The host is so empathetic and kind. Asking all the questions in such respectful manner while making her feel comfortable and validating her vulnerability. She must have felt better after this conversation.
@@amitjain3216 where is the proof?????? What if Rajeev have affair with Susan khan or Jennifer or Rashmi or any xyz divorced lady. Pointing out others is the easiest way to escape from marriage and responsibilities specially after birth of child.u can easily see her pain and suffering and tears still doubting????u can doubt anyone but can't blame without proofs and evidence
His toxic and very dangerous under #nepotism that #Kutta , #CharuAsoph Please DO NOT go on big boss , it will prove very very negative for u , I’m just trying to find a way to protect u ,
One request to all charu asopa RUclips channel viewers please don't do bad comments......she is in pain right now understand her situation and by seeing Rajeev he is very arrogant bcz he has money thats why....
The REALITY! ☹️💔Ek insaan ki poori duniya khatam ho jaati hai jab maa baap politics kheltey aur dogley nikaltey hai. But this is the REALITY. It’s the harshest truth. If not all but most of the people have to face it. All parents are not supportive. Infact in most cases parents ki wajah se hi sabse zyada problems hoti hai baccho ko. Parents ki dakiyanoosi soch aur extreme control ke kaaran. Shaadi karo. Bacchey karo. Isi time par karo warna duniya khatam ho jaigi and all that bull shit jiski wajah se bacchey apna dimaag use he nahi kar paatey aur sirf pressure mai Aakar shaadi jaise badey decisions ley letey hai. I’m not saying all parents are wrong. But most of the Indian parents are! Love your parents and serve them but don’t be dominated by them. There’s a huge difference between respect and slavery. Parents like only those kids who listen to them. They want everything according to them. This is not love. It’s sheer control and dominance. Get out of it at the earliest. And in the future give space to your kids. Teach them to have their own mind not the parent’s dictated mind. Zyadatar parents ko logo ki padi rehti hai. Woh log jo aapko kabhi nahi poochtey but apna garbage aap par zaroor daaltey hai. Block such people from your life completely.
I've always respected Sushmita Sen and now my respect for her has doubled. She isn't taking her brother's side or her sis-in-law's side. But she gave a wise advice to her sis-in-law: DO WHAT MAKES YOU HAPPY. Such a great woman! And my heart goes out to Asopa. She is stronger than she thinks. I hope she finds the peace and happiness that she so deserves.
What’s commendable are the comments with so much positivity and empathy for what Charu had gone thru. This is an indication of changing society perhaps a “New India”
The best thing about charu is "Still she is not blaming her in-laws bcoz of the behavior of Rajeev" is incredible. She didn't use any bad word about them and still saying they were very nice towards her. Hats of you Charu 😊....Be strong, you are truly an inspiration for standing yourself
@@Lima3578user Bcoz still there are some people who blames their in-laws also if they have bad equation with their partner....But she is not doing that bad things. She is not using bad words or disrespecting her in-laws bcoz of Rajeev.
She is using this platform to project herself as good like most women do. Girls like you will always support her because of toxic sisterhood sought by feminism. Always taking women's side.
When inlaws are really nice no DIL will blame in laws.. when inlaws influence the husband negatively and instigate him, only then DIL will blame inlaws.. sen family seems very sensible.. just the fact that they advised charu to do what makes her happy tells a lot.👏🏽
No charu u r not a national joke..there are so many of us like u..u r not alone in this journey..move on gal and it's not about surviving it's about living it to the fullest with ziana..loads of love
Hats off to this girl it's not easy to talk about your marital life on camera and especially in the phase she is going through and without complaining about her in-laws that's the biggest part... More strength and power to her
Galti saree ye ham girls share ni kar parents sai Bhai sai because of fucking so called society maa baap ko samjna chaiye na ki agar koi ladka disrespect karta so apne beti ko nikalo iss marriage it's become painfull for a women
She is bloody honest …brave girl,don’t cry time to get up,u r strong girl charu…….get divorce move on ,life is much beautiful then what u have gone through,lots of power to u….
Much needed interview. Mein inko sirf Shushmita Sen ki wajah se janti thi. Mujhe lagta tha ke ye just unka name and fame use krne ke liye family ki member bani. But aaj ye interview dekhne ke baad inki respect mere dil mein aur badh gayi hai. Aapne jo bhi apni shadi ke 3 saal jhela hai aur usse aap bahar ayi hai. Ye bahut hi kabile tarif hai aisa krne ke liye bahut himmat ki zarurat padti hai. Log apni puri zindagi aise insaan ke saath kaat dete hai aur apne liye kuch bhi nhi kar pate hai. Apne bacho ke bare mein bhi soch nahi pate. Aur hum as a audience ya fan hum bhi smjhte hai kon sahi ya galat. Mein bhagwan se prathana krungi ke aap apni beti ko wo sab kuch de paayein jo aap dena chahti hai. Apko bahut sara kaam mile. Khoob naam roshan karo. Dher sara pyar apko aur apki beti ko ❤
It's so scary. I feel for her. Charu please don't give up. Make a plan and execute it. And you're doing right. You should first look after a job. Collab with famous youtubers to enhance your reach. Make connections. Make money and just do whatever you want. Maintain healthy distance with Rajiv. You should just keep this in mind before starting anything that tumhe us gali vapis jana hi nhi hai
More power to you Charu. You are not a national joke. You have shown strength. Nation admires you for that and your daughter would be proud to have courageous mom. Journey might not be easy but the lord who has stood by you all the times will be there always. Stay Strong Girl!!!!!
After listening to charu i can strongly feel her..... I don't have words to describe her pain... But as a woman do move forward with your daughter... N be strong..... don't ever look bk.... The kind of person will never ever change....
How strong she is!!! Literally hats off to her!!! She had faced a lot of trauma in her pregnancy... which is a toughest stage itself....such a monster Rajeev is!! & I am shocked that her own mother didn't support her like seriously...MAA bhi aisi hoti hn ky??...After watching her like this I am scared of marriage... Wishing her more power to handle everything...May ShriKrishna help her always 😔🌸 🙏...
It's not that her mom doesn't love her...but she is of old generation & that's have been taught to women since ages. Even our parents are like that always worrying about society. It's their stupid conditioning done by society.
@@maddy-nc9gb No way....She should be upgrade herself according to generation....our Mummas are also from old generation....I have shown this vdo to my mother...& she was like how can her mother did it... Generation gap is ok...but when your own child is in trouble then you have to upgrade ,,He/she needs you .. Society ka kya hai...wo kabhi chup nahi hogi....but ab saare age ke parents ko ye smjhna hoga ki aapke bchhe ki khushi jyda important h...
This is a classic case of narcissism ...silent treatment, avoiding the problem, running away from the situation, overreacting, and finding faults in every other person than themselves. Poor Charu...she is the victim of narcissism and it takes a lot of courage to get out of this. Also, such narcissistic people use the other person's past to hurt them ...first, they try to make it look like oh...we are so proud of u n make u feel happy...then they drain u n make you starve for their attention... They use the past to justify their actions and the victim feels so helpless because they are guilt-tripping all the time.
You don't need to say 'Poor', it was destiny that to happen and it will teach her many things in life in a city like Mumbai. To be independent n making herself stronger. Coming from a small city like Jaipur.
The interviewer is so sympathetic and understanding..glad to know that she is not a gold digger as some toxic people always commented..prayers for her healing
Earlier I wanted them to be together but after watching this I can say Charu is doing right..no body can live with a person like him..there is insecurity, ambiguity..you go girl..more power to you🙌🙌
She is speaking truth, and all those who went through this can understand her pain. The truth that's in her eyes is the story. One who has lived with a narcissistic personality can only understand her pain.
