i just hate how much grief they get for having more kids. they are able to take care of them now. they made the best possible decision they could for their daughter at that time and that is commendable
This gives me so many mixed emotions yes the baby should and is the priority but where were Caits advocates? Shes obviously is child herself in these clips and is already traumatized hurt and scared. Yes her and Ty got pregnant and that's on them but there was so much going on. 16 is too young to vote, get married, get a drivers licene with out a parent or even buy a beer but she was able to sign a contract giving up rights with out any guardian at litem on her side making sure she had options and was fully informed.
They're probably the two people in the TM franchise that I'm rooting for the most. They came from such chaos and so much struggle, I really want a happy life for them - especially Tyler. He never seems to catch a break (nor does Catelynn, for that matter). I wish the both of them the very best.
Literally everything that they have been through in the past 10 years, they have brought on themselves. They never should've had their replacement baby Nova so soon. They weren't ready for her. Then their marriage is clearly over yet they're trying to hold on to it and they add yet another child to the mix. It's not healthy to raise children in a household like theirs. Everyone knows they'll end up divorced.
@@mariamalone7135 I think because they came from broken homes they'll stay married so their kids don't have divorced parents/step parents even though it won't be an ideal environment with them fighting all the time. They'll also want to "prove the haters wrong" and stay together and continue to be, "real life" Cory and Topanga.
@@mariamalone7135 you obviously don't know what the hell you're talking about because she bring depression on herself that was so bad that she had to go in for medical treatment. There's a 6 year time gap between when their first daughter Carly was born and their second daughter Novalee was born. You make it sound like they ran out and got pregnant right away.
@@sabrinawilliams8717 I bet a lot of their fighting was due to her being extremely depressed and the miscarriage she suffered. I live around Detroit and know one of Tyler's cousins and the last time I asked they were doing a lot better.
Usually with an adoption they take the baby out of the room (if the parents tell them too!) So i don't understand why they kept Carly in that room as long as they did!!
@@taneabree she was probably trying to convince them to keep the baby.. Cause most mothers fall in love with their baby as soon as they lay eyes on them... Maybe she thought they would change their mind... However it was still ridiculous for that DR to do that.
sish si it wasn’t about a divorce, but she clickbaited you into thinking that. The post ended up being about how it’s hard to explain being a birth parent
I like Tyler and think he's an amazing father but he treats Caitlin like crap when it comes to her weight. Hopefully one day he will understand the effect his words have had on her!!
Cinthya Morales I’ve got 7 kids and no one even has the same colour eyes and yes same dad. You can probably tell a couple of them are related but that’s it so different.
@@Jazziiib32 Exactly. Idk if you're on the TM subreddit but a lot of times when we end up discussing Cate and Ty, the conversation circles back to the thought that they did what they absolutely had to for Carly at the time. Now, ten years down the line and with all the money earned from the show, they question and doubt themselves tenfold over how they may have in the clip in this compilation. That is a unique situation very, very few people can say they have experienced. I really feel for them both, and can understand why Cate's mental health has gone through so many ups and downs. I just wish the best for them and Nova and Vaeda ❤ they really are much better parents than their own, and when you have no good example it can be hard to step up yourself and break the cycle! Sorry for the novel lol this was just a difficult comp to watch :(
People always hate on Caitlyn saying she needs to stop using this adoption as an excuse as *trauma* and get on with her life. That's horrible!! She gave up part of her!! If she knew she was gonna get rich off these show she probably would have kept Carly!! I have 3 kids, i couldn't imagine having to give 1 up!! Also anxiety and depression is real. You cant just GET OVER IT! Even with medicine!!!
@@loriaverill5616 yep!! And my husband soon 2 be ex would even tell me to kill myself when I was suicidal and then tell me I need to stop crying for attention.. If it was so easy i wouldn't be like this still !!
Naw I could never get over it! Imagine giving away your child because you knew you would not be able to provide, and then by this random chance in life you start making money of a brand new show like come on!! They would of never expected to be wealthy
I agree. In MANY cases adoption is the best decision... but I don’t think that it was what Caitlyn wanted. I don’t think they thought it through enough and you can tell that there is DEEP rooted damage because of that decision. Caitlyn looked like she emotionally shut down during the birth...
Jayla Ro MTV would have picked them, regardless. We now know that MTV picked the girls that had the most problematic and abusive home lives. Amber, Jenelle, Leah, Kailyn, Farrah and Caitlin and Tyler. They all had serious issues at home.
Carly is the luckiest little girl in the whole wide world. Instead of having no parents and being bounced from one foster home to another (like I was) or only one set of parents that love her, she has two! What more can a kid ask for! She has family members from her birth parents and her adoptive parents who simply adore her. ❤💙💚💛💜💖
They did right by letting her go...they cant give her the life B & T can...whod guess they turn out to be whiny bitches...didnt know she was that skinny before she porked out
I’m so glad they shared this side of teen motherhood. Gosh , I wasn’t a decent person till like 22, idk what I would’ve done at 16 if any of the women were me
So many heartbreaking moments. I can't imagine giving birth knowing you won't be able to keep the baby. Going through all of that to give her to someone else. It's just devastating 💔 Also, Tyler proposing and saying "I promise I'll never let you down." He is such a sweet guy and has tried so hard over the years throughout everything they've been through to be a rock for them. He's done an amazing job. So many emotional things they've been through!
