Why Ween's Birthday boy is the perfect sad song

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  • Опубликовано: 5 окт 2024
  • I talk about something dear to me
    Songs in order of appearance:
    Ocean man
    Gabrielle
    Jailbreak (Thin Lizzy)
    Slow down boy
    Everybody wants to rule the world (Tears for fears)
    Ween - Baby bitch (live)
    Ween Birthday boy (live)
    Don't look back in anger (mtv acoustic)
    Birthday boy ween
    Waveshaper - You are the end
    Binding of Isaac - hereafter
    Please support those people

Комментарии • 106

  • @WarforParadise
    @WarforParadise 3 года назад +138

    Ween is the most underrated band of all time. Every Album that they have made are all true masterpieces.

    • @spaceKadz
      @spaceKadz Год назад +1

      I wish I could buy the CDs, but they're $15-$40 lol.

    • @cannedsas
      @cannedsas 4 месяца назад

      I personally wouldn’t call Pure Guava or La Cucaracha a masterpiece

    • @vivimos_en_una_sociedad7758
      @vivimos_en_una_sociedad7758 2 месяца назад

      ​@@cannedsasthat's cause you're a braindead tool

  • @johnschnettler1236
    @johnschnettler1236 Год назад +41

    This song is actually about Gener’s girlfriend before Sarah, Barrett Christy. If that name doesn’t sound familiar, she’s one of the most accomplished professional female snowboarders of all time. Way to go Gener, Barrett was a babe!

  • @rettymartinez
    @rettymartinez 2 года назад +33

    Finding a 12 minute video about my favorite song is the best thing that could've happened today

  • @ReneSkunk777MC
    @ReneSkunk777MC 4 года назад +88

    You're absolutely right. Ween doesn't get enough credit that they deserved and I extremely agree with you. Any person who listens to "Ocean Man" and just "Ocean Man" is (I guess) missing out their repertoire.

    • @milkpants
      @milkpants  4 года назад +9

      Oh totally but I'm glad it's there at least, ocean man is a great way for somebody to have their curiosity peaked just enough for them to explore the band. Realistically it's their only commercial hit top so for alot of people it may be the only gateway.

    • @MeanManu
      @MeanManu 3 года назад +4

      WEEN is god !!!! ... actually Boognish is God !!

    • @bustedxpils1288
      @bustedxpils1288 Год назад

      Crazy they made that song I didn’t know till today 😭

  • @TouchDirt
    @TouchDirt 3 месяца назад +3

    My now wife flew with me out to Oregon to see em play a few years back. She'd never seen ween before and had never seen me cry before, that changed real quick as soon as Birthday Boy started.

  • @eequalsmc4614
    @eequalsmc4614 3 года назад +23

    Birthday Boy is perfection

  • @malwre_android1617
    @malwre_android1617 3 года назад +33

    Wow. Listening to Birthday Boy without that *deep fried* amp noise for the first time was very strange.

  • @eddiedingle767
    @eddiedingle767 Год назад +12

    Birthday Boy got me through a big breakup. It hits me deep

  • @rts45hardison62
    @rts45hardison62 5 месяцев назад +3

    Weens song The Argus pulled me out of a Coma I had been in for 17 days.

  • @area51l
    @area51l Год назад +6

    Another key part of the raw emotion is not just in the lyrics, but in the delivery. The way Gener has this sort of pain and whininess to his voice... you can FEEL it. And the way the notes descend during the "I'm going down" is such a beautiful example of word painting - when the music reflects the literal meaning of the lyrics.

  • @cannedsas
    @cannedsas 4 месяца назад +2

    Gene’s performance of Birthday Boy on their final show before the band’s breakup is gut wrenching.

