It really frustrates me that women are told that as long as the baby is healthy and happy then everything is good. This sort of statement totally neglects what the mother is going through. Labour/giving birth/postpartum is extremely difficult and I hate that women are made to feel shameful or bad talking about their struggles just because they gave birth to a healthy baby in the end. The whole process is WAY more than just having a baby. Thank you for sharing your experience with us 💗✨
Exactly. It logically also makes no sense- like if you want the baby to be happy long term, a happy mother is crucial. Parents mental health matters, that’s how you mirror it for your child.
i’m not a mom, but i hope to be one day and your insight and experience is so eye-opening. my mom says all the time something like “men go to war and women give birth” to kinda explain how birth can be and is so traumatic on the body. thank you for your honesty, you seem like an awesome mom. sending you lots of love 💕✨
I hate the pressure society puts on pregnant people and the postpartum body. Ever since I was a kid I remember magazine headlines like "how she lost her baby weight" or something like that. It's so ridiculous to me to expect that from a person whose body has gone through something traumatic. I know quarantine has been tough weight-wise for a lot of people but our body and our weight does not define us. imo, I've started to love my extra squish and rolls more and more lately. I keep seeing things that say if your clothes don't fit you, and you have the means to, buy new ones! You wouldn't try to fit your size 9 foot into a size 6 shoe, would you? And I totally get it. I have very limited clothes right now because almost none of them fit me. But every once in a while I'm able to save up for even one new shirt or pair of pants and it really helps. Bodies change so so so much and you should focus on your health. Mental and physical! For me I have been working on exercising for function rather than looks and that has honestly given me such a different view on things.
I know that it's an incredibly personal topic but a video on sex after pregnancy would be informative and super sex-positive. Much like our bodies, our relationship with sex is always changing
The pure beauty of nature, flaws and imperfections, existing and disappearing, is such a blessing 👼🏻✨ I believe there's nothing greater than giving birth and to rise one human being. Mother's body is a miracle 🧚🏻♀️💫 Thank you for sharing this ♡
Others do not deserve to negate your emotions about your postpartum body and mind (or about anything else, either!). I personally think there’s so many polarized opinions about this topic - not just on social media but in my circle of peers and acquaintances as well. Some either hate their postpartum bodies and get the advice to suck it up because at least they have a child, others love or are at peace with their postpartum bodies and receive hate for that. It seems like no matter your standpoint there’s always going to be criticism! That being said - it’s hard to block out unconstructive criticism and opinions, no matter how you personally feel about yourself. I love your perspective on the subject, and couldn’t agree more with the notion that our bodies and our self love/-acceptance are on a constant journey, no matter the circumstances. Sharing this part of yourself so graciously is a big step to empower other women in similar situations, thank you for that!
Don't ever, ever feel bad about your feelings. It is totally unfair to expect women to feel great about the damage that pregnancy does. You can be both grateful for your body and baby and at the same time you can be not thrilled about something you don't like. Thank you for talking about all this. It is awesome and appreciated.
You are more than allowed to complain and share what bothers you about your new body!!!!!! just as you are allowed to glow about your baby boy!!!!! You loved your body before!!!!!! You signed up for the baby, not a new body! Definitely okay to mourn and be sad about not fitting into your favourite outfits!!! You dedicated so much of your time and work around your appearance and now you feel you can't control it! it's a big change and everything you feel is valid!!!! Hope you come to embrace your new body and rock a lot of new outfits
My mother had my sister and I 3 years apart, being 23 yo during her first pregnancy, and she was on the heavier side during and between both of us and her surgeon didn't stitch her c-section up properly and so now, since she lost about 50-60 pounds a couple of years after we were born, she has a a bunch of loose skin on her stomach. No matter what happens post-partum or any other time, your body is amazing, sexy and beautiful, and everything that has changed from the day you knew you were pregnant to now is just a way to remind you how strong YOU are! It is nothing to be ashamed of, or to feel bad about, if anything the changes should be something to be proud of, because YOU are a bad ass woman, s/o and mother!! Keep rockin your beautiful body!
