FACTS. Put them lil emotions to the side and PAY ATTENTION to the quality of your conversations. I even recommend journaling about it. Pros, cons. Things become VERY clear. You might even realize you don't even like him all that much.
I write poetry, he had no interest, didnt even ask about it. I paint landscapes, he never ask to see them. I volunteer Saturdays at the animal shelter, he never ask about that. Everything is about him and his wants and interest. He doesn't even really know me, the real me.
@@sunnyflower1979Good. We should never settle for someone who cannot offer what WE desire for OURselves. What he wants and the little is is able to offer is not relevant to your future path and desires.
Did you ever let him know what you were into or when he asked you about your interests would you not answer or ask him another question and never answer yours if you did do any of that he probably figured since you don't wanna talk i will you should tell him what you're expecting in the relationship
If he wants for himself. As a older man. I get O never had this you talk and have ideas beyond sex, sports and politics. But then they Saratoga the relationship.
So true. I knew my current guy was the one when he offered/gave me $500 for my seat deposit for law school. He is always talking about how smart I am and is super proud of me for becoming a lawyer.
But maybe that can benefit him! If you guys get married, you would make money for the both of you. Just be careful! Plus, bragging about you to his friends and family benefits him also
My husband would buy me books while we were dating, because reading is my favorite pasttime. And the kind of books he got, let me know he was listening to me because those books would be on point 😁.
I would read books with my Ex but she got upset when I didn't want to join her all female book club. The times she ask me to Attend got jealous when they Valued my opinion. Why I asked not to attend.
Actually one of the sweetest things I’ve ever heard to be honest. Any man strong enough within himself to encourage his woman to continue to educate herself even if that meant she was smarter than him is definitely a keeper! I hope y’all are still together.❤
I felt this to be 34 years old it makes me sad that there really seems to be a male crisis let alone a crisis with mankind! We are able to speak and understand each other but most choose not to
Noted! Been knew this. I explained this to a guy and his response was “ I’m different, I don’t just want you for one thing.” Everytime it came time to talk about or do something I wanted to talk discuss/ do- excuses on how he doesn’t have patience, the line is to long, I’m getting to deep, and he don’t think about that kind of stuff. I knew he wasn’t on nothing or wasn’t intelligent- lacked intellect. I lost interest but most importantly he never gained me!
I take notes when I meet men especially while speaking by phone. I’m over 50, but the idea came from my 34 year old co-worker. Best advice! It has kept me from wasting my time.
Too many unwise females,it's really sad but ,honey more than you'd imagine and oftentimes it's happening because females are playing house with no marriage.👀🙏
I’m rubbish at knowing when a guy actually likes me but I know when guys ain’t into me; Puts me down. Names calling. Disrespectful. Rudeness. Walking behind me and NOT taking me out on proper dates. Took me a long time to understands it! I was stupid back then. Not today !
Let's be honest. This is where couples fail one another in general. The selfishness in this era is sickening. A lot of people don't exhibit a selfless approach towards ANYONE, family, friends or a spouse. It's really sad to see and it's why dating nowadays is a complete joke. Women feel unseen by their man and men feel unseen by their woman all because we don't take time to show appreciation and interest in things we like that we don't like or benefit from.
Amen!! I do my very. eat every day to share a little joy, love and happiness and you see how far it goes, and how these people react to a little tenderness. Like a weight has been lifted off them. Unfortunately, it’s rare to see that kind of selfless behaviour en masse and it can be exhausting being the person that people rely on for comfort. Selflessness is a wonderful virtue and the world would be so much better if we all earnestly tried to care for one another.
What sucks is when you meet a man who does all of this, pays attention to you, you finally let your guard down and out of nowhere, they ghost you with no explanation. Go from talking everyday, laughing.. Everything was good one day then he just ghosts you..😢😢
They want you to chase them! The purpose was to get you comfortable and the moment u did that was it ! From my experience that was motive from the start.
When you have a know it all man who takes no accountability, insults everything you say that doesn't suit him, degrade you bc you ask questions, cheat, lie, and hold secrets it was hard to talk or deal with. I left that narc right by himself. It took me a long time to figure out who I was dealing with. That narc life ain't no joke.
