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Aww, you two girls are lovely!! 😍😍 So well explained, Kathleen and thank you for speaking specifically on this one - a little refreshing shakeup was obviously much needed here 😜🙏
Thank you for sharing this. - i have been in chaos - since taking advice to avoid, thinking that was the answer and every-time i avoided and blocked. i felt chaos and fear . When I dont avoid, and allow things to flow naturally, I feel peace and calm ( I don’t mean chasing, i mean true not avoiding). I am learning to trust my higher self is saying without ego. It is a day by day, right now for me.
I was obsessing over him - whenever i expressed "unconditional love' he threw at me the name of his "beloved" which hurt me - because it felt like he's shielding himself from my love, when I'm not really asking for anything back... so this had this effect on me where I now want to avoid expressing love at all - even though expressing it helped me get off the heaviness on my chest. When I feel a lot of love like my heart bursting, I just completely avoid him now. When I feel balanced, I talk.
Thank you for saying this about DM. It is too often a recommendation that DF disregard the DM, and I agree that in doing so you shut down yourself. You pretty much are the only content creator regarding twin flames who has this perspective and I think it is spot on, especially for my own journey.
Thank you! This morning I saw this video in my feed , clicked on but clicked off and avoided it. Later today I was packing and saw the box of my DMs letters to me and mementos (they broke up with me in 3D). I remember putting those items away because any reminder of them gave me immense grief in the beginning and I wanted to avoid that. Well something compelled me to go through the letters and I've been crying. Still a trigger and pain there but not as deep as before and the release feels good. Then I felt led back to this video. I'm beginning to discern what is feeding the fear based addictive energy. Walking to the area where I know they'll likely be to snoop or hope we run into each other is feeding it. But also purposefully avoiding certain places to not think of them is also feeding it. Looking at old photos and letters or music reminding me of them unprompted is feeding that energy, and throwing that stuff away into a box for fear of being triggered is also feeding it. Chasing/obsession and avoidance seem to be two sides of the same coin, and both unbalanced dualistic distortions of the souls way of being. I'm glad I confronted the letters. There's some triggers here for sure but at least I'm not shutting myself out anymore!
I understand what you are saying… we don’t avoid them because as we operate from soul we will have brief encounters because the soul is working on balancing the energy but we do not go looking for the DM intentionally….this is a souls journey and we have to allow soul to do what it does….. if soul decide for our paths to cross anywhere.. soul do what you do best!
I understand what you are saying. I had many regrets and left a lot unsaid to my twin and my heart would not forgive me. It kept nagging at me for 17 years to reach out until I finally did. I was so afraid and I did not sleep for 3 days during that email conversation, but it healed me tremendously (I knew nothing about twin flames back then). Last year my heart started to nag at me to give my twin encourgement and so I gave in when my twin told me telepathically what was going on. My physical twin did not open up to me of course since we are in no contact, but that's okay. My heart still feels content and peaceful about reaching out.
No, you need to shut things down and avoid them for YOU. Intention is key. There comes a point when you need to block them everywhere. Put away that thing about them you can't stop looking at. The funny thing is when you do that, they'll find you when the time is right. You'll come to a point where you can unblock them. Especially social media. I even had to cut off his family to get some peace in my life. Blocking is taking them off the pedestal.
I don’t know if that would be avoiding myself, but i had to delete all my social media platforms so that I don’t have that need/desire to check up if my twin has sent me a message, or what is going on with his life.. so i had to cut off all that just because i needed a peace of mind and to have some space for myself and my own energy, which i know he is always with me spiritually so i don’t get that desire to reach out to him anymore. I am always feeling the masculine energy within me
I stepped back and allowed him to contact me only and unfortunately that's backfired and has separated us even more, he feels that I don't care because I don't call or text him ever. I genuinely feel bad because it's true, I never initiated anything. I released fear and avoidant behavior stepped into my limitless boundless soul and whether he responds or not, I'm at peace. In my heart, I've done my part.
Hi Kathleen, I have not been on here in a while. I can see a shift in your energy since I last was here, you are looking very elegant and beautiful ❤🙏 Just a thought, do you think when you avoid certain things, you are running from yourself, causing the masculine to run? I set up my own business a few years ago and I hate doing the admin stuff! I think this is me running. I should be present and balanced no matter what the external world is offering? 😇🙏
Love your way of explaining. But how do you solve that anctious feeling? Do you have to 'tame' the energy by yourself or just allow yourself into the presense od DM in bit by bit untill you get used to it and the anxciety dispears?
