It’s important to consider multiple perspectives in any situation. Let’s not hastily pass judgment on the family, as there are always two sides to a story. I find it difficult to fully trust the narrative of someone who engages in explicit content and negative commentary about their own family, portraying themselves as a perpetual victim for a wide audience. We can’t discount the possibility that mental health challenges or emotional disorders may play a role with this one.
I've read a book that said something like "We are all so broken. Pick up a person, shake them around and you'll hear the rattling of their broken pieces. Pieces our fathers broke, or our mothers, or our friends, strangers, or our loves." I can almost vividly hear rattles everytime she moves. But her rattles has rhythms and melodies.
pero I don't think na dito dapat pinopost sa youtube yung ganitong topic na one click away sa mga bata pwede kasi sila magkaidea, saka mas maganda kung after na lang niya magretire sa adult industry o nagkaron na siya ng enlightement saka ginawa yung interview, not a good role model or example yung mga ganito sa mga tao
Nakakaiyak.. I just said a prayer for her. She built a wall to protect herself, she projects herself as a very strong woman now but the inner child in her still cries out for love and acceptance . I pray that God will make a way for healing that comes from forgiving all that contibuted to her brokenness and hurt. God loves you, Salome.
I don't see Salome Salve here as an adult content creator in this interview. I saw her as a person who's vulnerable, honest and a strong independent individual. There's a lot of takeaways here. Kudos Toni Talks team!!
All I see in this vlog is not a p*rn star, but a crying, hurt kid who has gone through so much pain. I just realized na unconciously nagiging narcissistic minsan din ako sa mga kids ko, which I also don't want to happen. This vlog has given me so much realization as a parent. 🥺Kudos to the Toni Talks team! You're strong, smart, and beautiful, Salome. ❤️
Yung pain nya Yung pinaka nakikita ko sa mga mata nya. And I'm proud of her Kasi kinakaya nyang lumaban sa Araw Araw. Pero I do wish and hope na sana kahit man lang may magmahal sa kanya unconditionally.
Ay almost a losser, isa akong ina na binubully ang anak. Huhu nakakahurt. Feelings ng anak ko is same kay sal ngayon when she was a child. Lord patawarin mo ako sa mga kasalanan ko sa anak ko
This is the reason why we should not judge others because of what they're doing or what have they become, because everyone has going through something and has an inspiring story to tell.
The way she speaks tells us that she’s an intelligent person. Iba talaga ang tao sa likod ng camera. May you heal from all the traumas in life and sana maging ok kayo ng parents mo.
She's Not she just did the EASY way out. She validated her PORN by her past. yes she has a LOT of MONEY right now, but she is Lowest of the Low in terms of FEMININITY.
Parents nya NARCISSIST. Sya din narcissist. Kung ikaw po ang mkakasama nya sa bahay.Malalaman kung gaano kasama ang ugali ng narcissist. Or better do research for Narcissist person.
@@bing.martinez People are so oblivious to that fact. Porn is has literally satanic roots and it was founded by a satanist. This is a systematic way of damaging people’s morals and mentality. The fact that people are so desensitized and inclusive towards people who promote pornography or any kind of degeneracy is very disturbing. We are in a disturbing time where bad is being made good wherein people don’t even know how to decipher which is which. None of these people who are in my generation will ever wake up and have their own outlooks on things as long as it’s in line with the majority who are all brainwashed.
@@lIlIlIlIlI11-i7p agree and study shows na ang porn ay classified na kasing sama ng alcohol and drugs kasi nakaka-addict nga itu, sana malaman to ng sambayanang pilipino
Napaka matured at brainy ng mga commentators dito sa youtube .. bakit sa facebook ang babaw nila umintindi .. puro bash .. agrr! Brave and honest sal 🥰🥰
kasi doon sometimes, oftentimes lang ang vid. Alam mo naman may gumagawa ng reels na nakaw lang sa iba. They cut and stitch the vids and mislead people for the sake of comnents and reactions.
Bro. Bo said, "Every form of addiction is a great hunger for love and affection." May you heal from all the traumas that you've been through. You are beautiful Sal, and you are enough.❤
@user-gc4dq6im9mnagiging reason* it can lead kasi to lostness and confusion once a person suffered from traumatic experience and sometimes in order na ma heal yung trauma they would find something na magtatapal sa wounds and pain and those are things na akala natin ay tama kasi feeling natin natutulungan tayo nito mag heal.
She talked with Confidence and straight forward .. straight to the point without “KAPLASTIKAN”at walang “ KAHIPOKRITAHAN”…what you see is what you get person…Hindi Tulad ng iba…Plastic na Hipokrito pa.I Salute you Salome.🙏👍
As a 47 year old Mom, gusto kosya yakapin at iparamdam ang pagmamahal. I also grew up in a toxic family environment. I struggled a lot too when I was young, made bad decisions but I strived to get better each time I fall. I wish and pray for her happiness.
Narcissistic parents exists. Even time won’t be enough. Sabi nga nila dont expect them to change and don’t let your healing be dependent on their change. Chances are they won’t. Kasi wala silang mali. Be it as may the Filipino culture is not ready to let go of the narcissistic culture and victim-blaming.
Nakakarelate ako sayo.dahil katulad mo rin ako na may mga masasakit na naranasan nun kabataan at mga mali disisyon ako sa buhay.pero thankful ako ngayon kasi naging matapang ako ngayon dahil sa mga naranasan ko nun kabataan ko.
Bilang isang ina, this hits me hard. Napakaganda ng mensahe na itinuro sakin ng interview na ito. As parents, we are the inner voice of our children. Kung pano nila nakikita ang sarili nila is because of the voices they hear at home at kung papaano sila natin itrato.Hindi din naman ako perpekto bilang isang ina, but I can a hear a child telling me mom, all I need is a home where I can be accepted and be valued. Malaki talaga ang role ng magulang sa pagpapalaki ng kanilang mga anak at salamat Sal dahil naging Boses ka ng mga anak na takot sa judgement na kanilang maririnig sa magulang. Bilang isa na ding magulang mas magiging accountable ako sa mga words na I utter ko saking anak. Malaki ang epekto ng bawat kilos at salita nating mga magulang sakanilang paglaki. Napakatapang mo iha! Walang sino man ang dapat na humusga sa kapwa dahil lamang sa nakikita sa panlabas. She is an iceberg! I'll keep you in my prayers, anak!
@momoftwinsLR I agree with you.. Especially when your kids are opening up to you.. coz I grew up experiencing the same way as Sal my Father never treated me like one of his kids he never felt proud even though I excel at school I grew up being a good person I'm now 30 but it's eating me I have this pain I'm carrying day in and out but it's true I'm the one parenting myself coz even my own mother she listen to me but not really listening.. I just lift it all up to god whenever I felt so down, so lonely and alone..
Toni is a good listener, she just listen and ask questions about the feeling that catched the inner core of Salome , no judgements and empathy is there.
napaka totoo ng emotion ni Salome, yung lumalabas sa bibig nya, yung pain. Maganda ka Salome, hindi man naappreciate ng iba pero yung kabutihan ng puso mo sumisingaw sa pagkatao mo .
I appreciate Toni for being so professional in dealing with topics like this which is taboo to others and of course salomi for being brave enough to open herself and share the prospective of herself...
Thank you for this interview. It really is a wake up call for us parents to be careful with our words and a conscious effort to cut the vicious cycle of violence. Even if we are broken ourselves doesn’t mean our children have to, They deserve all the kindness and validation in this world. May God heal you, Salome.
@@hotdogcheese1975 It is easy to say na "choice nia pa rin gumawa ng mali kasi may sarili syang isip" but sa pag iisip ng taong may trauma, lahat ng naiisip nila is mali at naja justify din ng sarili nilang isip. Yung tama at mali sa kanila is laging may justification kung ano gagawin nila. If mali ang ginagawa nila, ija justify lang din nila to. Kaya di natin pwede sabihin kung ano ang tama at mali sa kanila kasi iba ang brain structure ng may trauma.
Growing up with a Narcissistic mother would really destroy your self confidence. It’s a trauma that I carry until now. Every human has a story why they end up that way. It’s easy to judge but I always remind myself that there’s a deeper reason why that person is living that way. Now that I have a son, I don’t want my trauma to be pass on to him. I pray for Salome to find true love in the right path. Pray that she realizes that her way of seeking validation and love now will eventually destroy her.
