Love this so much! When I was about 36 and my kids were close to grown I wanted to go back to college, but was so scared. And I felt awkward knowing that most of the other students were about my kids ages! I used every excuse to keep from potentially failing. One day I told my husband that it would take me 10 years to complete my BA and my MA, and finish my internship hours for licensing, which would make me 46, so what was the point? My husband said, "and how old are you going to be in 10 years if you DON'T peruse the dream?". That hit me so hard, so I enrolled and got to work. Today, I am a licensed therapist specializing in trauma and manage a clinical staff for an agency I love, with a small private practice on the side. I think how much I would have missed if I had let that fear hold me back. It is always worth stepping out of our comfort zone to pursue what we love.
This makes me so happy because I’m 35 and just graduated with my MSW getting ready to work towards licensure to be a therapist too! (After switching from an unsatisfying career). ❤️❤️❤️
I'm going back to finish school to become a dental hygienist. I know 27 isn't old, but seeing all my old high-school class mates already graduated & working makes me feel like I'm not where I need to be. I'm going back in August & I'm terrified.
Sweet Jessica, the greatest relief you will ever feel, is when you stop carrying the weight of other people's expectations. Go sing your heart out, we'll be here cheering you on.🎉
Lady, that was the most inspiring thing I've heard recently and I'm proud of you. Coincidentally, I'm doing something semi-brave tomorrow...I'm beginning the loooong journey of getting my smile back. I used to LOVE singing & doing makeup, but I lost myself for over a decade when I started drinking & doing drugs. Praise God, I got clean 5 yrs ago, but I'd already done so much damage that my teeth were really suffering. I've been fearful of having this procedure done and I didn't have the money, anyhow, so I put it off. I've covered & manipulated my smile for years now, but I finally decided it's time to face the fear and do something good for myself. So, here goes! Geronimo, I guess! any prayers are greatly appreciated as I transition into a new me! Thank you for being such a light, Jess! May God bless your new adventure! ❤
@@andaisamelia3621 Wow, I'm so glad it touched you! It's really all God's doing - I just finally surrendered & let Him do the work on me. Thank you for the kind words! ❤️
Praying for you and you can totally do it. I also started this journey a few years ago and it’s been slow going because I’d just get done a little at a time cause it’s all I could afford but I’m finally almost there and can smile again with confidence. You’ll feel so much better in the end :)
I lost my baby at 36 weeks in July. In December my husband and I started trying again. I have hid my pregnancy since then (24+ weeks) out of fear, judgment ect ect. I decided to announce my pregnancy this week and I have never felt more vulnerable and scared. But during this time I needed support and that is what I have received🤍
I am so sorry for your loss, and also so happy for your new blessing! I lost my son when he was 6 months old, and was the same way for my next pregnancy. It also followed down to the last boy. Once you go through something like that, you can no longer pretend like it's not a very real possibility. Being able to protect yourself is huge when you're dealing with trauma and loss. So much love to you and your rainbow baby. 🎉❤
I don't currently feel the need to do anything that scares me but I'm also just wrapping up a big thing that scared me! I'm 48 now. I didn't learn how to drive till I was 34. I have an anxiety disorder, and I had severe anxiety regarding driving in particular. But one day, I got it in my head that I was going to go back to college after having dropped out at 18, and I couldn't do that without a driver's license. So I did the dang thing! I got my learner's permit, and 11 days later, I was a licensed driver! Then I enrolled in community college, and faced every math fear that I ever had. I had to start over with pre-algebra and work my way up to college algebra. After several years of part-time community college, I graduated with three degrees and transferred to a four-year university. Last December, I got my bachelor's in history, summa cum laude! I walk in two days! It was terrifying, but I did it, and I'm feeling pretty proud of myself!
I’m a 37 year old mom of 3 who just decided last year to pursue a dream of becoming a nurse. I just found our yesterday that I was accepted to the Registered nursing program. It’s amazing how much your life can when you decided to push fear aside and go for what you want! Good luck with the lessons! Who knows where they will lead!
Jessica. I took a 10 year break from leading worship, singing at every funeral and wedding. My niece asked me to sing for her wedding and I originally said no because not sure if I could sing as well as before. She begged. I did and my son who was running sound said he’d forgotten moms voice and loved it and my dad cried and told me it’s a son to hide the talent. So I’m slowly but surely getting back into it. You can do it …..I almost pooped pants night before wedding but it actually gave other people joy ❤
I’m 45 and just make a job leap. My 11yr old boys have been my whole world and I lost myself. I decided this year would be a year of change. We change how we do everything. In discomfort there is learning right. Congrats on the leap. Just a thought….a RUclips channel of Tyler and Jessica do Broadway hits!!!!!
I lost myself raising kids too. I loved every minute of being with them and homeschooling, but I didn't keep any time for me. I was in my mid-40s when I had a breakdown of sorts. I wanted to just run. But I went to therapy as well and found a way to create a life that left room for me, while caring for and honoring my husband and kids. It was so good for ALL of us. It was hard, and they didn't always like the changes when we were going through it, but it was so good in the long run.
The older you get the more you realize it’s the chances we didn’t take that we regret the most! Always listen to your heart it will never lead you astray ❤❤
Oh Jessie!! YAYYY!!! I am SOOOO excited for you!! I am a 63 year old woman, mother of 9-7 sons, 2 daughters-and grandmother to 7 grandchildren. As much as I love being a wife, mother and grandmother, but, like you, there’s some things that I want to do for me. Last December of 2022, I had spinal fusion surgery. Because of my autoimmune issues, my healing has been super slow but I’m determined to start becoming more active to regain my endurance and stamina and I must lose at least 45 pounds. Because of my back issues before my surgery, it’s been awhile since I’ve been smaller. Well…I am making my first differences in what I eat and portion sizes of what I eat. I don’t usually eat a lot of fried foods or junk so I know that has been a good thing. I just want so much to reclaim me. I’m getting myself out of the house and walking more. Please say a prayer for me that I might be successful as I move forward to achieve this goal. I feel very anxious but also excited to try to see how much I can do to help myself. Having lupus, fibromyalgia, IBS, non working thyroid and asthma a lot works against me, but I’m willing to give it my all to be healthier me. Thank you in advance for the support!! 😉👍👍👍🎉🎉🎉💪💪💪💪👏👏👏🙌🙌🙌🙏🙏🙏🙏
Yes! This week I put my small crafty business in to a local craft store! I was scared when she asked me last time, what if they don’t sell, what If people don’t like my items! But this week I said, screw it! And did it. And am so happy!
Coincidentally, I went down a rabbit hole of Tyler's vlogs this weekend and heard you sing for the first time in your proposal video. Your voice was, and I'm sure still is, absolutely beautiful. A Disney princess come to life in every way. I'm so excited that you've found a renewed joy in/love for/comfort with your gift, modified as it may be, and I wish you the absolute best on this journey. Your voice is, at the end of the day, for you. It's a privilege to be able to share in hearing it, but it is for your and your family's joy and they will find joy in it no matter what, because it's you. My mom is not a good singer by any stretch, but I loved hearing her sing as a kid because it was her. I can only imagine if she had the voice you do! Reconciling a change is never easy, but singing is ultimately an expression of joy and I hope you can recapture that full joy once again through these lessons or by any other means. 💗
I realized this year that I had lost a major part of myself that I found in sports!! I’ve just joined a rec league team and just got back from a pickup soccer game with friends. What a timely thing. Learning it at the same time as you, Jess! Go for it!! It’s already SO so fun and fulfilling. I feel more like myself than I have in YEARS
Same!! Joined a rec soccer league and I had to mentally work through not being as good as I used to be, but once I let go of those expectations, I am having so much fun! Yay for feeling like ourselves!!💗
This is incredible. I remember hearing your voice in a clip before and being blown away! This message is weirdly accurate for my current dilemma and I started tearing up with you! 😅 I’ve been an LPN (licensed practical nurse) for 17 years. Lately I’ve felt such a pull to go back to school for my RN (and possibly beyond) It’s truly not about the money or I’d have gone back ages ago. My driving force is working under people I just don’t agree with-or I know I’m more capable than, but because I don’t have a higher degree, I succumb to their “rule.” I’m just so sick of being an employee to supervisors who don’t care and I know I can make a difference. My lack of education is the only thing holding me back. At work people come to me like I am in charge because they know they can depend on me. Idk. This sounds like I’m bragging but I swear I’m not. Here’s to hoping I make the leap! Sending my love! You’ll do amazing and I hope you’ll share your beautiful voice with us more in the future. 💕
I'm so proud of you!! I recently finished up dental work that I had put off for YEARS due to fear and anxiety. Now that I'm on the other side, I feel a newly discovered confidence, that YES, I can do things!
