i cannot express how much i needed to hear "don't be so hard on yourself". fall quarter ended to roughly and now with winter quarter up in the air, I feel like I'm just reliving 2020 :(
OML same my school just said that the first week of winter quarter will be online…and my mental health cannot handle another 2020 😀 take care of yourself :’’)
"I'm photosynthesising" 🥺🥺 thank you so much for bringing a huge amount of comfort and warmth in my life, I'm so grateful I found your channel (I found it when you crocheted a sweater) and stayed till then. Thank you for letting me be a part of your journey. See you next year
watching this at 1.17am where I am, can't sleep, it's Christmas day, but suddenly I feel very calm :) happy christmas to anyone who's watching, and thank you deborah for this beauuuutiful video
Wish u a marry next Christmas. Wish we could bake together some Cookies . Well we can’t but here is a virtual cookie 🍪 🍪 ( they taste better with hot milk but I am a bit to tiered to go to the grocery store right now ) and a big virtual hug (⊃￣ ᵕ ￣)⊃
i broke down in tears when you started saying “ stop being hard on yourself “ line ,, i always been hard on myself without me realising it but only when others say it or point it out to me . And wow hearing it again makes me emotional again ,, because i would love to be easy on myself but somehow i can’t seem to be on that path for idk how many times . So im putting hope for the next year as to at least being able to be easy on myself even if its smtg small . i have been enjoying all the video you put out , it gives me some calm and thank you for that! i hope u have a wonderful holidays and a good remaining days left for the year!! ❤️
Watching this on Christmas Day, but I figured I would share my thoughts this holiday season. Last night, I cried because I realized this is the first Christmas season where I don't have a "title" to my name. I'm not a college student or working in corporate gal or even grad student, I'm just me, Hanna, trying to figure out which path I want to take next as we end into 2022. I got fired from a job while being sick in October and this has been the season of processing my emotions of lost and this is the 2nd year doing the holidays since my dad has died. I can reflect on where I was a year ago and I'm happy to say I'm doing the things that bring me joy and finally allowing myself to feel my emotions. Always trying to remember to give myself grace and take it one day at a time. Thank you Deborah for creating this video and I hope you're having a Great Christmas/ Holiday 💖
thank you so much for sharing 🥺 your words really touched my heart, i’m so proud of you for how far you’ve come! even though i don’t know you personally i can tell you’re doing your best and that’s all that matters. wishing you health & happiness in this season ❤️
Not me crying when Deborah said that it was ok to feel pressure, because I currently can’t find myself some motivation for university and am sooooo stressed about it haha
I'm not very early because I have been so stressed even though its holiday rn in my country,.. I just got back my piano theory results and i failed by 4 marks.. its my first ever theory exam and I messed it up alr.. its been really tiring, school hasn't even started yet😣 really hoping I'll be productive next year because I'll be taking a major exam🤓 take care of yourselves and stay safe everyone. thank you Deborah for making this video💞 really needed to know that taking care of yourself is very important
I loved this video, thank you so much for being so open in your vlogs 💜💜 In NYC the winter blues is even worse right now cause we’re going through a really rough time with COVID and are basically stuck in our houses again, it’s honestly depressing 😩 But this video made me feel less alone 💜
you really made me tear up with your words (positively, because i felt touched and understood 🥺) thank you so much deborah, im really happy being able to watch your videos, you bring so much comfort to me
This is like the 50th time I watched this video... well maybe less than 50 but every time I feel tired of my life, every time I feel lonely, or just drowning in the winter blues. It feels like a warm hug to me and everyone else for sure 🫶🏻❤ You have been one of my fav RUclipsrs since Dec 2020 and you will always be my inspiration ❤️ thank you for making these beautiful videos, specially this one.
I just woke up and was literally feeling so lonely cz i don't have any friends to celebrate holidays with. Watching people celebrating holidays w their frnds and family on social media made me more anxious. Deborah I really needed this video, I really needed someone to say that it's ookay THANKYOU SM :))
I'm feel so emotion...i living with that toxic family..and i feel that shit feeling too..when i feel don't want do anything...and my mom always angry with me bacause i'm being lazy..its kinda tired to hear my mom just nagging at me.. Your advice really make my day..LOVE YOU DEBORAH❤️❤️
i'm watching this way late but i just wanted to let you know that i stumbled across your channel as an incoming uw freshman because of your dorm videos, but i ended up loving all your content and watching like 10 of your videos in the past couple hours lol. i was watching this with my sister and your little message at the end made her happy cry because she felt so seen and comforted. it really made her day and i just thought i'd let you know :) it really was such a sweet message and both of us appreciate you
From where you grew up with an unaffectionate household and not celebrating any holidays like a fam.... I too sometimes craved affection even tho it makes me cringe to let myself feel that I have someone by my side and honestly the last few parts hits me. So, I wanna thank you Deb for being yourself and making these kinds of comfort videos. I also tried your notion template too, it really helped me understand notion :)
the message on the last part of the video made me wail huhuhuuhu. idk, if its seasonal depression or just a thing happens every holidays. but hearing the assurance from you, validates me as a human being that not everyone can be productive. we can all take a break and come back in our own little steps.
