The Pain Of Losing My Son - Monde Shange

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  • Опубликовано: 19 дек 2024

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  • @ThulisileSibeko-vn4ky
    @ThulisileSibeko-vn4ky Месяц назад +33

    "I'll do anything to get back my family" thats wat i liked abt him
    Fight for it man

  • @KananeloMabelane
    @KananeloMabelane Месяц назад +83

    An ex not badmouthing an ex its rare

  • @Raekonzapi
    @Raekonzapi Месяц назад +44

    Big ups to Justice for such an authentic interview ,a lot of people may not realize this but this is actually therapy ,allowing your guest to speak out freely without judgment is an amazing skill ,i pray for Monde and Tumi's healing

  • @SheronLunga
    @SheronLunga Месяц назад +41

    Guys a petition for justice to mediate between these two to get back together, please

  • @phumzilemkhatshwa1943
    @phumzilemkhatshwa1943 Месяц назад +90

    I wish Tumi and Monde would just make up, this guy loves Tumi. I still think Tumi is your soulmate.

    • @SindiNdlovu-k5z
      @SindiNdlovu-k5z Месяц назад +6

      But he was kinda playing with her when they were together.
      I guess you never know what you have until it's lost.

    • @ThulisileSibeko-vn4ky
      @ThulisileSibeko-vn4ky Месяц назад

      I wish so too

    • @malebs8332
      @malebs8332 22 дня назад +1

      And your wish came true🎉

    • @SindiNdlovu-k5z
      @SindiNdlovu-k5z 22 дня назад

      @@malebs8332 yeah. Hope they've learned from they mistakes. wishing them light 🕯️

  • @DonkeyKhong99
    @DonkeyKhong99 Месяц назад +19

    Monde King, you don't know me but thank you for coming here and talking. We needed this. I know I speak for a lot of men out there whether they admit it or not, but we needed this. We salute you king. Stay strong my brother. Big up.

  • @Sbosh_mokoma
    @Sbosh_mokoma Месяц назад +16

    I'm just so emotional when I look at you Monde Shange 😢my God grant back ur marriage n n interven between u n Tumi❤

  • @Kgaogelobaby
    @Kgaogelobaby Месяц назад +26

    Monde still in Pain😢For the Fact yaorr he's praising Ugogo For being strong ❤

  • @olgamaluluke8240
    @olgamaluluke8240 Месяц назад +20

    Imagine dating monde now and you see and hear him talking about Tumi with so much love...

  • @sibongilemthunzi3857
    @sibongilemthunzi3857 Месяц назад +16

    you can even hear the pain in his voice hey, I pray they receive healing

  • @LERATOa7215
    @LERATOa7215 Месяц назад +26

    You a drained man , even your actions shows it😢 sending love and light to you and sis Tumi❤

  • @filoelekhuane
    @filoelekhuane Месяц назад +7

    I can feel the pain in monde's voice 😢😢, m sending love and healing to you and tumi ❤️🌹

  • @teyamkhonza7439
    @teyamkhonza7439 Месяц назад +21

    Men opening spaces for each other to be vulnerable. Absolutely needed and beautiful to witness.

  • @nokuthulabooi1930
    @nokuthulabooi1930 Месяц назад +7

    Thank you brother Justice for being authentic and humble soul

  • @OlothandoMbungu
    @OlothandoMbungu Месяц назад +42

    Ahhh 😢tumi posted on her ig story "has anyone ever divorced and regretted it?"I hope that was a sign

    • @NtombiKalimashe
      @NtombiKalimashe Месяц назад +10

      lets get petition for them to get back together man!!!

    • @aronmathebula8889
      @aronmathebula8889 Месяц назад +5

      ​@@NtombiKalimasheI agree with you I would also love to see them get back together hle

  • @makopamadia4091
    @makopamadia4091 Месяц назад +8

    I will be praying for this couple. God will restore their family.