Tina Holbrook won’t be able to is very inaccurate. They chose not to keep her they weren’t forced to give her up. They made what they felt was the best choice for her.
@@kaylalopez795 but even then...u can find so much help from government, church, other things...i am pro adoption, sure but it should be last thing unless u dont want this child at all....but what is done is done...
U know what I notice about Tyler and catelynn is that both of their parent grew up users and while they have many issues they aren’t angry. Like they both look very even tempered on the show
I get like a really pissed off at the doctor watching this birth scene because I find it very hard to believe that she didn't know the circumstances . She needs some sensitivity training. These kids are doing a mature selfless thing and you should be accommodating them to the best of your ability
@@kiwibaby335 i know. but hes dad and he was obviously struggling. its not just about catelynn, either. his mom should have gave him a shoulder, not advice in that moment
Her birth scene with Carly was agonizing to me 🥺 her and Tyler and the parents. I sobbed. I understand it’s a happy moment for them at the time but I could never have done this.
Wth the doctor kept asking if they wanted to look?! Like wtf. She had to have known that they were giving her up for adoption. Seeing how her and Tyler reacted after she gave birth was so heartbreaking.
Yes I thought that was so incredibly cold. I can understand asking but once they said no leave it alone. But she just had to lift the baby up so they could see because of her own opinions. And she made that little comment "fresh from God" like lady....do your job and stop it.
It’s not wrong for the doctor to ask them. She probably didn’t know that they didn’t want to see or hold her at first. It’s not like she forced them to do anything they didn’t want to do.
@@rallytonight8491 Really? They said at least twice that they didn’t want to look/see the baby. The doctor had no respect for their wishes and held her up anyway. And didn’t know? Bullshit. You know the staff questioned why there was an entire TV crew in the delivery room.
Truth is but infants don't know what anyone else love is but their own as like whoever raised them. That's the truth because when you don't know someone who is not or is your mother it doesn't matter and nobody is better than others, but again infants can't be that picky..but it's harder age three and up
@candy cane In a perfect world every child would be cared for and grow up healthy. But the reality is not everyone can provide properly for the children they procreate. In that case, adoption is the most selfless option.
Unless you've been there through that the pain of watching someone else raise your child you'll NEVER understand how BAD it TRULY HURTS. It's like death in a way everytime you leave your baby, sometimes you can stay strong other times it's more than you can even handle. How they did that it's a TRUE GIFT OF LOVE, & I wish NO ONE would ever feel that pain. I'm so glad they kept these two on the show. I just hope when Carly is old enough they get more time with her one on one💗💗💗
@@mariamalone7135 Have you yourself ever been put in a situation like that? With an open adoption they still get to be apart of their child's life. They get to see their child grow up, & see how amazing their child truly is. When it's a closed case the child will NEVER stop wonderin why that parent gave them away, & that child will search and search for their biological parents. What if the baby had health problems that was passed down if they don't know their families medical history it could be more harmful. What these two did is a true act of love
I have been through it. I signed my rights for my son over to the woman that was fostering him. I was in such a deep depression and trapped in a cycle of addiction, I couldn't properly care for him. I knew he'd have a chance to be in a stable and loving environment and I still get to see him all the time. I've been able to turn my life around and he is still thriving but it's still very painful to not have him with me all the time. I know I made the right decision for him regardless of how I feel.
I love Cate and Tyler. They have always been my favorite couple. I still can’t watch their episode when they give Carly up without crying. Same goes for their wedding episode.
I love that one and how the cast of teen mom og celebrated Gary's birthday.Catelynn,Maci,Cheyenne and Mackenzie are my favorite on Teen Mom OG.And i have to commend Catelynn for going to treatment to help her with anxiety and depression and at the same time being a good mom.And kudos to Tyler for sticking by Catelynn through thick and thin .I had an ex girlfriend who kinda had major anxiety just like Catelynn does and sometimes goes into episodes of depression and i try to understand and be patient with her eventhough we ain't together right now i always reassure her that I'll love her and care about her regardless and i still check up on her sometimes to see how's she doing
Idk why people thought it was weird that they were “step siblings” they’re literally not blood related at all plus there parents married after they started dating lol
At least they know for sure they’re Tyler‘s kids, not saying that Cate cheats by any means but those kids look so much like Tyler that you would have to be visually impaired to not see that they are his kids. They make beautiful kids and I’m happy for them
I can't believe we've literally watched these two grow up over the years. Omg this is so beautiful. Literally two broken souls joined together as one. I hope they stay together forever.
I genuinely feel they were young, and got played by two grown adults. Both of their parents were unstable and unable be there to make sure as birth parents they get what they wanted from the adoption.
