0:32 "Men choose women, women don't choose guys" Are you fucking serious? So it's all up to the guy to get a relationship started, even if the other person doesn't reciprocate anything? That's some bullshit if I've ever heard it.
Brick Schitthouse Yeah but who wants a chick who just wants you for your money? I sure don't, it would make me feel cheap. Maybe some guys don't care about that, but I do.
Wow women really want men to do 100% of all the leg work. I have a policy and it will never change. If a woman doesn't show interest to begin with, she won't be approached or asked out. I think its a sensible policiy and Im doing most of the leg work in all circumstances. If a woman can't even be bothered to show her interest to begin with and I have to extract it out of her then she is already showing herself to be a high maintenance, unappealing individual. Other stuff like this is literally going to ruin yourself esteem and just get a bunch of women being like "I was just being friendly, why are all guys pigs?" sort of crap. Screw that, no one got time for that.
I agree totally with you. Don't put yourself in the firing line if there is no reciprocation I say. Remember the saying it takes two to tango? A relationship is between 2 active partners not one doing all the moves while the other either rejects or submits.. Women have big heads enough as it is let alone setting yourself up to be cannon fodder lol
I can't really tell from your example; I mean she's probably just using you for self defense practice or she didn't have a knife sharpener on her and decided to use your blood as a lubricant substitute. Best advice is to keep your wits about you and keep looking for signs... while at the same time running to the nearest ER ASAP.
Why You Should Not Get Advice From Women about Women When I was having trouble understanding women, I remember going to my women friends for advice. I figured: Hey, they’re women, so they should have a clue and be able to help me out, right? ''''''''''''Wrong.'''''''' The advice they gave me seemed sound, and it meshed with what I had always thought about women. This sometimes pisses women off, but the truth is, the average woman does not understand what attracts them to one guy vs. another. What they say they want in a man is not what they actually date and stay with. Most women, when you bring your problems about understanding another woman to them, will try to make you feel better about what is going on. It is just like when you try to date a woman, she is not going to tell you straight out: Hey, I’m really not interested. A woman friend is not going to burst your ego and tell you: Hey, it sounds as though she just doesn’t like you. Move on. Instead, they will give you rationalizations: Maybe she is just coming out of a bad relationship. Maybe she really isn’t getting your calls. Maybe she just likes you too much and is afraid of getting into something right now. Women are emotional beings and will always think about how what they say is going to make you feel. So take their advice with a grain of salt.Why do women, even our female friends, do this to us? I believe it is mostly because they don’t want to deal with your questions of: So tell me why she doesn’t like me. Is there something wrong with me? without hurting your feelings . They would rather try to soothe it over and nudge you gently in another direction, rather than being straight up about their suspicions and hurt you.Women are all about emotions and emotional reactions. Men are more straightforward. While men may deal from a place of emotions, they don’t take time to necessarily look at the emotional side of the equation. They would rather have simple, non-emotionally clouded answers. The trouble is that our women friends do nothing more than cloud the issue rather than setting us straight.
They like danger, if you're a good had working man your mr safe, and mr safe is boring, they may say they want a good man good job good with kids, but they will find that boring, treat em mean keep em keen is still the best advise for a man.
You're a genius. No joke. I totally agree. Women wont say something like "she doesnt want you because youre ugly....because you have bad breath....because you are short.....because youre just skinny and unnatractive". That would be tough, but would be at least honest. Women hate honesty and truth; they have to decorate everything in pink clouded dreams and comfortable ideas. They arrange fairy-like marriages with a guy they think is nice enough...only to get fucked like cows in the honeymoon. Then they try to arrange this issue in another pink fashion, and move on.
+prashant kumar parmanu "When I was having trouble understanding women, I remember going to my women friends for advice. I figured: Hey, they’re women, so they should have a clue and be able to help me out, right?" Sure, if you want to trick someone into marrying you with no sex and no prenup;, women are EXPERTS at doing that. But it's kind of easy to figure out on your own; , the TRICK is how to do the OPPOSITE of those three things.
If you spend all your time just hanging around with a girl you risk ending up friendzoned. The best way to find out what women want, is by not listening to what they actually tell you ;)
+adam pagan Lol, what about financial stability? We could work but it doesn't hurt if the other does so as well. Besides material things doesn't bring eternal happiness.
This is the first realistic video about girls I've seen in a long time. Just shows we have actually no hope of picking a girl that's interested in us. I would have to give an ultimatum of leaving town unless she starts hanging out with me to find it out if all she wants is more time and space.
Great video :) I showed this video to my boyfriend and asked him how he knew I was interested in him and if I have a "tell". He said he knew I was interested when I let him briefly touch my hands. He said the way he used to see if a girl was into him while out at a pub or party was to make some reason to touch the girls hands briefly. like "wow that's a beautiful ring". He said if a woman pulled away or didn't let him touch or hold then, she sure as hell isn't going to let him touch anything else lol
over millions of "Does she like you" videos. There are -27 "Does he like you" videos. Ladies this gives you a hint. Tell the guy, you make the first move, be more strait forward instead of this crazy mind game type weird stuff.
Women are confusing as hell, she wants to hang out to let you know she likes you?! Up until now I thought if she "hangs out" with you then your friend zoned!
Dam Haley, I'd holler at you with a quick-ness. Your so honest and sincere, now thats really attractive. what i wanted to say is, that in America women have no problem approaching men. in fact, your last scenario has actually happened to me on more then one occasion . The truth is most men appreciate a sincere approach, it takes two to tango, women shouldn't wait for a guy to make the first move, a nice hello is all ways a good ice breaker. This doesn't make a woman look bad in any way ,it gives an opportunity to let the guy know she isn't snobby or stuck up. With that being said, its nice to know that there's still ladies that value romance, and companionship. Thats the beginning of the best type of relationships between men and women. Keep up the good work you're doing a great job with your videos, this is actually one of the best I've seen on this topic.
