Sad to see steve did all the cleaning, packing on his own and that none of the butler men helped him...seeing how good he was to Carlie and cooper the whole time, while she acted 16 the entire time and broke up with him every 3 wks
People like you are the reason you are the reason I hate the internet. First of all, you have no clue why or how or anything about their breakup. Secondly, you have no idea if the Butler boys helped him move or not because all he showed was a few little bags off stuff and if you think that that is the only stuff he owns, then there's something wrong with you. Please quit assume stuff that you have no clue about and quit looking for someone to blame. Breakups happen. It's life.
***** I understand that, very clearly. But I still don't like the fact that people judge, make assumptions, and blame people when they don't know all the details or in this case...any of the details. I don't think an assumption or judgement should be based on what you think you know. Especially when false assumptions, false accusations and anything related to that can sometimes hurt people to the point of taking their own lives, not that Carlie or Steve would ever do that, I'm just speaking in general.
That was hard to watch. I can hear the pain in your voice, but also hear the possibilities your looking forward to. It seems pretty obvious for the first time that's it's finally over between you to. That makes me sad, but I definitely think it's for the best. Good luck to you both. Thanks for the video it we'll help squash all the incessant drama and rumors!
Thanks for making this video Steve, this cleared up a lot of things and it was nice to have a honest and somewhat positive video about the situation :)
Really? Come on. She's 26. You act like she's 80 years old and has dated tons of men and can't make a relationship work. Truly how many women do you know who have been in a successful relationship...that end in marriage for the rest of their life...at age 26? Grow up. She's young and still figuring out what she wants in a relationship. The only "real problem" there is here is people like you who think they know everything about someone's relationship/personality based on small details they learn from the internet.
If Carlie was more like Collette or Kayli (her sisters-in-law) she would have been happily married to Steve by now, BUT the problem is that she turned out to be just like her mother...LOUD, controlling, and insecure about her looks...she drove steve away....what man wants to deal with someone that LOUD!!!....look at how sweet Collette and Kaylie are, soft spoken and wifey material.
Loud is not the problem, it's maturity as it felt like Steve was dating a "daughter", not an actual grown up woman (a partner). Carlie needs to know where, how and when to behave, instead of acting chaotic and unpredictable all the time. Carlie's biggest problem comes from home, she was raised very spoiled. There is always someone else to help her fix her own mess and it's not right, I dont know what's gonna happen to her when her parents are gone. Her older brothers have families and responsabilities of their own and she doesnt seem to understand nor realize that time is ticking.
why is everyone bashing their mother ?! she did nothing to you guys... you don't know her. and I'm not saying I do but I feel you shouldn't comment things like this without thinking of how you would feel if somebody said this to your mother. just saying...
Carlie is immature as they come and will never have a successful relationship until she changes. She is very selfish and spoiled. Her parents have raised her to think that nothing is ever her fault and her brothers enable her behavior. She could murder someone and her family will blame the victim. To be fair, you can't solely put the blame on them. When you grow older, you mature, you change, and try to make yourself a better person. When you realize that some traits are holding you back, you try to change yourself to become a better you. Carlie never went through that because she thinks nothing is wrong with her - always shifting the blame onto others. From the beginning she has been taught to think that nothing is her fault and everyone is out to get her. She takes absolutely no accountability for her actions. I pray that there is a day when Carlie acts her age (instead of acting like a 15 year old attention whore), puts her son first in her life, and finds her true self.
I really appreciate how honest and sincere you always are on social media. You never try to portray something you're not, and you share with the "swoldiers" every aspect of life's ups and downs. Swoldier nation is a family and I know I speak for everyone when I say we will always support you no matter what! Good luck on your new journey and keep spreading the word of Health/Fitness!
That mountain view is incredible. Christ it's midnight here and I have a medschool interview tomorrow morning, with a flight in 5 hours. And I'm watching Steve Cook move house; yolo am I right? wow.
Been watching Steve since the start he gives me so much strength. Never commented on a video but I felt I needed to here. I'm personally going through a similar situation at the moment girlfriend had her visa taken away and I'm on my own again not broken up but I may have to move places and pack my girls things away. Been one of the hardest 2 weeks of my life not being able to say goodbye to her at the airport and seeing this video shows I'm not the only person going through these kind of tough times. Thanks for sharing this steve it's given me a lot of encouragement to see how your dealing with these tough times. Onwards and upwards swoldier!
Janice Abreu AND they're married already :/ She rushes into shit way too fast I'm assuming they're married since Carlie's engagement video shows her in a wedding dress and the guy in a tux.
Wish you the best of the best brother. Your soul inspires all of us so now we ask you not to give up and keep fighting. God bless you man! See you next time you come to Texas.
Thanks for explaining in this video, otherwise there's so much speculation and am sad about the split but can tell you guys haven't been gelling for a while (since Ireland video) good luck to you and will miss u in Shaytards video's.
Thanks for the update Steve. Not that it's any of our business about what's going on in your relationship. This was heartfelt with no drama. Best of luck to you and your new adventure. :)
Wow. That was excellent! Never knew the full story, until now... and, I would have said the exact same thing - and I have; with the same sincere love. Great respect for you Steve Cook. Keep doing great things. :)
That was hard to watch. I just got out of a 2 year relationship in November myself. Regardless of what happens, I wish both you and Caryle (and Cooper) the best of luck in whatever direction either of you take. Steve, you are still and always will be one of my biggest heroes of all time and I know that things can only go up from here. Stay strong, man, and hopefully we'll get to meet in person someday. Cheers.
