Absolutely. Gentle, repeated contact, with no presure, just sitting and talking with some good food. Just spending time with another person he knows that cares about him, it would very powerful medicien.
@@chrisyates8115 really intelligent people often don't take care of themselves if things happen outside of theirs comfort zone. like " autistic " etc..
Please don’t give up on him. He really need help. I’m concerned about his hand, if it an infection…it might affect his blood. Long term Infectious can cause blood poisons. Praying for him 🙏🏻✨💫😇
Please let us know the progress you made with Lesha and if he got treatment for his hand. Thank you SO MUCH for your kindness in taking an interest in Lesha and trying to help him. God's Blessings on you. Love from Ireland 🇮🇪 ❤ ♥
@@lisalarouge6309 I think she means by the time the next video comes out - if he gets treatment between now and then. We may not see him going to the doctor for it like we saw Dima go for his back and headaches.
Contrary to what the cousin's husband said, this is not the behaviour of someone who is lazy and doesn't want to do anything. His classmate described him better, he said that Lesha is shy and geeky. You can see that by his insistence to repay Sergei and his talk about gaming
He talks about picking up bit by bit, and I appreciate you see that's how to help him is bit by bit, patiently. People don't want to be living like this, it's definitely an illness. It's also like he's afraid to accept help and be close with anyone, maybe because he's experienced such loss.
@@dianalovescolors And by doing so he hurts himself silently because he can never experience that type of happiness again. I hope this guy starts to slowly wake up out of his depression after he gets some help.
This man needs help with everything. I agree it’s his trauma that is the problem. I doubt he will ever be able to take care of himself without assistance. 😢
The man was so happy to have a friend. Everyone said he wouldn't talk, but that wasn't true. He wants to talk, he wants help, but he is ashamed of his condition and doesn't want to burden anyone.
I really really hope he takes your help. He sounds very intelligent. Just very lost. Speaks wisely but doesn’t carry out life’s chores. Good luck. 👍🏻🇬🇧
Thank you for doing this work.y son has had issues like this and I am the only one in the family that keeps the door open. Praying for him to let you be close. He has been very hurt.
hi from australia my friend...i agree with you 100 percent....this man was fine until his mother passed away . then his life went downhill from there...its like he has turned himself off....so he can deal with the pain .. he is not lazy...he has just lost his way in life..
i think, i know, that he was never "fine", but that he had a structure security, love, stability when his parents lived, losing his parents, especially his mom removed every and any semblance of such structure, he has nobody he can feel safe with, he fears driving people away so he stays away I dread this for myself, I dread what wil happen if I lose my structure
Dios mio pobrecito 😢😢😢necesita ayuda de toda clase sanitaria , social ...precisa cuidados de todo tipo aseo personal , arreglos y acondicionar su casa ..alimentos .. y mucha atencion y amor .La esquizofrenia precisa tratamiento y si lo tuviera podia ser una persona normal y feliz .Espero que con tu buen hacer y tu cariño consigas mejorar la vida de este señor dentro de tus posibilidades .Te deseo lo mejor Sergey lo mereces 💕💕💔💔💕
This man is smart for sure and just needs help to get cleaned up,a hair cut and have his hand looked at by doctors. He really loves talking to you. His parents were very important to him and when they passed his life changed.
I think it is very hard for this man to get close to people because when you do they leave you. At least that's what happened with him and his family. I hope you have success in helping him. Thanks for what you do.
Sergei, for you to be so consistently patient, gentle, and compassionately in tune with people in sincere need of help tells us more and more just how well you were raised and how incredibly blessed your own family is. If only the world were filled with more people like you and your family! Thank you for following and acting upon your pupose. Be blessed. 🧡🙏🇨🇦
Some people were really punched to the face by life so hard, that they may never recover again. I really appreciate what you do for those people man. It takes special type of personality to do things like this. I'm from Slovakia and came across your channel just recently and it's very inspiring. There is really something about this phrase - "russian soul". When I see this guy, it reminds me off some characters from Dostoyevski's poems.
Thank you for helping this man , having patience ...he didn't want pants but by the time you left he did 🙂 I can't wait to see your new friend ship with him. I'm praying as I type for him and for you ! I hope your life is as WONDERFUL as YOU ARE!!!!
