Ryan McCartan Talks About Being Sexually Abused and How He Has Conquered and Won.

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  • Опубликовано: 18 ноя 2024

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  • @dracomalfoylover3127
    @dracomalfoylover3127 4 года назад +878

    The way his smile fades as he realizes the interviewer isn't there to ask him any questions about his performance, just his trauma. God that's so sad. I love Ryan so much, being put in a situation like this is horrible. Especially with all the possible triggers. Just gross

    • @maryhollifield8257
      @maryhollifield8257 3 года назад +9

      Him and his Girlfriend Sam have a RUclips channel called Sam and Ryan. He is very happy with her and you should go check them out

    • @katelynjoymoore
      @katelynjoymoore 3 года назад +10

      i thought the same

    • @sydneyharp1989
      @sydneyharp1989 3 года назад +14

      Also the “sex feels good” when it’s not sex

    • @QHG415
      @QHG415 11 месяцев назад +3

      @@sydneyharp1989 can’t believe she said that part. She has either completely zero common sense or she’s an awful person trying to make him uncomfortable

  • @agentbobcat1866
    @agentbobcat1866 4 года назад +621

    It was really sad to watch his face sort of fall as they asked him this which was so inappropriate and also he dealt with it so maturely.

  • @soulgrrl2
    @soulgrrl2 5 лет назад +839

    Just stumbled on this video. Seems grossly inappropriate to ask Ryan about his past in this setting (noise and ambience was jarring). I don’t know if he was prepared to discuss at this time but seems like he was caught off guard. Think it’s brave to tell his story but lady, read the ‘room’. Seems evident he thought the convo would be about his performance & then he was hit with a serious issue. He handled it w grace but the interviewer felt awkward and the question was out of line given the timing.

  • @naufragaenlasopa7743
    @naufragaenlasopa7743 4 года назад +429

    LADY WENT STRAIGHT TO IT WITH LIKE NO HESITATION WTF

    • @reillykunkel3158
      @reillykunkel3158 4 года назад +56

      Ikr she was like “SeX fEeLs GoOd” in this like public setting he looked so uncomfortable

    • @angelg9981
      @angelg9981 3 года назад +29

      @@reillykunkel3158 The most insensivite thing that she said, true

  • @jaxosaurus5383
    @jaxosaurus5383 4 года назад +358

    i feel so bad he had to answer in public, but his answer was beautiful and inspiring.

  • @kannwall
    @kannwall 4 года назад +458

    oh my god watching his face fall broke my heart. this happened to me at 14. may this never again come up in an interview without his knowledge again. he wouldn’t have been that happy at the beginning of the conversation had he known this was coming.
    bless him. my gosh

    • @voxextremos22
      @voxextremos22 Год назад +7

      The interviewer is being malicious here. Why blindside anyone with a question about thier trauma it’s in such poor taste and lacks professionalism. It’s awful he doesn’t owe you his life story

  • @tobychiyo868
    @tobychiyo868 4 года назад +444

    gross that this was asked of him in the first place in this setting

  • @taylorwright8045
    @taylorwright8045 4 года назад +368

    I don’t think this was the time nor place to ask this

  • @reillykunkel3158
    @reillykunkel3158 4 года назад +220

    It’s kinda sad cause you could see his smile drop

  • @LittleMissLanna
    @LittleMissLanna 5 лет назад +353

    Ryan is so wonderful and I wasn't aware of his history of abuse until now. He is so brave and talks about everything so gracefully and with such poise and is such a beacon of goodness. Will always continue to support him and his career!! Thanks for uploading!

  • @brabgirl8784
    @brabgirl8784 4 года назад +152

    this was hard to watch. ryan handled the situation very nicely but it seems very inappropriate to be asking him this in this setting, on camera.

  • @isabellanesheiwat8
    @isabellanesheiwat8 3 года назад +66

    "I was twelve."
    my heart just plummeted

  • @carmenb5832
    @carmenb5832 4 года назад +135

    Why can’t people learn respect for others private lives. I’m surprised with how he handled it. He was so mature about it. I know I wouldn’t have reacted the way he did. I would’ve been upset and stopped the interview right there.

  • @baileyjoe.p
    @baileyjoe.p 3 года назад +81

    why did she ask this in public... that’s so extremely disrespectful and just pure immaturity. he was obviously uncomfortable when she started talking about it you can see his smile fade. i feel so bad for ryan for this.