Wait I'm so confused? So are you and carlie back together or were you guys back together or did you never get back together? I mean is it just me or..... Either way good luck with the move onto bigger and better!
She moved out a couple of months ago, now they´re selling the house and he is moving aswell. I dont understand what you mean? They obviously broke up and going different ways. Stay strong Steve, its tough, but so are you.
If you look at his Twitter and Instagram you can see pictures and videos of them together! And a few weeks ago he posted a picture of carlie with song lyrics
comon if they would get married for real it would never work in the long run... cant force it some people are just not meant to be. better break up now. they already been breaking up 7 times. So yes he could maybe get some miss america girl or whatever but whats the point in getting married with the most beutiful girl if there is no chemistry? looks is not everything. one of the must important thing in a relationship is trust.
Just exactly what do you think Carlie did? Steve didn't say she did anything bad. He said they BOTH were waiting for each other to change and that's just not a relationship and he's right. If you can't accept each other for what you are, then you do not belong together. It's better they figure that part out now and have a sorrowful breakup than get married and end up in a messy divorce later kicking themselves because they knew they shouldn't have. Steve wasn't blaming Carlie and she hasn't said anything about him period so why all the blame game going on?
I would like to thank you Steve for this video. I'm also coming out of a nasty break up and I really needed to hear what you said. So thank you very much. Keep up the amazing work and be strong. New Zealand loves you
You are a great human being Steve. I'm telling you man, you inspire me to be a better version of myself, to be kind to others, to have a better work ethic, to be humble and appreciate what I have, but also to be hungry and chase what I want. Human relationships are tough, everybody has its own values, personality, ways of doing things... It's difficult to find a person that is compatible with you in such an intimate level. I know that is hard when you set your expectations high and it doesn't work out the way you wished. Anyhow :), here begins a new path in your life! Thank you very much for sharing, I'm 20 and I can learn some valuable content by listening to you. All year ahead! Cheers from Barcelona, Spain!
Glad to see you are getting some closure through this video. I wish you the best Steve. Stay focused on being on a King and your Queen will come to you.
Best of luck man and your mindset on it is definitely the most positive take away from the situation. Its useless to harp on the bad, better to just remember the good and move on with life with your chin up knowing the future has much in store for you!
Best of luck for you, Steve and also Carlie. Yes these things suck but at the end of the day both parties have to be happy. Thanks for all the experiences you and Carlie have shared with us man. Loved seeing you in the Butler's vlog and I hope you will treasure those memories as much as the viewers have. Anyhow, god bless, we live and we learn.
Why am I now finding out they broke up. And on top of that, within the same moment I find out Carlie is engaged to someone else!?!? 😓 This honestly broke my heart but I wish the best to the both of them.
Last I saw was around 2013 when they were still together. Later in 2015 I saw that shaytards uploaded lots of Volgs. So I decided to catch up. I made a shaytards Instagram fan page called shaytardstime. Any ways I was exploring Carlie's Instagram and see she's getting engaged. So I'm like wait WHATTT!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?! what happened to Steve. So I did my research and here I am watching this video. So I found out the broke up :(
Steve you're a great guy and I'm a fan of yours. I truly believe you will find the right person you are looking for. I look forward to hearing more from you on whatever is going on with you in your daily life. I wish you the best and hope you find happiness sooner rather then later.
This is why we love watching you steve. You're so full of wisdom and I love your mental/emotional "fitness" videos just as much as your physical fitness videos. :) You're such a good role model, and you're the kind of guy I aspire to be. Thanks for the video man, we love you.
I rarely watch vlogs on youtube and you're one the few people I actually follow. You seem really genuine and classy, haven't found a single thing that irritates me about you and haven't noticed anything I can complain about, keep being so honest because it sure is inspiring a lot of people!
Hey Steve, nice message straight from the heart.....I wish you luck in Utah and as always, your videos are an inspiration for me and many others to work out and get healthy. If you don't mind me asking, why did you choose to move to St. George? Take it easy
You have been an amazing inspiration for me as I have learned more about bodybuilding and lifting weights. Big Man On Campus was the first structured workout that I ever followed all the way through and I have grown so much, both physically and in knowledge, from your videos and workouts. I truly believe what you've said before that life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you react. God has a plan for you and I know that you will continue to inspire myself and countless others. I'm proud to be a swoldier! Keep looking up, man!
I'm really sorry Steve.. I know the feeling. It's rough. You are one strong guy for sharing this with everyone. Keep your head up and stay positive! Much love man.
It is awesome to see that away from the weights room, the philosophy remains the same. Personal stuff like this must be hard to put into a vlog that goes online but the positivity and good-nature I felt watching this was truly inspiring, and that's why I've subscribed and followed you for so long Steve. All the best for the future, looking forward to the new content, God Bless.
Stay strong we always got your back. I wish the best of luck for u and Carly. I really enjoy your videos and hope to see you on RUclips more. Take care of yourself.
Steve, You've are such an inspiration for myself and so many people! You have helped me transform and so many others through your excellent videos and amazing attitude towards personal progression. I never really had the courage to workout when I was younger until I found your channel. You're attitude and talks during training videos helped me gain some confidence and shape my self into a better man physically and mentally. You've done big things and this is just a step in doing even bigger things with your life and career. I would say "Wish you luck" but I don't need to. You don't need luck because you already have everything it takes to be successful. Keep inspiring people like you always have and I can't wait to see what big things you do next!
