Communication & Dating culture in Russia
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- Опубликовано: 29 сен 2024
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- How to talk to Russians and understand their culture & behavior
- Dating culture in Russia
- How to meet people, make friends... and more
- What to say to a Russian girl, compliments
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There are school hours 7am - 3pm, business hours 8am - 5pm and friendship hours 8am to 10pm. If the phone rings after 10pm, someone in the family probably died.
My impression of Russians is they have a strong spirit. There's nothing weak about them. Realistic and down to earth.
I have news for you you are wrong.. they are human just like you and I. All of them are not down to Earth by the way. This chick seems to put things into your head that can very well be true a lot of the time but other times not.
@@bmorg5190 Yes they are. Russians are a very hardy people.
Hello! I just found this channel a few days ago and am learning a lot about Russian culture. I am trying to learn the Russian language and hope to travel one day...I speak English and Spanish perfectly, and have learned Italian as well. Thank you for these informational videos; if you ever want to learn about what it's like to live in Los Angeles among different cultures and languages I would love to chat with you! Pazhaulsta, da zvedanya!
What a brilliant young woman Eli is. So well balanced and capable to transmit it out into a most in sadness kept World.
I stay curious to learn more from you. And I even might venture to learn your language, to be able to read the names of your streets when I come to visit you this year.
Stay well. Jorge K
I'm in the UK 🇬🇧 not in a city I live in the countryside of Northern England. I am interested in Russian culture and history as well as your food and the vastness of your countryside and its treasures. I don't believe stereotypes. Wow, no smiling? Chill out guys! I am happy to be alive so I smile a lot and laugh a lot. I would not be looking for love or something going to Russia and would try to learn as much of the language as I can to get by. I would look forward to learning via your club.
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I love a russian culture and peuple .I wish meeting à Nice girl I am from Algeria ❤️
Hello beautiful Ellie. Watching from Pakistan as always you are brilliant and your videos are amazing.
Привет товарищ, как дела? Привет из Пакистана
I'm from United States of America and I am very interesting to get informed about Russia Culture and dating culture in Russia.
I am in North Carolina, USA.
Thank you for your videos.
Am chechanian that live and born in jordan !
love watching you videos
Superstitions are hard to shake off from traditions ,even if you think they’re silly you follow them anyway
That's a great joke, 'If you have even number of flowers, take them to cemetery,' very funny, but I'm a man, a man would either buy one more flower, or just pick one out, and pitch it in a can, or give it to an old woman.
Such a beautiful thing that western feminism has not infected Russian women.
They are are high value women.
Worth holding the door for.
My dream is take a year long trip to russia
Ciao dall' Italia
10 Superstitions!
3 don't drink with a spoon in a cup
Omg yes, I've a Russian friend and she was thinking there's something wrong with me keeping a spoon in my cup:-)
1 don't whistle inside a house - I've been told this by them too!
5 don't turn back if you are halfway there - now this explains something. I needed to go back to get something I had forgot but they are totally against it. It just didn't make sense and we wouldn't go back and get it. It meant the day was going to be difficult to complete but they were very insistent. This makes life harder, there's no logical reason I can see for it. If there's something you need for your work or whatever, of course you get it. Maybe this is why things don't always get done in Russia? :-))
Your channel is excellent.
Ah, that explains my visit to St Petersburg. I tried to smile to be friendly and no one smiled back. I felt quite sad and taken aback but clearly I didn’t understand the culture. Thanks for explaining this Eli!! Xx
Yes not personal. If you go to other Slavic nations this is the same. I am a Slavic American and I have been told I don't smile often. So this can be inherited abroad even.
There is a saying in Russian "if you smile a lot, you will cry a lot" (very roughly translated)
This pretty much sums it up
@@blank_linewhat? Never heard of it
This is ? culture .This is pure protection and fear of communism and post communism.
When I first came to US I had to learn to smile A LOT. My jaw was hurting for days, but not anymore. :)
I love Russian people. In the UK I’d say that close friends can call at 3 a,m and stuff but that kinda thing is rare and hard to get !!!! I was only with my childhood friends like that. I’ve had Russian friends and they are great and easier to know :) unfortunately many of the people in the UK believe the propaganda about Russian people
Russians are very kind and honest but you need alot of time to be close to them!)) not easy to have a friends here.
