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@ 5:00 When I arrived in Udonthani, Thailand to meat a 38 year old widowed teacher, the first stop from the airport was of couse a restaurant. In addition to her two young sons, I was not surprised when around ten of her teacher co-workers showed up. Of courrse the bill was mine. I found only one of them could speak English. She was their school's English teacher. As I spoke Thai quite well, that was no problem. With my Fili;pina ex-wife, right from the plane, it was a Pizza Hut. We were accompanied by the married American man who'd introduced us. His Filipina wife was a nursing student. If you're interested there is a lot more about him and his fee for doing introductions. He was collecting from the girls, not the guys.
@5:34 My 2nd ex-Thai wife asked if we could take her son's and a niece and nephew to an ice cream restaurant in the Mall. I agreed that would be fun. Since there was only one neighor in the vilage who owned a van, she asked it the owners two children came too. It waIs no surprise when the Van arrived already full of village kids. I paid the bills for probably a dozen kids. No problem, it was still less than $10. I became the village kids hero. Everywhere I went there I was the nice American guy who likes kids.
My first date. I took my pinay to Jolibee. That was the only place I really knew. She loved it. My dates with Filipinas don't feel like dates. Right off the bat it feels more like we're just hanging out and already know each other.
My first date with my Filipina was a little hole in the wall restaurant that served Filipino food. My introduction to adobo then to a movie. After that our dates were on the navy base at club for dinner and base theater for a movie. She loved dates on the base. Took a long time for to kiss me and a really long time before she “bent over backwards “ Great memories of learning a little about her culture. Oh yeah I got to do a lot of things with her family and friends who tagged along on a lot of our dates.
I met my 🇵🇭 in the US on a dating website. In spite of living in the US now for 12 years or so, she might as well have arrived yesterday. I wasn’t looking for an Asian or Filipina, didn’t know anything about the Philippines or Filipinos… I’m sure I made every possible mistake on that first date. But she said I was the first guy who didn’t approach her with the “Hey Baby” or “Hey sexy Mama” vibe. As we agreed to a dinner date, I asked her if she had a preference… “You decide, Sir,” she said. (Yes, she called me ‘Sir’). So I took her to a hot new Italian resto - she didn’t like the food, and was obviously uncomfortable in this upscale place. She was shy, but very nice. Later that evening I agreed to meet her ‘tropa ’ at a local dance club. Once in her element, she became a different person - funny, loud, outgoing… I finally took her home about 0400, after breakfast, thanked her for a wonderful time, no hug, no kiss, but I did ask if I could call her later. This is about the time I started watching your channel Miss Pea… I had no idea what I was getting myself into, and I needed help! The rest is history… together 5 years now, married for two years, happiest I’ve ever been! ❤️
@ my best friend had a Filipina girlfriend. I wanted a Filipina girlfriend but I was kinda sick of trying to weed through all the scammers online and on the dating sites. When I met her and got to know her better she decided that I was a great guy so she introduced me to her friend. It took a while for us to hit it off because she was working overseas in an Arabic country. Eventually I decided she was what I wanted and she felt the same so I bought out her contract and brought her back to the Philippines for us to start our lives together. It’s been 7 years and I have never once regretted it. We have had issues like every marriage but we never talk about divorce and we work together to resolve every issue. It’s the mindset of marriage is forever that makes it work. Philippines has no divorce so they want to work it out not just go their separate ways. They want to be wives and they know they only get one chance so they are willing to do what it takes to fix the problem. They are not push overs who are weak, stupid, or slaves like western women like to think. They fight to keep the marriage together when western women fight to walk away from their marriages. That’s the biggest difference between western women and eastern women.
Hi Pea, I'm still in the U.S. and I'm not even looking for a Filipina to date, but I watched this video all the way through because you're so engaging and informative. Keep up the great vlogs.
When you said she'll be late, I laughed out loud. My wife was late for our wedding. A couple of people told me not to worry, I wasn't left at the altar, etc... I had been with her for almost a year, and from experience,I expected her to be late. We've been married 26 years, and she's still late.
I’m blessed with my now Filipina wife when we first started dating. When I 1st arrived in Manila Ph, we met each other at the lobby to confirmed we both look like we did in our pictures, I remember she saying she loves fruits so I Google a place where they sell cut fruits and fruit smoothies, this relaxed her for a nice 1st conversation. It went great since she was happy to ask her for a second date, who knew that would lead to a happy marriage with her 🥰
On my first 'date' with my Filipino wife I asked for a kiss and guess what... I got three of the sweetest kisses in my life. There is a long story here but that is for another day.
"I can think outside my own box, no pun intended" 😂now Pea...you know it WAS intended lol your humor is always top notch. Great advice and information as always !! ❤❤❤
A friend of mine married a Filipina, but he brought his wife back. His businesses is here. I can tell they are very happy with each other. Now they have a beautiful daughter. He told me that he needs to stay out of the kitchen, but that's completely normal. She cook's and cleans, while he provides. He's absolutely over the moon with his Filipina wife. Oh and according to him she's an amazing lover too. Family oriented, sweet, loyal... His ex-wife (modern woman) who he has an older son with can not stand it, but he doesn't care. His only business is with his son.
This is great information. Thank you for sharing. I just started talking with a Filipina at work, and this was informative. Since was born and raised in a province and she doesn't ask for much of me. I can already see that famous jealous Filipina stereotype is true with this one. So far worth it to keep going with her, she is loving, and thoughtful. Not to mention super cute.
If I'm ever single and in the Philippines I will know what to expect when I go on a date with a Phillipina! Thanks for the info Pea and by the way you're my favorite You tuber! Have a great weekend Pea 😊
Well spoke, John. It is inherent in human nature to give love. How beautiful it is to find a place where the woman values that. And it comes without chains and stroke-inducing expectations.
@@TheFilipinaPea😂😂😂 you are right my daughters even take good care of me they all want to cook for me I feel like a king and our kids are the best kids ever and the best part is while they are very well behaved and quite but they will speak up if I forget to say a prayer at dinner or miss someone that needs a prayer
It may sound clichè, but a great first date is to go to the beach together and to then go to the mall for a nice air conditioned movie and to Jollibee. A weekend trip to one of the many affordable resorts is another option if you have known her for a while through an online long distance relationship.
Sorry, Pea, but with my singing voice, if I am going to "Say Anything" it is going to be with a boom box outside her window. Only "In your eyes" by Peter Gabriel.
One way to find out where she wants to go is to say you have made plans to go out to eat and then say she has 3 guesses as to where. The first guess is where you go.
The girl I'm in love with is the most amazing person I've ever met. She never asks for anything, never complains about anything, and is without a doubt my soulmate. I don't know what I would do without her in my life.
Marrying a filipina was the best decision if my life. She is the sweetest and most thoughtful person I have ever met. She is happy with a walk around the mall or a stop at Jollibee any time we make plans together. We also go to see the many sites around Davao. Jack's Ridge is a favorite of mine.
