By the grace of God he has brought me out of a narcissistic relationship. I’m a witness that the pain, confusion, devastation and despair will pass. I hurt for so long at times I didn’t think it would end, but it did. There where days all I did was cry. I couldn’t even lift my head. Even now it hurts at times but I know now that this to will pass. Cry when you need to cry and talk to God like you would a friend. Give it all to him. Cast your cares on him because he cares for you. The father draws near to the broken-hearted and he Will comfort you....if you let him. Speak positive affirmations over your self out loud everyday! Be kind to yourself and patient. Learn to love you again. I pray healing and comfort to all. God bless you and keep you, in the name of Jesus.
Thank you, God bless you and I pray for us all to have strength and to push all wickedness away from us. We need to support each other were in it together, let's feed off of each and get past this bad time in our lives.
Thank you for sharing your experience, I’m going through this right now and feeling that same way but God has been giving me discernment and showing me that He is with me. He has also given you and I wisdom enough to understand what it is we’re going through. I thank God for leading me to Pastor Blakes and I thank Him for letting me know that I am not alone in my pain. May God continue to bless and keep you Angie.
My narcissist is trying to contact me after a year and a half and I've gone completely no contact. I don't talk to him, reach out to him..... absolutely nothing. He doesn't exist to me. He hasn't changed, and it will just be another cycle of abuse and gaslighting. I am healing and in a much better place, I'm not going back there.
When someone tells you something that is meant to confuse the truth. In other words you already know the truth and they continue to try to convince you otherwise. A common tactic of narcissists to make you doubt yourself and to feel like you are losing your mind. Hope that helps.
Me ex that was a narcissists recently contacted me from a different number after 4 years of no contact. I had no words for him and hung up the phone and blocked the number. I wonder if they ever stop trying. Smh
Father God, I cover Pastor Blakes with the Blood of Jesus Christ, as you use him to explose the demonic spirit of Narcissism. Protect him and his family. Let Psalm 91 be his portion. Amen and Amen!!🙏
Pastor Blakes is on point with everything he teaches about narcissism&SOUL TIES‼️ The absolute worst thing I ever did was get myself entangled with this demonic being called a narcissist smh.. wheeeeewwww I cant even began to describe the emotional&psychological torment 😭😩 “longing for your misery to return” is exactly how you feel especially when you’ve become immune and subject to the abuse..and if you break free from them and fall back into the trap LISTEN when they get you back in it’s 7times worse it’s INSANE ..and they know exactly what they are doing down to the T‼️
Yes the anxiety and panic...the heaviness, the brokenness. I have had to read the bible and pray with many tears...continually. I thought I had the love of my life...then suddenly discarded by the narcissist as if I never existed to him.
I know it hurts but try not to see it as a reflection of your worth. By his actions he is showing you what he thinks of you. Your worth and value come from God alone, he paid the ultimate price for you. Run to him and get around good Christian's and build yourself up in who God says you are, then you will know the kind of treatment that you deserve. You are precious and are always on God's mind. He has engraved your name on the palms of his hand. The enemy uses men to lead us away from God and to destroy us. God will bring the right man at the right time but now is a time for God to minister to you and heal you. God bless. Xxx Jeremiah 29 v 11.
@@joannhayden6575 it's my pleasure. I just know what it's like. If not for the Lord I would still be making a hash of my life, but his love is worth far more than anyone's. Get to know Him, he's worth it and forgive those men, they are still lost.
I’ve been on this roller coaster for 2years & this final discard that led to me ending it he had the audacity to walk around my house (emphasizing on the My House) as if I never existed in this world or to him. How you walk in or around somebody house without speaking to them or acknowledging them
I've been free for 3 yrs and still struggling from time to time😔. I'm just putting one foot in front of another and keep holding on to God. Your message are always on point.
It's been 2 years I kicked the Narc Demon😒 outa my life and oh 🙆boy.. Yess I sometimes cry thinking how could I let myself be with someone so emotionally stunted and that's okay..Let your feelings and tears out..but I will Tell y'all.. 🙏🏻👻 Your Girl Has Never been Happier & Calmer 🙏🏻💓🌹🤗👻 These Two years Have been the Time of Healing and Smiles😊🤗💓🧚♀️🌹
I departed my abuser on 10/25/19...I saw the discard for months. I endured physical abuse also for years.I feel so safe and relieved,I kept praying overtime for the strength to just leave....and relieve me of the torture that I endured and accepted ....I thank God everyday since I left..I also want to thank Mr.Blakes for all the encouraging videos...."It's only been a couple days but I feel at peace in my soul that I though was gone and lost, forever.....I will continue to strive to get better everyday.
Pastor, I wanted to leave a comment expressing my deepest gratitude to you for helping women navigate such difficult relationship problems and being a comfort and guidance for us all. I have watched every single one of your videos and I honestly don't know what I would have done without your influence. You have truly helped me more than you will ever know. This particular message brings me to tears because of how compassionate and understanding you are regarding the pain involved in this process. I wish my own father would have been able to comfort me like your videos have during such challenging times, and I know I speak for many women. Thank you again and God Bless you and your family.
My therapist told me that a relationship with a narcissist is like being addicted to a drug. You actually become addicted to the chaos and abuse. When you walk away you are going to go through the painful detox process which could last months. When you finally work through the withdrawals you eventually find true inner peace. When you find this, you will love this more than anything. This peace becomes the most wonderful feeling in the world.
Shawna Ludlow Honestly, i believe in the popular saying that “don’t trust too much because that too much might hurt you so much”. A Narcissist partner is not to be trusted. My greatest dissappointment was discovering my wife cheating on me through the help of Cyberhackingsage who helped cloned her cell phone. All i did was share my wife’s number with Cyberhackingsage and i got access to her Facebook, WhatsApp and text messages both deleted and incoming ones with a link on my phone. Contact him, he’s a genius. ( cyberhackingsage@gmail ) thank me later.
Thank you pastor. You are helping with the "trauma bond" listening to you something clicked. God revealed to me that I am in the fight of my life for my soul. A STRENGTH flooded me. I could fill the armor of God on me. That I ALSO had to use my will to fight for my SOUL to keep my soul for God. That the feeling of addiction for this demonic spirit is the veil to lose my soul to the devil thru this demonic spirit. I choose God & I submit to God I NOT only give myself to God, I use my will to CHOOSE GOD & I WILL FIGHT FOR MY SOUL! THANK YOU PASTOR!! GOD USES YOU IN WAYS YOU DON'T KNOW. IT has been 13 days since I have heard from my ex narcissist. The past 5 days I have been wanting to contact him. My mind HASN'T let me. After listening to you tonight & God GIVING me this revelation. That urge is gone to contact him & I feel a renewed supernatural strength of a warrior....God's warrior! I love you too pastor! God bless you!!!
Amen Judith!! Victory is yours and I too draw strength from your story because I understand each point you mentioned above. Paator RC Blakes has been set on our paths as reminder of whose we are and in that strength. Who we are!! Gods children and no weapon against us shall prosper 🙌🙏 # forward and onwards!!
It comes in waves dear...when you get weak..pray that God will help you stay strong cause the healing is as traumatic as the relationship itself. 5 months out of mine..the minute you feel better...it seems to creep up on you. God is the only one that can help you with this. God bless good work breaking free.
Thank you ladies! Praise God for you! God is good all the time. I woke up this morning feeling at complete PEACE. I feel the strength of peace. Yes that comes from God & in the knowledge of what I am TRULY dealing with. We have to know our ENEMY in order to defeat our ENEMY. This is spiritual warfare. The devil DOESN'T just want to DESTROY & devour us here on earth, he wants our soul, our love & for us to worship him. He wants to replace God. NEVER gonna happen with me! I now know what I am up against. That is the truth behind the demonic LIES of the narcissist. I AM going to SHAME the devil & tell the truth & stand in the TRUTH in MY ARMOR OF GOD!! I REALIZE this is not a natural break up. I fell for a demonic spirit out of ignorance NOT knowing what is till Pastor Blake's explained what it is. I'm not stupid. I knew he had issues but no CLUE demonic spirits. I WAS A sheep amidst a wolf. Yes God will deliver us but when God speaks I listen. And when God tells me that I am in spiritual warfare & to put my armor of God on to help save my soul because I have free will to CHOOSE GOD WHICH I DID instead of Satan. Than that is EXACTLY WHAT I AM GOING TO DO. I KNOW THE DEVIL DOESN'T GIVE UP EASILY. Pastor is right this IS spiritual warfare. That has nothing to do with the loss of the LIE we were fed. The devil is a liar. I am NOT saying I have won the war. I am NOT naive. I know the battle is NOT over. BUT GOD HAS GIVEN ME A RENEWED STRENGTH, WISDOM, & ARMOR TO FIGHT THIS BATTLE TO WIN. GOD DELIVERS US BUT THERE ARE TIMES WHEN GOD CALLS US TO STEP UP & I AM STEPPING UP. I have a true clarity. I didn't lose a relationship or future....I didn't even lose time the last 6 YRS. I fell for a LIE from the devil that I was NOT equipped for......I NEVER knew what a narcissist was NOR EVER heard about one....this is a pure lesson in spiritual warfare. And we all NEED to learn this lesson well. We are in a world of EVIL on rise if not close to the majority. Believing in the LIE & NOT protecting yourself will take you down the wrong road. Yes God DELIVERS us. But he also calls upon us too.
JUDITH U Stated "THE VEIL". IN 2017 GOD EXPRESSLY SPOKE TO ME IN PRAYER "DON'T BREAK THE VEIL OF PROTECTION". I RESEARCHED I TRIED TO UNDERSTAND BUT I DO NOT THINK I RECEIVED THE FULL REVELATION UNTIL I READ WHAT I WROTE ABOUT THE " VEIL", AS IT PERTAINS TO "ADDICTION". WOULD YOU WRITE BACK AND FURTHER EXPLAINE?
It took me a year of pain, anxiety, depression, bitterness and shame yo get over a narcissistic relationship. I had to pray alot and ask God to help me forgive and move on. I cut conmunication completely and started working on rebuilding my new life. I lost much weight as well as my self confidence and ability to express myself. Im working on regaining this. So thankful for these teachings. They have helped alot
your heart will have to break before you can begin to heal... attempting to help my 79 year old mother to understand that her 57 year marriage to my narcissistic father has been abusive and demonic... she is the most wonderful mother, and has been abused and treated horribly nearly her entire life by this sick, sick man... please pray for her understanding and allowing the Holy Spirit to work in her life and help her to see the truth. Thank you Pastor Blakes
PLEASE 🙏 Let her watch these videos with you! I believe it's NEVER Too Late to be Set FREE!!! I can't even imagine! JESUS 🙏 CHRIST I was with mine for 18yrs.
Do not worry you got this, lean on God because it took me 10yrs to leave a unmarried relationship. And after 2 months of leaving, I called him and told him I forgive him.
