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1 hour ❤❤❤ - Gemma please don’t worry about the perfectly polished vlogs, I think everyone appreciates a raw vlog. When I had my daughter 5 years ago I watched someone who had the perfect RUclips mum life and I felt like a failure watching her, but now she talks about how she struggles with two kids and marriage etc and I appreciate the honesty and realness so much more. Bad days are temporary take the pressure off yourself you talking about your bad day or filming in a messy home is still an escape for us ❤❤
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Well said 👍
I 💯 % agree with you! Babies are wonderful, but they are dammed hard work ❤️
AN HOUR LONG VIDEO? We are all blessed 🤎 I’m currently in bed watching this while being all cozy
I've been watching this woman for 2 years and I have yet to find a comfort RUclipsr full of autumn and Christmas vibes ,like her 😭❤
Oh Gemma, I'm so glad you talked about your bad days and how you experience them. I have a six month old daughter and she's also teething and her sleep is so bad currently. I know exactly what the bubbling feeling is you talked about and these days are so rough. Please know that it is so encouraging when you film your bad days. It helps me feel not so alone ❤️
Ah Gemma, be kind to yourself my darling. My daughter is now almost 15 years old and I want to reassure you that everything you’re feeling is so, so normal. Becoming a mother is such a huge rollercoaster, hormones play a large part in the emotional side of it as well as the fact (as you pointed out) that everything in your life suddenly changes. You will adjust and in the meantime, please just be gentle with yourself and rest assured that you’re a wonderful mum doing your best xxx
Gemma you are doing a brilliant job. As a mother of four I can tell you we have all been there. He looks so healthy and happy.
I’ve got a 12 week old baby and felt like I was the only one who feels this way, it was so refreshing to watch this video so thank you for making me feel that I’m not alone ❤
One hour! You are spoiling us. Oh I bet you absolutely cannot wait for your first Halloween with Noah, he is just so lucky. 💗💗
Gemma, you and Jamie are fab parents. I’m a 56yr Mum with 24 and soon to be 18 year old daughters and I still get Mum guilt. Neither of them were breast fed due to medical reasons and they have always been so healthy with no health worries. Keep doing what you are doing and what feels right for you and just trust and follow in your mothers intuition oh and ENJOY it all as it goes so fast. Xx
I’m constantly anxious plus I suffer with depression + have ocd, sometimes I feel like I’m going divy + so up + down. So I really get it I hate having anxiety, your doing really well Gem honestly your my favourite RUclipsr + I stop everything to watch your videos, give yourself a Mahoosive pat on the back X
Noah has changed so much in the last 3 weeks, got Mummy's eyes. Just lovely.
No one really talks about the anxiety that comes from our hormones readjusting after having a baby! I experienced the same thing! Take things moment by moment and day by day. Let a few things go on the hard days and give yourself grace. Motherhood almost forces us to slow down and smell the roses. ❤️
There’s nothing nicer than hearing a baby laughing….🥰
Please allow yourself to express how you feel to us, it allows us see you for you unlike most youtubers, you keep it real. You're adapting to a new way of life looking after a beautiful little human, its so natural to feel overwhelmed. Cant wait to watch the rest of this :)
absolutely nobody does cosy a/w vlogs like Gemma 🥰🍂 just so calming and relaxing
Second this! She’s the best!🥰
Watching Gemma’s new Sunday morning video each week always puts me into a positive mood for the day 🍂🤍
i relate so much to the baby blues my son is almost 4 and I'm currently pregnant, i thought i was the only who felt like you did and I'm slowly learning to give myself some grace. Thank you for sharing your journey i honestly felt so alone and glad that I'm not the only mum feeling this way.
cant believe you blessed us with an hour video so precious, hope little tilly is okay. ive watched your journey for years literally so proud and happy for you and your family 🤎
Awwww little Noah is getting so big he looks so much like you
Thank you so much for being so open about the hard days and how much goes into being a parent it made me feel so much more normal as a first time mum deffo needed to see this today. It’s hard but so worth it ❤
Gemma it is post partum emotional problems, it will go away don't worry. He is adorable!
