I'm a Christian and the daughter of a pastor. Just wanted to share something that my parents once shared with me regarding divorce.... Though of course divorce is never the first choice, and a couple should absolutely do everything in their power to fight for their marriage, it is the COUPLE who needs to fight for it. If HE wasn't willing to fight for it, then the 'sin' in question is not yours. It sounds to me like you fought hard for it, and you have really been purposeful and thoughtful in trying to learn from the experience and make sure that any mistakes you may have made in your marriage won't be repeated. So in my opinion, anyone who no longer follows you because of your divorce isn't following the example of a Savior who came to redeem us all, not just the ones who have never made a mistake. Hang in there, M, because I think you're walking through this with grace. 💗
As a Christian, I struggled when it came time for a divorce too. Mine was the result of infidelity on his part, so I completely understand and empathize everything you’ve talked about in regards to feeling like you need to protect the person and feeling loyal while at the same time struggling with the profound betrayal that comes as a result of that scenario. Divorce isn’t Gods first choice obviously, but there are certain situations that are understandable…and infidelity is one of them. I personally felt like I would struggle with forgiveness for the rest of our lives, and I didn’t want to question whether his future actions were from genuine desire or guilt for what he had done. I didn’t feel like it was fair for either of us. Proud of you for choosing what you felt was best! I know you prayed hard over that decision! Keep doing you, girl!
I just started the vlog and paused @ 3:25. As a believer, I just want to say, I'm so sorry that people who claimed to be Christians unfollowed you because of your experience with divorce and that you're being public about it. I'm GLAD you shared your story. While I do believe that the divorce rate is ridiculously high because a lot of people get divorced for dumb reasons, there are a lot of people who stay in miserable marriages due to valid reasons like adultery, abuse, etc. that they should have left a long time ago. I'm proud of you for speaking up. Hopefully it might give others courage to leave their toxic marriages. Yes, God hates divorce. But He also hates it when people mistreat His children and use His Word to do so, thus misrepresenting Him and turning people away from Him.
Something you said in this video, about you could have done things better? You have to remember that you had never been through that before, so you had to handle it with the tools you had, a toolbelt that now has even more tools for you to navigate through life. But it wasn’t your fault Michel because you would never have chosen divorce first, also something to remember, what you once said to all of us! There’s always gonna be someone who doesn’t agree with what you do, so all you can do is make good decisions. We all love you, I hope you know that friend! 🧡
OMG, the judgment and the shame. There's no friggin' place for it. Grew up Christian. Most decidedly am not now. I value ethics, kindness, open-mindedness, NON-authoritarianism, and respect for others as they are. Too many people who call themselves Christian are revealing themselves to be horrible, ignorant, judgmental people. You go, girl.
Michel...you are so STRONG!!!GOD is with you ALWAYS. We as Christians should not judge anyone. Your ex was unfaithful. I am praying for you & him. Don't let the enemy steal your JOY❣❣❣🙏🙏🙏 You are a BLESSING to so many people including myself. Love you Michel, but GOD LOVES YOU MORE ✝️
Mennonite in Ontario here. I am a Christian and am following and will continue to follow you. Please know that those that are negative and unfollow you, there will be double that will support and follow you. Block them and be you and thrive.
Not sure if I like the sash. I feel like it cuts you off in a weird spot. I really like the dress without the sash. Maybe if the sash was wider? Hmmm. Not sure. I love the colour and looks gorgeous on you.
In the same way the divorce is NOT your fault, it is the same way that you are NOT at fault for some Christians not accepting you solely because you are experiencing a divorce. I have gone to many different church services (Christian, Catholic, Muslim, Mormon and Jewish) and in one of the church services I went to once said that we should not compare ourselves to our neighbor in order to consider ourselves better people. That we should ultimately be comparing ourselves to Jesus because he is a perfect human and if we don’t compare, we still need work. So essentially, don’t compare yourself to other people in order to feel better about yourself because that doesn’t make you better. So good luck in this journey and continue doing what you’re doing ❤
I am a Christian and have been divorced. That said I lamented and stressed through the entire processes seeking the Word and praying, because I believed my whole life divorce wasn't right. However, I got confirmation from God through the Bible it was ok because my husband had been unfaithful. I then as I prepared for my marriage to my now husband (2nd marriage) again I worried was it ok under God to be remarried and again I got confirmation that it was ok. Divorce is hard and I mourned the loss of what it should have been even though it was better for me to let go of what it was. I am glad you have found comfort in being able to process it your way.
Michel, I have been following you for a very long time. You are sweet and precious to me. You are a sister to me. I actually almost stopped following you way back when... you would say "things got surfacy" on your channel. I heard the Lord say "don't unfollow her" I'm so glad that I didn't. I've been here kind of behind the scenes watching everything that's happening. I haven't said much, at times not knowing what to say. But, I'M PROUD OF YOU. are you perfect? No. But, who is!? That's the point. We are all on this journey (with God, if we let Him lead) and life is kind of like a waltz. A beautiful waltz if we keep our eyes focused on Him, though painful at times...we can trust in our Creator's character and who He is, because who He says He is- is perfect and True. There's no pretenses with Him. He holds nothing back. He's so proud of you! He loves you so much. You are not forgotten. His anger burned against the situation that happened against you. The sin, broke His heart and He wept with you. He's never going to leave you and never going to forsake you. "You need only to be still" Exodus 14:14 people are going to say be strong, but I say lean on Him. Paul was a strong man, spiritually and probably physically and so intelligent. But he had a meekness about him spiritually... he said that he "will bost all the more about his weaknesses" and " for when he is weak, then he is strong." Lean into that meekness and give it to the Lord. It's okay to not be perfect. It's okay to not have it all together. And it's okay to always be learning. My hope is that you learn who you are because you know Who's you are! "And He has said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for power is perfected in weakness.” Most gladly, therefore, I will rather boast about my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ may dwell in me." 2 Corinthians 14 "Therefore I delight in weaknesses, in insults, in distresses, in persecutions, in difficulties, in behalf of Christ; for when I am weak, then I am strong." 2 Corinthians 12
Christian here that 100% supports you. You’re taking care of yourself as you should. Continue to share and grow and be the strong woman you were created to be. ❤️
People who claim to be “Christian” and judge anyone for life’s situations are ridiculous. I am a twice divorced woman and only God alone knows my heart just as yours! You have got this beautiful friend!
I think it's absolutely disgusting that those people sent you those messages. If you're going to unfollow someone, just do it, just leave. It's seriously vindictive and cruel to send someone a message saying why they're unfollowing you. What do those people expect? They disapprove so you're going to go and dissolve your divorce, and be married to a toxic person? I hope they watch this video or look back at this and be ashamed of themselves. They should ask themselves if God would be proud of them for spreading hatred and judgement in His name. You're better off without those people in your life. You deserve so much kindness and warmth in your life, purely because you put so much kindness into the world.
I think the other question people should ask - "What do they expect you to do - to be involved in a marriage that is three-way"? That seems unacceptable. Like Diana/Charles/Camille? (maybe I'm too old - and the readers here won't get that).