Es ist so super, wie ihr das macht. Mit soviel Geduld und Verständnis. Respekt an euch und eure Arbeit! Vielleicht solltet ihr ihm sagen, dass er euch nicht zur Last fällt. Es fällt ihm scheinbar schwer Hilfe anzunehmen.
I have worked with students who were traumatized and the moments they shut down and did not talk were scary because you did not know if they would start to scream and hurt you or be calm and passive. Be careful..
I felt so sad for this man he is grieving it can affect you badly sometimes, I was very bad after the death of my father. Anyway, he may have other psychological problems too. Thank you for trying to help him I hope his hand gets better.
This one made me cry. My heart breaks for this man. I pray he gets and accepts the help he needs. Sometimes, the only relief for these poor souls is their own death.
Love your vids. Can see he knows what he should be doing and is embarrassed and ashamed that he is not doing it. He is also procrastinating, articulating excuses, and self justification for it. Will be interesting to see if you can get him on track permanently.
He lost his loved ones and never recovered from the trauma and grief. Grief can do this to people, especially when its your parents that loved you and raised you. He needs someone to talk to and kindness to show him the path to move forward. You are doing God's work my friend. May God bless you and help you and this poor man.
It's clear ha didn't feel worthy of receiving help. But because you are being patient with him he is starting to feel better and open up. You are right to go slow.
Sergei, if you were my son I would be so proud of you! You are compassionate and kind, yet you speak honestly of changes some of these people need to make. You are good at intervention.
it is nor he did something bad, an emotional shock creates this not care about oneself. i look forward to seeing this smart,kind man back to his best!!!
He needs meaning, give him the opportunity to be an example to other people in the same situation, hire him to clean his house, himself, take care of his health
I hope Alexeis classmate can get the doctor he knows to help. Therapy, and perhaps medication, is the only way this mans life will improve for the long term. If Alexei doesn't get his hand taken care of nothing else may matter for him. Sad really, but we all lose someone we love sometime in our lives and he needs help to move on.
I understand loss, over a 6 year span I lost my grandmother, father and then my mother, lastly I lost my husband. It's rough being alone with just your thoughts and memories. Your reaching out to him and just talking without judgement means the world to him. He doesn't want or need pity, this may be the main reason he doesn't try and talk with the people in this village cause they have judged him for the way he is.
Tell your friend, Alexis, that people are on his side and they care for him. Work with him from the bottom up not the top down. When he wants to get clean he will know you were there for him. Thank you so much for helping him. you're doing great.
People that suffer trauma from separation tend to fill the house with stuff. Clothes occupying the chairs, beds, floor, sofa. In this case trash. He doesn’t want to change clothes to loose what he is comfortable with. He is lacking meaning.
Thank you for helping the man I'm so sorry for the loss of his parents. Perhaps he can visit the parents graves if it won't upset him. It may bring him comfort.
Sergei, i love you! Of course, Nietzsche can't do all this crap alone. it needs more help than just one person. Medical treatment must be the first thing to do and then just clean it up, I hope that miracles will happen! His downcast gaze reminds me of me when I was younger...
His long silence was heart breaking. He has been deeply hurt... your friendship and gentle approach is what will make the difference for him. He just needs the patience and loving kindness you are showing him. Well done, and may God bless you in this life and the next Sergei🙏
Sergei is the most thoughtful, kindest, smartest person. As is his father, Alexandre. Lesha is in good hands now so I'm confident his hand and his life will improve. Thank you from Canada.
I'm Praying for Alexei from America in Tennessee mountains. If you're reading Alexei, God bless you, sir, and may all be better in your life
This poor man, at the very least he is severely depressed. I pray he can get some help. Thank you for showing him kindness and generosity.
That’s so sweet, he really enjoys your company. I think it means more to him than any gift you could bring.
I believe you're right.
I agree with both of you, loneliness is such an awful way to live :(
Absolutely. Gentle, repeated contact, with no presure, just sitting and talking with some good food.
Just spending time with another person he knows that cares about him, it would very powerful medicien.
He can become septic with that hand.
Heartbreaking. I hope he lets you help him. He is very intelligent.
Not quite!
@@chrisyates8115 really intelligent people often don't take care of themselves if things happen outside of theirs comfort zone. like " autistic " etc..
@@Nikpet3D I'm pretty sure this guy has schizophrenia.
