The OTHER SIDE! Bodyshaming??| Stress Eating?| STORY OF MY LIFE| NEHA MATHEW

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  • Опубликовано: 18 сен 2024
  • I had uploaded this few months back but i think more people need to hear this. so uploading it again! stay safe and take care alll..
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    #storyofmylife #bodyshaming #overeating #stresseating

Комментарии • 59

  • @devikak759
    @devikak759 11 месяцев назад +6

    More power to you girl!!!

  • @lekshmipillai9960
    @lekshmipillai9960 11 месяцев назад +7

    Same bro..Enikkum stress eating ahnn.Tension nthelum aayal orupad food kazhikkum.Ennit tired aayi kidann orangum.Engne overcome cheyyanamen ariyilla.

  • @LifestyleVlogsby_ADITHYA
    @LifestyleVlogsby_ADITHYA 11 месяцев назад +1

    Eda am 5'9... I understand totally... Before I was little chubby... Anneram enne kure peer height vech kaliyakkumarunnu..kurach vannam koodi ullathkond enik ath othiri feel aayi.. Heightum vannam koodi verumbol oohikkalo.. But ippo njan melinjittan.. Ennvech theere melinjittalla... Ippo ath vechittan aalkark problem.. Am happy with my body... Nammalk health aan veendath.. Ath undengil thanne we are lucky.. Moreover we can shut their mouth with our confidence.. Ippo aar enth paranjalum I don't care... Njan othiri maari.. I love myself.. After oru 18 thott njan bold aayi thudangi...

  • @hibashakeer2693
    @hibashakeer2693 11 месяцев назад +5

    Same mwuthee..😢😢njn plus two kaynj degreekk join cheyyana tymil cheriyoru gyap indarnnu oru 4 months..appo njn junk foods okke nannayi kaychernnu then ente kavil by birth thanne nnalla chubby aarnnu but adh over fat allarnnuu then collegil poval thodangyappo ente junk food cravings koodi then ente kavil nnallonam chaadi nnalla faty aayi face pinne body also korach thadikkan thodangii aalkkar parayumbazhernn njn ariyanadh ente changes...that moment i realise that i am a thadichi..pinne vayangara veshmaayi because ellarum parayal thodangi thadichallo molee ..endha mogham kaananadh anganokke🫠🫠one year aayi diet kopp anganokke paranj nadakkan thodangeett..enikk ente facil jawline varthikkanam ennaaan ente aagraham and one day i will make it❤❤

    • @NehaMathew21
      @NehaMathew21  11 месяцев назад +1

      Having a chubby face is really cute, Aalkar parayunnath nokanda, try to maintain a healthy lifestyle both physically and mentally and baaki thaane vannolum ❤️❤️ Dont worry❤️

  • @N___asha___
    @N___asha___ 11 месяцев назад +5

    Hy മറ്റുള്ളവർ എന്തെങ്കിലും പറഞ്ഞോട്ടെ you good girl continue food ❤നല്ല ഫോട്ടോകൾക്ക് അയക്കാനുള്ള ഭാഗ്യം കിട്ടട്ടെ 😊

    • @NehaMathew21
      @NehaMathew21  11 месяцев назад +1

      ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @homosapien18
    @homosapien18 11 месяцев назад +3

    Same enteyum avastha, cheruppam thotte thadi koodiyath kond kaliyakkalum kuttapeduthalum mattullorde parihasa chiriyum orupaad anubavichittund.. Healthine badhikkum enna avastha vannpo kuraykkan theerumanichu.. Excersice okke cheyth heightin anusaricha weight ayi ippo.. Valare buddhimutt ayirunnu cheruppam muthale ulla thadi ayathinal kurachu kittanayitt, fit ayi irikkunnath thanneya namade healthin nallath, ennu karuthi mattullorde karyathil idapedanum avarude buddhimutt ariyand abiprayam parayanum namuk rights ella.. 🙌🏻 thankyou for sharing your experience chechi❤

