
    @omgitspaige203.2ndAccount 2 года назад +1

    "I don't have friends as you know". I'm right here girl I love you ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @TatAlbring
    @TatAlbring 2 года назад +2

    As a 29 year old lady, with no friends and who spends her life watching RUclips. Thank you for sharing your stories. It’s hard being alone, and I relate to your anxiety with people but the want to talk for days xox

    • @laurenarmstrong8596
      @laurenarmstrong8596 2 года назад +1

      Literally, same. 29 and no friends and tons of anxiety especially with people, but I love to talk 😂 It's so nice knowing you're actually not alone and other people go through the same things as you.

    • @TatAlbring
      @TatAlbring 2 года назад +1

      @@laurenarmstrong8596 I know right I love finding out I'm not the only one! 😊

  • @cibineshsornappan4795
    @cibineshsornappan4795 2 года назад

    tbh liana you're right that all is for a reason and that nothing goes in plan all the time and if it does its by luck and the fact that you just went for c-section i mean you're one of the many strong women i know cuz my mum when she had me had no one cuz my dad was looking after my brother and my mum was perfectly fine plus the fact that u suffer panic attacks and you still try your best to keep calm is soo cool and every time you talk about being strong it also teaches others to be strong plus all the info you tell us all know is soo helpfull for the future as i am a boy and i'll never experiance birth i know that the way you were strong tells me that thats not just how all women have to be strong but that the boys have to be strong too cuz when birth arrives we all start to panic cuz its our first time and that we don't know what to do by yeah liana all the vlogs you and connor do just motivate me and others and take us through the path of becomeing stronger an brave people so thanks a lot and connor too love you guys!!!

  • @Evie2110
    @Evie2110 2 года назад

    I love these kind of sit down calm videos they are so good

  • @kaitlynpailing4930
    @kaitlynpailing4930 2 года назад +3

    I had an emergency c-section with my first and I’m having a planned one with my second. Do not let anyone tell you your doing it wrong you know your baby best. A c-section recovery is upsetting and long but Babi makes it worth it ☺️❤️

  • @Scissorhands89
    @Scissorhands89 2 года назад

    I really appreciate you talking about how birth isn't always perfect. I see other influencers show how beautiful their birth was and it makes me feel guilty for having negative thoughts about my own birth. I had my baby a few weeks before you and you have helped me not feel alone

  • @jocelynclair
    @jocelynclair 2 года назад

    I thought your birth video was one of the most realistic birth videos I've seen. I've been a l&d rn since 2016, and it's refreshing to see this. I'm sure you have helped/will continue to help many people with your story. Congratulations to you and Connor!💕

  • @squishmallow5624
    @squishmallow5624 2 года назад +5

    Aw I’m so excited to watch this! Your such amazing parents and I’ve watched you two from the literal start🥺 (3 years) your so beautiful and Koazy is the cutest❤️

  • @JessicaSpears
    @JessicaSpears 2 года назад

    Thanks so much for this! I’m 27 weeks pregnant and stressed about it triggering my panic attacks, you remind me of myself! you’re amazing 🥰

  • @NeuroNotTypical
    @NeuroNotTypical 2 года назад

    Oh, my god. When you talked about the potential of having children in the future of this experience, that was so relatable. I felt the same way for a long time. I still do for the most part. Almost two years later, I’m starting to warm up to the idea. Especially talking with my husband about the different potential options, and he’s never made me feel pressured about it. The trauma that comes when things take a turn for the worst is potent. Take your time and there’s absolutely no wrong choice for you to make if you just respect yourself and your feelings

  • @simplysarahorganizedesign938
    @simplysarahorganizedesign938 2 года назад

    The brain has to learn to “track” new fears. It’s so good that you’re aware of how your eyes could influence your brain’s ability to trust what it’s experiencing.
    Trusting ourselves as mothers is the BIGGEST step the brain body connection will make.
    KNOW that you have survived so much and TRUST your ability to know what you can manage on your own and know that you will ask for help when needed

