@@jonbadboy112 I decided on divorce and I am at peace everything is going well Thank God 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽 he has brought me a long way I am truly grateful for the head and heart space I am in at the moment
Was talking with a married woman online for a period of time. She decided to come to my city so we can spend three days together. The Holy Spirit convicted me and led me to flee. I have not responded to her calls/texts/emails among emails from her friend for the past three weeks. Please pray for me . 🙏
I just saw this and I'm so proud of you. That's what the devil does. He wants us to think that our spouse is not good enough. Don’t listen to his lies. Invest in your spouse and marriage. I will be praying for your🙏🏽. Resist the devil and he will flee. James 4:7
i thank God for the lesson in this video. I hate that I have become the woman who can associate with this topic. My husband was not faithful, and I'm trying very hard to find the silver lining.. overall, God is still good.
We all have to take responsibility for our choices and subsequent actions. It is so easy to blame someone else, but there are always things that lead to betrayal. Lack of control, not submitting to your spouse, money, lack of God in your marriage, selfishness, lack of true committment, forgiveness, humility, and respect,etc. Read 1st Corinthians 13, verses 4-13 for starters...
@Hal LeTourneau marriage is beautiful and dangerous at the same time. Sometimes, blame is necessary. It gets straight to accountability. Encourages maturity. Its humility. Placing blame opened the conversation to bring strength to my marriage. I will always praise God for giving me wisdom through that journey.
@@kellylauren11 Maybe he is not the one for you. It was not meant to be I guess. 🙂 Once trust is lost in a relationship/marrige that relationship is nothing worth holding on to. Those are some characteristics of a narcissist. The have no remorse and they never feel guily. They never like to be held accountable for their bad actions. All narcissist cheat. Physically or emotionally.
@Evelyn Hughes The Bible states that only for infidelity a spouce can divorce and remarry. Even if a person just cheated once on you, they are letting you know how they feel about you. They clearly do not care about your feelings, emotions, or you. Find somebody who will love you. True love is faithful, if a person cheats it's because it was not love to begin with. Could have been lust or using you for something.🙂
I'm thankful for this channel. It's straight to the point and makes you think. The content makes no excuses for behavior that is not fitting for God's kingdom. 🙏✝️❤
This man is so right on. Listen to Him, read and follow God's Word and Commandments and you will be truly blessed. Marriage takes three: A man, woman, and a strong civenant wuth God.
Amen, God will judge you. For your actions. If you are judging your spouse because what is happening is not fair. This is your destiny, if you dont learn now you will go through this same lesson again. God is so merciful, he offers many, many chances for you to succeed. Please build your relationship with God. Jesus said "the only way to the Father is thoughts me." I am writing this as much for myself as it is for others.
Prayer to God for forgiveness is the only option and never do adultery again after request for forgiveness its very bad to double cross ⚔️ your creator
@@nsubugadanielkelvin8414 you are so right, but I don't think the person who cheat on his spouse will destroy himself, because I've seen cheaters living a good life while the other, the cheated on spouse is in deep deep pain. the cheater inflict so much pain and trauma inside somebody and not to mention the arguing that goes along with cheating. The new testament said we can get a divorce or separation, but there is no remarrying as long as your first spouse is alive! or you can be reconciled to your spouse. How can somebody still lay with a cheater? what about STD and how do you know he/she is now faithful? so many questions. But what I have seen and what I know is that cheating only destroy the betrayed spouse and the family.
My wife had a 5 month affair in 2021, we have been married for 18 years with 3 boys that night July 7 2021 I found the plan B so I asked her are you cheating on me 😢 she said yes because I don’t f@#king love you, it hurts even today 2 years later, I’m not a religious person by no means but she said that God has forgiven her 😳 and that I need to focus on the marriage and not bring it up, I’m only here still because of our children. 😢
If your wife told you that she's a very selfish and self-centered person. I'm not sure how you are going to heal from this. In order to heal she has to take full responsibility for what she did. I don't think she respects or love you anymore. I don't know you both got here but somewhere along the line you both lose focus of each other.
That is awful. Praying for you. It hurts the kids either way - staying makes it worse. I believe our kids need to see us persevering and moving on and not staying with someone who treats us horribly. We must end the cycle so they don’t repeat the same things themselves. If it were your children, what advice would you give them? To stay or to leave? God knows your heart and He will heal you when you fully lean on him. He heals the broken-hearted and binds up their wounds. My broken heart was healed but I’m still healing from the trauma. My children were very hurt by the whole situation but I can see how much they’re thriving now that their Dad doesn’t live here anymore. It sucks to have a broken family. But it’s much more joyful with the lying manipulative cheater gone. Ask God to let his will be done for you and your children and to guide your path 🙏🙏 it’s painful, I know.
We are sorry to hear that. No spouse is totally responsible for their spouse cheating. That is manipulation. He made a choice to cheat not you. If there was a problem in the marriage it should have been discussed. Cheating is not the answer.
I’ll be honest, I’m losing hope that I’ll ever be married because every time I date someone, there’s always a break of trust and heartbreak. Then I see the stories: stories of women cheating, and then I see my own lack of self control and character flaws and it just seems too much. But I desire marriage and family so deeply. At this point, it seems as if being single might be better than the continued heartbreak-which I often cause myself! Only God can be trusted. If someone reads this. Please pray for my heart. I know I’m thinking wrongly here, but the hurt has grown so deep I can’t seem to dig out.
I’ll pray for you, as a newly converted Christian who found out I almost lost my virginity to someone I thought was the one and I loved so much however he cheated on me. I’ll continue to be my happy self and be loyal to to my next person. I’ve got friends who are also innocent and waiting for the one so please be patient. Believe in God even when you’re in doubt because trust me he will try avoid future heartbreak. Just be smart, follow your intuition, know your value, love and believe in God and I promise it’s gon be good. That’s what I did to avoid such man
And what you say is absolute truth ! What do you believe once the choice to cheat has happened ? Once confessed , not caught , but confessed to your partner , are you deserving of forgiveness ? And once forgiven is it still a better decision to agree to leave the marriage ?
My husband left me after 20 years. He said he needs to find his happiness. You left your family. And he said God is ok. Is it that easy that all we have to do is ask God forgive me and he will? So my husband left his family and talking to other women and God is like I forgive you son. Please explain to me. Is my husband ok? This doesn’t make sense to me. You are hurting me and living up the life and God is ok?
It may not be right at all trust me it hurts but I do think you are a better person and somebody is out there for you that is more worthy hold on to faith
God is not ok with a man leaving his family for another woman. He is trying to find happiness in other woman but he wont. That's what most men thinks unfortunately in most cases they won't find happiness. They find misery. A man find happiness in God, his purpose, visions and goals in life. That should include taking care of his family. God would rather him and his wife work it out for the sake of their marriage and his family. Marriage and family are too important to God for Him to not have a problem with it. That is why their relationship with the other woman never last.