It’s not Christianity that’s the problem. It’s people who think that just because they identify as Christian that they are perfect. There is no perfect person and the purpose of following Christ is to try to be a better person. They’re falling short and need someone to blame. Screw them. Love, light and blessings to you! ❤️
There's no shame in doing what is best for your life. Martyrdom isn't admirable. If there are some who are so judgmental and uncharitable they feel the need to unfollow you, they shouldn't be a loss to you. Stay strong and keep living your best life. ❤
Christian here! Been one my whole life!!! And I work for a missions ministry that has tons of missionaries all over the world! It's not ok to judge someone for their life situation. We didn't know any of the details until Michel shared her divorce story, which actually shows her divorce is not a sin in the eyes of God, since he cheated on her!!!! Michel, I hope you ignore those people! Just the enemy trying to hurt you further. You have been way more kind than I could have ever been if my husband did that to me. He didn't deserve you and more! God has the right man for you and I pray that you will find him in God's timing (no one else's as its really not their business). If you're Christian purposely hurting others, especially those who have done no wrong, you need to ask for forgiveness. You're the one who is sinning. Period.
True, Divorce is not a sin ! Does God sin ? No ? Well He issued a divorce decree to the nation of Israel because they took on other gods, therefore being unfaithful.
As a woman who spent almost 30 years in an unhappy marriage let me say this especially to all the young women out there. I am Christian, I fought hard to keep my marriage going despite not feeling fulfilled and I did it partly out of my beliefs and just plain stubbornness. I finally left but not before I had damaged myself financially, emotionally and spiritually and that doesn’t include what my children went through. You did all you could…but it takes two to make a healthy relationship!
I can relate, it was so unhealthy for me and my children but I was so afraid to leave as I knew I wouldn’t have my families support. Leaving was the best thing I ever did. ❤️ I wish you every happiness every day for the rest of your life x
You are not alone in your experience. The decision to finally leave is difficult after so many years together. Life is better on the other side of it all though~
A true Christian wouldn't unfollow you. It's not our place to judge. You should not feel one bit guilty of getting a divorce. Life is too short to live it in an unhealthy relationship.
Christian here I got divorced several years ago from an abusive emotionally ex. I got kicked out of my church but never stopped believing! You are doing great!
I’m an atheist and find it incomprehensible that you would be alienated from your community for protecting yourself. Domestic violence should never be tolerated. I’m glad you did what you needed to and hope you’re doing well, mind, body, spirit, and soul.
@@MoreCoffeePlease. thank you so much for your kind words! 🖤 I hope life is treating you kindly as well! At the end of the day we are all humans and should all be treated with love and respect no matter what our religious beliefs are. We need more people like you, in this world!
I am so very sorry your church did that to you. I hope you found a new one that loves you for YOU and for your strength to leave a dangerous relationship.
Y’all I’m crying from the outpouring of love for the longest time I kept thinking bad things would happen ex. Job loss or life’s changes because I failed God…. I kept telling myself I left Him down and that’s why I can never seem content, seeing all of your kind words and out pouring of love means so much, thank you all for this, and thank you @Michel for being so raw and transparent so that people like me can feel loved!
Baby girl, the emotional days will come and go for a very long time. We just have to learn how to live with them. It's normal, even years from now, to mourn the loss of the life we thought we were going to have. Just know that you're in a better place. You are allowing yourself to heal. That's better than a lot of us do. I'm so proud of you. I hope and pray the absolute best for you in life. The people that can't follow you anymore, due to "Christianity", in my opinion, need to consider this; did God decide to stop loving you or forgiving you? No. He tells us to show grace and love to everyone. Also...it is NOT your fault. I am SO proud of you for standing up for yourself and getting out of a toxic relationship. Is divorce God's perfect plan? No. Neither was sin, but here we are. I love you, Michel. I love to see your growth.
Thanks for commenting. It resonated with me. Your sentence it’s normal, even years from now to mourn the loss of a life we thought we’d have. So so true. I love this community and the support not just for Michel, but for everyone.
@@LStottmann I still mourn the marriage with my children's father, even though we have been divorced for many years. I mourn that they are having to grow up in two different homes. I mourn the fact that I won't have "that" marriage that celebrates a 50-year wedding anniversary. Some days, I will still have tears. I am remarried to a wonderful man that takes such good care of us. He knows that I love and respect him to the fullest, but he he also understands that part of me was broken by someone else's actions. He understands that, because of that, I can't give him all of me. He knows. I pray that Michel ends up with a man like that; one that loves and respects her to no end; We are broken. We are not whole. BUT GOD!!!
@@sarahburton2777 I am not remarried and the littles are with me full time. But it's the same situation here and exact emotions you described. It kills me that it still stabs you after all these years and remarriage. I know for a fact that's how it will be for me too it's just how do I withstand that? The emotional toll it takes seems like it would do me in.
@@blueseptember2174 It definitely takes an emotional toll. You know what, though? It just means that we have loved deeply and with our whole hearts. It is more sad not to have been able to do that at all. I pray that your heart will be healed. God does have some pretty strong super glue. lol
I’m Catholic and 32 who has never been married or divorced but I have my fair share of sins. But none of that matters because I’m a human and a woman and I support you because of that simple fact that we are all humans who want love and deserve acceptance. 🙌 Perfect timing in my life to find your channel!
I listened to your divorce story the day it went live and it was something that really stuck with me. It made me sad how much blame you put on yourself. As a former Christian that was raised thinking divorce was a sin, I think this makes people stay in situations that are harmful to themselves instead of living their best lives. I truly believe you did everything you could in that relationship and keeping it going wasn’t the best thing for you mentally, spiritually or physically. I’m so glad to see you thriving and living your best life now. There are so many more experiences in store for you in your next chapter!
Ehhhhh I say "no" to the sash. I like the "mystery" of your figure better than the "here is my waist". Also, you don't want to put your sister in the position of having to say no; at this point, as MOH, your job is to make everything easier for her. As for those people DM-ing you: eff them, to put it bluntly. They're going to feel ridiculous once they watch the full story video. You did everything you could, and it wasn't your fault.
Michel, you are so beautiful inside and out. You have helped so many young women. If someone doesn't want to be your friend because you are divorced, then they weren't a real friend in the first place.
From a Christian perspective, I can say that there is no shame in getting a divorce and getting out of an abusive marriage, ESPECIALLY since the spouse cheated. Blessings to you and don't listen to other people's opinions on your life.
Atheist here. I believe one should be good to themselves and others because we should lead with love. You led with love, for yourself, by exiting a relationship that no longer served your higher good. Human beings can enter into moral and spiritual contracts with others, with hope, commitment, and the best intentions. However, we cannot control someone else’s thoughts, feelings, or actions. When situations change, becoming toxic, please allow yourself permission to protect yourself; mind, body, spirit, and soul.
I left churches altogether. Why ? My 2 ex-husbands both lied and cheated. Christians usually only judge and exclude you. I am now still a believer, but not a receiver of the church’s bull crap, twisted “rules” that were made up by different interpretations. I only accept Christian friendships if they believe just like Michel does. Way to go to let people go ! It’s healthy and healing that way.
