Cyco Podcast Sn3 E7 - All the Green Flags while dating ft Karwirwa Laura

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  • Опубликовано: 15 окт 2024
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    On this Podcast episode We get to discuss the green flags in a relationship with the amazing Laura Karwirwa. What are your green flags (Traits you see and you go like, 'well this can work' , please let us know in the comment section below.
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Комментарии • 122

  • @afreecanradiopodcast6765
    @afreecanradiopodcast6765 3 года назад +66

    Be with someone who wants a relationship and also someone who wants you, that's really true. And I also think not everyone you meet is to be dated some are meant to be yoh friends manze.

  • @delmasmutwiri
    @delmasmutwiri 3 года назад +17

    Laura is a vibe bana part 2 on yellow flags. Hawa watu wanatuconfuse, ni kama wako na ni kama hawayuko ama wanaenda wakirudi.

  • @mukami_kinyua
    @mukami_kinyua 3 года назад +27

    Laura has such a Beautiful voice🥺❤️

  • @wanjikumwangi7192
    @wanjikumwangi7192 3 года назад +31

    I think an important green light is when you both understand your dysfunctions and triggers and there's intention to work on them.
    This was insightful! Thank you!

  • @angelamumbi7418
    @angelamumbi7418 3 года назад +78

    Nobody:
    Literally Nobody:
    Ben: Welcome so much😂😂😂

    • @hakayi9130
      @hakayi9130 3 года назад +5

      'Karibu sana'😂

    • @emyb5422
      @emyb5422 3 года назад +2

      I heard that too i was like loooool

    • @amywarui1042
      @amywarui1042 3 года назад +1

      😂😂

  • @sheexndirangu
    @sheexndirangu 3 года назад +14

    Another green flag, when someone helps you work on your weaknesses genuinely and help you become a better person. That person is a patient person and it's a legit green flag

  • @gracewanja6604
    @gracewanja6604 3 года назад +25

    uuuuuhh this was nice, I am nodding in agreement, the green flags are it. Laura's second point hits the nail on the head, reveal important details in the first few dates, in order to give me a chance to choose. Do not wait until am in the deep end, to drop bombs after bombs

  • @debbieonzere
    @debbieonzere 3 года назад +34

    True.
    Bad boys are not sustainable! 😅
    They’re attractive at some point in life but in the long run you want the respectful and kind hearted guy, the one who considers others before himself. Now that’s a green flag! 🔥
    Dope episode 🙌🏾

    • @lucyvibesgermany
      @lucyvibesgermany 3 года назад +1

      You are telling the truth sooooo loud...
      Chei am old for this but mmmh
      Good talk ..

    • @evadtrent5607
      @evadtrent5607 3 года назад

      @Debbie Onzere. Ok but that respectful guy only gets the left-overs of the bad boy. How is that fair to him? So after you have had your fun with the bad boy you now want to settle down with a respectful guy who was ill give you all the good treatment that the bad boy didn't have yet you gave your best to the bad boy? You can't have your cake and eat it too. Just go to that bad boy and lie in the bed you made. Hypothetically speaking.

    • @debbieonzere
      @debbieonzere 3 года назад +3

      @@evadtrent5607 there are a lot of assumptions in your comment.
      First off, I cannot speak on behalf of women who intentionally desire the ‘bad boy’, I can only speak for myself and the few ladies in my life who have expressed the same sentiments as me.
      Life has ups and downs and the downs includes some failed relationships that one probably assumed would last.
      Just to be clear the ‘bad boy’ I dated, I didn’t even consider him a bad boy while I was seeing him. It was later that I realized he had no serious intentions with me and was quick to form ‘relationships’ with other women whilst we were seeing each other.
      There ain’t no left overs here but a coming together of both parties who have learnt from their previous failed relationships. Because who is saying that men also don’t have failed relationships with women who played them?
      And if a guy who was in such a situation approached me and was serious about his intentions, I can’t look at him and tell him ‘I’m only going to be receiving left overs of you from the woman who hurt you?’
      I mean that’s plain offensive and presumptuous!

