When diapers were "too expensive" and my babies were young, I reached out to a cloth diaper charity, and they lent me 10 or so cloth diapers for my baby. Within less than 2 months, I had saved enough money to buy my own stash of cloth diapers. Later, when my washing machine broke, I learned how to make a bucket washing machine, and I washed those diapers by hand. I never let my babies just sit in pee. I made it work! That's what parents do!!
I don’t know if you can get them now, my son is an adult, but when he was a baby, there were pads you could use with the diaper, so if the child just pees, you can remove the inner pad, and leave the diaper if it’s clean.
Both my children only had cloth nappies. When they were bigger they got one bought nappy for overnight, cloth used during the day. Yes you have to clean the nappy bucket once a day but it saved me a fortune.
Okay so, I've worked with Hannah NUMEROUS times. I'm an agency RN in SLC. I work nights and she did days, so mostly all I know of her is when I would give her report between shifts. I don't know if she was a bad nurse per se, BUT...giving her report always went something like this: i would attempt to go down the line of patient names and she would interrupt with "Are they all alive? Yes? Okay cool, let's do count." Yall can take that for what it's worth to you. 😮
Even if you have a moment or are stressed, some things belong in your inner monologue. To say something flippant like that is a bad look, and should be grounds for firing period.
As a respiratory therapist-yeah, you can get a general idea of how people care for patients by how they give report. Granted, some shifts are crazy busy and not everything is done, but-yeah, you should do your best by your patients.
Hi, I had a liver transplant when I was 11 back in 2001. I just wanted to thank you for seeing us as people and not just a patient file. My mom would do things like bring cakes for the day shift and night shift nurses in the hospital I had my transplant in when I would do my check ups. We love nurses like you. If it wasn’t for people like you I might not be alive today. ❤
Im a single mother my sons dad passed away. I have gone without eating just so he wouldnt be hungry. Real mothers dont feed their kids scraps. They eat their kids scraps.
"Real mothers don't feed their kids scraps. They eat their kids' scraps." That sums up everything. It couldn't be said better. Literal gospel truth and also a metaphor for the totality of motherhood. I remember many lunches made out of my girls' PB&J sandwich crusts, leftover carrot sticks or apple slices, dregs of the soup bowl.
The two MOST vulnerable categories of people in society are children and elderly. This woman is sadly, somehow, in charge of members of both categories. Absolutely horrifying.
It's hard to know how much to share. I don't want to identify myself. We grew up painfully poor. The kind of poor they do social work studies about. Yet, my Mum made sure myself and my siblings were always well fed, warmly dressed, and most importantly protected. We discovered as adults that she would often go hungry in order to feed us. The year I started first grade she went without a coat so she could buy a new one for me. This is how a mother is meant to treat their children. Selflessly and with their everything. In return I now treat her like the queen that she is. The simple answer here is, don't have children if you aren't going to do your best for them.
Nurses like her are the exact reason our family banded together to care for my gramma at home ourselves. It was exhausting but loving and safe for her. So sad.
Nurses like her are the reason I become a direct support professional again. The field needs more good people.. not everyone is able to take care of their loved ones. I promise to love those who need it like their loved ones would. ❤
@@ChloeFromUtah grammas dementia was very difficult to navigate but my dad and sister and I figured out how to balance what she needed and when. For some reason I was the tough one so at times when she became childish and rebellious I would be the one to have to come in sternly and make sure she was taking a bath and changing her clothing. She would sit with arms crossed and pout when told what needed to be done until I came in and basically got through to that childlike behavior and talked her into doing those things. Lol at times I had to tell her I wasn’t going to take her to church until she took a bath and she always listened for me. Then I would go cry privately cuz parenting the only one who was a mother to me was the hardest thing ever. I didn’t have to be loud or mean just motherly and for some reason she listened to me but not dad and my sister. Ugh I miss her so much. 🥰 thank you for your service because it’s such an important job!!!!
@JustSara376 thank you so much for sharing that with me. That had to be incredibly tough, but so rewarding at the same time. Something you'll never regret or forget, that's for sure. You're so very welcome.. ♥ I love my job so very much. I believe I was put here to be a care taker, it puts purpose in my life.
Ive been a CNA for 15 years and I am with your wife on her reactions. HIPAA doesn't allow us to tell patient details, name etc: But giving details regardless is disgusting. I worked Dementia UNITs and the Rehab Unit. Social Media has ruined it for me. These nurses, CNAs etc that act like Hannah makes me SICK.
She lost me on her nursing journey when she refused to help a nurse who’s MAR was totally in red. Like look….I get it…no one wants to come into work and get immediately slammed. But help give the patients their meds and take it to management.
I used to be a CNA. Most of them that worked in the nursing home were not the greatest people. I'm not saying all. Most. This is my anecdotal experience, but I worked in 3 different nursing homes, all with different standards from private pay to medicare/medicaid, and a lot of the CNAs and most nurses were just cruel and desensitized in the nursing homes I worked at. It pushes the good ones out. It made me quit nursing school. I gave up after a few years. I vowed I'll never send a family member to a nursing home. Those are the most vulnerable citizens of our society, and a lot of those nurses sound like Hannah that work there. I was a Navy Reservist at the time, and decided to contract with the government and choose another full time profession. But I'll never forget those nursing home days.
I have a congenital D/O and have been found hallucinating with acute renal failure; CNAs and nurses (my mom was one) are the unsung heroes so thank you for all you do; it really does make a difference to a pt who’s been there from days with their parents living in the state they came from, to see when one of you has a smiling face and has a bright demeanor.😊
To be a "card carrying member" of the morman church, you have to tithe at least 10%, and they check their taxes to make sure you have paid the whole 10% or they will take your temple recommend...
My bedroom door was always open as a child. I loved the soft light coming in from the hallway and felt so safe falling asleep to my parents voices and the TV in the living room💗💗💗
Same ❤ night light in the hall and usually the sound of my mom on the phone “gabbing” with family and friends in the background. 😊 I always knew I was safe when I could hear her voice.
My daughter is the unit head of Memory Care. She won’t tell me details of what she sees and hears. But, she does call me when they die. She sobs because she loves them. She is very compassionate. This is at an Assisted Living facility. My daughter has the most compassionate heart.
Nurse Hiatt is the type of nurse who will pinch dementia patients because she can get away with it. Bedside nursing is a thankless job, I know, I did it for 15 years. This woman shouldn't be allowed near vulnerable people FR.
My sister (54) has Alzheimer and I don't want this kind of nurse around her. All the nurses that take care care of my sister are so kind and nice to her. They make jokes that make my sister laugh and are always willing to help with something. My sister is happy in her own world and is blessed with these angels around her. Irma from the Netherlands
You live in one of the best countries. Even here in New Zealand there are many stories about bad and dangeroustreatment of those in care. I'm 46 and I've been sick since I was a child. My biggest fear is not being able to defend my rights if I'm unconscious. It is looking like I won't be around much longer.
The “not changing the child’s wet diaper” thing bothers me terribly, because she works as a nurse! A LTC nurse too! Which means she is most likely not changing her patients when they are wet either. As someone that is disabled and has spent extended amounts of time in hospitals, and has been in LTC facility for rehab after back surgeries; I have seen first hand some bad nurses and caregivers. Luckily, I at least still can advocate for myself, many others cannot. People in LTC, or even just in the hospital are so vulnerable and need to be able to trust that they will be given proper care and respect. That should be the last thing we worry about when we are our loved ones need care. I have also had many amazing nurses. But the good ones can’t work around the clock. At some point you will get the bad nurse. This woman is a disgrace to the title of Nurse and Mother. What she has done, and is continuing to do is disgusting.
My grandfather just passed after being in the hospital after a back/neck surgery and quickly declined due to the lack of regular care of of the hospital and LTC rehab and unless one of the family members were there around the clock, he would be left unturned or unchanged. Seeing nurses behave like that in their personal lives scares the hell out of me what they do to their patients.
I cursed out a nurse who took my fathers shoes off and had him walking around the facility barefoot. Then when she brought back the shoes, they didn’t have laces. She said they kept coming undone, like as if she can’t just tie them up. P.S. they fired the nurse because I got the administrator involved
@ no. She clearly is okay being nasty and is not lying. Things she should lie about and take to her grave, she broadcasts. If you think lying about 17 dirty diapers around your house is clout worthy, you have mental problems to begin with.
This lady tees me off. If you don't like bodily fluids, don't be a nurse! I had a week hospital stay for an appendectomy and recovery and had very caring nurses. I could tell this was their life's goal to help people. One tine I was on the toilet, and vomiting into a bag at the same time. I was so weak the nurse steadied me. I looked up at her and asked if I'd ever get better and the lovely girl looked so sympathetic. No jokes or belittling!
This makes me happy. I am a nurse and that’s how it’s supposed to be! We aren’t forced to go to nursing school and we should want to help people at their most vulnerable.
After giving birth I requested a catheter! The nurse wasn’t happy about my request, until she inserted the catheter and I filled up two bags. Yes, she had to change the bags I had so much urine in my bladder. I was so swollen that I couldn’t go on my own. I tried sitz baths, taking a hot shower, and everything I could to go on my own. Fortunately for me, the nurse was a lot more patient with me after the proof of my bladder being full. 😊
Being a nurse is truly a calling. If you can put your patience on blast thinking it’s OK. It is not meant for you. This is the first year without my grandma who had dementia. If you even told a story like this about her. Or anyone who is struggling. Best believe my entire family would be coming for your job. The patients deserve respect and dignity. Clearly she cannot provide that.
My grandmother succumbed from dementia while in assisted living. This is disturbing, I hope the families stumble across these videos or her coworkers speak out.
I worked in geriatrics for 6 years and was an RN for 6 months in geriatric rehab before becoming disabled. I would give anything to be able to work any job but especially with the elderly. It's an honor to care for people at their most vulnerable. It's really hard to ask for help, especially if you feel embarrassed. Many of my patients were incontinent. My CNAs and I were able to clean them up, make sure their skin was intact, and treat them like a human. When you've been independent your entire life and now rely on others for basic human functions...that's really hard. To have to ask if someone has the time to wipe your rear? Just treating them with human decency has brought some to tears. I have seen 8 purple hearts in person from vetrans that were my patients. I have seen a child not be recognized by their parent for the first time. I have seen someone fight for weeks in rehab to walk again because nothing will get in the way of them babysitting their grandchild. I have seen someone who had a blood clot in their lung and was terrified. And I saw them put their entire trust in me. These are humans who have lived an entire life before we see them. How dare she complain that someone's family memeber has lost so much of themself they drink their own urine. How dare this woman belittle them. How dare she take whole humans and treat them like bodies.
This makes me sick. My Dad passed away in 2019 from dementia. It is a horrible disease. You watch your parent lose everything they used to be right in front of you. If i ever heard one of the nurses on his unit act like her, I'd fight to have her fired and make her publicity apologize. I despise her.
My grandparents were in a wonderful nursing home. My grandmother also had dementia and died in 2018. My grandparents were the love of each other’s lives and were married in 1956. She was diagnosed in 2008 and we were able to care for her at home until 2013. She needed skilled nursing care after that. My grandfather would drive up to the nursing home and would feed her lunch and spend a great deal of time with her. Once he was late because he had chemo and a new patient care tech was feeding her. He sat down at the table before she started feeding her and something told him to let her feed her. This patient care tech gave her 2 bites and said she was finished. The tech pulled out her phone and started messing with her phone. This was all caught on tape. They knew she ate more than the two bites she was given. And the nurse checked the tape. My grandfather didn’t even need to report anything the nurse pulled her aside and sent her to the charge nurse who fired her. They took great care of both of them. There was no nasty smell in the building. It was a nice facility. I know there are really bad ones out there too though.
@@Weatheredstorms1 my dad as well had a wonderful nursing staff. Totally grateful for them and made sure he had dignity in his last days. He was only 74.
