@@manveenkaur219 Yes. I have been to a few and they have been elegant with extraordinarily stunning dresses, gorgeous decorations; this production won't even come close in elegance. From start to finish it is vulgar. Yes, Indian weddings are normally extremely expensive, but they need to look elegant. At the weddings I attended the brides were breathtaking and this one? Chunky jewellery, cheap gowns...not good.
@@manveenkaur219 I understand and I agree. Even if I were wealthy enough to afford such things I could never spend that type of money on frivolous items. I have a strong social conscience and money could be used elsewhere.
All things aside, her mum tried her best to please her with all the duties she was tasked, but that bratty as feck tantrum at the end was unwarranted, yuck.
vvmm she wasn't being that bratty I'm Indian and that is NOT what a sari looks like it did actually look ugly compared to the really pretty ones you can find in india
@@meecahrachel4315 The repetition of "this is not a wow outfit" in the whiny tone is what makes her sound bratty. In that moment, she sounded like a pre-teen throwing a tantrum. I agree with her, I just think she could have communicated her disappointment in the one outfit better considering ALL of the other things that her mom did that she seemed pleased with. *Edited for spelling
@@meecahrachel4315 She mixed sari with dress, and that was not wow enough for the daughter. Instead of saying thank you, the daughter acting like a baby. Then why don't she order and custom her dresses and all of thing by herself? The venue decoration, the invitation, the indian ceremony dress, are pretty choices and she likes it. Because only the last dress that she don't like, she's ungrateful with her mom effort.
@@meecahrachel4315 Im indian as well but still the mom did so much for that daughter she should have just sucked in and wore the dress or told the mom politely that she did not like the dress. There was no need for her to act like a five year old and be so disrespectful.
The only reason you think that way is because its not everyday that you get your reactions to your parents or anyone taken on a video :P you probably may have reacted the same way at some point in your life.
People have their own taste. Sometimes they don't like elegant or classy thing but prefer cute looks. My friend wedding with all pink concept, maybe that was too much for me, but for her it's her dream.
To each its own. Don't like any of the gowns, not even Indian ones. Mom's taste is not very refined. I've seen Indian wedding gowns that are sooooooo stunning.
The bride allowed her mother to organise her wedding but throws a fit when she doesn't like something? Okay... Why not just wait another half year so you can help plan the wedding? Just saying..
Hey I am from India...and the last outfit...she can get way better sari...and what she is wearing doesn't look line one tbh..2nd outfit can also have been done better...both the outfits she chose doesn't look good..there are many beautiful bridal lehengas over here..
I am in Western Canada, so there are many Indo-Canadians (from India) and the Sarees, lehengas and gowns are truly stunning as well. This entire production from decor to dresses is awful.
Love how it's trying to set up the mom as a controlling Mozilla, when she's literally done everything so her daughter can do well in school. Maybe plan better if you don't want your exams to be right before your wedding. And then out of left field our "sweet and helpless" bride goes full bridezilla.
As far as I could see. neither had any taste. The wedding dress was a corset with an organza flower skirt. The wedding decor looked like a bottle of Pepto-bismal exploded. The lehenga looked cheap, and sorry, not a sari. I don't think either won any prizes for filial or maternal love. Spending ridiculous amounts of money isn't love.
Firstly, that last outfit was not a saree by any means! And the price of the Hindu ceremony dress is way too much! You can buy such dress at 300$-400$ in India (although there are much better options available).
Sorry, but that lengha (crop top and skirt) looks so bad. I don't understand the purpose of that weird off color belt on it. That last outfit was definitely was not a sari. Both of the looks are so outdated and cheap looking tbh, i don't get how she went all the way to India and came back with this costume looking nonsense. With that budget she could've easily gone to a top Indian designer. Everything she got is so tacky.
She tried that's the most important thing, mom era and daughter era is alot of difference in style. I feel sorry for the mom, i wish my mom cud do those things for me. I wud appreciate everything, wud enjoy laying back watching. Those who have that kinder moms dont appreciate them atall. Even if i didnt like the outfit i wud wear it. And saris can tie differently just change it around.