I did nothing but cry while watching this. I can relate because I too have a narcissistic mother. I grew up to be a "bad person" because of the bad things that I heard her say in front of other people. And now that she's paraplegic and blind, she obliged me to take care of her..THE AUDACITY OF THAT WOMAN!!!
I dont thing so,kung positive maging outcome,..pano yung respect?..respect is earned not given nga..kahit mag move on ka pa sa industry na yan..yung tingin sayo iba...kung tayo maintindihan man natin sitwasyon nya..sa karamihan nega yan..end up in bullying yan..dami nag suicide na mga pornstar kaya
@@vladimirsintin821 if she will be spiritually awakended, the outcome will be positive. She will not need the respect of other people because Jesus respects her and that is all that matters, kahit nega ang karamihan.
Binigyan tayo ng utak para mag isip ng positibo sa negatibong hinaharap..sa kanyang sitwasyon wala syang diyos...fame and vanity eventually lust..excuses palagi,dadahilan pa,iba nga mas worst pa..
I really like that toni let her talk No judgments. A lesson to parents: love your children, do not be a bully, protect them, it can make a huge difference when they grow up.
It's true that the first trauma of a person starts at home. I too have the same household, from child up to now I was continuously bullied. But I just let them, what's important is that I have "GOD" that provides me unconditional love.
Hindi sana namuhay na parang prostitute anak nila. Sobrang laking sampal sa mukha nila yan...grabeng kahihiyan na mapanood ng mga kmag anak, kaibigan nila ang mga kabastusang ginagawa ng anak nila. Kung may anak akong ganyan di na siguro ko lalabas ng bahay. 😢
hindi ako iyaking tao pero god grabe please heal this person. She deserved to be loved! Napaka brave ng taong to para kayanin lahat ng pagsubok sa buhay nya.
Yes, she needs prayer so God would change her life and get away with her porn content or being a pornstar. Like what God has written in the Bible, I came not for the saved but for the sinners. God loves the sinners also who repented and accepted our Father God and Lord Jesus Christ as our God and personal savior. God said, "if you follow my words, you are my disciple indeed. You shall know the truth and the truth will set you free."
This story really made me cry, she seems to be so intelligent, the way she talks, her hand gestures and everything, she’s worth knowing. I admire her for being so strong and for making me realized that yes it’s true, i’m the only one who can parent myself. Want more from u Sal 🥺
parang umabot na lang po sya sa point na she is always seeking for attention para mafeel nyang maganda sya at gusto nya yung hinahangaan sya kahit in a sexual way lang😢 nakaka relate ako kc naexperience ko rin yan. yung sarili mong parents di ka maappreciate kaya ang ginawa ko palagi akong papansin sa ibang tao, proving my worth. pero at the end, sarili ko rin lang pala ang magmamahal saken. kaya totoo yan na mahalin na lang ang sarili para maging masaya ka. wag mag ask ng validation sa ibang tao😢
tsaka yung natuto na lang din ako sarilihin ang problema at never na nagsasabi sa parents ko dahil imbes na makatulong, dinadown ka pa at nagagaslight😅
Girl, ramdam kita. Same toxic household experience. Up until now I'm still figuring things out in my life and luckily, I have someone that stands by my side to love me for who I am. I am slowly learning to love myself and learning how to be strong on my own. From my experience, I had reconnected, but only got disappointed, so don't get your hopes up. For me, they will NEVER change. Yung akala mo nagbago na, pero pinaplastic ka lang pala. Yung kilalang kilala mo na sila na in the back of their mind ALAM MO na madami pa'din silang sinasabing masasakit sayo. Na kahit anong acting gawin nila sa harap mo na "nagbago na sila", their whole being couldn't keep up the facade. Just continue doing what you're doing and in the end, you will figure everything out and you will finally be okay. We will be. 🙏❤️
True. It's that feeling you get when Toni genuinely understands and empathizes with Salome, but you can still see the side of her wishing she would connect with Christ someday.
I am crying the entire interview, so much respect for this girl. People broke her so much. I wanna hug her and tell her that she is beautiful inside and out. I cannot judge her, and why she chose her work. All I can do is pray for her that someday, she will get all the love, respect, joy she deserves and that she’ll be whole again.
It was such an honor to hear you speak yourself. Many were not able to survive what you have gone through. You are definitely so strong and deserving of every single thing that your heart desires. Continue making a movement to achieve the greater life you ambition. I am so proud of you! P.s. I am wonderstruck with how smart and well spoken you are. You are so diverse and well aware. It's nice to know that people like you exist.
Can we all pause and appreciate Toni’s studio. It is so calm. It is Like a perfect comfort zone for everyone to make tambay and share their heavy hearts with each other.
Yung likod lang maganda eh di ka naman mapapatingin sa likod kung ikaw yung iniinterview sa harap nyan blank space na madilim at may mga tao may cameraman may tripod may mga lights ano kalmado don 🤣
@@digitalstories2179 so much to tell in this comment. You're probobly one that is not open minded and has this fake personality where deep inside you is an addict of porn video.
After watching this, I sensed an urge to pray for her. I can see the purity of her heart as a person, but was tarnished by broken people around her as a child. I felt compassion. The pain that her parents gave her as a child, and the unforgiveness in her heart right now - I know that Jesus has the power to heal her. The affirmation that she didn't get from her parents, she's now getting from the world. There's always a story behind every person's belief and perspective, and her story is one of those worth listening to.
@@lah_bang2179She studied and graduated Bachelor in Fine Arts - major in Painting. Same here . We Artists not Tamad! I myself work hard and living abroad helping family back home. The purpose of this Vlogs is to really educate people like you. i hope you listen, and learn .❤❤❤❤
Hindi ako nabastusan sa interview natoh.Promise... Nakita ko yung isang babaeng intelligent, strong, broken due to childhood trauma, satisfied with her current situation and learning to love herself. Virtual hug to you Sal. Kudos Ms. Toni❤❤ More of this topic please
Ignore na lang natin yung s*xual harrassment na ginawa ni Salome Salvi, pati pagsabi na okay sa minors magpic/video ng n*des. Genuine at straightforward naman. /s
toni talks talaga ung ayaw ko palagpasin dito sa youtube... daming word of wisdom, daming learning, daming tears, daming laugh, ibat ibang tao, stories, situations, pains, happiness pero lahat may mapupulot ka talagang aral... thanks for enlightenment... God bless us all .. ❤❤❤❤
"I need to parent myself". Your words pierced me and resonated with me. Salome, thank you for bravely sharing your story. You are beautiful! Believe that! Keep dreaming, loving yourself, it's a process but eventually you'll get there! Like I did and many others. Sending you a tight virtual hug!🥰
THAT IS HER SIDE OF THE STORY, I'M SURE HER PARENTS HAVE OWN SIDE OF THE STORY, MAY MASASAMANG ANAK DIN SA BAWAT PAMILYA AT PAG NAPARIWARA I BLAME PA SA PARENTS
@@Jack-gw3ze Actually my point ka din, minsan kasi my mga anak na feeling nila di sila mahalaga kaya napapariwara, feeling nila lahat mali sila at feeling nila wala na silang ginawang tama, matalino xa at ng aral xa sa magandang school, so di pa rin xa pinabayaan ng parents nya, siguro di lng ng mamatch ang ugali nya at ugali ng parents nya kaya ganyan ang nanyari. Baka my mga kailangan xa na di maibigay ng parents nya kaya need nya kumita ng sarili nyang pera. Or baka di lang naipakita ng parents nya na mahalaga xa kasi feeling nya kulang xa. Hayssst ang hirap ng ganyan.
Thank you Toni Talks for using your platform as the voice of reason. Your non- discriminatory format is a window of chances and opportunities for your guests as amazing warriors of life and love. You, Toni, your show and your team are awesome! My prayers!
You heard the side of Salome, we better hear also the side of her parents!!! Just a simple calling Panget to her when she was young, yun ang pinopoint out nya na reason kaya sira ang buhay nya ngayon, Napakababaw, I'm a parent also, not perpect, nobody is perfect but we should try to ve good as much as we can, pero in reality may masasamang anak talaga
@@Jack-gw3ze luh te kung ang isip mo sa lahat ng bagay is "Napaka-babaw" sana hindi mafeel ng anak mo na iniinvalidate mo yung simple at mababaw na reasons. Hopefully, you'll be a better parent.
@@Jack-gw3ze I applauded the show and the team that works behind it. The comment did not target the guest or the people behind the story. Instead, it was you who made a spite out of the story shared.
@@legalillegally6508 The bigger picture is that, as babe kahit anong ganda mo, talino mo, kung binenta mo katawan mo negative kana sa lalaki. Swerte nlang kung meron.
