I got the feeling from the first time I saw the footage that she was in an outright state of terror and panic and just scared out of her mind. Her mother has brow-beat her to the point that she literally couldn’t bring herself to say she was pregnant, even as the baby was crowning. That’s not a normal level of embarrassment/shame or fear. That’s someone that’s been chronically emotionally and mentally abused and conditioned. So sad all the way around.
I think from personal experience, the mother of this girl is likely a controlling, narcissist. When I was in high school I thought I was pregnant for MANY months. I was so scared. A close friend eventually got me a pregnancy test. It caused me so much stress that I ended up developing an eating disorder & then blacked out in the weight room, where my finger nail was ripped off. My mother never knew about any of this. I was also doing a lot of sleeping around with older men ( who should have been charged for statutory bc I was under 18), smoking, drinking, taking pills, abusing myself - all of which my mother never knew. I asked for mental health help, told her I wasnt wanting to die but I wanted to hurt myself… I was told I was dramatic. I was outed by my best friend for dating a black guy & was thrown out of the house. In the end, I was not pregnant... I had cancer. When my mother found out, it was because of a Dr disclosing my information without my consent. They also informed her I was not a virgin. My mother called me, shamed me, yelled at me and talked about how hard it was for her. How embarrassed and ashamed of me she was. So yeah, I get how she hid this from her mother & then thought it was better to act like a crazy person than let her mother find out. A narcissistic mother scares you more than jail.
Right! And she went to the HOSPITAL and they knew she was pregnant BEFORE she went to the bathroom?! Why didn’t someone there do something?? They just kept giving her morphine. That mom though! My heart aches for her 💔
@@MYSTICMANDY22 I'm so sorry you had to go through all of that. Narcissistic people cause so much pain. You didn't deserve any of it. Also, I hope you have beat the cancer.
@@crafteetiffy8761I had so much morphine with both of my labors to the point that I kept throwing up My kids are fine Not asking for help And dumping it in the trash with additional bags on top is no accident They said she ripped the umbilical cord apart like a animal I think Ant is amazing, doesn’t mean he can’t have his off days
When I watched the video….the mother seemed eerily calm. It struck me as unbelievably odd. If I was the mother, I’d be livid beyond compare. This story is insane and deeply sad at the same time.
The police were in the room and all around. I’m sure she was feeling many things but I would Say it would be one of those wait to get home situations. Although the girl did not go home that day
I don't think I would be mad... More sad and depressed (I am a mom) and a babies life is everything... So knowing if one of my children did that to their baby I would be beyond devastated
If she was being abused by the stepfather, then the mother deep down knew and was pretending to turn a blind eye to the abuse or convinced herself it couldn’t be happening. This is what it feels like to me as well. I really hope they do a DNA test and that if this is what happened that she will be able to find her voice and power to speak the whole truth. Terrible what happened to that poor innocent baby and also terrible if this poor girl was being abused. Edit: the male that came up wanting the baby to me looks like it was the stepfather. He was the only one that showed any emotion.
@@jl.9443 i don’t think DNA was done yet and if so, I can’t find anything officially released about anywhere online. I think people May be going by the police cam footage when LE asks the boyfriend (or ex boyfriend?) that if he was the father n he says yes……he looked confused to me but I do hope they do their due diligence and have or will perform one bc it would insane to just take any of their word for facts
The only one who asked about the baby was the step dad. He showed tears. He asked if it was a still birth. The mom was freakin weird, she was deflecting like crazy and over sharing..she totally knew. She mentioned being abused.
I think the dad SAed the young girl and the mom knows so, the girl is trying to protect them. That is my opinion, his emotions were strange for me personally. He seemed like he was freaking out deep down.
I saw the video on Law&Crime, she was scared. She went to the bathroom and was in there for a VERY long time. When they went to check on her they saw that there was blood all over. The nurses took her to clean up and the janitor went to clean it. When she went to take the trash, she noticed how unusually heavy it was. SHe looked in and there was the baby. SHe took it to the nurses. As uncomfortable as it might be to speak to your children about sex and their body, it needs to be had!Otherwise you get this! A young girl too ashamed and guilty to speak up and say the truth, kills her new born baby. I do feel sorry for this young lady, however you are right Ant, you did the crime, gotta do the time. 😢just sad
Now that you mention doubt about the bf being the dad, in the body cam at the hospital, the mom was extremely quick to point out the bf as the dad before anyone else could answer. Suspicious.
She was 18. Legally she could have privately told the doctor she didn't want her mother in the room and been honest. The hospital would have protected her and told her mom nothing!!! Even after she delivered, she could have immediately given the baby up for adoption and left the next day with her mom knowing nothing! Such a sad case. For all young girls....there are options. You can drop the baby off at a fire station or hospital and you won't get in trouble.
Yes but she’d have to deal with the consequences when she got home. Abuse isn’t a light switch, you can’t just turn it off and feel safe. I think this girl is deeply traumatized
I agree with you, this is how she should have handled it, I just wonder if she knew these options were available? Maybe they should have talked to her privately
I feel like she probably had no idea she could even do that. Or felt like she had any control in the room with her mom there at least it does come off as being petrified. Because she could of died to she was losing a lot of blood and was in pain. And everyone was sitting there being like tell us what's going on even after they got a positive pregnancy test she was still denying it. To do that much gymnastic and in pain you would think finally you would just come out with it and say yes! Fine I'm pregnant and she still kept it and did childbirth all by herself on a bathroom floor right next to nurses. Gives the vibe of terrified and very immature not realizing she's 18 and can kick her mom out and doesn't know what to do it's like she can't get it out of her mouth whats going on.
That’s why abuse is insidious. It puts such fear in u, esp if it started from childhood, that even when u have options the fear is too great to see them.
People don’t understand what fear and trauma will make a person do. I felt shear panic from her, most likely her parents. According to news reports her mother was screaming at her with her head between her hands and the doctor had to make her step away. Definitely something more here.
I wouldn’t be surprised if there was abuse involved, unfortunately. She placed the baby in a garbage bag, and then placed a new bag on top of it. The cleaning lady found the baby when she lifted the bags to empty the trash. Not sure how she thought the baby wouldn’t get suffocated that way. As an educator, I’ve definitely seen a correlation between low literacy and poor critical thinking skills and immaturity.
If she had just put the baby in the bagged trash she may have had a different defense but she methodically took the bag out, put the baby in and then replaced the bag to conceal the baby. She had intent to deceive. She was in a hospital surrounded by help and she could have give the baby up right then and there without repercussions. Instead,she chose very poorly.
@Namels Private Post Partum psychosis is a real yet severely overlooked illness. You're assuming that she was in her right mind at the time. Plus, there is a possibility that this girl could have been SA/raped by a family member, which unfortunately is a VERY common phenomenon (in over 85% of cases worldwide, it is perpetuated by someone the victim personally knows, like a family member, ex, or family friend, not a stranger). This definitely does not excuse what she has done, but this case isn't particularly as black and white as you are making it out to be. Not to mention the girl's age and the fact that the prefrontal cortex and hippocampus (the brain's primary areas responsible for decision-making processes) are not fully developed until age 25.
@@sierrarene504 I don't believe what I wrote painted the situation as black and white. It's just a comment. I'm not gonna write a whole essay to explain every angle of this story.
@@elycium70 DNA hasn't been done yet, and even if it was, you can't find anything officially posted about it on the internet, so we don't know who the father is
As someone who grew up in NM I can tell you New Mexico school systems are absolute garbage. There is very little support for children let alone abused children. My thoughts and prayers are with this girl regardless of the verdict.
Autopsy proves the baby had air in his lungs and stomach which proves baby alex was alive. The placenta was never found so she had to have flushed it since the nurses contested to hearing her flushing multiple times. Also the umbilical chord was still attached to the child. Nurses said those are hard to cut without a tool. So she either had to rip it or use her teeth.
Tell me why my first thought after seeing the video of her coming out of the bathroom was "what if she wants to get rid of it because she was SA'd by someone in her family?" But I pushed it out of my head because I thought I was over analyzing the situation. Poor girl. It seems like she didn't know any better & acted out of fear. Their entire family should definitely be investigated.
For some reason I had a gut feeling that she was being abused by her mom. Throughout everything I saw it seemed like she was afraid of her mom and tried to hide it from her entirely. I feel like this situation was a victim of some type of abuse unintentionally becoming a perpetrator. This is so sad.
One of the most disturbing thing is that she said to the cops “nothing was crying”. She didn’t even used the word baby. She totally disassociated herself from her baby, like it was a thing, not a baby, like she didn’t kill the baby, but a thing.
Probably an older dude in mid to late 30s, in a relationship, close to the family. I don't think anyone is truly unaware who is the bd. Especially if her energy is closed in and secretive to not expose anyone out of fear of what drama will come from it. A hush hush. Makes me think it's her mom's partner 🤔 especially since her mom is in "denial" and covering up things to save face. Sorry for this girl and the baby.
Bro! Wow! This would make so much sense. Mom in denial, afraid to keep the baby and announce it, the step dad is the only one concerned and secrets. Damn!
@@andorameda333 It wouldn't surprise me if the parents go to church on Sundays or any events , there are many people that use religion as a shield to disguise what they choose to do behind closed doors so others won't be suspicious of their true character.