Do you find they are more direct them British people?
Hiiii
You are, it seems one of those that listen to and believe Russian propaganda, as it says that Russians are great. They are not. Nationality doesn't determine this. You probably think that Russian women respect men who value traditional values and who dress nicely. You also think that Russian women care about how they look and are feminine. You also think that Russian men are tough and manly. You also think that women appreciate men who buy them flowers. You also think that Russian women are well educated and don't use filthy language and don't behave in a decadent manner. All of these things are prejudices and lies, and they are successfully promoted on social media and RUclips channels, unfortunately believed by every Tom, Dick and Harry that reads them.
@@Google_Does_Evil_Now No
I like friendly, open minded culture, most of my friends are Russian, they’re amazing 😻
There's a contradiction in terms. You like a friendly open-minded culture, yet you have Russia friends, who you like. Russians happen to be one of the most unfriendly, closed minded cultures you can ever know. Why don't you reveal your Russian friends to see how friendly they are?
@@stuartbritton4811 Nice... If you think the whole nation can be defined by one character trait, that's a sign that you're narrow-minded. 😪😪
@@AlionaLukina Well done. You sussed me out very quickly. According to your values, beliefs and mindset, I am very narrow-minded. I am glad I am like that, because if you said I was open-minded, I would think it as an insincere compliment.
Then you'll hate Russia as it's closed minded. The people are the most fake, narrow-minded I have got to know. If you are honest about their country, you'll be hated.
@@stuartbritton4811расслабиться 😊 что-то ты какой-то злой
What a lovely and charming young woman :D
And Elina is nice too 😉
A fox
@@TTS-TP A vixen ;-)
I'll bet you don't want to get her pissed off. She is a red head. Known to have horrible tempers. Eli is an exception, of course.😉
@@hershellacey9405 I will make sure not to piss her off, then ;-)
Most Americans can not distinguish between a Russian and a Ukrainian ethnically, linguistically, or culturally.
Russia for me is a charming place.
Hey Eli right now I'm leaving in Georgetown tx
Eli you make up for all the grumpy Russians!Your channel is one of my favorite.
Right!? She is such a lovely person.
😊
She is so cute and also beautiful
yup
Your video is so interesting! I’ll always remember my first day in Volgograd. I went to the supermarket and I couldn’t understand the cashier and she yelled at me because I couldn’t understand haha
But now I fond it funny and I actually understand why 😂😊
Maely This happened to me also traveling. I understand because it is frustrating and people say learn the language but you can't wait to learn or you are only just beginning to learn a language a nd you still need to take care of business (eating, shopping, busses and so forth). What else can you do? I'm more patient with people now after traveling.
@@sallylambert7552 Yes exactly!! Well I guess we learn with the experience haha
here they yell at you even if you perfectly understand
Assimilate the culture, shout back at them! Insult their mothers and you are on your way of becoming a Russian!
Hello Eli. I am originally from New York City. For the past 5 years I've been living in Scottsdale AZ. I had a few good Russian friends back in NY. I hope someday to visit Russia and explore the culture.
Everyone one who comes to my home has always been able to go in my frig or make themselves at home.
I kept hoping for my American acquaintances to do that but they either sat and waited for me to serve them or declined anything I would offer them. I got used to those "dry visits" and stopped doing that but my Russian friends were shocked when I didn't offer them anything.... So embarrassing!
I visited your country twice. The firt time it were the Ussr, during 4 weeks. I visited Moscou ofcourse , central Asia the south and the west. Beautyfull citys. The second time I visited the north , it was Russia during 3 weeks and spend my time mostly in St-Petersburg.
I was allways was very kindly admitted.
I certainly will return, to this beautyfull country. My name is Patrick Daneels
I knew you were gonna say both of those cities.. I mean what other cities would you go to even know they have tons of cities it seems like people only go to the same two cities. Even the Russian people whenever I open up a video and I see where they are they’re either in Moscow or St. Petersburg. Then once you leave those places it’s like everything is a damn dirt road. Even though it’s not completely but you know what I mean. Putin pocketing all the damn money like the thief he is..
Why don't you.tell.the truth? Tell all you know. Never mind if.some.people don't like you.because of it.
Hello wonderful lady! I am in the farm country in California U.S. I’m so thankful for your videos, I enjoy learning about different cultures so thank you.
