Lover I Don't Have to Love - Bright Eyes [lyrics]

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  • Опубликовано: 4 апр 2009
  • Lover I don't have to love, by Bright Eyes.
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  • @DesireandLoss92
    @DesireandLoss92 12 лет назад +6

    I remember listening to this constantly in eighth grade, and totally falling in love with this brilliant man.

  • @hannahk6530
    @hannahk6530 9 лет назад +16

    2:46 about breaks my heart every time

  • @thefilthyhypocrite
    @thefilthyhypocrite 12 лет назад +12

    Your life has to hit a new level of darkness to fully appreciate this song.

    • @laurakae1007
      @laurakae1007 Год назад

      Couldn't agree more!

    • @TAREEBITHETERRIBLE
      @TAREEBITHETERRIBLE 6 месяцев назад +1

      *funny because that's exactly where Im at n this is the song I was looking for. Funny how we can search for and find things we didnt know existed but are a perfect fit*

  • @thegaybookpixie
    @thegaybookpixie 8 лет назад +30

    I've been seeing this girl for almost two months and she's obsessed with Bright Eyes.
    So she told me to listen to them and...fuck I'm in love.

    • @OctoberCountryy
      @OctoberCountryy 6 лет назад +1

      Noodle Doodle :3 she is gonna need you if she is obsessed with bright eyes

  • @KiaraLioness
    @KiaraLioness 10 лет назад +13

    I think it's more complex than that. It seems more like he wants all the good stuff you get from a relationship and being in love without the pain afterwards.
    I don't know, that's how I interpret it.

  • @SLisica08
    @SLisica08 12 лет назад +2

    Love the voice, the tune, and above all, the "I wanna boy who's so drunk..." It's rare to hear a guy sing that these days :)

  • @summerblack314
    @summerblack314 10 лет назад +42

    I had a friend who took these lyrics to heart

  • @DistortedFaiths
    @DistortedFaiths 7 лет назад +1

    Conor's voice comforts me. Makes me feel at home. I am like this...

  • @lizorea8498
    @lizorea8498 11 лет назад +1

    wow this just song just floods my mind with countless amazing, emotional memories and experiences i had last summer...

  • @sunshine_zombi
    @sunshine_zombi 14 лет назад +1

    I think I'm in love with this song....it's been a week since i discovered it and I love it with an addicting passion. Amazing...

  • @holipinieo1
    @holipinieo1 10 лет назад +4

    He said it at his own concert, it's about one night stands.

  • @HanCritchfield
    @HanCritchfield 13 лет назад +2

    This song is amazing. It makes me feel lifeless, though.

  • @deartabbie
    @deartabbie 11 лет назад +1

    This song is so great and haunting....

  • @heartsandothertoys
    @heartsandothertoys 12 лет назад +3

    my favorite part is "love's an excuse to get hurt. and to hurt. do you you like to hurt? i do, i do. then hurt meeeeeeeee."

  • @likestakingpix
    @likestakingpix 14 лет назад +1

    I love this song, it really speaks to me

  • @Timothy1987
    @Timothy1987 2 года назад

    Whoever wrote this is a lyrical genius

  • @pikeypoke
    @pikeypoke 7 лет назад +28

    this song reminds me of being a confused 14year old . good times lol

  • @BraveAsTheyCome
    @BraveAsTheyCome 7 лет назад +1

    There is something so chilling about this song.

  • @ChannelAndressa
    @ChannelAndressa 10 лет назад +1

    omg so poetic and dramatic. i love it

  • @AllieeNB
    @AllieeNB 12 лет назад +1

    My great musical taste brought me here, as well... & my great musical taste kept me here too.

  • @princemalmberg6123
    @princemalmberg6123 12 лет назад

    Awesome song! Love is a balance of hurt!

  • @shelbycarter191
    @shelbycarter191 9 лет назад +14

    Honestly the story of my life tho

  • @nevvereverr
    @nevvereverr 12 лет назад

    love this, absolutely love this.

  • @SmileForPink
    @SmileForPink 14 лет назад

    Beautifully said... and really sad! Thank you so much :D

  • @kimmiefbaybhee
    @kimmiefbaybhee 12 лет назад +1

    i LOVE the beat in this song.

  • @ayatrashid2464
    @ayatrashid2464 10 лет назад +1

    I love this song so much!