This happened to me recently I found out that his “happiness” he was trying to find was him actually cheating on me with another girl, they are gonna get karma
It is a disgrace how many people use the unhappy Card. Marriage is life long commitment. It is more than happiness. Happiness is neither a biblical reason for divorce nor seperation.
THANK YOU FOR THIS MESSAGE GOD BLESS YOU YOUR FAMILY AND EVERYONE CONNECTED TO YALL IN JESUS NAME HALLELUJAH AMEN AND MAY OUR LORD POUR INTO YOU AS YOU BE A LIGHT FOR THE KINGDOM IN JESUS NAME HALLELUJAH HALLELUJAH HALLELUJAH HALLELUJAH HALLELUJAH AMEN
Tight, strict truth!!!! I loooove this!!! Full of Life. Thank you so much for sharing the truth in strength and boldness. My current husband definitely needs to hear this and take it seriously as I been trying to get him to do.
Its not called cheating, where in the bible do we see the word cheating Its called ADULTERY. The world says cheating to make it seem like the norm, When you stand before GOD He will say you lived or committed Adultery. Hell will then be your portion.
I feel like marriage can be terribly binding, especially if you have to maintain the marriage with someone who cheated on you. Divorce is a sin. I feel and fear that marriage is only going to lead to that. Jesus would force you to keep being with that person or you go to Hell. You’re trapped. You’re trapped with that person unless one of you dies. I mean, the feeling of being trapped instead of forgiving (or just loving) your cheating “lover” would get you to Hell anyway. You’re cheating partner would go to Heaven because they’re forgiven, but not you. You have to put up with trust issues and a false person for the rest of your life and have Jesus force you to still have love for this person. For their sake. Reject that love for this person would be to reject Jesus. You are so trapped. Marriage is like a prison or is one. If this person cheating really is the one He has for you… I would reconsider ever dating in the first place. Can never share my own body with someone who cheats like that again. I feel like property at that point. Less than as a person. No longer a loving partner, only serving that sexual purpose for the other end’s desires and “needs”. No love, just duty. Usage. No bonding. Cheating is cheating, they shouldn’t really love you if they did anyway. So bonding during the duty of sex isn’t really happening. They’re satisfied anyway. Even if they “regret it”, no doubt they’ll do it again. They just want to keep you. They don’t want to lose you. No sacrificial love there on their end. Can never see them the same again. I’d say that’s pretty warped to be “stronger” with them or together after something as horrific as that. Just feel like property than a person when it comes to cheating. I mean, if you were the one cheating that may feel and be different in a way than how it really is if this makes any sense (sounds hypocritical sadly I’m afraid), but a true person would never cheat yet if they did, they should love their partner enough to let them go be with someone who’s actually loyal… but I’m talking about if you never cheated yet that other person did. It doesn’t feel like marriage anymore, or if that is marriage, it’s a trap. Better off single and alone. God is enough. Even though it’s upsetting how we must love as Christians and forgive or we go to Hell… it all feels like a trap and a mistake. To continue to love that person, is like… not you. Like God threw a love potion on you to manipulate your love and feelings no matter the trauma in place. To force your love to continue as if it never happened, cheating is allowed… godly relationship doesn’t sound good anymore. Just a trap. Doesn’t sound better to be single in a way, but it’s better than being trapped. Cheaters would be forgiven, but the victim… never. Can never see myself submitting to a cheater. Submitting and to his “leadership”. Feel like a concubine. Any wife is a concubine at that point and same for the husband. Except the husband has more power and say in it. This is not the Christian way to love or live, I know. Sadly, this is how it is. How can you live and love Christ, while suffering as a concubine in marriage. Or… just… be stuck with someone… who does that to you… and you cannot leave them. You’re trapped, stuck… forced. “They are the one for you, I won’t have them leave you even after you cheated on them. They’ll love you. Unconditionally. It’ll be like it never happened. They cannot leave you, if they do, I will handle them. Vengeance is mine.” Something like that would be said. Why would the Lord force you to make an effort with a cheater. Ugh. Or is being faithful a sign of the right one. Ngl, my views of my old ways still contradict everything I’m learning as a new Christian. Doesn’t take away the fear. Like I would understand if I cheated and I’d feel terrible. But in one stance, of the victim, I would feel tortured and trapped forever.
I am going through this in my marriage also sadly the person he does it with harassment twice a month and it hurts me when my spouse send her money and they don’t kids together at all. I have talked with older Christian friends and also his parents but he still keep doing it.
I am so sorry you have to go through this. I know how painful this is. God loves you more than anyone will. Trust god and pray to figure out what he wants you to do. I also am praying to figure out what he wants me to do. If he doesn’t respect your wishes on running from evil and leaving that woman alone than that is not a relationship that god supports!
No, it is not wrong to feel that way you are human and you are hurting by what happened. That is one of the reasons most spouses retaliate with responding with similar behavior. that is the last thing you want to do. You would have given up your leverage to hold him responsible for what they did to you. Always protect your character. Never fight evil with evil.
Thanks for sharing this video my brother, two minutes into it and I had to subscribe , continue to preach and rebuke with all authority in the name of Jesus Christ
Adultery is different for men and women with in the scripture, A man commits adultery if he sleeps with another man’s wife or thinks about it a man also commits adultery if he leaves his wife for an reason other than her cheating, A woman commits adultery if she’s married and sleeps with another man. This is why David committed adultery within his heart and body when he slept with another man’s wife but did not commit adultery when he had about 200 concubines. Definitely if it’s agreed upon you and your partner you should honour your marriage vowels, but we need to start looking at the scripture for what it say regardless if we think it’s right or wrong if we like it or we don’t
I cheated on my ex boyfriend and I’ve regretted it Soo much since. I’ve hated myself since and I’ve felt so much guilt and I feel like God can’t forgive me and I feel like I’m such a terrible person.
Dont condem yourself in believing jehovah god wont forgive you. That's satan making you feel that way. Yes you did wrong. As I did. But dont codem yourself from jehovah. He knows your heart, prey and ask for forgiveness. Dont just prey though, BELIEVE that jehovah hears your prayer and BELIEVE that he will forgive you and it will be so, an he will. As long as you turn from those actions of course. You will feel sinful ways sometimes, but that's just satan trying to make you fall because he sees your walking on the good path. Remember that. Notice that. An be confident that jehovah will protect you. Because if you dobt believe that he will. Then you will fall. You got this. Dont give up.
Notice that if you are having s*x with the boyfriend, it's fornication and you will need to confess to God and repent. That intimacy is intended by God for the married.
To me this is so easy, it’s truly devastating to a family when you turn from god and cheat on your spouse! It is happening to me right now and I am destroyed and so are my children! I am praying for his heart!! I see what god says clearly but clearly not all see it.