Lois, she is only showing you the good side of beautiful RUSSIA! There is a lot of poverty and negativity in Russia..... FREEDOM is not to be found like in AMERICA!!! TRUST ME... Ask her if she thinks there are any major differences in FREEDOM between the Countries? I have lived in California and also in the Ukraine cites of Kyiv and Odessa!! Beautiful places, but not as beautiful as California or many places in America!!
@@cccalifornia7206 Two things:
1- America is a continent
2- Try to ask to the 600.000 people died in Iraq if U.S are the best country, ah yes, they are died (U.S are a classic example of world power, like Russia, that interferes and oppresses weaker countries for its own interests), maybe you can ask it to a person living in the U.S that haven't money for medical cares (In Russia everyone can be cured) or are forced to be homeless.
I love the U.S, especially for very kind people, but surely they are not the best country...
Love from Italy 🇮🇹💖🇺🇸🇷🇺
In the West, 24hr drug store. In Russia, 24hr Flower store. I actually love that about Russia.
Drugstores have flowers though? At least the ones by me do..
In Russia, they have 24 hour flower shops because Russian men can screw up at any time of day or night. Purchasing a bouquet of flowers has saved many a Russian man's life from an angry wife.
Круглосуточные аптеки у нас тоже есть, а так же магазины, доставка из ресторанов и даже маникюр
Çypern❤
@@HeinrichBeck good to know
Thanks for chatting with us. I am new to your channel and find it the best Russian channel I've found. I am an American living in Tbilisi Georgia. And I started this channel to show people aspects of the Caucasus and Georgia that other people overlook. Give them a look if you ever think of coming south.
Great infos! Salutations from Tulcea town of Romania! Always a pleasure to watch your vlogs!
If dating culture is about the purchase of things. Then it’s not really about love in the first place.
It’s easy to buy love from a women using gifts.
Projecting wealth buying fast or expensive cars. Larger houses or owning businesses.
Giving cut flowers or hand crafted chocolates.
Buying jewelry and material things.
But that isn’t really love.
It’s the purchase of it.
Real love isn’t about all that material greed. You won’t find lasting happiness in a relationship divided by business or status symbols.
A man willing to buy a woman’s affections or love with gifts. Isn’t going to stand by her after her body changes with age. If they still have money to pay for the buying of another relationship on the side.
You should be more honest about Russia and dating culture.
True love is in those people not obsessed with being treated like a materialistic wannabe princess.
Relationship and marriage do not last if they are built upon these shallow hearted ego driven concepts. Relationship endure because people base their love upon friendship or the creation of a stabile family. A life partnership.
What difference does it make how many flowers a man buys. If it’s to make up for every time he isn’t there or forgot something important. Real lasting a true relationship are not about all that materialism.
It’s not about the popular culture or status.
Real Russian relationships are like that of your parents. Strong enough to raise many children struggling in poverty. Simply because they love each other and couldn’t imagine a world without them.
I think that is the lesson in Russian dating culture you’ve missed. In trying to project an idea that it’s about buying things. Some of the best Russian love stories never cost anything and were through hand written letters.
What has more value in life.
Is it flowers or milk. Romance or friendship.
The endurance beyond all difficultly or the easiest pathway to financial stability.
Flowers are short lived and low in stature where a tree grows taller and stronger over time. Like the love of a good relationship. The tree stands above all those self absorbed flowers. That must start over again every year.
The more I watch your videos, the more I want to travel to Russia! I'm so glad I found your youtube channel. I think you're doing a great job. Thak you for sharing your tips and opinions!
I think exactly the same as the previous writer! I am Polish and in Poland there is at present a big anti Russian propaganda but my heart always draws me to Russia and Russian literature. Bułat Okudzava was very popular before in Poland. People would play his songs and listen to them. Your videos are very educational and inspirational. I’d love to travel to the regions you describe but worry how would I, a Pole, would be welcomed there.
I’m Lithuanian. My mom believes most of the superstitions you listed. I don’t believe most of them but if I come back inside after forgetting something, I still look at the mirror just in case. Lol… also, broken glass is good luck but broken mirror is bad luck and if utensils fall when you are at a table that means a guest is rushing over to meet you. There is also not giving slippers as gift to your spouse because they will leave you, etc…
If opportunity doesn't knock, build a door
The best way to predict the future is to invent it.If you want to lift yourself up, lift up someone else.”✨✨😉😇
Out of date.
