아가들 입장에서는 어린이집 가는 것이 어른이 직장 출근 하는거랑 비슷한거 같아요! 어른도 새로운 직장 가면 적응하는데 빨리 또는 늦게... 사람들 마다 다 다르고, 사회 초년생들이 새로운걸 배우면서 사회에 적응하듯이 아이들은 아직 보고 느낀것이 어른과 다르고 경험도 작기 때문에 울음으로 표현한다고 생각해요! 루다 적응 너무 잘 해준거 같아요!!! 오늘도 너무 예쁘고 사랑스럽네요 루다♥
Offensichtlich ist Anpassung in eurer Kultur wichtig. Jedoch wo bleibt die eigene Persönlichkeit? Besonders jetzt ist die Persönlichkeit gefragt. Weltweit folgen die Menschen den Regierungen. Sind wir sicher, dass die Politiker es gut mit den Menschen meinen oder ist es für die Mächtigen nicht bequemer angepasste Menschen aus uns zu machen? Da gehört es auch dazu, möglichst früh die Kinder vo der Mutter zu nehmen und sie zu angepassten Individuen zu machen. So kann man das Volk gut steuern. Die kleine Seele von Ruda ist schon gebrochen. Eine Oma, Tante oder gute Freundin wäre besser für das Kind, um für die Eltern einen Freiraum zu schaffen. Ich wünsche von Herzen, dass es noch eine gute Lösung für die kleine Seele gibt..
@@gisela8893 제 글에 개성을 왜 찾습니까? 어린이집은 아이가 자라며 개성이 사라지는 곳이 아닙니다. 많은 것을 경험하며 작은 사회생활을 경험하는 것이라 생각합니다. 루다의 작은 영혼은 부서서지지 않았습니다. 루다는 더 튼튼하고 단단하고 멋진 영혼으로 자랄것입니다. 어머니의 품에서 자라는 것이 아이에게 더 좋을 수 있기도 하겠지만, 가정에서 접하기 어려운 많은 경험을 어린이집으로 통해 루다는 자신만의 개성을 찾아갈것 입니다. 다른 영상들을 보면 루다가 어린이집을 즐겁게 다니는 모습을 볼 수 있을것입니다. 저는 그런 루다가 적응해가는 모습이 기특하고 그렇게 느낄 수 있을것이라고 쓴 글입니다. 나쁜 시선으로 보지 마시길 바랍니다.
she's literally the cutest little angel everrrr!! and im so happy to see her adapt to day care!!! she's so brave and I hope this girl never loses her smile:))
you can stop filming only if you want to and if you have to, it really depends on you. do not be pressured on what the other people say. we raise our kids differently and you as parents of Ruda know what is best for her. i totally understand and respect your decision :D god bless to you and your family!!!
Ruda is so use to being at home so she's scared.Try a half a day every other day for 3months then try a whole day every other day.Then proceed to a whole day.U must not give up or give in.Just let her cry.She will win always all the time.Be strong and stand ur boundaries.
@@mabelreid2918 lt is not that Ruda is so used to be at home... Toddlers in that age need their mommies around them to feel safe and for their emotional development... To send toddlers to nursery, away from their mummies in very early age cause stopping their special feeling improvements between mommies and babies...
It's not about winning. That comes from a power struggle. Letting her cry is confusing to her. Years ago Letting a child cry it out was thought to be the way to go. It's not. I've seen the consequences of the let them cry theory. Rudy's parents will make the right decision.
@@ouyeht actually allowing babies to stick to their mothers at that age constantly makes they co-dependant and more shy to talk to other kids. I know this because I had two nephews who were super clingy to their mothers and didn’t go to school till a certain age. I found out from other school teachers and experts that children who go to school earlier develop their social skills very early and are super social butterflies. And least codependent and more independent on wanting to do their own things.
현직 어린이집 교사 하면서 이렇게 적응 잘 해주면 참 고맙죠~ 간혹 왜 아이가 어린이집 가려고 하면 우냐며 부모님이 의심하시면 마음이 상하기도 하고요...저희가 최선을 다해도 처음 접하는 새로운 기관이 어린아이들에게 낯선것은 당연한 것이고 어린이집보단 부모님이 계신 집이 제일 좋은것이 아이들 마음이겠죠? 이해해주시는 분들이 감사할 따름입니다🥲
living god,s in world are actually kids. till they turn three or four year they have universal connections that adults can,t feel or see. so that make them so special n adorable.
I worked in a daycare/preschool for several years. Those first couple weeks are always the hardest! Good job to all of you for being brave and following through! Now Ruda will be able to socialize with her peers and mom and dad get a mental break as well. ❤️
What's that mean?? Toddlers who are with their mums, dads not able to socialize??? In that age, human beings need their mum and dad around them for their emotions and emotional connections with their parents, not strangers whom they cannot give real emotions to babies but physical care as their duty... Please have a look the pediatric articules around the world about the affect of sending babies nursery in early age...
@@ouyeht it means exactly what I said. I didn’t say going to daycare was the best and only option. I’m commenting specifically on their video. Mom and dad have some child care provided so they can work and have a metal break. While that’s happening Ruda is making friends and learning in a different environment. I think that’s valuable for child and parents. I stand by my statement. Parents who have a need/want to send children to daycare should not be shamed by those who think their way is the only and right way to take care of children.
@@sarahcasias823 Then you exactly say "Now Ruda will be able to socialize with her peers" as if without daycare Ruda cannot be able to socialize, this is exactly what you say... Ruda needs to socialize when she speaks and keeps her moves well, she cannot do these as a toddler yet.. Babies, toddlers need mums and dads and their own place.. not peers not different environment.. The most valuable thing for babies and toddlers is constant emotional connection with their mum and dad, which cannot be provided by peers or carers in the nurseries.. Assume that to be mum and dad as a mental breaking "another job" is degrading being parents.. To be mum and dad is totaly unconditonal and instictive, it is nothing about "job" as it is showed to the society by the media... No one shamed parents as you falsely blamed but no one should courage parents to send their babies or toddlers very early age to nurseries either...