Jackie Villarreal they did get played. But if you watch the 1st season, Tyler was the mastermind behind pushing for the adoption. Cait didn't want it but she listened to Tyler rather than herself. When she realized that she was a doormat that's when she started to resent herself and him and fell into depression. Their parents cursed them out for trying to give up carly. But Tyler is the controller
Brandon and Teresa (teresa esp) was the one that really changed everything. She over reacts about every little thing. They have respected you for all these years and this is what you give them? They handed over their flesh and blood! Their whole lives got flipped upside down because of this.
@@jmacjr101 ... They didnt respect them lmao they asked for privacy. Tyler didn't give it to them and posted their adopted daughter on social media when they told him not to... He really causes alot of their problems with the adoptive couple lol
I'm sorry but Tyler at what, 16 /17 proposing....I remember back when I watched with everybody else, no man can top how sweet and romantic and loving that was. I got tears from carly's birth and that proposal...and then his wedding vows!!! I look over at my big galoot (my man luv him), and nope, never gonna hear words like that. Tyler needs to teach a class on it lol....😍😍😭😭🥰
Out of all the "Best Of", this one is the hardest to watch. I am 27 amd there is no way I would have had the strength that Cate and Tyler had at 16 when giving up Carly. They did this for her. They were mature enough to step back and view her entire life as a whole and make one of the toughest decisions to ensure that she had a good future. 10 years later and they are still dealimg with the trauma (and probably will for forever) but they still insist that they would do it all over again for Carly
I think Catelynn has always had a hard time. Pregnancy is so hard then Labor/Delivery is so vulnerable. It’s already hard enough. I can’t imagine giving up your child for adoption. Tyler has better coping skills, And I think Catelynn has never learned how to cope properly. I feel bad for Tyler but sometimes.
She didn't give her up because she didn't want her she had to give her up because she couldn't provide a good life for her that is the heartbreaking part of the adoption
I sure hope so. Her parents, especially Teresa doesn't seem "right" about the whole situation as time went on... Of course I'm judging only by what I see. But her birth mother and father seem AMAZING and they'd have so much more love to add to her life!😍
Why did I just full on bawl my eyes out? I watched this on the premiere date and Carly is the same age as my oldest. I too, was a teen mom so this hit home. They were so strong, especially given their circumstances and age.
Gosh this couple is so STRONG!! They had really tough moments and even at one point got very frustrated with each other but they represent what love is...THICK AND THIN. SICKNESS AND HEALTH...
This whole ass video had me wet eyed. Everything is great, I love the journey of TM. I've been watching for over ten years now and I've literally grown with these women. Love and respect to the women on this show
The amount of strength these two have is beyond anything I could ever hold. They are truly the definition of selfless love of a parent. So impactful to so many people. 💛
Omg!! Her brother crying saying "you look pretty" melted my heart!!! He loves his sister!! Tyler is the MAN!! LITERALLY he's such a great example of what s man should be!
I know deep down they could of raised her just fine, i know it would of been tough...i cant imagine how hard it was for them. There my favorite on teenmom!!! This year is 8 years for me and my husband, thick and thin we make the best🥰 . We haven't missed a episode yet..🤗🤗
That catelyn and carly moment was literally the most heartwarming thing and the most smiley cait had ever been within our few min we see of their life.
these two and cole and chelsea i will always support they're such good people and have a great relationship for them to show in front of their babies and they should be so proud of that
Oh man, I can’t watch this birth scene without sobbing. This really gave me a great amount of respect for people who put their babies up for an adoption when they know they couldn’t give their child the life they deserve. Such a mature and honorable decision.
The hard part I would think about their situation was going into the 16 and Pregnant show, not knowing they would be going into Teen Mom and end up with lots of money... I assume this thought has crossed their minds.
I cant believe how little catelynn sounds God i love her strength shes incredible i love her so much for have the courage and strength to do what she felt was right for her baby her and Chelsea are my favorite because they're the only real ones and are so open and honest shes absolutely incessantly because I was 16 and pregnant and had to place my first for adoption I miss him but love that I know hes thriving
“I just want her to have better than what I had, and I know I can’t do that” 😢❤️
1blueyedgirl1 gosh that just hits me like a truck 😓 even though I did keep my little girl it’s so hard!
Watching this again, I realize now the level of maturity it took for them to make this decision at 16 years old.
i just hate how much grief they get for having more kids. they are able to take care of them now. they made the best possible decision they could for their daughter at that time and that is commendable
This gives me so many mixed emotions yes the baby should and is the priority but where were Caits advocates? Shes obviously is child herself in these clips and is already traumatized hurt and scared. Yes her and Ty got pregnant and that's on them but there was so much going on. 16 is too young to vote, get married, get a drivers licene with out a parent or even buy a beer but she was able to sign a contract giving up rights with out any guardian at litem on her side making sure she had options and was fully informed.
Broke my heart when she was saying all that stuff! 😥❤
They're probably the two people in the TM franchise that I'm rooting for the most. They came from such chaos and so much struggle, I really want a happy life for them - especially Tyler. He never seems to catch a break (nor does Catelynn, for that matter). I wish the both of them the very best.
Literally everything that they have been through in the past 10 years, they have brought on themselves. They never should've had their replacement baby Nova so soon. They weren't ready for her. Then their marriage is clearly over yet they're trying to hold on to it and they add yet another child to the mix. It's not healthy to raise children in a household like theirs. Everyone knows they'll end up divorced.
