TCAV TV: It Has to Hurt - Story 81

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  • Опубликовано: 30 июн 2024
  • The path from jail, to United States Navy SEAL, back to jail, kicked out of the United States Military, to joining the French Foreign Legion.
    The wise learn from the mistakes of others. Listen and understand so you don't have to learn the hard way.
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    @tcavofficial
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    TaylorCavanaugh.com
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    tcavofficial@gmail.com

Комментарии • 117

  • @ivicahudika3379
    @ivicahudika3379 5 дней назад +14

    I’m 56 and I’m very happy with where I am at in my life right now, things are going great for me. It’s good to listen to TCAV and what he has to say, makes you think and re set. Like he says, it’s when things are going great for you that you have to watch out and make sure you don’t make mistakes and slip into bad things. That’s when the devil comes for you! lol I love waking up early, I’m all alone and having my coffee and listening to what TCAV has to say, a lot of what he has to say is reminding me of lessons learned that I almost forgot or haven’t thought of in awhile, and some of it’s new.
    Listening to him has caused me to reflect on life many times. He’s doing a great job getting his word out.

    • @tcavofficial
      @tcavofficial  3 дня назад +1

      I appreciate your words brother and your time here👊🏼

    • @MoM-do7js
      @MoM-do7js 3 дня назад

      1000% agree with everything you said here. I’m a 65 yr old happy young lady 😉 and listening to this young man reminds me of what I, with time, have forgotten with regards to PAIN, regrets, and shame, from my past debacles(still make mistakes but less severe fortunately) Very therapeutic to rehash so as not to repeat !! It’s motivating 👌

  • @sgt.grinch3299
    @sgt.grinch3299 5 дней назад +4

    I’m an old fashioned hard-head. I only learn the hard way. By learning that way I only needed one lesson per subject. Without pain and anger I had nothing in my youth. Semper Fi and outstanding message TCAV.✌️✌️🙏🙏🙏

  • @oliverraupp6440
    @oliverraupp6440 5 дней назад +4

    Im from old Europe and the first thing i thought was " oh my gosh, hear that voice, that look - i dont need the next yt-SF,-onemanarmyshow-guy, so lets take the next vid bout big ..... . "
    But i didnt, and so i listened to your words. At the end i was impressed about the self reflection you showed and the deep truth behind every kind of motivation. I did never ever expect that. Chapeau, you've got true words spoken. Thanks a lot.

  • @ianmacrae5696
    @ianmacrae5696 2 дня назад +1

    Beautiful stuff Cav. "Thrive, not survive". I used to live life like it was all about getting through the day, and then repeat. That would have been a tough 'dying breath' to reflect on. Through listening to you and others like you I have realized that life can be more than getting by. Like you have said, I am actually stoked now in the morning to get the day going. Not my former 'it's another day' attitude. Keep it coming Brother!

  • @anthonydavis7651
    @anthonydavis7651 5 дней назад +4

    Good advice, runs hurt, workouts hurt, relationships hurt. Success costs effort

  • @samlackey5833
    @samlackey5833 13 часов назад

    It’s so easy at my age to start relaxing. Get ready to coast my way through retirement. You have given me a fire to not relax but to keep striving til the end. My health is better than it was 20 years ago. And you’re the reason. Thank you T

    • @tcavofficial
      @tcavofficial  10 часов назад

      WE GOT MORE TO DO‼️👊🏼

  • @ericl5512
    @ericl5512 5 дней назад +2

    Good stuff everything you said is spot on. We all have to shed old skin to grow, sometimes it’s painful. Churchill said if you are going through hell, keep going.
    Sometimes the hardest lessons are the most important ones.

  • @paulday-lh5mx
    @paulday-lh5mx 5 дней назад +2

    Another Monday morning 🌄, and story 81 with my coffee ☕️. Just an awesome background of the pool and palm trees. 🌴 it just makes the start of the week. Soak in the message and carry on.
    Stay safe.