It makes me sad that other Christians can be so judgmental. It makes it harder for the rest of us to share Jesus with others. Anyway, love you girl! Thanks for another great vlog. You are a sunshine in my life (and I'm sure you bless many others too).
For all the people that are going to say she shouldn’t get divorced or it’s not biblical, it actually is. He cheated on her and the Bible says that that is a totally valid reason for her to leave a marriage. I’m not saying that’s the only reason they got divorced but biblically it is her right to leave. God is working on something awesome for you Michel Love you and thank for what you do!!
Thank you, this is the comment I was looking for. People love to pick and choose verses they feel fit their argument and ignore the rest. So frustrating. Seems those people messaging her have ignored this mention in the Bible.
Not only that but if he wasn't actively trying to correct his mistakes & make the marriage work & just wanted to leave then that is not on her. And now just seeing the videos side by side Michel is in a much better place here!
i feel like the intro and the music that opened the video represents so well the gentleness and grace that you’ve shown in this season of your life, you’re such an inspiration
I'm proud of you, Michel! You are a beautiful role model. Haters are going to hate. Love the dress with the sash. It looks more like a dress then a nightgown with it. ❤️
Are u kidding me... yeah she is beautiful but not a role model for sure ... and this ain't no hate for her but it's high Time to get over and done with the emotional torture .... she needs to get herself together go our there and live her best life ... instead of always thinking about what's lost ...
Always love your intros for your videos, especially the little montages. It's a lovely touch, you really welcome people into the video (and into your friend group)
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Michel - do not worry about those who were going to unfollow, unsubscribe you because you got divorced and dared to talk about it. Who are we to judge others? It really upsets me when people use religion to feel superior. I do not follow any organized religion but I follow the tenet of "being the best person I can be" and being kind to others.
When you said ‘How are ya’ All I could say is ‘Not good, not good at all’ I’m crying my eyes out because of my partner and I’m watching your video as comfort, thank you for being there for me with your videos ❤️
@@rachelreynolds0430 Hey dear Rachel! ❤️ Unfortunately yes .. things were going really well for a few days and all of the sudden a fight again. I’m so emotional because I’m not a quitter and we still have such good times together. But sometimes I feel like he doesn’t fight as hard for me as I fight for him. It’s painful when you love someone so dearly but know that maybe you do need to call it quits 💔
sending you so much love. I'm so sorry you're having to go through this, and I know how that feels first hand. just remember your strength, your worth, and what you are wanting & okay with for the remainder of your life ❤️❤️
To all of those who wish to sit in judgement of Michel I would advise (as a 72 year old woman) to think very carefully before you comment. Jesus said "Let he who is without sin cast the first stone". I hope with all my heart that you do not have to travel the road of divorce but you may and I'm sure that you would wish to be treated kindly should that arise. Life is difficult at the best of times let's treat each other kindly. What a world it would be if we could all just do that. Best wishes Michel on your journey through life.
Gorgeous dress. Much better without the sash. And I would prefer a nude or tan shoe. The black is too harsh of a contrast. Either way you’ll look great!!
My grandfather is a pastor and has been since well before I was even thought about. He retired and then was asked to step in as an interim pastor. Someone at the church went around on a crusade to try to get him fired over being divorced and my grandmother being divorced. What they didn't know was my grandfather's first wife left him because of his calling to be a pastor and my grandmother's first husband left her with 8 kids because he didn't want the responsibility. It's sad that some so called Christian want to judge when it's not their place. You are no less of a Christian because of it and I don't believe God would want you stuck in that anyway when he has much better things in store for you.
Hold your head up high and be proud that you were strong enough to walk away from a toxic relationship. Being true to yourself is more important than worrying about other peoples judgements. Have peace in knowing your healing and becoming an amazing loving person ready to take on what the future holds.
You should feel at peace. Your journey and life is your own and no one's business to judge. Christian or not. It is your life you're walking through not someone else's. I know you share your life online publicly but it is not up to us to judge others. You are a positive role model for all women in my opinion. That's why I continue to watch you and why my teenage daughter watches you.
Ok being realistic, God is the only one who matters when your day of justice is there.....sooooo by unfollowing someone because there views aren't the same or whatever....what would that say about them?? You are an amazing human being. Someone who doesn't judge from what I've seen....I've said it before and ill say it again. You inspire me to be a better person...:-)
It certainly was not your fault!! And it is not a sin. That is hogwash!! Some marriages are just not meant to be. Let it go. And you shouldn't judge someone else's situation you aren't in it, they are. You have so much strength for someone so young and have gone through what you did! Kudos for you!! You will be just fine woman. 🙂 blessings are coming your way for sure. Much love ❤️ 😍 💖 ❣️ 💕
I am so sorry you received negative comments, especially from the Christian community. I am Christian and we can do so much better. Thank you for your honesty and authenticity.
Christian or not arent u not suppose to judge people if u claim ur a “good Christian”? Also if u wanna unfollow go ahead and do so but why do u feel the need to explain and say unnecessary things? M ur an amazing women . Keep doing u!!! Sending u lots of luv xoxo
I'm proud of you for getting a divorce. Because divorce is scary, but I think of it now as a gift. My life is so peaceful, simple, and full of joy since I left my emotionally and verbally abusive husband. Wishing you the best, be kind to yourself. ❤
It's crazy that some Christians believe divorce is wrong in all scenarios. If you believe God is good and just and loving, then you should also believe that God would want you to be free from emotional and/or physical abuse ❤️ that just feels like common sense!!
Your authenticity after leaving that relationship behind has really been shining through and I absolutely look forward to all your videos more so now than ever before. Stay strong and continue to grow within yourself. And thank you for opening up to us. Your videos are like a chat with an old friend and I love them!
I'm 60 and love tap and keep saying I'm going to check with the local dance club to see if they have an adult tap class!! I've never tapped but would love to cause it seems like so much fun!! I don't want to do any shows or anything you know that the kids have to spend rediculous money for costumes on though! I just want to dance!!! You rock Michel!! Keep being the sweet kind soul that you are, love you chick!!
Those who have “un-friended” you for sharing your journey back to a healthy life, mentally, physically and emotionally were never your friends. God bless you, Michel! You are so brave! 🙏🏼❤️🙏🏼
I am so surprised by the negative Christian comments you mentioned. The greatest commandment is love your neighbors but our human condition is to judge others. Thank you for your honesty and your strength. I really feel like you are helping so many with your story.
I am no longer a practicing Christian. I never will be again thanks to the hypocrisy , bigotry and sheer narcissism I have encountered amongst those who profess to follow Christ's teachings. I don't need to go to church to live a Christian life , I can be kind, loving and understanding as all true Christians should be. Anyone who is judging you because you have divorced is not worth your time and energy. It takes two to make a marriage work and if one is unwilling then divorce is the most sensible way to make sure you both end up happy and you will! Good luck !
Not religious. Yet I can see God seeing you as a good person. I would think God would disapprove of people being ugly. You did nothing wrong. Before judging YOU they should judge THEMSELVES. Most are probably just unhappy in their own lives.
Michel- I’m in the same season of life as you. Went through a divorce as Christian who tried everything in her power to make a change, but had an unrepentant partner. You are a gem- and don’t let anyone else make you feel otherwise! Open the word of God and see how much He adores you.
