Colin Firth reads Antoine Leiris' letter to his wife’s killers

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  • Опубликовано: 3 окт 2024
  • In November 2015, French journalist Antoine Leiris lost his wife, Helene Muyal, when gunmen opened fire at the Bataclan theatre in Paris, killing her and 86 other people. Days later, Antoine wrote an open letter to his wife’s killers.
    Read by Colin Firth on Friday 14th July 2017 at Union Chapel, London.

Комментарии • 297

  • @shazzykins1
    @shazzykins1 6 лет назад +244

    I was there. It was even more moving to hear it live. Not a dry eye in the place.

  • @crafteariee
    @crafteariee Год назад +58

    I've always thought of that powerful phrase, "I will not give you the gift of hating you" born of heartbreak in these last 5 years and Antoine's letter is just as strong as when I had first heard it back then as I do again here now. I hope that father and his son are living well.

  • @amyroberts6320
    @amyroberts6320 6 лет назад +443

    What a hard letter to write. And so hard to read without breaking down into just a puddle of tears and pain.

    • @thehangmansdaughter1120
      @thehangmansdaughter1120 3 года назад +9

      I would have gotten about three lines in before I became a blubbering mess. I barely got through 5 just listening.

    • @chriswilliams9798
      @chriswilliams9798 3 года назад +2

      @@thehangmansdaughter1120 you and me both, have tears in my eye typing this reply to you.

    • @ninongiraudet1288
      @ninongiraudet1288 3 года назад

      @@thehangmansdaughter1120 A

  • @julierogers1155
    @julierogers1155 3 года назад +300

    Five years later I am just now hearing (& about) this letter for the first time. Brilliant, and brutal. Love to you, Antoine Leiris, and your son. Love, also, to you, Helene Muyal. Thank you, Mr. Firth, for the reading.

    • @anneleenschwartz4937
      @anneleenschwartz4937 3 года назад +6

      Right on. My 1st feeling as well

    • @MariaCarabin
      @MariaCarabin 2 года назад +3

      Antoine made an amazing documentary. It's on Netflix. It has the same titel in ENG/FR as the letter.

    • @julierogers1155
      @julierogers1155 2 года назад

      @@MariaCarabin Thank you for this information. Going to look for the documentary right now.

    • @MariaCarabin
      @MariaCarabin 2 года назад +1

      @@julierogers1155 my pleasure. Apparently the documentary is a few years old but it's new on my Netflix (Switzerland). Cheers!

    • @shantishanti1949
      @shantishanti1949 Год назад

      @@MariaCarabin Maria is it Calle The Letter? Cannot find on Netflix Australia under that name

  • @plotwitch
    @plotwitch 7 лет назад +505

    that was so beautiful. he did the letter immense justice. deeply moving.

    • @jeanettemacias5769
      @jeanettemacias5769 3 года назад +2

      😭😭😭😭

    • @vickigreen9545
      @vickigreen9545 3 года назад +5

      He barely held it together, what a beautiful letter we can all learn from to combat terrorism

  • @brandyjan14
    @brandyjan14 6 лет назад +137

    Thank you, Mr. Firth. That was beautiful.

  • @andrewjackson7014
    @andrewjackson7014 3 года назад +104

    An astonishing letter, deeply moving. I hope that Antoine and his son find peace.

  • @kategaging3363
    @kategaging3363 3 года назад +335

    “You only have to forgive once. To resent, you have to do it all day every day.”

    • @andrewduncan4908
      @andrewduncan4908 3 года назад +6

      rubbish you will have to forgive again and again and again as the terrorists continue their murder becuase you are to weak to oppose them

    • @kategaging3363
      @kategaging3363 3 года назад +26

      @@andrewduncan4908 OK history lesson. When did terrorists really start attacking western cultures? After we had left their culture and country destroyed and we had violated them. Hate breeds hate man it has to stop at some point otherwise we’ll go round and round In circles. anyway I’m assuming you haven’t personally been victimised by terrorists so why are you holding onto hate and bitterness if it’s not doing anything but spreading rudeness on RUclips channels? Did you not learn any thing from this letter? This guy has a right to hate but he’s not 1 because he knows it’s useless and he needs to give his happiness to his son and 2. Terrorists feed on fear and hate is just a by product of fear.