The winter blues are strong right now. This time of the year is so hard for so many people. This was such a sweet video. Obviously many people have the winter blues, but it was so reassuring to hear someone else is going through it too. Things are just tough sometimes. ❤️
Ur channel gives me joy. I literally feel so at peace and comfortable with myself because of your videos. Thanks for being so supportive of your subscribers!
hi deborah i was really feeling inadequate until i watched this video i was just like this i thought i was bad and incompetent and thanks for helping someone who is miles away i love you
"you don't have to be anybody you can never be" - cavetown. Not feeling my best today and this felt like a warm hug on a cold afternoon❤️thank you so much Deborah and good luck with getting through the winter! ❄️ take it one day at a time xx
Seasonal depression has been such a struggle recently and your videos always make me feel just a little bit better. You have helped me feel proud of even the smallest things that I accomplish. So thank you so much for your videos and the messages you deliver with them.
Even tho nearly 1 year passed from this video, still it's helping me so much. While I'm hard to myself and it starts to feel like I'm drowning, I always remember that this video exists. Thanks for being here with us Deborah. As you said, we’re in this together. You’re on the list of my comfort persons with chan and tae
Watching your videos has become a part of my self-care. :) thank you for caring about us, we care about you too! And we appreciate you being vulnerable in your videos, it must take a lot of courage. ❤️ I am the kind of person who tends to be very hard on herself as well, and one thing I've consciously tried to do is just *stop* using the word productive to describe a day in my life or even to any actions I've taken. Because apart from the guilt that that word very effectively triggers, I'm also learning that humans are not MEANT to be working all the time, the work we do forms only part of our mosaic, not a yardstick for the complex beings of emotion, thought, body and soul that we are. Take care, deb. Until next time 🙂
you are the only youtuber i can relate to.. you are so real , i also feel like that sometimes but after watching your videos i feel really better. Thank you for making my day. You are amazing😊💓
I really appreciate the fact that you show both your strong and weak sides on youtube and express how its okay to go through tough times. It really feels like there is someone that I can rely on when I'm just tired and stressed out from this world. And I really just appreciate that and want to thank you for that!
This video made me so happy, I discovered this channel a while ago and I love it so much. I've been wanting to make some changes to my life. I have wanted to start journaling, exercising, and reading more. My motivation hasn't been the best though but, I am going to keep going and keep trying to become a better, happier version of myself. Happy early holidays to everyone who is celebrating! And remember to take care of yourself and take a break every once in a while, don't beat yourself up so much. Especially for things, you can't always control. Thank you for the amazing video dobochobo!
Definitely feeling the winter blues lately. But I am trying to take is slow and do at least one thing that will make me feel better each day. It could be something like taking a walk, washing the dishes, cleaning my desktop, lol. And it has helped. Sending you (and everyone here) lots of kind thoughts. 🤍🤍
Your little speech literally made me tear up like wtf. I’m so grateful to have found your channel because life is not always easy and I also have the same feeling that I NEED to be productive 100% of the time, and just coming back from an exhausting day at school seeing that u posted a new video, it just makes my day, it’s like I forgot what happened the day and your videos just make me recharge or something. Take care of yourself and enjoy your holidays
I CRIED IN THE LAST PART OF THE VIDEO BECAUSE YOU REALLY MADE ME FEEL THAT YOU ARE CLOSE TO ME AND YOU KNOW WHAT I'M GOING THROUGH AND IN FACT I NEEDED SUCH WORDS BADLY BECAUSE DAYS PASSED AND I SUFFERED FROM OVEN THINKING , TENSION AND DEPRESSION , BUT YOUR WORDS MADE ME RELAX AND KNOW THAT IT'S NOT JUST ME WHO SUFFERS AND IT'S ONLY A PERIOD AND IT WILL PASS . THANK YOU SO SO MUCH FOR YOUR KIND I REALLY LOVE YOU RIGHT NOW
For some reason I already got nostalgically sad watching this because I realised Deborah will graduate a year earlier than I and my last year in uni will be spent without her college days vlogs :" It makes it easier to get through academia for me knowing that someone else is, and your vids have been an immense support for me this semester!
honestly, this video is perfect for me right now. i’m feeling super pressured by my family and myself to be that productive person that everyone wants me to be and after this year (it was an extremely taxing one for me and my family) i just have no motivation to do anything. and idk why but no one in my family seems to get that even though we all went through the same things. it’s frustrating and really puts me in a sour mood
this was really comforting, it's been really cold where i am and not much sunshine and while i love the rain im afraid the negative feelings that come up whenever it's around will taint my love for it, even during sunny days its hard to be positive and not just wanna lie in bed forever but yeah.