Its been 2yrs. He finally got the message and left me alone. Im still healing from the damage he cause me.had to be strong trauma bonds are real.single and trying to be happy will be a very long time before i get in another realtionship.
tina davis Honestly, i believe in the popular saying that “don’t trust too much because that too much might hurt you so much”. A Narcissist partner is not to be trusted. My greatest dissappointment was discovering my wife cheating on me through the help of Cyberhackingsage who helped cloned her cell phone. All i did was share my wife’s number with Cyberhackingsage and i got access to her Facebook, WhatsApp and text messages both deleted and incoming ones with a link on my phone. Contact him, he’s a genius. ( cyberhackingsage@gmail ) thank me later.
It's been 2 years I kicked the Narc Demon😒 outa my life and oh 🙆boy.. Yess I sometimes cry thinking how could I let myself be with someone so emotionally stunted and that's okay..Let your feelings and tears out..but I will Tell y'all.. 🙏🏻👻 Your Girl Has Never been Happier & Calmer 🙏🏻💓🌹🤗👻 These Two years Have been the Time of Healing and Smiles😊🤗💓🧚♀️🌹
I now understand the true meaning of the wedding vows “until death do us part” Death is when they kill your spirit. When you feel dead inside then you are dead. Time for a resurrection. I’m ready to meet you Jesus. Being born again is the only way.
Thank you Mr Blake for speaking God's truth. I'm a 57 yrs old woman divorcing from a 40 year marriage. My marriage brought me to my knees and emptied my soul. A long relationship with hope deferred is an apt description and feels like death. Thank you for lighting the path forward. May God bless your ministry and life, too. ..Maria
I believe the best way to dont lose a great new partner when you are at this stage is taking it veeery slow and start with a friendship. If he/she is really a good person will understand and be happy to be friends first while you get to know each other. If they push you or leave for that then well, you have your answer!
I am co-parenting with my ex -narc and anytime I have a long conversation with him I feel sick for 4 days. I try to have very little contact with him. This man is a demon.
My God 🙏🏾❤️🙌🏾, Our Father in heaven seems to always use you at the right time to uplift His daughters!! Thank you for heeding to His voice sir 🙌🏾 🙏🏾💕. We truly appreciate you.
Michele Young Honestly, i believe in the popular saying that “don’t trust too much because that too much might hurt you so much”. A Narcissist partner is not to be trusted. My greatest dissappointment was discovering my wife cheating on me through the help of Cyberhackingsage who helped cloned her cell phone. All i did was share my wife’s number with Cyberhackingsage and i got access to her Facebook, WhatsApp and text messages both deleted and incoming ones with a link on my phone. Contact him, he’s a genius. ( cyberhackingsage@gmail ) thank me later.
I've learned in my life that God will sometimes even protect us from ourselves, the hurt, pain and agony of dealing with this is more spiritual than we know, but I'm learning to just keep going, leaning on God and even when it's too hard to go one day at a time, we have to just go one minute to the next, heal, protect and edify us father in the name of Jesus...
A word is enough for the wise and It is also important to apply wisdom when dealing with our partners. I got help from GENIUSTRACKER as he helped cloned my cheating wife’s phone and I got access to all her phone text messages and social media chats without touching her phone. My wife was a cheating Narcissist but I'm glad to uncover her secrets and Infidelity. All I did was share my wife’s phone number with GENIUSTRACKER. I was able to read her recent and deleted messages from my phone without laying my hands on her phone and she has no idea her phone has been cloned. I discovered that my wife has been in a long term affair outside our marriage with so many proofs... Contact this Genius-Tracker via Gmail (geniustracker701) Text and speak to him directly on phone +1 (415) 323-6758. or Via WhatsApp him +1 (724) 330-3252. Thank me later.
Oh the pearls, you are dropping on this video! You are not holding nothing back! My God and My God!You are truly being used to set the captives free! And I am eating it up!🌷🙏🌷🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌
Thank you pastor. As one who left my church (but not my relationship with Christ) before filing for divorce because of the constant pressure to keep trying to pray for and fight for my marriage, it’s refreshing to have my experience and decision validated by a minister of the Word as i walk this journey of personal healing and deliverance
Thank you, Pastor Blakes! I have been devastated emotionally, spiritually, financially, and physically, and socially by a narcissist ex-husband. Your work helps me to find my way out of the darkness and back to the light. I pray to God for support and guidance through this wilderness.
A word is enough for the wise and It is also important to apply wisdom when dealing with our partners. I got help from GENIUSTRACKER as he helped cloned my cheating wife’s phone and I got access to all her phone text messages and social media chats without touching her phone. My wife was a cheating Narcissist but I'm glad to uncover her secrets and Infidelity. All I did was share my wife’s phone number with GENIUSTRACKER. I was able to read her recent and deleted messages from my phone without laying my hands on her phone and she has no idea her phone has been cloned. I discovered that my wife has been in a long term affair outside our marriage with so many proofs... Contact this Genius-Tracker via Gmail (geniustracker701) Text and speak to him directly on phone +1 (415) 323-6758. or Via WhatsApp him +1 (724) 330-3252. Thank me later.
The narcissistic person was the one who actually ended things with me a few days ago. He said that he wants to see where it goes with another woman, but he still loves me smh I find myself wanting to at least be his friend, but I know I deserve a better friendship than that. I just feel like I built him up so much only for him to toss me to the curve without warning. And in spite of how I feel, this is exactly what I asked God for because I knew I wasn’t strong enough to end it, I asked God for him to let me go. At the end of the day God is still good and always comes through.
A word is enough for the wise and It is also important to apply wisdom when dealing with our partners. I got help from GENIUSTRACKER as he helped cloned my cheating wife’s phone and I got access to all her phone text messages and social media chats without touching her phone. My wife was a cheating Narcissist but I'm glad to uncover her secrets and Infidelity. All I did was share my wife’s phone number with GENIUSTRACKER. I was able to read her recent and deleted messages from my phone without laying my hands on her phone and she has no idea her phone has been cloned. I discovered that my wife has been in a long term affair outside our marriage with so many proofs... Contact this Genius-Tracker via Gmail (geniustracker701) Text and speak to him directly on phone +1 (415) 323-6758. or Via WhatsApp him +1 (724) 330-3252. Thank me later.
10am in the Middle East and it definitely came at the right time Pastor.. God Bless You. The social aspect is definitely a strong hold too.. Good way to detox from everything. #Movingforward. We break the chains. 🙏🙌
Riana Morgan Honestly, i believe in the popular saying that “don’t trust too much because that too much might hurt you so much”. A Narcissist partner is not to be trusted. My greatest dissappointment was discovering my wife cheating on me through the help of Cyberhackingsage who helped cloned her cell phone. All i did was share my wife’s number with Cyberhackingsage and i got access to her Facebook, WhatsApp and text messages both deleted and incoming ones with a link on my phone. Contact him, he’s a genius. ( cyberhackingsage@gmail ) thank me later.
Finally a man/Pastor that really gets it and helps us victims of narcisstic abuse so well! I am so grateful and thank God for you Pastor Blakes! God bless you! You are such a blessing and more than you can ever know! Thank you!!!!!
I was searching for this help and you appeared in my search on Utube. I praise God every day that I found you videos to help me through this journey of letting go of my narcissists husband 🙏🏼 ❤️ I am in therapy and your videos gives me the courage every day and night 🙏🏼💕
I needed this. I broke off all contact with my ex almost 3 months ago. We were together only 6 months and the games he played with me almost daily has left me unrecognizable. I'm seeing a therapist but I still can't seem to shake it. Thank you for this 💕
A word is enough for the wise and It is also important to apply wisdom when dealing with our partners. I got help from GENIUSTRACKER as he helped cloned my cheating wife’s phone and I got access to all her phone text messages and social media chats without touching her phone. My wife was a cheating Narcissist but I'm glad to uncover her secrets and Infidelity. All I did was share my wife’s phone number with GENIUSTRACKER. I was able to read her recent and deleted messages from my phone without laying my hands on her phone and she has no idea her phone has been cloned. I discovered that my wife has been in a long term affair outside our marriage with so many proofs... Contact this Genius-Tracker via Gmail (geniustracker701) Text and speak to him directly on phone +1 (415) 323-6758. or Via WhatsApp him +1 (724) 330-3252. Thank me later.
Divine timing ❤️ Thank you I feel very certain that my last relationship was with a narcissist. At the time I just thought he was heavily damaged, a lonely alcoholic and pot addict. I ran all the way back across the globe to put distance between us. At the time I left I knew I was doing the absolute best thing. For the past year and a half I have blamed, questioned and at times beat myself for my choice to leave. I have tried many things to get back, but thankfully none of them has worked. It is definitely a process. I feel like I am finally making good headway on the other side of it. This is due to much soul searching, prayer and analysis of not just what happened to me, but why I allowed it and how I reacted to it. Your videos have helped me tremendously and I thank you.
It's been 2 years I kicked the Narc Demon😒 outa my life and oh 🙆boy.. Yess I sometimes cry thinking how could I let myself be with someone so emotionally stunted and that's okay..Let your feelings and tears out..but I will Tell y'all.. 🙏🏻👻 Your Girl Has Never been Happier & Calmer 🙏🏻💓🌹🤗👻 These Two years Have been the Time of Healing and Smiles😊🤗💓🧚♀️🌹
Speaking as someone who got all of his relationship advice from the street or emotionally void men, it’s never too late and his wisdom is right on time 🙏🏾
Sheritha North Honestly, i believe in the popular saying that “don’t trust too much because that too much might hurt you so much”. A Narcissist partner is not to be trusted. My greatest dissappointment was discovering my wife cheating on me through the help of Cyberhackingsage who helped cloned her cell phone. All i did was share my wife’s number with Cyberhackingsage and i got access to her Facebook, WhatsApp and text messages both deleted and incoming ones with a link on my phone. Contact him, he’s a genius. ( cyberhackingsage@gmail ) thank me later.
James Cole I think getting to the bottom of things sometimes cn give you a sense of PEACE I suppose.. knowing the truth.. I particulary didn't and don't wish to be in ANY relationship that would result me to the above... its just not healthy I'd rather depart than to spend one one moment more in a relationship where there's no TRUST.. whether it be me or my partner not trusting... 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
“The moment I decide to do good, the sin is there to take charge of me.” Profound. In God I must surrender and consistently pray to safe guard us from slipping into sins. Amen🙏🏾
You have explained this process so well better than anyone ive come across, wish i had come across your videos earlier.. insightful wisdom for anyone because its a universal language..and for someone who hasnt tasted such a relationship and you have touched in the way you have ..im amazed and yes God his a healer a brethren muslim sister that enjoying your videos, not everyone knows how to speak to all humans.. thank you.. May God continuously bless you with truth..