Girl… I feel your pain! I could tell you everything about him from kindergarten on… And one day last year I’ve mentioned someone from my college days and he looked at me and said I never knew you went to college… I was shocked! That just told me that he obviously ignored or disregarded things of importance that I have told him. When I told him I wanted to return to school to further my degree, he looked at me and said, why the hell would you wait to be so old to go back to school? That’s for young people! That really took the wind out of my sail… hi sit on the board of directors for a center for independent living, and he tells me why would you volunteer your time and when you cute get paid elsewhere? Totally ignoring that I get fulfillment from volunteering at an agency, that ensures equal opportunity and accessibility for the disabled. I knew he was self-centered and arrogant at times, but he really has taught me what a narcissist is… And I had to get off that emotional roller coaster! I walked away from him, 82 days ago, and my life has been very peaceful and free of drama!
@@francineford-smith6264 Good for you. I know it was hard bc it was for me. But it feels damn good not to deal with it any longer. The difference is my peace means more than saying I have a man that brings no peace at all.
@francineford-smith6264 people only show you what they want you to see. Are you the same person at work then at home. When you love and trust someone, you don't see the red flags until they start really going hard. In my case, I didn't live with my partner, so it was easy access for him to live a double life until it got out of control. Do you watch lifetime ? Real true stories, you really don't know a person unless you live with them first , I guess. So there you go, maybe you can understand that.. btw who the hell enters a relationship starting out toxic? I'm not a street person. I do have values and boundaries. After all I have been thru and bc I let my guard down ,this was a lesson learned. we all still go thru trials even at different ages period!
@@trenastewart2599 absolutely! I wholeheartedly agree with you! I doubt it very serious if any woman gets into a toxic relationship at the onset… Those red flags were not flying around in the beginning. I did not live with him and there were things that I did not see because he did not reveal them! People definitely send a representative and you may not find out the real deal until much later! Funny thing, all of our friends think he is the best thing since sliced bread but of course they don’t know him like I do… this is definitely a lesson learned, and I will know exactly what to look for in the future.
Any time a man asks me "can you cook and clean" I know to immediately walk away because he just wants another replacement mommy, but when men ask me about things that I like that have no benefit to them I know that they're different, in a good way.
I will never understand that in men. They should feel ashamed to asked that. They also should be able to cook and clean. Everyone should know this. If both will work in their household they need to share house chores.
I disagree. Perhaps he's interested in having someone who shares his values. You'd be surprised how many people either choose not to do those things or are simply not proficient at doing them!
My now husband told a girl that was after him when we not even had start to dating it was just the second time we meet with friends at a club, that girl was not a friend of him or me and he told her to back off. He was chasing me, the hottest guy in the club and I knew I would never get a man like that the first time we meet but the second time when he told the other girl to back off I knew he want me and only me. We been together for 30 years now and married for 27 years and also have six kids.
One of the reasons I broke up with my ex was because of this he didn’t notice me. I knew the things he loved and how you loved to spend his time. I would always try to do the thing he enjoyed and help build his business. But the same energy was not exhibited he was physically there for anything I needed but emotionally it was tough. We all deserve to be noticed, cherished, loved , and and peace in our relationships. Keep loving you and all will fall I to place.
He loves to cook and he knows I love to eat. Always asks about my family Our conversation are always deep either intimately or theoretically. The rest is just being silly or teaching each other things to help each other improve.
Alot of women knows when he is or is not interested but the age long strategy is what women apply, They always think that they can make him interested, change his mind ,I was in that delusional level years ago but not any more, There is absolutely nothing any man can do to make me see them as genuine unless God confirms it to me several times and confirms to me that he will remain that way untill he leaves the earth.