Her past made her strong. She went through a lot and carried a heavy burden of hatred. It's understandable to feel this way, given her experiences. Salome, you deserve love, understanding, and support. It's okay to seek help and take steps towards healing. 🙏🏻
@@Jack-gw3zegrabe ka naman po. Im sure that pok pok na sinasabi mo im sure di nila ginusto yun they are force to do it for money or whatever reason they have.
I saw it dofferently..i still believe in the sanctity of sexual intercourse---that sex is only for couples who are in marriage.... She did as revenge...not good.
Am a father, while listening to her stories, tears flowed on the eyes. Not that I pitied her. I just loved how strong she is. But I know, inside her is so precious and delicate. So loved Salome! You will achieved your dreams. You are still very young… You are in the right path of first, learning to love yourself so as that you can love someone back. And be happy! ❤❤❤❤❤
The adverse childhood experience within this beautiful soul. This makes her who she is right now. Strong character emerging through each words and the analysis of each situations she's been in but very empathetic even after the traumas. Nobody can break her even if you try. What a woman.
Now I deeply understand why Salome is in that kind of situation. Her roots speaks a lot about herself. I admire her strength and courage to speak up about what she had gone through. I hope she can seek refuge with God for complete healing and forgiveness.
If you see Salome as a descent person, then you're judging her as a descent person, if you see her as a garbage and immoral person you are judging her too
Ampangit kung puro negative ang tingin mo sa parents mo, pero buong video interview na ito, wala man lang inamin itong si Salome na kaya ganun trato sa kanya ay maari marami din siyang mali. Pokpok
Hindi ko talaga sya nakitaan ng isang malaswang bagay sa pagkatao niya, her intelligence grabe, napanganga talaga ako when she speaks, nadadala ako sa story niya. She deserves LOVE and RESPECT...
Everyone deserves Love and Respect but do you think doing s-x working is our Maker's commandment? And it doesn't mean that if a person is well verse in English speaking and graduate in college is better than a farmer on the mountain. If only farmers can speak English like Salome does, then maybe you will also listen. Remember always that the enemy of our Maker is also well verse in every topic and a manipulator. I dont hate Salome and nobodys perfect and that includes me, but i dont think being in pornHub or s-x working is good for a person specially in the eyes of our Maker. I wish her peace and prosperity in other way and not as a s-x worker.
Lol so many wannabe saints here, as if all of you are so clean that even god will be ashamed to touch you. None of you hypocrites have a say to what god wants and doesnt want. We will all see our maker and only he will judge us whether we are worthy of his salvation or not.
@@arween9083But you know what is right and wrong. You don't need god to even realize being a sex worker is disrespecrful to oneself, unhealthy and not right. It is illegal.
buti sya di sya pinush ng magulang nyang mag work s gnyn or mag hostess.. ako halos ibenta nko pra lang till now i still trying to be better pero kda maaalala mo na wla ka malapitan tym na gsto mo sumbong muntik kna gahsain ng kuya mo sbra hirap mag isa mong lahat pain nayun . nkktkot magsbe s iba kasi akala drama drama ka
She's an adult and not a child anymore,she's responsible for whatever she's doing to her body!We cannot blame her family anymore sa mga ginagawa nya ngayon,gusto nya yan coz of easy money and/pleasure!I pity her parents and siblings more than her!!
Yeah if you want to be a hoe, be a hoe. Nobody's business to tell anyone what to do but prepare for the consequences. Dont expect quality men coming to you if your background was like that.
The way she talks, you can definitely see that she is an intelligent woman. I feel the pain of Ms Toni when she was teary eyed coz Toni knew that she’s really in pain from her childhood trauma.
spot on topic sa mas maayus na paggabay sa anak habang bata ,sa paglaki nila hanggang sa pagtanda na pagmamahal natin bilang magulang ang huhubog sa knila ,atensyong totoo,pangaral na walang sawa at higit sa lahat ipalapit ang mga anak natin sa Diyos.
"I can only imagine how difficult it must be for you to have experienced something that would make you feel the need to apologize on behalf of your parents. As a parent myself, I want to extend my deepest empathy and apologize on their behalf."
This is an eye opening to all parents that what you do or say especially negative words like cursing, belittling or ruining their confidence affects your child. Their environment molds them so to all new parents who grew up to a traumatic home, I hope you do your best not to let your child grow to that negative environment. To the parents who are wondering why is my son/daughter like that , I just want to say this that "THEY GOT IT FROM YOU, THATS WHAT YOU TAUGHT THEM". PLEASE HEAL YOUR INNER CHILD/SELF.
This is very true. I wish it’s easy to break it but it’s hard , the traumatic/ toxic chain is too much. I’ve been trying harder to break it for 3 years now. Still trying up today😭 😢😢😢😢
It all boils down from how she was reared, her environment, punong puno siya ng galit and her strength is just at the surface I hope she finds healing… masyado maikli ang panahon sana magkapatawaran na sila.. 😔
I love how Toni understands and respects everything without judgement. Knowing that they have different beliefs and grew up in a totally different world❤️
I was one of the people who judges a person like her but when I listen about her story, it breaks me to think that we should not have been that close minded. We are after all been broken and have been carrying different traumas and struggles. Thank you Miss Salome for sharing your story. And kudos to Miss Toni to tackle and have an open mind about this.
I don’t see her as an adult content creator, I’m Seeing salome here as a person who is brave, strong and vulnerable women who can make a difference in the lives of others. Sharing her story to the public will help others to understand her story and struggles.❤❤
Her story is the true meaning of "DON'T JUDGE THE BOOK BY ITS COVER".. I'm feeling her childhood pain. Now her expressing her feelings in this way we may think as negative but we have different ways to handle our demons.
Ano na ulit childhood pain nya??? Calling her Ugly??? HHAHAHA napaka babaw, Im sure her parents are hurt that she ended up being a pokpok, first of all pinapag tapos yan ng College ng parents nya
If one has faith and believe in God then you will always choose the right decision, otherwise, you will just choose what makes you happy and not everything that makes you happy is the right decision.We try to live a life that is pleasing to God. Its not easy but if you have faith then everything will make sense Young people think they will never get old. It's still your choice what story you'd want to tell your future grandchildren. We are all sinners, but let's do something to correct our own mistakes.
This episode is not about sex, it's about broken parents who broke their own daughter, now struggling to deal with her brokenness hoping to become whole again. Can an unwholesome world of porn make her whole? Or did she enter a dazzling trap that will eventually crush both body & soul?
Grabe I shed tears to her when she said” I need to parent myself” 😢😢😢nakaka sad naman, I realised that I am so lucky that I have my parents with me growing up.
I am happy for you na galing kayo sa healthy family. Ako family ko galing sa toxic neglectful family tapos napasa Samin yun toxicity. Then naka encounter ako ng narcissist. Akala ko normal yung mistreatment kasi iyon yung kinamulatan ko. Ngayon ini rereparent ko ang sarili ko para hindi ko na mapasa yung trauma sa susunod na descendants namin.
@@dylanoracle3742 yes we have a healthy family but sometimes may misunderstanding talaga but anyhow we are family and that's what I'm so thankful for the Lord. About naman your life, don't be discourage now that you're grown up you have many choices in life kung ano tatahakin mo wag mo na iparanas sa magiging family mo ang dinanas mo when you were a kid kase it's now our responsibility as an adult to manage our path.
You know what I really like about her is she's a good speaker. You know from the heart that she's educated. A self made well mannered person. Keep it up girl! 🔥
First time I saw Toni bending down and tearing up out of deep conversations with a very unique person showing us a different perspective. I love that this interview was all about listening and not giving feedback on what she does. For as long as it makes her happy, just continue to be yourself, Salome.
i'm crying while watching this because i've been dealing with family issues, trauma and body dysmorphia till now. i love you ate salome you deserve the world.
My heart is crying for her! 😭 May this prayer reach you. May you experience freedom that you won’t ever experience from people who have hurt you or in this world. Prayed for you Salome! 🙏🏻
It's actually a great topic, an eye-opener for parents and would-be parents. If you have that narcissistic trait, you'd better think twice about becoming parents. She is so brave to share her stories.💪👏👏👏
I was really touched by Ms. Salvi's story & it reminded me to accept more, embrace more & love more unconditionally my three lovely & adorable daughters.. thank you also to Ms. Toni for sharing this short, but meaningful talk & interview, because it served as a wake-up call for those parents who can't fully evade from having such favouritism, accept & love unconditionally their children.. i pray 🙏 for Ms. Salvi's life, her complete healing (from her father & mother wounds) inside & out..
