Why People Don’t Succeed

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  • Опубликовано: 22 авг 2024
  • In this video, I cover the most important step in getting what you want. Some people overlook it, and some get it wrong. Watch the video and find it now!
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    This channel is about giving you the understandings, the mindsets, tools, processes and techniques of mastering your life so you can take charge and live the life of your desires and values.
    NLP or Neuro Linguistic Programming has created an incredible foundation for me in my pursuit of mastering my life, which is why I teach it in my self improvement trainings and apply it when I do life coaching or help people with their businesses. NLP is a powerful model that will help you accelerate your results. It's also the ultimate state management toolkit.
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Комментарии • 304

  • @inner28.
    @inner28. Год назад +16

    Watching this on replay. Extremely high value stuff.

  • @gracesklein2567
    @gracesklein2567 День назад

    I watched it on replay. It's excellent stuff and really informative. Thank you!

  • @J.J.-zx4xq
    @J.J.-zx4xq 8 месяцев назад +1

    On replay. Your approach to NLP resonates with the way I learn. So far, it's so good.

  • @Nokoanec
    @Nokoanec 10 месяцев назад +1

    Replay. Glad I found it. Grateful actually

  • @hernansilva4704
    @hernansilva4704 Месяц назад

    Watching it on Replay. I just started.
    Thank you

  • @cynthia7569
    @cynthia7569 3 месяца назад

    Replay. Thank you for your sharing. Honestly, i do not like listen talk/youtube that with monotone sharing (i mean voice, haha.. as i will feel sleepy). BUT yours is exceptional! so insightful! Thanks, after listen to this, i take action, and more clarity i has! my fear gone with the clarity after taken actions! Thanks Damon!

    • @DamonCart
      @DamonCart  3 месяца назад +1

      You're welcome.

  • @bogbrither
    @bogbrither Год назад +3

    I actually turned on my youtube notifications for the first time in years to make sure I don't miss tomorrow's live. Thank you for this! Thinking about what I want, it seems I'm wasting my time wanting certain things that are out of my control (a super short commute for my kids' school for starters).

  • @guygarcia6472
    @guygarcia6472 Год назад +3

    Damon is giving you the golden exlir.

  • @joanneramsay2621
    @joanneramsay2621 3 месяца назад

    Replay. Starting to watch this series today after a recommendation from my brother. Thanks in advance 😊

  • @emmaolsson6959
    @emmaolsson6959 3 месяца назад

    Replay. Thank you for sharing 🙏🏻🦋

    • @DamonCart
      @DamonCart  3 месяца назад

      You are so welcome.

  • @NickiSchmicki
    @NickiSchmicki Год назад

    Replay but for the first time. Looking forward to continuing the series!

  • @arthurbert
    @arthurbert Год назад

    Watching it on replay. Lesson: Don't focus on what you want. Instead, focus on what you want. It's good to know what you don't want, but need to focus on what you do want. Where our attention goes is where energy flows.

  • @duderserious
    @duderserious Год назад +1

    Replay. Thank you

  • @whitneyhenson
    @whitneyhenson 4 месяца назад

    Replay.
    Never realized the values that I am unconscious of are what actually seek fulfillment and drive the desires/goals. Very helpful in understanding how to be clear - thank you. Also love the Artist/Scientist approach to life vs. personalization.

  • @eviemoore1756
    @eviemoore1756 Год назад +1

    replay, Thanks

  • @zaclevin7874
    @zaclevin7874 11 месяцев назад

    SPOT ON

  • @heartbeatelectrix8117
    @heartbeatelectrix8117 Год назад +1

    Replay, thank you for compiling this onto a playlist🤗

    • @DamonCart
      @DamonCart  Год назад +2

      My wife did that. I'll let her know you said thank you.

  • @sabinef2872
    @sabinef2872 Месяц назад

    Replay. 🙏 Thank you. Just came across your video/channel. Excellent

    • @DamonCart
      @DamonCart  29 дней назад +1

      You're welcome and thank you.
      Lots more where it came from.

  • @swetamudaliar1135
    @swetamudaliar1135 Год назад +1

    Watching the replay! So grateful for this channel and for your valuable teachings ⭐

  • @christinacarrizales2891
    @christinacarrizales2891 Год назад +1

    I completely blanked about this until this moment. Im on replay.