    • @evadtrent5607
      @evadtrent5607 3 года назад +2

      @@debbieonzere alright I get your point well. Somehow for guys who went through bad situations, I have observed that most wind up maturing up and getting better while others get bitter. But for ladies more often than not, they end up settling for the "nice guy" just because they have been hurt by that pre-sumed "one" who turned out to be a bad boy.

    • @debbieonzere
      @debbieonzere 3 года назад +1

      @@evadtrent5607 ahh I understand your point of view too.
      It’s unfortunate that some don’t deal with their pain/hurt and jump into relationships with people who desire to love them whole heartedly. Which doesn’t end well for both parties.
      I hope people find their healing ❤️‍🩹

  • @ezrayawa
    @ezrayawa 3 года назад +39

    Another one, a partner who loves plants I think plants are green😂
    Anyway it is surprising how our flag is both a green and red flag😂

    • @thesoundgirlpod
      @thesoundgirlpod 3 года назад +6

      😒😂😂 hawa watu wa dad jokes everywhere..😂👌

    • @ezrayawa
      @ezrayawa 3 года назад +2

      @@thesoundgirlpod 😂😂😂😂

    • @judd1863
      @judd1863 3 года назад +2

      My green flag. Being myself around my partner.

  • @yourstrulyKe
    @yourstrulyKe 3 года назад +8

    Karwirwa amedrop mic na point 1 🔥🔥🔥
    Be with someone who wants to be in a relationship and be with someone who wants you.

  • @pecarl
    @pecarl 3 года назад +6

    Thanks Laura and Ben, that was wonderful. Communication is almost everything and that's not just calling and meetups - by the way you may do all these 25 hours of each day and still be numb to who your partner truly is, but it's so much of the ability to communicate your thoughts, emotions and perceptions in a way that they'll still find a safe place to land with a spice of attention. One who can adapt to different molds and still be authentic to who they really are is a great bonus. We also need partners who can tinker with our comfort zones and see if there's chance for us to scale up to who they envision us to be for them and so much more. We bless God for you Ben for the growth of what you're doing and hoping He awards you more that what your mind could imagine.

  • @joannjoki5057
    @joannjoki5057 3 года назад +7

    I love when u said that good guys sometimes finish last which isnt bad.I think ladies settle/marry the good guys

  • @mercykuria639
    @mercykuria639 3 года назад +7

    Great Episode,, I believe one important green flag is being with a person who your share the same faith ..like if you are born again, be with someone who is also born again.

  • @roycollinskariuki2004
    @roycollinskariuki2004 3 года назад +22

    Someone that has a genuine relationship with God.

    • @cadcentrelimited4263
      @cadcentrelimited4263 3 года назад

      And how do you measure this 'genuineness'; I mean you're not part of it......

    • @roycollinskariuki2004
      @roycollinskariuki2004 3 года назад +3

      @@cadcentrelimited4263 a person that has a genuine relationship with the Holy Spirit can be identified by their fruits. Also, if you yield to the Holy Spirit, your spiritual senses are nurtured and heighten, you can see things as they truly are.

  • @wambuinjau2396
    @wambuinjau2396 3 года назад +9

    Aha a new one!!
    Yeeeiii!!
    I woke up today thinking 🤔 No, we need to talk about Ben's frequency of posting because hapana we can't be out here waiting for content hivi vyote. It feels like it's been a month jameni!!! All I'm saying is great content, give us some more!!
    Haya, i am done, lemme watch in sasa...