Aimee, we are so sorry to hear that. It one of the most painful thing your marriage can go through. We are praying for you and your family. We hope that you will get the help to heal from this. We don’t know the detail why he choose to do this. We pray for your husband heart that he too will learn from this terrible mistake.
Exactly.but some people use marriage as aportunity in agreement with there spouse and that is the reason why some people don't take marriage serious and the inocent get hurt. This is one of the reason why I turn down alot of people,it si hard to trust mankind these days .people fail to be loyal to each other.
Cheaters don't understand. I follow scripture when it comes to submitting to my husband. I cook, clean, fold his clothes, iron clothes and work uniforms, pack lunch, tend to our child, and clean up the house. I do everything a woman is supposed to do. I don't deprive him of intimacy. I mean the math ain't mathing. I work too on top of doing things for us as a family, I still get cheated on. He says it's my fault but I'm not sure how. Cheating has affected my sex life so much. I believe that God will change my husband because he is a good man but the extra baggage isn't gonna cut it.
Do i forgive her for cheating on me? Were married and have a child. Does God say anything about forgiving them and carry on with my marriage. Ive not watched the whole vid yet
That's a great question. There is no love without forgiveness, and there is no forgiveness without love. Whether you stay in the marriage or leave, you must still forgive to fully heal. You need time to process this. Is she taking FULL responsibility for what she did? Are you guys talking 💬 to someone who can help you both unpack how you got here? This is not easy, and that's why it's so painful and difficult to recover from.
@@KnotEasilyBrokenit’s very hard when they don’t apologize or take any responsibility, and continue to blame you for the whole situation. I have a very hard time co-parenting with this person. I’ve forgiven him but it’s a daily thing to forgive. The trauma hurts. I think a one-time cheating is nothing close to an ongoing affair where the person lies to your face daily for God knows how long. It is so damaging. I don’t know if he will ever truly be sorry. He says I drove him to cheat. He is 54, she is 25!!!
Stay strong ,I'm going through the same 22 years 6 children, 6 months later,I'm getting there pray, pray, and god will get u through every day 🙏 god bless
He went outside our marriage with two others. Told me he didn’t love me anymore, he wanted a divorce. So I gave him a divorce although I didn’t want it. He lived with the last one 6 months and he is still with her. We are divorced now and I have to move on. We were together 33 years.
When you share yourself with another person in an intimate way especially in marriage you create a bond. You and your spouse become one in that marriage. Even is the marriage does not work out it does not mean you stop loving that person. This is why adultery and divorce is so painful. It destroy something that was meant to last forever. This does not mean you should stay in an abusive marriage or any relationship that dishonor you.
Love this topic. Straighten up and fly rt! Amen!! But for the brotha who is unseen and unheard I pray your streghnth and fortitue while you are corrected in all your shame. God forbid you long to take care of your family and submit to them and your wife only to never be seen or heard. Gods gone getcha if you cheat on the wife!! You bet not!! There is never a case of stumbling. Watch it.
This is all logic. Emotions are stg else. Somehow God did not save me from cheating wife although my wedding was in church. What are for this empty ceremonies?
I’ve been married now for 28yrs. Just find out about a week ago that he had an affair 7yrs ago only to discover that he has twins. He had no knowledge of it because the woman was married as well and now that her husband divorce her, she requested dna from my husband and results determined he is the father. I want a divorce.
Oh my gosh Tammy my heart breaks for you.. that is my worst nightmare and I’m sorry that you’re having to go through it. I pray for your strength for your healing. God bless you
My husband is not yet a Christian and he has been cheating for over 40 years I am tired and frustrated I was not a Christian when we got married We are married for 26 years What do I do I keep forgiving and forgiving I want a divorce
He's definitely a serial Cheater. He need help. And are not the cause of your husband's adulterous behavior. That's all him. Even if you have sex with him every night and twice a night on the weekend he will still cheat on you. Never blame yourself for his cheating. There's a lot more going on in his head.
I have a question , I have a girlfriend and we both love the lord but while early in our relationship I left to go into Ohio with 2 friends and I need up cheating and I also find my self from time to time flirting with other girls , now I want to be with this girl and I want a goodly relationship , I love righteousness but I fell now I really want to fight back and flee from temptation I’m tired of falling and I want to be holy and acceptable to God , now my question is should I tell my girlfriend or keep it between me and the Lord and just change my ways now , me and girl been together for about 7 months now , I’m 20 , she’s 18 and we are not married but we want to be together all the way till marriage I just messed a few times , I need help on my next step with the Lord
13 Whoever conceals their sins does not prosper, but the one who confesses and renounces them finds mercy. Proberbs 28:13 You are saying you might keep her in the dark so she can't decide for herself so you can marry her? Are you deceiving her? It's gonna come to the light one way or the other, stop manipulating her.
Recently my boyfriend has cheated on me and I left him. But this thing is eating me up cause he's with the girl with who he has cheated on me with. He's really happy with her but here I'm just suffering a lot. Cannot accept the fact being cheated on honestly. Will he always be happy like this and wouldn't get suffered like me as he has cheated on me?
Sorry to hear you are going through this. However, what you have to realize is that you save yourself a lot of misery that would have happened later in this relationship had you marry this guy. You can’t force a man to be with you. What you should do is focus on healing and getting your self-image and self-worth back. Of course it is hard, but when someone show you who they are you should believe them. Don’t try to convince a cheater that they made a mistake for leaving you. You should convince yourself that he is a cheater and he does not deserve you.
@Sadia Be comforted by the fact that you found out before you married this man. It is hard...cheating hurts but if you were married, it would have been worse because it might entailed a costly divorce for example, or even hurting children. Focus on YOU after you focus on GOD first. God will help you get through this. Pray to Him.
I think there is alot of temption to both spouses in case it happens kindly pray for forgiveness and never do it again because its like betrayal of your own family
99% of wedded couples go through it but pray to God to protect you from those temptations . Because after adultery it psychologically affects the spouse that has done it . It's only prayer that it never happens again
My husband destroyed our 26 years over a lust mistress who he has now left his family for her. His has the devil in him, treats us poor, he is on God wrath . Pity I feel he is weak for sex.
That’s a great question. The first thing you have to do is find out why it’s not working. There is a cause and effect in everything a person does. What kind of marriage you had before now? Was it a great marriage? Did you both have a great friendship/relationship? How did you both get here? What can you both do to change it? These are some of the questions that need to be answered. You have to know how you started, why you are here, and what needs to happen to get to where you want to go in your marriage.
You have no future with a married man. He is going to use you and destroy your life. God has already given you the strength to resist this temptation. He cannot do anything to you that you did not allow. Tell him you will report it to his wife. Then block his number. You have the power to resist. Do what's right. I'm sure he will leave you alone after that. Once you resist he will leave you alone. "Submit yourselves therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you" James 4:7
Repent from your sins, ask God for forgiveness, and surrender your life to God. Work on becoming a better person. Seek wise counsel who is biblically sound. It's a daily walk towards becoming a better version of yourself.