@@whiteranger79thousands of Filipina nurses and nurse assistants, so check out hospitals. I've lived with 200+ nurses for the last 3 years. When U see them on a daily bases you'll pickup on their true personality. January 14th I'm going to my Philippines home. I'm traveling with Ms. San Juan LVN, we're meeting up with my Filipina wife and will celebrate my reunion.
@TheFilipinaPea Nobody does it better. Your knowledge of both cultures and the ease at which you explain the intricacies of interpersonal relationships, not just romantic endeavors, is wonderful. Winning over the family and friends is just as important, sometimes more important, than winning over the girl. I've been burned before and I'm definitely going to go slower the next time.
As always great advice Pea. I know I would screw up a first date because my idea of fun would be learning how the shopping at a Ukay Ukay store is like and I know a Filipina knows all the tricks lmao.
@@TheFilipinaPea Most thrift stores here in Florida are not worth walking it to. Most of the thrift stores over charge for things they got for free. I made a comment to one of the workers at a thrift store with my Mom and said 5 dollars for a glass bread pan? You can buy a new one at WalMart for 5 dollars . The guy said then go to walmart. I did lmao. But because they are asking over prices and are greedy they will not admit they are over priced and end up just closing the Thrift store. I would hope by now you have a pretty good Idea about me and know what I would do. Just in case you didn't. I would walk through the thrift store and see people shopping and point out some of the items they have is the same price new in Walmart or even cheaper in Walmart.
@@danelionheart5881Most of the Salvation Army stores are pretty good about that, so I was more than surprised when I visited one on the east coast of Florida and they were charging antique store prices for stuff that was given to them.
@@TheFilipinaPeai doubt that lol. but perhaps do a gig on how filipinas have a hard time taking compliments -- maybe from your moms always focusing on what's wrong and what you didn't do cleaning house?? etc. obviously i have some experience here. miss msging w you
Pea, it never ceases to amaze me how you are able to pick topics that are of particular interest to your subscribers, but also that you are able to offer information of which we would like the inside story. Any commercial organisation would have a dozen researchers to gather the information that provide. You are a superwoman !! Thanks for your hard work.😘 .
Thank you, Miss Pea, for the advice. When you mentioned the chaperone, I immediately thought of Robin Williams in Good Morning Vietnam when the whole village showed up for dinner and a movie. I personally wouldn't care about chaperones for the first date so that she could feel comfortable, but only the first date. ✌️❤️
As usual, great suggestions and thoughtful considerations. Pea, you never fail to inform foreigners and filipinas too if they choose to follow your vlogs.
I've been following you for several years Peas, and I swear, as the years go by, you get more and more lovely. Your'e just an incredible woman. The topic was good today and I've never seen anything from you that wasnt just awesome. Take care and I'll see you on the next one! Mark, in Dallas.
Right after she met me at ninoy aquino airport we went and got a quick bite. She really couldn't wait to get me back to the hotel she reserved for the two of us. Her comment as I got out of the shower was "good it's as big as I hopped" I knew we were off to a good start, we have been married 9 years now and I'm still in Heaven.
She wasn't uncomfortable enough with you to accept the date, so why is she uncomfortable being on one with you alone. Punctuality is 2nd only to honesty for me, if she's late she will be dining alone. TIME is the greatest commodity a person has to give, it is finite, don't let anyone else WASTE your time. She's been getting ready her whole life, she knows how long it takes, she's showing she has no time management and decision making skills. She's proving to me she's not interested in me as a person because she wasn't excited enough to be there on time to be with me, same as not turning her phone OFF and putting it away without having to be asked. Besides, is it REALLY a smart thing to leave a foreigner standing around outside alone, she may not have been in a hurry to be there on time, but there are LOTS other Filipinas that are in the right place at the right TIME. Same reason for her wanting to pick the guy up at the airport, so she can get her claws into him before he can see all the eye candy throwing themselves at him there. One thing I'd say is, if you think there is a strong possibility with her, you BOTH need to HONESTLY talk about your expectations and intentions with each other early on, if they don't align, you can go your separate ways before anyone gets hurt.
@@paultrgnp You try to make it sound like the end of the world. I've been on my own for around 25 years. I come and go as I want, do what I want, no nagging, spend my money how I want, and don't have to answer to any one. There's also this little thing called FRIENDS, so I'm not alone. In the Philippines you can't walk 100ft. without dozens of people trying to talk to you, and there's a lot of women that would be happy to sit down for lunch or dinner without it being a "date". I think it would be far harder to actually find some solitude there.
It's good that you don't compromise your standards. The outcome is usually never worth it. Finding someone to meet your standards won't be easy and is no guarantee of success. Finding and having what you want is always better. You only live this one life. Live it on your terms.
It's been a pleasure to see your channel go from strength to strength. While I watch a number of channels on the Philippines with varying levels of interest and consistency I rarely miss one of your videos. I know you are the last to want to do comparisons but unless I'm missing something you are easily the best and most popular among the channels produced by Filipinos (and above the vast majority produced by expats). The effort you put into the production is what makes the difference. There are other attractive Filipinas producing videos but none are close to your level of quality. Well done and keep up the good work.
Even some of the other vloggers call her the queen. lolol. They all have a unique personality and approach. Pea's is more professional and her presentation is fact filled.
My Filipina is amazing. A combination of sweet, shy, adventurous, kind, loyal, funny, intelligent, and naive but entusiastic. We met online on a Christian Philipines dating site and I came to visit her in person after about three months. My experiences with her are the polar opposite of dating in the US. If you have a good heart and good intentions, things may suddenly move forward very quickly in a most wonderful way. She is a professional; a teacher with a master's degree and places like Jolibee are a treat for her. A lot of our dates are simply a meal and a walk in a park, town center or boardwalk. We both like this a lot better than a movie as it gives us quality time together where we can talk and get to know each other more. Mine is NOT late, a rare trait. Her father was in the military and then was a policeman and instilled the importance of being on time in his three kids.
My current LDR Filipina girlfriend exhibit most of this characteristic. I had another Filipina, but she was so American and educated that even her accent was like that of an American, but she breakup with me due to distance. My current Filipina has on a high school diploma and her English is not great, but I have been helping her with that. She more traditional and I like it.
How can we impress Prettiest Pea, You are getting more attractive and love your humor and informative shows . Thanks for your good work, we men around the world love you !!!!