ClimbnFish ----- very true. just bee cus she talks 2 u does'nt mean shes wants u. 2. many f...king games. i hope women read this and except it as a fact!
ClimbnFish - Women are continually seeking validation. Most signs of interest are nothing more than referencing their eligibility status. If she's an 8 and thinks you're one and you return her glance that gives her validation. That's why when as a guy when you can't be bothered women try so much harder, but show interest and their interest falls.
I agree. This game they play is annoying. It's like "how much skin do I have to reveal to get X number of guys messaging me. My friend got 500 mails in a week by showing her boobs. Let's see if I can do the same by just showing cleavage..." It's easy to tell if a person is interested or an attention whore simply by being in contact with them and asking if they like to do stuff. It's so time consuming though, with all these wannabe sluts around...
Girls think every guy should be into them. Sometimes guys just arent into you ! And some of the shit youre saying would be stalkerish if it was a guy. Guys are timid these days because we get called creeps and stalkers just for looking at a pretty girl. Thats not our fault, its your fault. These days we just want a good nice girl that talks nicely to us. There is no such thing as "chasing" after a girl anymore. Were not allowed to do that. Thats why a lot of guys come off as cold or awkward.
So when you put out these signals like take off your shirt and put on lip gloss in an office with lots of men how do I know you're into ME, the protagonist and not some NPC hunk... sorry, I think of dating in visual novel terms because I've been alone most of my life and nothing seems to work.
Sometimes the best cure for a disapointed heart is to spend time with a lots of lovely ladies, so I found you Hayley. Here as a woman, and can relate to everything you say. Akward and clumsy is soo true.. and all of the appearance focus. We try to look our best. I once saw a sweet girl friend of mine walk around at a social event out side in a cute dress without her jacket on. It was clear to me she was trying to impress someone. Now she is married to that guy. Some people are just so blessed.
I love the comments on these types of videos. So many confused men. Attraction occurs at a basic instinctive level, attraction isn't a choice. Regardless of what you think or what people tell you, you can't make a woman like you with words. You all need to study some biological evolution to truly understand how to seduce a woman. You'd be amazed how easy it actually is. Also, having muscles is 90% of the battle. This is because women want to feel protected and safe. This is also why they don't like small guys.
So basically, no clear sign we can work off of.. which leaves us having to just guess and approach everyone we halfway like on the off chance one will reciprocate..
*A lot of guys miss these cues because they overthink what interest looks like, but body language never lies. How many of you have realized in hindsight that she was dropping these hints and you didn’t even pick up on them until later?*
You know chic, who made this video. You need to make videos in encouraging young girls to be more open about their feelings. Not "teaching" guys how to "read signs". It's not a guys job to learn how to read female. All you women are role models for younger girls and you are sending the wrong messages to them in how to interact with their peers. "Oh he should understand how i feel, i sat next to him and smiled. I gave him a sign!" Signs replace certainty with doubt. They create assumptions.... You spend so much time in trying to be a guide for men when your energy should be in young girls. So they don't end up with the same assumptions you older women have about men. If girls became more honest with themselves and others around them. Guys will know exactly where they stand
You may have noticed from all your comments one key thing that every man on here seems to agree upon... Women choose men. Why do we think that? Because we pursue. By pursuing we aren't choosing, we're asking to be chosen. Pursuit does not give us the power of choice, ultimately it's a yes or a no from ladies that ultimately decides. Now, you may say that we Initially choose by asking, but think of asking as fishing with a large net. Us fellas fail ten times before we succeed. Also, if I'm being honest, we for the most part, know relatively quickly if a girl likes us...
Some women are not obscure as she puts it. Some women will touch you or more like brush up against you. It takes the mystery out of it but still, it's special just the same. In a good way.
This. On two separate occasions at work, I was the recipient of the 'b00b brush' ...by the Human Resources Director. But, I never pursued because of the potential consequences of what might have happened if the hookup ever went southward.
Yeah. I've always thought dating someone from work is destined for doom. Especially if she happens to be married. The first person a jealous husband would suspect is someone from work. Stay far away from that hell.
very good! i learned something. in my situation, since she is a health worker, she wouldn't b putting on makeup or brushing her hair, etc, since it would b unprofessional 4 her to do so. but the day i met her, she wasn't wearing any eye makeup. ever since then she has, unless i showed up unannounced. also the day we met, when our appointment was finished, she shook my hand & 1/2 way to her office, she turned & gave me a beautiful smile. unfortunately i've given her mixed signals & she has done the same. she has been a little awkward at times & so have i. i just wish i was worthy of her. tho i'm not her equal in the looks dept (she is beautiful, especially w/out makeup), we r both attractive. but she is a successful woman who owns her own business & she has her act together. i don't. what do i have to offer her? hopefully someday that will change. i have been absolutely smitten w/her ever since the day we met.
get them both to jump in the back trunk of a car. when their in, quickly shut it! come back 5 hours later and open the trunk, see with one is looking more happy to see ya..
