The ISFJ is fascinated with the efficiency of his techniques and often mentions how long each step takes. The ISFP's main concern is the flavours and the beauty of the food.
I agree with everyone who has said the ISFJ loves learning the "correct" way to do things. From the ISFP, I get the sense that he didn't learn those techniques from someone else as much as he figured out for himself what works best. Even if a culinary expert taught him the "correct" techniques, he wouldn't do them unless they felt right to him. To the ISFJ, however, they feel right because his authority makes them "correct."
As ISFP, i agree. My mom always correct me to cook because she is better in cooking. But i didn't disrespect her. But i will not use her way if it doesn't make sense to me.
Their chemistry is great. She seems so in tune with him, I can tell she's even trying hard not to accidentally pick up the accent 😂 and she is really intent on learning from him because she recognizes the value he brings to their shared craft. She is hung up on the details and he keeps trying to emphasize what's important (do this so that it cooks fast, it's fine as long as the flavors are all there). A really great duo for cooking especially!
I suppose it’s largely due to the format of their video, But the ISFJ seems to delegate alot of the ”spotlight” to the ISFP, and they both seem very happy with those roles. The ISFJ also seems a little more stereotypical in her approach to a cooking show, she speaks just like every other cook that tries to teach cooking, while the Guy has his own little style which might seem a little less ”professional” due to it being less orthodox (primarily in speech). They really do seem to get along well though, don’t they? It’s crazy how some types just naturally get along so often
These two have crazy chemistry, she is so into his Fi flair/cooking style and he is responding to her Fe chemicals, I could see these two becoming friends. Both are very much focused on the sensory in front of them and don’t really go off on any wild Intuitive tangents.
She seems to be all about correctness and say what is supposed to.. He seems to be very in love with his own food and it is his. She seems to be in love with the how to.. He seems more creative in his approach to food, focusing on what he enjoys about it, whereas she seems to be focused on the correctness and perfection of it and that others like it first
I am an ISFJ and my boyfriend is an ISFP. He is often cooking and I watch him with excitement. He enjoys when I eat his meals and compliment him lol I am always impressed how casually he cooks its just so natural and simple for him (just as the cleaning is natural to me lol). We never tried cooking together but I think it would be great
Maybe it’s because I have the same functions as the guy, but I can see how comfortable she is making him. That’s something I really appreciate about Fe users. And the isfj is obviously impressed by his Se mastery.
I find your perspective to be interesting since I hear a lot of Fi users say that Fe is fake. But yet, Fe doms and Fi doms are supposed to be golden pairs. I don't get it.
@@violet18 Imature Fi doms or anyone with a not well developed Fi, will think that Fe is fake. It’s true that Fe is kind of fabricated, but more in the way good artist might fabricate a beautiful painting. The older I get the more I appreciate the validation and warmth Fe users give me, something as an Fi user I don’t seek out enough.
@@violet18 ENFJs, INFJs, and maybe ENFPs and INTJs. But, basically anyone I find attractive and interesting, and shares the same values as me. How about you? Are you a Fe Dom?
I would just ask her politely to stop complimenting cuz she is being annoying. But I'm a fan of the chef. Very delicate and talented and grounded at the same time. Shout out to ISFPs and ISFJs! Amazing people. 😊 - INTJ
As an ISFP, I would personally find those compliments to be the opposite of annoying, as she is admiringly pointing out things that he is probably secretly proud of and worked on for awhile. If his experience is anything like mine, he rarely receives any recognition or encouragement for it (not that he expects it, but it's very nice when it does get noticed. Makes it feel worthwhile). So for me, I would find it refreshing and validating to have someone enthusiastically admire all those little mannerisms and techniques that I have quietly honed down over time. Much preferred over the typical correction or editing received from those few who do notice! Footnote: These techniques and mannerisms don't NEED validation from another individual in order for them to feel worthwhile to the ISFP, as we are primarily coming up with these things to make our own lives smoother and more enjoyable. But to realize that someone else finds it useful to them as well -- that would make me quite happy that I had been able to help by sharing my method! Hope this perspective is helpful for you in further understanding this personality type, which I assume may be your reason for being here. ^_^ Have a lovely day! And thank you for the kind words about these 2 types represented here!