@@HoneyBunches100 The same way He has been leading me all these years, I have common sense and a brain that's why I have chosen to remain single and celibate untill marriage
He sends me helpful videos that align with my growth, and he reminds me to stay on top of certain health habits. He isn't afraid to scold me on my certain occasions of disrespect
Same here! I was talking to a guy that I met many years ago, we reconnected, and he was talking about a class reunion… I told him of his graduation year, his school, mascot, his school colors, and the college he attended… his jaw dropped… He could not believe that I remembered all that data from so many years ago! I told him I was listening and I was interested… And I guess I do have a pretty good memory also. Sadly, all he could say to me was that your body still has the same shape… I guess that should’ve been a compliment, but that told me he definitely had much more of a physical attraction, and not much else…
Definitely over auditioning to be a girlfriend or a wife even okay so I’m pretty… been pretty my whole life Okay so I can cook … been cooking since I was fourteen What’s next? I’m so done with shallow men sending good morning beautiful text and what you cooking for dinner ✌🏽
What a message!! With the last guy I was too dumb to realize this…he was sooo enthusiastic when it was about his things…but when he was not so “involved” i noticed a kind of laziness towards me. Someone wrote here to take notes, actually that is a great advice i will definitely do it in the future!! 🙏🏽❤
Small things men have to remember: Her favorite food/snack/drink Her favorite show/ least favorite show Her pet peeves Her hair change/ outfits/nails/first booger Her music preference When she first says I love u What makes her laugh Her favorite color Her favorite a activity Her skin routine Her prayer routine/ favorite church (if it applies) Her emotional mood swings Her celebrity crush Her entire mind (u have to be psychic) Her spending habits (who am I going into business with Her triggers Her favorite book (if she reads) Her organizational skills Every dream that she’s had since birth Her favorite angles for pics Her favorite animal and why Her first heartbreak Her favorite subject in middle school Her dream vacation that he has to pay for Her favorite temperature to keep the room Her favorite wine/ alcohol Her ideal wedding, ring size, venue, and planner if all the above goes successfully For women: What he likes to eat When to be silent during NFL and NBA szn When to please sexually It’s really that simple
King and Queens know that you're not speaking truth here son. Get right with the Lord and you'll see things better with less immaturity and better Grace and understanding ⭐🙏🏿⭐
I wholeheartedly understand where you are coming from… it came to the point where I had to ask myself. Does he love me? Or does he love everything I bring to the relationship? The care concern, encouragement, emotional and mental support, helping him repair his credit, all the positive energy, etc. etc.. I was the best thing since sliced bread…. As long as he directly benefited! Things I was interested in, he would usually dismiss or show very little interest and direct the focus back to himself… Straight up, narcissist!
Thank you very much for speaking facts as a man of integrity. There are too many manipulators and narcissism out there. They are sick and needs to seek and ask Jesus for help to help them to be changed in becoming better men.
Went to hang out with some friends with him and I never felt so secure. I realized how much he notices me, how I rock back and forth with I’m anxious or uneasy, how much I usually can drink, my touch to him when I just need to feel him…
My bf takes mental note of things i like to eat or drink and btings them to me at random. He took care of my teenage boys while i was in prison for a year. Kept money on my books and always answered the phone. He would drive 2 hours twice a month to go visit me. He supported me through a heroin addiction and was patient while i tapered off my usage. ( im cleN now dont worry) He never says he loves me without ne saying it first, but he shows me he loves me with every breath he takes. And i will support him in every battle that he may have if hell communicate it to me. I just wanna serve him like the absolute badass, shy, quiet king that he is. 7 years going strong Nd this man pulled me out the streets being homeless and doing the most to survive and on heroin. He saw past all that to who i was actually and stood by me a lot of the time to his detriment and suffered im sure but he has my full respect and total love and attention now and until forever. I would be dead right now if not for his compassion. He was literally the only person who cared and the one i least expected.
This young fella is on point. This individual that 🏃♂️ ran into me, love all the great qualities of me. After a month, I had to head to the nearest exit door🚪🏃♀️ I informed him that it was nothing that I could benefit from him.😮 Old dude went from 0-10😮 His main focus was just on helping him build up wealth.🤫🤔 Everyday on the phone with him it was a study session on history, trading, slaves. Young ladies,older women dnt go near those chat lines on meeting nobody in prison..😮I'm trying to tell you something good, dnt do that s*** they will try to f***** up your head.. Smfh😮🤔🤫
The guy I talk to we've known each other since our childhood and he reminds me of the things I use to love doing. These things I lost during life but loved doing them! He just reminded me of what I still have a passion for but lost it and forgot about it. Pushed what I loved doing due to doing things for others.
Never work harder for a man's attention. He need work hard for things that you like. Women give to much time money and there resources... Let him be a man and lead.