Agree and he really need to go to the hospital to get his hands look at and get the right psych meds he really needs it
@@chrisyates8115 you're looking at him after succumbing to mental illness, who knows what he was like before
You are slowly chipping away his edges, he is trusting you 😊 slowly but surely
Sometimes the ultra intelligent brings insanity. Very common.
Thank you so much, Sergei, for sharing awareness that humanity needs so badly. We need to look after each other.
Seriously Russia should be helping their citizens instead of trying to gain more land.
Please don’t give up on him. He really need help. I’m concerned about his hand, if it an infection…it might affect his blood. Long term Infectious can cause blood poisons. Praying for him 🙏🏻✨💫😇
Please let us know the progress you made with Lesha and if he got treatment for his hand. Thank you SO MUCH for your kindness in taking an interest in Lesha and trying to help him. God's Blessings on you. Love from Ireland 🇮🇪 ❤ ♥
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But you didn’t see his hand.
@@lisalarouge6309 I think she means by the time the next video comes out - if he gets treatment between now and then. We may not see him going to the doctor for it like we saw Dima go for his back and headaches.
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You are doing real good to people...not only for camera. That is rare, thank you for showing us example.
Exactly 😊
@@ritaakalele4801 exactly for the camera
He can’t even get his pants on properly. He really needs an intervention
Contrary to what the cousin's husband said, this is not the behaviour of someone who is lazy and doesn't want to do anything. His classmate described him better, he said that Lesha is shy and geeky. You can see that by his insistence to repay Sergei and his talk about gaming
He talks about picking up bit by bit, and I appreciate you see that's how to help him is bit by bit, patiently. People don't want to be living like this, it's definitely an illness. It's also like he's afraid to accept help and be close with anyone, maybe because he's experienced such loss.
You are so right. He experienced such grief that he is afraid to care about anyone, even himself. He doesn't want to let himself be hurt again.
@@dianalovescolors And by doing so he hurts himself silently because he can never experience that type of happiness again. I hope this guy starts to slowly wake up out of his depression after he gets some help.
The world is in desperate need of more people like you Vasya - Many people are on the edge of giving up. Keep doing good, and God bless you!
Vasya is his cat.
Indeed
@@atdzsnyis it really? I've always wondered where the channel name came from
This man needs help with everything. I agree it’s his trauma that is the problem. I doubt he will ever be able to take care of himself without assistance. 😢
Thank you Sergei for trying to take care of that sweet, mild-mannered man❤❤❤
"The best reward for my kindness, just put on the new pants and the shoes." Very clever, Sergei! This made me grin.😂
You guys are doing great things...
THANKS
GOD BLESS
He needs penicillin for his hand soon as possible can you buy in Russia 6:48 20.50 UK time
The man was so happy to have a friend. Everyone said he wouldn't talk, but that wasn't true. He wants to talk, he wants help, but he is ashamed of his condition and doesn't want to burden anyone.
I really really hope he takes your help. He sounds very intelligent. Just very lost. Speaks wisely but doesn’t carry out life’s chores. Good luck. 👍🏻🇬🇧
This brought tears to my heart. You are so gentle and kind, I look forward to seeing the next video and how L has progressed.
You are one of the best and kind Person. I RESPECT and Admire your work helping people in need may god bless you more ❤
Absolutely beautiful. Thank you for sharing your love and grace with this individual and the world. 💚🌱🐢
Beautifully said Collise.
Thank you for doing this work.y son has had issues like this and I am the only one in the family that keeps the door open. Praying for him to let you be close. He has been very hurt.
Bless you holly.
🧡
hi from australia my friend...i agree with you 100 percent....this man was fine until his mother passed away . then his life went downhill from there...its like he has turned himself off....so he can deal with the pain .. he is not lazy...he has just lost his way in life..
i think, i know, that he was never "fine", but that he had a structure
security, love, stability when his parents lived,
losing his parents, especially his mom removed every and any semblance of such structure, he has nobody he can feel safe with, he fears driving people away so he stays away
I dread this for myself, I dread what wil happen if I lose my structure
@@istoppedcaring6209 where do you live
If I could help more I would. Thank you Team Vasya for your beautiful humanity ❤️🙏
So sad that people need this help but you make it better for them to have some care.😀
I will pray for peace, joy, and good health for Nietzche.
There's angels amongst us and maybe you met this person not only for him, but for you as well.