  • @justinewitbeen6186
    @justinewitbeen6186 Месяц назад +11

    LOVE AND LIGHT Monde and Gogo
    No relationship/marriage is perfect even those making noise on the socials they are not in perfect marriages. Focus on mending things between you two and make your marriage work because you two still love each other. Misunderstandings will be there but you gotta fight for your love no matter what we are not perfect beings that why we serve God and ask for His guidance on this journey of life. TUMI GIRL MONDE LOVES YOU ❤️ GOD WILL HEAL YOU GUY'S

  • @SetlogolosaDitshwene
    @SetlogolosaDitshwene Месяц назад +6

    Thanks brother for this episode
    And thank you Monde to speak the truth from your heart...u an Tumi deserves each other...keep on praying and fight for what belongs to you which is your family.

  • @Mnm403
    @Mnm403 Месяц назад +6

    U are way better than gogo maweni u were bind by love more than anything, she s a good woman and u are a good man , initiate the love back dude siyacela as a country

  • @edithhartland8326
    @edithhartland8326 Месяц назад +3

    Monde u guys love each other and u can give it a second shot and make it work u are a perfect match. I will keep u in my prayers 🙏🙏

  • @masentlejiyane6021
    @masentlejiyane6021 Месяц назад +7

    U guys wena no Tumie u were made for each other, and u make a good couple 💓💓

  • @ChildofGod98765
    @ChildofGod98765 Месяц назад +5

    i’m very sorry for your loss. Praying for you. Holy Spirit, direct me in my career, and finances. As a single mother with two children with special needs life is an overwhelming journey, especially because I’m constantly faced with financial difficulties. Lord I struggle to provide the basic necessities for my sons, like groceries and rent. I pray for your divine intervention in my life, that you would provide for my children’s needs and guide me towards financial stability in Jesus name I pray.🙏🏾

  • @KananeloMabelane
    @KananeloMabelane Месяц назад +17

    Good luck on getting ur family back... don't give up😢❤❤❤

  • @paulinahmatlala9369
    @paulinahmatlala9369 Месяц назад +8

    Am i the only one chopping onions on behalf of Monde because he is holding himself 😢💔 yhooo this guy is hurting so much, loosing boy and his wife 😭😭
    #May God heal your heart, Monde😢
    #May you and Tumi fix things and marry again ☺️🕯

  • @pumlakoltana936
    @pumlakoltana936 Месяц назад +5

    Monde I salute u, u are a man .I respect u and never payed attention on u but yhaaa .

  • @chabat-xz6bf
    @chabat-xz6bf Месяц назад +4

    U will get yo family back bro.....u r in our prayers

  • @joaquinadomingos5656
    @joaquinadomingos5656 Месяц назад +2

    May you find the peace 🕊️ and believe Uboy is in place where there's no pain, no more suffering and he loves you so much, he's so proud of his dad and you guys will always be connected.
    This is so therapeutic, thank you for being vulnerable and allowing other man to understand that this is not a one person journey and there are stagesthat you don't have to do or be alone.
    Tumi you've got it all here...
    Monde you've got this, your family will heal and they need you as much as you need them. ❤

  • @tumiedyakopu8370
    @tumiedyakopu8370 Месяц назад +4

    I pray you guys get back and you guys still in love with each other. .” I would do anything to get my family back” ahhhhh that touched me😢

  • @gofaonembojane3050
    @gofaonembojane3050 Месяц назад +2

    You love Tumi so so much Monde, will keep you on my prayers 🙏🏽

  • @NtombifuthiMbele-ps7de
    @NtombifuthiMbele-ps7de Месяц назад +2

    I wish you the best of luck Monde and please work on getting your family back u were a responsible family Man Liyana needs you,and you and your wife also need each other you are a match made in heaven

  • @andilengubane5178
    @andilengubane5178 Месяц назад +1

    What an emotional interview! May the people close to Monde support and love him genuinely. He needs it! Love and light to you Monde and Skhotheni, may God shine His light 💡 on you.