Good luck, Steven. I got a feeling that the next great thing for you is just around the corner. You are such an inspiration, and you have made me want to become a better person. You are just awesome, there is no better word for it! Much love from Norway :)
The way you handled your last breakup on twitter really bothered me, but I am very impressed with how you handled this. you managed to show your raw feelings in a mature way without being negative to anyone. I think you've grown a lot from this. That relationship was just toxic and you two will be much happier with whoever was meant to be. Good luck in St George and so glad we can all move on
All in it's time Steve Cook. Chin up high and keep going! A house isn't a home where there is no stability in a relationship. You didn't give up, you gave it your all and it wasn't meant to be. But the almighty has something better for you planned out. Put on a smile and good luck on this new chapter in life.
Yeah and I told you what I meant and you still thought I meant her. Stay in school little one. Maybe someone will like me? Haha sounds like you're talking about yourself. Sorry hope you find happiness.
Hate to see such a positive guy being down... Keep your head high Steve, and think of the many many many people you daily inspire to create a better life !!! Been following you for 2 years now, and can honestly say, that you changed my outlook on life to the positive... From being an addict and a criminal, to being a fitness junkie with a positive mind. Stay strong and focused on the many good things to come... Love and respect, from a big fan in Denmark!!!
Coop and Carlie are his family, he is such a father figure to Coop I bet this was really hard on the little guy who looked so up so much to Steve who is such an amazing man
Kallie Maschino Cooper has a dad, and he is very much in the picture. It is going to be hard for Cooper to get over Steve, but he will because he is young and has a great dad that loves him with all of his heart. Steve treated Cooper like a son, and truly loved that little boy. I feel that Cooper will get over this hopefully soon, but he will be o.k. You really do not have to worry about him though, because he has a lot of family members that love him to pieces.
I hope so too, but give it a month they will be back together again and start posting cryptic tweets like "the heart wants what the heart wants" or some other bollocks and before you know it boom back together! they are so messed up it's not even funny now.
I believe that you was really happy together with this girl but like i always say, "it's me, my self and i" even with my girl, because one day if this happen with me also I will not suffer that much. So keep strong and positive steve. .. From Portugal big hug from a fan of you... Sorry my English.
Steve Cook, you are the man. Same thing happened to me and I look at your videos for inspiration to move on. You really know how to handle bad situations like this and always come out as a winner. I know this been a while back but some times people make you think you aren't good enough, but I learned that those people just don't appreciate you and it's the same in my situation. Your positive attitude and energy gives me an extra boost and I know some day I will reach same heights as you. I hope everything turned out well at the end though. You should do more vids on how you moved on from these situations.
But what about christmas special, and some other vlogs, you guys were back together! Did you guys try one more time and it didn't work out again? :( Oh well, I'm a Shaytards fan but you seem like a good person Steve so I'll continue following you, even though I'm not into bodybuilding, you do motivate me to go exercise and be healthy ^_^ so yeah.
Watching this video always gives me hope as I'm going through the same thing myself. When it's not right it's just not right. Besides your girl now is 1000X hotter. Damn. Life is crazy sometimes. As always, you always inspire everyone around you, Steve!
I love the Butlers and I know Carlie is the hardest one to handle. She is very inmature and has a very long way to go to be in a place where she could be someone's wife or just in a long term relationship. I had high hopes that I would see you two figuring things out and find a middle point where the relationship worked out. It is very sad too see it didn't. I admire and respect you in a another whole different level for remaining such a civil gentleman after the breakup when it's so easy to trash the other person when you are wearing your heart at your sleeve. I hope you will soon find a girl that is at your level and ready to be a fair partner.
Hang in there Steve! You are a super positive dude and thats why people are so drawn to you. Remember those "20 Things Happy People Do Different" and you will be okay.
They definitely share a mutual respect for each other for this split. it must be hard to move your entire life for one person to another house and state. It's a big life change and during that process some realize they won't end up happy in the end and it's okay to think of yourself in these types of situations to avoid an even harder breakup (or divorce) down the road. They both moved on just fine, which can give others hope that the same will happen with them.
The biggest loser here is Cooper who has been subjected repeatedly to Carlie's choices of men. He loses another father figure in his life, and Steve was invested in a relationship with him.. In the end, this is the best thing that will happen to Steve. He can move on with his life , get married and have kids with someone who will be good to him and not be narcissistic and full of herself like Carlie is. Good luck Steve
Cooper loves his new official daddy. He asked cooper for Carlie's hand in marriage before he engage! If only you saw coopers smile. Jackson even has a nickname for him "coops"
We'll be here for you man. Lean on your friends and family and they will get you through this. Keep your head up and know that every day is a new day and a new chance at something better.
Dude you will find someone else i know you guys dated for awhile and it will take you awhile to recover. But thats what dating is seeing if they are right for you. She wasnt so let go of that. I see its hard for you so take some time and not worry about dating just focus on you man. And eventually if you want you may find another person a better person for you. These coming monthes will be hard but youll push through and be stronger for it. Dont forget theres so much left for you to do. Best of luck steve.