    • @AleksandarIvanov69
      @AleksandarIvanov69 3 года назад +2

      Forgive evil ? Especially without forgiveness being asked for ?
      What are you talking about ?
      Also the high horse you are on is fictitious, "we" didn't destroy anything.

    • @LadyEowyn
      @LadyEowyn 3 года назад +6

      @@AleksandarIvanov69 Forgive doesn't mean excuse. It means I wont carry it which is exactly what the letter was saying.

    • @willway9378
      @willway9378 3 года назад

      Your history is baffling as they began attacking everyone weaker than them from the beginning. They continued raping, stealing, and murdering leading to the Cruades in response. They openly sought to enter and conquer Europe repeatedly and were stopped mostly by Byzantium. They entered and occupied Southern Spain for 711 years.
      Our first Presidents had to act and our government make decisions about the pirating by these same people taking by force, raping, killing, and stealing. The attacks perhaps lessened for a time and were refocused at times such as during The Great War.
      It is only recently that there is an attempt to rewrite all history and to erase all true history in favor of pure garbage. most teachers regurgitate this implausible nonsense no matter how ridiculous, improbable, and contradictory. Sadly you seem to be a product of just such an education. If you actual read their book and listen literally to what their stated intentions are you would realize you are their greatest infidel. They can't hear you because to them you are lower than a dog which they despise.

  • @nganptdinh
    @nganptdinh 6 лет назад +77

    On Friday evening, you stole the life of an exceptional person. A love of my life. A mother of my son.
    But you will never have my hatred. I don't know who you are, and I don't want to know. You are dead souls.
    If this God for whom you killed so blindly, made this in His image, then every bullet in the body of my wife is a wound in His heart. So no. I will not give you the gift of hating you. You obviously want it. By responding to it with anger would be to give in to the same ignorance that made you what you are.
    You would like me to be scared, for me to look at my fellow citizens with a suspicious eye. For me to sacrifice my liberty for my security. You have lost.
    I saw her this morning. At last, after nights and days of waiting. She was as beautiful as when she left on Friday evening. As beautiful as when I fell head over heels in love with her, more than twelve years ago.
    Of course I am devastated with grief. I will give you your victory, but it will be short-lived.
    I know she will join us every day, and we will find each other in the paradise of free souls which you will never have access to.
    There are only two of us, my son and I. But we will be stronger than every army in the world. I can not waste any more time on you, as I must go back to my son who has just woken up from his sleep. He is only just seventeen months old. He is going to eat his snack, just like every other day. And then we are going to play, just like every other day. And all his life, this little boy will be happy and free.
    Because you don't have his hatred, either.
    Antoine Leiris

  • @GR-sc3ph
    @GR-sc3ph 3 года назад +91

    Beautiful deep words ....he is such a beautiful person Leiris. May his lovely wife rest in peace , she did not deserve to die and leave behind their son.

  • @januzzell8631
    @januzzell8631 3 года назад +124

    I don't know how he managed that without breaking - so beautiful - I'm a mess

    • @221b-Maker-Street
      @221b-Maker-Street 3 года назад +4

      Rehearsal. it injures you slightly, after having read it 30 times over. 🥺

  • @sooz9433
    @sooz9433 3 года назад +43

    What a personal tragedy for that man and his little boy.
    He put his feelings, his heart into words better than I could have done.
    Amazing.. beautiful and heartbreaking.

  • @robleary3353
    @robleary3353 3 года назад +35

    What a wonderful letter! How the writer was able to do that is unfathonable.

  • @carolewalker2486
    @carolewalker2486 6 лет назад +50

    A beautiful reading of a beautiful letter.

  • @ladycheeseof97
    @ladycheeseof97 7 лет назад +143

    Romantic for his love yet heartbreaking for his loss.

    • @TheFree33333
      @TheFree33333 3 года назад

      @@fightermma are you recruiting for a cult or something

  • @kajcenkars
    @kajcenkars 2 года назад +13

    I remember listening to this letter after the attack and I continue to learn from its message as much as I can. I wish we all did.

  • @xz9376
    @xz9376 3 года назад +63

    So powerful. There’s so much hatred in this world. I hope people stop hating others, stop giving them that gift.