Is it annoying because you dislike compliments or because you think they're fake? Because trust me, she's totally just admiring him from her heart. If you find warm & pure admiration spoken into words annoying, it's kinda known that the problem is not with the person speaking. The different thing is of course with fake compliments and flattery for some ulterior motive's sake. I'm like her with people I find nice & comfortable, and stuff like that just comes out naturally. Like Emily said, and next to her very good points, the skills itself don't need admiration, but the relationship between two people will be much richer if every natural way of showing affection is expressed when it naturally happens to them, appropriately to the mood of the situation. That's Fe for you (and in some cases can be Fi). It's usage of the moment is none less important or impressive than those who prefer Te or Ti. Which many don't seem to see. Also, just in case as my comments often get taken the wrong way: I'm not saying this directly as an attack to you or whatever, just starting from your point and going to the overall theme that is often discussed when observing high Fe-users.
what a waste of a pepper, he doesn't seem to know how to cut one up properly. You can quarter it by pulling the quarters off from the stem or top and tail it then cut and roll it to get just the middle off without wasting so much of the pepper.
I thought that she is INFJ cause she plans a lot long-term.. I see in her more Ni than Si.. and her inferior Se is represented in her amusement in skills of other people and mistakes she makes in videos behind the scenes like she forgets to plug in the kitchen appliances and so on... But I might by wrong
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The ISFJ is fascinated with the efficiency of his techniques and often mentions how long each step takes. The ISFP's main concern is the flavours and the beauty of the food.
I agree with everyone who has said the ISFJ loves learning the "correct" way to do things. From the ISFP, I get the sense that he didn't learn those techniques from someone else as much as he figured out for himself what works best. Even if a culinary expert taught him the "correct" techniques, he wouldn't do them unless they felt right to him. To the ISFJ, however, they feel right because his authority makes them "correct."
This feels spot-on. Great analysis!
As ISFP, i agree. My mom always correct me to cook because she is better in cooking. But i didn't disrespect her. But i will not use her way if it doesn't make sense to me.
Their chemistry is great. She seems so in tune with him, I can tell she's even trying hard not to accidentally pick up the accent 😂 and she is really intent on learning from him because she recognizes the value he brings to their shared craft.
She is hung up on the details and he keeps trying to emphasize what's important (do this so that it cooks fast, it's fine as long as the flavors are all there). A really great duo for cooking especially!
I suppose it’s largely due to the format of their video, But the ISFJ seems to delegate alot of the ”spotlight” to the ISFP, and they both seem very happy with those roles. The ISFJ also seems a little more stereotypical in her approach to a cooking show, she speaks just like every other cook that tries to teach cooking, while the Guy has his own little style which might seem a little less ”professional” due to it being less orthodox (primarily in speech).
They really do seem to get along well though, don’t they? It’s crazy how some types just naturally get along so often
These two have crazy chemistry, she is so into his Fi flair/cooking style and he is responding to her Fe chemicals, I could see these two becoming friends. Both are very much focused on the sensory in front of them and don’t really go off on any wild Intuitive tangents.
She seems to be all about correctness and say what is supposed to.. He seems to be very in love with his own food and it is his. She seems to be in love with the how to..
He seems more creative in his approach to food, focusing on what he enjoys about it, whereas she seems to be focused on the correctness and perfection of it and that others like it first
Spot on!
@@juliz2500 Thank you 😃😃
I'm an ISFP too, and I really admire ISFJs ♥️♥️
I am an ISFJ and my boyfriend is an ISFP. He is often cooking and I watch him with excitement. He enjoys when I eat his meals and compliment him lol I am always impressed how casually he cooks its just so natural and simple for him (just as the cleaning is natural to me lol). We never tried cooking together but I think it would be great
ISFP is quieter I guess
I love Pick Up Limes. She seems like an ISFJ
My dad and mom are isfp + isfj as well like them
This is so cute
Maybe it’s because I have the same functions as the guy, but I can see how comfortable she is making him. That’s something I really appreciate about Fe users. And the isfj is obviously impressed by his Se mastery.
