WHY I WENT GHOST!!! Therapy, Struggles, Validation...

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  • Опубликовано: 2 фев 2023
  • Grab a project, cook, do something and let's chat! Wanted to create a segment on this channel where we can chat about anything while creating! Feel free to comment some topics ya' ll would like for me to touch one!
    with love always
    -L.
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Комментарии • 59

  • @Tiffany_C_
    @Tiffany_C_ Год назад +8

    I think all of your content is very unique, to me you push the design boundaries. I found you through your brown jacket tutorial with the zipper, and I have not seen anyone else make something like that! Keep doing you and congratulations on baby 💜

    • @LaDriaLaVae
      @LaDriaLaVae  Год назад +1

      thank you so much for your kind words! and the baby is a big baby now lol , time flies haha

  • @mya10121
    @mya10121 Год назад +3

    Glad to have you back! I always hoped that you were alright no matter what life was putting you through. I'm glad that you're reflecting and evolving. I loved your tutorials and patterns from years ago, and I'm so happy to be getting more. Your sense of style is epic; no else can give quite like you do. Plus, you are just enjoyable to listen to and watch. I'm crossing my fingers for more create and chill videos.

  • @blacksatin17moc
    @blacksatin17moc Год назад

    Glad you took the time you needed to recharge and refocus. Lovely to have you back. You are amazingly talented, and l look foward to all you have in store 😊

  • @jamielynch6743
    @jamielynch6743 Год назад +4

    Your content is always really great. It's an excellent vibe. It feels like you're in front of me. I don't listen to other vids in full but yours 🤣🤣🤣And you don't keep it only crochet. I appreciate your rareness and realness but I also care about how you feel otherwise... I'm listening 😊❤️

    • @LaDriaLaVae
      @LaDriaLaVae  Год назад +1

      Thank you so much 😀😀😀❤️

  • @bri3798
    @bri3798 Год назад +2

    LaDriaaaaa! The amount of comfort this video brought me

  • @melissalima-washington4164
    @melissalima-washington4164 Год назад +2

    100% relate! Single Mom of 3 girls here. I was always a business owner so I was able to stay home with my girls when they were younger. I love your videos! You are killin’ it! Keep it going! 🧶❤

  • @BourbonTrailGuide
    @BourbonTrailGuide Год назад

    I’m not your typical fan demographic, I’m old enough to be your mom but I want to tell you that I just found your channel. I love the patterns, I love your sense of humor and your introspective thoughts. Thank you for sharing your self realizations and helping “old” people like me remember what is important!

  • @alanaali3765
    @alanaali3765 Год назад

    Welcome back sis, keep growing, learning and mostly loving yourself and your blessings. Stay blessed.

  • @7vanessaa
    @7vanessaa Год назад +1

    Your videos are more important than you think. Thank you 💛

  • @user-ev6pf1jb1w
    @user-ev6pf1jb1w 3 месяца назад

    I have been looking for a Lexi cardigan that I like the look of and yours is beautiful. Thank you.
    Vicki

  • @Momma_J
    @Momma_J Год назад

    Yesssss Honey! LIVE LIFE or life will LIVE YOU; and LIVE YOU HARD!!

  • @Mossidesign
    @Mossidesign Год назад

    I love your personality so much omg. You’re so refreshing and I agree with everything you said! I’ve been thinking a lot about these topics myself the last few months and you put it into words so well!❤

  • @audreywheeler-downing3144
    @audreywheeler-downing3144 Год назад

    I love the way u express urself… u are so relatable… the struggles of life .. really impact our creativity …& when folks want to place an order… it’s hard for them to understand that u may not mentally be in the best space to complete at that time!!! So THANK U for this video.. NYC NATIVE (Queens)

  • @monicanwulia7092
    @monicanwulia7092 Год назад

    Missed you and I'm so glad you are back. You were looking into the camera speaking directly to me! But I did not have my project in hand. Oh well, thank you. Love these chatty videos as well as your bomb tutorials. I'm here for all of it!! 🥰❤

  • @Joy-to-the-world308
    @Joy-to-the-world308 7 месяцев назад

    L’adria,LaDria LaDria, you are a force to be reckoned with. You are such a beautiful soul and you bring sooo much light into the lives of your viewers. You are already a winner even if you don’t always feel that way. Always stay true to yourself even if your dance is different from your neighbours. Variety is the spice of life. Your son is very fortunate to have you as his Mother. You are breaking the chains of old. It takes a lot of courage + drive. Thank you for sharing yourself so generously. You have so much value + worth. ❤ Much love, much love, much love.