Steve... I had a very similar situation in my life. If she's so focused on her goal like we are... It's a good move brother. You still will be firends, beleive me. But you can't climb the top together, if you are goin' on two other mountains. I'm with you! Both of you becouse I reall know how does it feel to still love someone and can't be together becouse of goals and characters. you will find your reall haliness brother, you will.
Love your vids Steve, really motivating every time i feel demotivated i watch you workout vids and my spirit goes way up and all i think about is dieting, working out and just being positive about things.
I wish you the very best Steve. It takes strength and courage to say that your relationship has ended and move on. Remember that the details are your own. Take care of yourself. Be nice to yourself. Give yourself time to heal. You'll be okay.
"Take an honest look at your life. What is working, and what isnt working. What isnt working, really examine it. Find out what you're doing to cause it. If its not you causing it, and you honestly think someone is holding you back; as much as it might hurt, cut them loose. You will find so much more growth and opportunity. You become a better person, stronger person, where you can really help them later in life." -Greg Plitt
Best of luck steve, u seem like a chill down to earth kind of guy. You'll be alright. That 14 year old trapped in b a bleach blonde 30 something is another story, you can tell by looking and listening to her talk she's got life messed up
I'm from St. George. Weather is awesome year round, all the outdoor stuff you could want, Vegas is an hour and a half away, nice and safe community. I'd move back in a heartbeat if I could find a good-paying job. Good luck to you on your move and hopefully it's a good change for you!
first when Steve started appearing with carlie in shaytard vlogs I stereotyped him as a arrogant meathead and always thought carlie to be an annoying tease. but then I saw some of Steves vids and he's a cool dude. point is that they were together for what 2 years and now she's married to a guy she's been with for less than half that time. Steve you got a lot going for ya, she would've only dragged you down with her kid. just keep makin them gainz!
this was so sad, i could tell you were speaking from you're heart! but life can be a bitch sometimes, you've just got to keep your head clear and move on. Anyway, please upload move vlogs i love them!
Sad to see steve did all the cleaning, packing on his own and that none of the butler men helped him...seeing how good he was to Carlie and cooper the whole time, while she acted 16 the entire time and broke up with him every 3 wks
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Oh c'mon! You know the Butlers think that precious Carlie can do no wrong. She could murder someone and they would all blame the victim.
People like you are the reason you are the reason I hate the internet. First of all, you have no clue why or how or anything about their breakup. Secondly, you have no idea if the Butler boys helped him move or not because all he showed was a few little bags off stuff and if you think that that is the only stuff he owns, then there's something wrong with you. Please quit assume stuff that you have no clue about and quit looking for someone to blame. Breakups happen. It's life.
***** I understand that, very clearly. But I still don't like the fact that people judge, make assumptions, and blame people when they don't know all the details or in this case...any of the details. I don't think an assumption or judgement should be based on what you think you know. Especially when false assumptions, false accusations and anything related to that can sometimes hurt people to the point of taking their own lives, not that Carlie or Steve would ever do that, I'm just speaking in general.
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That was hard to watch. I can hear the pain in your voice, but also hear the possibilities your looking forward to.
It seems pretty obvious for the first time that's it's finally over between you to. That makes me sad, but I definitely think it's for the best. Good luck to you both. Thanks for the video it we'll help squash all the incessant drama and rumors!
Yeah, I could also definitely hear the pain in his voice. Its sad but we gotta move on!
Very nicely put RT CJ. I totally agree. It's so sad, but necessary.
This was sad but it's good that you seem to stay optimistic about it!Thanks for being honest.
u are one good looking human o.O
Thanks for making this video Steve, this cleared up a lot of things and it was nice to have a honest and somewhat positive video about the situation :)
Holly shiz I love your vidz that u make thier awesome
rosebud Thanks!! :D
Carlie's relationships NEVER work. We've seen them come & go. Ffs she's divorced as well. We all know who the real problem is.
Unfortunately Steve is divorced too......
They're both fuck ups.
Really? Come on. She's 26. You act like she's 80 years old and has dated tons of men and can't make a relationship work. Truly how many women do you know who have been in a successful relationship...that end in marriage for the rest of their life...at age 26? Grow up. She's young and still figuring out what she wants in a relationship. The only "real problem" there is here is people like you who think they know everything about someone's relationship/personality based on small details they learn from the internet.
***** Small details? I think you're forgetting that Carlie tweets EVERY detail about her life.
Dr. Hugh Myron shes gonna turn out to be just like her mom....and who the fuck wants to be with her mom...
If Carlie was more like Collette or Kayli (her sisters-in-law) she would have been happily married to Steve by now, BUT the problem is that she turned out to be just like her mother...LOUD, controlling, and insecure about her looks...she drove steve away....what man wants to deal with someone that LOUD!!!....look at how sweet Collette and Kaylie are, soft spoken and wifey material.
Loud is not the problem, it's maturity as it felt like Steve was dating a "daughter", not an actual grown up woman (a partner). Carlie needs to know where, how and when to behave, instead of acting chaotic and unpredictable all the time. Carlie's biggest problem comes from home, she was raised very spoiled. There is always someone else to help her fix her own mess and it's not right, I dont know what's gonna happen to her when her parents are gone. Her older brothers have families and responsabilities of their own and she doesnt seem to understand nor realize that time is ticking.
why is everyone bashing their mother ?! she did nothing to you guys... you don't know her. and I'm not saying I do but I feel you shouldn't comment things like this without thinking of how you would feel if somebody said this to your mother. just saying...
how do people know so much about their family LOL
EHMSL1226 that's what I'm wondering too!