Not your money, huh? Celebrities spend much more for a casual outfit, not a wedding day, but we so love to comment ordinar people's choices even if they earn much more.
In her case very expensive (for false jewels) but what it conveys... something else I say. Indian weddings can be so magically beautiful. I saw no poetry anywhere.
The lehenga, the saree and the jewelry suck. Hideous! There are many many stores of Indian designers in the US. They look loaded, they could have very well gone for a Sabyasachi.
Exactly my thoughts! If you've got 5L to spend on a lehenga, the least you could do is spend it on a Sabyasachi. I absolutely love Sabyasachi's designs!
True, if they are spending so much.. They could have gone with the designers... Coz our esteemed designers do justify all the traditional outfits- that's what we get to see in the fashion shows!!! That would have been money well spent.
As an Indian myself, there was absolutely nothing traditional about this entire video, EXCEPT the task of an overcaring mother taking charge of her daughter's outfits.
This daughter is a ungrateful brat. She knew her Mother would look after everything and she still had the audacity to treat her with such disrespect. Phew, if she can find a husband there's hope for everybody.
What choice did Mom have? The bride wasn't putting forth anything to help, just went to school and expected Mom to do everything else. The wedding should have been postponed until she could do her own shopping, or be happy with someone else's version of perfect.
For all the people defending what the girl did, lashing out at her mom, stop. Her mom took her all the way to India, picked out all these pretty custom made dresses, AND did all of her wedding planning, which is what SHE was supposed to do. And she made the invitations for her, which would probably take a LOT out of her moms pockets. Not to mention the dresses and decor she bought for the wedding. And the flight to India. If this woman, this FULL GROWN WOMAN, is going to complain over ONE dress, she doesn't deserve all this hard work her mum has done for her.
On one hand the mom went all the way to India for her daughter's wedding and she went bratty On the other hand the mother pretty much gave her no choice in deciding for HER own wedding
What’s a rude and ungrateful daughter. It would be so stressful trying to plan an entire wedding for someone else down the the dresses just for them to be upset by a single thing.
Both are so removed from reality by money that neither are concentrating nor concerned with the reason they are there. “Mom, I told you to get something rhinestone studded!” I’d have walked away at that point.
Yeah, her whining at the end was a massive red flag regarding how spoiled she is. It's okay to not like a dress you didn't pick out, but to whine and moan about it is immature and gets you nowhere.
Hindu mothers plan their daughter's wedding, the bride and groom cannot invite the parents do the inviting. All hindu homes like this. All mothers look forward to getting their daugthers married as their parents did for them. And its is the father's duty to pay for his daughter's wedding, for hindu men its one of their duties.
@@songstressmj I'm Indian and Hindu. My sister is getting married, and boatloads of my friends have been. My sister basically has all control over the wedding planning and decisions. It's a traditional wedding, and my parents are involved and let their wishes known, but ultimately, my sister is leading the charge. Most Indian women nowadays do. Indian mothers who are this meddling and controlling are looked at poorly even amongst Indian daughters currently
Anyone thinking the mother “worked so hard” is missing what’s truly going on. The mother’s control issues are abhorrent! She planned every detail while her daughter took exams & left NOTHING for her daughter. Hell, she couldn’t even fully give her daughter the satisfaction of how stunning she looked in her dress....I have ZERO doubt the only reason was that the daughter picked it herself going against mommy dearest. The wedding planner eluded to the mom being a nightmare, albeit in a nice way, since she was on camera. Make NO mistake that how the daughter acted at the end is NOTHING compared to how this mother acts when she doesn’t get to have control. Bottom line is the mother is 100% responsible for spoiling her daughter incessantly & thus, she now has to deal with the problems she’s created. $15K+ on invitations people throw away? What a ridiculously frivolous, utter waste of money & a vapid display of wealth 🤮.