I seriously needed to hear the part about not having the best family during the holidays and being in a terrible place, i almost teared up because im working so hard right now and sometimes I feel so tired but I know not to give up because I’ll be in a better place next year ☹️ tysm for your kind words 💗!
This is the perfect video, because I've been feeling really depressed lately, even though I know I *should* be happy bc of the holidays. Sending love & healing everyone's way this Christmas ♥️🥰
This year would not have been bearable for me if you haven't decided to pick up that recorder to film those special bits of your life deborah, I'm glad i found you bestie frm the start of your journey itself!!, yup Through thick and thin, to yesterdays and for this moment let's raise toasts! ily! u' been wonderful my friend!
the start is always so wholesome to me haha i loved watching this so much :) your editing makes everything so cozyy and everything overall feels so cozy
i don’t think you understand just how much your videos help me- it’s really refreshing to see someone like you that puts who they really are on the screen for all of us to see and know, and i really (as weird as this may sound) do feel like i know you. thank you so much for being you :)
i just found your channel like a week ago? or two? and that is one of the things that i'm grateful for. i really love your vibe, your editing, your words, it feels so calming. also, really love the dance part videooo it is so fun. keep going debb, i hope you have a splendid end of the year ♡♡
To be honest I really needed this video cuz I'm just dying with the constant voice in my head to do work and to stop being so lazy. Your content always makes me smile and I'm so grateful. This is usually the channel I go to when I'm down because I feel very comfortable when watching your videos and ngl you also remind me of one of my family members who I miss very much. When I'm with her she'd motivate me and give me advice and to me you really remind me of her cuz both of you guys calm me down a bit more and help remind me that I'm a human and not some robot that has to always show the "perfect" side of myself whether I'm with or without people. Love you Deborah! Thanks for always making me feel better
it is the day after christmas that i’m watching this video and it truly feels like i wasted my day but this video really made me think that it’s okay to have lazy days. i find a lot of comfort while watching your videos and i really thank you for that
This is the most relatable video I could relate to. I've been feeling the worst because I haven't been thriving lately, wake up in the middle of the day, I'm everywhere. Thank you for using this video as a way to share your message!
I just woke up feeling blue and exhausted . This really changed my mood and I'm feeling better now . social media is toxic ,but knowing that there are still people like you who really care about others as well makes me feel NOT ALONE.thanks a lot and I hope u have a great day/night .Oh btw Merry Christmas 🤍
Okay, I'm cutting onions even on Christmas Day... thank u Deborah for creating videos like this... i am so beyond happy and you have no idea how much. happy holidays anddddd let's conquer this phase of sadness!!!!!
im neither happy or sad, im just doing ok. when i was little i used to love autumn cause its cold (i love cold), i got to see my friends at school and dance school opened. now i dont really have friends at school so im not loving autumn as much bt i still prefer it over summer. i admire the fact that you opened up about how you're feeling and truly thanks for your kind words.
I'm so grateful that i subscribed to you this year because even tho i only subscribed recently you have quickly made your way to my group of comfort youtubers and I'm very thankful for that. thankyou for reminding me that how i feel isn't abnormal and to take a healthy approach to my own mind. your content provides a very safe and comfy environment for me especially during low times so thankyou for that and I'm proud of you for carrying on and doing so well :)))
thank you so much for this video! when you said that we're deserving of love regardless of how much we work, i nearly cried- i needed to hear that haha winter blues really is hitting us bad... i feel like a big bear wanting to hibernate but can't because school work never gets less lol but we can get through this!! winter is just one season and we still have plenty of more seasons ahead of us! sending so so much love, gran
I watch these videos when I feel a little anxious, and they always make me feel better. This week has been an anxiety week, and I finally decided enough was enough. I took a hot bath, did my skincare for once, and actually took care of myself. Thank you for inspiring me every day!
This video helped me realize that I’m not the only person who more often than not, feels “heavy” and that’s super comforting. I’m a new subscriber but you’re doing great and I love your vids! Happy holidays
I am so glad that you took some time to your self! I was wondering where you cook? Is there a community kitchen for your dorm building or is there one inside of your dorm room?
