How to comfort yourself when you're feeling overwhelmed

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  • Опубликовано: 30 июл 2024
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  • @tntkop
    @tntkop Год назад +414

    When I’m stressed out, I generally hold the person who causes me all the stress. I find holding them with both hands around their neck works best. That, and I curse a lot. Try it. 😂

  • @playlikeagirl7385
    @playlikeagirl7385 Год назад +120

    Literally do the under the armpit thing when stressed naturally and didn’t even realize it until just now lol

  • @xXxKaley2013xXx
    @xXxKaley2013xXx Год назад +2

    This is amazing for people with neuro divergence! If someone is going into a panic, ask for a hug, then squeeze them as hard as you can for at least 2 minutes. The pressure resets your nervous system, and it acts almost like skin to skin for newborns, it brings your heartbeat and your breathing into a normal pattern and mimics the person holding you. Eye contact also helps in some situations but not necessary! I’m autistic and it helps SO much when I’m on the edge of losing my shit.

  • @angleeceiasorrentino
    @angleeceiasorrentino Год назад +7

    This is how I sleep, like I’m hugging myself

  • @Mangotropolis
    @Mangotropolis Год назад +2

    Yeaahhhhhh you know what I've been doing for a whole year, it's intuitive.
    I particularly enjoy clutching my heart while remembering that some highly celebrated people don't have any, and it's why I can feel this way, while they're unable to. This brings some peace back.

  • @marielynn9514
    @marielynn9514 Год назад +15

    I love to see you thriving and healing. Thank you for coming back and helping others too ❤️ love from Ohio.

  • @fioregiallo
    @fioregiallo Год назад +83

    The first pose is giving Mary Catherine Gallagher and I'm living for it

    • @kitashay1987
      @kitashay1987 Год назад +12

      I was expecting a Supastar!

    • @ici_coop
      @ici_coop Год назад +7

      Minus the two handed sniff 😂

    • @lisajoy3850
      @lisajoy3850 Год назад +3

      That's what I thought too lol

    • @kaella463
      @kaella463 Год назад +2

      This is the comment I was looking for!

    • @fioregiallo
      @fioregiallo Год назад

      @@ici_coopI fkn love your username so much lmaooo

  • @nonnidreams
    @nonnidreams Год назад

    Forehead and belly helped me the most, but underpits, also helped😊

  • @Baxfam1
    @Baxfam1 Год назад +9

    Thank you Alyson 💜

    • @Aram-tw8mf
      @Aram-tw8mf 6 месяцев назад

      I did it and i was still crying and feeling anxiety

  • @esotericbliss5887
    @esotericbliss5887 Год назад

    You cannot convince me that Alyson stoner didn’t grow up to become an Olsen twin

  • @neildomo-san3332
    @neildomo-san3332 Год назад

    Woo this triggers tears instantly for me.. 😭😭🤣

  • @maddonut621
    @maddonut621 Год назад

    I can't hug myself to feel safe. I go to my husband. Even if he's working, I can go ask him for a hug. ❤

  • @princess24758
    @princess24758 Год назад +1

    This really just helped me ❤

  • @MinorKey135
    @MinorKey135 Год назад +1

    Dang that forehead chest combo made me feel like a baby being help. That was wild (and insanely comforting)

  • @ImBobbyMom
    @ImBobbyMom Год назад +1

    I also feel stressed out every time I have to go to Walmart. 😂

  • @fourever2ne1
    @fourever2ne1 11 месяцев назад

    That would make sense on why I always put my hands on my chest or wrap arms around myself into a tiny ball when I’m having a panic attack/about to have an anxiety attack

  • @ibitha
    @ibitha Год назад +1

    this is weird, i literally used to do this all the time when i worked at a restaurant (that was extremely stressful, i barely got breaks and was yelled at for hours on end, during a 13 hour shift some days) i would go into the bathroom or fridge and just place my palms under my armpits, oddly, it helped instantly. i don’t really need to do it anymore unless i’m really anxious our of muscle memory now, but i never realized it was an actual soothing technique. weird.

  • @EmoryHarper
    @EmoryHarper Год назад +1

    You said whatever feels most supportive and I put my palms on my shoulder blades across my upper chess so it gives the sensation of being gently choked.... I might have some issues

  • @3ate4
    @3ate4 Год назад

    "I can buy myself flowerrrrrrs. I can hold my own haaaaaand."

  • @hailstorm7025
    @hailstorm7025 Год назад +2

    Love this 💞

  • @Sopasjumbo
    @Sopasjumbo Год назад

    I needed this just now ❤ it also worked post-panic attack

  • @MsTinkerbelle87
    @MsTinkerbelle87 Год назад

    Holy crap that actually helped! Ta!!

  • @AfraidMonsters
    @AfraidMonsters Год назад +1

    I would always notice that in the shower I’d put my hands kinda in the middle of my chest. Idk why, and it doesn’t happen anymore, but it’s really weird cause I’d always end up like that automatically in the shower, enjoying the water

  • @puravida8387
    @puravida8387 Год назад

    You’re doing amazing on this new series. Thank you

  • @katrinaaustbo638
    @katrinaaustbo638 Год назад

    I hold my hands when sleeping

  • @maddie.bolland.7
    @maddie.bolland.7 Год назад

    This is so helpful, thank you 💜

  • @dameankimberly6634
    @dameankimberly6634 Год назад

    Just wanted to say that outfit looks comfortable as hell, any ideas on where to get that 👀🤞

  • @drodlaren
    @drodlaren Год назад

    I do this naturally!I HOPE it doesn’t look too sus. I just have anxiety. Not my fault I have natures built in stress balls on my chest.

