First off, how old is this guy's mother, and if this dude is 35, the guy she's dating is 25, so why the hell would a 35 year old want someone who is 25, to be a father figure? Where does that dude go off into mental? I would not want that, and OP doesn't
Who ever told op in the second story he’d have to give him 50/50 ur an ah. With that footage she can file for full custody and show his negligence and request that he only have supervised visits. And now she knows he’s a psychotic junkie!
Hell no, that is too far. OP needs to give him boundaries of communication. The young guy is just... wow... sounds like the mother is either living through a late mid-life crisis or she became a predator targeting young guys because she's mentally falling apart.
OP is definitely the AH, hear me out, OP never set proper boundaries nor shut down any of what the Step dad was doing(nicknames) which led the step dad into a false sense of security/the wrong idea of their relationship, all because OP thought he was a kid and doesn't deserve a serious conversation addressing the underlying issues, when the Step dad came to op to have the serious talk Op met his serious tone with disrespect and then talked bad behind his back and gossip to his brother, he could've used that opportunity to set some boundaries and respectfully declined, but instead acted like a child himself and gossiped like a high schooler, the step dad isn't innocent either but OP is the issue here through his actions
First off, how old is this guy's mother, and if this dude is 35, the guy she's dating is 25, so why the hell would a 35 year old want someone who is 25, to be a father figure? Where does that dude go off into mental? I would not want that, and OP doesn't
Who ever told op in the second story he’d have to give him 50/50 ur an ah. With that footage she can file for full custody and show his negligence and request that he only have supervised visits. And now she knows he’s a psychotic junkie!
Hell no, that is too far. OP needs to give him boundaries of communication.
The young guy is just... wow... sounds like the mother is either living through a late mid-life crisis or she became a predator targeting young guys because she's mentally falling apart.
This dude was on Meth that's why he was acting like a damn psychopath not because he has ADHD; EXTREMELY different!
I wish they would not use the "f"word in these.
OP is definitely the AH, hear me out, OP never set proper boundaries nor shut down any of what the Step dad was doing(nicknames) which led the step dad into a false sense of security/the wrong idea of their relationship, all because OP thought he was a kid and doesn't deserve a serious conversation addressing the underlying issues, when the Step dad came to op to have the serious talk Op met his serious tone with disrespect and then talked bad behind his back and gossip to his brother, he could've used that opportunity to set some boundaries and respectfully declined, but instead acted like a child himself and gossiped like a high schooler, the step dad isn't innocent either but OP is the issue here through his actions
You sound delusional