In my experience, most Indian families are like this 😂. My former indian friends have always been spoilt by their parents, are forced to be book smart (had tutors since kindergarten and no social life allowed) but are so out of touch with reality and cling to their mommy/daddy even as adults 😂. All they care about is money, what others think of them (massive egos) and how to use ppl/"friends" for their own gain.
I think it is you that truly missed what’s going on 🤦🏼♀️ That little brat couldn’t be bothered with the hard work it takes to plan such a big production wedding, it’s called “lazy”.....and that’s EXACTLY what she is. She had zero issue allowing her mom to take on all that nonsense and then complaining afterwards......because she’s trying to be “sexy” on her wedding day 🙄
@@Bl0ndB0mb really....so I wonder where she got that trait from? Hmmm possibly being spoiled rotten her whole life? That's how you end up with whiney bratty children. So spare us the emoji, you literally just proved my point for me and for the other posters. "If" the daughter acted like a brat, and thats a big if because I see issues from the mother and daughter.....her mother raised her now didn't she? So actually you missed whats going on, it flew right over the head of your emoji.
@@Bl0ndB0mb also she was "lazy" ..... please do tell oh genius one. She was studying, finishing up schooling, exams, medical boards. That's lazy? She wasn't sitting on a couch eating bon bons. You're delusional, couldn't be bothered? Yes drop the education, all the hard work you've put in to get that far..... for some wedding planning. Makes perfect sense. I'm sure mom picked the wedding date too, and god forbid she couldn't have pushed it out further so the daughter could partake. Apparently you aren't intelligent enough to know that there isn't spare time for ANYTHING, when one is going to school for this type of career.
I watched this episode and let me tell you, Sheena is a beautiful person! She was studying to become a doctor, her fiance was in the middle of his residency in california, and not gonna lie it was beautiful to see an indian/hindu wedding. I literally have no complaints about Sheena or her fiance. Mom could be overbearing but the wedding was beautiful in the end.
@@MLMLW Well, you can't see a video of anyone, only a few minutes long, and judge their entire personality. And she spent most of it saying how beautiful everything was, and how great her mom was. She's aloud to not like something.
OMG I'd give anything for a Mom like that who'd take the reigns...she should kiss her feet!! That Mom did fantastic!! She's lucky she didn't have to PAY A WEDDING PLANNER!!
The mom should be kissing her daughter's feet! If there's anything I've learned from this show, it's that moms usually try to take over and control their daughter's weddings. This is the ONLY instance, I've ever seen, where a bride just let her mom have complete control of the entire thing! She even let her mom pick out her wedding dress (one of them, anyways)! She could've used a wedding planner, still let someone else do the hard work, & keep way more control that way, but she gave her mom full control of the wedding plans. And saving $ on hiring a wedding planner doesn't matter to people with an unlimited budget.
Mom tried her best, she just should have hired a professional wedding planner. Felt more like a quince or a sweet sixteen, not a wedding. Her daughter is a bit of a brat.
For Indian dresses there r so many posh designers who does such elegant ethnics Sabyasachi,Shyamal and bhumika etc Nd they wud HV make perfect pieces in such a good budget
As an Indian, I just found this embarrassing :/ Even on a much smaller budget, you can get such elegant looking outfits, these all looked so costume-y and tacky
From what I understood, the gown is to be worn after the wedding, at the reception. It's not a wedding dress, it doesn't have to be white, no Indian bride wears white to their wedding anyways. A simple looking lehenga can cost more if the stones are real... I also sense that the Mom wanted to fashion a lot of the wedding details herself, she seems super creative, and I do agree the Lehenga could have been designed better, but it still is beautiful. Everyone who is critical of the daughter, please do note that she praised her mother for the wedding card, the lehenga, and did seem appreciative of her efforts in general. One more thing, often Indians talk much more forcefully than Americans, and that outburst isn't as big of a deal as it's made out to be.... that wasn't a proper saree... so I see how she would feel kind of thrown off. And as for all these comments about having no taste, at least no one found anything bad to say about the decorations her mom had put together... yet I don't see anyone praising the decor specifically. Bit unfair don't you think ??? I do agree about the 15000 Dollar wedding invites though... such a waste!!!