Jessica I am so glad you are singing again! I thought maybe you were when you posted your weekly plan on IG this week. I am a music teacher and long time follower of yours and you were blessed with a fabulous gift and I know 100% what it’s like to have a changing voice. It is the most rewarding thing you can do to learn to love your new voice. We are cheering for you!😊
I’m only 25, but I’ve also felt that I’m not doing things that I once liked. I went through big personal change when I was in college and through Covid and some other big life events after school. I’ve felt like I’m not fully myself or I’m not doing things that I once liked. Thank you for sharing your experience with this similar thing Jessica! It really helps me not feel so alone ❤
Jessica, you will be amazed by your ability to take things right where you left them!! I had my kids, stopped my biggest passion for 7 years and then I found myself petrified by fear, using fabricated excuses, kept dragging it. It is like that fear of jumping from a high platform to dive, once you do it, it all goes completely away and you are back at doing what you love effortlessly. Sending you love and energy from Seattle!!
Oh Jess you got me right in the feelings talking about singing and musical theatre - every time I see someone perform or I go see a musical I cry because there's a part of me that misses it so much, and regret about what could have been if I'd never quit when I was younger. I am scared of rejection and being judged and confidence has always been hard for me. Maybe just starting voice lessons again would help me, I hope it helps you on your journey xx
My boyfriend and I play pool for fun. He joined a league and kept encouraging me to join as well. I’m SO nervous about playing with people watching me, I’m afraid of people thinking “why is she in a league, she’s not hood enough”. You have inspired me, and I’m going to put my fears aside and try it. Thank you for sharing and always trying to help yourself and us to be better!
I did voice lessons throughout highschool and college as a shy kid who was scared to sing in front of ANYONE and it was so empowering and having something just for yourself is so special
As a fellow teacher, a music one at that. Your voice goes through an additional “change” a puberty, if you will at the age of around 30! Many operas will not let you take a lead until you’re 30 because of this great maturity and richness that happens at 30! This is the perfect time for you. 💗
Hey Jessica, I have been following you and Tyler for years! I tell my husband you are my spirit animal /inspiration. I too grew up in the theater world and have a large obsession with Disney. I recently got wrongfully terminate from a job I honestly hated (so blessing in disguise) and just got hired at my childhood dream job as a Dog trainer. I am so beyond thrilled I will get to pursuing something Ive always wanted to do any know I will Excel at. I feel like my childhood self would be so proud and excited to know her dreams came true. I just wanted to thank you and Tyler for always being such a bright positive part of my day (I really hope this doesn’t come off as creepy). I have always wanted a family and to be a mom. My husband and I lost our son at 23 weeks (stillborn) and to be totally honest watching both of your channels definitely helped brighten my day. I hope and pray to one day to hear the precious words of being called mom. Im so glad to hear you are thinking and maybe pursuing what your childhood self dreamed. Cant wait to hear more about it! ❤❤❤
Go for it Jessica! I am proud of you….finding yourself again after becoming a momma is SO important. You are SO many things…including a singer and an actress in addition to mom and wife and influencer. ❤ A quote I love, “Life begins at the end of your comfort zone.”
I only have a small task I want to do- scrapbooking. I feel like I’m in survival mode forever. I love that you have the help of your parents and Tyler parents so you guys can work and get stuff done while you know your kids are being loved on by grandparents. Unfortunately I don’t have that so I struggle to find time to do literally anything for myself. I feel like I’m falling apart but one day at a time I try to stitch myself back together!! Scrapbooking will happen again- one day!! 🎉❤
A few weeks ago, I decided to pull the trigger on my photography business. I had gone back-and-forth for so long and bought so much equipment, but I am so committed this time I created a logo, I bought a brand new computer and a brand new lens for my camera and created a Facebook page promoting business. I am so excited and proud of myself for sticking to it this time!
Reading these comments and everyone is so incredibly supportive and proud of you for taking the leap of faith and rekindling the passion you once had! I’m ecstatic to see how you evolve as you are reinvigorated ❣️and thank you for having the courage to take us along on your journey, you will inspire so many. P.S. When you sang Leann Rhymes in a clip I thought “dang she can singgg!” 👏 you should definitely start posting covers just for fun to try something new! 😆
I always loved ballet and took a few years of dance as a young girl. At 68, I signed up for a Gentle Ballet class. Even though I was really nervous and self conscious, I did it and took it until last year when I was 71. It was a wonderful experience. So you are never too old to change and try something new.
In doing this for yourself you are also modeling being a strong woman for your daughters. They are blessed to have you as their mother. Wishing you the best with your vocal coach!
I’m so happy to see so many of my favorite creators growing and doing things in their everyday life to make their life better and happier :) I’m excited to see how that inspires others as well ❤
At 40 I went back and got a second masters in special Ed. I was a mom of three and working full time. I was terrified. So proud of you for doing something for you. Hope you sing for us.
When you are a creative person, having a creative outlet is so important to maintaining your sense of self. I was always in choir, show choir, dance, etc. as a young person. Thought I wanted to be a dancer, but didn't pursue that. Never did theatre. Then came marriage and kids and homeschooling and there was just no time. But the small town we moved to in 2004 had a community theatre and my kids wanted to get involved. We started doing shows together and it has been the biggest blessing. We spent a lot of time together and had so much fun. I was terrified to sing by myself so was content with chorus roles, until one show when I REALLY wanted one of the leads. I was 50 and worked up the nerve to audition a solo. I was TERRIFIED. I didn't get that part, but the next show, I got a supporting lead. And each time I had to sing by myself, it got easier. I'm 58 now, and opening night of The Women was last night. I'm playing Countess De Lage. Oh and I am now the Executive Director for that theatre as well. A job I freakin' love and NEVER would have expected to have. All this to say, YES. Do something that terrifies you. Find something you love and figure out a way to make it work for your life.
Singing and music have always been my thing. From a kid on, I just had a wide range and can heat and sing all the harmonies. I also played an organ (I know…my parents chose that rather than a piano). I have a standing digital piano and I said when I retired I would teach myself to play again. I also want to learn more Spanish and Italian for a trip next year! I still sing -I’ll I love it. I’m 64 and the musical ability is still there 🙌🏻
My favorite quote about courage - “It's when you know you're licked before you begin, but you begin anyway and see it through no matter what.” Bravery is feeling the fear and doing it anyway. 💕
I am an artist but became a teacher and stopped painting. I recently in the last couple of years learned graphic design from You Tube and I create graphic art on commission now. It is so fulfilling. I missed creating so much and it is so fulfilling. I’m so excited for your journey.
That is so amazing you are taking voice lessons! I was a textbook band nerd back in high school, In the blink of an eye high school was over and music was no longer part of my life. In 2018 after a 15 year hiatus, I took a chance and joined a local community band. To rediscover music at this stage in my life is such a unique experience and the greatest blessing. I hope your heart is filled with all of the joy and happiness. Sing your heart out girl! 😊
I totally understand you!! I had been dancing ballet for 23 years and stopped when I got married and had my son. Recently after stopping for 5 years, I decided to go back dancing. It was so scary for me, but I’m so glad I did!!! I always feel so refreshed after my classes and feel like myself, and not just a mom or a wife. Best of luck to you with your lessons!!!❤❤
Love this!! My husband and I just started taking golf lessons together. It's both a fun hobby for us to do together that we can do forever as we age, but also something that is played a lot in our professional lives. I kept doing the same thing, well when the kids are older and I have more time... etc. etc. We finally decided to do it though and it's been great! 45min a week is a lot easier to carve out that we make ourselves believe it is, and that 45 minutes makes me a better mom, wife, employee, everything!