That’s a great question. If they continue to cheat it’s because they never had any intention of stopping. In order for anyone to solve a problem, they must first admit that they have one. If he’s still cheating it means he has never confronted the issue. He does not want to stop. He has no respect for you. He probably thinks you are not going to leave. he does not take you seriously. Staying faithful is a choice.
This is happening to a friend of mine. He has been incarcerated for 10 years, comes home in 90 days. His wife chested several times and had a baby on him. She wants him to help raise the baby when he comes home. He is a man of God. He feels like as a Christian he should forgive her. He said that he is STUCK on what someone told him 5 years ago. A Prophet from years ago told him that this female would be his wife and that he would adopt a young girl. The wife's baby is a girl. I am a firm believer in God and I do not believe this person and situation is what God intended for him. What do you feel?
Been incarcerated for 10 yrs is a long time to be away from someone. a lot can and seems to happen in those 10 yrs. I would tell him before he does anything he need to seek God and speak with someone who can help him navigate through all this. I don't know all the deals about this issues so I can't inject my opinion into this matter. However I know for sure that in most prison they allow inmate spouse to come and visit so they can be intimate. That is if the inmate have good behavior status. And it depend on the facility he is in. Was going there to see him an option?. I would advice him to get help before he make any decision.
@@KnotEasilyBroken Years before he went to jail they broke up because she was cheating. He began to move on and he met a wonderful godly woman. They got engaged. He called off the engagement because this other girl who is now the wife begged him to come back so they could try again. They have been together on and off 16 years he said. They got married while he was incarcerated and she barely came to see him during the marriage. He started to suspect something was wrong when she never answered the calls or would answer and say she was busy and could not talk at the moment. He was not told about the child until she was already 7 months pregnant. He comes home in 7 weeks. Is it possible that this is just his karma for going back to the cheating individual and walking away from the the good woman he was engaged to ?
@@KnotEasilyBroken Brother, I agree with you that the Christian man who is being released from prison needs to diligently seek God regarding how to go about reconciling with his wife, if indeed, she is his wife. If their marriage was a first marriage for both of them, then she is his covenant wife and he is her covenant husband. This would mean that they are married, in God's eyes, until one of them dies because only death breaks the marriage covenant (Romans 7:2-3 and 1 Corinthians 7:39). If, they are in a covenant marriage, God is all about reconciliation and He is able to restore their marriage if they are willing to restore it despite his wife having committed adultery and bearing a child that is not her husband's.
15 years of cheating and lies I can’t anymore pray for me everyone
Blessings my brother
@@jonbadboy112 thank you I am woman
@@GodsGraceanMercy My apologies, God bless you my sister. How's everything coming along, any progress ?
@@jonbadboy112 I decided on divorce and I am at peace everything is going well Thank God 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽 he has brought me a long way I am truly grateful for the head and heart space I am in at the moment
Was talking with a married woman online for a period of time. She decided to come to my city so we can spend three days together. The Holy Spirit convicted me and led me to flee. I have not responded to her calls/texts/emails among emails from her friend for the past three weeks. Please pray for me . 🙏
I just saw this and I'm so proud of you. That's what the devil does. He wants us to think that our spouse is not good enough. Don’t listen to his lies. Invest in your spouse and marriage. I will be praying for your🙏🏽. Resist the devil and he will flee. James 4:7
The bible teaches that a person who does it, brings destruction upon themselves.
This topic isn't talked about enough in the church...it's the Elephant in the room...
Bless you sir
Well, it needs to and we will address it more on our channel.
My mom is cheating on my dad and this was the best message!
i thank God for the lesson in this video. I hate that I have become the woman who can associate with this topic. My husband was not faithful, and I'm trying very hard to find the silver lining.. overall, God is still good.
It happens some times in tempting times buy when he does it he has to pray for forgiveness to God so that he never gets tempted to do it again
God is always good and just. It is up to us to make the right choice and follow His Word, and in doing so, Him, in our lives. Amen.
We all have to take responsibility for our choices and subsequent actions. It is so easy to blame someone else, but there are always things that lead to betrayal. Lack of control, not submitting to your spouse, money, lack of God in your marriage, selfishness, lack of true committment, forgiveness, humility, and respect,etc. Read 1st Corinthians 13, verses 4-13 for starters...
Sounds like you’re trapped, I’m so sorry.
@Hal LeTourneau marriage is beautiful and dangerous at the same time. Sometimes, blame is necessary. It gets straight to accountability. Encourages maturity. Its humility. Placing blame opened the conversation to bring strength to my marriage. I will always praise God for giving me wisdom through that journey.
How can a person hurt someone and not show remorse or give an apology then turn around looking for happiness
It's called a narcissist.
@@anid7777 mhmm my boyfriend said he was looking for “happiness” but in reality was cheating on me
@@kellylauren11 Maybe he is not the one for you. It was not meant to be I guess. 🙂 Once trust is lost in a relationship/marrige that relationship is nothing worth holding on to. Those are some characteristics of a narcissist. The have no remorse and they never feel guily. They never like to be held accountable for their bad actions. All narcissist cheat. Physically or emotionally.
@Evelyn Hughes The Bible states that only for infidelity a spouce can divorce and remarry. Even if a person just cheated once on you, they are letting you know how they feel about you. They clearly do not care about your feelings, emotions, or you. Find somebody who will love you. True love is faithful, if a person cheats it's because it was not love to begin with. Could have been lust or using you for something.🙂
I feel that. I ask that everyday
This is so true!! But some people do not know the meaning of Love respect and loyalty nowadays, is staying faithful going extinct???
Staying faithful in a marriage is the responsibility of both spouses. Faithfulness is a timeless principle.
They know that it is wrong, that's why they do it behind their spouses and hide it from their spouses. No excuses dear..
I'm thankful for this channel. It's straight to the point and makes you think. The content makes no excuses for behavior that is not fitting for God's kingdom. 🙏✝️❤
This man is so right on. Listen to Him, read and follow God's Word and Commandments and you will be truly blessed. Marriage takes three: A man, woman, and a strong civenant wuth God.
If only I could get my wife to listen to this message......
Praying for you that she fights her flesh!
If I could only get my husband to listen to this.
That being said. I love what u are doing & keeping it Biblical. Thank u & keep up God's work brother
Thank you for the encouragement. So appreciate it.
Excellent message about the covernent of marriage. Sex is for married couple only. If we have sex other than with our spouse we will go to hell.
This is great content, thank you for the support.
Amen, God will judge you. For your actions. If you are judging your spouse because what is happening is not fair. This is your destiny, if you dont learn now you will go through this same lesson again. God is so merciful, he offers many, many chances for you to succeed. Please build your relationship with God. Jesus said "the only way to the Father is thoughts me."
