What Counts as Porn? - Dr. Trish Leigh
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- Опубликовано: 19 ноя 2024
- Have u ever wondered what counts as porn?
Is Consuming semi-porn media is better than to watch porn? Is it okay for your brain & mental health? 🤔💭
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It's so weird, I was at the bottom, lifelong addiction, algorithm or higher power. Your program pops up. This never happens. It's been 3 days now listening to your programs.
how are you since than?
Just passed 1 year free from pornography. Now I'm doing a research project on porn and possible treatments. Stay strong folks, you can conquer this addiction!
Congrats man!
Congratulations! I was close to 1 yr. 8 months free but slipped back today. I'll get back up. There's still hope for me right?
@@yestrech Always! and congratulations! You won't have to wait any way near as long to get back to that feel good feeling in your brain.
Great stuff, brother. Keep fighting the good fight! 👌💯🙌
My way to counter temptation is to do meaningful work from the moment I wake up to the moment I go to sleep. Find meaning to your life, so you don't get bored.
what worked for you? could you give me some examples of meaningful work?
But life is utterly meaningless
It's unavoidable. Commercials, TV previews. All have questionable images that I'm sure will trigger both the addicted and the people who love them.
I watched some kissing scenes in the morning and boom I was feeling not good. The hijacker wanted in but I questioned myself on what the trigger was. It took long to remember the scenes I watched early in the morning. These things are causing problems without us even knowing.
What about the ads all over RUclips. They pop up all the time especially dating ads. I’m looking for help videos and I have to then battle this.
@@JohnnyReno71 i had a girl finger blasting herself pop up in reels as an ad. i even reported it and was notified that it didnt violate policy. like wtf???
This channel is GOLD. So sick of the misinformation around porn (& masturbation)!! Porn ruins lives.
God bless you, saving my life , been addicted forever, working on it , 34 days my best
There is a hidden message i porn. Stay away from God!!...
Anything goes.ecept God! Feel free the choice is yours.❤
When I got born again by the Holy Ghost, I can no longer stand looking at love scenes or semi-nude scenes in movies and tv. Even violent images make me cringe now. I simply close my eyes or look down. All the while my wife thinks I’m insane for choosing to not engage with these things. I’m not trying to push religion or faith on anyone, just sharing my experience. God bless!
the only problem is porn is that it makes the molecules of the brain tight.
morality don't exist, that's a fable for childrens.
I know exactly what you are talking about. Humbly crying out to God is the only thing that can keep me truly free from this horrible addiction.
A man brother I've been born again to and I am free from addiction
😂Holy gost
so spot on. whole new genres come up didn't even know existed but all serve to trigger the bigger relapse.
Thank you, this episode was so helpful clearing up that shade of gray, increase maturity abilities to use reason and recognize what triggers the easy choice. Thank you.
I have been sort of addicted to porn since I was 13 (plus I also had a very traumatic childhood). My friends had introduced me to it, and at first, I was very reluctant to watch it but then my friends talked me to it and since then I have been sort of addicted. Like it didn’t affect much of my life but it did affect a lot of things. I think because of porn I became dull and my grades have been going down. I feel like I have become more dumb because of it. Recently I decided to stop watching porn and now looking at your video I think I will also try to avoid semi-porn, like reading smut. I am turning 16 this December, hope by the time I'm 17 I get rid of this addiction.
You are still young, not only you can do it but with better results/less bad effects in the future. Addicted for 20 years here, i have been "dull" for most of my adult life and regret it. Be strong and save yourself
@@satellachannel6423well said.
The OP is lucky that they found porn to be culprit at so early age. For me, it took 18 years to figure it out and now it is extremely difficult to get rid of the habit.
I wish more women were wise and understanding of men's struggles with sexual desire like this wonderful lady.
Deal with your own problem women don't owe you nothing.