When you were talking about your voice lessons and doing things we’re afraid of it was so inspiring to me. I have ridiculous (social) anxiety and it sucks! I’m so tired of it controlling me and making miss out on things. I randomly started having panic attacks when I drive (esp on the highway) and so I stopped. And it’s severely limited what I’m able to go and do and I even missed a concert that I was so excited for and I was so disappointed in myself. It feels so silly to talk about- being scared to drive on the highway but I feel like I just got so used to not driving a ton during COVID and I’m not used to it anymore. Anyway, I want to start getting comfortable driving again!!! I was thinking about it and idk you just inspired me a little more so thank you Jess 💕
So glad you're pursuing your passion for singing again!! I can relate. When i was younger, I wanted to be a professional dancer. I didn't end up pursuing it, for many reasons, and i love the career I have now. But now dance is my primary hobby. I went back to classes ~6-7 years ago and have been slowly getting better over time, persevering through injuries, and am finally at the point where I'm feeling ready to pursue auditioning for a performing company (not expecting to make it, but it's still the process of pursuing my hobby and passion). It's so with it! I just went back to dance because i wanted exercise I actually enjoyed and now I've found so much joy and richness in my life from dance, including an amazing group of friends.
At 35, after losing the horse I’d loved for 23 years, I started taking fiddle lessons and got back into music in a real way for the first time since high school. It’s been 9 months of lessons and it’s crazy how much I’ve missed it, as horses and band were what I lived for in high school, and I’d stayed in touch with my horsey side post-university. But I’m also a grade 5/6 teacher and I only had room in my life for 1 hobby, so the music took a backseat to caring for my elderly horse.
I just graduated with my masters in school library media. I was a high school English teacher for 7 years, and I was miserable the entire time. It really came to a head the 2021-2022 school year where I didn’t even finish out the school year because of my mental health. I have a job as a media specialist next school year, and I cannot wait. I love reading and promoting the love of reading. I will still get to teach too but no more grading essays! If you are unhappy with your life, it isn’t too late to make a change.
The timing of this video is spot on for me. I’ve always wanted a tattoo, specifically this adorable little bird that represents many special things in my life. But never got it because I hate needles, and also was afraid of judgement. Growing up in a small town in the south, tattoos were not acceptable. Soooo… guess who is scheduled to get a tattoo tomorrow? This girl! I’m going to try not to cry the whole way through it just because it represents a kind of freedom for me.
I relate to what you’re saying about singing lessons. I grew up dancing, my undergrad degree is in Dance Ed, I spent years teaching dance. I eventually decided to try pole dancing in 2019. It’s so crazy how different it is, and how I now think about movement, muscle groups, and overall kinesiology different since poling! I hope your singing journey is refreshing and affirming!
Jessica, My Storyworth question this week was "What Would You Tell Your 20 Year Old Self?" First of all that was 53 years ago so I've lived enough life to write my 20 year old self a book! 😉 One of the things I wrote was "Dare to think Big! Lack of confidence coupled with fear brings out that inner voice saying, "That's crazy. You might fail!" That makes us think small of ourselves so we sabotage our potential.Trust yourself. Keep evolving." I think your courage and desire for change is so awesome! 👏🏻
Hey Jess. I've been a long time subscriber, like since 2013 when you were still filming in your room at your parent's place but I've been a silent subscriber who never really comments but watches every video. I always look forward to your videos and you have been my favorite youtuber for a long time. You're very real and relatable and I feel like we'd be good friends irl lol. Anyway, I love this trying new things streak you have going as that is something I struggle with a lot as well being a shy, quiet person. I'm an RN working in a hospital but I've definitely been slowly losing my passion for it. Nursing has become horrible and stressful ever since covid and just keeps getting worse to the point I don't enjoy going to work anymore. I have a big interest in true crime and would love to go back to school to get certified in forensic nursing and get out of the hospital setting, but I've been nervous because there's not a huge job market for that but you've been inspiring me to just go for it anyway, so thank you for that 😊 I hope you have a great weekend!
YOU BETTER SING!! I’m a long time subscriber and voice teacher, you simply deserve to find your singing voice again. Regardless of injury, everyone’s voice changes as we age, and that’s why singing is so unique and special. It’s always a lesson in self acceptance and growth.
I've been watching for years, but your current content is *chef's kiss*! You've had some chatty videos in the past few months that I have re-listened to just because I needed to rehear your message. I'm so excited that you've decided to take vocal lessons! My experience on this topic is also related to music. I was heavily into the music/theater community from childhood til my mid 20s. I did many things, but my #1 was playing the violin. What happened in my mid 20s? I graduated from college and got a full time job. (I'm now 39) The biggest message I took from what you said was "I'm just doing this for myself". ❤️ I genuinely don't have time to join an orchestra or play pit for a musical but........ I could rent a violin and play just for me. Perhaps figure out adult lessons. And then if the time comes one day that I do have time to devote to performing, my confidence and skills will be ready for the challenge.
As someone who also did theatre and developed a fear in my adulthood, when you have those scared feelings just remember that for now you are doing lessons for you. If you're not ready to perform its okay because you are singing for you. Maybe one day you'll get back to performing but once you rediscover the love of the art itself it will give you such a healing feeling that you didn't realize that you needed. Also if you go to SK for a treat smoothie, banana boat tastes like banana bread liquid form. It's so good. I use to work there in high school and we would put extra ice in the blender when someone ordered it because we would have the excess lol.
Love your vulnerability with your voice lessons. I’m a middle school choir teacher and feel all of those anxieties about vocal cords and identity. You do what God is leading you to do! I’ve got my own version of it for sure. Praying for you!
I took the step to finally get classical dance lessons recently and it was one of the best decisions I made. Every single week I do something that is just for me. It was scary at first but it very soon became one of my favourite things to do. Wishing you luck with whatever vocal coach you find!!
Hey Jess! Just wanted to come on here and say that after watching this video I was so inspired! I have been wanting to take pole dancing classes forever and always thought to myself, "one day". But you inspired me to push aside my fear and take a leap of faith. I booked a class! Thank you for sharing your thoughts and feelings with us. You really do make a difference ❤
Yes! 🙌🏻 my husband and I are in our late 30s and have 5 kids. He is a self-taught guitar player, and I grew up with a passion for the performing arts. We have jam sessions and karaoke nights at home all the time, and a few times a year the two of us play gigs as an acoustic duo. It is so fun and fulfilling to perform with him, and to revive my love for singing! Maybe there’s an opportunity in the future for Tyler to accompany you at an open mic or jazz club or something 😁🎶
I'm 48. I have been in the arts pretty much my entire life. Creative writing and singing were always my passions, my callings. I also dabbled in dance and acting, but those weren't really my art forms. My non-arts but related hobby has always been languages. On much of that, I am right where I need to be. I practice my creative writing for a living by using creative writing to teach basic writing skills to adults. I also have a freelance practice writing for and about other artists in my hometown. But singing has fallen by the wayside over the past few years, and I always seem to be running out of steam before I can learn anything in languages. I miss those things, and really want to get them back. Your video is inspiring me to take action.
Last year, I signed up to run a marathon which has always been on my bucket list. I’m just about a month away from it and I’ve trained SO hard for this but it still both scares and excites me. It’s so important to do activities in life that make you come alive! ❤
This is my first video I've watched of yours since subscribing to you (I've watched others and didn't realize I wasn't subscribed. Whoops.) And wow did your message hit home. Since I was a young girl, I've always loved photography. I even minored in it in college. But because of imposter syndrome and just overall being terrified of failing, I never started my own photography business. Last year, I finally pulled the plug and jumped right in after 5 years away from it, and I couldn't be happier! I've got 3 weddings booked so far (I feel like that's a success, given I just started my business officially in October!) And my heart is just so overjoyed to serve these people by doing something I love. Ripping the bandaid off and just going for it is SO scary, but SO worth it. ❤
During the pandemic I had an identity crisis and realized I wasn’t doing anything that gave me joy. I picked up a book since I used to read all the time younger and I’m now at over 120 books this year alone. Best decision of my life. Don’t do things because everyone does it do what makes you happy ❤️ thanks for sharing
@Jessica Braun I absolutely feel this. I was also a voice major and met my husband while singing in a band that he joined. We had kids and while he’s now a professional musician, gone on tours all the time, I was starting to feel like I lost my creative outlet, “just a mom” type of life. During Covid, I started making leather and wood jewelry, just to have that creative outlet and to have something that was just mine again. I’ve been doing sporadic craft fairs and selling to friends, but have been SO nervous and hesitant to pull the plug on making a website and selling my earrings to a bigger audience. I’m terrible at spending time and money on myself, but this has made me feel like I need to just DO IT! Thanks for the motivation!