I have lived experience of my bodily autonomy being violated on a consistent basis in my childhood. And uh my adolescent and puberty years were very chaotic on my mind, body, spirit, and nervous system. I was intellectually stunted too, because of my undiagnosed Complex-PTSD. Unfortunately our society can be blasé with SA and abuse, but imagine. Having your bodily autonomy violated when you’re a kid and developing. The system starts dissociating and fragmenting certain parts out of self preservation. This is a horrendous situation and I really appreciate your reading and insight Ant
The clean up crew found the baby unfortunately 😢I can’t imagine them picking up blankets and trash and finding that baby boy… poor baby… poor cleaning staff 😢
@@BrandyH-eh9up Autopsy came back. There was air in her sons lungs. So he was born alive. He sufficated from the other trash bag she put on top of him to make it look like th etrash was empty.
I know that she is 19 and was still in high school. On top of that, I saw her arrest video and her mom said she didn't know her social security number which could reflect how sheltered she is.
Would love it if you did a video about the 12 year old that stabbed her brother and if she had a mental break or if it was because of medication like the mom has stated.
Post Partum psychosis is a real yet severely overlooked illness. You're assuming that she was in her right mind at the time. Plus, there is a possibility that this girl could have been SA/raped by a family member, which unfortunately is a VERY common phenomenon (in over 85% of cases worldwide, it is perpetuated by someone the victim personally knows, like a family member, ex, or family friend, not a stranger). This definitely does not excuse what she has done, but this case isn't particularly as black and white as you are making it out to be. Not to mention the girl's age and the fact that the prefrontal cortex and hippocampus (the brain's primary areas responsible for decision-making processes) are not fully developed until age 25. This is coming from someone who studied law and psychology
@@sierrarene504 Post partum psychosis does not set in RIGHT after you give birth. It usually sets in 2-3 days after giving birth. I think she was terrified that her parents would find out she was having sex.
@@SLL8440 Key word being USUALLY. There are some outliers in which onset may occur immediately, especially if there is pre-existing/underlying cognitive impairment
I don’t think she was or is stupid - when someone is abused they loose the ability to be aligned in their own energy they loose clarity of mind & their voice - They loose the ability to stand in their power Sounds like it’s an adult abusing her in the home.
So sad. She is clearly abused and uneducated, with no care or guidance. When you’re running on pure fear, you act on fear and hope for the best. Unfortunately it’s short sighted and can end in tragedy.
I saw bodycam footage of the case, she went to the bathroom, gave birth then tried to hide it by putting the baby into the garbage can but put another bag over it to hide the baby. Plus she tried to clean everything up before they came in..but they caught her bleeding. So she definitely knew what she was doing. Plus it showed her mother yelling at her stuff like "I asked you and asked you but you kept denying it!!" I def get abused vibes.
I think it was a combination of intelligence issues and home sheltering, plus trauma. Fire houses have baby drop-offs and Planned Parenthood has resources too. She must have some sort of indoctrination going on.
@angelal5198 plus possible cultural/religious beliefs, I hadn't heard anything about this until I started Ant's video yesterday but fell asleep (thanks sleep meds)
@@angelal5198All she had to do was hand the kid to a nurse or leave it on the freaking floor irresponsible, but anything would have been better than putting him in the trash.
Okay. I’ve got to point out something no one has said yet in comments I’ve seen. Go back and watch the step gathers reaction to the news. Moms acting like she’s not a hand in the pressure for her daughters actions to take place, and bf and mom and in shock but also clearly knew there was a baby on the way, especially the fact that the bf stated mentioning he asked what other symptoms she was experiencing. Back to step dad- his facial reactions look terrified, to relief to the baby being passed, then a bit of tension in his facial muscle when he realized maybe DNA could be a factor. The crying after looked stricken in fear and produced. Now that you’ve brought up older male figure, pressured to keep a secret that effects people she cares for, and abuse. Willing to bet that baby is her step fathers. She looked terrified when mom found out, and it wasn’t just being in trouble.. there is some else going on. Hopefully time will tell. Pre trial in August, Trial start is mid October I believe All my kindness to reader and Ant
This is such a gut wrenching case and i have a hard time believing she didn't intend to kill him given the manner in which she disposed of him. However, one thing I haven't seen discussed at all, is the fact that Roe v Wade would have been reversed likely right around when she discovered the pregnancy or just prior to it and she may not have had the emotional intelligence or resources to obtain information on her options. Whether this was a component in this case or not, I still believe many adults in her life did fail her. I think there is a potentially broader story here, but no amount if understanding will take you back in time. Idk it's just awful though.
A woman buying Plan B could not afford it, and actually asked me to buy it for her. I did. But seeing that kind of fear in a grown woman's face, I can only imagine what was going through a teenage girls mind. It's cruel that women all over the world are/will be going through this. 🖤
@@StyleChatterTrue but that doesn't mean it's always "accessible". I believe someone had mentioned in a reddit thread that the area she lived in - the closest abortion clinic was an hour or more away. It still doesn't excuse her actions, but that might be _a_ reason as to why she may have not gone to a clinic
@@StyleChatter I didn't mean it wasn't still an option. I meant more that the news about its reversal and the loud conversation around it may have caused added fear or pressure, and that resources in her area may have shifted or changed following the reversal (my own speculation). There are several avenues I think it could have played a role really, but again I don't think it effects the outcome of the case just the discussion around it. She made many bad decisions that got her here.
@@Katy-ys6rn I mentioned in a separate comment, and related to what Ant mentioned about her decision-making, that I’ve personally seen low literacy correlate with poor critical thinking skills. I wonder if her home environment was just not conducive to her developing the right skills intellectually to function as an adult. It’s sad… as a teacher I see it too much. There is actually a term for it - educational neglect.
This is deep. I appreciate you ant, I know this takes a lot of emotions and energy to get through reading like this. You are the bomb for what you do. this reading confirms what my intuition has been guiding me to believe this whole time. I don’t believe the boyfriend is the baby daddy. Mom knows more than what she’s telling.
I can see this being the potential outcome for these young girls who have nothing but instilled fear driven into them about becoming pregnant in high school by their parents. Specially those with lower intellectual levels. So sad all the way around. Parents need to make their kids feel safe and wanted no matter what, regardless of religious views or standards. Otherwise this could be their future. If this girl felt safe and accepted, this probably would not have happened. Now shes got to face the consequences of her actions of being ill prepared for life.
You mean like Brooke Skylar Richardson who had a wonderful family and still killed the baby in the bathroom burying it in her backyard. This generation knows more about consequences of sex than most.
@cathyb4823 Did you not listen to Ants reading? My comment was in agreement to what he said? As for Brooke's case, in the end they found her not guilty in the Court of Law for murdering her baby? So not sure where your going with bringing her case to this one?
Rosa has a criminal record built on alcohol and theft. I strongly believe Alexee has a learning disability or FASD. I bet dollars to donuts her step father is the father of her child and her mother is in denial. She instructed Alexee to stash the baby at the hospital where they intended to just get some pain meds since it became too painful to get through at home. They planned on doing a private adoption. This is not the first time they have planned something like this. The first child she became pregnant with was aborted, but her step father never stopped abusing her. This time would have been the final straw because she “screwed up again”. Y’all realize this is speculation based of TAROT READING INTERPRETATION RIGHT
I’m still watching but so far it feels like the 19 year old didnt want to keep the baby but her parents would have forced her to keep it so she tried to hide it?
Now I also heard in nursing school that a lot of moms disassociate with their babies. They don’t think that the baby is theirs. Apparently it happens to a lot of moms and it happened to me for the first week. It’s because your babies face changes so much in the first week/month that it’s hard to realize what you had in your belly for ten months is now out and in front of you. Also if she was having a problem with this pregnancy I definitely think her postpartum would’ve been bad.
I love how Ant always goes through the card's and explains what it all means. Not many do that they just say it. Very beautifully done at something so sensitive.
There’s newer footage that was released where her mother said she (the mother), was physically abused by the bio dad when she was pregnant with her. The girl was born with all these back problems as a result, and has gone to the chiropractor for years. The boyfriend said the night before she was complaining about excruciating back pain. Definitely something to think about. When asked if there was possibility the boyfriend wasnt the dad, the mom laughed.
The mother was too chilled in my opinion when they broke the news to her about the baby...like she knew something about the whole thing...her reaction lacked any emotions that a mother would have if she found out her child did that. Something happened for the girl to react in such extreme way. Interesting reading. Poor baby devastating honestly I also feel for the girl
Amazingly sensitive reading ant, thank you so much for this. I think this whole image and feeling that you described is important to get out there in these times. There is too much control on the bodies of others. And I hope this will bring some awareness to someone! ❤
I live in NM, I’ve been seeing this case everywhere. It’s crazy to see a case where you’re from all over the internet. I hope you’re doing well Ant :) 🧡
Every time I watch you I am more impressed. I saw that video from the hospital and all I could see was a terrified, traumatized, child. Your abilities are always amazing, but your willingness to tell the truth even when you know it goes against the popular opinion is even more impressive. 💗
You're not alone. I had mixed feelings about her. It was really hard for me to truly be mad at her. She doesn't have a dark energy to her. I did sense extreme fear from her, but not in a "I got caught" way. Some other overwhelming fear emits from her whole demeanor. Now the mom is something else. Terrible actress. She's hiding something.
