This is the best remake of this song I have ever heard! She sings with an emotion that I can't quite explain but can definitely feel whenever I listen to this. Beautifully sang!...
I was hoping it would be a cover! I was looking for a different version...it didn't hit like the original but it was beautiful...it's just different.. Almost like a different song, but I hope this will help a classic song resonate through to New generation!
This song is about forgiveness! And the original song writers finally forgive her for singing this better than the original!!! For many years her performance of the song was not available on RUclips! I don't know why was not available and I don't want to speculate on this, but was a fact! Very happy to see the song uploaded!!!
@@cocoonecoco you're misinformed. This is not about India singing this better (petty statement). The Eagles songs are NOT on RUclips. Don Henley doesn't like how this platform (RUclips) rips off the artists. I agree with him.
@@spotwms8768 This isn't an Eagles song. The Long Run was the last album the Eagles recorded until a reunion album that came 15 years later. This song was written and recorded in 1989, ten years after The Eagles broke up. It's his 3rd solo album to boot. He was not related to the Eagles anymore. The Eagles catalog up to 1979 is on Asylum Records. Don Henley's catalog is on Geffen Records. 2 different labels. They aren't related at all. Geffen has a stake in Asylum, but there are other owners. Henley does in fact want stricter copyright laws. He is going to push himself and his music into further irrelevance.
@@cocoonecoco I prefer this version, too, but let’s not make this situation into something that it’s not. The song not being available on RUclips has nothing to do with her singing it, but because Don Henley doesn’t like his work on RUclips because the artists don’t receive royalties. It’s not a jealousy thing, it’s a money thing. Don Henley said in an interview when he first heard it that he loved it.
Was my best good friend, married 29 years, 4 kids, a cute old dog and chose not to spend the second half of life with me. Divorce will be final in a few weeks. My ego was and still is hurt but I must move on with no regrets or resentments. It has been an extremely challenging relationship with a lot of beauty now it’s time for me to figure out my second half of life. This song has been in heavy rotation and very lifting, this and Don’s version. Great song. Love and light everyone.
Lionel Richie: "Sail On!" Remember a blemish will heal and leave no reminisce of the damage and of the pain of the past. Avoid the deep scars. They will remind you forever of the sorrow pain. You deserve better... Sail On quickly brother!
The first two minutes of this song really hits you in your gut whenever you have been with somebody you thought would be your forever and suddenly find yourself single again
@@NeyBethSton it's been seen 2017 and still not like I used to be. Even the thought of relationships gives me that deep feeling oh sorrow ang hurt you get whenever you hear of a loved one passing away.
My husband of 24 years… Our daughter died and he spun out of control, drinking, drugs. Anything he could do to not feel the pain. I had to leave! He was my best friend. We grew up together. And he was slipping into darkness. Before he was too far gone, I went by the house and sang him this song. He died, a homeless man, busking for food. He shared everything he had, physically and spiritually. He was killed for it. I forgave him. I will always hold him in my heart.
Cuts deep I've done that so many times and people dont get it, even the one you forgive still has the guts to call you a "bari ...stupid..but fir some reason I get by through life
So true. When you forgive someone who's hurt you, cheated on you; it's not about them. It's about you -- you're giving yourself the freedom to let go of the pain in your heart so it can be filled with love.
Forgiveness doesn't mean you gotta be friends with that person again but it means releasing the hurt and moving on. Think of it as a lesson learned so when you come across it again you will know to avoid it.
It does mean becoming friends again..how can you remain married and not become friends again…you need to reflect on the depth of your reason behind this post real talk
15 years ago I gave birth to my daughter on this song! This song is a true testament of her father and I relationship.. Can't miss my blessings being ugly forgive and move on. 2-22-22
I've been learning to live without you now, but I miss you sometimes.....heart of the matter.....forgiveness even if you don't love me anymore....Oh I love India!!!
Well DAMN!!!!! I never thought I would ever hear anyone sing this as well as Mr. Don Henley. But India does it. I'm sure that Don had to smile after hearing it. What a brilliant version.
First man to walk out my life was my father then first husband and foolishly I allowed myself to fall in love again despite all the up and downs smh.. crying so hard that can’t even finish thought I will just forgive..
