What It's Like To Date A Filipina - The First Date

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  • Опубликовано: 7 фев 2025
  • #philippines #relationship #filipino
    Do you know what it's like to date a Filipina? If you don't, here's what to expect on the first date - it's NOT the same as spending time with a western woman! Where should you take her? What should you talk about - and what topics should you avoid? Everything you need to know is right here, and after watching this video, you'll know what it's like to date a Filipina for the first time!
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  • @TheFilipinaPea
    @TheFilipinaPea  Месяц назад +112

    👉My videos and the effort I put into them are 100% free for everyone to enjoy, and all I ask is that you leave a thumbs-up on any videos that you like and subscribe to my channel - I have never, and will never, ask you for anything else. For those of you that still wish to support my channel further, however, I’ve posted my links below. Thanks!
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    • @silverliner4894
      @silverliner4894 Месяц назад +3

      Your response to me almost killed me. I almost died laughing 😃 😅😂

    • @wayneONvolarte
      @wayneONvolarte Месяц назад

      She's ALLWAYS trying to kill Us With Laughter ,On Patreon Too❤😂

    • @johnstreckfuss3068
      @johnstreckfuss3068 Месяц назад +2

      @@TheFilipinaPea every single video is a gem!

    • @49525Bob
      @49525Bob Месяц назад

      @ 5:00 When I arrived in Udonthani, Thailand to meat a 38 year old widowed teacher, the first stop from the airport was of couse a restaurant. In addition to her two young sons, I was not surprised when around ten of her teacher co-workers showed up. Of courrse the bill was mine. I found only one of them could speak English. She was their school's English teacher. As I spoke Thai quite well, that was no problem.
      With my Fili;pina ex-wife, right from the plane, it was a Pizza Hut. We were accompanied by the married American man who'd introduced us. His Filipina wife was a nursing student. If you're interested there is a lot more about him and his fee for doing introductions. He was collecting from the girls, not the guys.

    • @49525Bob
      @49525Bob Месяц назад +1

      @5:34 My 2nd ex-Thai wife asked if we could take her son's and a niece and nephew to an ice cream restaurant in the Mall. I agreed that would be fun. Since there was only one neighor in the vilage who owned a van, she asked it the owners two children came too. It waIs no surprise when the Van arrived already full of village kids. I paid the bills for probably a dozen kids. No problem, it was still less than $10. I became the village kids hero. Everywhere I went there I was the nice American guy who likes kids.

  • @thelastgoodmaninjersey
    @thelastgoodmaninjersey Месяц назад +199

    My first date. I took my pinay to Jolibee. That was the only place I really knew. She loved it. My dates with Filipinas don't feel like dates. Right off the bat it feels more like we're just hanging out and already know each other.

    • @kevingonzalez3673
      @kevingonzalez3673 Месяц назад +15

      Have guys ever slept with the chaperone

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  Месяц назад +55

      That’s the best feeling when there’s no stress 👍❤️

    • @Guildofarcanelore
      @Guildofarcanelore Месяц назад +9

      Jolibee’s! Miss that place! I went to Kenny Rogers roasters with my “date”.

    • @haroldwalls6591
      @haroldwalls6591 Месяц назад +9

      My experience is the same. Don't we all love our Pea?

    • @arnoldseay9118
      @arnoldseay9118 Месяц назад +13

      My first date with my Filipina was a little hole in the wall restaurant that served Filipino food. My introduction to adobo then to a movie. After that our dates were on the navy base at club for dinner and base theater for a movie. She loved dates on the base. Took a long time for to kiss me and a really long time before she “bent over backwards “ Great memories of learning a little about her culture. Oh yeah I got to do a lot of things with her family and friends who tagged along on a lot of our dates.

  • @twofarfromhome
    @twofarfromhome Месяц назад +51

    I met my 🇵🇭 in the US on a dating website. In spite of living in the US now for 12 years or so, she might as well have arrived yesterday. I wasn’t looking for an Asian or Filipina, didn’t know anything about the Philippines or Filipinos… I’m sure I made every possible mistake on that first date. But she said I was the first guy who didn’t approach her with the “Hey Baby” or “Hey sexy Mama” vibe. As we agreed to a dinner date, I asked her if she had a preference… “You decide, Sir,” she said. (Yes, she called me ‘Sir’). So I took her to a hot new Italian resto - she didn’t like the food, and was obviously uncomfortable in this upscale place. She was shy, but very nice. Later that evening I agreed to meet her ‘tropa ’ at a local dance club. Once in her element, she became a different person - funny, loud, outgoing… I finally took her home about 0400, after breakfast, thanked her for a wonderful time, no hug, no kiss, but I did ask if I could call her later. This is about the time I started watching your channel Miss Pea… I had no idea what I was getting myself into, and I needed help! The rest is history… together 5 years now, married for two years, happiest I’ve ever been! ❤️

    • @jefferyspringer
      @jefferyspringer Месяц назад

      😂😢 4:20 4:20 4:21 4:21 4:21 4:22

    • @conandis5542
      @conandis5542 Месяц назад +2

      @twofarfromhome - "I had no idea what I was getting myself into" 👈 I can relate to this comment 🙂

  • @justingoodnow851
    @justingoodnow851 Месяц назад +61

    "I can think outside my own box, no pun intended" 😂now Pea...you know it WAS intended lol your humor is always top notch. Great advice and information as always !! ❤❤❤

    • @johnl9977
      @johnl9977 Месяц назад +4

      And if you invite 100 for your wedding, you had darn well better have food for at least 200. Wonderful people though compared to my neighbors here.