  • @ianblackburn2645
    @ianblackburn2645 3 года назад +20

    When cup man started playing I thought I clicked a different video by accident

  • @thehonorablereverendaddiso1943
    @thehonorablereverendaddiso1943 4 года назад +52

    GodWeenSatan is my first and favourite album by Ween. They may have made better, or more tight albums after this, but it holds too great of a spot in my memory to be knocked off this ranking. Thank you so dearly for this

    • @milkpants
      @milkpants  4 года назад +6

      Hey man of course, I realized there just weren't many song analysis videos on ween at all on youtube and I wanted to have at least one on one of their flagship songs. Thank you for watching

    • @thehonorablereverendaddiso1943
      @thehonorablereverendaddiso1943 4 года назад +3

      @@milkpants Np, Dudemang

    • @shartbake1134
      @shartbake1134 3 года назад +1

      I love Pure Guava

    • @nyancat7053
      @nyancat7053 2 года назад +1

      @@shartbake1134 The pod is way better htan Pure guava (In my opinion

    • @seacrawlerrecords623
      @seacrawlerrecords623 Год назад

      It's gotta be The Pod or Chocolate & Cheese for me

  • @tunedime
    @tunedime 3 года назад +32

    Tried and true is fire aswell

  • @rowecofilms6788
    @rowecofilms6788 Год назад +5

    Birthday Boy always gave me a very Guided By Voices vibe

    • @oggymation3875
      @oggymation3875 3 месяца назад

      yess! very reminiscent of “smothered in hugs” in my eyes another song that destroys me

  • @rustorian
    @rustorian 11 месяцев назад +6

    Love this song. Birthday Boy, it got me through a breakup which took place right what do you know right before my birthday. Ween was one of the few bands I could listen to without thinking about her because she never liked them. So I was listening to GWS and that song came on and hit me right in the heart.

  • @malwre_android1617
    @malwre_android1617 3 года назад +32

    "Conveying the emotion of crying, conveying the emotion of being at your lowest, conveying the emotion of being a disorganized mess because your world is crumbling about, is not easy to write down because you can't write it down in the moment (...) To convey such an emotion through writing, let alone sound, is a pretty tall order in it of itself"
    You perfectly described why me and many others love Weezer's Pinkerton. It's such an emotionally raw album, where Rivers' personal life was crumbling around him: relationship issues, trouble with his bandmates, depression and loneliness, physical pain (due to the recovery from surgery on his leg, which had him record with needles sticking through it), it all leaves with an album that, at first glance, seems like a typical "Tfw no GF" album, but when you get deeper into it, you feel Rivers' pain and emotion running through every track (specially in my two favorite moments of the album, "Across the Sea", where being at the bottom of the barrel, he recieves a letter from a fangirl, and clings onto its affection for dear life as the only light of his existence; and "Butterfly", where he looks back at the album, and all the people he has hurt due to his selfishness and his misery, and apologizes to them and himself).
    I know this is a video about Ween, and I thank you for covering what's easily the best song in this insane record, while also tackling why it's the best song, something I could never truly put into words.

    • @WellfullyAw
      @WellfullyAw Год назад

      Pinkerton is an amazing record

  • @DingaLingu
    @DingaLingu 7 месяцев назад +2

    Ween has so many biblical and esoteric messages and themes hidden in their poetry its magick

  • @DankBlastBeats
    @DankBlastBeats 2 года назад +9

    Ween - The best band you've never heard of.

  • @comicmischief3548
    @comicmischief3548 5 месяцев назад +6

    Noel Gallagher did write don’t look back in anger and all the other oasis songs. Liam Gallagher is the main singer. That is one of the few hits that Noel sang, I understand it’s confusing with them being brothers. No hate I love ween! Great video.

  • @VX-3000
    @VX-3000 Месяц назад +1

    Dude, what a great breakdown. I've found my way back to this song a few times, and always at poignant ones -- there's something almost frantic or manic in its nearly subdued (albeit busy) presentation, almost like speaking through white noise or "echoing" from a void where no sound can be returned. There's something so raw and tragically real about that, but you'd have to go through it in your own life to know it. And just the sheer confliction and confusion in the lyrics alone... I'd put this up there with anything from 'Blood on the Tracks' as one of the greatest heartbreak songs ever.
    Check out the Elliott Smith and Mary-Lou Lord live cover :)

  • @afxmnstr
    @afxmnstr 3 года назад +10

    12 country greats is a powerful breakup album.