I am writing this as much for myself as it is for others.
Prayer to God for forgiveness is the only option and never do adultery again after request for forgiveness its very bad to double cross ⚔️ your creator
@@nsubugadanielkelvin8414 you are so right, but I don't think the person who cheat on his spouse will destroy himself, because I've seen cheaters living a good life while the other, the cheated on spouse is in deep deep pain. the cheater inflict so much pain and trauma inside somebody and not to mention the arguing that goes along with cheating. The new testament said we can get a divorce or separation, but there is no remarrying as long as your first spouse is alive! or you can be reconciled to your spouse. How can somebody still lay with a cheater? what about STD and how do you know he/she is now faithful? so many questions. But what I have seen and what I know is that cheating only destroy the betrayed spouse and the family.
I learnt soo much from this video.Thank you praise to GOD I need to hear this coz am struggling with a similar situation
This is a big problem affecting marriages today. We are praying for you.
Thanks God Jesus and my mother for everything you done for me amen and amen
Hallelujah!!!
Preach it my brother!!!
My wife had a 5 month affair in 2021, we have been married for 18 years with 3 boys that night July 7 2021 I found the plan B so I asked her are you cheating on me 😢 she said yes because I don’t f@#king love you, it hurts even today 2 years later, I’m not a religious person by no means but she said that God has forgiven her 😳 and that I need to focus on the marriage and not bring it up, I’m only here still because of our children. 😢
If your wife told you that she's a very selfish and self-centered person. I'm not sure how you are going to heal from this. In order to heal she has to take full responsibility for what she did. I don't think she respects or love you anymore. I don't know you both got here but somewhere along the line you both lose focus of each other.
That is awful. Praying for you. It hurts the kids either way - staying makes it worse. I believe our kids need to see us persevering and moving on and not staying with someone who treats us horribly. We must end the cycle so they don’t repeat the same things themselves. If it were your children, what advice would you give them? To stay or to leave? God knows your heart and He will heal you when you fully lean on him. He heals the broken-hearted and binds up their wounds. My broken heart was healed but I’m still healing from the trauma. My children were very hurt by the whole situation but I can see how much they’re thriving now that their Dad doesn’t live here anymore. It sucks to have a broken family. But it’s much more joyful with the lying manipulative cheater gone. Ask God to let his will be done for you and your children and to guide your path 🙏🙏 it’s painful, I know.
Im in so much pain 😭 Jesus... im going through all this with four kids and he is so defensive and blames me...
We are sorry to hear that. No spouse is totally responsible for their spouse cheating. That is manipulation. He made a choice to cheat not you. If there was a problem in the marriage it should have been discussed. Cheating is not the answer.
Stay strong what goes around comes around
I’ll be honest, I’m losing hope that I’ll ever be married because every time I date someone, there’s always a break of trust and heartbreak. Then I see the stories: stories of women cheating, and then I see my own lack of self control and character flaws and it just seems too much. But I desire marriage and family so deeply. At this point, it seems as if being single might be better than the continued heartbreak-which I often cause myself! Only God can be trusted.
If someone reads this. Please pray for my heart. I know I’m thinking wrongly here, but the hurt has grown so deep I can’t seem to dig out.
I’ll pray for you, as a newly converted Christian who found out I almost lost my virginity to someone I thought was the one and I loved so much however he cheated on me. I’ll continue to be my happy self and be loyal to to my next person. I’ve got friends who are also innocent and waiting for the one so please be patient. Believe in God even when you’re in doubt because trust me he will try avoid future heartbreak. Just be smart, follow your intuition, know your value, love and believe in God and I promise it’s gon be good. That’s what I did to avoid such man
It is a Crisis of Character in our culture
Thanks for sharing such a important topic. We live in a society where so many are willing to compromise and cheat regardless of the marriage vows.
Thank you Lady Tee. This is so true. Society wants marriage without love, commitment, God, and sacrifice. It won't work without these things.
Why are u assuming it's the "Man" who is cheating? Women now days are equally cheating as much as men
And what you say is absolute truth !
What do you believe once the choice to cheat has happened ? Once confessed , not caught , but confessed to your partner , are you deserving of forgiveness ? And once forgiven is it still a better decision to agree to leave the marriage ?
My husband left me after 20 years. He said he needs to find his happiness. You left your family. And he said God is ok. Is it that easy that all we have to do is ask God forgive me and he will? So my husband left his family and talking to other women and God is like I forgive you son. Please explain to me. Is my husband ok? This doesn’t make sense to me. You are hurting me and living up the life and God is ok?
It may not be right at all trust me it hurts but I do think you are a better person and somebody is out there for you that is more worthy hold on to faith
God is not ok with a man leaving his family for another woman. He is trying to find happiness in other woman but he wont. That's what most men thinks unfortunately in most cases they won't find happiness. They find misery. A man find happiness in God, his purpose, visions and goals in life. That should include taking care of his family. God would rather him and his wife work it out for the sake of their marriage and his family. Marriage and family are too important to God for Him to not have a problem with it. That is why their relationship with the other woman never last.
This happened to me recently I found out that his “happiness” he was trying to find was him actually cheating on me with another girl, they are gonna get karma
God does forgive but that does not mean your husband or exhusband will not receive the consequences of his actions.
It is a disgrace how many people use the unhappy Card. Marriage is life long commitment. It is more than happiness. Happiness is neither a biblical reason for divorce nor seperation.
THANK YOU FOR THIS MESSAGE GOD BLESS YOU YOUR FAMILY AND EVERYONE CONNECTED TO YALL IN JESUS NAME HALLELUJAH AMEN AND MAY OUR LORD POUR INTO YOU AS YOU BE A LIGHT FOR THE KINGDOM IN JESUS NAME HALLELUJAH HALLELUJAH HALLELUJAH HALLELUJAH HALLELUJAH AMEN
I pray God's blessings over you also in Jesus name. 🙏🏽
You have spoken truth, my Brother. Continued Blessings and Anointing!
Thank you.
I hate the fact I married someone that doesn’t value and respect marriage like me.
Tight, strict truth!!!! I loooove this!!! Full of Life. Thank you so much for sharing the truth in strength and boldness. My current husband definitely needs to hear this and take it seriously as I been trying to get him to do.
I Thank God for this Video, May God bless you and your family for serving humanity. This is what we need to hear in our churches today.
Wow, thank you
In order to perform God's will in marriage, we must marry God fearing individuals.
Well said..It’s not just to marry a God fearing individual, but they must live in Gods will daily. It’s a daily walk.
Its not called cheating, where in the bible do we see the word cheating Its called ADULTERY.
The world says cheating to make it seem like the norm, When you stand before GOD He will say you lived or committed Adultery.
Hell will then be your portion.