The Most Honest & best interview .... seriously after watching this interview I have respect for her & the interviewer......... No illogical question being asked.......
Charu is such a honest and brave girl. I wish she gets lots of happiness and lots of success. Charu do not go back to this sick man. Just take care of yourself and your daughter and trust you will not regret your decision. God bless you dear.
The REALITY! ☹️💔Ek insaan ki poori duniya khatam ho jaati hai jab maa baap politics kheltey aur dogley nikaltey hai. But this is the REALITY. It’s the harshest truth. If not all but most of the people have to face it. All parents are not supportive. Infact in most cases parents ki wajah se hi sabse zyada problems hoti hai baccho ko. Parents ki dakiyanoosi soch aur extreme control ke kaaran. Shaadi karo. Bacchey karo. Isi time par karo warna duniya khatam ho jaigi and all that bull shit jiski wajah se bacchey apna dimaag use he nahi kar paatey aur sirf pressure mai Aakar shaadi jaise badey decisions ley letey hai. I’m not saying all parents are wrong. But most of the Indian parents are! Love your parents and serve them but don’t be dominated by them. There’s a huge difference between respect and slavery. Parents like only those kids who listen to them. They want everything according to them. This is not love. It’s sheer control and dominance. Get out of it at the earliest. And in the future give space to your kids. Teach them to have their own mind not the parent’s dictated mind. Zyadatar parents ko logo ki padi rehti hai. Woh log jo aapko kabhi nahi poochtey but apna garbage aap par zaroor daaltey hai. Block such people from your life completely.
Lol this aint her first marriage. Even her mom doesnt support her..coz she lives in virtual world, not in real world. She vomits all her marriage life on RUclips..causing marital issues between them
So what, if you marry a wrong person, should you torture yourself for life? And Mr Misogynist, what about Rajeev having live in relationships for 7 years and broke up?
Indian society needs to educate themselves...we might be literate but not educated...how pathetic is this that a girl after marriage lost all friends and above all she lost her life...I am feeling so sad for her and wish her and her daughter all the best things in life..and may she get abundance of work, happiness and peace and the best life that she imagine for her and her daughter....kudos to her grit that she shown for 3.5 years...she deserves better
I think if she said that before marraige only she knws that there will be problems j issue in this marraige still she got marraige instead of being hvg one experience with her past marraige some where I feel she is hv experienced in marraige so that person can't take wrong decisions for nxt marraige may be just wanted to marry him for some reasons as she stated that she did first following Rajeev on insta started mssging him and doing friendship I don't think Rajeev is completely wrong bcz after marraige only in few days he started saying away from her running away from her there is something which we don't knw just someone is acting in front camera we can't guess that person is good
@@awesomeaugust4716but she did not know that he was a NARCISSIST ...A DEMON N A MONSTER. These men bully u n sweet talk u n she seems so innocent n. Such men are big CROOKS n they feed on us. He must hv showered her with fake promises. I am living with one such monster for the past 32 yrs. But my MIL was my frnd n I stuck in this much. But when I realised he's a narc ....its bn 12 yrs now that I stopped taking his BS N stopped letting fear control me n stopped crying n hv bcome a hard rock. My baby boy is 30 yrs. But I keep myself bzee with my pet birds n yes destress myself. I don't cage them as I leave them out in my balcony garden n the complete house is almost a jungle. But my man is very JEALOUS that I hv moved on in life. He liked keeping me STAGNATED but not any more. 👍☹️🙏🎉
अरे भाई, झगड़ा शुरू में कम हुआ होगा, नई नई शादी में सेक्स तो बहुत होता ही है, भारत में विशेषकर, क्योंकि यहां सेक्स उतना उपलब्ध नहीं होता शादी से पहले। तो सेक्स हुआ अधिक , तो बच्चा हो गया, इतनी सी बात है।
After listening to this, I am not at all getting good vibes from Rajeev Sen. I pray that NO Women/Men should have such a TOXIC partner... Very very sad :(
Siddharth Well done for making Charu comfortable , i m happy that you made her come on this show and make herself openly talk on show , Charu will be much stronger from now onwards.
Usually such interviews receive a lot of flak for oversharing on social media but not this one. Mainly because it is the sad reality of many women in this country who can either relate to it or have seen someone go through it. More power to you Charu!!
I was with a person exactly like Rajeev, fully self absorbed totally jealous of whatever good happened in my life. To the world he was a perfect person. I can understand the pain she's going through
@@dilkibatdiltak. nature or signature kabhi change nhi hote....life enjoy karne ke liye hoti hai agar samne wala nhi sudhar sakta to uske liye apani ye khubsurat life nhi kharab kar sakte.....but financially independent hona padega....to aap apani duniya khud ke dum pe khubsurat bana sakte ho
@@santoshpaswan9923 rajeev is only known as 'sushmita brother'. Seen him at an award with Charu, and he was so jealous when the host is speaking with her and not him . He is just a spoilt, rich mamma boy and has a high opinion of himself. This woman has a career and can move on and look after herself and her daughter without his drama, because without the drama, nobody knows or cares who rajeev sen is.
Such a beautiful !!!! woman - so articulate !!! The fact that she is still close to her in law family ,speaks volume about her goodwill in the family - She has allowed the family access to the child ,which is great and shows she is sensible -she would definitely go a long way
I feel so so so sorry for her. Seriously i do. She is very vulnerable and it breaks my heart to hear she doesn’t trust anyone anymore. Sending you lots of love and positivity ❤
It's very important for women to speak the truth about their own parents not supporting them for the simple reason that 'log kya kahenge'. Many women are suffering and continue to live with toxic husband because their own mother is worried about society. Kudos to you Charu for being so brave and mentioning that her mother did not support her. People often start judging that daughter is talking bad about her mother, but the truth has to be told. Our parents generation give more importance to society and ignore how her daughter will live with such toxicity throughout her life. They cannot understand that a woman can support herself and does not have to suffer through toxic spouses for financial reason like their generation did.
She needs to get back on her feet. She's still very young and beautiful. More power to her. This is an eye opener for many women who are suffering. Thank you SiddharthKannan👍
I remember Rajeev decided to quit RUclips cz he wasn't getting enough subscribers and blamed the audience for not subscribing. This shows how immature he is. Even if i don't want to pick sides Charu's description of Rajeev is the actual representation of his character.
Even after going thru so much, she is so respectful while addressing him and talking things related to him. Charu didn’t deserve this. Better days are coming.. more power to you Charu and Ziana.💖
being in a toxic relationship is the worst thing someone could do to oneself. we all are with you Charu. more power to you for coming out like this. this shall pass, stay strong and focus on yourself and your beautiful daughter. you will attain heights in whatever you do. May you have a beautiful life ahead.
How difficult is this.... Tht gurl is not lying at all.... Her eyes speaks louder than her words........... May God gives u alot of happiness, succes and peace of mind dear... This dua literally from my heart...... 💓
I always felt that, whenever I saw them together I felt it from bottom of my heart that , he is not in to this marriage and quite selfish too, whoever it is, live a happy life despite all the judge mental talks around you, we will support you , your a strong person, no matter what people will accuse women only, will be there , stay strong
Please again Don't Rush for Work...Heal yourself through Meditation...Else u will be in similar cycle there too .. Healing is really important to start our Life Fresh....Thanks to Sidhdharth for interviewing Honest people...
I am not saying she should not work right now ...but i am seeing far off which I too had experience in my life..Instead of seeing non stop sick life..let's Heal first which i feel one should do MUST
I guess she'll need the monies in order to get resources for healing as well. Therapy costs shitloads of money usually. I'm sure she'll come around to it, in time.
