chit chat grwm- answering "cheating" questions

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  • Опубликовано: 18 ноя 2024

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  • @Alexis-dy5lh
    @Alexis-dy5lh Год назад +516

    It clears things up. Her and Collin were emotionally detached and she was honest with him when she started getting feelings for someone else. I wish she would open up about her new Romantic chapter!

    • @BellaSwan881
      @BellaSwan881 Год назад +20

      She said she is NOT romantic in this video. Listen carefully

    • @jellyballoo
      @jellyballoo Год назад +19

      @@BellaSwan881she said “I’m a hopeless romantic and I need to have a romantic connection”

  • @Theebre
    @Theebre Год назад +254

    You and niki seem like you’re going through similar things but in different ways. It’s so interesting to watch you both grow with these situations. Continue. There’s always more stuff to learn about yourself ❤️

  • @SteffieeGee
    @SteffieeGee Год назад +111

    Seems like two people who loved each other but grew apart and wanted different things. Glad you both were in the same mind frame and we’re able to end it amicable. Being honest and ending things is hard, but better than dragging something on that wasn’t going to work. Thanks for your honesty ❤

  • @Crackpeas
    @Crackpeas Год назад +78

    I love those chit chatty getting ready vibes!! Especially from Miss Gabi DeMartino who causally parties with Paris Hilton. You’re living the 00s it girl dream and you need to document it for us 😭

  • @brittb610
    @brittb610 Год назад +31

    At this point, Gabi is living her best life, making decisions for herself and having fun. She been through so much so can people just leave her alone and let her be. Love ya

  • @feleciacollie9661
    @feleciacollie9661 Год назад +22

    Proverbs 3: 5-6
    Trust in the Lord with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding.
    In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths.
    Look to God Gabi and follow His will for your life not how you think it should be or go because sometimes we as humans follow our flesh and not God. Love you ❤Gabi ❤

  • @maryana19812
    @maryana19812 Год назад +126

    You said so much but so little at the same time. 😂

    • @Qtmars666
      @Qtmars666 Год назад

      Have u checked ur hearing lately?

    • @maryana19812
      @maryana19812 Год назад +6

      @@Qtmars666 You’re talking to me because?

  • @emilyyyy1133
    @emilyyyy1133 Год назад +113

    Gabi, I’m so happy for you…thank you for being honest and I’m so happy you have finally accepted yourself and it doesn’t matter what other people think ❤🌈

    • @Gabi_DeMartino
      @Gabi_DeMartino  Год назад +26

      🩵🩵🩵 thank you for your understanding! 🌈

  • @NISHXO
    @NISHXO Год назад +15

    Man things are really never what they seem. That’s why ppl gotta be there own goals in relationships.

  • @mariannaaapp
    @mariannaaapp Год назад +72

    I literally love Val so much her energy is everything 💕

  • @kindastressed2329
    @kindastressed2329 Год назад +27

    I guess she basically states she never cheated, she just lost feelings for Collin, and they both moved forward. She never really clearly explained if she has feelings for someone else but I guess that’s personal for her. 😅

    • @Viviana1caraveo
      @Viviana1caraveo 11 месяцев назад +2

      What I got from this is that her and Colin both experimented while being together, so had an open relationship?

    • @moonlite2456
      @moonlite2456 7 месяцев назад +1

      she emotionalley cheated she fell for johnny when she was with collin.

  • @inner_smile
    @inner_smile Год назад +13

    I would really love to see a video on how you cope with being non traditional but hopeless romantic at the same time. I mean would you still get married in the future? Would this be a monogamous or open marriage? Etc...

  • @thesmartlifee
    @thesmartlifee Год назад +75

    Love how open and honest you are with us! I know that must not be easy with so many judgmental people out there, but it definitely helps the real ones be authentic with themselves as well! We love you girly!! ❤ Oh, and I love how personal Hevean is and what it means to you. ❤❤❤

  • @kylieruth16
    @kylieruth16 Год назад +167

    "heaven is about what it is" very thorough explanation lol

  • @Stephanie-px5jf
    @Stephanie-px5jf Год назад +338

    Everything seemed to be just fine until Johnny boy came along..🤷🏻‍♀️. just sayin.