I am at a point where i know he was not good 4 me and have accepted it, i have healed the hope of anything ever happening with this particular individual. Spent a year and half single but still i aint ready am still transitioning. Am working on trusting again. And gaining my self worth up again😍😘 its a process but all worth it coz u get to discover new found strengths u ddnt know you had in you. Thank you pastor
Nancy McLoughlin Honestly, i believe in the popular saying that “don’t trust too much because that too much might hurt you so much”. A Narcissist partner is not to be trusted. My greatest dissappointment was discovering my wife cheating on me through the help of Cyberhackingsage who helped cloned her cell phone. All i did was share my wife’s number with Cyberhackingsage and i got access to her Facebook, WhatsApp and text messages both deleted and incoming ones with a link on my phone. Contact him, he’s a genius. ( cyberhackingsage@gmail ) thank me later.
My God....Traumatic is an understatement!!!! It’s been 2 years since I left and I’m being stalked, financially abused and humiliated by a RUclips smear campaigned. But I’d walk through the fire once again to get as close with God as I am now. I feel like I stepped out of the matrix. To God be the glory!!! 🙏🏽💞
I’m hurting letting go of a narcissistic man. It’s so painful. I feel so damaged because it was a lie I was holding onto. These videos I feel like God is walking me through it. These videos are so good
Thank you for this clip. I've been a victim of two narcissist relationships. It's time to learn from them and move on with the spirit. My heart is in God's hands.
It's been 2 years I kicked the Narc Demon😒 outa my life and oh 🙆boy..Its been Peace🧘♀️💓🤗 Yess I sometimes cry thinking how could I Let myself be with someone so emotionally stunted and that's okay..Let your feelings and tears out..but I will Tell y'all.. 🙏🏻👻 Your Girl Has Never been Happier & Calmer 🙏🏻💓🌹🤗👻 These Two years Have been the Time of Healing and Smiles😊🤗💓🧚♀️🌹
It took me a year ladies it does get easier the mind is a powerful thing the enemy loves it the overthinking the struggling to get over his minion aka the Narc uncle RC is God sent ladies go no contact redirection keep your Bible open fast and pray ask God to give strength to move on
I went no contact, but he still be in my head,over thinking, i pray and adk god to erase his memory,from me,the triggers, the betrayal today was hard, but im stll here.
I've been no contact for 26 days.....I asked him to leave.....but he didn't take his clothes and massive amounts of tools.....everyday I pack up his things .......I found a clean out company to help me get his stuff into a storage unit.......and out of my home.......I'm so thankful to all these people that have commented....... I've been praying for guidance and strength......
stayundergodlsm My sister I'm praying for and with you... this thing is real... and so many women and men alike r literally fighting for their life... the hardest thing to overcome is accepting and believing that this person could knowingly treat you in this manner... and the sickening and sad truth is.. it's all orchestrated and it gives them great pleasure to do it over and over again knowing the pain it causes.. I just can't 4 the life of me wrap my mind around a mindset such as this... stay STRONG .. keep praying and stay the course..,everything in this video is strategic and GOD sent... 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾🤗🤗🤗🤗😘😘😘
@@feliciacarrington681 I know the memories are so hard I struggled alot of crying and sleepless night asking myself why couldn't I see the mind games why did God make me such a forgiving sweet person but time does heal the wound keep ur head up
Not all narcissistic relationships are sexual, some narcissists are not interested in affection or intimacy. Some Deny you warmth, love and all intimacy holding you at arms length. Withholding and cold after the initial 3 month period a switch is flipped and you wake up to a complete stranger.
Completely agree. The assumption we stayed or married for sex is misplaced. Or even “we made a mistake” is misguided. Not that I am blameless, but even God said that he allowed Satan to mess with Job’s blessings. What I noticed about being in a marriage with a narcissist is that there was no flexibility with the other person. He was quick in his anger. The opposite of God-like, even if I was. That means he had a “hard heart” and that is not on me-meaning, I did not make a mistake. But I appreciate the video. It was enlightening outside of that.
Exactly! My narcissist is my Mother. She forever tried to bring me down on my knees and be stripped of my self esteem and the truth. God showed me clear as day what she has been doing to me for decades. It's hard to let go of my own Mother but it's something that I must keep doing for my own peace of mind and to keep the confidence that I fought to build over many years. No more will I accept narrcistic people in my life. No matter who they are!
Going on 3 yrs now trying to release myself from this man. I walked away, blocked, thought I moved on, the things have occurred and my mind or heart has brought me back to this place. Strongholds are real! I’ve had dreams of breaking free, but more dreams of this person still being in my life. Soul ties do exist! Woke up this morning and had to pray myself through tears. God please clear my heart and mind. God help me to focus on the desires you have for me. 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽💛🙌🏽
Currently trying to remove myself from a narcissistic relationship & I can testify that there is deep social & physiological effects. Unfortunately I had to leave the church we attended & it truly is a process where your almost undergoing a rebirth of a new mindset, social circle etc.
A word is enough for the wise and It is also important to apply wisdom when dealing with our partners. I got help from GENIUSTRACKER as he helped cloned my cheating wife’s phone and I got access to all her phone text messages and social media chats without touching her phone. My wife was a cheating Narcissist but I'm glad to uncover her secrets and Infidelity. All I did was share my wife’s phone number with GENIUSTRACKER. I was able to read her recent and deleted messages from my phone without laying my hands on her phone and she has no idea her phone has been cloned. I discovered that my wife has been in a long term affair outside our marriage with so many proofs... Contact this Genius-Tracker via Gmail (geniustracker701) Text and speak to him directly on phone +1 (415) 323-6758. or Via WhatsApp him +1 (724) 330-3252. Thank me later.
I totally agree I am a witness to this I was in a narcissistic relationship for 3 yrs and I am dealing with pain,confusion and spiritual warfare right now
I felt that touch when you said just sit and talk with God. I was married to a narcissist and it truly has left me with some issues that I have had to seek God for deliverance from. Your series has truly assisted me. I had never heard of you and I was looking for something else and the Lord brought me to your page and it has truly blessed me in my time of need, healing and transition.
Tonja Gilson Honestly, i believe in the popular saying that “don’t trust too much because that too much might hurt you so much”. A Narcissist partner is not to be trusted. My greatest dissappointment was discovering my wife cheating on me through the help of Cyberhackingsage who helped cloned her cell phone. All i did was share my wife’s number with Cyberhackingsage and i got access to her Facebook, WhatsApp and text messages both deleted and incoming ones with a link on my phone. Contact him, he’s a genius. ( cyberhackingsage@gmail ) thank me later.
Glory to God!! God lead me to your messages this week. Thank you God for continued healing ! My divorce from a Narcissist was just finalized on October 1st of this year. Everything that you have said is what I have experienced.
Fasting prayer reading scripture listening to Godly music. Will help people brake free from the ties that bind. I had to ask God to remove him from my heart. This has helped me.
Narcissistic abuse causes brain damage. Would we expect to be acting normal after being hit in the head with a blunt force object and having a brain bleed? So why do we expect to have a normal recovery from the damage done to the brain by a narcissist? Only time and self-care heals the injury but you must get away from the narcissist so the damage does not continue! And likewise you would not expect to live if brain damage became repeated/chronic, don't expect to survive the continual abuse from a narcissist. Once you know, you go! ~Helen Sadler ruclips.net/video/jgcnN_07nGA/видео.html
THANK YOU SOOOOOOO MUCH! God sent me to this channel to hear this word.. I prayed today, and this was the confirmation from my prayer!!!!! May god continue to bless you mightily!!! 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Here I am founding and listening to this message for the first time today in 2024, and the peace I feel in my soul at the end. Even 4 years later, your message is still touching hearts, and I receive this prayer at the end. I believe God for my healing and restoration. Thank you Father God!
Thank you!! We love you too. You are truly walking me through this horrible pain. You are my therapist because the “professionals” have let me down smh. You are doing GODS work! GOD bless you! 🙏🏽💙🦋
All of your sermons have really ministered to me and help me break free. Thank you for being obedient to the Holy Spirit and sharing what God would have you share. You are a great servant of his and I appreciate your love and your ministry
On the back end of this journey and you are so very correct. Focusing on purpose and connecting with God helped tremendously!! Once plugged in, God embraced me and starting blessing me so much I didn't have time or energy to think about the narcissist or the past memories!! I actually had a period of time that I felt guilty for being so happy!
"Lights camera action" is exactly right. I go to divorce court on Wednesday, and I'm so happy to come across your videos and several others about "narcissist". I had no idea until now what I was dealing with and now I know how powerful my silence is. Thank you so much!
I was suddenly discarded by a prosocial narc who duped me and all the people at church and our small group. I fell in love with a man that was fake. It has been extremely hard to get through. Much pain and depression since the discard. God is holding me through it....I just want the pain and missing him to stop!
Lord how mercy did this speak volumes to my heart and life. It’s amazing how I was married and divorced a narcissist. I was shut down and refused to date because of my first marriage. I finally forgave my ex after having much counseling and strangely let my guards down to date again.... I attracted another narcissist! But God’s grace and wisdom allowed me to end that in two weeks instead of enduring 11 years of that unhealthy marriage I was in. I was anxious , tried of the wait and open to love and almost settled. I now know my value and worth , I am a queen and will allow God’s will to prevail... not mine.❤️
Thank you for this excellent teaching. I am transitioning out of a narcissistic relationship with my mother. It was the most abusive, painful, and tormenting relationship in all my 51 years on earth. I am healing slowly but surely and learning to rediscover myself and finding my true calling/purpose is where I am at. Please pray for me. It was truly a demonic attachment.
Pastor Blakes, I appreciate you and your wife. I have been able to begin to heal and move forward in my life without the narcissistic abuser I was married to. Watching your videos has helped bring clarity to my situation. I thank God that you’ve been obedient and made these videos and written the books. I am now reclaiming myself and my life. Thank you, thank you, thank you!
I've been no contact since 2018, he still stalks, comes in my complex, and even though he's with another woman he even disrespects her. No contact is the right way to go. Thank you for your prayers and teachings.
By God's grace... I'm FREE!!!!!!! Thank you Jesus & Thank You Pastor Blakes for taking time out of your life to teach me all the things I was blind to. Blessings to you and your family
This is still so relevant and just perfect right now❤ I just left a week ago today. By Gods grace I got out of a very toxic scary situation-ship. Thank you Pastor
Pastor! It depends on someone's spirit that's intune with GOD also!!and how strong that spirit is!!Your right in many way's don't get me wrong! Blessings to you and your family!!💞💖💕👣🙏😘🙏👣😊😊🙋🙋Thank you for all that you do to expose demons!!GOD Almighty and myself got this!! The Lord knows what Ive been through with this relationship! I almost died!! Grand mild seizure and 5 days of coma woke up in nursing home! Had to even retrain myself to walk! I'm home now doing good! Praise GOD ALMIGHTY!!Lesson learned!! There was an esson in that lesson Ive learned well.I choose to forgive myself first not for them and I told him that! Im married to GOD Almighty period! I know he will take care of me period.