@@exelmans8855 it's irritating and painful to read the comment you have just written, people need support in their journey too, especially from women when it comes to sexuality because women are main part of that journey. it's easy to say "deal with your own problem" when you don't know how the other person feel or what the mental state of mind they have especially in this comment section where a lot of people come to get help for their own problems, porn and addiction change the brain state, it's not easy at all to deal with a problem that changes the way you think, it's very hard to deal with it alone
Sorry i know more about nuke secrets than this. So i whitdtaw just got curious....
I think the brother was just telling the other brother , " it's not them " learned in AA . I pray for all my be brothers fighting this nightmare. God bless Trish 🌅🙏
You are a blessing Dr Trish leigh
I am so thankful for this channel. 🙏
Phenomenal content.
Dr. Leigh, Ive been watching a lot of your videos recently, I wanted to thank you first because the more I document myself with this valuable information, the easier it is for me to never go back to consumption, not even sugar-coated and your channel was a godsend, and second, I don't know if you have touched this subject before, but quitting pron makes us men stop objectifying and sexualizing women all the time, it makes you stop seeing them as only potential sexual partners/objects and treat/look/respect them as what they are: humans that think, feel and have a life. If more people understood that pron is one of the main promoters of misogyny and gender violence it would be forbidden worldwide, greetings from Mexico.
but you have a sex drive which is a natural result of your genetics, why subdue it? It seems you already know they are also valuable women besides looking sexy so why your psychological 'hangup' over it?
Thanks for this episode Dr. Trish, it was a revelation. Thank you 🙏
Thank you Dr Trish! This is a really insightful and practical video - critical actually. I’m very grateful for it this morning and am starting to build new strategies to deal with stress after a long time on this journey. Abstinence is key but alone is not enough after use since adolescence 🙏
I had a funny moment recently.
After about three weeks of no PMO I felt remarkably good actually, very little incentive (except when I had to go through my files to delete everything, that was tough). It surprised me, having heard everywhere that the beginning is the hardest.
I found myself thinking "hey I don't miss it that much. Maybe I'm not actually addicted, maybe I don't have to stop!".
I burst out laughing when I realized the irony. I will never touch it again.
Dr Trish you are so right about those videos you are so right
Agh, excellent points! I was actually wondering the same question on gray areas recently!
Keeping your eye on the long term goal, that’s definitely the hard part. I use certain songs and sayings like heal the mind and the body will follow to try and stay focused but it is definitely hard.
If you want to fight the animal in you,
You need to become a holy animal.
Flee lust not fight it
Thank you for what you and your team do. I will be in the program in the future.
Your eyes with eyeglass is Also beautiful. What a bless you are !!!
Perv abdool
It all makes sense. I was so brilliant, intrinsically and extrinsically motivated. After too much porn I just didn't care anymore. I need to get out of this, this year. I know the loss awaits for me if I don't break out. Lord help me on this journey.
quit it while you are young, i wish i had quit in my teens / early 20s. That was back in the late 1990`s lol
@@david111davies I'm 26. I don't think there is a better time. I might have a whole lot of life ahead of me and it's one I do not want to waste on.
@@AbdulDanmalan The most common myth is that your brain is rewired if you dont watch p . You return to "day 1" and hit a straight plateu once you even watch sexual content of any type for more than to stimulate your brain. It is hard, keep a punchbag with you. Or curl up and go to sleep.
I was a topper in my class pre puberty. And then puberty happened and I discovered porn from having a bad company at those times. Became average student and an average professional. Thinking of turning things around now.
I'm 67 , been addicted my entire life , miserable, because of doctor Leigh, I now know why. U younger men get out as soon as possible 🙏💪🌅
I have made a 40 day fast of .. everything and here some things: The first 14 days was a fcking war, me vs porn. I was very unstable, lets call it so, but in the 15th-16th day a somehow calmness come and it didnt went away. also i was on the 6th and 7th day of the new week somehow horny, but just on this 2 days it was a problem. 30 days was planed, i made 40 and after that i want to achive a body regualtion, when it feels ok, i let it flow ... and thats the big change i still feel. Now i know my triggers and i can work around them, i know now, that is not my body its a sort of stress, fear of something, loneliness ..name it. This are some of my trigger points, know this well and you will be more in charge. (Also some things: Limbic brain with trauma) Lets hope someone has a benefit from this text. Wish you all the best, keep fighting
Dr Leigh. I am more honest with myself from watching your videos. I have learned to sit with my emotions, recognized hijaking behavior and take corrective action. Thanks
Hi Dr. Trish, where did you get the art on the wall behind you? They look nice.