@@ouyeht Every parents are different just because for you it's not good it will be applied to everyone. Sometimes it's better for kids this age to learn this than later when they're older and they still cry when their mom or dad leaves them in Pre-School/Elementary/Grade School. 2 hours won't even hurt a child. It's normal for them to cry like that because they're attached to their parents. My mom raised me that way, and every time she send me there she prepares me emotionally. Talking to me, telling me that she's going to be back...and would even bribe me that if I don't cry she will give me a treat or she will treat me somewhere when we get home. I remember these things because up until pre-school we would have a talk every time I go to school. I always end up looking forward for the whole day without crying at all. Again it's different for each and every one of us.
루다가 잘 적응해서 다행이에요~ 유아교육과라 교수님께 이야기 많이 듣는데 한 달 지나도 적응 못하는 아이들도 있어요 루다가 말을 듣고 의미를 알고 대답도 잘하는데 집에서 어린이집에서 있었던 일? 밥 잘 먹었니 잘 잤니 잘 놀았니 어린이집과 관련한 말을 자주해주세요 책도 많이 들려주시고요 그럼 루다의 앞으로 얼집 생활이 더 편해질 것 같네요
Ruda is doing a lovely and amazing job at adapting! I'm an Early Childhood Education major in college and her crying while separating and even talking about going or getting ready to go is completely normal! between ages 15 mo- 2 1/2 their brain is starting to make new emotions, so she actually is learning how she feels so they can be very sensitive and irritable during this time because they simply don't know what they are feeling. But you guys are doing an amazing job at reassuring her! And i was so proud of her the day she didn't cry when you got to the daycare!
I owned a daycare for 10 years, children learn what works for them in their first year of life. She will also have separation anxiety in the beginning but will learn that you come back for her everyday. She will learn to socialize and comfort herself and in the long run that’s what we all want for our children. Confidence and strength. I would always tell parents to drop off quickly and leave without showing their anxiety and fear. Children mimic what they see. Best of luck w your adorable daughter!
That age she doesn't need to socialize, she needs "first" her mum and dad around her to improve her emotional connection with them.. Nursery cannot replace that very special connection between toddlers and their parents... but stops that connection which they will need later in life...
@@Madiluvs2526 No one would agree with your disrespectful, rude insults... Obviously you are the proof of bad affect of the early age daycare... you cannot discuss without insulting which shows you have anger issues...
When my boy went to day care for the first day. He cried a lot and it made me cry a lot too. The feeling of separation is equally painful. But we get used to it... Love you lil angel. You are a brave girl.
She’s absolutely adorable, you two are great parents, remind me a little of my own parents, they as well had (and still) have standards with me until my stress is gone. That’s really great 👍
Engraçado que quando o pai dela pede a mão ela não dá e quando a mãe pede ela da kkkk muito fofa. Também quando ela tá com o pai pergunta pela mãe, e quando tá com a mãe pergunta pelo pai. Muito fofa ela. Essa fase é assim mesmo, adaptação.
I am so happy and proud of Ruda, she really is a brave girl, she is lucky to have such great dads who care about her and educate her since she was little correctly 💘💘 Good job, I love this family 🥺❤️
현 어린이집교사입니다^^ 적응기..참 힘들죠 저도 아이들이 적응기간에 낯선곳에 평생 옆에 엄마아빠도 안계시니 슬프고 무섭기도 할게예요 적응기간 오래걸리면 6개월까지 걸린 친구도 봤어요(현재저희반)ㅋㅋ 루다 적응하는거보니 중간중간 울음만 있는게 아니고 울음참는모습 보이는거 보니 빠른 적응할거같아요:) 한달뒤쯤이면 엄청 씩씩하게 갈거같네요~
Parabéns pela filha linda q vocês tem, dói muito qdo tem q deixar na creche e vê o choro deles, mas faz parte da vida, que bom q ela se adaptou era feliz! Deus os abençoe 🙏🇧🇷
It took my son who was already 3, nine whole months of crying when I left him every morning before he could stay a whole day, my heart broke so much but I persevered and never broke the schedule and he finally waved bye to me with a big smile rather than screaming with tears 😍❤️
@@daisydukes8252 He was three years old. It took nine months for him to stop crying. It sounds like it was partly developmental. He wasn’t old enough. I think kids should home with their mommies. That’s my .02.
Она так выросла!!! Чужие дети и вправду бустро растут))) Я достаточно долго за ними следила, а потом перестала. Такая красивенькая!! Ей очень идёт с пучком!!
I love that you are filming sweet Ruda every day with daycare. It breaks my heart to see her cry, though the fake tears are funny. You are making great progress getting her use to daycare. Keep up the good work! Daycare is important for Ruda’s development. Love the three of you so much!🥰. ❤️❤️😘😘😘
When KJ said that they can take better care of Ruda physically and mentally when she comes back from daycare, it reminds me of the saying "absence makes the heart grow fonder".
no you shouldn't put baby anywhere at this age a mother should teach baby to talk first its precious time for baby the way of talking their accent and behaving you can make baby socialize with let them interact with adults at this age she has nothing to gain from playing interacting with same age she is still baby she will go to Kindergarten and school and stuff for physically and mental growth she will not gain same attention she needs at this age she needs to learn to talk and behave from parents first
@@xzxz2169 well some parents want to take their kid to daycare, or sometimes they just don't have an option, especially if they are both working, so get over it and don't tell other people what they should do with their own life ,peace!
@@mrim1722 what they should do with their own life i mean you can do whatever you want but should you ? some ways of doing things are objectively better than others you dont need both people doing job or earn money specially if you have baby you can do job after kid grow up i had both parents working it sucks for kid trust me a kid doesn't care about you earning money so at least you should be with them full time till they can do basic things at least till they can talk and express what they want to say
@@xzxz2169 uhhh? Do you have children? Parents have to work to earn money to fed, cloth and house the child. Not every family can afford to just have one parent working. Your comment is ridiculous because it doesn't even include single parent families. My mom worked all the time and I was in daycare, preschool and with my grandma. I loved it. Your personal experience is not everyone's experience. Also, it is very important for children to socialize with other children. Social skills are important and it is good to learn them early on.
