Great thanks for sharing the video at right time, I was expecting this only, if they targeted to corner they do continously, you made a wise decision.. They using our fear as weapon n treating and putting down us emotionally, all s passed now you have the wings to fly.. For sure u will earn more than this and also you stay with happiness, its no need to prove with any bossy sadist, our own n life and happiness is important.. They will get the pay for it from God or not, we need not to think about these idiots, you enjoy dear, very soon i will also take decision wisely..... All. The best to you both, i keep follow n support you
காசு இல்லாமல் பட்டினிகிடந்து சாவேனே ஒழிய யாருக்கும் அடிமையாக வேலை செய்யமாட்டேன் பல கோடி குடுத்தாலும் என்னை விலைக்கு வாங்கமுடியாது நான் சுயதொழில் செய்கிறேன் எனக்கு அடிப்படை தேவைகள் தவிர வேறு எதையும் விரும்புவதில்லை தனிஒருவனாக கஷ்டப்பட்டாலும் சந்தோசமாக மனநிறைவுடன் நிம்மதியாக வாழ்கிறேன்
That's why i switch companies every 2 years with 30 to 50% hike. Whatever she mentioned is 100% true. Never believe manager's and HRs. Learn skills and move out simple.
This problem not only in IT in all works the same issue will be there if go to other job definitely you know that.... Anyways all the best for your future
இரண்டு வருடங்களுக்கு முன்பு என் மனைவிக்கும் இதேபோல் அனுபவம் ஏற்பட்டது அவரும் வேலையை தூக்கி வீசி விட்டு வந்துவிட்டார் அப்போதும் கூட ராஜினாமா கடிதத்தில் அந்த டீம்லீட் பெண் தன்னை பற்றி ஏதாவது தவறாக எழுதி விட்டீர்களா என்று என் மனைவியிடம் பயத்துடன் கேட்டிருக்கிறார் எதேச்சையாக உங்கள் வீடியோவை பார்க்க நேர்ந்தது பலருக்கும் இது நன்மையாக இருக்கும் என்று நம்புகிறேன் இன்றும் இதைப்போல் எதிர்கொண்டு இருப்பவர்கள் இதுபோல இம்சை கொடுக்கும் ஈன பிறவிகளை துவம்சம் செய்து விட்டுத்தான் வேலையை விட்டு நிற்க வேண்டும் என்பதே என் எண்ணம்
21:51 Sis, you are a great leader. Thats why people around are suppressing you. Dont let anybody stop your growth. If You are a threat to senior folks, trust me you are a GEM. Not every company deserves you. You are a hidden GEM. Only a true great leader can hire you and enjoy your growth. Seek that great leader in your next job.
I am NOT able to relate any of this office politics and that too so many things is happenig In IT. The IT job i know is all about delivering to client satisfaction and with lot of pressure no one will be able to even think about doing all these petty politics. After looking at all the comments i feel there is so much happening around me in other people career. Now i am able to realize I think i am really lucky to have a good career under multipleanagers who were treating me really really good and i have always stood for the people who were trusting me be it a junior most or the senior most employee. I am in my 23rd year of service in IT.
Hi.. you are very lucky... happy to know it... I too worked with a real good boss but all of a sudden i was moved to different team... FYI : i worked in client location (indian client) onsite for an year that was one most terrible experience.. i think ur clients are from western and europian countries. I will share video tomorrow..
Akka take care of your health.. Karma is boomerang,, avangala god pathukuvar.. Very good decision ka,, ella edathulayum epdi nadakuthu,, avangaluku work mukiyam illa😢 kooja adikanum sombu thookanum athan mukiyam,, athu namalala mudiyathu❤
You are a warrior akka.Thanks for sharing such cheap office politics with us. Avangalalam ennanu soldradhu. Health checkup panni nutrient deficient problem irundha sari panunga. Neenga unga bakery business nalla develop panunga kandipa successfulla varum. Take it slow and steady. All the best akka.
Hi ma. I am an ex bank Manager. Its a public sector bank. There too the situation is similar now. Even after 28 years of service i faced the same situation. So i resigned. As you said our mental and physical health is more important. All the best ❤🎉
This is my personal experience, I have worked both in Chennai and Bangalore but due to limited roles in the IT market Chennai IT crowd are more conservative and don't share their knowledge with their colleagues due to their job insecurity. But whereas I see little freedom and knowledge sharing with Bangalore crowd may be because of people coming there from different cultural background. Remember in any job the more you share your knowledge with others, the more you exchange ideas it will come back to you and you will be beneficiary. But many understand this in their late part of their career.
Is this true? Chennai work politics is worst. Never been in banglore... Planning to move there for job opportunities just for a change... Could you please share in detail
All of the issues are related to our mind only. Both working and self employed will have respective problems, not that one is better than the other. So, we need to change our perspective to have a strong mind and to have enough clarity in handling issues like these. Quitting is never the answer. We need to work on our minds only. If we say that we don't have time for anything, then we should do only self analysis for a period of time, probably write it down as a journal for say a month. This will create lot of self awareness within you and that will guide you correctly.
It's not that you are having different different issues that you are facing. If you can observe, there's a pattern in all of the issues you have faced. Which means, the same pattern is going to continue wherever you go, whatever you do. Bz, you are carrying your mind everywhere. So, unless you learn how to let go of your pent-up emotions, the same thing will definitely continue, but in a different scenario. Identify the way to work on your mind 1st. Then, even if you go to work again, you will know how to deal with everything.
எனக்கு தெரிந்ததை மற்றவருக்கு சொல்லி அவங்க பாதையை முன்னேற்ற வேண்டும் sister. வன்மத்தோடு இருந்தால் அவங்க நல்ல இருக்கமாட்டாங்க. இந்த விடீயோ பார்த்து நிறைய IT company high postla இருக்கறவங்க திருந்தட்டும். உங்கள் புதிய பாதையில் நீங்கள் முன்னேற இறைவன் துணை நிற்பார். உங்களுக்காக இறைவனை வேண்டுகிறேன் சகோதரி. வாழ்க வளமுடன் வளர்க நலமுடன்.