My biggest streak was 30 days without. All it took was some cleavage in a random sitcom. Its a journey. We'll never be able to stay away from everything. The only way to succees is to never give up.
Great vid, Dr. Trish! Also, the ending where you were trying to close the feed/stop the recording ... LOL! 🤣👌
Also being sexually abused as a child, leads to porn use.
That's why it's so common
Day 18 of nofap, staying strong!
Me too
I'm going on a week. I'm beginning to feel that urge. I need to stay busy.
@@cadwacker yeah and also I saw one of the doctor's video where she said there's no urge and then I realised once you believe the urge isn't real it goes away.
@@raptorhacker599 The "urge" or the "want" is real. There is really nothing you can do about it besides avoiding triggers and such. But it is okay to have "wants" like sometimes ill walk past a chocolate cake and want a peace of that. But us humans can learn to ignore our urges and wants. It is not about wether you get urges or not, it is what you do with the urges that counts!
What is fap?
im quitting porn. got rid of my phone and laptop and xbox cause it has internet but i find myself looking at try on hauls on youtube
A trigger for me would be ads for escorts that are available on social media. Technically not porn, but since they offer intimate services, it can be a gateway into more explicit content.
What about women walking around in bikinis at the beach ? I am going to guess avoid the beach . avoid r rated movies .
Youre best blogger in the world but porn industry has the media
Yes, to add to my previous comment. I'd suggest any issue relating to men watching porn is solely due to psychological issues rather than the act of either masturbating watching porn or just watching porn and getting off. If men could perhaps take a better view of it themselves and society does not stigmatise it and place 'social pressures' on men due to 'sleaziness' then I'm sure any brain imaging test results would show normality and good health.
Stop making lame excuses
Your heart knows the difference...
fr
Thank you, God bless u and yours 🎉❤
How does using devices for fantasy & masturbation affect people. Isn't that an addiction? Doesn't it eat away your true sex drive/ libido?
You're the GOAT doctor
As always Dr. you are doing a great job. Thank you very much for the information. But the Part 17:53 is compeletely wrong, acually that's how the most porn addicted people started with their addiction. This is the seed of porn-addiction. I don't realy understand, why most movies nowadays have to have sex scenes.
Why can’t you just have some self control?
@@shawnaaustin3396 It's not about self controling. It's just getting ridicues putting these Porno scenes in every Movie. Like WHY?!! That's just letting children discover porn early and be addicted in young age
I have completely stopped watching movies altogether and it has helped. I have seen my fair share of movies and web series but now it is time to stop and get some shit done. Even in free time, I would rather be with my self as compared to going to screen.
If at all i plan to l watch a movie, i will not go for a love, romance, sex based movie.
It will be a thought provoking one like 12 angry men or such.
Sex scenes is movies are not normal. It can’t/ shouldn’t be considered a casual thing. EveryOne who watches them in the movies are definitely affected by them may to different extent but nevertheless affected.
I’m autistic and triggers happen uncontrollably at random times, making my brain go overdrive on stimulation without porn consumption.
I am from india
You are god for me becuase you save my lives and you is the reason of changing my life very very thank you
Glad you are keeping it real 😊you are right on 👍
Great video Dr. Trish! This is very eye opening.
I have a question: What about women in every day life?
I mean, there’s always women wearing really short shorts, or really tight pants in the supermarket, on the parks, mall, etc.
How can we deal with those kind of temptations? Any recommendations?