  • @masentlejiyane6021
    @masentlejiyane6021 Месяц назад +10

    Monde fight for ur family, God hate divorce

  • @siphokazimbali
    @siphokazimbali Месяц назад +2

    😢Loved them as an item n hope God brings thm back together love and light Monde n Tumi strongs guys❤

  • @SamMalefahlo
    @SamMalefahlo Месяц назад +9

    This is deep and painful
    Was on tears watching this. People are going through a lot and that moment you feel like you going through the most and there’s someone who’s going through the worst
    Big ups bro for speaking your heart and I hope u sister can find a way to meet you half way and sort out things
    Be strong infect you’re strong so just get stronger and maintain that. Most people takes their life in such situations but nina nicinile and it’s motivational to people like us
    Justice my guy please look out for u Monde and thanks a lot for being there for him. Just know that this isn’t just about him but about most of us going through stuff
    Big ups gents 🙏🏾

  • @mamakamwelase6776
    @mamakamwelase6776 Месяц назад +4

    😢😢Monde s voice yoh,sorry bhuti for wat u going thru may the good Lord comfort you both

  • @nelisiwesimelane7610
    @nelisiwesimelane7610 Месяц назад +2

    Healing and strength to you and mama Liyana❤️

  • @LucretiaManda
    @LucretiaManda Месяц назад +2

    May the good Lord give you both strength and keep you guys together and reunite you guys your love is stronger work it out please❤❤sending love to both Monde n Tumi

  • @LikeleliMotseki
    @LikeleliMotseki Месяц назад +2

    the pain in his voice yho Lord...comfort this man

  • @Sompisi-w9v
    @Sompisi-w9v Месяц назад +2

    Ohhh man This was so painful to watch😢sorry to Monde and Tumi hope things get better and their marriage to be restored

  • @emelinakhorola7227
    @emelinakhorola7227 13 дней назад

    Oooooooooh wow Shange u just made me blush😊 may God bless that man in u bro maan❤

  • @SekelaKomani
    @SekelaKomani Месяц назад +1

    Bhuti Justice Shabalala I love watching your podcasts, Positivity,clear and collected, big up Grootman. Watching from Cape Town 👏🏾
    I'm sorry for your loss Bhuti Monde😢

  • @NomfundoTsabedze-e4o
    @NomfundoTsabedze-e4o Месяц назад +2

    Love and lights Tumi and Monde im praying that God gives u strength in everything u going through ❤

  • @moore_Jade
    @moore_Jade Месяц назад +3

    monde ur a man amongsts men😍🙏.. praying for u nd tumi🥹🙏

  • @PhumelelaMhle-s9b
    @PhumelelaMhle-s9b Месяц назад +2

    Love and light Baba Liyana🥺

  • @thatochiloane2268
    @thatochiloane2268 Месяц назад +3

    Yoh man I pray God doubles EVERYTHING you guys lost 🙏❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @wawa2.2
    @wawa2.2 Месяц назад +2

    We definitely need to intercede for them ❤

  • @nomsangema8162
    @nomsangema8162 Месяц назад +1

    It's okay to feel that way ❤ I lost my 1st 9 months in 2010 ne ke gowisha shame I grew to accept and move on 😢

  • @fridahlunga3410
    @fridahlunga3410 Месяц назад

    It is well my brother Monde , may the Good Lord continue to strengthen you and sis Tumi . Please do allow yourself to cry , also the pain will get better with time. I am one person who has been in your shoes, a sick child, a break up and loosing the child.

  • @GloriaSijila
    @GloriaSijila 27 дней назад

    I pray that You and your Wife rekindle your love you both went through a lot More Blessings ❤🙌🏼🙇🏼‍♀️

  • @PhumeleleNdarana
    @PhumeleleNdarana 28 дней назад

    Monde good luck to get your family back..Monde and Tumi May God give both of u strength ❤❤

  • @gomolemojaele8595
    @gomolemojaele8595 26 дней назад

    Boy really went through a lot.....may the good Lord heal you, I know the pain of losing a child. Lost mine at 1 year 3 months, its been 14 years but still feels like yesterday 😢

  • @missTee708
    @missTee708 28 дней назад

    Go back home Monde, the streets are cold😢 your wife and daughter needs you.
    Big ups to Justice for such a phenomenal interview... 🙌 🎉❤ i really loved and enjoyed watching.