  • @MasterKaiserKing
    @MasterKaiserKing 13 лет назад

    I L-O-V-E love this song. And video just makes it even better.

  • @dahviesGirl16
    @dahviesGirl16 12 лет назад

    this song is amazing

  • @evemmaret
    @evemmaret 12 лет назад

    This song beautifully portrays how I feel these days.

  • @mimikki12
    @mimikki12 12 лет назад

    Thanks Anthony!

  • @MylOVe4022
    @MylOVe4022 12 лет назад

    I cannot get enough of this song

  • @laurakae1007
    @laurakae1007 Год назад

    Anyone listening in 2023? This song will never get old 😌💕

  • @communistdaughter4985
    @communistdaughter4985 2 года назад

    My fav song currently

  • @alvarezdaniel
    @alvarezdaniel 8 лет назад

    Perfect song

  • @sunshineandgraveyard
    @sunshineandgraveyard 12 лет назад

    LOVE THIS :)

  • @ChippyAndBucky
    @ChippyAndBucky 13 лет назад

    This is my first time hearing this and it's actually pretty good ,it's so literal

  • @TortureMeMore
    @TortureMeMore 14 лет назад

    im actually choking back tears, this song is so amazing
    :(
    :)
    ?

  • @deathcabforkatyy
    @deathcabforkatyy 11 лет назад

    First bright eyes/ conor song i ever heard !

  • @breezygurl9297
    @breezygurl9297 12 лет назад

    y do i love this song :) i love bright eyes :)

  • @JJKKBFF
    @JJKKBFF 12 лет назад

    i like this song ;))

  • @justcallmegrayson
    @justcallmegrayson 13 лет назад

    omg so catchy O.O

  • @4n4Me
    @4n4Me 13 лет назад

    Unfortunately, I cant thumbs u up but YEAH!! Anthony Padilla brought me here!! :DDD
    I loved this!

  • @R0CKiNRAQU31
    @R0CKiNRAQU31 12 лет назад

    This song is rad!

  • @KirstynAlmquist
    @KirstynAlmquist 12 лет назад

    My sister

  • @FourtyFourAirwaves44
    @FourtyFourAirwaves44 12 лет назад +2

    My great musical taste brought my ass here.

  • @lollypop1051
    @lollypop1051 14 лет назад

    @YeuxEnCristal very good explination i know wat he feels! x

  • @letusbelennon
    @letusbelennon 11 лет назад

    Omg now I'm just sobbing.

  • @SoWrongItsJennifer
    @SoWrongItsJennifer 12 лет назад

    This song reminds me of Brand New's "Sic Transit Gloria... Glory Fades".

  • @Alicia0Cramel
    @Alicia0Cramel 11 лет назад

    I found this song on a video and I really love this now that I hear this~

  • @heinzunkrautundkraut3063
    @heinzunkrautundkraut3063 9 лет назад +1

    These are my favorite Bright Eyes/ Conor Oberst Songs (in alphabetical order). What do you think?
    A scale, a mirror and these indifferent clocks (Fevers and Mirrors)
    Hit the Switch (Digital Ash in an digital Urn)
    I must belong somewhere (Cassadaga)
    I will be grateful for this day (Noise Floor and Rarities)
    Ladder Song (The Peoples Key)
    Landlocked Blues (I`m wide awake it`s morning)
    Lover I don`t have to love (Lifted or The Story Is in the Soil, Keep Your Ear to the Ground)
    Method Acting (Lifted or The Story Is in the Soil, Keep Your Ear to the Ground)
    The Calender hung itself (Fevers and Mirrors)
    We are nowhre and it`s now (I`m wide awake it`s morning)

  • @NordLyssa
    @NordLyssa 12 лет назад +1

    I just want to hold hands and enjoy someone's company, without it becoming a relationship. I want a lover I don't have to love.

  • @zoexanaxx1
    @zoexanaxx1 12 лет назад

    I haven't heard this song in years 3

  • @ruezter
    @ruezter 12 лет назад +2

    this is some real, honest shit. C'mon

  • @holipinieo1
    @holipinieo1 11 лет назад

    That's what the song is about, one night stands.