Adopt Sharia law and have evry woman wearing burkas LOL
Is natural to be attracted, but still dont look, don’t suppress but dont look, try getting into learning to meditate especially if its slow breathing and slow heart rate type of meditation it helps, and also exercise, i would like to add that at first 10 days you might want to stay very very busy with exercise to use all your energy and keep telling yourself “i dont want porn anymore” even if its feels like your lying to yourself, for the mall ladys and Walmart or gym or sidewalk, just respectfully dont look at their private areas
Ya know , hard not to lust, but like doc said, be the best product of yourself , that attract women . Being confident again. Stay close to the Lord, work on yourself , bike ride , help others , and last but not least , keep watching the doc 🙏💪🌅
I had a dream about literally watching corn. And even in the dream, I was upset and disappointed. Later I realized it was just a dream but I wondered if what I seen in my dream was considered a relapse of some sort, or a side effect of not watching it for a while
What does "jinkedy" mean? LOL.....
Seriously, your videos are wonderful. This one is much appreciated as always.
i was just thinking this the other day, ive slipped up and thought some boobies wouldnt be too bad but then realize its just a portal to more watching.
I love your work Doctor. You help inspire me to live a life free from lust and addiction. And you give the science behind what’s going on so we can know the why and how behind our addiction and overcoming it
You’re changing lives everyday keep doing the work you do madam
Porn is pure hell
Humans are born with a sinful nature. Some of the things we wind up doing are simply because of that sinful nature. However, many of the things we do are because we yield to temptations. The author of our temptations is the fallen angel we now call Satan. He knows human behaviour very well and he also knows the temptations he can put in our minds that each of us could most likely surrender to. This is because he studies us.
I do not believe someone can permanently once and for all eliminate their tendency to porn or masturbation or edging or fornication or adultry or stealing or lying or any other sinful behaviour on our own. We do have to decide that we are going to change our behaviours and make a commitment to do so. However, changing these behaviours on our own and permanently is not possible just on our own.
We need the help of the Spirit of God through prayer. When we are tempted and these thoughts are placed in our mind by Satan we need the help of the Spirit to make them depart from us and provide us with the strength to resist. Otherwise, we are always going to be relapsing and falling back and then comes the guilt and despair of failure. The more we apply the power of the Spirit to resist the less powerful the temptations become and the easier it becomes for us to successfully resist.
I have had a problem with something called rumination or ruminiscing for many years. It is because of many bad and hurtful things that have happened to me in my life. This problem even invades my dreams. It feels like PTSD where I am reliving old horrible hurts as if they just happened but in fact they happened years ago. When one of these old problems comes back up in my mind I experience the same emotions and the same hurt as if it is happening now. I have anxiety and fear, my heart rate skyrockets and it is followed by sadness, futility and depression. I hate it.
The only way I have been able to over come this is with prayer and prayer has worked. I now have far fewer of these incidents any more and once I pray about one that comes back up it goes away almost immediately now. They do not go away permanently though which is because the tempter never quits. All of these sinful addictions work this same way. They can be overcome successfully and permanently through prayer.
I needed this today. I haven't slipped but it has been tempting test the shades of gray.
Hello Dr. Trish very very thankful for sharing all your knowledge.
I was pretty young when I started watching porn and struggled with it, now I have started my journey to get off it.
Also I really really struggle with premature ejaculation with my wife, can this be somehow related to my porn problem?
When you go back to the shades of grey, does it count as a relapse or just slow your healing process down?
Personally, I wouldn't view it as a relapse simply because that could lead to an excuse to say FUCK IT and have a total relapse. I guess imagine a newly off the wagon by two weeks alcoholic who in a moment of weakness or even forgetfulness as he/she adjusts to their new life has a sip of wine at dinner with friends... if they catch themselves and stop themselves without beating themselves up they can move forward without going on a bender... but if they view that sip as a relapse, they might just go FUCK IT, the two weeks are wasted, I'll start again tomorrow. That's my hot take. I'm 5 months off the porn and not jerking off, but I've definitely had moments on Instagram looking at sexy ladies... but the deprogramming is working as when I catch myself doing it, I just stop.