So glad your getting back to doing things that you love ❤ Through my childhood and adolescent years I loved being creative, drawing, painting, needlework and many other hobbies like that. Then I suddenly stopped doing any of my hobbies, didn’t have the time or energy for it. I was too scared to do creative things for years because I thought I would have lost all my skill in it and it wasn’t worth doing art when it wouldn’t be any good. So I didn’t do any hobbies or things for myself for over a decade, but last year I felt that something was missing and like I was kinda lost. So I slowly found back to my old hobbies again and even found some new creative hobbies. It was the best thing I’ve done for myself in years, I felt like myself again and so much happier. I didn’t realize how much those hobbies meant to me before I made time to do them again. I agree so much with what you said in the video, if you can make time to do something you used to love or find a new hobby, it’s so worth it. And it can really do more for you than you think!
So proud of you, and thrilled for you, that you overcame your fear sufficiently to sign up for vocal coaching🥰👍🏻👏🏻The older you get (I am 68!!), the faster time flies, and you realize life is too short to put off anything you want to do and have the means of doing💕Sing your heart out🎉🎉🎉Celebrate that musical heart (regardless of what it now sounds like), and bring on the JOY!
A part of a vlog that would be absolutely wonderful would be you and Tyler singing together while he played piano... it gives me chills just thinking about hearing it from you two!! If you ever would consider doing that!
Recipe Saute onion , peppers and tomato (or omit the peppers..but I ❤ love serrano) in a bit of oil. Add 2 cans of tomato sauce and season with chicken bullion & garlic (or to your liking) Add 3/4 can of water, stir and crack in a few eggs. Cover with lid on low heat. So good with a charred corn tortilla
Yay to you on your voice lessons! I know you’re scared, but you’re going to crush it! You have a background in music/singing and you know the mechanics of singing, so now you just have to get used to your new sound. Different doesn’t have to be bad. I think you’ll love your new sound and you’ll be so pleased with yourself for getting back into singing. From one singer to another, I’m so very proud of you for ripping off the bandaid and reaching out to the vocal coach. You’re going to be amazing! 👏🏻
I love what you said about changes. It is EXACTLY how I felt after I turned 40! I wanted to start an online clothing boutique but I kept talking myself out of it. Finally, I just decided to quit doubting myself and just go for it. It’s two years later and it’s the best decision I ever made! And last month, I stepped out of my comfort zone again and did my first pop up event! I’m so proud of myself! So I totally agree with what you said…just rip the band aid off and do it! I’m excited for you and hope you will keep us up to date on your singing lessons!
My favorite quote is from Alice Walker..."Hope is a woman who has lost her fear" ur first steps in reconnecting with that part of urself is ur first foray into your path towards hope. Keep going Jess!
Hi Jess, thank you for sharing your vulnerability and fear about trying new things. Fear can hold us back so much! As always, I enjoyed the vlog. Would love to see another declutter vid soon or bathroom drawer makeup organization/reset. I LOVE those 🥰
Hiiiii, profesh performer here (+ subscriber for like 5 years) - what you're feeling is toootally normal. I'm so sorry to hear about your injury! Vocal injuries can be traumatizing when your identity is wrapped up in your ability to sing - I've definitely experienced that first-hand. Pretty sure we're around the same age (I'm 32) and I hope you know even if you're not performing, you're an artist forever. Proud of you for doing this for you. Sometimes we re-fall in love with things when there's no finish line. xoxo
I know this is an older vlog but I’ve been on a RUclips hiatus and now I’m catching up. Anyway, for a while now I’ve been wanting to get back into music and learn the harp but I’ve always kind of put it off. Last Friday I finally decided enough was enough and I called a teacher in my area and now I’ll be having my first lesson on Wednesday. It was extremely nerve wracking to make that call but I’m so glad I did it. I am glad you made that leap as well. I’m really proud of both of us. Here’s to 2023 being the year we actually do it- whatever it may be.
I cheered and played softball all of my childhood and felt not quite myself when I married and had kids. I tried a Zumba class and quickly got hooked. I took classes for a couple years and then went way outside my comfort zone and started teaching it myself. Fast forward 12 years and now have my group fitness certification and I teach 2-5 Zumba and Aqua Zumba classes per week in the evenings. It has been my free gym membership, my “fun job”, my free therapy, my way to give back to the community and I’ve made so many friends. I also missed singing and joined a community choir with my kids when they were young. Now my kids are both very musical. A few weeks ago at our concert my daughter 17 and I sang together and my son 14 played guitar. That moment we shared on stage together was so special. What a joy to share what I love with my kids! My life is fuller because of these experiences, so please follow your heart and go enjoy what you love. You will be setting a great example for your children and be happier for doing it. God bless.
Jessica, can I just say I love your heart. I am so happy when your Vlog video pops up for me to watch next. You are at the top of my list. Thank you for your honesty and just for being you ❤
Jessica!!! I studied Musical Theatre at Illinois Wesleyan University. I am currently a performer and perform at professional Equity theatres!! When I got to college, my voice teacher within the first month told me I have nodules. I went to the ENT and got looked at, then went and got scoped and sure enough I had a pre nodule! I had to go to speech therapy and over time, I am fully healed!! I am so excited for you to take lessons!! I hope it goes well!! SINGING ROCKS!!!! ❤❤
I love when you get real and raw about life. It is so refreshing to see that "influencers" are real people with real feelings, and not all are striving for perfection, which is impossible anyway. ❤
I am so happy that you will be taking voice lessons, I found you back in the day through your musicals, you sounded like a true angel and now I can’t wait to hear your new voice ❤
I’m so proud of you for making this move and inspiring others to do the same. I use to play violin for 7 years and it was my absolute favorite escape and passion. Definitely something I want to pick up again
I love this video and this the reason why I watch you. I actually love to sing and cook most of all but with becoming a single parent and supporting my children alone I have lost myself and just cook for the kids mostly and sing in the shower. Maybe one day I will make food and sell but this is definitly encouraging makes it feel that I am not alone ❤
This isn't judging or shaming so please don't take it that way. I'm much older than you but I love watching your channel because it gives me an inside look at what young families live like today. I just never bought food in packages, it was normally just staples when we went grocery shopping, and what I feed my family is so different from now. Thank you for putting yourself out there and very proud of you.
Best of luck, Jess! Enjoy continuing your musical journey ❤️🎶 I absolutely love my adult (piano) students! I'm just thrilled that adults who are busy with their families and careers take the time to continue developing their own gifts and talents, whatever they may be!
GO JESSICA!!! Amazing message and so proud and happy you're going out of the comfort zone to get back to the things you love!! im sure you're gonna kick butt! good luck with the journey.
Jessica, I’ve been subscribed for years (notification club!) and this has to be one of my favorite vlogs you’ve ever done, hands down. This message, especially for mothers, is so important. I can see in your eyes how much this means to you and it’s so admirable that you were able to not only acknowledge it, but act on it. Thank you for sharing this moment with us - it was beyond inspiring 🤍
Goodness is this video well timed. I used to do theatre as well. I loved it so much! I gave it up when I had kids. Now I feel like I’m in the routine of parenthood and don’t have that creative outlet. So I’ve recently been considering voice lessons… and here you are in the same place with the push. Thanks! I will find someone to see for lessons.
Hi Jessica! catching up on vlogs and i wanted to share something i heard, which i cannot remember where, but it was simply “i am not afraid to be seen trying” i try to say that to myself every time i do something out of my comfort zone
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Love this so much! When I was about 36 and my kids were close to grown I wanted to go back to college, but was so scared. And I felt awkward knowing that most of the other students were about my kids ages! I used every excuse to keep from potentially failing. One day I told my husband that it would take me 10 years to complete my BA and my MA, and finish my internship hours for licensing, which would make me 46, so what was the point? My husband said, "and how old are you going to be in 10 years if you DON'T peruse the dream?". That hit me so hard, so I enrolled and got to work. Today, I am a licensed therapist specializing in trauma and manage a clinical staff for an agency I love, with a small private practice on the side. I think how much I would have missed if I had let that fear hold me back. It is always worth stepping out of our comfort zone to pursue what we love.
I LOVE your story!!! Thank you for sharing that!! And I love what your husband said!!
This makes me so happy because I’m 35 and just graduated with my MSW getting ready to work towards licensure to be a therapist too! (After switching from an unsatisfying career). ❤️❤️❤️
@@jennygargano4762That is awesome! Nothing but the best to you!
Congratulations!!!
I'm going back to finish school to become a dental hygienist. I know 27 isn't old, but seeing all my old high-school class mates already graduated & working makes me feel like I'm not where I need to be. I'm going back in August & I'm terrified.