  • @chrish2277
    @chrish2277 3 года назад +27

    Beautifully written and beautifully read. All my love to the Leiris family xx

  • @lorim.1528
    @lorim.1528 3 года назад +13

    Mr. Leiris, that was such a beautiful letter. Well-written and well-said. I am so sorry for your loss. Your son is very blessed to have you as his father.
    Colin, that could not have been read better. Thank you! ❤️

  • @barbaramaddern6694
    @barbaramaddern6694 3 года назад +79

    Beautifully read, just spine tingling and well done Colin. I don’t think just anyone could have read this. 🦋🇦🇺🌅

  • @kit-kat3356
    @kit-kat3356 4 года назад +33

    Merci monsieur Firth. A beautiful reading of hope..

  • @paulac.munoztorres
    @paulac.munoztorres 3 года назад +11

    Mr Antoine is one hell of a wise and kind hearted man. I am so goddamn sorry for his loss.

  • @openskies11
    @openskies11 4 года назад +31

    I don't how Colin read that without tearing up. I wouldn't have been able to.

  • @katherinepettus5132
    @katherinepettus5132 2 года назад +4

    His voice is so perfect for reading words of love.

  • @Falbala146
    @Falbala146 3 года назад +16

    I read this letter on fb a few days after it happened and I cried so hard.

  • @danamichaels6936
    @danamichaels6936 6 лет назад +37

    how can anyone read this without crying. amazing what actors do

  • @mchapman132
    @mchapman132 3 года назад +7

    Heartbreaking. Firth read that beautifully.

  • @vibrantscolor
    @vibrantscolor 3 года назад +19

    Love and Light to you Antoine and your son.
    That letter was a powerful explanatory vision.

  • @mariskavanvuuren4163
    @mariskavanvuuren4163 6 лет назад +51

    Colin Firth is my spirit animal 😀. I love this man so much. What a talent.

  • @kimarnill7648
    @kimarnill7648 7 лет назад +51

    Made me cry , so beautiful

  • @andrewfairbrother259
    @andrewfairbrother259 3 года назад +8

    Who are the 9 people who gave this beautiful thing the thumbs down? One can only surmise as to their motives.

  • @juliadouglas872
    @juliadouglas872 2 года назад +1

    So moving. Sitting by myself, tearing up and clapping along with the crowd. Bravo.

  • @helenchamberlain2144
    @helenchamberlain2144 3 года назад +2

    When he said 17 months old I couldn't cope

  • @tishw4576
    @tishw4576 3 года назад +5

    I'm so touched. What an inspiring letter.

  • @anninotomei3914
    @anninotomei3914 2 года назад +2

    So powerful, dignified and so full of love. I hope you and your boy are happy and thriving. So much love to you both

  • @adnamallerom4137
    @adnamallerom4137 3 года назад +8

    Even Collins voice started to waiver 🥺 the lump in his throat would have been huge 😢

  • @tonistokes1790
    @tonistokes1790 3 года назад +2

    Heart wrenching to hear Colin Firth read this with such emotion and compassion.

  • @allisong6
    @allisong6 3 года назад +19

    Thank you to the you tube algorithms for bringing this back to me, it's so beautifully written bless the families effected by this pain. And thank u for reading this and highlighting love to all.

  • @reilester849
    @reilester849 6 лет назад +30

    So emotional it was beautiful

  • @rebeccacahill1000
    @rebeccacahill1000 3 года назад +2

    Whoa... Touched on so many levels. Kudos Mr. Firth. Love to the husband and son.

  • @susansheehan9726
    @susansheehan9726 3 года назад +2

    This had me weeping. Such a powerful message, my love to Antoine, his son and all the beautiful people taken. 🙏🙏❤️

  • @beckv8526
    @beckv8526 3 года назад +1

    Just listening and I'm sobbing. How did Colin not break down in tears?

  • @LifesPeachy321
    @LifesPeachy321 3 года назад +4

    *What a profound piece of art that letter was!*
    It moved me to my core, and made me step back and take a good long look at myself! I pray I'm never in that situation, but if I am, I hope I could handle it such a beautiful powerful way!