Pastor, Pastor, Pastor, that devil has been working on my soul with this narcissistic break that happened 2 years and 5 months ago. I was doing fine for seven months and then all of a sudden, I felt like the break just happened yesterday replaying the entire relationship. 😥😥😥 The only thing that has given me some peace is studying my Bible. I will be glad when the thought of him will be a distance dusty memory. Thank you for loving us and walking in your calling. I know that God can only get me through.
Wow!! Lights, camera, action!!!! Those are the EXACT words I always said! That's all he was about!!! You are so on point. You have to realize and accept it was never real!!!
Thank you so much bishop by listening to you GOD delivered me from a Narcissis relationship for almost 5 years!! I’m free it has NOT been easy but I will never look back period! Thank you pastor!
For people like myself, it's so easy to forgive and move on but when the narcissist keeps bothering you afterwards it isn't so easy. You can get away from them in the physical but in the spiritual they find ways to communicate with you without your consent and this makes it hard to forgive. I guess this could be a part of breaking the soul tie.
@Sky Dream yes but you have to block him and if he shows up call the police. I'm far away from then narc who used to stalk me and if I ever see him stalking me again I'm calling the police. Luckily I'm too far away for that to happen again.
If it is dangerous. Please contact dv or state attorney general's office. They can help with a address confidentiality protection program. This keeps your address hidden and you are safe. Prayers for you.
Being in a Narcissistic relationship ( situation ship ) of almost 8 years . At the beginning it was great ! I had prayed to God for a partner a mate and I really thought he was from God. But then he moved in and he changed . Even tho he had no stomach and had a feeder tube I overlooked it bc I loved him . As time went on , he began to cuss me , call me names , blamed me for everything and accused me of things that I did not do. Every day I would cry my eyes out . It was horrible . I would hide it from it my daughter bc her and my little granddaughter lived here with me . I thought i was going crazy . I would talk to some of his friends and some of my friends. Anyhow he couldnt perform sexually but I loved him. There are other ways tho. On social media he would block me and when he unblocked me I saw he had flirted with all the women , saying sweet things to them that he should of been saying to me . In my town he was well known and liked bc he was a musician and could play the guitar really good. He was good looking and had charm. Just recently I have ran into your videos and I have learned alot about being in this kind of relationship. I kept telling people Im leaving him. I told people that I have gone thru breakups before and of course they hurt and were hard, but I moved on ! But with him I just could not leave . I tried and tried ! It was a pulling sensation . I go back he starts it all again . Being mean to me . Calling me a menace to society. I washed his clothes and dried them and delivered them to him . He did move out after he shot himself in the shoulder sitting in my bedroom. Anyhow it was bad really bad . He told lies about me and told lies to me . I told some people that it felt like he had a spell on me .They had no idea what I was talking about ! Thank GOD I RAN INTO YOU AND YOUR VIDEOS . I have bene listening to you for 4 months now ! I am finally getting away from him. Its not a clean break yet . Hes been in the hospital for 4 months bc of a stone in his bile duct and I thought he was going to die . But he just got back to his apt yesterday and I can tell he wants to use me some more and I am not going to allow that anymore ! I deserve alot better ! I want to be happy and I will . I have gotten closer to GOD AND I AM ASKING HIM JESUS AND THE HOLY SPIRIT TO COME INTO MY LIFE AND HELP ME!! THANK YOU SO VERY MUCH FOR TALKING ABOUT THIS ! THE WORLD IS FULL OF THESE DEMONS AMEN
Thankyou Pastor Blakes.your videos are helping me get out of this!!!! I’m back in church and gave my life to God! I’m free!!! I still struggle with this ex narcissist but it’s much easier with the help of God and your videos. I feel like God made me find you! God bless you! And Thankyou!!!!!
This person was gonna be my everything.... not absolutely not... Pastor if you only knew you are speaking my whole life right now. 15 year marriage just separated I left a month and a half ago my whole emotions and beings is so attached to him everything you are saying. It’s like you made this video for me. The last nine months you’ve help me through my decision to leave . I thank God for you. The first time I heard one of you video you was going in on how women needed to level up and honey my life had been change. You’re my new father. Thank you for being the vessel
Iona Windsor Honestly, i believe in the popular saying that “don’t trust too much because that too much might hurt you so much”. A Narcissist partner is not to be trusted. My greatest dissappointment was discovering my wife cheating on me through the help of Cyberhackingsage who helped cloned her cell phone. All i did was share my wife’s number with Cyberhackingsage and i got access to her Facebook, WhatsApp and text messages both deleted and incoming ones with a link on my phone. Contact him, he’s a genius. ( cyberhackingsage@gmail ) thank me later.
You are right on! You are not a therapist but you would never made a good one! I find that if we have or had a love hunger and think that any person can fill that......we will always be disappointed. I came from an alcoholic home, my dad was shut down emotionally. I didn't even know how love starved I was. God has to be first always... Anybody can or will leave at any time. Self love, self care, Knowing who we are I Christ is first and foremost. I love ALL your videos. I wish there was a pastor as real and knowledgeable as you near where I live. You are a gem. God bless you for always speaking truth!!!
Mary Wolfe Honestly, i believe in the popular saying that “don’t trust too much because that too much might hurt you so much”. A Narcissist partner is not to be trusted. My greatest dissappointment was discovering my wife cheating on me through the help of Cyberhackingsage who helped cloned her cell phone. All i did was share my wife’s number with Cyberhackingsage and i got access to her Facebook, WhatsApp and text messages both deleted and incoming ones with a link on my phone. Contact him, he’s a genius. ( cyberhackingsage@gmail ) thank me later.
It cuts deep. Im in the process of transition. I keep allowing him to hoover me. Married for 3 years. We been together for 7 years. God is the head of my life. Im seeing a therapist, and I thank God for her. I thought I wasn't losing my mind. This broadcast helped me in so many ways. Im going to try meditation . Lord I wanna be free. Everything that you Pastor have touched on. I have endured. Keep me in prayer. Thank You!
Yes I felt like that for a long time after I left. I moved to another town and state to stay hidden and no one has my physical address, including family. Because he manipulates them. You are so helpful and help me see the questions I have had. Oh thank you.
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you are amazing and I thank God for you. Your videos are so helpful and deep and I noticed a lot of pastors don't touch on this stuff that I have seen personally. This stuff is life changing and help many ppl in their lives. This is true teaching of The most High!
You are so awesome. I am so pleased to see you dealing with and sharing this subject. 25 years of abuse and lost so much. Healing is a life long I think. Soul ties need breaking I believe. These people Take Everything God bless you. Love and prayers Sir 🙏
It's been 4 yrs. I'm now beginning to beginning to feel like a human being again I felt like I was about to lose my mind I didn't know which way to go but I did call on God's name and I have been listening to you for the past 8 months and you have been helping me through thank you so much after I love you and I will continue to listen to you may God continue to bless you and your family
Thank you for this Pastor Blakes! There are a lot of family members and friends that do not understand this; that even once the individual realizes who they were involved with and decides to emancipate themselves from that fractured individual, it takes a true psychological process. It is easier said than done and I am going through this process right now.
Thank you so much Pastor! I have been battling this for more than one month, cannot seem to shake this demonic person off my mind even though I have cognitively forgiven him, this is the first time I have listened to how to deal with this from a biblical perspective. I am going to start the work of healing by getting with God. Thank you for allowing God to use you to bring healing to some of use. God bless, please keep preaching this subject, there are many like me before who do not even know what they have entangled themselves with. By his grace I receive healing and believe it when you say God has something better for me. Amen!!
I totally thank you for everything. You have changed my life. You are truly a blessing to me, I thank God for your channel. God has healed my broken soul. It’s so hard when you have to co parent with the narcissist. But as God lead me to your video Co parenting with a narcissist it changed my life because I was about to go back down the same road. I’ve been fasting, praying and getting in tuned with God’s will. I thank you so much be blessed Pastor.
lauren donahue Honestly, i believe in the popular saying that “don’t trust too much because that too much might hurt you so much”. A Narcissist partner is not to be trusted. My greatest dissappointment was discovering my wife cheating on me through the help of Cyberhackingsage who helped cloned her cell phone. All i did was share my wife’s number with Cyberhackingsage and i got access to her Facebook, WhatsApp and text messages both deleted and incoming ones with a link on my phone. Contact him, he’s a genius. ( cyberhackingsage@gmail ) thank me later.
By the grace of God he has brought me out of a narcissistic relationship. I’m a witness that the pain, confusion, devastation and despair will pass. I hurt for so long at times I didn’t think it would end, but it did. There where days all I did was cry. I couldn’t even lift my head. Even now it hurts at times but I know now that this to will pass. Cry when you need to cry and talk to God like you would a friend. Give it all to him. Cast your cares on him because he cares for you. The father draws near to the broken-hearted and he Will comfort you....if you let him. Speak positive affirmations over your self out loud everyday! Be kind to yourself and patient. Learn to love you again. I pray healing and comfort to all. God bless you and keep you, in the name of Jesus.
💞 Ms. 90angieb, thank you I'm a witness. But God God is Faithful. You be encouraged.🙏🏾
Thanks for tips. Jus need time to pass so fast ,so tired of the 🤯 day& nights😭.
Thank you, God bless you and I pray for us all to have strength and to push all wickedness away from us. We need to support each other were in it together, let's feed off of each and get past this bad time in our lives.
Thanks, I needed to hear that, I going through this now I really does hurt my soul is broken I know God will repair it.
Thank you for sharing your experience, I’m going through this right now and feeling that same way but God has been giving me discernment and showing me that He is with me. He has also given you and I wisdom enough to understand what it is we’re going through. I thank God for leading me to Pastor Blakes and I thank Him for letting me know that I am not alone in my pain. May God continue to bless and keep you Angie.
"It REQUIRES that you submit to God." POWERFUL
My narcissist is trying to contact me after a year and a half and I've gone completely no contact. I don't talk to him, reach out to him..... absolutely nothing. He doesn't exist to me. He hasn't changed, and it will just be another cycle of abuse and gaslighting. I am healing and in a much better place, I'm not going back there.
You are absolutely correct!
Good for you!! Stay strong 💪
what does gaslighting mean, if I may ask please?
When someone tells you something that is meant to confuse the truth. In other words you already know the truth and they continue to try to convince you otherwise. A common tactic of narcissists to make you doubt yourself and to feel like you are losing your mind. Hope that helps.
Me ex that was a narcissists recently contacted me from a different number after 4 years of no contact. I had no words for him and hung up the phone and blocked the number. I wonder if they ever stop trying. Smh
Father God, I cover Pastor Blakes with the Blood of Jesus Christ, as you use him to explose the demonic spirit of Narcissism. Protect him and his family. Let Psalm 91 be his portion. Amen and Amen!!🙏
Amen to that. He is amazing and his messages are so true.