@@Annasayshello That is true. My mom is a retired nurse and my daughter is a nicu nurse. Both wonderful, caring nurses. Hannah is definitely different. She is a horrible individual.
It is so easy to buy baby/toddler clothes second hand or on clearance! I shop a lot at once upon a child and shop clearance at the end of each season for the next year. It’s really not hard to find deals
I'm super against Value Village but they offer an amazing baby clothes deal. You get a plastic bag and can stuff it full as much as possible for about 15$.
I buy things at the end of every season on discount for the next year. I put it up. If I see something for a dollar or two I'll buy it even if it's 3-4 times too big and store it away. I would go without my own jacket to get my kid one... 😢
As a casa worker it is illegal in most states to lock a child in any kind of room or inclosed aera.being the fact something may happen to the child and the child cannot get help or ask.i have reported her and showed this to 3 coworkers we have found 16 videos that show neglect and 9 that shows abuse. Justice is coming for these kids and hopefully it wont be to late.
As someone who was in abusive marriage for sixteen years: if you cannot leave for yourself (which happens a lot) LEAVE FOR YOUR CHILDREN. When I finally got the courage to walk out, I was only thinking of them. They didn’t choose to be born especially not in a home that was abusive.
I am an LPN and just the other day I had a patient vomit on me. I felt so bad for the patient. They were so apologetic and I know it was the last thing they wanted to happen. I made no big deal out of it, changed my scrubs, and more importantly inquired about the patient getting medication for nausea.
She absolutely should lose her job. It’s more than just immoral, it’s unethical, and that is enough to lose not only your job but your license. If the ANA is anything like the ACA, they don’t mess with ethics violations.
I worked at a preschool and a child was very sick and needed help getting to the restroom, he did not make it before throwing up, he was embarrassed because he threw up on my arm. I told him not to worry about it let's get you taken care of first. Besides being a preschool teacher I'm also a medical assistant and Nurse Hannah has a terrible bedside manner.
My mom used to lock me out of her room at night because she got tired of me waking up in the middle of the night scared and crawling into her bed. She could have been a normal person and transition me back to my bed and try to make me comfortable back there or even let me sleep on her floor for a few days until she could convince me to sleep in my room again but no, instead she locked the doors on me without a conversation and let me sleep on the floor in the dark hallway alone. Luckily I had my sister who would end up finding me down there, scoop me up, and bring me back to her room for a "sister sleepover". The funniest part for me is now my mom gets annoyed at my relationship with my sister and how I go to her for things because "she's not your mother" meanwhile she never acted like my mother ever
@Mari96109 yeah, it's also sadly only the tip of the iceberg with her but I'm moving out soon to be closer to my sister so I'm hopeful everything will feel better then! But it's sad to see more kids experience mom's like this who are just neglectful and awful at their job as parents. Clearly they don't care enough about their kids or don't want to inconvenience themselves to meet their kids needs which isn't how parenting works.
I cried watching this. My mom had brain cancer and had similar symptoms of dementia towards the end of her life. The way that she talks about these patients is SICKENING!!!!
I hope her work place keeps an eye on her with the residents she " cares" for. 😢 If she greats her child poorly, I cant imagine how she would treat residents needing care. 🥺😡
I don't understand why her empathy for the newborn "he needs his blanket, it's cold" is not there for her toddler??? Like WTF ! Is it because toddlers start to have a little mind of their own and she's too narcissistic to handle that? Or she's just a psycho
I suspect an affair, questions of paternity, and desperately staying together. The one they treat poorly and the one they don't different points in a horrible coupling.
@@edwinstarware1917I doubt she had an affair, Mormons are super strict on that and only the man can have multiple wives. Plus both her babies look like her husbands tiny twins. I think she cares more about the infant because she knows if someone saw her doing those things to the infant that she does to her toddler, she would get even more hate
@Ash-nk8lk good points, but there is that Mormon housewives show that says it does happen. I agree they are both his but I wonder if he wonders. And then I wonder why am I thinking about this people and watch another video about them or something equally irrelevant to my life!
An update you maybe weren’t aware of, she was reported to the Utah nursing board and is under investigation. That is why she has to take shifts as a CNA now because she can’t practice nursing.
I was a very poor single working Mom. Diapers are expensive, that's why I used cloth diapers. I didn't even have my own washer and dryer, and I still made it work. It was far more effort and cleanup than disposable diapers. that's a fact. But you do what's best for your kid, and if the choice is cloth diapers and extra work or wearing a dirty diaper, the choice is extra work and cloth diapers. You find ways to ensure that your children are cared for properly even during hard times. You suffer instead. You sacrifice for them. That's your JOB. This lady has me fuming.
It only took my ex-husband one time of scaring my 11/2 year old daughter to have her scared of the dark the rest of her life. So l'm sorry if l don't believe for a minute that Hannah's husband is the greatest father and as a nurse myself l think she needs to find a different profession.
I will never understand why people like this continue to have kids. She obviously hates that little boy, does nothing but complain about him and treat him like shit but then decides having another kid is a grand idea. It pisses me off.
What about a child who comes out and escapes out the front door or climbs counters to get into things they shouldn’t? If my child came straight to me I wouldn’t mind but instead they are putting themselves in danger. (Not saying her child is the same, just saying there is legitimate reasons for it for safety) also we use a baby gate on the outside of the door so they can still open it but not get out.
Not in itself it isn't. There's a lot of context and nuance that goes into whether it's an abusive action or not. If you have a child that wanders in the middle of the night when the rest of the house is sleeping.. you need to keep them safe and if that means locking their bedroom door when YOU (not them but you) go to bed, then that's necessary to prevent that 2 year old from taking themselves for a walk down the street in the middle of January, or getting into something in the kitchen that they shouldn't be, or just the basic issue of them NOT being where you left them if there were an emergency like a fire. Do you know any 2 year old that can get themselves out of a 2nd story bedroom window in a fire.. or even realizes they need to because most children do not wake up to smoke detectors? I don't. It's us..the parents.. that would be waking up and rushing to our children to get them out. We can't do that if they aren't where we left them, safely in their bedroom. And in the event that a fire is too intense already to be able to get across the hall to them, they are also infinitely safer IN their bedroom with the door closed so the firefighters can get to them. So locking the door so they have to lie there crying because they're trapped..yep, I'll agree with the abuse on that one. Locking it when they're already asleep when the parent goes to bed in order to keep them safely where they belong...not abuse.
I shut my little girl's door at night just to push the idea that, "Hey, it's time for you to stay in bed and go to sleep.", but I would never ever lock the door. She has a small squeak in her door that alerts me if she comes out so I dont have to worry about her getting hurt around the house and there are jingle bells on the front and back doors to alert us if she tries to get out of one of them. Locking a child's bedroom door is nuts.
A toddler should NOT be leaving their room on their own in a fire. This would absolutely make things worse. The best thing they can do is stay put to be rescued by either mom or dad or a fireman. A toddler would panic and likely hide in a fire making it harder to find them. We put baby doorknob things on our kids inner doorknobs at night when they were toddlers to prevent them from getting out and running around the house. What if they got into the toilet or climbs over the baby gate and got into the kitchen where the knives and stoves and small airway sized objects are? There are so many things they could get into if we were sleeping. Plus kids cry pretty darn loudly. Like I would wake up almost immediately if my kiddos were crying at night. I guess I don’t know the ages of the kids. And older kid shouldn’t be locked in, but a toddler this is absolutely reasonable. What would be unreasonable is giving a toddler unrestricted access to your house at night while you are sleeping. Sounds like a good way to wake up to find your kid drowned or electrocuted or having choked to death.
My husband and I had our first child when we were definitely not ready. We lived in a 1br apt, living off server wages and factory worker wages for the first 2 years of his life. But we made damn sure that he was taken care of and had anything he could possibly need. There were plenty of times we went without so that our kids could have what they needed.
My mom caught my papa's hospice nurse stealing his pain medicine about a month before he died. That was the first time I saw my mom get violent. My papa was dying from liver cancer and could no longer close his mouth, speak, eat, etc.. those meds were the only things keeping him comfortable. This was in December of 2000. There are definitely some great nurses, but I've met more bad than good.
Thus is so infuriating. As a new mom to a 5 week old baby boy I’m personally angered even more by Hannah’s B.S. I cannot leave my baby in a wet diaper, Once I become aware he needs to be changed I get him changed as fast as I can. I don’t care if I just changed him. The idea of leaving him to be uncomfortable or risk his skin breakdown hurts my heart too much. I don’t care the cost. He comes first. As a “nurse” she should be well aware of the risks of leaving a person in a soiled diaper ( brief for adult patients) I personally have a designated changing area with a trash can just for his dirty diapers. Can’t even fathom trashing my newborn baby’s home with dirty diapers. She and her husband are deplorable. I hope that child gets saved
A friend of mine used to work in a Nursery, and was told in no uncertain terms, if they went on Social media moaning about having a hard day etc, they would lose their jobs!! 👍🏻because what if their parents see it!! Like her if she was looking after one of my relatives I’d be so worried!!!!!! And upset 😢
That’s exactly what I was thinking… how often is she changing those poor pts diapers? Especially those who can’t communicate effectively… my dat was a surgeon who retired at 85 not because he wanted to work until then but because he, a badass Jordanian told me “I don’t have job, I have hobby, but now any hack ambulance chaser will say ‘wtf is an 85 yo doing In the effin OR and I ruin 6o+ year career so I sadly retire.’” They dedicated a wing to him for 50+ years at the main hospital he worked at in the states; he is why I refuse American drs and nurses. I don’t want a smith or a hart; I want an Al-Hadassi, Al-Rajanni, an Al-Halassah etc., or someone from another country cuz they wanted to be Drs so badly they had to complete at least one other post doc degree in addition to med school. Americans for the most part, not all but most, go into medicine today, not just cuz of the money but the actually regulated residence hours they have, that mine didn’t have when he was one.
I worked in a restaurant and we would get fired if we went and publicly bashed someone or the company. A RESTAURANT!! Saw someone get fired because a guy found his server on Facebook and asked her out. He left her a 5% tip and she told him about it. He called and complained and they fired her over that!! But she's allowed to publicly bash DEMENTIA patients and that's okay?!
She actually has been reported to the state licensing board. And local Facebook comments say that people who know her have said the older boy got taken from her yesterday or the day before. Not sure if it's true.
Her success is bad mom solidarity. LOTTA bad parents out there... Edit: I pay over $30 for my elderly cat's food every month and I'm below the poverty line. She can buy one jacket.
I was a hospital coordinator, and while nurses were very hardworking and would do anything for a patient, they almost all talked like this about their patients, doctors too, constantly ragging on them, and sucking up their own farts. No one could toot their own horn as much as these humans. Now, these ladies were still much more ethical, because they spoke this way to staff, and not to the entire interwebs.
The trauma of locking the door will be ever lasting. I remember being a child (and my children have done this) going into my parents room after a nightmare. The idea that this child can not seek comfort at such a moldable age absolutely kills me. The excitement of my messy hair toddler waddling in in the morning is something Id give anything to see again. Instead this poor boy is banging at the door and one time she opened it and he was sleeping near it, like he gave up. She doesn't do this for safety, its to be selfish and lazy. It's abuse. Period. It seems to me she resents her toddler. I'm praying child services intercept before this becomes the next trending true crime case. 😩💔
My nephew has been put of his abusive parent's clutches for 4 years and he still has issues with enclosed spaces due to being locked in his room and the windows covered. He also has other lasting problems that he has to work through.
💯💯💯 i remember numerous nights waking up from a nightmare and crawling into my grandparents bed. A lot of times my sister or brother would be in there too for the same reason. That poor baby 💔😢
I am an in home stna/aide and I have cried with my clients and mourned when some passed. They become almost like family and you should treat them as such or find a new profession 😢
So I was on toddler Reddit. Someone was asking for advice about how to keep their toddler in their room asleep the whole night. Someone in the comments said they were told by their pediatrician to literally hold the doorknob so the kid couldn’t come out. I’m like so your toddler is crying out for their mom and dad while their mom and dad are holding the doorknob keeping them in the room that they want to leave. Crazy.