Haley for someone who is claimed to know relationships, you are completely and utterly WRONG! that statement “guys choose females, females don’t choose guys” it’s relationship 101 that attraction is NOT A CHOICE! Also it’s the female who chooses the guy. The female is the one that gives the signal initially. She gives him what’s known as an approach tone. So I think you need to go back to the drawing board. Haley umm are you single/married?! Moral of this video: never ask a cow how to milk a cow, ask the farmer
Basically anything can be a sign which leaves us more clueless... she can like you if she behaves kindly or if she is standoffish... which one is it? lol
Here's the problem; If the lady acts more feminine when a guy she likes is around and he never experiences her acting any other way (does not know how she acts around some one she isn't in to.) It can be confusing for men either because She is being way to subtle or He may think "oh that's just how She acts, possibly with everybody." He may not notice She is acting different. What are ways Men can find out these when they aren't even aware that they should be paying attention.
Women don't understand that the guys who approach them don't do it because he correctly read her signals but despite of them. 99% of the guys who will approach her are most likely just players who give a damn, with the one odd guy who mustered up all his courage to go and ask her because he's genuinely interested, also not really because he correctly read her "signals". And if that one guy is nervous and he will be if he's really interested, he'll mess it up and she'll think he's a freak and creeper, instead of just shy. Women are far too used to the few confident players who always approch them, to be able to understand what a guy who is really only into her is really like.
Those of us with a life and women in our lives don't really go around wondering if a women is into us. We did that in high school, then hopefully we grew out of it in favor of being a MAN. That's one big difference between guys that women are attracted to, and those she just wants to be friends with. A real man doesn't really think about it because he is too busy being a mature adult who is emotionally strong, intelligent, and taking care of his business. There is simply no time to sit back and wonder. It's when you start thinking oh does she like me or I wonder if she's into me, is when guys revert back to being a little boy again. Be a man, if she is into you cool, if not, so what, there are beautiful girls everywhere. It matters not whether she is into you because if she wasn't there is nothing you can genuinely do to change that anyway, other than pretending to be the kind of guy she WOULD like. That creates a vicious circle of never ending low self esteem behavior of trying to be someone they are not, depriving her of ever knowing the real guy. Be yourself and let the cards fall where they may. We are better off concentrating on being a man of our word, doing what we say we will and being accountable for our family and friends. Think more about doing the things a man is put on this earth to do, and females will be into you. It's somewhat of a social paradigm. Try to be someone you are not so she will like you, and you are headed for a life of neediness and rejection. Be yourself with unending passion and don't give a fuck, and the world is yours. Is this making any sense Hayley Quinn? PS Hayley Quinn i think you are kinda cute and charming but please stop trying to give well meaning advice about women, TO MEN. I'm sure you mean well, but you are clearly not a man. But, thanks for caring anyway. Assuming men need advice about a needy feeling they are having only makes some guys think its normal, and it's not. Women wonder if a guy is into them, as they should. A real man doesn't have time for that. One more thing, ATTRACTION IS NOT A CHOICE, SO YOUR VIDEO IS POINTLESS! If you ever come to the States, you should look me up. Google me and get in touch. Maybe we could collaborate on some real issues between women and men. It's something we both have an obvious passion for.
She brought her medical study stuff into work today. Mixed in with all this stuff was the "fun" thing she has to work on. Which she went out of her way to show me. And it was 10 Ways to Ruin A First Date.
Ok, what if she liked you before and said she would go out with you then made excuses, then started showing all these familiar signs that she likes you again?
The last day of High school when we were signing yearbooks, a girl I liked signed my yearbook however I didn't bother reading what she wrote because everyone was occupied with getting as many signatures as possible. After I went home, I read what she wrote and she said that she liked me... Thinking back to it, I missed so many signs :\
3 signs she's into you: 1) in your initial communication with her, she ask's if YOU want to meet up 2) she actually shows up at the place where your supposed to meet 3) she allows you to plow her during that first meet up all of this with her either sharing the expenses for the night OR outright paying for everything. If she doe's all of that, that's a sign that she MIGHT be into you... & if she's a 9 or 10, congratulations you've just won the human lottery...
I highly disagree with the statement that men choose women and not the other way around. Every single one of my girlfriends have chosen me while on the other hand if I ask any girl to date she is already taken.
I wish I had heard her teaching when I was young. I knew nothing about girls. I not only wanted a girl friend, I wanted girls as friends. But I was scared to talk to them because they were so different than myself and guys I knew.
Beautiful woman presenting. I've noticed these two local girls checking me out when I'm not looking. When I look their way, they get nervous and turn around. They seem to wave and smile when they go by in their vehicles, probably because there is more potential to leave if things get uncomfortable. Both are attractive, but I only see them half the time and talk to them very rarely.
Hahaha I am married but one day I met a fellow runner (she knew I was married) but she always gets nervous fumbles awkward but we go running and she opens up a lot However she always goes out of her way to hang with us(family) My wife recognises she has a crush on me ( she is only 22 ) but I didn't want to acknowledge it But I did realise early that she had this weird awkward feeling towards me but I have been up front with her from the start besides having 6 kids married for 18 years I have to much respect love for my wife and family I could easily take advantage of the situation but reality is I have a life!!!
paul forsell lol I didn't know to be honest just depends on what you mean by "like" hehe . The other nights @Christmas party she introduced her "boyfriend" to me lol kinda weird like she kept asking for my opinion on him all night blablablah she even asked my daughter where was I !!! However I am trying to avoid any situation where we are alone just when we run even that is still a group activity
Women love a honest down-to-earth good sense of humor guy someone that is real and not fake but the best part is when you can be yourself around a woman at the laugh and enjoy yourself
I never knew women hung out longer with me because they liked me. The only ones that hang out are the ones that are in less physical shape than me. I assumed they wanted me to help them exercise.