@@mariamalone7135 I think because they came from broken homes they'll stay married so their kids don't have divorced parents/step parents even though it won't be an ideal environment with them fighting all the time. They'll also want to "prove the haters wrong" and stay together and continue to be, "real life" Cory and Topanga.
I m rooting for them too
@@mariamalone7135 you obviously don't know what the hell you're talking about because she bring depression on herself that was so bad that she had to go in for medical treatment. There's a 6 year time gap between when their first daughter Carly was born and their second daughter Novalee was born. You make it sound like they ran out and got pregnant right away.
@@sabrinawilliams8717 I bet a lot of their fighting was due to her being extremely depressed and the miscarriage she suffered. I live around Detroit and know one of Tyler's cousins and the last time I asked they were doing a lot better.
Anybody else tear up when they were talking about “she’s gonna be so happy”. 😭😰😓
Lol Hi amber sis I balled
I cried the whole delivery 😭😭😭 that and when Tyler asked why they were taking the baby out😭😭😭
EUROPEAN BURMESE same 😭😭😭😭😭
Alexa Webster q
I cried
Them saying they didn’t want to look BROKE my heart
Oh my God so sad!
God yes! I remember I was crying my little eyes out when I watched that
Usually with an adoption they take the baby out of the room (if the parents tell them too!) So i don't understand why they kept Carly in that room as long as they did!!
Kayla Lopez that doctor must’ve been told the circumstances to , idk what she was thinking
@@taneabree she was probably trying to convince them to keep the baby.. Cause most mothers fall in love with their baby as soon as they lay eyes on them... Maybe she thought they would change their mind... However it was still ridiculous for that DR to do that.
the only ones that sticked with each other through thick and thin
not anymore unfortunally
S. S. They’re still together and much in love. Have you seen their instagrams? They post pics of each other and Tyler just posted one about his wife.
@@tenrc26 a few days ago C. posted on insta that they are getting a divorce and its hard to explain it to nova.
sish si it wasn’t about a divorce, but she clickbaited you into thinking that. The post ended up being about how it’s hard to explain being a birth parent
I call it codependency!
Tyler is a awesome guy. We need more tyler’s in the world like him
I like Tyler and think he's an amazing father but he treats Caitlin like crap when it comes to her weight. Hopefully one day he will understand the effect his words have had on her!!
@nikki aviv I'm confused! 😕
He’s not anymore
He was back then , but now hes got an ego bigger than Texas and basically called his wife a heffer lol.
Tyler needs to prioritize his happiness as well, as the year go by you just see the depression taking over. It's clear he is unhappy in his marriage
When Cait's little brother was crying because she looked so pretty, I lost it 😭😭😭
IKR! That was ADORABLE!
ME TOO
Queen CoCo I did too!
Queen CoCo right
They literally made triplets. All there kids look exactly alike !
Carly and Nova look the most alike, their most recent little girl doesn't look alike as much as Carly and Nova do.
baby prospect she is still a baby, and yet she looks exactly like Tyler
Don’t they just?! I love Nova could watch her for house she’s so cute.
Thats kind of what happen when you got the same mom and dad
Cinthya Morales I’ve got 7 kids and no one even has the same colour eyes and yes same dad. You can probably tell a couple of them are related but that’s it so different.
Omg: “I trust your decision, whatever you want to do honey.” Just wow, Tyler is *rare*
He also said he'd leave her if she kept her own baby!
L M people say things when they’re pissed off, no one is perfect. He still gives her so much support and compromise, she’s the boss.
He's also the cutest guy on the show
Ikr! He's hot too
I have one like him. In so so lucky!
OMG when Cait was scrunching up her nose with the baby, I cried like a baby! Soooo damn cute!!!
You could really see her thinking about what could've been :( heartbreaking.
@@daniellew.9957 ugh it makes me so sad! I know they made the right choice for them but ugh 😭
@@Jazziiib32 Exactly. Idk if you're on the TM subreddit but a lot of times when we end up discussing Cate and Ty, the conversation circles back to the thought that they did what they absolutely had to for Carly at the time.
Now, ten years down the line and with all the money earned from the show, they question and doubt themselves tenfold over how they may have in the clip in this compilation. That is a unique situation very, very few people can say they have experienced. I really feel for them both, and can understand why Cate's mental health has gone through so many ups and downs. I just wish the best for them and Nova and Vaeda ❤ they really are much better parents than their own, and when you have no good example it can be hard to step up yourself and break the cycle! Sorry for the novel lol this was just a difficult comp to watch :(
Same 😫. Cait couldnt take her eyes off her little girl.
Same 🥺🥺😢😢
"And she is gonna be so happy" "we can do this" 😭😭 ouch my heart.
People always hate on Caitlyn saying she needs to stop using this adoption as an excuse as *trauma* and get on with her life. That's horrible!! She gave up part of her!! If she knew she was gonna get rich off these show she probably would have kept Carly!! I have 3 kids, i couldn't imagine having to give 1 up!! Also anxiety and depression is real. You cant just GET OVER IT! Even with medicine!!!