Carlie is immature as they come and will never have a successful relationship until she changes. She is very selfish and spoiled. Her parents have raised her to think that nothing is ever her fault and her brothers enable her behavior. She could murder someone and her family will blame the victim. To be fair, you can't solely put the blame on them. When you grow older, you mature, you change, and try to make yourself a better person. When you realize that some traits are holding you back, you try to change yourself to become a better you. Carlie never went through that because she thinks nothing is wrong with her - always shifting the blame onto others. From the beginning she has been taught to think that nothing is her fault and everyone is out to get her. She takes absolutely no accountability for her actions. I pray that there is a day when Carlie acts her age (instead of acting like a 15 year old attention whore), puts her son first in her life, and finds her true self.
I really appreciate how honest and sincere you always are on social media. You never try to portray something you're not, and you share with the "swoldiers" every aspect of life's ups and downs. Swoldier nation is a family and I know I speak for everyone when I say we will always support you no matter what! Good luck on your new journey and keep spreading the word of Health/Fitness!
That mountain view is incredible. Christ it's midnight here and I have a medschool interview tomorrow morning, with a flight in 5 hours. And I'm watching Steve Cook move house; yolo am I right? wow.
Hey good luck! I'm counting on you! :)
Me too good luck
you got this shit bro
Cheers guys, really appreciate it! Thought I'd only get abuse seeing as it's the Internet, but am very surprised. Thanks again
TheManOfRash Dude where is your interview at I have a medschool interview on the 16th
Been watching Steve since the start he gives me so much strength. Never commented on a video but I felt I needed to here. I'm personally going through a similar situation at the moment girlfriend had her visa taken away and I'm on my own again not broken up but I may have to move places and pack my girls things away. Been one of the hardest 2 weeks of my life not being able to say goodbye to her at the airport and seeing this video shows I'm not the only person going through these kind of tough times.
Thanks for sharing this steve it's given me a lot of encouragement to see how your dealing with these tough times.
Onwards and upwards swoldier!
Be strong my friends
I appreciate this honesty and completely respect him and his maturity here. This is a person wanting to grow and you can tell he really loved her
Is it me or did a clip repeat twice?
It repeated for me too.
Yeh thought I was trippin haha
Actually it repeated only once.
Actually it repeated only once.
yeah RUclipsrs do that sometimes to produce more comments
I love that you are so real and honest. Thanks and good luck on the move. I'm glad you are finally getting rid of the drama and moving on
Its has been only 4 months and Carlie already has a new boyfriend (Jackson) so we all know why this relationship didn't work out. Poor steve
True
And you're judging what happened by one detail. Wow.
They're engaged 😁
Janice Abreu AND they're married already :/ She rushes into shit way too fast I'm assuming they're married since Carlie's engagement video shows her in a wedding dress and the guy in a tux.
They're not married already. 😂 That was a photo shoot. 😂
Wish you the best of the best brother. Your soul inspires all of us so now we ask you not to give up and keep fighting. God bless you man! See you next time you come to Texas.
Thanks for explaining in this video, otherwise there's so much speculation and am sad about the split but can tell you guys haven't been gelling for a while (since Ireland video) good luck to you and will miss u in Shaytards video's.
Best of luck Steve love ya man! And you have a lot of fans that love you stay strong brother! You rock!
Thanks for the update Steve. Not that it's any of our business about what's going on in your relationship. This was heartfelt with no drama. Best of luck to you and your new adventure. :)
Wow. That was excellent! Never knew the full story, until now... and, I would have said the exact same thing - and I have; with the same sincere love. Great respect for you Steve Cook. Keep doing great things. :)
That was hard to watch. I just got out of a 2 year relationship in November myself. Regardless of what happens, I wish both you and Caryle (and Cooper) the best of luck in whatever direction either of you take. Steve, you are still and always will be one of my biggest heroes of all time and I know that things can only go up from here. Stay strong, man, and hopefully we'll get to meet in person someday. Cheers.
Wait I'm so confused? So are you and carlie back together or were you guys back together or did you never get back together?
I mean is it just me or.....
Either way good luck with the move onto bigger and better!
She moved out a couple of months ago, now they´re selling the house and he is moving aswell.
I dont understand what you mean?
They obviously broke up and going different ways.
Stay strong Steve, its tough, but so are you.
Henkan91 Hes talking about cChristmastime when they were toghter in shaytards vlogs.
If you look at his Twitter and Instagram you can see pictures and videos of them together! And a few weeks ago he posted a picture of carlie with song lyrics
***** She did not move out for a couple of months. More like a couple of days.
He did say "We DATED for 2 years", not "We've been dating for 2 years", which tells us they are no longer dating.
Props to you Steve for sharing an intimate part of your life with us. God will guide you and bless your steps. On to the next chapter brother.
Yay! Good for you Steve. I wish you the best.
Steve could get any girl he wants probably. He treated cooper like a son and this is how Carlie repays him... Sad
comon if they would get married for real it would never work in the long run... cant force it some people are just not meant to be. better break up now. they already been breaking up 7 times. So yes he could maybe get some miss america girl or whatever but whats the point in getting married with the most beutiful girl if there is no chemistry? looks is not everything. one of the must important thing in a relationship is trust.