The black head on my back 😄 hubs misses nothing and he can even take our baby to the dr. Without calling me once for info if he wanted to We know every small detail about each other
Like when I briefly texted a guy friend the week before that I had an interview the following week. Never mentioning it again, until he asked: how’d the interview go?
I listen when security Boss and Queen Shiba speak not because they are wives but be a a lot of what they say makes sense. Also Scira made good points and Lucky most of the guys also made valid points.
FACTS. Put them lil emotions to the side and PAY ATTENTION to the quality of your conversations. I even recommend journaling about it. Pros, cons. Things become VERY clear. You might even realize you don't even like him all that much.
That’s a good idea ❤
Yeah and hopefully way before you share the 🐈
Amazing!
Facts
Definitely journaling 😂
I write poetry, he had no interest, didnt even ask about it. I paint landscapes, he never ask to see them. I volunteer Saturdays at the animal shelter, he never ask about that. Everything is about him and his wants and interest. He doesn't even really know me, the real me.
You’re still with him? Why.
@@yaya4768 Nope, Im not
@@sunnyflower1979Good. We should never settle for someone who cannot offer what WE desire for OURselves. What he wants and the little is is able to offer is not relevant to your future path and desires.
Did you ever let him know what you were into or when he asked you about your interests would you not answer or ask him another question and never answer yours if you did do any of that he probably figured since you don't wanna talk i will you should tell him what you're expecting in the relationship
Yep he’s not interested in anyone but himself
A man who is interested in your will see you as an extension of himself. He will do for you what he want for himself.
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
💯💯💯
If marriage is not in the picture I'm not giving her all my resources 😭
If he wants for himself. As a older man. I get O never had this you talk and have ideas beyond sex, sports and politics. But then they Saratoga the relationship.
Unfortunately, women don't get this and often call you controlling or insecure when you ask her to do things or don't do things.
So true. I knew my current guy was the one when he offered/gave me $500 for my seat deposit for law school. He is always talking about how smart I am and is super proud of me for becoming a lawyer.
Do you see a future with him?
Good man, fr💯
But maybe that can benefit him! If you guys get married, you would make money for the both of you. Just be careful! Plus, bragging about you to his friends and family benefits him also
And?
Yeaa, that’s not a definite sign …
He's right ladies, listen up. A good man is not a selfish man 💪🏾🌏💪🏼
❤Kings care👑
Exactly. No room for selfishness if it's going to go anywhere.
So you're saying give women your things and you're not even married to them lol nope
Yes I agree totally! If we listen😊 carefully, we will know exactly what's being said.
A good woman is not a selfish woman
@@amaragrace94 I'm not giving all of my things I work for a woman and I'm not married to her 😭 lol
I’ve Learned That A Man That Doesn’t Ask Questions About You Or Your Lifestyle Is A Complete Waste Of Time.
My husband would buy me books while we were dating, because reading is my favorite pasttime. And the kind of books he got, let me know he was listening to me because those books would be on point 😁.
I would read books with my Ex but she got upset when I didn't want to join her all female book club. The times she ask me to Attend got jealous when they Valued my opinion. Why I asked not to attend.
@@mauriceborton5151 Maybe they valued more than your opinion... Distance can be a healthy statement.
Actually one of the sweetest things I’ve ever heard to be honest. Any man strong enough within himself to encourage his woman to continue to educate herself even if that meant she was smarter than him is definitely a keeper! I hope y’all are still together.❤
That’s sooooo sweet
A person that pays attention is focused
He's right. When a man is interested in you, he will learn you and come up with topics of discussion about your interests and it may align with his
I'm not sure any man has ever truly loved me.
The RIGHT man will come into your life ( seriously)
I felt this to be 34 years old it makes me sad that there really seems to be a male crisis let alone a crisis with mankind! We are able to speak and understand each other but most choose not to
I was very nervous the night before I was to have a colonoscopy…my sweetie called and prayed for me….he’s such a good guy❤
Awe. Awesome. Don’t just go for the good guy though ! It just isn’t enough.
Lmfao random event to recall of all life events for this topic 😂
A praying man is definitely a sign of a good man! Blessings to you both and may your relationship continue to grow and thrive !🙏🏽👍🏽😊❤️💯🥂🫶🏽🙌🏽
Very nice. ❤
This is wonderful, really touched my heart.