  • @shanna6605
    @shanna6605 Год назад +24

    This was such a good sit down and chat video, you look so pretty and hearing you open up about everything is refreshing just to know others aren't alone in certain situations. You are so strong emotionally and mentally and physically you truly are an inspiration to so many 🩷

  • @TealleMadelaine
    @TealleMadelaine Год назад +141

    Everyone is right in their own eyes. These are the times.

    • @brookefesta
      @brookefesta Год назад +13

      Well said

    • @YukiYu-vl4hh
      @YukiYu-vl4hh Год назад +3

      Careful. Shes going to shadowban you for telling the truth. Notice how the comments are all positive, and the negative ones mysteriously disapear.

    • @itsmiah2you
      @itsmiah2you Год назад +8

      @@4LY554God’s real name is Jehovah, Jesus is his son. His name is recorded many times in the Bible but they took it out.

    • @englishteacher7032
      @englishteacher7032 Год назад +13

      Then said Jesus unto his disciples, If any man would come after me, let him DENY HIMSELF, and take up his cross, and follow me.

    • @carlatinaschannel
      @carlatinaschannel Год назад +1

      @@4LY554well if your a Christian you would you know that God is Jesus. The trinity - three in one God,Jesus and the holy Sprit. God is Jesus and Jesus is god :)

  • @nyahg6808
    @nyahg6808 Год назад +15

    val asking if you were singing the lyrics is SENDING MEEE

  • @roccoteixeira4199
    @roccoteixeira4199 Год назад +1

    i love Val she seems like such a fun friend and such a good genuine person

  • @ashleykeith7878
    @ashleykeith7878 Год назад +22

    Thank you for this. This is a conversation that should have happened awhile ago, but it’s understandable to take your time with it.

  • @HG-jx2jj
    @HG-jx2jj Год назад +16

    Val seems so kind and reassuring ❤

  • @rei0fsunshine790
    @rei0fsunshine790 Год назад +37

    ugh I hate the way all the hate and drama has made you so closed up. Ive been watching you for so long and as an older viewer (23) I would love to hear more about your sexuality and navigating an open relationship etc etc. I just want more grown content.

    • @ayeitslexiemail
      @ayeitslexiemail Год назад +2

      OLDER lmao wtf are we old now? I’m 25, also how old are her viewers ?!!

    • @marte-matheakatib6836
      @marte-matheakatib6836 Год назад +3

      ​@@ayeitslexiemailI am "older" 28, and gabi and nikis same age.

  • @PagesAndPolish
    @PagesAndPolish Год назад +46

    I’m really glad you cleared this up as the song definitely makes it sound like you were cheating.
    Good for you for having clear and open boundaries within your last relationship. That’s healthy and I wish you the best in the future ❤

  • @tina42595
    @tina42595 Год назад +23

    Gabi your life your choices we wish you THE BEST for you and Collin. We love you both. 💕

  • @IsabellaJones-bk1rt
    @IsabellaJones-bk1rt Год назад +31

    You deserve the world gabi❤😊

  • @pearlymoon_3903
    @pearlymoon_3903 Год назад +20

    “is that the lyrics” val is so real for that LMAO

  • @TheSweetForever
    @TheSweetForever Год назад +6

    okay but 9:07 to 9:12 made all the sense in the world and it's beyond true. Happened in my last relationship. An emotional connection is top priority to me.

  • @jadeweston5836
    @jadeweston5836 Год назад +2

    Gabi.... you are you. you are a beautiful person. you are inspirational. Just be happy. we got you

  • @amberking9697
    @amberking9697 Год назад +25

    Heaven is eternal life with Jesus Christ

  • @mckenziejeanne4508
    @mckenziejeanne4508 Год назад +39

    So is Gabi saying she’s polysexual/prefers to be in a relationship with multiple people at once? I’m confused.

    • @ai437
      @ai437 Год назад +8

      lmaoo I think so 😂😂

    • @Vgs183
      @Vgs183 Год назад +2

      Polymourus not polysexual

    • @alexaaugeri1819
      @alexaaugeri1819 Год назад

      She said pansexual. That she was once in an open relationship in the past. Nothing about preference!

    • @Mamabear001
      @Mamabear001 Год назад +14

      I wish I knew what she was saying 🤣🤣 I didn’t get anything from it I’m still confused 😂😂😂😂

  • @seriouslyskylartv6789
    @seriouslyskylartv6789 Год назад +23

    Collin will find love soon for sure

  • @hannekevervaet5222
    @hannekevervaet5222 Год назад +8

    Valerie is so supportive. Love the love you have for eachother.