@@justathoughtmyfriend1403I was extremely disappointed when this first came out and everyone started raging on this girl. There’s something in her eyes that are screaming for help. I will not be surprised if it comes out she really was SAd by a family member. I saw theories suggesting that she may be on the spectrum. And if that’s true then it really explains a lot. I’m glad they’re are other people like us who think this whole case is…odd. To say the least and didn’t immediately start bashing her.
@@justathoughtmyfriend1403agree 1000%. Like super unpopular opinion but totally agree. Mom is sus for sure. And she the teen didn’t seem evil to me. She seemed so so scared. Something else is going on here.
@@t-tap9109yes. Agreed. People are so quick to judge and jury someone and paint them a certain way. It’s not so cut and dry. And I’m really starting to feel like she might have been SAd and she’s terrified. Something ain’t right. And mom - something about mom. She’s scary man. And I had a controlling and crazy mom too. So idk. I feel for her. Everyone is ready to burn her at the stake and I just don’t agree. We make awful decisions at that age. Ugh. So sad.
I hope they investigate this case more than just charging for the death of the baby… there’s something not right and she needs help …. Prison will either destroy her or make her ruthless… it’s sad that she is hiding secrets for bad people
I watched the video of her and she stated that when she gave birth, the baby wasn't crying or breathing. She thought he was dead already, and she was scared. I think she thought he was a stillbirth or she miscarried. The situation is so sad. From the vibe I got, I also felt that she was abused as well. How many months was she pregnant? I am surprised that her mother couldn't tell she was pregnant. Thank you for this reading.
Autopsy came back. Her son had air in his lungs and stomach. He was born alive and breathing. His cause of death was suffication.. ER doc said baby was FULL term.
I agree. She could have left the baby in the trash which omg it feels so ugly to say but once she put the bag over the baby it was obviously going to suffocate…. So I don’t buy the whole innocent thing.
Ya, it struck me as odd when the mother said "I TOLD YOU!" or whatever. I was thinking "did she suspect this or know more?" It did feel very performative too
I feel devastated for her. It's one thing to be young and pregnant, but she couldn't get an abortion and nobody was supporting her. I hope whatever happens to her, she finds that support somewhere else, and can move on with her life. It would do her well to get away from that household, especially if she's being abused.
She is gonna get away. Right to prison. It's clear. Regardless of if she was abused or not she went into that bathroom and killed a baby. At a hospital. The one place she could have left that baby alive and she didn't.
@@kaydabear9487 she didn’t understand that though her intentions weren’t malicious she shouldn’t be in prison she should be locked up in a mental health facility.
The way she wrapped that baby in the trash bag, she KNEW he was going to pass. She just thought they wouldn’t find it and it would be taken away with the trash.
There’s probably a lot of trauma when it comes to that baby, especially if she wasn’t allowed to have an abortion she was dissociating probably a lot of trauma and didn’t mentally realize what she was doing. She clearly did not have a connection to that baby, especially if that baby came from trauma. A lot of people are suspecting that the baby is the stepfather’s, and if she got r worded she probably realized, and didn’t realize what she was doing at the same time.
She said “it WASNT crying” she said it never cried. And if it did don’t you think the manyyyy people outside would have heard it? She thought the baby was dead already. I also think she was petrified and abused. Something doesn’t sit right with me. The mom. Just any of it. I don’t think the boyfriend is the bd. 😢 poor girl. Poor baby. Sad situation all around. 💔
Hi, licensed mental health professional here! Post Partum psychosis is a real yet severely overlooked illness. You're assuming that she was in her right mind at the time. Plus, there is a possibility that this girl could have been SA/raped by a family member, which unfortunately is a VERY common phenomenon (in over 85% of cases worldwide, it is perpetuated by someone the victim personally knows, like a family member, ex, or family friend, not a stranger). This definitely does not excuse what she has done, but this case isn't particularly as black and white as you are making it out to be. There are lots of potential mitigating factors. Not to mention the girl's age and the fact that the prefrontal cortex and hippocampus (the brain's primary areas responsible for decision-making processes) are not fully developed until age 25. Add that with cognitive impairment/intellectual disability and abuse, and you've got the perfect storm. It is absolutely devastating, but not unheard of.
I went to school with a girl that got pregnant and we all could tell and when anyone would ask her she would deny it. 🙄 then she left for a few months and came back showing us her baby pics. Idk some girls are just like that.
I was sooo terrified to tell my mom when i found out i was pregnant at 18yrs old. I remember running myself a bath, yelling to my mom, "im pregnant" and locking the bathroom door. I stayed in there until she had time to calm down. Within a few days we were out buying baby clothes. I was only like 10wks along. That baby is now 20yrs old and a perfect gentleman!
The stepdad was the only one crying when everything came to light. They say her defense is going to be about mental illness/abuse. Another reader thought that perhaps the step dad was abu sing her 😢 regardless she gave birth in a bathroom in an ER at 3 am it wasn’t no public restroom that the baby would be discovered right away.
Well her mom was at the hospital saying on camera that her daughter was Virgin. She definitely gave those extreme mom controlling vibes. Alexis gave birth in a bathroom and put the baby inside a plastic bag and tie the knot on it.. there is no mistake there. She is out on bail After all this she went back to her school, continue with her boyfriend and even went to prom. If she is mentality challenge I don’t know, but she is definitely evil. Thank you for the reading Ant but this is beyond sickening
I feel so sad for this girl. She must have been so very traumatized by the entire pregnancy, the birth alone and having a living being coming out of her. It’s all so sad! I’m sure it’s all about abuse! Poor little baby! May it rest in heaven! I’m sure it does!
I had kind of the same thought when the news story came out about the baby found in the bathroom. She wanted it found so it could be taken care of but didn't want people knowing she gave birth to the baby because she didn't want to get in trouble by her mother. I don't think this girl understood how Dr's could tell if a woman has had a baby and what all is involved in giving birth. Could the male energy you were picking up on, could that possibly be her mother? From what I understood, her mother was very controlling and possibly abusive. Maybe her mom just has masculine energy?
This is what I experienced 20+ yrs ago. I was in the same position. I had my daughter in high-school. I almost had an abortion until I felt my daughters movements. I say, if my eldest daughter wasn't born, I would have been all sorts of f'd up! This girl didn't want anyone to know and wasn't even mature enough to be a parent.
If she was abused by a male around her and is slow intellectually I don’t think it’s fair to depict her as evil. Seems like a victim of her environment
I saw bodycam footage of Alexee’s mom saying that Alexee’s biological dad (not the stepfather) abused her while she was pregnant with Alexee, I’m thinking that could be the negative/dominating male energy in her life that she’s scared of.
I never see your videos on my home page or follow page(and i have notifications on!) but i always see the community post announcing the video, please never stop them!
I haven’t seen anyone speak about her father, was he in her life? You could tell there was a toxic mother daughter relationship going on. This reading gave me a new perspective. I was so angry when I heard about it.
I watched the video of thise case. It's sooo sad because you can tell she is very much under her moms control regardless of age. I'm 100% that woman knew what was going on and she didn't want to help her daughter!!!! That poor child probably had no idea what was happening when she was giving birth. It makes soo sad! This is why abortions and education on sex is so important. This will keep happening, talk to your kids about everything. That woman failed her daughter
I really do think she has been abused for a long time. Even if the boyfriend is the father, there must have been doubt on who the other was possible from the involvement of the older man. People are greatly underestimate the shock of giving birth and the ability to think clearly. I hope it gets exposed because i think she's a victim as well. She needs psychological help
This is what I was feeling about the girl. I thought I my sense what the odd one out, but it was hard for me watching that video to really be angry at her. I had mixed feelings. She seemed completely frightened and naive. I also was thinking that it she was not in the right mind due to shock and fear. Now, when she kept repeating that the baby wasn't breathing as the rationale for why she left the baby there, that is the part that made me question her intent because most people would not throw a non-responsive baby in the trash. It was hard not to question her intellect which many are overshadowing that too with complete apathy and intentional murder. Also, for her to even feel she could not respond to the hospital staff when she was giving birth and clean up her own blood to hide that she had given birth should be questioned from the get go. That is not normal. That sounds like survival mode behavior from some type of dooming threat, as you are reading. I hope the investigators read between the lines and find out the truth of what is going on. That mom is definitely off. Terrible actress.
I got pregnant at 17, had him a few months after I turned 18. I was homeless and struggling with depression, I found out when I was 6 months into my pregnancy. I was worried for my baby and just wanted him to be healthy! There's no excuses but she clearly isn't a mother. There's also another similar case like this where another 18 year dumped her baby in a trash at an empty parking lot, dump divers found the newborn, and it survived!
@@joyjoyz778 minutes after the delivery? I don’t know. I had PPD and for me at least it came on a little later. I think this girl was probably going through something though.
@@Puuws We shouldn’t judge a person throwing her child away in a trash can? And ending up killing her child? That’s not just a normal choice you shouldn’t judge that’s horrific and should absolutely be JUDGED
It doesn't seem like she had PPD. She was aware of her actions. She CHOSE to do that. It. And yes. Like I said, I was depressed during my pregnancy, and I wasn't eating well my hair was thin and falling out because he was taking all my nutrients. I've heard horror PPD storiesz I don't believe this is one of them.