  • @ashhughey70
    @ashhughey70 8 лет назад +2

    this song reminds me of the song used in the game One Chance

  • @all-time-tacos2440
    @all-time-tacos2440 10 лет назад +29

    this kind of sounds like frank iero to me idk

    • @Julie88C
      @Julie88C 7 лет назад +2

      true. two amazing artists

    • @takeshelter5313
      @takeshelter5313 7 лет назад

      all-time-tacos not even close? this came out before mcr released they're first cd

    • @allyalyce999
      @allyalyce999 7 лет назад +1

      This is what Frank would sound like if he could sing a bit better

  • @pyrricloser4203
    @pyrricloser4203 6 лет назад +1

    Goddamn, Bright Eyes is awesome! This son is emo as FUUUUCK.....I dig it

  • @BeatDemon08
    @BeatDemon08 11 лет назад +1

    But you write such pretty words..

  • @cabjdavid
    @cabjdavid 11 лет назад

    this is a solid pop song, i'm down

  • @MCRKilljoy4Life333
    @MCRKilljoy4Life333 12 лет назад

    I sing this song day after day in hopes that someday I may too have a lover I don't have to love...

  • @BrightEyes10003
    @BrightEyes10003 12 лет назад

    @AyameSekine123xxx that is one way to think about it, but you shouldn't speak as if you're certain. Every song he's ever written can be interpreted many different ways, which shows what a great songwriter he is

  • @killblock540
    @killblock540 10 лет назад +1

    I am not the only one who listens to this when they can't talk to a certain girl. I wish I could read minds, I would choose that over flying or being strong.

  • @AyameSekine123xx
    @AyameSekine123xx 12 лет назад

    It's about how his fans connect to his music.He goes up to a girl after a show, he complements her and it leads to casual sex. Neither of them want more than just sex. "You write such pretty words." She says to him. "But life's no storybook." He says back. He's just trying to say that even if his songs are emotional and can be related to, he doesn't care about her.

  • @indesisivelove
    @indesisivelove 12 лет назад +1

    "loves an excuse to get hurt & to hurt. do you like to hurt? i do! i do! then hurt meeeee"
    i used to be that girl that was too sad to give a fuck and now im here almost again. >.

  • @exposedreality9122
    @exposedreality9122 7 лет назад +1

    this song is weird but I like it

  • @abigailras
    @abigailras 12 лет назад

    makes me feel cold to even listen to it.

  • @morganvanvalkenberg6064
    @morganvanvalkenberg6064 11 лет назад

    a vans commercial!!!

  • @abales93
    @abales93 13 лет назад

    @YeuxEnCristal no it's not actually, it's about his life and how it's treating him but not necessarily the loveless sex

  • @ohmyitsdanielle
    @ohmyitsdanielle 12 лет назад

    @ReallyRandom82 I was that way when I was 12 too and now i'm 17 and nothing changed

  • @shootmewithawatergun
    @shootmewithawatergun 11 лет назад

    see, we had a project in english where we could teach a poem to the class and he said songs could be used, and I always wanted to do one of bright eyes' songs, but they sound so lovely and perfect that i forget what the literal words are :I

  • @xxLOVEisJUSTaGAMExx
    @xxLOVEisJUSTaGAMExx 14 лет назад

    maybe its just me but this song is so depressing :L i love it though :] xxxxxxxxxxx

  • @jonathan0berg
    @jonathan0berg 11 лет назад

    They have a few happy songs. Every now and then everyone has a good day or two. just not today. or tomorrow.

  • @Vanessalovesbooks
    @Vanessalovesbooks 11 лет назад

    Life's no story book.

  • @LoveyouAdamLambert
    @LoveyouAdamLambert 12 лет назад

    Now when I read the lyrics..I know why Queer as Folk took this Song for this special scene ^^

  • @BrightEyes10003
    @BrightEyes10003 12 лет назад

    Not that it matters if he's bi or not, but on one hand he writes songs do that ANYONE can relate to them. At a live show i saw I remember he sang "she wants a boy who..."

  • @MrFranciscoV1916
    @MrFranciscoV1916 9 лет назад

    my life in a song..