I would say, for me personally, at the first "meet and greet" it would be fine for her to bring a friend. If it helps her feel at ease, and more comfortable, I'm all for it, although I would say I wouldn't necessarily classify it as a "first date." Having a friend for her to help keep the conversation going would be beneficial for all of us. If it progresses further, I would at that point ask for exclusivity. I will, however, totally put her on the spot, and ask her to pick places to go and ideas of things to do, since it will help me get to know her better while also showing how decisive she is, as well as how she deals with pressures of daily life. Although not entirely ideal for her, I think it shows a few things about her character, including her interest level (in my mind, if she's into you, she'll choose just to have time with you) as well as how she deals with situations that are uncomfortable, because let's be serious about relationships, they're a series of uncomfortable situations with someone you should be completely comfortable being around. There's give and takes from both, sacrifice, exchanges of cultural norms all leading up to the most important part of a relationship... Trust.
I experienced my very first date since arriving in the Philippines a week ago! A dark skinned beauty & sweeter than most. Such an underrated fruit. Valuable tips as always. Thanx Pea !!
❤❤❤ awesome video Ms. Pea, great info not only for Filipino dating but dating in general, another great video from a beautiful intelligent woman ❤❤. Love you and the work you do. My favorite girl from next door ❤❤😂😂
Pea, you deserve an Oscar for your performance. This was an excellent video, with very valuable content. I have already experienced having others appear on a first date...and, yes, he was 1/2 hour late. but, because of you, I was expecting it. She showed up at my hotel restaurant apologizing for being late. She brought her 12-year-old niece and 2children under the age of 5, all on a motorcycle. When she apologized, I gave her a hug and said, "That's OK, you're a Filipina, and I would have been disappointed if you had been on time." She laughed and the whole experience was very warm, and comfortable--thank you for that, Pea--you're awesome. Your advice is very real and it works in the real world. You are a national treasure. We love you.
I was 35 minutes late for my Wedding,my now Wife was in tears thinking I had done a runner. Truth was there was 2 entrances to the Town Hall and a Sponsor and myself waited at the wrong door. Turned out a Fantastic Wedding,that was 7 years ago and we have not had 1 argument. ❤❤
Yikes! Chopping wood and hauling water is a non-starter! We met each other for the first time in person in Iloilo. We were taking online for about 2 months. "Coincidentally", we kept running into her sister and cousin in two different malls on two different days. Her parents happened to be visiting her cousin. I took them all went out to dinner at a Filipino restaurant. I must have passed the test because we are coming up on our 11th wedding anniversary in ten days!
Its great seeing your videos again after a few months! When you mentioned a filipina changing from the girl who couldn't decide a restaurant it reminded me of Japanese girls (seems they can be worser [the bad ones]). As hispanic ive seen many similarities & wished more of us explored PH as we both have similar actitudes except you guys beat us in being late in profesional settings
Hahua! Got ya. The part about the Filipinos taking me by surprise by six or more all wanting a ride to the store. Well, I would make it a point of stopping and picking up every Filipino standing on the side of the road on my way to town in my old daot van. It was rather entertaining seeing the look of apprehension on their faces of weather or not to squeeze into the back when they saw a smiling foreigner driving. And then when they nervously handed me the 20 Pesos, they were even more shocked when I handed it back to them. I'm sure some of them were quite relieved when I let them out at their stop, thinking they might have made a big mistake getting in the van. Heheheee. :) It was all good. Actually, most of the time we would have great conversations and they would offer suggestions of places to go visit.
Hello Pea, I am posting here because I do not know another way to reach you. I would like to thank you so very much. You inspired me to look in the Philippines for love and I think I found it! I will be headed to the Philippines for the first time in July. If all goes to plan and we hit it off like I think we will I will be moving there in the near future if not right then! Your insight on the culture and women have been invaluable. Again thank you from the bottom of my heart.
Thanks! When I first meet my wife family there was two things I think surprised them that I could eat with my hands like them. and put my fingers in a pile of corn meal. And that I enjoyed new things I never ate before.
Hi Pea, a different dating / Social contrast from the women in the west, but there also are some dating similarities compared to women in the west, hence hidden agendas. However, it’s refreshing to interact with women who are in their feminine power. Have a good weekend Pea, and much gratitude ❤😊
As usual, a good video. This one, however, is an exceptionally good and educational video. When I tune in, I generally don't anticipate leaving a comment. Of late, you have brought up topics that warrant a response. Today, you answered several questions that have assailed me mentally, the assailant has flown the coup. THANKS!
There's a big difference between older Philippina and younger ladies they have been around the block and know how to work together in a relationship I am 75 my wife is 56
I would advise most of all to be yourself. If not it will be sayonara in a short time. I dated my first Filipina(her Mom was) when 23. Her Dad was Mexican. She wanted to go on a hike to a lake so I packed us a lunch. We went out later that night for drinks and dancing. The hike went well. The secret here was we had talked prior to dating as we had mutual friends. It was way easier to date at 23. One of my classmates from high school was in the Navy. He met his wife when stationed in Asia. She was very traditional and he had to court her as she had never dated before. He met her when some sailors all went on a side trip to a Province. Sometimes you never knowhow you will meet or date but it is beat in person.
My wife stated our first three dates were to coffee shops. Our dates were at 3:30 AM after she finished at the call center and while I was still working night shift U.S. hours. Again her story is "our first three dates were to coffee shops." Must be true... :-) :-) :-)
Hi Pea, Great advice as always about women from your country. I recently overwhelmed a young lady. Not a Filipina. She ended up with a long time coworker that could not offer her stability, but is from her own culture and better for her children. Valuable lesson for me. Do a better job learning what the other person also wants, not just their needs. Steve 😊
I just quit the dating scene. I had a Filipino/American for a few months then she started lying to me. Now she is out. Not going to try again. Fed up with the nonsense.
I've dated two Filipinas (not at the same time), but both had been in the US for decades (both were born and raised in the Philippines though). Even though they had been here for a long time, some of the things you mentioned still applied to them. One thing for sure, and I've noticed this with both Filipinas that I've known AND Filipinos - if they put together a party or some sort of get together, expect LOTS of food - and expect to take some home :)
Hi Pea! 😁 Great video! I was lucky that you started your channel not long after I met my wife... I had met her before the lockdown happened, and had my passport, flight and hotel arranged when all world travel got shutdown... So, I had another 2 years to get to know her, while watching your videos and asking questions about her behavior that made my head spin... 😂 She doesn't really do tampo, but she was buang if she was feeling insecure or jealous, which threw me for a loop! 😂 I'm just fortunate I had you being another filapina that helped me learn about the culture and filapinas, so I was "as prepared as I could be"😂 when I was able to come there in May of 2022. You have continued to be a wealth of information, and you are also a good friend! Take care, and thank you! 🙂❤️
Great informative video Ms. Pea. Great background, loved the "floating" chair you're seated in. I wonder if that was intentional. Either way, great insight.