Thank you for exposing your vulnerable side in this video. You look fabulous and your baby is beautiful! I feel the struggle that many women go through after having a baby in regards to accepting their bodies as they are now and appreciating and almost mourning how they were before. The silencing of this experience feels toxic and inhumane. Thank you for promoting people to feel how they feel as they navigate the word with a healthy baby and a different body and all the possible changes that come with that experience.
*Nina thank you so much for sharing this with us 🥺💐 you are such a princess warrior mama!* I’m not a mom (yet) but I love the idea of eventually becoming one and it’s truly such a life changing experience, I watch a lot of videos of other woman sharing their thoughts in postpartum bodies and depression and everyone’s experience it’s so different but one thing that I love about you sharing yours it’s how simple and honest you keep it with everyone. Thank you for that, truly! It’s so easy to place our value in our looks or our careers or in different labels but life it’s more than that, we are so valuable just by existing and being uniquely who we are 💙 I just wanted to say that. Also, Blu is literally one of the most beautiful babies I’ve ever seen (although Dejan keeps cutting his hair funny lol) he is stunning and I’m sure he will grow into an amazing human being because he has two awesome parents! I’m sending you a big hug! Love, Mari.
This video feels really honest. Loved how open you were talking about how you are struggling about deal with your new body and your sexuality now. Those are topics that people don't really say out loud. Thanks for let us know how this process is going on. Please make the video about the sexuality after giving birth. Hugs from Brazil.
GIRL!!! Thank you so much for this content! I’m not a mom but a relative had a baby almost exactly a month after you...so I feel like I’m watching a preview of each the next step of her journey. Sometimes I don’t know what to say or how to respond to all the experiences she’s having so listening to you REALLY helps me be more understanding and hopefully encouraging to her (🤞)
Everyone's problems matter, your struggles with certain parts of your body is okay, you are only human. Allow yourself to be okay with how you feel. Love and light Nina.
I’m so grateful for these types of videos, they’re so helpful as someone who wants kids & wants to know what it can REALLY be like instead of being in fear because no one talks about “women topics”. The sex topic was so fascinating and so true. Listening to the body is key! ❤️
You are allowed to feel disconnected and strong emotions over your new body. There are expectations placed on mothers that we have to accept and love our new skin because we got beautiful babies out of it. But for however many year prior to us having children we were use to seeing ourselves one way. And for some of us even prior to babies we struggled with our image. It's okay to miss what you had. It's okay to have hard days. The love will come. I don't say this to gas you up I say it because genuinely you look so beautiful. Try to go easy on yourself. Be gentle to you❤️
one of the realest youtubers out here! such an inspiration honestly, the way you speak about pregnancy and post partum is so eye opening. thank you for being so vulnerable!
"there's never really an end to please" I love this and I can't deny I am always worrying and being uncomfortable about my appearance and body to no end. It's such an unnecessary pressure and stress I create. I feel that as long the baby is healthy and your body is healing well, everything is fine. Also Baby Blu is so adorable, thank you for sharing this video! Much love 💛
My baby girl is 9 months! And i also had a csection. It’s ok to feel that way about your body. Moms loose a part of themselves and that’s the honest true. We are just trying to rediscover who we are as an individual. I know i am 🥰
I don't comment on things too often, and I'm not even close to having child, but I watched this and wanted to say I loved your vulnerability in this video. Everything from squeezing puss out of your c-section wound to sex postpartum. It must be hard to talk openly about those things but your honestly is so beautiful and makes pregnancy seem a little less scary (in a weird way).