Foi uma jornada e tanto. Eu sempre na expectativa de como ela iria se sentir. E compartilhava das emoções de vocês, pais. Coisa boa que a Rudá se acostumou e agora pode aproveitar a convivência com os amiguinhos!
Great job Ruda. It's very hard to leave your child when they are young. I remember it well. Mom and Dad, You are doing a great job!!! You're both awesome parents.
Poor baby, it probably doesn’t help that she’s a quarantine baby and human contact during most of her life has been minimal, even amongst family. It’s not her fault, nor is it yours. You guys are wonderful and raising such a lovely person too. Sending you all good energy!
YAY FOR RUDA!! I know it must be hard to see her cry, but school is good for them and for parents too - you both need a break also. She is a resilient little girl! We are all proud of her! I am inspired by your courage and strength during this process - I know it will be hard when we send our kids...
This channel is such a good repository of Ruda's childhood. I wish I too had sth like this while I was a growing up. But I guess every time period has it's own pros and cons. I ❤ Ruda. She's become so dear (to so many people) even though I, and others like me of course, don't know her personally.
She will get used to it in sometime. Don't stop trying . Don't worry about filming, we understand your situation. Even if you limit your videos to a few , we shall eagerly wait for them and send lots of love to all of you. Take your time to concentrate on ruda and family matters for now ... we are always cheering for you! Lots of love MJ KJ and ruda ❤❤❤
루다야~~~웬일이니 어린이집 적응기 저번주꺼보다가 나도 눈물이 날 정도로 너무 루다가 힘들어보였는데 ㅠㅠㅠㅠ이번영상에서는 적응도 잘하고 울지도 않았다니 진짜 너무 대단하고 멋지다 루다~~~~ 너무 감격스러워 ㅠㅠㅠ 두분도 정말 고생많이하셨을거같아요 제3자가 보기에도 이렇게 힘든데 얼마나 힘드셨을지 ㅠㅠ 그래도 이제 잘 적응했으니 말씀하신대로 체력회복 정신건강회복! 잘하셨으면 좋겠어요 그리고 루다야 넌 너무 귀여워....널 으쩌면 좋니🥲
Ruda is the worlds most adorable child! You are doing a wonderful thing by taking her to pre-school. I had an only child. I felt he needed it to be more socially rounded. They get so much out of it! The adjustment with so many tears is really difficult initially! You are both terrific parents and she is so blessed with a Mom and Dad like both of you!
The cutest little manipulator! Ruda learned this cry hard get what I want so early! Woah! 😵😵 Ruda is doing well .Ruda We love you ❤️ MJ & KJ you are very great parents. I pray God will bless you more and more as you grow and go through life.
Definitely agree with you. And I think it will be best for them to stop mentioning the daycare as a scary thing to her like, "I don't know if she would cry today when we go to the day care" she might interpret it as something she is supposed to do because she only cries when you mention the daycare. You are the best parents a child could ask for and the reason of what I said above is because Roda is very smart and she picks up fast too.
16:03 Great color and outfit for Ruda. When I originally watch this episode, I felt heart break that she was having to deal with separation anxieties from her parents. As adults, we forget about those early feelings of moving thru to adult life.
![[SUB] A Korean child's reaction after meeting animals she only saw from books. 🦒](http://i.ytimg.com/vi/gBRSMxNvJx0/mqdefault.jpg)
![[SUB] Adapting to the daycare! It's still hard to say goodbye. (⛔️ Warning : So sad)](http://i.ytimg.com/vi/B9L9qMN1YBw/mqdefault.jpg)
![[SUB] RUDA went to get vaccinated.💉 (Hepatitis A vaccination in Korea)](/img/1.gif)
1:33에 오늘은 안우네~? 했더니 바로 가짜울음 하는거 너무 귀엽다 ㅜㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ 눈물 한방울 안나는데 우는척 표정 짓는거ㅋㅋㅋ 넘 귀엽구 사랑스러워....
아맞다! 울어야지! 느낌으로다가 ㅋㅋㅋ 역시 루다 너무 귀엽죠..
그냥 부모님이 오늘은 안우네? 우네? 이런 얘기를 안했으면 좋겠어요 ㅠㅠㅠㅠ 애가 울생각이 없다가도 부모가 계속 신경을 쓰니까 루다도 울려고 하는거같아요 그냥 안울면 안우는거지 오?안우네? 이런말을 그만했으면 좋겠네요 ㅠㅠ 보는 내내 답답
@@꾀배기 ضض
@@영영-k4e kkk
無論 看 多少次 都 很可愛
루다가 우는것 마음아팠는데
이제는 어린이집 잘적응해서 보기좋네요ㅎㅎ
루다 적응한 모습 보니까 입가에 미소가 ❤️❤️
휴 댓글 감사합니다 안심하고 영상 볼수있겠어요
맞는 말씀이예요. 그리고 어린이집 선생님들이 좋으신 분들 같아서 더욱 다행이예요. 아기가 선생님께 안기는 모습을보고 안심이 됐어요. 앞으로 저도 겪을 일인데- 우리 아기도 좋은선생님들 만나고 잘 적응해주길 바라봅니다. 루다의 첫 사회생활 적응을 축하합니다♡
Something not right dumb if cry like that sonething going on yall Don t care
@@linettewhitten6492 you watch so much drama
@@linettewhitten6492 all kids do that beacouse they are kids and you were like that when you was baby
@@오거류 agree 😂
Cheers
부모님께서도 어린이집을 믿고 잘 기다려주시는 부분도 너무 잘하고 계신것 같아요~ 그 마음을 받아 루다가 적응을 잘 하고 있는 것 같아요~
이제 루다가 안 울면 기특하면서도 한편으로는 부모님께서 서운하실수도^^;
아니 근데 아기들ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ 다른 친구가 더 크게 울고 있으면 뭔가 머쓱한지 안 우는 거ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ 넘 귀여워용ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅠㅜㅠㅠ
아가들 입장에서는 어린이집 가는 것이 어른이 직장 출근 하는거랑 비슷한거 같아요! 어른도 새로운 직장 가면 적응하는데 빨리 또는 늦게... 사람들 마다 다 다르고, 사회 초년생들이 새로운걸 배우면서 사회에 적응하듯이 아이들은 아직 보고 느낀것이 어른과 다르고 경험도 작기 때문에 울음으로 표현한다고 생각해요! 루다 적응 너무 잘 해준거 같아요!!! 오늘도 너무 예쁘고 사랑스럽네요 루다♥
아이 입장에서는 그럴 수가 있겠네요.