@@joyjoyz778 PPD is very real, I've had it but it doesn't set in for 10-14 days after delivery. Prior to that it's called "baby blues" and that's linked to the sudden drop in hormone levels after drlivery.
Thanks Ant, you have given me a new view of this horribly sad case. Post partum psychosis can set in immediately after giving birth from some of my research. The fact that she was truly ignorant of the consequences of her actions wasn’t in my mind but, sadly possible.
That's crazy... the only person who asked about or seemed concerned about the baby was the stepfather. If the reading is correct, I would only assume the baby may be the step-father's 😳😭😭😭
I'm from New Mexico & this story was everywhere. A lot of New Mexicans were shocked that, that had happened in our state. But I think the professionals handled it very well. Very proud of them & my state. But very sad ending. RIP to the baby.
@@mermaidlu5125That was in 2022. It's becoming more common, that's what I meant by New Mexicans being shocked because it's quiet here in NM. Our state now introducing & funding "Baby Boxes" to stop baby dumping.
@@allieocoHot bed" lol maybe Albuquerque. Gallup is quiet. Idk where you come from but sounds like you don't know NM like that. Most of the state is underdeveloped & the crime here is NOTHING compared to other cities 🤡 Your chances of your car getting stolen are higher than getting murdered LMAO. I know, bc I actually lived in another places & moved back home so I can live in peace.
I had a feeling that she didnt mean to kill her baby, in the video of the mum and her, to me she looked so scared and confused. Poor girl, poor baby 😢 obviously her actions are not okay. Also, her mum could have done so much more to be supportive in whatever way she needed 😢 Also, Ant would love a reading on Colleen Ballinger and Adam Macyntire
@@Smaugette age wise yes, she is old enough to know better but as Ant suggested in his reading, she's not very intelligent, doesn't make it right at all what she did and obviously take everything we read/see with a grain of salt but that was just my first feeling I had was that she wasnt fully aware of what she had done. Again, doesn't make it right at all but it's just sad all round.
@@Smaugette Hi! Licensed mental health professional here. Post partum psychosis may potentially be at play. It can occur immediately after birth and is very commonly overlooked. Not to mention the girl's age and the fact that the prefrontal cortex and hippocampus (the brain's primary areas responsible for decision-making processes) are not fully developed until age 25. Also, there is a possibility that she could have been SA/raped, which unfortunately, often involves a family member or friend rather than a stranger. If she was SA and inpregnated by a family member, then this could definitely play a major role. Just food for thought!
@@BecxCosyCornershe covered the baby with two trash bags and tried to clean up her birth. She flushed her placenta down the toilet on pieces. She didn’t kill the baby with malice but she did kill so it would be gone. She has serious mental issues for sure.
In one of the bodycam footages where the police officer talks to the mom in the waiting room (with the step dad, boyfriend, and boyfriend’s mom) after everything happened, the mom mentioned her ex-husband/Alexee’s biological father was physically abusive with her while she was pregnant with Alexee. Possibly fits what was picking up with the dominant male figure in the shadows that she is fearful of.
i felt the same energy when i saw the video! she was SCARED because of her mom. regardless of context, i know that face too well of getting caught and just breaking down in front of a strict, controlling parent. So i also felt like she did what she did because she didn't know how to confront her mom about it which is so sad because this could've been prevented if her mom gave her that safe space. I also feel like controlling moms like this hinder their child's growth so that's probably why she came off as unintelligent bc i'm sure her mom never taught her about safe sex and if she knew about the pregnancy, then because of her denial she didn't help her daughter to prepare to either be a mother or give it up for adoption. seems like she didn't know her resources and was scared of her mom. Her mom is super controlling and babies her because the video of her getting arrested they asked her to cite her social security number and her mom answered saying she doesn't know that. such a tragic case....please teach your children and not hinder their education even if you don't want them to have sex at a young age.....they will end up doing it anyways as that's what teenagers do but please teach them how to do it safely to avoid situations like this
Is this girl Latina? Im asking because this reminds me so much of abusive Latino families. The religious aspect, protecting others, turn a blind eye, having the perfect imagine to be the "good kid" and not allowed to get abortions. I've seen and lived in familes like this. Its a problem that the community doesnt talk about Edit: she might have a learning to development disabilities. It's not shocking. Many religious families deny those disabilities too. This gives me strong conservative household
I got the feeling from the first time I saw the footage that she was in an outright state of terror and panic and just scared out of her mind. Her mother has brow-beat her to the point that she literally couldn’t bring herself to say she was pregnant, even as the baby was crowning. That’s not a normal level of embarrassment/shame or fear. That’s someone that’s been chronically emotionally and mentally abused and conditioned. So sad all the way around.
I think from personal experience, the mother of this girl is likely a controlling, narcissist. When I was in high school I thought I was pregnant for MANY months. I was so scared. A close friend eventually got me a pregnancy test. It caused me so much stress that I ended up developing an eating disorder & then blacked out in the weight room, where my finger nail was ripped off. My mother never knew about any of this. I was also doing a lot of sleeping around with older men ( who should have been charged for statutory bc I was under 18), smoking, drinking, taking pills, abusing myself - all of which my mother never knew. I asked for mental health help, told her I wasnt wanting to die but I wanted to hurt myself… I was told I was dramatic.
I was outed by my best friend for dating a black guy & was thrown out of the house. In the end, I was not pregnant... I had cancer. When my mother found out, it was because of a Dr disclosing my information without my consent. They also informed her I was not a virgin. My mother called me, shamed me, yelled at me and talked about how hard it was for her. How embarrassed and ashamed of me she was. So yeah, I get how she hid this from her mother & then thought it was better to act like a crazy person than let her mother find out. A narcissistic mother scares you more than jail.
Right! And she went to the HOSPITAL and they knew she was pregnant BEFORE she went to the bathroom?! Why didn’t someone there do something?? They just kept giving her morphine.
That mom though!
My heart aches for her 💔
@@MYSTICMANDY22 I'm so sorry you had to go through all of that. Narcissistic people cause so much pain. You didn't deserve any of it. Also, I hope you have beat the cancer.
@@crafteetiffy8761Why didn’t she just not kill the baby, she’s to blame all the way.
@@crafteetiffy8761I had so much morphine with both of my labors to the point that I kept throwing up
My kids are fine
Not asking for help And dumping it in the trash with additional bags on top is no accident
They said she ripped the umbilical cord apart like a animal
I think Ant is amazing, doesn’t mean he can’t have his off days
When I watched the video….the mother seemed eerily calm. It struck me as unbelievably odd. If I was the mother, I’d be livid beyond compare. This story is insane and deeply sad at the same time.
I thought so too! If I found out my daughter did that I'd be freaking out and being hysterical.
She was probably in shock and traumatized tbh
The police were in the room and all around. I’m sure she was feeling many things but I would
Say it would be one of those wait to get home situations. Although the girl did not go home that day
Sometimes you go in shock and can’t react in a way you would expect
I don't think I would be mad... More sad and depressed (I am a mom) and a babies life is everything... So knowing if one of my children did that to their baby I would be beyond devastated
If she was being abused by the stepfather, then the mother deep down knew and was pretending to turn a blind eye to the abuse or convinced herself it couldn’t be happening. This is what it feels like to me as well. I really hope they do a DNA test and that if this is what happened that she will be able to find her voice and power to speak the whole truth. Terrible what happened to that poor innocent baby and also terrible if this poor girl was being abused. Edit: the male that came up wanting the baby to me looks like it was the stepfather. He was the only one that showed any emotion.
I feel she was being abused by an older male very close to her. Like someone in her family. I hope they do DNA. I bet it would show this.
I thought so too but people are saying they took a DNA test and the boyfriend is the dad.
@@jl.9443 i don’t think DNA was done yet and if so, I can’t find anything officially released about anywhere online. I think people May be going by the police cam footage when LE asks the boyfriend (or ex boyfriend?) that if he was the father n he says yes……he looked confused to me but I do hope they do their due diligence and have or will perform one bc it would insane to just take any of their word for facts
@@Glitterbeauties because apparently (according to her BF) she told him
She had a miscarriage. Idk.
Plot twist: What if she's pregnant by the stepfather and that's what Ant is seeing??
In the body cam footage, the step dad was the only one who was concerned about the baby’s death.
That’s just sad poor baby I feel sorry for him and the nurse because she’s definitely got trauma
@@sarahanne__ it was the cleaner who found the baby.
@@Smaugette oh okay either way there going have trauma
Maybe because he is the father?
Yessss, I got that toooo! He could be the father, too... My sister had her step dad's son 😣 it happens, more than we may want to believe!
The only one who asked about the baby was the step dad. He showed tears. He asked if it was a still birth. The mom was freakin weird, she was deflecting like crazy and over sharing..she totally knew. She mentioned being abused.
I think the dad SAed the young girl and the mom knows so, the girl is trying to protect them. That is my opinion, his emotions were strange for me personally. He seemed like he was freaking out deep down.