    • @haroldarmstrong6288
      @haroldarmstrong6288 Месяц назад

      I know I'd love to play lawn mower for you lol Sweet Pea

    • @UrsulavonB
      @UrsulavonB Месяц назад

      U mite have 40 guests show up. Varries, my wife's friends felt butt hurt because she married a foreigner. ​@@johnl9977

  • @DavidECoy
    @DavidECoy Месяц назад +64

    Love my Filipina wife. And I’ve never been this happy before. The sweetest kindest women in the world.

    • @lawv804
      @lawv804 Месяц назад +1

      How did you meet her?

    • @DavidECoy
      @DavidECoy Месяц назад +1

      @ my best friend had a Filipina girlfriend. I wanted a Filipina girlfriend but I was kinda sick of trying to weed through all the scammers online and on the dating sites. When I met her and got to know her better she decided that I was a great guy so she introduced me to her friend. It took a while for us to hit it off because she was working overseas in an Arabic country. Eventually I decided she was what I wanted and she felt the same so I bought out her contract and brought her back to the Philippines for us to start our lives together. It’s been 7 years and I have never once regretted it. We have had issues like every marriage but we never talk about divorce and we work together to resolve every issue. It’s the mindset of marriage is forever that makes it work. Philippines has no divorce so they want to work it out not just go their separate ways. They want to be wives and they know they only get one chance so they are willing to do what it takes to fix the problem. They are not push overs who are weak, stupid, or slaves like western women like to think. They fight to keep the marriage together when western women fight to walk away from their marriages. That’s the biggest difference between western women and eastern women.

    • @williamdavis7753
      @williamdavis7753 Месяц назад +7

      Amen...I am the same way with my Filipina wife...nothing but peace and no drama...I still pinch myself.

    • @DavidECoy
      @DavidECoy Месяц назад +1

      @ well stop pinching yourself and go pinch her lmao

    • @lawv804
      @lawv804 Месяц назад +1

      @@williamdavis7753 How did you meet?

  • @JoshuaReigns
    @JoshuaReigns Месяц назад +35

    Hi Pea,
    I'm still in the U.S. and I'm not even looking for a Filipina to date, but I watched this video all the way through because you're so engaging and informative. Keep up the great vlogs.

    • @bert4fun
      @bert4fun Месяц назад +1

      Well said I thought the same.

    • @FekalistaGrzybowory-lz8lh
      @FekalistaGrzybowory-lz8lh Месяц назад +1

      @Joshua, seems like you have some problems with your... heating, writing?
      It's FILIPINA, not a Filapina.

    • @JoshuaReigns
      @JoshuaReigns Месяц назад

      Thank you for clarifying that, @@FekalistaGrzybowory-lz8lh . I appreciate it. 👍

  • @steveadams2677
    @steveadams2677 Месяц назад +36

    On my first 'date' with my Filipino wife I asked for a kiss and guess what... I got three of the sweetest kisses in my life. There is a long story here but that is for another day.

  • @RamosNetwork
    @RamosNetwork Месяц назад +23

    I’m blessed with my now Filipina wife when we first started dating. When I 1st arrived in Manila Ph, we met each other at the lobby to confirmed we both look like we did in our pictures, I remember she saying she loves fruits so I Google a place where they sell cut fruits and fruit smoothies, this relaxed her for a nice 1st conversation. It went great since she was happy to ask her for a second date, who knew that would lead to a happy marriage with her 🥰

  • @tyronesharp9205
    @tyronesharp9205 Месяц назад +18

    When you said she'll be late, I laughed out loud. My wife was late for our wedding. A couple of people told me not to worry, I wasn't left at the altar, etc...
    I had been with her for almost a year, and from experience,I expected her to be late. We've been married 26 years, and she's still late.

    • @slappynutsphd
      @slappynutsphd Месяц назад

      My wife is always early (especially if there is food involved).

  • @marcosarteaga4334
    @marcosarteaga4334 Месяц назад +33

    This will be interesting to watch on my Friday. Love the background and your top matches with it pea

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  Месяц назад +4

      Thanks for sharing your time with me, Marcos! ❤️👍

  • @danfar792
    @danfar792 Месяц назад +15

    This is great information. Thank you for sharing. I just started talking with a Filipina at work, and this was informative. Since was born and raised in a province and she doesn't ask for much of me. I can already see that famous jealous Filipina stereotype is true with this one. So far worth it to keep going with her, she is loving, and thoughtful. Not to mention super cute.

  • @yvesgysel9834
    @yvesgysel9834 Месяц назад +16

    A friend of mine married a Filipina, but he brought his wife back. His businesses is here. I can tell they are very happy with each other. Now they have a beautiful daughter. He told me that he needs to stay out of the kitchen, but that's completely normal. She cook's and cleans, while he provides. He's absolutely over the moon with his Filipina wife. Oh and according to him she's an amazing lover too. Family oriented, sweet, loyal... His ex-wife (modern woman) who he has an older son with can not stand it, but he doesn't care. His only business is with his son.

  • @douglasgraham1916
    @douglasgraham1916 Месяц назад +18

    If I'm ever single and in the Philippines I will know what to expect when I go on a date with a Phillipina! Thanks for the info Pea and by the way you're my favorite You tuber! Have a great weekend Pea 😊

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  Месяц назад +3

      You got it, Douglas - and thanks for the kind words about my channel 👍

  • @richgetz
    @richgetz Месяц назад +3

    Love your videos!! Have not seen such logic and reasoning, and a beautiful woman before. You are refreshing.