Oh how I long for these cozy Sunday catch ups. Gemma you bring joy to my life. You are the definition of peace and happiness. ❤️🥰
Just to remind you that you’re doing an amazing job. You’re the best and perfect mummy for little Noah and I know these early days are hard. We are almost a year into parenthood and I’m only just getting back into the swing of cooking whereas you, super mum, are still feeding your family and not to mention juggling so so much all at once. Keep your head up ❤️
Gemma you’re doing amazing! We all really appreciate you being so honest. Motherhood is incredible but isn’t always easy and we all feel like you so you aren’t alone. Your vlogs are fab and you really are doing great and you’re a wonderful mummy💕💕💕
Firstly sending hugs. I get those 'all the emotions' feelings. They're normal but it's horrible feeling so disconnected and lost. You've had some tough and huge changes. You're adapting and finding the now you. I love these kind of vlogs from you. Its like you're really letting us into you're life, it's brave to be vulnerable. Thank you for sharing. You're a fab mum and you're meeting all his needs, Noah looks so happy x
Thank you for a wonderful Sunday morning vlog. One hour with you makes my day!!!🤎🍁🦊🍂🍂🍄
Gemma I love how you keep it real so many people can relate to the everyday struggle's of being a mom. I think your an amazing mother just seeing Noah happy and healthy is a credit to you and Jamie. I've been watching you for a few years now and don't ever change .xxx
Literally just watched the cleaning one and commented, looks like it's another brew for me and watch why the babies are settled 😍😍 thankyou x
I have just seen 12 mins and I just wanted to say that this hits me right in the feels. Gemma; i love that you show us the raw, honest and harsh reality that motherhood is. Thank you ❤️ And please Take care❤
An hour long clog is what I need! How cosy does Noah look in his sleep suit! He’s so funny 💜 Hope you all have a lovely week 🌸 Happy Monday
I really appreciate your honesty in this video Gemma ❤️ I have a 7 week old and have these bad days and struggle! It’s good to know you’re not alone in how you’re feeling and it’s only natural with a newborn! Love your vlogs Gemma x
Havent even watched this all yet, just upto the part of you spending the morning crying being overwhelmed. I feel you, mum of 5 and a husband, both work also, its hard work but so rewarding. Your smashing it Gemma 🥰 dont be too hard on yourself
Gemma, you are one of the most genuine RUclips person. You let people know that bad days happen, that life isn't perfect.
Teddy made me laugh hiding behind the toaster - my cat Bella hisses when she sees window cleaner's van arrive and tries to attack him through the glass.
Happy Autumn xx
Gemma, you are doing amazing with everything, you’re a super mom! You are not alone, I’m at my second baby boy and still feel anxious sometimes. My little one isn’t sleeping or eating like before, also. Thank you for normalizing and sharing even the hard moments of every day life. We enjoy the “normal”, unpolished vlogs just as much as the perfect ones. It’s hard to “lose” control over aspects of your life, I know. Sending lot of love, just take one day at a time. 😘 love you
I love this kind of videos and your personality Gemma. I discovered you two years ago when I was having one of the worst moments in my Life and you always bring me relax and calm. Thank you so much. Kisses from Spain
You are doing so great Gemma even when you don't feel like it. Make sure to talk to your friends, family, and doctor too. You have an amazing support system, it's ok to ask for help and be 100!
I love the raw videos, it makes us mums feel like we are all normal and we all get hit with the same feelings along the way. I’ve been watching you for years and it’s so nice to see where you are now with your little family ❤️
Center Parcs set their Christmas holiday dates, you can’t get longer or shorter than the dates they set for Christmas breaks. This year it’s 23-27th just so you know for planning xx
Gemma,thankyou for the lovely vlog,its always so enjoyable to watch.Please dont be so hard on yourself,honestly,you are doing a brilliant job bringing up Noah,looking after the house and working.Us mums all need a big pat on the back,cos it is hardwork.No matter what age your children are or how many you have ,everyday is different and we are all learning as we go.All us mums have felt the way you talked about,and its normal and human.You are doing a super job,cos Noah is so happy and healthy.Well done.x
So grateful for u dear Gemma
Your videos are something that I can't even describe in words.
So cozy and aesthetic ♥️😍
When I saw the hour vlog posted this morning I planned my bath hours in advance just to watch it!! 2 glasses of wine later and many pumpkin candles burnt… I feel so chill. Thank you beautiful for being our escape and I so hope you’re doing well. Plus Noah is defo the spitting image of Jamie! Omg he is so cute!! Love you and your little family xx
I absolutely LOVED this vlog! I love the happy "escape" type of videos you normally create, but it's so good to hear how you are really doing! I love it all! Thank you for being you and for sharing the good, the hard, and everything in between, Gemma!