This May Sound Stupid But Literally guys if she touches her hair a lot while talking to you or if she scratches her shoulder or arm more than usual, it means she finds you attractive and wants to be groomed by you. Yup, we are not very different from monkeys haha.
as a girl, I stumbled on this video and watched it just to see how accurate it was. I thought it was going to be completely wrong, but surprisingly everything in it is right. I flirt exactly like this although I can get a bit more bold if I think the guy might like me back and he's not making a move but not by much. same goes for all my friends.
A girl at work used to sit more upright around me especially when we were mostly alone in an office area. I guess that's a sign. Lots of other signs i could call out as well but the weird thing is that she had a boyfriend too. Is this normal for girls to still act flirty around guys even if they have a boyfriend?
+Reuben Stern Which makes it the exception vs. the rule. Women love to say "well not ALL women do that," because they don't know the fucking DIFFERENCE!
I agree with you, in a way. Women set the pace. If a mans too sexual too soon, it's over, not sexual enough, it's the friend zone, or they'll suddenly ignore them totally. Even though it seems to be more about kissing them at the right time (or some bollocks, I dunno, I fuck it up a lot!!) But if there's a lot of chasing involved, and it's not a two way thing. You can't be sure whether she likes you or not, but you can safely assume she will NEVER hook up with you. These days I expect a rapport pretty soon. I expect them to make an effort to meet me. I don't mind making the first move, but if they don't seem to give a shit, or have the ability to "play hard to get", they are obviously a waste of time. You watch these women that love to be chased. They have men jumping through hoops making fools of themselves. They get nothing but errands and insults, maybe a little flirtation when they start to lose interest. Then a man comes who's actually their type, and they pounce on him the moment he says "hello". When a woman wants you, it's easy. people make the mistake of thinking their slags or something. Not true... they just can't control themselves around you! Saying that, I'm no pick up artist.....
0:32 "Men choose women, women don't choose guys"
Are you fucking serious? So it's all up to the guy to get a relationship started, even if the other person doesn't reciprocate anything? That's some bullshit if I've ever heard it.
+Bob Saget I think what she's trying to get at is "Approach" and not "choose" judging based on the context
+Ramteen Then she should say approach not choose. Total bullshit. I agree with Bob
Yeah dumb right? Some women really believe this.
Of course men choose women. What do you think?!
baddestbench What I think is that men shouldn't have to put ALL the effort into getting a relationship. That's fucking bullshit.
We can just cut through all the bullshit. If a guy has money..........they will swarm.
+iooi unless the woman is also a tramp!
They swarm to money like flies to honey.
Brick Schitthouse Yeah but who wants a chick who just wants you for your money?
I sure don't, it would make me feel cheap.
Maybe some guys don't care about that, but I do.
Brick Schitthouse Well then I don't want THEM.
Brick Schitthouse Yeah, they're called GROUPIES.
she's into me so im gonna get into her
*Master! :D*
Bahaha! She will scream sexual hareasment. You see where this mind fuck starts
Wow women really want men to do 100% of all the leg work. I have a policy and it will never change. If a woman doesn't show interest to begin with, she won't be approached or asked out. I think its a sensible policiy and Im doing most of the leg work in all circumstances. If a woman can't even be bothered to show her interest to begin with and I have to extract it out of her then she is already showing herself to be a high maintenance, unappealing individual.
Other stuff like this is literally going to ruin yourself esteem and just get a bunch of women being like "I was just being friendly, why are all guys pigs?" sort of crap. Screw that, no one got time for that.
Best comment ever
I agree totally with you. Don't put yourself in the firing line if there is no reciprocation I say. Remember the saying it takes two to tango? A relationship is between 2 active partners not one doing all the moves while the other either rejects or submits.. Women have big heads enough as it is let alone setting yourself up to be cannon fodder lol
Absolutely
you should use a dark background, i usually watch videos like this before crying myself to sleep at night and the white hurts my eyes
Steve Harageones lmfao!
Good vibes only mate or fuck off . Go to a therapist with the negative vibes . Thankyou
OMG.... how about just 1 sign, where she says, "hey i like you, let's go out".
Good luck with that, bud.
itubeutude This isn't America
Raj Singh that doesn't happen in america lol
***** I heard Americans are really direct when it comes to dating, or am I wrong?
Some are, but most aren't.
"Men choose woman, woman don't choose guys"
...What?
That is so not true your saying girls have no confidence
+Katie Friends it was a quote..from the video..that you're watching..
+VibeRed$ oh my gosh sorry😱
+Katie Friends all good 😎 #teamiphone
+Paulo Santos it's America
A girl stabbed me once, that mean she liked me?
I'd be positive.
Cant be too sure, try again.
bruh😂😂😂😂😂
I can't really tell from your example; I mean she's probably just using you for self defense practice or she didn't have a knife sharpener on her and decided to use your blood as a lubricant substitute. Best advice is to keep your wits about you and keep looking for signs... while at the same time running to the nearest ER ASAP.
Xeno Blade don't check for signs of interest. check your vital signs instead 😂
Why You Should Not Get Advice From Women about Women
When I was having trouble understanding women, I remember going to my women friends for advice. I figured:
Hey, they’re women, so they should have a clue and be able to help me out, right?
''''''''''''Wrong.''''''''
The advice they gave me
seemed
sound,
and it meshed with what I had always thought about women.
This sometimes pisses women off, but the truth is, the average woman does not understand what attracts them to one guy vs. another. What they say they want in a man is not what they actually date and stay with. Most women, when you bring your problems about understanding another woman to them, will try to make you feel better about what is going on. It is just like when you try to date a woman, she is not going to tell you straight out:
Hey, I’m really not interested.
A woman friend is not going to burst your ego and tell you:
Hey, it sounds as though
she just doesn’t like you. Move on.