  • @schanz0
    @schanz0 Год назад +1

    Thank you Damon for this excellent opportunity and your time and commitment to help others with your coaching. God Bless You!!
    I'm a few behind but will catch up today and be live going forward with you. Thank you again!

  • @chrismccarthy5575
    @chrismccarthy5575 Месяц назад

    Watching on replay

  • @ron250k
    @ron250k 5 месяцев назад

    I went through this a second time and discovered a negative pattern I have been running when it comes to lead generation,follow-up in my business. What I negatively focused on, believing how a lead (person) should act was incongruent to how, in reality a lead (person) actually acts / performs. In my industry it takes anywhere from 6 to 18 months before a person will make a decision….so why am I expecting immediate (within a month) results? Currently working of creating absolute clarity on my approach and outlook going forward.

  • @starqueenlotus3755
    @starqueenlotus3755 9 месяцев назад

    Thankyou. You are best teacher

    • @DamonCart
      @DamonCart  9 месяцев назад

      So nice of you to say. Thank you.

  • @belamithani1
    @belamithani1 6 месяцев назад

    Watching replay.
    Very good inside.
    Got it perfectly.

  • @justinrobinson9583
    @justinrobinson9583 Год назад

    Going back to these videos. Cant believe it has been 6months already. Thank you for keeping these videos available and for creating this platform.

  • @elviagonzalez
    @elviagonzalez Год назад

    "We need to take action to gain clarity".
    "Become a scientist of what you want to do, experiment testing your hypothesis, don't take personal, get clarity and then become an artist creating" 💖

  • @shannahighsmith1179
    @shannahighsmith1179 3 месяца назад

    Replay. Thanks for your committment to NLP.

  • @jacq9183
    @jacq9183 10 месяцев назад

    Replay... I am glad to have come across your channel 😊
    🌬️💎💯💎

  • @reemmamdouh6785
    @reemmamdouh6785 Год назад +1

    Due to time differences I watch it replay

  • @Ashley--L
    @Ashley--L Год назад

    WOW! What an answer to the statement I don't know what I want. It made me giddy with joy and I immediately felt a rise in energy. Like I had the strength and wanted to explore. So freeing. Thank you!

  • @EnglishwithAlan
    @EnglishwithAlan Год назад

    wow. engagine and experimenting. that's what I've been doing for the past few years by traveling the world. my friends say they're jealous, but I'm pretty sure they think I'm a loony. it's great to have confirmation that what I'm doing is valuable.

  • @chinothedreamgiver1629
    @chinothedreamgiver1629 5 месяцев назад

    Replay. Let's dive in. 10:50 & 12:04 BINGO!!!!

  • @matthewocchiato154
    @matthewocchiato154 Год назад

    Replay. Appreciate it.

  • @GeorgWanek
    @GeorgWanek Год назад

    replay (as a lot of your videos) Thank you! :)

  • @JaiviEsatiqis
    @JaiviEsatiqis Год назад

    Hi Damon--watching the replay! Thank you so much for your expert teaching.

  • @rewiredcreator7885
    @rewiredcreator7885 Год назад

    Watching in replay. Thank you

  • @itsgorac
    @itsgorac Год назад

    Doing the replay. Thanks!

  • @user-tx1vs7me3c
    @user-tx1vs7me3c Год назад

    Finally somebody who is telling two simple truths - 1. We must discover OUR REAL wishes, goals and dreams in our depths, and 2. Then we take REAL ACTIONS toward these goals.
    Sometimes we think that some common goals are ours too, but they aren't.

  • @ioanarosu7515
    @ioanarosu7515 Год назад

    Replay, from Brasil. Thank you for doing this!

  • @martinnhantran
    @martinnhantran Год назад

    Thank you. This was very valuable and practical to me

  • @IntentionalGains
    @IntentionalGains Год назад

    Starting over on replay. Want to engage this from the beginning.

  • @natvozneac
    @natvozneac Год назад

    Watching on replay.

  • @MonicaLorin
    @MonicaLorin 10 месяцев назад

    Replay. Thanks for sharing and being so relatable.

  • @THEECHIEFMUSICIAN
    @THEECHIEFMUSICIAN Год назад +2

    🗝

  • @tammyskalko4099
    @tammyskalko4099 10 месяцев назад

    Replay 🙌🏼

  • @carolynlesonsky8790
    @carolynlesonsky8790 Год назад

    Watching this on replay.