  • @cherylboyd5548
    @cherylboyd5548 Год назад

    Good to see you and yes you're right you have to make things happen for yourself and take care of yourself.

  • @nash6154
    @nash6154 4 месяца назад

    I don’t have a TV I haven’t watched TV since 2019 because I do DYII my online store, motivational improve business and emotional physical level so when you speak, you’re speaking the truth, other people important and all that matters

  • @Aurorawakening
    @Aurorawakening Год назад +1

    You are doing a wonderful job sis. You are an amazing creator. Thank you for allowing us in your work and being vulnerable. We love you and support you. Keep going my friend ❤

  • @wildflower-spirit-creations
    @wildflower-spirit-creations Год назад

    I am still making your hexie cardigan. See how many people have come out with their's since

  • @user-rl1vb8fw4e
    @user-rl1vb8fw4e Месяц назад

    Currently working on your hexie cardigan

  • @laurelpeterson5545
    @laurelpeterson5545 Год назад

    I just love you!!! You are most definitely the best!

  • @PamelasCrochetKnitCorner1
    @PamelasCrochetKnitCorner1 Год назад

    I am glad you are back!!!

  • @qwadaysiastewart4574
    @qwadaysiastewart4574 Год назад

    i’m so happy your back i’ve been looking for you

  • @nash6154
    @nash6154 4 месяца назад

    It’s very important that whatever you do, you do it for yourself first and everyone else second because you have to be healthy and fit emotionally physically and to be a mother to be a creator to be a creator to be strong. You’re other people makes you happen it doesn’t make them happy.

  • @soliloquy222
    @soliloquy222 Год назад

    I'm going through the same process, and it's hard to not share values with the majority of people around me... it doesn't make my path less right for me, but it doesn't always allow me to be recognized and valued by the people around me, and it hurts. But the work is still so important, and I'm happy you're seeking home even tho it's not easy at times. One video in alignment will always be better than 100 in misalignment

    • @LaDriaLaVae
      @LaDriaLaVae  Год назад +1

      Thank you for your kind words and welcome to the channel :)

  • @maryannoneill7224
    @maryannoneill7224 Год назад

    Great observations!

  • @tellysmuse5069
    @tellysmuse5069 Год назад

    Shared this video 🥰 I wish I would've saw this content sooner . Love the Channel 💕

  • @mickielabenz7353
    @mickielabenz7353 Год назад

    I think your a beautiful person and also think that many may need this talk today so thank you for sharing not only your crochet but what you have unlearned and learned though your life! Im here for it! I agree with you on all levels and cant wait to see what you come up with! I give all the things I made away to my friends and family and people always tell me to see it but I think it means more in the long run. Thank you again for being the Queen you are! Hugs from Nebraska

    • @LaDriaLaVae
      @LaDriaLaVae  Год назад

      Thank you ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @WandaYSykes
    @WandaYSykes 9 месяцев назад

    Fom the mouth of babes! ... I'm just starting to follow you, young lady and already you are enriching my living! I definitely need to become a more active participant in getting what I want my life to look like! I'll probably listen to this again later or another day! Glad you are doing what you need for you and yours to have a meaningful and healthy life! I feel !like you are talking to me in your videos, person to person! Very clear and concise! Be well,Dear!

  • @angelahudnall8622
    @angelahudnall8622 Год назад

    Hey Miss Lady, I just found you almost a month ago & I really enjoy your work and listening to your NEW YORK accent, LOL!! You have real ISH to talk about and that's what keeps me checking in, plus I hit that notification bell as a new subscriber so I can get your content. Have a blessed evening and do take care of yourself.

