I know there are parents out there like this. I feel it's really sad when such parents cling to their children so hard that the kids have to run for their lives just to be free.
why didnt they just try to adopt/foster...? if they raise really good bio-kids & are now unable to have more, then try to adopt/foster!!! youll be making an amazing kid become even more amazing & happy kid :) x
I was happy when my son moved out. It was the next step in his journey to becoming an adult. He has a job, has to budget his money etc. He messages me every now and then with updates on what he is doing, and I'm fine with it. Yes I do miss having him around, but my role as a parent is to support him in any way he needs. He know he can always come back if he ever needs it.
Due to circumstances, my brother's all moved back in with my parents after moving out. 1 for medical reasons, 1 because of divorce, and 1 because of job loss. I am the only son not to move back home, at least while mom was alive. Unfortunately, due to medical issues, I have now had to move back in with dad and a brother. That's OK, though, because we now take care of dad.
@steveroe6771 There's NOTHING wrong with moving back home, as long as everyone is in agreement. I had to move back home a few times. I stayed only as long as it was absolutely necessary, and then I was GONE.
great plan, jeremiah! i feel bad for helicopter parents as they are monsters and my paren ts allow us to choose what we want to do bec children have dreams and parents cant force theur dreams onto their children
I don't understand why he didn't just move out and not tell them where he lived. They didn't let him take anything anyway, so its not like it would have changed anything
Some people are stuck in that mindset where the parents have control over them. Especially of they still live at home with them. I'd just pack everything up, load it in a car and bye bye....
I had to deal with a mother I was scared of, and I'm glad I found someone who was willing to help me out. Not everyone wants to date only someone with a picture-perfect family...
If it had been me, and there was anything material/important documentation/ sentimental/small enough I wanted out of my room. I would have snuck it out the window, and hidden it somewhere for my girlfriend to pickup to take to her apartment later.
Yeah dude you could have still have "the life" you wanted without doing all of that ...what a waste ... there are people out here working hard just to survive .. Funny how he thinks he "got over" on his parents ....
Of course, he coyld have just gathered his things a bit at a time, taken them to his GF's house and then when all was cleared, told them a simple goodbye and LEFT. No shenanigans needed.
Sneaky plan, but the words "literal/literally" are so misused and overused. I agree with the parents about the moving in and drinking part, but except for that they're control freaks.
If the parents can't stand the idea of being alone to the point of forcing their adult children to stay perhaps they should look into possibly being foster parents. This way the house is never empty.
Controlling parents are always like that. Mine went to the grave being like that. (Both made it to 87.) At least that's how they tried to be, they just never noticed how short visits were with any of us.
This protag annoys me. I recognized my toxic mother was never going to change, and started de-FOG-ing at age 19. I know everyone is not me, but life isn't fair. Parents only have power over this dude because he's given it to them.
No, life isn't fair, but it's not always easy. I tried to escape my mother for several years, and she always hunted me down. Sometimes parents take the power they want.
as someone whose dealt with this and somewhat still do. It's not as easy to break out of these type of people as you might think. i mean i litrally get so Stressed even trying to deal with her i physically get sick and start throwing up or so light headed i can pass out.
I’m an only child. My mom cried the first time I came home from college and she DIDN’T have to do my laundry because I’d done it already. She did adjust eventually
If he was really smart, he would have been sneaking all his important stuff out of the house a little at a time Also he really really should have told them he was forced to do all that because he was so desperate to get away from their helicopter neediness
Wouldn't it be strange that parents determine whether or not to control their adult children. How long will the parents run their grown children, maybe until they are 50.
He's 21. Why not just move out? It might be my American mentality, but the many Laws and the IRS that want you out and working. It was because of that me, my siblings and others I was acquainted with were tossed out at 18. Those from elitist class didn't really have to worry about it. We from poor family's did. Add: STATE laws is the laws I'm talking about. There are laws that punish families that need assistance to make ends meat. If the families dump these who turn 18 they can keep their assistance. I had to start working when I was 13, put the money in a college fund for college to keep the family from being punished for the income. Still ended up homeless for a while till I had enough to afford it due to not being able to sign for the loan to finish affording the cost. Being born sucks in America. I'm now still poor, even with a degree and disabled. I feel sorry for the immigrants that have fallen for the garbage about this place is supposed to be the land of opportunity.