  • @pinkyradebe9037
    @pinkyradebe9037 Месяц назад +3

    I pray that God restores your marriage with Tumi 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻❤️❤️❤️

  • @athienkosimakara5500
    @athienkosimakara5500 Месяц назад +7

    Jesus Christ love you Monde, and He want to heal your heart from that pain of losing your child. I am a father, and I know how you feel, I went through what you are going through.
    And Jesus says He is not responsible for the death of your child. satan is responsible, he only comes to steal, kill and destroy, and Jesus came in order to restore and give us life in abundance.
    Let Him in brother, open up to Him, just go to your private room and ask Him to reveal Himself to you, say this to Him 'Jesus, if you are really, reveal yourself, give me answers why I lost my child, and heal me from this deep hurt',
    If you are sincere He will show up, and He will heal you. He is your father, He Loves you so much, and He can restore your home.

  • @KhazmlaFunekaYiliwe
    @KhazmlaFunekaYiliwe Месяц назад +1

    Try bhut to get you family back don't give up❤

  • @hymnistmapulaphaho7848
    @hymnistmapulaphaho7848 21 день назад

    I'm glad that they are back together 🎉🎉🎉❤❤

  • @thandolwenkosimahlangu2772
    @thandolwenkosimahlangu2772 Месяц назад +1

    ❤ ❤ May you heal Mondeo in all the aspects of life ❤ ❤phola Monde.

  • @MatshedisoPelo
    @MatshedisoPelo Месяц назад +1

    Monde you really need Tumi on your side to heal. Get healing with her and make time for you guys to sit and talk. You two belong together.

  • @zumbapilane
    @zumbapilane Месяц назад +1

    Sorry Monde. Wish so much that you can work things out.

  • @portiatshabane8056
    @portiatshabane8056 Месяц назад +4

    Oh umntwana wabantu nkosiyam ubuhlungu ngomtanakhe ey 😢😢😢

  • @xolelwayamiso5759
    @xolelwayamiso5759 28 дней назад

    ❤❤Monde and Tumi please guys fix yourselves then you fix your relationship ❤

  • @masentlejiyane6021
    @masentlejiyane6021 Месяц назад +1

    M sending love to u both of u Monde plus Tumie❤❤❤

  • @LeleMalie-bk4uc
    @LeleMalie-bk4uc Месяц назад +5

    Babaka Liyana remarry Mamaka Liyana.

  • @thembelihlemoyo8
    @thembelihlemoyo8 Месяц назад +2

    I think Monde is hurt about loosing the baby , to make things worse he lost marriage
    so to try and heal from the baby ngapha at the same time he try and heal the marriage its too much , l think if y are used to come home and have a family its hard to come to and be alone home so he is hurting but l think they can sort out their things even from interviews u can tell there is hope there

  • @yonelapokwana
    @yonelapokwana Месяц назад +1

    😢😢😢oh maan Monde im so emotionally yhooo

  • @MahlogonoloSebola
    @MahlogonoloSebola Месяц назад +5

    Tumi Mama you are a strong woman a real imbokoto🥺🥺🥺🤌 and Monde sorry baba, allow yourself to grieve the loss of the only son you had.❤️
    You guys really did and still are doing this parenting so well
    You 2 are stronger together trust me!!❤️

  • @thulisilemahlobo6389
    @thulisilemahlobo6389 Месяц назад

    God won't give you what you can't handle ❤❤❤

  • @phindilekhosa3757
    @phindilekhosa3757 25 дней назад

    One thing i loved about this monde never bad mouth tumi it shows maturity amd taking accountability for hos part

  • @nonkululekosibiya9933
    @nonkululekosibiya9933 Месяц назад +1

    Beautiful to watch

  • @SimpleWithMarygold
    @SimpleWithMarygold Месяц назад +1

    I pray you mend your marriage ❤

  • @lintlemosola7129
    @lintlemosola7129 28 дней назад

    Love and light to your family bro

  • @SiphumeleleNdlovu-t7l
    @SiphumeleleNdlovu-t7l Месяц назад

    May god heal Monde and Tumi❤️‍🩹

  • @HessiePhala
    @HessiePhala 29 дней назад

    Tumi n monde pls get back together pls,u belong together ❤

  • @queeniekhosifulafula3198
    @queeniekhosifulafula3198 29 дней назад

    Awuuuu bhuti wami🙏🙏🙏🙏 lungisani mntase ilwa bhuti nilingise izinto no mama Liyana ❤❤ Thixo unibusisile kuzo zonke izindlu akhona amahla ndenyuka ndathanda noba understand ubizo luka maka Liyana🙏🙏🙏🧎🧎💐💐🤍🤍utata nguye intloko ekhaya so buyela kwi family yakho tata nibahle nibancinci nifanelene nikhulise Liyana together futhi nkulunkulu sezonipha third Monde junior ❤❤❤❤🙏🙏🙏🧎💐💐