VIncent Know Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price is far above rubies.Proverbs 31:10
Just exactly what do you think Carlie did? Steve didn't say she did anything bad. He said they BOTH were waiting for each other to change and that's just not a relationship and he's right. If you can't accept each other for what you are, then you do not belong together. It's better they figure that part out now and have a sorrowful breakup than get married and end up in a messy divorce later kicking themselves because they knew they shouldn't have. Steve wasn't blaming Carlie and she hasn't said anything about him period so why all the blame game going on?
Your exactly right. Finally someone else understands and agrees with me
I would like to thank you Steve for this video. I'm also coming out of a nasty break up and I really needed to hear what you said. So thank you very much. Keep up the amazing work and be strong. New Zealand loves you
You are a great human being Steve.
I'm telling you man, you inspire me to be a better version of myself, to be kind to others, to have a better work ethic, to be humble and appreciate what I have, but also to be hungry and chase what I want.
Human relationships are tough, everybody has its own values, personality, ways of doing things... It's difficult to find a person that is compatible with you in such an intimate level. I know that is hard when you set your expectations high and it doesn't work out the way you wished.
Anyhow :), here begins a new path in your life! Thank you very much for sharing, I'm 20 and I can learn some valuable content by listening to you.
All year ahead! Cheers from Barcelona, Spain!
Your honesty is commendable! Well done Steve, all the best.
Damn that was hard to watch. You're a good man steve and have inspired so many including me. Wish you all the happiness and success!
Glad to see you are getting some closure through this video. I wish you the best Steve. Stay focused on being on a King and your Queen will come to you.
Best of luck man and your mindset on it is definitely the most positive take away from the situation. Its useless to harp on the bad, better to just remember the good and move on with life with your chin up knowing the future has much in store for you!
Had to comeback to this video I don’t know why but I feel like I can relate so much right now. You live and you learn and you keep on moving forward.
Never buy anything together when you are just dating. It always ends badly financially.
Also, NEVER GET A TATTOO OF YOUR boyfriend or girlfriend's name because you will end up breaking up and have to get a cover up tattoo.
She didn't put a penny into either. FACT
givememore4free NEVER GET A TATTOO, FULL STOP.
givememore4free who got a tattoo?
givememore4free Also, never combine checking accounts if you're just dating and playing house.
Best of luck to you Steve! You've been my inspiration since I started lifting, hope all goes well!
Lets all be honest, Steve is the fucking man, and he will find the women of his dreams. Im pumped to see a new chapter of STEVE!!
Best of luck for you, Steve and also Carlie. Yes these things suck but at the end of the day both parties have to be happy. Thanks for all the experiences you and Carlie have shared with us man. Loved seeing you in the Butler's vlog and I hope you will treasure those memories as much as the viewers have. Anyhow, god bless, we live and we learn.
Why am I now finding out they broke up. And on top of that, within the same moment I find out Carlie is engaged to someone else!?!? 😓 This honestly broke my heart but I wish the best to the both of them.
Last I saw was around 2013 when they were still together. Later in 2015 I saw that shaytards uploaded lots of Volgs. So I decided to catch up. I made a shaytards Instagram fan page called shaytardstime. Any ways I was exploring Carlie's Instagram and see she's getting engaged. So I'm like wait WHATTT!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?! what happened to Steve. So I did my research and here I am watching this video. So I found out the broke up :(
Around in the beginning I meant to say vlog... Stupid auto correct
Steve you're a great guy and I'm a fan of yours. I truly believe you will find the right person you are looking for. I look forward to hearing more from you on whatever is going on with you in your daily life. I wish you the best and hope you find happiness sooner rather then later.
Glad to hear you finally open up on the subject, always worried about what was going on!
This is why we love watching you steve. You're so full of wisdom and I love your mental/emotional "fitness" videos just as much as your physical fitness videos. :)
You're such a good role model, and you're the kind of guy I aspire to be. Thanks for the video man, we love you.
It takes two to tango. Don't blame Carlie. Don't blame Steve. A true, loving relationship will overcome differences.
I rarely watch vlogs on youtube and you're one the few people I actually follow.
You seem really genuine and classy, haven't found a single thing that irritates me about you and haven't noticed anything I can complain about, keep being so honest because it sure is inspiring a lot of people!
Props to you Steve for posting this!! It must of been hard!! Good luck for your future!!
Thank you for sharing Steve. You are courageous. You have beautiful things in your future, Im sure of it.
Hey Steve, nice message straight from the heart.....I wish you luck in Utah and as always, your videos are an inspiration for me and many others to work out and get healthy.
If you don't mind me asking, why did you choose to move to St. George? Take it easy
You have been an amazing inspiration for me as I have learned more about bodybuilding and lifting weights. Big Man On Campus was the first structured workout that I ever followed all the way through and I have grown so much, both physically and in knowledge, from your videos and workouts. I truly believe what you've said before that life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you react. God has a plan for you and I know that you will continue to inspire myself and countless others. I'm proud to be a swoldier! Keep looking up, man!
I'm really sorry Steve.. I know the feeling. It's rough. You are one strong guy for sharing this with everyone. Keep your head up and stay positive! Much love man.
Aww Steve! Man I like how you're so down to Earth and sharing your personal life with us even though its obviously personal! God bless to all!
It is awesome to see that away from the weights room, the philosophy remains the same. Personal stuff like this must be hard to put into a vlog that goes online but the positivity and good-nature I felt watching this was truly inspiring, and that's why I've subscribed and followed you for so long Steve. All the best for the future, looking forward to the new content, God Bless.