  • @kiksgoodday
    @kiksgoodday 4 года назад +98

    i am SO disturbed that interviewer asked ryan that right at this time. my heart broke when i saw his smile fade😭😭😭 i love you ryan🥺

  • @jarredkennedy6131
    @jarredkennedy6131 4 года назад +192

    Bravo to him for speaking out, and while he does deserve his privacy I don't think he really cared about being asked so publicly about his abuse experience.

  • @brehunter188
    @brehunter188 4 года назад +129

    Sooo not the place to have a conversation like that unless he was previously told and agreed to talk about it.

  • @Zen-ft5fj
    @Zen-ft5fj 2 года назад +38

    I know everyone's saying this but man, the smile fading was just heartbreaking.
    The woman starting with praise then throwing in a 'Hey, let's talk about your trauma!' segment was just uncalled for.

  • @laurelleaves
    @laurelleaves 2 года назад +16

    everyone's talking about it, but he has such a nice, sunny smile that seeing it fade away like that was just awful

  • @tiredmilky8416
    @tiredmilky8416 2 года назад +18

    As someone who went through a similar thing - I don’t love how she asked him this and his smile faded so fast. But it’s so strong of him to speak about it, I love him and it is honestly great to hear about people I look up to like him being able to understand and cope with this.

  • @mars_charli
    @mars_charli 2 года назад +15

    Watching Ryan’s smile fade killed a little bit of me

  • @SarahBaird-io2tn
    @SarahBaird-io2tn 2 года назад +9

    Oh my gosh, his relief when they switch subjects. He should’ve approved this question beforehand.

  • @sorayag794
    @sorayag794 3 года назад +12

    such an inappropriate place to ask this, the way his smile drops is so sad. now with that information he handled this so beautifully and amazingly

  • @colemillerson7214
    @colemillerson7214 4 года назад +30

    Thank you Ryan for speaking about this. You seem to be a whole lot better adjusted. It happened to me when I was very young and the time I was nine until I was 11. For me, it’s not as simple. I am much older now but the rage sometimes still consumes me. Please take care and God bless.

  • @miraclejoyunique5730
    @miraclejoyunique5730 3 года назад +14

    I feel sorry for him and I almost cried about finding out this story. He didn’t blame himself for this situation and he should’ve told his parents about this.

  • @nahnah194
    @nahnah194 4 года назад +27

    He is so down to earth and chill. Like he’s willing to talk about such personal topics and random stuff for 5 minutes to someone he’s never met before.

  • @d.j.7069
    @d.j.7069 4 года назад +47

    I hope and pray that he has actually "done" it. It may come up again later, and he will deal with it again and again. This is a sad truth about sexually abused youth.

  • @renaldcosma7192
    @renaldcosma7192 5 лет назад +80

    I love you Ryan ! I'm also a survivor and your biggest fan . God bless you

  • @thatgirlmollz
    @thatgirlmollz Год назад +8

    “I was twelve.”
    he was twelve? are you kidding me. some people need to be majorly punished for this. im so sorry for ryan.

  • @gabrielaackermanuwu1733
    @gabrielaackermanuwu1733 3 года назад +14

    When His smile drops, my heart breaks 💔

  • @robynsrecs2183
    @robynsrecs2183 4 года назад +75

    Woah! he was abused?!! I wonder how many of his friends and family knew...

  • @cowboyjazz
    @cowboyjazz 3 года назад +24

    as a fellow sexual abuse survivor i would love to hear what he has to say, but it would feel gross listening to him respond when cornered like this. hope you liked your tea, lady.

  • @browngirlhali9865
    @browngirlhali9865 3 года назад +13

    OMG this is awful. To men, is especially harder to come forward with this type of situation. I'm proud of him for being brave enough to speak up. You can see how mad he got when he heard the statistics.

    • @cgi_angel6001
      @cgi_angel6001 Год назад +4

      Women get raked through the coals and dismissed or blamed for their abuse. Men often get mocked and denied. They're both heinous, demeaning, and disgusting. There's no reason to compare them. They *both* need to be taken more seriously.

  • @thaankyoou3881
    @thaankyoou3881 4 года назад +82

    People that have been abused don't become abusers. Him being abusive to Dove was just an allegation she made most likely to ruin his career. Ryan also claimed Dove cheated, but no one ever talks about that. He was always the bigger person when it came to their drama, while Dove kept spreading lies.
    Please, if you see a comment on a video insulting Ryan, please, shut them down, tell them that there aren't any facts supporting him being abusive, and tell them to move on and stop wasting their time commenting such things whenever they see him. I don't even know why people do that. You never see Ryan fans bash Dove because they'd get shunned to the ground.
    So please, respect everyone. You don't have to like them, just respect them. As for me, I think Ryan would never do such a thing, but that's just my opinion.