Hello Deborah. My name is Carol, I’m a fan from Brazil, and I just wanted to say thank you for your videos and for being so amazing to people by doing this with such love and kindness. I’m just so grateful for finding you, you have no idea how much you help me get through the day. I’ve been struggling with breast cancer and chemotherapy since August, I used to be such a happy person full of joy, but it’s just really hard to be all that happy when you can’t get out of bed for like multiple reasons. All of your videos of self care, going outside to treat yourself to something nice, having picnics, just really inspire me to, you know, be excited to have my life back, and that things will be good again. So, obrigada! I wish you all the best, and that you may accomplish everything you ever wish for. ❤️
whenever i feel unmotivated to do anything, your vlogs give me so much comfort. bcs of your little reminders to be kinder to oneself or just doing the normal things (like literally existing lol), makes me want to seize the day. or not even that, but just enjoy what i can enjoy rn. i hope you find your happiness just as i find happiness in your videos
thank you so much for this. not only this video and the messages you share, but for just being here. as a content creator and person. people like you are what keep me going. thank you so much.
Thank you for your videos. They make my days so much better. I’m going through a really tough breakup and I feel almost nothing towards anything. He was like my best friend and we still love each other but we both know that atm we got too many problems that interfere with our relationship. We were together for four years and I still hope that someday we’ve healed and can be together again. Your videos remind me that laying in bed all day wouldn’t make this possible and that I have to move on. No matter how things turn out in the end I shouldn’t punish myself but be kind to myself and be there for me. Thank you for being such a rolemodel for me and showing me how important we all are and our health is
i'm glad to see that i'm not alone in going through a winter slump. thank you for the kind words and encouragement about being kind to ourselves. Happy holidays and wishing u well 💗💗 take care always!! 🥰
Honestly this was the best video I could see right now! Thank you so much for making this!! You truly are an incredible person and your video made feel so seen and understood. Thank you again!❤️❤️
I feel so great after watching your vlogs and thank you so much for such an amazing video🥺. It's ok to not be productive and to feel demotivated at certain point of time, so let's hang on there 💗. Stay safe .
The winter blues are real. Just trying to get out of bed is a challenge. You open up to us so much. Dobochobo thank you for showing us all this inspiration and motivation. Fans from Georgia
The past two weeks have been really hard because of stress and school. I'm taking some days off just to recharge my batteries and to relax a bit. Thank you for that video
hello im not having my best time of the year and not the type of friends to rely on but i stil love myself as i am and everybody should also . have a nice day beautiful.
this vlog (and your vlogs in general) are so comforting and relaxing. and I relate sO HARD to your worlds about productivity and being hard on yourself but I'm glad that this year I'm little bit better at not doing that. overall, I'm doing pretty good I think. first semester is almost over and I'm happy to finally rest a little bit. it's scary that it's already the end of 2021 because my final exams are half a year away as well as my graduation. I'm trying not to think about this things too much but it's still scary and exciting at the same time.
You have such a bright and kind energy. I can tell that from the very first video I watched of yours couple months ago. Thank you for being real and spreading love. This video was perfect in so many ways. I hope you have a happy and safe holidays! 💛
i cannot express how much i needed to hear "don't be so hard on yourself". fall quarter ended to roughly and now with winter quarter up in the air, I feel like I'm just reliving 2020 :(
OML same my school just said that the first week of winter quarter will be online…and my mental health cannot handle another 2020 😀 take care of yourself :’’)
Wait- y'all got in-person classes? I've been having online classes for 2 years now... I feel like I'm mentally stuck in pre-covid 🥴
it’s been a year since I started watching your videos and while your editing has evolved, the calming and immaculate vibes have stayed the same
bruh i still remember u commenting on my old vids T^T appreciate you sm, thanks for sticking around :'')
"I'm photosynthesising" 🥺🥺 thank you so much for bringing a huge amount of comfort and warmth in my life, I'm so grateful I found your channel (I found it when you crocheted a sweater) and stayed till then. Thank you for letting me be a part of your journey. See you next year
watching this at 1.17am where I am, can't sleep, it's Christmas day, but suddenly I feel very calm :)
happy christmas to anyone who's watching, and thank you deborah for this beauuuutiful video
I’m the same :,)
happy Christmas to u
merry christmas 🥰
Wish u a marry next Christmas. Wish we could bake together some Cookies . Well we can’t but here is a virtual cookie 🍪 🍪 ( they taste better with hot milk but I am a bit to tiered to go to the grocery store right now ) and a big virtual hug (⊃￣ ᵕ ￣)⊃
seriously, every time i think your editing is at its peak, it somehow gets even better. great video as always and happy holidays
thank you sm :") happy holidays to you!!💖
i felt good when you said ''good job deborah''
This semester was ROUGH. Happy holidays everyone we survived another year! 💪
2022 WE'RE COMING FOR YOU
i broke down in tears when you started saying “ stop being hard on yourself “ line ,, i always been hard on myself without me realising it but only when others say it or point it out to me . And wow hearing it again makes me emotional again ,, because i would love to be easy on myself but somehow i can’t seem to be on that path for idk how many times . So im putting hope for the next year as to at least being able to be easy on myself even if its smtg small . i have been enjoying all the video you put out , it gives me some calm and thank you for that! i hope u have a wonderful holidays and a good remaining days left for the year!! ❤️
Same, I also broke out in tears.