Because when you put your kids to bed, it’s bedtime. Usually you know if they’re scared if the dark or anything like that. We used to throw fits to stay up later, I don’t allow that with my kids. I put them back in bed and close the door. I’ve put night night movies or music on for them also, though. You have to create a routine.
I mean I kept my toddlers (like 1 & 2 yo) door with one of those baby handle things at night bc one morning we got up and found them wandering around the house unsupervised. It was absolutely safer and better to keep them in their room while we were sleeping than for them to be wandering around potentially getting into dangerous situations while we're sleeping. They're now 8 & 6....theyre not traumatized. They're totally fine. I had a video baby monitor, and they were safe. How is keeping your kid in their bedroom different than having them in a crib they can't get out of? 🤔 Edited to add: im not defending this family bc clearly there's a lot more going on. I'm just commenting ONLY on the thing about locking or childproofing toddlers' doors at night.
I had a traveling nurse during my first labor who was just like her- she was awful. Refused me care and yelled at me when I got out of bed to pee. Yelled that “yeah labor hurts!” When I apologized for cussing. She flirted with the Dr instead of giving me care. She was probably the worst nurse I’ve ever had during my first labor and delivery. I made her leave and not come back and she rolled her eyes and said fine and threw her gloves at me.
As a nurse I’m so sry that happened to u! I’ve had the misfortune of mtg nurses like this!! They make us all look bad! U have and had every right to tell them to get out and u don’t want them in ur room again you can do that with drs too!! ALWAYS be ur own advocate!!!
I hope you reported her! If people don't report nurses or _CARE_ staff in general, then you're just sending her off to the next unsuspecting woman. Even worse, she might have complications. 😢
I had a nurse walk into my room and rip the call button cord out of the wall and walked out. Just because I pressed the call button. 🤦🏼♀️ I have several more stories, some of them are even worse than this.
@@MissyZilla That's abuse if I've ever heard of it! Even if you were ringing it all the time, they still are not allowed to simply ignore you, let alone RIP the call button out of the dang wall! I doubt that you were _constantly_ ringing the call bell, I'm just saying IF you were. Unreal. We MUST stop thinking that _they_ have something over on us. There is NO REASON why we can't file official complaints about the abuse of nurses! From here on out, if you're in the hospital again and are treated and met with abuse, write down the date, the time, the nurse and file an OFFICIAL COMPLAINT! IF you're afraid to do it while under her care and there teams care (who absolutely know of her abuse yet they say nothing, meaning they're approving of her behavior OR they too are afraid to report her) then wait until you're released. Remember to write it all down, as I mentioned before and then REPORT! I'm sorry for you hacking these abusive experiences. Many nurses love having control over the sick and elderly. It is _OUR JOB_ to report them along with any nurses who witnessed it and did nothing. This kind of abuse goes unreported _almost_ all of the time.smh
@@kkittycatkat1990 yep, I totally should’ve reported it. Another nurse stole some of my pain medication. She came in to give me my meds in the middle of the night and the room was dark and when I tipped the little cup into my mouth I noticed there was only one pill. After taking it I told her I usually get 2 pain pills she insists that she gave me 2 and references my brain injury as why I’m mistaken. I was still lucid and could understand what was going on around me, I absolutely know she was gaslighting me. Some people do not belong in health care. Edit - I did not push the call button very often, only when I absolutely needed help and couldn’t do it myself. I’m a very independent person. That nurse was just taking her frustrations out on me.
Im an ER Trauma nurse/Charge and it breaks my heart that she has NO EMPATHY and shouldn't be allowed to take care of patients. I would love to say that this isn't the norm but there are a lot of nurses that I have worked with that I wouldn't want to take care of my pet cactus. I'm terrified of the day I need to be a patient and receive one of these people. God bless all the truly dedicated and caring, empathetic nurses out there including your wife. Thank you for bringing this to light and the nursing board should investigate her.
As a group home owner/care giver she enrages me and I’d never employ her. I’d rather work every shift by myself than have someone with zero compassion or empathy providing care. The elderly and disabled, like all people, are intrinsically valuable and worthy of ultimate respect. I have one client that lives with my family (I have the home in my home) and they are treated like royalty. I just can’t fathom taking so horrible about them or refusing to help.
My 86 year old grandmother has dementia, and she just moved into a nursing home after losing her husband of 63 years last month. I'd be beside myself if a nurse spoke about my gran like that, anonymous or not. As a family, we'd do everything we could to see her removed from the home for this kind of behaviour.
I got my three kids rain jackets at our outlet mall on sale for $99 for all three and thought it was a steal. It’s just the outside layer not a warm puffy jacket so I don’t know why she thinks $35 is soooo expensive for a jacket to keep him warm. 🙄
When they pee? So you let them get rashes and sores? Pisses me off because when I was a single mom I actually had no money. Yes I know exactly how expensive diapers wipes formula clothes ect are. I didn't get to eat out or how hobbies that cost money. Because I made sure my kids and everything first. She is literally a nurse in a dual income household. This makes me nauseous
Absolutely, she can afford diapers!! And there’s many kinds of diapers, you don’t have to get the most expensive ones. Even the cheapest ones do the job
When my big girl was a year old, I remember commenting to my mother that my baby had never had diaper rash. And my mother said, "Of course not, you change her diaper 15 times a day." Which was true. And I was a single mom, working in fact as a NJ State CPS social worker. The mere thought of her sitting in wetness - it makes me cringe right now. I cannot stand to have wet fabric touch my skin and therefore cannot tolerate it on behalf of other victims. I could NEVER let her maximize use of a diaper. Sometimes I couldn't tell if it was wet but it felt warm from being on her, so I'd change it. When I see a child in a loaded diaper, or a baby out on a hot sunny day with no hat, or a toddler covered in dry snot, or a tired cranky toddler just crying to get picked up - all just met with parental indifference - it drives me mad. I can FEEEEEEEEL the baby's discomfort. Like how much are these neglectful parents going to enjoy sitting for hours in their own loaded diaper in the state run nursing home someday?
As Someone who has a Father with Lewy Body Dementia. I would be absolutely fucking livid if there was a Nurse in his Facility taking care of Him that acted anything close to like She does!!!!
As a retired nurse of 40yr career this breaks my heart to see. If she is abusing her own child, what in God's name do you think she's doing for grandma, or mom, or cousin that mean nothing to her but a paycheck? She def needs reported to the board of nursing, maybe not for any Hipaa violation but one can by process of elimination (through decor, uniform, nametag) find out where she is working and surmise that she is speaking about their family member. She disgusts me and def makes a stain against nurses who ARE great and who have fought and are still fighting to maintain that status. RUclips and other SM outlets need to remove anyone that is under investigation, THAT should be in the TOS! You shouldn't make money off of abuse. End of!
Just looked it up and it says, “Telling a story about a patient on social media is a HIPAA violation if a valid authorization has not been obtained from the patient prior to the disclosure. In such circumstances, it is important the patient or their personal representative is aware that it may not be possible to withdraw the authorization once the social media post is published.” This is definitely a HIPAA violation and she could definitely lose her license.
The way she talked about the dementia patients made me SOOO angry. While I was in college studying psych I was also working as a mental health technician on a dementia unit. The job can be so difficult and yes I was punched, kicked, etc by patients. But the attitude she has toward them reminds me of some coworkers I had that would intentionally agitate patients and would let their own emotions cloud their clinical judgement. I still think about those patients I had fondly. They deserve kindness, compassion, and comfort. The hardest part of the job was dealing with coworkers that mistreated patients and not having the power to change it, even when I talked to management.
Her comment on sleep training earlier than 4 months breaks my heart. Experts don't even recommend sleep training until AT LEAST 4 months because that's when baby's sleep changes from a "sleep pressure" system to a "normal" sleep cycle. Also, it's widely believed that babies don't even realize they are a separate person from their mother until they are around 6 months of age. So what she's saying is that before the baby's brain is physically ready, and when the baby still thinks their mother is a literal part of them, she wants to "sleep train" which for her probably means the "cry it out method"?? Studies show that when the baby stops crying out, it's not because they have learned to "self-soothe", but because they realize no one is coming for them and so crying out is a waste of energy. Saliva cortisol levels (stress hormone) are actually higher on the night they stop crying out. I tried, one time, to let my toddler cry for a 5 minute period and only made it about 2 minutes because it broke my heart too much to know my baby needed me and I didn't respond immediately. This woman does not deserve those sweet babies!
I think the husband is abusing her as well. She has stated a few times that her husband takes away her debit card. Or she had to beg him to get her food. That is abusive.
My Dad has dementia and these kind of videos is the reason I sold my house to and rented a different house so my Dad could live with us. I don't trust these nurses or homes!!!! It's DISGUSTING!!!
When my great grandmothers Alzheimer’s progressed, she was put in a home but my nana would visit her every day ❤ Some of my fondest memories are visiting her in the nursing home with my grandmother. Nana always told me if you don’t show up for your loved ones at the home, they could be treated some type of way.
My beautiful mum has early onset dementia. I will do everything in my power to take care of her at home. I would go to jail, I swear if someone treated her badly
The way she was screaming after being vomitted on, and how her child flinches, I have to wonder if she ever "snaps" at these patients who can't defend themselves. Sadly she is showing the type of behavior that someone would exhibit when they abuse the elderly. I never want to see someone lose their job, but I fear for those like the elderly and the children that can't defend themselves. Can't afford diapers? Switch to cloth? Lazy excuses. She pisses me off.
She also might have let events escalate to have a good story to tell. A patient walking down the hall drinking toilet water from a cup? How do you know it's toilet water unless you saw them fill the cup? Why didn't you intervene?
I love our cloth diapers. Cost us about the cost of 1 year of diapers and can be used for multiple kids In the US there's organizations that loan out cloth diapers for free.
She reminds me SO much of the woman in an episode of House who they realised was a psychopath. Her eyes are terrifyingly soulless, and she's supposed to be in a caring vocation looking after some of the most vulnerable people alive?!
That poor boy locked in his room is heartbreaking. I live in a bungalow and my son (whos 2 and a half) went through a phase where every night at 3am he would come out of his room and climb into mine and his daddys bed. I would wait till he was snoring softly again and pop him back in his own bed. I dont like to cosleep but I just thought it was the sweetest little ritual ❤ hes grown out of it now and only does it every so often but hes sick at the minute and climbed in last night for a cuddle and to ask for some warm milk, I couldn't imagine if he was locked in his room and couldn't ask for a drink if he was thirsty in the night or just needed some comfort 😢
“You make it work when you have kids” 22:36 The difference between GOOD parents and bad parents. My husband and I have never let our kids get rain during our rainstorms. Change 👏🏻 the 👏🏻 pee 👏🏻 diapers!!!!
The patients in her care deserve DIGNITY!!! It's DISGUSTING to talk about a dementia episode. SHE SHOULD NOT BE IN HEALTHCARE! I'd be LIVID if it were my family.
As a 30 plus year nurse she not only is abusing her children she is exploiting her patients and this is unethical. She defiantly needs to be turned into the nursing state board and have her license revoked. She should not be allowed to work around ANY elderly patients. This makes me so angry and she is making thousands.