    • @Aster_Risk
      @Aster_Risk 4 года назад +5

      Take your own advice. You clearly have no respect for Dove, despite not knowing what happened between them.

    • @thaankyoou3881
      @thaankyoou3881 4 года назад +26

      @@Aster_Risk What??? I'm just telling Dove's toxic fans to stop attacking Ryan, leave.

    • @livr2783
      @livr2783 4 года назад +24

      Alicia they aren’t being disrespectful to dove, they’re just stating what is true. Ryan didn’t really talk much about it, but dove was pretty shady when it came to discussing their relationship, and because of doves allegations a lot of people are now blindsided by who they think Ryan is and how they think he is, when in reality no one knows crap about it. Ryan also made allegations on dove, but no one really talks about those.

    • @thaankyoou3881
      @thaankyoou3881 4 года назад +11

      @@livr2783 he made one allegation and that was when he couldn't take it anymore, and that was that she cheated on him with her now boyfriend. People even dug up evidence of that but I didn't save any links.

    • @TonksTheFool
      @TonksTheFool 4 года назад +12

      Okay, I'm sorry to tell you but victims of abuse aren't exempt from copying the abusive behaviours they learned. It's actually common for victims to also become abusers. It's a learned behaviour, and it's not an easy truth but it happens when they don't get the help they need in time, it can be unlearned, which he might be doing now. So you can't outright say nothing happened, especially when you put biases aside and actually look into public videos and look at behaviours. You can see him putting her down in a lot of videos, emotionally, and it's very uncomfortable to watch as someone who's been a victim of emotional abuse. He might not have meant it but damage was done and they just weren't good for each other at all.
      That said, yeah, they both tossed accusations. He wrote songs on it, so don't act like he's shiny and clean in the break up when he furthered his career with it. It's messy on BOTH sides. And it's literally done with. They didn't work and they've moved on. There is still hurt there for both of them, it just so happens their hurt is public and it seems more like the fans latching onto every comment to spin it further. And as for Ryan fans, I have seen them relentlessly bash Dove and attack her. Fans of both parties have been terrible.
      No one is clean in this. Let's just let them find their peace.

  • @aghi6783
    @aghi6783 3 года назад +12

    Bro when he said he was 12 I started crying so bad

  • @silviaov633
    @silviaov633 3 года назад +7

    Brave for him for speaking out but awful for the interviewer for asking him like that without making sure he was comfortable talking about it in such a public space.

  • @giannabruce7174
    @giannabruce7174 3 года назад +14

    I feel like it's usually the interviewer's job to make the interviewee feel comfortable, but in this video, it seems as if Ryan is trying to comfort her. Feels strange and inappropriate.

  • @GGpeach3004
    @GGpeach3004 4 месяца назад +1

    The way she witched up the concept is crazy💀😭

  • @cricketlol410
    @cricketlol410 3 года назад +11

    what the hell??? this is so disrespectful, you can literally see his smile fade away. you can’t just ask people about their trauma.

  • @donaldlang8530
    @donaldlang8530 4 года назад +9

    Thank you Ryan for telling your story.

  • @donaldlang8530
    @donaldlang8530 4 года назад +5

    All I can say is, it happened to me as well. It is the worst feeling in the world when you realize you were in a situation where you were not safe.

  • @avagamer1504
    @avagamer1504 3 года назад +6

    ok no. this is so inappropriate to ask, ESPECIALLY in PUBLIC. you can tell he is super uncomfortable and his smile immediately faded when she asked that question.

  • @margot7048
    @margot7048 3 года назад +8

    How dare she ask him about trauma on camera

  • @untitled.8640
    @untitled.8640 3 года назад +4

    he deserves the world

  • @elizabethdb791
    @elizabethdb791 3 года назад +10

    This lady has no chill

  • @frozen_blondy2076
    @frozen_blondy2076 4 года назад +16

    Ok he seemed do uncomfortable ... yes this subject is important to talk about ... but this was not the time or place...

  • @Jae-pe2xh
    @Jae-pe2xh 2 месяца назад +1

    I hope this interviewer was fired. This was so inappropriate. There is a time and a place.