Heartfelt videos are the best! Thanks for posting this, Steve. Decisions like this are really though, but it's for the best.
Thank you for being so open and honest..
Hope nothing but the best for you man,been following you for over a year now and will still continue! Your a great motivator!
Stay strong we always got your back. I wish the best of luck for u and Carly. I really enjoy your videos and hope to see you on RUclips more. Take care of yourself.
Steve, You've are such an inspiration for myself and so many people! You have helped me transform and so many others through your excellent videos and amazing attitude towards personal progression.
I never really had the courage to workout when I was younger until I found your channel. You're attitude and talks during training videos helped me gain some confidence and shape my self into a better man physically and mentally.
You've done big things and this is just a step in doing even bigger things with your life and career. I would say "Wish you luck" but I don't need to. You don't need luck because you already have everything it takes to be successful.
Keep inspiring people like you always have and I can't wait to see what big things you do next!
Glad you are moving on with your life Steve. Time for a fresh start....good things will come!
Good luck, Steven. I got a feeling that the next great thing for you is just around the corner. You are such an inspiration, and you have made me want to become a better person. You are just awesome, there is no better word for it! Much love from Norway :)
Youre the best steve !! Pure motivation
Wishing you peace and happiness through this hard time, Steve. You've got this.
The way you handled your last breakup on twitter really bothered me, but I am very impressed with how you handled this. you managed to show your raw feelings in a mature way without being negative to anyone. I think you've grown a lot from this. That relationship was just toxic and you two will be much happier with whoever was meant to be. Good luck in St George and so glad we can all move on
All in it's time Steve Cook. Chin up high and keep going! A house isn't a home where there is no stability in a relationship. You didn't give up, you gave it your all and it wasn't meant to be. But the almighty has something better for you planned out. Put on a smile and good luck on this new chapter in life.
You deserve nothing but the best. She will come along when the time is right. I'm so heartbroken for you :(
They will never ever ever getting back together. - Taylor Swift
Not carlie, obviously.
They are over, so get over it and move on. Carlie better get over it also.
You're fucking dumb. Did I say they were getting back together? Learn to read.
Yeah and I told you what I meant and you still thought I meant her. Stay in school little one. Maybe someone will like me? Haha sounds like you're talking about yourself. Sorry hope you find happiness.
Hate to see such a positive guy being down... Keep your head high Steve, and think of the many many many people you daily inspire to create a better life !!! Been following you for 2 years now, and can honestly say, that you changed my outlook on life to the positive... From being an addict and a criminal, to being a fitness junkie with a positive mind. Stay strong and focused on the many good things to come...
Love and respect, from a big fan in Denmark!!!
I don't know why but I don't think this is the end for Steve and Carlie....
Coop and Carlie are his family, he is such a father figure to Coop I bet this was really hard on the little guy who looked so up so much to Steve who is such an amazing man
Kallie Maschino Cooper has a dad, and he is very much in the picture. It is going to be hard for Cooper to get over Steve, but he will because he is young and has a great dad that loves him with all of his heart. Steve treated Cooper like a son, and truly loved that little boy. I feel that Cooper will get over this hopefully soon, but he will be o.k. You really do not have to worry about him though, because he has a lot of family members that love him to pieces.
Kallie Maschino Steve also has his OWN family.
I hope so too, but give it a month they will be back together again and start posting cryptic tweets like "the heart wants what the heart wants" or some other bollocks and before you know it boom back together! they are so messed up it's not even funny now.
Yaza Yates I think they already are . . .
Best of luck Steve. The way you're handling this whole situation is pretty inspiring. You are a genuine dude
When he smiled about teaching copper to dribble😩😭😢
I believe that you was really happy together with this girl but like i always say, "it's me, my self and i" even with my girl, because one day if this happen with me also I will not suffer that much. So keep strong and positive steve. .. From Portugal big hug from a fan of you... Sorry my English.
I'm sad that this has happened because Steve treated Cooper like his son but Steve can do better (love Carly still though)
That is his son
no coopers father is called christian
+Briana Bailey that's not coopers dad..
+Mariah Kay I know I figured that out
Who is coppers dad?
Steve Cook, you are the man. Same thing happened to me and I look at your videos for inspiration to move on. You really know how to handle bad situations like this and always come out as a winner. I know this been a while back but some times people make you think you aren't good enough, but I learned that those people just don't appreciate you and it's the same in my situation. Your positive attitude and energy gives me an extra boost and I know some day I will reach same heights as you. I hope everything turned out well at the end though. You should do more vids on how you moved on from these situations.
Don't ever look back Steve, ur lucky it end now and not 5 years from now.... You will be much happier in no time, trust me. Best wishes.
Respect man! All the best Steve. May you succeed in all that you do 😊 cheers from the UK!
But what about christmas special, and some other vlogs, you guys were back together! Did you guys try one more time and it didn't work out again? :( Oh well, I'm a Shaytards fan but you seem like a good person Steve so I'll continue following you, even though I'm not into bodybuilding, you do motivate me to go exercise and be healthy ^_^ so yeah.
No point in trying one more time when the first 600 times didn't work. This is the best decision for the both of them.
Watching this video always gives me hope as I'm going through the same thing myself. When it's not right it's just not right. Besides your girl now is 1000X hotter. Damn. Life is crazy sometimes. As always, you always inspire everyone around you, Steve!