Ms. Toni, please inform Sal that we are praying for her. Her story is worth telling and a lot of lessons can be learned fro parents like us. Thank you for your platform Ms.Toni.
Naiinis ako na this is just a 20-minute video. Sobrang bitin. Ang daming learning kay Sal. Thank you, Sal and Ms. Toni for this wisdom-filled interview.
Sorry.. pero awa at lungkot ang nararamdaman ko para sa kanya, hindi wisdom. There’s nothing wise about getting the attention that you crave through sex work.
@@jesssc402 Of course, it's always easy to speak and point things out. Pero if you carefully observe, sex work was really not the problem to begin with, sex work was just the outcome of everything she experienced. We didn't grow in the same household, we have different upbringings, different situations, so we will have varieties of responses and reactions. Also, wisdom can come from all sorts-sizes, shapes, and colors. I think you just chose not to see them, perhaps decided ka na to just pity her and just look at her in her present situation.
I appreciate her courage to share her story. This is a realization how important for a kid to feel loved, heard, and respected.
I can't agree more
I agree❤
I feel guilty. Sometimes i said mean words to my kids when im mad 😢 sorry Lord 🙏😔
It’s important to consider multiple perspectives in any situation. Let’s not hastily pass judgment on the family, as there are always two sides to a story. I find it difficult to fully trust the narrative of someone who engages in explicit content and negative commentary about their own family, portraying themselves as a perpetual victim for a wide audience. We can’t discount the possibility that mental health challenges or emotional disorders may play a role with this one.
@@mrbroadcastcy i agree her videos are so good
I've read a book that said something like "We are all so broken. Pick up a person, shake them around and you'll hear the rattling of their broken pieces. Pieces our fathers broke, or our mothers, or our friends, strangers, or our loves." I can almost vividly hear rattles everytime she moves. But her rattles has rhythms and melodies.
I love this
I love this
Broken society equals broken individuals
😢❤
I want to read that book
Sex talk should not be a taboo topic, glad Toni did this
Yeah, I like tony kasi parang alang judgement sa kanya
pero I don't think na dito dapat pinopost sa youtube yung ganitong topic na one click away sa mga bata pwede kasi sila magkaidea, saka mas maganda kung after na lang niya magretire sa adult industry o nagkaron na siya ng enlightement saka ginawa yung interview, not a good role model or example yung mga ganito sa mga tao
@@lbj9023 i tried to access this in my little sister accounts naka restrict daw
@@lbj9023 at sa puntong ito dito na po papasok ang role ng magulang and adults to guide, monitor, listen and explain well sa youngsters.
@@lbj9023sa America nga napaka open nila when it comes to sex . Also there’s a certain age na pwede na I open sa bata .
Nakakaiyak.. I just said a prayer for her. She built a wall to protect herself, she projects herself as a very strong woman now but the inner child in her still cries out for love and acceptance . I pray that God will make a way for healing that comes from forgiving all that contibuted to her brokenness and hurt. God loves you, Salome.
Very well said. What she needs is understanding and not hate.
achuchu 😂😂
I don't see Salome Salve here as an adult content creator in this interview. I saw her as a person who's vulnerable, honest and a strong independent individual. There's a lot of takeaways here. Kudos Toni Talks team!!
@@lastsaint4162she has emotional, psychological and sociological issues.. porn will not solve those.
I saw her as a lazy ass.
paano niya ni look down? I dont think they were hating judging from their comment@@lastsaint4162
Wow!! What an episode! Toni did it well. Salome is bright, articulate and strong woman.
i love salome how she felt the diction about herself.
i love how toni a listener in her struggles
All I see in this vlog is not a p*rn star, but a crying, hurt kid who has gone through so much pain. I just realized na unconciously nagiging narcissistic minsan din ako sa mga kids ko, which I also don't want to happen. This vlog has given me so much realization as a parent. 🥺Kudos to the Toni Talks team! You're strong, smart, and beautiful, Salome. ❤️
Ako din..bakit ganun parang nakangiti sya pero malungkot tlga sya😢
Hahaha
Yung pain nya Yung pinaka nakikita ko sa mga mata nya. And I'm proud of her Kasi kinakaya nyang lumaban sa Araw Araw. Pero I do wish and hope na sana kahit man lang may magmahal sa kanya unconditionally.
Not pain.. but very strong and smart woman
Ay almost a losser, isa akong ina na binubully ang anak. Huhu nakakahurt. Feelings ng anak ko is same kay sal ngayon when she was a child. Lord patawarin mo ako sa mga kasalanan ko sa anak ko
This is the reason why we should not judge others because of what they're doing or what have they become, because everyone has going through something and has an inspiring story to tell.
Kung mayroon man akong magiging ate na ganyan ang trabaho pornstar ikakahiya ko yon ulo hanggang paa
That inner child
You handle your situation with care..dont end like this,..respect is earned not given...
Have faith always..
Nahhh its Situational.
May mga situations at mga tao na deserve to be judged and ridiculed.
We are either healing our inner child or breaking generational trauma. Big hug to you Sal for being happy.
Toni is living proof na you can have different values in life pero di mo kelangan mag marunong palagi para i-correct ang iba. Thank you, Toni G. ❤
@@vf2929 kayo nalang mag host, panoorin namin ha
Values na pala ang Porn industry
@@princesspink wag makialam lalo nat wala kang krapatan. kanya2x uy..
@@chuscradle7392 💯💯💯
Super salute to Toni G 💖
The way she speaks tells us that she’s an intelligent person. Iba talaga ang tao sa likod ng camera. May you heal from all the traumas in life and sana maging ok kayo ng parents mo.
She's Not she just did the EASY way out. She validated her PORN by her past. yes she has a LOT of MONEY right now, but she is Lowest of the Low in terms of FEMININITY.
She is a UP graduate.
@@spanishdancer6221 But she opted to be a OnlyFans worker
Parents nya NARCISSIST.
Sya din narcissist.
Kung ikaw po ang mkakasama nya sa bahay.Malalaman kung gaano kasama ang ugali ng narcissist.
Or better do research for Narcissist person.
VERY ACCURATE very straight MATALINO PERIOD
She’s so articulate, so well spoken i can listen to her all day.
Napakinggan ko siya sa podcast, nag guest siya. i like to hear her talk
She speaks her mind halos lahat totoo naman ,she worked on her mental health , so Hindi plastic, derecho lang
ang baba kasi ng tingin mo sa kanya kaya nagulat ka articulate pala sya. dibah teh?
Yahhhh… but Without wisdom at all
@@Carl0Ramirez Relax. You're losing it.
Girl, you are very strong, i hope one day you heal all your trauma, find peace and fully love yourself. You are enough❤
Ito na yata yung pinaka matalino mong guest na ang image ay negative sa iba pero napaka positive ng mga sinasabi..wish u the best miss salome..
☕️☕️
Get her out of porn because porn ruins people
@@bing.martinez People are so oblivious to that fact. Porn is has literally satanic roots and it was founded by a satanist. This is a systematic way of damaging people’s morals and mentality. The fact that people are so desensitized and inclusive towards people who promote pornography or any kind of degeneracy is very disturbing. We are in a disturbing time where bad is being made good wherein people don’t even know how to decipher which is which. None of these people who are in my generation will ever wake up and have their own outlooks on things as long as it’s in line with the majority who are all brainwashed.
@@bing.martinezThat's her job😢
@@lIlIlIlIlI11-i7p agree and study shows na ang porn ay classified na kasing sama ng alcohol and drugs kasi nakaka-addict nga itu, sana malaman to ng sambayanang pilipino
Napaka matured at brainy ng mga commentators dito sa youtube .. bakit sa facebook ang babaw nila umintindi .. puro bash .. agrr! Brave and honest sal 🥰🥰
sa RUclips kasi more open ang maa tao sa kanilang comments because mas confidential o puede I tago yung identity mo unlike fb
deep and broad minded
yes pero choice nya yu.. now 😊
Kaya mas gusto ko magbasa ng mga comments dito e.❤
kasi doon sometimes, oftentimes lang ang vid. Alam mo naman may gumagawa ng reels na nakaw lang sa iba. They cut and stitch the vids and mislead people for the sake of comnents and reactions.
Bro. Bo said, "Every form of addiction is a great hunger for love and affection." May you heal from all the traumas that you've been through. You are beautiful Sal, and you are enough.❤
Bo Sanchez?