  • @Patrician9000
    @Patrician9000 День назад

    Proud to be part of the CavCorp and be stumbling along on the program because I AM MOVING MY LIFE FORWARD!

  • @ecom2409
    @ecom2409 5 дней назад +2

    As a commission salesman and Christian, I understand much of what you say on a core level not just with work but life in general. Thank you for your time

  • @KAMIKAZEUSAC
    @KAMIKAZEUSAC 14 часов назад

    There is so many points in Taylor's stories that leave you jaw-dropping, instead of make it deserve its own Movie rather needs a miniseries. He did not only touch bottom, but made a habit to bounce multiple times from bottom to top. I love that the strategy he follows always to keep his mind/himself busy and deeply respect all self reflection that finally left him stay on top. All the problems that followed his moments of happiness reminded me of the Zen principle that basically implies that the goal in life is not one's happiness but one's inner peace. I'm Glad He is there!

  • @user-ll4ov1jy8z
    @user-ll4ov1jy8z 5 дней назад +3

    Awesome!! Cav thank you, great self awareness. This gives a new meaning at the end.”BE SMART” of every single cast from 1-81 LFR!! Airborne!!!

  • @jamesabbott9965
    @jamesabbott9965 5 дней назад +2

    I have been reading "AS A MAN THINKETH" and the chapter I read today was right on point to what you thought in this video. Keep up the good work, you matter.

  • @mickmcc2158
    @mickmcc2158 5 дней назад +1

    Fast becoming the most essential channel on here for me. These are the words I have to tell myself everyday. Keep up the great content

  • @williamloeber6253
    @williamloeber6253 4 дня назад

    So true my friend, :No pain -no gain". Thank you! 👍

  • @chadwhite8352
    @chadwhite8352 5 дней назад +1

    Your messages are so inspiring. I love your channel and look forward to watching new videos. Keep it up!

  • @Bravo08328
    @Bravo08328 4 дня назад

    Thank you for the help and service brother. You just saved a life from drugs and total destruction. Devil almost got me to give up and say fuck it and go all out, but when I prayed to God to help me your videos came out of nowhere. It felt like God let my dad send a message through you. I know it's weird but I'm just looking at the signs. Going for French foreign legion tired of self sabotage. Thank once again God bless and keep on with the good fight💪

    • @tcavofficial
      @tcavofficial  4 дня назад +1

      Email me if you're serious we'll setup a consultation call: tcavofficial@gmail.com

    • @Bravo08328
      @Bravo08328 3 дня назад

      ​@@tcavofficial💪💯

  • @georgemartinez6712
    @georgemartinez6712 5 дней назад +1

    When I was at my lowest point in my life..no will change unless you suffer ..pain is a great motivation God bless

  • @ericporterfield4599
    @ericporterfield4599 4 дня назад

    So true and thank you for the true words and epic talks 🙏🏻

  • @nickjohnson6368
    @nickjohnson6368 5 дней назад +2

    Saw you on Matt Cox yesterday. Man! Everybody turning on Wes it was real refreshing to see you stand on your square and say you respect him, i knew cox would ask you, he really dislikes Wes' vibe, but them he really doesn't know him. Respect man! I know that had to be uncomfortable

  • @jamesmccann9989
    @jamesmccann9989 5 дней назад +2

    You the man T what's up wish I was poolside I gotta work lol😂😂😂😂

  • @sriramb01
    @sriramb01 5 дней назад +1

    Physical and mental pain is a way to remember bad things that happened.

  • @raybejar7074
    @raybejar7074 5 дней назад

    T Cav! Another 💎! Real talk! 💯! I'm always tuning in brother! Sincerely US Army Vet!

  • @joecarter5018
    @joecarter5018 5 дней назад

    Really enjoyed your video today. I would just like to contribute one other important thing. A lot of the people that we have wronged in our life are not going to be around forever. I am trying to change for the better so that people I have wronged are able to see the new me. Not everyone will forgive but some will.