I had the night sweats too after my emergency csection, and one morning around a week after birth I woke up 14lbs lighter - in one night! . So many aches and pains all over from csection x
I love you open and honest you are about everything. Mental, physical, and everything in between. This is the most real video I have seen regarding giving birth and the aftermath of it. Thank you for the very insightful video
Thank you for sharing what your body looks like with the c-section scar, you're beautiful 💞 I've had a rough recovery and just now after 5 years I started exercising again. Just now my stomach had stopped hurting, my scar is calm now finally. So there is no real expectation possible about what recovery is going to be like, but there is always a way to start feeling good eventually. Much love ♥️
I had my daughter at 18 she’s going to be 6 in May and I just had my second daughter she’s about to be 6 months and the experience with both was so different my oldest was so easy and with my second it was the most difficult thing my body had ever went through thank you for talking about you experience made me feel a lot better about how I been feeling lately ❤️
Thank you for choosing to share. I appreciated it so much. I am currently in my third trimester and even though I am planning to give birth vaginally, I am getting into a place to be flexible if a similar situation to yours occurs. And of course wondering about my postpartum body....so even though I know everyone is different you showing your body has given me hope. Lol. So thanks for being vulnerable.
Thank you for showing us your vulnerable side and showing us its okai to not be okai with things right after pregnancy. I want kids in the future but I'm honestly scared and I love how u didn't have to tell us everything your pregnancy but u still give up that side of u and I appreciated it so much thank you for being an amazing role model!💞
thank you for sharing neens!! I don’t have any kids and I’m not too sure if I ever will want to. It’s really nice to hear a perspective of childbirth/new motherhood. Blu is such a beautiful baby and I’m sending y’all so much love! 💛
nina! you are so beautiful and so wise and blu is among one of the cutest squishiest babies i have ever seen! thank you for being so open with your experiences ❤️
I so appreciate how candid and genuine you are about everything. Your podcast this year was such a gift; listening to you and Dejan talk about such personal, normal things is so helpful to me in feeling and in acknowledging my own feelings.
My husband and have been trying to have a baby recently, and I appreciate this content so much because everyone tends to tip toe around the situation. I would love to watch the sex after birth video if you guys felt comfortable to do it! ❤️
Thank you, Thank you, Thank you for sharing your story!!! We’re planning on having a baby and learning and listening to people who have gone through the process is so helpful and relaxing the nerves for sure! I would love more videos!
Thank you for being so open and honest with us Nina :))) I really appreciate it. I'm not having a baby anytime soon but its nice to know the realistic side of post pregnancy :)))
Thank you for low key suggesting doing some research on c sections! I’m 28 weeks and have only looked up vaginal births. Going to look up c section stuff for sure now!
Thank you for sharing your story💕 I love how candid you are when telling your story. I’m glad more mother’s are sharing their experience and normalizing postpartum life💕
c sections have come a long way since my mothers ge. If i get a c section I will be satisfied with this type of scar. Its scary though that the pain can last years. Your body looks fantastic congratulations on your beautiful baby boy !!!
I’ve followed you for years & have always loved how open and honest you are! This was so insightful and interesting 😌 & Blu is honestly just the cutest.
I loved this video! Thank you for sharing so vulnerably and truthfully. I’m sure this video helped hundreds of new mommys. You look absolutely stunning by the way and Blu is as gorgeous as ever. Much love 💕
you are so strong and inspiring to talk about such a sensitive topic on here ❤️ thank you for sharing! You guys are such a cute and loving family, hope to have that too one day ❤️❤️❤️
you're so gorgeous mumma, you're literally glowing! so thankful you're sharing the realities of motherhood in all of its beauty. where is your shirt from? x
you are like my favorite youtuber and i’ve never had a favorite youtuber ahhaha. thanks for being vulnerable and sharing your story, this was actually very insightful and i loved hearing about your experience. 💗
Thank you for talking about this! I’m a month behind you and it’s totally understandable to feel a bit alien to your new body. I look at mine and still need to figure out what to wear to feel comfortable in! Big love to you and your fam
Your honesty is refreshing 💙 Your body created a beautiful lil bb and you sharing your experience helps so many others deal with what they may be going through too.
Thank you for sharing this story.. it’s very important to share life after a baby because lot everyone talks about it! Also I love your hair color and you look beautiful
Hey Nina, thank you so much for sharing your experience! Just dont forget get that all feelings are valid and no need to pressure yourself about how you feel. Also your problem seems like a pelvis floor problem, can be fixed easily if you talk with your physician with your OBGYN. Hope it helps!