Amen I am in agreement
Psalms 37
stephanie smith Amen🙏🏾
Preach it!!! I met the polar opposite and thank goodness he is understanding😃
Pastor Blakes is on point with everything he teaches about narcissism&SOUL TIES‼️ The absolute worst thing I ever did was get myself entangled with this demonic being called a narcissist smh.. wheeeeewwww I cant even began to describe the emotional&psychological torment 😭😩 “longing for your misery to return” is exactly how you feel especially when you’ve become immune and subject to the abuse..and if you break free from them and fall back into the trap LISTEN when they get you back in it’s 7times worse it’s INSANE ..and they know exactly what they are doing down to the T‼️
& they don’t regret a thing or feel any remorse they’re never wrong about anything that they do
I irekally can't believe I'm in this trap
Unbelievable. Thanks to pastor Blake for educating me. Its really traumatising.
@@PrincessDani9320absolutely!!!
Wow Wow Wow! You are Right on point! JESUS 🙏 CHRIST!!!
Yes the anxiety and panic...the heaviness, the brokenness. I have had to read the bible and pray with many tears...continually. I thought I had the love of my life...then suddenly discarded by the narcissist as if I never existed to him.
I know it hurts but try not to see it as a reflection of your worth. By his actions he is showing you what he thinks of you. Your worth and value come from God alone, he paid the ultimate price for you. Run to him and get around good Christian's and build yourself up in who God says you are, then you will know the kind of treatment that you deserve. You are precious and are always on God's mind. He has engraved your name on the palms of his hand. The enemy uses men to lead us away from God and to destroy us. God will bring the right man at the right time but now is a time for God to minister to you and heal you. God bless. Xxx Jeremiah 29 v 11.
Thank you for your kind encouragement Cheryl. ♡
@@joannhayden6575 it's my pleasure. I just know what it's like. If not for the Lord I would still be making a hash of my life, but his love is worth far more than anyone's. Get to know Him, he's worth it and forgive those men, they are still lost.
Cheryl Boyd I needed that encouragement myself! Thank you
I’ve been on this roller coaster for 2years & this final discard that led to me ending it he had the audacity to walk around my house (emphasizing on the My House) as if I never existed in this world or to him. How you walk in or around somebody house without speaking to them or acknowledging them
I've been free for 3 yrs and still struggling from time to time😔. I'm just putting one foot in front of another and keep holding on to God. Your message are always on point.
kymistry I’m a year and 1/2 and sometimes I feel guilty that I still struggle but your comment gave me so much hope
It's been 2 years I kicked the Narc Demon😒 outa my life and oh 🙆boy.. Yess I sometimes cry thinking how could I let myself be with someone so emotionally stunted and that's okay..Let your feelings and tears out..but I will Tell y'all.. 🙏🏻👻
Your Girl Has Never been Happier & Calmer 🙏🏻💓🌹🤗👻 These Two years Have been the Time of Healing and Smiles😊🤗💓🧚♀️🌹
I departed my abuser on 10/25/19...I saw the discard for months. I endured physical abuse also for years.I feel so safe and relieved,I kept praying overtime for the strength to just leave....and relieve me of the torture that I endured and accepted ....I thank God everyday since I left..I also want to thank Mr.Blakes for all the encouraging videos...."It's only been a couple days but I feel at peace in my soul that I though was gone and lost, forever.....I will continue to strive to get better everyday.
It will get better..keep going..
@@uwuowo631 thank you for the encouragement
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Pastor, I wanted to leave a comment expressing my deepest gratitude to you for helping women navigate such difficult relationship problems and being a comfort and guidance for us all. I have watched every single one of your videos and I honestly don't know what I would have done without your influence. You have truly helped me more than you will ever know. This particular message brings me to tears because of how compassionate and understanding you are regarding the pain involved in this process. I wish my own father would have been able to comfort me like your videos have during such challenging times, and I know I speak for many women. Thank you again and God Bless you and your family.
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It’s like a long slow exorcism 😳. Stay strong and follow the path to your emancipation 🙏
Yeap🤯😳
Was a 22 year soul tie😔....definitely long slow exorcism journey...though i cut the tie....then burned the rope!
My therapist told me that a relationship with a narcissist is like being addicted to a drug. You actually become addicted to the chaos and abuse. When you walk away you are going to go through the painful detox process which could last months. When you finally work through the withdrawals you eventually find true inner peace. When you find this, you will love this more than anything. This peace becomes the most wonderful feeling in the world.
Shawna Ludlow Honestly, i believe in the popular saying that “don’t trust too much because that too much might hurt you so much”. A Narcissist partner is not to be trusted. My greatest dissappointment was discovering my wife cheating on me through the help of Cyberhackingsage who helped cloned her cell phone. All i did was share my wife’s number with Cyberhackingsage and i got access to her Facebook, WhatsApp and text messages both deleted and incoming ones with a link on my phone. Contact him, he’s a genius. ( cyberhackingsage@gmail ) thank me later.
Thank you pastor. You are helping with the "trauma bond" listening to you something clicked. God revealed to me that I am in the fight of my life for my soul. A STRENGTH flooded me. I could fill the armor of God on me. That I ALSO had to use my will to fight for my SOUL to keep my soul for God. That the feeling of addiction for this demonic spirit is the veil to lose my soul to the devil thru this demonic spirit. I choose God & I submit to God I NOT only give myself to God, I use my will to CHOOSE GOD & I WILL FIGHT FOR MY SOUL! THANK YOU PASTOR!! GOD USES YOU IN WAYS YOU DON'T KNOW. IT has been 13 days since I have heard from my ex narcissist. The past 5 days I have been wanting to contact him. My mind HASN'T let me. After listening to you tonight & God GIVING me this revelation. That urge is gone to contact him & I feel a renewed supernatural strength of a warrior....God's warrior! I love you too pastor! God bless you!!!
Amen Judith!! Victory is yours and I too draw strength from your story because I understand each point you mentioned above. Paator RC Blakes has been set on our paths as reminder of whose we are and in that strength. Who we are!! Gods children and no weapon against us shall prosper 🙌🙏 # forward and onwards!!
It comes in waves dear...when you get weak..pray that God will help you stay strong cause the healing is as traumatic as the relationship itself. 5 months out of mine..the minute you feel better...it seems to creep up on you. God is the only one that can help you with this. God bless good work breaking free.
Thank you ladies! Praise God for you! God is good all the time. I woke up this morning feeling at complete PEACE. I feel the strength of peace. Yes that comes from God & in the knowledge of what I am TRULY dealing with. We have to know our ENEMY in order to defeat our ENEMY. This is spiritual warfare. The devil DOESN'T just want to DESTROY & devour us here on earth, he wants our soul, our love & for us to worship him. He wants to replace God. NEVER gonna happen with me! I now know what I am up against. That is the truth behind the demonic LIES of the narcissist. I AM going to SHAME the devil & tell the truth & stand in the TRUTH in MY ARMOR OF GOD!! I REALIZE this is not a natural break up. I fell for a demonic spirit out of ignorance NOT knowing what is till Pastor Blake's explained what it is. I'm not stupid. I knew he had issues but no CLUE demonic spirits. I WAS A sheep amidst a wolf. Yes God will deliver us but when God speaks I listen. And when God tells me that I am in spiritual warfare & to put my armor of God on to help save my soul because I have free will to CHOOSE GOD WHICH I DID instead of Satan. Than that is EXACTLY WHAT I AM GOING TO DO. I KNOW THE DEVIL DOESN'T GIVE UP EASILY. Pastor is right this IS spiritual warfare. That has nothing to do with the loss of the LIE we were fed. The devil is a liar. I am NOT saying I have won the war. I am NOT naive. I know the battle is NOT over. BUT GOD HAS GIVEN ME A RENEWED STRENGTH, WISDOM, & ARMOR TO FIGHT THIS BATTLE TO WIN. GOD DELIVERS US BUT THERE ARE TIMES WHEN GOD CALLS US TO STEP UP & I AM STEPPING UP. I have a true clarity. I didn't lose a relationship or future....I didn't even lose time the last 6 YRS. I fell for a LIE from the devil that I was NOT equipped for......I NEVER knew what a narcissist was NOR EVER heard about one....this is a pure lesson in spiritual warfare. And we all NEED to learn this lesson well. We are in a world of EVIL on rise if not close to the majority. Believing in the LIE & NOT protecting yourself will take you down the wrong road. Yes God DELIVERS us. But he also calls upon us too.
I heard God say: “Do you want to be made well?”
God is the only One to do it.
JUDITH U Stated "THE VEIL". IN 2017 GOD EXPRESSLY SPOKE TO ME IN PRAYER "DON'T BREAK THE VEIL OF PROTECTION". I RESEARCHED I TRIED TO UNDERSTAND BUT I DO NOT THINK I RECEIVED THE FULL REVELATION UNTIL I READ WHAT I WROTE ABOUT THE " VEIL", AS IT PERTAINS TO "ADDICTION". WOULD YOU WRITE BACK AND FURTHER EXPLAINE?
It took me a year of pain, anxiety, depression, bitterness and shame yo get over a narcissistic relationship. I had to pray alot and ask God to help me forgive and move on. I cut conmunication completely and started working on rebuilding my new life. I lost much weight as well as my self confidence and ability to express myself. Im working on regaining this. So thankful for these teachings. They have helped alot
Thank you for exposing narcissism as a spritual war
It is spiritual warfare.
your heart will have to break before you can begin to heal... attempting to help my 79 year old mother to understand that her 57 year marriage to my narcissistic father has been abusive and demonic... she is the most wonderful mother, and has been abused and treated horribly nearly her entire life by this sick, sick man... please pray for her understanding and allowing the Holy Spirit to work in her life and help her to see the truth. Thank you Pastor Blakes
PLEASE 🙏 Let her watch these videos with you! I believe it's NEVER Too Late to be Set FREE!!! I can't even imagine! JESUS 🙏 CHRIST I was with mine for 18yrs.
You’re always on time Pastor. Keep getting my heart broken but I know why...haven’t waited on God. I’m on it now
Do not worry you got this, lean on God because it took me 10yrs to leave a unmarried relationship. And after 2 months of leaving, I called him and told him I forgive him.
Its been 2yrs. He finally got the message and left me alone. Im still healing from the damage he cause me.had to be strong trauma bonds are real.single and trying to be happy will be a very long time before i get in another realtionship.
tina davis Honestly, i believe in the popular saying that “don’t trust too much because that too much might hurt you so much”. A Narcissist partner is not to be trusted. My greatest dissappointment was discovering my wife cheating on me through the help of Cyberhackingsage who helped cloned her cell phone. All i did was share my wife’s number with Cyberhackingsage and i got access to her Facebook, WhatsApp and text messages both deleted and incoming ones with a link on my phone. Contact him, he’s a genius. ( cyberhackingsage@gmail ) thank me later.
@ Tina Davis... Yes!! The desire to date again is gone and I'm ok with that.