He isn't bad his heart hurts 😢
Dios mio pobrecito 😢😢😢necesita ayuda de toda clase sanitaria , social ...precisa cuidados de todo tipo aseo personal , arreglos y acondicionar su casa ..alimentos .. y mucha atencion y amor .La esquizofrenia precisa tratamiento y si lo tuviera podia ser una persona normal y feliz .Espero que con tu buen hacer y tu cariño consigas mejorar la vida de este señor dentro de tus posibilidades .Te deseo lo mejor Sergey lo mereces 💕💕💔💔💕
I don’t think he has schizophrenia, to me it seems severe depression. Treatable! Poor man, it’s so sad.
despair.
Dissociative disorder
Poor guy believes washing causes him to get a terrible skin reaction so he won't touch water nor change his clothing.
This man is smart for sure and just needs help to get cleaned up,a hair cut and have his hand looked at by doctors. He really loves talking to you. His parents were very important to him and when they passed his life changed.
Hell need counselling and psychiatric care as you don't just snap out of all the bad habits he's acquired
I think it is very hard for this man to get close to people because when you do they leave you. At least that's what happened with him and his family. I hope you have success in helping him. Thanks for what you do.
Sergei, for you to be so consistently patient, gentle, and compassionately in tune with people in sincere need of help tells us more and more just how well you were raised and how incredibly blessed your own family is.
If only the world were filled with more people like you and your family!
Thank you for following and acting upon your pupose.
Be blessed. 🧡🙏🇨🇦
Some people were really punched to the face by life so hard, that they may never recover again. I really appreciate what you do for those people man. It takes special type of personality to do things like this. I'm from Slovakia and came across your channel just recently and it's very inspiring. There is really something about this phrase - "russian soul". When I see this guy, it reminds me off some characters from Dostoyevski's poems.
I bet every time anyone who saw this video, there's something they have felt inside their ❤. Aah makes me sad...
Thanks for helping people like him standing ALL alone. They need someone there and he will not forget you despite you might think in the moment.
Thank you for helping this man , having patience ...he didn't want pants but by the time you left he did 🙂
I can't wait to see your new friend ship with him. I'm praying as I type for him and for you ! I hope your life is as WONDERFUL as YOU ARE!!!!
Es ist so super, wie ihr das macht. Mit soviel Geduld und Verständnis. Respekt an euch und eure Arbeit! Vielleicht solltet ihr ihm sagen, dass er euch nicht zur Last fällt. Es fällt ihm scheinbar schwer Hilfe anzunehmen.
Hast du sehr schön geschrieben, die machen eine super Abeit.
@@bastianpate-uc5hd Dankeschön.
I think his family must have lost patience and hope with him. Your kindness and patience may be the little push he needs.
And with your help, he wants to get things figured out and made better by summer. I think he found his hope.❤
Thank you for showing compassion to people that need it so much. You guys are the best!
So many of these lost souls have lost their mothers and the love they had from them, they then are so alone and spiral downwards it breaks my heart.
I'm so glad you aren't giving up on him. He will die if he's left alone.
The world needs more of THIS!
It is incredible Sergei how compassionate you are to people who are truly in need.
He seems deeply depressed and too proud to accept help at the same time.
i agree, new clothes can wait but his hand needs to be treated ASAP. It cant wait weeks and weeks.
My heart breaks. Praying for him.
Thanks for updating us on his situation. I've been thinking about him since the last video. I hope he's doing okay
Such blessings to Leisha. I do hope he deals with his loss & grieving. It's tough. Life is tough. In my thoughts. ❤
Here in philipines, we admire people like you, Godbless you!
I have worked with students who were traumatized and the moments they shut down and did not talk were scary because you did not know if they would start to scream and hurt you or be calm and passive. Be careful..
I felt so sad for this man he is grieving it can affect you badly sometimes, I was very bad after the death of my father. Anyway, he may have other psychological problems too. Thank you for trying to help him I hope his hand gets better.
Oh, please 🙏 help that poor guy
My heart is breaking for him 🇬🇧 😢😢😢😢
Please carry on looking out this man, I understand his loss and pain!
Keep listening to your heart. You are so good at empathy mingled with kindness and respect…keep up the good work! New Hampshire USA
Keep working on him, you will succeed. Waiting to see how it unfolds.