What a spoiled brat! "Sheesh Mom! I know you have spent huge amounts of time and $$ on me without me contributing at all... but waaaaaaaa!" Sell her diamonds and give the $ to a charity. The Justice of the Peace and blue jeans are perfect for her.
If the daughter freaks out like that if something doesn't go the way she wants it, it makes sense that the mom is picky and over the top with the planning, but mom made her that way too.
Why do people spend excessive amounts on a wedding instead of using the money for living after a wedding? Have a good ole bbq and have fun while saving a bunch of money.
I don't really feel that bad for the bride. If she was interested in doing something for the wedding she would have spoken up before it was all finished. I think she's perfectly happy with having her mom do it all. It's a good thing they fit together well.
Can we all say…SPOILED and UNGRATEFUL when it isn’t exactly what she wants. Maybe she should have scheduled her wedding so she could be a part of the planning.
Has anyone considered the cost of mailing these invitations? This is far more than a stamp or two this is going to cost hundreds of dollars to mail to guests.
That bratty response at the end was totally uncalled for. Hell if my mom spent even half or a quarter of the price of her money on my wedding day, I would be so thankful and appreciative of everything she did for me. I mean damn... Suck it up sister for a few hours and wear the damn thing. Sheesh
For everyone hating on the bride & acting like mom is a saint: I think you've got it bass ackwerds. If your family was obscenely rich, & you never had to work a day in your life, would you be slaving away, studying to get your doctorate? How about if you were also getting married soon. Would you be willing to let your over-controlling mother plan your ENTIRE wedding... Even picking out your WEDDING DRESS FOR YOU?!? (One of them, anyways). They can afford to hire the best wedding planner in the world, but she lets her mom do it, because her mom wants to. She kept saying how beautiful everything was & what a great job her mom was doing. But as soon as she didn't like something, everyone attacked her. I completely agree about the saree. It looked ugly, cheap, didn't fit right, and they can afford to do 10,000 X better.
All I can think about are the millions of people from their own country that are living in the worst conditions possible and to see them spend that kind of money in a wedding...its disgusting.
She’s not the only bride to have no input into her invitations or wedding planning. When I got married years ago, my parents picked everything from the invitations to the date, the venue, the food, and even the dress. My folks picked a main dish that neither my husband nor the best man would eat, a vegetable to which I’m allergic, and overruled our choice of wedding cake flavor. Literally the only thing we agreed upon was the open bar!
Okay so everyone is complaining about the mom! I only see a mom trying to do her best do all the things the actual bride is to lazy for. Im not saying I like what she is doing, but she is trying and all her daughter can do is complain!
This is why you don't get married when preoccupied with other things like school. You should be involved in the planning of your own wedding unless your'e just that into surprises.
There are working people in the USA who are struggling to survive on less than $15,000 a year and this is what they spent on wedding invitations. Makes me sick.
Seems like she could’ve taken control early on but chose to be lazy and let her mom take over only to wake up a month before the wedding thinking now is the time to do something. And to add insult to injury she blames her mom for her laziness.
There's something quite obscene about spending $15k on wedding invites!
And surely most the guests don't keep the invitation? Seems like such a waste.
@@manveenkaur219 Yes. I have been to a few and they have been elegant with extraordinarily stunning dresses, gorgeous decorations; this production won't even come close in elegance. From start to finish it is vulgar. Yes, Indian weddings are normally extremely expensive, but they need to look elegant. At the weddings I attended the brides were breathtaking and this one? Chunky jewellery, cheap gowns...not good.
@@manveenkaur219 I understand and I agree. Even if I were wealthy enough to afford such things I could never spend that type of money on frivolous items. I have a strong social conscience and money could be used elsewhere.
It’s their money
@@311kellymarie A fool and his/her money are soon parted.