Saying that Ukraine is the same place as Russia is like Saying the United States is the same place as Canada...ridiculous.
Not the same but very fuckin similar
Eli's view on this is very different from Putin's
Propaganda creates unnecessary fear by some governments to try to control its population. I have worked In Kazakhstan and in the same part of Russia in the past. I was warned by my government prior to leaving to avoid travel to said places. I felt Safer in Astana than many other places I have travelled to in the US. 😂
Not in my wildest dreams would I have imagined the RUclips algorithm would lead me to Russian dating videos, but you know what?
Fuck it, I'm here for this.
Maybe your person has a Russian background and is on their way to you ❤️😉💐
Her videos aware so much more like a travel guide
Her videos are so much more like a travel guide and very entertaining. Sorry for first comment
My favorite Russian stereotype is that everyone drinks vodka with bears. I love bears, vodka, and most of the Russians I've met - so I hope that one is true when I visit one day.
I like a good old bear and/or shot of whiskey once in a while too. Salute!!!!
It sounds like women still like to be courted for their love, to have the man show he is ready for family & love through his ability to entertain & romanticize himself. It reminds of my old beliefs for America. Now you just have to have a drug dealer & you can have all the women you can imagine.
You are an interesting lady, your personality is very enjoyable. Funny because my mother was Lithuanian and I was taught European mannerisms and she talked about some of the superstitions you mention. She always say “you’re going to have 7 years bad luck” “that’s bad luck”
So much to learn from our favourite country Russia . Thanks for all wonderful Vlogs . Thanks from India
My girlfriend told me to stop watching your videos because it's consider cheating...
I don't care..
YOU ARE SO BEAUTIFUL!!!
😂
She sounds insecure, jealousy is and ugly monster.
I have always distrusted people that smile and stab with the other hand. Considering your countries painful past they have learned this well.
"Na zdrowie" toasting is actually common in Poland, maybe that's where the confusion comes from.
Américaine en France
In Soviet times there was no requirement for customer service as everything belonged to the State and you were paid anyway. So in shops their attitude was indifference towards customers.
Panama but I’m a US citizen. I started following because I didn’t know anything about Russia except propaganda by our media. I have learned so much. Tks.
All people or rather all living things are connected to each other. By means of the air that is breathed, by the water we all drink and the world wide web...
Pls dont take that last one too seriously
Initially I have found the Russ to be very shy but as I became familiar to them they became so friendly especially with alcohol .
You literally described me 😂
Thank you because I love Russia very much, I come from Vietnam
Yea, I know my gf and we talk sincerely when we hardly met Now we are married 40 years to date.
If they were truly friends you can call anytime, day or night.
When I was a university student, the СССР was dissolving. And as such, students from the Soviet Union were coming to America to study.
I was fortunate enough to invite a wonderful, smart Russian student for a date; she agreed. I wanted to impress her, so I thought I would memorize a few words. As I walked to the library, I was listening to the radio, and this song was playing. It was perfect. That's the word I would use.
As we met at the restaurant, I opened the door, and I said "after you, babushka." Yes, I called a university student "babushka."
The song on the radio was "babooshka" by Kate Bush. 🤣🤣🤣
Hello from USA Eli! I enjoy your channel, keep up the good work!👌🏿
Damn…I think my problem with people in the US it used to hurt my feelings because I come running when they needed something or favor but when I ask the same (they might smile while) say “no” and I felt very sad. I think I relate to Russia mentality more than US. Good job!
Maybe you should realize everybody has a life and could be busy? But yeah get out of here just because we didn’t meet your needs one time or another but have all the other times I guess? 🤦♂️😂🤡 that will happen no matter where you are in the world by the way. I’ve been all over multiple times and what I’m saying is true. This is just something that’s common sense it doesn’t take that much thinking power to understand.. most people are idiots these days though 🤷♂️
@@bmorg5190 ARH
Phoenix, Arizona. You’re a sweet girl.
I hope Russian president doesn’t escalate his war.
Good points the lady in the store seem ok to me. While over seas Americans and other from the UK enjoy meeting Russians because some made an effort in learning English. While Russian enjoy laughing at them trying to learn Russian.