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  Месяц назад +1

      Well I sure do appreciate your gift, Rich! I’ll try to be even more logical in the future 🤣👍
      ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @JodyBerryhill-f4r
    @JodyBerryhill-f4r Месяц назад +6

    Woohoo! Payday and a new video from the amazing Pea! Life is good!!!😊

  • @johnmorrison7351
    @johnmorrison7351 Месяц назад +2

    Great insights

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  Месяц назад +1

      Thanks for that very generous gift, John! You’re always so king to me!
      ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @batman1989keaton
    @batman1989keaton Месяц назад +19

    Another great video, thank you Pea. Beautiful as always!

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  Месяц назад +8

      Batman! We need you in the Philippines to fight corruption 🤣👍❤️

    • @batman1989keaton
      @batman1989keaton Месяц назад

      @TheFilipinaPea lol I may make my way over there one day 😁

    • @mikelivingood7797
      @mikelivingood7797 Месяц назад

      Sorry, Pea, but with my singing voice, if I am going to "Say Anything" it is going to be with a boom box outside her window. Only "In your eyes" by Peter Gabriel.

    • @mikelivingood7797
      @mikelivingood7797 Месяц назад +1

      It's strange to have someone ask. Why are you fat? Why are you bald? But not say I don't want to go without with you again.

  • @ronfindley2874
    @ronfindley2874 Месяц назад +11

    Here is your trophy for being #1 vlogger! 😜😘 🏆 😀😁

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  Месяц назад +4

      My first one! 🥇 Thanks!!

    • @ronfindley2874
      @ronfindley2874 Месяц назад +2

      @TheFilipinaPea oh, it's past due. You have earned it! You're doing Great, Keep On Keeping On!

  • @jame1seire
    @jame1seire 27 дней назад +1

    Thank you, Pea! You put a great deal of work into your videos, and it shows. In a land of shy people, the transition to the Filipino way is smooth and gentle. You make videos that are very in-depth and useful. Please do an episode on foreign Catholics dating Filipina Catholics. God bless and watch over you and your family. Building a house for Lucy was terribly kind of you. Well done!

  • @JoeDMailman
    @JoeDMailman Месяц назад +14

    As always... Very useful, especially for the new visitors to the Philippines! Terrific job Pea!!!

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  Месяц назад +1

      Exactly, Joe 👍
      Some folks needed to see the differences 😊

  • @jandricaine
    @jandricaine Месяц назад +2

    Thanks!

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  Месяц назад

      That’s extremely generous of you, J! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @seanday68
    @seanday68 Месяц назад +7

    Hello Ms. Pea!
    Thank you for your efforts to help make the differences between the East and West a little less difficult to understand.

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  Месяц назад +4

      And that’s exactly my mission, yes 👍❤️

    • @seanday68
      @seanday68 Месяц назад +1

      ​@TheFilipinaPea Nobody does it better. Your knowledge of both cultures and the ease at which you explain the intricacies of interpersonal relationships, not just romantic endeavors, is wonderful. Winning over the family and friends is just as important, sometimes more important, than winning over the girl. I've been burned before and I'm definitely going to go slower the next time.

  • @paultrgnp
    @paultrgnp Месяц назад +1

    Pea, it never ceases to amaze me how you are able to pick topics that are of particular interest to your subscribers, but also that you are able to offer information of which we would like the inside story. Any commercial organisation would have a dozen researchers to gather the information that provide. You are a superwoman !! Thanks for your hard work.😘
    .

  • @marclietzau7239
    @marclietzau7239 Месяц назад +4

    ❤❤❤ great video P… so informative and practical …would be so grateful to have the opportunity one day😉

  • @grahamjacob97
    @grahamjacob97 Месяц назад +2

    It's been a pleasure to see your channel go from strength to strength. While I watch a number of channels on the Philippines with varying levels of interest and consistency I rarely miss one of your videos. I know you are the last to want to do comparisons but unless I'm missing something you are easily the best and most popular among the channels produced by Filipinos (and above the vast majority produced by expats).
    The effort you put into the production is what makes the difference. There are other attractive Filipinas producing videos but none are close to your level of quality.
    Well done and keep up the good work.

    • @Robert-Hamm
      @Robert-Hamm Месяц назад +1

      Even some of the other vloggers call her the queen. lolol. They all have a unique personality and approach. Pea's is more professional and her presentation is fact filled.

  • @KingReese9k
    @KingReese9k Месяц назад +9

    Thanks for the video Pea this really helps me what to do for our relationship😂you never miss with your content I love them so much❤❤❤

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  Месяц назад +4

      Quite a few guys have asked me about how to handle a first date 😉👍

  • @erikl1368
    @erikl1368 20 дней назад

    There needs to be one of you for every country 😅 extremely information. 👏

  • @davidbowiecandianh4794
    @davidbowiecandianh4794 Месяц назад +12

    Thanks so much for all your efforts.😊

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  Месяц назад +2

      Thanks even more for appreciating them ❤️👍

  • @MrDavidsuits
    @MrDavidsuits Месяц назад +2

    Thanks! When I first meet my wife family there was two things I think surprised them that I could eat with my hands like them. and put my fingers in a pile of corn meal. And that I enjoyed new things I never ate before.

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  Месяц назад +1

      You sound like an adventurous eater, Mister Dave! And thanks ❤️❤️❤️

  • @danelionheart5881
    @danelionheart5881 Месяц назад +7

    As always great advice Pea. I know I would screw up a first date because my idea of fun would be learning how the shopping at a Ukay Ukay store is like and I know a Filipina knows all the tricks lmao.

