41:59 the scene where he “sleeps with martha” is in fact meant to be something that only happens in Donny’s head so he did not actually sleep with Martha. Also the actor who plays Donny is Richard Gadd, the guy who this story is about.
Richard Gadd created the series about his life & he also starred in it! I think the series did a great job highlighting someone who isn't perceived as "the perfect victim." It also painted the stalker in such an empathetic light at times. I found it to be super interesting & a very raw retelling of the events.
Hi QT, curly haired girly here! Curl cream can sometimes make your hair kinda crunchy, you can wait for it to dry a little bit and then apply some oil to your hands (like coconut oil or any hair oil) and use your hands to scrunch your hair, the oil will get rid of the "crunchy" effect ❤
To me it's more a matter of being 25 and still thinking it's "cool" to brag about being hungover the next day. It's just the whole "Look at me, I'm cool" vibe.
Maya is so worried about this drinking six beers thing. It’s fine, you can go out and have a controlled drunk evening once in a while even though you’re 25, it’s normal and you’re not a maniac. Some people our age (I’m 28) go out once a weekend. Every threeish months is totally normal.
@@DnAngel1000 All I do for mine is use curl shampoo and conditioner, and after the shower I flip my hair over, scrunch it with my hands, scrunch it again with a towel, gently lift my head back up, and scrunch the sides the same way I did when it was flipped. I also let it air dry because my hair notoriously likes to die if I use a hair dryer (probably because I don't use it right, since I never used them growing up). I also use a "curly/wavy" hair brush, which isn't as harsh on my waves. This works extremely well for my hair, but everyone is different. Someone else may have more generalizable advice, especially since I know lots of people use creams, sprays, diffusers, and such.
@@DnAngel1000 look for wavy hair products. My personal favorite combo is a little bit of curl cream, mousse, let them get crunchy, then scrunch with a tiny bit of oil on my hands!
The Ray J thing was 100% a joke lol. The point of the show and Mulaney’s humor is to create intentional awkwardness and parody the late night TV format, Ray J was playing into that as a bit
It's kinda funny that QT thought it wasn't a bit and when Maya asked if it was, she said it definitely wasn't. It's the exact kind of humour Mulaney had in his last Netflix special where he had a "children's show" with awkward humour, but this time it's a "late night show"
Yeah it was definitely part of the bit lol. Kinda ironic cus qt is also a victim of people thinking she’s being serious when she’s joking and now she’s doing the same 😂
not to be a true crime nerd, but the quote "the door was locked" is associated with Richard Ramirez. Bundy didn't really do breaking & entering, the sorority house was an outlier for his MO
If you're getting wasted you should drink water throughout the night between drinks instead of a bunch of glasses of water right before bed. Sometimes when you're absolutely stupid wasted and sleeping there's a small chance of your sleeping brain not being able to control your bladder. Not for me of course. I would NEVER drunkenly piss myself in my sleep.
QT I hope you read this. You're always at your best when you are sharing what you are interested in pursuing. You work so hard and think more deeply about what it takes to succeed in any field you are aiming for than most other people, and its just really enjoyable to hear you analyze those things, whether its baking, streaming, events, stand-up comedy: you take on the process and analysis really well. In this and other places, I often hear you trying to justify to us listening to you about your passions. What I wanted to say is you don't need to justify it at all: we're here for it. When you really dig into your passion subjects that's what I'm here for. Even if its about random taylor swift concert hints, I just like it when you get super deep into the weeds. Please don't hold that back, share it.