Sweet Jessica, the greatest relief you will ever feel, is when you stop carrying the weight of other people's expectations. Go sing your heart out, we'll be here cheering you on.🎉
Lady, that was the most inspiring thing I've heard recently and I'm proud of you. Coincidentally, I'm doing something semi-brave tomorrow...I'm beginning the loooong journey of getting my smile back. I used to LOVE singing & doing makeup, but I lost myself for over a decade when I started drinking & doing drugs. Praise God, I got clean 5 yrs ago, but I'd already done so much damage that my teeth were really suffering. I've been fearful of having this procedure done and I didn't have the money, anyhow, so I put it off. I've covered & manipulated my smile for years now, but I finally decided it's time to face the fear and do something good for myself. So, here goes! Geronimo, I guess! any prayers are greatly appreciated as I transition into a new me! Thank you for being such a light, Jess! May God bless your new adventure! ❤
Praying for you, and I'm so happy for you and your future smile. 😁 You'll light up the world with it!
@@shabamflam Oh, my gosh, thank you! I appreciate that! 🥰
Your story is truly inspiring. Thank you for sharing. It means more to me than I could ever put into words...
@@andaisamelia3621 Wow, I'm so glad it touched you! It's really all God's doing - I just finally surrendered & let Him do the work on me. Thank you for the kind words! ❤️
Praying for you and you can totally do it. I also started this journey a few years ago and it’s been slow going because I’d just get done a little at a time cause it’s all I could afford but I’m finally almost there and can smile again with confidence. You’ll feel so much better in the end :)
I lost my baby at 36 weeks in July. In December my husband and I started trying again. I have hid my pregnancy since then (24+ weeks) out of fear, judgment ect ect. I decided to announce my pregnancy this week and I have never felt more vulnerable and scared. But during this time I needed support and that is what I have received🤍
I am so sorry for your loss, and also so happy for your new blessing! I lost my son when he was 6 months old, and was the same way for my next pregnancy. It also followed down to the last boy. Once you go through something like that, you can no longer pretend like it's not a very real possibility. Being able to protect yourself is huge when you're dealing with trauma and loss. So much love to you and your rainbow baby. 🎉❤
So sorry for your loss
“Doubt kills more dreams than failure ever will”…. Love you Jess
I don't currently feel the need to do anything that scares me but I'm also just wrapping up a big thing that scared me! I'm 48 now. I didn't learn how to drive till I was 34. I have an anxiety disorder, and I had severe anxiety regarding driving in particular. But one day, I got it in my head that I was going to go back to college after having dropped out at 18, and I couldn't do that without a driver's license. So I did the dang thing! I got my learner's permit, and 11 days later, I was a licensed driver! Then I enrolled in community college, and faced every math fear that I ever had. I had to start over with pre-algebra and work my way up to college algebra. After several years of part-time community college, I graduated with three degrees and transferred to a four-year university. Last December, I got my bachelor's in history, summa cum laude! I walk in two days! It was terrifying, but I did it, and I'm feeling pretty proud of myself!
I’m a 37 year old mom of 3 who just decided last year to pursue a dream of becoming a nurse. I just found our yesterday that I was accepted to the Registered nursing program. It’s amazing how much your life can when you decided to push fear aside and go for what you want! Good luck with the lessons! Who knows where they will lead!
I’m a RN. Good luck with nursing school. It’s not easy, but the career flexibility is awesome.
Jessica. I took a 10 year break from leading worship, singing at every funeral and wedding. My niece asked me to sing for her wedding and I originally said no because not sure if I could sing as well as before. She begged. I did and my son who was running sound said he’d forgotten moms voice and loved it and my dad cried and told me it’s a son to hide the talent. So I’m slowly but surely getting back into it. You can do it …..I almost pooped pants night before wedding but it actually gave other people joy ❤
I’m 45 and just make a job leap. My 11yr old boys have been my whole world and I lost myself. I decided this year would be a year of change. We change how we do everything. In discomfort there is learning right. Congrats on the leap. Just a thought….a RUclips channel of Tyler and Jessica do Broadway hits!!!!!
Love this! Tyler and Jessica, even just a video of them singing!
Each vlogmas I always beg for them to do a Christmas song!
I lost myself raising kids too. I loved every minute of being with them and homeschooling, but I didn't keep any time for me. I was in my mid-40s when I had a breakdown of sorts. I wanted to just run. But I went to therapy as well and found a way to create a life that left room for me, while caring for and honoring my husband and kids. It was so good for ALL of us. It was hard, and they didn't always like the changes when we were going through it, but it was so good in the long run.
The older you get the more you realize it’s the chances we didn’t take that we regret the most! Always listen to your heart it will never lead you astray ❤❤
Oh Jessie!! YAYYY!!! I am SOOOO excited for you!! I am a 63 year old woman, mother of 9-7 sons, 2 daughters-and grandmother to 7 grandchildren.
As much as I love being a wife, mother and grandmother, but, like you, there’s some things that I want to do for me.
Last December of 2022, I had spinal fusion surgery. Because of my autoimmune issues, my healing has been super slow but I’m determined to start becoming more active to regain my endurance and stamina and I must lose at least 45 pounds.
Because of my back issues before my surgery, it’s been awhile since I’ve been smaller.
Well…I am making my first differences in what I eat and portion sizes of what I eat.
I don’t usually eat a lot of fried foods or junk so I know that has been a good thing.
I just want so much to reclaim me.
I’m getting myself out of the house and walking more.
Please say a prayer for me that I might be successful as I move forward to achieve this goal.
I feel very anxious but also excited to try to see how much I can do to help myself.
Having lupus, fibromyalgia, IBS, non working thyroid and asthma a lot works against me, but I’m willing to give it my all to be healthier me.
Thank you in advance for the support!! 😉👍👍👍🎉🎉🎉💪💪💪💪👏👏👏🙌🙌🙌🙏🙏🙏🙏
Yes! This week I put my small crafty business in to a local craft store! I was scared when she asked me last time, what if they don’t sell, what If people don’t like my items! But this week I said, screw it! And did it. And am so happy!
Oh I wish you the best! This is awesome!
Coincidentally, I went down a rabbit hole of Tyler's vlogs this weekend and heard you sing for the first time in your proposal video. Your voice was, and I'm sure still is, absolutely beautiful. A Disney princess come to life in every way. I'm so excited that you've found a renewed joy in/love for/comfort with your gift, modified as it may be, and I wish you the absolute best on this journey. Your voice is, at the end of the day, for you. It's a privilege to be able to share in hearing it, but it is for your and your family's joy and they will find joy in it no matter what, because it's you. My mom is not a good singer by any stretch, but I loved hearing her sing as a kid because it was her. I can only imagine if she had the voice you do! Reconciling a change is never easy, but singing is ultimately an expression of joy and I hope you can recapture that full joy once again through these lessons or by any other means. 💗
I realized this year that I had lost a major part of myself that I found in sports!! I’ve just joined a rec league team and just got back from a pickup soccer game with friends. What a timely thing. Learning it at the same time as you, Jess! Go for it!! It’s already SO so fun and fulfilling. I feel more like myself than I have in YEARS
Same!! Joined a rec soccer league and I had to mentally work through not being as good as I used to be, but once I let go of those expectations, I am having so much fun! Yay for feeling like ourselves!!💗
First of all, your hair looks AMAZING! And second, I love the message in this video! You definitely inspired me to try to get out of my comfort zone.
This is incredible. I remember hearing your voice in a clip before and being blown away! This message is weirdly accurate for my current dilemma and I started tearing up with you! 😅 I’ve been an LPN (licensed practical nurse) for 17 years. Lately I’ve felt such a pull to go back to school for my RN (and possibly beyond) It’s truly not about the money or I’d have gone back ages ago. My driving force is working under people I just don’t agree with-or I know I’m more capable than, but because I don’t have a higher degree, I succumb to their “rule.” I’m just so sick of being an employee to supervisors who don’t care and I know I can make a difference. My lack of education is the only thing holding me back. At work people come to me like I am in charge because they know they can depend on me. Idk. This sounds like I’m bragging but I swear I’m not. Here’s to hoping I make the leap! Sending my love! You’ll do amazing and I hope you’ll share your beautiful voice with us more in the future. 💕
I'm so proud of you!! I recently finished up dental work that I had put off for YEARS due to fear and anxiety. Now that I'm on the other side, I feel a newly discovered confidence, that YES, I can do things!