I love the Butlers and I know Carlie is the hardest one to handle. She is very inmature and has a very long way to go to be in a place where she could be someone's wife or just in a long term relationship. I had high hopes that I would see you two figuring things out and find a middle point where the relationship worked out. It is very sad too see it didn't. I admire and respect you in a another whole different level for remaining such a civil gentleman after the breakup when it's so easy to trash the other person when you are wearing your heart at your sleeve. I hope you will soon find a girl that is at your level and ready to be a fair partner.
Hang in there Steve! You are a super positive dude and thats why people are so drawn to you. Remember those "20 Things Happy People Do Different" and you will be okay.
They definitely share a mutual respect for each other for this split. it must be hard to move your entire life for one person to another house and state. It's a big life change and during that process some realize they won't end up happy in the end and it's okay to think of yourself in these types of situations to avoid an even harder breakup (or divorce) down the road. They both moved on just fine, which can give others hope that the same will happen with them.
You're such a great guy Steve. And an inspiration! Fair play to you (as we say in Ireland!)
The biggest loser here is Cooper who has been subjected repeatedly to Carlie's choices of men. He loses another father figure in his life, and Steve was invested in a relationship with him.. In the end, this is the best thing that will happen to Steve. He can move on with his life , get married and have kids with someone who will be good to him and not be narcissistic and full of herself like Carlie is. Good luck Steve
Cooper loves his new official daddy. He asked cooper for Carlie's hand in marriage before he engage! If only you saw coopers smile. Jackson even has a nickname for him "coops"
+Becky Shoe I guess old trick with buying kid sweets always works.
We'll be here for you man. Lean on your friends and family and they will get you through this. Keep your head up and know that every day is a new day and a new chance at something better.
so sad, I feel like he tried his best to work their relationship out, this guy is a husband material
Dont be sad man ! We all know you deserve better you have a great personality . Use your rage to train harder consider it is a opportunity .
Dude you will find someone else i know you guys dated for awhile and it will take you awhile to recover. But thats what dating is seeing if they are right for you. She wasnt so let go of that. I see its hard for you so take some time and not worry about dating just focus on you man.
And eventually if you want you may find another person a better person for you. These coming monthes will be hard but youll push through and be stronger for it. Dont forget theres so much left for you to do. Best of luck steve.
Damn buddy, I can tell you really loved this girl. Good luck with your future endeavors.
holy shit you no its bad when im getting emotional after watching this wow. Steve was so nice to them too
All the best steve :) You are both great people
it just hurts to see his pain and how much he actually wanted to raise a family, while Carlie just wanted the next best thing.
Best of luck from my heart, my bro.
Like you said, "You just gotta love and let go."
Moving forward to new beginning...
Steve... I had a very similar situation in my life. If she's so focused on her goal like we are... It's a good move brother. You still will be firends, beleive me. But you can't climb the top together, if you are goin' on two other mountains. I'm with you! Both of you becouse I reall know how does it feel to still love someone and can't be together becouse of goals and characters. you will find your reall haliness brother, you will.
Love your vids Steve, really motivating every time i feel demotivated i watch you workout vids and my spirit goes way up and all i think about is dieting, working out and just being positive about things.
I'm sure you will miss Coop and he will miss you! Sometimes things just don't work. You will move along and do great things and find a great person!
I wish you the very best Steve. It takes strength and courage to say that your relationship has ended and move on. Remember that the details are your own. Take care of yourself. Be nice to yourself. Give yourself time to heal. You'll be okay.
"Take an honest look at your life. What is working, and what isnt working. What isnt working, really examine it. Find out what you're doing to cause it. If its not you causing it, and you honestly think someone is holding you back; as much as it might hurt, cut them loose. You will find so much more growth and opportunity. You become a better person, stronger person, where you can really help them later in life."
-Greg Plitt
For the person that you are, you deserve A real love man!! my best wishes for ya bro!
Steve looks heartbroken. I've been right there and it's a horrible feeling.
Steve you seem to be one of the most down to earth people, you'll sort sort something out, good luck for the future #swoldiernation
Best of luck steve, u seem like a chill down to earth kind of guy. You'll be alright. That 14 year old trapped in b a bleach blonde 30 something is another story, you can tell by looking and listening to her talk she's got life messed up
😂 Lmfao
I'm from St. George. Weather is awesome year round, all the outdoor stuff you could want, Vegas is an hour and a half away, nice and safe community. I'd move back in a heartbeat if I could find a good-paying job. Good luck to you on your move and hopefully it's a good change for you!
first when Steve started appearing with carlie in shaytard vlogs I stereotyped him as a arrogant meathead and always thought carlie to be an annoying tease. but then I saw some of Steves vids and he's a cool dude.
point is that they were together for what 2 years and now she's married to a guy she's been with for less than half that time. Steve you got a lot going for ya, she would've only dragged you down with her kid. just keep makin them gainz!
Good on you Steve for actually addressing it
I feel like I've eavesdropped on someone's conversation. A really personal video. Good luck with the move!! I know that sucks. That's a great place.
I loved his explanation of the break up, it was heartfelt and drama free # staying classy
this was so sad, i could tell you were speaking from you're heart! but life can be a bitch sometimes, you've just got to keep your head clear and move on. Anyway, please upload move vlogs i love them!
So adorable when you talk about her.. You're a nice guy and you'll fine the perfect girl for you dude!!!! Best wishes. Steve Cook