All things aside, her mum tried her best to please her with all the duties she was tasked, but that bratty as feck tantrum at the end was unwarranted, yuck.
vvmm she wasn't being that bratty I'm Indian and that is NOT what a sari looks like it did actually look ugly compared to the really pretty ones you can find in india
@@meecahrachel4315 The repetition of "this is not a wow outfit" in the whiny tone is what makes her sound bratty. In that moment, she sounded like a pre-teen throwing a tantrum. I agree with her, I just think she could have communicated her disappointment in the one outfit better considering ALL of the other things that her mom did that she seemed pleased with.
*Edited for spelling
@@meecahrachel4315 She mixed sari with dress, and that was not wow enough for the daughter. Instead of saying thank you, the daughter acting like a baby. Then why don't she order and custom her dresses and all of thing by herself? The venue decoration, the invitation, the indian ceremony dress, are pretty choices and she likes it. Because only the last dress that she don't like, she's ungrateful with her mom effort.
@@meecahrachel4315 Im indian as well but still the mom did so much for that daughter she should have just sucked in and wore the dress or told the mom politely that she did not like the dress. There was no need for her to act like a five year old and be so disrespectful.
The only reason you think that way is because its not everyday that you get your reactions to your parents or anyone taken on a video :P you probably may have reacted the same way at some point in your life.
Expensive does not mean elegant or classy
FACT!
Tacky Tacky.
Yeah, style of the dress is not in harmony. Upper and lower part don't go together. But, most important is that they are happy.
People have their own taste. Sometimes they don't like elegant or classy thing but prefer cute looks. My friend wedding with all pink concept, maybe that was too much for me, but for her it's her dream.
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The way I see it the mom didnt really. "Dictate" she basically gave the daughter what she wanted up until the end.
To each its own. Don't like any of the gowns, not even Indian ones. Mom's taste is not very refined. I've seen Indian wedding gowns that are sooooooo stunning.
Like decorating a colorful birthday cake.
JZWALZ51 ROBIN YEP! Lol 😂
THANK YOU!
Indians don’t wear gowns. They are actually called lehengas or ghagras.
The cost alone of the invitations is my entire wedding budget lol
If that lehenga is anywhere near the quoted “$7500” she just got bluffed SO BAD! 😂
You’d get better lehengas at Rs. 7500 tbh!
Yuh🤣🤣🤣
Yep!! You do! Brilliant value and much beautiful!.
Exactly
THAT WAS NEARLY 5,40,000 RUPEES WHAT THE HELLL?? And all those outfits were Awful.
I agree
The bride allowed her mother to organise her wedding but throws a fit when she doesn't like something? Okay...
Why not just wait another half year so you can help plan the wedding?
Just saying..
Hey I am from India...and the last outfit...she can get way better sari...and what she is wearing doesn't look line one tbh..2nd outfit can also have been done better...both the outfits she chose doesn't look good..there are many beautiful bridal lehengas over here..
I am in Western Canada, so there are many Indo-Canadians (from India) and the Sarees, lehengas and gowns are truly stunning as well. This entire production from decor to dresses is awful.
I am an indian too and here lehangas and saree are really nice even my gramdma has way much better saree
Comn get a chill pill. U know lots of our saree in India also not wow. She is living in us wht u expected
Love how it's trying to set up the mom as a controlling Mozilla, when she's literally done everything so her daughter can do well in school. Maybe plan better if you don't want your exams to be right before your wedding. And then out of left field our "sweet and helpless" bride goes full bridezilla.
As far as I could see. neither had any taste. The wedding dress was a corset with an organza flower skirt. The wedding decor looked like a bottle of Pepto-bismal exploded. The lehenga looked cheap, and sorry, not a sari. I don't think either won any prizes for filial or maternal love. Spending ridiculous amounts of money isn't love.
Reminds me of Steel Magnolias.
Yes to all of this!
Ok... Was I the only person who thought the chairs were weave until the camera zoomed out?
ALL of those dresses were hideous, and THAT was definitely not a saree at all.
😂🤣
I’ll get hate for this but....
The wedding Dress looks like my Sisters Quinceañera Dress....
white is used for mourning in India so she can't wear that.