I've never watched this new movie Oppenheimer because of the sex scene.
Thank you
i am really grateful for this video you are a great person doc❤
Great video. I scroll through my news feed, and there’s Julia Fox wearing... well, we all know what Julia Fox wears. Then, there’s Florence Pugh and all the other celebrities who now like to wear see-through clothing. I don’t have to seek it out; it shows up all by itself, undoubtedly because of cookie or my history of clicking on similar content.
Also, I’d like to explore the relationship between porn and junk food addictions. It seems to me there is a strong similarity, at least in my own life. Junk Food Rewire? Just a thought 🙂
100% diet affects mood which affects compulsions but it's not a magic bullet. And yes, one little click on "try-ons" and it's a firehose of related content. Great for triggers hey?! :/
Just curious, why would a rated r movie, an instagram model, etc not affect a healthy mind? I feel like that would affect them in that similar way porn is so attractive... it causes a dopamine hit, wouldnt it? For us it might trigger a path in the mind, but would it is so soft core compared to what we had, wouldnt it start the desire vs give a hit since they are so not used to stimulation? Just curious to understand ma'am. Thank you so much for your vids btw.
Dr.. Does brains looses its plasticity after certain age
Doctor, can I use antidepressants for porn withdrawal symptoms?
Use the bible
So that first hit from when we were young makes us go back, and we hijack it by going to re live that feeling or hit all those years ago?
mam i have used drugs and porn since 14 years of age both compulsively my brain is always on fire mode … does having real sex keeps the brain fired up is real sex bad for dopamine in early recovery
Great advice,Doc
Shades of porn:
- Romance literature
- The hallmark channel
- The Song of Solomon (The Bible)
- A day at the beach, a wedding, a high school dance…
- Slit skirts, backless dresses, low cut jeans, yoga pants, sheer blouses, high heels, lipstick, push-up bras, etc
The war on porn is often a war on sex, especially the male sex drive. Instead of frustrating the male sex drive, it is far better to direct it toward positive action. (Married men and fathers build civilizations). The answer to sexual frustration is not living in a sexual desert, but a sexually fulfilling marriage.
The epidemic of sexless marriages is a huge driver of porn usage. Addressing porn while failing to address sexless and passionless marriage is a futile effort. IOWs the feminist approach destroys marriages (it is one of their stated goals) and then shames males for wanting sex. Too much of the porn outrage is simply protecting the imbalance of power that women enjoy over men through their sexuality. The anti porn zealots would that males be castrated, rather than tell wives that they do not have the right to regulate sex in the marriage.
It is ironic that the loud opposition to porn usage is silent when it comes to fornication. Better to bang a hoe than masterbate with visual aids. And how dare I call a woman a hoe for exercising her sexual autonomy. Porn is not the root cause, it is a rational response to the real sexual dysfunction in society that has been normalized. Porn is the scapegoat for the feminist’s destruction of marriage and their advocacy of promiscuity. Fix sexless marriage and stop fornication and the porn issue will become far less pervasive.
Of course family courts make marriage a gamble with bad odds. A wife on a caprice can steal her husband’s home, children and future income. Delay of marriage is a recipe for sexual frustration. Let’s tell men when their testosterone is peaking to become celibate monks, and young women at the peak of fertility that she should focus on her career and by such messaging society has created a fornication epidemic. But porn is the scapegoat, because when women want sex it is good and wholesome, but when men do it is oppressive and needs to be thwarted. Men who can’t have sex for any reason (either a sexless marriage or they are not alpha enough to bed a hoe) don’t become geldings, but turn toward their imagination to live out a portion of their God given sexual nature.
The moral indignation is misplaced by both the feminists and the right, but then I repeat myself.
you are right dude
A lot of good points in this long comment.