Yes U are BEAUTIFUL ma'am!👏👏👏👏👏👏
Sal Jesus loves you so much.
@user-gc4dq6im9mnagiging reason* it can lead kasi to lostness and confusion once a person suffered from traumatic experience and sometimes in order na ma heal yung trauma they would find something na magtatapal sa wounds and pain and those are things na akala natin ay tama kasi feeling natin natutulungan tayo nito mag heal.
She talked with Confidence and straight forward .. straight to the point without “KAPLASTIKAN”at walang “ KAHIPOKRITAHAN”…what you see is what you get person…Hindi Tulad ng iba…Plastic na Hipokrito pa.I Salute you Salome.🙏👍
Diwow. Immoral na babae idol mo.
I felt her when she said, "it's now up to me to parent myself and that is the hardest thing that I've had to do for myself."
As a 47 year old Mom, gusto kosya yakapin at iparamdam ang pagmamahal. I also grew up in a toxic family environment. I struggled a lot too when I was young, made bad decisions but I strived to get better each time I fall. I wish and pray for her happiness.
Narcissistic parents exists. Even time won’t be enough. Sabi nga nila dont expect them to change and don’t let your healing be dependent on their change. Chances are they won’t. Kasi wala silang mali. Be it as may the Filipino culture is not ready to let go of the narcissistic culture and victim-blaming.
@@GrahmSumm So pag pinagpapalo ka ng nanay mo mag porn ka na? stop this bs... nagpapa victim lang yan.. its all because of money...
Bless this lady oh Lord,she needs your love.i just want to hug her and tell her that she deserves to be loved.
😢😢
Nakakarelate ako sayo.dahil katulad mo rin ako na may mga masasakit na naranasan nun kabataan at mga mali disisyon ako sa buhay.pero thankful ako ngayon kasi naging matapang ako ngayon dahil sa mga naranasan ko nun kabataan ko.
Bilang isang ina, this hits me hard. Napakaganda ng mensahe na itinuro sakin ng interview na ito. As parents, we are the inner voice of our children. Kung pano nila nakikita ang sarili nila is because of the voices they hear at home at kung papaano sila natin itrato.Hindi din naman ako perpekto bilang isang ina, but I can a hear a child telling me mom, all I need is a home where I can be accepted and be valued. Malaki talaga ang role ng magulang sa pagpapalaki ng kanilang mga anak at salamat Sal dahil naging Boses ka ng mga anak na takot sa judgement na kanilang maririnig sa magulang. Bilang isa na ding magulang mas magiging accountable ako sa mga words na I utter ko saking anak. Malaki ang epekto ng bawat kilos at salita nating mga magulang sakanilang paglaki. Napakatapang mo iha! Walang sino man ang dapat na humusga sa kapwa dahil lamang sa nakikita sa panlabas. She is an iceberg! I'll keep you in my prayers, anak!
+1
Praying for healing, Sal 💜 You are worthy. You are loved.
And as a parent, I learned very early never to dismiss my kids’ emotions and stories. And her story is a testament to it.
Never dismissed kids emotion. Kung Mali na Ang emotion pinapakita Ng anak mo. dapat responsibility Ng magulang na dismissed Yung Mali.
Parang lang ganito. Alam mo lason Yung iinumin nya eh gusto nya inumin. Kahit mag-tantrum Yung Bata Hindi mo papainum Yung nakakasama sa kanya
@momoftwinsLR I agree with you.. Especially when your kids are opening up to you.. coz I grew up experiencing the same way as Sal my Father never treated me like one of his kids he never felt proud even though I excel at school I grew up being a good person I'm now 30 but it's eating me I have this pain I'm carrying day in and out but it's true I'm the one parenting myself coz even my own mother she listen to me but not really listening.. I just lift it all up to god whenever I felt so down, so lonely and alone..
As a parents dapat may principle ka , kung wala kang principle wag kana mag anak, baka ma wrong direction pa
@@kalilsarmel3569 parents must be parents. Parents are not friends that tolerate bad behavior.
Toni is a good listener, she just listen and ask questions about the feeling that catched the inner core of Salome , no judgements and empathy is there.
At very on point talaga yung mga question nya
Caught, also judgment is part of your brain lol
napaka totoo ng emotion ni Salome, yung lumalabas sa bibig nya, yung pain. Maganda ka Salome, hindi man naappreciate ng iba pero yung kabutihan ng puso mo sumisingaw sa pagkatao mo .
I appreciate Toni for being so professional in dealing with topics like this which is taboo to others and of course salomi for being brave enough to open herself and share the prospective of herself...
Projecting as a strong person outside but in reality she's broken into a thousand pieces inside. She needs to heal. Praying for her redemption.
Agree
101% agree!! Everything she's saying & showing us are just "front"--- it's pretty obvious that deep down this girl is so broken & still hurting!
Amen
mali prin ung self love na nahanap nya😢😢
@@andresmigueldecastro194 let her be. she's already happy.
Thank you for this interview. It really is a wake up call for us parents to be careful with our words and a conscious effort to cut the vicious cycle of violence. Even if we are broken ourselves doesn’t mean our children have to, They deserve all the kindness and validation in this world. May God heal you, Salome.
Dba choice niya pa din gumawa ng mali despite the harsahip or of Fucked your life may be?
1 timothy 2 :11-12
your god is #fakenews
Well said po
@@hotdogcheese1975 mali as defined by what or whom?
@@hotdogcheese1975 It is easy to say na "choice nia pa rin gumawa ng mali kasi may sarili syang isip" but sa pag iisip ng taong may trauma, lahat ng naiisip nila is mali at naja justify din ng sarili nilang isip. Yung tama at mali sa kanila is laging may justification kung ano gagawin nila. If mali ang ginagawa nila, ija justify lang din nila to. Kaya di natin pwede sabihin kung ano ang tama at mali sa kanila kasi iba ang brain structure ng may trauma.
Growing up with a Narcissistic mother would really destroy your self confidence. It’s a trauma that I carry until now. Every human has a story why they end up that way. It’s easy to judge but I always remind myself that there’s a deeper reason why that person is living that way. Now that I have a son, I don’t want my trauma to be pass on to him. I pray for Salome to find true love in the right path. Pray that she realizes that her way of seeking validation and love now will eventually destroy her.
I can really relate to you
May all these prayers for Salome be heard.. May she be led to the right relationship that lasts -- with God...
I did nothing but cry while watching this. I can relate because I too have a narcissistic mother. I grew up to be a "bad person" because of the bad things that I heard her say in front of other people. And now that she's paraplegic and blind, she obliged me to take care of her..THE AUDACITY OF THAT WOMAN!!!
Yeah right
yes sad but true i grew up being bullied by my own family.
She speaks for a thousand people who experienced the same way as she did. I salute you Sal for being brave and for winning life by your own.❤
You're in pain, which is why you chose that outlet, and I admire your courage. Someday, you'll heal and be better than you've ever imagined.
I dont thing so,kung positive maging outcome,..pano yung respect?..respect is earned not given nga..kahit mag move on ka pa sa industry na yan..yung tingin sayo iba...kung tayo maintindihan man natin sitwasyon nya..sa karamihan nega yan..end up in bullying yan..dami nag suicide na mga pornstar kaya
@@vladimirsintin821 if she will be spiritually awakended, the outcome will be positive. She will not need the respect of other people because Jesus respects her and that is all that matters, kahit nega ang karamihan.
Dapat ganyan..lahat nman dumadaan sa pagsubok...pinagtibay ng pananampalataya..bat yan ang tahakin nyang landas..i think she need to renew her faith..
Binigyan tayo ng utak para mag isip ng positibo sa negatibong hinaharap..sa kanyang sitwasyon wala syang diyos...fame and vanity eventually lust..excuses palagi,dadahilan pa,iba nga mas worst pa..
If an American studio offered her a little money she’d be throbbing knob faster than you can crash your scooter. 🤡
I really like that toni let her talk
No judgments. A lesson to parents: love your children, do not be a bully, protect them, it can make a huge difference when they grow up.
so true.
Filipinos stop diddling your kids and having babies you cannot begin to care for.
It's true that the first trauma of a person starts at home. I too have the same household, from child up to now I was continuously bullied. But I just let them, what's important is that I have "GOD" that provides me unconditional love.