I remember reading something about "cell memory". It talked about how our body cells can record memories of trauma and that included trauma from surgical procedures. So from time to time, you may feel weird unexplainable pain on scars etc.
thank you so much for being so sincere with this video! I recently revisited your channel and I’m glad it brings me just as much joy as 3 years ago. much love :)
Thank you so much for filming this video and being so open about this topic, I went thru something similar this past year, and what you said about trying to redefine who you are based on your sexuality and especially when it was something important in your relationship; its nice to know I'm not the only one struggling whit this.
Wow. Thank you so much for sharing your scar and body! ❤️This was extremely helpful. I would love a video about postpartum sex/intimacy. I loved your podcast as well. I’m hoping you guys make more soon
Thanks for the great and honest video! I can only start to imagine how difficult things can be! Not just for yourself but also with the pressures and opinions from others. It's all okay, everyone is different and no one should tell you what is or isn't normal.
With the sex part I didn't want a bar of it for a almost two years after I gave birth not only was it physically painful having a 4 degree tear which needed stiches it was also a mental thing for me. Giving myself that time and true freedom to feel this way instead of seeing it as strange for not wanting it as much as I use to helped greatly.
I've never been pregnant but I did experience shooting incision pains from a breast reduction and my surgeon said that it was coming from the nerves that had been cut regrowing and "waking up". felt somewhere between being sliced and electrocuted.
I had an emerg c section too (March 2020) and OMG the bloat is freaking REAL. I empathize hard on that one girl. Also, I was SO sweaty for weeks afterwards with all the pp hormones and trying to excrete all the excess fluid. I had to change sheets and pillowcases every morning for a long time.
It really frustrates me that women are told that as long as the baby is healthy and happy then everything is good. This sort of statement totally neglects what the mother is going through. Labour/giving birth/postpartum is extremely difficult and I hate that women are made to feel shameful or bad talking about their struggles just because they gave birth to a healthy baby in the end. The whole process is WAY more than just having a baby. Thank you for sharing your experience with us 💗✨
Yes I agree with you, mother’s feelings are valid too!
Exactly. It logically also makes no sense- like if you want the baby to be happy long term, a happy mother is crucial. Parents mental health matters, that’s how you mirror it for your child.
Yessss‼️‼️‼️
Some say it's the 9 months (often times more) after birth that are the struggle not the 9 months making the baby!
i’m not a mom, but i hope to be one day and your insight and experience is so eye-opening. my mom says all the time something like “men go to war and women give birth” to kinda explain how birth can be and is so traumatic on the body. thank you for your honesty, you seem like an awesome mom. sending you lots of love 💕✨
wow that quote
@@nataliefields9009 love that quote? Women go to war now too, plus war is unnecessary af.
wait can we pls talk about how she’s literally glowing?! and her skin is flawless
- honeypot films
I hate the pressure society puts on pregnant people and the postpartum body. Ever since I was a kid I remember magazine headlines like "how she lost her baby weight" or something like that. It's so ridiculous to me to expect that from a person whose body has gone through something traumatic. I know quarantine has been tough weight-wise for a lot of people but our body and our weight does not define us. imo, I've started to love my extra squish and rolls more and more lately. I keep seeing things that say if your clothes don't fit you, and you have the means to, buy new ones! You wouldn't try to fit your size 9 foot into a size 6 shoe, would you? And I totally get it. I have very limited clothes right now because almost none of them fit me. But every once in a while I'm able to save up for even one new shirt or pair of pants and it really helps. Bodies change so so so much and you should focus on your health. Mental and physical! For me I have been working on exercising for function rather than looks and that has honestly given me such a different view on things.
I know that it's an incredibly personal topic but a video on sex after pregnancy would be informative and super sex-positive. Much like our bodies, our relationship with sex is always changing
Hi! They actually did a video like this, I"ll link it for you :) ruclips.net/video/-3aYKzTGLO8/видео.html
Thank you for sharing your story! And the reality of birth and after birth
this was insanely educational for other women. thank you Nina for being so open and transparent to us. you're beautiful!!