It's been 2 years I kicked the Narc Demon😒 outa my life and oh 🙆boy.. Yess I sometimes cry thinking how could I let myself be with someone so emotionally stunted and that's okay..Let your feelings and tears out..but I will Tell y'all.. 🙏🏻👻
Your Girl Has Never been Happier & Calmer 🙏🏻💓🌹🤗👻 These Two years Have been the Time of Healing and Smiles😊🤗💓🧚♀️🌹
I now understand the true meaning of the wedding vows “until death do us part” Death is when they kill your spirit. When you feel dead inside then you are dead. Time for a resurrection. I’m ready to meet you Jesus. Being born again is the only way.
Thank you Mr Blake for speaking God's truth. I'm a 57 yrs old woman divorcing from a 40 year marriage. My marriage brought me to my knees and emptied my soul. A long relationship with hope deferred is an apt description and feels like death. Thank you for lighting the path forward. May God bless your ministry and life, too. ..Maria
Best wishes to you Maria. I hope you are experiencing a better life now.
45 years in churches and never heard of soul ties.... You're right on point.
Wow! That's a major point and fact that should be discussed in every church also about why people should be married before having sex. Thats awful.
I believe the best way to dont lose a great new partner when you are at this stage is taking it veeery slow and start with a friendship. If he/she is really a good person will understand and be happy to be friends first while you get to know each other. If they push you or leave for that then well, you have your answer!
I am co-parenting with my ex -narc and anytime I have a long conversation with him I feel sick for 4 days. I try to have very little contact with him. This man is a demon.
Yes! Demon acts
Its like you need to to recover from coming into contact with them. My energy will be completely depleted.
Whewww this is it right here! It feels like they suck the peace out of you... I know this feeling
Hi I'm going through this same situation do you have any updates 4years later? God Bless
My God 🙏🏾❤️🙌🏾, Our Father in heaven seems to always use you at the right time to uplift His daughters!! Thank you for heeding to His voice sir 🙌🏾 🙏🏾💕. We truly appreciate you.
This comes at perfect timing!!! Thank you!!!
Michele Young Honestly, i believe in the popular saying that “don’t trust too much because that too much might hurt you so much”. A Narcissist partner is not to be trusted. My greatest dissappointment was discovering my wife cheating on me through the help of Cyberhackingsage who helped cloned her cell phone. All i did was share my wife’s number with Cyberhackingsage and i got access to her Facebook, WhatsApp and text messages both deleted and incoming ones with a link on my phone. Contact him, he’s a genius. ( cyberhackingsage@gmail ) thank me later.
For me as well! Sending love sister! We will get through this. 🙏🏼
For me too. Almost to the day Praise God🙏🏻
I've learned in my life that God will sometimes even protect us from ourselves, the hurt, pain and agony of dealing with this is more spiritual than we know, but I'm learning to just keep going, leaning on God and even when it's too hard to go one day at a time, we have to just go one minute to the next, heal, protect and edify us father in the name of Jesus...
A word is enough for the wise and It is also important to apply wisdom when dealing with our partners. I got help from GENIUSTRACKER as he helped cloned my cheating wife’s phone and I got access to all her phone text messages and social media chats without touching her phone. My wife was a cheating Narcissist but I'm glad to uncover her secrets and Infidelity. All I did was share my wife’s phone number with GENIUSTRACKER. I was able to read her recent and deleted messages from my phone without laying my hands on her phone and she has no idea her phone has been cloned. I discovered that my wife has been in a long term affair outside our marriage with so many proofs... Contact this Genius-Tracker via Gmail (geniustracker701) Text and speak to him directly on phone +1 (415) 323-6758. or Via WhatsApp him +1 (724) 330-3252. Thank me later.
Oh the pearls, you are dropping on this video! You are not holding nothing back! My God and My God!You are truly being used to set the captives free! And I am eating it up!🌷🙏🌷🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌
4 years later and this video helped me in so many ways . Thank you Bishop- one of you new spiritual daughter's ❤
Thank you pastor. As one who left my church (but not my relationship with Christ) before filing for divorce because of the constant pressure to keep trying to pray for and fight for my marriage, it’s refreshing to have my experience and decision validated by a minister of the Word as i walk this journey of personal healing and deliverance
Thank you, Pastor Blakes! I have been devastated emotionally, spiritually, financially, and physically, and socially by a narcissist ex-husband. Your work helps me to find my way out of the darkness and back to the light. I pray to God for support and guidance through this wilderness.
A word is enough for the wise and It is also important to apply wisdom when dealing with our partners. I got help from GENIUSTRACKER as he helped cloned my cheating wife’s phone and I got access to all her phone text messages and social media chats without touching her phone. My wife was a cheating Narcissist but I'm glad to uncover her secrets and Infidelity. All I did was share my wife’s phone number with GENIUSTRACKER. I was able to read her recent and deleted messages from my phone without laying my hands on her phone and she has no idea her phone has been cloned. I discovered that my wife has been in a long term affair outside our marriage with so many proofs... Contact this Genius-Tracker via Gmail (geniustracker701) Text and speak to him directly on phone +1 (415) 323-6758. or Via WhatsApp him +1 (724) 330-3252. Thank me later.
I concur.
The narcissistic person was the one who actually ended things with me a few days ago. He said that he wants to see where it goes with another woman, but he still loves me smh I find myself wanting to at least be his friend, but I know I deserve a better friendship than that. I just feel like I built him up so much only for him to toss me to the curve without warning. And in spite of how I feel, this is exactly what I asked God for because I knew I wasn’t strong enough to end it, I asked God for him to let me go. At the end of the day God is still good and always comes through.
A word is enough for the wise and It is also important to apply wisdom when dealing with our partners. I got help from GENIUSTRACKER as he helped cloned my cheating wife’s phone and I got access to all her phone text messages and social media chats without touching her phone. My wife was a cheating Narcissist but I'm glad to uncover her secrets and Infidelity. All I did was share my wife’s phone number with GENIUSTRACKER. I was able to read her recent and deleted messages from my phone without laying my hands on her phone and she has no idea her phone has been cloned. I discovered that my wife has been in a long term affair outside our marriage with so many proofs... Contact this Genius-Tracker via Gmail (geniustracker701) Text and speak to him directly on phone +1 (415) 323-6758. or Via WhatsApp him +1 (724) 330-3252. Thank me later.
10am in the Middle East and it definitely came at the right time Pastor.. God Bless You. The social aspect is definitely a strong hold too.. Good way to detox from everything. #Movingforward. We break the chains. 🙏🙌
Riana Morgan Honestly, i believe in the popular saying that “don’t trust too much because that too much might hurt you so much”. A Narcissist partner is not to be trusted. My greatest dissappointment was discovering my wife cheating on me through the help of Cyberhackingsage who helped cloned her cell phone. All i did was share my wife’s number with Cyberhackingsage and i got access to her Facebook, WhatsApp and text messages both deleted and incoming ones with a link on my phone. Contact him, he’s a genius. ( cyberhackingsage@gmail ) thank me later.
Finally a man/Pastor that really gets it and helps us victims of narcisstic abuse so well! I am so grateful and thank God for you Pastor Blakes! God bless you! You are such a blessing and more than you can ever know! Thank you!!!!!
I was searching for this help and you appeared in my search on Utube. I praise God every day that I found you videos to help me through this journey of letting go of my narcissists husband 🙏🏼 ❤️ I am in therapy and your videos gives me the courage every day and night 🙏🏼💕
It HURTS! No Lie. Be kind to yourself. There were days that if I got out of bed to wash the dishes, I chalked it up as a win.
I needed this. I broke off all contact with my ex almost 3 months ago. We were together only 6 months and the games he played with me almost daily has left me unrecognizable. I'm seeing a therapist but I still can't seem to shake it. Thank you for this 💕
A word is enough for the wise and It is also important to apply wisdom when dealing with our partners. I got help from GENIUSTRACKER as he helped cloned my cheating wife’s phone and I got access to all her phone text messages and social media chats without touching her phone. My wife was a cheating Narcissist but I'm glad to uncover her secrets and Infidelity. All I did was share my wife’s phone number with GENIUSTRACKER. I was able to read her recent and deleted messages from my phone without laying my hands on her phone and she has no idea her phone has been cloned. I discovered that my wife has been in a long term affair outside our marriage with so many proofs... Contact this Genius-Tracker via Gmail (geniustracker701) Text and speak to him directly on phone +1 (415) 323-6758. or Via WhatsApp him +1 (724) 330-3252. Thank me later.
Divine timing ❤️ Thank you
I feel very certain that my last relationship was with a narcissist. At the time I just thought he was heavily damaged, a lonely alcoholic and pot addict. I ran all the way back across the globe to put distance between us. At the time I left I knew I was doing the absolute best thing. For the past year and a half I have blamed, questioned and at times beat myself for my choice to leave. I have tried many things to get back, but thankfully none of them has worked. It is definitely a process. I feel like I am finally making good headway on the other side of it. This is due to much soul searching, prayer and analysis of not just what happened to me, but why I allowed it and how I reacted to it. Your videos have helped me tremendously and I thank you.
Thank you for sharing this with me.🙏
RC Blakes, Jr thank you for all you do
It's been 2 years I kicked the Narc Demon😒 outa my life and oh 🙆boy.. Yess I sometimes cry thinking how could I let myself be with someone so emotionally stunted and that's okay..Let your feelings and tears out..but I will Tell y'all.. 🙏🏻👻
Your Girl Has Never been Happier & Calmer 🙏🏻💓🌹🤗👻 These Two years Have been the Time of Healing and Smiles😊🤗💓🧚♀️🌹
Speaking as someone who got all of his relationship advice from the street or emotionally void men, it’s never too late and his wisdom is right on time 🙏🏾
😭😭😭😭😭 it's waaayy to much....LORD you let me get free....please keep me FREE...🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽 Thank you for this message
Sheritha North Honestly, i believe in the popular saying that “don’t trust too much because that too much might hurt you so much”. A Narcissist partner is not to be trusted. My greatest dissappointment was discovering my wife cheating on me through the help of Cyberhackingsage who helped cloned her cell phone. All i did was share my wife’s number with Cyberhackingsage and i got access to her Facebook, WhatsApp and text messages both deleted and incoming ones with a link on my phone. Contact him, he’s a genius. ( cyberhackingsage@gmail ) thank me later.
James Cole I think getting to the bottom of things sometimes cn give you a sense of PEACE I suppose.. knowing the truth.. I particulary didn't and don't wish to be in ANY relationship that would result me to the above... its just not healthy I'd rather depart than to spend one one moment more in a relationship where there's no TRUST.. whether it be me or my partner not trusting... 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
God heard my cry!
27:42 You’re grieving the lost ideal... 👏🏾👏🏾
“The moment I decide to do good, the sin is there to take charge of me.” Profound. In God I must surrender and consistently pray to safe guard us from slipping into sins. Amen🙏🏾
You have explained this process so well better than anyone ive come across, wish i had come across your videos earlier.. insightful wisdom for anyone because its a universal language..and for someone who hasnt tasted such a relationship and you have touched in the way you have ..im amazed and yes God his a healer a brethren muslim sister that enjoying your videos, not everyone knows how to speak to all humans.. thank you.. May God continuously bless you with truth..