  • @YappaAJ
    @YappaAJ 9 лет назад +4

    This song really helped me... (Not.)Yesterday my boyfriend broke up with me he asked if we can be friends i was balling my eyes out of course but i said yes i had know him for a while... This is my second breakup and geez these really hurt! Right now i told my friends i am not texting for two days so i am waiting till sunday actually to get some space. I have too many little things to remind me of him... He got me a necklace. I HAVE to keep that. All over my stuff it says H+G everywhere so i crossed it all out and i have letters everywhere i hid them in a box so i don't have to see them... I think i'm going to keep distance for a while... Because he said he was going to do something on the last day of school i thought it was a kiss or just holding hands for the first time or a kiss on the cheek. I think i was the breakup he made me cry twice i took the blame because i loved him.. Our relationship lasted for 4 months... I asked if he regretted dating me he said yes. I think every I love you was a lie.... His words cut my heart in half spilling my feelings everywhere. I don't know what i'm going to do next year PLUS i have a hecka bunch of photos of us on my phone and hes in my grade and he sits at our table.... He has been hanging out with another girl and i asked he said he didnt like her but this happend 3 times and i got jelous i told my friends and they just said she wouldn't wouldn't steal him... One of my friends got mad and started to yell at me for this...

    • @Fuckthishurts
      @Fuckthishurts 9 лет назад +2

      Yappa AJ It might seem really bad right now and it's such an overused phrase but time will heal your wounds. From the sound of it you're still pretty young and everything is much more intense when you're that age and it might seem as if you will never get over it but you will eventually.

    • @YappaAJ
      @YappaAJ 9 лет назад +2

      Thanks i have gotten over it already it's behind me and now i'm staying with working on school i am waiting for a boyfriend ^_^

    • @x46andtwo
      @x46andtwo 8 лет назад +1

      Should listened to 'its cool we can still be friend' instead.

  • @IdiotFriend28
    @IdiotFriend28 12 лет назад

    The truth is its much more fun to have a secret crush all to yourself then to actually be in a relationship. I want a lover I don't have to love -3

  • @ouinoelle
    @ouinoelle Год назад

    Damn

  • @xMsPlague
    @xMsPlague 12 лет назад

    I still fucking love this song-3

  • @Zumehh27
    @Zumehh27 12 лет назад

    I want a lover I don't have to love..
    Love's an excuse to get hurt.
    Hurt me..

  • @DrFrank1e
    @DrFrank1e 11 лет назад

    He's taking the chemicals to Isengard.

  • @KakashiHatake2121
    @KakashiHatake2121 12 лет назад

    I do, I do.

  • @SmileForPink
    @SmileForPink 14 лет назад

    Can anyone tell me what this song is about? I love it! Please and thank you! :) It's probably obvious, like I know they were making out and didn't know each other, something about drugs, and being masochistic. But is there another meaning? I just love this song so much that I'm dying to know! :D

  • @huts02
    @huts02 13 лет назад

    @OfficialNijai whyy did antony bring you here?:O

  • @rayy__7630
    @rayy__7630 7 лет назад +1

    i seen this on tumbr for a killing stalking playlist.

  • @HorridDespicableThing
    @HorridDespicableThing 12 лет назад

    Am I the only one that listens to this when I feel like being sad and shit?

  • @x46andtwo
    @x46andtwo 8 лет назад +1

    Do you like to hurt? I do, I do, I do.

  • @nnightightdevil505
    @nnightightdevil505 12 лет назад

    @wish2goback same here

  • @ooooo00000
    @ooooo00000 14 лет назад

    Thats the comment of the track.

  • @smileasyoukilll
    @smileasyoukilll 12 лет назад

    THE OC

  • @UniverseRainbowLGBT
    @UniverseRainbowLGBT 11 лет назад

    cats are cute

  • @annaavny6239
    @annaavny6239 10 лет назад +2

    My fucking theme song :)

  • @isetmfriendsofire
    @isetmfriendsofire 14 лет назад

    i like it through the beginning, but once the 1st chorus hits, I just can't listen 2 the rest.

  • @smakeout
    @smakeout 11 лет назад

    @caleb2426 I also listen to this when I feel like being sad and shit.

  • @ash-kink1618
    @ash-kink1618 7 лет назад

    'Then hurt me' at the end should be, "What about me?"

  • @Ploysomething
    @Ploysomething 12 лет назад

    I want to drown myself in this right about now

  • @KirstynAlmquist
    @KirstynAlmquist 12 лет назад

    I brought myself here.

  • @billkaultiz1
    @billkaultiz1 12 лет назад

    its about haveing sex with out really being in love useing sex to make your sadness vanish.because to hurt people can make hurt feel good.

  • @DementisVenustas
    @DementisVenustas 11 лет назад

    That's pretty much why Conor Oberst exists.