Watching this on Christmas Day, but I figured I would share my thoughts this holiday season. Last night, I cried because I realized this is the first Christmas season where I don't have a "title" to my name. I'm not a college student or working in corporate gal or even grad student, I'm just me, Hanna, trying to figure out which path I want to take next as we end into 2022. I got fired from a job while being sick in October and this has been the season of processing my emotions of lost and this is the 2nd year doing the holidays since my dad has died. I can reflect on where I was a year ago and I'm happy to say I'm doing the things that bring me joy and finally allowing myself to feel my emotions. Always trying to remember to give myself grace and take it one day at a time. Thank you Deborah for creating this video and I hope you're having a Great Christmas/ Holiday 💖
thank you so much for sharing 🥺 your words really touched my heart, i’m so proud of you for how far you’ve come! even though i don’t know you personally i can tell you’re doing your best and that’s all that matters. wishing you health & happiness in this season ❤️
you editing is always so perfect HOW
NAW STOP IT 😭
Not me crying when Deborah said that it was ok to feel pressure, because I currently can’t find myself some motivation for university and am sooooo stressed about it haha
I'm not very early because I have been so stressed even though its holiday rn in my country,.. I just got back my piano theory results and i failed by 4 marks.. its my first ever theory exam and I messed it up alr.. its been really tiring, school hasn't even started yet😣 really hoping I'll be productive next year because I'll be taking a major exam🤓 take care of yourselves and stay safe everyone. thank you Deborah for making this video💞 really needed to know that taking care of yourself is very important
I LOVE when you incorporate the dancing in your videos.
I loved this video, thank you so much for being so open in your vlogs 💜💜 In NYC the winter blues is even worse right now cause we’re going through a really rough time with COVID and are basically stuck in our houses again, it’s honestly depressing 😩 But this video made me feel less alone 💜
i hope everyone reading this has a wonderful christmas if you celebrate it, and a lovely saturday if you don't❤
you really made me tear up with your words (positively, because i felt touched and understood 🥺) thank you so much deborah, im really happy being able to watch your videos, you bring so much comfort to me
Merry Christmas Deborah! Hope you have a good day with your friends and family!!
merry christmas! hope you have a blessed day
nope- too much niceness- anyways srsly it meant a lot yk and same to you, try to not be so hard on yourself and take break bc you deserve it
feels like a weight has been lifted off my shoulders after i saw this, time to binge your videos 🥺🥰
This is like the 50th time I watched this video... well maybe less than 50 but every time I feel tired of my life, every time I feel lonely, or just drowning in the winter blues. It feels like a warm hug to me and everyone else for sure 🫶🏻❤
You have been one of my fav RUclipsrs since Dec 2020 and you will always be my inspiration ❤️ thank you for making these beautiful videos, specially this one.
this makes me calm 💌
thank you so much for this comforting
video! i hope youre doing well too and are proud of yourself
I just woke up and was literally feeling so lonely cz i don't have any friends to celebrate holidays with. Watching people celebrating holidays w their frnds and family on social media made me more anxious. Deborah I really needed this video, I really needed someone to say that it's ookay THANKYOU SM :))
3:26 this part 😭🥰💃🏼
I'm feel so emotion...i living with that toxic family..and i feel that shit feeling too..when i feel don't want do anything...and my mom always angry with me bacause i'm being lazy..its kinda tired to hear my mom just nagging at me..
Your advice really make my day..LOVE YOU DEBORAH❤️❤️
i'm watching this way late but i just wanted to let you know that i stumbled across your channel as an incoming uw freshman because of your dorm videos, but i ended up loving all your content and watching like 10 of your videos in the past couple hours lol. i was watching this with my sister and your little message at the end made her happy cry because she felt so seen and comforted. it really made her day and i just thought i'd let you know :) it really was such a sweet message and both of us appreciate you
thank you deborah thank you, ı love you so much
From where you grew up with an unaffectionate household and not celebrating any holidays like a fam.... I too sometimes craved affection even tho it makes me cringe to let myself feel that I have someone by my side and honestly the last few parts hits me. So, I wanna thank you Deb for being yourself and making these kinds of comfort videos.
I also tried your notion template too, it really helped me understand notion :)
the message on the last part of the video made me wail huhuhuuhu. idk, if its seasonal depression or just a thing happens every holidays. but hearing the assurance from you, validates me as a human being that not everyone can be productive. we can all take a break and come back in our own little steps.