Love this video. It won’t feel like this at the minute, but this won’t last forever. As they say, the days are long but the years are short. When you are in the midst of it, you feel like you can’t see the woods for the trees. It’s so hard. You are a lovely family ❤️
So happy about the long cozy vlog❤ postpartum anxiety is so normal, remember to give yourself grace you’re doing wonderful. Love from NYC 💜
Thank you for this vlog Gemma, not only was it an escapism for me right now going through a tough time mentally, but also seeing you be open up and raw about your mental health helped me too🤍
Thanks Gemma, for an honest vlog, which a lot of people will appreciate cos a lot of people feel the same. I had postnatal depression after my first child, it was the worst time but it passes & I never had it after my others. It's the big change in your life it takes some getting used to & only natural to feel overwhelmed xxx
I appreciate the honestly and realness so much more! It helps me feel less alone, instead of coming online and feeling like a failure to my 6 month old because I’m not the portraying the ‘perfect life’ 💕
I really needed this today 😢😅 Thankyou so much for sharing your raw vulnerable self just tying to get through the days. Somedays it just feels like we should just get on with it and not complain about being a mum because it’s such a wonderful magical thing that some people don’t get to experience but my god is it tough. Incredible but tough. Sending you love and your voice is so soothing so Thankyou for being you ❤
I think this is my favourite vlogs by you it was just normal life thank you for the honesty having a baby it’s difficult your not the only person I remember going through this when I had my first child no one understands what it is like until you have him/ her.. lots of love Gemma ❤
Just keep going Gemma and don’t worry about everything being perfect. You are perfect. Life is so very tough having your first baby. Noah has to rely on you two for xxxeverything at the moment and it’s very tough for you at the moment. Life will get back to some normality in time. Just don’t be too hard on yourself and enjoy this very special time. You’ve done so very well and you’re an amazing mum. Just keep doing what you’re doing. Sending hugs and kisses.
I hope Gemma knows she's a part of our Autumn 🍂, looking forward to the next 3 months vlogs 💖 xx
Being a mom is the hardest journey and baby brain doesn't go away!
I completely understand changing Christmas traditions after a loved one is gone. Since my dad's passing we go away for Christmas. This year its NYC!
Love your vlogs!
I've been watching u for the absolute longest 3 years and ur fall and winter videos are my favourite ❤️🍁
I understand the lump that you get in your throat when your anxious and its not nice to feel that way, please dont worry about having perfect vlogs, no one has the perfect life and that is reality 😊 also very happy to be blessed with an hour long video from gemma, couldn’t get better than that on a cozy Sunday 😌🍂 also sending my love for Tilly in hope that she gets better ❤
Thank you for being so open about your feelings. I've had the feeling you describe for seven years and it got even worse with my second child. It just feels like you're never done. It's like having an endless to-do list and never being able to rest and relax 😩.
Loving the weekly vlog. I love just how honest u are. Your right, everybody has down days and it's good to share. Noah is so gorgeous and your a wonderful mum.xx
Thank you so much for being so open and honest about how you’re feeling 💜 it’s a breath of fresh air & makes me feel like I’m not alone in being a bit up & down lately. Love you’re videos Gemma and you’re lovely little family are adorable 😊💜 xx
Thank you for being so honest about how you feel , makes us all feel like we are not alone in feeling this way as RUclips/ instagram can sometimes feel like your the only one who’s life is not perfect so thank you ❤😊
You are literally amazing Gemma ! This has literally just made me feel abit normal today as I’ve been getting a lot of those days recently and with a child that’s completely normal ! Your amazing ❤❤❤❤❤❤
I live for your videos 😍 Please don't feel like you have to be positive all the time! We're all here for you on those days and the good ones too. You've helped me so much with my anxiety over the years you're amazing! You're doing amazing! 💗
Oh Gemma big hugs your doing so well. Motherhood is overwhelming been there! Remember your not super women and you need to take your time it will always be there tomorrow what you don’t achieve today. Noah is beautiful and we are so blessed to have a whole out of you guys. Much love ❤️ x x
Don't be scared to talk about your downs,love that kind videos like this one. You are so real and loving. How we can't love you? Be strong, you are amazing 🥰
I know exactly how you feel hun, I have two toddler boys and it’s a lot. Some days all I do is cry other days I try my absolute hardest to remain positive. Honestly just breathe, take a step back and look at the most precious healthy baby who adores you through and through, we do it for them ❤ self care is needed gem put yourself first you can’t pour from an empty cup
I also felt like I was a totally different human, but after 1 year I felt like old me and new me melting together. You HAVE to make time for Gemma, time to feel like YOU. Make 1 hour in the week for self care ❤️ I also dealt with a lot of mom guilt and I’m still worrying about it. But I always say to myself: “if you are on an airplane and it’s about to crash, who are you giving the oxygen mask to first? You or your baby? Answer: you have to take the mask on first! Then you can help your baby ❤️= you are the best mother if you are happy! Your baby feel everything. Therefor it’s so so so important to make time for you and so you! ❤️ hope you can use it, it helped me a lot.