This is a first in person date so the situation is a bit different: After 11 months of video calling online between Mindanao and Ontario Canada, We were finally able to meet in Toronto. First things first, went to her lolas apartment where she was staying to meet her, (mano po included), Then we went to a local coffee shop, and eventually jollibee as it was my first time, and boy the chicken was good!) Over the next few days we toured around Toronto together, she takes lots of photos. On the last day for breakfast she did bring a friend from college she hasnt seen in a while, but she offered to pay. it seems like shes an outlier compared to the average Filipina, in a good way. I couldnt imagine spending my life with anyone else. :)
Good information Pea. I see it the same in most cultures. You have to start and end in being respectful. Kiss, hug, and other stuff on the first date and after, should be mutual and again, respectful. Intimacy grows as your dating and getting to know each other. If you start in physically then that is what your relationship will most likely be centered on, but if you grow and have your relationship grounded in respect then your love starts with each other emotionally and is a good foundation for a lasting happy future. Then the physical part will fall in place and possibly be better, now that you know and grow with each other... Well, that is just my thoughts LOL
It would be interesting to see some street interviews with locals gals to confirm these ideas. Ofc, I trust your ideas are correct, but asking random pinays where they would like to go on a first date with a foreigner, what foreigners should do to make them more comfortable and open to conversations/questions, and how the date should end would be good for us to see and learn from.
Has your hair grown… longer!? It is so gorgeous! 😊 I don’t know what you ladies do to have such gorgeous hair, but please continue! Got some catching up to do on your videos, but I’m glad 😌 I found the time to watch this one.
Pea! This is a great video! You may find this interesting. Being 30 minutes 'late', having the phone out, the apparent 'shyness', are all behaviors I have seen in business meetings with my Philipino and Philipina counterparts! And yes, food is always brought in and everyone eats together. It takes a bit to get used to, but now it's more like meetings with family. Keep up the good work! Magandang gabi!
I have never had any issues with my Filipina girlfriend. Going on 5 years. But I know that I have given her too much money when she starts eating balut 😅
On the topic of your date bringing a friend. Watch out, they tend to bring hot friends. They will also bring someone who speaks good English if they dont. You may find yourself attracted to the friend.
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@ 5:00 When I arrived in Udonthani, Thailand to meat a 38 year old widowed teacher, the first stop from the airport was of couse a restaurant. In addition to her two young sons, I was not surprised when around ten of her teacher co-workers showed up. Of courrse the bill was mine. I found only one of them could speak English. She was their school's English teacher. As I spoke Thai quite well, that was no problem.
With my Fili;pina ex-wife, right from the plane, it was a Pizza Hut. We were accompanied by the married American man who'd introduced us. His Filipina wife was a nursing student. If you're interested there is a lot more about him and his fee for doing introductions. He was collecting from the girls, not the guys.
@5:34 My 2nd ex-Thai wife asked if we could take her son's and a niece and nephew to an ice cream restaurant in the Mall. I agreed that would be fun. Since there was only one neighor in the vilage who owned a van, she asked it the owners two children came too. It waIs no surprise when the Van arrived already full of village kids. I paid the bills for probably a dozen kids. No problem, it was still less than $10. I became the village kids hero. Everywhere I went there I was the nice American guy who likes kids.
My first date. I took my pinay to Jolibee. That was the only place I really knew. She loved it. My dates with Filipinas don't feel like dates. Right off the bat it feels more like we're just hanging out and already know each other.
Have guys ever slept with the chaperone
That’s the best feeling when there’s no stress 👍❤️
Jolibee’s! Miss that place! I went to Kenny Rogers roasters with my “date”.
My experience is the same. Don't we all love our Pea?
My first date with my Filipina was a little hole in the wall restaurant that served Filipino food. My introduction to adobo then to a movie. After that our dates were on the navy base at club for dinner and base theater for a movie. She loved dates on the base. Took a long time for to kiss me and a really long time before she “bent over backwards “ Great memories of learning a little about her culture. Oh yeah I got to do a lot of things with her family and friends who tagged along on a lot of our dates.
I met my 🇵🇭 in the US on a dating website. In spite of living in the US now for 12 years or so, she might as well have arrived yesterday. I wasn’t looking for an Asian or Filipina, didn’t know anything about the Philippines or Filipinos… I’m sure I made every possible mistake on that first date. But she said I was the first guy who didn’t approach her with the “Hey Baby” or “Hey sexy Mama” vibe. As we agreed to a dinner date, I asked her if she had a preference… “You decide, Sir,” she said. (Yes, she called me ‘Sir’). So I took her to a hot new Italian resto - she didn’t like the food, and was obviously uncomfortable in this upscale place. She was shy, but very nice. Later that evening I agreed to meet her ‘tropa ’ at a local dance club. Once in her element, she became a different person - funny, loud, outgoing… I finally took her home about 0400, after breakfast, thanked her for a wonderful time, no hug, no kiss, but I did ask if I could call her later. This is about the time I started watching your channel Miss Pea… I had no idea what I was getting myself into, and I needed help! The rest is history… together 5 years now, married for two years, happiest I’ve ever been! ❤️
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Love my Filipina wife. And I’ve never been this happy before. The sweetest kindest women in the world.
How did you meet her?
@ my best friend had a Filipina girlfriend. I wanted a Filipina girlfriend but I was kinda sick of trying to weed through all the scammers online and on the dating sites. When I met her and got to know her better she decided that I was a great guy so she introduced me to her friend. It took a while for us to hit it off because she was working overseas in an Arabic country. Eventually I decided she was what I wanted and she felt the same so I bought out her contract and brought her back to the Philippines for us to start our lives together. It’s been 7 years and I have never once regretted it. We have had issues like every marriage but we never talk about divorce and we work together to resolve every issue. It’s the mindset of marriage is forever that makes it work. Philippines has no divorce so they want to work it out not just go their separate ways. They want to be wives and they know they only get one chance so they are willing to do what it takes to fix the problem. They are not push overs who are weak, stupid, or slaves like western women like to think. They fight to keep the marriage together when western women fight to walk away from their marriages. That’s the biggest difference between western women and eastern women.
Amen...I am the same way with my Filipina wife...nothing but peace and no drama...I still pinch myself.
@ well stop pinching yourself and go pinch her lmao
@@williamdavis7753 How did you meet?
Hi Pea,
I'm still in the U.S. and I'm not even looking for a Filipina to date, but I watched this video all the way through because you're so engaging and informative. Keep up the great vlogs.
Well said I thought the same.
@Joshua, seems like you have some problems with your... heating, writing?
It's FILIPINA, not a Filapina.
Thank you for clarifying that, @@FekalistaGrzybowory-lz8lh . I appreciate it. 👍
When you said she'll be late, I laughed out loud. My wife was late for our wedding. A couple of people told me not to worry, I wasn't left at the altar, etc...
I had been with her for almost a year, and from experience,I expected her to be late. We've been married 26 years, and she's still late.