Okay, when I was a child I grew up with a mentally ill grandmother (my dad's mother) and she used to lock me in the bathroom everyday after school while my dad went to work. Well, my own mom left me a note when she came to visit one time, with instructions about how to write her letters because she knew my grandma was literally insane. My grandma would lock me in the bathroom for hours upon hours and if I started screaming or banging on the door she would force me to shut the light off. After that I began to have fears of snakes coming up the toilet and bath tub drain and attacking me. Because of this, I always had an irrational fear of snakes and reptiles when I never did before. So, I finally did it, I actually sent my mom a letter in secret when I was sent to get the mail one morning. My mom left me stamps and envelopes that I kept hidden under my bed. She showed up and idk what she said to my grandma but my grandma never did it again and when I told my dad about it when I became an adult he was mortified and felt like SUCH a P.O.S. and apologized to me for year's and year's over it. I forgot all about that all happening because I was so traumatized. Years later when I was like 16 my mom showed me the letters. I actually wrote her letters with my colored art paper and crayons so my grandma didn't catch on that I was actually writing a letter. Reading my pleas for help from my mom was so sad and I cry remembering and picturing her cry when she showed them to me. It brought back all the pain and trauama of that time... I miss you Mama, you rock ❤🙏🏻
She tried to make it sound like the 17 diapers were over the course of a day…. But if shes only changing poop diapers and the occasional over peed in diaper, how many days is she really letting those diapers accumulate?
At least four days, maybe longer. That could also be a reason why she's not feeding the oldest: if nothing goes in, then nothing comes out. Plus she's saving money for her own mega sandwiches and whatnot. Win-win! (heavy sarcasm because she's just awful)
She's changing diapers...I do agree that a tiny pee doesn't need to be changed. Diapers are made to be dry even when peed in. Most of her diapers look like pee diapers they look very tiny like the baby peed twice and got changed. Not one looked over filled or anything. She's rage baiting imo.
@@OTH4I still think it’s fake. One out of 17 diapers was super full…with what? Viewers assume pee but if she’s rage baiting as I suspect, it could’ve been water. I haven’t watched any of her videos on her channel because I refuse to give her views but I’ve watched multiple channels like this one that talk about what she’s posted while also showing clips. Don’t get me wrong. I don’t like her regardless. I suspect cps will investigate and nothing will be found because it’s all fake in front of a camera for views and money much like influencers pretend to have perfect lives and yet how many have ended up with murder charges…I’ve lost count. My point is, if she truly was abusive she wouldn’t be so brazen about it because the pulse of the internet has zero tolerance after the whole Ruby Frankie case. If she is an abuser she knows the internet would come for her and she would in fact end up in jail/prison. Instead, she plays off that intensity on the internet to protect children at all costs and is manipulating the viewers into believing an illusion so that she gets “tic toc famous” and makes bank.
I work with special needs people. If my job caught me posting about my clients struggles even if I was not giving identifying information and violating HIPAA ...I would ABSOLUTELY be FIRED. We as professionals need the trust of our clients and their families. It may not be illegal because she isn't sharing identifiable information ....but is absolutely wrong....she should be fired.
My ex was abusive to me and my children. When I saw the video of them flipping the child’s hand when he was reaching for food I believed that he was being abused. That seems to be a common practice for abusers. I did finally walk away from my ex and get my kids out of that situation.
I checked Utah law for corporal punishment. “Utah law prohibits the intentional infliction of physical pain on a child as a form of discipline. This includes hitting, spanking, shaking, biting, or pinching.” I hope Utah DCFS actually does something. 🤦🏻♀️ sickening.
My state is like that too but I’ve had cops applaud for even spanking in public when kids are bad in my area. Like kids running off from their parents and then the parents finally find them and they spank their kids, the cop literally nod and applauded in Walmart.
Love the intro ❤ I am a specially trained nurse in dementia healthcare and have worked in it for almost 30 years in Sweden. Unfortunately, I only see an impartial woman who should not have this as her profession.
The locked door and the fact the child is pulling his own hair is really scary. I have a teenager who is still a sleep walker and while we locked our front door with fireproof locks we never ever locked him in his bedroom. A fire Marshall would loose their minds and rightfully so. We had the fire department come and talk us through locks that would keep him safe from getting out and keeping him safe inside incase we had to get out. It's extremely important because we live next to water. She's too selfish to be a nurse and a good mom.
My mom had to do this with my older brother. He was a runner and he was quick with unlocking the door. She would turn her back for 2 seconds and he was out. She used a child leash with him in crowded spaces cause he just took off. He actually tried locking himself in the bedroom as a child and she replaced all the knobs in our rooms to not have locks. The only place we ever got locked into was a playpen. This woman is ugh.
She's being investigated through the Utah nursing board as well, and his business is *supposedly* being checked out too. I agree that she's likely gonna keep at it and basically thumb her Jose at us, but it's SOOOOOOO important that those if us that have made the reports keep making them, and that others continue as well. FORCE the agencies to do their fking jobs and get these kids to safety. My concern is she'll stop filming the kids as much and the abuse is gonna get worse. I don't think kids beling on social media either, but at least for now, we're able to keep an eye on him. If she starts hiding them, there's no one that's gonna be showing up at her door to ensure the boys are safe.
I work as a care assistant in the UK and we would absolutley be sacked for creating content about this. Its a breach of confidentiality and reflects very poorly on where she works. How is she getting away with this, I don't understand. She shouldn't be anywhere near patients. I would bet my life she's abusing her patients, where is the dignity? Heartless woman. And the hypocrisy that she's religious is absolutley wild, there is nothing godly about this woman.
So does she let her patients sit is gross pee too because I guarantee she does. Those poor people probably only get toileted if they poop or complain. She’s a nightmare nurse!
As someone who just lost their mother to Alzheimers, October 29th, and was her only caregiver for the last 2 and a half years, THIS!!!! Is why I *NEVER* let my mother go into a home! Whether they are actually abusing them or just talking trash about them, it's wrong! I was willing to work my butt off and go many sleepless nights, in order to keep my mother safe. It was but far the toughest thing I've ever done, but I would do it all over again, in order to keep her home and safe. This makes me so mad! I'm sure that patient's family wouldn't want the internet to know. And I understand she didn't say their name, and for all we know she could be lying, but it's still awful! Memory patients need extra care and compassion... 😢 She is so freaking evil!!!
Not that you needed validation but hearing stories like this solidify your decision and I hope you’re proud of yourself. I took care of my mother for 11 months before she passed and it was so hard, but I would do it again if I could because I miss her so much. I hope you find peace and settle into your new norm with Grace. Take care
Ogden is about 100 miles from where Ruby lived. They don't want another Ruby. So she was definitely going to be investigated. Utha as a whole has horrible child protection laws.
As a caregiver for elderly and memory care patients who barely gets paid for it this is so sad. These people deserve dignity and respect! Not for us to trash them online for money and fame.
My grandma was 97 years old when she passed from dementia. Like they say Karma. She shouldn't be a nurse. To the mother: Go to Goodwill or any thrift stores!
In reference to the "can't afford to change dippers after they pee portion", there is such a thing as cloth diapering. I was kinda forced to become a stay at home mom with our third baby. Basically because it was cheaper to do that than childcare. So we decided as a way to save some money, I exclusively breastfeed, and we cloth diaper 95% of the time. so if you're afraid of wasting disposable diapers, just cloth diaper (unless you're too busy/lazy to wash the diapers twice a week). There's also a smaller chance of blowouts and rashes with cloth diapering. And there's no fear of running out of diapers, before the next paycheck comes in ( I've dealt with that with my second and never wanna feel that again. That was a huge reason why I chose cough diapering also)
She’s gonna continue to deny any wrongdoing and continue to collect that big fat wad of cash. Stop watching her! Stop paying her! I don’t have high expectations of the Utah CPS actually doing anything .
If i was eating out with my son and he wanted something off of my plate im letting him , im not pushing his hand away thats wild... He is eating before me. Im literally in tears watching the video of this boy flinching.. as someone who had an abusive dad i completely understand his fear and how scared he must have been. My son and i rough play all the time , he doesn't flinch at me at all...
I was going to say the same about food- she eats like she never ever gets to have food. Like she’s starving. And in most of her videos when they share food- her husband is shoveling food in his mouth super fast so he can eat more than her.
She’s too busy spewing stupid nonsense into a camera than cooking food for herself let alone feeding her son! Imagine how often he gets locked away on an empty stomach.
When diapers were "too expensive" and my babies were young, I reached out to a cloth diaper charity, and they lent me 10 or so cloth diapers for my baby. Within less than 2 months, I had saved enough money to buy my own stash of cloth diapers.
Later, when my washing machine broke, I learned how to make a bucket washing machine, and I washed those diapers by hand. I never let my babies just sit in pee. I made it work! That's what parents do!!
I cloth diaper! I got them second hand. And some for free :)
You’re a gem
I don’t know if you can get them now, my son is an adult, but when he was a baby, there were pads you could use with the diaper, so if the child just pees, you can remove the inner pad, and leave the diaper if it’s clean.
Your a truly great parent
Both my children only had cloth nappies. When they were bigger they got one bought nappy for overnight, cloth used during the day. Yes you have to clean the nappy bucket once a day but it saved me a fortune.
Okay so, I've worked with Hannah NUMEROUS times. I'm an agency RN in SLC. I work nights and she did days, so mostly all I know of her is when I would give her report between shifts. I don't know if she was a bad nurse per se, BUT...giving her report always went something like this: i would attempt to go down the line of patient names and she would interrupt with "Are they all alive? Yes? Okay cool, let's do count." Yall can take that for what it's worth to you. 😮
Wow. She’s a disgusting human being and shouldn’t be taking care of anyone especially vulnerable people like kids and sick ones.
When I was a CNA I hated working with nurses like that. These are people not just a job! Breaks my heart
Even if you have a moment or are stressed, some things belong in your inner monologue. To say something flippant like that is a bad look, and should be grounds for firing period.
As a respiratory therapist-yeah, you can get a general idea of how people care for patients by how they give report. Granted, some shifts are crazy busy and not everything is done, but-yeah, you should do your best by your patients.
Hi, I had a liver transplant when I was 11 back in 2001. I just wanted to thank you for seeing us as people and not just a patient file. My mom would do things like bring cakes for the day shift and night shift nurses in the hospital I had my transplant in when I would do my check ups. We love nurses like you. If it wasn’t for people like you I might not be alive today. ❤
Im a single mother my sons dad passed away. I have gone without eating just so he wouldnt be hungry. Real mothers dont feed their kids scraps. They eat their kids scraps.
Also I want to add that I was locked in rooms as a child and it is absolutely traumatizing. And as a child you do NOT understand
Straight facts here no lies detected
♡♡ sending love
Agree I've done that many times . I'll wait till there done and then eat what they don't want . Some people are cruel to their kids
"Real mothers don't feed their kids scraps. They eat their kids' scraps." That sums up everything. It couldn't be said better. Literal gospel truth and also a metaphor for the totality of motherhood. I remember many lunches made out of my girls' PB&J sandwich crusts, leftover carrot sticks or apple slices, dregs of the soup bowl.
The two MOST vulnerable categories of people in society are children and elderly. This woman is sadly, somehow, in charge of members of both categories. Absolutely horrifying.
You are so right. And animals too.
It's hard to know how much to share. I don't want to identify myself. We grew up painfully poor. The kind of poor they do social work studies about. Yet, my Mum made sure myself and my siblings were always well fed, warmly dressed, and most importantly protected. We discovered as adults that she would often go hungry in order to feed us. The year I started first grade she went without a coat so she could buy a new one for me. This is how a mother is meant to treat their children. Selflessly and with their everything. In return I now treat her like the queen that she is. The simple answer here is, don't have children if you aren't going to do your best for them.
Nurses like her are the exact reason our family banded together to care for my gramma at home ourselves. It was exhausting but loving and safe for her. So sad.
Nurses like her are the reason I become a direct support professional again. The field needs more good people.. not everyone is able to take care of their loved ones. I promise to love those who need it like their loved ones would. ❤
What about a family member who sees her content and knows she could the talking about their loved one?! 😮
@@ChloeFromUtah grammas dementia was very difficult to navigate but my dad and sister and I figured out how to balance what she needed and when. For some reason I was the tough one so at times when she became childish and rebellious I would be the one to have to come in sternly and make sure she was taking a bath and changing her clothing. She would sit with arms crossed and pout when told what needed to be done until I came in and basically got through to that childlike behavior and talked her into doing those things. Lol at times I had to tell her I wasn’t going to take her to church until she took a bath and she always listened for me. Then I would go cry privately cuz parenting the only one who was a mother to me was the hardest thing ever. I didn’t have to be loud or mean just motherly and for some reason she listened to me but not dad and my sister. Ugh I miss her so much. 🥰 thank you for your service because it’s such an important job!!!!