I am at a point where i know he was not good 4 me and have accepted it, i have healed the hope of anything ever happening with this particular individual. Spent a year and half single but still i aint ready am still transitioning. Am working on trusting again. And gaining my self worth up again😍😘 its a process but all worth it coz u get to discover new found strengths u ddnt know you had in you. Thank you pastor
Amen thanks for sharing.
Yep, a crumbling of my world! Praise God He Heals all PAIN, and moves us on!!!🥰
Nancy McLoughlin Honestly, i believe in the popular saying that “don’t trust too much because that too much might hurt you so much”. A Narcissist partner is not to be trusted. My greatest dissappointment was discovering my wife cheating on me through the help of Cyberhackingsage who helped cloned her cell phone. All i did was share my wife’s number with Cyberhackingsage and i got access to her Facebook, WhatsApp and text messages both deleted and incoming ones with a link on my phone. Contact him, he’s a genius. ( cyberhackingsage@gmail ) thank me later.
My God....Traumatic is an understatement!!!! It’s been 2 years since I left and I’m being stalked, financially abused and humiliated by a RUclips smear campaigned. But I’d walk through the fire once again to get as close with God as I am now. I feel like I stepped out of the matrix. To God be the glory!!! 🙏🏽💞
I’m hurting letting go of a narcissistic man. It’s so painful. I feel so damaged because it was a lie I was holding onto. These videos I feel like God is walking me through it. These videos are so good
Thank you for this clip. I've been a victim of two narcissist relationships. It's time to learn from them and move on with the spirit. My heart is in God's hands.
Same here, one malignant and one covert ex husbands and two Narcissistic brothers
It's been 2 years I kicked the Narc Demon😒 outa my life and oh 🙆boy..Its been Peace🧘♀️💓🤗
Yess I sometimes cry thinking how could I Let myself be with someone so emotionally stunted and that's okay..Let your feelings and tears out..but I will Tell y'all.. 🙏🏻👻
Your Girl Has Never been Happier & Calmer 🙏🏻💓🌹🤗👻 These Two years Have been the Time of Healing and Smiles😊🤗💓🧚♀️🌹
It took me a year ladies it does get easier the mind is a powerful thing the enemy loves it the overthinking the struggling to get over his minion aka the Narc uncle RC is God sent ladies go no contact redirection keep your Bible open fast and pray ask God to give strength to move on
I went no contact, but he still be in my head,over thinking, i pray and adk god to erase his memory,from me,the triggers, the betrayal today was hard, but im stll here.
I've been no contact for 26 days.....I asked him to leave.....but he didn't take his clothes and massive amounts of tools.....everyday I pack up his things .......I found a clean out company to help me get his stuff into a storage unit.......and out of my home.......I'm so thankful to all these people that have commented....... I've been praying for guidance and strength......
stayundergodlsm My sister I'm praying for and with you... this thing is real... and so many women and men alike r literally fighting for their life... the hardest thing to overcome is accepting and believing that this person could knowingly treat you in this manner... and the sickening and sad truth is.. it's all orchestrated and it gives them great pleasure to do it over and over again knowing the pain it causes.. I just can't 4 the life of me wrap my mind around a mindset such as this... stay STRONG .. keep praying and stay the course..,everything in this video is strategic and GOD sent... 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾🤗🤗🤗🤗😘😘😘
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@@feliciacarrington681 I know the memories are so hard I struggled alot of crying and sleepless night asking myself why couldn't I see the mind games why did God make me such a forgiving sweet person but time does heal the wound keep ur head up
Not all narcissistic relationships are sexual, some narcissists are not interested in affection or intimacy. Some Deny you warmth, love and all intimacy holding you at arms length. Withholding and cold after the initial 3 month period a switch is flipped and you wake up to a complete stranger.
Completely agree. The assumption we stayed or married for sex is misplaced. Or even “we made a mistake” is misguided. Not that I am blameless, but even God said that he allowed Satan to mess with Job’s blessings. What I noticed about being in a marriage with a narcissist is that there was no flexibility with the other person. He was quick in his anger. The opposite of God-like, even if I was. That means he had a “hard heart” and that is not on me-meaning, I did not make a mistake. But I appreciate the video. It was enlightening outside of that.
Exactly! My narcissist is my Mother. She forever tried to bring me down on my knees and be stripped of my self esteem and the truth. God showed me clear as day what she has been doing to me for decades. It's hard to let go of my own Mother but it's something that I must keep doing for my own peace of mind and to keep the confidence that I fought to build over many years. No more will I accept narrcistic people in my life. No matter who they are!
Going on 3 yrs now trying to release myself from this man. I walked away, blocked, thought I moved on, the things have occurred and my mind or heart has brought me back to this place. Strongholds are real! I’ve had dreams of breaking free, but more dreams of this person still being in my life. Soul ties do exist! Woke up this morning and had to pray myself through tears. God please clear my heart and mind. God help me to focus on the desires you have for me. 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽💛🙌🏽
Currently trying to remove myself from a narcissistic relationship & I can testify that there is deep social & physiological effects. Unfortunately I had to leave the church we attended & it truly is a process where your almost undergoing a rebirth of a new mindset, social circle etc.
A word is enough for the wise and It is also important to apply wisdom when dealing with our partners. I got help from GENIUSTRACKER as he helped cloned my cheating wife’s phone and I got access to all her phone text messages and social media chats without touching her phone. My wife was a cheating Narcissist but I'm glad to uncover her secrets and Infidelity. All I did was share my wife’s phone number with GENIUSTRACKER. I was able to read her recent and deleted messages from my phone without laying my hands on her phone and she has no idea her phone has been cloned. I discovered that my wife has been in a long term affair outside our marriage with so many proofs... Contact this Genius-Tracker via Gmail (geniustracker701) Text and speak to him directly on phone +1 (415) 323-6758. or Via WhatsApp him +1 (724) 330-3252. Thank me later.
"Love in increments"(and discern people with the Holy Spirit):) I'm changing my point of reference. God is doing a new thing. Praise the Living God!
I totally agree I am a witness to this I was in a narcissistic relationship for 3 yrs and I am dealing with pain,confusion and spiritual warfare right now
I felt that touch when you said just sit and talk with God. I was married to a narcissist and it truly has left me with some issues that I have had to seek God for deliverance from. Your series has truly assisted me. I had never heard of you and I was looking for something else and the Lord brought me to your page and it has truly blessed me in my time of need, healing and transition.
Thank you for sharing
Tonja Gilson Honestly, i believe in the popular saying that “don’t trust too much because that too much might hurt you so much”. A Narcissist partner is not to be trusted. My greatest dissappointment was discovering my wife cheating on me through the help of Cyberhackingsage who helped cloned her cell phone. All i did was share my wife’s number with Cyberhackingsage and i got access to her Facebook, WhatsApp and text messages both deleted and incoming ones with a link on my phone. Contact him, he’s a genius. ( cyberhackingsage@gmail ) thank me later.
Glory to God!! God lead me to your messages this week. Thank you God for continued healing ! My divorce from a Narcissist was just finalized on October 1st of this year. Everything that you have said is what I have experienced.
Fasting prayer reading scripture listening to Godly music. Will help people brake free from the ties that bind. I had to ask God to remove him from my heart. This has helped me.
Narcissistic abuse causes brain damage. Would we expect to be acting normal after being hit in the head with a blunt force object and having a brain bleed? So why do we expect to have a normal recovery from the damage done to the brain by a narcissist? Only time and self-care heals the injury but you must get away from the narcissist so the damage does not continue! And likewise you would not expect to live if brain damage became repeated/chronic, don't expect to survive the continual abuse from a narcissist.
Once you know, you go!
~Helen Sadler
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Indeed once you know you have to go if you stay they might go as far as to kill you.
@@traysee318 Exactly. Unfortunately, I had to learn that the hard way!
🌪 also check out H.G. Tudor.
@@marymitchell3422 I will thanks!
THANK YOU SOOOOOOO MUCH! God sent me to this channel to hear this word.. I prayed today, and this was the confirmation from my prayer!!!!! May god continue to bless you mightily!!! 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Here I am founding and listening to this message for the first time today in 2024, and the peace I feel in my soul at the end. Even 4 years later, your message is still touching hearts, and I receive this prayer at the end. I believe God for my healing and restoration. Thank you Father God!
Thank you!! We love you too. You are truly walking me through this horrible pain. You are my therapist because the “professionals” have let me down smh. You are doing GODS work! GOD bless you! 🙏🏽💙🦋
All of your sermons have really ministered to me and help me break free. Thank you for being obedient to the Holy Spirit and sharing what God would have you share. You are a great servant of his and I appreciate your love and your ministry
On the back end of this journey and you are so very correct. Focusing on purpose and connecting with God helped tremendously!! Once plugged in, God embraced me and starting blessing me so much I didn't have time or energy to think about the narcissist or the past memories!! I actually had a period of time that I felt guilty for being so happy!
Same here. I rediscover myself and it feels so good .
"Lights camera action" is exactly right. I go to divorce court on Wednesday, and I'm so happy to come across your videos and several others about "narcissist". I had no idea until now what I was dealing with and now I know how powerful my silence is. Thank you so much!
Good evening sir and yes your connection is good...thanks for being here....and ministering to us...you are appreciated!!!
Preoccupy with purpose. I LOVE that! I've been all over it. Every day gets brighter! Even when there is no sun. I'm my own Sunshine!!
I was suddenly discarded by a prosocial narc who duped me and all the people at church and our small group. I fell in love with a man that was fake. It has been extremely hard to get through. Much pain and depression since the discard. God is holding me through it....I just want the pain and missing him to stop!
Sister check out Dr. Pastor Paul Enenche and Pastor George Izunwa. Their ministry brings healing to the whole man.🙏Praying for you.
Lord how mercy did this speak volumes to my heart and life. It’s amazing how I was married and divorced a narcissist. I was shut down and refused to date because of my first marriage. I finally forgave my ex after having much counseling and strangely let my guards down to date again.... I attracted another narcissist! But God’s grace and wisdom allowed me to end that in two weeks instead of enduring 11 years of that unhealthy marriage I was in. I was anxious , tried of the wait and open to love and almost settled. I now know my value and worth , I am a queen and will allow God’s will to prevail... not mine.❤️
Thank you for this excellent teaching. I am transitioning out of a narcissistic relationship with my mother. It was the most abusive, painful, and tormenting relationship in all my 51 years on earth. I am healing slowly but surely and learning to rediscover myself and finding my true calling/purpose is where I am at. Please pray for me. It was truly a demonic attachment.
YES!!! So true!!! The Spirit doesn't want him...but the flesh wants him. It is a battle!!! DEFINITELY spiritual warfare
Pastor Blakes, I appreciate you and your wife. I have been able to begin to heal and move forward in my life without the narcissistic abuser I was married to. Watching your videos has helped bring clarity to my situation. I thank God that you’ve been obedient and made these videos and written the books. I am now reclaiming myself and my life. Thank you, thank you, thank you!