I feel like marriage can be terribly binding, especially if you have to maintain the marriage with someone who cheated on you. Divorce is a sin. I feel and fear that marriage is only going to lead to that. Jesus would force you to keep being with that person or you go to Hell. You’re trapped. You’re trapped with that person unless one of you dies. I mean, the feeling of being trapped instead of forgiving (or just loving) your cheating “lover” would get you to Hell anyway. You’re cheating partner would go to Heaven because they’re forgiven, but not you. You have to put up with trust issues and a false person for the rest of your life and have Jesus force you to still have love for this person. For their sake. Reject that love for this person would be to reject Jesus. You are so trapped. Marriage is like a prison or is one. If this person cheating really is the one He has for you… I would reconsider ever dating in the first place. Can never share my own body with someone who cheats like that again. I feel like property at that point. Less than as a person. No longer a loving partner, only serving that sexual purpose for the other end’s desires and “needs”. No love, just duty. Usage. No bonding. Cheating is cheating, they shouldn’t really love you if they did anyway. So bonding during the duty of sex isn’t really happening. They’re satisfied anyway. Even if they “regret it”, no doubt they’ll do it again. They just want to keep you. They don’t want to lose you. No sacrificial love there on their end. Can never see them the same again. I’d say that’s pretty warped to be “stronger” with them or together after something as horrific as that. Just feel like property than a person when it comes to cheating. I mean, if you were the one cheating that may feel and be different in a way than how it really is if this makes any sense (sounds hypocritical sadly I’m afraid), but a true person would never cheat yet if they did, they should love their partner enough to let them go be with someone who’s actually loyal… but I’m talking about if you never cheated yet that other person did. It doesn’t feel like marriage anymore, or if that is marriage, it’s a trap. Better off single and alone. God is enough. Even though it’s upsetting how we must love as Christians and forgive or we go to Hell… it all feels like a trap and a mistake. To continue to love that person, is like… not you. Like God threw a love potion on you to manipulate your love and feelings no matter the trauma in place. To force your love to continue as if it never happened, cheating is allowed… godly relationship doesn’t sound good anymore. Just a trap. Doesn’t sound better to be single in a way, but it’s better than being trapped. Cheaters would be forgiven, but the victim… never. Can never see myself submitting to a cheater. Submitting and to his “leadership”. Feel like a concubine. Any wife is a concubine at that point and same for the husband. Except the husband has more power and say in it. This is not the Christian way to love or live, I know. Sadly, this is how it is. How can you live and love Christ, while suffering as a concubine in marriage. Or… just… be stuck with someone… who does that to you… and you cannot leave them. You’re trapped, stuck… forced.
“They are the one for you, I won’t have them leave you even after you cheated on them. They’ll love you. Unconditionally. It’ll be like it never happened. They cannot leave you, if they do, I will handle them. Vengeance is mine.” Something like that would be said. Why would the Lord force you to make an effort with a cheater. Ugh. Or is being faithful a sign of the right one. Ngl, my views of my old ways still contradict everything I’m learning as a new Christian. Doesn’t take away the fear. Like I would understand if I cheated and I’d feel terrible. But in one stance, of the victim, I would feel tortured and trapped forever.
So truthful message amen God bless everybody
I needed to hear this . Thank you for confirmation in the word
Glad it was helpful!
I am going through this in my marriage also sadly the person he does it with harassment twice a month and it hurts me when my spouse send her money and they don’t kids together at all. I have talked with older Christian friends and also his parents but he still keep doing it.
I am so sorry you have to go through this. I know how painful this is. God loves you more than anyone will. Trust god and pray to figure out what he wants you to do. I also am praying to figure out what he wants me to do. If he doesn’t respect your wishes on running from evil and leaving that woman alone than that is not a relationship that god supports!
Get out asap.. you are in danger of an STD- SEXUALLY TRANSMITTED DISEASE
AVE learnt a lot, thanks and God bless you, watching from Kenya
Thank you and God bless you, you say the right words
You’re a blessing to many my friend.
Thank you and may God bless you. My passion is to add value in every one of our video.
Pastor is it wrong for a part of me to wish that he feels the hurt i felt. Im conflicted at times for i want that but i also want him to be happy
No, it is not wrong to feel that way you are human and you are hurting by what happened. That is one of the reasons most spouses retaliate with responding with similar behavior. that is the last thing you want to do. You would have given up your leverage to hold him responsible for what they did to you. Always protect your character. Never fight evil with evil.
@@KnotEasilyBroken Once that has happened what do you do?
I love everything you said god bless you
Thank you very much for this. First time watching and I subscribed. God bless u.
Thank you Dickson, for your comment, it is well appreciated. We thank you for subscribing. 🙏🏽
Thank you this helps me alot I appreciate you my brother and sister in Christ God bless you both
Thank you and we appreciate you too. We are praying 🙏🏽🙏🏽 for you. Be bless.
@@KnotEasilyBroken thank you
Thanks for sharing this video my brother, two minutes into it and I had to subscribe , continue to preach and rebuke with all authority in the name of Jesus Christ
Thank you my brother I appreciate it. I will always keep it biblically sound and relevant in the mighty name of Jesus Christ.
Adultery is different for men and women with in the scripture, A man commits adultery if he sleeps with another man’s wife or thinks about it a man also commits adultery if he leaves his wife for an reason other than her cheating, A woman commits adultery if she’s married and sleeps with another man. This is why David committed adultery within his heart and body when he slept with another man’s wife but did not commit adultery when he had about 200 concubines.
Definitely if it’s agreed upon you and your partner you should honour your marriage vowels, but we need to start looking at the scripture for what it say regardless if we think it’s right or wrong if we like it or we don’t
I cheated on my ex boyfriend and I’ve regretted it Soo much since. I’ve hated myself since and I’ve felt so much guilt and I feel like God can’t forgive me and I feel like I’m such a terrible person.
Dont condem yourself in believing jehovah god wont forgive you. That's satan making you feel that way. Yes you did wrong. As I did. But dont codem yourself from jehovah. He knows your heart, prey and ask for forgiveness. Dont just prey though, BELIEVE that jehovah hears your prayer and BELIEVE that he will forgive you and it will be so, an he will. As long as you turn from those actions of course. You will feel sinful ways sometimes, but that's just satan trying to make you fall because he sees your walking on the good path. Remember that. Notice that. An be confident that jehovah will protect you. Because if you dobt believe that he will. Then you will fall. You got this. Dont give up.
Notice that if you are having s*x with the boyfriend, it's fornication and you will need to confess to God and repent. That intimacy is intended by God for the married.
Keep your head up Sister! GOD is always willing to forgive you. Blessings to you!
@@realme-bb2szExcatly💯
God still loves you!
Please i need prayer for my marriage I'm separated from my husband i need prayer
We are praying that you will have full reconciliation and restoration of your marriage.