@Jordans Mum You can't say that unless you are in that situation I would much rather adoption then abortion
People don't get it.
You got that right about anxiety and depression. A lot of people think you can just snap your fingers and get over it.
@@loriaverill5616 yep!! And my husband soon 2 be ex would even tell me to kill myself when I was suicidal and then tell me I need to stop crying for attention.. If it was so easy i wouldn't be like this still !!
Naw I could never get over it! Imagine giving away your child because you knew you would not be able to provide, and then by this random chance in life you start making money of a brand new show like come on!! They would of never expected to be wealthy
You can tell the adoption ruined Caitlyn 😭😭 She was such a sweetheart in the beginning
APECORA she still is
Well she was very young. She was a teenager and it’s been more than ten years.
I agree. In MANY cases adoption is the best decision... but I don’t think that it was what Caitlyn wanted. I don’t think they thought it through enough and you can tell that there is DEEP rooted damage because of that decision. Caitlyn looked like she emotionally shut down during the birth...
I don't think it ruined her. I think it changed her for the better. She and tyler were completely unselfish for Carly.
Jayla Ro MTV would have picked them, regardless. We now know that MTV picked the girls that had the most problematic and abusive home lives. Amber, Jenelle, Leah, Kailyn, Farrah and Caitlin and Tyler. They all had serious issues at home.
The way Tyler has always called her “hunny” through all of these years... 💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙
I said that to my ex girlfriend Skye and she's like the sweetest ever.I always reassure her i'll always love her no matter what .Love U Skye 🙂💞
Oh man.. Carly’s birth gets me every time. The pain in their voices.. Ultimate sacrifice
Exactly.
Carlyle will look back on this and realize how much her momma loved her 💕💕💕🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
And her daddy💓
That’s very true!! She will see that her parents gave her the best life possible
Carly is the luckiest little girl in the whole wide world. Instead of having no parents and being bounced from one foster home to another (like I was) or only one set of parents that love her, she has two! What more can a kid ask for! She has family members from her birth parents and her adoptive parents who simply adore her. ❤💙💚💛💜💖
I was just thinking that!
Jessicaa Banks and daddy!! 💕
I cried so much when Carly and cátelyn were doing the nose thing together and bonding OMG I WAS CRYING SO BAD ! 😢 that was sooo cute
Same
Carly knew that Cait was her mother. I’ve always had that belief any time I see that scene.
Belle Morgan I watched this 7 months ago crying my eyes out ! I seen your reply and now I'm crying my eyeballs out again 😭 this video is so touching !
@@Il_pasticcio_bonniei have always felt that way too ❤
That nurse was getting on my nerves kept asking them if they wanna see the baby. And then she lifted her up!
Agree. I would have bwen mad.
Doctor.
J.A Q who cares
The doctor wanted them to keep her
jazzyluvsedits .... because it’s common that people automatically think women in scrubs are nurses and not doctors.
The beginning was heartbreaking whenever she was giving birth ):
They did right by letting her go...they cant give her the life B & T can...whod guess they turn out to be whiny bitches...didnt know she was that skinny before she porked out
IKR! I was tearing up, it's been so many years since I first saw it.😭😭
@@actuary1233 Wtf is with all of your bs comments? Goof
'Whenever she was giving birth " hate when people speak like this. Just say WHEN she was giving birth. Whenever?? 🙄
That "And she's gonna be so happy" makes me tear up everytime 💗
They should tittle this try not to cry challenge lol sobbing like a baby
Leanna Berardesco I made it to the wedding scene... who’s cutting onions???
Right?!
right lol! i failed
yooo their parents did them dirty getting married after your kids been dating
They didnt marry for very long though, catelynn's mom got remarried I think in 2014
Yea her mom had a drug and alcohol problem
My aunt married my ex boyfriend's dad. So now I see my ex at family events and everyone thinks I dated my cousin 🤦🏼♀️
@@pastapanda4042 gross!
@@Allegra7545 How? I broke up with him before his dad and my aunt even met. He is NOT related to me whatsoever.
I’m so glad they shared this side of teen motherhood. Gosh , I wasn’t a decent person till like 22, idk what I would’ve done at 16 if any of the women were me
Tyler broke my heart when Carly was born. They were both so beyond mature for their age and made the right decision.
So many heartbreaking moments. I can't imagine giving birth knowing you won't be able to keep the baby. Going through all of that to give her to someone else. It's just devastating 💔
Also, Tyler proposing and saying "I promise I'll never let you down." He is such a sweet guy and has tried so hard over the years throughout everything they've been through to be a rock for them. He's done an amazing job.
So many emotional things they've been through!
Tina Holbrook won’t be able to is very inaccurate. They chose not to keep her they weren’t forced to give her up. They made what they felt was the best choice for her.
@@Kels42 I agree with you, but you have to admit that it would be heartbreaking to go through.
Tina Holbrook oh it absolutely would I’m not saying it wouldn’t be.
I feel bad for Catelynn. She looks at her daughter and says.. gee I wish I had her back! :(
Its sad. If she knew she would be making alot of money off this show she probably would have kept Carly!