  • @mandapark7042
    @mandapark7042 Год назад

    awwwe knowing that gabi is pan just like me and super girly warms my heart, i’ve never had a girly pan girl to relate to

  • @angelicadavis8396
    @angelicadavis8396 Год назад +7

    I support you so much Gabi! I’m so happy for you and wish you the best. Living your life how you want is the only way to live. 💕✨

  • @BakerHeidi
    @BakerHeidi Год назад +7

    Thank you for opening up!! You keep doing you boo 🩵
    Close minded people are missing out on life

  • @BrookeClark
    @BrookeClark Год назад +9

    I'm mesmerized by the way you do your eyeliner lol

  • @sashabuck9919
    @sashabuck9919 Год назад +6

    Your so inspiring to me you have been for the past 7 years you’ve helped me through a lot it’s amazing how far you’ve come 💗

  • @cianaalexandria8974
    @cianaalexandria8974 Год назад +14

    girl bye cause if that’s how you really felt then you guys wouldn’t have even got engaged 🙄 you threw your relationship in everyone’s face & now you wanna say you weren’t happy

  • @alexaray2960
    @alexaray2960 Год назад +8

    Yyyaaaasss Gabi own your truth baby girl the real people who love and respect you will respect your views and choices ❤❤❤

  • @kitrose6027
    @kitrose6027 Год назад +6

    Gabi I have followed you and Niki since I was literally a kid and I’ve grown up with you and Niki basically being like the sisters I never had so I just wanted to say thank you for being you and open and honest

  • @sophieroe6797
    @sophieroe6797 Год назад +12

    this vlog is so wholesome 🥺🤍✨ congratulations on your new single!!!

  • @beyou2133
    @beyou2133 Год назад +9

    You're genuinely inspiring, thank you for sharing. x

  • @frosting6439
    @frosting6439 Год назад +5

    YES do some ASMR. I already find your voice relaxing.

  • @rebeccamcauley4549
    @rebeccamcauley4549 Год назад +12

    Amazing to have this update GRWM! Hope that you are okay Gabi. Cannot believe some people would think you wpuld cheat. This will hopefully put that to bed. As your true fans know you wpuld never. I always enjoy your vlogs. ❤❤

  • @aryxn0
    @aryxn0 Год назад +7

    This was really eye opening. Thanku for sharing and its tbh also inspiring in taking important life decisions ❤

  • @ronnie-lynn
    @ronnie-lynn Год назад +10

    I was also pansexual and as my relationship with God grew my sexuality changed. That’s just my personal experience, what God called me to do! I too was not traditional in my last long term relationship, very open and now I’ve been single for 3 years and I am so happy/content in my singleness! ❤

  • @ellafaie
    @ellafaie Год назад +3

    yess pls do a glam asmr !! love heaven btw

  • @ellagibbons6210
    @ellagibbons6210 Год назад +3

    Gabi, you're incredible! I'm so happy for you and cheering you on always! Congrats on Heaven and the party looked amazing! :)

  • @dearconspiracy5504
    @dearconspiracy5504 Год назад +11

    “textbook christian” u mean the bible? 😭

  • @sannicelesteobsidian4325
    @sannicelesteobsidian4325 Год назад +2

    Wooow 🥹 TRUEEEEE loveeee. I didn’t know what that’s look like before now, but for two people to want each other to be happy and fulfilled as much as they want it for them selfs. That’s so beautiful

  • @catherine4286
    @catherine4286 Год назад +13

    A diamond tester for rhinestones? LOLOL

  • @LiamN407
    @LiamN407 Год назад +2

    Yes!!!! GABI!!! Always here to support !