A lot of Russians in the United States I’ve noticed don’t even make an attempt to learn English.
There are lots of superstition like this in India also like people avoid giving money to someone at night as it is believed that it will bring poverty
Smiling comes natural from a happy heart.
There is always a good reason to smile or laugh. We are alive, we have life, this is sufficient reason.
totally true and agreed.
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Sounds good on paper, but its not the practical case. We both know that pretty much no one smile to appreciate that stuff (we should, but we just don't). We do it to be more socially acceptable or for some other selfish reason.
It's like we go to gym to be healthy and live long. But in reality, most of us go there to look good and be more attractive.
@@Xlife018 Yes, being sociable is another reason to smile. Now we have 2 reasons. Life just gets better and better.
Absolutely.
I'm happy for you Eli...
keep up the good work..
I'm russian, live in US, left Russia over 30 years ago and I still have all those superstations. And in fact "do not return home for something" is always happens to be true and turn my day upside down - even if I look at the mirror when I comeback. Also salt thing is so true - always will be some fight. lol
How’s life in the west ?. better worse same ?
@@abr5819 Russia today is very differen from Russia of 90s when I left there. Last time I went to Russia about 3 years ago I liked it, really got good impression, in fact Im thinking to move there after retirenemt. I found that life is less stressful, more safe any time of the day or nght - less crazy people, in general people are more open and easy going, easy to make friends and Its cheaper living cost and more accessable and free health care. But we will see when time comes, not making plans yet.
lldd11 yeah the land is abit bigger and less developed/harder to develop . I’m from the west , been thinking about Russia/Pakistan places that need a chance to develop. I’d prefer a slower paced life and more freedom . In the U.K. if you fart it’s a crime it’s getting ridiculous. But yeah thanks for your reply . 👍🏻
Aloha from Honolulu, Hawaii!
The smiling thing is same in Lithuania. I had some culture shock coming from rural Scotland and wanting to smile at everyone and no one smiles back, soon forgieners acclimate and stop smiling at everyone 😄 of course they do, when talking with someone especially younger generation. But we have inside joke that Lithuanians don't smile. I guess it seems Russia has the same situation. ☺️
Eli ya Lucie cziebie
Lubie
Moya droga yak czie koham
Means that I love you so
It similar wth a lot of cultures that stayed over iron curtain . And as she said smiling alll the time is considered stupid or fake. And I think the biggest stereotype you can tell I'd saying that Russians, Belarusian, Ukrainian, Polish is all the same thing. There are many similarities but russians and poles are like German and French and Ukrainians are like from Austria and Baltic States Netherlands - you don't confuse them do dont do that to us. People are people of course how and where you grow up influences you but then what kind of person you are can't be judged by where you o your parents are from. Comparisons are frustrating and never fair and they build up more stereotypes.
@@bobeczek01 don't get me wrong. I'm not saying they're all the same. Just noticed a similarity. I've friends from all over post soviet countries and have travelled to a few. There's definitely differences as each culture is its own. But some do have similarities which will come from having some shared history experiences and leadership. It was just something which I noticed a big thing there, that foreigners tend to notice especially foreigners from places like us and UK and Germany. I totally respect the culture though and after a while living there adopted similar attitude as lithuanians and got used it being that way and totally accept it.
I have news for you. You have to spend money on any girl.
"Товарищ" has shown up in our films, depicting Russians during Soviet times. Which is why you may be getting some people from the USA who use the term. Or think that the term is current. For those of us who are astute, we know that this term is outdated. That "друг/подруга и друзья" is more commonly used today.
In the paramilitary structures (army, police, etc.), there is still an official appeal "товарищ". This is about the same as "sir" in the US Army, with the difference that in the US Army sir goes to the senior in rank, and in Russia to everyone.
@@evl1536 in a lot of USA south States sir is still used for everyone as well as a sign of respect. Not just USA military. Ma'am is used for women.
I don't believe in superstitions maybe that's why I smile for no reason.
I developed an interest to travel Russian from watching youtuber baldandbankrupt, hes so awesome and loves everything soviet era
Lots of German are with Russia! Best regards from Germany!
Yeah it was long but very interesting guys.For us Filipinos here we never considered whether you are black or white or yellow or red. As long as you are really in love is such a wonderful thing to experience in life. In fact, we treasured much of foreign women to be our gf or wife to be and accepted by our relatives and family.Philippines is a place to where warm and loving people dwells.