  • @kwemangenyagrowa4198
    @kwemangenyagrowa4198 3 года назад +6

    Loving the podcast Bro.
    Topic Suggestion: 'Ex' factor and Privacy in Christian Relationships.
    😎😎 Would love to hear views on that

  • @njugunabee.9076
    @njugunabee.9076 3 года назад +8

    A green flag would be a partner should have interest in what I do and want to know more about it... Being that am a lawyer I associate with a person who is taking interest in my career

  • @elvisjonyo2624
    @elvisjonyo2624 3 года назад +17

    The audio is really good. Congrats

  • @roselynewanjikuofficial5491
    @roselynewanjikuofficial5491 3 года назад +5

    Beautiful conversation. I think one of the green flags for me is a man who is willing to open up on what he does for a living so I would know how to blend in as well as him being open to knowing more about my purpose journey so we would know how to work together

  • @yourstrulyKe
    @yourstrulyKe 3 года назад +4

    This was a lovely episode Ben. Please bring back Laura! 🙌 💯

  • @clanxvybe6857
    @clanxvybe6857 3 года назад +6

    Leo lazima niwache comment, my two favourite artists wamefika 🎊.
    Dope discussion Ben, its so cool how you've normalised relationship discussions. Big fun apa chini ya maji

  • @variniawandere4468
    @variniawandere4468 3 года назад +2

    Road to 40k subbies ❤️. Congratulations Benard❤️

  • @seanraymwangi8287
    @seanraymwangi8287 3 года назад +4

    Green Flag if she loves the Lord😍 naenda kununua pete😅

  • @mwangi_ngare
    @mwangi_ngare 3 года назад +3

    icio iratu --- the shoes Ben.

  • @RebeccabeckyMwangi
    @RebeccabeckyMwangi 3 года назад +1

    This was such a great topic!!!
    Sharing Similar values is one of my green flags as well.

  • @jaydeenderitu5306
    @jaydeenderitu5306 3 года назад

    Listened to the audio and it was fantastic,am just here for the video...

  • @collinskibelion
    @collinskibelion 3 года назад +6

    Ben Cyco is just effortlessly funny.

  • @emmanuelyoung4940
    @emmanuelyoung4940 3 года назад

    Always a pleasure passing by here⚡⚡🧡

  • @lucyvibesgermany
    @lucyvibesgermany 3 года назад +2

    Somebody who should be your mother is also allowed to subscribe..?? GOOD JOB BEN AND LAURA.

  • @Bancyceleb
    @Bancyceleb 3 года назад +2

    I just love Ben ... he such a vibe💯💯💯

  • @mwangiwainainacollection8035
    @mwangiwainainacollection8035 3 года назад +2

    Waiting.
    Hizi masaa haziishiii

  • @gloriawangui2787
    @gloriawangui2787 3 года назад +5

    Ati chad and Gabon surely Ben😂😂😂😂
    Thoroughly enjoyed this
    And also learnt a lot.

  • @KellysamsMonicah
    @KellysamsMonicah 3 года назад +2

    First time here, I love it. New subscriber❤️❤️
    #nakuruyoutuber

  • @stargirl6301
    @stargirl6301 2 года назад

    You got a new subscriber
    You're such a vibe
    God bless

  • @catienyambura4364
    @catienyambura4364 3 года назад +2

    My green flag, a friend, someone who loves me for me, similar values issamust, doesn't mind compromising some things for me and vice versa

  • @aileengicharu
    @aileengicharu 3 года назад +4

    😂 😂 😂 The guy actually said you had to pay for preps and the library with a straight face.... 😂 😂 😂 😂

    • @wangarimatu
      @wangarimatu 3 года назад +1

      he also had me on that one

  • @Reginah90
    @Reginah90 3 года назад

    Yes! More episodes with Karwirwa Laura

  • @joyngaira
    @joyngaira 2 года назад

    Raw and candid conversations is my thing

  • @ivystephanie3190
    @ivystephanie3190 3 года назад

    Thank you for working on the audio.