  • @travelsambtravelsamb8791
    @travelsambtravelsamb8791 3 года назад +1

    What a beautiful eloquent letter read with such respect and emotion. I was in awe

  • @asylumchoir4586
    @asylumchoir4586 3 года назад +3

    Thank you for sharing this. Living souls are truly what make God smile. My mother died 15 years ago on this day. I know that she is wherever there is Beauty. 🌸🕯🕊❤️

  • @farahelahi5311
    @farahelahi5311 3 года назад +1

    Wow! The feelings are so well expressed. To deprive a little boy of his mother was too much to bear!😢

  • @timprescott4634
    @timprescott4634 3 года назад +15

    Remarkable…thank you, algorithm.

  • @annabella7285
    @annabella7285 3 года назад +32

    So utterly poignant and beautiful!

  • @iantucker38
    @iantucker38 3 года назад +2

    So extraordinarily powerful. The spirit and soul of M. Leiris is exceptional. Beautifully read.

  • @Hannah-dd6bo
    @Hannah-dd6bo 4 года назад +6

    Heartbreaking.

  • @ExLibris-Alys
    @ExLibris-Alys 4 года назад +6

    So incredibly moving.

  • @nganle-qk1qv
    @nganle-qk1qv 6 лет назад +131

    He cried. I don't understand why someone can be dislike this.

    • @jeanettemacias5769
      @jeanettemacias5769 3 года назад +3

      😢😢😢😢

    • @davidteasdale1
      @davidteasdale1 3 года назад +11

      It's easy to click the wrong button with tears in your eyes.

    • @andrewduncan4908
      @andrewduncan4908 3 года назад +12

      Such a weak response to existential violence does mean that the terrorists have won. They have shown themselves to be wolves and Antoine and those who think this is some sort of response to political violence are sheep that they will continue to prey on. Anger is an energy that is required to defeat the political terrorists and the fellows who support them.

    • @nigeljames6017
      @nigeljames6017 3 года назад +18

      @@andrewduncan4908 I think that comment shows that you too have anger in your heart. This was one mans way of overcoming his grief and getting on with his life.

    • @Tachikoma-sj6kz
      @Tachikoma-sj6kz 3 года назад +13

      @@andrewduncan4908 and who the fuck are you to say how he should feel and to criticise him for feeling that way? the fucking arrogance.

  • @karenrubenmoss9307
    @karenrubenmoss9307 3 года назад +1

    So moving and heart wrenching.

  • @wolfgangezeh2221
    @wolfgangezeh2221 3 года назад +7

    God, how did I get to read this and cry my heart out? It’s so full of love and pain. May her soul rest in peace and I pray that you continue to have that mindset of never giving in to hate for those monsters. God give you strength to care for your Boy.

  • @mr.mrs.d.7015
    @mr.mrs.d.7015 2 года назад

    I have watched this so many times and even so it still gives me chills and breaks my heart every time.

  • @alansturgess1324
    @alansturgess1324 3 года назад

    So moving - both the letter and Colin's reading. You could see that it affected him just as it will affect every normal human being.

  • @missjoshemmett
    @missjoshemmett Год назад +1

    And you, sir, are the brave one. The killer is the coward.

  • @ashleywebster2659
    @ashleywebster2659 2 месяца назад

    This is the first time I've come across this letter. What a beautiful, well thought out and crafted response to such an ugly and tragic event. Proving that when you weaponise language, and temper it with a steely restraint, it can be far more brutal and effective than any blade or bullet.

  • @khanG-gq9hc
    @khanG-gq9hc 2 года назад

    Heartbreaking yet powerful beyond measure ❤️

  • @theempress1104
    @theempress1104 3 года назад +11

    Colin Firth is my favorite actor in the whole world for doing justice to Mr. Darcy in BBC pride and prejudice.... no one has done that character justice before.... or since, in my opinion. 😊 And that just shows his talent coz Darcy is understated and is more himself by what he doesn't say and how he acts.

  • @1c2h3e4u5n6g
    @1c2h3e4u5n6g 3 года назад

    Thank you for the powerful message

  • @Susanluc59
    @Susanluc59 3 года назад +6

    So very powerful.