  • @ChingoChango
    @ChingoChango 3 года назад +11

    a song born from true sorrow... how can you not love it!

  • @NipplesOfDestiny
    @NipplesOfDestiny 2 месяца назад +1

    My top Ween songs agter listening for 20 years (excluding hits)
    1) Movin' away
    2) Big Jilm
    3) Object
    4) Ice Castles
    5) Spinal Meningitis

  • @Outliers4Life
    @Outliers4Life 2 года назад +6

    this song gives me the same feeling that Self Control by Frank Ocean does. Its guitar driven and very minimalistic. and the lyrics are not triumphant at all. beautiful shit. also love how Baby Bitch references this song. gotta love when artists do that.

  • @jergenx
    @jergenx 2 года назад +4

    I had these emotions when I first heard it too, thanks for putting words to it

  • @eggie6417
    @eggie6417 9 месяцев назад +2

    I got emotional whip lash when I first heard Birthday Boy, in a very goofy album, it was weird hearing a very slow and melancholy song

  • @22zanners
    @22zanners Год назад +1

    Got to hear it live in Madison last week, I cried a little.

  • @chumlife
    @chumlife 8 месяцев назад +2

    4:56 That's Enough, Milk Pants.

    • @milkpants
      @milkpants  8 месяцев назад +1

      Sorry.

    • @chumlife
      @chumlife 8 месяцев назад +1

      @@milkpantsShhhhhhh. Baby's Sleeping.😮‍💨😮‍💨

    • @milkpants
      @milkpants  8 месяцев назад

      🤐@@chumlife

  • @stitchball3698
    @stitchball3698 10 месяцев назад +1

    Goddamn. When that binding of Isaac track hit I fell in love man, favorite game of all time with my favorite band. Keep up the great work

  • @maroonmousep2345
    @maroonmousep2345 10 месяцев назад +1

    always wondered why i could hear echoes at the end

  • @LunaCypher334
    @LunaCypher334 Год назад +1

    Thanks I love your look on this song! It's meant a lot to me, even more because there was a gwar cover of it, and gwar was a band my early 20's heartbreak person liked as well. It's crazy how personal it feels to me, but you're right it's a in-the-moment heartbreak that so many people can relate to, and that's what makes it such a great song. On my way to listen to it now, but I saw your video, thanks for making!

  • @anthonybernero9720
    @anthonybernero9720 Год назад +3

    This song relates to any broken relationship. But for me, my best friend told me that he didn't want to be my friend anymore. Coincidentally, this was also on my birthday, close to two years ago, now.
    He broke my heart, man. And it still hurts so goddamn much.
    I saw Ween last week in WI, (celebrating my birthday) and they just had to fucking play it, didn't they. People were all around me slow dancing n shit, and there I was in the center, just sobbing and crying my eyes out. I broke down again when they played Fluffy at the end. It was so powerful, and it brought up the same emotions. It wasn't until later that I learned it's about Dean's dog who is no longer with him. But that night, it was about my dawg who is no longer with me.
    I know that I should call him, but I don't know what to say. And I'm afraid of what he will say.
    It just really, really sucks, y'know?

    • @milkpants
      @milkpants  Год назад

      Thanks for sharing, songs like this can be really impactful to an individual and it's always nice seeing what it means to different people.
      But if you're still contemplating calling them, I think you should, life is too short for words to go unspoken, and rejection, while unpleasant, lasts but a moment.
      Cheers!

    • @anthonybernero9720
      @anthonybernero9720 Год назад +1

      @@milkpants Thanks, mang.
      I don't think I have any more tears to shed, what have I got to lose?
      I'll call him this weekend.