Michel, I absolutely LOVE and adore your new wardrobe style. The jeans, silk cowl neck tank, and hair scarf outfit were IT!! So effortless looking and very feminine! Also, we are glad you shared your story. I know your ex being at peace with you sharing also gave you peace. I wish you all both the best and happiness in your separate journeys. Obviously being unfaithful is wrong and although all humans are flawed and it’s NO excuse for him, you have taken such a path of grace. Your future, whether you end up with the “sweet guy” or not lol, is brighter than ever and we can’t wait to join in on the happiness and fun!!! And random but just a little shout out to Max lol, he is adorable. When my ex and I split and I kept my dog you tend to get even more attached to them by your side and omg mine is my literal BABY, lol. And also, what brand is your purse? Sorry for such a long comment
Michel I love the dress that you are going to wear for your sister's wedding!! My personal thought on the sash I'd wear it for the reception but without the sash for the actual wedding. You look beautiful in it!! Without the sash you have a european goddess look!! Love seeing Max ❤️🐾. Prayers & Wishes Lisa Hampton 😃
Michel, you are such a beautiful soul! You can definitely see God’s work through your wisdom and grace. I have been binge watching your videos since I saw the first one. You’ve inspired me to want to achieve more in my life! Thank you for inviting us into your life💕 I feel like you are the best friend I never had. ❤️
I saw your divorce video and I can totally relate to you. I was in a marriage in which he cheated on me, more than once. I didn’t know until we separated. I never suspected it. I kept quiet about it on my Facebook because of how people judge. But then I watched the series Dirty John on Netflix and realized I had nothing to be ashamed of. I told my story and my Facebook friends were so supportive. I haven’t been able to date yet, 2 1/2 years later because of not knowing I can trust again. So, know you are not alone and anyone who would say bad things, are not your friends 💕😊
Seeing you cry made me cry. You are such a strong and beautiful human being, inside and out. I’m so sorry you had to go through all of that but know in my heart that your future holds only good and I can’t wait to see it all happen for you ✨
I’m a new subscriber. And I’m loving this! I went though the same thing I lost some Christian friends due to my divorce. Thank you for speaking about this. I feel better. GOD knows and sees it all. How great is his love! You are a beautiful woman that loves the lord and you will overcome this. My favorite scripture is Ruth 3:11 “And now my daughter do not fear.” I always say that scripture when I start to feel down. Loving this channel.
Who needs a therapist when you have almost 25,000 friends telling you how wonderful you are, giving advice, and lifting your spirits! Wow , you are THE woman !!, And a rock 🙆
While we could have all done things differently in a relationship, please know you are a strong person. It’s hard to walk away from a toxic relationship and you did it! What happened is not on you. Having left a physically and mentally abusive relationship myself I know how hard it is and have respect for what you achieved and how much you’ve grown. Hang in there!!!
Christian here and you did absolutely nothing wrong. You wanted to work things out and he did not. He cheated on you. You have absolutely nothing to be ashamed of or feel bad about. You gave it your all and he simply didn't want to stay and work on things as your partner. To those who left because you got a divorce, good riddens! They needed to go! You don't need them following you and their negativity. You have a loving following, who care about you and only want to support and love you. You don't need those few negative souls around here. We love you and support you and are cheering you on in this new chapter of your life! Thanks for being so real, genuine and vulnerable with us. We LOVE you Michel! ❤❤❤
It is hard to be in a situation where one party is mentally out of the relationship. The Christian thing to do is where God leads you. So sorry karen or who ever that feels to demoralize you!! Oh and without the Sash! ❤❤
I just heard the part about Christians not wanting to talk to you and I audibly gasped and am so sorry you're going through that. Wow, some Christians are assholes and please know I as a Christian support your decision to share. I am also super grateful for your testimony and how you've stayed close to God through it all. Also, IT IS TOTALLY BIBLICAL TO DIVORCE WHEN CHEATED ON!!!!!!!! Love you Michel!
You carry yourself with such grace and kindness, you should be so proud of yourself. This past year has shown that you are strong, brave and capable of so much love. Don't ever forget that 🤍
I just found your channel this week and have watched a handful of your videos. I adore you and your content! I’m a Christian, as well. I’ve been through divorce and I know how judgmental other “Christians” can be. I am sorry you’ve experienced that. People get wrapped up in don’t do this, don’t do that...so much that they forget what a Christian is all about and that’s showing God’s love. You’re so full of grace and love. And for the record, none of what happened was your fault. God may not love divorce, but He also doesn’t want us staying in miserable, toxic situations. God wants the very best for you; never forget that. I’m sending you love and huge hugs! It does get easier-I promise♥️♥️♥️
You're so wonderful and there's a strength in vulnerability and change and you're doing not only so well but I feel you need the reminder you're doing your best. 🌻❤️
I love the intro to this video, it was calming 😌 I'm sorry about all the negative direct messages you have received. You don't deserve their judgement and disrespect. You are really strong and your community you have created, care and support you ❤️ Also, do you have any recommendations for a spa or tap dance studio in Southern California??
I'm a Christian and the daughter of a pastor. Just wanted to share something that my parents once shared with me regarding divorce.... Though of course divorce is never the first choice, and a couple should absolutely do everything in their power to fight for their marriage, it is the COUPLE who needs to fight for it. If HE wasn't willing to fight for it, then the 'sin' in question is not yours. It sounds to me like you fought hard for it, and you have really been purposeful and thoughtful in trying to learn from the experience and make sure that any mistakes you may have made in your marriage won't be repeated. So in my opinion, anyone who no longer follows you because of your divorce isn't following the example of a Savior who came to redeem us all, not just the ones who have never made a mistake. Hang in there, M, because I think you're walking through this with grace. 💗
Amen!
What a beautiful comment
100% agree!
So beautifully said ❤️
Yes!
The dress is gorgeous! I think the sash dresses it down surprisingly, almost making it work appropriate. I’d go with no sash.
Agreed! :D
Agree!!! no sash
As a Christian, I struggled when it came time for a divorce too. Mine was the result of infidelity on his part, so I completely understand and empathize everything you’ve talked about in regards to feeling like you need to protect the person and feeling loyal while at the same time struggling with the profound betrayal that comes as a result of that scenario. Divorce isn’t Gods first choice obviously, but there are certain situations that are understandable…and infidelity is one of them. I personally felt like I would struggle with forgiveness for the rest of our lives, and I didn’t want to question whether his future actions were from genuine desire or guilt for what he had done. I didn’t feel like it was fair for either of us. Proud of you for choosing what you felt was best! I know you prayed hard over that decision! Keep doing you, girl!
I just started the vlog and paused @ 3:25. As a believer, I just want to say, I'm so sorry that people who claimed to be Christians unfollowed you because of your experience with divorce and that you're being public about it. I'm GLAD you shared your story. While I do believe that the divorce rate is ridiculously high because a lot of people get divorced for dumb reasons, there are a lot of people who stay in miserable marriages due to valid reasons like adultery, abuse, etc. that they should have left a long time ago. I'm proud of you for speaking up. Hopefully it might give others courage to leave their toxic marriages. Yes, God hates divorce. But He also hates it when people mistreat His children and use His Word to do so, thus misrepresenting Him and turning people away from Him.