she missed the point of the show completely, and said why right before her explanation (39:54) - her double standard about female stalkers clouds her view on what Martha did to him and how it very negatively affected him psychologically...it drove him mad....also the parts where he's on drugs with the guy comedian are flashbacks to before Martha... it happened when he was in Scotland before he moved away to London for a fresh start (where the show takes place)
It's kinda funny think that Maya is worried she's too old to have a big hangover while my 50yo parents and most people their age i know still drink like this lol, maybe it's because we're slavic
Slavic genes 😂 i mean she is super light and maybe her body can't metabolize and get rid of alcohol as fast as some people + she is super light there is too many factors i guess to consider
qt if you do watch baby reindeer the heavy scenes are in ep.4 its a very good show and richard gadd being the lead makes it feel super real i think thats why people got invested in the characters in the show bc it does feel like your living richard gadd's experience
QT! I also have wavy hair, I recommend a lighter product than a curl cream bc it will be too heavy for your hair (i've done a lot of trial and error LOL) I really like redavid duo orchid oil treatment. it smells nice and isnt too heavy for waves. Life. Changing. Idk if you'll read this but wavy hair is a wild ride.
I saw John Mulaney a couple years ago. The latest Netflix special was the show i saw (same set, different location). It was so funny in person my cheeks hurt from laughing. He's one of those people whose cadence and voice just cracks me up
Military deems 3 beers a night the most. 2-3 times a month. 5 or more in binge drinking and no more than once a month. Maya you're not too old to have fun. Just take you're own advice (which I need to do too) Drink more water in between and before you pass out and eat before you drink!
I think baby reindeer could be really triggering for qt for the same reason it would be for me and why i havent seen it. Bc he gets assaulted by her and then starts having fantasies about her - which like in a way validates her assaulting him. So i know I'd find that triggering asf
Anthony Jeselnik is very unique as a comedian. Like QT mentioned, his tone and cadence are much lower and slower than anyone else. But also the structure of his jokes is very interesting. Most comedians will try to weave from one bit to the next and form a cohesive narrative across the whole set. Anthony Jeselnik just does a series of disjointed smaller jokes. Very minimal setup and then amazingly offensive punchline. The real craft is that the punchline doesn't contain overtly offensive language, but the inference you make takes you to that offensive conclusion. Great standup, highly recommend.
This might go unseen or no one might care but Jessica Kirsons comedy work is AWESOME!!! She makes me laugh like crazyyyy and some of her podcast-ish episodes has made me feel chest ache from laughing, shes a total mood, if anyones reading this and is into comedy make sure you check Jessica Kirson!
QT Please educate Maya on who Brandy is especially her early music and Cinderella! I think Maya would actually enjoy her music. Id start with The boy is mine. Maybe on the Patron we can watch Maya experience music that was radio/mtv popular that shes never heard of.
Yeah this is why Im glad I live in a state weed is legal lol. No one spends the night after getting stoned feeling anything more than "slightly tired/sluggish". Also, I still have yet to meet someone who becomes aggressive or hateful on weed, but I swear its like every other person in a bar will be screaming out racial slurs or punching a date within 2 shots. And it causes a number of different cancers.... Even before I tried weed I never wanted to drink honestly. It doesn't even taste good. Its so bitter that no amount of flavorings fully mask it.
i dont think 25 is old nor an age to not get drunk, I think Maya sharing that w the chat simply made them troll her but I def know people who get drunk and hangovers at a way larger age. Some even have their tricks to avoid getting too drunk like chugging water, drinking electrolytes and eating while also drinking beer so it doesnt hit as bad or you don't get too sick.
What she saying was the amount of beers you're going to have that night by your hangover is going to be and it requires about like 7:00 to 8 hours to go back to normal so let's say I have a few beers and then I drink water the likelihood I'm probably not going to have a hangover but if you're going to drink at least five to six beers it's going to take longer for you to be sober again so let's leave the more likely you're going to get sick😂😂😂 Um and it's a really dumb because it's pretty accurate because my dad was also a bartender and If you're not going to drink Anymore Just saying Just going to back her up The confirmation
Idk if yall will see this bc it’s been four months since this was posted, but wait until you hear about Wade Wilson…. I’ve seen literal fan cams about him on TikTok…
Yeah the calculator was very off. 0.2 bac is like blackout drunk, which would indicate other factors (blood sugar level, dehydration etc) if maya only had 6 standard drinks over 6 hours. When I used a more accurate calculator that spaced out the drinks over 6 hours instead of assuming all the drinks were consumed immediately, I got a bac of 0.07 which is much more reasonable.