Hi Priya, We worked together at “P****n” about 5 years ago. So, I believe, you remember me well. I always admired you as a great HR professional. You were friendly, supportive, and brought such a positive energy to the office. It’s clear a lot has changed over the years, but stay strong. Remember, your health is most important, so take good care of yourself. Start focusing on a healthy diet, and I’m confident you’ll come back even stronger. Seeing you again in the video is great; keep sharing more! Wishing you all the best for the future. Take care!
1.Pidikalai na yosikaama vera company switch agidanum. Pressure laye work panna koodathu. Work ah vida Family and health romba mukkiyam. 2.long travel en pannanum. Near by yethavathu veedu eduthu stay panlame 3. Ivlo kasta pattu 1L+ salary vara vanthutu business ah complete ah build pannama en job quit pannanum. Ipavm neenga vera job try panlam. 4. Double salary illama chennai and Bangalore la kids ah vechutu survey panna mudiyathu. 5. Kids ku ipove fees 1L na, think pannikonga future la evlo namma earn/save/invest pannanum nu.
Wish you all the best...it is also in all departments.after 39 years of govt servicemy 20 years to 59 years my VR before a year of my actual retirement it is for my daughter delivery in abroad..i was remarked in last inspection not satisfactory....but i felt very glad with my grand child in abroad.. Now also leading my days ver very happily....so as per my consious and saved a lot so iam doing to charity a lot and very very happy......iduvum kadanthu pogum and all is well...god will surely give a better chance .
All the best👍💯.. I wish you to get success in your new role and in your business.. Thanks for the information. I am also an IT Employee.. I can feel your pain..
Health is very important, so we need to concentrate first on our health and family..... You might be facing some financial problems for the next 3 to 5 months........ Then you will manage it... Most of the office superiors act like this only.... Anyway, all the best for a bright future....
Great sharing, Akka! We people forget ourselves and our family, just to be honest to the salary we get and for our own contentment that we leave no stones unturned in our work. But what we secure finally is a bad name! Bitter truth of work life! But, I like your confidence and am sure you'll go a long way!!!
Hi Priya, Randomly saw ur video and its just a normal work culture now a days. What ever u have faced, have been facing. Just wanted to say , you have made a good decision. Health is priority and not money. All the best to both of you :)
Iam also HR guy, My opinion u did change role fast. So u got good pack and also politics pressure. U can compare Dhanush puthupettai movie, he developed fast and problem, stress and survival issue. Currently most of girls and boys hesitate to take promotion, transfer, job role change. Bcoz of pressure of work, politics, type of collegue, some psycho Managers. Take a break and live for your life
Sister, I also finished PG WITH BEd also Mphil in physics worked in a reputed school faced lot of politics leads to stress . So i quitted. Now i am a homaker struggling for the next step ,...if possible help me sister... We will work together....Nice soul priya sister❤
Why not you start a company of your own since you both have a very good experience? People who are broken by the office politics may find it safe to work in your company?? It's not always about the salary, most of the employees wish to work in an environment which inherits a standard work ethics.
Seeing this, I feel working abroad is much better. Very good work environment compared to what you say and also good salary. Better to move out if possible, work for a few years then settle back in India
No gender bias. Men also facing same situation. It's all about characters and handling people. I have never received KT but I will teach my exp to all the teammates. This is how I respond. All the best
Neenga IT ku suitable person ila kudukara work a delay pani finish pananum entry level la irunthengaana jolly a irukalam but neenga nermayaa iruka patheenga atha ungaluku set agala so best next company la jump agi associate mari level la work panunga peaceful a irukalam
Hi priya, i just randomly got your video in my feed then i realised it's you. hope you know me ( Imran - BCT ) i wish all the best for your channal and future and your goal... keep going and rock 👍🏻
Kids, overall health of our family is the most important for every woman. At some point we need a break from job and move towards our passion. All the best 👍
The way you explaining with your signature smile was great...we may succeed or not what we focus to achieve but attitude matters in the whole journey.. good decision Keep going with good thoughts all the best ❤
Hi sis , I am feeling same pain now, i have one year kid and she is with my mom c section and feeling depressed as not able to give my 100%kid and to do my desk activities in same ofc for almost 5.5years as there is no increment from almost 2years and struggling with my thoughts as one side emis one side kid and not able to share my feelings
Hi .. dont feel.. when my mom was alive she took care of my son very well.. you be happy that ur baby is in safe hands.. dont put yourself in inferior mode.. its very hard to come out of it.. Pls do some new course and move to new company.. or fight back and set boundary
Yes I'm also facing same problem 😢😢😢 theirs stopped me interact with client and they intentionally moved bench because I'm not studied convent school they point my english level low not stylish and they not gave only one chance to me for proved myself but i knew it who i am😊
Mam i am working in small IT company never tried for mnc.... working in home town only and preparing govt job by side what would suggest mam ,? Shall i try for mnc or govt job ? Which is better for girls ?
I have faced more politics than this. I couldn't do anything. I just quit my job. If we do anything against this, I think we only face more loss when compared to this big corporate s. Companies are responsible for this, and we can't do anything about this.
Good decision sister. But I have one point power la erukavanga they'll do. We have to adjust or quit. How this is right for ourself. Defend Panama vandhuta regret adhigama erukum
New job join pandradhuku munnadi, Glassdoor la reviews padichitu pogalam. 2 per earn pannaa, oruthar quit pannalam. But innoruthar work panniye aaganum.