I saw the video on Law&Crime, she was scared. She went to the bathroom and was in there for a VERY long time. When they went to check on her they saw that there was blood all over. The nurses took her to clean up and the janitor went to clean it. When she went to take the trash, she noticed how unusually heavy it was. SHe looked in and there was the baby. SHe took it to the nurses.
As uncomfortable as it might be to speak to your children about sex and their body, it needs to be had!Otherwise you get this! A young girl too ashamed and guilty to speak up and say the truth, kills her new born baby. I do feel sorry for this young lady, however you are right Ant, you did the crime, gotta do the time. 😢just sad
It was blood everywhere and it was a female from house keeping that cleaned up the bathroom and found the baby in the trash
@@ArmyWife8697 thanks for the correction
Premeditated.
I think the baby was under the bag inside the can
Especially since the mother knew she had a boyfriend for two years and you can clearly see she’s pregnant. It’s so sad
Now that you mention doubt about the bf being the dad, in the body cam at the hospital, the mom was extremely quick to point out the bf as the dad before anyone else could answer. Suspicious.
And the cops called out step dad for his fly being down. I don't believe in coincidence...
She was 18. Legally she could have privately told the doctor she didn't want her mother in the room and been honest. The hospital would have protected her and told her mom nothing!!! Even after she delivered, she could have immediately given the baby up for adoption and left the next day with her mom knowing nothing! Such a sad case. For all young girls....there are options. You can drop the baby off at a fire station or hospital and you won't get in trouble.
When you're 18, scared and of low intelligence, possibly protecting your abusers it's not that simple 🙃
Yes but she’d have to deal with the consequences when she got home. Abuse isn’t a light switch, you can’t just turn it off and feel safe. I think this girl is deeply traumatized
I agree with you, this is how she should have handled it, I just wonder if she knew these options were available? Maybe they should have talked to her privately
I feel like she probably had no idea she could even do that. Or felt like she had any control in the room with her mom there at least it does come off as being petrified. Because she could of died to she was losing a lot of blood and was in pain. And everyone was sitting there being like tell us what's going on even after they got a positive pregnancy test she was still denying it. To do that much gymnastic and in pain you would think finally you would just come out with it and say yes! Fine I'm pregnant and she still kept it and did childbirth all by herself on a bathroom floor right next to nurses. Gives the vibe of terrified and very immature not realizing she's 18 and can kick her mom out and doesn't know what to do it's like she can't get it out of her mouth whats going on.
That’s why abuse is insidious. It puts such fear in u, esp if it started from childhood, that even when u have options the fear is too great to see them.
People don’t understand what fear and trauma will make a person do. I felt shear panic from her, most likely her parents. According to news reports her mother was screaming at her with her head between her hands and the doctor had to make her step away. Definitely something more here.
I wouldn’t be surprised if there was abuse involved, unfortunately. She placed the baby in a garbage bag, and then placed a new bag on top of it. The cleaning lady found the baby when she lifted the bags to empty the trash. Not sure how she thought the baby wouldn’t get suffocated that way. As an educator, I’ve definitely seen a correlation between low literacy and poor critical thinking skills and immaturity.
I think she has cognitive issues
If she had just put the baby in the bagged trash she may have had a different defense but she methodically took the bag out, put the baby in and then replaced the bag to conceal the baby. She had intent to deceive. She was in a hospital surrounded by help and she could have give the baby up right then and there without repercussions. Instead,she chose very poorly.
@@nameisprivate5429 I know... It's disgusting and heartbreaking.
@Namels Private
Post Partum psychosis is a real yet severely overlooked illness. You're assuming that she was in her right mind at the time. Plus, there is a possibility that this girl could have been SA/raped by a family member, which unfortunately is a VERY common phenomenon (in over 85% of cases worldwide, it is perpetuated by someone the victim personally knows, like a family member, ex, or family friend, not a stranger). This definitely does not excuse what she has done, but this case isn't particularly as black and white as you are making it out to be. Not to mention the girl's age and the fact that the prefrontal cortex and hippocampus (the brain's primary areas responsible for decision-making processes) are not fully developed until age 25.
@@sierrarene504 I don't believe what I wrote painted the situation as black and white. It's just a comment. I'm not gonna write a whole essay to explain every angle of this story.
Sounds like I'm not the only one who thinks the step dad is highly suspect as the baby's dad.
Yes!!
They did a DNA already and it's her boyfriends baby.
@@elycium70 DNA hasn't been done yet, and even if it was, you can't find anything officially posted about it on the internet, so we don't know who the father is
@@elycium70 you’re dropping false information
@@elycium70that’s not true
As someone who grew up in NM I can tell you New Mexico school systems are absolute garbage. There is very little support for children let alone abused children. My thoughts and prayers are with this girl regardless of the verdict.
Most abused kids don’t get help. The entire system everywhere is corrupt 😢. So sad it’s worse there
As someone who also grew up there i agree 1000%
Autopsy proves the baby had air in his lungs and stomach which proves baby alex was alive. The placenta was never found so she had to have flushed it since the nurses contested to hearing her flushing multiple times. Also the umbilical chord was still attached to the child. Nurses said those are hard to cut without a tool. So she either had to rip it or use her teeth.
Tell me why my first thought after seeing the video of her coming out of the bathroom was "what if she wants to get rid of it because she was SA'd by someone in her family?" But I pushed it out of my head because I thought I was over analyzing the situation. Poor girl. It seems like she didn't know any better & acted out of fear. Their entire family should definitely be investigated.
Thought the same thing. Step dad. Idk why my gut is saying it wasn’t her bfs, she was way to scared.
For some reason I had a gut feeling that she was being abused by her mom. Throughout everything I saw it seemed like she was afraid of her mom and tried to hide it from her entirely. I feel like this situation was a victim of some type of abuse unintentionally becoming a perpetrator. This is so sad.
Or her dad or something because her mom had mentioned that Alexee had hip problems because her ex husband used to beat her
Sadly this happens a lot in Latino religious households
Also wasn’t it weird how the mum reacted to what the nurse had told her by asking her daughter what did you do to “IT”
the mom was way too calm about the whole situation, like psychopath calm. any other mom would of been crying or extremely sad.
Yeah, she seemed more scared of her mom's reaction than the cops. That bodycam video from the hospital room is just terrible to watch.
One of the most disturbing thing is that she said to the cops “nothing was crying”. She didn’t even used the word baby. She totally disassociated herself from her baby, like it was a thing, not a baby, like she didn’t kill the baby, but a thing.
she could have postpartum so that would be normal
@@meh5872 - postpartum right after delivery? Too soon.
@@LilyRose-theOne yea it’s possible and can happen during pregnancy as well.
@@meh5872 - cannot happen during pregnancy since postpartum means after delivery.
@@LilyRose-theOne mayo clinic says otherwise…
Probably an older dude in mid to late 30s, in a relationship, close to the family. I don't think anyone is truly unaware who is the bd. Especially if her energy is closed in and secretive to not expose anyone out of fear of what drama will come from it. A hush hush.
Makes me think it's her mom's partner 🤔 especially since her mom is in "denial" and covering up things to save face.
Sorry for this girl and the baby.
Bro! Wow! This would make so much sense. Mom in denial, afraid to keep the baby and announce it, the step dad is the only one concerned and secrets. Damn!
They should just do a DNA test
if they did do a dna test and it is her bf i still think you’re right and she probably thought it was the other guys and was too scared to find out
Are they religious? What if its a pastor? Ant mentioned the devil card could also signify cult/religion
@@andorameda333 It wouldn't surprise me if the parents go to church on Sundays or any events , there are many people that use religion as a shield to disguise what they choose to do behind closed doors so others won't be suspicious of their true character.
Anyone else kinda want a reading on Colleen Ballinger? 👀❤
I think he mentioned om stream he wont
@@mikahong oooh ok thank you for the info
@@mikahongDo you know the reason why he won’t?
@@LH-vm1kyit’s old and he doesn’t wanna get sued
@@LH-vm1kyhe doesn't touch weird shit with kids like he'll do disappearances but she's a $ex criminal I don't think he touches that shit
Seems like a family member was abusing her. Explains low intelligence. Extreme trauma stunts.
Or maybe it was her mother being beaten by her ex while she was in her womb…
@@soude85it could be both
I have lived experience of my bodily autonomy being violated on a consistent basis in my childhood. And uh my adolescent and puberty years were very chaotic on my mind, body, spirit, and nervous system. I was intellectually stunted too, because of my undiagnosed Complex-PTSD.
Unfortunately our society can be blasé with SA and abuse, but imagine. Having your bodily autonomy violated when you’re a kid and developing. The system starts dissociating and fragmenting certain parts out of self preservation. This is a horrendous situation and I really appreciate your reading and insight Ant
Ugh I’m so sorry to hear that. I hope you are healing in some way.
The clean up crew found the baby unfortunately 😢I can’t imagine them picking up blankets and trash and finding that baby boy… poor baby… poor cleaning staff 😢
Shame that the baby didn't cry a bit in that bag because if the cleaning team entered straight after.. they could hear and save him.
@@usables4028the girl said he didn’t cry but even if he did it he plastic bag was probably covering his mouth. This whole situation is so sad.