Seems to me he sabotaged his reputation with both of his parents and sabotaged his brother’s educational plans so he could move out with his girl without his parents sabotaging his plans. He’s more like his parents than he can imagine. A lot of lies and deceit.
@@ruthdennis9115 He tells his brother negatives about being away for college and how it’s much better living at home. His brother canceled his educational plans after they spoke. 😮 15:29
All he had to do was pack his things and, little by little, drive them over to his gf’s apartment, change and/close whatever bank accounts to which has parents have access, fill out a change of address card to a PO Box, just in case, then, go on with the rest of his life…OR he could have just ACTED LIKE A GROWN MAN A DID ALL OF THAT OPENLY, hiring movers and friends as security during the move, to prevent any BS the parents tried to pull during the move and prevent them from following the moving man and him to his new home.
He is a AH. Yes they are clingy and have a bad case of empty nest syndrome but intentionally hurting them is sad. I hope he remembers this when he is standing at their casket. If you are man enough to live on your own then just do it. They cannot physically stop you. But intentionally hurting them is seriously messed up.
What would you have done? Every time he told them he was going to leave they'd cry and throw out guilt trips. 3:25 I do think he should have slowly started moving his things to the car at night. Then when he visited her on the weekend leave the stuff there. Then give them each a hug goodbye and just tell them that he's off. If asked where, simply reply he's off to see his gf. Then once he's there text them and tell them he's not coming home. He's moving in with his gf. That he's going to block them for a few months. Then once they have calmed down in a few months consider getting back in touch. Maybe get therapy to so he can feel less guilty about leaving home at 21.
Gosh I know parents like that. I stopped by to pick up my friend for work and they demanded to know why she going in since she didn't have an shift, from what time to time off. I wasn't allowed to stop anywhere after work because tomorrow was an work day for 22 year daughter. When she heard her mom lecture me she was like mom. 22 not 12 we've talked about this repeatedly. You haven't moved out why again I asked. Guilty trip. I should tell her about the guy who's moving in though..... Five days later she called me up and wanted to know if she could stay since her friend arrived. One day with an burping,farting,ball scratching male and she ultimating her. See ya mom. Lol it took her mom a few years to find out her friend was an actor and knew how to throw his voice and her daughter wanted out.
I don't understand. Just leave. Pack up your stuff and GTFO. What're they gonna do to stop you? (Sorry, maybe I missed that bit and didn't feel like scrolling back).
Parents "your brother would never act this way"
Me " where do you think he's getting the ideas for some of these from?"
I know there are parents out there like this. I feel it's really sad when such parents cling to their children so hard that the kids have to run for their lives just to be free.
Your absolutely correct. However a great escape plan and funny too. Overbearing parents are the worst IMHO.
Damm he cranked that up to 11..😂😂wait forget that seems closer to 100
Jeremiah is my new favorite "bad boy"
In the immortal words of Paul Simon,,
" Slip out the back Jack!"
" Don't be coy Roy!"
" Hop on the bus Gus!"
"Just jump up and leave Steve!"
Just Get Yourself Free 🤘🎶🎙
😂😂😂 funny one.
Thank you!
why didnt they just try to adopt/foster...? if they raise really good bio-kids & are now unable to have more, then try to adopt/foster!!! youll be making an amazing kid become even more amazing & happy kid :) x
I was happy when my son moved out. It was the next step in his journey to becoming an adult. He has a job, has to budget his money etc. He messages me every now and then with updates on what he is doing, and I'm fine with it. Yes I do miss having him around, but my role as a parent is to support him in any way he needs. He know he can always come back if he ever needs it.
Yesssssss
Due to circumstances, my brother's all moved back in with my parents after moving out. 1 for medical reasons, 1 because of divorce, and 1 because of job loss. I am the only son not to move back home, at least while mom was alive. Unfortunately, due to medical issues, I have now had to move back in with dad and a brother. That's OK, though, because we now take care of dad.
@steveroe6771 There's NOTHING wrong with moving back home, as long as everyone is in agreement. I had to move back home a few times. I stayed only as long as it was absolutely necessary, and then I was GONE.