I hear you, same here; but for some reason I've always been able to hold my head up high, many tries later I found the most awesome man ever, I still can't believe and I wake up every day thinking he'll walk out of me and my kids but, he's still here chopping Vegas and cleaning and holding a job
This was the first song by India i ever r heard. Now I have her entire songlist. Quality will always draw you in. And,yes it's a cover. But that doesn't change a thing.
I remember 2006 when I heard this album for the first time the guy I was with in the car was listening I am not my hair , then I went through the whole album and this song took me to the painful heart break I just had at the time and I couldn't stop listening to it, till now still touches places that no one has but that person ever touched
I could hear the starting string melody of this song in my head all day and had been struggling to figure out what song it was because it was only 1 of 3 songs I had on my Instinct back when phones weren't yet smart phones that could stream RUclips or have any apps. Finally got the brains to Google her albums prior to 2008 and found a familiar title. Rattling in my brain all day. I love this song. It has heart.
You can't relive the past because 2 things have changed. In this case, yes, she may have grown/matured to strive for "that period of time" however, YOU have continued to grow/mature during the time apart. It's like completing high school (with all your acquired knowledge & experience) deciding to return to the 9th grade.
The way this song just grabbed me and made me feel so many emotions… learning to live without someone in your life when you don’t want to us so painful.
Why am I just really reading your lyrics. You are a true lyricist not just singing non sense. You do You India and I have enjoyed watching snap shots of your journey. You are nothing but the epitome of a CLASSY LADY. Bless you.
Michael Wozniak Awe. Thanks. I guess next time I should google it. 😊 I was listening and feeling it in my soul. I wanted to tell somebody I hear the words. Don Henley awesome lyrics.
I got the call today, I didn't want to hear But I knew that it would come An old, true friend of ours was talkin' on the phone She said you found someone And I thought of all the bad luck And the struggles we went through And how I lost me and you lost you What are these voices outside love's open door Make us throw off our contentment And beg for something more? I'm learning to live without you now But I miss you sometimes The more I know, the less I understand, All the things I thought I knew, I'm learning them again I've been tryin' to get down To the heart of the matter But my will gets weak And my thoughts seem to scatter But I think it's about forgiveness Forgiveness Even if, even if you don't love me anymore These times are so uncertain There's a yearning undefined People filled with rage We all need a little tenderness How can love survive in such a graceless age? And the trust and self-assurance that lead to happiness They're the very things we kill, I guess Oh, pride and competition Cannot fill these empty arms And the work we put between us, you know it doesn't keep us warm I'm learning to live with out you now But I miss you, baby And the more I know, the less I understand All the things I thought I'd figured out I have to learn again I've been trying to get down To the heart of the matter But everything changes And my friends seem to scatter But I think it's about forgiveness Forgiveness Even if, even if you don't love me anymore There are people in your life Who've come and gone They let you down You know they've hurt your pride You better put it all behind you 'Cause life goes on You keep carryin' that anger It'll eat you up inside I've been trying to get down To the heart of the matter But my will gets weak And my thoughts seem to scatter But I think it's about forgiveness Forgiveness Even if, even if you don't love me I've been tryin' to get down To the heart of the matter Because the flesh will get weak And the ashes will scatter So, I'm thinkin' about forgiveness Forgiveness Even if, even if you don't love me Forgiveness, forgiveness, baby Forgiveness, forgiveness Forgiveness, forgiveness Even if, even if you don't love me Forgiveness, forgiveness Forgiveness, forgiveness Forgiveness, forgiveness
"The Heart of the Matter" is an original song from Kenny Rogers's album of the same name released in 1985. India Arie's extraordinary talent gave it a new life in this cover. She literally brought this song to another emotional level.
My best friend and I fell out during my wedding planning. After 12 years and me being there for every one of her milestones. She chose to sabotage mine. I forgive her. But I can’t continue the friendship anymore. She was supposed to be my matron of honor. The line about carrying that anger brings me to tears. It’s eating her up and I won’t allow it to do the same to me. The more I know the less I understand, all the things I thought I figured out. I have to learn again.
Damn beautiful woman inside and out. Bet date night i hadbwa buying tickets to her concert in Seattle my beauitiful wife loved her still does cause whenni play her she sings along. .i sang opera for a bit my my wife in the symphony. I love don henely but i like india as well. Different but lovely. I b knda like her pop but ibdo like dons gristle
2024 still in rotation!!