Something you said in this video, about you could have done things better? You have to remember that you had never been through that before, so you had to handle it with the tools you had, a toolbelt that now has even more tools for you to navigate through life. But it wasn’t your fault Michel because you would never have chosen divorce first, also something to remember, what you once said to all of us! There’s always gonna be someone who doesn’t agree with what you do, so all you can do is make good decisions. We all love you, I hope you know that friend! 🧡
Tap dance in Chicago is having a revival!! Hopefully that spreads to other cities as well-such a fun genre of dance!
OMG, the judgment and the shame. There's no friggin' place for it. Grew up Christian. Most decidedly am not now. I value ethics, kindness, open-mindedness, NON-authoritarianism, and respect for others as they are. Too many people who call themselves Christian are revealing themselves to be horrible, ignorant, judgmental people. You go, girl.
Michel...you are so STRONG!!!GOD is with you ALWAYS. We as Christians should not judge anyone. Your ex was unfaithful. I am praying for you & him. Don't let the enemy steal your JOY❣❣❣🙏🙏🙏 You are a BLESSING to so many people including myself. Love you Michel, but GOD LOVES YOU MORE ✝️
Mennonite in Ontario here. I am a Christian and am following and will continue to follow you. Please know that those that are negative and unfollow you, there will be double that will support and follow you. Block them and be you and thrive.
Not sure if I like the sash. I feel like it cuts you off in a weird spot. I really like the dress without the sash. Maybe if the sash was wider? Hmmm. Not sure. I love the colour and looks gorgeous on you.
In the same way the divorce is NOT your fault, it is the same way that you are NOT at fault for some Christians not accepting you solely because you are experiencing a divorce. I have gone to many different church services (Christian, Catholic, Muslim, Mormon and Jewish) and in one of the church services I went to once said that we should not compare ourselves to our neighbor in order to consider ourselves better people. That we should ultimately be comparing ourselves to Jesus because he is a perfect human and if we don’t compare, we still need work. So essentially, don’t compare yourself to other people in order to feel better about yourself because that doesn’t make you better. So good luck in this journey and continue doing what you’re doing ❤
I am a Christian and have been divorced. That said I lamented and stressed through the entire processes seeking the Word and praying, because I believed my whole life divorce wasn't right. However, I got confirmation from God through the Bible it was ok because my husband had been unfaithful. I then as I prepared for my marriage to my now husband (2nd marriage) again I worried was it ok under God to be remarried and again I got confirmation that it was ok. Divorce is hard and I mourned the loss of what it should have been even though it was better for me to let go of what it was. I am glad you have found comfort in being able to process it your way.
Whenever I watch these it feels like I’m watching the Truman show
I like with the sash. However I think a kitten heel rather than a block heel
I think the dress looks best without the sash but you look beautiful either way!
Michel, I have been following you for a very long time. You are sweet and precious to me. You are a sister to me. I actually almost stopped following you way back when... you would say "things got surfacy" on your channel. I heard the Lord say "don't unfollow her" I'm so glad that I didn't. I've been here kind of behind the scenes watching everything that's happening. I haven't said much, at times not knowing what to say. But, I'M PROUD OF YOU. are you perfect? No. But, who is!? That's the point. We are all on this journey (with God, if we let Him lead) and life is kind of like a waltz. A beautiful waltz if we keep our eyes focused on Him, though painful at times...we can trust in our Creator's character and who He is, because who He says He is- is perfect and True. There's no pretenses with Him. He holds nothing back. He's so proud of you! He loves you so much. You are not forgotten. His anger burned against the situation that happened against you. The sin, broke His heart and He wept with you. He's never going to leave you and never going to forsake you. "You need only to be still" Exodus 14:14 people are going to say be strong, but I say lean on Him. Paul was a strong man, spiritually and probably physically and so intelligent. But he had a meekness about him spiritually... he said that he "will bost all the more about his weaknesses" and " for when he is weak, then he is strong." Lean into that meekness and give it to the Lord. It's okay to not be perfect. It's okay to not have it all together. And it's okay to always be learning. My hope is that you learn who you are because you know Who's you are!
"And He has said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for power is perfected in weakness.” Most gladly, therefore, I will rather boast about my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ may dwell in me." 2 Corinthians 14
"Therefore I delight in weaknesses, in insults, in distresses, in persecutions, in difficulties, in behalf of Christ; for when I am weak, then I am strong."
2 Corinthians 12
I think without the sash 🙂
Christian here that 100% supports you. You’re taking care of yourself as you should. Continue to share and grow and be the strong woman you were created to be. ❤️
I’m A Christian also and agree with you
Amen!! 100% agree with you 🤗
@@Petunia1738 She's been getting snarky holier than thou comments from people who left after making her feel less than then hiding behind the faith.
Me too ❤
Totally with you. Love and prayers❤❤❤❤
People who claim to be “Christian” and judge anyone for life’s situations are ridiculous. I am a twice divorced woman and only God alone knows my heart just as yours! You have got this beautiful friend!
THIS!!!!
It takes a strong person to walk away from a toxic relationship. Be proud of yourself. I’ve walked away 3 times. I’m a survivor and so are you
3 times??? Wow hmmm maybe you are the toxic one
I think it's absolutely disgusting that those people sent you those messages. If you're going to unfollow someone, just do it, just leave. It's seriously vindictive and cruel to send someone a message saying why they're unfollowing you. What do those people expect? They disapprove so you're going to go and dissolve your divorce, and be married to a toxic person? I hope they watch this video or look back at this and be ashamed of themselves. They should ask themselves if God would be proud of them for spreading hatred and judgement in His name. You're better off without those people in your life. You deserve so much kindness and warmth in your life, purely because you put so much kindness into the world.
This is so very well said! I wonder how many times God does a facepalm or sheds a tear because of the way we use His name incorrectly.
I think the other question people should ask - "What do they expect you to do - to be involved in a marriage that is three-way"? That seems unacceptable. Like Diana/Charles/Camille? (maybe I'm too old - and the readers here won't get that).
@@beckypetersen2680 Don't worry, I'm British, and I definitely got that reference!
IMO, I think the bridesmaid dress looked best without the sash. Such a beautiful color!
It’s not Christianity that’s the problem. It’s people who think that just because they identify as Christian that they are perfect. There is no perfect person and the purpose of following Christ is to try to be a better person. They’re falling short and need someone to blame. Screw them. Love, light and blessings to you! ❤️
Couldn’t have said it better !!
Very well put, Shannon C, couldn't agree more! btw, I like the dress with the sash, Michel. 😊
Very well put and agree with you
100% agree!!
100%! You nailed it Shannon!
There's no shame in doing what is best for your life. Martyrdom isn't admirable. If there are some who are so judgmental and uncharitable they feel the need to unfollow you, they shouldn't be a loss to you. Stay strong and keep living your best life. ❤
Christian here! Been one my whole life!!! And I work for a missions ministry that has tons of missionaries all over the world! It's not ok to judge someone for their life situation. We didn't know any of the details until Michel shared her divorce story, which actually shows her divorce is not a sin in the eyes of God, since he cheated on her!!!! Michel, I hope you ignore those people! Just the enemy trying to hurt you further. You have been way more kind than I could have ever been if my husband did that to me. He didn't deserve you and more! God has the right man for you and I pray that you will find him in God's timing (no one else's as its really not their business). If you're Christian purposely hurting others, especially those who have done no wrong, you need to ask for forgiveness. You're the one who is sinning. Period.