@JustSara376 thank you so much for sharing that with me. That had to be incredibly tough, but so rewarding at the same time. Something you'll never regret or forget, that's for sure. You're so very welcome.. ♥ I love my job so very much. I believe I was put here to be a care taker, it puts purpose in my life.
@ well I’m going to keep you on my prayer list. You’re correct I’ll never regret those times it was a blessing and I learned a lot through it. 🙏
Ive been a CNA for 15 years and I am with your wife on her reactions.
HIPAA doesn't allow us to tell patient details, name etc: But giving details regardless is disgusting.
I worked Dementia UNITs and the Rehab Unit.
Social Media has ruined it for me. These nurses, CNAs etc that act like Hannah makes me SICK.
She lost me on her nursing journey when she refused to help a nurse who’s MAR was totally in red. Like look….I get it…no one wants to come into work and get immediately slammed. But help give the patients their meds and take it to management.
Thank you for being CNA. You get the brunt of the work, receive inadequate pay and not enough kudos.
I agree, thank you for all of your hard work!!! Have a happy holiday!
I used to be a CNA. Most of them that worked in the nursing home were not the greatest people. I'm not saying all. Most. This is my anecdotal experience, but I worked in 3 different nursing homes, all with different standards from private pay to medicare/medicaid, and a lot of the CNAs and most nurses were just cruel and desensitized in the nursing homes I worked at. It pushes the good ones out. It made me quit nursing school. I gave up after a few years. I vowed I'll never send a family member to a nursing home. Those are the most vulnerable citizens of our society, and a lot of those nurses sound like Hannah that work there. I was a Navy Reservist at the time, and decided to contract with the government and choose another full time profession. But I'll never forget those nursing home days.
I have a congenital D/O and have been found hallucinating with acute renal failure; CNAs and nurses (my mom was one) are the unsung heroes so thank you for all you do; it really does make a difference to a pt who’s been there from days with their parents living in the state they came from, to see when one of you has a smiling face and has a bright demeanor.😊
She moans about spending small amounts of money on her children whole giving over $400 a month to the Mormon church.
Or more. She tithes weekly. She had a 6k check once and tithed 600 that week.
That's crazy
To be a "card carrying member" of the morman church, you have to tithe at least 10%, and they check their taxes to make sure you have paid the whole 10% or they will take your temple recommend...
$600 every two weeks actually lol
That's exactly my thoughts, she brags about having to give 10% to her church to be an active member, yet bitches, moans and cheaps out on her kids.
My bedroom door was always open as a child. I loved the soft light coming in from the hallway and felt so safe falling asleep to my parents voices and the TV in the living room💗💗💗
That's so lovely to read & how every child should remember their childhoods. 💕💞💕
Same ❤ night light in the hall and usually the sound of my mom on the phone “gabbing” with family and friends in the background. 😊 I always knew I was safe when I could hear her voice.
My daughter is the unit head of Memory Care. She won’t tell me details of what she sees and hears. But, she does call me when they die. She sobs because she loves them. She is very compassionate. This is at an Assisted Living facility. My daughter has the most compassionate heart.
Nurse Hiatt is the type of nurse who will pinch dementia patients because she can get away with it. Bedside nursing is a thankless job, I know, I did it for 15 years. This woman shouldn't be allowed near vulnerable people FR.
My sister (54) has Alzheimer and I don't want this kind of nurse around her. All the nurses that take care care of my sister are so kind and nice to her. They make jokes that make my sister laugh and are always willing to help with something. My sister is happy in her own world and is blessed with these angels around her. Irma from the Netherlands
You live in one of the best countries. Even here in New Zealand there are many stories about bad and dangeroustreatment of those in care. I'm 46 and I've been sick since I was a child. My biggest fear is not being able to defend my rights if I'm unconscious. It is looking like I won't be around much longer.
I’m glad she gets good care. I’m so sorry that she has that horrible disease at such a young age.
The “not changing the child’s wet diaper” thing bothers me terribly, because she works as a nurse! A LTC nurse too! Which means she is most likely not changing her patients when they are wet either. As someone that is disabled and has spent extended amounts of time in hospitals, and has been in LTC facility for rehab after back surgeries; I have seen first hand some bad nurses and caregivers. Luckily, I at least still can advocate for myself, many others cannot. People in LTC, or even just in the hospital are so vulnerable and need to be able to trust that they will be given proper care and respect. That should be the last thing we worry about when we are our loved ones need care. I have also had many amazing nurses. But the good ones can’t work around the clock. At some point you will get the bad nurse.
This woman is a disgrace to the title of Nurse and Mother.
What she has done, and is continuing to do is disgusting.
Ya someone should make her sit in a piss diaper all day she’s horrible
My grandfather just passed after being in the hospital after a back/neck surgery and quickly declined due to the lack of regular care of of the hospital and LTC rehab and unless one of the family members were there around the clock, he would be left unturned or unchanged. Seeing nurses behave like that in their personal lives scares the hell out of me what they do to their patients.
I cursed out a nurse who took my fathers shoes off and had him walking around the facility barefoot. Then when she brought back the shoes, they didn’t have laces. She said they kept coming undone, like as if she can’t just tie them up. P.S. they fired the nurse because I got the administrator involved
the lady is clearly lying for views trying to go viral...
@ no. She clearly is okay being nasty and is not lying. Things she should lie about and take to her grave, she broadcasts. If you think lying about 17 dirty diapers around your house is clout worthy, you have mental problems to begin with.
Her fit over a patient vomiting on her shoes is literally terrifying. It’s like the POV of the child 😢
I would rather crap in my hand and clap, than be under the care of Nurse Hannah. I pray for her children.
This lady tees me off. If you don't like bodily fluids, don't be a nurse! I had a week hospital stay for an appendectomy and recovery and had very caring nurses. I could tell this was their life's goal to help people. One tine I was on the toilet, and vomiting into a bag at the same time. I was so weak the nurse steadied me. I looked up at her and asked if I'd ever get better and the lovely girl looked so sympathetic. No jokes or belittling!
This makes me happy. I am a nurse and that’s how it’s supposed to be! We aren’t forced to go to nursing school and we should want to help people at their most vulnerable.
@Aurelia6190 ty very much :)
@@Aurelia6190wait ....what makes you happy?
After giving birth I requested a catheter! The nurse wasn’t happy about my request, until she inserted the catheter and I filled up two bags. Yes, she had to change the bags I had so much urine in my bladder.
I was so swollen that I couldn’t go on my own. I tried sitz baths, taking a hot shower, and everything I could to go on my own.
Fortunately for me, the nurse was a lot more patient with me after the proof of my bladder being full. 😊
@@Joyce-j2k that you're a nurse and you obviously think the same way so you must be a good nurse
Being a nurse is truly a calling. If you can put your patience on blast thinking it’s OK. It is not meant for you. This is the first year without my grandma who had dementia. If you even told a story like this about her. Or anyone who is struggling. Best believe my entire family would be coming for your job. The patients deserve respect and dignity. Clearly she cannot provide that.
She should only change her own pad once a day and see what it's like.
They are SO expensive
😂
@@alexislynne1998feeling guilty about something?
That's actually an amazing idea for the witch with a capital B!
Ew. But I use reusables and wash them immediately. Not let them build up around my house 😃🤮
My grandmother succumbed from dementia while in assisted living. This is disturbing, I hope the families stumble across these videos or her coworkers speak out.
I worked in geriatrics for 6 years and was an RN for 6 months in geriatric rehab before becoming disabled. I would give anything to be able to work any job but especially with the elderly.
It's an honor to care for people at their most vulnerable. It's really hard to ask for help, especially if you feel embarrassed. Many of my patients were incontinent. My CNAs and I were able to clean them up, make sure their skin was intact, and treat them like a human.
When you've been independent your entire life and now rely on others for basic human functions...that's really hard. To have to ask if someone has the time to wipe your rear? Just treating them with human decency has brought some to tears.
I have seen 8 purple hearts in person from vetrans that were my patients. I have seen a child not be recognized by their parent for the first time. I have seen someone fight for weeks in rehab to walk again because nothing will get in the way of them babysitting their grandchild. I have seen someone who had a blood clot in their lung and was terrified. And I saw them put their entire trust in me.
These are humans who have lived an entire life before we see them. How dare she complain that someone's family memeber has lost so much of themself they drink their own urine. How dare this woman belittle them. How dare she take whole humans and treat them like bodies.
This makes me sick. My Dad passed away in 2019 from dementia. It is a horrible disease. You watch your parent lose everything they used to be right in front of you. If i ever heard one of the nurses on his unit act like her, I'd fight to have her fired and make her publicity apologize. I despise her.
I don’t believe most nurses are like this. We actually CARE about our patients.
I'm so sorry for your loss. My step father has frontotemporal dementia, and it's just horrific. This woman's actions enrage me to no end.
My grandparents were in a wonderful nursing home. My grandmother also had dementia and died in 2018. My grandparents were the love of each other’s lives and were married in 1956. She was diagnosed in 2008 and we were able to care for her at home until 2013. She needed skilled nursing care after that. My grandfather would drive up to the nursing home and would feed her lunch and spend a great deal of time with her. Once he was late because he had chemo and a new patient care tech was feeding her. He sat down at the table before she started feeding her and something told him to let her feed her. This patient care tech gave her 2 bites and said she was finished. The tech pulled out her phone and started messing with her phone. This was all caught on tape. They knew she ate more than the two bites she was given. And the nurse checked the tape. My grandfather didn’t even need to report anything the nurse pulled her aside and sent her to the charge nurse who fired her.
They took great care of both of them. There was no nasty smell in the building. It was a nice facility. I know there are really bad ones out there too though.
@@Weatheredstorms1 my dad as well had a wonderful nursing staff. Totally grateful for them and made sure he had dignity in his last days. He was only 74.
@@Annasayshello That is true. My mom is a retired nurse and my daughter is a nicu nurse. Both wonderful, caring nurses. Hannah is definitely different. She is a horrible individual.
It is so easy to buy baby/toddler clothes second hand or on clearance! I shop a lot at once upon a child and shop clearance at the end of each season for the next year. It’s really not hard to find deals
I'm super against Value Village but they offer an amazing baby clothes deal. You get a plastic bag and can stuff it full as much as possible for about 15$.
It's even easier to buy new stuff when you're a NURSE 🙄🤦🏼♀️😑 she has ZERO excuses 🤬🤬🤬
Right! I got my toddler a coat last winter brand new from only navy for $11. Facebook market place is also a great place to look.
I do the same. Also she would most likely be able to hand down the coat to her 2nd child so another way she would save money.
I buy things at the end of every season on discount for the next year. I put it up. If I see something for a dollar or two I'll buy it even if it's 3-4 times too big and store it away. I would go without my own jacket to get my kid one... 😢
As a casa worker it is illegal in most states to lock a child in any kind of room or inclosed aera.being the fact something may happen to the child and the child cannot get help or ask.i have reported her and showed this to 3 coworkers we have found 16 videos that show neglect and 9 that shows abuse. Justice is coming for these kids and hopefully it wont be to late.
I sure hope you are right 😢
Hopefully...being in the system sucks too.
@@sharedexperiences2773not if you’re in my moms house…she’s amazing
I doubt theyll have better care in the system so hopefully this doesnt backfire on those calling cps@sharedexperiences2773
yall is crazy yall gone say take somebody kids over a few mild videos
Im glad you're covering this. I wouldn't give them a single click. Your video can get all the RUclips money!!!
As someone who was in abusive marriage for sixteen years: if you cannot leave for yourself (which happens a lot) LEAVE FOR YOUR CHILDREN. When I finally got the courage to walk out, I was only thinking of them. They didn’t choose to be born especially not in a home that was abusive.