This is the best remake of this song I have ever heard! She sings with an emotion that I can't quite explain but can definitely feel whenever I listen to this. Beautifully sang!...
Absolutely 100% agree BEST version of this song!
I was hoping it would be a cover! I was looking for a different version...it didn't hit like the original but it was beautiful...it's just different.. Almost like a different song, but I hope this will help a classic song resonate through to New generation!
@@amyytyler9040wait what’s the original???
@@Joy-wx6lyI didn't know there was one either. It's actually by Don Henley 😳
AMEN
Die hard Eagles fan here.
I love this lady's treatment of
this emotional gem.
Go birds!!!!! Eagles for life🦅
When I say this song is getting me through everyday right now. I MEAN IT"! Thank you INDIA
so very this 🥰❤️🥰
It's an immortal song. Can't stop listening to it. ❤
@@MrMalloum It sure is!!
Girlllll... for me to... as I exit...
Just hearing it. I get goosebumps and emotional.
"2020" India nailed this song. Don Henley should be so proud.👌
This song is about forgiveness! And the original song writers finally forgive her for singing this better than the original!!! For many years her performance of the song was not available on RUclips! I don't know why was not available and I don't want to speculate on this, but was a fact! Very happy to see the song uploaded!!!
@@cocoonecoco you're misinformed. This is not about India singing this better (petty statement).
The Eagles songs are NOT on RUclips.
Don Henley doesn't like how this platform (RUclips) rips off the artists. I agree with him.
@@spotwms8768 This isn't an Eagles song.
The Long Run was the last album the Eagles recorded until a reunion album that came 15 years later.
This song was written and recorded in 1989, ten years after The Eagles broke up. It's his 3rd solo album to boot.
He was not related to the Eagles anymore.
The Eagles catalog up to 1979 is on Asylum Records.
Don Henley's catalog is on Geffen Records. 2 different labels.
They aren't related at all.
Geffen has a stake in Asylum, but there are other owners.
Henley does in fact want stricter copyright laws. He is going to push himself and his music into further irrelevance.
@@cocoonecoco I prefer this version, too, but let’s not make this situation into something that it’s not. The song not being available on RUclips has nothing to do with her singing it, but because Don Henley doesn’t like his work on RUclips because the artists don’t receive royalties. It’s not a jealousy thing, it’s a money thing. Don Henley said in an interview when he first heard it that he loved it.
i feel sorry for you kids.@@TigerLikesTail
Was my best good friend, married 29 years, 4 kids, a cute old dog and chose not to spend the second half of life with me. Divorce will be final in a few weeks. My ego was and still is hurt but I must move on with no regrets or resentments. It has been an extremely challenging relationship with a lot of beauty now it’s time for me to figure out my second half of life. This song has been in heavy rotation and very lifting, this and Don’s version. Great song. Love and light everyone.
Hugs to you. I have walked this path, too. Forgiveness is essential.
We spend our lives giving everything we have to them, one day we’re with ourselves tryjng to remember who we use to be.
Save a little for you-always.
Lionel Richie: "Sail On!" Remember a blemish will heal and leave no reminisce of the damage and of the pain of the past. Avoid the deep scars. They will remind you forever of the sorrow pain. You deserve better... Sail On quickly brother!
@@glamourgirl-n9b EXTRAORDINARY COMMENT!
Hugs and prayers ❤️🩹
The first two minutes of this song really hits you in your gut whenever you have been with somebody you thought would be your forever and suddenly find yourself single again
Its the hardest thing Ive ever experienced. No exaageration!! This song is getting me thru!
@@NeyBethSton it's been seen 2017 and still not like I used to be. Even the thought of relationships gives me that deep feeling oh sorrow ang hurt you get whenever you hear of a loved one passing away.
Girl uve never lied, those lyrics makes my stomach drop every time
Yes
My husband of 24 years… Our daughter died and he spun out of control, drinking, drugs. Anything he could do to not feel the pain.
I had to leave!
He was my best friend. We grew up together.
And he was slipping into darkness.
Before he was too far gone, I went by the house and sang him this song.
He died, a homeless man, busking for food. He shared everything he had, physically and spiritually.
He was killed for it.
I forgave him.