I'm 5 8 and 160 pounds. I drank 6 beers in an hour before and I was just dizzy, they were half a pint not a full pint. To get black out drunk you have to drink a fucking lot of beers, they are not that alcoholic. And I'm not one that usually drinks a lot, like probably I would usually drink 3 or 4 beers over the span of a week. 5 beers over the span of 6 hours will just make you feel funny, not even dizzy. Maya is pretty small, but what she described makes sense, with 5 beers in 6 hours you are almost fine, you definitely feel them, but they won't affect that much your decision making and you definitely walk straight
Maya's lack of pop culture knowledge and QT's misinformation spreading is an amazing combo.
what misinformation did she spread this ep?
It's amazing
@@ninin11 watch it and u would know comment goblin
@@SP1CY_FR 😒
She can't help it, she just loves to lie 😞
41:59 the scene where he “sleeps with martha” is in fact meant to be something that only happens in Donny’s head so he did not actually sleep with Martha. Also the actor who plays Donny is Richard Gadd, the guy who this story is about.
I knew this andI didn't even finish the series so it was so funny when they were like "where is he??" "Idk!!!" 😂😂
Qt is never beating the dampness allegations.
this might actually be record dampness
It's Wine About It Wednesday!!! Audio listeners, Maya is currently training her goats to punch so she can fight the haters
🥊 🐐
The army is real
If Pokimane was any indication they're ready to take on anyone
QT helping the accusations with the dampness
Richard Gadd created the series about his life & he also starred in it!
I think the series did a great job highlighting someone who isn't perceived as "the perfect victim." It also painted the stalker in such an empathetic light at times.
I found it to be super interesting & a very raw retelling of the events.
I’m convinced you could put Maya in a room with only famous people and she wouldn’t know anyone
Hi QT, curly haired girly here! Curl cream can sometimes make your hair kinda crunchy, you can wait for it to dry a little bit and then apply some oil to your hands (like coconut oil or any hair oil) and use your hands to scrunch your hair, the oil will get rid of the "crunchy" effect ❤
Saying ray j without mentioning the sex tape is INSANE to me lmao
To Mayas chat telling her she shouldn’t be getting drunk at 25 tell your parents the same thing when you see them in the living room later
To me it's more a matter of being 25 and still thinking it's "cool" to brag about being hungover the next day. It's just the whole "Look at me, I'm cool" vibe.
The way maya watched the whole show and has no idea what is going on? Is hilarious
i've been called selfish for skipping church on mother's day. the way people are so protective about it is wild
Most commenters here have never drunk alcohol while weighing 100 lbs
As a person who weighs 100 lbs i am glad I know what will happen after I drink 6 beverages
QT saying "it gets a little messy after this" and then glitching out right after is peak unintended comedy 30:06
qt's hair gets more drenched with every passing episode
The way QT said sje can get along with strangers but she gets anxious with other people, I felt that in my soul.
Maya is so worried about this drinking six beers thing. It’s fine, you can go out and have a controlled drunk evening once in a while even though you’re 25, it’s normal and you’re not a maniac. Some people our age (I’m 28) go out once a weekend. Every threeish months is totally normal.
And I believe most of her hangover is from being dehydrated from running around and throwing a football around.
Scrunch your hair QT😭😭
!!! Scrunch the crunch!
i so wish i could put her through a curly routine cause i think she has potential for really good waves
@@v1pedwhat’s a good curly hair routine ? My hair looks like that after washing my hair
@@DnAngel1000 All I do for mine is use curl shampoo and conditioner, and after the shower I flip my hair over, scrunch it with my hands, scrunch it again with a towel, gently lift my head back up, and scrunch the sides the same way I did when it was flipped. I also let it air dry because my hair notoriously likes to die if I use a hair dryer (probably because I don't use it right, since I never used them growing up). I also use a "curly/wavy" hair brush, which isn't as harsh on my waves. This works extremely well for my hair, but everyone is different. Someone else may have more generalizable advice, especially since I know lots of people use creams, sprays, diffusers, and such.