    • @NehaMathew21
      @NehaMathew21  11 месяцев назад

      I totally understand your situation! You are not alone❤️

  • @utharan6445
    @utharan6445 11 месяцев назад +8

    Chechi I've also gone through this same situation like in my childhood I was body shamed for my short height and after that i became little fat and still i was short so it was endless racism I've gone through from my very little age itself even my teachers relatives parents and obviously the worse was my friends body shaming me... I used to cry a lot and I hated looking to mirror because i hate myself and I hate looking at mirror I hated my body I started questioning my existence and that was so extreme situation....and in covid time I used to stress eat and once the offline classes has started the teasing had increased everyone seeing me started judging and commenting on me. Some was teasing me and some others was giving advices to go to gym don't eat too much do excercise stop eating junks blahh blahh blahh so and so shits... then gradually i also started decreasing the food quantity I cut it down the half which i used to eat and i would skip any one of the meal of the day and I started doing excercise for 3 months i continuosly followed it but my weight didn't decrease but my height has increased a lot so i was satisfied with my height so I stopped doing all the excercise and i started eating like i normally eat and at some point i even eats more.. and again my weight has gained more but i didnt have any hope cause even before i tried exercise and diet but nothing changed in my weight... then when my personal doctor prescribed to go for healthy diet now I started doing healthy diet with excercise now my weight has loss a little bit but I'm just maintaining this weight I'm controlling for not to gain or loss my weight... and for my journal no body has helped to mentally overcome this still now I'm doing something with my weight and body to satisfy others but still I'm never satisfied with myself.. I'm still insecure about my body and especially when I go for shopping certain dresses would suit me very well and i would like that dress a lot but if that dress projects my body I rather would not but it now my always going for my next size and loose clothes to not to see my exact body shape... this video was very useful it has atleast helped to boost up my day

    • @NehaMathew21
      @NehaMathew21  11 месяцев назад +3

      Heyy da! You will get through this! And you are not alone. I know it’s difficult to love yourself if you are being bodyshamed throughout your life. But trust me , once you achieve the milestone of loving yourself , pinne there’s no looking back. I’m someone who still has problems with self love but I try try and try. If it becomes too overwhelming, it is always better to seek help from therapy. I have had help from my therapist and I’d say it helps us like anything! ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @shaheelapk1893
    @shaheelapk1893 11 месяцев назад +13

    There are people who phases insults because of their height also . I have also lots of experience regarding my height.

    • @nimmybiju5696
      @nimmybiju5696 11 месяцев назад +1

      Me too 4'10 you have any tips for increasing height

    • @NehaMathew21
      @NehaMathew21  11 месяцев назад

      Totally understandable!

    • @Ann_uz
      @Ann_uz 11 месяцев назад

      I too…i am 5’3 and facing tall issue😢

  • @lifeonearth97
    @lifeonearth97 11 месяцев назад +4

    ആളുകൾക്ക് എല്ലാം പ്രശ്നം ആണ്
    തടി ഉള്ളത് പോലെ തന്നെ തടി ഇല്ലാത്തതും അവർക്ക് problem ആണ്
    Njan slim body type aan but ende weight 55 aan ath kond palarum kali akitund . Njan diet cheyyumbo thadi nallanm kurayum byt weight remains same. Oru stage ethyapo njn vicharichu enik enthlm health issues akim enn
    Doctor consultation cheythapo doc paranju muscle weight aan ullath
    Diet cheythal fat nallonm burn aakum but muscle weight kurayilla and that is absolutely normal and healthy ❤
    After that njn orikalum weight ne paty alochich tension aytilla
    So body type different aan ath kond find your body type and live a healthy life❤

    • @NehaMathew21
      @NehaMathew21  11 месяцев назад +1

      Yesss! Absolutely! I’m sorry you had to go through this in your life, but I’m glad that you are alright Ippo. Lots of love to you❤️❤️❤️😍😘