So sad but I'm sure he will make it with your help , you make miracles happen , bless you 💖
Your so kind and helpful to these people less fortunate than us you'll be loved by god bless you ❤🙏✝️🇬🇧
This one made me cry. My heart breaks for this man. I pray he gets and accepts the help he needs. Sometimes, the only relief for these poor souls is their own death.
Bless you Sergei. Love what your trying to do. I think he knows it comes from love.
Kindness still exist. More positivity and happiness to you to serve humanity.
Bless his heart!!!
Prayers for you to find him both mental and physical help with his health.
Love your vids.
Can see he knows what he should be doing and is embarrassed and ashamed that he is not doing it. He is also procrastinating, articulating excuses, and self justification for it.
Will be interesting to see if you can get him on track permanently.
Tell Alexie we would love to see his smile. To cut some of that hair back so we can enjoy his beautiful smile.
He lost his loved ones and never recovered from the trauma and grief. Grief can do this to people, especially when its your parents that loved you and raised you. He needs someone to talk to and kindness to show him the path to move forward. You are doing God's work my friend. May God bless you and help you and this poor man.
The month of May in USA is mental health awareness month. 💫🙏❤
Huge huge hugs ❤
I hope this Gentleman gets support soon. Thank you for showing him compassion.
It's clear ha didn't feel worthy of receiving help. But because you are being patient with him he is starting to feel better and open up. You are right to go slow.
I seen you 1st video where you meet this man,respect sent from Ireland 🇮🇪 my God look down on him and you
Sergei, if you were my son I would be so proud of you! You are compassionate and kind, yet you speak honestly of changes some of these people need to make. You are good at intervention.
it is nor he did something bad, an emotional shock creates this not care about oneself. i look forward to seeing this smart,kind man back to his best!!!
He needs meaning, give him the opportunity to be an example to other people in the same situation, hire him to clean his house, himself, take care of his health
I hope Alexeis classmate can get the doctor he knows to help. Therapy, and perhaps medication, is the only way this mans life will improve for the long term. If Alexei doesn't get his hand taken care of nothing else may matter for him. Sad really, but we all lose someone we love sometime in our lives and he needs help to move on.
I understand loss, over a 6 year span I lost my grandmother, father and then my mother, lastly I lost my husband. It's rough being alone with just your thoughts and memories. Your reaching out to him and just talking without judgement means the world to him. He doesn't want or need pity, this may be the main reason he doesn't try and talk with the people in this village cause they have judged him for the way he is.
Tell your friend, Alexis, that people are on his side and they care for him. Work with him from the bottom up not the top down. When he wants to get clean he will know you were there for him. Thank you so much for helping him. you're doing great.
I love your channel so much. I was hoping to see this man again. Let’s hope he takes your help ❤
This story is tragic 😢 bless his soul 🙏
Thanks for your videos it takes time don’t give up on people
Poor man. It breaks my heart....
So sad. Thanks for helping him. God bless
People that suffer trauma from separation tend to fill the house with stuff. Clothes occupying the chairs, beds, floor, sofa. In this case trash. He doesn’t want to change clothes to loose what he is comfortable with. He is lacking meaning.
Sergei I think you're a hero man. You have the right balance of compassion and strength, and you use it to help people.
Thank you for helping the man
I'm so sorry for the loss of his parents. Perhaps he can visit the parents graves if it won't upset him. It may bring him comfort.
Bless your beautiful, wondrous heart. 💜
He does want youre company he really likes you God sent you as his angel 😇❤
HOLD YOUR HEAD UP LESHA , STOP LOOKING DOWN !!
You are so patient and kind. Wonder how he is doing .
This world needs many more like you, please keep updating us
Sergei - thank you for seeing his root problem(s) and working to help him.
Kind for person god bless 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻❤️❤️❤️🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🇵🇭
Sergei, i love you!
Of course, Nietzsche can't do all this crap alone. it needs more help than just one person.
Medical treatment must be the first thing to do and then just clean it up, I hope that miracles will happen!
His downcast gaze reminds me of me when I was younger...
You were great with him. He likes and trusts you and that is most important. Look forward to the updates
His long silence was heart breaking. He has been deeply hurt... your friendship and gentle approach is what will make the difference for him. He just needs the patience and loving kindness you are showing him. Well done, and may God bless you in this life and the next Sergei🙏
Sergei is the most thoughtful, kindest, smartest person. As is his father, Alexandre. Lesha is in good hands now so I'm confident his hand and his life will improve. Thank you from Canada.