bad past with your SP? NO PROBLEM! manifest them easily like this.
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my shit self-concept led me to sabotage our relationship, and now that i realised my mistake im getting him back 💃
We got this girlie its already done
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ME WITH MY SP LOL
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Any update?
Honestly, it's the only video you need on manifesting a person who you have history with. It's just perfect ❤ I recommend to watch it on repeat instead of jumping from one video to another (I know we're all guilty of that 😅). Thank you so much for this video 😊
I love this video. A lot of sp manifestation videos only give techniques that are truly useful to people who want to manifest a new SP. I want to manifest an old SP back. Our story isn't the worst or the best. I still see him as a good man but the old story definitely isn't ideal😅 it was very complicated and no closure was there. Thank you for explaining how to manifest when you have history with an sp. I appreciate it so much!
I've watched more videos than im willing to admit and this has been the best one on manifesting a different version of our SP or operant power in general ! Thank you! ❤
you’re so welcome! glad it was helpful 😊
omg i commented on another video about how i felt like i couldn’t get past something and this has completely changed my outlook
"Duh" that is my affirmation! I LOVE THAT! thank you!
of course! 🫶🏾
When I looked at your subscribers, I was shocked; I was expecting hundreds of thousands of them. Really, this is the best content on manifesting a specific person I saw on the internet. Enough with the "you have to be detached / you have to do this / you have to do that" bullshit. Why would I want to be with someone who needs me to be detached? The version of them I'm choosing to be with would die to be with me just because I am me: I could be as clingy as I want and they would still choose me because they love me unconditionally. It is that simple. Great video, sending love! You look beautiful by the way and I love the way you talk
thank you love! i’m happy you enjoyed the video 😊
I LOVE What You said ❤❤❤
Thank you 😭 I have been manifesting an sp for 4 years (on and off) but now I already understand on how to get things right now
i like "i recognize this is an old story" because revision is killing me i cannot just pop up like it didn't happen.
Love your videos! & you’re so right, once I stopped focusing on the circumstances with my sp, they went away😊
the fact that he texted me 3 mins into this video lol okay i'm listening
Nice❤
Now, you know you’re lying.
girl i wanted to let you know ever since this video came out i watch it every morning or night
i intend that it serves you well 🖤
That old story can make you spiral. Good content 👍
sis. i have to say, this video snatched me right up. it's so powerful. one thing that SP is teaching me through my continuing to look at the 3D (i'll stop, i promise) is that i always find new videos and new people to open my mind and expand my self-concept. thank you thank you
9:15 Correction. For some people, who were abandoned, or experienced some stuff that were not favorable, they'd have a hard time believing if someone would choose them, so indeed, they need reasons and reassurance that they do possess good qualities, that make them unique and highly desirable. Just because you don't question your worth, doesn't mean other's don't either. Psychologically speaking
this may come as a surprise to you, but i have also experienced abandonment and things that were unfavorable. i am in fact a human being having a human experience. we all have our stories and mine used to SERIOUSLY suck. i’m saying that any justification (or lack thereof) you can come up with is still just your personal belief. instead of believing you are worthy based on how you look or the effort you’ve put into changing yourself or a situation, you can choose to believe you’re inherently worthy no matter what. simply because you exist. you don’t need to justify having your desires. you are all that is. it’s possible for you to make that leap, it’s only dependent on your willingness to release the old story. source can (and imo should) be your only reassurance, never anything outside of you.
This made it click for me! Ill come back to this when i struggle
Me too!
Self concept isn’t it. States of being is. Just change the story or revise the past. When you shift states the beliefs will change with the new state
your state is dependent on your self concept babe. are you telling me you’re walking around in a state without an identity? you can’t have one without the other, and both are important
You can also make a video about manifesting an ideal person from scratch:))) (not for me, but I know that people may need to hear this)
OMG I'm brazilian and this video is really so good!❤❤
I just cannot get out of the blame. I do not want to be this person but I find myself constantly blaming them. Trying to be nice to myself by saying it's okay I was hurting but it's been over a year and it feels like the hurt will never go away and thus the blaming as well
You are helping me so much in healing from a breakup. Thank you
Wooow, that was so good. My big sis layin down the wisdom 😁
I swear your from Canada the way you speak and soothing... big up yah self same way... love your views..