  • @drkhanyarajuili4753
    @drkhanyarajuili4753 Месяц назад +4

    A great interview to allow Monde to exhale. He has not healed, even his seating position says a lot

  • @Mnm403
    @Mnm403 Месяц назад +1

    Tumi please get back together for us please please u monde uyakthanda kakhulu

  • @NthabisengMotseki-o1q
    @NthabisengMotseki-o1q Месяц назад

    I pray that you get back together ❤️

  • @SdimezaneNyumba
    @SdimezaneNyumba 23 дня назад

    Monday buyela kumkakho plz 🙏 zama gamadla wakho woke ❤

  • @yoneladumezweni6335
    @yoneladumezweni6335 Месяц назад +5

    Aw Monde 🥺. I salute you man for accounting for your actions, that's very rare

  • @masesimaswanganyi2460
    @masesimaswanganyi2460 Месяц назад

    I wish you guys can mend things and be a family again

  • @malebosekai1971
    @malebosekai1971 7 дней назад

    Iyoo guys story Sa Monde is so hurt 😢😢😢

  • @phumzaentle3792
    @phumzaentle3792 Месяц назад +1

    Nizobuyelana nina because niyathandana. It's just a life lesson yonke lento yenzekayo.

  • @MatshelisoJeff-z7n
    @MatshelisoJeff-z7n 26 дней назад

    🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔 You guys went through the most

  • @ladye1253
    @ladye1253 Месяц назад +1

    Praying for them yhaz

  • @hapilwephatela4510
    @hapilwephatela4510 29 дней назад

    Ohhh how I luv this couple

  • @thanzielakhalishi7731
    @thanzielakhalishi7731 14 дней назад

    Monde and tumi please guys fix ur marriage for de sake of liana ,boy and de girls .u r de best couple i have ever seen and u inspire me a lot.just go for counsellling or something u guys still love each other just dat u were goiwishing

  • @cherylherbert1180
    @cherylherbert1180 26 дней назад

    Kgutlelanang,side chicks and pride aside...ke qetile

  • @busisiwempekula4260
    @busisiwempekula4260 Месяц назад +1

    Love and light Monde💕. I also pray for your failed marriage to work out again so you can be there fully for each other 🫂🫂🙏❤️

  • @Vv-fl2rm
    @Vv-fl2rm Месяц назад +1

    After abusing abd beating that woman you. Ofcourse you will hear the idiots busy with "nchoa tumi should give him another change" mxm

  • @SAmusicsupporter
    @SAmusicsupporter Месяц назад +1

    may Jesus heal u guys askies

  • @SinoxoloJeeno
    @SinoxoloJeeno Месяц назад +2

    Sengikhona ❤❤

  • @litebohomotaung671
    @litebohomotaung671 Месяц назад +2

    🙏🙏Monde

  • @OumaMosekili
    @OumaMosekili Месяц назад +3

    Try monde to get you family back ,

  • @BoitumeloOtse
    @BoitumeloOtse Месяц назад +1

    You too are lucky to have each other #montumi

  • @maite_lyn
    @maite_lyn 28 дней назад

    They love each other and should stop reasoning out of the social media eye. They should step out of fame, and reason as 2 parents who love each other and have kids together ..

  • @noluvuyomdingi3272
    @noluvuyomdingi3272 Месяц назад +1

    Monde's voice yhoooo 😭😭😭

  • @MyOpinion_MyReality
    @MyOpinion_MyReality 28 дней назад

    "We don't afford grief " 😢 yoooooo

  • @queeniekhosifulafula3198
    @queeniekhosifulafula3198 29 дней назад

    Kuzolunga bhuti wam 🙏🙏🙏🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍💐💐

  • @gomolemojaele8595
    @gomolemojaele8595 26 дней назад

    Wow......when he said I met my wife not my ex-wife

  • @xolelwayamiso5759
    @xolelwayamiso5759 28 дней назад

    ❤❤ Sorry Monde, aargh man