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  Месяц назад +5

      Ohhhh she would LOVE that!!
      ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️👍👍👍👍👍

    • @danelionheart5881
      @danelionheart5881 Месяц назад +2

      @@TheFilipinaPea Most thrift stores here in Florida are not worth walking it to. Most of the thrift stores over charge for things they got for free. I made a comment to one of the workers at a thrift store with my Mom and said 5 dollars for a glass bread pan? You can buy a new one at WalMart for 5 dollars . The guy said then go to walmart. I did lmao. But because they are asking over prices and are greedy they will not admit they are over priced and end up just closing the Thrift store. I would hope by now you have a pretty good Idea about me and know what I would do. Just in case you didn't. I would walk through the thrift store and see people shopping and point out some of the items they have is the same price new in Walmart or even cheaper in Walmart.

    • @anonygent
      @anonygent Месяц назад

      ​@@danelionheart5881Most of the Salvation Army stores are pretty good about that, so I was more than surprised when I visited one on the east coast of Florida and they were charging antique store prices for stuff that was given to them.

  • @SgtMajDwightTorres
    @SgtMajDwightTorres Месяц назад +1

    Wow!! That video was so quick for Friday. Okay, have a wonderful weekend! I'll see you on Tuesday. Love you ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @barte3822
    @barte3822 Месяц назад +3

    Thank you, Miss Pea, for the advice.
    When you mentioned the chaperone, I immediately thought of Robin Williams in Good Morning Vietnam when the whole village showed up for dinner and a movie.
    I personally wouldn't care about chaperones for the first date so that she could feel comfortable, but only the first date.
    ✌️❤️

  • @ThistleAndSea
    @ThistleAndSea Месяц назад +3

    Miss Pea, you are in Greece! 😀 Lots of good info in this one. Thanks for sharing it! Hope you have a great weekend. 💕

  • @stevenrobberts3238
    @stevenrobberts3238 Месяц назад +3

    Excellent video as always Pea!!
    Very Excellent lessons!!! Will prevent many misunderstandings.

  • @JoeDMailman
    @JoeDMailman Месяц назад +20

    Hello Pea,
    Thousands of us are here awaiting your newest video.
    We all Know it will be great! Salamat dear Pea.

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  Месяц назад +5

      But that’s a lot of pressure, Joe!
      I might panic.
      I might get flustered.
      I might not know what to say!

    • @JoeDMailman
      @JoeDMailman Месяц назад +1

      @@TheFilipinaPea N E V E R !!!

    • @michaelhaack3298
      @michaelhaack3298 Месяц назад +4

      Joe is right. People are waiting, but no need to panic. Just don't change anything. Your concept is great. Presentation is pro level​@@TheFilipinaPea

    • @JoeSann-q3h
      @JoeSann-q3h Месяц назад

      @@michaelhaack3298 Excellent followup Michael!!! 👍

    • @farmerfox99
      @farmerfox99 Месяц назад

      @@TheFilipinaPeai doubt that lol. but perhaps do a gig on how filipinas have a hard time taking compliments -- maybe from your moms always focusing on what's wrong and what you didn't do cleaning house?? etc. obviously i have some experience here. miss msging w you

  • @erniealonzo536
    @erniealonzo536 Месяц назад +1

    Miss Pea, a marvelous information subject.
    Thank you so much. I surely enjoy this lecture.
    ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @bernardheight6871
    @bernardheight6871 Месяц назад +3

    ❤❤❤ awesome video Ms. Pea, great info not only for Filipino dating but dating in general, another great video from a beautiful intelligent woman ❤❤. Love you and the work you do. My favorite girl from next door ❤❤😂😂

  • @johnstreckfuss3068
    @johnstreckfuss3068 Месяц назад +19

    Good Morning from all the beat-down unappreciated Men of the West! (Were used to it, doesn’t really take up that much of the day). You’re the best!

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  Месяц назад +10

      You may be beaten down, but come to the Philippines and we’ll lift you up ❤️😆👍

    • @solaceoceanwave999
      @solaceoceanwave999 Месяц назад

      ​@@TheFilipinaPeaYes, we men in the west are broken from our crazy native women!

    • @benedwards4466
      @benedwards4466 Месяц назад +2

      I am not beat down I am married to a beautiful Filipina

    • @haroldwalls6591
      @haroldwalls6591 Месяц назад +1

      Well spoke, John. It is inherent in human nature to give love. How beautiful it is to find a place where the woman values that. And it comes without chains and stroke-inducing expectations.

    • @benedwards4466
      @benedwards4466 Месяц назад +4

      @@TheFilipinaPea😂😂😂 you are right my daughters even take good care of me they all want to cook for me I feel like a king and our kids are the best kids ever and the best part is while they are very well behaved and quite but they will speak up if I forget to say a prayer at dinner or miss someone that needs a prayer

  • @stan1027
    @stan1027 Месяц назад +1

    I know there aren't many ladies there like your guest Glenda, but I would sure like to see her on your channel again. Thanks!

  • @TravelLoverForLife
    @TravelLoverForLife Месяц назад +10

    It may sound clichè, but a great first date is to go to the beach together and to then go to the mall for a nice air conditioned movie and to Jollibee. A weekend trip to one of the many affordable resorts is another option if you have known her for a while through an online long distance relationship.

  • @yanassi
    @yanassi Месяц назад

    As usual, great suggestions and thoughtful considerations. Pea, you never fail to inform foreigners and filipinas too if they choose to follow your vlogs.