Wow, this interview has been such an eye-opener, and has all the hallmarks of Narcissistic abuse. I also have been through this and absolutely believe her in what she is saying. She has become a shell of herself. It will take time to recover from it, but leaving is the best thing that she can do for herself and her baby.
Always understood that Rajeev is a very selfish immature person. Now it's out in the open. Stay strong charu, and live a happy life ! Sometimes we just choose wrong partners for us. Choose a good one in the future and wish you have a good life ahead.
The REALITY! ☹️💔Ek insaan ki poori duniya khatam ho jaati hai jab maa baap politics kheltey aur dogley nikaltey hai. But this is the REALITY. It’s the harshest truth. If not all but most of the people have to face it. All parents are not supportive. Infact in most cases parents ki wajah se hi sabse zyada problems hoti hai baccho ko. Parents ki dakiyanoosi soch aur extreme control ke kaaran. Shaadi karo. Bacchey karo. Isi time par karo warna duniya khatam ho jaigi and all that bull shit jiski wajah se bacchey apna dimaag use he nahi kar paatey aur sirf pressure mai Aakar shaadi jaise badey decisions ley letey hai. I’m not saying all parents are wrong. But most of the Indian parents are! Love your parents and serve them but don’t be dominated by them. There’s a huge difference between respect and slavery. Parents like only those kids who listen to them. They want everything according to them. This is not love. It’s sheer control and dominance. Get out of it at the earliest. And in the future give space to your kids. Teach them to have their own mind not the parent’s dictated mind. Zyadatar parents ko logo ki padi rehti hai. Woh log jo aapko kabhi nahi poochtey but apna garbage aap par zaroor daaltey hai. Block such people from your life completely.
Absolutely correct one thing I wish to add though from personal experience . If you deserve better God will make sure that you don’t peacefully stay with someone who is not meant for you. Hence, this is a proof Charu deserves better and should not stay in this shitty marriage. I am sure when her daughter will come of age she would understand that this was the best decision.
I'm married to a narcissistic man too who has had similar disappearing patterns during conflicts...its been 23 years plus a set of ungrateful parents, but i have noticed that life has a way of straightening men like this out...good luck to this beautiful strong lady
High time even schools start teaching educating about Narcissistic relationship, the relationship between empath and Narcissistic person. This happens mainly when the empath child does not get emotional validation from parents , easily they become adults who fall in trap of toxic relationship.
@@dipsfoodfusion4127 The REALITY! ☹️💔Ek insaan ki poori duniya khatam ho jaati hai jab maa baap politics kheltey aur dogley nikaltey hai. But this is the REALITY. It’s the harshest truth. If not all but most of the people have to face it. All parents are not supportive. Infact in most cases parents ki wajah se hi sabse zyada problems hoti hai baccho ko. Parents ki dakiyanoosi soch aur extreme control ke kaaran. Shaadi karo. Bacchey karo. Isi time par karo warna duniya khatam ho jaigi and all that bull shit jiski wajah se bacchey apna dimaag use he nahi kar paatey aur sirf pressure mai Aakar shaadi jaise badey decisions ley letey hai. I’m not saying all parents are wrong. But most of the Indian parents are! Love your parents and serve them but don’t be dominated by them. There’s a huge difference between respect and slavery. Parents like only those kids who listen to them. They want everything according to them. This is not love. It’s sheer control and dominance. Get out of it at the earliest. And in the future give space to your kids. Teach them to have their own mind not the parent’s dictated mind. Zyadatar parents ko logo ki padi rehti hai. Woh log jo aapko kabhi nahi poochtey but apna garbage aap par zaroor daaltey hai. Block such people from your life completely.
I went through this same situation years back, but only difference was that my family was there to hold me and I was always working. Me and my husband had seperated when my daughter was 8 months old and he never looked back. I looked after my daughter since then and now she is a big girl doing her PhD in psychology. I am glad that I had come out of that toxic relationship then or else my daughter would have been an introvert living in a nutshell.
This interview felt like someone was saying things out of my life. Exact copy paste. Separated since 3.5 years. Tried to mend my broken marriage. Every fucking word is relatable. I feel you.
Same i thought its LOVE at first but later it turned into bitterness inside me. I wasted my precious early 20s to this little boy and wasted 4 years of my life. Now i am married the second time, at first some words and stuffs used to trigger me and i would react but now i have realised not every person is like that. I don't live in fear anymore. I can say anything to this person now. So much at peace now
Charu is good u have taken best decision in life. I am also in toxic relationship from past 10 years with 3 young kids,same from Rajasthan and lives in Mumbai...i can understand what you are going through.
And this is how women stand in the 21st century.... whether one is a celebrity or any ordinary person. We must stand up for ourselves. Kudos to you Charu. Hope you get lots of work and shows. God bless you and Ziana.
The comment section here is the proof that why people specially women think thrice before coming out of any kind of toxic relationship. She hasn't utter a single wrong word about her in laws. Infact she is upset with her own mom too. She isn't even asking for alimony, otherwise I'm hundred percent sure people would have abused her for this too. It's only and only about her husband. Who was clearly not there for her at any moment of life. There is not a single reason for what we should not empathise with her.
Yess true people bashed her by saying ab dekhna alimony mangni hai isliye divorce ka naatk kr rahi hai , people bashed her for everything she did even don't make vlogs they preached , tell me one thing who are you to teach her what she should do that too in worst situation where she only wants Lil peace in her life , you guys don't know stress is a slow killer we can't imagine her pain and her sufferings
The REALITY! ☹️💔Ek insaan ki poori duniya khatam ho jaati hai jab maa baap politics kheltey aur dogley nikaltey hai. But this is the REALITY. It’s the harshest truth. If not all but most of the people have to face it. All parents are not supportive. Infact in most cases parents ki wajah se hi sabse zyada problems hoti hai baccho ko. Parents ki dakiyanoosi soch aur extreme control ke kaaran. Shaadi karo. Bacchey karo. Isi time par karo warna duniya khatam ho jaigi and all that bull shit jiski wajah se bacchey apna dimaag use he nahi kar paatey aur sirf pressure mai Aakar shaadi jaise badey decisions ley letey hai. I’m not saying all parents are wrong. But most of the Indian parents are! Love your parents and serve them but don’t be dominated by them. There’s a huge difference between respect and slavery. Parents like only those kids who listen to them. They want everything according to them. This is not love. It’s sheer control and dominance. Get out of it at the earliest. And in the future give space to your kids. Teach them to have their own mind not the parent’s dictated mind. Zyadatar parents ko logo ki padi rehti hai. Woh log jo aapko kabhi nahi poochtey but apna garbage aap par zaroor daaltey hai. Block such people from your life completely.
Whatever people say, if not alimony but maintainance of the child is Ziana's legal right. I wish she hire some good lawyer who can clearly tell her legal rights in such case.
Charu be strong sweetheart. I can’t bear to see u crying. Sidarth is like an Angel. Happy that you had interview with you. Take care n god bless u. Love from Goa
The mental and emotional scar that a toxic relationship can leave on a person is indescribable. You will find your peace, you are a fighter. More power, love, and blessings for you and little Ziana❤
I have commented on one of Charu's vlogs when she decided to divorce the first time, that I feel Rajeev is a narcissist and she needs to throw him out of her life. But then couple months back I heard that they are getting back. I knew from inside that this is not going to work, but just prayed that somehow this works. Charu is a smart girl, she is ready to end this ordeal in 3 and half years......I was not as smart as her....I took 15 years to end my ordeal with a narcissist! Narcissists are very manipulative, very sweet and well behaved in outside world and that's how they control you and prove you as a wrong doer. What Charu went through while doing back and forth on her decision is a classic battered woman's syndrome. But Charu, if you are reading this then let me tell you one thing, no matter how bleak and hopeless life feels now, this too shall pass! You WILL be able to live a fulfilling and peaceful life. Just don't lose strength. After few years when you look behind, you will be extremely proud of yourself. I am in the USA and went through this ordeal all alone. Had to go through a nasty Divorce and child custody battle all alone. But today, I am very proud of myself and my daughters. Finally there is peace in life. I will pray to the God to give you strength 🙏
Thanks Siddharth for this Interview, It is really needed. Now everyone knows why charu has taken this decision even after Ziana. Everyone got answer to all the question . Now we can understand how charu suffer it and most important if trust is not there then there is no point to be together. Charu has taken the right decision, she need to move on for her own and Ziana happiness.