So proud of you! I need to do this myself. I saw another person in the comments who mentioned fixing their teeth as well. 🎉❤
Jessica I am so glad you are singing again! I thought maybe you were when you posted your weekly plan on IG this week. I am a music teacher and long time follower of yours and you were blessed with a fabulous gift and I know 100% what it’s like to have a changing voice. It is the most rewarding thing you can do to learn to love your new voice. We are cheering for you!😊
I’m only 25, but I’ve also felt that I’m not doing things that I once liked. I went through big personal change when I was in college and through Covid and some other big life events after school. I’ve felt like I’m not fully myself or I’m not doing things that I once liked. Thank you for sharing your experience with this similar thing Jessica! It really helps me not feel so alone ❤
Jessica, you will be amazed by your ability to take things right where you left them!! I had my kids, stopped my biggest passion for 7 years and then I found myself petrified by fear, using fabricated excuses, kept dragging it. It is like that fear of jumping from a high platform to dive, once you do it, it all goes completely away and you are back at doing what you love effortlessly. Sending you love and energy from Seattle!!
Oh Jess you got me right in the feelings talking about singing and musical theatre - every time I see someone perform or I go see a musical I cry because there's a part of me that misses it so much, and regret about what could have been if I'd never quit when I was younger. I am scared of rejection and being judged and confidence has always been hard for me. Maybe just starting voice lessons again would help me, I hope it helps you on your journey xx
My boyfriend and I play pool for fun. He joined a league and kept encouraging me to join as well. I’m SO nervous about playing with people watching me, I’m afraid of people thinking “why is she in a league, she’s not hood enough”. You have inspired me, and I’m going to put my fears aside and try it. Thank you for sharing and always trying to help yourself and us to be better!
Gosh I can’t get over how naturally beautiful you are without makeup!!! Stunning!!!! ❤❤❤❤❤
I did voice lessons throughout highschool and college as a shy kid who was scared to sing in front of ANYONE and it was so empowering and having something just for yourself is so special
We only go around in this life once, so you have to follow your passions and keep that inner spark ignited. Good for you and Tyler for realizing that.
As a fellow teacher, a music one at that. Your voice goes through an additional “change” a puberty, if you will at the age of around 30! Many operas will not let you take a lead until you’re 30 because of this great maturity and richness that happens at 30! This is the perfect time for you. 💗
Hey Jessica,
I have been following you and Tyler for years! I tell my husband you are my spirit animal /inspiration. I too grew up in the theater world and have a large obsession with Disney. I recently got wrongfully terminate from a job I honestly hated (so blessing in disguise) and just got hired at my childhood dream job as a Dog trainer. I am so beyond thrilled I will get to pursuing something Ive always wanted to do any know I will Excel at. I feel like my childhood self would be so proud and excited to know her dreams came true. I just wanted to thank you and Tyler for always being such a bright positive part of my day (I really hope this doesn’t come off as creepy). I have always wanted a family and to be a mom. My husband and I lost our son at 23 weeks (stillborn) and to be totally honest watching both of your channels definitely helped brighten my day. I hope and pray to one day to hear the precious words of being called mom.
Im so glad to hear you are thinking and maybe pursuing what your childhood self dreamed. Cant wait to hear more about it! ❤❤❤
Go for it Jessica! I am proud of you….finding yourself again after becoming a momma is SO important. You are SO many things…including a singer and an actress in addition to mom and wife and influencer. ❤
A quote I love, “Life begins at the end of your comfort zone.”
I only have a small task I want to do- scrapbooking. I feel like I’m in survival mode forever. I love that you have the help of your parents and Tyler parents so you guys can work and get stuff done while you know your kids are being loved on by grandparents. Unfortunately I don’t have that so I struggle to find time to do literally anything for myself. I feel like I’m falling apart but one day at a time I try to stitch myself back together!! Scrapbooking will happen again- one day!! 🎉❤
A few weeks ago, I decided to pull the trigger on my photography business. I had gone back-and-forth for so long and bought so much equipment, but I am so committed this time I created a logo, I bought a brand new computer and a brand new lens for my camera and created a Facebook page promoting business. I am so excited and proud of myself for sticking to it this time!
Reading these comments and everyone is so incredibly supportive and proud of you for taking the leap of faith and rekindling the passion you once had! I’m ecstatic to see how you evolve as you are reinvigorated ❣️and thank you for having the courage to take us along on your journey, you will inspire so many.
P.S. When you sang Leann Rhymes in a clip I thought “dang she can singgg!” 👏 you should definitely start posting covers just for fun to try something new! 😆
I always loved ballet and took a few years of dance as a young girl. At 68, I signed up for a Gentle Ballet class. Even though I was really nervous and self conscious, I did it and took it until last year when I was 71. It was a wonderful experience. So you are never too old to change and try something new.
In doing this for yourself you are also modeling being a strong woman for your daughters. They are blessed to have you as their mother. Wishing you the best with your vocal coach!
I’m so happy to see so many of my favorite creators growing and doing things in their everyday life to make their life better and happier :) I’m excited to see how that inspires others as well ❤
At 40 I went back and got a second masters in special Ed. I was a mom of three and working full time. I was terrified. So proud of you for doing something for you. Hope you sing for us.
When you are a creative person, having a creative outlet is so important to maintaining your sense of self. I was always in choir, show choir, dance, etc. as a young person. Thought I wanted to be a dancer, but didn't pursue that. Never did theatre. Then came marriage and kids and homeschooling and there was just no time. But the small town we moved to in 2004 had a community theatre and my kids wanted to get involved. We started doing shows together and it has been the biggest blessing. We spent a lot of time together and had so much fun. I was terrified to sing by myself so was content with chorus roles, until one show when I REALLY wanted one of the leads. I was 50 and worked up the nerve to audition a solo. I was TERRIFIED. I didn't get that part, but the next show, I got a supporting lead. And each time I had to sing by myself, it got easier. I'm 58 now, and opening night of The Women was last night. I'm playing Countess De Lage. Oh and I am now the Executive Director for that theatre as well. A job I freakin' love and NEVER would have expected to have. All this to say, YES. Do something that terrifies you. Find something you love and figure out a way to make it work for your life.
Singing and music have always been my thing. From a kid on, I just had a wide range and can heat and sing all the harmonies. I also played an organ (I know…my parents chose that rather than a piano). I have a standing digital piano and I said when I retired I would teach myself to play again. I also want to learn more Spanish and Italian for a trip next year! I still sing -I’ll I love it. I’m 64 and the musical ability is still there 🙌🏻
My favorite quote about courage -
“It's when you know you're licked before you begin, but you begin anyway and see it through no matter what.”
Bravery is feeling the fear and doing it anyway. 💕
I am an artist but became a teacher and stopped painting. I recently in the last couple of years learned graphic design from You Tube and I create graphic art on commission now. It is so fulfilling. I missed creating so much and it is so fulfilling. I’m so excited for your journey.
That is so amazing you are taking voice lessons! I was a textbook band nerd back in high school, In the blink of an eye high school was over and music was no longer part of my life. In 2018 after a 15 year hiatus, I took a chance and joined a local community band. To rediscover music at this stage in my life is such a unique experience and the greatest blessing. I hope your heart is filled with all of the joy and happiness. Sing your heart out girl! 😊
I totally understand you!! I had been dancing ballet for 23 years and stopped when I got married and had my son. Recently after stopping for 5 years, I decided to go back dancing. It was so scary for me, but I’m so glad I did!!! I always feel so refreshed after my classes and feel like myself, and not just a mom or a wife.
Best of luck to you with your lessons!!!❤❤
Love this!! My husband and I just started taking golf lessons together. It's both a fun hobby for us to do together that we can do forever as we age, but also something that is played a lot in our professional lives. I kept doing the same thing, well when the kids are older and I have more time... etc. etc. We finally decided to do it though and it's been great! 45min a week is a lot easier to carve out that we make ourselves believe it is, and that 45 minutes makes me a better mom, wife, employee, everything!