@@BrandyH-eh9up Autopsy came back. There was air in her sons lungs. So he was born alive. He sufficated from the other trash bag she put on top of him to make it look like th etrash was empty.
Bro how are her parents gonna ignore a literal pregnant belly.
My mom points out new zits on my face
I know that she is 19 and was still in high school. On top of that, I saw her arrest video and her mom said she didn't know her social security number which could reflect how sheltered she is.
Would love it if you did a video about the 12 year old that stabbed her brother and if she had a mental break or if it was because of medication like the mom has stated.
Yes!! That one didn’t sit well with me. A lot of missing dots to connect.
@@Chanelkisskiss Agreed! Especially after seeing what the step-dad had been arrested for. It made me think more was going on than we know.
Yes it happened in my city and was absolutely crazy that that 12 yr old did that
Yes to this request
She was literally in the hospital- she could have called a nurse and if the baby died it wouldn’t have been her fault
Exactly. She is 19. Doesn't have to tell the mom anything. Go alone to the hospital, give birth, leave the baby, go home.
Post Partum psychosis is a real yet severely overlooked illness. You're assuming that she was in her right mind at the time. Plus, there is a possibility that this girl could have been SA/raped by a family member, which unfortunately is a VERY common phenomenon (in over 85% of cases worldwide, it is perpetuated by someone the victim personally knows, like a family member, ex, or family friend, not a stranger). This definitely does not excuse what she has done, but this case isn't particularly as black and white as you are making it out to be. Not to mention the girl's age and the fact that the prefrontal cortex and hippocampus (the brain's primary areas responsible for decision-making processes) are not fully developed until age 25. This is coming from someone who studied law and psychology
@@sierrarene504 Post partum psychosis does not set in RIGHT after you give birth. It usually sets in 2-3 days after giving birth. I think she was terrified that her parents would find out she was having sex.
@@SLL8440
Key word being USUALLY. There are some outliers in which onset may occur immediately, especially if there is pre-existing/underlying cognitive impairment
I thought it was odd that she was still in hs at 19..
I don’t think she was or is stupid - when someone is abused they loose the ability to be aligned in their own energy they loose clarity of mind & their voice - They loose the ability to stand in their power
Sounds like it’s an adult abusing her in the home.
I definitely got those vibes from the stepdad. He was very emotional but a scared emotional.
Lose*. I agree with you
i dunno if you look at photos of her she kinda looks slow tbh. You can always tell by the eyes imo
@@caitlinharper1633Could it be PTSD - trauma caused by the abuse and having to have an abortion as a teen? This story makes me sooo sad!
You're sweet but she's definitely dumb as dirt.
So sad. She is clearly abused and uneducated, with no care or guidance. When you’re running on pure fear, you act on fear and hope for the best. Unfortunately it’s short sighted and can end in tragedy.
I saw bodycam footage of the case, she went to the bathroom, gave birth then tried to hide it by putting the baby into the garbage can but put another bag over it to hide the baby. Plus she tried to clean everything up before they came in..but they caught her bleeding. So she definitely knew what she was doing. Plus it showed her mother yelling at her stuff like "I asked you and asked you but you kept denying it!!" I def get abused vibes.
Weirdest part was when even after her mom new she gave birth she still told her mom she was a virgin.
I think it was a combination of intelligence issues and home sheltering, plus trauma. Fire houses have baby drop-offs and Planned Parenthood has resources too. She must have some sort of indoctrination going on.
Remember her age. She might not be knowledgeable of options
Edit: I TOTALLY TAKE THIS BACK! I think she knew. 😕
@angelal5198 plus possible cultural/religious beliefs, I hadn't heard anything about this until I started Ant's video yesterday but fell asleep (thanks sleep meds)
Girl has a 3.8 gpa she knew better.
@@angelal5198All she had to do was hand the kid to a nurse or leave it on the freaking floor irresponsible, but anything would have been better than putting him in the trash.
Okay. I’ve got to point out something no one has said yet in comments I’ve seen. Go back and watch the step gathers reaction to the news. Moms acting like she’s not a hand in the pressure for her daughters actions to take place, and bf and mom and in shock but also clearly knew there was a baby on the way, especially the fact that the bf stated mentioning he asked what other symptoms she was experiencing. Back to step dad- his facial reactions look terrified, to relief to the baby being passed, then a bit of tension in his facial muscle when he realized maybe DNA could be a factor. The crying after looked stricken in fear and produced.
Now that you’ve brought up older male figure, pressured to keep a secret that effects people she cares for, and abuse.
Willing to bet that baby is her step fathers. She looked terrified when mom found out, and it wasn’t just being in trouble.. there is some else going on. Hopefully time will tell. Pre trial in August, Trial start is mid October I believe
All my kindness to reader and Ant
I totally agree
When I seen the boyfriend I immediately felt he wasnt the father. My gut tells me she was being abused by this older man.
This is such a gut wrenching case and i have a hard time believing she didn't intend to kill him given the manner in which she disposed of him. However, one thing I haven't seen discussed at all, is the fact that Roe v Wade would have been reversed likely right around when she discovered the pregnancy or just prior to it and she may not have had the emotional intelligence or resources to obtain information on her options. Whether this was a component in this case or not, I still believe many adults in her life did fail her. I think there is a potentially broader story here, but no amount if understanding will take you back in time. Idk it's just awful though.
A woman buying Plan B could not afford it, and actually asked me to buy it for her. I did. But seeing that kind of fear in a grown woman's face, I can only imagine what was going through a teenage girls mind. It's cruel that women all over the world are/will be going through this. 🖤
Abortion is legal in the state where she resides.
@@StyleChatterTrue but that doesn't mean it's always "accessible". I believe someone had mentioned in a reddit thread that the area she lived in - the closest abortion clinic was an hour or more away. It still doesn't excuse her actions, but that might be _a_ reason as to why she may have not gone to a clinic
@@StyleChatter I didn't mean it wasn't still an option. I meant more that the news about its reversal and the loud conversation around it may have caused added fear or pressure, and that resources in her area may have shifted or changed following the reversal (my own speculation). There are several avenues I think it could have played a role really, but again I don't think it effects the outcome of the case just the discussion around it. She made many bad decisions that got her here.
@@Katy-ys6rn I mentioned in a separate comment, and related to what Ant mentioned about her decision-making, that I’ve personally seen low literacy correlate with poor critical thinking skills. I wonder if her home environment was just not conducive to her developing the right skills intellectually to function as an adult. It’s sad… as a teacher I see it too much. There is actually a term for it - educational neglect.
She is definitely traumatized. Something about the mom ain’t right and the whole situation doesn’t seem right.
You could tell that the mother is extremely controlling & strict in the police cameras during her arrest
This is deep. I appreciate you ant, I know this takes a lot of emotions and energy to get through reading like this. You are the bomb for what you do. this reading confirms what my intuition has been guiding me to believe this whole time. I don’t believe the boyfriend is the baby daddy. Mom knows more than what she’s telling.
I can see this being the potential outcome for these young girls who have nothing but instilled fear driven into them about becoming pregnant in high school by their parents. Specially those with lower intellectual levels. So sad all the way around. Parents need to make their kids feel safe and wanted no matter what, regardless of religious views or standards. Otherwise this could be their future. If this girl felt safe and accepted, this probably would not have happened. Now shes got to face the consequences of her actions of being ill prepared for life.
You mean like Brooke Skylar Richardson who had a wonderful family and still killed the baby in the bathroom burying it in her backyard. This generation knows more about consequences of sex than most.
@cathyb4823 Did you not listen to Ants reading? My comment was in agreement to what he said? As for Brooke's case, in the end they found her not guilty in the Court of Law for murdering her baby? So not sure where your going with bringing her case to this one?
her attorney is quoted stating she has a 3.86 GPA and plans to attend New Mexico State.,
So sad! 😢 this reading reminded me that we don't know what people are going through. I kept thinking abuse on multiple fronts.
My first thought was postpartum psychosis, it happened to someone I know :(
I just have this ugly feeling that a male family member was abusing her and the mother was protecting the abuser over her own daughter
Rosa has a criminal record built on alcohol and theft. I strongly believe Alexee has a learning disability or FASD. I bet dollars to donuts her step father is the father of her child and her mother is in denial. She instructed Alexee to stash the baby at the hospital where they intended to just get some pain meds since it became too painful to get through at home. They planned on doing a private adoption. This is not the first time they have planned something like this. The first child she became pregnant with was aborted, but her step father never stopped abusing her. This time would have been the final straw because she “screwed up again”.
Y’all realize this is speculation based of TAROT READING INTERPRETATION RIGHT
Woah that is SO fucking dark. They both should be in prison.
Is this known or your opinion? I haven't heard any of this and I'm very intrigued 🤔
This is what I felt was the situation. I haven't heard anything about the case until this video.
Very detailed for an opinion
And how would you know this?
I’m still watching but so far it feels like the 19 year old didnt want to keep the baby but her parents would have forced her to keep it so she tried to hide it?
Now I also heard in nursing school that a lot of moms disassociate with their babies. They don’t think that the baby is theirs. Apparently it happens to a lot of moms and it happened to me for the first week. It’s because your babies face changes so much in the first week/month that it’s hard to realize what you had in your belly for ten months is now out and in front of you. Also if she was having a problem with this pregnancy I definitely think her postpartum would’ve been bad.