  • @bluepi3104
    @bluepi3104 11 месяцев назад

    replay...thank you so much for what you do

  • @user-et3tm2mg4m
    @user-et3tm2mg4m 16 дней назад

    replay. This channel deserves 1m plus subs

    • @DamonCart
      @DamonCart  16 дней назад

      Thank you and I agree ; )

  • @SandyAVideos
    @SandyAVideos Год назад +1

    Replay - would watch live but time zones not favourable.

  • @jeanettecouldry1611
    @jeanettecouldry1611 Год назад

    Replay. Thank you Damon

  • @fabman101fabman5
    @fabman101fabman5 Год назад

    Replay Main take away; Spend some quite time getting clarity on what I want.
    Great video.

  • @karenricher5244
    @karenricher5244 Год назад

    Unable to watch live as I work shifts. Thanks for doing this, it’s extremely helpful.

  • @andreaj1231
    @andreaj1231 Год назад +1

    I have a question. I would like to know if you say there is no such thing as self-worth because there is no way to measure it; it's a feeling but not real. Love is a feeling, and happiness is a feeling. Does that mean they aren't real? I'm asking so I can understand this! :)

    • @DamonCart
      @DamonCart  Год назад +2

      Good question.
      When we talk about worth, we're talking about a value that can be measured. Self-worth is supposedly a measure of your value, which is impossible because there's no way to measure your value. Self-worth is not really a feeling. It's a concept and when you believe in the concept of self-worth, self-worth then becomes real to you. How you feel about your self-worth will change depending on how you're attempting to measure it. If you believe in the concept of self-worth, it's most likely because you are comparing yourself to others and attempting to measure your value this way. Comparing yourself to others will never serve you. It will make you feel self-important when you compare yourself to people you judge as lower than you and it will make you feel inferior when you compare yourself to people you believe are of higher value than you. Both types of comparisons are destructive to you.
      Love and happiness are values. Values are generalizations about experiences that are important to us and that's all you really need to know. Live your values and you won't bother with concepts like self-worth. And there's no need to try to measure love and happiness. There's also no need to compare love and happiness to anything.

    • @andreaj1231
      @andreaj1231 Год назад +1

      @@DamonCart I get that, of course, it's not good to be comparing to others, etc.; we are on our own journey. But self-worth seems to be kind of how we are valuing ourselves and how we feel about ourselves. Is it really accurate to say it's not real?

    • @DamonCart
      @DamonCart  Год назад +3

      @@andreaj1231 I would call that self-esteem, how you feel about yourself. When you use the word worth, you're implying a measurable value. Implications in our language are not trivial. They have consequences, which is why it's important to choose your words carefully.

    • @NickiSchmicki
      @NickiSchmicki Год назад

      This exchange/question was very illuminating. Thank you @andreaj1231 for asking and thank you @damoncart for answering!

  • @DaleStricklandClark
    @DaleStricklandClark Год назад

    Replay - because the live times haven't been convenient thus far.

  • @rebeccateseneer1166
    @rebeccateseneer1166 Год назад

    Replay: recently found your channel and so glad I did

  • @missella7339
    @missella7339 Год назад

    I love replays!

  • @SuperFastforward
    @SuperFastforward 9 месяцев назад

    Replay . Thanks

    • @DamonCart
      @DamonCart  9 месяцев назад

      You're welcome.

  • @cajnwitch22
    @cajnwitch22 Год назад

    Watching Replay

  • @chayaperl2440
    @chayaperl2440 Год назад

    thanks so much replay

  • @LeonysDailyBlessings888
    @LeonysDailyBlessings888 Год назад

    Watching replay❤

  • @sherry72100
    @sherry72100 Год назад

    replay!

  • @seanharter4827
    @seanharter4827 Год назад

    Will these videos be staying up damon as I've not watched yet thank you for all you do

  • @EnglishwithAlan
    @EnglishwithAlan Год назад

    replay (after the one on decisiveness.)

  • @LouisTaylorLife
    @LouisTaylorLife 27 дней назад

    Replay! Friend recommended it

  • @paulhornsey-pennell1931
    @paulhornsey-pennell1931 Год назад

    @ 6:21 you ended that sentence with what i thought i heard was "chances are you are sitting goals without understanding how they connect with who you are and what you are trying to ......." and then the word sounded like "fill" instead of "fulfill". if it is "fill" then are you "filling" what was "missing" so to speak and that is literally what a goal does?