@@DnAngel1000 look for wavy hair products. My personal favorite combo is a little bit of curl cream, mousse, let them get crunchy, then scrunch with a tiny bit of oil on my hands!
The Ray J thing was 100% a joke lol. The point of the show and Mulaney’s humor is to create intentional awkwardness and parody the late night TV format, Ray J was playing into that as a bit
Just listening to her description of it, I thought it totally sounded like a bit
It's kinda funny that QT thought it wasn't a bit and when Maya asked if it was, she said it definitely wasn't. It's the exact kind of humour Mulaney had in his last Netflix special where he had a "children's show" with awkward humour, but this time it's a "late night show"
I also didn't read it as a joke
Listening to QT about this tells me her taste in comedy.
Yeah it was definitely part of the bit lol. Kinda ironic cus qt is also a victim of people thinking she’s being serious when she’s joking and now she’s doing the same 😂
With Fear& on Monday, Wine About It on Wednesday, and Steak & Eggs on Friday I can finally keep track of what day of the week it is
fear& viewer here, QT is never beating the damp allegations
you can actually text security at the Hollywood bowl! which is so great for situations like that lol
not to be a true crime nerd, but the quote "the door was locked" is associated with Richard Ramirez. Bundy didn't really do breaking & entering, the sorority house was an outlier for his MO
53:54 Born and raised in washington. My childhood Neighbor was friends with bundy for years and still can’t believe he was that.
QT talking about comedy in-depth is one of my favourite topics to listen to.
I love this pod so much. Makes getting through the week so much easier.
qt you gotta break up the curl cast created by the curl cream. just gently work the waves with your fingers or scrunch gently
If you're getting wasted you should drink water throughout the night between drinks instead of a bunch of glasses of water right before bed. Sometimes when you're absolutely stupid wasted and sleeping there's a small chance of your sleeping brain not being able to control your bladder. Not for me of course. I would NEVER drunkenly piss myself in my sleep.
The main character of baby reindeer is playing himself based on real life events!!! I was screaming at my screen as Maya talked about it LOL
QT I hope you read this. You're always at your best when you are sharing what you are interested in pursuing. You work so hard and think more deeply about what it takes to succeed in any field you are aiming for than most other people, and its just really enjoyable to hear you analyze those things, whether its baking, streaming, events, stand-up comedy: you take on the process and analysis really well. In this and other places, I often hear you trying to justify to us listening to you about your passions. What I wanted to say is you don't need to justify it at all: we're here for it. When you really dig into your passion subjects that's what I'm here for. Even if its about random taylor swift concert hints, I just like it when you get super deep into the weeds. Please don't hold that back, share it.
maya's explanation of baby reindeer was all over the place I'd be confused as hell
she missed the point of the show completely, and said why right before her explanation (39:54) - her double standard about female stalkers clouds her view on what Martha did to him and how it very negatively affected him psychologically...it drove him mad....also the parts where he's on drugs with the guy comedian are flashbacks to before Martha... it happened when he was in Scotland before he moved away to London for a fresh start (where the show takes place)
It's kinda funny think that Maya is worried she's too old to have a big hangover while my 50yo parents and most people their age i know still drink like this lol, maybe it's because we're slavic
She's 100 pounds she's just a little lightweight
Slavic genes 😂 i mean she is super light and maybe her body can't metabolize and get rid of alcohol as fast as some people + she is super light there is too many factors i guess to consider
I'm actually just getting into wine about it and catching up on past episodes atm it's nice to have a new podcast to look forward to 👍🔥
12:40 synchronised chair shuffling
also from washington and the bundy thing is so true. everyone has a story about him or Ridgeway. or somebody who knows somebody who knew them.