Hindi sana namuhay na parang prostitute anak nila. Sobrang laking sampal sa mukha nila yan...grabeng kahihiyan na mapanood ng mga kmag anak, kaibigan nila ang mga kabastusang ginagawa ng anak nila. Kung may anak akong ganyan di na siguro ko lalabas ng bahay. 😢
Don't judge wag tayu bogo hahaha😅😅😅
hindi ako iyaking tao pero god grabe please heal this person. She deserved to be loved! Napaka brave ng taong to para kayanin lahat ng pagsubok sa buhay nya.
I can’t wait to see how God would transform her life. Praying for you Sal! Jesus loves you!
Praying for her God have a great plan for her 🙏🙏🙏
Amen.may God change her heart from worldly to Godly
Amen. Praying for the holy spirit to guide her. She is an intelligent and nice lady.
Yes, she needs prayer so God would change her life and get away with her porn content or being a pornstar. Like what God has written in the Bible, I came not for the saved but for the sinners. God loves the sinners also who repented and accepted our Father God and Lord Jesus Christ as our God and personal savior. God said, "if you follow my words, you are my disciple indeed. You shall know the truth and the truth will set you free."
This story really made me cry, she seems to be so intelligent, the way she talks, her hand gestures and everything, she’s worth knowing. I admire her for being so strong and for making me realized that yes it’s true, i’m the only one who can parent myself. Want more from u Sal 🥺
parang umabot na lang po sya sa point na she is always seeking for attention para mafeel nyang maganda sya at gusto nya yung hinahangaan sya kahit in a sexual way lang😢 nakaka relate ako kc naexperience ko rin yan. yung sarili mong parents di ka maappreciate kaya ang ginawa ko palagi akong papansin sa ibang tao, proving my worth. pero at the end, sarili ko rin lang pala ang magmamahal saken. kaya totoo yan na mahalin na lang ang sarili para maging masaya ka. wag mag ask ng validation sa ibang tao😢
tsaka yung natuto na lang din ako sarilihin ang problema at never na nagsasabi sa parents ko dahil imbes na makatulong, dinadown ka pa at nagagaslight😅
Pero KASALANAN pa rin sa diyos at mabubuting tao Ang GINAGAWA NYA na nakakasira SA imahe NG kababaihan!
same, this is so sad 😢😢
She's so articulate, I hope she heals from all the damages she's had.
hopefuly the Lord will heal this beautiful lady
This is the kind of person like Salome ❤ to love her unconditionally
still its her choice
I think kulang na lang pumatay Siya ng tao at makulong, I see sobrang Galit Siya sa mundo
She's a UP graduate
you can see that she's an intelligent person the way she speaks, telling her story shows how strong she is. i hope she finds peace in her heart ❤️💕
Girl, ramdam kita. Same toxic household experience. Up until now I'm still figuring things out in my life and luckily, I have someone that stands by my side to love me for who I am. I am slowly learning to love myself and learning how to be strong on my own.
From my experience, I had reconnected, but only got disappointed, so don't get your hopes up. For me, they will NEVER change. Yung akala mo nagbago na, pero pinaplastic ka lang pala. Yung kilalang kilala mo na sila na in the back of their mind ALAM MO na madami pa'din silang sinasabing masasakit sayo. Na kahit anong acting gawin nila sa harap mo na "nagbago na sila", their whole being couldn't keep up the facade.
Just continue doing what you're doing and in the end, you will figure everything out and you will finally be okay. We will be. 🙏❤️
Godbless her
Her tears speak volumes, revealing the weight of her pain and suffering. No one should ever have to endure such pain 😢
I agree. but i strongly disagree for her being in adult industry. There are a lot of ways
Her tears and suffering are in vain. Rebellious against parents.
You just watched and listened but did not take the time to comprehend. She's yet again got invalidated by a stranger. @@aexa04
I can feel her pain. I can relate sa story nya. Mahirap mabuhay sa ganoong environment. She is one brave soul.
The compassion in Toni's eyes. It's like there's a "still small voice" telling her, introduce her to The Greatest Giver of love. ❤
True. It's that feeling you get when Toni genuinely understands and empathizes with Salome, but you can still see the side of her wishing she would connect with Christ someday.
Yes❤
Nagpipigil si Toni
Truth praying God saves her.
Imagine how her story will be one of the amazing testimony for others to hear.Praying for her.
I am crying the entire interview, so much respect for this girl. People broke her so much.
I wanna hug her and tell her that she is beautiful inside and out. I cannot judge her, and why she chose her work. All I can do is pray for her that someday, she will get all the love, respect, joy she deserves and that she’ll be whole again.
Me too😢
Felt the same too!
Ako din siguro.kapag ako siya malamang nagpapapakamatay na ako.
yeah ❤ sending love for her
It was such an honor to hear you speak yourself. Many were not able to survive what you have gone through. You are definitely so strong and deserving of every single thing that your heart desires. Continue making a movement to achieve the greater life you ambition. I am so proud of you!
P.s. I am wonderstruck with how smart and well spoken you are. You are so diverse and well aware. It's nice to know that people like you exist.
"Hindi magkakatotoo ang mga pangarap mo, if you don't make way in your life to come in" - Salome Salvi, 2024
if you don't make way in your life 'for them' to come in :)
@@barryjamesmusicPH thank you Barry! 💖
@@barryjamesmusicPHcum in
I love how toni hosts her talk show. She lets her guests talk and tell their stories. Toni listens.
Look the way she asked her,yung facial expression niya.plastic ni toni.
@@regginevelolasquez2706yup kitang kita sa face nya 😅
Jinujudge nya nga
@@jkgaliciaecetelepath ka gurl?
Can we all pause and appreciate Toni’s studio. It is so calm. It is Like a perfect comfort zone for everyone to make tambay and share their heavy hearts with each other.
Yung likod lang maganda eh di ka naman mapapatingin sa likod kung ikaw yung iniinterview sa harap nyan blank space na madilim at may mga tao may cameraman may tripod may mga lights ano kalmado don 🤣
Ang sakit I feel like same way, naluluha ako ang brave mo to share your story and not being shy to share it and being real to your self, I'm proud
Ang wise magsalita ni Salome. I admire her for sharing her story 💗
Boldstar nga lang
@@digitalstories2179 Does it make you holy and do you feel great degrading someone?
@@digitalstories2179ikaw ano ka??
@@digitalstories2179 so much to tell in this comment. You're probobly one that is not open minded and has this fake personality where deep inside you is an addict of porn video.
At least nasa batang quiapo cya during the 1st episodes.... eh ikaw nga nga😂😂😮
After watching this, I sensed an urge to pray for her. I can see the purity of her heart as a person, but was tarnished by broken people around her as a child. I felt compassion. The pain that her parents gave her as a child, and the unforgiveness in her heart right now - I know that Jesus has the power to heal her. The affirmation that she didn't get from her parents, she's now getting from the world. There's always a story behind every person's belief and perspective, and her story is one of those worth listening to.
Sa akin… MENTAL HEALTH AND TAMAD YAN!!!
Hugs for you
@@lah_bang2179 siguro you're referring to yourself 😂
@@lah_bang2179She studied and graduated Bachelor in Fine Arts - major in Painting.
Same here .
We Artists not Tamad! I myself work hard and living abroad helping family back home.
The purpose of this Vlogs is to really educate people like you. i hope you listen, and learn .❤❤❤❤
lackof love i feel sorry for her
Hindi ako nabastusan sa interview natoh.Promise... Nakita ko yung isang babaeng intelligent, strong, broken due to childhood trauma, satisfied with her current situation and learning to love herself. Virtual hug to you Sal. Kudos Ms. Toni❤❤
More of this topic please
Malamang hndi ka nabastosan kase formal interview, di to gaya ng vids na ginagawa nya. Di sya nakahubad dito at nagpapakita ng puke.
Real talk at its best! Thanks, Toni. Stay golden, Sal!
Shes so strong.. shes so well spoken. Genuine straightforward. Grabe yung struggle nya.
Do you think being in pornh-b is ok?
I dont dislike her. Infact i wish her peace and prosperity in some other way and not as a s-x worker.
Ignore na lang natin yung s*xual harrassment na ginawa ni Salome Salvi, pati pagsabi na okay sa minors magpic/video ng n*des.
Genuine at straightforward naman. /s
Love how she ask permission to swear and Toni agreed. She speak so well
Yeah, i love how salome talks
Yeah, makikita mo how she speaks na talagang matalino😊❤
toni talks talaga ung ayaw ko palagpasin dito sa youtube... daming word of wisdom, daming learning, daming tears, daming laugh, ibat ibang tao, stories, situations, pains, happiness pero lahat may mapupulot ka talagang aral... thanks for enlightenment... God bless us all .. ❤❤❤❤
Naiyak ako. She's so strong!! Thank you Ms. Toni for this wonderful topic and thank you also Ms. Salome for opening up. Such a brave soul you are!