  • @BrettWatkins-s1m
    @BrettWatkins-s1m Месяц назад +5

    I cant wait to experience this since i already have a girlfriend i wonder how things will be different in person great video pea 🙏❤️😘

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  Месяц назад +2

      I hope you’ll be so familiar with her that all the differences will hardly be noticeable ❤️

  • @wiikends
    @wiikends Месяц назад +1

    Its great seeing your videos again after a few months! When you mentioned a filipina changing from the girl who couldn't decide a restaurant it reminded me of Japanese girls (seems they can be worser [the bad ones]). As hispanic ive seen many similarities & wished more of us explored PH as we both have similar actitudes except you guys beat us in being late in profesional settings

  • @sonoftherepublic7737
    @sonoftherepublic7737 Месяц назад +6

    Morning from Texas Pea! Very enlightening video

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  Месяц назад +3

      SotR!! I might be coming your way soon 😉👍

    • @sonoftherepublic7737
      @sonoftherepublic7737 Месяц назад

      @ would love that! Probably flying into Houston international, I live just 45 minutes north of there, maybe I could actually meet you 🤔

  • @suttone75
    @suttone75 Месяц назад +1

    Thank you, Ms. Pea!! It's really appreciated that you make these videos. I hope to see more soon!

  • @johnlobley
    @johnlobley Месяц назад +4

    Hi, Pea.
    ...and always let the ads play

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  Месяц назад +2

      J O H N! You’re right on time as always ❤️👍

  • @LutherMcgee
    @LutherMcgee Месяц назад +1

    As usual, a good video. This one, however, is an exceptionally good and educational video. When I tune in, I generally don't anticipate leaving a comment. Of late, you have brought up topics that warrant a response. Today, you answered several questions that have assailed me mentally, the assailant has flown the coup. THANKS!

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  Месяц назад +1

      Well then I sure am glad to hear from you, Luther! 👍😊❤️

    • @LutherMcgee
      @LutherMcgee Месяц назад

      @TheFilipinaPea , Thanks, Pea. CHEERS!

  • @DarthCuda
    @DarthCuda Месяц назад +7

    Marrying a filipina was the best decision if my life. She is the sweetest and most thoughtful person I have ever met. She is happy with a walk around the mall or a stop at Jollibee any time we make plans together. We also go to see the many sites around Davao. Jack's Ridge is a favorite of mine.

    • @farmerfox99
      @farmerfox99 Месяц назад

      i'm
      close to being like you. amazing woman

    • @whiteranger79
      @whiteranger79 Месяц назад

      How do you get one in the states?

    • @DarthCuda
      @DarthCuda Месяц назад

      @whiteranger79 you have to travel to the Philippines, meet one get married and file a i130

    • @ky.gambler5281
      @ky.gambler5281 Месяц назад

      What if you can't walk around that well?

    • @UrsulavonB
      @UrsulavonB Месяц назад

      ​@@whiteranger79thousands of Filipina nurses and nurse assistants, so check out hospitals.
      I've lived with 200+ nurses for the last 3 years. When U see them on a daily bases you'll pickup on their true personality.
      January 14th I'm going to my Philippines home. I'm traveling with Ms. San Juan LVN, we're meeting up with my Filipina wife and will celebrate my reunion.

  • @scottguessit
    @scottguessit Месяц назад +1

    Thanks again Pea
    Awesome video and good advice.
    I like you in Blue 💙💙💙 3 in a row now.

  • @bradargue7005
    @bradargue7005 Месяц назад +8

    My first date went to Starbucks and then walking the mall. I was surprised when she showed up with her “Auntie” for the entire date.

  • @StevieB-123
    @StevieB-123 Месяц назад

    Hi Pea,
    Great advice as always about women from your country.
    I recently overwhelmed a young lady. Not a Filipina. She ended up with a long time coworker that could not offer her stability, but is from her own culture and better for her children. Valuable lesson for me. Do a better job learning what the other person also wants, not just their needs.
    Steve 😊

  • @hiddentruth1982
    @hiddentruth1982 Месяц назад +11

    One way to find out where she wants to go is to say you have made plans to go out to eat and then say she has 3 guesses as to where. The first guess is where you go.

    • @justingoodnow851
      @justingoodnow851 Месяц назад +2

      That's a better trick for western women I think lol

    • @hiddentruth1982
      @hiddentruth1982 Месяц назад +1

      @@justingoodnow851 Probably but I expect every woman has a place they would love to go or a favorite place to eat.

    • @justingoodnow851
      @justingoodnow851 Месяц назад

      @hiddentruth1982 true, but I get the impression this trick may not work "the same way"

    • @stepchicken3238
      @stepchicken3238 Месяц назад

      Sounds clever but you'll only confuse them, or think, "He's trying to trick me." From watching various vids on PH, I've come to believe they really think differently over there.

  • @DukeSample-k2s
    @DukeSample-k2s 14 дней назад

    Hi Pea, I always learn so much from your enjoyable videos. Ty very much!

  • @carltondaye8231
    @carltondaye8231 Месяц назад +6

    Busy week here at the Hermit hideaway hope all is good with you and you make it back safe and sound from your ttip Ms Pea.......

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  Месяц назад +3

      I did indeed, and I’m ready for the Christmas insanity 🤣👍

    • @carltondaye8231
      @carltondaye8231 Месяц назад +1

      @@TheFilipinaPea

  • @gregrussell5374
    @gregrussell5374 Месяц назад

    Thanks for the basic info. I will be visiting the Philippines soon. I appreciate your work.

  • @marcprobin1659
    @marcprobin1659 Месяц назад +4

    Nice to see the view of a Filipina. Now that I heard what you said, it reminds me when I first dated my wife over 25 years ago! Thank you Pea!

  • @MarkGray-u4i
    @MarkGray-u4i Месяц назад

    I've been following you for several years Peas, and I swear, as the years go by, you get more and more lovely. Your'e just an incredible woman.
    The topic was good today and I've never seen anything from you that wasnt just awesome. Take care and I'll see you on the next one!
    Mark, in Dallas.