Ok but are any of the parents here really good enough at parenting?
But this is different, both parents are evil
I am an LPN and just the other day I had a patient vomit on me. I felt so bad for the patient. They were so apologetic and I know it was the last thing they wanted to happen. I made no big deal out of it, changed my scrubs, and more importantly inquired about the patient getting medication for nausea.
You the best
My husband's a nurse. He would just roll with it, too.
Thank you ❤
As a little kid, I threw up on my nurse... grape juice. Her warmth and kindness remain with me. She didn't flinch... just held me closer.
🥲🥹🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂💐💐🌹🌹🌹🌹💜
She absolutely should lose her job. It’s more than just immoral, it’s unethical, and that is enough to lose not only your job but your license. If the ANA is anything like the ACA, they don’t mess with ethics violations.
I worked at a preschool and a child was very sick and needed help getting to the restroom, he did not make it before throwing up, he was embarrassed because he threw up on my arm. I told him not to worry about it let's get you taken care of first. Besides being a preschool teacher I'm also a medical assistant and Nurse Hannah has a terrible bedside manner.
My mom used to lock me out of her room at night because she got tired of me waking up in the middle of the night scared and crawling into her bed. She could have been a normal person and transition me back to my bed and try to make me comfortable back there or even let me sleep on her floor for a few days until she could convince me to sleep in my room again but no, instead she locked the doors on me without a conversation and let me sleep on the floor in the dark hallway alone. Luckily I had my sister who would end up finding me down there, scoop me up, and bring me back to her room for a "sister sleepover". The funniest part for me is now my mom gets annoyed at my relationship with my sister and how I go to her for things because "she's not your mother" meanwhile she never acted like my mother ever
That's very sad 😢
@Mari96109 yeah, it's also sadly only the tip of the iceberg with her but I'm moving out soon to be closer to my sister so I'm hopeful everything will feel better then! But it's sad to see more kids experience mom's like this who are just neglectful and awful at their job as parents. Clearly they don't care enough about their kids or don't want to inconvenience themselves to meet their kids needs which isn't how parenting works.
@@Rin-wm7hrYou have a great sister.
@Mari96109 oh I know it and I'm grateful for her everyday! 😊
Thank God my grandmother is taken care of by my CNA cousins. This makes me sick. Watching my grandmother slip away from reality is just heartbreaking.
I cried watching this. My mom had brain cancer and had similar symptoms of dementia towards the end of her life.
The way that she talks about these patients is SICKENING!!!!
I hope her work place keeps an eye on her with the residents she " cares" for. 😢
If she greats her child poorly, I cant imagine how she would treat residents needing care. 🥺😡
So sorry for your loss. I lost my mom last year.❤
I don't understand why her empathy for the newborn "he needs his blanket, it's cold" is not there for her toddler??? Like WTF ! Is it because toddlers start to have a little mind of their own and she's too narcissistic to handle that? Or she's just a psycho
I suspect an affair, questions of paternity, and desperately staying together. The one they treat poorly and the one they don't different points in a horrible coupling.
@@edwinstarware1917I doubt she had an affair, Mormons are super strict on that and only the man can have multiple wives. Plus both her babies look like her husbands tiny twins. I think she cares more about the infant because she knows if someone saw her doing those things to the infant that she does to her toddler, she would get even more hate
@Ash-nk8lk good points, but there is that Mormon housewives show that says it does happen. I agree they are both his but I wonder if he wonders. And then I wonder why am I thinking about this people and watch another video about them or something equally irrelevant to my life!
She's dark triad.
I don’t even think she cares for the newborn either.
Bruh. $50 on a sandwich but can’t buy a $35 coat 🥴
I would just buy the jacket and buy my child a sandwich. I don't need one.
Right
An update you maybe weren’t aware of, she was reported to the Utah nursing board and is under investigation. That is why she has to take shifts as a CNA now because she can’t practice nursing.
Hope she isn't throwing 17 diapers
I was a very poor single working Mom. Diapers are expensive, that's why I used cloth diapers. I didn't even have my own washer and dryer, and I still made it work. It was far more effort and cleanup than disposable diapers. that's a fact. But you do what's best for your kid, and if the choice is cloth diapers and extra work or wearing a dirty diaper, the choice is extra work and cloth diapers. You find ways to ensure that your children are cared for properly even during hard times. You suffer instead. You sacrifice for them. That's your JOB. This lady has me fuming.
It only took my ex-husband one time of scaring my 11/2 year old daughter to have her scared of the dark the rest of her life. So l'm sorry if l don't believe for a minute that Hannah's husband is the greatest father and as a nurse myself l think she needs to find a different profession.
I will never understand why people like this continue to have kids. She obviously hates that little boy, does nothing but complain about him and treat him like shit but then decides having another kid is a grand idea. It pisses me off.
In their religion, they need to have as many children as possible so they can become gods. This is not a joke
Locking a child’s door at night is child abuse! If there is a fire, how can he get out?!?!? Wtf. That is terrifying!
Yes definitely not normal! Not OK!
What about a child who comes out and escapes out the front door or climbs counters to get into things they shouldn’t? If my child came straight to me I wouldn’t mind but instead they are putting themselves in danger. (Not saying her child is the same, just saying there is legitimate reasons for it for safety) also we use a baby gate on the outside of the door so they can still open it but not get out.
Not in itself it isn't. There's a lot of context and nuance that goes into whether it's an abusive action or not. If you have a child that wanders in the middle of the night when the rest of the house is sleeping.. you need to keep them safe and if that means locking their bedroom door when YOU (not them but you) go to bed, then that's necessary to prevent that 2 year old from taking themselves for a walk down the street in the middle of January, or getting into something in the kitchen that they shouldn't be, or just the basic issue of them NOT being where you left them if there were an emergency like a fire. Do you know any 2 year old that can get themselves out of a 2nd story bedroom window in a fire.. or even realizes they need to because most children do not wake up to smoke detectors? I don't. It's us..the parents.. that would be waking up and rushing to our children to get them out. We can't do that if they aren't where we left them, safely in their bedroom. And in the event that a fire is too intense already to be able to get across the hall to them, they are also infinitely safer IN their bedroom with the door closed so the firefighters can get to them. So locking the door so they have to lie there crying because they're trapped..yep, I'll agree with the abuse on that one. Locking it when they're already asleep when the parent goes to bed in order to keep them safely where they belong...not abuse.
I shut my little girl's door at night just to push the idea that, "Hey, it's time for you to stay in bed and go to sleep.", but I would never ever lock the door. She has a small squeak in her door that alerts me if she comes out so I dont have to worry about her getting hurt around the house and there are jingle bells on the front and back doors to alert us if she tries to get out of one of them. Locking a child's bedroom door is nuts.
A toddler should NOT be leaving their room on their own in a fire. This would absolutely make things worse. The best thing they can do is stay put to be rescued by either mom or dad or a fireman. A toddler would panic and likely hide in a fire making it harder to find them. We put baby doorknob things on our kids inner doorknobs at night when they were toddlers to prevent them from getting out and running around the house. What if they got into the toilet or climbs over the baby gate and got into the kitchen where the knives and stoves and small airway sized objects are? There are so many things they could get into if we were sleeping. Plus kids cry pretty darn loudly. Like I would wake up almost immediately if my kiddos were crying at night. I guess I don’t know the ages of the kids. And older kid shouldn’t be locked in, but a toddler this is absolutely reasonable. What would be unreasonable is giving a toddler unrestricted access to your house at night while you are sleeping. Sounds like a good way to wake up to find your kid drowned or electrocuted or having choked to death.
My husband and I had our first child when we were definitely not ready. We lived in a 1br apt, living off server wages and factory worker wages for the first 2 years of his life. But we made damn sure that he was taken care of and had anything he could possibly need. There were plenty of times we went without so that our kids could have what they needed.
My mom caught my papa's hospice nurse stealing his pain medicine about a month before he died. That was the first time I saw my mom get violent. My papa was dying from liver cancer and could no longer close his mouth, speak, eat, etc.. those meds were the only things keeping him comfortable. This was in December of 2000. There are definitely some great nurses, but I've met more bad than good.
Thus is so infuriating. As a new mom to a 5 week old baby boy I’m personally angered even more by Hannah’s B.S. I cannot leave my baby in a wet diaper, Once I become aware he needs to be changed I get him changed as fast as I can. I don’t care if I just changed him. The idea of leaving him to be uncomfortable or risk his skin breakdown hurts my heart too much. I don’t care the cost. He comes first. As a “nurse” she should be well aware of the risks of leaving a person in a soiled diaper ( brief for adult patients) I personally have a designated changing area with a trash can just for his dirty diapers. Can’t even fathom trashing my newborn baby’s home with dirty diapers. She and her husband are deplorable. I hope that child gets saved
A friend of mine used to work in a Nursery, and was told in no uncertain terms, if they went on Social media moaning about having a hard day etc, they would lose their jobs!! 👍🏻because what if their parents see it!! Like her if she was looking after one of my relatives I’d be so worried!!!!!! And upset 😢
There's no way her job isn't aware now and looking into this.
That’s exactly what I was thinking… how often is she changing those poor pts diapers? Especially those who can’t communicate effectively… my dat was a surgeon who retired at 85 not because he wanted to work until then but because he, a badass Jordanian told me “I don’t have job, I have hobby, but now any hack ambulance chaser will say ‘wtf is an 85 yo doing In the effin OR and I ruin 6o+ year career so I sadly retire.’” They dedicated a wing to him for 50+ years at the main hospital he worked at in the states; he is why I refuse American drs and nurses. I don’t want a smith or a hart; I want an Al-Hadassi, Al-Rajanni, an Al-Halassah etc., or someone from another country cuz they wanted to be Drs so badly they had to complete at least one other post doc degree in addition to med school. Americans for the most part, not all but most, go into medicine today, not just cuz of the money but the actually regulated residence hours they have, that mine didn’t have when he was one.
I worked in a restaurant and we would get fired if we went and publicly bashed someone or the company. A RESTAURANT!! Saw someone get fired because a guy found his server on Facebook and asked her out. He left her a 5% tip and she told him about it. He called and complained and they fired her over that!! But she's allowed to publicly bash DEMENTIA patients and that's okay?!
@ I know disgusting 🤢
@@AmysAttitude I really hope so ❤️
She actually has been reported to the state licensing board. And local Facebook comments say that people who know her have said the older boy got taken from her yesterday or the day before. Not sure if it's true.
Wow that would be amazing! I hope the boy comes to a good home
Usually if they take one kid they take them all🤷♀️
I hope it's true
@@MaddHeatherunfortunately not true in many states, but it should be
@@MaddHeatherI live in the UK and sadly that's not the case here
Her success is bad mom solidarity. LOTTA bad parents out there...
Edit: I pay over $30 for my elderly cat's food every month and I'm below the poverty line. She can buy one jacket.
I was a hospital coordinator, and while nurses were very hardworking and would do anything for a patient, they almost all talked like this about their patients, doctors too, constantly ragging on them, and sucking up their own farts. No one could toot their own horn as much as these humans. Now, these ladies were still much more ethical, because they spoke this way to staff, and not to the entire interwebs.
We have noticed
The trauma of locking the door will be ever lasting. I remember being a child (and my children have done this) going into my parents room after a nightmare. The idea that this child can not seek comfort at such a moldable age absolutely kills me. The excitement of my messy hair toddler waddling in in the morning is something Id give anything to see again. Instead this poor boy is banging at the door and one time she opened it and he was sleeping near it, like he gave up. She doesn't do this for safety, its to be selfish and lazy. It's abuse. Period. It seems to me she resents her toddler. I'm praying child services intercept before this becomes the next trending true crime case. 😩💔
Damage she has afflicted on those poor children is everlasting.
My nephew has been put of his abusive parent's clutches for 4 years and he still has issues with enclosed spaces due to being locked in his room and the windows covered. He also has other lasting problems that he has to work through.