  • @marknjoroge4741
    @marknjoroge4741 3 года назад +7

    I never liked the slow to text approach so funny thing is that God gave me a girlfriend who also didn't like that approach haha. So I am a champion of find someone you will flow with rather than kujiforce kunyamaza. NI kama vile tunajichochanga ati vile unatake social media break na unajua vile wewe ni mtalkative, hahah. Unless God anapoint finger on an issue, ama your bae doesn't like if you do sth, just be you! Ile fika point dame kama hadai nimtext most times, ni sawa, wacha tu tuachane na now see niliget dame mpoa sana. Tunavibe vipoa sana as God leads us ahead
    Edit: - Na ninampenda so much yaaani!!!! She is such a spiritual lady, and that spiritual aspect is extremely extremely attractive. Na besides that tunavibe vipoa sanaaaa

    • @storeplace4097
      @storeplace4097 3 года назад +1

      Wow happy for you guys! God bless your union ilast

    • @evadtrent5607
      @evadtrent5607 3 года назад +1

      That's good. But chunga hawa wa spiritual hupull surprises serious bado na hio spirituality Yao....

    • @esthergitau777
      @esthergitau777 3 года назад +1

      💯

    • @bonifacekioko6320
      @bonifacekioko6320 Год назад

      ​@@evadtrent5607 😂😂😂

  • @lameckm11
    @lameckm11 Год назад

    I'm a DJ and I love "Tawala" biiigtime❤️💯ION Cyco we share July the 4th 😝

  • @esthernduta9969
    @esthernduta9969 3 года назад +3

    Ben:my goodness hanyamazangi ...hanyamazangi🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @johng8550
    @johng8550 2 года назад

    I used to listen to Cyco podcasts in the background while working on my computer but I stopped because this Ben Cyco is subtly a comedian and I would burst laughing every now and then. I now watch them when I'm not working.

  • @tejaanmusic8357
    @tejaanmusic8357 3 года назад +1

    If someone is using you for money,clout or really in love you will know.For clout they will want to take pictures,make video with you to show to the world either on instagram or RUclips.If they are after your money they will be collecting money,gifts.But if they are truly in love with you your money is nothing to them and they will not be interested in your money 💯

  • @maryannewanjiru7648
    @maryannewanjiru7648 3 года назад +3

    Nmeskia Green flags leo

  • @doreennjeri7915
    @doreennjeri7915 3 года назад

    Tawala music any day anytime my fav song. Hii kwa wedding God willing lazima

  • @j.m.m5795
    @j.m.m5795 3 года назад +1

    Cyco Did Laura jus say Baaanaaa hahaha hyu Chile kumbe ni mgenge chini ya wabling... Ni mpoa, nikampata nakimbiza hapa holy family Basilica...

  • @_Sharon_J
    @_Sharon_J 3 года назад +2

    Your set up looks amazing!

  • @machochoeunice660
    @machochoeunice660 3 года назад +1

    I've enjoyed the episode. Great conversation

  • @Cycythekreator
    @Cycythekreator 3 года назад

    Been long glad I am back 😌😌😌😌

  • @catienyambura4364
    @catienyambura4364 3 года назад +1

    I also make it clear, (in my head) lol hahhahaha
    loved loved the conversation

  • @martinmaina8223
    @martinmaina8223 3 года назад +3

    A prayful partner 🙏

  • @kelvinmemia
    @kelvinmemia 3 года назад +1

    Very nice and funny episode..Really enjoyed..

  • @I_Just_Stellar
    @I_Just_Stellar 3 года назад

    Alafu kuishi Thika btw..😂😂wueh, its real. Laura didn't lie

  • @dianesteve1716
    @dianesteve1716 3 года назад

    The Best one yet!!

  • @dolphineakoth
    @dolphineakoth 3 года назад

    Tawala is such a great song!

  • @lizmuringo9117
    @lizmuringo9117 3 года назад +3

    I'm also team don't be too available ☺️. Its annoying and cute at the sametime.

  • @ubuhlecreatives1962
    @ubuhlecreatives1962 3 года назад +1

    Egypt in Kangemi🤣🤣
    Surely Ben..