  • @lairddougal3833
    @lairddougal3833 3 года назад +46

    I’m not sure that applause was the appropriate conclusion to that letter. I don’t criticise it. Not at all. It’s our reflexive expression of approval, support and, I suppose in such circumstances, polite solidarity. I, no doubt, would have contributed to that expression. But, with the benefit of reflection, I would have preferred silence, the sort of silence that would magnify Mr Leiris’s already powerful words and sentiments so well rendered by Mr Firth. Thank you.

    • @junbh2
      @junbh2 3 года назад +9

      Silence takes coordination. One person can start applause and then the next will join in and the next and next. But silence doesn't really work that way. You'd need someone to introduce the speech and at the same time let people know the plan.

    • @luller85
      @luller85 3 года назад +10

      I take the applause as agreement in the letter of not giving into hate and to the beauty and sentiment of Antoine’s words. I don’t think the applause is that out of place. Whooping would have been.

    • @allasar
      @allasar 3 года назад +9

      Applause can have many meanings. Cheers, joy, agreement, respect, ... For instance, after what happened to his wife, Antoine does not give in to hatred, and I applaud him for that.

    • @Tyrannosaurus_STFU_III
      @Tyrannosaurus_STFU_III 3 года назад +3

      "I would have preferred silence".... Since when was this about you and what you prefer?

  • @lindaf7095
    @lindaf7095 3 года назад

    Whay an emotional & beautiful letter, written at a time when her husband must have been in so much pain, but there was no hatred in his words...just Love, for his poor wife, & for his Son, who i'm sure will grow up & have a happy life, regardless of the awful atrocity that took his Mommy away. My prayers go out to that family & lots of Love for a better future xx

  • @maryclynch9356
    @maryclynch9356 3 года назад

    I remember this. What a great person to pen that letter.

  • @andrewfairbrother259
    @andrewfairbrother259 3 года назад +1

    Heart wrenching.

  • @ennediend2865
    @ennediend2865 3 года назад

    BEAUTIFULLY DONE !

  • @andronicemarinis1072
    @andronicemarinis1072 3 года назад +2

    So emotional. Bravo.

  • @trevorohare2735
    @trevorohare2735 Год назад

    I met Helene Muyal when she lived in the United States in Philadelphia. At the time we were young kids. She was 17 when I first met her. We had our group of friends together and had good times. Helene was an amazing gem of a person. Rest in paradise Helene we all miss you back in the States.. You did not deserve that..

  • @deborahduthie4519
    @deborahduthie4519 3 года назад

    A wonderfully emotive letter read by Colin Firth.

  • @gratialake8459
    @gratialake8459 3 года назад

    Read with so much emotion, xx

  • @TheKevinkauffman06
    @TheKevinkauffman06 3 года назад +2

    This was not how I felt. I'll carry that hate forever, and the man who killed my love was just a drunk driver. He's out of prison enjoying life with his kids, and I'm here, stuck in time, wondering if you ever really loved someone if you don't hate who took them from you. Fuck forgiveness.

    • @eddiy335
      @eddiy335 3 года назад +1

      This isn't about you so what you would do is irrelevant. You also have no right to tell someone how they should heal or deal with the aftermath of such tragedy. Hatred and anger isn't going to bring the person back so why should he be bitter for the rest of his life? If he wants to forgive his wife's killers that's up to him and it doesn't mean he didn't love her.

    • @TheKevinkauffman06
      @TheKevinkauffman06 3 года назад +1

      @@eddiy335 yet here you are telling me how to handle my grief? Hypocrical loud mouth. I'll keep my hate as it's all I have left. I will never forgive that man, as he's off living his best life after taking hers, and destroying me in the process. Who tf are you? The things I would do to him are numerous, but forgiveness is not among them.

    • @TheKevinkauffman06
      @TheKevinkauffman06 3 года назад +1

      @@eddiy335 I have no one and nothing left but HATE. Without the hate there's only depression and negativity. I hate ppl like you and him. Shove your forgiveness up your @$$

  • @feenixgrrl
    @feenixgrrl 7 лет назад +4

    This was gorgeous. I hope someday you release Tobias Menzies's reading.

  • @margo3367
    @margo3367 3 года назад +1

    To be loved like that...