The pure beauty of nature, flaws and imperfections, existing and disappearing, is such a blessing 👼🏻✨ I believe there's nothing greater than giving birth and to rise one human being. Mother's body is a miracle 🧚🏻♀️💫 Thank you for sharing this ♡
Others do not deserve to negate your emotions about your postpartum body and mind (or about anything else, either!).
I personally think there’s so many polarized opinions about this topic - not just on social media but in my circle of peers and acquaintances as well. Some either hate their postpartum bodies and get the advice to suck it up because at least they have a child, others love or are at peace with their postpartum bodies and receive hate for that. It seems like no matter your standpoint there’s always going to be criticism! That being said - it’s hard to block out unconstructive criticism and opinions, no matter how you personally feel about yourself.
I love your perspective on the subject, and couldn’t agree more with the notion that our bodies and our self love/-acceptance are on a constant journey, no matter the circumstances. Sharing this part of yourself so graciously is a big step to empower other women in similar situations, thank you for that!
Don't ever, ever feel bad about your feelings. It is totally unfair to expect women to feel great about the damage that pregnancy does. You can be both grateful for your body and baby and at the same time you can be not thrilled about something you don't like.
Thank you for talking about all this. It is awesome and appreciated.
You are more than allowed to complain and share what bothers you about your new body!!!!!! just as you are allowed to glow about your baby boy!!!!! You loved your body before!!!!!! You signed up for the baby, not a new body! Definitely okay to mourn and be sad about not fitting into your favourite outfits!!! You dedicated so much of your time and work around your appearance and now you feel you can't control it! it's a big change and everything you feel is valid!!!! Hope you come to embrace your new body and rock a lot of new outfits
Yeah. I'm not having babies. Thanks for enlightening me further.
My mother had my sister and I 3 years apart, being 23 yo during her first pregnancy, and she was on the heavier side during and between both of us and her surgeon didn't stitch her c-section up properly and so now, since she lost about 50-60 pounds a couple of years after we were born, she has a a bunch of loose skin on her stomach. No matter what happens post-partum or any other time, your body is amazing, sexy and beautiful, and everything that has changed from the day you knew you were pregnant to now is just a way to remind you how strong YOU are! It is nothing to be ashamed of, or to feel bad about, if anything the changes should be something to be proud of, because YOU are a bad ass woman, s/o and mother!! Keep rockin your beautiful body!
Thank you for exposing your vulnerable side in this video. You look fabulous and your baby is beautiful! I feel the struggle that many women go through after having a baby in regards to accepting their bodies as they are now and appreciating and almost mourning how they were before. The silencing of this experience feels toxic and inhumane. Thank you for promoting people to feel how they feel as they navigate the word with a healthy baby and a different body and all the possible changes that come with that experience.
*Nina thank you so much for sharing this with us 🥺💐 you are such a princess warrior mama!*
I’m not a mom (yet) but I love the idea of eventually becoming one and it’s truly such a life changing experience, I watch a lot of videos of other woman sharing their thoughts in postpartum bodies and depression and everyone’s experience it’s so different but one thing that I love about you sharing yours it’s how simple and honest you keep it with everyone.
Thank you for that, truly!
It’s so easy to place our value in our looks or our careers or in different labels but life it’s more than that, we are so valuable just by existing and being uniquely who we are 💙 I just wanted to say that. Also, Blu is literally one of the most beautiful babies I’ve ever seen (although Dejan keeps cutting his hair funny lol) he is stunning and I’m sure he will grow into an amazing human being because he has two awesome parents!
I’m sending you a big hug!
Love,
Mari.
It’s so strange how they grow so quickly 🥺🥺
Girl I haven’t caught up with you in forever and I can’t believe your precious baby is 8 months old 😭
This video feels really honest. Loved how open you were talking about how you are struggling about deal with your new body and your sexuality now. Those are topics that people don't really say out loud. Thanks for let us know how this process is going on. Please make the video about the sexuality after giving birth. Hugs from Brazil.