  • @michelangelo3879
    @michelangelo3879 Год назад

    “supa star!” -molly shannon

  • @linds_e11
    @linds_e11 Год назад

    I appreciate these posts. Needed this one today 💛

  • @laniy4565
    @laniy4565 Год назад

    Thank you, it worked

  • @Punkrock.Chrysalis
    @Punkrock.Chrysalis Год назад

    Dude !!! MARY CATHRINE GALLAGHER taught me this !!!!

  • @kevincoley4662
    @kevincoley4662 Год назад

    I've done this naturally.

  • @IAmErica-qv7wj
    @IAmErica-qv7wj Год назад

    I call that first pose "SUPER STAR"... if you know where that's from, you're the shit in the best possible way!

  • @menacetoevil
    @menacetoevil Год назад

    I do this all the time 😂

  • @laurenkeim5031
    @laurenkeim5031 Год назад

    All I can think of is “Superstar”

  • @recoverymemequeen6810
    @recoverymemequeen6810 Год назад

    I like to cross my arms and lean against the wall

  • @h.b.d.g.31
    @h.b.d.g.31 Год назад +2

    👏🏾

  • @skinsey85
    @skinsey85 Год назад

    Oh weird, I didn't know this was a thing but I do these frequently to self soothe. Mostly the hands under the arms. Cool.

  • @TinkOutLoud
    @TinkOutLoud Год назад

    I thought she was about to the Super Star technique. Lol

  • @reagangard8409
    @reagangard8409 Год назад

    ...I dident know this was an actual thing...lol I've been doing this for years to help calm down

  • @Katkit19
    @Katkit19 Год назад

    Under the armpit just makes me thinking of superstar 🤣🤣🤣

  • @cotybare9720
    @cotybare9720 Год назад +3

    I have Jesus. He holds me at all times. Also, you are beautiful.

  • @src3360
    @src3360 Год назад

    Please look up the SNL skit with Molly Shannon playing Mary Katharine Gallagher aka SUPERSTAR
    She does a lot of self soothing.....and sniffing😂😂😂😂

  • @CinnamonBasic
    @CinnamonBasic Год назад

    please i need that outfit where do i buy that set its so cute

  • @curiouscroissant5202
    @curiouscroissant5202 Год назад

    Superstar!

  • @johnnytindall2011
    @johnnytindall2011 Год назад +13

    And then sniff your fingers 😉

  • @303bonita
    @303bonita Год назад

    Heeeey thanks todays been a weird one 🥴

  • @rachelenzor3208
    @rachelenzor3208 Год назад

    I’ll take them out, sniff them and yell superstar lol😂stress gone

  • @Lonelyone1111
    @Lonelyone1111 Год назад

    Wait aI can HUG MY SELF WHO KNEW WOWOWO

  • @BornandRaisedHawaii
    @BornandRaisedHawaii Год назад +1

    Am I the only one who thought she was going “superstar”?

  • @_Cyb3rPunk
    @_Cyb3rPunk Год назад +1

    So basically touch myself GOT IT!

  • @Punkrock.Chrysalis
    @Punkrock.Chrysalis Год назад

    "... I stick my fingers under my arms and then I SMELL EM LIKE THIS!!!!"

  • @rlly_james_smh1744
    @rlly_james_smh1744 Год назад +1

    Superstar 😶😶😶

  • @barbieblue3336
    @barbieblue3336 Год назад

    Mary Katherine from snl

  • @DungeonBrat
    @DungeonBrat Год назад

    Oh there’s a name for that? I thought I just did it 😮

  • @j-tenn226
    @j-tenn226 Год назад

    What kind of car is that?

  • @perribreese5127
    @perribreese5127 4 месяца назад

    Oh wow this is great for someone that is in a triggered situation.

  • @lauryniti1807
    @lauryniti1807 Год назад

    whyd this kinda help tho

  • @Jelleybean18
    @Jelleybean18 Год назад

    That’s actually kinda cute

  • @davidellis175
    @davidellis175 Год назад

    I use a plushy

  • @Eponine_Sandon
    @Eponine_Sandon Год назад

    I put something cold on my face

  • @casperblue3668
    @casperblue3668 11 месяцев назад

    I thought you were going to smell your hards anyway thank you for this technique

  • @zadtrax
    @zadtrax 11 месяцев назад

    Why do a majority of women that make videos on social media decide to shoot the video while sitting in their vehicle? It’s a weird trend that I don’t understand. Video like this could’ve easily been done in a bedroom or living room, or outside on the deck or a variety of other places.

  • @tatyana137
    @tatyana137 Год назад

    Ssssssuperstar

  • @janehoe.
    @janehoe. Год назад

    I think you would enjoy EFT

  • @GabrielaCoutinho12
    @GabrielaCoutinho12 Год назад

    😳

  • @El-aitch
    @El-aitch Год назад

    I was just waiting for you to sniff your fingers after the armpits. 🤷‍♀️

  • @mamarobyn
    @mamarobyn Год назад

    Or just try xanax

  • @gaysniper
    @gaysniper Год назад

    Please tell me you’re gay 😮