  • @safehouse2382
    @safehouse2382 4 дня назад

    You know what you are talking about brother. I’ve always made little change in my life when things were comfortable. Things had to get hard for me to make change and moves.

  • @rchi3906
    @rchi3906 5 дней назад

    Crystal Clear , small victories , subtract , 1 day at a time , check , Semper Fi Brotha

  • @user-qi6tm2fb5x
    @user-qi6tm2fb5x 5 дней назад

    I'm glad to see you being smart poolside again.
    I gotta start making that one small change every day. I'm just treading water right now. Good stuff.

    • @tcavofficial
      @tcavofficial  5 дней назад

      Email me let's start thriving: tcavofficial@gmail.com

  • @sun77711
    @sun77711 5 дней назад

    HI Taylor,
    Well said!
    You've got to go through pain to get results in life.
    I actually get nervous when I get too comfortable, it usually means I am slacking somewhere!😂
    Dont just survive, push through to thrive!❤

  • @Jack-d5s
    @Jack-d5s 5 дней назад

    Asset or liability at the end of the day ✔️ Thanks for the words T.

  • @danielvillarreal6610
    @danielvillarreal6610 5 дней назад

    For sure, apply Lessons Learned and learn from mentors. Mentors can be living or dead, face-to-face, in books, videos, you name it.

  • @user-ql7eb6ln1n
    @user-ql7eb6ln1n 5 дней назад

    By the time the pain hits you, years that you can never get back or undo have passed. Sure, you've learned the lesson(s), but by then, you're older and unable to get on the right path.

  • @tomtaylor6163
    @tomtaylor6163 5 дней назад

    Outstanding ! Today I regret eating those burgers. Been awhile and they aren’t sitting well

  • @dark_SDKR
    @dark_SDKR 5 дней назад

    "he who learns must suffer" - some greek philosopher... i think.
    learning to my regret / benefit that most of my failings are only present when i'm around people. i'm finding that making changes is difficult as those around you have built up perceptions of you that give them comfort when interacting with you... if you change the comfort model (as in seeking personal growth / development) this invariably causes stress within that dynamic that will turn you into the enemy if those individuals do not have their own game wired tight... just my observances and thoughts.

  • @justinmanny86
    @justinmanny86 5 дней назад

    I just found out about your content from the Cox-man. You crushed it bro!

  • @keithagee8972
    @keithagee8972 5 дней назад +2

    at some point... Someone said... this is vinyl/cellulose... l'm going to put sound & imagery on it.

  • @user-tq2ym2ru7c
    @user-tq2ym2ru7c 5 дней назад

    dude about time you come up with your own podcast so i can listen to it while worken out ! much love from germany

    • @user-ll4ov1jy8z
      @user-ll4ov1jy8z 5 дней назад

      Do You live in a cave? start with pod cast 1 and if you are willing to learn, then judge!!! Airborne!!!

  • @aj-tp2yh
    @aj-tp2yh 5 дней назад +1

    GE true friends are hard to find

  • @jonathansmith283
    @jonathansmith283 5 дней назад

    NYTIMES SUNDAY JUNE 30 ,2024 front page . thank all the guys/ gals who served . - TC - like the honest confessions ~ JDS/CT

  • @oopswrongplanet7309
    @oopswrongplanet7309 5 дней назад

    In my early life I made a lot of selfish, arrogant decisions. The stupid decision and actions hurt me, but more importantly, hurt a lot of people. Collateral damage they didn't deserve from my stupidity. It was the disgust with myself for hurting others that made me finally decide, I didn't like myself the way I was and so I was going to have to change. It's been 30 years on and I am a completely different person now. I have come a long way. But I realize, it can never stop. Continual, daily reassessment and improvement: physical, spiritual, relational and intellectual. I deal now with some guilt and embarrassment from many of the dumba$$ things I did in the past that hurt others. I often cringe when I think of it. But I tell myself, I'm not that person any more. I take responsibility for what I did, but that person no longer exists in me. It's the commitment to never being that person again, never hurting anyone any more, that motivates me. I like who I am now, even so far from perfect and still screwing up at times. But I love the daily struggle to keep moving forward. I learned, you cant let the past hold you back, but instead use it to push you to a better place.