True
@@kaylalopez795 but even then...u can find so much help from government, church, other things...i am pro adoption, sure but it should be last thing unless u dont want this child at all....but what is done is done...
She didn’t say that?
@@isntshelovely5823 I think she meant you can tell that is what Caitlyn is thinking.
U know what I notice about Tyler and catelynn is that both of their parent grew up users and while they have many issues they aren’t angry. Like they both look very even tempered on the show
I get like a really pissed off at the doctor watching this birth scene because I find it very hard to believe that she didn't know the circumstances . She needs some sensitivity training. These kids are doing a mature selfless thing and you should be accommodating them to the best of your ability
gold dust woman i was thinking the same thing
i got pissed when tylers mom said "dont think about yourself" and then laughed.
@@kealivy she meant cuz Caitlyn needed some comfort and support.
@@kiwibaby335 i know. but hes dad and he was obviously struggling. its not just about catelynn, either. his mom should have gave him a shoulder, not advice in that moment
I found it bull shit. At least they could've cared for their child until Brandon and Theresa came.
Her birth scene with Carly was agonizing to me 🥺 her and Tyler and the parents. I sobbed. I understand it’s a happy moment for them at the time but I could never have done this.
Wth the doctor kept asking if they wanted to look?! Like wtf. She had to have known that they were giving her up for adoption. Seeing how her and Tyler reacted after she gave birth was so heartbreaking.
Yes I thought that was so incredibly cold. I can understand asking but once they said no leave it alone. But she just had to lift the baby up so they could see because of her own opinions. And she made that little comment "fresh from God" like lady....do your job and stop it.
It was i cried like i just watched it again for the first time
It’s not wrong for the doctor to ask them. She probably didn’t know that they didn’t want to see or hold her at first. It’s not like she forced them to do anything they didn’t want to do.
@@rallytonight8491 Really? They said at least twice that they didn’t want to look/see the baby. The doctor had no respect for their wishes and held her up anyway. And didn’t know? Bullshit. You know the staff questioned why there was an entire TV crew in the delivery room.
I never realized how identical Carly and Nova are ❤️❤️😍😍😍how precious
Tyler’s vows kill me🥺
Girls, Dont settle till you find your Tyler!!!
Amen
Finding a Tyler these days would be a real diamond. I
*preach 💚*
I have the utmost respect for pregnant women/couples who want the best for their kid and choose adoption. ♥️
Absolutely!!
Truth is but infants don't know what anyone else love is but their own as like whoever raised them. That's the truth because when you don't know someone who is not or is your mother it doesn't matter and nobody is better than others, but again infants can't be that picky..but it's harder age three and up
@candy cane In a perfect world every child would be cared for and grow up healthy. But the reality is not everyone can provide properly for the children they procreate. In that case, adoption is the most selfless option.
Same. They are truly amazing!!
Tyler’s vows are the best I’ve ever heard. Man does he love her!
When he said to Catelynn "men who walk out on their wives aren't real husbands" that hit me 😢💗
Unless you've been there through that the pain of watching someone else raise your child you'll NEVER understand how BAD it TRULY HURTS. It's like death in a way everytime you leave your baby, sometimes you can stay strong other times it's more than you can even handle. How they did that it's a TRUE GIFT OF LOVE, & I wish NO ONE would ever feel that pain. I'm so glad they kept these two on the show. I just hope when Carly is old enough they get more time with her one on one💗💗💗
Mana McCarter I understand it
@@katiehruschak557 I'm sorry that you do! Love, & hugs sent your way💗
They should've done closed adoption then.
@@mariamalone7135 Have you yourself ever been put in a situation like that? With an open adoption they still get to be apart of their child's life. They get to see their child grow up, & see how amazing their child truly is. When it's a closed case the child will NEVER stop wonderin why that parent gave them away, & that child will search and search for their biological parents. What if the baby had health problems that was passed down if they don't know their families medical history it could be more harmful. What these two did is a true act of love
I have been through it. I signed my rights for my son over to the woman that was fostering him. I was in such a deep depression and trapped in a cycle of addiction, I couldn't properly care for him. I knew he'd have a chance to be in a stable and loving environment and I still get to see him all the time. I've been able to turn my life around and he is still thriving but it's still very painful to not have him with me all the time. I know I made the right decision for him regardless of how I feel.
They are the most authentic and genuinely super nice sweet people on reality tv
Cheyenne and Cory too
I cried when she gave birth to Carly :(
Whoever didn't has an empty void where their heart should be.
I sobbed! It was so sad
Me too
They make some cute babies, goodness
I feel like in later seasons you can tell they really regretted giving up Carly up for adoption...
I love Cate and Tyler. They have always been my favorite couple. I still can’t watch their episode when they give Carly up without crying. Same goes for their wedding episode.
I love that one and how the cast of teen mom og celebrated Gary's birthday.Catelynn,Maci,Cheyenne and Mackenzie are my favorite on Teen Mom OG.And i have to commend Catelynn for going to treatment to help her with anxiety and depression and at the same time being a good mom.And kudos to Tyler for sticking by Catelynn through thick and thin .I had an ex girlfriend who kinda had major anxiety just like Catelynn does and sometimes goes into episodes of depression and i try to understand and be patient with her eventhough we ain't together right now i always reassure her that I'll love her and care about her regardless and i still check up on her sometimes to see how's she doing
Idk why people thought it was weird that they were “step siblings” they’re literally not blood related at all plus there parents married after they started dating lol
This comment is ridiculous 🙄
I mean I'm not trying too sleep with my stepbrother but this is a different scenario I wouldn't date my daughters boyfriends dad either!