Offensichtlich ist Anpassung in eurer Kultur wichtig. Jedoch wo bleibt die eigene Persönlichkeit?
Besonders jetzt ist die Persönlichkeit gefragt. Weltweit folgen die Menschen den Regierungen. Sind wir sicher, dass die Politiker es gut mit den Menschen meinen oder ist es für die Mächtigen nicht bequemer angepasste Menschen aus uns zu machen? Da gehört es auch dazu, möglichst früh die Kinder vo der Mutter zu nehmen und sie zu angepassten Individuen zu machen. So kann man das Volk gut steuern.
Die kleine Seele von Ruda ist schon gebrochen. Eine Oma, Tante oder gute Freundin wäre besser für das Kind, um für die Eltern einen Freiraum zu schaffen.
Ich wünsche von Herzen, dass es noch eine gute Lösung für die kleine Seele gibt..
@@gisela8893 제 글에 개성을 왜 찾습니까? 어린이집은 아이가 자라며 개성이 사라지는 곳이 아닙니다. 많은 것을 경험하며 작은 사회생활을 경험하는 것이라 생각합니다.
루다의 작은 영혼은 부서서지지 않았습니다.
루다는 더 튼튼하고 단단하고 멋진 영혼으로 자랄것입니다.
어머니의 품에서 자라는 것이 아이에게 더 좋을 수 있기도 하겠지만, 가정에서 접하기 어려운 많은 경험을 어린이집으로 통해 루다는 자신만의 개성을 찾아갈것 입니다.
다른 영상들을 보면 루다가 어린이집을 즐겁게 다니는 모습을 볼 수 있을것입니다.
저는 그런 루다가 적응해가는 모습이 기특하고 그렇게 느낄 수 있을것이라고 쓴 글입니다.
나쁜 시선으로 보지 마시길 바랍니다.
어른들은 어른이니까 싫어도 참고 가는건데.. 애가 싫더고하면 그건 무슨 이유가 있는거에요
@user-ue3bdur9v*2년전(수정됨)
아가들입장에세는어린이집가는것이어
출근하는거랑비슷한거같아요!어른도새
가면적응하는데빨리또는늦게...사람들
다르고,사회초년생들이새로운걸배우면
적응하듯이아이들은아직보고느낀것이
생각해요!루다작응너무잘해준거같아요
너무예쁘고사랑스럽네요루다❤
사랑 많이 받은 아기 일수록 분리불안이 적고 어린이집 적응 잘한다는데 루다가 그래서 이렇게 적응 잘하나봐요 루다 말 트이면 얼마나 더 예쁘고 사랑스러울지 기대됩니다 너무 예뻐요
마지막 에필로그 부분에 루다의 어린이집 스틸샷이 쫙 펼쳐지는게 왠지 마음이 후련하고 편안해지네요. 정말 잘 놀고 친구들과 재밌게 지냈네요. ㅎㅎ
I wouldn't.
저도요... 제 아이도 아닌데 전 왜 울컥한건지.... ㅎㅎㅎㅎㅎ
어른들 말씀이 3~4살때까지의 귀여움 이쁨 사랑스럼으로 평생 속썩이는거 상충한다고 합니다~~ 너무너무 이쁜 루나의 성장기 잘보고갑니다 ♡♡♡
she's literally the cutest little angel everrrr!! and im so happy to see her adapt to day care!!! she's so brave and I hope this girl never loses her smile:))
저도 출근전 아침이 제일 괴롭습니다ㅎ 막상 나옴 커피도마시고 일 잘하는데. ㅋㅋ 루다도 벌써 직장인의 마음인가..🥲
루다적응력짱👍🏻🤩
Eva 👍🏼😍🐱
ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ
와 ㅋㅋ공감입니다 아침왜이리 싫은지 ㅠㅜ
아 너무 웃겨 ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ ㅋ
루다가 어린이집 가면서 하루 이틀 지나고 적응해가는 모습 보는데 너무 기특해서 약간 눈물 찔끔.. 랜선이모 입장에선 너무 기특하고 대견하네요~
거짓울음 너무 귀엽고 웃기죠ㅎㅎㅎ 그래도 결국은 적응잘했는지 울지도않고 잘노는것 같아서 대견 해요!ㅎㅎㅎ 세가족 계속 행복하세요~~👍👍😊
Falso pianto? Perché falso? Ruda è ancora piccola...ma scherziamo???
그러게용ㅋㅋㅋㅋ👍👍👍👍👍👍
@@giuseppasantonocito8523 눈물없이 소리로만 우는것을 말합니다
@@giuseppasantonocito8523 9:11
젊은부부가 너무현명하게 아이를 잘키우고있어 보는영상마다 뿌듯합니다~
저도
유치원에서 일하는데 등원하면서 우는 친구들 한살 더 먹으면 동생들 첫등원하고 우는거보고 울지말라고 토닥토닥, 자기도 해봤다며 이끌어주더라구요 ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ 귀염둥이 루다 어린이집에서 신나게 놀고 행복하렴~~
거짓울음 너무 귀여워😆😆😆
가긴싫어도 나름 어린이집에서는 재밌나봐요ㅎㅎ
똑순이 루다 금방 적응한거에요~~😍
적응하는데 시간 필요할줄 알았는데 금방 적응해서 대견하네용 👍👍👍👍 루다 ❤️❤️❤️
루다 너무 대견한거같아요❤️
적응하기까지 옆에서 도와주신 민정님 경진님도 너무 대단하세요ㅠㅠ히히 무엇보다 어린이집 선생님분들이 다 너무 좋으신 분들 같아서 다행이에요! 오늘도 루다보면서 힐링하고 갑니당☺️🧡
루다 진짜 만화캐릭터처럼 생겨가지고,,, 귀여워 쥭겄네
어린이집 적응도 잘 해내고 기특하다 기특해❤
you can stop filming only if you want to and if you have to, it really depends on you. do not be pressured on what the other people say. we raise our kids differently and you as parents of Ruda know what is best for her. i totally understand and respect your decision :D god bless to you and your family!!!