Unga story kegum pothu Apafiye ennaiye pargura mathiri iruku sister . Sathiyama solluren Neenha nampurathum nampathathu unga istam I'm a private school teacher 2017 la marriage 2018 1st baby born (normal)but second baby ku romba struggle sister, school work pressure nu Neenga sonna mathiri tha 1st baby delivery ku 1 1/2 year back same school la again work panna poren, Athu tha nan panna very big mistake neenga solla ella issues nanum face pannen. I m from village, oor la ponnu pethuta en maganuku varisu venum talk nu poitte iruthu Nanum 1st baby c section nu 2 yr break la 2nd baby ku try pannen but no result Nearly romba stress ah irunth iruken, my husband ethuvum sonnurathu illa, oru child ah pothum vidu feel pannatha tha support pannuvar. But surrounding people not bad Oru stage la Dr kida poiten. Romba kastam patten sis, Oru vali ah nanum conceive aanen 2023 la apo parunga Evalo 1st baby ku age gap Neenga oru oru problem sollum pothum apadiye ennanaiye pargura mathiri iruku sister . Ur very great 👍🏻. Nanum ungala mathiri tha RUclips channel run pannuren own business pannanum ideas iruku start panna kandipa share pannuren. Thank you so much 😊 🙏🏻
Hi Mam.. Thank u very much for sharing.. Manasu kashtama than iruku sometimes.. all will be normal.. neenga own business pannunga.. i am planning to post all my steps to run a successful home business .. i will share lot of tips
Nan BE mudichitu IT job pogala mudichavudanae govt exam ku padika aramichutan ipo govt job vangitan aanalum en appa innaiku varaikum IT ku poirundha 1 lakhs salary vanguva ellathaium vitutu indha velaila irukanu kepanga😅 office normal ah podhu work pressure ila
My sister suffereing from severe neck pain and had operation since 3 months working in an IT job 😊❤ After operation too , she s severely suffering from neck pain . Even doctors told to quit the job . One of my cousins she s suffering from severe back spine pain . doctor told she can't undergo any operation because spinal issues can happen . She s daily having severe back spinal pain and she cant even continuously walk for half an hour 😊❤ IT job s ok but not appreciatable 🎉 Health is wealth 🤑 it spoils the health then whats the purpose of earning money ?
@@vigneshviswanathan7443 adhu ku earn panamale irukalam 😂😂 survival ku earn pandra profession choose pana podhum 😂 no need to dream of luxury lifestyle 😊 definitely not health sucking IT industry 😂❤
@@vv2262 exactly unfortunately Today everyone in the IT sector wants to live a luxurious life rather than healthy life!! Settling within the 40's ! Give up the money and insurance for the treatments! Am not accusing but this is the fact
This is called harassment, you should have complained. Companies take this kind of acts very strictly. This is very common problem in Indian IT industry.
Hi, Good Morning!! I think you are choosing a best option because may be you find your IKIGAI.. Naanum govt school tha so communication lam perusa irukathu.. Same i am also 13 years of exp in IT sector.. Currently working in TCS.. Work from home pannitu irukea.. Housing loan EMI irukara naala yelathayum poruthutu sari sari nu work panna vendiyatha iruku.. But oru nalla visayam yennana part payment la 70% of loans complete pannitea.. 2025 july la intha loan complete pannitu naanum yennoda IKIGAI nokki step yeaduthu vaika start pannuvean... ALL THE BEST.. 👍
True, Sir. Companies should change the way they treat employees from lowcost region. People will realize that they are being used and its not worth the struggle. They Will get the mentality of Western countries in no time.
@@itsyuvin Hi sir / mam, No i am yet to find my ikigai.. I started looking opportunities and i want to do some services so the money will come as biproduct..
While it's true that such knowledge is valuable, the tone might inadvertently overlook the fact that people learn different things at different times and may not prioritize shortcuts until they realize their value
There are few psychopaths in the name of a manager or team leader who think they know everything in technology. They try to showcase their knowledge to a weaker section of people.
Honestly speaking its not just in work.. Currently I'm in final year of engineering and as mine is an autonomous college the entire pass or fail control is there in the hands of my department HOD.. She is literally the crap I have ever seen in my life.. Being a girl who studied from the top schools of the city and I had even the class topper in my school days... But after getting into this cheap clg I have met all sorts of toxic snakes everwhere I see.. Uff! My cls advisor always used to corner me if I get to the cls a minute late.. My HOD had made so many arrears on me for no reason really... Oh god! Such a crap she is.. And the ranting will go on If I start to say mine... Women in all walks of life are facing so much due to the cheap mentality of such seniors.. In your case they are cornering you for not knowing english.. In my case he is cornering me as I speak better english than my class advisor...
Hi.....My sister same issue in Hospital...He started to work after 10 years due to his marriage and childrens...Now noone is ready share knowledge and from both end same nurses are telling why you coming to job without knowing all things...She have only 3 months experience in job after 10 years of studies.but i dont people are not understanding and no one is supportive in any organization for freshers and juniors...they are thinking paying from their pockets...HR is ready to hire and organization ready to pay....but their employees doing this politics...Now she left the job due to this politics....In Aravind Eye hospital,Coimbatore.
You are absolutely right.. i missed to share the same thing .. they all feel they are paying from their pocket.. full of ego and dont want anyone to learn and grow.. its because they are insecured about their job...
IT evana adichu olela podrathunu tha paapanga sis.. ennaku oru senior irrundha Avanga veetla vasathila kidaiyathu govt. School tha padichurukanga avanga appa daily wage painter oh driver oh I forgot exactly.. Ava talent la tha andha position ku vandhurukanga I respect.. ana Naa Anga irruka kudathunu enna pootu padu paduthuva paarunga same condition Naa tha pannedrathu senior ku poga kudathu..they gave 3 task for the day out of which one is very tough other person working in the team said this take 3 long days for me complete y they gave u that idk.. avaluku Naa panlanu nirupikanu enna Anga irrundhu kelapanu athu tha motive.. ipudi tha it later spoil pannuvanga.. jalra adikanu oruthangala oruthanga maati kudukanu apo tha Anga survive aga mudiyu IT la
Homeloan innum 23 years ku monthly 25,000 pay pananum pa.. I already did baking business .. ipo adhu pani i can earn.. (baking business income pathi video potrukan ma free time la parung)
It is not worth sister. Rendu per work panna kuda difficult to manage na i think something wrong with our work environment. Nalla adichuttu ivan romba nallavan nu sonnuthum (award kuduthathum) off agiduvom. Better do what you like even if it providing low income also it is fine. Finally it all boils down to individual and what one feels right
Hi ma.. why career break for 10 years.. job kedaikum but competetion adhigam ma.. u need to improve communication skill and too good in java , oops concept etc so easily u can get job .. keep applying for all fresher job in naukri.. all the best
Learn the latest technologies like the MERN stack, MEAN stack, or .NET Full Stack to improve your chances of getting a job. Without strong technical skills and practical knowledge, it will be very difficult to secure a position. Developing expertise in these areas will be highly beneficial for cracking interviews, especially for experienced candidates.