You aren’t a joke! You are an example of a strong woman. Good you have given so much time, so that never in ur life will u regret this big decision. May God keep ur daughter with you for ever and keep you both happy…Always!!!
Charu still loves her husband so much which is reflecting in her innocent eyes .... I can feel, what she is going through ....After marriage, her first priority was her husband, and she ignored her friend ,family and career too, to make her husband happy ..But rajeev did not try to feel her deepest love for him.She don't want to leave his husband even now ...but she does not has any other option left because of her husband behaviour and people criticism .....
Dear charu Ma'am.. you are not national joke.. you are a very strong girl. I hate keep on listening on any seperation that women do it for alimony even when the girl do every thing to make the relationship work..girls don't want money they want RESPECT HAPPINESS LOVE.I hope pray and wish nobody has to go through this situation..
That girl is not lying, the truth and the lie can be detected by the eyes.... your body language tells the truth and lie...And Charu is absolutely telling the truth here...One who suffers, can only understand...god bless you charu...
He doesn't really believe you were having an affair, he was just strawmanning you with false allegations to scare you into isolation by the threat of character assassination. Character assassination is very distressing for people and just to avoid that distress they give in to their abuser's demand. He wanted to make it hard for you to work with people, to have healthy friendships and opportunities that would have diverse teams with men and women working together, he wanted you to be as emotionally, socially, financially dependent on him through strategic isolation where he can treat you however he wants and get away with it as you can't leave immediately to feel powerful. If you do become dependent on him he'll accuse you of being a gold-digger, threaten to not support you or threaten to walk away just to play with you. For him control you is a game. This way or that way he would continue to abuse you.
It is so embarrassing when you're associated with every other person you work with or interact with. He was such a sick person. I wish you healing and good health, Charu.
Only the people who went this can understand- whether men or women . I have been in toxic relationship for 4 years putting negative impacts like weight gain , losing touch with my own family, not making friends and no motivation to do anything, depression and anxiety. I am very grateful to come out of such a bad relationship. Charu, you will come out of this stronger and trust me it will be the the best feeling in the world . I wish you all the strength and love ❤
The same thing is happening with me right now.. I am in deep dark depression.. I don’t know how to get out of this relationship with my husband as I have one autistic child .. I don’t have enough courage to get out and I am not financially stable.....right now I am in depression and anxiety, insomnia, emotional eating disorder, weight gain.😢😢
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Hats off to Charu. She has maintained her dignity. This is what a strong woman looks like.
you are not a national joke .you are a strong women .we all proud of u
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@Vir Ptael yooo women power 🥰
@Arpita Sen rajeev ab blames lgaega fltu k
Yes u r very strong😊😊😊
yes Agree 👍
The host is so empathetic and kind. Asking all the questions in such respectful manner while making her feel comfortable and validating her vulnerability. She must have felt better after this conversation.
Well said
Correct
Yes......Siddharth is very well mannered man!!!
Well done Siddharth
@@amitjain3216 where is the proof?????? What if Rajeev have affair with Susan khan or Jennifer or Rashmi or any xyz divorced lady. Pointing out others is the easiest way to escape from marriage and responsibilities specially after birth of child.u can easily see her pain and suffering and tears still doubting????u can doubt anyone but can't blame without proofs and evidence
She exudes truth. I can confidently say she isn’t lying from the way she answered every question so sincerely
He is seriously toxic..Stay strong Charu.. Thank you Sid for interviewing her.
His toxic and very dangerous under #nepotism that #Kutta , #CharuAsoph
Please DO NOT go on big boss , it will prove very very negative for u , I’m just trying to find a way to protect u ,
I don't Know who is right or wrong n what is right or wrong I wish she move on with her life n
how are you so sure he is toxic? I find HER toxic. Uski apni ma ne apne damaad ka saath diya hai
One request to all charu asopa RUclips channel viewers please don't do bad comments......she is in pain right now understand her situation and by seeing Rajeev he is very arrogant bcz he has money thats why....
Yes you are right
The REALITY! ☹️💔Ek insaan ki poori duniya khatam ho jaati hai jab maa baap politics kheltey aur dogley nikaltey hai. But this is the REALITY. It’s the harshest truth. If not all but most of the people have to face it. All parents are not supportive. Infact in most cases parents ki wajah se hi sabse zyada problems hoti hai baccho ko. Parents ki dakiyanoosi soch aur extreme control ke kaaran. Shaadi karo. Bacchey karo. Isi time par karo warna duniya khatam ho jaigi and all that bull shit jiski wajah se bacchey apna dimaag use he nahi kar paatey aur sirf pressure mai Aakar shaadi jaise badey decisions ley letey hai. I’m not saying all parents are wrong. But most of the Indian parents are! Love your parents and serve them but don’t be dominated by them. There’s a huge difference between respect and slavery. Parents like only those kids who listen to them. They want everything according to them. This is not love. It’s sheer control and dominance. Get out of it at the earliest. And in the future give space to your kids. Teach them to have their own mind not the parent’s dictated mind. Zyadatar parents ko logo ki padi rehti hai. Woh log jo aapko kabhi nahi poochtey but apna garbage aap par zaroor daaltey hai. Block such people from your life completely.
Yes, right
Right yrrr me toh Rajeev ke post pr hi karti ti galat kyunki chipku lagta ta bhaut starting se hi
Right 👍 Bina samjhe charu ko kuch bhi bol dete hai
I've always respected Sushmita Sen and now my respect for her has doubled. She isn't taking her brother's side or her sis-in-law's side. But she gave a wise advice to her sis-in-law: DO WHAT MAKES YOU HAPPY. Such a great woman! And my heart goes out to Asopa. She is stronger than she thinks. I hope she finds the peace and happiness that she so deserves.
Right agree .... she is a sensible woman and thats proven
@@april110 bbjjbvv vv
Sushmita Sen is my inspiration. She is my favourite. Her personality is very strong and i love her when she speak so beautifully.
In many interviews I saw you in comedy mood Siddharth but with this interview I knew that you are a sensible and kind hearted person too
What’s commendable are the comments with so much positivity and empathy for what Charu had gone thru. This is an indication of changing society perhaps a “New India”
The best thing about charu is "Still she is not blaming her in-laws bcoz of the behavior of Rajeev" is incredible. She didn't use any bad word about them and still saying they were very nice towards her. Hats of you Charu 😊....Be strong, you are truly an inspiration for standing yourself
Why does she need to blame in laws for his behaviour ?
@@Lima3578user Bcoz still there are some people who blames their in-laws also if they have bad equation with their partner....But she is not doing that bad things. She is not using bad words or disrespecting her in-laws bcoz of Rajeev.
Absolutely 💐🙏💐
She is using this platform to project herself as good like most women do. Girls like you will always support her because of toxic sisterhood sought by feminism. Always taking women's side.
