Why Is Emotional Unavailability Increasing?
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- Опубликовано: 8 ноя 2024
- Clay Andrews discusses why emotional unavailability is increasing and what you can do about it. If you want to learn more about upgrading your love operating system, check out our free class over at: modernlove.life...
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Emotional unavailability is on the rise these days. It seems like so many people are ending up this way.
Why is that?
There is some sort of gene for emotionally unavailable men or emotionally unavailable women, but our perceptions are being driven by simple human psychology in the smart phone environment.
That is to say, that we are being driven toward emotional unavailability due to the paradox of choice that our phones offer us when it comes to dating or relationships.
Instead of taking the time to invest in a person to learn more about them and to really understand their character, we are tempted to keep looking for the "perfect thing" which may only be one date away.
Now, don't get me wrong. I'm not telling you to settle for something less than what you really want, but don't create an idealized person (who simply doesn't exist) and then disqualify everyone else as a dating prospect.
That's just going to keep you stuck and single.
Real people are going to give you a challenge. Real relationships are not going to be problem-free.
You've got to put in real work to have a great relationship. And you've got to be able to actually zero in on someone who is available and willing to commit to you.
Thanks for watching. If you want to learn about upgrading your "love operating system" check out our free class over at: modernlove.life/class
It hurts so much but these are all true. In the last several months i had to ask myself if one way or another i was showing to a relationship emotionally unavailable which attracts the same kind of men. I am in the process of healing from within and nip this in the bud. It certainly is not easy for a lot of people to be vulnerable and steadfast but it’s out there, somewhere. Thanks Clay for what you do!
Great video with good advice
This Topic must be shared & viewed to everyone nowadays , i cant say im classic mindset with my age atm in late 20's , but having a values , traditions & life goals is more important to talk about
Thank you for welcoming our video with an open mind, BIGGIE BEIL. Feel free to share our video as well. We agree that if we are in touch and aligned with our values, traditions, and life goals, we can truly achieve the loving and healthy relationship that we deserve in life. :-) All the best.
So real. Thank you.
Bible says in the last days people would lovers of self 😢
Hello Clay! Your videos are really insightful and revealing! I believe, we all can relate to the situations you mentioned. Yeah,🌟..I'm a devoted reader works by Leo Tolstoy (you might heard of him by a chance) and I love hearing your thoughts on life that's going on nowadays :))
Wow great content!
Thank you so much, Lisa. Glad that you loved our content. :-)
Are there men who want this kind of connection? How do we find them?
You can find these men anywhere. Just be sure that you are aware of the things and qualities that you want in a healthy and lasting relationship. This is where the 5x5 list would be beneficial for you.
This is what I say all the time but nobody listens. Everyone is a slave to their mobile. Its so annoying.
I agree with you. With the changes in technology, our personal connection was even affected that people tend to value virtual connections over face to face interactions.
I am not on Facebook and never had an interest to join.
I am on FACE to FACEBOOK.
You want to meet me in a cafe for a face to face conversation, great. If not.... that's ok too.!!!!