  • @jewelsfee23
    @jewelsfee23 2 года назад

    I never thought about what an epidural feels like but your description completely makes sense. I got shocked by the power line of a hot water tank. I was reaching over it because I thought the severed line was dead… I didn’t touch it but was close enough the electricity jumped into my arm and my arm dropped immediately. It felt like a silicone arm that was so much heavier than I ever expected. I couldn’t move it at all luckily only for about 5 mins… I lost my mind at my step dad who didn’t tell me the wire was live and wanted something right behind it… I walked up to him carrying my own arm. Flapping my limp wrist at him saying he should have told me. I didn’t even know if my arm would come back. It’s soooo weird to have a body part that’s paralyzed just hanging off you. I’ll never forget that feeling and it’s been 17 years now.

  • @nessquick7875
    @nessquick7875 2 года назад +9

    Firstly, congratulations to EVERYTHING!
    Secondly, the point with the friends, it is nice to see someone so normal, if you know what I mean ;), that doesn't have friends too, I also have like only my boyfriend and family, and a lot of people don't understand that making friends as an adult is HARD, like really hard haha . Thank you for being soooo open, I, and I think everyone, appreciates it so much. I wish you and your little cute wonderful family all the best 🥰

  • @tiffanyguerrero6261
    @tiffanyguerrero6261 2 года назад

    Awww.. You're the sweetest Liana!! 💗 Thank you for sharing you're experiences with all of us. 😀

  • @kirsteneliot3381
    @kirsteneliot3381 2 года назад +1

    You’re so amazingly strong! I love seeing how positive you still are even after going through all of that ❤️sending lots of love to you and your family 🥰

  • @siennatortoiselover4408
    @siennatortoiselover4408 2 года назад +6

    I’ve been watching your channel for forever and you brighten my day and so glad you and baby are safe! X

  • @N0tLucy8
    @N0tLucy8 2 года назад +3

    Liana, your an amazing mum, we are all so proud of you! You have come so far you are the strongest person I know! Love you sooooo much

  • @amandaneilly9587
    @amandaneilly9587 2 года назад

    You want thru a massively stressful event and I think it's important for you to hear that you are doing amazing and all these feelings yiu have are completely normal, think you need a hug! I went thru a similar (practically the same it's eerie qctually) situational nd there's no normal after it, everyone's journey is different but what ounts is how we travel it and you are doing an amazing job!!!

  • @heidibigelow2278
    @heidibigelow2278 2 года назад +1

    You are so sweet and brave. I was actually glad you had a c section because the baby was so big. You and Conner are great parents.

  • @kamibasden1113
    @kamibasden1113 Год назад

    I just want to say how proud I am of you and Connor y’all have came so far and grown so much I’ve watched y’all for awhile now since a year or so before baby I remember when u where only talking about a baby and not sure if u where ready but your a amazing mom and Connor is a amazing dad I love y’all’s videos so much and thank you for letting me grown up watching y’all !! I’m honored to be your fan I love you guys so very much! ❤️

  • @yourfavkikoo
    @yourfavkikoo 2 года назад +2

    My first time watching a full vid of you I’m new to this channel so excited to watch!

  • @lifeof_iris
    @lifeof_iris 2 года назад +1

    lilanaa we love these chatting videosssss/ qnaaaa when you finish recovering please do more!!!!!