From my perspective, getting drunk every 3 or so months at the ripe old age of 25 is the least amount of degeneracy possible.
qt if you do watch baby reindeer the heavy scenes are in ep.4 its a very good show and richard gadd being the lead makes it feel super real i think thats why people got invested in the characters in the show bc it does feel like your living richard gadd's experience
QT! I also have wavy hair, I recommend a lighter product than a curl cream bc it will be too heavy for your hair (i've done a lot of trial and error LOL) I really like redavid duo orchid oil treatment. it smells nice and isnt too heavy for waves. Life. Changing. Idk if you'll read this but wavy hair is a wild ride.
5 beers in England your the designated driver
You have any idea how cringe that sounds lol
Can’t even make a joke in the comments now without someone getting triggered 😂
@@connorgleeson8205 Can't even make a comment bout a cringe sentence without someone getting triggered either
@@TenaciousDealer I suppose you don't like Jack whitehall then. 😂
@@connorgleeson8205 i don't know who that even is mate, but hopefully if he makes jokes they're better than just "in england we drive drunk lol"
I saw John Mulaney a couple years ago. The latest Netflix special was the show i saw (same set, different location). It was so funny in person my cheeks hurt from laughing. He's one of those people whose cadence and voice just cracks me up
Military deems 3 beers a night the most. 2-3 times a month. 5 or more in binge drinking and no more than once a month. Maya you're not too old to have fun. Just take you're own advice (which I need to do too) Drink more water in between and before you pass out and eat before you drink!
the whole baby reindeer story is so insane
Joining the damp gang and watching this while waiting for my hair to dry
QT I believe in ur hair, curly hair is so fun once you figure out what to feed it!
1:57 34:01 Maya is genuinely hilarious lol
15:57
QT is funny as heck, plz make a comedy special.
the baby reindeer actor played himself!! he is the guy it happened to in real life
Me trying to fall asleep listening to this with my window open is a fun experience
yayyyyy love wine about it!!!! best podcast best hosts
I love that this thumbnail looks like an accidental selfie
As a bartender at a casino, it's two drinks an hour so two beers
45:02 great QT face lol.
Maya did such a bad job of explaining the baby reindeer thing 😂
audio listeners, Ders did not actually silently scream, was only a yawn. Maya fueling the misinformation to new heights
You’re supposed to comb through your hair once the curl cream dries, QT 😊 7:15
Amazing podcast.
I think baby reindeer could be really triggering for qt for the same reason it would be for me and why i havent seen it. Bc he gets assaulted by her and then starts having fantasies about her - which like in a way validates her assaulting him. So i know I'd find that triggering asf
I was getting blackout drunk and pissing myself at 25. Send it!
such a great episode!
Anthony Jesilnik to QT: please stop describing me. lmao
Finding out QT is a Jeselnik fan has made me like her even more
I wanna talk to one of the women that stood outside supporting Mr. Bundy.. like bro what were you thinking??
Loved qt❤️
Anthony Jeselnik is very unique as a comedian. Like QT mentioned, his tone and cadence are much lower and slower than anyone else. But also the structure of his jokes is very interesting.
Most comedians will try to weave from one bit to the next and form a cohesive narrative across the whole set.
Anthony Jeselnik just does a series of disjointed smaller jokes. Very minimal setup and then amazingly offensive punchline. The real craft is that the punchline doesn't contain overtly offensive language, but the inference you make takes you to that offensive conclusion. Great standup, highly recommend.
This might go unseen or no one might care but Jessica Kirsons comedy work is AWESOME!!! She makes me laugh like crazyyyy and some of her podcast-ish episodes has made me feel chest ache from laughing, shes a total mood, if anyones reading this and is into comedy make sure you check Jessica Kirson!
Actually recovering from the worst hangover of my life and I see this drop. #neverdrinkingagain
maya not knowing who daniel tosh is just made me feel insanely old and im only 28. wtf.
Time for our weekly dose of misinformation! Can't wait 😂
Update on Johnston: he got 4 years in prison and a 10 year no contact order wrt his now ex-wife.
I love that Maya doesn't know or care who Ray J or Brandy is.
QT is not beating the damp allegations with this ep. 😭😭
QT Please educate Maya on who Brandy is especially her early music and Cinderella! I think Maya would actually enjoy her music. Id start with The boy is mine. Maybe on the Patron we can watch Maya experience music that was radio/mtv popular that shes never heard of.