He still benefits from those things because a woman will go above and beyond for someone who pays attention to the little things. ❤
Noted!
Been knew this. I explained this to a guy and his response was “ I’m different, I don’t just want you for one thing.” Everytime it came time to talk about or do something I wanted to talk discuss/ do- excuses on how he doesn’t have patience, the line is to long, I’m getting to deep, and he don’t think about that kind of stuff. I knew he wasn’t on nothing or wasn’t intelligent- lacked intellect. I lost interest but most importantly he never gained me!
You did RIGHT by YOU!👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
You dodged a bullet !!
What does the comment never gained me
@@vernettapigott3233he didn’t get a chance to be in her presence or waste her time--she wasn’t interested anymore
I take notes when I meet men especially while speaking by phone. I’m over 50, but the idea came from my 34 year old co-worker. Best advice! It has kept me from wasting my time.
I typically do this too!!!
Who is cooking, cleaning, providing wifey benefits to a man they're not married to?
Too damn many women😿I used to be one of them🙈🫠
That’s right! Doing wife things at girlfriend prices won’t get you u what u want.
Too many unwise females,it's really sad but ,honey more than you'd imagine and oftentimes it's happening because females are playing house with no marriage.👀🙏
I’m rubbish at knowing when a guy actually likes me but I know when guys ain’t into me; Puts me down. Names calling. Disrespectful. Rudeness. Walking behind me and NOT taking me out on proper dates. Took me a long time to understands it! I was stupid back then. Not today !
Let's be honest. This is where couples fail one another in general. The selfishness in this era is sickening. A lot of people don't exhibit a selfless approach towards ANYONE, family, friends or a spouse. It's really sad to see and it's why dating nowadays is a complete joke. Women feel unseen by their man and men feel unseen by their woman all because we don't take time to show appreciation and interest in things we like that we don't like or benefit from.
Amen!! I do my very. eat every day to share a little joy, love and happiness and you see how far it goes, and how these people react to a little tenderness. Like a weight has been lifted off them. Unfortunately, it’s rare to see that kind of selfless behaviour en masse and it can be exhausting being the person that people rely on for comfort. Selflessness is a wonderful virtue and the world would be so much better if we all earnestly tried to care for one another.
What sucks is when you meet a man who does all of this, pays attention to you, you finally let your guard down and out of nowhere, they ghost you with no explanation. Go from talking everyday, laughing.. Everything was good one day then he just ghosts you..😢😢
I had this happen, such a weird case.. ghosted out of no where.
They want you to chase them! The purpose was to get you comfortable and the moment u did that was it ! From my experience that was motive from the start.
When you have a know it all man who takes no accountability, insults everything you say that doesn't suit him, degrade you bc you ask questions, cheat, lie, and hold secrets it was hard to talk or deal with. I left that narc right by himself. It took me a long time to figure out who I was dealing with. That narc life ain't no joke.
Girl… I feel your pain! I could tell you everything about him from kindergarten on… And one day last year I’ve mentioned someone from my college days and he looked at me and said I never knew you went to college… I was shocked! That just told me that he obviously ignored or disregarded things of importance that I have told him. When I told him I wanted to return to school to further my degree, he looked at me and said, why the hell would you wait to be so old to go back to school? That’s for young people! That really took the wind out of my sail… hi sit on the board of directors for a center for independent living, and he tells me why would you volunteer your time and when you cute get paid elsewhere?
Totally ignoring that I get fulfillment from volunteering at an agency, that ensures equal opportunity and accessibility for the disabled.
I knew he was self-centered and arrogant at times, but he really has taught me what a narcissist is… And I had to get off that emotional roller coaster!
I walked away from him, 82 days ago, and my life has been very peaceful and free of drama!
@@francineford-smith6264 Good for you. I know it was hard bc it was for me. But it feels damn good not to deal with it any longer. The difference is my peace means more than saying I have a man that brings no peace at all.