True, Divorce is not a sin ! Does God sin ? No ? Well He issued a divorce decree to the nation of Israel because they took on other gods, therefore being unfaithful.
Yes ❤️
Nothing more UN Christian than a Christian judging you for getting divorced 🤣
As a woman who spent almost 30 years in an unhappy marriage let me say this especially to all the young women out there. I am Christian, I fought hard to keep my marriage going despite not feeling fulfilled and I did it partly out of my beliefs and just plain stubbornness. I finally left but not before I had damaged myself financially, emotionally and spiritually and that doesn’t include what my children went through. You did all you could…but it takes two to make a healthy relationship!
This is hard to swallow, even though you didn’t go into detail, I feel like I relate to this comment.
I can relate, it was so unhealthy for me and my children but I was so afraid to leave as I knew I wouldn’t have my families support. Leaving was the best thing I ever did. ❤️
I wish you every happiness every day for the rest of your life x
@@shegathers6120 I feel the same She Gathers. Only it still IS me. At my age financially too hard to end it....
You are not alone in your experience. The decision to finally leave is difficult after so many years together. Life is better on the other side of it all though~
No sash - It's more elegant without. The sash makes it more sundress-ish.
A true Christian wouldn't unfollow you. It's not our place to judge. You should not feel one bit guilty of getting a divorce. Life is too short to live it in an unhealthy relationship.
Christian here I got divorced several years ago from an abusive emotionally ex. I got kicked out of my church but never stopped believing! You are doing great!
I’m an atheist and find it incomprehensible that you would be alienated from your community for protecting yourself. Domestic violence should never be tolerated. I’m glad you did what you needed to and hope you’re doing well, mind, body, spirit, and soul.
I’m so sorry you experienced that with your church, that is beyond unfair. Love you, friend 🤍
@@MoreCoffeePlease. thank you so much for your kind words! 🖤 I hope life is treating you kindly as well! At the end of the day we are all humans and should all be treated with love and respect no matter what our religious beliefs are. We need more people like you, in this world!
I am so very sorry your church did that to you. I hope you found a new one that loves you for YOU and for your strength to leave a dangerous relationship.
Y’all I’m crying from the outpouring of love for the longest time I kept thinking bad things would happen ex. Job loss or life’s changes because I failed God…. I kept telling myself I left Him down and that’s why I can never seem content, seeing all of your kind words and out pouring of love means so much, thank you all for this, and thank you @Michel for being so raw and transparent so that people like me can feel loved!
I don’t understand how anyone could judge your life and say they are a Christian. It’s not our job to judge. I’m so proud of you. You are strong.
AMEN!!!
No belt for your dress . Nice video , thanks .
Baby girl, the emotional days will come and go for a very long time. We just have to learn how to live with them. It's normal, even years from now, to mourn the loss of the life we thought we were going to have. Just know that you're in a better place. You are allowing yourself to heal. That's better than a lot of us do. I'm so proud of you. I hope and pray the absolute best for you in life.
The people that can't follow you anymore, due to "Christianity", in my opinion, need to consider this; did God decide to stop loving you or forgiving you? No. He tells us to show grace and love to everyone. Also...it is NOT your fault. I am SO proud of you for standing up for yourself and getting out of a toxic relationship. Is divorce God's perfect plan? No. Neither was sin, but here we are.
I love you, Michel. I love to see your growth.
Thanks for commenting. It resonated with me. Your sentence it’s normal, even years from now to mourn the loss of a life we thought we’d have. So so true. I love this community and the support not just for Michel, but for everyone.
@@LStottmann I still mourn the marriage with my children's father, even though we have been divorced for many years. I mourn that they are having to grow up in two different homes. I mourn the fact that I won't have "that" marriage that celebrates a 50-year wedding anniversary. Some days, I will still have tears.
I am remarried to a wonderful man that takes such good care of us. He knows that I love and respect him to the fullest, but he he also understands that part of me was broken by someone else's actions. He understands that, because of that, I can't give him all of me. He knows.
I pray that Michel ends up with a man like that; one that loves and respects her to no end;
We are broken. We are not whole. BUT GOD!!!
@@sarahburton2777 I am not remarried and the littles are with me full time. But it's the same situation here and exact emotions you described.
It kills me that it still stabs you after all these years and remarriage. I know for a fact that's how it will be for me too it's just how do I withstand that? The emotional toll it takes seems like it would do me in.
@@sarahburton2777 My four favorite words in His Word: "But God..." and "He knows" 💝💝
@@blueseptember2174 It definitely takes an emotional toll. You know what, though? It just means that we have loved deeply and with our whole hearts. It is more sad not to have been able to do that at all.
I pray that your heart will be healed. God does have some pretty strong super glue. lol
I’m Catholic and 32 who has never been married or divorced but I have my fair share of sins. But none of that matters because I’m a human and a woman and I support you because of that simple fact that we are all humans who want love and deserve acceptance. 🙌 Perfect timing in my life to find your channel!
I listened to your divorce story the day it went live and it was something that really stuck with me. It made me sad how much blame you put on yourself. As a former Christian that was raised thinking divorce was a sin, I think this makes people stay in situations that are harmful to themselves instead of living their best lives. I truly believe you did everything you could in that relationship and keeping it going wasn’t the best thing for you mentally, spiritually or physically. I’m so glad to see you thriving and living your best life now. There are so many more experiences in store for you in your next chapter!
Ehhhhh I say "no" to the sash. I like the "mystery" of your figure better than the "here is my waist". Also, you don't want to put your sister in the position of having to say no; at this point, as MOH, your job is to make everything easier for her.
As for those people DM-ing you: eff them, to put it bluntly. They're going to feel ridiculous once they watch the full story video. You did everything you could, and it wasn't your fault.
Wow it’s very telling how people can be so judgmental about a divorce that they knew nothing about!
You are a breath of fresh air. I really admire your strength throughtout this journey and things are only going to get better for you. 😊
Michel, you are so beautiful inside and out. You have helped so many young women. If someone doesn't want to be your friend because you are divorced, then they weren't a real friend in the first place.
….& old(ish) women. 😘
We are so proud of you Michel. You are so brave and carry yourself with such dignity and grace.
From a Christian perspective, I can say that there is no shame in getting a divorce and getting out of an abusive marriage, ESPECIALLY since the spouse cheated. Blessings to you and don't listen to other people's opinions on your life.
Prefer it without the sash as it can wrinkle more easily with it! But beautiful either way💕
Atheist here. I believe one should be good to themselves and others because we should lead with love. You led with love, for yourself, by exiting a relationship that no longer served your higher good. Human beings can enter into moral and spiritual contracts with others, with hope, commitment, and the best intentions. However, we cannot control someone else’s thoughts, feelings, or actions. When situations change, becoming toxic, please allow yourself permission to protect yourself; mind, body, spirit, and soul.