  • @cadavher
    @cadavher 2 года назад +1

    The tattoo over where the birth control was removed is such a cute tattoo

  • @pamelaleannefreeland9025
    @pamelaleannefreeland9025 2 года назад

    I think you were placed exactly where you were meant to be. Your story can bring such comfort to women and couples expecting, or bring solidarity to others who have experienced something similar. Social media has given so many a false sense of expects and reality when it comes to birth. It’s scary, uncertain, but also incredibly beautiful. Thank you for sharing your story. It takes a lot of bravery and strength to do that in this world nowadays. You just be the best mother you can be, and that’s enough. Best wishes to you, Connor, and Koazy. 💜

  • @teenagemutantninjaturtlesl5599
    @teenagemutantninjaturtlesl5599 2 года назад +5

    Im so happy that you guys are doing great! Koazy is sooo cute, and I cant wait to see koazy grow. Hope you guys stay safe ❤️

  • @aurelia_p
    @aurelia_p 2 года назад +1

    I just want you to know that you’re not alone Liana. I’m only 14 but I get suuuppperrr bad anxiety about anything health related and I overthink lots! But it’s getting a lot better thanks to a breathing exercise I’ve been using during panic attacks. It’s called Four Finger Breathing or Square breathing, So you breath in for 4 seconds, you hold your breath for 4 seconds, then you exhale for 4 seconds, and hold for 4 seconds, then repeat. It’s really helpful! Anyways love you guys, you’re awesome! Xx

  • @stephanym9210
    @stephanym9210 2 года назад

    I had an awful first labour. I was induced at 41 weeks and had lots of complications, 3 failed epidurals which ended up in an emergency C-section because my baby nearly died, we were both fine and recovery was less than 2 weeks. I kept saying after that I never wanted to do it again because of what happened. I fell pregnant again on the pill and instantly said that if I go through with it I wanted an elective csection. I had complications through my second pregnancy and had an elective csection at 39 weeks. I nearly died. Recovery took 10 weeks. Now I really really never will do it again. I'm so mentally scared I couldn't even imagine what would happen next time. It makes me feel sick and really panicked when I even think about it and although watching other people's experiences (good and bad) make me more accepting of my situations, it just never will take that anxiety away now and means I won't put myself through it again.
    Well done to all csection mamas. You've been through hell and back and don't even realise how amazing you are

  • @skylerdominguez2148
    @skylerdominguez2148 2 года назад

    Watching your videos makes me really happy and you're doing such a great job at being a mom

  • @deannahayat7707
    @deannahayat7707 2 года назад

    Ur explanations are all so spot on girl!!! So happy u are doing better and baby boy is thriving. Hope you have a very blessed day Liana! Much Love from right outside of Washington DC 🫂💜✌🏻

  • @Haleybluebarry7
    @Haleybluebarry7 2 года назад

    Appreciate the honesty and vulnerability in this Liana! 💞

  • @catbean6702
    @catbean6702 Год назад

    You had me googling about contractions, and strokes! Thanks for keeping me interested ❤

  • @mtnmagic1998
    @mtnmagic1998 2 года назад

    The answer you gave about trusting yourself is exactly right! Doesn't matter what anyone else says because every pregnancy is different even for the same person. Personally I think you've handled everything like a Rockstar!

  • @kimmiek7064
    @kimmiek7064 2 года назад +4

    When I had my first 34 years ago I was also in labor for 3 days. Had him naturally when they finally broke my water & gave me an episiotomy 😳 Second 12 hours, third 9 hours but placenta got stuck so lost a lot of blood & had to have a transfusion. Every birth is different & every woman's experience is different but amazing.

  • @sandytaylor8576
    @sandytaylor8576 2 года назад

    Oh Liana! I am SO happy everything is ok with ALL of you!! You are such a beautiful soul! I wish for nothing but the best for you and your little family, I have loved watching you grow and blossom into this loving family. You are truly blessed, take care of yourself and you ramble on as much as you want, you have a pure heart and we all love to watch you with Connor and now little Babi!! 💜💜💜

  • @ispr09
    @ispr09 2 года назад +3

    I’m probably not going to have children for a long time yet! But it’s amazing to know all this stuff for when I do so thank you so much! 💜

  • @itz_lola3371
    @itz_lola3371 2 года назад +1

    I love your channel ❤️ 💕 you guys are the first family channel I have liked! It's weird knowing that I came when it was made 40 seconds ago!