The winter blues are strong right now. This time of the year is so hard for so many people. This was such a sweet video. Obviously many people have the winter blues, but it was so reassuring to hear someone else is going through it too. Things are just tough sometimes. ❤️
Ur channel gives me joy. I literally feel so at peace and comfortable with myself because of your videos. Thanks for being so supportive of your subscribers!
thank you for this Deborah
hi deborah i was really feeling inadequate until i watched this video i was just like this i thought i was bad and incompetent and thanks for helping someone who is miles away i love you
happy holidays, everyone!❤️❤️❤️
I will forever be happy that I found your videos this year
she telling that she genuinely cares for her subscribers and her words.. just made me tear up!😭💞
Haven't watched it yet but thank you for posting a new video, you really inspire me :)
I love you so much deborah you're the best your videos healed me a lot god bless you
"you don't have to be anybody you can never be" - cavetown.
Not feeling my best today and this felt like a warm hug on a cold afternoon❤️thank you so much Deborah and good luck with getting through the winter! ❄️ take it one day at a time xx
from the first time i see you, you become happiness in my life. whenever you upload videos you'd make my day. thank you for just existing
Seasonal depression has been such a struggle recently and your videos always make me feel just a little bit better. You have helped me feel proud of even the smallest things that I accomplish. So thank you so much for your videos and the messages you deliver with them.
🥺🥺 thankful for your existence
u and ur videos are genuinely so precious to me deb :( ilysm thank u 💜💜
Even tho nearly 1 year passed from this video, still it's helping me so much. While I'm hard to myself and it starts to feel like I'm drowning, I always remember that this video exists. Thanks for being here with us Deborah. As you said, we’re in this together. You’re on the list of my comfort persons with chan and tae
Watching your videos has become a part of my self-care. :) thank you for caring about us, we care about you too! And we appreciate you being vulnerable in your videos, it must take a lot of courage. ❤️ I am the kind of person who tends to be very hard on herself as well, and one thing I've consciously tried to do is just *stop* using the word productive to describe a day in my life or even to any actions I've taken. Because apart from the guilt that that word very effectively triggers, I'm also learning that humans are not MEANT to be working all the time, the work we do forms only part of our mosaic, not a yardstick for the complex beings of emotion, thought, body and soul that we are. Take care, deb. Until next time 🙂
This was really beautifully stated 💜
self care is so so so important, especially during the winter months. seasonal depression hits hard!
thank you so much for this !! 🤍
you are the only youtuber i can relate to.. you are so real , i also feel like that sometimes but after watching your videos i feel really better. Thank you for making my day. You are amazing😊💓
I really appreciate the fact that you show both your strong and weak sides on youtube and express how its okay to go through tough times. It really feels like there is someone that I can rely on when I'm just tired and stressed out from this world. And I really just appreciate that and want to thank you for that!
This video made me so happy, I discovered this channel a while ago and I love it so much. I've been wanting to make some changes to my life. I have wanted to start journaling, exercising, and reading more. My motivation hasn't been the best though but, I am going to keep going and keep trying to become a better, happier version of myself. Happy early holidays to everyone who is celebrating! And remember to take care of yourself and take a break every once in a while, don't beat yourself up so much. Especially for things, you can't always control. Thank you for the amazing video dobochobo!
I feel sad because I will spend this Christmas alone with Mom, but you did everything better, congratulations on the great job you do 🥺💗
same here happy holidays !
Hope you had good Christmas and took care of ur self ❤️❤️❤️
Definitely feeling the winter blues lately. But I am trying to take is slow and do at least one thing that will make me feel better each day. It could be something like taking a walk, washing the dishes, cleaning my desktop, lol. And it has helped.
Sending you (and everyone here) lots of kind thoughts. 🤍🤍
i love u sooo muchhhh deborah!!!!💓💓💓
Your little speech literally made me tear up like wtf. I’m so grateful to have found your channel because life is not always easy and I also have the same feeling that I NEED to be productive 100% of the time, and just coming back from an exhausting day at school seeing that u posted a new video, it just makes my day, it’s like I forgot what happened the day and your videos just make me recharge or something. Take care of yourself and enjoy your holidays
thank you, deborah, this is what i needes to hear these days
the aestheticism of her content is just chef's kiss !!