I love how Ant always goes through the card's and explains what it all means. Not many do that they just say it. Very beautifully done at something so sensitive.
There’s newer footage that was released where her mother said she (the mother), was physically abused by the bio dad when she was pregnant with her. The girl was born with all these back problems as a result, and has gone to the chiropractor for years. The boyfriend said the night before she was complaining about excruciating back pain. Definitely something to think about. When asked if there was possibility the boyfriend wasnt the dad, the mom laughed.
Such a horrible situation. She did the crime so she has to face the consequences. At the same time the police needs to investigate her parents more.
I’m getting heavy vibes that step dad was doing inappropriate stuff with her n conditioning her.
There’s about 8 seconds of video of him lmao.
@@Taylor_mamaof2 I said wat I said.
I think it was someone else… i think there’s a lot of secrets going on here
The mother was too chilled in my opinion when they broke the news to her about the baby...like she knew something about the whole thing...her reaction lacked any emotions that a mother would have if she found out her child did that. Something happened for the girl to react in such extreme way. Interesting reading. Poor baby devastating honestly I also feel for the girl
Amazingly sensitive reading ant, thank you so much for this. I think this whole image and feeling that you described is important to get out there in these times. There is too much control on the bodies of others. And I hope this will bring some awareness to someone! ❤
So weird me and my mother were just talking about this case and hoping you'd do a reading on her!!
I live in NM, I’ve been seeing this case everywhere. It’s crazy to see a case where you’re from all over the internet. I hope you’re doing well Ant :) 🧡
Me too
Same here! I feel like the step dad is involved..horrible situation. Hope it comes out in trial
Hi there! I'm in NM too❤
Oooo same !!
I’m from cruces
What about y’all??
@@Misscleooo Santa Fe :)
Every time I watch you I am more impressed. I saw that video from the hospital and all I could see was a terrified, traumatized, child. Your abilities are always amazing, but your willingness to tell the truth even when you know it goes against the popular opinion is even more impressive. 💗
Unpopular opinion but I feel great sadness and compassion for her and of course, that sweet innocent baby. Such a sad situation
You're not alone. I had mixed feelings about her. It was really hard for me to truly be mad at her. She doesn't have a dark energy to her. I did sense extreme fear from her, but not in a "I got caught" way. Some other overwhelming fear emits from her whole demeanor. Now the mom is something else. Terrible actress. She's hiding something.
@@justathoughtmyfriend1403I was extremely disappointed when this first came out and everyone started raging on this girl. There’s something in her eyes that are screaming for help. I will not be surprised if it comes out she really was SAd by a family member. I saw theories suggesting that she may be on the spectrum. And if that’s true then it really explains a lot. I’m glad they’re are other people like us who think this whole case is…odd. To say the least and didn’t immediately start bashing her.
@@justathoughtmyfriend1403agree 1000%. Like super unpopular opinion but totally agree. Mom is sus for sure. And she the teen didn’t seem evil to me. She seemed so so scared. Something else is going on here.
@@t-tap9109yes. Agreed. People are so quick to judge and jury someone and paint them a certain way. It’s not so cut and dry. And I’m really starting to feel like she might have been SAd and she’s terrified. Something ain’t right. And mom - something about mom. She’s scary man. And I had a controlling and crazy mom too. So idk. I feel for her. Everyone is ready to burn her at the stake and I just don’t agree. We make awful decisions at that age. Ugh. So sad.
Me too
My heart is shattered just to think of that precious baby suffocated to death 😢
@Don't Shoot the Messenger wtf are u talking about, the baby is dead
@@AlexandertheGreat99Same names but different people. This baby passed away. 😢
Please do a reading on the alien in the backyard 🙏
Oh yes I love me some aliens
I hope they investigate this case more than just charging for the death of the baby… there’s something not right and she needs help …. Prison will either destroy her or make her ruthless… it’s sad that she is hiding secrets for bad people
Thank you for doing a dark and complicated reading. I know it must be hard to tap into these sad and dark energies. 😢
I watched the video of her and she stated that when she gave birth, the baby wasn't crying or breathing. She thought he was dead already, and she was scared. I think she thought he was a stillbirth or she miscarried. The situation is so sad. From the vibe I got, I also felt that she was abused as well. How many months was she pregnant? I am surprised that her mother couldn't tell she was pregnant. Thank you for this reading.
This makes sense too. Maybe she did think he was still born.
Autopsy came back. Her son had air in his lungs and stomach. He was born alive and breathing. His cause of death was suffication.. ER doc said baby was FULL term.
If she wanted someone to find it she would’ve put it there very obviously. Not all tied up and in the trash? I’m confused
I agree. She could have left the baby in the trash which omg it feels so ugly to say but once she put the bag over the baby it was obviously going to suffocate…. So I don’t buy the whole innocent thing.
She also put another trash bag over it to make it look like th etrash was empty.
An updated psychic reading on the Delphi Murders please.
Ya, it struck me as odd when the mother said "I TOLD YOU!" or whatever. I was thinking "did she suspect this or know more?" It did feel very performative too
I feel devastated for her. It's one thing to be young and pregnant, but she couldn't get an abortion and nobody was supporting her. I hope whatever happens to her, she finds that support somewhere else, and can move on with her life. It would do her well to get away from that household, especially if she's being abused.
She is gonna get away. Right to prison. It's clear. Regardless of if she was abused or not she went into that bathroom and killed a baby. At a hospital. The one place she could have left that baby alive and she didn't.
@@kaydabear9487 she didn’t understand that though her intentions weren’t malicious she shouldn’t be in prison she should be locked up in a mental health facility.
The way she wrapped that baby in the trash bag, she KNEW he was going to pass. She just thought they wouldn’t find it and it would be taken away with the trash.
In the vidoe she says "it" was crying 😢 "it was quiet"
There’s probably a lot of trauma when it comes to that baby, especially if she wasn’t allowed to have an abortion she was dissociating probably a lot of trauma and didn’t mentally realize what she was doing. She clearly did not have a connection to that baby, especially if that baby came from trauma. A lot of people are suspecting that the baby is the stepfather’s, and if she got r worded she probably realized, and didn’t realize what she was doing at the same time.
She said “it WASNT crying” she said it never cried. And if it did don’t you think the manyyyy people outside would have heard it? She thought the baby was dead already. I also think she was petrified and abused. Something doesn’t sit right with me. The mom. Just any of it. I don’t think the boyfriend is the bd. 😢 poor girl. Poor baby. Sad situation all around. 💔
Hi, licensed mental health professional here! Post Partum psychosis is a real yet severely overlooked illness. You're assuming that she was in her right mind at the time. Plus, there is a possibility that this girl could have been SA/raped by a family member, which unfortunately is a VERY common phenomenon (in over 85% of cases worldwide, it is perpetuated by someone the victim personally knows, like a family member, ex, or family friend, not a stranger). This definitely does not excuse what she has done, but this case isn't particularly as black and white as you are making it out to be. There are lots of potential mitigating factors. Not to mention the girl's age and the fact that the prefrontal cortex and hippocampus (the brain's primary areas responsible for decision-making processes) are not fully developed until age 25. Add that with cognitive impairment/intellectual disability and abuse, and you've got the perfect storm. It is absolutely devastating, but not unheard of.
I went to school with a girl that got pregnant and we all could tell and when anyone would ask her she would deny it. 🙄 then she left for a few months and came back showing us her baby pics. Idk some girls are just like that.
Some people are private with pregnancies but this Girls case is weird
I was sooo terrified to tell my mom when i found out i was pregnant at 18yrs old. I remember running myself a bath, yelling to my mom, "im pregnant" and locking the bathroom door. I stayed in there until she had time to calm down. Within a few days we were out buying baby clothes. I was only like 10wks along. That baby is now 20yrs old and a perfect gentleman!
The stepdad was the only one crying when everything came to light. They say her defense is going to be about mental illness/abuse. Another reader thought that perhaps the step dad was abu sing her 😢 regardless she gave birth in a bathroom in an ER at 3 am it wasn’t no public restroom that the baby would be discovered right away.
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Thank you for covering this Ant!
So excited to see what you have to say!
Well her mom was at the hospital saying on camera that her daughter was Virgin.
She definitely gave those extreme mom controlling vibes.
Alexis gave birth in a bathroom and put the baby inside a plastic bag and tie the knot on it.. there is no mistake there.
She is out on bail
After all this she went back to her school, continue with her boyfriend and even went to prom.
If she is mentality challenge I don’t know, but she is definitely evil.
Thank you for the reading Ant but this is beyond sickening
I feel so sad for this girl. She must have been so very traumatized by the entire pregnancy, the birth alone and having a living being coming out of her. It’s all so sad! I’m sure it’s all about abuse! Poor little baby! May it rest in heaven! I’m sure it does!
Her stepdad and boyfriend were there. Her stepdad was emotional
What if her step dad or dad was abusing her and the baby is one of theirs and that’s why she wanted to hide it from her mom.
I had kind of the same thought when the news story came out about the baby found in the bathroom. She wanted it found so it could be taken care of but didn't want people knowing she gave birth to the baby because she didn't want to get in trouble by her mother. I don't think this girl understood how Dr's could tell if a woman has had a baby and what all is involved in giving birth.