I will always hold him in my heart.
Forgive .. even when you never got your apology
Amen
Cuts deep I've done that so many times and people dont get it, even the one you forgive still has the guts to call you a "bari ...stupid..but fir some reason I get by through life
Hate and anger eat at the soul and only hurt one side. No matter how long it takes... Forgive them
So true.
When you forgive someone who's hurt you, cheated on you; it's not about them. It's about you -- you're giving yourself the freedom to let go of the pain in your heart so it can be filled with love.
Yes. The anger is too much to bear. Trust me.
It’s 2020 and this song never gets old.
I swear I go through anxiety bad her music releases me & lifts me up Thank God for her 🥰💕 Forgiveness is the key
I agree
The truth doesn't
My broken hearth song
update: 2022 and its still not old
Forgiveness doesn't mean you gotta be friends with that person again but it means releasing the hurt and moving on. Think of it as a lesson learned so when you come across it again you will know to avoid it.
Amen
Also called "the school of hard knocks"
amen to that!
I know that’s right that’s my whole mood
It does mean becoming friends again..how can you remain married and not become friends again…you need to reflect on the depth of your reason behind this post real talk
She sings with such beautiful spirit.
This is one of the most beautiful album covers of all time. She is stunning.
Songs like this remind me of just how powerful music is.
I’m from the hometown of Don Henley. This is a beautiful version of this song.
This song is so very spiritually uplifting, especially at a time like this. Forgiveness that anger will eat you up inside.
Pure perfection. I can't get enough of this version.
Me either. It stops me still and all I can do is listen.
15 years ago I gave birth to my daughter on this song! This song is a true testament of her father and I relationship.. Can't miss my blessings being ugly forgive and move on. 2-22-22
I'm sure that Don Henley would approve of this beautiful rendition... sing on young lady. Music is gods greats gift to mankind
I've been learning to live without you now, but I miss you sometimes.....heart of the matter.....forgiveness even if you don't love me anymore....Oh I love India!!!
She is undeniably amazing! That voice. That heart. The music. She touches me in a very special way and has a way of bringing me back to me.
She is undeniably amazing! That voice. That heart. The music. She touches me in a very special way and has a way of bringing me back to me.
This song always meant so much to me. Such a powerful deep message. ❤️
She sings this with deep feelings and I love it 🥰
Who knew I would endure the type of hurt that this song speaks about. India’s songs are always good and real.
Watching The Eagles perform this song and had to listen to India Arie's version.
Omg me too
This message got me through 10 years in prison I had to learn how to forgive
This version is wonderful, I love it more than the original, what a nice way to discover a new (to me) artist.
I just came across this song....thank you India.... it's helping me so much
Well DAMN!!!!! I never thought I would ever hear anyone sing this as well as Mr. Don Henley. But India does it. I'm sure that Don had to smile after hearing it. What a brilliant version.
I woke up with this song on my mind and couldn't find it on Spotify.... I'm in tears now after finding it here... I needed this 🥺❤️
I also have been searching so happy Im found it ☺
she left spotify over joe rogan’s podcast….now that i know, ill definitely be purchasing the album cuz its so worth it
Me tooooo!!! Woke up this morning with it on my mind. Love this version best of all. She is soooooo underrated. ❤
Best album I’ve ever purchased 💽.
Me too
Me too
First man to walk out my life was my father then first husband and foolishly I allowed myself to fall in love again despite all the up and downs smh.. crying so hard that can’t even finish thought I will just forgive..
Keep your head up babygirl. Time heals wounds. The things you used to trip over, you'll soon walk over..❤
I hear you, same here; but for some reason I've always been able to hold my head up high, many tries later I found the most awesome man ever, I still can't believe and I wake up every day thinking he'll walk out of me and my kids but, he's still here chopping Vegas and cleaning and holding a job
I speak healing sis...
It gets better with time. I promise. You've healed when you can thank the people that hurt you for the lesson they taught you. Chin up sis.💝
Love will love you my dear Sister.
This was the first song by India i ever r heard. Now I have her entire songlist. Quality will always draw you in. And,yes it's a cover. But that doesn't change a thing.
Rewatching Brothers and Sisters and so glad I found this💝😇
Yes yes me too . Love hearing this song again 😊🎉🎉
I love this song. It’s sung to perfection
When I was a kid my mom used to play this album in the car all the time. Oh the places we’ll go. Thanks for the great memories India.