Instead, they will give you rationalizations:
Maybe she is just coming out of a bad relationship. Maybe she really isn’t getting your calls. Maybe she just likes you too much and is afraid of getting into something right now.
Women are emotional beings and will always think about how what they say is going to make you feel. So take their advice with a grain of salt.Why do women, even our female friends, do this to us? I believe it is mostly because they don’t want to deal with your questions of:
So tell me why she doesn’t like me. Is there something wrong with me?
without hurting your feelings
.
They would rather try to soothe it over and nudge you gently in another direction, rather than being straight up about their suspicions and hurt you.Women are all about emotions and emotional reactions. Men are more straightforward. While men may deal from a place of emotions, they don’t take time to necessarily look at the emotional side of the equation. They would rather have simple, non-emotionally clouded answers. The trouble is that our women friends do nothing more than cloud the issue rather than setting us straight.
They like danger, if you're a good had working man your mr safe, and mr safe is boring, they may say they want a good man good job good with kids, but they will find that boring, treat em mean keep em keen is still the best advise for a man.
Suleman Rashid Iddrissu u'r right
You're a genius. No joke. I totally agree. Women wont say something like "she doesnt want you because youre ugly....because you have bad breath....because you are short.....because youre just skinny and unnatractive". That would be tough, but would be at least honest. Women hate honesty and truth; they have to decorate everything in pink clouded dreams and comfortable ideas. They arrange fairy-like marriages with a guy they think is nice enough...only to get fucked like cows in the honeymoon. Then they try to arrange this issue in another pink fashion, and move on.
better actors get woman /girls easily .... be sociopath for getting women ....
+prashant kumar parmanu "When I was having trouble understanding women, I remember going to my women friends for advice. I figured:
Hey, they’re women, so they should have a clue and be able to help me out, right?"
Sure, if you want to trick someone into marrying you with no sex and no prenup;, women are EXPERTS at doing that.
But it's kind of easy to figure out on your own; , the TRICK is how to do the OPPOSITE of those three things.
If you spend all your time just hanging around with a girl you risk ending up friendzoned.
The best way to find out what women want, is by not listening to what they actually tell you ;)
Synchrodipity lol lol ......lol lol funny as hell....lol lol .......im still laughing....lol
Got it. So next time I get lucky and my coworker takes off her scarf next to me, drag her into the store cupboard.
she keeps blocking me on social media websites is this a sign that she is not interested or is she playing hard to get?
lol if u didn't do anything wrong yes she hate u
+Donald Sleightholme lmaooo, take the hint, you were probably being creepy thats why she blocked you
look at ur profile pic, she doesnt like u. jk ur pic is fine but u were probably creepy af
hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha ha ha ha aah
+adam pagan Lol, what about financial stability? We could work but it doesn't hurt if the other does so as well. Besides material things doesn't bring eternal happiness.
If I get pepper sprayed doe's that mean she likes me?
eagleeyedpsycho yes
rencrow or she's saying fuck off xD
yes means she's obsses w u
+eagleeyedpsycho baHAHAHAH!
depends on how bad it burns
so little to go on and a great leap of faith on our side
This is the first realistic video about girls I've seen in a long time. Just shows we have actually no hope of picking a girl that's interested in us. I would have to give an ultimatum of leaving town unless she starts hanging out with me to find it out if all she wants is more time and space.
I loveee how you do these videos in one take. Amazing
Me too
*1. When she tells you to your face that She's interested and wants to date!*
the last statement is awesome, "a woman feeling like she's doing her job, being the girl" so good, thanks!
I thought her name was Harley Quinn lol
Who didn't?
You're not too brite.
Same here brother! No joke, honestly
when she buys yo mixtape.
+Mc DaviD Young Mixtape?
What is this? 1998?
+Remc0 Schedel this man cannot be stopped he can only be contained!
you cant hold me, im a ticking time bomb ready to blow....like my last mixtape
Great video :) I showed this video to my boyfriend and asked him how he knew I was interested in him and if I have a "tell". He said he knew I was interested when I let him briefly touch my hands. He said the way he used to see if a girl was into him while out at a pub or party was to make some reason to touch the girls hands briefly. like "wow that's a beautiful ring". He said if a woman pulled away or didn't let him touch or hold then, she sure as hell isn't going to let him touch anything else lol
Mishelle Rauth I'll have to try that technique thanks
I'm going to try that too but with my cock
over millions of "Does she like you" videos. There are -27 "Does he like you" videos.
Ladies this gives you a hint. Tell the guy, you make the first move, be more strait forward instead of this crazy mind game type weird stuff.
Women are confusing as hell, she wants to hang out to let you know she likes you?! Up until now I thought if she "hangs out" with you then your friend zoned!
dude, just ask her... unless she seems like a bitch, then just dont xD
This is ALL under the proviso that women know what the fuck they are doing as well. Which they don't.
The FUCK they don't!
They know how to get married to someone with no sex and no prenup-- guys just don't WANT that.
+Tom Evans No pre-nup with Sally Hemmings, huh?
Adam 1 Get your head out of your ass and your facts straight.
What if they start running? I mean, how far should I chase them before I use the beanbags?
Dam Haley, I'd holler at you with a quick-ness. Your so honest and sincere, now thats really attractive.
what i wanted to say is, that in America women have no problem approaching men.
in fact, your last scenario has actually happened to me on more then one occasion .
The truth is most men appreciate a sincere approach, it takes two to tango,
women shouldn't wait for a guy to make the first move, a nice hello is all ways a good ice breaker.