When inlaws are really nice no DIL will blame in laws.. when inlaws influence the husband negatively and instigate him, only then DIL will blame inlaws.. sen family seems very sensible.. just the fact that they advised charu to do what makes her happy tells a lot.👏🏽
No charu u r not a national joke..there are so many of us like u..u r not alone in this journey..move on gal and it's not about surviving it's about living it to the fullest with ziana..loads of love
ऐसे लोगों के लिए दुखी नहीं होना चाहिए जिंदगी बहुत खूबसूरत है आप बहुत हिम्मत वाली हो आगे बढ़ो
Hats off to this girl it's not easy to talk about your marital life on camera and especially in the phase she is going through and without complaining about her in-laws that's the biggest part... More strength and power to her
No matter how modern or educated our society becomes the level of mental and physical torture a woman has to go through in marriage is never ending.
True yrrr
Same
Sadly its true
That's the biggest scariest thing
Galti saree ye ham girls share ni kar parents sai Bhai sai because of fucking so called society maa baap ko samjna chaiye na ki agar koi ladka disrespect karta so apne beti ko nikalo iss marriage it's become painfull for a women
She is bloody honest …brave girl,don’t cry time to get up,u r strong girl charu…….get divorce move on ,life is much beautiful then what u have gone through,lots of power to u….
Much needed interview. Mein inko sirf Shushmita Sen ki wajah se janti thi. Mujhe lagta tha ke ye just unka name and fame use krne ke liye family ki member bani. But aaj ye interview dekhne ke baad inki respect mere dil mein aur badh gayi hai. Aapne jo bhi apni shadi ke 3 saal jhela hai aur usse aap bahar ayi hai. Ye bahut hi kabile tarif hai aisa krne ke liye bahut himmat ki zarurat padti hai. Log apni puri zindagi aise insaan ke saath kaat dete hai aur apne liye kuch bhi nhi kar pate hai. Apne bacho ke bare mein bhi soch nahi pate. Aur hum as a audience ya fan hum bhi smjhte hai kon sahi ya galat. Mein bhagwan se prathana krungi ke aap apni beti ko wo sab kuch de paayein jo aap dena chahti hai. Apko bahut sara kaam mile. Khoob naam roshan karo. Dher sara pyar apko aur apki beti ko ❤
Siddharth has taken the interview so well. Wish Charu gets strength, success in her life. Happiness in life.
It's so scary. I feel for her. Charu please don't give up. Make a plan and execute it. And you're doing right. You should first look after a job. Collab with famous youtubers to enhance your reach. Make connections. Make money and just do whatever you want. Maintain healthy distance with Rajiv. You should just keep this in mind before starting anything that tumhe us gali vapis jana hi nhi hai
Please do it Charu ..all the best ! ❤
Yess...
I'm sure she will be at peace now. Siddharth certainly did a great thing, by hearing her out and giving her a opportunity to speak.
More power to you Charu. You are not a national joke. You have shown strength. Nation admires you for that and your daughter would be proud to have courageous mom. Journey might not be easy but the lord who has stood by you all the times will be there always. Stay Strong Girl!!!!!
I love it how charu has sooo much respect for her in laws
Nobody knew Rajeev Sen before he married Charu. He is often addressed as Charu Asopa's husband that's why he was so insecure .
He is mostly known as Sushmita's brother
Agree...either charus husband or sushmitas brother no identity of himself
Point hai
but behaves as if kitna bada celebrity hai.
Usko yhi problem hai, pehle sushmita aur ab Charu
After listening to charu i can strongly feel her..... I don't have words to describe her pain... But as a woman do move forward with your daughter... N be strong..... don't ever look bk.... The kind of person will never ever change....
Yaar i just love this lady ...kitni smjhdar hain ...aise toxic people se door he rahna axa hota hai.....
How strong she is!!! Literally hats off to her!!! She had faced a lot of trauma in her pregnancy... which is a toughest stage itself....such a monster Rajeev is!! & I am shocked that her own mother didn't support her like seriously...MAA bhi aisi hoti hn ky??...After watching her like this I am scared of marriage... Wishing her more power to handle everything...May ShriKrishna help her always 😔🌸 🙏...
It's not that her mom doesn't love her...but she is of old generation & that's have been taught to women since ages. Even our parents are like that always worrying about society. It's their stupid conditioning done by society.
@@maddy-nc9gb No way....She should be upgrade herself according to generation....our Mummas are also from old generation....I have shown this vdo to my mother...& she was like how can her mother did it... Generation gap is ok...but when your own child is in trouble then you have to upgrade ,,He/she needs you .. Society ka kya hai...wo kabhi chup nahi hogi....but ab saare age ke parents ko ye smjhna hoga ki aapke bchhe ki khushi jyda important h...
Real mother ajkal sath ni deti. Its a bitter truth. Meri frd n sister ki mother ne usko shadi k bad kabi support ni kya
Meri bhi maa aisi hi h real mother
@@maddy-nc9gb hr koi maa baap k liye isliye ni marta they r monster for me also
This is a classic case of narcissism ...silent treatment, avoiding the problem, running away from the situation, overreacting, and finding faults in every other person than themselves. Poor Charu...she is the victim of narcissism and it takes a lot of courage to get out of this.
Also, such narcissistic people use the other person's past to hurt them ...first, they try to make it look like oh...we are so proud of u n make u feel happy...then they drain u n make you starve for their attention... They use the past to justify their actions and the victim feels so helpless because they are guilt-tripping all the time.
My friend is a victim of this.
Exactly..
You don't need to say 'Poor', it was destiny that to happen and it will teach her many things in life in a city like Mumbai. To be independent n making herself stronger. Coming from a small city like Jaipur.
I agree wid u totally
Aur aise log(achhe)bewakoof kehlate hain jabki they get into the trap for years being hopeful and loving and don't realize it
The interviewer is so sympathetic and understanding..glad to know that she is not a gold digger as some toxic people always commented..prayers for her healing
Proud of you for taking a decision for your daughter and not getting bogged down by society
She is innocent but she get trapped by situation
Hope she gets best in future
Earlier I wanted them to be together but after watching this I can say Charu is doing right..no body can live with a person like him..there is insecurity, ambiguity..you go girl..more power to you🙌🙌
Rajiv is clearly seen as egostic person. Many such men I have seen so I imagine his nature
Thank you Siddharth sir for her interview...I am feeling that in the upcoming years she will become an inspiration for a lot of women.....
She is speaking truth, and all those who went through this can understand her pain. The truth that's in her eyes is the story. One who has lived with a narcissistic personality can only understand her pain.
The Most Honest & best interview ....
seriously after watching this interview I have respect for her & the interviewer......... No illogical question being asked.......
She is an honest lady. Stay strong girl 💪
Financial independence is always the first thing we as women must teach ourselves! ❤ More and more strength to this lady❤
Agree
Absolutely right
Very very imp
Very True. And each women should be. God Bless you
Couldn't agree more!!
You are not a joke. You are an inspiration for many women.
Charu is such a honest and brave girl. I wish she gets lots of happiness and lots of success. Charu do not go back to this sick man. Just take care of yourself and your daughter and trust you will not regret your decision. God bless you dear.
Very good that she has come out in the open, else people assume things! This will give more power to other women to speak up, it's normal!
The REALITY! ☹️💔Ek insaan ki poori duniya khatam ho jaati hai jab maa baap politics kheltey aur dogley nikaltey hai. But this is the REALITY. It’s the harshest truth. If not all but most of the people have to face it. All parents are not supportive. Infact in most cases parents ki wajah se hi sabse zyada problems hoti hai baccho ko. Parents ki dakiyanoosi soch aur extreme control ke kaaran. Shaadi karo. Bacchey karo. Isi time par karo warna duniya khatam ho jaigi and all that bull shit jiski wajah se bacchey apna dimaag use he nahi kar paatey aur sirf pressure mai Aakar shaadi jaise badey decisions ley letey hai. I’m not saying all parents are wrong. But most of the Indian parents are! Love your parents and serve them but don’t be dominated by them. There’s a huge difference between respect and slavery. Parents like only those kids who listen to them. They want everything according to them. This is not love. It’s sheer control and dominance. Get out of it at the earliest. And in the future give space to your kids. Teach them to have their own mind not the parent’s dictated mind. Zyadatar parents ko logo ki padi rehti hai. Woh log jo aapko kabhi nahi poochtey but apna garbage aap par zaroor daaltey hai. Block such people from your life completely.