  • @nikih.4009
    @nikih.4009 Год назад +6

    My god, I support you in all your ways❤

  • @danicafaerie
    @danicafaerie Год назад +6

    i laughed so hard when val randomly was like “WHAT IS LOVE!” 😂😂

  • @gngariana
    @gngariana Год назад +3

    I love heaven sm u did such a good job 💗💗

  • @janellerod4865
    @janellerod4865 Год назад +4

    Your makeup looks so beautiful Gabi 😍❤️

  • @nityanair3720
    @nityanair3720 Год назад +3

    Gabi u r just so genuine ❤

  • @pyaaratfirstspice
    @pyaaratfirstspice Год назад +1

    Your makeup and hair HERE!!!😳😳😳😍🤯🤯🤯🧸🙏🏼

  • @mariainman3618
    @mariainman3618 Год назад +1

    Great explanation ❤.... I'm glad you and him can remain friends

  • @roccoteixeira4199
    @roccoteixeira4199 Год назад

    you johnny and val seem like the best friend group

  • @katybachman8921
    @katybachman8921 Год назад +3

    Gabi can you please list the makeup products you used?

  • @Qtmars666
    @Qtmars666 Год назад

    I am understanding her clearly, if you are not, ur not suppose to be here, go be hurt somewhere else and maybe work on yourself first

  • @elenaocean5232
    @elenaocean5232 Год назад +5

    YES do more asmr PLEASE

  • @Ahmad67475
    @Ahmad67475 Год назад +13

    The whole look looked so good ❤

  • @menamiaxx
    @menamiaxx Год назад +5

    Love you Gabi🌸❤️❤️

  • @mari-en4uk
    @mari-en4uk Год назад

    Your makeup is so pretty!!! Its giving barbie doll, too cute🩷🩷🩷

  • @itskate2991
    @itskate2991 Год назад +5

    Something about her was looking alot like Niki to me in this.

  • @VicTrifoli
    @VicTrifoli Год назад +20

    What happened to Gabi's dog?

    • @mckenziejeanne4508
      @mckenziejeanne4508 Год назад +4

      She gave him to her parents IIRC.

    • @VicTrifoli
      @VicTrifoli Год назад +2

      @@mckenziejeanne4508 oh. Hopefully she makes time to visit him I'm sure he misses her.

  • @niharikasunil2220
    @niharikasunil2220 Год назад +7

    absolutely love your videos gabi❤️❤️

  • @viysal
    @viysal Год назад +1

    i wish i’d find someone i could be completely open with like that

  • @natalielexington1832
    @natalielexington1832 Год назад +4

    I thought they were not diamonds, why does it come with a tester?

  • @yokohimekosophia4106
    @yokohimekosophia4106 Год назад +6

    Gabiiiii!!! Thank you for this video! I think it’s very important to talk about these things (pansexual girlie in a polyamorous relationship -and engagesd- here) because it makes it less taboo! I do understand the religious aspect but honestly, live your life girlie! ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @caeseymay
    @caeseymay Год назад +13

    I absolutely love you but I feel like you’re not in the best place atm 🥺 I hope you’re okay x

    • @Gabi_DeMartino
      @Gabi_DeMartino  Год назад +6

      i am doing great! i feel free from being what others want from me and i feel like i'm embracing who i am to its fullest. 🤍

    • @Gabi_DeMartino
      @Gabi_DeMartino  Год назад +8

      if i seem sad it's definitely from fear of others opinions but i should not care haha

    • @Shelby5683
      @Shelby5683 Год назад +1

      We love you Gabs. Here until the end ❤

  • @courtpotter611
    @courtpotter611 Год назад +3

    I completely identify with you. I am not a traditional person at all. I get it!

  • @faithcook6310
    @faithcook6310 Год назад +3

    I appreciate you and love you so much gabi!! Forever a fancy baby!🩵🩵

  • @jaliliahlogan3346
    @jaliliahlogan3346 Год назад +1

    every time I hear your song it makes me happy and I wish I could meet I love watching your vlogs and you are a good person and I love you gabi 🥰🥰🥰

  • @roccoteixeira4199
    @roccoteixeira4199 Год назад

    i love your song heaven i listen to it all the time 🤍👼🏻

  • @JackieWyers
    @JackieWyers Год назад +1

    the hair looks amazingggg. You & Val are so cute!

  • @femalehokagee
    @femalehokagee Год назад +25

    I’m genuinely asking.. so you emotionally cheated¿ I love your videos and I grew up watching you

    • @AshtenArmstrong
      @AshtenArmstrong Год назад +11

      Her and Collin had an open relationship. So there were certain boundaries that we’re set up in their relationship. She started getting feelings for someone else, so she told Colin right away and they ended their engagement. So maybe what they did wasn’t technically emotionally cheating or at least not what they consider to be emotionally cheating.