I don’t understand how women enter into relationships with such toxic men when the red flags must have been flying like crazy. 🚩
@francineford-smith6264 people only show you what they want you to see. Are you the same person at work then at home. When you love and trust someone, you don't see the red flags until they start really going hard. In my case, I didn't live with my partner, so it was easy access for him to live a double life until it got out of control. Do you watch lifetime ? Real true stories, you really don't know a person unless you live with them first , I guess. So there you go, maybe you can understand that.. btw who the hell enters a relationship starting out toxic? I'm not a street person. I do have values and boundaries. After all I have been thru and bc I let my guard down ,this was a lesson learned. we all still go thru trials even at different ages period!
@@trenastewart2599 absolutely! I wholeheartedly agree with you! I doubt it very serious if any woman gets into a toxic relationship at the onset… Those red flags were not flying around in the beginning. I did not live with him and there were things that I did not see because he did not reveal them!
People definitely send a representative and you may not find out the real deal until much later! Funny thing, all of our friends think he is the best thing since sliced bread but of course they don’t know him like I do… this is definitely a lesson learned, and I will know exactly what to look for in the future.
Any time a man asks me "can you cook and clean" I know to immediately walk away because he just wants another replacement mommy, but when men ask me about things that I like that have no benefit to them I know that they're different, in a good way.
I will never understand that in men. They should feel ashamed to asked that. They also should be able to cook and clean. Everyone should know this. If both will work in their household they need to share house chores.
@@ACAjc152 Exactly. I completely agree.
Whenever a woman wants me to provide zI immedaydismiss her….I dismiss her, WTF… this is how your comment sounds…GTFOH. No man wants a you!!!
I disagree. Perhaps he's interested in having someone who shares his values.
You'd be surprised how many people either choose not to do those things or are simply not proficient at doing them!
@BluDrop5 Too each their own, but that's been my personal experience on multiple occasions and many of my friends' experience. To me, it's a red flag.
My now husband told a girl that was after him when we not even had start to dating it was just the second time we meet with friends at a club, that girl was not a friend of him or me and he told her to back off. He was chasing me, the hottest guy in the club and I knew I would never get a man like that the first time we meet but the second time when he told the other girl to back off I knew he want me and only me. We been together for 30 years now and married for 27 years and also have six kids.
One of the reasons I broke up with my ex was because of this he didn’t notice me. I knew the things he loved and how you loved to spend his time. I would always try to do the thing he enjoyed and help build his business. But the same energy was not exhibited he was physically there for anything I needed but emotionally it was tough. We all deserve to be noticed, cherished, loved , and and peace in our relationships. Keep loving you and all will fall I to place.
He loves to cook and he knows I love to eat.
Always asks about my family
Our conversation are always deep either intimately or theoretically.
The rest is just being silly or teaching each other things to help each other improve.
So true if he interested in you he will pay attention to you
It takes a real man to do those things❤
Alot of women knows when he is or is not interested but the age long strategy is what women apply, They always think that they can make him interested, change his mind ,I was in that delusional level years ago but not any more, There is absolutely nothing any man can do to make me see them as genuine unless God confirms it to me several times and confirms to me that he will remain that way untill he leaves the earth.
Im curious… how does “God” confirm it? Can’t you do that with the common sense and the brain God gave you?
@@HoneyBunches100 The same way He has been leading me all these years, I have common sense and a brain that's why I have chosen to remain single and celibate untill marriage
He is speaking nothing but the truth! 💯
He sends me helpful videos that align with my growth, and he reminds me to stay on top of certain health habits. He isn't afraid to scold me on my certain occasions of disrespect
This is really good. As long as he is not controlling over you though.
DETAILS ARE SO IMPORTANT TO ME......I PAY ATTENTION TO EVERYTHING #DETROIT
Same here! I was talking to a guy that I met many years ago, we reconnected, and he was talking about a class reunion… I told him of his graduation year, his school, mascot, his school colors, and the college he attended… his jaw dropped… He could not believe that I remembered all that data from so many years ago! I told him I was listening and I was interested… And I guess I do have a pretty good memory also. Sadly, all he could say to me was that your body still has the same shape… I guess that should’ve been a compliment, but that told me he definitely had much more of a physical attraction, and not much else…
@@francineford-smith6264 THERE'S THAT RED FLAG 🚩!!!!!! RIGHT ✅ 😳
Low key making me rethink the last 2 years ….. 😅
Definitely over auditioning to be a girlfriend or a wife even
okay so I’m pretty…
been pretty my whole life
Okay so I can cook …
been cooking since I was fourteen
What’s next?