OMG I love the Philippines. Out of all of the places I've traveled, I had the most fun there. The people are very friendly and love to laugh. Very easy to get along with.
My grandparents used to say that, “ they’re being fake!” All their pictures have no smile.
I lived in Hungary for a year. My roommates were a Hungarian and German (and I'm American). They had friends who would show up with like 5 minutes of warning, crawl into bed, fall asleep, wake up a few hours later and join us for dinner or watch TV or something very normal.
I'm Hungarian (born and raised and lived my whole life in Hungary), I always plan my meeting with friends at least 2 days before, but preferably even more time ahead like 1-1,5 weeks. Your experience is very different from mine. Okay, if you're very young in college like 18-21 it can happen that you don't plan with friends, because you don't have to, but once you start working or maybe have a family it is a different ballgame. Also, are you sure they were just sleeping?
Russian people are the most conservative people.
Woman expect men to be macho and strong and supportive. Woman are expected to be beautiful and strong witted.
It's not to different with the American views not too long ago.
I'm from Malaysia Chinese.
Will be visiting Russia soon.
Thank you for for showing your cultures.
Hope to make friend before my departure.
It's just for my 1 month holidays there.
Thkq and Keep safe
About Russians and Ukrainians being different peoples - if to choose only between 'yes' and 'no' - I would choose yes, we are. But, as always, there is a but. There is no distinct cultural division between our peoples, but rather an ethnic-linguistic gradient. If you take a person from a northern Russia - from Arkhangelsk, for example, and an Ukranian from Lviv - they will be very different. If you take two people from Belgorod and Kharkiv or, say, from Rostov-on-don and Mariupol - good chances are you won't be able to distinguish who's from where. At the same time it's often easy to distinct a person from Lviv from a person from Kharkiv and a person from Arkhangelsk from a person from Rostov.
Ukrainian often sounds as a completely foreign language for most Russians because they just never hear it in their lives. But if need arises - it takes a really small amount of time to start understand Ukrainian quite well. For me, for example, it was just a matter of hours, not days even.
Eli you are doing a good job promoting Russia, watching from Downunder, not live though.
I can't get over how beautiful you are Eli
So much fun! Very interesting topics. You're not supposed to open an umbrella ☔ inside in America or you will be struck by lightning ⚡.
I think it is mostly some of the most progressive women in America that would not appreciate some of these gestures out of social principle. I think most women, like most of us, want to feel respected & cared for. These traditions give a common way to give these gifts & affection, & as with all traditions, some may reject them for modern notions of care & respect. It's important to know your audience 😃
Many flowers to you, ladies, I enjoyed your lesson!💐💐💐
Looking forward to getting to know the AMAZING people and country that's RUSSIA Eileen Foley, Co Galway, Ireland
I would add the stupid tradition of going on a date with flowers. It's one thing to bring flowers when you go to visit, and quite another is to make a woman carry this beautiful broom in her hands along the street!)))
I tend to think this is common of North European people because this is pretty much the same way as when I grew up. In those days all most everyone was of North European descent here.
Hello Eli, watching from Denmark. Stay safe and thank you for sharing
Was cutting my nails at night when she mentioned the superstition of cutting your nails at night.
I would say that in Russia a smile has two meanings. Either you see something very funny or you feel very happy. Or you're just posing for a cute selfie :) So the meaning of a smile is genuinely different. Thus when a stranger smiles at a Russia, it really feels weird. Like, 'Is there something wtong with my hair? Then what are you smiling at? You can't possibly be happyto see me, as I' m not your spouse or best friend". That is what it used to be like when I was a kid.
But now we are becoming a little bit more into smiling.
About smiling, the new Russian generation is changing. They smile like many people in Europe.
A few superstitions we have in America are: break a mirror = 7 years bad luck. Or if a cat walks in front of you it’s bad luck. Or if a bird flies into your home one of your loved ones will die. Or it’s bad luck to walk under a ladder. There are lots of them and I have a few I like to follow but not all of them. One I like is if I see a falling star it’s good luck to make a wish and not tell anyone about it. I also hang a horseshoe upside down as it holds all the good luck inside- if you hang it upside down all the luck will fall out.