    • @DamonCart
      @DamonCart  Год назад +1

      It looks like the internet connection glitched when I said the word "fulfill" and it came out as fill.

  • @rickboiardimindshiftingaca6975

    Very helpful video btw re fear and clarity

  • @dianequinn4115
    @dianequinn4115 Год назад

    Replay thanks

  • @pamelann4020
    @pamelann4020 Год назад

    Replay. I love this challenge ❤

  • @williamsrodriguez700
    @williamsrodriguez700 Год назад

    Replay July 2023 Thank you

  • @kellysuriol9237
    @kellysuriol9237 Год назад

    Replay next day due to work commitments 😊

  • @daretoseeit
    @daretoseeit Год назад

    Hi Damon, I'm afraid of failure and this constat feeling is stuck to for years and doesn't leave to overcome my fears 😔

    • @Nadiasavage_coaching
      @Nadiasavage_coaching Год назад

      Fear of failure is usually to do with limited beliefs and something that has happened in the past, this type of fear can be illuminated by doing inner work and understanding where you have created these beliefs x

    • @DamonCart
      @DamonCart  Год назад

      Follow what I explain in this video.

  • @YOGATEC_JEREMYSWAN
    @YOGATEC_JEREMYSWAN Год назад

    Replay 🙌

  • @reddy5985
    @reddy5985 2 месяца назад

    Replay Gang🙏🏾

  • @elviagonzalez
    @elviagonzalez Год назад

    Very clear how you describe fear

  • @tiborsaas
    @tiborsaas Год назад +3

    replay

  • @abelgebre4332
    @abelgebre4332 Год назад

    Im on replay.

  • @kaiooshin79
    @kaiooshin79 2 месяца назад

    Replay - June 2024

  • @hpn-jx3bn
    @hpn-jx3bn Год назад +1

    hazel - replay

  • @First.Last.06
    @First.Last.06 Год назад +1

    Replay.

  • @algeriadz4980
    @algeriadz4980 Год назад

    Does clarity mean overcoming fear and taking the first step to get good feedback Or eliciting my values first?!

    • @DamonCart
      @DamonCart  Год назад +1

      I always start with eliciting my values. You need to have clarity about where you want to go. If you don't, it's really hard to step out into unknown territory without direction. Fear tends to be over represented in your consciousness if you don't have a vision of where you want to go and what you want to create. Don't tie yourself up by first trying to overcome your fear. Get motivated by connecting with your values and moving toward what you want. Deal with the fear as it comes up and keep going.

  • @dafnehyde1932
    @dafnehyde1932 Год назад

    Replay 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

  • @taariqq
    @taariqq Год назад

    I don't see a scheduled video on your youtube main page?

    • @DamonCart
      @DamonCart  Год назад +1

      It's there now. Previously, if you just click the Live tab on the main page it will show you all of the lives I've done and anything coming up.

  • @jayplays2196
    @jayplays2196 Год назад

    Replay. Love your work

  • @amitgoswamy8625
    @amitgoswamy8625 Год назад

    Live

  • @mkhodary100
    @mkhodary100 Год назад

    Replay! loved your videos always informative

  • @rickboiardimindshiftingaca6975

    How do we find your live broadcasts?

  • @viharm2960
    @viharm2960 Год назад

    replayed

  • @riverplate0101
    @riverplate0101 Год назад +2

    Replay papi

  • @finnthehuman5275
    @finnthehuman5275 Год назад

    Replay. Can't comment on Rokus btw.

  • @richardloizou9172
    @richardloizou9172 Год назад

    Reply thanks

  • @alexisdivinity
    @alexisdivinity 10 месяцев назад

    Replay ❤

  • @ConstanzaRiosM
    @ConstanzaRiosM 21 день назад

    Replay 😊

  • @berivera1964
    @berivera1964 Год назад +1

    Replay

  • @justinlyon6243
    @justinlyon6243 Год назад

    Replay...2nd time around.

  • @Saxmus6Dflats
    @Saxmus6Dflats Год назад

    Replay. 😃👍

  • @chriswalker5648
    @chriswalker5648 Год назад

    Loved this! - Reply for me

  • @michaelsdiscusandatticaqua9155
    @michaelsdiscusandatticaqua9155 Год назад +1

    Reply

  • @youngesmartapples
    @youngesmartapples 6 месяцев назад

    REPLAY

  • @geesSpiritualStudio
    @geesSpiritualStudio Год назад

    Rp