I left churches altogether. Why ? My 2 ex-husbands both lied and cheated. Christians usually only judge and exclude you. I am now still a believer, but not a receiver of the church’s bull crap, twisted “rules” that were made up by different interpretations. I only accept Christian friendships if they believe just like Michel does. Way to go to let people go ! It’s healthy and healing that way.
It makes me sad that other Christians can be so judgmental. It makes it harder for the rest of us to share Jesus with others.
Anyway, love you girl! Thanks for another great vlog. You are a sunshine in my life (and I'm sure you bless many others too).
For all the people that are going to say she shouldn’t get divorced or it’s not biblical, it actually is. He cheated on her and the Bible says that that is a totally valid reason for her to leave a marriage. I’m not saying that’s the only reason they got divorced but biblically it is her right to leave. God is working on something awesome for you Michel Love you and thank for what you do!!
THIS☝🏼❤️😊
Thank you, this is the comment I was looking for. People love to pick and choose verses they feel fit their argument and ignore the rest. So frustrating. Seems those people messaging her have ignored this mention in the Bible.
Not only that but if he wasn't actively trying to correct his mistakes & make the marriage work & just wanted to leave then that is not on her. And now just seeing the videos side by side Michel is in a much better place here!
Michel...not only do you look happier now, but so does Max!!! God bless you both!
i feel like the intro and the music that opened the video represents so well the gentleness and grace that you’ve shown in this season of your life, you’re such an inspiration
Thank you, sweet friend 🥹
I noticed the change in music too. I like it!
I loved the new intro!
I'm proud of you, Michel! You are a beautiful role model. Haters are going to hate. Love the dress with the sash. It looks more like a dress then a nightgown with it. ❤️
Are u kidding me... yeah she is beautiful but not a role model for sure ... and this ain't no hate for her but it's high Time to get over and done with the emotional torture .... she needs to get herself together go our there and live her best life ... instead of always thinking about what's lost ...
Always love your intros for your videos, especially the little montages. It's a lovely touch, you really welcome people into the video (and into your friend group)
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Michel - do not worry about those who were going to unfollow, unsubscribe you because you got divorced and dared to talk about it. Who are we to judge others? It really upsets me when people use religion to feel superior. I do not follow any organized religion but I follow the tenet of "being the best person I can be" and being kind to others.
No on the sash!! It is so beautiful without it!! Maybe the others will also want theirs off?
When you said ‘How are ya’ All I could say is ‘Not good, not good at all’ I’m crying my eyes out because of my partner and I’m watching your video as comfort, thank you for being there for me with your videos ❤️
@@rachelreynolds0430 Hey dear Rachel! ❤️ Unfortunately yes .. things were going really well for a few days and all of the sudden a fight again. I’m so emotional because I’m not a quitter and we still have such good times together. But sometimes I feel like he doesn’t fight as hard for me as I fight for him. It’s painful when you love someone so dearly but know that maybe you do need to call it quits 💔
sending you so much love. I'm so sorry you're having to go through this, and I know how that feels first hand. just remember your strength, your worth, and what you are wanting & okay with for the remainder of your life ❤️❤️
Sending so much love your way, friend. Wish I could give you a hug 🤍🤍
To all of those who wish to sit in judgement of Michel I would advise (as a 72 year old woman) to think very carefully before you comment.
Jesus said "Let he who is without sin cast the first stone". I hope with all my heart that you do not have to travel the road of divorce but you may and I'm sure that you would wish to be treated kindly should that arise. Life is difficult at the best of times let's treat each other kindly. What a world it would be if we could all just do that.
Best wishes Michel on your journey through life.
Gorgeous dress. Much better without the sash. And I would prefer a nude or tan shoe. The black is too harsh of a contrast. Either way you’ll look great!!
Agree about the shoe.
My grandfather is a pastor and has been since well before I was even thought about. He retired and then was asked to step in as an interim pastor. Someone at the church went around on a crusade to try to get him fired over being divorced and my grandmother being divorced. What they didn't know was my grandfather's first wife left him because of his calling to be a pastor and my grandmother's first husband left her with 8 kids because he didn't want the responsibility. It's sad that some so called Christian want to judge when it's not their place. You are no less of a Christian because of it and I don't believe God would want you stuck in that anyway when he has much better things in store for you.
Hold your head up high and be proud that you were strong enough to walk away from a toxic relationship. Being true to yourself is more important than worrying about other peoples judgements. Have peace in knowing your healing and becoming an amazing loving person ready to take on what the future holds.
A true Christian doesn't judge. Their lack of compassion is not welcome here. I love it when the trash takes itself out. You're amazing Michel x
You should feel at peace. Your journey and life is your own and no one's business to judge. Christian or not. It is your life you're walking through not someone else's. I know you share your life online publicly but it is not up to us to judge others. You are a positive role model for all women in my opinion. That's why I continue to watch you and why my teenage daughter watches you.
The montage at the beginning so beautiful to me and wholesome for some strange reason . The music selected helped 🤗
Ok being realistic, God is the only one who matters when your day of justice is there.....sooooo by unfollowing someone because there views aren't the same or whatever....what would that say about them?? You are an amazing human being. Someone who doesn't judge from what I've seen....I've said it before and ill say it again. You inspire me to be a better person...:-)
I think the dress looks better without the sash
It certainly was not your fault!! And it is not a sin. That is hogwash!! Some marriages are just not meant to be. Let it go. And you shouldn't judge someone else's situation you aren't in it, they are. You have so much strength for someone so young and have gone through what you did! Kudos for you!! You will be just fine woman. 🙂 blessings are coming your way for sure. Much love ❤️ 😍 💖 ❣️ 💕
That bridesmaid dress is actually beautiful withOUT the sash! I think that it sits perfectly on you
Love you, friend🤍 I actually love the dress without the sash, it compliments you so well and looks so pretty and classy for a wedding🥰
I am so sorry you received negative comments, especially from the Christian community. I am Christian and we can do so much better. Thank you for your honesty and authenticity.
What happened to “…judge not lest thou be judged…” ❣️❣️❣️🥰🥰🥰 Shake the haters off Michel.
Christian or not arent u not suppose to judge people if u claim ur a “good Christian”? Also if u wanna unfollow go ahead and do so but why do u feel the need to explain and say unnecessary things? M ur an amazing women . Keep doing u!!! Sending u lots of luv xoxo
I'm proud of you for getting a divorce. Because divorce is scary, but I think of it now as a gift. My life is so peaceful, simple, and full of joy since I left my emotionally and verbally abusive husband. Wishing you the best, be kind to yourself. ❤
It's crazy that some Christians believe divorce is wrong in all scenarios. If you believe God is good and just and loving, then you should also believe that God would want you to be free from emotional and/or physical abuse ❤️ that just feels like common sense!!
Your authenticity after leaving that relationship behind has really been shining through and I absolutely look forward to all your videos more so now than ever before. Stay strong and continue to grow within yourself. And thank you for opening up to us. Your videos are like a chat with an old friend and I love them!