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No I understand that it’s just that i can’t shut my thoughts
thats the first thing I thought!
the whole entire wedding just seems like a sweet 16 or quinceañera
the entire wedding looks like a quinciañera, i don't like the dress
Firstly, that last outfit was not a saree by any means! And the price of the Hindu ceremony dress is way too much! You can buy such dress at 300$-400$ in India (although there are much better options available).
First of all that's not what a saree looks like!!
That's a stitched saree.
@@qwertyvexed8316 anything stitched is NOT a saree. Period
Sarees are soo beautiful and this one was not even near anywhere...it was more like a gown designed to look like saree.. And it was hideous..
Sorry, but that lengha (crop top and skirt) looks so bad. I don't understand the purpose of that weird off color belt on it. That last outfit was definitely was not a sari. Both of the looks are so outdated and cheap looking tbh, i don't get how she went all the way to India and came back with this costume looking nonsense. With that budget she could've easily gone to a top Indian designer. Everything she got is so tacky.
Telconsar she had to off set the cost of the 16,500 invitations somewhere.🤣🤣🤣
She tried that's the most important thing, mom era and daughter era is alot of difference in style. I feel sorry for the mom, i wish my mom cud do those things for me. I wud appreciate everything, wud enjoy laying back watching. Those who have that kinder moms dont appreciate them atall. Even if i didnt like the outfit i wud wear it. And saris can tie differently just change it around.
Telconsar i agree. And that didnt cost 7500 $
Isn’t it Saree?
@@lunarwolf2291 no dear. The last one is NOT a saree. Just a gown designed to give a ''saree' look but failed horribly
Stupid to spend that much money
Not your money, huh? Celebrities spend much more for a casual outfit, not a wedding day, but we so love to comment ordinar people's choices even if they earn much more.
Lots of rhinestones and showing skin doesn't necessarily mean expensive or sexy
In her case very expensive (for false jewels) but what it conveys... something else I say. Indian weddings can be so magically beautiful.
I saw no poetry anywhere.
The lehenga, the saree and the jewelry suck. Hideous! There are many many stores of Indian designers in the US. They look loaded, they could have very well gone for a Sabyasachi.
Exactly my thoughts! If you've got 5L to spend on a lehenga, the least you could do is spend it on a Sabyasachi. I absolutely love Sabyasachi's designs!
True, if they are spending so much.. They could have gone with the designers...
Coz our esteemed designers do justify all the traditional outfits- that's what we get to see in the fashion shows!!! That would have been money well spent.
@@s03161 I love Sabyasachi's work too! Not that I'll ever be able to afford any of it, but one can fantasize.
As an Indian myself, there was absolutely nothing traditional about this entire video, EXCEPT the task of an overcaring mother taking charge of her daughter's outfits.
Oh the mum is so great - she should be appreciated by her daughter
Sabyasachi would die seeing these outfits. And the price was outrageous
This daughter is a ungrateful brat. She knew her Mother would look after everything and she still had the audacity to treat her with such disrespect.
Phew, if she can find a husband there's hope for everybody.
Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa! Hold up! Did I see a $15k price tag for their invitations?! That's insane! You can put that towards a car or a house!
Right? and then people can't be expected to keep them forever so they go into trash???
It's an attempt to make her daughter's day perfect but she incorporated herself alot into it
as her daughter expected...nay ...commanded her.
@@SuperSunshinesue basically! The last part with the sari...why was she so rude?? Come on man
What choice did Mom have? The bride wasn't putting forth anything to help, just went to school and expected Mom to do everything else. The wedding should have been postponed until she could do her own shopping, or be happy with someone else's version of perfect.
For all the people defending what the girl did, lashing out at her mom, stop.
Her mom took her all the way to India, picked out all these pretty custom made dresses, AND did all of her wedding planning, which is what SHE was supposed to do. And she made the invitations for her, which would probably take a LOT out of her moms pockets. Not to mention the dresses and decor she bought for the wedding. And the flight to India. If this woman, this FULL GROWN WOMAN, is going to complain over ONE dress, she doesn't deserve all this hard work her mum has done for her.