  • @FLOWERSandTHORNS
    @FLOWERSandTHORNS 4 дня назад

    today I wrote my new where did I go wrong yesterday list . . I'm going to follow that way everyday ❗️

  • @MrLeavittt
    @MrLeavittt 5 дней назад

    What’s up T. Thanks for all the wisdom you drop for us. Thanks for being a real one. Thank you for your service. I was wondering who you reached out to to start your change?

  • @Kenny-sp8bb
    @Kenny-sp8bb 5 дней назад

    You're very interesting, the other end of the spectrum from what I know from Navy seals. I work with the man called Tom Dietz. For 10 years all he said was he was in the Navy, never ever mentioned he was a Navy SEAL. We both worked for an engineering contractor he was a very hard worker honest. His word was gold. It was years later that I found out he was in Hawaii and was a Navy SEAL.. code of silence..

  • @alastairwest5200
    @alastairwest5200 5 дней назад +1

    Don Shipley needs to check this man out, Man.!!!!!!!!

    • @tcavofficial
      @tcavofficial  5 дней назад +4

      Bro, you're a bit late to the party. Google me bro.

    • @Akfordmn
      @Akfordmn 5 дней назад +2

      @@tcavofficial Stay strong Taylor!

    • @alastairwest5200
      @alastairwest5200 5 дней назад +1

      @@tcavofficial It was meant as a compliment, bro, lol.!!

  • @maddap6779
    @maddap6779 4 дня назад

    Question for you…… which are you more proud of to wear on Remembrance Day? the beret from seals or you legion lid? which was your proudest moments. and why for each service?

  • @storyofoneslifehostedbysea2774
    @storyofoneslifehostedbysea2774 5 дней назад

    Real talk

    • @storyofoneslifehostedbysea2774
      @storyofoneslifehostedbysea2774 3 дня назад

      This video really made a lot of sense Last.
      Week I started to work a second job On my days off And I agree comfortability is an issue Thank you.

  • @ANDYMORRIS-dz3dv
    @ANDYMORRIS-dz3dv 5 дней назад +3

    When we are little we learn fast that hot things hurt if we touch them, that electric slams if you put a finger in a light socket and we don’t do it again!
    Somewhere along the road we forget to learn
    We need to regain that learning to stop repeating dumb shit!
    Another Tcav gem
    Keep going brother

  • @Epsillion70
    @Epsillion70 5 дней назад

    The definition of insanity.
    “ Doing the same thing over and over again, expecting a different result.” 😉

    • @tcavofficial
      @tcavofficial  5 дней назад

      Straight up weve all been there👊🏼

  • @SharpMennRedPill
    @SharpMennRedPill 5 дней назад

    ya buddy

  • @bonifacedj
    @bonifacedj 5 дней назад

    'It has to hurt' (the way of the cross) is still the only way as far as the unconscious majority of humans is concerned. However, there is a growing number of humans alive today whose consciousness is sufficiently evolved not to need any more suffering before the realization of enlightenment. Source: 'The Power Of Now' Eckhart Tolle

  • @brianleach5759
    @brianleach5759 5 дней назад +1

    Qvae Nocent, Saepe Docent

  • @brentholden3147
    @brentholden3147 5 дней назад

    Hey Taylor, would you be brave enough to give us a video in French or at least a small section in French? I'd be interested in seeing how well it stuck with you. Respect from Holland dude 🤜