Thank you for explaining it this way...in fact I find it being explained by far the best❤.... thank you... I now will try it your way...& See the results ❤
you got this! 🫶🏾
Ngl i needed this cuz me and my boyfriend are going through it😖I am trying to hard to recreate our relationship tbh. Last night all my worst fears was reflected in what he told me (his needs and wants not being met, if we fell out of love it's normal, polyamory to meet his needs/wants as an option, etc.) All of that hurt. I got so mad this morning i deleted our chat but I'm worried because he wanted me to make notes of what he said so we can fix our relationship. But i didn't cuz i didn't wanna repeat the old story and see all the hurtful stuff that was said. So I'm just manifesting we magically fix things or our relationship just is fixed on it's own😌
Even after 7 months I still can't fathom our breakup because we also had that best friend/ couples relationship thing.
It’s been 2 years for me and I still love him 🤷🏻♀️
0:28 and 30:22
I think you’ve nailed it for me.
Beautiful ❤ peaceful ❤️ answer of everything
So good! Thank you i appreciate this helping me so much taking all this advice
This video was a godsend. Thank you. :)
thank you so much 😭 i’ve been searching for answers but your re the best 🎉
I changed my self concept and love how deserving I am of the treatment I wanted from my old sp, well now a new sp came in and is treating me the way I deserve. That’s great the only problem now is the attraction is not there. 😡 how can I fix this. I want an sp that treats me correctly and we have crazy mutual attraction as well?
Excellent explanation 🩷
ooh i needed this
This is such a great video. Thank you!!
i’m glad you found it helpful! 😊
Awesome video! Thank you for your help!
This was really really good. Thank you.
you bet!
So pretty😍
thank you queen 🥰
So do you think we should just let sp be until they come to us as the desired version? For example. Right now we’re in no contact as he wasn’t being his ideal version and I told myself I deserve more. He comes around and tells me he misses me but I feel like I shouldn’t entertain that because his actions show different. Or do you think I should reply? I always get severe anxiety and feel like if I don’t reach out the relationship may not work
it is totally your choice not to interact with sp until they show up favorably. you’re not doing anything wrong! you can’t eff it up! just keep choosing to see him the way you want to in your imagination
@@morebeing I'm glad you said this bc I have reached out to my sp first and so many people say you shouldn't do that and I hate feeling like I cant talk to him why should we be scared to say how are you or something to a person that we care about
Well the old version of them no longer exists. I spiraled because I was so fixated on the old version 😢
Amazing video… loved the way you explained everything!❤
thank you! i’m glad you enjoyed 😊
It works❤
You’re amazing I love love love this. I subscribed immediately. Can’t wait to watch all your videos 🥰🥰🥰🥰
yay!! i’m so happy you’re here 🥹
How would I go about my sp speaking to other girls while we were working on being together. I’m choosing to go no contact because of my anger but all my friends are sending me videos about men and how he’s never going to change because I keep staying in confused on listening to the reality because what if that’s try and affirming for him to stop ughh this is stressful
Thankyou for this video
you’re so welcome! 🤍
Thanks Queen, loved the video & the vibe. PS - You're freaking gorgeous ❤️
thank you sm! so happy you enjoyed 😊🤍
I LOVE YOUR CONTENT ❤ Can you make a video about 3P please? ✨
Thanks for your channel❤
thanks for watching!
I’m going on 74 this new year and I don’t have options. I have manifested many things. My astrologer tells me that in this lifetime I will not have a permanent relationship. I am looking for a miracle.
you are the miracle. only you can say what is possible for you. options are always available if you choose to see them
I think you should change astrologer because to me that sounds negative and limiting. The only person you should listen to is yourself, validate yourself. You don’t need validation from an astrologer or tarot reader, even if it might be fun, it also might be negative and make you spiral or create negative assumptions.
i agree with all your points ! buttt i have a question… if your SP and you have had past and you manifest them back do you just pretend that the past didn’t happen at all ? i find it kind of awkward and strange not to address anything that took place and act like nothing happened but i know that a lot of coaches say when you revise you can’t bring anything up. so how does one maneuver in the relationship when the past is never addressed
I’d love to see Joey foster a rabbit. Especially a mother rabbit 🐰
Great video❤
So I’m just curious…say you work on your self concept and you manifest the Sp back, and he’s treating you like a princess. But then something happens in your life(it could be something ranging from a bad day at work to a loss of a family member) where you are grieving, mourning, in depression, and etc…will that Sp leave because you’re no longer in the embodied state? That’s where I’m confused with because I see married couples whose green flag husbands still stick with the wife through the good and bad. Is it really so delicate that when you have a bad day or a self pity party that the Sp will just act cold?