  • @joec68500
    @joec68500 Месяц назад +5

    Hi Pea! I had 2 dates with a filipina here in Virginia and both times she was 20 minutes late and she's been here for 30 years. Haha.

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  Месяц назад +2

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
      Old habits die hard!

    • @journeytrials
      @journeytrials Месяц назад +1

      Lots of Filipinas around VA I’m northern VA and I see them all the time.

    • @joec68500
      @joec68500 Месяц назад +1

      @@TheFilipinaPea You can take her out of the Philippines but can't take the Philippines out of here. 😃

    • @joec68500
      @joec68500 Месяц назад +1

      @@journeytrials Slimmer pickings here in Richmond.

    • @journeytrials
      @journeytrials Месяц назад +1

      @@joec68500 I am engaged to one from Leyte! Was there in January!

  • @gerrymcnally9344
    @gerrymcnally9344 Месяц назад

    Salamat for the wonderful video from the Queen of the Filipino Vlogs . Your legions of followers thank you 👍👏

  • @scottmadoff7444
    @scottmadoff7444 Месяц назад +4

    Wow pea, you look great, i like the ear rings

  • @robertmolenaar5033
    @robertmolenaar5033 Месяц назад

    Hi Pea another great video and yes will definitely keep in mind all you're great advice when I come back next year so thanks sweet look forward too you're next video and also just want too say how beautiful you looked at end of you're video. Take care ❤❤❤

  • @gregwilliams2792
    @gregwilliams2792 Месяц назад +3

    Hi Pea, a different dating / Social contrast from the women in the west, but there also are some dating similarities compared to women in the west, hence hidden agendas.
    However, it’s refreshing to interact with women who are in their feminine power.
    Have a good weekend Pea, and much gratitude ❤😊

  • @GaryGaryGary810
    @GaryGaryGary810 Месяц назад

    WOW GOOD TALK AND LIKE THE RED SWEATER COLOR AND BLUE JEAN CUTOFFS... GOOD WORK... KEEP IT UP

  • @FlipElliott2
    @FlipElliott2 Месяц назад +4

    HAPPY FRIDAY Sweet Pea ❤💜💛

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  Месяц назад +1

      It sure is! I’m sleeping in tomorrow 😆👍👍

  • @bert4fun
    @bert4fun Месяц назад

    Great topic! Thanks for sharing “the true” reality of dating a Filipina, You truly know the western culture and do an incredible job conveying how our cultures mix on a first date. I dated a westernize Filipina she had many of the traits you mentioned it’s to bad I didn’t know that was her culture. I have been to Thailand many times but not to the Philippines 🇵🇭 Yes there is still hope for me I can’t wait to come visit your country/culture. ❤🏝️🙋🏽‍♀️

  • @JoeSann-q3h
    @JoeSann-q3h Месяц назад +6

    Good evening Ms Pea!
    Cannot wait to see what you created for us today!

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  Месяц назад +2

      Well I hope you enjoy spending your time with me ❤️👍

    • @JoeDMailman
      @JoeDMailman Месяц назад

      @@TheFilipinaPea Always!!! Everyone enjoys spending time with the Filipina Unicorn.

  • @benlaw4647
    @benlaw4647 Месяц назад +1

    Another great video Pea! Very informative and your wonderful humor Pea! Appreciate you always Pea! Goodnight and God bless! 😊💝🙏

  • @ejtaylor73
    @ejtaylor73 Месяц назад +7

    She wasn't uncomfortable enough with you to accept the date, so why is she uncomfortable being on one with you alone. Punctuality is 2nd only to honesty for me, if she's late she will be dining alone. TIME is the greatest commodity a person has to give, it is finite, don't let anyone else WASTE your time. She's been getting ready her whole life, she knows how long it takes, she's showing she has no time management and decision making skills. She's proving to me she's not interested in me as a person because she wasn't excited enough to be there on time to be with me, same as not turning her phone OFF and putting it away without having to be asked. Besides, is it REALLY a smart thing to leave a foreigner standing around outside alone, she may not have been in a hurry to be there on time, but there are LOTS other Filipinas that are in the right place at the right TIME. Same reason for her wanting to pick the guy up at the airport, so she can get her claws into him before he can see all the eye candy throwing themselves at him there. One thing I'd say is, if you think there is a strong possibility with her, you BOTH need to HONESTLY talk about your expectations and intentions with each other early on, if they don't align, you can go your separate ways before anyone gets hurt.

    • @paultrgnp
      @paultrgnp Месяц назад +2

      I wish you good luck with your life of solitude.

    • @PizzaLord
      @PizzaLord Месяц назад +2

      you are not going to be going on any dates in the phils then. they never turn up on time

    • @ejtaylor73
      @ejtaylor73 Месяц назад +4

      @@paultrgnp You try to make it sound like the end of the world. I've been on my own for around 25 years. I come and go as I want, do what I want, no nagging, spend my money how I want, and don't have to answer to any one. There's also this little thing called FRIENDS, so I'm not alone. In the Philippines you can't walk 100ft. without dozens of people trying to talk to you, and there's a lot of women that would be happy to sit down for lunch or dinner without it being a "date". I think it would be far harder to actually find some solitude there.

    • @ECA2
      @ECA2 Месяц назад +3

      It's good that you don't compromise your standards. The outcome is usually never worth it. Finding someone to meet your standards won't be easy and is no guarantee of success. Finding and having what you want is always better. You only live this one life. Live it on your terms.