Excellent!
Ruda is so use to being at home so she's scared.Try a half a day every other day for 3months then try a whole day every other day.Then proceed to a whole day.U must not give up or give in.Just let her cry.She will win always all the time.Be strong and stand ur boundaries.
@@mabelreid2918 lt is not that Ruda is so used to be at home... Toddlers in that age need their mommies around them to feel safe and for their emotional development... To send toddlers to nursery, away from their mummies in very early age cause stopping their special feeling improvements between mommies and babies...
It's not about winning. That comes from a power struggle. Letting her cry is confusing to her. Years ago Letting a child cry it out was thought to be the way to go. It's not. I've seen the consequences of the let them cry theory. Rudy's parents will make the right decision.
@@ouyeht actually allowing babies to stick to their mothers at that age constantly makes they co-dependant and more shy to talk to other kids. I know this because I had two nephews who were super clingy to their mothers and didn’t go to school till a certain age. I found out from other school teachers and experts that children who go to school earlier develop their social skills very early and are super social butterflies. And least codependent and more independent on wanting to do their own things.
현직 어린이집 교사 하면서 이렇게 적응 잘 해주면 참 고맙죠~ 간혹 왜 아이가 어린이집 가려고 하면 우냐며 부모님이 의심하시면 마음이 상하기도 하고요...저희가 최선을 다해도 처음 접하는 새로운 기관이 어린아이들에게 낯선것은 당연한 것이고 어린이집보단 부모님이 계신 집이 제일 좋은것이 아이들 마음이겠죠? 이해해주시는 분들이 감사할 따름입니다🥲
고생 많으세요~ 내 아이 하나 보는 것도 힘든데 말이죠~ 좋은 분들이 훨~~~~씬 많다는거 잘 알고 있습니다. 응원해요 ❤
아빠랑엄마랑 같이오는 데 저는 애기인게 생각나요😊
Hola soy espa;ola,sois buenos papas😊
🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
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너무 공감이에요!!
어린이집에서 배우는것들이 생각보다
훨씬 많은것 같아요!
루다는 어린이집 생활이 점점 재미있어지나봐요^^
표정이 너무 많이 밝아졌어요😄
친구들과 어울려 노는 모습이 너무 귀여워요❤
루다를 보고있으면 힐링입니다😍
নপ্বম্মম।৷ মক
3:31 저번 영상부터 루루~~이러면서 우는 게 너무 졸귀탱 ㅠㅜㅠ우는 거 맴찢이지만 너무 귀엽다 루다ㅠㅠ어린이집 적응 잘해서 다행이야 앞으로도 건강하고 행복해💗💗
386.909ㄱد€£* _*
Happy to see Ruda adjusting to daycare. She's a sweet natured girl who deserves a happy life.🙏❤😯😊
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living god,s in world are actually kids. till they turn three or four year they have universal connections that adults can,t feel or see. so that make them so special n adorable.
@@chandraMohan-wo5ji sure they do........
I worked in a daycare/preschool for several years. Those first couple weeks are always the hardest! Good job to all of you for being brave and following through! Now Ruda will be able to socialize with her peers and mom and dad get a mental break as well. ❤️
What's that mean?? Toddlers who are with their mums, dads not able to socialize??? In that age, human beings need their mum and dad around them for their emotions and emotional connections with their parents, not strangers whom they cannot give real emotions to babies but physical care as their duty... Please have a look the pediatric articules around the world about the affect of sending babies nursery in early age...
@@ouyeht it means exactly what I said. I didn’t say going to daycare was the best and only option. I’m commenting specifically on their video. Mom and dad have some child care provided so they can work and have a metal break. While that’s happening Ruda is making friends and learning in a different environment. I think that’s valuable for child and parents. I stand by my statement. Parents who have a need/want to send children to daycare should not be shamed by those who think their way is the only and right way to take care of children.
@@sarahcasias823 Then you exactly say "Now Ruda will be able to socialize with her peers" as if without daycare Ruda cannot be able to socialize, this is exactly what you say... Ruda needs to socialize when she speaks and keeps her moves well, she cannot do these as a toddler yet.. Babies, toddlers need mums and dads and their own place.. not peers not different environment.. The most valuable thing for babies and toddlers is constant emotional connection with their mum and dad, which cannot be provided by peers or carers in the nurseries.. Assume that to be mum and dad as a mental breaking "another job" is degrading being parents.. To be mum and dad is totaly unconditonal and instictive, it is nothing about "job" as it is showed to the society by the media... No one shamed parents as you falsely blamed but no one should courage parents to send their babies or toddlers very early age to nurseries either...
@@ouyeht who gives a shit she will end up fine, we all went to daycare... we’re all fine lol..?
@@ouyeht Every parents are different just because for you it's not good it will be applied to everyone.
Sometimes it's better for kids this age to learn this than later when they're older and they still cry when their mom or dad leaves them in Pre-School/Elementary/Grade School.
2 hours won't even hurt a child. It's normal for them to cry like that because they're attached to their parents.
My mom raised me that way, and every time she send me there she prepares me emotionally. Talking to me, telling me that she's going to be back...and would even bribe me that if I don't cry she will give me a treat or she will treat me somewhere when we get home.
I remember these things because up until pre-school we would have a talk every time I go to school. I always end up looking forward for the whole day without crying at all.
Again it's different for each and every one of us.
루다가 어린이집 조금씩 적응 잘하는거 같아서 넘뿌듯합니당 진짜 루다보는거 넘 힐링♡
15:00 이부분 뭉클합니다ㅠㅠ 어린이집 3부작은 잘만든 다큐같아요 퀄리티 최고!! 나중에 루다가 자라서 이 영상들을 본다면 감동받을것같아요 ♥ 루다의 성장을 지켜볼수있어서 너무 행복합니다 루다 최고! 진정부부 최고♥
공감합니다!!!❤️❤️❤️
마지막에 어린이집 사진들 보는데 왤케 뭉클하니ㅠㅠ 루다 너무 대견하고 예뻐요
Babies adapt in their own time and don’t let anyone tell you otherwise . She is beautiful and very loved . She is brave and a little actress xoxox
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Haha omg her fake cry is too cute haha! It's so beautiful to see how she's adapting.