Lol this aint her first marriage. Even her mom doesnt support her..coz she lives in virtual world, not in real world. She vomits all her marriage life on RUclips..causing marital issues between them
And she herself accuses him of cheating and nonsense allegations
So what, if you marry a wrong person, should you torture yourself for life? And Mr Misogynist, what about Rajeev having live in relationships for 7 years and broke up?
@@AmitGupta-bu4ph men and gossipers like you exploit women by saying that iski to kitni baar shadi hui h
Interview ending was so rightly done. She would definitely be proud of herself down the line ❤️❤️ huge respect 🙏🙏
Being a girl I can feel the pain, her tears are telling truth. This is harsh reality of Indian society, judgemental all the times.
Just Bcoz she cried u came to the conclusion
Indian society needs to educate themselves...we might be literate but not educated...how pathetic is this that a girl after marriage lost all friends and above all she lost her life...I am feeling so sad for her and wish her and her daughter all the best things in life..and may she get abundance of work, happiness and peace and the best life that she imagine for her and her daughter....kudos to her grit that she shown for 3.5 years...she deserves better
@@punittiwari212 u need a psychiatrist..trust me...
I think if she said that before marraige only she knws that there will be problems j issue in this marraige still she got marraige instead of being hvg one experience with her past marraige some where I feel she is hv experienced in marraige so that person can't take wrong decisions for nxt marraige may be just wanted to marry him for some reasons as she stated that she did first following Rajeev on insta started mssging him and doing friendship I don't think Rajeev is completely wrong bcz after marraige only in few days he started saying away from her running away from her there is something which we don't knw just someone is acting in front camera we can't guess that person is good
@@punittiwari212 no, we will believe her after she gets depressed and kill her own daughter or kill herself ..u want that??
The worst is ...they had issues from second day of their marriage, and yet they bring a child into the world!
That is the biggest and a very common step or should I say mistake..they take ..and the responsibility falls on the women.
@@awesomeaugust4716but she did not know that he was a NARCISSIST ...A DEMON N A MONSTER. These men bully u n sweet talk u n she seems so innocent n. Such men are big CROOKS n they feed on us. He must hv showered her with fake promises.
I am living with one such monster for the past 32 yrs. But my MIL was my frnd n I stuck in this much. But when I realised he's a narc ....its bn 12 yrs now that I stopped taking his BS N stopped letting fear control me n stopped crying n hv bcome a hard rock. My baby boy is 30 yrs. But I keep myself bzee with my pet birds n yes destress myself. I don't cage them as I leave them out in my balcony garden n the complete house is almost a jungle. But my man is very JEALOUS that I hv moved on in life. He liked keeping me STAGNATED but not any more. 👍☹️🙏🎉
@@awesomeaugust4716exactly 😢
अरे भाई, झगड़ा शुरू में कम हुआ होगा, नई नई शादी में सेक्स तो बहुत होता ही है, भारत में विशेषकर, क्योंकि यहां सेक्स उतना उपलब्ध नहीं होता शादी से पहले। तो सेक्स हुआ अधिक , तो बच्चा हो गया, इतनी सी बात है।
After listening to this, I am not at all getting good vibes from Rajeev Sen. I pray that NO Women/Men should have such a TOXIC partner... Very very sad :(
Hello!Everyone..Thankyou for watching
Siddharth Well done for making Charu comfortable , i m happy that you made her come on this show and make herself openly talk on show , Charu will be much stronger from now onwards.
Thanks for giving her a chance to speak. Atleast she got peace upto some extend that no one but you listened to her.
Thanks for making clarification on this very high-lighted topic..
All the Best 👍 have a Peaceful life ahead ✨ Charu and even Mr. SEN as well 🙏
Thank you so much siddharth
Help her dude
Her continous tears are explaining that she wants to cry loudly
She wants to express her loneliness
God gives her lots and lots of strength❤❤
Usually such interviews receive a lot of flak for oversharing on social media but not this one. Mainly because it is the sad reality of many women in this country who can either relate to it or have seen someone go through it. More power to you Charu!!
I was with a person exactly like Rajeev, fully self absorbed totally jealous of whatever good happened in my life. To the world he was a perfect person. I can understand the pain she's going through
😒❤️
True 👍
Yar exactly i am also facing... dont understand how to deal with it... i am getting in depression..
@@dilkibatdiltak. nature or signature kabhi change nhi hote....life enjoy karne ke liye hoti hai agar samne wala nhi sudhar sakta to uske liye apani ye khubsurat life nhi kharab kar sakte.....but financially independent hona padega....to aap apani duniya khud ke dum pe khubsurat bana sakte ho
I am going through the same, it took me 7 years to learn to wade through n stand on own with no support around
I have never before seen this man's interviews before but I must say he is amazing, so respectful and so well spoken! Hope his channel grows every day
Yes exactly 😃😊
Ek no. Ka chamcha hai Bollywood ka.
The way she is talking, seems like she is genuine
She is real.....
She is not telling right i think
@@santoshpaswan9923 rajeev is only known as 'sushmita brother'. Seen him at an award with Charu, and he was so jealous when the host is speaking with her and not him . He is just a spoilt, rich mamma boy and has a high opinion of himself. This woman has a career and can move on and look after herself and her daughter without his drama, because without the drama, nobody knows or cares who rajeev sen is.
Such a beautiful !!!! woman - so articulate !!! The fact that she is still close to her in law family ,speaks volume about her goodwill in the family - She has allowed the family access to the child ,which is great and shows she is sensible -she would definitely go a long way
I feel so so so sorry for her. Seriously i do. She is very vulnerable and it breaks my heart to hear she doesn’t trust anyone anymore. Sending you lots of love and positivity ❤
Oh God…… I cried like hell for her.. Be strong Charu. You are n Inspiration ❤
It's very important for women to speak the truth about their own parents not supporting them for the simple reason that 'log kya kahenge'. Many women are suffering and continue to live with toxic husband because their own mother is worried about society. Kudos to you Charu for being so brave and mentioning that her mother did not support her. People often start judging that daughter is talking bad about her mother, but the truth has to be told. Our parents generation give more importance to society and ignore how her daughter will live with such toxicity throughout her life. They cannot understand that a woman can support herself and does not have to suffer through toxic spouses for financial reason like their generation did.
Be strong dear
True...sad truth of our society.
She needs to get back on her feet. She's still very young and beautiful. More power to her. This is an eye opener for many women who are suffering. Thank you SiddharthKannan👍
Again a beautiful women shattered into pieces. God bless you di , become the best version of yourself again.
I remember Rajeev decided to quit RUclips cz he wasn't getting enough subscribers and blamed the audience for not subscribing. This shows how immature he is. Even if i don't want to pick sides Charu's description of Rajeev is the actual representation of his character.
Yes you are right and i found him very rude at that time .
Yes exactly
Ab to sayad Rajeev ka channel sach me bnd ho jaye😂😂
She sd take a firm decision and leave him for good
Very valid point
Even after going thru so much, she is so respectful while addressing him and talking things related to him. Charu didn’t deserve this. Better days are coming.. more power to you Charu and Ziana.💖
So good to see Siddharth handling this interview with so much grace. Unlike his usual funny banter and jokes. Kudos
being in a toxic relationship is the worst thing someone could do to oneself. we all are with you Charu. more power to you for coming out like this. this shall pass, stay strong and focus on yourself and your beautiful daughter. you will attain heights in whatever you do. May you have a beautiful life ahead.