I CRIED IN THE LAST PART OF THE VIDEO BECAUSE YOU REALLY MADE ME FEEL THAT YOU ARE CLOSE TO ME AND YOU KNOW WHAT I'M GOING THROUGH AND IN FACT I NEEDED SUCH WORDS BADLY BECAUSE DAYS PASSED AND I SUFFERED FROM OVEN THINKING , TENSION AND DEPRESSION , BUT YOUR WORDS MADE ME RELAX AND KNOW THAT IT'S NOT JUST ME WHO SUFFERS AND IT'S ONLY A PERIOD AND IT WILL PASS . THANK YOU SO SO MUCH FOR YOUR KIND I REALLY LOVE YOU RIGHT NOW
We love you too, deborah 💕 merry christmas ❄🥰
For some reason I already got nostalgically sad watching this because I realised Deborah will graduate a year earlier than I and my last year in uni will be spent without her college days vlogs :"
It makes it easier to get through academia for me knowing that someone else is, and your vids have been an immense support for me this semester!
honestly, this video is perfect for me right now. i’m feeling super pressured by my family and myself to be that productive person that everyone wants me to be and after this year (it was an extremely taxing one for me and my family) i just have no motivation to do anything. and idk why but no one in my family seems to get that even though we all went through the same things. it’s frustrating and really puts me in a sour mood
this was really comforting, it's been really cold where i am and not much sunshine and while i love the rain im afraid the negative feelings that come up whenever it's around will taint my love for it, even during sunny days its hard to be positive and not just wanna lie in bed forever but yeah.
I seriously needed to hear the part about not having the best family during the holidays and being in a terrible place, i almost teared up because im working so hard right now and sometimes I feel so tired but I know not to give up because I’ll be in a better place next year ☹️ tysm for your kind words 💗!
Thank u Deborah, love u so much you make my year too much better 🤍💐.
This is the perfect video, because I've been feeling really depressed lately, even though I know I *should* be happy bc of the holidays. Sending love & healing everyone's way this Christmas ♥️🥰
honestly haven’t felt the holiday spirit this entire season so you’re not alone :’)
This year would not have been bearable for me if you haven't decided to pick up that recorder to film those special bits of your life deborah, I'm glad i found you bestie frm the start of your journey itself!!, yup Through thick and thin, to yesterdays and for this moment let's raise toasts! ily! u' been wonderful my friend!
the start is always so wholesome to me haha i loved watching this so much :) your editing makes everything so cozyy and everything overall feels so cozy
i don’t think you understand just how much your videos help me- it’s really refreshing to see someone like you that puts who they really are on the screen for all of us to see and know, and i really (as weird as this may sound) do feel like i know you. thank you so much for being you :)
i just found your channel like a week ago? or two? and that is one of the things that i'm grateful for. i really love your vibe, your editing, your words, it feels so calming. also, really love the dance part videooo it is so fun. keep going debb, i hope you have a splendid end of the year ♡♡
To be honest I really needed this video cuz I'm just dying with the constant voice in my head to do work and to stop being so lazy. Your content always makes me smile and I'm so grateful. This is usually the channel I go to when I'm down because I feel very comfortable when watching your videos and ngl you also remind me of one of my family members who I miss very much. When I'm with her she'd motivate me and give me advice and to me you really remind me of her cuz both of you guys calm me down a bit more and help remind me that I'm a human and not some robot that has to always show the "perfect" side of myself whether I'm with or without people. Love you Deborah! Thanks for always making me feel better
it is the day after christmas that i’m watching this video and it truly feels like i wasted my day but this video really made me think that it’s okay to have lazy days. i find a lot of comfort while watching your videos and i really thank you for that
i enjoy your videos so much! i love how you edit them
This is the most relatable video I could relate to. I've been feeling the worst because I haven't been thriving lately, wake up in the middle of the day, I'm everywhere. Thank you for using this video as a way to share your message!
I just woke up feeling blue and exhausted . This really changed my mood and I'm feeling better now . social media is toxic ,but knowing that there are still people like you who really care about others as well makes me feel NOT ALONE.thanks a lot and I hope u have a great day/night .Oh btw Merry Christmas 🤍
omg ur so cute and aesthetic and kind and waaaaaa
Okay, I'm cutting onions even on Christmas Day... thank u Deborah for creating videos like this... i am so beyond happy and you have no idea how much. happy holidays anddddd let's conquer this phase of sadness!!!!!
im neither happy or sad, im just doing ok. when i was little i used to love autumn cause its cold (i love cold), i got to see my friends at school and dance school opened. now i dont really have friends at school so im not loving autumn as much bt i still prefer it over summer. i admire the fact that you opened up about how you're feeling and truly thanks for your kind words.