I find your perspective to be interesting since I hear a lot of Fi users say that Fe is fake. But yet, Fe doms and Fi doms are supposed to be golden pairs. I don't get it.
@@violet18 Imature Fi doms or anyone with a not well developed Fi, will think that Fe is fake. It’s true that Fe is kind of fabricated, but more in the way good artist might fabricate a beautiful painting. The older I get the more I appreciate the validation and warmth Fe users give me, something as an Fi user I don’t seek out enough.
@@n.p.k7977 So when it comes to romantic partners, which types do you gravitate towards?
@@violet18 ENFJs, INFJs, and maybe ENFPs and INTJs. But, basically anyone I find attractive and interesting, and shares the same values as me. How about you? Are you a Fe Dom?
@@n.p.k7977 I typed myself as an INFJ but I think you might have noticed my Fe. I'm attracted to Ne but also Fe.
ISFJ girls looks like ESFP
yea sometimes, especially after having a glass of wine lol
I used to do this for work.
Ahh avante garde vegan ❤️, his food always seems so appetizing and a aesthetically pleasing, isfp seems right.
can you show infj next pleasee
I would just ask her politely to stop complimenting cuz she is being annoying. But I'm a fan of the chef. Very delicate and talented and grounded at the same time.
Shout out to ISFPs and ISFJs! Amazing people. 😊
- INTJ
As an ISFP, I would personally find those compliments to be the opposite of annoying, as she is admiringly pointing out things that he is probably secretly proud of and worked on for awhile. If his experience is anything like mine, he rarely receives any recognition or encouragement for it (not that he expects it, but it's very nice when it does get noticed. Makes it feel worthwhile). So for me, I would find it refreshing and validating to have someone enthusiastically admire all those little mannerisms and techniques that I have quietly honed down over time. Much preferred over the typical correction or editing received from those few who do notice!
Footnote: These techniques and mannerisms don't NEED validation from another individual in order for them to feel worthwhile to the ISFP, as we are primarily coming up with these things to make our own lives smoother and more enjoyable. But to realize that someone else finds it useful to them as well -- that would make me quite happy that I had been able to help by sharing my method! Hope this perspective is helpful for you in further understanding this personality type, which I assume may be your reason for being here. ^_^ Have a lovely day! And thank you for the kind words about these 2 types represented here!
Is it annoying because you dislike compliments or because you think they're fake? Because trust me, she's totally just admiring him from her heart. If you find warm & pure admiration spoken into words annoying, it's kinda known that the problem is not with the person speaking. The different thing is of course with fake compliments and flattery for some ulterior motive's sake.
I'm like her with people I find nice & comfortable, and stuff like that just comes out naturally. Like Emily said, and next to her very good points, the skills itself don't need admiration, but the relationship between two people will be much richer if every natural way of showing affection is expressed when it naturally happens to them, appropriately to the mood of the situation. That's Fe for you (and in some cases can be Fi). It's usage of the moment is none less important or impressive than those who prefer Te or Ti. Which many don't seem to see.
Also, just in case as my comments often get taken the wrong way: I'm not saying this directly as an attack to you or whatever, just starting from your point and going to the overall theme that is often discussed when observing high Fe-users.
He totally loved her compliments and she meant them. Fe PoLR makes Intjs so unfriendly.
what a waste of a pepper, he doesn't seem to know how to cut one up properly. You can quarter it by pulling the quarters off from the stem or top and tail it then cut and roll it to get just the middle off without wasting so much of the pepper.
Now I want to see how you do it. I'm an INFJ so I want to find the best way to do it.
That’s interesting. I would have never typed her as an Introvert- maybe an ambivert? Work a higher preference for extroversion.
I thought that she is INFJ cause she plans a lot long-term.. I see in her more Ni than Si.. and her inferior Se is represented in her amusement in skills of other people and mistakes she makes in videos behind the scenes like she forgets to plug in the kitchen appliances and so on... But I might by wrong
You should do 16 types with a Covid mask lol. Because body language is very difficult to apply in this period