    • @secretagent86
      @secretagent86 Месяц назад

      Wrong country for you

  • @DallasCarr-1
    @DallasCarr-1 Месяц назад +6

    Hahua! Got ya. The part about the Filipinos taking me by surprise by six or more all wanting a ride to the store. Well, I would make it a point of stopping and picking up every Filipino standing on the side of the road on my way to town in my old daot van. It was rather entertaining seeing the look of apprehension on their faces of weather or not to squeeze into the back when they saw a smiling foreigner driving. And then when they nervously handed me the 20 Pesos, they were even more shocked when I handed it back to them. I'm sure some of them were quite relieved when I let them out at their stop, thinking they might have made a big mistake getting in the van. Heheheee. :) It was all good. Actually, most of the time we would have great conversations and they would offer suggestions of places to go visit.

    • @donwells9309
      @donwells9309 Месяц назад +1

      That's gold, nice. Tongue in cheek humor.

  • @donaldgarrett6577
    @donaldgarrett6577 Месяц назад +2

    How can we impress Prettiest Pea, You are getting more attractive and love your humor and informative shows . Thanks for your good work, we men around the world love you !!!!

  • @moshe1368
    @moshe1368 Месяц назад +6

    3rd commentator. Great vedios. Best advice has always been, best way to know is by going there and have first hand experience.

  • @willdrob80
    @willdrob80 Месяц назад

    Thanks for the info, Pea! I know exactly where to take you on a date…lol😁👍🏾 noted!
    I’m just optimistic about the Philippines, I know a few guys with Filipina wives who advocate highly. 😎👍🏾💯

  • @treasuresofthepast3208
    @treasuresofthepast3208 Месяц назад +6

    Hey pea! ❤ just wanted to say hi!

  • @Thesixsixman1968
    @Thesixsixman1968 Месяц назад

    I’m always looking forward to your wisdom and information. Telling it like it is, all the time. Always easy on the eyes too

  • @topaz-1456
    @topaz-1456 Месяц назад +7

    Yikes! Chopping wood and hauling water is a non-starter!
    We met each other for the first time in person in Iloilo. We were taking online for about 2 months. "Coincidentally", we kept running into her sister and cousin in two different malls on two different days. Her parents happened to be visiting her cousin. I took them all went out to dinner at a Filipino restaurant. I must have passed the test because we are coming up on our 11th wedding anniversary in ten days!

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  Месяц назад +4

      ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️👍
      Did you end up constantly buying her sister and cousin lunch? 😉😆

    • @carlosnorris352
      @carlosnorris352 Месяц назад

      @@TheFilipinaPeaare you trying to point out that love comes from stomach?

    • @topaz-1456
      @topaz-1456 Месяц назад +2

      @TheFilipinaPea Yes! Your video opened my eyes that the coincidence was no coincidence!

    • @smashy_smasherton
      @smashy_smasherton Месяц назад

      You initiated the dinner? Winner winner.

  • @JaseacZomec
    @JaseacZomec Месяц назад +1

    The girl I'm in love with is the most amazing person I've ever met. She never asks for anything, never complains about anything, and is without a doubt my soulmate. I don't know what I would do without her in my life.

  • @spincube5734
    @spincube5734 Месяц назад +6

    I experienced my very first date since arriving in the Philippines a week ago!
    A dark skinned beauty & sweeter than most. Such an underrated fruit. Valuable tips as always. Thanx Pea !!

    • @tomster7574
      @tomster7574 Месяц назад +1

      Are you still dating her?

    • @tomster7574
      @tomster7574 Месяц назад

      Are you still dating her?

    • @spincube5734
      @spincube5734 Месяц назад +1

      @@tomster7574I gotta say, I'm still enjoying the fruit of this relationship!

  • @bigbuck8138
    @bigbuck8138 Месяц назад +5

    You can set your watch by Pea !

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  Месяц назад +2

      I guess I’m not a real Filipina 😆😆😆

    • @bigbuck8138
      @bigbuck8138 Месяц назад +1

      @@TheFilipinaPea you are a real awesome Filipino. Your mind is far more broad than that of the average Filipina

  • @markhofer1985
    @markhofer1985 Месяц назад

    Your hair length is a super power! 😍 I bet there’s a backstory somewhere about it? Very impressive 👀

  • @portlandGTR
    @portlandGTR Месяц назад +3

    Women make rules for guys they don’t like and break rules for guys they do like. Remember that, if she has any excuse why she can’t do something with you, there’s another guy she’s making a reason why she can. Likely making the excuses for you, so she has a reason she is free to meet with the other guy.
    I’ve had countless girls do some outrageous things to spend time with me, so trust me, if she’s into you, she will find a way

    • @Brendan-05
      @Brendan-05 Месяц назад

      The excuse rule above is gold

    • @portlandGTR
      @portlandGTR Месяц назад

      @@Brendan-05my great grandfather was full of stuff like this so I can’t take credit for anything but listening to him, it’s served me well over the years and I hope it helps you too.

  • @MATTIXSH
    @MATTIXSH Месяц назад

    Hello Pea, I am posting here because I do not know another way to reach you. I would like to thank you so very much. You inspired me to look in the Philippines for love and I think I found it! I will be headed to the Philippines for the first time in July. If all goes to plan and we hit it off like I think we will I will be moving there in the near future if not right then! Your insight on the culture and women have been invaluable. Again thank you from the bottom of my heart.

  • @juliooquendo220
    @juliooquendo220 Месяц назад +4

    That thumbnail screams gorgeous ladies. Miss pea videos are amazing on a feel good Friday.

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  Месяц назад

      Well four of them are gorgeous and one of them is an imposter! 🤣

  • @tiler99abc
    @tiler99abc Месяц назад

    Wow
    Your videos are amazing
    Your English language is absolutely perfect x

  • @silverliner4894
    @silverliner4894 Месяц назад +4

    Good morning, Pea. So this is like my 50th first date. What should I expect?