Choked on my food when I saw the prices for the invitations. Holy fuck.
On one hand the mom went all the way to India for her daughter's wedding and she went bratty
On the other hand the mother pretty much gave her no choice in deciding for HER own wedding
if she's not gonna appreciate what her mother did for her and just acting like a spoil kid tell her to prepare the WHOLE wedding by herself
What’s a rude and ungrateful daughter. It would be so stressful trying to plan an entire wedding for someone else down the the dresses just for them to be upset by a single thing.
Both are so removed from reality by money that neither are concentrating nor concerned with the reason they are there. “Mom, I told you to get something rhinestone studded!” I’d have walked away at that point.
Yeah, her whining at the end was a massive red flag regarding how spoiled she is. It's okay to not like a dress you didn't pick out, but to whine and moan about it is immature and gets you nowhere.
Nope. Mom has decided she is going to be a slave to baby-girl. Baby-girl proved that at the end.
I can't believe that lehenga costs 7500$ 😂😂 there are much better lehengas out there for much less and that's not a saree!
IKKKKRRRR!!!! I KEEP SEARCHING FOR THE SAREE AND THERE SHE IS WEARING SOMETHING IDK WHAT 😂😂😂Also yes iam watching this in 2021😂
That is not a saree, that is not what a saree looks like.
Wow your MOMs wedding was beautiful 😂
Hindu mothers plan their daughter's wedding, the bride and groom cannot invite the parents do the inviting. All hindu homes like this. All mothers look forward to getting their daugthers married as their parents did for them. And its is the father's duty to pay for his daughter's wedding, for hindu men its one of their duties.
@@songstressmj sooo whos getting married really 😂😂😂
@@songstressmj I'm Indian and Hindu. My sister is getting married, and boatloads of my friends have been. My sister basically has all control over the wedding planning and decisions. It's a traditional wedding, and my parents are involved and let their wishes known, but ultimately, my sister is leading the charge. Most Indian women nowadays do. Indian mothers who are this meddling and controlling are looked at poorly even amongst Indian daughters currently
The bride is absolutely gorgeous. I hope she had a wonderful wedding and that the couple is living in bliss. 🖤🖤🖤
I don't think Mom really liked the dress!
Fredia Wright she didn’t pick it. That’s why. 😂
@@angelique707 I agree!
The cost of the invitations alone is my whole wedding's budget
Anyone thinking the mother “worked so hard” is missing what’s truly going on. The mother’s control issues are abhorrent! She planned every detail while her daughter took exams & left NOTHING for her daughter. Hell, she couldn’t even fully give her daughter the satisfaction of how stunning she looked in her dress....I have ZERO doubt the only reason was that the daughter picked it herself going against mommy dearest. The wedding planner eluded to the mom being a nightmare, albeit in a nice way, since she was on camera. Make NO mistake that how the daughter acted at the end is NOTHING compared to how this mother acts when she doesn’t get to have control. Bottom line is the mother is 100% responsible for spoiling her daughter incessantly & thus, she now has to deal with the problems she’s created. $15K+ on invitations people throw away? What a ridiculously frivolous, utter waste of money & a vapid display of wealth 🤮.
In my experience, most Indian families are like this 😂. My former indian friends have always been spoilt by their parents, are forced to be book smart (had tutors since kindergarten and no social life allowed) but are so out of touch with reality and cling to their mommy/daddy even as adults 😂. All they care about is money, what others think of them (massive egos) and how to use ppl/"friends" for their own gain.
I think it is you that truly missed what’s going on 🤦🏼♀️ That little brat couldn’t be bothered with the hard work it takes to plan such a big production wedding, it’s called “lazy”.....and that’s EXACTLY what she is. She had zero issue allowing her mom to take on all that nonsense and then complaining afterwards......because she’s trying to be “sexy” on her wedding day 🙄
@@Bl0ndB0mb really....so I wonder where she got that trait from? Hmmm possibly being spoiled rotten her whole life? That's how you end up with whiney bratty children.