  • @Jay-ug8kl
    @Jay-ug8kl 4 года назад +3

    It's so gross to have asked him that in a public setting and so so rude of her, the person interviewing him is so fucking rude

  • @patrickmorton9766
    @patrickmorton9766 4 года назад +20

    Ryan got his ears pierced

  • @Billiedakid
    @Billiedakid 3 года назад +3

    I suffer abuse and when I saw Mk documentary I did also realize “wow this feels so familiar”

  • @popularcelebrity420
    @popularcelebrity420 8 месяцев назад +1

    very well spoken. intelligence radiates off of him. very innapropiate to ask him in this setting

  • @delsmontgomery
    @delsmontgomery 2 года назад +4

    @Times Square Chronicles this is disgusting, why would you spring these questions upon me?

  • @camila.gonzalez1
    @camila.gonzalez1 3 года назад +5

    wow ... he was only 12

  • @Katy-sf5cb
    @Katy-sf5cb 4 года назад +12

    omg he is so precious.

  • @leah6820-y9v
    @leah6820-y9v 8 месяцев назад +1

    Well. That's not the time or place to ask him about that.

  • @auspicious93
    @auspicious93 8 месяцев назад +1

    Do interviewers get previous authorization to discuss this kind of thing?? I can’t imagine they just sprang this on him.

  • @nyctoby
    @nyctoby 2 года назад +2

    wtf, why would anyone ask that to someone
    poor ryan

  • @johnncat2277
    @johnncat2277 3 года назад +1

    I get that talking about it and spreading awareness but I wish/hope they asked him if this is OK to ask before hand and off camera? Cause to be ask this out of the blue and a public place is jarring and sometimes very triggering

  • @angelg9981
    @angelg9981 3 года назад +4

    Stupid question

  • @renaelee8158
    @renaelee8158 4 года назад +2

    #soooooooosad😭😢🥺

  • @SarahNoyes
    @SarahNoyes 3 года назад +2

    Not the time or place and the woman is odd. Also, didn't Dove say that Ryan sexually assaulted her?

  • @thatrandomgirl4574
    @thatrandomgirl4574 4 года назад +5

    😱😱😭😭😭😭😭💞💞💞💞💞💞💞

  • @jacobfeagin8560
    @jacobfeagin8560 3 года назад +3

    He's so adorable 🥺👉🏻👈🏻

    • @h_hypeboy
      @h_hypeboy 3 года назад +10

      Not the best time to say that

  • @averychawaga4533
    @averychawaga4533 2 года назад

    Wow for once he ma smiling

  • @annaboesch
    @annaboesch 4 года назад +4

    I don’t really like him but this is sad

  • @motherofintuitives
    @motherofintuitives 2 года назад +1

    this explains why he was being a demonic boyfriend to Dove

    • @voxextremos22
      @voxextremos22 Год назад +6

      Why do you say shit like that it’s uncalled for

    • @charlieneedshelp989
      @charlieneedshelp989 9 месяцев назад +2

      crazy to come onto a video where someone talks about their experience of being groomed and their trauma and day "but you were mean to my fave celeb"

    • @motherofintuitives
      @motherofintuitives 9 месяцев назад

      Dove is not anywhere close to my fave celeb but she should be spoken up for against this douchebag for sure @@charlieneedshelp989

  • @peachysunsets249
    @peachysunsets249 4 года назад +3

    U abused doce Cameron And cheated on her a lot of times and was toxic

    • @gabbysullivan4764
      @gabbysullivan4764 4 года назад +17

      She was actually the cheater and their relationship was mutually toxic

    • @andpeggy8560
      @andpeggy8560 4 года назад +10

      Gabby Sullivan I agree I just don’t think it was a good relationship

    • @gabbysullivan4764
      @gabbysullivan4764 4 года назад +9

      @@andpeggy8560 yeah it was bad on both ends

    • @charlieneedshelp989
      @charlieneedshelp989 9 месяцев назад +1

      crazy to come onto a video where someone talks about their experience of being groomed and their trauma and day "but you were mean to my fave celeb"

  • @gv2418
    @gv2418 3 года назад +1

    he is also abusive.

    • @meepmeeper9210
      @meepmeeper9210 3 года назад +12

      Only the characters he plays are abusive, he is a really nice person irl

    • @zoe_moth
      @zoe_moth 3 года назад +9

      He's a really nice guy in reality

    • @Jamescri-zu1dz
      @Jamescri-zu1dz 9 месяцев назад +1

      He played an abusive character.He's not abusive in real life he's nice.

  • @auroradera2862
    @auroradera2862 3 года назад +1

    Thats gay

    • @nadiajoiner6243
      @nadiajoiner6243 2 года назад +6

      what is wrong with u.. it’s not “gay” it’s abuse. sexual abuse is sexual abuse whether it’s done with between those of different genders or the same.