Whatever you do I will keep on watching u because for me it is life saving point of the week.never stop.u are no fake and this is the life.forever Gemma❤
Oh what an absolute beautiful human you are. Being a new mum myself to a 9 month old I completely can understand how you are feeling. It is so normal. Your doing amazing at everything and I’m sure you’ll find your you sparkle back again ❤️
My lovely. Be kind to yourself. You are amazing and expect to much of yourself. Your days will start to fall into a pattern. Make the most of each good time and move through the tiring times. We are there for you all. Keep smiling to make yourself know your loved. Never be down on yourself. Lots of love. ❤❤❤
This vlog is exactly what I need right now!
Sunday vibes, finished the housework had a nice shower and now in cozy jarmies, sitting with my face mask on and a hot chocolate ❤️
I hope you feel better soon Gemma, anxiety is the worst. When you feel like you can’t breathe/swallow - breathe in through your nose for 4 seconds, hold it for a second then breathe out through your mouth for 6 seconds. If the outward breath is longer than the in breath, it helps regulate your nervous system xx
A vlog over an hour now this is good news so excited to sit down and watch this 🥰
Gemma your adjusting to motherhood its a huge change for all new mums your not alone with your emotional journey "your doing great" xx
One of your videos came up while I was cleaning and I was just hooked. It's something about your videos that are so calming and inspire me to be a bit more productive, not just with studies or work but also self care. I'm in my early 20's and started living alone for the first time so I struggled a lot with getting used to a new life and feeling lonely. Your videos have definitely helped make this huge change a bit more bearable. Thank you for your videos!
Oh I just love these long weekly vlogs. With the B&M haul and the clean with me video last two weeks this hits right in the «good old days»-feels!❤ It’s autumn and you always being good autumn vibes. Thank you! Can’t wait untill the kids are asleep in a few mins so I can watch!
Aw, am sending you lots of love and hugs sweetheart! I had my son when I was 20 and I remember how tiring and draining it felt on days when I hardly had any sleep, but I promise you it will get easier! Stay strong and keep talking x And thank you for your beautiful vlogs ❤ sending lots of love to your fur baby too 😽
I lost my father too, and it breaks my heart to see you go through the same pain. I know it can be challenging, especially around holidays, but if you are open to his presence and listen for messages he is there with you still. I love you so much I can't believe I got to see you have a baby and your way of life and just watch your life blossom over time... I look up to you so much you have no idea how much you've inspired me to make the most out of life. You do so much for your family and I truly honor that.
Yes the autumn and winter queen. It is your season to praise us with the vlogs of cosy essentials and festive vibes! ❤
You are doing an amazing! I’m 47 and have a son who is nearly 22 and a daughter who is 18. Yet , I remember
everything your feeling. ❤ love your videos as you remind me to be grateful for the cosy evenings 😘 take care x
I LOVED THIS VIDEO! Thank you Gemma for showing us your day to day with your lovely family. Just go with it hun, we don't want perfection, we are just so happy to see you and be updated 😊 xxx I am mum of 7. You are doing fabulously! It really is normal for your emotions to be all over the place. We love you xxx
Thank you for being so honest about your mental health. It’s so important for people to know not feeling great all the time is normal.
I know that panicky feeling with a baby so well. The days do get better. You can do it. Don't put too much pressure on yourself while he's still so young. Love you x
Just had my baby boy 2 weeks ago and the postpartum recovery has been so much more difficult than I thought, now only suffering with mild cramps but think about it constantly as I haven’t found anything that has distracted me from it and the health anxiety I now have after giving birth to him, your vlogs however this one in particular has honestly made me feel so much better and actually distracted me from how I’ve been feeling lately❤️it’s also so refreshing and comforting knowing that I’m not the only one struggling and that it’s normal to have good and bad days so Thankyou so much for this vlog I really needed it ❤️
Hope you are doing okay Gemma, glad to see your emotional side also, us followers really care for you ❤️ you are doing great x
Happy autumn Sunday Gemma, can not wait to sit and watch your relaxing video. Love just sitting and chilling on a Sunday, xxxx
So much love and respect for your honesty and makes me love your vlogs more we all have anxious days and so refreshing hearing your honesty makes us feel less alone lots of love your doing a fantastic job xxxxx
I really appreciate when you are raw and show how you really feel. It does not make me as a subscriber feel bad mentally, it just makes me feel less alone 🤍😊 mental health is important and you still make me happy with your videos even if you are not happy all the time. It does not make you a mood killer or whatever, it makes you human! 🤍I care about you even if we have never met and I want to see how you are doing honestly 🤍 You are like a friend in some wierd way. You are not a burden for being raw in your videos! Love your content! Never say sorry for showing your mental health. It is so important! Xx
I get so excited to see a vlog from you ❤️ I'm sorry you're feeling like that but you are doing an amazing job and you are a wonderful mother you should be proud of yourself 🤗❤️ I'm so grateful that you did talk to us about how you're feeling bcoz you are always there for us and we want to be able to be here for you.. I bet you can't wait for Christmas with noah it's gonna be so cute 🥰 can't wait to see what you're little house refresh. Sending you love and positivity 💛
Hey Gemma,
I know this anxious feeling in your chest so so well. I’m having it as well right now and it’s really comforting to know other people feel it aswell.