Yeah me too ❤
Same ❤
Loved the entire album.
I remember 2006 when I heard this album for the first time the guy I was with in the car was listening I am not my hair , then I went through the whole album and this song took me to the painful heart break I just had at the time and I couldn't stop listening to it, till now still touches places that no one has but that person ever touched
still listening in 2018 and 2019 PERIODTTTTTTTT TAMPON INCLUDED NO CAP
Same here
This song remind me of my love for my husband and I have forgiven him for everything. Thanks India 🙌🥰🥰
Forgiveness!! Is the key
Love this song..... so in my feelings right now Heart of the matter...
I could hear the starting string melody of this song in my head all day and had been struggling to figure out what song it was because it was only 1 of 3 songs I had on my Instinct back when phones weren't yet smart phones that could stream RUclips or have any apps. Finally got the brains to Google her albums prior to 2008 and found a familiar title. Rattling in my brain all day. I love this song. It has heart.
definitely needed to hear this AGAIN!
The true secret of life and wealth is Forgiveness
I echo what you said!
🙏🏽
like she nailed it and it just makes me proud everyday this is the song of your life
This is timeless music from an incredibly talented musical artist. Such an amazing and heartfelt song.
2020 relearning this again after giving her a chance and taking her back.. Great song, imma be alright do u boo..
You can't relive the past because 2 things have changed.
In this case, yes, she may have grown/matured to strive for "that period of time" however, YOU have continued to grow/mature during the time apart.
It's like completing high school (with all your acquired knowledge & experience) deciding to return to the 9th grade.
Don Henley is a great artist/songwriter, a song from one of his great albums. Good cover of a great song.
The way this song just grabbed me and made me feel so many emotions… learning to live without someone in your life when you don’t want to us so painful.
Still listening to this song -Summer 2022
2024
I feel so connected to the lyrics of this song. India writes MY truth! India Arie writes THE truth! Write on India.
Although, India writes most of her songs. This is a cover,Don Henley-The Eagles.
Lmao Don Henley wrote this song. India Irie sings it better. But she didn't write it. Sorry
Don Henley JD Souther and Mike Campbell
You and I both, honey! I've been listening to this song non stop today. And its safe to say I really got it bad!
My favorite India Arie song...
I only found out about this song through a caption of it on the series, Brothers & Sisters. Great show and also great song!!
Same here
She gave an interview. Where don Hanley. Said that heWished that he could sing this song. Like. She does.Super. She was humbleee. Adorableeee
Still listening 12/30/2023…. I need some self assurance to meet the new year. God bless us all 🙏🏽🙏🏽
❤❤❤❤❤ you broke my heart twice
Wilson
2023
I remember I thought my life was over but I found love again
One of the best versions
Heard this at the end of a brothers and sisters episode had to see who sung it !!! Love it ❤❤
Ohhhhh love this..... its helping my mood.
Why am I just really reading your lyrics. You are a true lyricist not just singing non sense. You do You India and I have enjoyed watching snap shots of your journey. You are nothing but the epitome of a CLASSY LADY. Bless you.
These arent her lyrics. It's a cover song. But she sings the emotion of the lyrics perfectly. This is a don Henley song
Michael Wozniak Awe. Thanks. I guess next time I should google it. 😊 I was listening and feeling it in my soul. I wanted to tell somebody I hear the words. Don Henley awesome lyrics.
❤ this song soothes the pain I feel deeply in my soul. I hope we can forgive each other one day.
This song enters me through my heart!
Representing in 2021 .... her voice is so soothing!
Things that are hard to understand.
2020 ,in midst of Covid,Am listening and trying to move on
We have no choice, bro/sis. Gbu 🙏🏼
This has helped with my divorce tremendously! Thank you! ❤️
This was such a good album.
India,
You have given me life through years of hardness
This song is so underrated
Truly lessons in life continue to grow my beloved......
I got the call today, I didn't want to hear
But I knew that it would come
An old, true friend of ours was talkin' on the phone
She said you found someone
And I thought of all the bad luck
And the struggles we went through
And how I lost me and you lost you
What are these voices outside love's open door
Make us throw off our contentment
And beg for something more?