They dated before their.parents
Amy Roberts how is it ridiculous ? Lol You guys are so damn dramatic it’s only weird if they are blood related ! The weird ones are the parents !
I agree
At least they know for sure they’re Tyler‘s kids, not saying that Cate cheats by any means but those kids look so much like Tyler that you would have to be visually impaired to not see that they are his kids. They make beautiful kids and I’m happy for them
Yes
Facts
Their 3 daughters are absolutely beautiful and will be loved forever. I root for them both all the time in the hard times. Xx
i hope i have a husband like tyler one day.
recoveredbeauty me too girl
He literally called his wife a heifer and questioned what she was eating. That is messed up. Not in this video but recently on the show.
@@mandeenelson3726 didn't he also cheat on her?
@@mandeenelson3726 He didn't call her a heifer
He said he wouldn't marry her until she lost weight to fit in a wedding gown. For that, he is spineless.
i cant with her brother crying "you look pretty" so sweet and loving
I can't believe we've literally watched these two grow up over the years. Omg this is so beautiful. Literally two broken souls joined together as one. I hope they stay together forever.
How i pass the time during Covid/quarantine 💗💗💗
I genuinely feel they were young, and got played by two grown adults. Both of their parents were unstable and unable be there to make sure as birth parents they get what they wanted from the adoption.
Jackie Villarreal they did get played. But if you watch the 1st season, Tyler was the mastermind behind pushing for the adoption. Cait didn't want it but she listened to Tyler rather than herself. When she realized that she was a doormat that's when she started to resent herself and him and fell into depression. Their parents cursed them out for trying to give up carly. But Tyler is the controller
I think Tyler's mom was the most stable
Brandon and Teresa (teresa esp) was the one that really changed everything. She over reacts about every little thing. They have respected you for all these years and this is what you give them? They handed over their flesh and blood! Their whole lives got flipped upside down because of this.
Buttch and catelyns mom literally gave them hell for choosing adoption. LITERALLY ijs
@@jmacjr101 ... They didnt respect them lmao they asked for privacy. Tyler didn't give it to them and posted their adopted daughter on social media when they told him not to... He really causes alot of their problems with the adoptive couple lol
Cate saying they can just get married through the courts & Tyler saying I would never do that, then you see the heartfelt wedding😭❤
Damn Cate and Ty invited the whole Teen Mom Cast to the wedding
TYLER'S VOWS ARE EVERYTHING. 😭😭❤❤❤
Ikr 😢😢😢💞
So Maci and Taylor went to Catelynn and Tyler's wedding and Catelynn and Tyler went to Maci and Taylor's wedding
The labour scene was heartbreaking
I'm sorry but Tyler at what, 16 /17 proposing....I remember back when I watched with everybody else, no man can top how sweet and romantic and loving that was. I got tears from carly's birth and that proposal...and then his wedding vows!!! I look over at my big galoot (my man luv him), and nope, never gonna hear words like that. Tyler needs to teach a class on it lol....😍😍😭😭🥰
why do people hate on catelynn so much? I think her are Tyler are selfless, loving & genuine people. i wish them nothing but good things ❤️
Facts i wish one of my serious relationships lasted this long 💗💗
Out of all the "Best Of", this one is the hardest to watch. I am 27 amd there is no way I would have had the strength that Cate and Tyler had at 16 when giving up Carly. They did this for her. They were mature enough to step back and view her entire life as a whole and make one of the toughest decisions to ensure that she had a good future.
10 years later and they are still dealimg with the trauma (and probably will for forever) but they still insist that they would do it all over again for Carly
carly’s parents are the sweetest. the fact that they came to their wedding is the coolest thing. im literally in tears this is so cute
I cried so much when she said she couldn’t look omg
I would've wanted to see the reunion the first between Catelynn ,Tyler and Carly the first time in a while.I wish MTV didn't cut that part out 💗😢
I will never not cry my face off at her birth. They were so strong and selfless when they were kids themselves. The ultimate love. 💕💕💕
They couldn’t have had a better family adopt their daughter. Look at how sweet and supportive they are. It really warmed my heart.
I think Catelynn has always had a hard time. Pregnancy is so hard then Labor/Delivery is so vulnerable. It’s already hard enough. I can’t imagine giving up your child for adoption.
Tyler has better coping skills, And I think Catelynn has never learned how to cope properly.
I feel bad for Tyler but sometimes.
She didn't give her up because she didn't want her she had to give her up because she couldn't provide a good life for her that is the heartbreaking part of the adoption
Miss
Tyler presserd her tho to give carly up..