아 진짜 세상의 모든 아기들은 천사입니다. 어른들 힘내서 천사들 살기 좋은 세상 만들어요^^
내가 생각하는 진정부부 시그니처 : 자다 깨 멍한 루다와 아침 대화.. 너무 귀엽고 너무 마음 따뜻해져요
제가 낳은 것도 아닌데 이 뿌듯함과 사랑스러움과 주체할 수 없는 듯한 이 마음 뭘까요,,,ㅎㅎㅎ루다 너무 기특하고 민정님 경진님도 고생 많으셨어요
루다가 잘 적응해서 다행이에요~ 유아교육과라 교수님께 이야기 많이 듣는데 한 달 지나도 적응 못하는 아이들도 있어요 루다가 말을 듣고 의미를 알고 대답도 잘하는데 집에서 어린이집에서 있었던 일? 밥 잘 먹었니 잘 잤니 잘 놀았니 어린이집과 관련한 말을 자주해주세요 책도 많이 들려주시고요 그럼 루다의 앞으로 얼집 생활이 더 편해질 것 같네요
Ruda is doing a lovely and amazing job at adapting! I'm an Early Childhood Education major in college and her crying while separating and even talking about going or getting ready to go is completely normal! between ages 15 mo- 2 1/2 their brain is starting to make new emotions, so she actually is learning how she feels so they can be very sensitive and irritable during this time because they simply don't know what they are feeling. But you guys are doing an amazing job at reassuring her! And i was so proud of her the day she didn't cry when you got to the daycare!
So happy to have stumbled upon you! 🌹
Another ECE here!
Where are you from?
I remember this.. how small Ruda is... and those big eyes. And how adorable and polite. Brave Ruda!
I like it when she pause crying for listening to her mom and cries again after 😂🥰 babies are dramatic ❤️
I guess you have to thank the teachers, they did a great job helping Ruda adapt to her daycare
루다가 어린이집에 잘 적응해서 다행이에요!! 어린이집 교사를 꿈꾸고 있는 전공 학생으로서 이렇게 아이와 부모님의 입장에서 보게 되어 좋네요ㅎㅎ 교사가 되었을 때 정말 큰 밑거름이 될 것 같아요 항상 감사합니다 루다야 사랑해 !!!!
아유ㅠㅠ 우는 거 보면 맴찢이긴 하지만… 남이 봐도 이케 이쁜데ㅠㅠ 루다 보기만 해도 너무 행복하시겠어요🥰
I owned a daycare for 10 years, children learn what works for them in their first year of life. She will also have separation anxiety in the beginning but will learn that you come back for her everyday. She will learn to socialize and comfort herself and in the long run that’s what we all want for our children. Confidence and strength. I would always tell parents to drop off quickly and leave without showing their anxiety and fear. Children mimic what they see. Best of luck w your adorable daughter!
That age she doesn't need to socialize, she needs "first" her mum and dad around her to improve her emotional connection with them.. Nursery cannot replace that very special connection between toddlers and their parents... but stops that connection which they will need later in life...
@@ouyeht literally no one agrees with you
@@ouyeht no one agrees. Move the fuck on bruh
@@Madiluvs2526 No one would agree with your disrespectful, rude insults... Obviously you are the proof of bad affect of the early age daycare... you cannot discuss without insulting which shows you have anger issues...
@@Madelope "Literally no ones agrees with you" is the answer to you..
When my boy went to day care for the first day. He cried a lot and it made me cry a lot too. The feeling of separation is equally painful. But we get used to it... Love you lil angel. You are a brave girl.
Чудесная девочка. И очень хорошие родители. Любящие, терпеливые.
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루다야 우는건 넘 맘아픈데 .. 그와중에도 루루 꼭 안고 다니는건 너무 귀엽다 ㅠㅠ
2:48 삐인!!! 너무기여워유ㅠ ㅠ ㅠ 구슬같은 눈물 뚝뚝흘리면서 삔꼽아달랰ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ아기여웡
Her little bow gets me every time. What a cutie.
마지막에 잘 노는 모습을 보니 전에 울면서 어린이집 갔던게 마냥 힘든건 아니었던거 같네요 ㅎㅎ 그와중에 루다 귀엽다!
아침에 우는모습 마음아팠는데 잘 적응하는 모습 너무 귀여워요~~
루다도 조금 더 성장한만큼 경진씨랑 민정씨도 더 성장한 부모가된 것 같아요~^^(육아선배의 오지랖 ^^)
오지랖이 뭐죠?
@@user_ly ‘오지랖이 넓다’라는 표현 있죠? 쓸데없이 남의 일에 참견한다, 간섭한다 그런 의미입니다. 어떤 일이든 아는 체하고 많이 나서는 사람을 표현할때 주로 쓰이는 표현입니다. 오지랍 넓은 저도 여기에 댓글 달고있네요^^;;
She’s absolutely adorable, you two are great parents, remind me a little of my own parents, they as well had (and still) have standards with me until my stress is gone. That’s really great 👍
3:10 여기 진짜 맴찢.. 잘 적응한거 보면 정말 뿌듯하지만 과정만 보면 진짜 눈물 줄줄ㅠㅠ 루다도 가는거 알아서 막 저런다는게..
아니 왜 제가 다 뿌듯하죠ㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠ 루다 마지막에 어린이집 사진 보는데 흐뭇합니다 ㅎㅎ 오늘도 인생 선배님들의 조언, 잘 새겨듣고 갑니다💛
정말 대견하다 루다야!!!! 저번 영상에서는 진짜 눈물 날 정도로 맴찢이었는데ㅜㅜㅜ앞으로도 무럭무럭 예쁘게 자라렴😍😍
우는 루다보니 눈물이 났네요.
저런 고비를 넘겨야 모든상황이 끝나죠..
근데 정말 느낀게~
또래보다 똑똑하고 하니까 더 빨리 적응한거 같아요.
댓글 오랜만에 적는데..