I’m blessed with my now Filipina wife when we first started dating. When I 1st arrived in Manila Ph, we met each other at the lobby to confirmed we both look like we did in our pictures, I remember she saying she loves fruits so I Google a place where they sell cut fruits and fruit smoothies, this relaxed her for a nice 1st conversation. It went great since she was happy to ask her for a second date, who knew that would lead to a happy marriage with her 🥰
On my first 'date' with my Filipino wife I asked for a kiss and guess what... I got three of the sweetest kisses in my life. There is a long story here but that is for another day.
"I can think outside my own box, no pun intended" 😂now Pea...you know it WAS intended lol your humor is always top notch. Great advice and information as always !! ❤❤❤
And if you invite 100 for your wedding, you had darn well better have food for at least 200. Wonderful people though compared to my neighbors here.
I know I'd love to play lawn mower for you lol Sweet Pea
U mite have 40 guests show up. Varries, my wife's friends felt butt hurt because she married a foreigner. @@johnl9977
A friend of mine married a Filipina, but he brought his wife back. His businesses is here. I can tell they are very happy with each other. Now they have a beautiful daughter. He told me that he needs to stay out of the kitchen, but that's completely normal. She cook's and cleans, while he provides. He's absolutely over the moon with his Filipina wife. Oh and according to him she's an amazing lover too. Family oriented, sweet, loyal... His ex-wife (modern woman) who he has an older son with can not stand it, but he doesn't care. His only business is with his son.
This is great information. Thank you for sharing. I just started talking with a Filipina at work, and this was informative. Since was born and raised in a province and she doesn't ask for much of me. I can already see that famous jealous Filipina stereotype is true with this one. So far worth it to keep going with her, she is loving, and thoughtful. Not to mention super cute.
If I'm ever single and in the Philippines I will know what to expect when I go on a date with a Phillipina! Thanks for the info Pea and by the way you're my favorite You tuber! Have a great weekend Pea 😊
You got it, Douglas - and thanks for the kind words about my channel 👍
This will be interesting to watch on my Friday. Love the background and your top matches with it pea
Thanks for sharing your time with me, Marcos! ❤️👍
Here is your trophy for being #1 vlogger! 😜😘 🏆 😀😁
My first one! 🥇 Thanks!!
@TheFilipinaPea oh, it's past due. You have earned it! You're doing Great, Keep On Keeping On!
Good Morning from all the beat-down unappreciated Men of the West! (Were used to it, doesn’t really take up that much of the day). You’re the best!
You may be beaten down, but come to the Philippines and we’ll lift you up ❤️😆👍
@@TheFilipinaPeaYes, we men in the west are broken from our crazy native women!
I am not beat down I am married to a beautiful Filipina
Well spoke, John. It is inherent in human nature to give love. How beautiful it is to find a place where the woman values that. And it comes without chains and stroke-inducing expectations.
@@TheFilipinaPea😂😂😂 you are right my daughters even take good care of me they all want to cook for me I feel like a king and our kids are the best kids ever and the best part is while they are very well behaved and quite but they will speak up if I forget to say a prayer at dinner or miss someone that needs a prayer
It may sound clichè, but a great first date is to go to the beach together and to then go to the mall for a nice air conditioned movie and to Jollibee. A weekend trip to one of the many affordable resorts is another option if you have known her for a while through an online long distance relationship.
Another great video, thank you Pea. Beautiful as always!
Batman! We need you in the Philippines to fight corruption 🤣👍❤️
@TheFilipinaPea lol I may make my way over there one day 😁
Sorry, Pea, but with my singing voice, if I am going to "Say Anything" it is going to be with a boom box outside her window. Only "In your eyes" by Peter Gabriel.
It's strange to have someone ask. Why are you fat? Why are you bald? But not say I don't want to go without with you again.
One way to find out where she wants to go is to say you have made plans to go out to eat and then say she has 3 guesses as to where. The first guess is where you go.
That's a better trick for western women I think lol
@@justingoodnow851 Probably but I expect every woman has a place they would love to go or a favorite place to eat.
@hiddentruth1982 true, but I get the impression this trick may not work "the same way"
The girl I'm in love with is the most amazing person I've ever met. She never asks for anything, never complains about anything, and is without a doubt my soulmate. I don't know what I would do without her in my life.
Woohoo! Payday and a new video from the amazing Pea! Life is good!!!😊
Marrying a filipina was the best decision if my life. She is the sweetest and most thoughtful person I have ever met. She is happy with a walk around the mall or a stop at Jollibee any time we make plans together. We also go to see the many sites around Davao. Jack's Ridge is a favorite of mine.
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close to being like you. amazing woman
How do you get one in the states?
@whiteranger79 you have to travel to the Philippines, meet one get married and file a i130
What if you can't walk around that well?
@@whiteranger79thousands of Filipina nurses and nurse assistants, so check out hospitals.
I've lived with 200+ nurses for the last 3 years. When U see them on a daily bases you'll pickup on their true personality.
January 14th I'm going to my Philippines home. I'm traveling with Ms. San Juan LVN, we're meeting up with my Filipina wife and will celebrate my reunion.
Hello Ms. Pea!
Thank you for your efforts to help make the differences between the East and West a little less difficult to understand.
And that’s exactly my mission, yes 👍❤️
@TheFilipinaPea Nobody does it better. Your knowledge of both cultures and the ease at which you explain the intricacies of interpersonal relationships, not just romantic endeavors, is wonderful. Winning over the family and friends is just as important, sometimes more important, than winning over the girl. I've been burned before and I'm definitely going to go slower the next time.
Every time I think about or look at my Filipina I get teary because she’s such a beautiful person inside and out. Together over 7 years now ❤
As always great advice Pea. I know I would screw up a first date because my idea of fun would be learning how the shopping at a Ukay Ukay store is like and I know a Filipina knows all the tricks lmao.
Ohhhh she would LOVE that!!
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@@TheFilipinaPea Most thrift stores here in Florida are not worth walking it to. Most of the thrift stores over charge for things they got for free. I made a comment to one of the workers at a thrift store with my Mom and said 5 dollars for a glass bread pan? You can buy a new one at WalMart for 5 dollars . The guy said then go to walmart. I did lmao. But because they are asking over prices and are greedy they will not admit they are over priced and end up just closing the Thrift store. I would hope by now you have a pretty good Idea about me and know what I would do. Just in case you didn't. I would walk through the thrift store and see people shopping and point out some of the items they have is the same price new in Walmart or even cheaper in Walmart.
@@danelionheart5881Most of the Salvation Army stores are pretty good about that, so I was more than surprised when I visited one on the east coast of Florida and they were charging antique store prices for stuff that was given to them.
As always... Very useful, especially for the new visitors to the Philippines! Terrific job Pea!!!
Exactly, Joe 👍
Some folks needed to see the differences 😊
Hello Pea,
Thousands of us are here awaiting your newest video.
We all Know it will be great! Salamat dear Pea.
But that’s a lot of pressure, Joe!
I might panic.
I might get flustered.
I might not know what to say!
@@TheFilipinaPea N E V E R !!!