Edhu IT la mattum ella sis..I’m working in an Educational Institution..there are 9 colleges,PU and also a school..enga edhavida mosama erukku sis..working on sundays also..peariya problems yeannana joined as a graphic designer and working for documentation in quality team…😢
Hi akka ..na BE mudichuruken but velaiku anupala appa.. marriage panitaga...husband vegetable trader and 10 acres ku agriculture panrom.... my hus also quite job in IT .. agriculture pani land vagirukom vedu katirukom financially ok akka.. but some times enaku feel aguthu en kuda padichavaga IT la work panraga na family kaga velaiku pogalia nu kastama eruku akka.. relatives ore varthaila evlo padichu en velaiku pogala nu soliduvaga enaku kastama erukum akka..
hi dear.. i just read your comment .. there is nothing to worry.. velaiku porathu nalla vishayamthan ana its not permament happiness.. yaro oruthuvanga world trip porathukum avanga generation ku save panrathukum nama 10 hours workpanni tharanum. adhu thaan IT job.. so dont worry.. IT job pakka fancy ah irukum but attai poochu madri nama rathatha urunju thaan velai vaanguvanga.. padicha velaiku poga num nu onum avasiyam illai you can do something good for your family and generation.. you are BE graduate please learn advanced technology to improve you current agriculture business .. nearaya advancement you can implement in your current agri business.. if you are not satisfied with your current agri based business pls take decision on your desired profession and proceed it
Always male domination is there. I am also working in IT for 13 years and i also so honest and straightforward. If you don't get the right Manager as a leader than really very difficult to survive as woman in IT after certain experience. But what i felt as a woman we deserve better compare to male employee. Now also i am facing the situation but i have a good leader now. All the best for you
Great thanks for sharing the video at right time, I was expecting this only, if they targeted to corner they do continously, you made a wise decision.. They using our fear as weapon n treating and putting down us emotionally, all s passed now you have the wings to fly.. For sure u will earn more than this and also you stay with happiness, its no need to prove with any bossy sadist, our own n life and happiness is important.. They will get the pay for it from God or not, we need not to think about these idiots, you enjoy dear, very soon i will also take decision wisely..... All. The best to you both, i keep follow n support you
Now I am looking for job..if you wish I can join with you....for your future assignment......
Yes I accept your point
காசு இல்லாமல் பட்டினிகிடந்து சாவேனே ஒழிய யாருக்கும் அடிமையாக வேலை செய்யமாட்டேன் பல கோடி குடுத்தாலும் என்னை விலைக்கு வாங்கமுடியாது நான் சுயதொழில் செய்கிறேன் எனக்கு அடிப்படை தேவைகள் தவிர வேறு எதையும் விரும்புவதில்லை தனிஒருவனாக கஷ்டப்பட்டாலும் சந்தோசமாக மனநிறைவுடன் நிம்மதியாக வாழ்கிறேன்
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ellarukum appadi illa, inga service sectors IT, KPO, BPO mattum illana padichi mudichitu veliya vara ella enna pannuvanga?....
yaarum intha velai ellam rombo pudichi ellam seiyala, edho kaasu varuthu plus konjam benefits varuthunu than seiranga.
Enna thozhil sir
Ungalukku samabalam kodupangale adhu eppadi adimai aagum.
@@MCSPrakashV sambalam mattum than vidhyasam adimaithanathukum it kum, adharkaga vevveru agiduma?
Super you are sharing your experience,then only other all have same difficulty then they also know how to come out
That's why i switch companies every 2 years with 30 to 50% hike. Whatever she mentioned is 100% true. Never believe manager's and HRs. Learn skills and move out simple.
100% correct
This problem not only in IT in all works the same issue will be there if go to other job definitely you know that.... Anyways all the best for your future
Thank u very much
இரண்டு வருடங்களுக்கு முன்பு என் மனைவிக்கும் இதேபோல் அனுபவம் ஏற்பட்டது அவரும் வேலையை தூக்கி வீசி விட்டு வந்துவிட்டார் அப்போதும் கூட ராஜினாமா கடிதத்தில் அந்த டீம்லீட் பெண் தன்னை பற்றி ஏதாவது தவறாக எழுதி விட்டீர்களா என்று என் மனைவியிடம் பயத்துடன் கேட்டிருக்கிறார் எதேச்சையாக உங்கள் வீடியோவை பார்க்க நேர்ந்தது பலருக்கும் இது நன்மையாக இருக்கும் என்று நம்புகிறேன் இன்றும் இதைப்போல் எதிர்கொண்டு இருப்பவர்கள் இதுபோல இம்சை கொடுக்கும் ஈன பிறவிகளை துவம்சம் செய்து விட்டுத்தான் வேலையை விட்டு நிற்க வேண்டும் என்பதே என் எண்ணம்
21:51 Sis, you are a great leader. Thats why people around are suppressing you. Dont let anybody stop your growth. If You are a threat to senior folks, trust me you are a GEM. Not every company deserves you. You are a hidden GEM. Only a true great leader can hire you and enjoy your growth. Seek that great leader in your next job.
I am NOT able to relate any of this office politics and that too so many things is happenig In IT. The IT job i know is all about delivering to client satisfaction and with lot of pressure no one will be able to even think about doing all these petty politics. After looking at all the comments i feel there is so much happening around me in other people career.
Now i am able to realize I think i am really lucky to have a good career under multipleanagers who were treating me really really good and i have always stood for the people who were trusting me be it a junior most or the senior most employee.
I am in my 23rd year of service in IT.
You are a saint 😅😅😅😅
Hi.. you are very lucky... happy to know it...
I too worked with a real good boss but all of a sudden i was moved to different team...
FYI : i worked in client location (indian client) onsite for an year that was one most terrible experience.. i think ur clients are from western and europian countries. I will share video tomorrow..