💯💯💯 i remember numerous nights waking up from a nightmare and crawling into my grandparents bed. A lot of times my sister or brother would be in there too for the same reason. That poor baby 💔😢
Yes! I know someone who got her kid taken away for this exact reason
It can also be very dangerous. Imagine there is a fire and the kid cannot escape because the door is locked
I’m a nurse, and it makes me so sad and shocked to see her utter lack of compassion for the people she is supposed to be caring for.
She seems like a sociopath
I am an in home stna/aide and I have cried with my clients and mourned when some passed. They become almost like family and you should treat them as such or find a new profession 😢
So I was on toddler Reddit. Someone was asking for advice about how to keep their toddler in their room asleep the whole night. Someone in the comments said they were told by their pediatrician to literally hold the doorknob so the kid couldn’t come out. I’m like so your toddler is crying out for their mom and dad while their mom and dad are holding the doorknob keeping them in the room that they want to leave. Crazy.
I have seen those comments it’s wild to me and sickening I don’t understand why these ppl even have kids .
Soooo sad😢😢😢😢
Yeah, like give me a f*cking break. We all know a pedestrian did not tell you that demented a** sh*t
Yea they'll keep their child in the room while causing all kinds of other damage.
Because when you put your kids to bed, it’s bedtime. Usually you know if they’re scared if the dark or anything like that. We used to throw fits to stay up later, I don’t allow that with my kids. I put them back in bed and close the door. I’ve put night night movies or music on for them also, though. You have to create a routine.
Live in SLC! Am a nurse. Never would I ever work with her willingly. All this shit is illegal and REPORTABLE
I mean I kept my toddlers (like 1 & 2 yo) door with one of those baby handle things at night bc one morning we got up and found them wandering around the house unsupervised. It was absolutely safer and better to keep them in their room while we were sleeping than for them to be wandering around potentially getting into dangerous situations while we're sleeping. They're now 8 & 6....theyre not traumatized. They're totally fine. I had a video baby monitor, and they were safe. How is keeping your kid in their bedroom different than having them in a crib they can't get out of? 🤔
Edited to add: im not defending this family bc clearly there's a lot more going on. I'm just commenting ONLY on the thing about locking or childproofing toddlers' doors at night.
I feel like we are witnessing a horrific crime unfolding. Please save those children 🙏 😢.
I had a traveling nurse during my first labor who was just like her- she was awful. Refused me care and yelled at me when I got out of bed to pee. Yelled that “yeah labor hurts!” When I apologized for cussing. She flirted with the Dr instead of giving me care. She was probably the worst nurse I’ve ever had during my first labor and delivery. I made her leave and not come back and she rolled her eyes and said fine and threw her gloves at me.
As a nurse I’m so sry that happened to u! I’ve had the misfortune of mtg nurses like this!! They make us all look bad! U have and had every right to tell them to get out and u don’t want them in ur room again you can do that with drs too!! ALWAYS be ur own advocate!!!
I hope you reported her!
If people don't report nurses or _CARE_ staff in general, then you're just sending her off to the next unsuspecting woman.
Even worse, she might have complications. 😢
I had a nurse walk into my room and rip the call button cord out of the wall and walked out. Just because I pressed the call button. 🤦🏼♀️ I have several more stories, some of them are even worse than this.
@@MissyZilla That's abuse if I've ever heard of it!
Even if you were ringing it all the time, they still are not allowed to simply ignore you, let alone RIP the call button out of the dang wall!
I doubt that you were _constantly_ ringing the call bell, I'm just saying IF you were.
Unreal.
We MUST stop thinking that _they_ have something over on us. There is NO REASON why we can't file official complaints about the abuse of nurses! From here on out, if you're in the hospital again and are treated and met with abuse, write down the date, the time, the nurse and file an OFFICIAL COMPLAINT!
IF you're afraid to do it while under her care and there teams care (who absolutely know of her abuse yet they say nothing, meaning they're approving of her behavior OR they too are afraid to report her) then wait until you're released.
Remember to write it all down, as I mentioned before and then REPORT!
I'm sorry for you hacking these abusive experiences. Many nurses love having control over the sick and elderly. It is _OUR JOB_ to report them along with any nurses who witnessed it and did nothing.
This kind of abuse goes unreported _almost_ all of the time.smh
@@kkittycatkat1990 yep, I totally should’ve reported it. Another nurse stole some of my pain medication. She came in to give me my meds in the middle of the night and the room was dark and when I tipped the little cup into my mouth I noticed there was only one pill. After taking it I told her I usually get 2 pain pills she insists that she gave me 2 and references my brain injury as why I’m mistaken. I was still lucid and could understand what was going on around me, I absolutely know she was gaslighting me. Some people do not belong in health care.
Edit - I did not push the call button very often, only when I absolutely needed help and couldn’t do it myself. I’m a very independent person. That nurse was just taking her frustrations out on me.
“Do you know how expensive diapers are?” That part pissed me tf off, if you cant afford kids..DONT HAVE THEM.
But doesn't even question tithing.
I grew up pretty poor and my mom would go without just to make sure we had everything we needed. This woman pisses me off.
There’s many cheaper brands of diapers that are just as good! You don’t have to get pampers, you can get target brand, Walmart brand etc.
@@thisismylife6117 or even cloth diapers but thats if you dont mind the loads of laundry and spraying poop off lol
She can afford kids, she just doesn’t want to spend on them.
Stinginess
Im an ER Trauma nurse/Charge and it breaks my heart that she has NO EMPATHY and shouldn't be allowed to take care of patients. I would love to say that this isn't the norm but there are a lot of nurses that I have worked with that I wouldn't want to take care of my pet cactus. I'm terrified of the day I need to be a patient and receive one of these people. God bless all the truly dedicated and caring, empathetic nurses out there including your wife. Thank you for bringing this to light and the nursing board should investigate her.
As a group home owner/care giver she enrages me and I’d never employ her. I’d rather work every shift by myself than have someone with zero compassion or empathy providing care. The elderly and disabled, like all people, are intrinsically valuable and worthy of ultimate respect. I have one client that lives with my family (I have the home in my home) and they are treated like royalty. I just can’t fathom taking so horrible about them or refusing to help.
My 86 year old grandmother has dementia, and she just moved into a nursing home after losing her husband of 63 years last month.
I'd be beside myself if a nurse spoke about my gran like that, anonymous or not. As a family, we'd do everything we could to see her removed from the home for this kind of behaviour.
She spent 51 on one sandwich but couldn't buy her toddler a winter jacket that was only $35 so saddd
Im confused on how she spent $51 on a sandwich it’s literally like $7…
I got my three kids rain jackets at our outlet mall on sale for $99 for all three and thought it was a steal. It’s just the outside layer not a warm puffy jacket so I don’t know why she thinks $35 is soooo expensive for a jacket to keep him warm. 🙄
I think it said $17 for a sandwich and $35 for a coat= $51. It's actually $52 but who's counting.
When they pee? So you let them get rashes and sores?
Pisses me off because when I was a single mom I actually had no money. Yes I know exactly how expensive diapers wipes formula clothes ect are.
I didn't get to eat out or how hobbies that cost money. Because I made sure my kids and everything first. She is literally a nurse in a dual income household. This makes me nauseous
Absolutely, she can afford diapers!! And there’s many kinds of diapers, you don’t have to get the most expensive ones. Even the cheapest ones do the job
When my big girl was a year old, I remember commenting to my mother that my baby had never had diaper rash. And my mother said, "Of course not, you change her diaper 15 times a day." Which was true. And I was a single mom, working in fact as a NJ State CPS social worker. The mere thought of her sitting in wetness - it makes me cringe right now. I cannot stand to have wet fabric touch my skin and therefore cannot tolerate it on behalf of other victims. I could NEVER let her maximize use of a diaper. Sometimes I couldn't tell if it was wet but it felt warm from being on her, so I'd change it. When I see a child in a loaded diaper, or a baby out on a hot sunny day with no hat, or a toddler covered in dry snot, or a tired cranky toddler just crying to get picked up - all just met with parental indifference - it drives me mad. I can FEEEEEEEEL the baby's discomfort. Like how much are these neglectful parents going to enjoy sitting for hours in their own loaded diaper in the state run nursing home someday?
As Someone who has a Father with Lewy Body Dementia. I would be absolutely fucking livid if there was a Nurse in his Facility taking care of Him that acted anything close to like She does!!!!
As a retired nurse of 40yr career this breaks my heart to see. If she is abusing her own child, what in God's name do you think she's doing for grandma, or mom, or cousin that mean nothing to her but a paycheck? She def needs reported to the board of nursing, maybe not for any Hipaa violation but one can by process of elimination (through decor, uniform, nametag) find out where she is working and surmise that she is speaking about their family member. She disgusts me and def makes a stain against nurses who ARE great and who have fought and are still fighting to maintain that status. RUclips and other SM outlets need to remove anyone that is under investigation, THAT should be in the TOS! You shouldn't make money off of abuse. End of!
Just looked it up and it says, “Telling a story about a patient on social media is a HIPAA violation if a valid authorization has not been obtained from the patient prior to the disclosure. In such circumstances, it is important the patient or their personal representative is aware that it may not be possible to withdraw the authorization once the social media post is published.”
This is definitely a HIPAA violation and she could definitely lose her license.
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Yes yes yes
The way she talked about the dementia patients made me SOOO angry. While I was in college studying psych I was also working as a mental health technician on a dementia unit. The job can be so difficult and yes I was punched, kicked, etc by patients. But the attitude she has toward them reminds me of some coworkers I had that would intentionally agitate patients and would let their own emotions cloud their clinical judgement.
I still think about those patients I had fondly. They deserve kindness, compassion, and comfort. The hardest part of the job was dealing with coworkers that mistreated patients and not having the power to change it, even when I talked to management.
Her comment on sleep training earlier than 4 months breaks my heart. Experts don't even recommend sleep training until AT LEAST 4 months because that's when baby's sleep changes from a "sleep pressure" system to a "normal" sleep cycle. Also, it's widely believed that babies don't even realize they are a separate person from their mother until they are around 6 months of age. So what she's saying is that before the baby's brain is physically ready, and when the baby still thinks their mother is a literal part of them, she wants to "sleep train" which for her probably means the "cry it out method"?? Studies show that when the baby stops crying out, it's not because they have learned to "self-soothe", but because they realize no one is coming for them and so crying out is a waste of energy. Saliva cortisol levels (stress hormone) are actually higher on the night they stop crying out. I tried, one time, to let my toddler cry for a 5 minute period and only made it about 2 minutes because it broke my heart too much to know my baby needed me and I didn't respond immediately. This woman does not deserve those sweet babies!
I think the husband is abusing her as well. She has stated a few times that her husband takes away her debit card. Or she had to beg him to get her food.
That is abusive.
I agree with you.
My Dad has dementia and these kind of videos is the reason I sold my house to and rented a different house so my Dad could live with us. I don't trust these nurses or homes!!!! It's DISGUSTING!!!
When my great grandmothers Alzheimer’s progressed, she was put in a home but my nana would visit her every day ❤
Some of my fondest memories are visiting her in the nursing home with my grandmother.
Nana always told me if you don’t show up for your loved ones at the home, they could be treated some type of way.
My beautiful mum has early onset dementia. I will do everything in my power to take care of her at home. I would go to jail, I swear if someone treated her badly
Just a guess. The Ruby Franke comparison is likely why there was an accelerated investigation I suspect.
Good
The way she was screaming after being vomitted on, and how her child flinches, I have to wonder if she ever "snaps" at these patients who can't defend themselves. Sadly she is showing the type of behavior that someone would exhibit when they abuse the elderly. I never want to see someone lose their job, but I fear for those like the elderly and the children that can't defend themselves.
Can't afford diapers? Switch to cloth? Lazy excuses. She pisses me off.
She also might have let events escalate to have a good story to tell. A patient walking down the hall drinking toilet water from a cup? How do you know it's toilet water unless you saw them fill the cup? Why didn't you intervene?