Could the male energy you were picking up on, could that possibly be her mother? From what I understood, her mother was very controlling and possibly abusive. Maybe her mom just has masculine energy?
If she wanted him found. Why did she put another trash bag over him to make it look like the trash was empty?
I believe everything you said ❤ I hope there is justice brought to all of those involved that are "silent" players in the outcome.
Thank you Ant! So sorry this was such a sad reading. Take care of yourself & have a great weekend! ❤❤
I was so curious about her. Thank you Ant!
This is what I experienced 20+ yrs ago. I was in the same position. I had my daughter in high-school. I almost had an abortion until I felt my daughters movements. I say, if my eldest daughter wasn't born, I would have been all sorts of f'd up! This girl didn't want anyone to know and wasn't even mature enough to be a parent.
I was pregnant in high school eveyone knew first person to call me down was the school nurse to ask me if I’m getting prenatal care
If she was abused by a male around her and is slow intellectually I don’t think it’s fair to depict her as evil. Seems like a victim of her environment
I saw bodycam footage of Alexee’s mom saying that Alexee’s biological dad (not the stepfather) abused her while she was pregnant with Alexee, I’m thinking that could be the negative/dominating male energy in her life that she’s scared of.
I never see your videos on my home page or follow page(and i have notifications on!) but i always see the community post announcing the video, please never stop them!
I haven’t seen anyone speak about her father, was he in her life? You could tell there was a toxic mother daughter relationship going on. This reading gave me a new perspective. I was so angry when I heard about it.
I watched the video of thise case. It's sooo sad because you can tell she is very much under her moms control regardless of age. I'm 100% that woman knew what was going on and she didn't want to help her daughter!!!! That poor child probably had no idea what was happening when she was giving birth. It makes soo sad! This is why abortions and education on sex is so important. This will keep happening, talk to your kids about everything. That woman failed her daughter
Seems legit. You would think that. She was in a hospital. Young, inexperienced, scared ...
The stepfather was the only one that was emotional when he was told about the baby being dead. He’s very suspicious
What if it’s her dad abusing her and the mom is in denial.
You mentioned EXACTLY everything I felt. its such a shame this could have been provented had she had the right support.
I really do think she has been abused for a long time. Even if the boyfriend is the father, there must have been doubt on who the other was possible from the involvement of the older man. People are greatly underestimate the shock of giving birth and the ability to think clearly. I hope it gets exposed because i think she's a victim as well. She needs psychological help
This is what I was feeling about the girl. I thought I my sense what the odd one out, but it was hard for me watching that video to really be angry at her. I had mixed feelings. She seemed completely frightened and naive. I also was thinking that it she was not in the right mind due to shock and fear. Now, when she kept repeating that the baby wasn't breathing as the rationale for why she left the baby there, that is the part that made me question her intent because most people would not throw a non-responsive baby in the trash. It was hard not to question her intellect which many are overshadowing that too with complete apathy and intentional murder. Also, for her to even feel she could not respond to the hospital staff when she was giving birth and clean up her own blood to hide that she had given birth should be questioned from the get go. That is not normal. That sounds like survival mode behavior from some type of dooming threat, as you are reading. I hope the investigators read between the lines and find out the truth of what is going on. That mom is definitely off. Terrible actress.
I got pregnant at 17, had him a few months after I turned 18. I was homeless and struggling with depression, I found out when I was 6 months into my pregnancy. I was worried for my baby and just wanted him to be healthy! There's no excuses but she clearly isn't a mother. There's also another similar case like this where another 18 year dumped her baby in a trash at an empty parking lot, dump divers found the newborn, and it survived!
Ever heard of post partum depression?
@@joyjoyz778 minutes after the delivery? I don’t know. I had PPD and for me at least it came on a little later. I think this girl was probably going through something though.
@@Puuws We shouldn’t judge a person throwing her child away in a trash can? And ending up killing her child? That’s not just a normal choice you shouldn’t judge that’s horrific and should absolutely be JUDGED
It doesn't seem like she had PPD. She was aware of her actions. She CHOSE to do that. It. And yes. Like I said, I was depressed during my pregnancy, and I wasn't eating well my hair was thin and falling out because he was taking all my nutrients. I've heard horror PPD storiesz I don't believe this is one of them.
@@joyjoyz778 PPD is very real, I've had it but it doesn't set in for 10-14 days after delivery. Prior to that it's called "baby blues" and that's linked to the sudden drop in hormone levels after drlivery.
Refresh your energy, Ant! Rest, do what you gotta do. You look drained after this. Love you!
Some people were saying that they feel like the stepdad was SA ab*sing her and that’s why this whole situation spiraled
This looked like a difficult, draining read for you. I hope you had a spa day or something afterwards!
Thanks Ant, you have given me a new view of this horribly sad case. Post partum psychosis can set in immediately after giving birth from some of my research. The fact that she was truly ignorant of the consequences of her actions wasn’t in my mind but, sadly possible.
That's crazy... the only person who asked about or seemed concerned about the baby was the stepfather. If the reading is correct, I would only assume the baby may be the step-father's 😳😭😭😭
I am intuitive myself, Something about a family member
I'm from New Mexico & this story was everywhere. A lot of New Mexicans were shocked that, that had happened in our state. But I think the professionals handled it very well. Very proud of them & my state. But very sad ending. RIP to the baby.
There’s another girl in New Mexico who thru her baby in the trash and received 16 years
Yeah new mexico is a hotbed for violent crime per capita so idk what you mean by this
@@mermaidlu5125That was in 2022. It's becoming more common, that's what I meant by New Mexicans being shocked because it's quiet here in NM. Our state now introducing & funding "Baby Boxes" to stop baby dumping.
@@allieocoHot bed" lol maybe Albuquerque. Gallup is quiet. Idk where you come from but sounds like you don't know NM like that. Most of the state is underdeveloped & the crime here is NOTHING compared to other cities 🤡 Your chances of your car getting stolen are higher than getting murdered LMAO. I know, bc I actually lived in another places & moved back home so I can live in peace.
I've been going down the police body cam rabbit hole on RUclips and just saw this video the other day. So sad
I had a feeling that she didnt mean to kill her baby, in the video of the mum and her, to me she looked so scared and confused. Poor girl, poor baby 😢 obviously her actions are not okay. Also, her mum could have done so much more to be supportive in whatever way she needed 😢
Also, Ant would love a reading on Colleen Ballinger and Adam Macyntire
I don't think for one second she didn't mean it. She never cared about the baby she threw in the trash. She's old enough to know better!
@@Smaugette age wise yes, she is old enough to know better but as Ant suggested in his reading, she's not very intelligent, doesn't make it right at all what she did and obviously take everything we read/see with a grain of salt but that was just my first feeling I had was that she wasnt fully aware of what she had done. Again, doesn't make it right at all but it's just sad all round.
Pls read Colleen & Adam
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Hi! Licensed mental health professional here. Post partum psychosis may potentially be at play. It can occur immediately after birth and is very commonly overlooked. Not to mention the girl's age and the fact that the prefrontal cortex and hippocampus (the brain's primary areas responsible for decision-making processes) are not fully developed until age 25. Also, there is a possibility that she could have been SA/raped, which unfortunately, often involves a family member or friend rather than a stranger. If she was SA and inpregnated by a family member, then this could definitely play a major role. Just food for thought!
@@BecxCosyCornershe covered the baby with two trash bags and tried to clean up her birth. She flushed her placenta down the toilet on pieces. She didn’t kill the baby with malice but she did kill so it would be gone. She has serious mental issues for sure.
My deepest sympathy for everyone
In one of the bodycam footages where the police officer talks to the mom in the waiting room (with the step dad, boyfriend, and boyfriend’s mom) after everything happened, the mom mentioned her ex-husband/Alexee’s biological father was physically abusive with her while she was pregnant with Alexee. Possibly fits what was picking up with the dominant male figure in the shadows that she is fearful of.
i felt the same energy when i saw the video! she was SCARED because of her mom. regardless of context, i know that face too well of getting caught and just breaking down in front of a strict, controlling parent. So i also felt like she did what she did because she didn't know how to confront her mom about it which is so sad because this could've been prevented if her mom gave her that safe space. I also feel like controlling moms like this hinder their child's growth so that's probably why she came off as unintelligent bc i'm sure her mom never taught her about safe sex and if she knew about the pregnancy, then because of her denial she didn't help her daughter to prepare to either be a mother or give it up for adoption. seems like she didn't know her resources and was scared of her mom. Her mom is super controlling and babies her because the video of her getting arrested they asked her to cite her social security number and her mom answered saying she doesn't know that. such a tragic case....please teach your children and not hinder their education even if you don't want them to have sex at a young age.....they will end up doing it anyways as that's what teenagers do but please teach them how to do it safely to avoid situations like this
Is this girl Latina? Im asking because this reminds me so much of abusive Latino families. The religious aspect, protecting others, turn a blind eye, having the perfect imagine to be the "good kid" and not allowed to get abortions. I've seen and lived in familes like this. Its a problem that the community doesnt talk about
Edit: she might have a learning to development disabilities. It's not shocking. Many religious families deny those disabilities too. This gives me strong conservative household