Big inspiration video think you sister of sharing information abouts it completely
Useful video take care mam🎉
Good job mam continue spread awareness about how corporate treat and system suck people life
Sure sir.. i will
Akka take care of your health.. Karma is boomerang,, avangala god pathukuvar.. Very good decision ka,, ella edathulayum epdi nadakuthu,, avangaluku work mukiyam illa😢 kooja adikanum sombu thookanum athan mukiyam,, athu namalala mudiyathu❤
U guys look so cute together ❤, spend time with ur family, thats the real happiness
Hi.. thank u very much.. sure
You are a warrior akka.Thanks for sharing such cheap office politics with us. Avangalalam ennanu soldradhu. Health checkup panni nutrient deficient problem irundha sari panunga. Neenga unga bakery business nalla develop panunga kandipa successfulla varum. Take it slow and steady. All the best akka.
Thank u very much... your words are very much encouraging..
Hi ma. I am an ex bank Manager. Its a public sector bank. There too the situation is similar now. Even after 28 years of service i faced the same situation. So i resigned. As you said our mental and physical health is more important. All the best ❤🎉
Can u share your experience mam? i am preparing for that only it will be uselful for many of us
Hi mam.. thank you for your comment.. all these are personality issues.. we cant deal with mentally sick people.. we both took a good decision
I am also facing the same issue... 20 years service i have completed... Planning to get VRS
@@Santhos_vlogex bank employee ah bro ...if u can pls share your experience bro
This is my personal experience, I have worked both in Chennai and Bangalore but due to limited roles in the IT market Chennai IT crowd are more conservative and don't share their knowledge with their colleagues due to their job insecurity. But whereas I see little freedom and knowledge sharing with Bangalore crowd may be because of people coming there from different cultural background. Remember in any job the more you share your knowledge with others, the more you exchange ideas it will come back to you and you will be beneficiary. But many understand this in their late part of their career.
Is this true? Chennai work politics is worst. Never been in banglore... Planning to move there for job opportunities just for a change... Could you please share in detail
All of the issues are related to our mind only. Both working and self employed will have respective problems, not that one is better than the other. So, we need to change our perspective to have a strong mind and to have enough clarity in handling issues like these. Quitting is never the answer. We need to work on our minds only. If we say that we don't have time for anything, then we should do only self analysis for a period of time, probably write it down as a journal for say a month. This will create lot of self awareness within you and that will guide you correctly.
So u r telling Everytime it is only the victim who need to change the mindset ?
It's not that you are having different different issues that you are facing. If you can observe, there's a pattern in all of the issues you have faced. Which means, the same pattern is going to continue wherever you go, whatever you do. Bz, you are carrying your mind everywhere. So, unless you learn how to let go of your pent-up emotions, the same thing will definitely continue, but in a different scenario. Identify the way to work on your mind 1st. Then, even if you go to work again, you will know how to deal with everything.
Ok
So Priya you had been a fighter and continuing to be . Don't worry you will deserve good
Hi.. your comment is very encouraging.. thank u very much
எனக்கு தெரிந்ததை மற்றவருக்கு சொல்லி அவங்க பாதையை முன்னேற்ற வேண்டும் sister. வன்மத்தோடு இருந்தால் அவங்க நல்ல இருக்கமாட்டாங்க. இந்த விடீயோ பார்த்து நிறைய IT company high postla இருக்கறவங்க திருந்தட்டும். உங்கள் புதிய பாதையில் நீங்கள் முன்னேற இறைவன் துணை நிற்பார். உங்களுக்காக இறைவனை வேண்டுகிறேன் சகோதரி. வாழ்க வளமுடன் வளர்க நலமுடன்.
Hi mam.. thank u very much.. help pana manasu varala avangaluku.. ena anupanum nu than ellam panitu irundhanga
Hi Priya, We worked together at “P****n” about 5 years ago. So, I believe, you remember me well. I always admired you as a great HR professional. You were friendly, supportive, and brought such a positive energy to the office. It’s clear a lot has changed over the years, but stay strong. Remember, your health is most important, so take good care of yourself. Start focusing on a healthy diet, and I’m confident you’ll come back even stronger. Seeing you again in the video is great; keep sharing more!
Wishing you all the best for the future. Take care!
1.Pidikalai na yosikaama vera company switch agidanum. Pressure laye work panna koodathu. Work ah vida Family and health romba mukkiyam.
2.long travel en pannanum. Near by yethavathu veedu eduthu stay panlame
3. Ivlo kasta pattu 1L+ salary vara vanthutu business ah complete ah build pannama en job quit pannanum. Ipavm neenga vera job try panlam.
4. Double salary illama chennai and Bangalore la kids ah vechutu survey panna mudiyathu.
5. Kids ku ipove fees 1L na, think pannikonga future la evlo namma earn/save/invest pannanum nu.
You are such a lovable friendly HR .
Thank u santhosh.. how is ur family
Exactly explained 👌 true 100 percent
Wish you all the best...it is also in all departments.after 39 years of govt servicemy 20 years to 59 years my VR before a year of my actual retirement it is for my daughter delivery in abroad..i was remarked in last inspection not satisfactory....but i felt very glad with my grand child in abroad..
Now also leading my days ver very happily....so as per my consious and saved a lot so iam doing to charity a lot and very very happy......iduvum kadanthu pogum and all is well...god will surely give a better chance .
Hi mam.. thank u very much.. end of the day our happiness matters..
Our morals should be valued..you are right .. idhuvum kadanthu pogum
That confident at the end of video was 🔥🔥
Thank u dear
All the best👍💯.. I wish you to get success in your new role and in your business.. Thanks for the information. I am also an IT Employee.. I can feel your pain..
❤yes all field .i work private school.this same issue i face it so many times. But i am not worry about that. I take that issue is my experience.
More power to u
Yes all field I am also do same thing, more work less talk be careful in any field because sometime can be created problem in any field....
You are right
Health is very important, so we need to concentrate first on our health and family..... You might be facing some financial problems for the next 3 to 5 months........ Then you will manage it... Most of the office superiors act like this only.... Anyway, all the best for a bright future....