When you were talking about your voice lessons and doing things we’re afraid of it was so inspiring to me. I have ridiculous (social) anxiety and it sucks! I’m so tired of it controlling me and making miss out on things. I randomly started having panic attacks when I drive (esp on the highway) and so I stopped. And it’s severely limited what I’m able to go and do and I even missed a concert that I was so excited for and I was so disappointed in myself. It feels so silly to talk about- being scared to drive on the highway but I feel like I just got so used to not driving a ton during COVID and I’m not used to it anymore. Anyway, I want to start getting comfortable driving again!!! I was thinking about it and idk you just inspired me a little more so thank you Jess 💕
So glad you're pursuing your passion for singing again!! I can relate. When i was younger, I wanted to be a professional dancer. I didn't end up pursuing it, for many reasons, and i love the career I have now. But now dance is my primary hobby. I went back to classes ~6-7 years ago and have been slowly getting better over time, persevering through injuries, and am finally at the point where I'm feeling ready to pursue auditioning for a performing company (not expecting to make it, but it's still the process of pursuing my hobby and passion). It's so with it! I just went back to dance because i wanted exercise I actually enjoyed and now I've found so much joy and richness in my life from dance, including an amazing group of friends.
At 35, after losing the horse I’d loved for 23 years, I started taking fiddle lessons and got back into music in a real way for the first time since high school. It’s been 9 months of lessons and it’s crazy how much I’ve missed it, as horses and band were what I lived for in high school, and I’d stayed in touch with my horsey side post-university. But I’m also a grade 5/6 teacher and I only had room in my life for 1 hobby, so the music took a backseat to caring for my elderly horse.
I just graduated with my masters in school library media. I was a high school English teacher for 7 years, and I was miserable the entire time. It really came to a head the 2021-2022 school year where I didn’t even finish out the school year because of my mental health. I have a job as a media specialist next school year, and I cannot wait. I love reading and promoting the love of reading. I will still get to teach too but no more grading essays! If you are unhappy with your life, it isn’t too late to make a change.
The timing of this video is spot on for me. I’ve always wanted a tattoo, specifically this adorable little bird that represents many special things in my life. But never got it because I hate needles, and also was afraid of judgement. Growing up in a small town in the south, tattoos were not acceptable. Soooo… guess who is scheduled to get a tattoo tomorrow? This girl! I’m going to try not to cry the whole way through it just because it represents a kind of freedom for me.
I relate to what you’re saying about singing lessons. I grew up dancing, my undergrad degree is in Dance Ed, I spent years teaching dance. I eventually decided to try pole dancing in 2019. It’s so crazy how different it is, and how I now think about movement, muscle groups, and overall kinesiology different since poling! I hope your singing journey is refreshing and affirming!
Jessica, My Storyworth question this week was "What Would You Tell Your 20 Year Old Self?" First of all that was 53 years ago so I've lived enough life to write my 20 year old self a book! 😉 One of the things I wrote was "Dare to think Big! Lack of confidence coupled with fear brings out that inner voice saying, "That's crazy. You might fail!" That makes us think small of ourselves so we sabotage our potential.Trust yourself. Keep evolving." I think your courage and desire for change is so awesome! 👏🏻
Hey Jess. I've been a long time subscriber, like since 2013 when you were still filming in your room at your parent's place but I've been a silent subscriber who never really comments but watches every video. I always look forward to your videos and you have been my favorite youtuber for a long time. You're very real and relatable and I feel like we'd be good friends irl lol. Anyway, I love this trying new things streak you have going as that is something I struggle with a lot as well being a shy, quiet person. I'm an RN working in a hospital but I've definitely been slowly losing my passion for it. Nursing has become horrible and stressful ever since covid and just keeps getting worse to the point I don't enjoy going to work anymore. I have a big interest in true crime and would love to go back to school to get certified in forensic nursing and get out of the hospital setting, but I've been nervous because there's not a huge job market for that but you've been inspiring me to just go for it anyway, so thank you for that 😊 I hope you have a great weekend!
YOU BETTER SING!! I’m a long time subscriber and voice teacher, you simply deserve to find your singing voice again. Regardless of injury, everyone’s voice changes as we age, and that’s why singing is so unique and special. It’s always a lesson in self acceptance and growth.
Your hair looks absolutely beautiful with all of it down and the brushed out curls. Stunning!!!
Jess, you don’t know how much I relate to you and how much I needed this extra push from you to get back in voice lessons and acting classes.
I hope, I hope you know that this is EXACTLY WHAT I NEEDED TO HEAR. Love all that you do.
I've been watching for years, but your current content is *chef's kiss*!
You've had some chatty videos in the past few months that I have re-listened to just because I needed to rehear your message.
I'm so excited that you've decided to take vocal lessons!
My experience on this topic is also related to music. I was heavily into the music/theater community from childhood til my mid 20s. I did many things, but my #1 was playing the violin.
What happened in my mid 20s? I graduated from college and got a full time job. (I'm now 39) The biggest message I took from what you said was "I'm just doing this for myself". ❤️
I genuinely don't have time to join an orchestra or play pit for a musical but........ I could rent a violin and play just for me. Perhaps figure out adult lessons. And then if the time comes one day that I do have time to devote to performing, my confidence and skills will be ready for the challenge.
As someone who also did theatre and developed a fear in my adulthood, when you have those scared feelings just remember that for now you are doing lessons for you. If you're not ready to perform its okay because you are singing for you. Maybe one day you'll get back to performing but once you rediscover the love of the art itself it will give you such a healing feeling that you didn't realize that you needed. Also if you go to SK for a treat smoothie, banana boat tastes like banana bread liquid form. It's so good. I use to work there in high school and we would put extra ice in the blender when someone ordered it because we would have the excess lol.
Love your vulnerability with your voice lessons. I’m a middle school choir teacher and feel all of those anxieties about vocal cords and identity. You do what God is leading you to do! I’ve got my own version of it for sure. Praying for you!
I took the step to finally get classical dance lessons recently and it was one of the best decisions I made. Every single week I do something that is just for me. It was scary at first but it very soon became one of my favourite things to do. Wishing you luck with whatever vocal coach you find!!
You are being such an amazing example for your daughters. They are seeing you doing things through fear and thats amazing.
Hey Jess! Just wanted to come on here and say that after watching this video I was so inspired! I have been wanting to take pole dancing classes forever and always thought to myself, "one day". But you inspired me to push aside my fear and take a leap of faith. I booked a class! Thank you for sharing your thoughts and feelings with us. You really do make a difference ❤
Yes! 🙌🏻 my husband and I are in our late 30s and have 5 kids. He is a self-taught guitar player, and I grew up with a passion for the performing arts. We have jam sessions and karaoke nights at home all the time, and a few times a year the two of us play gigs as an acoustic duo. It is so fun and fulfilling to perform with him, and to revive my love for singing! Maybe there’s an opportunity in the future for Tyler to accompany you at an open mic or jazz club or something 😁🎶
I'm 48. I have been in the arts pretty much my entire life. Creative writing and singing were always my passions, my callings. I also dabbled in dance and acting, but those weren't really my art forms. My non-arts but related hobby has always been languages. On much of that, I am right where I need to be. I practice my creative writing for a living by using creative writing to teach basic writing skills to adults. I also have a freelance practice writing for and about other artists in my hometown. But singing has fallen by the wayside over the past few years, and I always seem to be running out of steam before I can learn anything in languages. I miss those things, and really want to get them back. Your video is inspiring me to take action.
Last year, I signed up to run a marathon which has always been on my bucket list. I’m just about a month away from it and I’ve trained SO hard for this but it still both scares and excites me. It’s so important to do activities in life that make you come alive! ❤
This is my first video I've watched of yours since subscribing to you (I've watched others and didn't realize I wasn't subscribed. Whoops.) And wow did your message hit home. Since I was a young girl, I've always loved photography. I even minored in it in college. But because of imposter syndrome and just overall being terrified of failing, I never started my own photography business. Last year, I finally pulled the plug and jumped right in after 5 years away from it, and I couldn't be happier! I've got 3 weddings booked so far (I feel like that's a success, given I just started my business officially in October!) And my heart is just so overjoyed to serve these people by doing something I love. Ripping the bandaid off and just going for it is SO scary, but SO worth it. ❤
A great quote I heard recently goes like this "F**k fear. Live your legend through the intelligence of love." Can't wait to hear you sing! ❤
I have naturally pin straight hair and I love the chopstick curlers so much!! makes the big 80’s hair of my dreams
During the pandemic I had an identity crisis and realized I wasn’t doing anything that gave me joy. I picked up a book since I used to read all the time younger and I’m now at over 120 books this year alone. Best decision of my life. Don’t do things because everyone does it do what makes you happy ❤️ thanks for sharing
I appreciate your vulnerability so much and sharing with us your doubts, changes, hesitations. ❤
@Jessica Braun I absolutely feel this. I was also a voice major and met my husband while singing in a band that he joined. We had kids and while he’s now a professional musician, gone on tours all the time, I was starting to feel like I lost my creative outlet, “just a mom” type of life. During Covid, I started making leather and wood jewelry, just to have that creative outlet and to have something that was just mine again. I’ve been doing sporadic craft fairs and selling to friends, but have been SO nervous and hesitant to pull the plug on making a website and selling my earrings to a bigger audience. I’m terrible at spending time and money on myself, but this has made me feel like I need to just DO IT! Thanks for the motivation!