Are you Russian?? It’s all the same!!! 😂
По поводу Украины, России, Белоруссии, ты не права, когда подобное говоришь, говори, что это твоё личное мнение.
Eli, I tend to be more serious and don't smile as much as compared to other people I am around. I do smile, but when it is appropriate. I think I will fit in very well in Russia.
In U.S. an old superstition was that if you spill salt accidently it is bad luck unless you then throw some over your shoulder. I am not sure if anyone really believed this or if it was a sly joke but I remember my mother insisting we throw some over our shoulder just in case.
We have that, but it has to be over your left shoulder..
What if I am an amateur chef, and like to cook sometime? Would that offend her? I had a professional chef once tell me that my pie crust was better than his. He wanted my secret, (I don't give away my secrets. I would do so in a cook book I write).
Getting used to people being grumpy, only shows how much the culture is toxic.
I grew up in the Southern part of the U S where "southern hospitality" is commonly referred to due to this unnatural friendliness. It may be best related by listening to a song from 1972 by the O'jays called backstabbers. I love learning about different cultures and traditions and you present very well. Thank you for your dedication to excellence
The O' Jay's had sexy songs also my wife got pregnant to one of them.
USA and hospitality?
I too am from the south, and what you call "southern hospitality" is really politeness. They have it too in Russia. Just because you're being polite doesn't mean you really like a person. It's civility, and nothing more. You can tell when someone genuinely likes you. They offer to be of assistance, and go out of their way to spend time with you. As a friendship progresses, it is the same all over. Some you can trust, and some you just can't.
Same here!
"Bless your heart."
holy cow in my country we smile to strangers a lot so this is not gonna work for me in russia i have to change that altitude damn it boiii i need to fix my face
If I were a Russian woman and expecting always the man to make the first move ..I would have died single lol. I love learning about other cultures love from india
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'Don't whistle in the house' - Yep it's damn obnoxious. I will yell at you - possibly loudly with cursing and menacing.
'Don't sit on the corner of a table' - Because assess don't belong where the plates and glasses go.
'Don't drink tea with a spoon in' - I drink coffee so no problem, but when the spoon is in the teacup you poke yourself in the face with the back end.
'Do not put clothes on inside out' - It's tacky and people will notice and make fun of you.
'Dont' turn back if 1/2 way there' - More practical than superstitious - unless you forgot the main thing you were supposed to bring, or pooped your pants or something.
'Do not sew clothes while wearing' - Also a more practical than anything advice.'
'Do not give a sharp gift' - I've heard this but it isn't part of the folksy superstition set where I live.
'Be careful with salt' - Actually we do the opposite. A line of salt at the threshold and/or a dash of salt thrown over the shoulder for good luck or to ward of 'evil spirits'
'Find yourself between two people with same name' - We have similar customs for luck - 4 leaf clovers, raining and sunny at the same time, etc.
I've lived all over the western US, and in parts of the East coast. My mother was British-African so I've got a few different cultural inputs.
May God save Russia from the plage of the new feminism
Are you saying you are not man enough to handle it? Hold that "L" for me.
@@neoliberalerneandertaler9347 nur weil Deutschland schon davon befallen ist, musst du nicht gleich mit jedem hart ins Gericht gehen
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No, he's saying that Feminist women are too masculine.
@@neoliberalerneandertaler9347 only femine guys find feminist (read: masculine) ladies attractive.
Absolutely! New wave feminists have nothing to with equal rights, equal dignity, equal pay or freedom from sexual harassment. In the US, feminists today are blind ideologues defined by a seething resentment toward men, children, human biology and the traditional family. Fortunately, only around 7% of women identify as feminists. On top of which, feminists are being further marginalized by the unrelenting attack of our crazed trans radicals who are intent on capturing the female space for themselves. Kinda like the nazis and the bolsheviks going at each other.
After what Russia's been through in the last century, you don't want what the West is selling.
I knew rissians by their literature (lermontov pushkin dostojevsky nabukov ecc)
I live in usa but some friends act just like russians at 3:30 am for there concerns LOL
(laughing out loud) love the no privacy segment it is priceless
Great video! We actually have a very similar mentality and culture 💞
Beware, of grumpy Russians thank go you have the same culture imagine if you did not??????????????????
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Thank you, great video, Can you please provide more information on Dating a Russian Man?
eli i have watched many of your vids your adorable