💯
Exactly! I personally struggle with homosexuality but want no part in that lifestyle. I want to marry a woman and work hard for my marriage, and please her of course. Never had a girlfriend or any romantic relationship and it is frustrating but I know there is a woman out there who will appreciate me and I will appreciate her.
The Song of Solomon is beautiful poetry that is ultimately intended to show the loving relationship between Jesus Christ and his bride, the Church. I have read this book and was never aroused by reading its content as Jesus Christ loves his bride so much that he died for her and wants his bride, the Church, to be holy and blameless. The Song of Solomon was never intended to be a Kamasutra/porn manual for the Christian.
How are society not protecting our children?
This makes me believe in evil.
And that there are evil men.
evil is 100% real, no belief is required to know of its existence.
Right in the feelz. Spot on.
Will follow you more! ❤
I would like o book an appointment with you
😂 dude
@@Stanly-Stud I don't think when Dr Trish mentioned sexualizing innocent things, she understood just how much of an under statement that was 😅
can you rewire after few years of rebooting? Could this long period between rebooting and rewiring cause problems in terms of recovery?
Hey Dr. Leigh I really would appreciate your help on a problem I've been having on my porn-free journey. I get what I call a "mega-urge". Usually urges and withdrawal symptoms like anxiety/irritation, or lack of motivation and fatigue are all things which I can handle. But eventually I get this "mega-urge", which is basically the desire to want to watch and masturbate to porn and it feels like I cannot do anything. It's a physical sensation too, I get anxiety, my heart starts beating faster, and I have constant thoughts of wanting to watch porn. The problem is that it feels like I have ZERO control over it. I go outside, take a cold shower, just get out of my room and do something, but once I come back in and stop the activity I was doing, those thoughts/feeling reemerge. It literally feels horrible and something that I can't get over. Its been the #1 cause of my relapse over the years. How do I deal with this? Why is this happening? I really need your help, and would appreciate any comments.
I know exactly what you are talking about. Been doing nofap for 5 years, or trying to anyway. Every little bit of learning and awareness we can get helps, like Dr Trish's videos etc...but the only thing that truly set me free from these, what I call "existential urges" (the simple fact that you are alive, have an active sex drive, and have experiential knowledge of the pleasure of sexual release gives you an urge, and this is even when you have done absolutely nothing wrong to tempt yourself or feed lustful thoughts) is crying out and praying to God. Once I humbled myself to admit that I am powerless to control this, and that I need God to help me, it was like managing it became 100x easier.
That my friend, sounds like demonic influence. Which is much more prevalent and subtle in our world than most people really realize. It’s an evil spirit that is luring you and trying to seduce you with thoughts to arouse you and suck you back into the slavery of this sexual abomination. That’s the reason why the urge is more than just a natural hormonal fluctuation, it’s much more powerful and seductive. And that is not something you or I or any person can possibly get away from or stand against with our will. The only people who do make it out who don’t have Christ in their life, are the ones who the evil spirit let’s go of to let them wander into even more dangerous sin. The idea they themselves are strong, making them ignorant and blinding them of their need of Christ. The one who has all authority, the one who has all power, the one who is all loving, who loves and delights in mercy, our life giver our refuge our protector our shepherd our king our Heavenly Father!! When you turn to Him and seek Him you’ll find the truth and yes THE not A truth. You can’t go to the father.. you can only come to the father if you first go to His son. If you reject His son you reject the father and the father rejects you. Christ came to save you, from the slavery of sin on a road headed for hell. He came to reconcile us to His father that by believing in Him and repenting from our sin we saved from the fathers wrath for our sins. And when you have been given faith, Christ gives you His spirit to dwell within you. To transform your heart from your old sinful nature into His heart to do good works. Without the Holy Spirit within you, you have no power to overcome this battle. But if you are already a Christian and belong to Christ please respond and I’ll try to give further advice that Iv been given from godly men who have helped me. May the lord open your eyes to see and your ears and your heart to yearn to listen to His word and be brought joy and realize His love for you.