This doesn't make a woman look bad in any way ,it gives an opportunity to let the guy know she isn't snobby or stuck up.
With that being said, its nice to know that there's still ladies that value romance, and companionship.
Thats the beginning of the best type of relationships between men and women.
Keep up the good work you're doing a great job with your videos, this is actually one of the best I've seen on this topic.
Way too many women love to flirt and get attention, when in reality they have no intention of ever going out with you. Head games.
ClimbnFish ----- very true. just bee cus she talks 2 u does'nt mean shes wants u. 2. many f...king games. i hope women read this and except it as a fact!
ClimbnFish - Women are continually seeking validation. Most signs of interest are nothing more than referencing their eligibility status. If she's an 8 and thinks you're one and you return her glance that gives her validation. That's why when as a guy when you can't be bothered women try so much harder, but show interest and their interest falls.
I agree. This game they play is annoying. It's like "how much skin do I have to reveal to get X number of guys messaging me. My friend got 500 mails in a week by showing her boobs. Let's see if I can do the same by just showing cleavage..."
It's easy to tell if a person is interested or an attention whore simply by being in contact with them and asking if they like to do stuff. It's so time consuming though, with all these wannabe sluts around...
3 signs and 6 mins .....
Thanks for this , video is boring
Yup
Girls think every guy should be into them. Sometimes guys just arent into you ! And some of the shit youre saying would be stalkerish if it was a guy. Guys are timid these days because we get called creeps and stalkers just for looking at a pretty girl. Thats not our fault, its your fault. These days we just want a good nice girl that talks nicely to us. There is no such thing as "chasing" after a girl anymore. Were not allowed to do that. Thats why a lot of guys come off as cold or awkward.
So when you put out these signals like take off your shirt and put on lip gloss in an office with lots of men how do I know you're into ME, the protagonist and not some NPC hunk... sorry, I think of dating in visual novel terms because I've been alone most of my life and nothing seems to work.
I like your new hair style/colour. Big diference from before.
It is something special about aussi accent,that I like.
Sometimes the best cure for a disapointed heart is to spend time with a lots of lovely ladies, so I found you Hayley. Here as a woman, and can relate to everything you say. Akward and clumsy is soo true.. and all of the appearance focus. We try to look our best. I once saw a sweet girl friend of mine walk around at a social event out side in a cute dress without her jacket on. It was clear to me she was trying to impress someone. Now she is married to that guy. Some people are just so blessed.
I love the comments on these types of videos. So many confused men.
Attraction occurs at a basic instinctive level, attraction isn't a choice. Regardless of what you think or what people tell you, you can't make a woman like you with words.
You all need to study some biological evolution to truly understand how to seduce a woman. You'd be amazed how easy it actually is.
Also, having muscles is 90% of the battle. This is because women want to feel protected and safe. This is also why they don't like small guys.
Why think you always have to find anything more than already is? It is such a pleasure just to share the space together. Why more?
You're good at like demonstrations of this kind of thing.
So basically, no clear sign we can work off of.. which leaves us having to just guess and approach everyone we halfway like on the off chance one will reciprocate..
*A lot of guys miss these cues because they overthink what interest looks like, but body language never lies. How many of you have realized in hindsight that she was dropping these hints and you didn’t even pick up on them until later?*
You know chic, who made this video.
You need to make videos in encouraging young girls to be more open about their feelings. Not "teaching" guys how to "read signs".
It's not a guys job to learn how to read female.
All you women are role models for younger girls and you are sending the wrong messages to them in how to interact with their peers.
"Oh he should understand how i feel, i sat next to him and smiled. I gave him a sign!"
Signs replace certainty with doubt. They create assumptions....
You spend so much time in trying to be a guide for men when your energy should be in young girls. So they don't end up with the same assumptions you older women have about men.
If girls became more honest with themselves and others around them. Guys will know exactly where they stand
Distinguish between a deliberate signal and an unintentional sign of attraction.
You may have noticed from all your comments one key thing that every man on here seems to agree upon... Women choose men. Why do we think that? Because we pursue. By pursuing we aren't choosing, we're asking to be chosen. Pursuit does not give us the power of choice, ultimately it's a yes or a no from ladies that ultimately decides. Now, you may say that we Initially choose by asking, but think of asking as fishing with a large net. Us fellas fail ten times before we succeed. Also, if I'm being honest, we for the most part, know relatively quickly if a girl likes us...
first main sign is " She looks at your wallet a lot"
Hayley. The info you are giving is lovely. great tips. also not the least though-Your eyes are beautiful.
This video was really helpful. Thanks for the advise ^^
Some women are not obscure as she puts it. Some women will touch you or more like brush up against you. It takes the mystery out of it but still, it's special just the same. In a good way.
This. On two separate occasions at work, I was the recipient of the 'b00b brush' ...by the Human Resources Director. But, I never pursued because of the potential consequences of what might have happened if the hookup ever went southward.
Yeah. I've always thought dating someone from work is destined for doom. Especially if she happens to be married. The first person a jealous husband would suspect is someone from work. Stay far away from that hell.
very good! i learned something. in my situation, since she is a health worker, she wouldn't b putting on makeup or brushing her hair, etc, since it would b unprofessional 4 her to do so. but the day i met her, she wasn't wearing any eye makeup. ever since then she has, unless i showed up unannounced. also the day we met, when our appointment was finished, she shook my hand & 1/2 way to her office, she turned & gave me a beautiful smile. unfortunately i've given her mixed signals & she has done the same. she has been a little awkward at times & so have i. i just wish i was worthy of her. tho i'm not her equal in the looks dept (she is beautiful, especially w/out makeup), we r both attractive. but she is a successful woman who owns her own business & she has her act together. i don't. what do i have to offer her? hopefully someday that will change. i have been absolutely smitten w/her ever since the day we met.