    • @milkpants
      @milkpants  Год назад

      @@anthonybernero9720 I'm glad to hear, I hope all goes well!

    • @vivimos_en_una_sociedad7758
      @vivimos_en_una_sociedad7758 2 месяца назад

      ​@@anthonybernero9720get trolled

  • @triton199
    @triton199 2 года назад +2

    You've earned my subscription with this one. Ween is criminally underrated and there are almost too many songs that exemplify just exactly why thats the case. I dont know of any other band that has the same kind of range as ween in terms of being genre and topic spanning both lyrically and stylistically. From a song about Argus Panoptes of greek mythology, to a singalong about cocaine and bananas, to the auditory madness of morning glory. not to mention geners crazy vocal range and abilities, from freedom of 76 (the jane pratt show version is fantastic) to the live versions of someday and touch my tooter, to tried and true or object. and Deaner is imo the greatest guitarist alive. you cant watch the live DVD solo from buckingham green and not see that the dude is unbelievably talented.

  • @carolineday1481
    @carolineday1481 2 года назад +4

    How the fuck did I find my exact fucking niche u captured it so well

  • @Sleeveusalone
    @Sleeveusalone 2 месяца назад +1

    WEEEEEEEEEEEEENNN!

  • @yomamapie5807
    @yomamapie5807 3 года назад +8

    I love ween...
    I'm not a pothead though.

    • @Denimchicken.
      @Denimchicken. 3 года назад +5

      Just mushrooms? Or what 😂 just playing

    • @dougyuck
      @dougyuck 2 года назад +4

      you don't need drugs for 48 hour ween discography binges. ween IS the drug

  • @jasonlovell3685
    @jasonlovell3685 3 года назад +4

    Great vid dude, deserves way more views

  • @scherryvalentine9673
    @scherryvalentine9673 11 месяцев назад +1

    There is Ween coloring book out there somewhere and one of the pages is Birthday Boy with Gener in a birthday hat with stomach wide open and guts falling out. It’s not as disturbing to look at, as this description sounds.

  • @chaosofthegalaxy3094
    @chaosofthegalaxy3094 3 года назад +2

    Damn I saw your Todd Alquist video and now this looking for Birthday Boy. Subscribed :)

  • @newjerseychungus
    @newjerseychungus 4 года назад +6

    ok this is facts

    • @milkpants
      @milkpants  4 года назад +2

      Husker poo watched one of my videos? Based

  • @invertedcrown
    @invertedcrown Год назад +4

    paaaain!

  • @shartbake1134
    @shartbake1134 3 года назад +9

    I listened to birthday boy while coming down on mushrooms and it felt like it took 3 hours for the song to finish.

  • @MeanManu
    @MeanManu 3 года назад +6

    Nice breakdown, this song always tears me up

  • @SpiraltTheOne
    @SpiraltTheOne 4 года назад +4

    i love ocean man

  • @thejamnasium6447
    @thejamnasium6447 Год назад +4

    I wrote Birthday Boy for ya babe

  • @di55olve
    @di55olve 2 года назад +2

    I’ve been listening to this song for at least once every day now and man it gets better each time

  • @InAtlasAtLast
    @InAtlasAtLast 7 месяцев назад +1

    Great video!!!!

  • @scherryvalentine9673
    @scherryvalentine9673 11 месяцев назад +2

    I think Elliot Smith may have covered this song.

  • @구아바-w4u
    @구아바-w4u 3 года назад +5

    Jesus you explained it the exact way I do

  • @sgt.purp1e
    @sgt.purp1e 3 года назад +3

    All Hail Boognish

  • @erinp1081
    @erinp1081 Год назад +1

    I agree with your assessment . Also though, if you could save yourself.

  • @KellerTheKiller
    @KellerTheKiller 3 месяца назад +1

    I like the live version more

  • @pizzatime8773
    @pizzatime8773 3 года назад +10

    it wasnt sarah he broke up with he got with sarah during pure guava

    • @milkpants
      @milkpants  3 года назад +2

      Oh shit ur right

    • @KingBoner
      @KingBoner 3 месяца назад

      might have been Nicole

  • @VoodleBand
    @VoodleBand Год назад +2

    Pain !