    • @inner_smile
      @inner_smile Год назад +5

      What I kinda get from the song plus this video is that she maybe was "allowed" to sleep with another person since their relationship was open. Then she developed feelings for this person and told Collin, then they ended it on mutual terms. This or maybe just feelings and not sleeping with this other person...

    • @nickih1307
      @nickih1307 Год назад +6

      Same thing Niki did to Nate. That “somebody else is keeping me up” was Jules

    • @femalehokagee
      @femalehokagee Год назад +1

      @@nickih1307 dang

  • @theigtofficial01
    @theigtofficial01 Год назад +2

    Beautiful gab! ❤Thanks so much for your review, Loooove!!!❤Real life angel🥰

  • @mabrypage3645
    @mabrypage3645 Год назад

    Can you give advice on how to begin an open relationship without letting jealousy take over?

  • @stavrianileonti9108
    @stavrianileonti9108 Год назад +2

    Hi Gabi! Sending love from Cyprus ❤️🇨🇾

  • @beeondo444
    @beeondo444 Год назад +3

    Was it helpful that you and Niki went through break ups around the same time?

  • @cassiearcaro
    @cassiearcaro Год назад

    loving the new single and this vlog. 🌸

  • @courtneyspanagel8056
    @courtneyspanagel8056 Год назад +1

    Always stand in your truth gabi 🫶🏼

  • @itsmilena_
    @itsmilena_ Год назад

    I love “Heaven” so much 🥹❤️

  • @Ana.Perez4
    @Ana.Perez4 10 месяцев назад +1

    You and Nikki are confused you guys need GOD… that’s heaven

  • @StellaR-s8x
    @StellaR-s8x Год назад

    Love you Gabi your the best!🤍

  • @AngieOchMelody
    @AngieOchMelody Год назад +1

    LOVE YOU GAB❤️

  • @beanslush9785
    @beanslush9785 Год назад

    love u gabi!!

  • @Kymmrodri12
    @Kymmrodri12 Год назад +2

    Obsessed with your song 🎧.. so angelic and dreamy.

  • @Peanutbutterloverr
    @Peanutbutterloverr Год назад +2

    Beautiful song, beautiful person. You have inspired me to put myself first. It can be hard sometimes. Some days are not very glamorous but it is worth it in the end. Sending you love❤

  • @shamrock4054
    @shamrock4054 Год назад +9

    Gabi what happened to Nash and Ally?

    • @Gabi_DeMartino
      @Gabi_DeMartino  Год назад +4

      nash moved away and allie a full time mama! just life

  • @ejr7155
    @ejr7155 Год назад

    Luve you Gabi!!

  • @Qtmars666
    @Qtmars666 Год назад

    We need a video with Val!!!♡♡🤍🤍

  • @ritaferradeira6201
    @ritaferradeira6201 Год назад

    PLSSSS do a ASMR grwm!!!! love uuu

  • @lanijay8782
    @lanijay8782 Год назад

    You put eye liner on soo easily! 👏

  • @AngieNic
    @AngieNic Год назад +32

    I mean I just think it’s still shitty that you basically chose fame over someone who would do anything for you. You always made it seem like it was Collin’s fault. But as the year went on it was clear you just wanted to be famous and he was “holding you down.” That dude did a lot for you.

    • @indigonirvanasubliminals1261
      @indigonirvanasubliminals1261 Год назад +5

      She chose her dreams and her heart women have to do that more and support women when they do 🙄

    • @AngieNic
      @AngieNic Год назад +11

      @@indigonirvanasubliminals1261 so because I’m a woman I have to support what every woman does ? You’re telling me you’ve never had a friend in your life, a family member that’s a woman, who did something that you did not agree with ? I have a best friend who has made decisions that I have not agreed with. People are allowed to have their own opinions. What does gender even have to do with it for someone to have an opinion anyway ?🙄

    • @Saintchloe
      @Saintchloe Год назад +6

      @@AngieNicyou’re too involved in her life. She did what she thought was best for her! Wether you agree with it or not.

  • @zoembutlerr
    @zoembutlerr Год назад +1

    fancy vlog days >>

  • @Sofancykelly
    @Sofancykelly Год назад

    Angel 🪽🤍 love your wings !