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  Месяц назад +2

      Don’t worry, it’ll seem like the first - you keep forgetting the previous ones 🤣🤣

    • @Steven-t9s
      @Steven-t9s Месяц назад

      A 51st

  • @DrJamesBWood
    @DrJamesBWood Месяц назад +1

    My Filipina is amazing. A combination of sweet, shy, adventurous, kind, loyal, funny, intelligent, and naive but entusiastic. We met online on a Christian Philipines dating site and I came to visit her in person after about three months. My experiences with her are the polar opposite of dating in the US. If you have a good heart and good intentions, things may suddenly move forward very quickly in a most wonderful way. She is a professional; a teacher with a master's degree and places like Jolibee are a treat for her. A lot of our dates are simply a meal and a walk in a park, town center or boardwalk. We both like this a lot better than a movie as it gives us quality time together where we can talk and get to know each other more. Mine is NOT late, a rare trait. Her father was in the military and then was a policeman and instilled the importance of being on time in his three kids.

  • @tryscience
    @tryscience Месяц назад +3

    Goooood...😎

  • @TheNuggo01
    @TheNuggo01 Месяц назад +1

    Hello Pea, we hope you enjoyed Australia, theres alot to see, thanks for your great channel of honest content.

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  Месяц назад +1

      I’m planning to visit again, Nuggo 😁👍

  • @salvadorsepulveda6415
    @salvadorsepulveda6415 Месяц назад +5

    Always thankful for your experience Pea. Merry Christmas 🎅

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  Месяц назад +2

      Thanks! Merry Christmas to you too, Salvador! ❤️👍

  • @enriquesoul5370
    @enriquesoul5370 Месяц назад

    Great informative video Ms. Pea. Great background, loved the "floating" chair you're seated in. I wonder if that was intentional. Either way, great insight.

  • @AmirSayedal-Isra
    @AmirSayedal-Isra Месяц назад +3

    Has your hair grown… longer!? It is so gorgeous! 😊 I don’t know what you ladies do to have such gorgeous hair, but please continue!
    Got some catching up to do on your videos, but I’m glad 😌 I found the time to watch this one.

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  Месяц назад +3

      Yes, it’s down past my butt now 🤣
      But please do catch up!! ❤️❤️

  • @billbillson3129
    @billbillson3129 Месяц назад

    Awesome!! Thank you for making and sharing your videos with us Pea!!! Best wishes to you and your family!

  • @redangrybird7564
    @redangrybird7564 Месяц назад +3

    Hi Pea 🌹

  • @raymahannah4336
    @raymahannah4336 Месяц назад

    Hi Pea! 😁 Great video! I was lucky that you started your channel not long after I met my wife... I had met her before the lockdown happened, and had my passport, flight and hotel arranged when all world travel got shutdown... So, I had another 2 years to get to know her, while watching your videos and asking questions about her behavior that made my head spin... 😂 She doesn't really do tampo, but she was buang if she was feeling insecure or jealous, which threw me for a loop! 😂 I'm just fortunate I had you being another filapina that helped me learn about the culture and filapinas, so I was "as prepared as I could be"😂 when I was able to come there in May of 2022. You have continued to be a wealth of information, and you are also a good friend! Take care, and thank you! 🙂❤️

  • @Friedbrain11
    @Friedbrain11 Месяц назад +6

    I just quit the dating scene. I had a Filipino/American for a few months then she started lying to me. Now she is out. Not going to try again. Fed up with the nonsense.

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  Месяц назад +12

      If you try again, come to the Philippines - a filipino American is just an American 😊

  • @josephbishop7781
    @josephbishop7781 Месяц назад

    One of your best vodeos, Miss Pea! Im still catching up with all your previous vids, but I'm taking my time and not binging, so I can absorb all your wisdom and sense of fun. There are several good content creators on all things Filipina, but you are far and away the best!

  • @jannarkiewicz633
    @jannarkiewicz633 Месяц назад +3

    My wife stated our first three dates were to coffee shops. Our dates were at 3:30 AM after she finished at the call center and while I was still working night shift U.S. hours. Again her story is "our first three dates were to coffee shops." Must be true... :-) :-) :-)

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  Месяц назад +2

      I’m just glad you found love at 3am - most guys aren’t so lucky 🤣👍

    • @johnsmith-sv1vr
      @johnsmith-sv1vr Месяц назад

      😂​@@TheFilipinaPea

  • @badbobby11
    @badbobby11 Месяц назад

    🎉 I liked today’s video Pea. I will have to get my American friend Matt to review this one in particular. It should be interesting as even if I don’t find a date he likely will… 2 foreigners, and several Filipinas at the table… actually that would really make a relaxing event less pressure.

  • @charlescox2840
    @charlescox2840 Месяц назад +5

    It took a whole minute to open it keeps saying that this is private!

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  Месяц назад +3

      A picture of someone’s privates?
      I hope they’re not mine! 🤣

  • @jayfoil4037
    @jayfoil4037 Месяц назад

    Pea! This is a great video! You may find this interesting. Being 30 minutes 'late', having the phone out, the apparent 'shyness', are all behaviors I have seen in business meetings with my Philipino and Philipina counterparts! And yes, food is always brought in and everyone eats together. It takes a bit to get used to, but now it's more like meetings with family. Keep up the good work! Magandang gabi!

  • @TheFriendlyPsychopath
    @TheFriendlyPsychopath Месяц назад +3

    I’d never pullout of Filipina Pea.