    • @LaDriaLaVae
      @LaDriaLaVae  Год назад

      Thank you so much for supporting! 🙏🏾

  • @MiaDholl
    @MiaDholl Год назад +1

    I appreciate all your content. I used to run my own RUclips channel for 10 years. Last March 2022, one of my triplets experienced a mental health issue and I just fet that some things just had to go. I deleted my channel and all the videos I created. I felt pressure making content. I was not a big channel, but my channel was unique enough that it was worth continuing. But my kids came first so good bye channel. I watched you since the baby was small. I am sure the baby is bigger. And am I hearing another baby? I totally agree with everything you said here. You are so real. Thank you for being real.

    • @LaDriaLaVae
      @LaDriaLaVae  Год назад +1

      I totally understand. Absolutely no baby is on the way. One and done over here haha.

  • @paulavance5096
    @paulavance5096 Год назад

    You are amazing! Most things you mentioned here took me 40 years to recognize. I've always firmly believed that it's so much better and even more worth it for each individual to think for themselves and find out what they believe with respect to many things whether it's politics or religion, family etc. I respect and love my parents but in many areas I was polar opposite of how they saw many things. We agreed to disagree with no less love or respect from me and them. I too overthink and it sucks the joy and happiness right out of you. Also a perfectionist which does the same. Perfection isn't possible. I didn't learn that for nearly 50 years and still struggle with that. America has been brainwashed into thinking our worth comes from what we do and that happiness comes from stuff. I sometimes wonder if society will ever see that or change it. As I got older I had this overwhelming feeling that something was missing within me but I had no idea what until I started seriously looking deeper into my Native American ancestry and their values and beliefs and it was as if I had found "home". I really admire what you're doing and especially that you share it. You never know who may be watching and really need to hear their not alone. Thank you for being authentic! ❤

    • @LaDriaLaVae
      @LaDriaLaVae  Год назад +1

      Thank you so much for your kind words! I needed to read this comment today! Thank you❤

  • @tellysmuse5069
    @tellysmuse5069 Год назад

    I see you with that TLC Shirt ❣️

  • @kristenm.joseph7916
    @kristenm.joseph7916 Год назад

    Not you calling me crusty! 😂 I loved this chat though, I related to a lot of the things you were saying about over thinking creativity. I do the same thing all the time, down to the pictures I post. Thank you for sharing! Looking forward to the next one ❤

  • @fayurquhart-louis8379
    @fayurquhart-louis8379 Год назад

    LaDarie your work is fantastic I have learnt so much from listening to you. I have been promoting Your famous hexagon cardigan

  • @TheDabblingHook
    @TheDabblingHook Год назад +1

    Everything you just said!

  • @soliloqvy
    @soliloqvy Год назад +1

    im new to ur channel and i alrdy love u so much holy. not only are u and ur creations beautiful but ur soul is so inspiring too like?? this video and ur messages are so so important!!! capitalism rly sucked the fun out of everything 💀also love how u talk to the camera as if we're rly there LMAO dragging my crusty ass to the kitchen to get a snack rn x

    • @LaDriaLaVae
      @LaDriaLaVae  Год назад

      Haha thank you! Welcome to the channel ❤️

  • @donnakosik7379
    @donnakosik7379 Год назад +1

    You made some fantastic observations about things we were taught growing up. It would take a 100 yrs to undo what my family was all about. Yikes, don't even want to go back there in my mind. Love that it's helping you. LaDraia do you have a email, I wanted to show you something and ask if you could make it. Keep Positive every day 💛💚🧡

    • @LaDriaLaVae
      @LaDriaLaVae  Год назад +1

      Thank you ❤️, my email is info@ladrialavae.com

    • @donnakosik7379
      @donnakosik7379 Год назад

      @@LaDriaLaVae nope the email is undeliverable.

  • @shettikkawoods3248
    @shettikkawoods3248 Год назад +2

    Wassup

  • @wildflower-spirit-creations
    @wildflower-spirit-creations Год назад

    My dear I stayed home with my children for 12 years and I wouldn't trade it for anything. In fact it was a monetary savings and good for me and the kids. I feel bad for Moms who can't stay home.

  • @CarlaLonowski-hq8bn
    @CarlaLonowski-hq8bn 9 месяцев назад

    Please send me a pattern!

  • @wildflower-spirit-creations
    @wildflower-spirit-creations Год назад

    Nothing like someone who complains all the time but never takes any advice. I say bye bye to them. If you ever want to chat and crochet log on. My bell will go off