Im going thru the same situation and a homewrecker is involved. Ill pray tht your husband will come back to you soon ❤️
Update?🤔
God bless you man of God. I eat of such knowledge and impartation 💪🏽
I appreciate that
Amen ! Very ture .Thank you for this word
To me this is so easy, it’s truly devastating to a family when you turn from god and cheat on your spouse! It is happening to me right now and I am destroyed and so are my children! I am praying for his heart!! I see what god says clearly but clearly not all see it.
Aimee, we are so sorry to hear that. It one of the most painful thing your marriage can go through. We are praying for you and your family. We hope that you will get the help to heal from this. We don’t know the detail why he choose to do this. We pray for your husband heart that he too will learn from this terrible mistake.
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Very sad I am going through the same things it’s ver hard for me
O my gosh, this makes me cry. Bless you for this. Thank you
May God bless you always.
Exactly.but some people use marriage as aportunity in agreement with there spouse and that is the reason why some people don't take marriage serious and the inocent get hurt. This is one of the reason why I turn down alot of people,it si hard to trust mankind these days .people fail to be loyal to each other.
Well said. 👏🏽👏🏽
Cheaters don't understand. I follow scripture when it comes to submitting to my husband. I cook, clean, fold his clothes, iron clothes and work uniforms, pack lunch, tend to our child, and clean up the house. I do everything a woman is supposed to do. I don't deprive him of intimacy. I mean the math ain't mathing. I work too on top of doing things for us as a family, I still get cheated on. He says it's my fault but I'm not sure how. Cheating has affected my sex life so much. I believe that God will change my husband because he is a good man but the extra baggage isn't gonna cut it.
Thank you so much for clarifying these precepts. God bless you & your ministry!
You are so welcome, and may God bless you always.
This was a blessing too me
May God bless your.
Thanks for your inspiration!
God Jesus and my mother please please help me I have problems with my wife amen and amen
Do i forgive her for cheating on me? Were married and have a child. Does God say anything about forgiving them and carry on with my marriage. Ive not watched the whole vid yet
That's a great question. There is no love without forgiveness, and there is no forgiveness without love. Whether you stay in the marriage or leave, you must still forgive to fully heal. You need time to process this. Is she taking FULL responsibility for what she did? Are you guys talking 💬 to someone who can help you both unpack how you got here? This is not easy, and that's why it's so painful and difficult to recover from.
@@KnotEasilyBrokenit’s very hard when they don’t apologize or take any responsibility, and continue to blame you for the whole situation. I have a very hard time co-parenting with this person. I’ve forgiven him but it’s a daily thing to forgive. The trauma hurts. I think a one-time cheating is nothing close to an ongoing affair where the person lies to your face daily for God knows how long. It is so damaging. I don’t know if he will ever truly be sorry. He says I drove him to cheat. He is 54, she is 25!!!
I know my husband has been cheating and I yet to see for 5 years any of his consequences to his actions
That’s not good. That’s not encouraging.
@@KnotEasilyBroken but it’s the truth
You teaching !!!!😊❤
GOD BLESS YOU BROTHER IN CHRIST JESUS
God isn't pleased with divorce and remarriage either...marriage is until death and it's also adultery if you remarry and your spouse is still living
Definitely a blessing
Thank you sooo much.
21 years and he's no longer in his home because he cheated on his wife of 21 years , I'm a little emotional but " with God I'll heal "
Stay strong ,I'm going through the same 22 years 6 children, 6 months later,I'm getting there pray, pray, and god will get u through every day 🙏 god bless
@@Unab121 I'll pray for you , you pray for me 🙌🙌
It is very difficult, but God can keep you. Seek the necessary help if you need to.
@@Unab121I'll pray for you pray for me, prayers cover were we can't 🙌
He went outside our marriage with two others. Told me he didn’t love me anymore, he wanted a divorce. So I gave him a divorce although I didn’t want it. He lived with the last one 6 months and he is still with her. We are divorced now and I have to move on. We were together 33 years.
I Am so sorry , god has a bigger better plan for you
@@saindelinejeanpierre986 thank you 🙏🏼
So Sorry to hear that. it is painful when a spouse do this.
Pastor, why is it that the love remains in our heart ? Does this mean we’re meant to be with this person and overcome this obstacle?
When you share yourself with another person in an intimate way especially in marriage you create a bond. You and your spouse become one in that marriage. Even is the marriage does not work out it does not mean you stop loving that person. This is why adultery and divorce is so painful. It destroy something that was meant to last forever.
This does not mean you should stay in an abusive marriage or any relationship that dishonor you.
Love this topic. Straighten up and fly rt! Amen!! But for the brotha who is unseen and unheard I pray your streghnth and fortitue while you are corrected in all your shame. God forbid you long to take care of your family and submit to them and your wife only to never be seen or heard. Gods gone getcha if you cheat on the wife!! You bet not!! There is never a case of stumbling. Watch it.
This is all logic. Emotions are stg else.
Somehow God did not save me from cheating wife although my wedding was in church.
What are for this empty ceremonies?
Thanks!
Is there forgiveness in this? Oh Lord heal me
It's also killing me
I have committed this sin
I’ve been married now for 28yrs. Just find out about a week ago that he had an affair 7yrs ago only to discover that he has twins. He had no knowledge of it because the woman was married as well and now that her husband divorce her, she requested dna from my husband and results determined he is the father. I want a divorce.
So sad and devastating. We are praying for you.
Oh my gosh Tammy my heart breaks for you.. that is my worst nightmare and I’m sorry that you’re having to go through it. I pray for your strength for your healing. God bless you
My husband is not yet a Christian and he has been cheating for over 40 years
I am tired and frustrated
I was not a Christian when we got married
We are married for 26 years
What do I do
I keep forgiving and forgiving
I want a divorce
He's definitely a serial Cheater. He need help. And are not the cause of your husband's adulterous behavior. That's all him. Even if you have sex with him every night and twice a night on the weekend he will still cheat on you. Never blame yourself for his cheating. There's a lot more going on in his head.
Thank you for this
I have a question , I have a girlfriend and we both love the lord but while early in our relationship I left to go into Ohio with 2 friends and I need up cheating and I also find my self from time to time flirting with other girls , now I want to be with this girl and I want a goodly relationship , I love righteousness but I fell now I really want to fight back and flee from temptation I’m tired of falling and I want to be holy and acceptable to God , now my question is should I tell my girlfriend or keep it between me and the Lord and just change my ways now , me and girl been together for about 7 months now , I’m 20 , she’s 18 and we are not married but we want to be together all the way till marriage I just messed a few times , I need help on my next step with the Lord
13 Whoever conceals their sins does not prosper, but the one who confesses and renounces them finds mercy. Proberbs 28:13
You are saying you might keep her in the dark so she can't decide for herself so you can marry her? Are you deceiving her? It's gonna come to the light one way or the other, stop manipulating her.