Toni knows exactly what people needed to hear. Sal needs affirmation and she gracefully appreciate her without judgement. Kudos Toni 💖
"I need to parent myself". Your words pierced me and resonated with me. Salome, thank you for bravely sharing your story. You are beautiful! Believe that! Keep dreaming, loving yourself, it's a process but eventually you'll get there! Like I did and many others. Sending you a tight virtual hug!🥰
THAT IS HER SIDE OF THE STORY, I'M SURE HER PARENTS HAVE OWN SIDE OF THE STORY, MAY MASASAMANG ANAK DIN SA BAWAT PAMILYA AT PAG NAPARIWARA I BLAME PA SA PARENTS
@@Jack-gw3ze😂😂😂 ha hakdog
@@Jack-gw3ze Actually my point ka din, minsan kasi my mga anak na feeling nila di sila mahalaga kaya napapariwara, feeling nila lahat mali sila at feeling nila wala na silang ginawang tama, matalino xa at ng aral xa sa magandang school, so di pa rin xa pinabayaan ng parents nya, siguro di lng ng mamatch ang ugali nya at ugali ng parents nya kaya ganyan ang nanyari. Baka my mga kailangan xa na di maibigay ng parents nya kaya need nya kumita ng sarili nyang pera. Or baka di lang naipakita ng parents nya na mahalaga xa kasi feeling nya kulang xa. Hayssst ang hirap ng ganyan.
@@Jack-gw3ze not all the time palaging tama ang mga magulang.
@@Jack-gw3ze You can do everything to be a good person and still get mistreated.Everything on the world is gray
Thank you Toni Talks for using your platform as the voice of reason. Your non- discriminatory format is a window of chances and opportunities for your guests as amazing warriors of life and love. You, Toni, your show and your team are awesome! My prayers!
You heard the side of Salome, we better hear also the side of her parents!!!
Just a simple calling Panget to her when she was young, yun ang pinopoint out nya na reason kaya sira ang buhay nya ngayon, Napakababaw, I'm a parent also, not perpect, nobody is perfect but we should try to ve good as much as we can, pero in reality may masasamang anak talaga
@@Jack-gw3ze luh te kung ang isip mo sa lahat ng bagay is "Napaka-babaw" sana hindi mafeel ng anak mo na iniinvalidate mo yung simple at mababaw na reasons. Hopefully, you'll be a better parent.
@@Jack-gw3ze I applauded the show and the team that works behind it. The comment did not target the guest or the people behind the story. Instead, it was you who made a spite out of the story shared.
@@Ky_algine Thank you for sharing my sentiments.
I like that she’s so spontaneous and is strong and good soul. Bless you Sal.❤️
Toni Talks is breaking the NORM! This episode has so many arrays to deal with and reflect on.
Di ba? Sobrang nakaka bilib.
I didn't expect that her story would make me cry. 🥺 So much lesson and wisdom in a less than 20-minute video. 💞
Toni did well in handling this kind of interview. I appreciate how Toni listens attentively
this made me cry 😭 you are beautiful, intelligent and so outspoken Ms.Salome... be strong and always believe in yourself and in what you do ❤️
I am crying listening to their talk. As a mother, it opens my heart and mind to listen more to my daughter and love her more.
She's so well spoken. Thanks for having her, Toni. Her story is truly unique.
As a parent thank you for sharing your story. Teaching me how to treat my kids better and how to become a best father to my kids.
rebuilding and establishing herself and making the best version of that she can be without the validation of others is sooo independent. love it.
SELLING your body is BEST VERSION? you real?
@@potaragiz Please read the "bigger picture"
@@legalillegally6508 The bigger picture is that, as babe kahit anong ganda mo, talino mo, kung binenta mo katawan mo negative kana sa lalaki. Swerte nlang kung meron.
Her past made her strong. She went through a lot and carried a heavy burden of hatred. It's understandable to feel this way, given her experiences. Salome, you deserve love, understanding, and support. It's okay to seek help and take steps towards healing. 🙏🏻
Yeah, and I hope kung magkaanak man siya maging pokpok din katulad nya para strong women din
@@Jack-gw3zegrabe ka naman po. Im sure that pok pok na sinasabi mo im sure di nila ginusto yun they are force to do it for money or whatever reason they have.
thats why magaral mabuti para di maging pukpuk
I saw it dofferently..i still believe in the sanctity of sexual intercourse---that sex is only for couples who are in marriage.... She did as revenge...not good.
@@Jack-gw3zeRelax. You're losing it. Sit down.
Am a father, while listening to her stories, tears flowed on the eyes. Not that I pitied her. I just loved how strong she is. But I know, inside her is so precious and delicate. So loved Salome! You will achieved your dreams. You are still very young… You are in the right path of first, learning to love yourself so as that you can love someone back. And be happy! ❤❤❤❤❤
The adverse childhood experience within this beautiful soul. This makes her who she is right now. Strong character emerging through each words and the analysis of each situations she's been in but very empathetic even after the traumas. Nobody can break her even if you try. What a woman.
Now I deeply understand why Salome is in that kind of situation. Her roots speaks a lot about herself. I admire her strength and courage to speak up about what she had gone through. I hope she can seek refuge with God for complete healing and forgiveness.
Yesss amen
Amen. Only Jesus can heal our brokenness.
Agreed on that❤
Yes, Amen. iba ang nabibigay na healing ng Panginoon. I pray na hope that will happen because I will be one of the happiest for Sal.
Naaawa ako sa kanya. Napakahirap maging broken. I pray she finds Jesus. Yun lang ang totoong makakabuo sa kanya.
Kudos to Toni for having an open mind and having this conversation without judgement.
Mga closed minded lang din nmn ang sobrang judgemental… kaya hngng ngyn jinu judge p rin nila si toni.. that well in fact toni is one of the best…
Without Judment?
If you see Salome as a descent person, then you're judging her as a descent person, if you see her as a garbage and immoral person you are judging her too
Ampangit kung puro negative ang tingin mo sa parents mo, pero buong video interview na ito, wala man lang inamin itong si Salome na kaya ganun trato sa kanya ay maari marami din siyang mali. Pokpok
But her reaction says otherwise if you observe Toni she's judging her by reactions
Hindi ko talaga sya nakitaan ng isang malaswang bagay sa pagkatao niya, her intelligence grabe, napanganga talaga ako when she speaks, nadadala ako sa story niya. She deserves LOVE and RESPECT...
Everyone deserves Love and Respect but do you think doing s-x working is our Maker's commandment? And it doesn't mean that if a person is well verse in English speaking and graduate in college is better than a farmer on the mountain. If only farmers can speak English like Salome does, then maybe you will also listen. Remember always that the enemy of our Maker is also well verse in every topic and a manipulator.
I dont hate Salome and nobodys perfect and that includes me, but i dont think being in pornHub or s-x working is good for a person specially in the eyes of our Maker. I wish her peace and prosperity in other way and not as a s-x worker.
Have you watched her videos?
Pero hindi nya nirespeto ang sarili kahit Ganon ang parents nya gusto nya ang ginagawa nya wag sisihin ang magulang ..
Lol so many wannabe saints here, as if all of you are so clean that even god will be ashamed to touch you. None of you hypocrites have a say to what god wants and doesnt want. We will all see our maker and only he will judge us whether we are worthy of his salvation or not.
@@arween9083But you know what is right and wrong. You don't need god to even realize being a sex worker is disrespecrful to oneself, unhealthy and not right. It is illegal.
Hoping toni would end each of her toni talks episodes with her praying for her guests. Afterall, we all need God's grace ❤
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She's a living proof on how important a father figure really is on a household that would give you lots of love 😢
true same halos kme sitwasyun i work cyber pra mabuhay .
buti sya di sya pinush ng magulang nyang mag work s gnyn or mag hostess.. ako halos ibenta nko pra lang till now i still trying to be better pero kda maaalala mo na wla ka malapitan tym na gsto mo sumbong muntik kna gahsain ng kuya mo sbra hirap mag isa mong lahat pain nayun . nkktkot magsbe s iba kasi akala drama drama ka
tty ko sbehin wag kna mag aral lalandi karin .yan dko makalimutan s buong buhay ko
@@waldonation4089 eh kumusta ka na ngayon may nakakausap ka na ba about sa ganto?