no, it’s not that delicate. your story about how sp treats you does not have to be attached to you having an off day. it’s about how you see them in relationship to yourself. your state is constantly fluctuating, but you can maintain the awareness of being in a loving and supportive relationship no matter what
@@morebeing thank you for replying to me! ❤️
I don’t know how to forgive him or forget what happened, deeply in my soul I wish I could but it hurts me so bad, I don’t know what to do
we’ll dive deeper in another vid 🫂
how would i get my sp back? we were together for 1 year and he said that he’ll message me in a few months but I’ve just found out he’s got a new girlfriend. i’ve been affirming and scripting but i’ve been wavering due to me being sad about it
Don't waver ... Always be on a mental diet and persist no matter what u see in 3d always affirm till u get what u want
@@alfiyae3377 thank you, how do i get on a mental diet?
hi yvette! here’s my most recent vid about mental diet: ruclips.net/video/Pk-nnZkIqcI/видео.htmlsi=fNq-r4D2MB5Fv5PL i think you’ll find it helpful!
How do you simultaneously set boundaries in the present while pretending that they are the ideal version.
there is no pretending. you can follow the old script in your 3d to its end while living in your new end in imagination. the shift happens when you accept your imagined end as truth more dominantly than the old story
Ok this is what I don’t understand how to reconcile. I live with sp. if I am trying to see him as the new version of himself how to I assume he is the new version of himself and also see him as “not my sp” when he does behaviors from the old version. I feel like that holds me in a place of being stuck. It’s the same confusion I have around persisting. People say not to insist that things are good in your 3d when they aren’t because that creates resistance, but I’m also supposed to be living in the end and keeping my eyes on the version I want. But I’m also not supposed to be double minded?
How to know SP is right person for me? As I've seen my SP's worstsides and who hurts me really badly.. I'm confused manifesting my SP back
there is no right or wrong in my opinion, just what you will choose for you. there is a “better” version of that SP, but there also exists a new person fully capable of fulfilling your desires. but, i recommend you watch my first SP video-“watch this before you manifest an sp” i think it’s called. get clear about what you want and WHY you want it. that root desire may be different than you think!
Manifesting aside
.. what if I almost had my sp but didn't have confidence at tye time to make a move.. and now that im more confident, she is curious but stull resistant
what’s stopping you from letting go of that last bit of resistance? are you seeing her as already yours?
@morebeing honestly not completely. I'm over the "loss" just frustrated about the 3d. She came back once but I was still resistant and regret now. If I see her again I think im ready but I don't see her no more..
What if i was the problem in our relationship? I have hurt him many times… now he says that he won’t forget my bad words toward him, he has moved on and says we werent matching… is it still possible to get him back? Will he forget the bad ?
I have this question too
did yall even see the video 👀
I do everything you said, he is totally in love with me and such a cutie to me, no drama if he dosen't text right away. But the only thing makes me fight with the 3d is a 3th Party, how can I change that? I am angry and I don't wanna do like nothing happens, he needs to apologise... can you help?
i have a video on manifesting an apology!
I want him back. But I'm not sure it's good.
it’s okay to ask for guidance love. make space to listen to your heart 🤍
Tell me you live in Florida bc I want to be friends! 🎉
do you think you can expand on the i remember when?
i’ve spoken about it already in a couple other videos, but i can totally revisit it!
does this also work if my SP and I are in no contact?
absolutely!
Do you have any advice regarding, not entertaining the “unfavorable” version of our SP while living in relationship with them?
I hope I didn’t miss the mark over anything you mentioned, but living with my partner while manifesting the ideal version of us that I want gets confusing.
You mentioned not to entertain the old version of them. And yes resentment is my current block to get over. But I initiate the daily affection because SP hardly does which I created that. I know.
When I don’t give affection and go to sleep or leave without a kiss for example, I feel like this is feeding life to the old story because it’s from a place of resentment, like “fuck you, you come get me” because I want her to reciprocate affection and love too.
On the flip side when I am giving affection because that’s just who I am, that old story comes in because she doesn’t “Kiss” me and receive me the way I want her to and my awareness is on that. It’s the breadcrumb bullshit, just a peck or her attention somewhere else and I’m forcing that kiss to happen
Would it be better to just stop giving affection altogether and stay within the ideal version of us and end goal and just not interact much with the version I see out here right now? Or be my affectionate self but maintain that solid conviction that yeah, I’ma kiss you and I don’t care how it’s received because within I know that you’re going to relish every second of my love anyway because within imagination, that’s the real reality.