정말 크면 클수록 넘나 예뻐지는구나..♡
엄지척👍👍
Engraçado que quando o pai dela pede a mão ela não dá e quando a mãe pede ela da kkkk muito fofa. Também quando ela tá com o pai pergunta pela mãe, e quando tá com a mãe pergunta pelo pai. Muito fofa ela. Essa fase é assim mesmo, adaptação.
I am so happy and proud of Ruda, she really is a brave girl, she is lucky to have such great dads who care about her and educate her since she was little correctly 💘💘
Good job, I love this family 🥺❤️
현 어린이집교사입니다^^ 적응기..참 힘들죠 저도 아이들이 적응기간에 낯선곳에 평생 옆에 엄마아빠도 안계시니 슬프고 무섭기도 할게예요 적응기간 오래걸리면 6개월까지 걸린 친구도 봤어요(현재저희반)ㅋㅋ 루다 적응하는거보니 중간중간 울음만 있는게 아니고 울음참는모습 보이는거 보니 빠른 적응할거같아요:)
한달뒤쯤이면 엄청 씩씩하게 갈거같네요~
저는 셋째조카가 지긍도 울어요
Parabéns pela filha linda q vocês tem, dói muito qdo tem q deixar na creche e vê o choro deles, mas faz parte da vida, que bom q ela se adaptou era feliz! Deus os abençoe 🙏🇧🇷
아 루다ㅋㅋㅋㅋ 가짜로 우는거 왜케 귀엽지ㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠ 부모님들 고생많으셔요ㅠㅠ
It took my son who was already 3, nine whole months of crying when I left him every morning before he could stay a whole day, my heart broke so much but I persevered and never broke the schedule and he finally waved bye to me with a big smile rather than screaming with tears 😍❤️
Dear God, I am so thankful that my mother did not leave me with strangers at nine months old.
@@daisydukes8252 He was three years old. It took nine months for him to stop crying. It sounds like it was partly developmental. He wasn’t old enough. I think kids should home with their mommies. That’s my .02.
@@genxx2724 some people don’t have need to bring their kids to daycare because they don’t/need that time in their schedule.
Que legal, que a Ruda se adaptou na creche. Me cortava o coração, vê-la chorando tanto. Era engraçado o choro, falso. Kkk
I'm so proud of Ruda. She's so brave. Well done Ruda! We are all supporting you!
루다 잘 적응해서 다행이네용😙😙 너무 기특하고 예뻐요ㅠㅠ💖💖 제 조카는 거의 3개월동안 가기 힘들어했는데 지금은 집에 안오려 해요ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ선생님 너무 좋아하구 집에 가기싫다고 운다는… 가끔은 데릴러 온 거 못본척해요 ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅜㅜㅜㅜ웃긴놈😂😂
I think daycare is great for her! It will help develop her social skills. Eventually, she'll get used to it and there will be no more crying.
Она так выросла!!! Чужие дети и вправду бустро растут))) Я достаточно долго за ними следила, а потом перестала. Такая красивенькая!! Ей очень идёт с пучком!!
아 ㅜㅜ 루다 울면서 루루 부르는고 왜케귀여움ㅠㅠ 너무귀엽네요ㅜㅡㄴ
I love that you are filming sweet Ruda every day with daycare. It breaks my heart to see her cry, though the fake tears are funny. You are making great progress getting her use to daycare. Keep up the good work! Daycare is important for Ruda’s development. Love the three of you so much!🥰. ❤️❤️😘😘😘
When KJ said that they can take better care of Ruda physically and mentally when she comes back from daycare, it reminds me of the saying "absence makes the heart grow fonder".
❤️❤️❤️
no you shouldn't put baby anywhere at this age
a mother should teach baby to talk first
its precious time for baby the way of talking their accent and behaving
you can make baby socialize with let them interact with adults
at this age she has nothing to gain from playing interacting with same age
she is still baby
she will go to Kindergarten and school and stuff for physically and mental growth
she will not gain same attention she needs at this age
she needs to learn to talk and behave from parents first
@@xzxz2169 well some parents want to take their kid to daycare, or sometimes they just don't have an option, especially if they are both working, so get over it and don't tell other people what they should do with their own life ,peace!
@@mrim1722
what they should do with their own life
i mean you can do whatever you want
but should you ?
some ways of doing things are objectively better than others
you dont need both people doing job or earn money
specially if you have baby
you can do job after kid grow up
i had both parents working
it sucks for kid trust me
a kid doesn't care about you earning money
so at least you should be with them full time till they can do basic things
at least till they can talk and express what they want to say
@@xzxz2169 uhhh? Do you have children?
Parents have to work to earn money to fed, cloth and house the child. Not every family can afford to just have one parent working. Your comment is ridiculous because it doesn't even include single parent families.
My mom worked all the time and I was in daycare, preschool and with my grandma. I loved it.
Your personal experience is not everyone's experience.
Also, it is very important for children to socialize with other children. Social skills are important and it is good to learn them early on.
영상 볼때마다 루다가 점점더 이뻐지고 있네요
잘 적응하고 있어서 다행이예요
이쁘고 사랑스런 루다야~~ 랜선이모가 넘나 사랑해♡♡♡
아가가 눈물을 멈추려고 할때 안우네 라고 하면 더 안좋다고 들었어요ㅠㅜ계속 루다앞에서 안우네? 라고 인지하게 하시는것같아요 아기가 혼자서 참을 수 있도록 잘 다녀왓어? 재밌었어? 이런 말을 더 먾이해주세여 는 무슨 모르겟고 너무 기엽네ㅠㅜㅠ루다야 사랑해
Какой подход к ребёнку. Вы все молодцы!!! 👍От учителей тоже много зависит
아 난 저 거짓울음이 왜케 귀여운거지 ㅜㅜ
어제 루다 동네 점등식 갔다가 점등식은 안보고 루다야만 외치고 돌아왔어요 ㅋㅋ
남편이 그만하라고..ㅋㅋ 완전 찐이모팬이에요 😭 언젠가 동네에서 만나면 맛있는거 줄게 이모가♥️
뭔가 루다 사촌동생들도 보고 싶어요! 루다랑 어울려서 노는 거 정말 귀여울 것 같아요!