I love our cloth diapers. Cost us about the cost of 1 year of diapers and can be used for multiple kids
In the US there's organizations that loan out cloth diapers for free.
@@annaf3915exactly what I was thinking she must have seen them getting the water or she is lying about the whole situation
The way she screams is really unhinged…like I get anxiety just listening to her 🥴
She reminds me SO much of the woman in an episode of House who they realised was a psychopath. Her eyes are terrifyingly soulless, and she's supposed to be in a caring vocation looking after some of the most vulnerable people alive?!
That poor boy locked in his room is heartbreaking. I live in a bungalow and my son (whos 2 and a half) went through a phase where every night at 3am he would come out of his room and climb into mine and his daddys bed. I would wait till he was snoring softly again and pop him back in his own bed. I dont like to cosleep but I just thought it was the sweetest little ritual ❤ hes grown out of it now and only does it every so often but hes sick at the minute and climbed in last night for a cuddle and to ask for some warm milk, I couldn't imagine if he was locked in his room and couldn't ask for a drink if he was thirsty in the night or just needed some comfort 😢
“You make it work when you have kids” 22:36
The difference between GOOD parents and bad parents. My husband and I have never let our kids get rain during our rainstorms.
Change 👏🏻 the 👏🏻 pee 👏🏻 diapers!!!!
The patients in her care deserve DIGNITY!!! It's DISGUSTING to talk about a dementia episode. SHE SHOULD NOT BE IN HEALTHCARE! I'd be LIVID if it were my family.
Maybe if the nursing staff regularly brought their patients water, the patients wouldn't need to find their own from a toilet.
I also want to know why these patients with dementia aren't being monitored closer.
Yeah but then they can't dance on tik tok
As a 30 plus year nurse she not only is abusing her children she is exploiting her patients and this is unethical. She defiantly needs to be turned into the nursing state board and have her license revoked. She should not be allowed to work around ANY elderly patients. This makes me so angry and she is making thousands.
Okay, when I was a child I grew up with a mentally ill grandmother (my dad's mother) and she used to lock me in the bathroom everyday after school while my dad went to work. Well, my own mom left me a note when she came to visit one time, with instructions about how to write her letters because she knew my grandma was literally insane.
My grandma would lock me in the bathroom for hours upon hours and if I started screaming or banging on the door she would force me to shut the light off. After that I began to have fears of snakes coming up the toilet and bath tub drain and attacking me. Because of this, I always had an irrational fear of snakes and reptiles when I never did before. So, I finally did it, I actually sent my mom a letter in secret when I was sent to get the mail one morning. My mom left me stamps and envelopes that I kept hidden under my bed. She showed up and idk what she said to my grandma but my grandma never did it again and when I told my dad about it when I became an adult he was mortified and felt like SUCH a P.O.S. and apologized to me for year's and year's over it.
I forgot all about that all happening because I was so traumatized. Years later when I was like 16 my mom showed me the letters. I actually wrote her letters with my colored art paper and crayons so my grandma didn't catch on that I was actually writing a letter. Reading my pleas for help from my mom was so sad and I cry remembering and picturing her cry when she showed them to me. It brought back all the pain and trauama of that time...
I miss you Mama, you rock ❤🙏🏻
She tried to make it sound like the 17 diapers were over the course of a day…. But if shes only changing poop diapers and the occasional over peed in diaper, how many days is she really letting those diapers accumulate?
At least four days, maybe longer. That could also be a reason why she's not feeding the oldest: if nothing goes in, then nothing comes out. Plus she's saving money for her own mega sandwiches and whatnot. Win-win! (heavy sarcasm because she's just awful)
She's changing diapers...I do agree that a tiny pee doesn't need to be changed. Diapers are made to be dry even when peed in. Most of her diapers look like pee diapers they look very tiny like the baby peed twice and got changed. Not one looked over filled or anything. She's rage baiting imo.
@@StasiaSailorMoonso what about the diaper she picked up off the coffee table that was so soaked it left residue on the table?
@@StasiaSailorMoonI agree. I think she’s rage baiting too and the more it pays, the more she leans into it.
@@OTH4I still think it’s fake. One out of 17 diapers was super full…with what? Viewers assume pee but if she’s rage baiting as I suspect, it could’ve been water.
I haven’t watched any of her videos on her channel because I refuse to give her views but I’ve watched multiple channels like this one that talk about what she’s posted while also showing clips.
Don’t get me wrong. I don’t like her regardless. I suspect cps will investigate and nothing will be found because it’s all fake in front of a camera for views and money much like influencers pretend to have perfect lives and yet how many have ended up with murder charges…I’ve lost count. My point is, if she truly was abusive she wouldn’t be so brazen about it because the pulse of the internet has zero tolerance after the whole Ruby Frankie case. If she is an abuser she knows the internet would come for her and she would in fact end up in jail/prison. Instead, she plays off that intensity on the internet to protect children at all costs and is manipulating the viewers into believing an illusion so that she gets “tic toc famous” and makes bank.
Wow. I literally hung towels on every door in my house so they WOULDNT close.
My mom replaced all the knobs in the house to ones without locks so we wouldn't lock ourselves in.
Love this
I work with special needs people. If my job caught me posting about my clients struggles even if I was not giving identifying information and violating HIPAA ...I would ABSOLUTELY be FIRED.
We as professionals need the trust of our clients and their families. It may not be illegal because she isn't sharing identifiable information ....but is absolutely wrong....she should be fired.
My ex was abusive to me and my children. When I saw the video of them flipping the child’s hand when he was reaching for food I believed that he was being abused. That seems to be a common practice for abusers. I did finally walk away from my ex and get my kids out of that situation.
18:24 18:31 lol I love your wife "maybe her stomach hurt!!" 😂
I checked Utah law for corporal punishment. “Utah law prohibits the intentional infliction of physical pain on a child as a form of discipline. This includes hitting, spanking, shaking, biting, or pinching.” I hope Utah DCFS actually does something. 🤦🏻♀️ sickening.
My state is like that too but I’ve had cops applaud for even spanking in public when kids are bad in my area. Like kids running off from their parents and then the parents finally find them and they spank their kids, the cop literally nod and applauded in Walmart.
Love the intro ❤
I am a specially trained nurse in dementia healthcare and have worked in it for almost 30 years in Sweden. Unfortunately, I only see an impartial woman who should not have this as her profession.
The locked door and the fact the child is pulling his own hair is really scary. I have a teenager who is still a sleep walker and while we locked our front door with fireproof locks we never ever locked him in his bedroom. A fire Marshall would loose their minds and rightfully so. We had the fire department come and talk us through locks that would keep him safe from getting out and keeping him safe inside incase we had to get out. It's extremely important because we live next to water. She's too selfish to be a nurse and a good mom.
My mom had to do this with my older brother. He was a runner and he was quick with unlocking the door. She would turn her back for 2 seconds and he was out. She used a child leash with him in crowded spaces cause he just took off. He actually tried locking himself in the bedroom as a child and she replaced all the knobs in our rooms to not have locks. The only place we ever got locked into was a playpen. This woman is ugh.
Do we know why he pulled his own hair?
She's being investigated through the Utah nursing board as well, and his business is *supposedly* being checked out too.
I agree that she's likely gonna keep at it and basically thumb her Jose at us, but it's SOOOOOOO important that those if us that have made the reports keep making them, and that others continue as well. FORCE the agencies to do their fking jobs and get these kids to safety. My concern is she'll stop filming the kids as much and the abuse is gonna get worse. I don't think kids beling on social media either, but at least for now, we're able to keep an eye on him. If she starts hiding them, there's no one that's gonna be showing up at her door to ensure the boys are safe.
I work as a care assistant in the UK and we would absolutley be sacked for creating content about this. Its a breach of confidentiality and reflects very poorly on where she works. How is she getting away with this, I don't understand. She shouldn't be anywhere near patients. I would bet my life she's abusing her patients, where is the dignity? Heartless woman. And the hypocrisy that she's religious is absolutley wild, there is nothing godly about this woman.
So does she let her patients sit is gross pee too because I guarantee she does. Those poor people probably only get toileted if they poop or complain. She’s a nightmare nurse!
As someone who just lost their mother to Alzheimers, October 29th, and was her only caregiver for the last 2 and a half years, THIS!!!! Is why I *NEVER* let my mother go into a home! Whether they are actually abusing them or just talking trash about them, it's wrong! I was willing to work my butt off and go many sleepless nights, in order to keep my mother safe. It was but far the toughest thing I've ever done, but I would do it all over again, in order to keep her home and safe.
This makes me so mad!
I'm sure that patient's family wouldn't want the internet to know. And I understand she didn't say their name, and for all we know she could be lying, but it's still awful!
Memory patients need extra care and compassion...
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She is so freaking evil!!!
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I couldn't have said it better myself!!
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I will NEVER put my mom in a home.
I’m sorry for your loss😢
Not that you needed validation but hearing stories like this solidify your decision and I hope you’re proud of yourself. I took care of my mother for 11 months before she passed and it was so hard, but I would do it again if I could because I miss her so much. I hope you find peace and settle into your new norm with Grace. Take care
I'm sorry you lost your mother ❤
Ogden is about 100 miles from where Ruby lived. They don't want another Ruby. So she was definitely going to be investigated. Utha as a whole has horrible child protection laws.
As a caregiver for elderly and memory care patients who barely gets paid for it this is so sad. These people deserve dignity and respect! Not for us to trash them online for money and fame.
Complaing that she got thrown up on at 6 am. Is she a mother? You can’t imagine the times you get puked on, pee’d on and pooped on.
I opened RUclips and saw Josh’s post and said ohhh s**t! Let’s go! This situation has been bothering so much over the last week.
SAME!!!
Keeping a child’s door closed is safest in case of a fire. Not locked. My sister was locked in her room as a child and has BPD now.
This is sad… I can’t imagine one of my loved ones being mocked like this in a care home 😢
Unfortunately it happens more often than you think, sometimes right in front of the patients and it's horrible.
My grandma was 97 years old when she passed from dementia. Like they say Karma. She shouldn't be a nurse. To the mother: Go to Goodwill or any thrift stores!
I live up the street from her. Our town has been going nuts on her.
There is A LOT nurses like Hannah out there! 🫤🫤😔😔
So all 17 of those diapers she had laying all over the place all had poop in them??
Yes, and caregivers in general. It's so bad.
@@Melly-Mel11exactly. So you know it’s more than one day of diapers! That’s like a week!!
Yes, there are. Unfortunately, they went into this profession because the jobs are a dime a dozen and not because they give a crap. It's frustrating.
In reference to the "can't afford to change dippers after they pee portion", there is such a thing as cloth diapering. I was kinda forced to become a stay at home mom with our third baby. Basically because it was cheaper to do that than childcare. So we decided as a way to save some money, I exclusively breastfeed, and we cloth diaper 95% of the time. so if you're afraid of wasting disposable diapers, just cloth diaper (unless you're too busy/lazy to wash the diapers twice a week). There's also a smaller chance of blowouts and rashes with cloth diapering. And there's no fear of running out of diapers, before the next paycheck comes in ( I've dealt with that with my second and never wanna feel that again. That was a huge reason why I chose cough diapering also)
She’s gonna continue to deny any wrongdoing and continue to collect that big fat wad of cash. Stop watching her! Stop paying her! I don’t have high expectations of the Utah CPS actually doing anything .
If i was eating out with my son and he wanted something off of my plate im letting him , im not pushing his hand away thats wild... He is eating before me. Im literally in tears watching the video of this boy flinching.. as someone who had an abusive dad i completely understand his fear and how scared he must have been. My son and i rough play all the time , he doesn't flinch at me at all...
I was going to say the same about food- she eats like she never ever gets to have food. Like she’s starving. And in most of her videos when they share food- her husband is shoveling food in his mouth super fast so he can eat more than her.
She’s too busy spewing stupid nonsense into a camera than cooking food for herself let alone feeding her son! Imagine how often he gets locked away on an empty stomach.