How to check who loves u more your dog or your girlfriend?
Ariku Irmiya Your dog doesn't get mad when you call it a bitch
get them both to jump in the back trunk of a car.
when their in, quickly shut it!
come back 5 hours later and open the trunk, see with one is looking more happy to see ya..
But the cars now a day have a latch inside the trunk to open.
Son Luc i dont think the dog would think about that;)
Hayley Quinn lol that fooled me for a sec
Abdullah sounds like hairy queen.
Haley for someone who is claimed to know relationships, you are completely and utterly WRONG! that statement “guys choose females, females don’t choose guys” it’s relationship 101 that attraction is NOT A CHOICE! Also it’s the female who chooses the guy. The female is the one that gives the signal initially. She gives him what’s known as an approach tone. So I think you need to go back to the drawing board.
Haley umm are you single/married?!
Moral of this video: never ask a cow how to milk a cow, ask the farmer
Thank you for your insight Hayley. :)
That was a really good video I enjoyed that full of truth. Attraction = awkwardness
Basically anything can be a sign which leaves us more clueless... she can like you if she behaves kindly or if she is standoffish... which one is it? lol
Your Second point is true for all human's. men also get very awkward around women they like. Great video
Here's the problem; If the lady acts more feminine when a guy she likes is around and he never experiences her acting any other way (does not know how she acts around some one she isn't in to.) It can be confusing for men either because She is being way to subtle or He may think "oh that's just how She acts, possibly with everybody." He may not notice She is acting different. What are ways Men can find out these when they aren't even aware that they should be paying attention.
Women don't understand that the guys who approach them don't do it because he correctly read her signals but despite of them. 99% of the guys who will approach her are most likely just players who give a damn, with the one odd guy who mustered up all his courage to go and ask her because he's genuinely interested, also not really because he correctly read her "signals". And if that one guy is nervous and he will be if he's really interested, he'll mess it up and she'll think he's a freak and creeper, instead of just shy. Women are far too used to the few confident players who always approch them, to be able to understand what a guy who is really only into her is really like.
LOL..the stall cupboard?! I must start using this.
Those of us with a life and women in our lives don't really go around wondering if a women is into us. We did that in high school, then hopefully we grew out of it in favor of being a MAN. That's one big difference between guys that women are attracted to, and those she just wants to be friends with. A real man doesn't really think about it because he is too busy being a mature adult who is emotionally strong, intelligent, and taking care of his business. There is simply no time to sit back and wonder. It's when you start thinking oh does she like me or I wonder if she's into me, is when guys revert back to being a little boy again. Be a man, if she is into you cool, if not, so what, there are beautiful girls everywhere. It matters not whether she is into you because if she wasn't there is nothing you can genuinely do to change that anyway, other than pretending to be the kind of guy she WOULD like. That creates a vicious circle of never ending low self esteem behavior of trying to be someone they are not, depriving her of ever knowing the real guy. Be yourself and let the cards fall where they may. We are better off concentrating on being a man of our word, doing what we say we will and being accountable for our family and friends. Think more about doing the things a man is put on this earth to do, and females will be into you. It's somewhat of a social paradigm. Try to be someone you are not so she will like you, and you are headed for a life of neediness and rejection. Be yourself with unending passion and don't give a fuck, and the world is yours. Is this making any sense Hayley Quinn?
PS Hayley Quinn i think you are kinda cute and charming but please stop trying to give well meaning advice about women, TO MEN. I'm sure you mean well, but you are clearly not a man. But, thanks for caring anyway. Assuming men need advice about a needy feeling they are having only makes some guys think its normal, and it's not. Women wonder if a guy is into them, as they should. A real man doesn't have time for that. One more thing, ATTRACTION IS NOT A CHOICE, SO YOUR VIDEO IS POINTLESS! If you ever come to the States, you should look me up. Google me and get in touch. Maybe we could collaborate on some real issues between women and men. It's something we both have an obvious passion for.
She brought her medical study stuff into work today. Mixed in with all this stuff was the "fun" thing she has to work on. Which she went out of her way to show me. And it was 10 Ways to Ruin A First Date.
This really sums up why so many women are single and cant find a man.
Not slagging of women but yea.
Sometimes my crush looks at me a lot and sometimes she ignores me completely, I'm confused.
I can't tell if a woman like me but it's very scary and confusing trying to meet a woman
Ok, what if she liked you before and said she would go out with you then made excuses, then started showing all these familiar signs that she likes you again?
The last day of High school when we were signing yearbooks, a girl I liked signed my yearbook however I didn't bother reading what she wrote because everyone was occupied with getting as many signatures as possible. After I went home, I read what she wrote and she said that she liked me... Thinking back to it, I missed so many signs :\
this matches up with reality much more than other advice
I always go the extra mile. The restraining order says I have to.
Thanks for the advice and now were getting married
Thanks for this helpful video
Hmmm, pretty solid information. Thank you.
Simple and clear. Thanks
All I know is "NO!" doesnt mean no, it means try harder.
"Help" means bring in 1 or men to join in on the fun
Thank you great post!
3 signs she's into you:
1) in your initial communication with her, she ask's if YOU want to meet up
2) she actually shows up at the place where your supposed to meet
3) she allows you to plow her during that first meet up all of this with her either sharing the expenses for the night OR outright paying for everything. If she doe's all of that, that's a sign that she MIGHT be into you... & if she's a 9 or 10, congratulations you've just won the human lottery...