  • @theavandenberg6876
    @theavandenberg6876 Год назад

    Heartbreaking powerfull stuff. I sincerely hope the writer has managed his goal and is now raising a happy son. 🥺

  • @chichivika47
    @chichivika47 3 года назад +1

    Time had passed, but his voice is the same like " in vain i have struggled but it won't do. Allow me to tell you how ardently i admire and love you" P&P

  • @mioxu5449
    @mioxu5449 7 лет назад +13

    beautiful performance, really nice

  • @sjinzaar
    @sjinzaar 2 года назад

    how is it possible that someone can make me cry in 2 minutes....

  • @jjforcebreaker
    @jjforcebreaker 3 года назад +1

    Absolutely amazing.

  • @lauraorsini73
    @lauraorsini73 Год назад

    Merci Colin.....

  • @peekeyeseek
    @peekeyeseek 3 года назад +1

    For me, this is the point of being able to forgive.
    It's not about letting someone away with something.
    It's so much more that you give to yourself.
    Like peace a peaceful soul.
    Deep seated peace is better than deep-seated hatred.
    Thankyou for sharing your thoughts Antoine.

  • @martinwalker3497
    @martinwalker3497 3 года назад +1

    Respect, love and best wishes Antoine to you and your son.

  • @patrik79a
    @patrik79a 3 года назад +2

    They do have my hatred!

  • @lindarennie1708
    @lindarennie1708 Год назад

    thank you

  • @southernforestgypsy
    @southernforestgypsy Год назад

    Nick gave them the iconically Australian "yeahnah"

  • @georgemanka
    @georgemanka 3 года назад +4

    Magnificent.

  • @amysill3815
    @amysill3815 3 года назад

    Beautiful... so moving.

  • @samw8452
    @samw8452 Год назад

    I wish i could have the strength and wisdom of this man who did not give place to those who wronged his family. May he and his son find peace..

  • @timhorpo
    @timhorpo 3 года назад

    How he held that together.....

  • @ER-uy7ct
    @ER-uy7ct 2 года назад

    Yes. Hatred is a waste.

  • @atticusvilly888
    @atticusvilly888 3 года назад +1

    Absolutely beautifully written. Don’t hate! Speak out, advocate for what is right, be kind!

  • @ameliecarre4783
    @ameliecarre4783 3 года назад

    Translate that in any language, it will always make me cry.

  • @brendatajik6150
    @brendatajik6150 3 года назад

    I have no words😥

  • @crazyduck1254
    @crazyduck1254 3 года назад

    i have tears welled in my eyes. Too sad.

  • @vickiesmith3021
    @vickiesmith3021 3 года назад

    What a truly amazing men they both are.

  • @charlkriek4863
    @charlkriek4863 3 года назад +1

    Could not stop crying.

  • @alexanderacostaosorio
    @alexanderacostaosorio 3 года назад +2

    I remember this letter

  • @MariaCarabin
    @MariaCarabin 2 года назад

    Beautifully read. I also recommend the documentary Antoine made (it's on netflix).

  • @corinam.2633
    @corinam.2633 3 года назад +1

    Everyday we get to choose what we give back to the people : love or hate. I wish i had Antoine's kind and noble feelings. I am not a bad person, but many years ago, i lost someone very dear, the biggest part of my soul, the love of my life, my father. I do not want to remember all, because it's still hurts, but not even the most horror film of all times could scared me the way part of my family did. I was hated for no reason, my only fault was that i'm an only child and i inherited his apartment. Up to that point nobody hurt me that bad. And after some time has passed, i decided that hate was going to be my shield in this life. It is a burden, because i'm a very emotional and sensitive person, that is why i struggle with ptsd and high anxiety. What i am trying to say is that pain changes you. It can trigger the best or the worst in us. God bless Antoine and his son.

  • @philstaples8122
    @philstaples8122 3 года назад +3

    I feel Antoine Leiris was either a far better man than I or or just numbed by the terrible events that befell him, I would not have been so immune to the terrible effects of this act upon my family and the other victims of the atrocity. I could not have written such a letter, I would have been trying to find a way to see the blood of the person who murdered my wife, a slow painful death would have been appropriate for them even of it meant I would be spending time in prison for my actions and my son would be brought up for a time by my parents.