Emotional randi. Use your brain that God has given you.
How difficult is this.... Tht gurl is not lying at all.... Her eyes speaks louder than her words........... May God gives u alot of happiness, succes and peace of mind dear... This dua literally from my heart...... 💓
That's why sushmita is a miss universe in real meanings 👌👏..has a beautiful thinking n mind 👏"Do what makes u happy".. great n sensible women 👏👏
Siddharth ...you are such a gold person...so kind to Charu..if possible please support her without telling the world...
I always felt that, whenever I saw them together I felt it from bottom of my heart that , he is not in to this marriage and quite selfish too, whoever it is, live a happy life despite all the judge mental talks around you, we will support you , your a strong person, no matter what people will accuse women only, will be there , stay strong
Please again Don't Rush for Work...Heal yourself through Meditation...Else u will be in similar cycle there too .. Healing is really important to start our Life Fresh....Thanks to Sidhdharth for interviewing Honest people...
It's her need she is not doing willingly but she has that insecurity of wasting time ..She wants to start work asap
she has a daughter now, but i get your point. she should focus on herself, her career and her daughter.
I am not saying she should not work right now ...but i am seeing far off which I too had experience in my life..Instead of seeing non stop sick life..let's Heal first which i feel one should do MUST
I guess she'll need the monies in order to get resources for healing as well. Therapy costs shitloads of money usually. I'm sure she'll come around to it, in time.
Wow, this interview has been such an eye-opener, and has all the hallmarks of Narcissistic abuse. I also have been through this and absolutely believe her in what she is saying. She has become a shell of herself. It will take time to recover from it, but leaving is the best thing that she can do for herself and her baby.
What an amazing eye opener! All proofs presented..!
A cry baby, a one sided story and a pack of feminist flag bearers.
Omg this is so sad…. 😒😒
Yes she is a liar. Husband ne aakar pol khol di hoti tab samjh aata
I can feel the genuine pain in her voice.💔
Always understood that Rajeev is a very selfish immature person. Now it's out in the open. Stay strong charu, and live a happy life ! Sometimes we just choose wrong partners for us. Choose a good one in the future and wish you have a good life ahead.
The REALITY! ☹️💔Ek insaan ki poori duniya khatam ho jaati hai jab maa baap politics kheltey aur dogley nikaltey hai. But this is the REALITY. It’s the harshest truth. If not all but most of the people have to face it. All parents are not supportive. Infact in most cases parents ki wajah se hi sabse zyada problems hoti hai baccho ko. Parents ki dakiyanoosi soch aur extreme control ke kaaran. Shaadi karo. Bacchey karo. Isi time par karo warna duniya khatam ho jaigi and all that bull shit jiski wajah se bacchey apna dimaag use he nahi kar paatey aur sirf pressure mai Aakar shaadi jaise badey decisions ley letey hai. I’m not saying all parents are wrong. But most of the Indian parents are! Love your parents and serve them but don’t be dominated by them. There’s a huge difference between respect and slavery. Parents like only those kids who listen to them. They want everything according to them. This is not love. It’s sheer control and dominance. Get out of it at the earliest. And in the future give space to your kids. Teach them to have their own mind not the parent’s dictated mind. Zyadatar parents ko logo ki padi rehti hai. Woh log jo aapko kabhi nahi poochtey but apna garbage aap par zaroor daaltey hai. Block such people from your life completely.
Well said 💗
Rightly said. Even I could sense that.
Absolutely correct one thing I wish to add though from personal experience . If you deserve better God will make sure that you don’t peacefully stay with someone who is not meant for you. Hence, this is a proof Charu deserves better and should not stay in this shitty marriage. I am sure when her daughter will come of age she would understand that this was the best decision.
@@RatulaA Indeed
I'm married to a narcissistic man too who has had similar disappearing patterns during conflicts...its been 23 years plus a set of ungrateful parents, but i have noticed that life has a way of straightening men like this out...good luck to this beautiful strong lady
High time even schools start teaching educating about Narcissistic relationship, the relationship between empath and Narcissistic person. This happens mainly when the empath child does not get emotional validation from parents , easily they become adults who fall in trap of toxic relationship.
Im one such oerson..im suffering from years..i m in depression.i dont even have money to move on and stay separately
@@dipsfoodfusion4127 The REALITY! ☹️💔Ek insaan ki poori duniya khatam ho jaati hai jab maa baap politics kheltey aur dogley nikaltey hai. But this is the REALITY. It’s the harshest truth. If not all but most of the people have to face it. All parents are not supportive. Infact in most cases parents ki wajah se hi sabse zyada problems hoti hai baccho ko. Parents ki dakiyanoosi soch aur extreme control ke kaaran. Shaadi karo. Bacchey karo. Isi time par karo warna duniya khatam ho jaigi and all that bull shit jiski wajah se bacchey apna dimaag use he nahi kar paatey aur sirf pressure mai Aakar shaadi jaise badey decisions ley letey hai. I’m not saying all parents are wrong. But most of the Indian parents are! Love your parents and serve them but don’t be dominated by them. There’s a huge difference between respect and slavery. Parents like only those kids who listen to them. They want everything according to them. This is not love. It’s sheer control and dominance. Get out of it at the earliest. And in the future give space to your kids. Teach them to have their own mind not the parent’s dictated mind. Zyadatar parents ko logo ki padi rehti hai. Woh log jo aapko kabhi nahi poochtey but apna garbage aap par zaroor daaltey hai. Block such people from your life completely.
Listening about her husband think he is a narcissist
Very very well said...Rajeev is a narcissist for sure.
You've articulated it so well.
I went through this same situation years back, but only difference was that my family was there to hold me and I was always working. Me and my husband had seperated when my daughter was 8 months old and he never looked back.
I looked after my daughter since then and now she is a big girl doing her PhD in psychology.
I am glad that I had come out of that toxic relationship then or else my daughter would have been an introvert living in a nutshell.
What a brave lady u r
@@anujdimple 😊
Proud of you. 👍
@@mayakgnair 😊🙏
Hats off to u.U r really an inspiration
She is telling the truth
So calm and composed interview
May God give Charu and Her Daughter all happiness and peace
This interview felt like someone was saying things out of my life. Exact copy paste. Separated since 3.5 years. Tried to mend my broken marriage. Every fucking word is relatable. I feel you.
More strength and power to you girl🤜🏻🤛🏻
Exactly relatable for me too
Hugs
Same i thought its LOVE at first but later it turned into bitterness inside me. I wasted my precious early 20s to this little boy and wasted 4 years of my life.
Now i am married the second time, at first some words and stuffs used to trigger me and i would react but now i have realised not every person is like that. I don't live in fear anymore. I can say anything to this person now. So much at peace now
Every victim of narcissistic abuse will relate to this
Charu is good u have taken best decision in life. I am also in toxic relationship from past 10 years with 3 young kids,same from Rajasthan and lives in Mumbai...i can understand what you are going through.
And this is how women stand in the 21st century.... whether one is a celebrity or any ordinary person. We must stand up for ourselves. Kudos to you Charu. Hope you get lots of work and shows. God bless you and Ziana.
Damn true
I totally understand what you are going through!! Pls take care of yourself and your daughter....more power and love to you and Ziana!!
The comment section here is the proof that why people specially women think thrice before coming out of any kind of toxic relationship. She hasn't utter a single wrong word about her in laws. Infact she is upset with her own mom too. She isn't even asking for alimony, otherwise I'm hundred percent sure people would have abused her for this too. It's only and only about her husband. Who was clearly not there for her at any moment of life. There is not a single reason for what we should not empathise with her.