  • @rollamcnut
    @rollamcnut Месяц назад

    Ween is powerful, Birthday Boy is proof. The Boognish provides.
    Now do The Argus

  • @arareanddifferenttune3130
    @arareanddifferenttune3130 Год назад +1

    Hail Boognish

  • @Chiddyboo12
    @Chiddyboo12 Год назад +1

    The first time I heard Baby Bitch I thought it was Elliott Smith.. Felt like a dipshit when I found out it was Ween.

  • @punpunpunyama9271
    @punpunpunyama9271 3 года назад +5

    judging by your thoughts on birthday boy i have a feeling you'd like daniel johnston's music

    • @milkpants
      @milkpants  3 года назад +5

      Yes I am an avid Daniel Johnston listener, it's brilliant

    • @radiognomeinvisible
      @radiognomeinvisible 11 месяцев назад

      @@milkpantsListen to Ed’s Redeeming Qualities. Drivin on 9, Buck Tempo, More Bad Times… make sure you listen to the ones sung by Dom Leone.

  • @malice4422
    @malice4422 5 месяцев назад +2

    It will be my birthday in 3 hrs, my ex and i broke up 3 weeks ago, but she just texted me essentially asking if the breakup is permanent and shes kinda going crazy wanting me back one day, or at least in her grasp. Im so tired of the push and pull

    • @milkpants
      @milkpants  5 месяцев назад +1

      Only you can make that choice, but it sounds like you wanna move on. Happy birthday.

  • @tylerstetsko8147
    @tylerstetsko8147 4 года назад +4

    Nice.

  • @ClimekCrap
    @ClimekCrap 3 года назад +3

    Nice channel man, keep it up

  • @BoneDaddy69420
    @BoneDaddy69420 3 года назад +8

    ween is such an amazing band, and they don't get nearly enough recognition for how great their discography is and how much versatility they bring to their sound.

  • @C.SchitzPopinov
    @C.SchitzPopinov 2 года назад +5

    You really got to work on mixing audio evenly.
    It’s hard to get into this when I have to keep turning up and down the volume.

  • @RichardBuzzy
    @RichardBuzzy 11 месяцев назад +1

    Volume switches are very jarring in this vid

  • @pubuapubua
    @pubuapubua 7 месяцев назад +1

    Birthday boy was the sadest song of my life. My girl went of to college and i stood around with my thumb in my ass. But what i get from this haunting melody is hope; hope that i too could find a way to be a non-dipshit...

  • @danielgourdikian7263
    @danielgourdikian7263 3 года назад +3

    great video

  • @Mithrandirtheillest
    @Mithrandirtheillest 3 года назад +2

    great vid thanks

  • @anthonybernero9720
    @anthonybernero9720 Год назад +1

    I don't understand why the first thing everyone mentions is Ocean Man.
    What's the deal with Ocean Man?

    • @milkpants
      @milkpants  Год назад +2

      I don't remember my mindset at the time but it's just their most commercially popular song, it wasn't super well known when it came out but it was used in the 2004 spongebob movie. Spongebob's creator Stephen Hillenburg really liked Ween, he has said "The Mollusk" album which ocean man comes from was a great inspiration for spongebob overall.

  • @lobot1000
    @lobot1000 10 месяцев назад +1

    Where did you draw the parallel between slow down boy and tears for fears?

  • @christiangasior4244
    @christiangasior4244 11 месяцев назад +1

    Bizarre audio

    • @milkpants
      @milkpants  11 месяцев назад +1

      Honestly thats a kinder word than I'd use, iirc I only had a laptop mic at the time and didn't sound mix.

  • @StONed-yx5qq
    @StONed-yx5qq 6 месяцев назад +1

    WEEN has no sad songs…..