Joe is right. People are waiting, but no need to panic. Just don't change anything. Your concept is great. Presentation is pro level@@TheFilipinaPea
@@michaelhaack3298 Excellent followup Michael!!! 👍
@@TheFilipinaPeai doubt that lol. but perhaps do a gig on how filipinas have a hard time taking compliments -- maybe from your moms always focusing on what's wrong and what you didn't do cleaning house?? etc. obviously i have some experience here. miss msging w you
Pea, it never ceases to amaze me how you are able to pick topics that are of particular interest to your subscribers, but also that you are able to offer information of which we would like the inside story. Any commercial organisation would have a dozen researchers to gather the information that provide. You are a superwoman !! Thanks for your hard work.😘
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Thank you, Miss Pea, for the advice.
When you mentioned the chaperone, I immediately thought of Robin Williams in Good Morning Vietnam when the whole village showed up for dinner and a movie.
I personally wouldn't care about chaperones for the first date so that she could feel comfortable, but only the first date.
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As usual, great suggestions and thoughtful considerations. Pea, you never fail to inform foreigners and filipinas too if they choose to follow your vlogs.
My first date went to Starbucks and then walking the mall. I was surprised when she showed up with her “Auntie” for the entire date.
Thanks for the video Pea this really helps me what to do for our relationship😂you never miss with your content I love them so much❤❤❤
Quite a few guys have asked me about how to handle a first date 😉👍
I've been following you for several years Peas, and I swear, as the years go by, you get more and more lovely. Your'e just an incredible woman.
The topic was good today and I've never seen anything from you that wasnt just awesome. Take care and I'll see you on the next one!
Mark, in Dallas.
Thanks so much for all your efforts.😊
Thanks even more for appreciating them ❤️👍
Right after she met me at ninoy aquino airport we went and got a quick bite. She really couldn't wait to get me back to the hotel she reserved for the two of us. Her comment as I got out of the shower was "good it's as big as I hopped" I knew we were off to a good start, we have been married 9 years now and I'm still in Heaven.
She wasn't uncomfortable enough with you to accept the date, so why is she uncomfortable being on one with you alone. Punctuality is 2nd only to honesty for me, if she's late she will be dining alone. TIME is the greatest commodity a person has to give, it is finite, don't let anyone else WASTE your time. She's been getting ready her whole life, she knows how long it takes, she's showing she has no time management and decision making skills. She's proving to me she's not interested in me as a person because she wasn't excited enough to be there on time to be with me, same as not turning her phone OFF and putting it away without having to be asked. Besides, is it REALLY a smart thing to leave a foreigner standing around outside alone, she may not have been in a hurry to be there on time, but there are LOTS other Filipinas that are in the right place at the right TIME. Same reason for her wanting to pick the guy up at the airport, so she can get her claws into him before he can see all the eye candy throwing themselves at him there. One thing I'd say is, if you think there is a strong possibility with her, you BOTH need to HONESTLY talk about your expectations and intentions with each other early on, if they don't align, you can go your separate ways before anyone gets hurt.
I wish you good luck with your life of solitude.
you are not going to be going on any dates in the phils then. they never turn up on time
@@paultrgnp You try to make it sound like the end of the world. I've been on my own for around 25 years. I come and go as I want, do what I want, no nagging, spend my money how I want, and don't have to answer to any one. There's also this little thing called FRIENDS, so I'm not alone. In the Philippines you can't walk 100ft. without dozens of people trying to talk to you, and there's a lot of women that would be happy to sit down for lunch or dinner without it being a "date". I think it would be far harder to actually find some solitude there.
It's good that you don't compromise your standards. The outcome is usually never worth it. Finding someone to meet your standards won't be easy and is no guarantee of success. Finding and having what you want is always better. You only live this one life. Live it on your terms.
It's been a pleasure to see your channel go from strength to strength. While I watch a number of channels on the Philippines with varying levels of interest and consistency I rarely miss one of your videos. I know you are the last to want to do comparisons but unless I'm missing something you are easily the best and most popular among the channels produced by Filipinos (and above the vast majority produced by expats).
The effort you put into the production is what makes the difference. There are other attractive Filipinas producing videos but none are close to your level of quality.
Well done and keep up the good work.
Even some of the other vloggers call her the queen. lolol. They all have a unique personality and approach. Pea's is more professional and her presentation is fact filled.
Excellent video as always Pea!!
Very Excellent lessons!!! Will prevent many misunderstandings.
My Filipina is amazing. A combination of sweet, shy, adventurous, kind, loyal, funny, intelligent, and naive but entusiastic. We met online on a Christian Philipines dating site and I came to visit her in person after about three months. My experiences with her are the polar opposite of dating in the US. If you have a good heart and good intentions, things may suddenly move forward very quickly in a most wonderful way. She is a professional; a teacher with a master's degree and places like Jolibee are a treat for her. A lot of our dates are simply a meal and a walk in a park, town center or boardwalk. We both like this a lot better than a movie as it gives us quality time together where we can talk and get to know each other more. Mine is NOT late, a rare trait. Her father was in the military and then was a policeman and instilled the importance of being on time in his three kids.
Nice to see the view of a Filipina. Now that I heard what you said, it reminds me when I first dated my wife over 25 years ago! Thank you Pea!
Always thankful for your experience Pea. Merry Christmas 🎅
Thanks! Merry Christmas to you too, Salvador! ❤️👍
My current LDR Filipina girlfriend exhibit most of this characteristic.
I had another Filipina, but she was so American and educated that even her accent was like that of an American, but she breakup with me due to distance.
My current Filipina has on a high school diploma and her English is not great, but I have been helping her with that. She more traditional and I like it.
I cant wait to experience this since i already have a girlfriend i wonder how things will be different in person great video pea 🙏❤️😘
I hope you’ll be so familiar with her that all the differences will hardly be noticeable ❤️
Hi, Pea.
...and always let the ads play
J O H N! You’re right on time as always ❤️👍
How can we impress Prettiest Pea, You are getting more attractive and love your humor and informative shows . Thanks for your good work, we men around the world love you !!!!
Morning from Texas Pea! Very enlightening video
SotR!! I might be coming your way soon 😉👍
@ would love that! Probably flying into Houston international, I live just 45 minutes north of there, maybe I could actually meet you 🤔
I've also noticed that the people that you've interviewed none of them have been as well spoken as you you are very articulate
❤❤❤ great video P… so informative and practical …would be so grateful to have the opportunity one day😉
You will, Marc - you will 🙏❤️
I would say, for me personally, at the first "meet and greet" it would be fine for her to bring a friend. If it helps her feel at ease, and more comfortable, I'm all for it, although I would say I wouldn't necessarily classify it as a "first date." Having a friend for her to help keep the conversation going would be beneficial for all of us. If it progresses further, I would at that point ask for exclusivity. I will, however, totally put her on the spot, and ask her to pick places to go and ideas of things to do, since it will help me get to know her better while also showing how decisive she is, as well as how she deals with pressures of daily life. Although not entirely ideal for her, I think it shows a few things about her character, including her interest level (in my mind, if she's into you, she'll choose just to have time with you) as well as how she deals with situations that are uncomfortable, because let's be serious about relationships, they're a series of uncomfortable situations with someone you should be completely comfortable being around. There's give and takes from both, sacrifice, exchanges of cultural norms all leading up to the most important part of a relationship... Trust.