I've been no contact since 2018, he still stalks, comes in my complex, and even though he's with another woman he even disrespects her. No contact is the right way to go. Thank you for your prayers and teachings.
may i ask how you managed to avoid thinking about them? i find that to be the hardest for me even when i do everything to avoid it
By God's grace... I'm FREE!!!!!!! Thank you Jesus & Thank You Pastor Blakes for taking time out of your life to teach me all the things I was blind to. Blessings to you and your family
I have been watching your videos from Nigeria. Knowing about narcissistic abuse makes you a more effective Pastor. Well done sir!!!
This is still so relevant and just perfect right now❤ I just left a week ago today. By Gods grace I got out of a very toxic scary situation-ship. Thank you Pastor
Pastor! It depends on someone's spirit that's intune with GOD also!!and how strong that spirit is!!Your right in many way's don't get me wrong! Blessings to you and your family!!💞💖💕👣🙏😘🙏👣😊😊🙋🙋Thank you for all that you do to expose demons!!GOD Almighty and myself got this!! The Lord knows what Ive been through with this relationship! I almost died!! Grand mild seizure and 5 days of coma woke up in nursing home! Had to even retrain myself to walk! I'm home now doing good! Praise GOD ALMIGHTY!!Lesson learned!! There was an esson in that lesson Ive learned well.I choose to forgive myself first not for them and I told him that! Im married to GOD Almighty period! I know he will take care of me period.
Pastor, Pastor, Pastor, that devil has been working on my soul with this narcissistic break that happened 2 years and 5 months ago. I was doing fine for seven months and then all of a sudden, I felt like the break just happened yesterday replaying the entire relationship. 😥😥😥 The only thing that has given me some peace is studying my Bible. I will be glad when the thought of him will be a distance dusty memory. Thank you for loving us and walking in your calling. I know that God can only get me through.
I did Rapid Transformational Therapy works really well, and learnt why you attract such people.
Can you explain how this works please
Wow!! Lights, camera, action!!!! Those are the EXACT words I always said! That's all he was about!!! You are so on point. You have to realize and accept it was never real!!!
Thank you so much bishop by listening to you GOD delivered me from a Narcissis relationship for almost 5 years!! I’m free it has NOT been easy but I will never look back period! Thank you pastor!
For people like myself, it's so easy to forgive and move on but when the narcissist keeps bothering you afterwards it isn't so easy. You can get away from them in the physical but in the spiritual they find ways to communicate with you without your consent and this makes it hard to forgive. I guess this could be a part of breaking the soul tie.
@Sky Dream these types of people will never let you go.
@Sky Dream yes but you have to block him and if he shows up call the police. I'm far away from then narc who used to stalk me and if I ever see him stalking me again I'm calling the police. Luckily I'm too far away for that to happen again.
If it is dangerous. Please contact dv or state attorney general's office. They can help with a address confidentiality protection program. This keeps your address hidden and you are safe. Prayers for you.
@Sky Dream because you have empathy and you're a child of God.
@@donnalangley117 great advice!
I’m doing my best to remain prayerfully vigilant so I get spiritually insulated. God’s power to help me overcome the pain of it all.
Keep it real and keep it 100%! Thank you Pastor Blakes!🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥It takes the Fire of the Holy Ghost to break free!
Being in a Narcissistic relationship ( situation ship ) of almost 8 years . At the beginning it was great ! I had prayed to God for a partner a mate and I really thought he was from God. But then he moved in and he changed . Even tho he had no stomach and had a feeder tube I overlooked it bc I loved him . As time went on , he began to cuss me , call me names , blamed me for everything and accused me of things that I did not do. Every day I would cry my eyes out . It was horrible . I would hide it from it my daughter bc her and my little granddaughter lived here with me . I thought i was going crazy . I would talk to some of his friends and some of my friends. Anyhow he couldnt perform sexually but I loved him. There are other ways tho. On social media he would block me and when he unblocked me I saw he had flirted with all the women , saying sweet things to them that he should of been saying to me . In my town he was well known and liked bc he was a musician and could play the guitar really good. He was good looking and had charm. Just recently I have ran into your videos and I have learned alot about being in this kind of relationship. I kept telling people Im leaving him. I told people that I have gone thru breakups before and of course they hurt and were hard, but I moved on ! But with him I just could not leave . I tried and tried ! It was a pulling sensation . I go back he starts it all again . Being mean to me . Calling me a menace to society. I washed his clothes and dried them and delivered them to him . He did move out after he shot himself in the shoulder sitting in my bedroom. Anyhow it was bad really bad . He told lies about me and told lies to me . I told some people that it felt like he had a spell on me .They had no idea what I was talking about ! Thank GOD I RAN INTO YOU AND YOUR VIDEOS . I have bene listening to you for 4 months now ! I am finally getting away from him. Its not a clean break yet . Hes been in the hospital for 4 months bc of a stone in his bile duct and I thought he was going to die . But he just got back to his apt yesterday and I can tell he wants to use me some more and I am not going to allow that anymore ! I deserve alot better ! I want to be happy and I will . I have gotten closer to GOD AND I AM ASKING HIM JESUS AND THE HOLY SPIRIT TO COME INTO MY LIFE AND HELP ME!! THANK YOU SO VERY MUCH FOR TALKING ABOUT THIS ! THE WORLD IS FULL OF THESE DEMONS AMEN
Im a witness, I need new friends. Everywhere I go he comes and tells his story.
Pastor Blake’s on FIRE🔥 I feel the hope and the healing in the name of JESUS! Amen🌈
Thankyou Pastor Blakes.your videos are helping me get out of this!!!! I’m back in church and gave my life to God! I’m free!!! I still struggle with this ex narcissist but it’s much easier with the help of God and your videos. I feel like God made me find you! God bless you! And Thankyou!!!!!
This person was gonna be my everything.... not absolutely not... Pastor if you only knew you are speaking my whole life right now. 15 year marriage just separated I left a month and a half ago my whole emotions and beings is so attached to him everything you are saying. It’s like you made this video for me. The last nine months you’ve help me through my decision to leave . I thank God for you. The first time I heard one of you video you was going in on how women needed to level up and honey my life had been change. You’re my new father. Thank you for being the vessel
Iona Windsor Honestly, i believe in the popular saying that “don’t trust too much because that too much might hurt you so much”. A Narcissist partner is not to be trusted. My greatest dissappointment was discovering my wife cheating on me through the help of Cyberhackingsage who helped cloned her cell phone. All i did was share my wife’s number with Cyberhackingsage and i got access to her Facebook, WhatsApp and text messages both deleted and incoming ones with a link on my phone. Contact him, he’s a genius. ( cyberhackingsage@gmail ) thank me later.
I’m just waking up to what is going on in my life
Oh Wow!!! Thank you so so so much Pastor Sir. I am watching this 4 years after you posted it and I am so blessed. So liberating. God bless you Sir.
Yep! Sometimes even if your own family is toxic they will side with the person who was abusing you!
You are right on! You are not a therapist but you would never made a good one!
I find that if we have or had a love hunger and think that any person can fill that......we will always be disappointed. I came from an alcoholic home, my dad was shut down emotionally. I didn't even know how love starved I was. God has to be first always... Anybody can or will leave at any time. Self love, self care,
Knowing who we are I Christ is first and foremost. I love ALL your videos. I wish there was a pastor as real and knowledgeable as you near where I live. You are a gem. God bless you for always speaking truth!!!
Mary Wolfe Honestly, i believe in the popular saying that “don’t trust too much because that too much might hurt you so much”. A Narcissist partner is not to be trusted. My greatest dissappointment was discovering my wife cheating on me through the help of Cyberhackingsage who helped cloned her cell phone. All i did was share my wife’s number with Cyberhackingsage and i got access to her Facebook, WhatsApp and text messages both deleted and incoming ones with a link on my phone. Contact him, he’s a genius. ( cyberhackingsage@gmail ) thank me later.
It cuts deep. Im in the process of transition. I keep allowing him to hoover me. Married for 3 years. We been together for 7 years. God is the head of my life. Im seeing a therapist, and I thank God for her. I thought I wasn't losing my mind. This broadcast helped me in so many ways. Im going to try meditation . Lord I wanna be free. Everything that you Pastor have touched on. I have endured. Keep me in prayer. Thank You!
Thankfully I passed this stage. I feel nothing anymore regarding my Narcissistic husband. I'm getting a divorce and leaving soon and I feel relieved!
Yes I felt like that for a long time after I left.
I moved to another town and state to stay hidden and no one has my physical address, including family. Because he manipulates them.
You are so helpful and help me see the questions I have had. Oh thank you.
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you are amazing and I thank God for you. Your videos are so helpful and deep and I noticed a lot of pastors don't touch on this stuff that I have seen personally. This stuff is life changing and help many ppl in their lives. This is true teaching of The most High!
You are so awesome. I am so pleased to see you dealing with and sharing this subject. 25 years of abuse and lost so much. Healing is a life long I think. Soul ties need breaking I believe. These people Take Everything God bless you. Love and prayers Sir 🙏
It's been 4 yrs. I'm now beginning to beginning to feel like a human being again I felt like I was about to lose my mind I didn't know which way to go but I did call on God's name and I have been listening to you for the past 8 months and you have been helping me through thank you so much after I love you and I will continue to listen to you may God continue to bless you and your family
Thank you for this Pastor Blakes! There are a lot of family members and friends that do not understand this; that even once the individual realizes who they were involved with and decides to emancipate themselves from that fractured individual, it takes a true psychological process. It is easier said than done and I am going through this process right now.
Thank you so much Pastor! I have been battling this for more than one month, cannot seem to shake this demonic person off my mind even though I have cognitively forgiven
him, this is the first time I have listened to how to deal with this from a biblical perspective. I am going to start the work of healing by getting with God. Thank you for allowing God to use you to bring healing to some of use. God bless, please keep preaching this subject, there are many like me before who do not even know what they have entangled themselves with. By his grace I receive healing and believe it when you say God has something better for me. Amen!!
I totally thank you for everything. You have changed my life. You are truly a blessing to me, I thank God for your channel. God has healed my broken soul. It’s so hard when you have to co parent with the narcissist. But as God lead me to your video Co parenting with a narcissist it changed my life because I was about to go back down the same road. I’ve been fasting, praying and getting in tuned with God’s will. I thank you so much be blessed Pastor.
I'm in this transition currently what great timing
lauren donahue Honestly, i believe in the popular saying that “don’t trust too much because that too much might hurt you so much”. A Narcissist partner is not to be trusted. My greatest dissappointment was discovering my wife cheating on me through the help of Cyberhackingsage who helped cloned her cell phone. All i did was share my wife’s number with Cyberhackingsage and i got access to her Facebook, WhatsApp and text messages both deleted and incoming ones with a link on my phone. Contact him, he’s a genius. ( cyberhackingsage@gmail ) thank me later.