She's an adult and not a child anymore,she's responsible for whatever she's doing to her body!We cannot blame her family anymore sa mga ginagawa nya ngayon,gusto nya yan coz of easy money and/pleasure!I pity her parents and siblings more than her!!
Her life, her decision, her choice. I love how candid Sal is. Do what you gotta do, Girl. Keep safe.
Yeah if you want to be a hoe, be a hoe. Nobody's business to tell anyone what to do but prepare for the consequences. Dont expect quality men coming to you if your background was like that.
The way she talks, you can definitely see that she is an intelligent woman.
I feel the pain of Ms Toni when she was teary eyed coz Toni knew that she’s really in pain from her childhood trauma.
spot on topic sa mas maayus na paggabay sa anak habang bata ,sa paglaki nila hanggang sa pagtanda na pagmamahal natin bilang magulang ang huhubog sa knila ,atensyong totoo,pangaral na walang sawa at higit sa lahat ipalapit ang mga anak natin sa Diyos.
"I can only imagine how difficult it must be for you to have experienced something that would make you feel the need to apologize on behalf of your parents. As a parent myself, I want to extend my deepest empathy and apologize on their behalf."
I see brokenness in her. Sending so much love and healing to this woman.
anong brokenness ahaha, iniisip mo lang yan.
This is an eye opening to all parents that what you do or say especially negative words like cursing, belittling or ruining their confidence affects your child. Their environment molds them so to all new parents who grew up to a traumatic home, I hope you do your best not to let your child grow to that negative environment.
To the parents who are wondering why is my son/daughter like that , I just want to say this that "THEY GOT IT FROM YOU, THATS WHAT YOU TAUGHT THEM".
PLEASE HEAL YOUR INNER CHILD/SELF.
Perfectly said❤❤
This is very true. I wish it’s easy to break it but it’s hard , the traumatic/ toxic chain is too much. I’ve been trying harder to break it for 3 years now. Still trying up today😭
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Exact po mam
It all boils down from how she was reared, her environment, punong puno siya ng galit and her strength is just at the surface I hope she finds healing… masyado maikli ang panahon sana magkapatawaran na sila.. 😔
I love how Toni understands and respects everything without judgement. Knowing that they have different beliefs and grew up in a totally different world❤️
True..pati ako napapangiwi din kasi knowing Toni napaka conservative na tao.. pero kita monaman kung gaano siya kagaling na interviewer..
Abangan ko to pag bumalik to kay lord , pagnahanap mo si lord sa buhay mo, mababango mindset mo, kahit ikaw magugulat na anlaki ng pinagbago mo ❤❤❤
Kaya nga..kulang pa.sya sa enlightment kasi broken pa sya at ppunta pa lang sa step 1 sa healing process nya...may God touch her heart❤🙏🙏🙏
maam pinaka the best yung comment mo na abangan mo pagbalik nya kay lord🙏
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Totoo to❤
This is the best comment ever
That’s true
I was one of the people who judges a person like her but when I listen about her story, it breaks me to think that we should not have been that close minded. We are after all been broken and have been carrying different traumas and struggles. Thank you Miss Salome for sharing your story. And kudos to Miss Toni to tackle and have an open mind about this.
Hindi ko naintindihan. Pwede sa tagalog please?
@@Billabong0110 use google to translate
Same...nakakaiyak💔
I see my self to her. 😢 just always move forward and be strong as always because no ones gonna be there but ourselves
I don’t see her as an adult content creator, I’m Seeing salome here as a person who is brave, strong and vulnerable women who can make a difference in the lives of others. Sharing her story to the public will help others to understand her story and struggles.❤❤
Her story is the true meaning of "DON'T JUDGE THE BOOK BY ITS COVER".. I'm feeling her childhood pain. Now her expressing her feelings in this way we may think as negative but we have different ways to handle our demons.
But she let demons handle her. Hope she finds her way to God.
Ano na ulit childhood pain nya???
Calling her Ugly???
HHAHAHA napaka babaw, Im sure her parents are hurt that she ended up being a pokpok, first of all pinapag tapos yan ng College ng parents nya
@@MickeyMousess-nw5pdpanong demons?
If one has faith and believe in God then you will always choose the right decision, otherwise, you will just choose what makes you happy and not everything that makes you happy is the right decision.We try to live a life that is pleasing to God. Its not easy but if you have faith then everything will make sense
Young people think they will never get old. It's still your choice what story you'd want to tell your future grandchildren.
We are all sinners, but let's do something to correct our own mistakes.
@@ren-renpedrajeta1772pursuing porn
Sal is so well spoken. I really enjoyed hearing her talk
This episode is not about sex, it's about broken parents who broke their own daughter, now struggling to deal with her brokenness hoping to become whole again. Can an unwholesome world of porn make her whole? Or did she enter a dazzling trap that will eventually crush both body & soul?
Grabe I shed tears to her when she said” I need to parent myself” 😢😢😢nakaka sad naman, I realised that I am so lucky that I have my parents with me growing up.
I am happy for you na galing kayo sa healthy family. Ako family ko galing sa toxic neglectful family tapos napasa Samin yun toxicity. Then naka encounter ako ng narcissist. Akala ko normal yung mistreatment kasi iyon yung kinamulatan ko. Ngayon ini rereparent ko ang sarili ko para hindi ko na mapasa yung trauma sa susunod na descendants namin.
@@dylanoracle3742 yes we have a healthy family but sometimes may misunderstanding talaga but anyhow we are family and that's what I'm so thankful for the Lord. About naman your life, don't be discourage now that you're grown up you have many choices in life kung ano tatahakin mo wag mo na iparanas sa magiging family mo ang dinanas mo when you were a kid kase it's now our responsibility as an adult to manage our path.
You know what I really like about her is she's a good speaker. You know from the heart that she's educated. A self made well mannered person. Keep it up girl! 🔥
First time I saw Toni bending down and tearing up out of deep conversations with a very unique person showing us a different perspective. I love that this interview was all about listening and not giving feedback on what she does. For as long as it makes her happy, just continue to be yourself, Salome.
i'm crying while watching this because i've been dealing with family issues, trauma and body dysmorphia till now. i love you ate salome you deserve the world.
My heart is crying for her! 😭 May this prayer reach you. May you experience freedom that you won’t ever experience from people who have hurt you or in this world. Prayed for you Salome! 🙏🏻
Same prayer for her. I feel that tony Tony was praying for this girl quietly. 🙏.
Amen!! I'm praying for her that one day, she will experience the only true and unconditional love, the love from Jesus.
It's actually a great topic, an eye-opener for parents and would-be parents. If you have that narcissistic trait, you'd better think twice about becoming parents. She is so brave to share her stories.💪👏👏👏
I was really touched by Ms. Salvi's story & it reminded me to accept more, embrace more & love more unconditionally my three lovely & adorable daughters.. thank you also to Ms. Toni for sharing this short, but meaningful talk & interview, because it served as a wake-up call for those parents who can't fully evade from having such favouritism, accept & love unconditionally their children.. i pray 🙏 for Ms. Salvi's life, her complete healing (from her father & mother wounds) inside & out..
Whaaaat pornhub...and you love yourself?
Salome... you are cherished, treasured, and loved by God beyond measure... one day, all your pain is going to heal...
Ms. Toni, please inform Sal that we are praying for her. Her story is worth telling and a lot of lessons can be learned fro parents like us. Thank you for your platform Ms.Toni.
Naiinis ako na this is just a 20-minute video. Sobrang bitin. Ang daming learning kay Sal. Thank you, Sal and Ms. Toni for this wisdom-filled interview.
Sorry.. pero awa at lungkot ang nararamdaman ko para sa kanya, hindi wisdom. There’s nothing wise about getting the attention that you crave through sex work.
@@jesssc402 Of course, it's always easy to speak and point things out. Pero if you carefully observe, sex work was really not the problem to begin with, sex work was just the outcome of everything she experienced. We didn't grow in the same household, we have different upbringings, different situations, so we will have varieties of responses and reactions.
Also, wisdom can come from all sorts-sizes, shapes, and colors. I think you just chose not to see them, perhaps decided ka na to just pity her and just look at her in her present situation.
Absolutely,I didn’t realized na Tapos na pala
alot to learn in this interview especially to us parents .
Toni is the most empathetic person I’ve ever watched! This episode is a helpful reflection especially to parents.
i pray she's healed and restored to who she was made to be
Im in tears 😭 Thank you for this story, Sal. 🤗🥺 Good job, Toni! 👏 Thanks for listening.