  • @pkayanne
    @pkayanne 3 года назад +3

    This was a really good episode 😊

  • @samuelchemelil9407
    @samuelchemelil9407 3 года назад +1

    Documentary za Ben huwa haziishi 😂😂

  • @josephmuchiri1361
    @josephmuchiri1361 3 года назад

    Enjoying this Ben. Great vibes

  • @lorrecco
    @lorrecco 3 года назад

    Ati Egypt ni kama Kisumu ndogo🤣🤣 aki Ben

  • @BethEziron-yd2wj
    @BethEziron-yd2wj 9 месяцев назад

    Niko tayari

  • @wanjikuchege1803
    @wanjikuchege1803 3 года назад

    Ben is a vibe💕 big fun

  • @hannahnjoroge3241
    @hannahnjoroge3241 3 года назад +1

    Awesome episode

  • @catienyambura4364
    @catienyambura4364 3 года назад

    akiiii hahaha hanyamazangi.. (hides hahaha)

  • @maryhiuhu1602
    @maryhiuhu1602 3 года назад

    I just love the conversation

  • @esthergitau777
    @esthergitau777 3 года назад

    Beautiful and great content 👏

  • @rachaelmutheu5641
    @rachaelmutheu5641 3 года назад

    Umeamua ni beans. Leo ni beans. 😂😂
    So good👌😂

  • @jesseludenyo6436
    @jesseludenyo6436 3 года назад

    karwira....i am currently not working.. i am very good... i am in westy...

  • @jackline.w.w
    @jackline.w.w 3 года назад +3

    Lovely

  • @davidmureithi1741
    @davidmureithi1741 3 года назад +1

    Good guys don't finish....they were never in the race🤣🤣🤣

  • @HamingtonT
    @HamingtonT 3 года назад

    How do they click with my friends? Really Matters

  • @naomiepylale7825
    @naomiepylale7825 3 года назад +1

    I've really learnt.

  • @kennethmuiruri4794
    @kennethmuiruri4794 2 года назад

    36:16 hii ni kali.

  • @judd1863
    @judd1863 3 года назад +1

    Shikamoo marahaba.

  • @nataliewangeci4007
    @nataliewangeci4007 3 года назад

    This is dope 😊

  • @catienyambura4364
    @catienyambura4364 3 года назад +1

    😂😂😂do you have a different shirt maybe😂

  • @timothytelvin
    @timothytelvin 3 года назад

    Bro endela ku muliza tu

  • @I_Just_Stellar
    @I_Just_Stellar 3 года назад

    Lakini Ben nimfunny 😂😂😂

  • @estherphilip7211
    @estherphilip7211 3 года назад +1

    Being with someone who loves you is amazing .

  • @elizabethngetich9651
    @elizabethngetich9651 3 года назад

    Whueee 🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @HamingtonT
    @HamingtonT 3 года назад

    Drop another video

  • @kimmwangi3322
    @kimmwangi3322 3 года назад

    Amerix students tusalimiane😂😂

  • @namayianfabianaleseeto8767
    @namayianfabianaleseeto8767 3 года назад +3

    Ati Egypt is in Kangemi🤣😂😂😭😭😭😭 , Benco🤣😂😂

  • @TheMartow
    @TheMartow 3 года назад +1

    Bro! Rock a baldie tu manze

  • @Lydia21818
    @Lydia21818 3 года назад +2

    🔥🔥🔥👌💯💯❤️✨

  • @mwangiiii
    @mwangiiii 3 года назад

    Hakuna kusimp

  • @jul_mumbi
    @jul_mumbi 3 года назад

    Nicee

  • @FaithChepchumba_k
    @FaithChepchumba_k 2 года назад

    ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @njeringash2930
    @njeringash2930 3 года назад

    🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @EvakarenMuriithi
    @EvakarenMuriithi 3 года назад

    💛💛🇰🇪🇰🇪

  • @deotio2768
    @deotio2768 3 года назад +2

    The reddest sign is you dating Wanjiru Njiru for years and never putting a ring on it! Dude man up!!!!

    • @deotio2768
      @deotio2768 3 года назад +1

      @Grace Umutoni We know who is ready and whose not. Some of us are in the inner circle. Best keep ur big mouth shut😂😂😂😂