Hi thank u very much for encouraging me.. I am also worried about next 4 months.. but its ok all for good..
Great sharing, Akka!
We people forget ourselves and our family, just to be honest to the salary we get and for our own contentment that we leave no stones unturned in our work.
But what we secure finally is a bad name!
Bitter truth of work life!
But, I like your confidence and am sure you'll go a long way!!!
Yes.. i agree.. we put our entire energy and soul just to finish the work.. we are not valued..
We are accountable for the task without any crediblity
Hi Priya Varun, iam ur great fan, so open & very informative videos, so helpful & useful for all,
All ur wishes will come true very soon
Hi Priya,
Randomly saw ur video and its just a normal work culture now a days. What ever u have faced, have been facing. Just wanted to say , you have made a good decision. Health is priority and not money. All the best to both of you :)
Hi thank u very much.. pls switch to a new company..my personal advice
Iam also HR guy, My opinion u did change role fast. So u got good pack and also politics pressure. U can compare Dhanush puthupettai movie, he developed fast and problem, stress and survival issue. Currently most of girls and boys hesitate to take promotion, transfer, job role change. Bcoz of pressure of work, politics, type of collegue, some psycho Managers. Take a break and live for your life
Super akka ungaloda experience share panatha romba useful ah iruku
Best of luck for the new phase of you life mam
Thank u sir
Sister, I also finished PG WITH BEd also Mphil in physics worked in a reputed school faced lot of politics leads to stress . So i quitted. Now i am a homaker struggling for the next step ,...if possible help me sister... We will work together....Nice soul priya sister❤
Why not you start a company of your own since you both have a very good experience? People who are broken by the office politics may find it safe to work in your company?? It's not always about the salary, most of the employees wish to work in an environment which inherits a standard work ethics.
Hi mam.. we are planning the same..
You arw cent percent right
All d best sister❤ur husband is very supportive
He is good ma.. you are right
All the best akka ❤romba touching aaa eruku ungala pakkum bothu🥹 grow up 🎉🎉🎉
Thanks for sharing this. I can completely relate as I also just resigned. What next
Seeing this, I feel working abroad is much better. Very good work environment compared to what you say and also good salary. Better to move out if possible, work for a few years then settle back in India
Hi ya.. my husband works for europian boss.. I agree ur point ..
Can I have a chance @@itsyuvin
Hello no. American company here, product company thaan, it is not full of roses like you think. It really depend on how you handle it
Mam super . Video quality and sound quality kandipa increase pannuga apo tha successfullah views and subscribers gain panna mudiyum
Sure mam.. feb month i will buy new phone
No gender bias. Men also facing same situation. It's all about characters and handling people.
I have never received KT but I will teach my exp to all the teammates. This is how I respond. All the best
Neenga IT ku suitable person ila kudukara work a delay pani finish pananum entry level la irunthengaana jolly a irukalam but neenga nermayaa iruka patheenga atha ungaluku set agala so best next company la jump agi associate mari level la work panunga peaceful a irukalam
Rombha rombha correct
Hi priya, i just randomly got your video in my feed then i realised it's you. hope you know me ( Imran - BCT ) i wish all the best for your channal and future and your goal... keep going and rock 👍🏻
Hi Imran.. thank you very much.. happy to see your comment
Kids, overall health of our family is the most important for every woman. At some point we need a break from job and move towards our passion.
All the best 👍
Agree mam..
great video sis health is important
Thank u pa
The way you explaining with your signature smile was great...we may succeed or not what we focus to achieve but attitude matters in the whole journey.. good decision
Keep going with good thoughts all the best ❤
Best of luck for your new journey
Thank u sir
Hi sis , I am feeling same pain now, i have one year kid and she is with my mom c section and feeling depressed as not able to give my 100%kid and to do my desk activities in same ofc for almost 5.5years as there is no increment from almost 2years and struggling with my thoughts as one side emis one side kid and not able to share my feelings
Hi .. dont feel.. when my mom was alive she took care of my son very well.. you be happy that ur baby is in safe hands.. dont put yourself in inferior mode.. its very hard to come out of it..
Pls do some new course and move to new company.. or fight back and set boundary
Good luck of sister
Thank u for sharing🤝 ur experience madam. Don't worry. First focus on ur health. Kandipa assura valarchi adaivingaa vazhthukall 🫡 madam.
thank you for being honest, unfortunately this is how it works every where. better to quit and start your own business. Good luck!
வாழ்க்கையே போர்க்களம் வாழ்ந்துதான் ஆகணும்.
வாழ்க வளமுடன்.
Thank u sir
எல்லாம் உன் கட்டத்தில் உள்ளது எதிரி ஸ்தானம் வலுவாக இருக்கும் அப்படி நினைத்தால் மனம் பிறரை குறை காணாது
Yes I'm also facing same problem 😢😢😢 theirs stopped me interact with client and they intentionally moved bench because I'm not studied convent school they point my english level low not stylish and they not gave only one chance to me for proved myself but i knew it who i am😊
Hi dear.. dont worry.. try to move out of that company
All the best for your new beginning ❤keep going sis
Thank u very much mam
Mam i am working in small
IT company never tried for mnc.... working in home town only and preparing govt job by side what would suggest mam ,? Shall i try for mnc or govt job ? Which is better for girls ?
If you are very confident in clearing exam.. pls try govt job ma
@itsyuvin ok mam :)
Big great sister my dream of information technology company my dream my happiness life time big active
Great words take care yr health & family i am also working in job stress tension many
Thanks for sharing. This will give a idea for new joiners..
definitely you will grow high.
positive vibes created... wish you all the best..... give more...
Toxic work culture is high. Are Bengaluru salaries and work culture better than Chennai?
I have faced more politics than this. I couldn't do anything. I just quit my job. If we do anything against this, I think we only face more loss when compared to this big corporate s. Companies are responsible for this, and we can't do anything about this.
Very true.. we are locked with financial commitments
I also face same problem like u sis like cornering domination,partiality and no motivation😅.