Sounds like you’re ready to give it a go 👍👍😊
@@TheFilipinaPea I would be, but if I remember correctly, you're already taken 😉😅
Miss Pea, you are in Greece! 😀 Lots of good info in this one. Thanks for sharing it! Hope you have a great weekend. 💕
Love your videos!! Have not seen such logic and reasoning, and a beautiful woman before. You are refreshing.
Well I sure do appreciate your gift, Rich! I’ll try to be even more logical in the future 🤣👍
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I experienced my very first date since arriving in the Philippines a week ago!
A dark skinned beauty & sweeter than most. Such an underrated fruit. Valuable tips as always. Thanx Pea !!
Are you still dating her?
Are you still dating her?
@@tomster7574I gotta say, I'm still enjoying the fruit of this relationship!
Wow
Your videos are amazing
Your English language is absolutely perfect x
❤❤❤ awesome video Ms. Pea, great info not only for Filipino dating but dating in general, another great video from a beautiful intelligent woman ❤❤. Love you and the work you do. My favorite girl from next door ❤❤😂😂
Thanks so much, Bernard 👍❤️
Pea, you deserve an Oscar for your performance. This was an excellent video, with very valuable content. I have already experienced having others appear on a first date...and, yes, he was 1/2 hour late. but, because of you, I was expecting it. She showed up at my hotel restaurant apologizing for being late. She brought her 12-year-old niece and 2children under the age of 5, all on a motorcycle. When she apologized, I gave her a hug and said, "That's OK, you're a Filipina, and I would have been disappointed if you had been on time." She laughed and the whole experience was very warm, and comfortable--thank you for that, Pea--you're awesome. Your advice is very real and it works in the real world. You are a national treasure. We love you.
Why was you dating a guy? You gay? Just asking
You can set your watch by Pea !
I guess I’m not a real Filipina 😆😆😆
@@TheFilipinaPea you are a real awesome Filipino. Your mind is far more broad than that of the average Filipina
I was 35 minutes late for my Wedding,my now Wife was in tears thinking I had done a runner. Truth was there was 2 entrances to the Town Hall and a Sponsor and myself waited at the wrong door. Turned out a Fantastic Wedding,that was 7 years ago and we have not had 1 argument. ❤❤
Yikes! Chopping wood and hauling water is a non-starter!
We met each other for the first time in person in Iloilo. We were taking online for about 2 months. "Coincidentally", we kept running into her sister and cousin in two different malls on two different days. Her parents happened to be visiting her cousin. I took them all went out to dinner at a Filipino restaurant. I must have passed the test because we are coming up on our 11th wedding anniversary in ten days!
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Did you end up constantly buying her sister and cousin lunch? 😉😆
@@TheFilipinaPeaare you trying to point out that love comes from stomach?
@TheFilipinaPea Yes! Your video opened my eyes that the coincidence was no coincidence!
You initiated the dinner? Winner winner.
I know there aren't many ladies there like your guest Glenda, but I would sure like to see her on your channel again. Thanks!
Good evening Ms Pea!
Cannot wait to see what you created for us today!
Well I hope you enjoy spending your time with me ❤️👍
@@TheFilipinaPea Always!!! Everyone enjoys spending time with the Filipina Unicorn.
Its great seeing your videos again after a few months! When you mentioned a filipina changing from the girl who couldn't decide a restaurant it reminded me of Japanese girls (seems they can be worser [the bad ones]). As hispanic ive seen many similarities & wished more of us explored PH as we both have similar actitudes except you guys beat us in being late in profesional settings
Hahua! Got ya. The part about the Filipinos taking me by surprise by six or more all wanting a ride to the store. Well, I would make it a point of stopping and picking up every Filipino standing on the side of the road on my way to town in my old daot van. It was rather entertaining seeing the look of apprehension on their faces of weather or not to squeeze into the back when they saw a smiling foreigner driving. And then when they nervously handed me the 20 Pesos, they were even more shocked when I handed it back to them. I'm sure some of them were quite relieved when I let them out at their stop, thinking they might have made a big mistake getting in the van. Heheheee. :) It was all good. Actually, most of the time we would have great conversations and they would offer suggestions of places to go visit.
That's gold, nice. Tongue in cheek humor.
3rd commentator. Great vedios. Best advice has always been, best way to know is by going there and have first hand experience.
Absolutely 👍👍😊
Great insights
Thanks for that very generous gift, John! You’re always so king to me!
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Hi Pea! I had 2 dates with a filipina here in Virginia and both times she was 20 minutes late and she's been here for 30 years. Haha.
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Old habits die hard!
Lots of Filipinas around VA I’m northern VA and I see them all the time.
@@TheFilipinaPea You can take her out of the Philippines but can't take the Philippines out of here. 😃
@@journeytrials Slimmer pickings here in Richmond.
@@joec68500 I am engaged to one from Leyte! Was there in January!
Hello Pea, I am posting here because I do not know another way to reach you. I would like to thank you so very much. You inspired me to look in the Philippines for love and I think I found it! I will be headed to the Philippines for the first time in July. If all goes to plan and we hit it off like I think we will I will be moving there in the near future if not right then! Your insight on the culture and women have been invaluable. Again thank you from the bottom of my heart.
Busy week here at the Hermit hideaway hope all is good with you and you make it back safe and sound from your ttip Ms Pea.......
I did indeed, and I’m ready for the Christmas insanity 🤣👍
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Thanks! When I first meet my wife family there was two things I think surprised them that I could eat with my hands like them. and put my fingers in a pile of corn meal. And that I enjoyed new things I never ate before.
You sound like an adventurous eater, Mister Dave! And thanks ❤️❤️❤️
Hi Pea, a different dating / Social contrast from the women in the west, but there also are some dating similarities compared to women in the west, hence hidden agendas.
However, it’s refreshing to interact with women who are in their feminine power.
Have a good weekend Pea, and much gratitude ❤😊
You sure have my gratitude for spending your time with me ❤️
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As usual, a good video. This one, however, is an exceptionally good and educational video. When I tune in, I generally don't anticipate leaving a comment. Of late, you have brought up topics that warrant a response. Today, you answered several questions that have assailed me mentally, the assailant has flown the coup. THANKS!
Well then I sure am glad to hear from you, Luther! 👍😊❤️
@TheFilipinaPea , Thanks, Pea. CHEERS!