Yeah this is why Im glad I live in a state weed is legal lol. No one spends the night after getting stoned feeling anything more than "slightly tired/sluggish". Also, I still have yet to meet someone who becomes aggressive or hateful on weed, but I swear its like every other person in a bar will be screaming out racial slurs or punching a date within 2 shots. And it causes a number of different cancers....
Even before I tried weed I never wanted to drink honestly. It doesn't even taste good. Its so bitter that no amount of flavorings fully mask it.
59:00 these women who liked ted bandy were crazy
I'll try to enjoy my life a little bit more Maya, thank you
best thing for a hangover, bread, water, multiple layers of clothings and blankets take a nap and sweat that mf out
ugh thank you GOD!!!! 🩵😔😩
Crowd work is really popular right now 😂
I don’t understand why she’s surprised Daniel tosh was funny? He’s always been a funny comedian
Hell yeah time to wine about it
30:20 Someone make this into a song please
mayas blood alc was over twice the legal minute
Qt not being sure if Piers Morgan is lame 😭 girl ask your co-host he was on his show a few weeks ago 😭😭
i dont think 25 is old nor an age to not get drunk, I think Maya sharing that w the chat simply made them troll her but I def know people who get drunk and hangovers at a way larger age. Some even have their tricks to avoid getting too drunk like chugging water, drinking electrolytes and eating while also drinking beer so it doesnt hit as bad or you don't get too sick.
Moroccan curl cream is my fave 😢Makes my hair super curly. I'd use a smaller amount right out of the shower and plop your hair for 10 mins. godspeed
Can QT let maya tell a story once without completely interrupting for once lol
What she saying was the amount of beers you're going to have that night by your hangover is going to be and it requires about like 7:00 to 8 hours to go back to normal so let's say I have a few beers and then I drink water the likelihood I'm probably not going to have a hangover but if you're going to drink at least five to six beers it's going to take longer for you to be sober again so let's leave the more likely you're going to get sick😂😂😂
Um and it's a really dumb because it's pretty accurate because my dad was also a bartender and If you're not going to drink Anymore Just saying Just going to back her up The confirmation
If you like dark humor i recommend Jimmy Carr/Mark Normand!! Love em
Idk if yall will see this bc it’s been four months since this was posted, but wait until you hear about Wade Wilson…. I’ve seen literal fan cams about him on TikTok…
5 beers over 6 hours isn't crazy! technically, 5 beers within an hour is "binge drinking"
Yeah the calculator was very off. 0.2 bac is like blackout drunk, which would indicate other factors (blood sugar level, dehydration etc) if maya only had 6 standard drinks over 6 hours. When I used a more accurate calculator that spaced out the drinks over 6 hours instead of assuming all the drinks were consumed immediately, I got a bac of 0.07 which is much more reasonable.
CDC defines binge drinking as 5 drinks on an occasion. Within in an hour is like "I'm trying to blackout" territory unless you're like 300+ lbs
I'm 5 8 and 160 pounds. I drank 6 beers in an hour before and I was just dizzy, they were half a pint not a full pint. To get black out drunk you have to drink a fucking lot of beers, they are not that alcoholic. And I'm not one that usually drinks a lot, like probably I would usually drink 3 or 4 beers over the span of a week. 5 beers over the span of 6 hours will just make you feel funny, not even dizzy. Maya is pretty small, but what she described makes sense, with 5 beers in 6 hours you are almost fine, you definitely feel them, but they won't affect that much your decision making and you definitely walk straight
Fun episode
She's so right
I am crazy about wine about it thumbnails
I've watched Anthony Jeselnik on Netflix, so funny! =) Daniel Sloss also, love him, I've watched several of his things =)
Good talk
qt loves comedy? who would've guessed....
I dont put on pants for 5 beers. Pump them numbers up.
When is the wine pour?
Why is QT always damp on every podcast she's on
still waiting on Maya and QT to react to mean girls on the patreon :(