I’m so done with shallow men sending good morning beautiful text and what you cooking for dinner ✌🏽
What a message!! With the last guy I was too dumb to realize this…he was sooo enthusiastic when it was about his things…but when he was not so “involved” i noticed a kind of laziness towards me. Someone wrote here to take notes, actually that is a great advice i will definitely do it in the future!! 🙏🏽❤
Keep helping them Krew. I Salute you for trying to get real relationships together that stay together.
Can be interested in Everything but I don't need too be included in everything. Or told how I should be once I express. My Opinion.
You can tell when he stays woke when you're watching TV
Never and that is why he is gone. Cause it was always about him......
Small things men have to remember:
Her favorite food/snack/drink
Her favorite show/ least favorite show
Her pet peeves
Her hair change/ outfits/nails/first booger
Her music preference
When she first says I love u
What makes her laugh
Her favorite color
Her favorite a activity
Her skin routine
Her prayer routine/ favorite church (if it applies)
Her emotional mood swings
Her celebrity crush
Her entire mind (u have to be psychic)
Her spending habits (who am I going into business with
Her triggers
Her favorite book (if she reads)
Her organizational skills
Every dream that she’s had since birth
Her favorite angles for pics
Her favorite animal and why
Her first heartbreak
Her favorite subject in middle school
Her dream vacation that he has to pay for
Her favorite temperature to keep the room
Her favorite wine/ alcohol
Her ideal wedding, ring size, venue, and planner if all the above goes successfully
For women:
What he likes to eat
When to be silent during NFL and NBA szn
When to please sexually
It’s really that simple
Naw we def not that complex and why i have to be quiet during the game im on the couch watching it with you
🤣🤣🤣 small things men have to remember
It seems like men have to remember a lot more.
I see what you did there
King and Queens know that you're not speaking truth here son. Get right with the Lord and you'll see things better with less immaturity and better Grace and understanding ⭐🙏🏿⭐
My experience with this one is he wants my attention but he doesn't want me. Narcissist. We are friends and I am not interested in investing my energy
I am beautiful and someone better is dreaming me into his life
I wholeheartedly understand where you are coming from… it came to the point where I had to ask myself. Does he love me? Or does he love everything I bring to the relationship? The care concern, encouragement, emotional and mental support, helping him repair his credit, all the positive energy, etc. etc.. I was the best thing since sliced bread…. As long as he directly benefited! Things I was interested in, he would usually dismiss or show very little interest and direct the focus back to himself… Straight up, narcissist!
He can tell when im mad
Ur woman is bless & highly favored to have you keep doing what ur doing may the Living God continue to Guide Guard & protect u & ur family
He never makes time to talk to
Then 🚶🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️
Hmmm food for thought!! Thanks!💙💯
Thank you very much for speaking facts as a man of integrity.
There are too many manipulators and narcissism out there. They are sick and needs to seek and ask Jesus for help to help them to be changed in becoming better men.
And This, This is why when I feel a Man is Too sexual driven towards ME.
It’s A major turn off.
Went to hang out with some friends with him and I never felt so secure. I realized how much he notices me, how I rock back and forth with I’m anxious or uneasy, how much I usually can drink, my touch to him when I just need to feel him…
Great advice , Thanks King 👑
None. Well I think I'm just about over being his girlfriend. Its over. over.
My bf takes mental note of things i like to eat or drink and btings them to me at random. He took care of my teenage boys while i was in prison for a year. Kept money on my books and always answered the phone. He would drive 2 hours twice a month to go visit me. He supported me through a heroin addiction and was patient while i tapered off my usage. ( im cleN now dont worry)
He never says he loves me without ne saying it first, but he shows me he loves me with every breath he takes. And i will support him in every battle that he may have if hell communicate it to me. I just wanna serve him like the absolute badass, shy, quiet king that he is. 7 years going strong Nd this man pulled me out the streets being homeless and doing the most to survive and on heroin. He saw past all that to who i was actually and stood by me a lot of the time to his detriment and suffered im sure but he has my full respect and total love and attention now and until forever. I would be dead right now if not for his compassion. He was literally the only person who cared and the one i least expected.