    • @lifeonearth97
      @lifeonearth97 11 месяцев назад +1

      @@NehaMathew21 i love the way you Carry yourself and I know after all struggles we will find ourselves , there the Life begins
      We can't change people's attitude,we can only change our mindset
      Orale kanumbol avr happy ayt irikunno enn chodhikandathin pakaram thadichu melinju enn parayunnath enthoru wrong way aan and till now ennod arelum avr thadicho melinjo engne und kanan enn chodhichal Njan parayum it's ok you are looking good enn
      Ath njn athra vallya mansin udama aayathkond alla 😂 but I know how it feels when somebody else talking and making opinion about our body
      Anyway keep going dear nice content 💗💗💗💗💗

    • @NehaMathew21
      @NehaMathew21  11 месяцев назад

      @@lifeonearth97 Yessss!!❤️❤️❤️

  • @Sreeelakshmiiii
    @Sreeelakshmiiii 11 месяцев назад +9

    Body shaming is not at all funny.. Athum childhoodil aavumbo it leads to trauma... I'm still struggling with that trauma.. Ethoru puthiya dress ittalum njn ippozhum chinthikum njn orupad thadi undonn.. Thn njn thanne enne correct cheyyum that I'm perfect.. But still those school days were hell because of this shit bodyshaming

    • @NehaMathew21
      @NehaMathew21  11 месяцев назад +3

      You are PERFECTTT the way you are Sreelakshmi!! You are beautiful, pretty and amazinggg!!🥰😍😍

  • @richa3714
    @richa3714 Месяц назад

    I relate so much with you😭

  • @maya07990
    @maya07990 10 месяцев назад +1

    Haww chechhyy❤
    Lot's of luvhh:)

  • @FathimaFafa
    @FathimaFafa 11 месяцев назад +3

    Omg😢..ith thanneyan njn anubvkinne.... guilty feel karnam nthokeya an cheynne.
    ...ippol ethrayn weight...

    • @NehaMathew21
      @NehaMathew21  11 месяцев назад +1

      I totally understand ☺️

  • @N___asha___
    @N___asha___ 11 месяцев назад +2

    you next video വെയിറ്റിംഗ് 🐬💫🌸🔥

  • @smithachakku9190
    @smithachakku9190 11 месяцев назад

    Truee❤

  • @mohananchandroth3129
    @mohananchandroth3129 11 месяцев назад +11

    Shame 😂😂. 😢.Females are really worried about what the world thinks about them. The spirit of fighting is important. Wink ❤.

    • @NehaMathew21
      @NehaMathew21  11 месяцев назад +5

      This is not something that only females experience sir. I have a lot of guy friends who experience the same.

    • @mohananchandroth3129
      @mohananchandroth3129 11 месяцев назад

      @@NehaMathew21 normally men are not worried about their looks. It is when they are on the war path to get lady friends that they become aware of their physicality. Any way shaming is not acceptable.

  • @zareena-ou7it
    @zareena-ou7it 11 месяцев назад +3

    Same njanum ekene aryinnu stress eating 😢😢😢

    • @NehaMathew21
      @NehaMathew21  11 месяцев назад +1

      I can understand, Ath pathuke overcome cheyan pattum ❤️

  • @Kuttaru
    @Kuttaru 11 месяцев назад +1

    Evidey heights normal ollo😮ethe onnum height alla kurave anney

  • @mubinsha976
    @mubinsha976 11 месяцев назад +2

    ❤❤

  • @N___asha___
    @N___asha___ 11 месяцев назад +1

  • @indusharathindusharath6455
    @indusharathindusharath6455 11 месяцев назад +27

    ഹായ് മോളെ... നാട്ടിൽ ആണോ ബാംഗ്ലൂർ ആണോ.. എന്റെ കുട്ടി സുഖം ആയി ഇരിക്കുന്നോ.... Bless uu മോളെ... 🙏🙏❤❤🥰🥰😍😍😍💚💚💛💛

    • @NehaMathew21
      @NehaMathew21  11 месяцев назад +10

      Ottum vayya aunty, asugam aan 😷

    • @indusharathindusharath6455
      @indusharathindusharath6455 11 месяцев назад +11