watched this while taking a break from studying, and i really liked it! your editing is adorable
I'm so grateful that i subscribed to you this year because even tho i only subscribed recently you have quickly made your way to my group of comfort youtubers and I'm very thankful for that. thankyou for reminding me that how i feel isn't abnormal and to take a healthy approach to my own mind. your content provides a very safe and comfy environment for me especially during low times so thankyou for that and I'm proud of you for carrying on and doing so well :)))
thank you so much for this video! when you said that we're deserving of love regardless of how much we work, i nearly cried- i needed to hear that haha winter blues really is hitting us bad... i feel like a big bear wanting to hibernate but can't because school work never gets less lol but we can get through this!! winter is just one season and we still have plenty of more seasons ahead of us! sending so so much love, gran
I watch these videos when I feel a little anxious, and they always make me feel better. This week has been an anxiety week, and I finally decided enough was enough. I took a hot bath, did my skincare for once, and actually took care of myself. Thank you for inspiring me every day!
your content makes me so ridiculously happy, my go to comfort creator. hope you have a lovely Christmas xx
Honestly this is just what I needed right now. Thank you so much for making this, like this video just helped a lot :)
This video helped me realize that I’m not the only person who more often than not, feels “heavy” and that’s super comforting. I’m a new subscriber but you’re doing great and I love your vids! Happy holidays
HAPPY HOLIDAYS!! thankful to have you around
I am so glad that you took some time to your self! I was wondering where you cook? Is there a community kitchen for your dorm building or is there one inside of your dorm room?
Hello Deborah. My name is Carol, I’m a fan from Brazil, and I just wanted to say thank you for your videos and for being so amazing to people by doing this with such love and kindness. I’m just so grateful for finding you, you have no idea how much you help me get through the day. I’ve been struggling with breast cancer and chemotherapy since August, I used to be such a happy person full of joy, but it’s just really hard to be all that happy when you can’t get out of bed for like multiple reasons. All of your videos of self care, going outside to treat yourself to something nice, having picnics, just really inspire me to, you know, be excited to have my life back, and that things will be good again. So, obrigada! I wish you all the best, and that you may accomplish everything you ever wish for. ❤️
You are so talented plss post more if u can because we miss u soo much btw luv ur content so muchh , you are so inspiring and kind. Happy Holidays!
whenever i feel unmotivated to do anything, your vlogs give me so much comfort. bcs of your little reminders to be kinder to oneself or just doing the normal things (like literally existing lol), makes me want to seize the day. or not even that, but just enjoy what i can enjoy rn. i hope you find your happiness just as i find happiness in your videos
thank you so much for this. not only this video and the messages you share, but for just being here. as a content creator and person. people like you are what keep me going. thank you so much.
Thank you for your videos. They make my days so much better. I’m going through a really tough breakup and I feel almost nothing towards anything. He was like my best friend and we still love each other but we both know that atm we got too many problems that interfere with our relationship. We were together for four years and I still hope that someday we’ve healed and can be together again. Your videos remind me that laying in bed all day wouldn’t make this possible and that I have to move on. No matter how things turn out in the end I shouldn’t punish myself but be kind to myself and be there for me. Thank you for being such a rolemodel for me and showing me how important we all are and our health is
felt like i was given a hug and a lil kith on the forehead throughout this whole video, hope youre taking care of yourself and merry christmas
i'm glad to see that i'm not alone in going through a winter slump. thank you for the kind words and encouragement about being kind to ourselves. Happy holidays and wishing u well 💗💗 take care always!! 🥰
Honestly this was the best video I could see right now! Thank you so much for making this!! You truly are an incredible person and your video made feel so seen and understood.
Thank you again!❤️❤️
I love you so much
You bring me a huge amount of comfort 💜
I feel so great after watching your vlogs and thank you so much for such an amazing video🥺. It's ok to not be productive and to feel demotivated at certain point of time, so let's hang on there 💗. Stay safe .
I love how Deborah is so just relatable and sweet.
Deborah, your videos are so comforting and merry Christmas
merry christmas ❤️❤️
The winter blues are real. Just trying to get out of bed is a challenge. You open up to us so much. Dobochobo thank you for showing us all this inspiration and motivation.
Fans from Georgia
The past two weeks have been really hard because of stress and school. I'm taking some days off just to recharge my batteries and to relax a bit. Thank you for that video
hello im not having my best time of the year and not the type of friends to rely on but i stil love myself as i am and everybody should also . have a nice day beautiful.
this vlog (and your vlogs in general) are so comforting and relaxing. and I relate sO HARD to your worlds about productivity and being hard on yourself but I'm glad that this year I'm little bit better at not doing that.
overall, I'm doing pretty good I think. first semester is almost over and I'm happy to finally rest a little bit. it's scary that it's already the end of 2021 because my final exams are half a year away as well as my graduation. I'm trying not to think about this things too much but it's still scary and exciting at the same time.
You have such a bright and kind energy. I can tell that from the very first video I watched of yours couple months ago. Thank you for being real and spreading love. This video was perfect in so many ways. I hope you have a happy and safe holidays! 💛