I think I just answered my own question because the latter naturally feels better to me… but any advice would be awesome! Thank you for this video!! I truly needed to hear every damn bit it 🙌
If I may offer my thoughts because I've been in your shoes. I would "decenter" this version of your SP. It's hard at first but it gets easier. The more you chase anyone even a toddler, even a dog... the more they run the other way. So as hard as it is... go doooooo Something else.. anything else that gives you dopamine hits and so much passion that you lose track of time. When you are lit up from the inside like that, you are irresistible! Let there be the space you are soooo afraid of. Hug yourself. literally! So affection to yourself and heal the parts that ache for someone else's affection. The space we who have been emotional abandoned feel (old story) feels like an emergency. THats our nervous system seeking comfort. You can comfort you. Only your love can heal it so pour ALL of your love and YOUR affection onto YOURSELF and you will find peace. And watch how the space between you ... watch how your SP will be the one who comes running.
what @iammoxxi said is spot on! your frustration with sp not returning your affection is an issue that will continue to persist until you see them as the version who is openly and consistently affectionate. anything you do in the 3d like pushing affection on them doesn't have anywhere near the impact that your mental focus does--and ultimately may just exacerbate your frustration. when you pull that energy back into yourself and know that you are the one she is chasing down to give affection instead of chasing it or taking it from her, you become open to allowing her to show up differently for you. this old story and any 3d evidence that comes along with it is beyond temporary. it has no importance at all once you choose what it will be. you have to decide and know whole heartedly that you cannot mess this up and focusing on yourself and simply seeing sp differently in your mind is actually the fastest way to "bring her closer" (quotes bc she's already yours energetically as soon as you decide and you aren't separate from the version you want). if you leave and she doesn't give you a kiss, step right into your imagination and give it to yourself there and give her the grace to keep seeing her that way until she shows up for you. if you are in alignment with that version of yourself she must eventually rise up to match you. but no matter what you do or don't do when you're with her presently, you will only be able to see her within the limitations of the story you have about her and how she treats you.
@@iammoxxi (I went to town writing a reply I didn’t intend to post because i just needed to make sense of my own thoughts. Buuuut ima leave this super long reply because it might help someone in my shoes lol Thanks for your initial reply, I appreciate it.)
Decenter. Yes. I’ve literally been pouring all my focus on her. What she’s doing. What she’s not doing. What’s not happening in the relationship “because of her”. What she thinks about me. The way she’s showing up and how she sees me. Why I’m not being treated like XyZ.
Every time I hear the intention to “focus on yourself” it brings this anger to me because I do focus on myself. I do love myself. But, looking deeper, that’s not true because everything has been as I described above. Literally the whole last few months of my life has been abandoned to the mercy of why my relationship isn’t what I want it to be and blaming my partner for it.
My journey through learning the LOA has been amazing and awful. It’s fire and ice and love and hate. Literally. It’s bringing up all the sides of me I didn’t know were there. This is truly my shadow work. Everything is on display and I know it’s not about my partner. I know everything that is in my life is reflecting me. It has nothing to do with anyone else. Not my relationship. Not my family life or friends or money or joy and fun.
My shadows are truly on display. So when I hear focus on yourself, why do I get mad? Because in my head, i am focusing on myself. I’m going around throwing a tantrum that I deserve the best love and all the love because truly, I am loving and I take care of the people I love and I love hard. I take care of myself and do genuinely love myself.
But I haven’t realized what loving myself and choosing myself really means. At first I thought choosing myself meant fucking everything else and doing whatever I wanted to do for the sake of creating distance and initiating a push-pull dynamic. Instead of actually doing something because I genuinely wanted to and it brought me joy.
I thought loving myself meant, well, I’m still figuring this one out.
I think it means to pull away from the 3D and everything that’s unfavorable. Stop thinking about what my partner is doing, what she’s thinking, why she’s thinking it, who she used to be, who I want her to be, and all the ways she isn’t showing up ideally for me.
It’s her her her her her. All day. In my head. All day.
That’s not loving me. That’s being a slave to my own conception of her free will. Which she doesn’t have. That’s her on my pedestal. That’s her in the center of my reality.
That’s not loving myself. That’s not truly loving myself. That’s neglecting my very power and my very love.
That’s saying that yes I’m so damn loving and I’m the best thing that can ever happen to anyone but I’m not being treated that way but I deserve to be. Then asking Why am I not being treated that way?
That’s not loving myself. To know that I deserve it and to think that I’m not already in the state of being treated like that.
I am the best and most loving person anyone could ever fucking dream of having, and yeah, I am that. I have that because I am that, regardless of what shows up in my reality.
I am loved and cherished right now. Not when XyZ shows up to show me that.
I am amazing and great to be around now. Not when XyZ tells me.