      ​@@NehaMathew21അയ്യോ.. മോളെ.. എന്താ പറ്റിയത്... Rest എടുക്കണം.. ഫുഡ്‌ കഴിക്കണം... എന്റെ കുട്ടി വേഗം സുഖം ആകാൻ ആന്റി pray ചെയ്തു.... 🙏🙏❤❤

  • @N___asha___
    @N___asha___ 11 месяцев назад +1

    I. ❤.........

  • @FathIma-b7n
    @FathIma-b7n 11 месяцев назад +3

    Now iam the old you

  • @nimmybiju5696
    @nimmybiju5696 11 месяцев назад +1

    Chechii height increases cheyan ntha cheyande i'm 4'9 only 16 yrs

    • @NehaMathew21
      @NehaMathew21  11 месяцев назад

      Height ennath biologically kittunna onn alle da? I think nammade familyil ninn varunnathan height. Ath oru age vare koodum pinne nilkum. Height kootan enthenkilum cheyan pattuo enn enk correct aayitt aryathilada. I’ll research upon it and get back to you! Okay??❤️❤️❤️

    • @nimmybiju5696
      @nimmybiju5696 11 месяцев назад

      You are the sweetest..njn nta ammaye pole ahnen thonnunu she is 4'10 something and achan 5'6 ..njn ippo 16 yrs I'm the shortest one in the class .pakshe enik emotionally sad undakunendakilumm enthoram peru defectily born cheyun kunjile health issues Varun but I'm healthy.But some point chila tall ayit ulla peoples na kand I used to admire..enik oru 5'2 indayirunakii I will be happy ..vtl parayumba nanyii padichamathii nalla position enthumba who cares ena parayar ..njn paranjalloo ipo I'm getting used to it some point I will be sad..enik 10 standard thotta kaliyaki thodangiya bcoz 8 and 9 corona ayirunalee 7 th vare njnum ellrdm pole ayirunu .corona vannu vtl kothiirup ayapoo njn height vechilla weight okke correct ahn I'm 42 kg..class lee frnds okke vechu..njn mathram 🥺 Anyway chechiii reply tharanou never expected just comment akii I felt you are genuine,inspiring .. 💗💗love you😙

  • @Aisshhhuu
    @Aisshhhuu 11 месяцев назад +4

    Have seen this video before in ur channel🌚🌚

    • @NehaMathew21
      @NehaMathew21  11 месяцев назад +5

      Yes yes reuploaded it so that it reaches more people and to tell them that they are not alone❤️

    • @Aisshhhuu
      @Aisshhhuu 11 месяцев назад

      Oohh okkayy😃😃 i have seen all ur videos in this channel 🔥 keep uploading more ♥️

  • @destinationo1
    @destinationo1 10 месяцев назад

    Ni flexible aaya story- Banglore alle namaku ariyam 😂 ..nalla vayanakriya..ninne kandal ariyam 😂😂Slim aya ni engane aayi..ithu mathram ethrayum..size ayathu sherikum..albhuthapeduthi..😱😱😜😂

  • @jayanpadikkaparambil7483
    @jayanpadikkaparambil7483 11 месяцев назад +2

  • @umeshkp2668
    @umeshkp2668 11 месяцев назад +3

    Njan ethrayo msg ayachu Instagram le onnu nokamoo 😒😒😒😒😒

    • @NehaMathew21
      @NehaMathew21  11 месяцев назад +1

      Ayyo Njan kandilarnnu tto , entharnnu name? ☺️☺️

    • @umeshkp2668
      @umeshkp2668 11 месяцев назад

      @@NehaMathew21 ith thanne Umesh

    • @umeshkp2668
      @umeshkp2668 11 месяцев назад

      @@NehaMathew21 kandoo?

    • @umeshkp2668
      @umeshkp2668 10 месяцев назад

      @@NehaMathew21 evide ? Msg kandille

  • @tintumariam3607
    @tintumariam3607 11 месяцев назад +1

  • @nayanae9367
    @nayanae9367 11 месяцев назад +1

    ❤❤