I think it might help you to give little tasks or to other people, like maybe get someone to do stuff in your house, or someone that helps you with your work (I’d help 🤣) or just in general to give little jobs to other people so that the whole load isn’t on you. I know how overwhelming that feels.
And it’s definitely not giving a bad mood when you share those „harder“ moments with us, it’s rather giving me the feeling that I’m not the only person feeling overwhelmed and that it’s okay. ♥️
Honestly you have no idea how refreshing it is to hear you talk about how your feeling right now. I’ve been watching all your recent vlogs after giving birth and thinking how is she doing it? How are you (seemingly) carrying on as normal as if the baby has barely affected your life and honestly it has made me feel a little down thinking why can’t I be like you and be on top of everything so Thankyou for your honestly Gemma it’s comforting to hear I’m not the only one going through this right now ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Loved this vlog. You are doing such an amazing job and are an amazing mum. Noah looks such a happy baby. He looks so much like you. I can totally relate with everything you've said about postpartum. You will start to feel yourself again soon. Make sure to take time for yourself every week and I highly recommend a chiropractor for you back. After having babies, our pelvis can be out of alignment and with holding our babies on our hip/leaning over feeding/rocking etc. can take it's toll on the back. You are an inspiration Gemma 🤍🤍
I love the fact that you are so real. I love that you share that part with us. It makes us feel that when we have a bad day we aren’t failing, we are just living life. We are all trying to live our best life. Some days it’s great! Some days we are a hot mess and just want to have a good cry. You truly have such good content and I watch every video you put out and enjoy every one of them. You have a beautiful style in decor and self care and I’m inspired all the time.
I'm a recent viewer of yours but I absolutely love your vlogs, they give such a cozy feeling 😍 You spoil us with such long vlogs, I love it!
Love a weekly vlog, perfect to curl up with a cuppa and chill out. Your doing a great job, dont ever doubt yourself!
Don’t put too much pressure on you, you are doing great! Motherhood is wonderful but hard at the same time, give yourself grace ❤ we love your vlogs and everything you do 🤗 by the way you have a gorgeous baby! It will get better soon.
Omg Noah makes me smile, enjoy Gemma they don't stay small for long and you find yourself missing these times . He's absolutely beautiful 😍
I so enjoyed watching this. It's nice that you reveal your ups and downs of being a new mom and that its ok. Noah's so cute! ❤️
Well wishes for you and Tillie,the pictures of you guys were fabulous and Teddy so cute. Much love for all of you ❤ have a wonderful week 😊
Your doing such a great job Gemma, we all have them days. Lovely vlog as always xxx
Bravo Gemma! I watched and watching all your videos now again. This is the girl I met 5, 6 years ago. And now is better! A lovely woman. Bravo for all the work you do and you do it perfect. The feelings for a new mother, working woman, for a woman who cares for her house, and for her fellow, are exactly the same with what you are feeling. you want to cry, to laugh, you feel tiered but also active. keep going girl. you are not alone! Love!
You are doing amazing. Love the raw life vlogs. It is very hard juggling everything you are not alone xxx
Loved the vlog in how raw and real it was , the good , the bad and the ugly! ( even tho your just absolutely stunning in all moments of time!
I personally love home/ Reno/ moving vlongs and would absolutely love watching in more depth about your home transformation/ Reno updates.
I also loved seeing a more vulnerable side to you showing your emotions and a new first time mum myself to a 1 year old it’s so good to see people you aspire to be like be “normal” too. Keep being you ! You got this mummy! Have a great day ! ❤
Love you Gemma so much! You’re doing such an amazing job at being a first mum, Noah looks so healthy and you’re both glowing 😍 ❤