Your a wise man! Keep speaking and spreading the truth. From a Mrs.
What he saying is absolute truth.
I know one thing my cooking skills are just as good as my cleaning I'm not a pro but I'm not a dummy lol😆😭
Anybody can cook. Or learn how to cook and clean. Being feminem is equality you just can't make up
Once u know u wont accept anything less from another man
Damn you just crushed me 😢
I’m going to keep it patient and keep working on my inner and outer self until I find one of these men 🤗
This young fella is on point. This individual that 🏃♂️ ran into me, love all the great qualities of me. After a month, I had to head to the nearest exit door🚪🏃♀️ I informed him that it was nothing that I could benefit from him.😮 Old dude went from 0-10😮 His main focus was just on helping him build up wealth.🤫🤔 Everyday on the phone with him it was a study session on history, trading, slaves. Young ladies,older women dnt go near those chat lines on meeting nobody in prison..😮I'm trying to tell you something good, dnt do that s*** they will try to f***** up your head.. Smfh😮🤔🤫
The guy I talk to we've known each other since our childhood and he reminds me of the things I use to love doing. These things I lost during life but loved doing them! He just reminded me of what I still have a passion for but lost it and forgot about it. Pushed what I loved doing due to doing things for others.
When he goes out of his way that doesn't just benefit him!
Iam on it trust me, just keep preaching bro God bless you 🙏
Yep!!! Nailed it!!!
Awwww this is so true !!!!
That is not true
So true! And I too was also “of course interested” in how well he could cook and clean.
I needed to hear this....twice thank you
Facts ❤the deeper things. Simple.
Maturity! Facts! I love listening to you young man. Blessings!🙏
Truth thanks for sharing
Straight Facts. No Debate at all.
Brought tears to my eyes
You speak the truth
He pays no attention 😂😂😂 lolol
Talk your ish......You better say it!! You talking the ABSOLUTE TRUTH. Wow women he spoke a word.
U are a REAL MAN..God Bless u
Man he speaking truth
If marriage is in the plan future. I'm not just giving a woman my resources no sorry 😐
Never work harder for a man's attention. He need work hard for things that you like.
Women give to much time money and there resources...
Let him be a man and lead.
Great advice thank king
Pay attention Ladies, he just put you up on the real 👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👌🏾👌🏾👌🏾
On point Bruh ✊🏿✊🏿✊🏿
Such as birthdays, personal hobbies, and goals. I haven't met a man yet not interested. Men are far more Kinder than we give them credit for.
This is facts 💯 right on the point I thank God for you all I wish so much this truth was being spoken years ago before I got into my situationships
Amen Amen Preach brother preach
I love this man talk to me ❤❤❤
Excellent point. Thank you for sharing.💐
FACTS!
YES VERY TRUE
That’s Real. You are always on point, let them know.👍🏽
Pay Attention!
Preach, God's Truth
you finally came up with a good one.
Dang 😅😅😅
@@lindaphillips6111 lol fr
I luh him he so humble ❤👑🤌
Interesting advice.
Note it should be point of interest for BOTH Women and Men.
Even worth considering when Dating!
If any party is serious.....😊
Yup very true he had no interest in that that’s why I had to say goodbye in a nice way 🙏🏼❤️🦋
The black head on my back 😄 hubs misses nothing and he can even take our baby to the dr. Without calling me once for info if he wanted to
We know every small detail about each other
That's what you think. Do he feel the same way. Or do you have a simp
Preach talk that talk baby u on it boo u on it
Like when I briefly texted a guy friend the week before that I had an interview the following week. Never mentioning it again, until he asked: how’d the interview go?
You are right bro!
Tobit 8:7
“And now, O Lord, I take not this my sister for lust but uprightly: therefore mercifully ordain that we may become aged together.”
All of his actions show that hes interested but he will not come right out and say it.
💯big facts
Well said facts!!!
I listen when security Boss and Queen Shiba speak not because they are wives but be a a lot of what they say makes sense. Also Scira made good points and Lucky most of the guys also made valid points.
Amen god bless you
That’s so TRUE ❤
❤,thanks, for addressing, this topic; because, so many women need to hear this message.