GIRL!!! Thank you so much for this content! I’m not a mom but a relative had a baby almost exactly a month after you...so I feel like I’m watching a preview of each the next step of her journey. Sometimes I don’t know what to say or how to respond to all the experiences she’s having so listening to you REALLY helps me be more understanding and hopefully encouraging to her (🤞)
Everyone's problems matter, your struggles with certain parts of your body is okay, you are only human. Allow yourself to be okay with how you feel. Love and light Nina.
Id love a video about mental/physical struggles in relationships postpartum and just in general :) you’re so well spoken love ur vids!
I’m so grateful for these types of videos, they’re so helpful as someone who wants kids & wants to know what it can REALLY be like instead of being in fear because no one talks about “women topics”. The sex topic was so fascinating and so true. Listening to the body is key! ❤️
You are allowed to feel disconnected and strong emotions over your new body. There are expectations placed on mothers that we have to accept and love our new skin because we got beautiful babies out of it. But for however many year prior to us having children we were use to seeing ourselves one way. And for some of us even prior to babies we struggled with our image. It's okay to miss what you had. It's okay to have hard days. The love will come. I don't say this to gas you up I say it because genuinely you look so beautiful. Try to go easy on yourself. Be gentle to you❤️
Everyone should see this beautiful woman's video. Inspirational, informative, eye-opening & more.
one of the realest youtubers out here! such an inspiration honestly, the way you speak about pregnancy and post partum is so eye opening. thank you for being so vulnerable!
"there's never really an end to please" I love this and I can't deny I am always worrying and being uncomfortable about my appearance and body to no end. It's such an unnecessary pressure and stress I create. I feel that as long the baby is healthy and your body is healing well, everything is fine. Also Baby Blu is so adorable, thank you for sharing this video! Much love 💛
My baby girl is 9 months! And i also had a csection. It’s ok to feel that way about your body. Moms loose a part of themselves and that’s the honest true. We are just trying to rediscover who we are as an individual. I know i am 🥰
I don't comment on things too often, and I'm not even close to having child, but I watched this and wanted to say I loved your vulnerability in this video. Everything from squeezing puss out of your c-section wound to sex postpartum. It must be hard to talk openly about those things but your honestly is so beautiful and makes pregnancy seem a little less scary (in a weird way).
DOM BLU IS SOOOOOOO CUTE 😭🥺 he looks like such a cute lil mixture between the two of you!!
Dom? I swear her baby is called Blu sis I-
@@Noname-tk7yd his name is dom blu
I appreciate how real you’ve been through all of this. No one tells us this stuff about our bodies
I had the night sweats too after my emergency csection, and one morning around a week after birth I woke up 14lbs lighter - in one night! . So many aches and pains all over from csection x
Thank you so much for being vulnerable and sharing this ❤️
Whenever you’re ready a pelvic floor specialist may really help!
I have seen one! it was helpful but definitely i'm still a work in progress :)
Thank you for being so open, honest, strong, and wise. You are changing society I LOVE YOUUU
I love you open and honest you are about everything. Mental, physical, and everything in between. This is the most real video I have seen regarding giving birth and the aftermath of it. Thank you for the very insightful video
Thank you so much for being so honest! People usually don't talk about these kinds of things so openly.
Thank you for sharing what your body looks like with the c-section scar, you're beautiful 💞 I've had a rough recovery and just now after 5 years I started exercising again. Just now my stomach had stopped hurting, my scar is calm now finally. So there is no real expectation possible about what recovery is going to be like, but there is always a way to start feeling good eventually. Much love ♥️
I watched the whole video and relate so much to everything you've experienced, trust me it will all get better 😘 and your transparency is amazing!