  • @adelasklenarova8764
    @adelasklenarova8764 2 года назад +1

    I totally understand your panic attacks. Few years ago I got pulmonary embolism and for some time it was ok. But now I am so aware of my body and I panic everytime I feel like I am out of breath as I suffer from PTSD. So... dont be afraid to seek professional help. I was hesitant and it did not end up well.

    • @Flutetastic.
      @Flutetastic. 2 года назад

      I totally understand, I suffer from OCD and it's not a piece of cake🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @jeniferwaters4276
    @jeniferwaters4276 2 года назад

    You are such an incredible and strong person. Women are absolute superheroes being able to go through a whole pregnancy and THEN give birth! Thank you for sharing your story.
    Never want you to feel that you don’t have friends too because we are all your friends and care about you❤️

  • @lilnintendo
    @lilnintendo 2 года назад +4

    Thank you so much for sharing! I'm an aspiring OBGYN, and educating myself on different birth stories helps a lot. You're so brave to share your life stories and share the beginning of Koazy's as well. ❤️

  • @tdotcraig
    @tdotcraig 2 года назад

    You have such an amazing perspective. Your self awareness is beautiful and I wish you tons of happiness.
    You did great and now have a beautiful baby. Congrats.

  • @allybirdsong
    @allybirdsong 2 года назад +7

    Awwwww!!! I'm so excited!!! I love you so much liana! You and my mom had a baby the same day, the same due date, the same ending and it was a boy also 😂 I'm so excited to watch Koazy grow! ✨

  • @rebeccaanthon5647
    @rebeccaanthon5647 2 года назад

    You are amazing Liana. Being so open and honest will help so many people xx 😘

  • @yn_riddle385
    @yn_riddle385 2 года назад +1

    Liana thank you for making our day and I can’t wait to see how ur sweet family grows ♥️

  • @hailey1052
    @hailey1052 2 года назад

    You are such a strong mama!! Hearing your story is amazing! I also had a long rough labor that ended with an emergency csection with our first baby girl in 2020. It was rough and put me through alot having our first baby. But we got pregnant again 6 months later! I had a scheduled csection in April with my 2nd baby girl and it was beautiful and peaceful!

  • @pinupgirl9160
    @pinupgirl9160 2 года назад

    I was on edge for 2 weeks, kept you and Connor in my prayers until Cozi baby came. Love you guys!!!

  • @noodles5004
    @noodles5004 2 года назад +1

    Love how realistic your videos are with babi. Thank you. 💖💖

  • @rhimum08
    @rhimum08 2 года назад +1

    Liana you do have friends. You have us ❤️ you have went through such a traumatic experience, your mind and body are going to take time to heal. Maybe talk to your health visitor /midwife, or join a mummy's group. I had my daughter at 20, she's now 14!!!! My labour went the other way and went too quick. Only 6 hours but I had no time to prepare, to think about what was happening. Her heart rate dropped at one point and forceps were brought out, thank god thay didn't have to be used. But I just remember thinking is this my baby. For days/weeks I was in a daze. No birth goes to plan, especially the one we have in our head. But you're doing great mama!! Enjoy every minute of it xxx

  • @s_desh143
    @s_desh143 2 года назад +1

    Never clicked so fast love you so much! Can’t wait to watch! 💞

  • @alicehutchon304
    @alicehutchon304 2 года назад +1

    Liana seems like such a genuinely nice person 😊

  • @Ellen2504
    @Ellen2504 2 года назад

    Liana and Conner are gonna be great parents! My mom remembers the pain of labour 18 years later.

  • @leia4866
    @leia4866 2 года назад

    Congratulations on 2M subscribers ❤

  • @sarawilliams9904
    @sarawilliams9904 2 года назад

    You are amazing! Can’t thank you enough for your genuine sincerity. You have a beautiful family and an incredible story!