Kathleen, have you ever discussed body merging? I realize our soul merges but do the bodies merge? As I mentioned in my previous comment that it has happen where the energy flows into me. Does this happen to every couple
Kathleen, favor to ask...in a prior video or 2 u spoke of balancing in every action in every moment. Can u explain how to do this. U said u would set up the video in masculine and do the video in flow as feminine etc. Please explain how to balance the energy like this daily. Thanks so much!!! ❤
This morning as I was waking up…. I had a vision of him lying in my bed and I got on top of him and merged into his body…… this has happened a number of times since we’ve met, but it’s usually the opposite, where he comes and merges into my body. Strange isn’t it.
I'm not avoiding my divine masculine. He decided to cut contact a year ago after his brief appearance after a three years separation. He's given me no way of contacting and I'm seriously doubting he's my twin now 🤦♀️ I no longer have fear or triggers
We have been separated for about 10 years after working on the soul, soul and body. I realized what I am really in and reached the stage of looking at his page via Instagram and going out. I don't want to start communicating with him, maybe we need more time and confidence. Do you have any advice on this?
We don’t avoid the masculine but the pain of rejection and non reciprocation which breaks us from inside I want to move out of this trigger Want to pull him down the pedestal Being in contact or not should not matter one bit Is it possible?
The one thing I wish someone told me at the very beginning when I began this journey is to simply, focus on yourself, and give yourself everything you feel the masculine isn't. That's it. Your triggers will start appearing throughout the journey and you'll get good at knowing and clearing it and getting closer to embodying your divine feminine energy and back to soul. (Yourself) only then will the DM be magnetized back. Simple.
I‘m not sure what to do now. My twin is my ex and we stayed friends after the breakup. I decided to stop replying and go no contact because I was still in so much pain and constantly triggered. I asked my spirit guides if I should continue NC and they encouraged me to do so, because I still have to process some things and get more balanced. I don‘t have to but they think it‘s better for my situation right now. I want to reach out again but don‘t want to experience his behaviour anymore. I know he‘s just reflecting me but I still need to respect myself and create some distance…. maybe because I chased and never loved myself he showed up this way. So I feel like in some cases no contact is needed. What do you think?
Soul orchestrates it all so if you are in no contact then that is where you need to be. Focus on your own energy because you are the true twin flame 🔥 ❤️
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Aww, you two girls are lovely!! 😍😍 So well explained, Kathleen and thank you for speaking specifically on this one - a little refreshing shakeup was obviously much needed here 😜🙏
Thank you for sharing this. - i have been in chaos - since taking advice to avoid, thinking that was the answer and every-time i avoided and blocked. i felt chaos and fear . When I dont avoid, and allow things to flow naturally, I feel peace and calm ( I don’t mean chasing, i mean true not avoiding). I am learning to trust my higher self is saying without ego. It is a day by day, right now for me.
This is exactly what I needed to hear today… I am so glad you are back!
We don’t avoid them, they choose others and run from us
I was obsessing over him - whenever i expressed "unconditional love' he threw at me the name of his "beloved" which hurt me - because it felt like he's shielding himself from my love, when I'm not really asking for anything back... so this had this effect on me where I now want to avoid expressing love at all - even though expressing it helped me get off the heaviness on my chest. When I feel a lot of love like my heart bursting, I just completely avoid him now. When I feel balanced, I talk.
Thank you for saying this about DM. It is too often a recommendation that DF disregard the DM, and I agree that in doing so you shut down yourself. You pretty much are the only content creator regarding twin flames who has this perspective and I think it is spot on, especially for my own journey.
Thank you! This morning I saw this video in my feed , clicked on but clicked off and avoided it. Later today I was packing and saw the box of my DMs letters to me and mementos (they broke up with me in 3D). I remember putting those items away because any reminder of them gave me immense grief in the beginning and I wanted to avoid that.
Well something compelled me to go through the letters and I've been crying. Still a trigger and pain there but not as deep as before and the release feels good. Then I felt led back to this video.
I'm beginning to discern what is feeding the fear based addictive energy. Walking to the area where I know they'll likely be to snoop or hope we run into each other is feeding it. But also purposefully avoiding certain places to not think of them is also feeding it. Looking at old photos and letters or music reminding me of them unprompted is feeding that energy, and throwing that stuff away into a box for fear of being triggered is also feeding it. Chasing/obsession and avoidance seem to be two sides of the same coin, and both unbalanced dualistic distortions of the souls way of being.
I'm glad I confronted the letters. There's some triggers here for sure but at least I'm not shutting myself out anymore!
I understand what you are saying… we don’t avoid them because as we operate from soul we will have brief encounters because the soul is working on balancing the energy but we do not go looking for the DM intentionally….this is a souls journey and we have to allow soul to do what it does….. if soul decide for our paths to cross anywhere.. soul do what you do best!