Thank you for this . As a Virgo mom of a 7 month old this is super helpful to know im not crazy or alone
I had my daughter at 18 she’s going to be 6 in May and I just had my second daughter she’s about to be 6 months and the experience with both was so different my oldest was so easy and with my second it was the most difficult thing my body had ever went through thank you for talking about you experience made me feel a lot better about how I been feeling lately ❤️
Thank you for choosing to share. I appreciated it so much. I am currently in my third trimester and even though I am planning to give birth vaginally, I am getting into a place to be flexible if a similar situation to yours occurs. And of course wondering about my postpartum body....so even though I know everyone is different you showing your body has given me hope. Lol. So thanks for being vulnerable.
Your a queen ! Remember that. You are so amazing and strong. So proud of you
Thank you for showing us your vulnerable side and showing us its okai to not be okai with things right after pregnancy. I want kids in the future but I'm honestly scared and I love how u didn't have to tell us everything your pregnancy but u still give up that side of u and I appreciated it so much thank you for being an amazing role model!💞
Im earlyyy. Love this so much. Your body reallyyy did that wow. Women are soo strong and beautiful 😭😭😭😭✨✨✨
NINA YOU'RE ABSOLUTELY STUNNING!!!!! your makeup, your skin aggh
thank you for sharing neens!! I don’t have any kids and I’m not too sure if I ever will want to. It’s really nice to hear a perspective of childbirth/new motherhood. Blu is such a beautiful baby and I’m sending y’all so much love! 💛
nina! you are so beautiful and so wise and blu is among one of the cutest squishiest babies i have ever seen! thank you for being so open with your experiences ❤️
Never ceases to amaze me what womens bodies can do! Just beautiful x
I so appreciate how candid and genuine you are about everything. Your podcast this year was such a gift; listening to you and Dejan talk about such personal, normal things is so helpful to me in feeling and in acknowledging my own feelings.
My husband and have been trying to have a baby recently, and I appreciate this content so much because everyone tends to tip toe around the situation. I would love to watch the sex after birth video if you guys felt comfortable to do it! ❤️
Thank you, Thank you, Thank you for sharing your story!!! We’re planning on having a baby and learning and listening to people who have gone through the process is so helpful and relaxing the nerves for sure! I would love more videos!
Thank you for being so open and honest with us Nina :))) I really appreciate it. I'm not having a baby anytime soon but its nice to know the realistic side of post pregnancy :)))
He’s grown so muchhh .. omg he’s adorable
I really appreciate you being so open and honest about your experience!
Thank you for low key suggesting doing some research on c sections! I’m 28 weeks and have only looked up vaginal births. Going to look up c section stuff for sure now!
this video was amazing, thank you for sharing this vulnerable part of yourself. i've loved watching your journey!! thank you nina!
Omg 8 months alreadyyyyyyy wowwwww so proud of you Nina ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Thank you for sharing your story💕 I love how candid you are when telling your story. I’m glad more mother’s are sharing their experience and normalizing postpartum life💕
We have the same scar! Same thing happened to me when I had my c section
samehere lady
c sections have come a long way since my mothers ge. If i get a c section I will be satisfied with this type of scar. Its scary though that the pain can last years. Your body looks fantastic congratulations on your beautiful baby boy !!!
You should look at scar creaam / gels and oils. 💕 also massaging the scar helps a lot . also if puss came out it could lead to an infection...
I’ve followed you for years & have always loved how open and honest you are! This was so insightful and interesting 😌 & Blu is honestly just the cutest.
Please share more. I’m 19 weeks pregnant and am having a hard time with body image and sex life 🥲
My c section was over two years ago and still isn’t healed fully. It all depends on your body, and I didn’t realize it would be YEARS for me!
It’s so important that we discuss these things. Thank you for talking so openly.
GURL UR SKIN IS SO NICE!!!!!!!!