Foi uma jornada e tanto. Eu sempre na expectativa de como ela iria se sentir. E compartilhava das emoções de vocês, pais. Coisa boa que a Rudá se acostumou e agora pode aproveitar a convivência com os amiguinhos!
Great job Ruda. It's very hard to leave your child when they are young. I remember it well. Mom and Dad, You are doing a great job!!! You're both awesome parents.
Это просто прелесть девчушка.когда плачет ,так хочется ее прижать к себе,успокоить.
Poor baby, it probably doesn’t help that she’s a quarantine baby and human contact during most of her life has been minimal, even amongst family. It’s not her fault, nor is it yours. You guys are wonderful and raising such a lovely person too. Sending you all good energy!
YAY FOR RUDA!! I know it must be hard to see her cry, but school is good for them and for parents too - you both need a break also. She is a resilient little girl! We are all proud of her! I am inspired by your courage and strength during this process - I know it will be hard when we send our kids...
Well stated !
🥺🥺 Ruda gets so emotional when it comes to Ruru. It’s so cute!!! She loves Ruru so much 💖💖💖💖
I can’t believe she is younger than two and she talks soooo well
really proud of ruda! and well done to all moms and dads and teachers all around the world~ also ruda parents you've done so well!
처음엔 루다 울때 마음이 아팠어요
적응 잘 해서 다행이에요
루다가 많이 행복하길 바래요 🙏😊
I’m glad Ruda is adapting! She’s adjusting a little slow, but as she gets older, she’ll adjust quicker and quicker!
Que ridícula ,a medida que envejece se va adaptando ,?? Contestación para quien iso ese comentario
I think she adapted at a good pace
That wasn't slow at all. Given the breaks and weekends. She actually did great for so young
This channel is such a good repository of Ruda's childhood. I wish I too had sth like this while I was a growing up. But I guess every time period has it's own pros and cons.
I ❤ Ruda. She's become so dear (to so many people) even though I, and others like me of course, don't know her personally.
She loves Ru Ru like it is real.....survival instinct not to want to depart from parents company
She will get used to it in sometime. Don't stop trying . Don't worry about filming, we understand your situation. Even if you limit your videos to a few , we shall eagerly wait for them and send lots of love to all of you. Take your time to concentrate on ruda and family matters for now ... we are always cheering for you! Lots of love MJ KJ and ruda ❤❤❤
루다야~~~웬일이니 어린이집 적응기 저번주꺼보다가 나도 눈물이 날 정도로 너무 루다가 힘들어보였는데 ㅠㅠㅠㅠ이번영상에서는 적응도 잘하고 울지도 않았다니 진짜 너무 대단하고 멋지다 루다~~~~ 너무 감격스러워 ㅠㅠㅠ 두분도 정말 고생많이하셨을거같아요 제3자가 보기에도 이렇게 힘든데 얼마나 힘드셨을지 ㅠㅠ 그래도 이제 잘 적응했으니 말씀하신대로 체력회복 정신건강회복! 잘하셨으면 좋겠어요 그리고 루다야 넌 너무 귀여워....널 으쩌면 좋니🥲
It's such a relief that she no longer struggles and she is happy in the daycare. All we want in ruda's happiness!! 🤗 rupins are so proud of ruda. ❤
We sure do
Yes we are😁👏🏾🎈💝
Thankyou for sharing Ruda's cuteness while she's growing up. Stay healthy and hapyy Ruda. Fighting!!!
루다 너무 씩씩하네요~~기특하고 멋지네요~새로운환경의 적응은 시간이 해결해주는듯해요~기특한루다~멋지다~어린이집선생님도 부모님도 고생 많으셨어요~~루다 화이팅~
The photos at the end made me emotional, she's so grown up now! 🥺 Well done for not giving up.
아이궁 루다 어린이집 잘 적응해서 다행이에요:-) 루다는 날이 갈수록 예뻐지는거 같아여ㅠㅠ♡
I've been following Ruda since she was born. I'm very touched and proud of her starting daycare.
(My English isn't very good, I'm sorry if I'm wrong)
Gosh she so cute even when she is crying
루다어머니아버지 고생 하셨어요
루다의 어린이집 가기 적응 완료
이제는 잘 다닐거니까 힘내세요
Ruda is the worlds most adorable child! You are doing a wonderful thing by taking her to pre-school. I had an only child. I felt he needed it to be more socially rounded. They get so much out of it! The adjustment with so many tears is really difficult initially! You are both terrific parents and she is so blessed with a Mom and Dad like both of you!
우리애가 우나안우나 현관앞에서 귀기울이는건 국룰인가봄ㅋㅋㅋㅋ어린이집을 보내야하나 고민중신분들은 QnA에서 해답을 찾으시길~ 부모의 정신과 육체가 건강해야 아이도 건강하게 키울 수 있다.
👍👍루다 어린이집생활 사진보고 넘 기엽고 흐뭇해서 입꼬리가 내려오질않네요^^ 힘든시간 잘 적응한 루다와 진정부부에게 박수보내용~
The cutest little manipulator! Ruda learned this cry hard get what I want so early! Woah! 😵😵 Ruda is doing well .Ruda We love you ❤️ MJ & KJ you are very great parents. I pray God will bless you more and more as you grow and go through life.
Children are not even able to manipulated at that age. They do not even have a sense of empathy yet, so how should they be able to manipulate anyone?
Definitely agree with you.
And I think it will be best for them to stop mentioning the daycare as a scary thing to her like, "I don't know if she would cry today when we go to the day care" she might interpret it as something she is supposed to do because she only cries when you mention the daycare.
You are the best parents a child could ask for and the reason of what I said above is because Roda is very smart and she picks up fast too.
영상 기다렸어요 ㅠ 루다 우는건 여전히 맘 아프네요😿그래도 많이 적응해서 잘 노는거 보면
참 대단한거같아요..
ruda is the most precious little angel ever, she’s so sweet 🥺
16:03 Great color and outfit for Ruda. When I originally watch this episode, I felt heart break that she was having to deal with separation anxieties from her parents. As adults, we forget about those early feelings of moving thru to adult life.