  • @deemc7756
    @deemc7756 5 дней назад

    😮

  • @suppatramp1329
    @suppatramp1329 5 дней назад

    There has got to be a way to remind is without going through pain.... tattoos, words, putting up signs with literal phrases, ie "Play like a Champion Today"....Paintings of sufferage....Maybe even once you get used to them, cuz you know that you will, put up a sign with another phrase that says, "Hey asshole remember why this is up in the first place"....You know like that 12 or 13 order of Sentry, Remember that? What you supposed to do))?
    You are absolutely right though, I just had a heart attack, something went wrong, training too hard, way, way too much stress....What more can I do? I think about y'all wen I am up there, stand by the words I have said, the commitments I make....Just a little too much this time....Gotta stop writing now, it hurts....Something about no release of energy, except pushing buttons while thinking about stupid shit))....Believe me, I think it is a thing now, especially with cell phones....Thanks for sharing Cav, 00 out!

  • @theravenandwolf
    @theravenandwolf 5 дней назад

    Hey Taylor would it be rude/annoying of me to email you and ask for advice? I'm 23 and lost. I love your advice and mentoring. I dont want to be a nuisance i would just love your opinion and advice for my current situation. If not no hard feeling big bro I just know you care about us and we care too. Either way thank you for everything and the wisdom and I can't wait to see more content from you. ❤❤🤙🤙

    • @tcavofficial
      @tcavofficial  5 дней назад +1

      This is what i do bro. Email me and we'll get you working on the correct blueprint: tcavofficial@gmail.com

  • @Argre
    @Argre 5 дней назад

    Where does the idea come from that THRIVING is wrong?

    • @tcavofficial
      @tcavofficial  3 дня назад

      Where does someone say thriving is wrong?

    • @Argre
      @Argre 2 дня назад

      @@tcavofficial Good point. Probably no place important.

  • @user-vd1qm4fm5e
    @user-vd1qm4fm5e 5 дней назад

    Like if you were distracted by the nip slip ----->

  • @KVX21
    @KVX21 5 дней назад

    Earn it Pay Now Play Later

    • @tcavofficial
      @tcavofficial  5 дней назад

      BOOM

    • @KVX21
      @KVX21 5 дней назад

      @@tcavofficial Great Work Man

  • @corystevenson9968
    @corystevenson9968 5 дней назад

    Bro .. your life and your experience is solid. And relatable. But listen your presentation when it comes to videos is very West Watson... Find your own way...

    • @tcavofficial
      @tcavofficial  5 дней назад +3

      Speaking in front of a camera well is what it is

  • @trouvljj6210
    @trouvljj6210 4 дня назад

    Can I join the seals with a felony waiver , neck tattoos waiver and a medical waiver ?? Or is that to much to shit

  • @ronaldtrump571
    @ronaldtrump571 5 дней назад

    Can I ask about your gold teeth? What’s the story man?!

    • @tcavofficial
      @tcavofficial  5 дней назад +2

      Long story

    • @ronaldtrump571
      @ronaldtrump571 5 дней назад

      @@tcavofficialcan you do us all a video on the story bro?

  • @Zero_thehero
    @Zero_thehero 5 дней назад

    Forget about this self help nonsense it’s like watching Mozart not playing music to become a blacksmith. You literally have mad killer skilzzzzzzzzzzzz and your not a piano player 😂

    • @tcavofficial
      @tcavofficial  3 дня назад +1

      I do it all thats why i can do it

  • @zendragonmindtuner6207
    @zendragonmindtuner6207 3 дня назад

    I don’t really have anyone that I can reach out to in my life that I feel can mentor me. And I’m so afraid to admit I need help

  • @williammyers3912
    @williammyers3912 2 дня назад

    Holy shit saw the swu interview so I decided to check it out. Looking very very Wes watsonish and that’s a bad look. Picnic bench in front of the pool

    • @tcavofficial
      @tcavofficial  День назад

      Why is sitting in front of a pool bad? U see whatever u want to see