I'm learning to live without you now
But I miss you sometimes
The more I know, the less I understand,
All the things I thought I knew, I'm learning them again
I've been tryin' to get down
To the heart of the matter
But my will gets weak
And my thoughts seem to scatter
But I think it's about forgiveness
Forgiveness
Even if, even if you don't love me anymore
These times are so uncertain
There's a yearning undefined
People filled with rage
We all need a little tenderness
How can love survive in such a graceless age?
And the trust and self-assurance that lead to happiness
They're the very things we kill, I guess
Oh, pride and competition
Cannot fill these empty arms
And the work we put between us, you know it doesn't keep us warm
I'm learning to live with out you now
But I miss you, baby
And the more I know, the less I understand
All the things I thought I'd figured out
I have to learn again
I've been trying to get down
To the heart of the matter
But everything changes
And my friends seem to scatter
But I think it's about forgiveness
Forgiveness
Even if, even if you don't love me anymore
There are people in your life
Who've come and gone
They let you down
You know they've hurt your pride
You better put it all behind you
'Cause life goes on
You keep carryin' that anger
It'll eat you up inside
I've been trying to get down
To the heart of the matter
But my will gets weak
And my thoughts seem to scatter
But I think it's about forgiveness
Forgiveness
Even if, even if you don't love me
I've been tryin' to get down
To the heart of the matter
Because the flesh will get weak
And the ashes will scatter
So, I'm thinkin' about forgiveness
Forgiveness
Even if, even if you don't love me
Forgiveness, forgiveness, baby
Forgiveness, forgiveness
Forgiveness, forgiveness
Even if, even if you don't love me
Forgiveness, forgiveness
Forgiveness, forgiveness
Forgiveness, forgiveness
She's taken some license with some of the lyrics, so these don't match what she is singing.
Yeah these lyrics are missing some key elements.
But the song is so beautiful and will forever be in my heart. Thank you regardless of the flaws. ❤
That second DWI was probably a blessing in disguise so that I could meet you Troy Pradia 🤩
Beautiful song!
How beautiful song .
"The Heart of the Matter" is an original song from Kenny Rogers's album of the same name released in 1985. India Arie's extraordinary talent gave it a new life in this cover. She literally brought this song to another emotional level.
India's cover is of Don Henley's "The Heart of the Matter", not the Kenny Rogers song. They just happen to have the same name.
I think it's about forgiveness.... even if even if you dont love me anymore
Always! You don't have to forget, but forgiveness is the avenue to a happier life.
i love this song!!!!India you speaking to my soul ....
🙏 This motivation for anyone that wants the future to be bright and move forward 🙏
I wish all the best in life and love!! Thank you for the lessons 🦋
She looks so pretty on this album cover.
❤❤❤Beautifully spoken, sung.
I hate this song. But thats why i love it. Beautiful...
Mitchell Saberniak lol right!
2020💗
One of my favorites 🌺🎵💝🥰
The voice of an angel.😇
Beautiful Song.
This music is medicine.
This song is pretty awesome ❤❤❤❤❤❤😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊
Perfect!!!
So amazing and inspiring.
It's 2023 and I just discovering this song and I cannot get enough of it
Great cover
Thank You Ms. India ❤️
Sometimes it's hard to see yr ex in whom you loved so much with someone else "even if you don't love them anymore...
My best friend and I fell out during my wedding planning. After 12 years and me being there for every one of her milestones. She chose to sabotage mine. I forgive her. But I can’t continue the friendship anymore. She was supposed to be my matron of honor.
The line about carrying that anger brings me to tears. It’s eating her up and I won’t allow it to do the same to me. The more I know the less I understand, all the things I thought I figured out. I have to learn again.
Such a powerful song
Listing to this song and really Listing to the words hit so much different
This is how to sing a great song. Hip. Hip. Hooray. Greg Wesley. Detroit. 2020.
This song break me rn I’m going Thur a rough patch with my relationship
Damn beautiful woman inside and out. Bet date night i hadbwa buying tickets to her concert in Seattle my beauitiful wife loved her still does cause whenni play her she sings along. .i sang opera for a bit my my wife in the symphony. I love don henely but i like india as well. Different but lovely. I b knda like her pop but ibdo like dons gristle
Beautiful song and Beautiful voice 💜