Preach, brotha!
Recently my boyfriend has cheated on me and I left him. But this thing is eating me up cause he's with the girl with who he has cheated on me with. He's really happy with her but here I'm just suffering a lot. Cannot accept the fact being cheated on honestly. Will he always be happy like this and wouldn't get suffered like me as he has cheated on me?
Sorry to hear you are going through this. However, what you have to realize is that you save yourself a lot of misery that would have happened later in this relationship had you marry this guy. You can’t force a man to be with you. What you should do is focus on healing and getting your self-image and self-worth back. Of course it is hard, but when someone show you who they are you should believe them. Don’t try to convince a cheater that they made a mistake for leaving you. You should convince yourself that he is a cheater and he does not deserve you.
@Sadia Be comforted by the fact that you found out before you married this man. It is hard...cheating hurts but if you were married, it would have been worse because it might entailed a costly divorce for example, or even hurting children. Focus on YOU after you focus on GOD first. God will help you get through this. Pray to Him.
I think there is alot of temption to both spouses in case it happens kindly pray for forgiveness and never do it again because its like betrayal of your own family
Well said..
99% of wedded couples go through it but pray to God to protect you from those temptations . Because after adultery it psychologically affects the spouse that has done it . It's only prayer that it never happens again
I blame others most especially my wife in my infidelity.
You must take full responsibility for your actions.
Please explain Matthew chapter 19 verus 9
Amén!!! 🙏🙏🙏❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥
Wait what if it’s boyfriend and girlfriend
Christian man hit on me and we had a sexual virtual affair before I found out he was married. I guess he was Christian from the waist up only.
Such a blessed sermon! 🙏🏻🙌🏻✝️💟
Amen and Amen
If you have spouses that abuse, disrespect and stole from you, go on and find the person that respects and care for you!
This is not biblical truth. Marriage is a covenant that can only be broken by death. We are not free to go pick someone better. Choose truth.
Someone please send this to my wife
Im in real pain
My husband destroyed our 26 years over a lust mistress who he has now left his family for her. His has the devil in him, treats us poor, he is on God wrath . Pity I feel he is weak for sex.
What can i do to a marriage that not works?
That’s a great question. The first thing you have to do is find out why it’s not working. There is a cause and effect in everything a person does. What kind of marriage you had before now? Was it a great marriage? Did you both have a great friendship/relationship? How did you both get here? What can you both do to change it? These are some of the questions that need to be answered.
You have to know how you started, why you are here, and what needs to happen to get to where you want to go in your marriage.
@@KnotEasilyBroken He told me that, he dont love me anymore
My husband cheated and left us
I am so sorry you had to go through that. God has a plan for you that is better than anything you could ever plan for!
We are so sorry to hear that.
Pastor,there is married man who tries to sleep with me,I am single.Please pray for me to have strength to reject his request.
You have no future with a married man. He is going to use you and destroy your life. God has already given you the strength to resist this temptation. He cannot do anything to you that you did not allow. Tell him you will report it to his wife. Then block his number. You have the power to resist. Do what's right. I'm sure he will leave you alone after that. Once you resist he will leave you alone.
"Submit yourselves therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you" James 4:7
@@KnotEasilyBroken God bless Pastor.I pray and intercede with Exodus 20:14 You shall not commit adultery.
@@KnotEasilyBroken I suspect his wife and him are in open relationship.It will be a waste of time.
“Strength to reject”??? Ma’am you just need to walk away from the dude there should be no reason to even want anything from him tbh
Wow.
Now what do i do? I committed adultery, am so guilty
Repent from your sins, ask God for forgiveness, and surrender your life to God. Work on becoming a better person. Seek wise counsel who is biblically sound. It's a daily walk towards becoming a better version of yourself.
What happen if they continue to cheat ? After you forgave them ?
That’s a great question. If they continue to cheat it’s because they never had any intention of stopping. In order for anyone to solve a problem, they must first admit that they have one. If he’s still cheating it means he has never confronted the issue. He does not want to stop. He has no respect for you. He probably thinks you are not going to leave. he does not take you seriously. Staying faithful is a choice.
@@KnotEasilyBroken thank you 😊 this is the hard truth, a lot of the times we marry non believers and want them to do holy things
@@saindelinejeanpierre986 This i so true. I think you just gave me a topic for a future video.
It’s the same for girls
Amen
This is happening to a friend of mine. He has been incarcerated for 10 years, comes home in 90 days. His wife chested several times and had a baby on him. She wants him to help raise the baby when he comes home. He is a man of God. He feels like as a Christian he should forgive her. He said that he is STUCK on what someone told him 5 years ago. A Prophet from years ago told him that this female would be his wife and that he would adopt a young girl. The wife's baby is a girl.
I am a firm believer in God and I do not believe this person and situation is what God intended for him. What do you feel?
Been incarcerated for 10 yrs is a long time to be away from someone. a lot can and seems to happen in those 10 yrs. I would tell him before he does anything he need to seek God and speak with someone who can help him navigate through all this. I don't know all the deals about this issues so I can't inject my opinion into this matter. However I know for sure that in most prison they allow inmate spouse to come and visit so they can be intimate. That is if the inmate have good behavior status. And it depend on the facility he is in.
Was going there to see him an option?. I would advice him to get help before he make any decision.
@@KnotEasilyBroken Years before he went to jail they broke up because she was cheating. He began to move on and he met a wonderful godly woman. They got engaged. He called off the engagement because this other girl who is now the wife begged him to come back so they could try again.
They have been together on and off 16 years he said. They got married while he was incarcerated and she barely came to see him during the marriage. He started to suspect something was wrong when she never answered the calls or would answer and say she was busy and could not talk at the moment. He was not told about the child until she was already 7 months pregnant. He comes home in 7 weeks.
Is it possible that this is just his karma for going back to the cheating individual and walking away from the the good woman he was engaged to ?
@@KnotEasilyBroken Brother, I agree with you that the Christian man who is being released from prison needs to diligently seek God regarding how to go about reconciling with his wife, if indeed, she is his wife. If their marriage was a first marriage for both of them, then she is his covenant wife and he is her covenant husband. This would mean that they are married, in God's eyes, until one of them dies because only death breaks the marriage covenant (Romans 7:2-3 and 1 Corinthians 7:39).
If, they are in a covenant marriage, God is all about reconciliation and He is able to restore their marriage if they are willing to restore it despite his wife having committed adultery and bearing a child that is not her husband's.
This is true it will make you go to hell
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Amen amen Amen
👆👆👆👆🤳🤳🤳 IF IT WASN'T FOR THE ABOVE MENTIONED NAME, I WOULDN'T HAVE FIND OUT ABOUT MY PARTINER CHEATING, THANKS FOR MAKING IT REALITY 😊...