Wow pea, you look great, i like the ear rings
Well thanks, Scott! ❤️❤️
Thank you, Ms. Pea!! It's really appreciated that you make these videos. I hope to see more soon!
HAPPY FRIDAY Sweet Pea ❤💜💛
It sure is! I’m sleeping in tomorrow 😆👍👍
There's a big difference between older Philippina and younger ladies they have been around the block and know how to work together in a relationship I am 75 my wife is 56
I agree. It's like being with a queen rather than a princess living in a fairytale.
Hey pea! ❤ just wanted to say hi!
I would advise most of all to be yourself. If not it will be sayonara in a short time. I dated my first Filipina(her Mom was) when 23. Her Dad was Mexican. She wanted to go on a hike to a lake so I packed us a lunch. We went out later that night for drinks and dancing. The hike went well. The secret here was we had talked prior to dating as we had mutual friends. It was way easier to date at 23. One of my classmates from high school was in the Navy. He met his wife when stationed in Asia. She was very traditional and he had to court her as she had never dated before. He met her when some sailors all went on a side trip to a Province. Sometimes you never knowhow you will meet or date but it is beat in person.
That sure does help, yes ❤️👍
That thumbnail screams gorgeous ladies. Miss pea videos are amazing on a feel good Friday.
Well four of them are gorgeous and one of them is an imposter! 🤣
Thanks!
That’s extremely generous of you, J! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
My wife stated our first three dates were to coffee shops. Our dates were at 3:30 AM after she finished at the call center and while I was still working night shift U.S. hours. Again her story is "our first three dates were to coffee shops." Must be true... :-) :-) :-)
I’m just glad you found love at 3am - most guys aren’t so lucky 🤣👍
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Hi Pea,
Great advice as always about women from your country.
I recently overwhelmed a young lady. Not a Filipina. She ended up with a long time coworker that could not offer her stability, but is from her own culture and better for her children. Valuable lesson for me. Do a better job learning what the other person also wants, not just their needs.
Steve 😊
I just quit the dating scene. I had a Filipino/American for a few months then she started lying to me. Now she is out. Not going to try again. Fed up with the nonsense.
If you try again, come to the Philippines - a filipino American is just an American 😊
Wow!! That video was so quick for Friday. Okay, have a wonderful weekend! I'll see you on Tuesday. Love you ❤❤❤❤❤
It took a whole minute to open it keeps saying that this is private!
A picture of someone’s privates?
I hope they’re not mine! 🤣
I've dated two Filipinas (not at the same time), but both had been in the US for decades (both were born and raised in the Philippines though). Even though they had been here for a long time, some of the things you mentioned still applied to them.
One thing for sure, and I've noticed this with both Filipinas that I've known AND Filipinos - if they put together a party or some sort of get together, expect LOTS of food - and expect to take some home :)
Good morning, Pea. So this is like my 50th first date. What should I expect?
Don’t worry, it’ll seem like the first - you keep forgetting the previous ones 🤣🤣
A 51st
Hi Pea! 😁 Great video! I was lucky that you started your channel not long after I met my wife... I had met her before the lockdown happened, and had my passport, flight and hotel arranged when all world travel got shutdown... So, I had another 2 years to get to know her, while watching your videos and asking questions about her behavior that made my head spin... 😂 She doesn't really do tampo, but she was buang if she was feeling insecure or jealous, which threw me for a loop! 😂 I'm just fortunate I had you being another filapina that helped me learn about the culture and filapinas, so I was "as prepared as I could be"😂 when I was able to come there in May of 2022. You have continued to be a wealth of information, and you are also a good friend! Take care, and thank you! 🙂❤️
Great informative video Ms. Pea. Great background, loved the "floating" chair you're seated in. I wonder if that was intentional. Either way, great insight.
I’d never pullout of Filipina Pea.
This is a first in person date so the situation is a bit different:
After 11 months of video calling online between Mindanao and Ontario Canada, We were finally able to meet in Toronto.
First things first, went to her lolas apartment where she was staying to meet her, (mano po included), Then we went to a local coffee shop, and eventually jollibee as it was my first time, and boy the chicken was good!) Over the next few days we toured around Toronto together, she takes lots of photos. On the last day for breakfast she did bring a friend from college she hasnt seen in a while, but she offered to pay. it seems like shes an outlier compared to the average Filipina, in a good way. I couldnt imagine spending my life with anyone else. :)
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Hi Pea 🌹
Hi there, Bird!! 🐦 👋😊
@TheFilipinaPea I am always here for you ♥️
Dear Pea! I love this channel. Youre the best!
1st like and comment daily double
I love daily doublers 🤣❤️👍
@@TheFilipinaPea No fair! His connection is on Viagra too! 🤣
Good information Pea. I see it the same in most cultures. You have to start and end in being respectful. Kiss, hug, and other stuff on the first date and after, should be mutual and again, respectful. Intimacy grows as your dating and getting to know each other. If you start in physically then that is what your relationship will most likely be centered on, but if you grow and have your relationship grounded in respect then your love starts with each other emotionally and is a good foundation for a lasting happy future. Then the physical part will fall in place and possibly be better, now that you know and grow with each other... Well, that is just my thoughts LOL
Very Good advice.
Goooood...😎
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It would be interesting to see some street interviews with locals gals to confirm these ideas. Ofc, I trust your ideas are correct, but asking random pinays where they would like to go on a first date with a foreigner, what foreigners should do to make them more comfortable and open to conversations/questions, and how the date should end would be good for us to see and learn from.
What's up Pea. How was your day?
It’s been CRAZY busy, building a house and making videos 👍😊
@TheFilipinaPea Building a house for who?
Has your hair grown… longer!? It is so gorgeous! 😊 I don’t know what you ladies do to have such gorgeous hair, but please continue!
Got some catching up to do on your videos, but I’m glad 😌 I found the time to watch this one.
Yes, it’s down past my butt now 🤣
But please do catch up!! ❤️❤️
Pea! This is a great video! You may find this interesting. Being 30 minutes 'late', having the phone out, the apparent 'shyness', are all behaviors I have seen in business meetings with my Philipino and Philipina counterparts! And yes, food is always brought in and everyone eats together. It takes a bit to get used to, but now it's more like meetings with family. Keep up the good work! Magandang gabi!
I have never had any issues with my Filipina girlfriend. Going on 5 years. But I know that I have given her too much money when she starts eating balut 😅
My girlfriend is very traditional. Doesn't like to do laundry 🙄. Likes cooking fish and rice. Very shy.
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On the topic of your date bringing a friend. Watch out, they tend to bring hot friends. They will also bring someone who speaks good English if they dont. You may find yourself attracted to the friend.
😂 For real. The friend becomes more interesting 😘
What the hell you tube doesn’t like me ❤😂😂😂
Everyone loves Charles!
Even me 🤣❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️