Look at the way Tyler cried seeing his beautiful bride 😭😭😭😭 I love this so much
I guarantee that as soon as she turns 18 she’s going to want to have more of a relationship with her birth parents
I sure hope so. Her parents, especially Teresa doesn't seem "right" about the whole situation as time went on... Of course I'm judging only by what I see. But her birth mother and father seem AMAZING and they'd have so much more love to add to her life!😍
Not always the case. But it's nice to think
I'm adopted. I wish to meet my birth mom every single day.
@@10meme11 i see it too idk something about Theresa is off to me
Why did I just full on bawl my eyes out? I watched this on the premiere date and Carly is the same age as my oldest. I too, was a teen mom so this hit home. They were so strong, especially given their circumstances and age.
I hope they stay together forever.
Tyler is just amazing!
The complete selflessness of Caitlyn still overwhelms me, such a pure and good and brave heart.
I’m bawling when Carly was born 😭 I’m so proud of where these two have come from. They’re so amazing
They definitely remind me of the movie Juno
i’ve always thought that
Not a dry eye in the comments
Tanea Bree I keep seeing your comments all through the comments and I just wanted to let you know that you are gorgeous. 😊
Rheyana Irene wow that is so sweet , thank you ☺️ right back atcha
These two have been my favorites from the beginning. I just love them.
Tylers vows were unbelievable. EVERYONE WAS CRYING
Word 😭😭💗
Gosh this couple is so STRONG!! They had really tough moments and even at one point got very frustrated with each other but they represent what love is...THICK AND THIN. SICKNESS AND HEALTH...
Tyler is such a good heart guy I love him
I love how sensitive Tyler is and isn’t afraid to share it with the WORLD. ❤
That wedding scene will always make me cry. So beautiful!
This whole ass video had me wet eyed. Everything is great, I love the journey of TM. I've been watching for over ten years now and I've literally grown with these women. Love and respect to the women on this show
Ugh when she gave birth and Tyler went and hugged her I lost it
Cryinggggg only couple that was so real you could feel the love through the screen
Those vows get me every time
The amount of strength these two have is beyond anything I could ever hold. They are truly the definition of selfless love of a parent. So impactful to so many people. 💛
The best couple out of the whole teen mom cast hands down. I wish them nothing but happiness they truly are meant for each other
Amen
I just LOVE Nova and her lil voice and her lil face 😊😊😊
Omg!! Her brother crying saying "you look pretty" melted my heart!!! He loves his sister!!
Tyler is the MAN!! LITERALLY he's such a great example of what s man should be!
24:56 after catelyn spit out the cake, he said "kiss me now." That was so cute how he kissed her. So comfortable with each other. Love them.😊💜
I've always loved Cait and Ty!!!! Since the very beginning ❤
Me to
I know deep down they could of raised her just fine, i know it would of been tough...i cant imagine how hard it was for them. There my favorite on teenmom!!! This year is 8 years for me and my husband, thick and thin we make the best🥰 . We haven't missed a episode yet..🤗🤗
they r getting a divorce now. so sad
Well because they where smart enough to know what that baby needed.
Me too
Halfway through and I've already bawled 3 times 😩💕
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Me too
@@micholakinola1053 the way Tyler proposed to Catelynn at that restaurant .I was trying not to 😭😭💞
Nova in the wagon, I CANNOT 🥺
That catelyn and carly moment was literally the most heartwarming thing and the most smiley cait had ever been within our few min we see of their life.
these two and cole and chelsea i will always support they're such good people and have a great relationship for them to show in front of their babies and they should be so proud of that
Cried my eyes out that must’ve been the hardest for them ....
Tyler’s vows broke me down man 😭
Facts 😭😭😭
The mom that adopted her baby seems so sweet always!
I cried for them. I completely got her not wanting to look it's instant attachment. It's such a hard thing to do.
Oh man, I can’t watch this birth scene without sobbing. This really gave me a great amount of respect for people who put their babies up for an adoption when they know they couldn’t give their child the life they deserve. Such a mature and honorable decision.
Why did I cry through this WHOLE FLIPPIN THIIIING😭😭😭
right i’m ugly crying rn
Holy crap I didn’t expect to need an entire box of tissues. I adore this couple and have rooted for them from the very start.
Yes
The hard part I would think about their situation was going into the 16 and Pregnant show, not knowing they would be going into Teen Mom and end up with lots of money... I assume this thought has crossed their minds.
parismykitty that’s true but if they hadn’t have Carly up for adoption they may not have gotten a spot on teen mom so it’s hard to tell
My heart dropped when tyler dropped the ring I thought it was gonna go missing !
It's happy and sad at the same time,that is now twice that I saw this and it's make me cry.❤❤l love you Catelyn and Tyler I wish you the best!!!!
I cant believe how little catelynn sounds God i love her strength shes incredible i love her so much for have the courage and strength to do what she felt was right for her baby her and Chelsea are my favorite because they're the only real ones and are so open and honest shes absolutely incessantly because I was 16 and pregnant and had to place my first for adoption I miss him but love that I know hes thriving
i remember watching her episode when it aired, and she's been my favorite ever since she was introduced to us. love them so much 💕
Tyler acknowledging nova being the flower girl was so cute 😂😍
If my brother cries at my wedding, we're both gonna be crying lmaoo