I'm 60 and love tap and keep saying I'm going to check with the local dance club to see if they have an adult tap class!! I've never tapped but would love to cause it seems like so much fun!! I don't want to do any shows or anything you know that the kids have to spend rediculous money for costumes on though! I just want to dance!!! You rock Michel!! Keep being the sweet kind soul that you are, love you chick!!
Those who have “un-friended” you for sharing your journey back to a healthy life, mentally, physically and emotionally were never your friends. God bless you, Michel! You are so brave! 🙏🏼❤️🙏🏼
I am so surprised by the negative Christian comments you mentioned. The greatest commandment is love your neighbors but our human condition is to judge others. Thank you for your honesty and your strength. I really feel like you are helping so many with your story.
I am no longer a practicing Christian. I never will be again thanks to the hypocrisy , bigotry and sheer narcissism I have encountered amongst those who profess to follow Christ's teachings. I don't need to go to church to live a Christian life , I can be kind, loving and understanding as all true Christians should be. Anyone who is judging you because you have divorced is not worth your time and energy. It takes two to make a marriage work and if one is unwilling then divorce is the most sensible way to make sure you both end up happy and you will! Good luck !
Not religious. Yet I can see God seeing you as a good person. I would think God would disapprove of people being ugly. You did nothing wrong. Before judging YOU they should judge THEMSELVES. Most are probably just unhappy in their own lives.
You also need to remember that God doesn’t want you to be mistreated and miserable.
Michel- I’m in the same season of life as you. Went through a divorce as Christian who tried everything in her power to make a change, but had an unrepentant partner. You are a gem- and don’t let anyone else make you feel otherwise! Open the word of God and see how much He adores you.
Michel, I absolutely LOVE and adore your new wardrobe style. The jeans, silk cowl neck tank, and hair scarf outfit were IT!! So effortless looking and very feminine! Also, we are glad you shared your story. I know your ex being at peace with you sharing also gave you peace. I wish you all both the best and happiness in your separate journeys. Obviously being unfaithful is wrong and although all humans are flawed and it’s NO excuse for him, you have taken such a path of grace. Your future, whether you end up with the “sweet guy” or not lol, is brighter than ever and we can’t wait to join in on the happiness and fun!!! And random but just a little shout out to Max lol, he is adorable. When my ex and I split and I kept my dog you tend to get even more attached to them by your side and omg mine is my literal BABY, lol.
And also, what brand is your purse? Sorry for such a long comment
Thank you for this comment, you are so kind!!! The cross body bag? That one is free people 🥰🥰
You're a wonderful person and an inspiration to me, thank you for always spreading kindness like honey 🤍
Michel I love the dress that you are going to wear for your sister's wedding!! My personal thought on the sash I'd wear it for the reception but without the sash for the actual wedding. You look beautiful in it!! Without the sash you have a european goddess look!! Love seeing Max ❤️🐾. Prayers & Wishes Lisa Hampton 😃
Michel. I also love love your videos , just so well done and so honest. Thank you for sharing ♥️
Michel, you are such a beautiful soul! You can definitely see God’s work through your wisdom and grace. I have been binge watching your videos since I saw the first one. You’ve inspired me to want to achieve more in my life! Thank you for inviting us into your life💕 I feel like you are the best friend I never had. ❤️
I saw your divorce video and I can totally relate to you. I was in a marriage in which he cheated on me, more than once. I didn’t know until we separated. I never suspected it. I kept quiet about it on my Facebook because of how people judge. But then I watched the series Dirty John on Netflix and realized I had nothing to be ashamed of. I told my story and my Facebook friends were so supportive. I haven’t been able to date yet, 2 1/2 years later because of not knowing I can trust again. So, know you are not alone and anyone who would say bad things, are not your friends 💕😊
Your dress looks lovely, so I think the belt is unnecessary. It’s better without.
Seeing you cry made me cry. You are such a strong and beautiful human being, inside and out. I’m so sorry you had to go through all of that but know in my heart that your future holds only good and I can’t wait to see it all happen for you ✨
I’m a new subscriber. And I’m loving this! I went though the same thing I lost some Christian friends due to my divorce. Thank you for speaking about this. I feel better. GOD knows and sees it all. How great is his love! You are a beautiful woman that loves the lord and you will overcome this. My favorite scripture is Ruth 3:11 “And now my daughter do not fear.” I always say that scripture when I start to feel down. Loving this channel.
Who needs a therapist when you have almost 25,000 friends telling you how wonderful you are, giving advice, and lifting your spirits! Wow , you are THE woman !!, And a rock 🙆
While we could have all done things differently in a relationship, please know you are a strong person. It’s hard to walk away from a toxic relationship and you did it! What happened is not on you. Having left a physically and mentally abusive relationship myself I know how hard it is and have respect for what you achieved and how much you’ve grown. Hang in there!!!
At this point I think she keeps throwing the word ‘divorce’ in the title for views
Christian here and you did absolutely nothing wrong. You wanted to work things out and he did not. He cheated on you. You have absolutely nothing to be ashamed of or feel bad about. You gave it your all and he simply didn't want to stay and work on things as your partner. To those who left because you got a divorce, good riddens! They needed to go! You don't need them following you and their negativity. You have a loving following, who care about you and only want to support and love you. You don't need those few negative souls around here. We love you and support you and are cheering you on in this new chapter of your life! Thanks for being so real, genuine and vulnerable with us. We LOVE you Michel! ❤❤❤
You look beautiful in your bridesmaid dress!
I say no sash, but it look good either way
It is hard to be in a situation where one party is mentally out of the relationship. The Christian thing to do is where God leads you. So sorry karen or who ever that feels to demoralize you!!
Oh and without the Sash! ❤❤
I just heard the part about Christians not wanting to talk to you and I audibly gasped and am so sorry you're going through that. Wow, some Christians are assholes and please know I as a Christian support your decision to share. I am also super grateful for your testimony and how you've stayed close to God through it all. Also, IT IS TOTALLY BIBLICAL TO DIVORCE WHEN CHEATED ON!!!!!!!! Love you Michel!
You carry yourself with such grace and kindness, you should be so proud of yourself. This past year has shown that you are strong, brave and capable of so much love. Don't ever forget that 🤍
Love you, Ele 🥺🥰
I just found your channel this week and have watched a handful of your videos. I adore you and your content! I’m a Christian, as well. I’ve been through divorce and I know how judgmental other “Christians” can be. I am sorry you’ve experienced that. People get wrapped up in don’t do this, don’t do that...so much that they forget what a Christian is all about and that’s showing God’s love. You’re so full of grace and love. And for the record, none of what happened was your fault. God may not love divorce, but He also doesn’t want us staying in miserable, toxic situations. God wants the very best for you; never forget that. I’m sending you love and huge hugs! It does get easier-I promise♥️♥️♥️
You're so wonderful and there's a strength in vulnerability and change and you're doing not only so well but I feel you need the reminder you're doing your best. 🌻❤️
I love the intro to this video, it was calming 😌
I'm sorry about all the negative direct messages you have received. You don't deserve their judgement and disrespect. You are really strong and your community you have created, care and support you ❤️
Also, do you have any recommendations for a spa or tap dance studio in Southern California??
You are stunning either way but the sash is very you. Hugs!