@@DRJUSTKEE best comment ever , well said 🫡🙏👌
Thank you. 🌌☯️❤️🙏😊
I understand what you are saying. I had many regrets and left a lot unsaid to my twin and my heart would not forgive me. It kept nagging at me for 17 years to reach out until I finally did. I was so afraid and I did not sleep for 3 days during that email conversation, but it healed me tremendously (I knew nothing about twin flames back then). Last year my heart started to nag at me to give my twin encourgement and so I gave in when my twin told me telepathically what was going on. My physical twin did not open up to me of course since we are in no contact, but that's okay. My heart still feels content and peaceful about reaching out.
No, you need to shut things down and avoid them for YOU. Intention is key. There comes a point when you need to block them everywhere. Put away that thing about them you can't stop looking at. The funny thing is when you do that, they'll find you when the time is right. You'll come to a point where you can unblock them. Especially social media. I even had to cut off his family to get some peace in my life. Blocking is taking them off the pedestal.
Thanku very much.
I don’t know if that would be avoiding myself, but i had to delete all my social media platforms so that I don’t have that need/desire to check up if my twin has sent me a message, or what is going on with his life.. so i had to cut off all that just because i needed a peace of mind and to have some space for myself and my own energy, which i know he is always with me spiritually so i don’t get that desire to reach out to him anymore. I am always feeling the masculine energy within me
I stepped back and allowed him to contact me only and unfortunately that's backfired and has separated us even more, he feels that I don't care because I don't call or text him ever. I genuinely feel bad because it's true, I never initiated anything. I released fear and avoidant behavior stepped into my limitless boundless soul and whether he responds or not, I'm at peace. In my heart, I've done my part.
Luna made me laugh ❤
Hi Kathleen, I have not been on here in a while. I can see a shift in your energy since I last was here, you are looking very elegant and beautiful ❤🙏 Just a thought, do you think when you avoid certain things, you are running from yourself, causing the masculine to run? I set up my own business a few years ago and I hate doing the admin stuff! I think this is me running. I should be present and balanced no matter what the external world is offering? 😇🙏
Love your way of explaining. But how do you solve that anctious feeling? Do you have to 'tame' the energy by yourself or just allow yourself into the presense od DM in bit by bit untill you get used to it and the anxciety dispears?
Kathleen, have you ever discussed body merging? I realize our soul merges but do the bodies merge? As I mentioned in my previous comment that it has happen where the energy flows into me. Does this happen to every couple
Kathleen, favor to ask...in a prior video or 2 u spoke of balancing in every action in every moment. Can u explain how to do this. U said u would set up the video in masculine and do the video in flow as feminine etc. Please explain how to balance the energy like this daily. Thanks so much!!! ❤
This morning as I was waking up…. I had a vision of him lying in my bed and I got on top of him and merged into his body…… this has happened a number of times since we’ve met, but it’s usually the opposite, where he comes and merges into my body. Strange isn’t it.
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What if the DM doesn't want you in his life ?
I'm not avoiding my divine masculine. He decided to cut contact a year ago after his brief appearance after a three years separation. He's given me no way of contacting and I'm seriously doubting he's my twin now 🤦♀️ I no longer have fear or triggers
The energy / soul is putting you into a no contact place so the deep soul work can be done ✅
We have been separated for about 10 years after working on the soul, soul and body. I realized what I am really in and reached the stage of looking at his page via Instagram and going out. I don't want to start communicating with him, maybe we need more time and confidence.
Do you have any advice on this?
So like tell them happy birthday even if they don’t wish you a happy birthday is ok ..for example?
We don’t avoid the masculine but the pain of rejection and non reciprocation which breaks us from inside
I want to move out of this trigger
Want to pull him down the pedestal
Being in contact or not should not matter one bit
Is it possible?
The one thing I wish someone told me at the very beginning when I began this journey is to simply, focus on yourself, and give yourself everything you feel the masculine isn't. That's it. Your triggers will start appearing throughout the journey and you'll get good at knowing and clearing it and getting closer to embodying your divine feminine energy and back to soul. (Yourself) only then will the DM be magnetized back. Simple.
I call it putting up walls and running from your own healing. Thanku so much
Hi puppy. Sweet baby.
I‘m not sure what to do now. My twin is my ex and we stayed friends after the breakup. I decided to stop replying and go no contact because I was still in so much pain and constantly triggered. I asked my spirit guides if I should continue NC and they encouraged me to do so, because I still have to process some things and get more balanced. I don‘t have to but they think it‘s better for my situation right now. I want to reach out again but don‘t want to experience his behaviour anymore. I know he‘s just reflecting me but I still need to respect myself and create some distance…. maybe because I chased and never loved myself he showed up this way. So I feel like in some cases no contact is needed. What do you think?
Soul orchestrates it all so if you are in no contact then that is where you need to be. Focus on your own energy because you are the true twin flame 🔥 ❤️
He blocked me, I’m Df :)
Not true at all. Nowhere does it say to put up with carnal 3 d bullshit from anyone