✨ *I'M SO PROUD OF YOU, MOMMY* ✨
I loved this video! Thank you for sharing so vulnerably and truthfully. I’m sure this video helped hundreds of new mommys. You look absolutely stunning by the way and Blu is as gorgeous as ever. Much love 💕
you are so strong and inspiring to talk about such a sensitive topic on here ❤️ thank you for sharing! You guys are such a cute and loving family, hope to have that too one day ❤️❤️❤️
you're so gorgeous mumma, you're literally glowing! so thankful you're sharing the realities of motherhood in all of its beauty. where is your shirt from? x
it is from revolve! got it a few months ago :)
you are like my favorite youtuber and i’ve never had a favorite youtuber ahhaha. thanks for being vulnerable and sharing your story, this was actually very insightful and i loved hearing about your experience. 💗
Thank you for talking about this! I’m a month behind you and it’s totally understandable to feel a bit alien to your new body. I look at mine and still need to figure out what to wear to feel comfortable in! Big love to you and your fam
Your honesty is refreshing 💙 Your body created a beautiful lil bb and you sharing your experience helps so many others deal with what they may be going through too.
Thank you for sharing this story.. it’s very important to share life after a baby because lot everyone talks about it! Also I love your hair color and you look beautiful
I’m not even planning to have a baby yet I’m so curious 🤨 to learn ! Thanks for being informative
Absolutely loved this video. So pure, natural, and raw. Thank you so much for sharing your story
Hey Nina, thank you so much for sharing your experience! Just dont forget get that all feelings are valid and no need to pressure yourself about how you feel. Also your problem seems like a pelvis floor problem, can be fixed easily if you talk with your physician with your OBGYN. Hope it helps!
I just love the honesty of this video, so informative !💞
Thank you for being so open and willing to share :) really enjoyed the video!
I remember reading something about "cell memory". It talked about how our body cells can record memories of trauma and that included trauma from surgical procedures. So from time to time, you may feel weird unexplainable pain on scars etc.
this video is so precious 🥺
i ADMIRE you so much for sharing this with the world. you are absolutely BEAUTIFUL inside and out, nina!
Thank you for sharing your experience❤I'm 21 and probably wont have kids but its so interesting to me to listen to this and learn more about women🥰🥰🥰
this made me so emotional for you.
thank you so much for being so sincere with this video! I recently revisited your channel and I’m glad it brings me just as much joy as 3 years ago. much love :)
I just want to say i really really reallyyy appreciate you being so open and raw. This without a doubt helped a lot of women out here. Thank you.
Beautiful video! I love how open you are. Try collagen your hair growth
Thank you so much for filming this video and being so open about this topic, I went thru something similar this past year, and what you said about trying to redefine who you are based on your sexuality and especially when it was something important in your relationship; its nice to know I'm not the only one struggling whit this.
Wow. Thank you so much for sharing your scar and body! ❤️This was extremely helpful. I would love a video about postpartum sex/intimacy. I loved your podcast as well. I’m hoping you guys make more soon
your body is so amazing and thank u for being honest about your experiences! sending love
He’s growing up so fast, i feel like you given birth just yesterday 😭 so proud of you !
your baby is sooo cute
thank you for sharing, this is so honest and beautiful. You are absolutely beautiful inside and out
Thanks for the great and honest video! I can only start to imagine how difficult things can be! Not just for yourself but also with the pressures and opinions from others. It's all okay, everyone is different and no one should tell you what is or isn't normal.
With the sex part I didn't want a bar of it for a almost two years after I gave birth not only was it physically painful having a 4 degree tear which needed stiches it was also a mental thing for me. Giving myself that time and true freedom to feel this way instead of seeing it as strange for not wanting it as much as I use to helped greatly.
Thank you for this video Neens! Super informational and I think you're such a badass for sharing this with us.
You’re amazing! Dom is gorgeous and growing up so quickly ❤️😭
thank you for sharing neens I think it's so important to speak about this!
I've never been pregnant but I did experience shooting incision pains from a breast reduction and my surgeon said that it was coming from the nerves that had been cut regrowing and "waking up". felt somewhere between being sliced and electrocuted.
I had an emerg c section too (March 2020) and OMG the bloat is freaking REAL. I empathize hard on that one girl. Also, I was SO sweaty for weeks afterwards with all the pp hormones and trying to excrete all the excess fluid. I had to change sheets and pillowcases every morning for a long time.
Most relatable postpartum video thankyou