Woah that was long! 😂
So glad your getting back to doing things that you love ❤ Through my childhood and adolescent years I loved being creative, drawing, painting, needlework and many other hobbies like that. Then I suddenly stopped doing any of my hobbies, didn’t have the time or energy for it. I was too scared to do creative things for years because I thought I would have lost all my skill in it and it wasn’t worth doing art when it wouldn’t be any good. So I didn’t do any hobbies or things for myself for over a decade, but last year I felt that something was missing and like I was kinda lost. So I slowly found back to my old hobbies again and even found some new creative hobbies. It was the best thing I’ve done for myself in years, I felt like myself again and so much happier. I didn’t realize how much those hobbies meant to me before I made time to do them again. I agree so much with what you said in the video, if you can make time to do something you used to love or find a new hobby, it’s so worth it. And it can really do more for you than you think!
Good for you Jess! I’m proud to say I’ve been watching you long enough that I DID know the beginning of that story!
So proud of you, and thrilled for you, that you overcame your fear sufficiently to sign up for vocal coaching🥰👍🏻👏🏻The older you get (I am 68!!), the faster time flies, and you realize life is too short to put off anything you want to do and have the means of doing💕Sing your heart out🎉🎉🎉Celebrate that musical heart (regardless of what it now sounds like), and bring on the JOY!
A part of a vlog that would be absolutely wonderful would be you and Tyler singing together while he played piano... it gives me chills just thinking about hearing it from you two!! If you ever would consider doing that!
You and Tyler both inspire me to try new things SO often. I can’t tell you how much it means!
Yup I’m 40 w an almost 5 year old. Decided I need a hobby. So last week I picked up rollerblading !!!
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Yay to you on your voice lessons! I know you’re scared, but you’re going to crush it! You have a background in music/singing and you know the mechanics of singing, so now you just have to get used to your new sound. Different doesn’t have to be bad. I think you’ll love your new sound and you’ll be so pleased with yourself for getting back into singing. From one singer to another, I’m so very proud of you for ripping off the bandaid and reaching out to the vocal coach. You’re going to be amazing! 👏🏻
I love what you said about changes. It is EXACTLY how I felt after I turned 40! I wanted to start an online clothing boutique but I kept talking myself out of it. Finally, I just decided to quit doubting myself and just go for it. It’s two years later and it’s the best decision I ever made! And last month, I stepped out of my comfort zone again and did my first pop up event! I’m so proud of myself! So I totally agree with what you said…just rip the band aid off and do it! I’m excited for you and hope you will keep us up to date on your singing lessons!
My favorite quote is from Alice Walker..."Hope is a woman who has lost her fear" ur first steps in reconnecting with that part of urself is ur first foray into your path towards hope. Keep going Jess!
Hi Jess, thank you for sharing your vulnerability and fear about trying new things. Fear can hold us back so much!
As always, I enjoyed the vlog. Would love to see another declutter vid soon or bathroom drawer makeup organization/reset. I LOVE those 🥰
Hiiiii, profesh performer here (+ subscriber for like 5 years) - what you're feeling is toootally normal. I'm so sorry to hear about your injury! Vocal injuries can be traumatizing when your identity is wrapped up in your ability to sing - I've definitely experienced that first-hand. Pretty sure we're around the same age (I'm 32) and I hope you know even if you're not performing, you're an artist forever. Proud of you for doing this for you. Sometimes we re-fall in love with things when there's no finish line. xoxo
I know this is an older vlog but I’ve been on a RUclips hiatus and now I’m catching up. Anyway, for a while now I’ve been wanting to get back into music and learn the harp but I’ve always kind of put it off. Last Friday I finally decided enough was enough and I called a teacher in my area and now I’ll be having my first lesson on Wednesday. It was extremely nerve wracking to make that call but I’m so glad I did it. I am glad you made that leap as well. I’m really proud of both of us. Here’s to 2023 being the year we actually do it- whatever it may be.
I cheered and played softball all of my childhood and felt not quite myself when I married and had kids. I tried a Zumba class and quickly got hooked. I took classes for a couple years and then went way outside my comfort zone and started teaching it myself. Fast forward 12 years and now have my group fitness certification and I teach 2-5 Zumba and Aqua Zumba classes per week in the evenings. It has been my free gym membership, my “fun job”, my free therapy, my way to give back to the community and I’ve made so many friends.
I also missed singing and joined a community choir with my kids when they were young. Now my kids are both very musical. A few weeks ago at our concert my daughter 17 and I sang together and my son 14 played guitar. That moment we shared on stage together was so special. What a joy to share what I love with my kids!
My life is fuller because of these experiences, so please follow your heart and go enjoy what you love. You will be setting a great example for your children and be happier for doing it. God bless.
Jessica, can I just say I love your heart. I am so happy when your Vlog video pops up for me to watch next. You are at the top of my list. Thank you for your honesty and just for being you ❤
Jessica!!! I studied Musical Theatre at Illinois Wesleyan University. I am currently a performer and perform at professional Equity theatres!! When I got to college, my voice teacher within the first month told me I have nodules. I went to the ENT and got looked at, then went and got scoped and sure enough I had a pre nodule! I had to go to speech therapy and over time, I am fully healed!!
I am so excited for you to take lessons!! I hope it goes well!! SINGING ROCKS!!!! ❤❤
I love when you get real and raw about life. It is so refreshing to see that "influencers" are real people with real feelings, and not all are striving for perfection, which is impossible anyway. ❤
I am so happy that you will be taking voice lessons, I found you back in the day through your musicals, you sounded like a true angel and now I can’t wait to hear your new voice ❤
I’m so proud of you for making this move and inspiring others to do the same. I use to play violin for 7 years and it was my absolute favorite escape and passion. Definitely something I want to pick up again
I love this video and this the reason why I watch you. I actually love to sing and cook most of all but with becoming a single parent and supporting my children alone I have lost myself and just cook for the kids mostly and sing in the shower. Maybe one day I will make food and sell but this is definitly encouraging makes it feel that I am not alone ❤
This isn't judging or shaming so please don't take it that way. I'm much older than you but I love watching your channel because it gives me an inside look at what young families live like today. I just never bought food in packages, it was normally just staples when we went grocery shopping, and what I feed my family is so different from now. Thank you for putting yourself out there and very proud of you.
Jess!!!!! You have totally inspired me to take voice lessons again. Like you, musical theater was my life! I need to get back to that joy! ❤❤❤
I needed to hear the message in this video
THANK YOU for being vulnerable
Best of luck, Jess! Enjoy continuing your musical journey ❤️🎶 I absolutely love my adult (piano) students! I'm just thrilled that adults who are busy with their families and careers take the time to continue developing their own gifts and talents, whatever they may be!
Proud of you Jess-you have been talking about lessons for a long time! Grab life sister!
GO JESSICA!!! Amazing message and so proud and happy you're going out of the comfort zone to get back to the things you love!! im sure you're gonna kick butt! good luck with the journey.
Jessica I’m so proud of you!!! I’ve been watching your channel for sooo long and remember loving your old singing videos!!! You got this!!! 🩷🩷🥳
Jessica, I’ve been subscribed for years (notification club!) and this has to be one of my favorite vlogs you’ve ever done, hands down. This message, especially for mothers, is so important. I can see in your eyes how much this means to you and it’s so admirable that you were able to not only acknowledge it, but act on it. Thank you for sharing this moment with us - it was beyond inspiring 🤍
Goodness is this video well timed. I used to do theatre as well. I loved it so much! I gave it up when I had kids. Now I feel like I’m in the routine of parenthood and don’t have that creative outlet. So I’ve recently been considering voice lessons… and here you are in the same place with the push. Thanks! I will find someone to see for lessons.
Hi Jessica! catching up on vlogs and i wanted to share something i heard, which i cannot remember where, but it was simply “i am not afraid to be seen trying” i try to say that to myself every time i do something out of my comfort zone