Please leave that job.. vendam ma.. namaku than tensiom
Good decision sister. But I have one point power la erukavanga they'll do. We have to adjust or quit. How this is right for ourself. Defend Panama vandhuta regret adhigama erukum
Unhuman Act, and I am very shocked to hear that people behave like that. God bless you!
I have faced even worse situation
I will share soon
You both are worked as human resource
Priya you r kind hearted person❤
Thank u very much
New job join pandradhuku munnadi, Glassdoor la reviews padichitu pogalam. 2 per earn pannaa, oruthar quit pannalam. But innoruthar work panniye aaganum.
Yess... correct
Unga story kegum pothu
Apafiye ennaiye pargura mathiri iruku sister .
Sathiyama solluren
Neenha nampurathum nampathathu unga istam
I'm a private school teacher
2017 la marriage 2018 1st baby born (normal)but second baby ku romba struggle sister, school work pressure nu
Neenga sonna mathiri tha 1st baby delivery ku 1 1/2 year back same school la again work panna poren,
Athu tha nan panna very big mistake neenga solla ella issues nanum face pannen. I m from village, oor la ponnu pethuta en maganuku varisu venum talk nu poitte iruthu
Nanum 1st baby c section nu 2 yr break la 2nd baby ku
try pannen but no result
Nearly romba stress ah irunth iruken, my husband ethuvum sonnurathu illa, oru child ah pothum vidu feel pannatha tha support pannuvar. But surrounding people not bad
Oru stage la Dr kida poiten.
Romba kastam patten sis,
Oru vali ah nanum conceive aanen 2023 la apo parunga
Evalo 1st baby ku age gap
Neenga oru oru problem sollum pothum apadiye ennanaiye pargura mathiri iruku sister . Ur very great 👍🏻.
Nanum ungala mathiri tha RUclips channel run pannuren own business pannanum ideas iruku start panna kandipa share pannuren.
Thank you so much 😊 🙏🏻
Hi Mam..
Thank u very much for sharing..
Manasu kashtama than iruku sometimes.. all will be normal.. neenga own business pannunga.. i am planning to post all my steps to run a successful home business .. i will share lot of tips
@itsyuvin
Ok sis.
Thank you 👍🏻
@Shravaniartstudio ok ma..
Nan BE mudichitu IT job pogala mudichavudanae govt exam ku padika aramichutan ipo govt job vangitan aanalum en appa innaiku varaikum IT ku poirundha 1 lakhs salary vanguva ellathaium vitutu indha velaila irukanu kepanga😅 office normal ah podhu work pressure ila
Bangalore politics ellam peak la irukum. Bangalore not less in anyways.
Ennama ethaleyam oru probs ethavida perusalam nanga annupavathukonduthaerulirpm, nanga veedukku asaipodala child education poradrum. Ella job erkurathan. Night 12 &1 meeting join panna soluvanga..
My sister suffereing from severe neck pain and had operation since 3 months working in an IT job 😊❤ After operation too , she s severely suffering from neck pain . Even doctors told to quit the job . One of my cousins she s suffering from severe back spine pain . doctor told she can't undergo any operation because spinal issues can happen . She s daily having severe back spinal pain and she cant even continuously walk for half an hour 😊❤
IT job s ok but not appreciatable 🎉 Health is wealth 🤑 it spoils the health then whats the purpose of earning money ?
It is very simple ,earn money and give it to the hospital!
@@vigneshviswanathan7443 adhu ku earn panamale irukalam 😂😂 survival ku earn pandra profession choose pana podhum 😂 no need to dream of luxury lifestyle 😊 definitely not health sucking IT industry 😂❤
@@vv2262 exactly unfortunately Today everyone in the IT sector wants to live a luxurious life rather than healthy life!! Settling within the 40's ! Give up the money and insurance for the treatments! Am not accusing but this is the fact
Women's have more power ❤ Try to balance both ❤work and family 💗 let god's grace be with you 💝
Thank u very much.. means a lot
This is called harassment, you should have complained. Companies take this kind of acts very strictly.
This is very common problem in Indian IT industry.
Hi,
Good Morning!!
I think you are choosing a best option because may be you find your IKIGAI.. Naanum govt school tha so communication lam perusa irukathu.. Same i am also 13 years of exp in IT sector.. Currently working in TCS.. Work from home pannitu irukea.. Housing loan EMI irukara naala yelathayum poruthutu sari sari nu work panna vendiyatha iruku.. But oru nalla visayam yennana part payment la 70% of loans complete pannitea.. 2025 july la intha loan complete pannitu naanum yennoda IKIGAI nokki step yeaduthu vaika start pannuvean... ALL THE BEST.. 👍
True, Sir. Companies should change the way they treat employees from lowcost region. People will realize that they are being used and its not worth the struggle. They Will get the mentality of Western countries in no time.
My heartist wishes .. i think u have already found ur ikigai
@@itsyuvin Hi sir / mam,
No i am yet to find my ikigai.. I started looking opportunities and i want to do some services so the money will come as biproduct..
ctr+h- find and replace. how does it matter not to know?
While it's true that such knowledge is valuable, the tone might inadvertently overlook the fact that people learn different things at different times and may not prioritize shortcuts until they realize their value
There are few psychopaths in the name of a manager or team leader who think they know everything in technology. They try to showcase their knowledge to a weaker section of people.
Priya. Nanu uningaloda periya fan. Uingaluku nariya talent irruku. Enga neenga avanga position ha aduthupingalo nu avainga ippadi officela politics pandranga,simple. Nanum edey madiri face panni dhan discontinue panniten. ❤
Hi Swa.. happy to see your comment
Honestly speaking its not just in work.. Currently I'm in final year of engineering and as mine is an autonomous college the entire pass or fail control is there in the hands of my department HOD.. She is literally the crap I have ever seen in my life.. Being a girl who studied from the top schools of the city and I had even the class topper in my school days... But after getting into this cheap clg I have met all sorts of toxic snakes everwhere I see.. Uff! My cls advisor always used to corner me if I get to the cls a minute late.. My HOD had made so many arrears on me for no reason really... Oh god! Such a crap she is.. And the ranting will go on If I start to say mine... Women in all walks of life are facing so much due to the cheap mentality of such seniors.. In your case they are cornering you for not knowing english.. In my case he is cornering me as I speak better english than my class advisor...