I highly disagree with the statement that men choose women and not the other way around. Every single one of my girlfriends have chosen me while on the other hand if I ask any girl to date she is already taken.
I wish I had heard her teaching when I was young. I knew nothing about girls. I not only wanted a girl friend, I wanted girls as friends. But I was scared to talk to them because they were so different than myself and guys I knew.
I had girls tell other people they liked me but would not tell me themselves. I don't get it.
These are great tips. The comment section shows that a lot of AFC's accidentally landed on this video!
the best video on this topic 👍
key word "MIGHT"
Beautiful woman presenting. I've noticed these two local girls checking me out when I'm not looking. When I look their way, they get nervous and turn around. They seem to wave and smile when they go by in their vehicles, probably because there is more potential to leave if things get uncomfortable. Both are attractive, but I only see them half the time and talk to them very rarely.
Hahaha I am married but one day I met a fellow runner (she knew I was married) but she always gets nervous fumbles awkward but we go running and she opens up a lot
However she always goes out of her way to hang with us(family) My wife recognises she has a crush on me ( she is only 22 ) but I didn't want to acknowledge it
But I did realise early that she had this weird awkward feeling towards me but I have been up front with her from the start besides having 6 kids married for 18 years I have to much respect love for my wife and family
I could easily take advantage of the situation but reality is I have a life!!!
Vivian Richards does she like your wife
paul forsell lol I didn't know to be honest just depends on what you mean by "like" hehe .
The other nights @Christmas party she introduced her "boyfriend" to me lol kinda weird like she kept asking for my opinion on him all night blablablah she even asked my daughter where was I !!!
However I am trying to avoid any situation where we are alone just when we run even that is still a group activity
Vivian Richards sounds like you have everything under control
Yikes, that's not a good situation there man. Careful with that shit. Chicks that gutsy can be complete nutters.
"All L'Oreal Commercial" LOL... :)
Women love a honest down-to-earth good sense of humor guy someone that is real and not fake but the best part is when you can be yourself around a woman at the laugh and enjoy yourself
I never knew women hung out longer with me because they liked me. The only ones that hang out are the ones that are in less physical shape than me. I assumed they wanted me to help them exercise.
What if she likes you and you don't like her back.
Roflmao!!
spadeAxe then you fuck anyway. DUH
What if man is given all the right body language signals...and she wants to spend lots of 1 on 1 time but says she is only interested in friendship.
ugh...somebody get doc brown's time machine and go back to stop my parents from conceiving me...too much confusion...makes me ill:(
I got a question ? Why do girls talk so much ?
attention
Dread D ego
Dread D exactly and move there eyes around while blinking all the time
this is the first "does she like you" video that's actually accurate.
If she leaves the blinds open just a little when she's changing for bed so I can get a better view from the bushes, is that a sign she likes me?
I get really nervous and girls tend to think I don't like them
This May Sound Stupid But Literally guys if she touches her hair a lot while talking to you or if she scratches her shoulder or arm more than usual, it means she finds you attractive and wants to be groomed by you. Yup, we are not very different from monkeys haha.
you're a great communicator
as a girl, I stumbled on this video and watched it just to see how accurate it was. I thought it was going to be completely wrong, but surprisingly everything in it is right. I flirt exactly like this although I can get a bit more bold if I think the guy might like me back and he's not making a move but not by much. same goes for all my friends.
Not waiting for a "clear signal" is called harassment, lol.
A girl at work used to sit more upright around me especially when we were mostly alone in an office area. I guess that's a sign. Lots of other signs i could call out as well but the weird thing is that she had a boyfriend too. Is this normal for girls to still act flirty around guys even if they have a boyfriend?
Women don't chose guys? lol... Trust me, they do. It doesn't happen often, but they do!
I had to laugh at that too! This isn't 1943... lol!
Even then, the only difference is, that they would have made sure no one was looking before they made their move.
+Reuben Stern Which makes it the exception vs. the rule.
Women love to say "well not ALL women do that," because they don't know the fucking DIFFERENCE!
I like the old saying: 'A woman lets a man chase her until she catches him'.
I agree with you, in a way. Women set the pace. If a mans too sexual too soon, it's over, not sexual enough, it's the friend zone, or they'll suddenly ignore them totally. Even though it seems to be more about kissing them at the right time (or some bollocks, I dunno, I fuck it up a lot!!)
But if there's a lot of chasing involved, and it's not a two way thing. You can't be sure whether she likes you or not, but you can safely assume she will NEVER hook up with you.
These days I expect a rapport pretty soon. I expect them to make an effort to meet me. I don't mind making the first move, but if they don't seem to give a shit, or have the ability to "play hard to get", they are obviously a waste of time.
You watch these women that love to be chased. They have men jumping through hoops making fools of themselves. They get nothing but errands and insults, maybe a little flirtation when they start to lose interest. Then a man comes who's actually their type, and they pounce on him the moment he says "hello".
When a woman wants you, it's easy. people make the mistake of thinking their slags or something. Not true... they just can't control themselves around you!
Saying that, I'm no pick up artist.....
I just ask them out , easiest way to figure it out.
Although I will say on occasion the ones you ask out and they say no , may be into you later.
why not just flat-out ask her out?
Tronald Dump grab them by the pooh nany
lmao
Great video. What if I told a girl I liked her and she said shes too busy to date? Yet i think i got her to go on a date with me next week.
Does this mean that if two women are hanging around a bit too long that they want a three way?
Excellent and informative, and a British presenter without all the woops etc of our American cousins :)
well this was an interesting viewing and i know a woman who has done all of this, however she is already in a relationship...
Hayley you are lovely, great video.