That was so funny 🤣 LMFAO!
Jeremiah and Sarah have a great sense of humor. 😂
Girlllll i enjoyed my family game nights
great plan, jeremiah! i feel bad for helicopter parents as they are monsters and my paren ts allow us to choose what we want to do bec children have dreams and parents cant force theur dreams onto their children
*I aim to misbehave*
Captain Mal, Serenity
Thank the God's for brown coats!!!
Just grab your clothes and never come back. That's all you had to do. What kind of parents are they?
Good one lol
I thought family nights were for all getting together after the kids left home!
How do you Sound anything over text msg 🤔
I don't understand why he didn't just move out and not tell them where he lived. They didn't let him take anything anyway, so its not like it would have changed anything
So they think they can ground a 21 year old?🙄
Some people are stuck in that mindset where the parents have control over them. Especially of they still live at home with them. I'd just pack everything up, load it in a car and bye bye....
The 'rents were literally insane.
If you are dating someone who is a adult and is scared of their parents they why would she want to deal with this crap story1
I had to deal with a mother I was scared of, and I'm glad I found someone who was willing to help me out. Not everyone wants to date only someone with a picture-perfect family...
If it had been me, and there was anything material/important documentation/ sentimental/small enough I wanted out of my room. I would have snuck it out the window, and hidden it somewhere for my girlfriend to pickup to take to her apartment later.
This is brilliant. I can't stop laughing. 😅😅😅
Thank you!
Babyyyyyyyy I was so glad when my kids were old enough to leave I literally threw party's
Some of those board games are still fun.
Smooth move OP
Yeah, umm, he is 21, he doesn't need permission to move out. Ground him at 21!?
Don't ask for permission. Don't ask for their blessing. Simply tell them this is how it's going to be
They always celebrate and warn the antagonists way too early 😂
This is really kinda messed up. He even got his brother to drop out of college for no good reason.
My mother was like this.
Ah
Yeah dude you could have still have "the life" you wanted without doing all of that ...what a waste ... there are people out here working hard just to survive ..
Funny how he thinks he "got over" on his parents ....
Dude needs to just grow a spine and tell his parents that he is moving out like it’s not hard at all
My parents were exactly like this. My Mother hid every out of state college acceptance letter, so my only choice was a local uni. I was pissed.
Of course, he coyld have just gathered his things a bit at a time, taken them to his GF's house and then when all was cleared, told them a simple goodbye and LEFT. No shenanigans needed.
Sneaky plan, but the words "literal/literally" are so misused and overused. I agree with the parents about the moving in and drinking part, but except for that they're control freaks.
We’re his parents holding his ID documents hostage or something? Why couldn’t he just leave?
Girl he's making excuses. Move on. Big Red Flag
That was fun!
Incredible, all this subterfuge, no balls and independence
If the parents can't stand the idea of being alone to the point of forcing their adult children to stay perhaps they should look into possibly being foster parents. This way the house is never empty.
We had ans some still gave watching parties, with specific food, and often costumes. It had a big pre show, so we had 1 hour karaoke before.
Controlling parents are always like that. Mine went to the grave being like that. (Both made it to 87.)
At least that's how they tried to be, they just never noticed how short visits were with any of us.
Geez, my parents were the exact opposite!
This protag annoys me. I recognized my toxic mother was never going to change, and started de-FOG-ing at age 19. I know everyone is not me, but life isn't fair. Parents only have power over this dude because he's given it to them.
No, life isn't fair, but it's not always easy. I tried to escape my mother for several years, and she always hunted me down. Sometimes parents take the power they want.
@@sarethnight2017 Who said anything about easy? The important choices and struggles never are.
@@DrownedInExile yeah, maybe I should have said: possible...
as someone whose dealt with this and somewhat still do. It's not as easy to break out of these type of people as you might think. i mean i litrally get so Stressed even trying to deal with her i physically get sick and start throwing up or so light headed i can pass out.
I’m an only child. My mom cried the first time I came home from college and she DIDN’T have to do my laundry because I’d done it already. She did adjust eventually
Sarah should find a man to be with. Mamas boys just aren't worth the time. He is a pantywaste.
He is 21 and she wants to be with a man that doesn't have the BALLS to just move out of his parents home?
