Wow, this is a classic case of parents not realizing what they had until they lost it. She kicked you out of your own home for her stepdaughter, and now she’s probably feeling the consequences of her actions during the divorce. I hope you and your dad are doing better now,at least he showed he cares for you.
Honestly, I’m so sorry you had to go through this. Being kicked out by your own mom for someone who isn’t even her biological child must have been devastating. But good for you for standing up for yourself and siding with your dad,people need to understand that actions have consequences. Has your mom even tried to apologize or make things right???
That’s so painful to read! Your mom should’ve protected and prioritized you, her own child, but instead, she kicked you out for someone else. It’s no wonder you sided with your dad,sometimes people don’t realize how badly they’ve treated someone until it’s too late. I hope your mom learns a lesson from all of this, but honestly, she dug her own grave.
This is such a messy situation, but you handled it perfectly! Kicking you out to let her stepdaughter move in is just heartbreaking and unacceptable-what mom does that? I totally understand why you would stand by your dad during the divorce. I wonder if she ever stopped to think about how her choices would impact her relationship with you.
Your mom seriously kicked you out for her stepdaughter? That’s such a betrayal! Honestly, I don’t blame you one bit for siding with your dad during the divorce. If she chose her stepdaughter over her own child, she’s now reaping the consequences of her actions. I wonder how she feels now that you’re supporting your dad,it’s a clear sign of where her priorities went wrong.
Wow, her mother made such a risky move by financing her stepdaughter using money that was disputed. I don't believe something like this would happen in the real world why because most asset divisions would be frozen before it is distributed
2nd story why cant you women just tell the truth never blind side a man . give him the shoice to be with you if you are pregnant when you get together ok some men might walk away some will say no problem but you will need to get his father to be in the picture as well and to provide support for his child . but lying then expecting the man to forgive him and if you put his name down on the birth cert. and lied to him all this time . yeah that is why men get mad we have that right some men would say no i will adopt that kidor put my name down as his fahter but when you lie then expect him to still pay and except it no maybe it would be best if the courts at child support hearings they give the child to the man and make the woman pay even if it is not that mans kid i bet you women would loose your minds and go all bat crap crazy .so this man has a tough choise .to decide . if i was him and she was already pregnant head of time and failed to say anything to me i would not leave i dont think it depends if i had already be raising the child as my own and my name was on the birth cert . i would say leave it like it is but you have a choice and i think it ia nest you tell him the truth and talk to your ex before you tell the child to make sure there would not be coming after the child later and if he says he wants in then we need to go thru the process to remove my name from the birth cert. then he can back pay all that child support to you which will come back to me which i will put part of it in to the house hold and some into a college fund for him to grow and some in to a escrow accout for the childs future , the man will be welcomed i think every father has a right to be in there childs life if they choose to be even if they ar enot with the mother anymore . thing is the child will have 2 male role models to be a better kid , i am not against step fathers or adopted kids either i my self had a stepfather who later adopted me when my own father decided he wanted nothing to do with his family .blood dont make you a father or a dad nor a mother or a mom .loveing people who love a child no matter what is what a real parent is . a real parent does not have a favorite nor would they treat one better than the other even if one is sick and one is not , treat equal that way there never is one child thinking how the other gets more attention .if you remarry dont just side with your new spoces family over your own . you think you are doing right by saying look give it time but yet you agree with your new spouce about her kids over yours is already setting up for a family split and the lost of a child cause you drove them away .
Wow, this is a classic case of parents not realizing what they had until they lost it. She kicked you out of your own home for her stepdaughter, and now she’s probably feeling the consequences of her actions during the divorce. I hope you and your dad are doing better now,at least he showed he cares for you.
Honestly, I’m so sorry you had to go through this. Being kicked out by your own mom for someone who isn’t even her biological child must have been devastating. But good for you for standing up for yourself and siding with your dad,people need to understand that actions have consequences. Has your mom even tried to apologize or make things right???
That’s so painful to read! Your mom should’ve protected and prioritized you, her own child, but instead, she kicked you out for someone else. It’s no wonder you sided with your dad,sometimes people don’t realize how badly they’ve treated someone until it’s too late. I hope your mom learns a lesson from all of this, but honestly, she dug her own grave.
This is such a messy situation, but you handled it perfectly! Kicking you out to let her stepdaughter move in is just heartbreaking and unacceptable-what mom does that? I totally understand why you would stand by your dad during the divorce. I wonder if she ever stopped to think about how her choices would impact her relationship with you.
Your mom seriously kicked you out for her stepdaughter? That’s such a betrayal! Honestly, I don’t blame you one bit for siding with your dad during the divorce. If she chose her stepdaughter over her own child, she’s now reaping the consequences of her actions. I wonder how she feels now that you’re supporting your dad,it’s a clear sign of where her priorities went wrong.
WTF on the second story.. the contributor is an AO for leaving the story hanging.. no conclusion
She wants to act like you're the unwanted stepchild, then you can treat her like the unwanted stepmom. She don't like it, well boo frickin hoo
Wow, her mother made such a risky move by financing her stepdaughter using money that was disputed. I don't believe something like this would happen in the real world why because most asset divisions would be frozen before it is distributed
2nd story why cant you women just tell the truth never blind side a man . give him the shoice to be with you if you are pregnant when you get together ok some men might walk away some will say no problem but you will need to get his father to be in the picture as well and to provide support for his child . but lying then expecting the man to forgive him and if you put his name down on the birth cert. and lied to him all this time . yeah that is why men get mad we have that right some men would say no i will adopt that kidor put my name down as his fahter but when you lie then expect him to still pay and except it no maybe it would be best if the courts at child support hearings they give the child to the man and make the woman pay even if it is not that mans kid i bet you women would loose your minds and go all bat crap crazy .so this man has a tough choise .to decide . if i was him and she was already pregnant head of time and failed to say anything to me i would not leave i dont think it depends if i had already be raising the child as my own and my name was on the birth cert . i would say leave it like it is but you have a choice and i think it ia nest you tell him the truth and talk to your ex before you tell the child to make sure there would not be coming after the child later and if he says he wants in then we need to go thru the process to remove my name from the birth cert. then he can back pay all that child support to you which will come back to me which i will put part of it in to the house hold and some into a college fund for him to grow and some in to a escrow accout for the childs future , the man will be welcomed i think every father has a right to be in there childs life if they choose to be even if they ar enot with the mother anymore . thing is the child will have 2 male role models to be a better kid , i am not against step fathers or adopted kids either i my self had a stepfather who later adopted me when my own father decided he wanted nothing to do with his family .blood dont make you a father or a dad nor a mother or a mom .loveing people who love a child no matter what is what a real parent is . a real parent does not have a favorite nor would they treat one better than the other even if one is sick and one is not , treat equal that way there never is one child thinking how the other gets more attention .if you remarry dont just side with your new spoces family over your own . you think you are doing right by saying look give it time but yet you agree with your new spouce about her kids over yours is already setting up for a family split and the lost of a child cause you drove them away .