Try doing some intense cardio exercises on a regular basis.
Would definitely make a tremendous difference.
What's your opinion of the women that are creating the porn. Do they have a problem as well or is this only a man's problem?
The only women that create porn are OF and cam girls. And even many of those are coerced by their boyfriend. Many girls are forced into it. I know because I was one and have experience in the business. It’s horrible. We hate it and brainwashed. At no time do we ever enjoy it.
Exactly, folks can just read books too. Learn some new things in life
You are so gorgeous Trish.
Hi from Turkey
shades of grey ? There is porn and then there are YT models modelling lingerie, swim suits etc. So not quite porn but can be just as powerful/triggering.
Define an Addiction, if sex is what you desire in a Healthy way? What is considered a Healthy Sex Life?
I get what you mean, but a sexy scene is a sexy scene. How do you think a normally functioning brain should respond when it's exposed to sexual content. Do you not enjoy at all? Why do some therapists recommend watching a sexy movie together to couples?
Will you make your next video about police involved in human trafficking? They seem to think it’s okay to treat victims of this crime as their source of porn. #sugarlandpolicedepartment #waynelain
I understood unwire is staying away from porn with masturbation...how exactly do we need to rewire the brain? Can u do one video on rewiring the brain?
Read more about it here drtrishleigh.com/use-gratitude-to-rewire-your-brain/ :)
Without porn fans or addicts, she couldn't make money from her RUclips videos. So this channel needs porn to continue existing for Dr. Trish to continue adding endless variations on this subject. One type of media feeding off another.
Thank you so much
18:52 So it's in your brain forever and will always be there no matter what. Nice
lets discuss the benefits of a bit of self play. No time wasting, or getting scammed on dating sites, its mostly free so you save not only time but dollars that could have been wasted on a sexless useless date or associated dating expenses. You can be just about sure of getting off, and relieving stress and its also good for your prostate and health all round - as long as you don't think of yourself as a dirty sleazeball low life.
does scrolling through facebook dating count as bad? please let me know
Basically ill scroll liking everyone hoping for sex and that's got to be bad. I've been addicted to porn since probably around the age of 11 and marijuana, alcohol and tobacco since the age of 14. I'm 22 now and I've quit both weed and porn maybe a week ago but ill desperately scroll and like hoping for release. makes sense
what counts as healthy fantasy?
Healthy sexual fantasy would be more like mental foreplay about the experience you’re about to have… Leading you toward your partner, not away. Thinking about being with a partner in the present, in preparation to do so.
Not thinking about a high dopamine unreality to escape from your current reality. Time to leave that behind. ❌ when you heal your brain, 🧠 it doesn’t need that anymore.
Have no clue at the moment. Bad bunch of dudes.
viewing mixed martial arts damages more brains than porn does
Just put block on your devices have someone set the code so you don’t know move forward stop talking about the past focus on the solution not the problem, then find a non western woman who will make you happy
Hi Trish thank you for all you help.
Just as a joke...you keep calling the high jacker looking for porn in our brain "he".
Shouldn't be called "it" ?
The less I relief myself the better that mlf look
😶go on.
lol Yep, RUclips "professionals", eg, the ENTIRE ASMR community.
It depends on how much you have loss of control over your impulse. Watching a mild erotic film may cause a relapse. I think it's better to go cold turkey otherwise it gets really difficult
Attention! Notice how easy it is to label men as damaged and needing help, not only help but mental help also. I'm yet to come across are similar RUclips video offering help to troubled women who also watch porn.
They do but not as much as us men bruh
Can you unwire and rewire your brain while engaging in normal sex? or take a break as well?
Yes you can.
ASMR is no good
RUclips for example has many lesbian videos or hot models but officially known without porn
Even Facebook. Shades of grey slip through. Hacker tried. 3:32 3:48
For the heck of it, I did a search using my own name. I couldn't believe the images women with my name use as their thumbnail. OMG