Yess true people bashed her by saying ab dekhna alimony mangni hai isliye divorce ka naatk kr rahi hai , people bashed her for everything she did even don't make vlogs they preached , tell me one thing who are you to teach her what she should do that too in worst situation where she only wants Lil peace in her life , you guys don't know stress is a slow killer we can't imagine her pain and her sufferings
The REALITY! ☹️💔Ek insaan ki poori duniya khatam ho jaati hai jab maa baap politics kheltey aur dogley nikaltey hai. But this is the REALITY. It’s the harshest truth. If not all but most of the people have to face it. All parents are not supportive. Infact in most cases parents ki wajah se hi sabse zyada problems hoti hai baccho ko. Parents ki dakiyanoosi soch aur extreme control ke kaaran. Shaadi karo. Bacchey karo. Isi time par karo warna duniya khatam ho jaigi and all that bull shit jiski wajah se bacchey apna dimaag use he nahi kar paatey aur sirf pressure mai Aakar shaadi jaise badey decisions ley letey hai. I’m not saying all parents are wrong. But most of the Indian parents are! Love your parents and serve them but don’t be dominated by them. There’s a huge difference between respect and slavery. Parents like only those kids who listen to them. They want everything according to them. This is not love. It’s sheer control and dominance. Get out of it at the earliest. And in the future give space to your kids. Teach them to have their own mind not the parent’s dictated mind. Zyadatar parents ko logo ki padi rehti hai. Woh log jo aapko kabhi nahi poochtey but apna garbage aap par zaroor daaltey hai. Block such people from your life completely.
Whatever people say, if not alimony but maintainance of the child is Ziana's legal right. I wish she hire some good lawyer who can clearly tell her legal rights in such case.
Ekdum Dil ki baat kahin apne
Though I think she should ask for alimony. Why should a woman take up the responsibility alone? He’ll go Scot free because he is a irresponsible
Meri maa b aisi he hai par khuda ka shukar hai mere shohar alhumdulillah bahot acche hai
Being a girl I can feel her pain she isn't fake plz plz don't abuse her emotions are not fake
Host is a very humble man. Carrying out conversations like this with unknown person is very tough! Specially when they are public figure.
Charu be strong sweetheart. I can’t bear to see u crying. Sidarth is like an Angel. Happy that you had interview with you. Take care n god bless u. Love from Goa
The mental and emotional scar that a toxic relationship can leave on a person is indescribable. You will find your peace, you are a fighter.
More power, love, and blessings for you and little Ziana❤
Thank you for respectfully interviewing her and giving her a platform to tell the world Charu’s termoil.
I have commented on one of Charu's vlogs when she decided to divorce the first time, that I feel Rajeev is a narcissist and she needs to throw him out of her life. But then couple months back I heard that they are getting back. I knew from inside that this is not going to work, but just prayed that somehow this works. Charu is a smart girl, she is ready to end this ordeal in 3 and half years......I was not as smart as her....I took 15 years to end my ordeal with a narcissist! Narcissists are very manipulative, very sweet and well behaved in outside world and that's how they control you and prove you as a wrong doer. What Charu went through while doing back and forth on her decision is a classic battered woman's syndrome. But Charu, if you are reading this then let me tell you one thing, no matter how bleak and hopeless life feels now, this too shall pass! You WILL be able to live a fulfilling and peaceful life. Just don't lose strength. After few years when you look behind, you will be extremely proud of yourself. I am in the USA and went through this ordeal all alone. Had to go through a nasty Divorce and child custody battle all alone. But today, I am very proud of myself and my daughters. Finally there is peace in life. I will pray to the God to give you strength 🙏
Thanks Siddharth for this Interview, It is really needed. Now everyone knows why charu has taken this decision even after Ziana. Everyone got answer to all the question . Now we can understand how charu suffer it and most important if trust is not there then there is no point to be together. Charu has taken the right decision, she need to move on for her own and Ziana happiness.
You aren’t a joke! You are an example of a strong woman. Good you have given so much time, so that never in ur life will u regret this big decision. May God keep ur daughter with you for ever and keep you both happy…Always!!!
We are with you charu move on❤️
Charu we are with you. We will always support you.. You don't scared of anyone
Why is my gut feeling saying that she is so sweet simple and true.
Charu You are Strong.
And stay Strong.
You are my Hero.
I can completely feel you, Charu
Be strong please 😢😢😢
The host is so respectful ! Kudos to you.
And wishing charu all the strength, power and love.
Charu still loves her husband so much which is reflecting in her innocent eyes .... I can feel, what she is going through ....After marriage, her first priority was her husband, and she ignored her friend ,family and career too, to make her husband happy ..But rajeev did not try to feel her deepest love for him.She don't want to leave his husband even now ...but she does not has any other option left because of her husband behaviour and people criticism .....
in a relationship always women's suffering 🥺 society only blaming women for separation 🥺💔 stay strong Charu 🥺
Dear charu Ma'am.. you are not national joke.. you are a very strong girl.
I hate keep on listening on any seperation that women do it for alimony even when the girl do every thing to make the relationship work..girls don't want money they want RESPECT HAPPINESS LOVE.I hope pray and wish nobody has to go through this situation..
That girl is not lying, the truth and the lie can be detected by the eyes.... your body language tells the truth and lie...And Charu is absolutely telling the truth here...One who suffers, can only understand...god bless you charu...
He doesn't really believe you were having an affair, he was just strawmanning you with false allegations to scare you into isolation by the threat of character assassination. Character assassination is very distressing for people and just to avoid that distress they give in to their abuser's demand. He wanted to make it hard for you to work with people, to have healthy friendships and opportunities that would have diverse teams with men and women working together, he wanted you to be as emotionally, socially, financially dependent on him through strategic isolation where he can treat you however he wants and get away with it as you can't leave immediately to feel powerful. If you do become dependent on him he'll accuse you of being a gold-digger, threaten to not support you or threaten to walk away just to play with you. For him control you is a game. This way or that way he would continue to abuse you.
This is narcissistic abuse
He was gaslighting her. Very common in NPD patients.
Right..
Right.. Yeah kitnz Ghatiya Nich..gira give hain. Ladki ko like Apna Gulzm banker Rakho 😠
This is what we call a narcissist
It is so embarrassing when you're associated with every other person you work with or interact with. He was such a sick person. I wish you healing and good health, Charu.
You are a strong lady you will definitely come out of all this!
She is too good.. Itne dukh me hone k bad bhi,kisi k Liye galat word use ni.. Rajeev sir pls sambhal lijiye inhe need h inhe apki
Only the people who went this can understand- whether men or women . I have been in toxic relationship for 4 years putting negative impacts like weight gain , losing touch with my own family, not making friends and no motivation to do anything, depression and anxiety. I am very grateful to come out of such a bad relationship. Charu, you will come out of this stronger and trust me it will be the the best feeling in the world . I wish you all the strength and love ❤
The same thing is happening with me right now.. I am in deep dark depression.. I don’t know how to get out of this relationship with my husband as I have one autistic child .. I don’t have enough courage to get out and I am not financially stable.....right now I am in depression and anxiety, insomnia, emotional eating disorder, weight gain.😢😢
I am still in same pain
@@love-sw7ow ye kadam toh uthana pdega naa bahan
Agr socho toh duniya me sbse kimti chij freedom hi hoti h
Mahal me kaid rani se toh mazdur mahila achi
Stay strong
I m still in it i wish i cum out of it 😪😪😪
Sidharth liked the way you asked every question so gently and kindly. You sounded genuinely concerned. Good job. Best wishes to Charu 👍👍
Hats off to the interviewer. Haven't seen such a compassionate man in a long-long time!