In what world do you need your parents permission to move out.
If he was really smart, he would have been sneaking all his important stuff out of the house a little at a time
Also he really really should have told them he was forced to do all that because he was so desperate to get away from their helicopter neediness
Aren't those just minimum age numbers on the board games? Who'd ever have a problem with some good old board games! x)
Wouldn't it be strange that parents determine whether or not to control their adult children. How long will the parents run their grown children, maybe until they are 50.
maybe just say, I'm moving out. Thank you for everything, I'll see you for Sunday dinner, your place or mine
Or he could have just walked out with his stuff, moved in with his girlf and got on with his life without being mean to his parents.
He's 21. Why not just move out?
It might be my American mentality, but the many Laws and the IRS that want you out and working.
It was because of that me, my siblings and others I was acquainted with were tossed out at 18.
Those from elitist class didn't really have to worry about it. We from poor family's did.
Add: STATE laws is the laws I'm talking about. There are laws that punish families that need assistance to make ends meat. If the families dump these who turn 18 they can keep their assistance.
I had to start working when I was 13, put the money in a college fund for college to keep the family from being punished for the income.
Still ended up homeless for a while till I had enough to afford it due to not being able to sign for the loan to finish affording the cost.
Being born sucks in America. I'm now still poor, even with a degree and disabled.
I feel sorry for the immigrants that have fallen for the garbage about this place is supposed to be the land of opportunity.
Seems to me he sabotaged his reputation with both of his parents and sabotaged his brother’s educational plans so he could move out with his girl without his parents sabotaging his plans. He’s more like his parents than he can imagine. A lot of lies and deceit.
Sorry but his brother didn't have any educational plans,no sabotage there
@@ruthdennis9115 He tells his brother negatives about being away for college and how it’s much better living at home. His brother canceled his educational plans after they spoke. 😮 15:29
All he had to do was pack his things and, little by little, drive them over to his gf’s apartment, change and/close whatever bank accounts to which has parents have access, fill out a change of address card to a PO Box, just in case, then, go on with the rest of his life…OR he could have just ACTED LIKE A GROWN MAN A DID ALL OF THAT OPENLY, hiring movers and friends as security during the move, to prevent any BS the parents tried to pull during the move and prevent them from following the moving man and him to his new home.
He is a AH. Yes they are clingy and have a bad case of empty nest syndrome but intentionally hurting them is sad. I hope he remembers this when he is standing at their casket. If you are man enough to live on your own then just do it. They cannot physically stop you. But intentionally hurting them is seriously messed up.
What would you have done? Every time he told them he was going to leave they'd cry and throw out guilt trips. 3:25
I do think he should have slowly started moving his things to the car at night. Then when he visited her on the weekend leave the stuff there. Then give them each a hug goodbye and just tell them that he's off. If asked where, simply reply he's off to see his gf. Then once he's there text them and tell them he's not coming home. He's moving in with his gf. That he's going to block them for a few months. Then once they have calmed down in a few months consider getting back in touch. Maybe get therapy to so he can feel less guilty about leaving home at 21.
This is so dumb. Just leave if you want to
Gosh I know parents like that. I stopped by to pick up my friend for work and they demanded to know why she going in since she didn't have an shift, from what time to time off. I wasn't allowed to stop anywhere after work because tomorrow was an work day for 22 year daughter. When she heard her mom lecture me she was like mom. 22 not 12 we've talked about this repeatedly. You haven't moved out why again I asked. Guilty trip. I should tell her about the guy who's moving in though..... Five days later she called me up and wanted to know if she could stay since her friend arrived. One day with an burping,farting,ball scratching male and she ultimating her. See ya mom. Lol it took her mom a few years to find out her friend was an actor and knew how to throw his voice and her daughter wanted out.
I don't understand. Just leave. Pack up your stuff and GTFO. What're they gonna do to stop you? (Sorry, maybe I missed that bit and didn't feel like scrolling back).
This is such a silly story. If you are an adult act like it and tell your parents you are moving out. It does sound like a plot for a romcom.
Eliza is one sick puppy!
Eliza, you absolute HUMP!
Boyyyyyyyyyy you are a grown man leave because your parents lived their life's so it's your turn
😂😂