I am such a goofy idiot and I am loved for it now! And I know that without anyone telling me because that’s just who I am. And everybody is always telling me how fun it is to be around my dorky ass.
This is loving myself.
Before, I also struggled with thinking that loving myself and letting go meant moving on to the next person, place, thing. And yeah it can mean that, if that’s what I want. I can move on to the next person. job. Interest. Car. Hobby. Friend. And yet, all that is ever my decision. In the end everything be it, partner, friend, coworker, finances, joy is only reflecting me. I can stay with my partner and letting go would truly mean letting the past go, and staying in conviction of knowing who the fuck I am and knowing that I am that, regardless of how she shows up. Because loving myself and choosing myself is not about thinking that she loves me and can’t get enough of me.
She already fucking loves me more than anything and I know that. I don’t have to go about my day thinking about her thinking about me that way. Thinking about what she’s thinking of me and how she’s seeing me. I am that. Because I just fucking am.
I get it now. That’s the pedestal I didn’t understand.
I got angry at hearing “focus on yourself” because it threatened my focus on controlling her and the outcome of my daily relationship life. It would mean to let go of control over her thoughts about me. Letting go of forcing her off the pedestal in all the wrong ways. Letting go of the resentment that crippled all the my new thinking and imagining and stopped those very thoughts from becoming reality. Letting go of changing who she is.
Instead of changing myself. There is no one to change but self.
And I see this in such clarity right now than I ever have before. This whole time I’ve been thinking that all my work was going into my self concept and changing me. A lot of it has been. But most of it has been on changing her without realizing it. And getting mad that she hasn’t reflected my new self concept.
I’ve literally been telling myself that I am incredible and amazing etc… and yes knowing that that’s true, while at the same time allowing the 3D to have the power in proving that to me. Which is me saying, “why isn’t she showing up to tell me that I’m the new me? Why isn’t she treating me like XyZ? Why isn’t this happening? I don’t feel or see this happening? Etc… “
My awareness has been against my self concept. I know who I am but also I need the validation. That’s not knowing who I am. That’s thinking that I deserve to be seen that way, but I am not that yet until someone or something tells me that yes I am that. That’s not knowing. That’s thinking that I want to be that and I won’t be that until XyZ happens in my reality.
This is the game. It’s knowing that the 3D truly has no power. Not to validate us. Not even to neglect us. The 3D has no power to hurt us or make us happy.
It’s all happening within. The power is our thinking. The 3D is literally just the mirror showing us who we are. Are we validating ourselves? Are we seeing ourselves as A or as B? Are we Ideally right now? Are we we hurting ourselves or are we happy and joyful? Who am I?
The 3D has no power to validate anything. It’s only telling us literally, in the purest most clearest form, who the fuck “I am”
@@morebeing Thank you so much for this! I appreciate it, and I definitely feel and know who I really fkn am!
I know this is a journey within ourselves to truly learn our role as creator of our reality. And I’ve been riding the waves for months now but every day, I’m truly shedding off the old layers that no longer serve me. Thanks for the response and for this video! Its definitely had its impact on me 😁⭐️
@@lilcheezy530 I love that you said that the 3D doesn’t have the power to neglect us. That is powerful
Why is there some kind of alarm sounds back ground noise in your videos ?
that’s music love lol
Would it make sense to manifest a gf proposal? I can imagine it in my head and i know exactly how i want it to happen. but because i want a relationship with sp can i still manifest the proposal part? or should i visualize us being together? can the gf proposal be “living in the end”?
Yes!! You can affirm that they officially asked you to be their gf bc they love you .. want to spend the rest of their life with you etc…
In your reality they asked you to be theirs, in your reality they want you and can’t stop thinking of you.
Don’t worry about the hows or when, just keep affirming and yes correct living in the end … to which will lead to the gf proposal.
🤩 Promo SM
I’m new to this channel, what does sp mean?
specific person!
This video is so important. Literally helped me so much. I‘m so thankful for you 🩵
it brings me so much joy to be here supporting you 🤍
Heyyy babyyy, advice here: my sp & I were together for 4 years n lost our spark which made me feel bad when he said he wasn’t sure abt me… he tried a lot to get me back and I was just so mad but now months later I recently crave and want him back bc no one else makes me happy as he did… I tried dating someone else but I just can’t … what do I do since I know I hurt him when I rejected his attempts to getting back together bc I was hurt?😞🩷
the past is only relevant if you decide it is! see him loving you and accepting you back into his life anyway and know that everything is good between you. it will work itself out 🫶🏾
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