Hi dear its due to mental illness ..they never letting anyone live peacefull life.. these people need mental treatment
Hi sis,
Will there be any pressure in scrum master role compared to programming role in It , if wanted to switch what should be done.
Of course, scrum and project management will certainly coordinate with many team members. So definitely politics will be there
100%
Hi.....My sister same issue in Hospital...He started to work after 10 years due to his marriage and childrens...Now noone is ready share knowledge and from both end same nurses are telling why you coming to job without knowing all things...She have only 3 months experience in job after 10 years of studies.but i dont people are not understanding and no one is supportive in any organization for freshers and juniors...they are thinking paying from their pockets...HR is ready to hire and organization ready to pay....but their employees doing this politics...Now she left the job due to this politics....In Aravind Eye hospital,Coimbatore.
You are absolutely right.. i missed to share the same thing .. they all feel they are paying from their pocket.. full of ego and dont want anyone to learn and grow.. its because they are insecured about their job...
IT evana adichu olela podrathunu tha paapanga sis.. ennaku oru senior irrundha Avanga veetla vasathila kidaiyathu govt. School tha padichurukanga avanga appa daily wage painter oh driver oh I forgot exactly.. Ava talent la tha andha position ku vandhurukanga I respect.. ana Naa Anga irruka kudathunu enna pootu padu paduthuva paarunga same condition Naa tha pannedrathu senior ku poga kudathu..they gave 3 task for the day out of which one is very tough other person working in the team said this take 3 long days for me complete y they gave u that idk.. avaluku Naa panlanu nirupikanu enna Anga irrundhu kelapanu athu tha motive.. ipudi tha it later spoil pannuvanga.. jalra adikanu oruthangala oruthanga maati kudukanu apo tha Anga survive aga mudiyu IT la
100% right.. pure personal ego.... pls move from their.. they are parasites
This type of environment exist in every department
Correct
Job vitutengana epd home loan interest panuvenga? Home loan mudunja?..
Homeloan innum 23 years ku monthly 25,000 pay pananum pa..
I already did baking business .. ipo adhu pani i can earn..
(baking business income pathi video potrukan ma free time la parung)
It is not worth sister. Rendu per work panna kuda difficult to manage na i think something wrong with our work environment. Nalla adichuttu ivan romba nallavan nu sonnuthum (award kuduthathum) off agiduvom. Better do what you like even if it providing low income also it is fine. Finally it all boils down to individual and what one feels right
Super sister, I am also do same thing, Nan yarrukum adimai illai, than kaiyei thanaku udavi. More politics in my office.
Enaku oru doubt nga.clear panunga please.2014 passed out BE graduate.apro naan job pokala...ipo java course learn panre.enaku job ketaika chance irukaa.honest answer solunga plz.enaku romba ve usefull ah irukum
Hi ma.. why career break for 10 years.. job kedaikum but competetion adhigam ma.. u need to improve communication skill and too good in java , oops concept etc so easily u can get job .. keep applying for all fresher job in naukri.. all the best
@itsyuvin thank u ..after marriage i couldn't continue.
Learn the latest technologies like the MERN stack, MEAN stack, or .NET Full Stack to improve your chances of getting a job. Without strong technical skills and practical knowledge, it will be very difficult to secure a position. Developing expertise in these areas will be highly beneficial for cracking interviews, especially for experienced candidates.
@@DhanamRaghu14 thank you for your information
@@pratheebam6918 you're welcome
Edhu IT la mattum ella sis..I’m working in an Educational Institution..there are 9 colleges,PU and also a school..enga edhavida mosama erukku sis..working on sundays also..peariya problems yeannana joined as a graphic designer and working for documentation in quality team…😢
You can try for Technical writer position in Software companies.
Not only in work place even relatives same type....
Don't worry ma.first important your health.neenga nalla irundha dhan baby ya care panna mudiyum.nimmathi romba mukiyam.vazthukkal.
Ok mam sure .. ipo health than focus pani irukan
Yes you are correct sister.
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Hi akka ..na BE mudichuruken but velaiku anupala appa.. marriage panitaga...husband vegetable trader and 10 acres ku agriculture panrom.... my hus also quite job in IT .. agriculture pani land vagirukom vedu katirukom financially ok akka.. but some times enaku feel aguthu en kuda padichavaga IT la work panraga na family kaga velaiku pogalia nu kastama eruku akka.. relatives ore varthaila evlo padichu en velaiku pogala nu soliduvaga enaku kastama erukum akka..
hi dear.. i just read your comment .. there is nothing to worry.. velaiku porathu nalla vishayamthan ana its not permament happiness.. yaro oruthuvanga world trip porathukum avanga generation ku save panrathukum nama 10 hours workpanni tharanum. adhu thaan IT job.. so dont worry.. IT job pakka fancy ah irukum but attai poochu madri nama rathatha urunju thaan velai vaanguvanga.. padicha velaiku poga num nu onum avasiyam illai you can do something good for your family and generation..
you are BE graduate please learn advanced technology to improve you current agriculture business .. nearaya advancement you can implement in your current agri business.. if you are not satisfied with your current agri based business pls take decision on your desired profession and proceed it
I was reading book called business etiquette...it was about manners in office but what u said is straight opposite..
Simple.. They dont want to know the meaning for etiquette ..
U r right mam....i think only in india office politics is at peak...
Always male domination is there. I am also working in IT for 13 years and i also so honest and straightforward. If you don't get the right Manager as a leader than really very difficult to survive as woman in IT after certain experience.
But what i felt as a woman we deserve better compare to male employee.
Now also i am facing the situation but i have a good leader now.
All the best for you
Hi mam.. I request video about financial plan , housing loan information.. Savings for kids education.. Best wishes for decision🎉
Sure mam.i will post financial plan soon.. pls give me a week time
Akka great joke ...i was repeatedly watched 20 times that clip...anna was not expected that joke. It is a really great fun.😅😅😅🎉🎉😂😂❤ .Keep rocking.