So spare us the emoji, you literally just proved my point for me and for the other posters. "If" the daughter acted like a brat, and thats a big if because I see issues from the mother and daughter.....her mother raised her now didn't she? So actually you missed whats going on, it flew right over the head of your emoji.
@@Bl0ndB0mb also she was "lazy" ..... please do tell oh genius one. She was studying, finishing up schooling, exams, medical boards. That's lazy? She wasn't sitting on a couch eating bon bons. You're delusional, couldn't be bothered? Yes drop the education, all the hard work you've put in to get that far..... for some wedding planning. Makes perfect sense. I'm sure mom picked the wedding date too, and god forbid she couldn't have pushed it out further so the daughter could partake. Apparently you aren't intelligent enough to know that there isn't spare time for ANYTHING, when one is going to school for this type of career.
*Moon water* Yea that’s your experience. I wouldn’t apply that to everyone though. This bride is just fuckin whack.
This is the least relatable thing I've ever seen.
Sums it up.
There is nothing worse than a spoiled child. Who spends $15K on wedding invitations?
I watched this episode and let me tell you, Sheena is a beautiful person! She was studying to become a doctor, her fiance was in the middle of his residency in california, and not gonna lie it was beautiful to see an indian/hindu wedding. I literally have no complaints about Sheena or her fiance. Mom could be overbearing but the wedding was beautiful in the end.
After hearing how she treated her mother any thoughts of her being beautiful didn't come to mind! 🙄
she is a whiny spoiled brat IMO
@@MLMLW Well, you can't see a video of anyone, only a few minutes long, and judge their entire personality. And she spent most of it saying how beautiful everything was, and how great her mom was. She's aloud to not like something.
OMG I'd give anything for a Mom like that who'd take the reigns...she should kiss her feet!! That Mom did fantastic!! She's lucky she didn't have to PAY A WEDDING PLANNER!!
The mom should be kissing her daughter's feet! If there's anything I've learned from this show, it's that moms usually try to take over and control their daughter's weddings. This is the ONLY instance, I've ever seen, where a bride just let her mom have complete control of the entire thing! She even let her mom pick out her wedding dress (one of them, anyways)! She could've used a wedding planner, still let someone else do the hard work, & keep way more control that way, but she gave her mom full control of the wedding plans. And saving $ on hiring a wedding planner doesn't matter to people with an unlimited budget.
@@reginaphalange4182 💯👏
Mom tried her best, she just should have hired a professional wedding planner. Felt more like a quince or a sweet sixteen, not a wedding. Her daughter is a bit of a brat.
For Indian dresses there r so many posh designers who does such elegant ethnics
Sabyasachi,Shyamal and bhumika etc Nd they wud HV make perfect pieces in such a good budget
Will never understand this overload of pink. Makes me sick
My whole wedding will cost less than her invitations
That last pink dress was gorgeous that girl is crazy. I would love to wear it.
$7500 !!!!! Does it include plane ticket? R u kidding? She specifically went to India and for what!!!
I don't think she did to be honest. Maybe just flew to a Indian store in Miami.
Over the top expenses. I'm not thrilled, but I hope the bride had a grand wedding and a better marriage.
I'm just wondering who is paying for the wedding if the mum is paying almost $16k on invitations.
They are obviously louded
The cost of their invitations is what I spent on my dress, my entire wedding, my honeymoon, my first five years of marriage...
Yeah, I don't get spending that much on something most people are going to throw away!
They spent more on invitations than we did on our whole wedding and honeymoon put together
Same!! It's all about being resourceful.
I will never ever comprehend the logic of spending that much money for one night
That much money spent over one night is unexplainable
15 grand on invitations.....that people are gonna toss in the trash...smh.
Brandy B I can kind of get behind having keepsake invites like those for the parents or grandparents but it’s too much to send to everyone. 😰
As an Indian, I just found this embarrassing :/ Even on a much smaller budget, you can get such elegant looking outfits, these all looked so costume-y and tacky
From what I understood, the gown is to be worn after the wedding, at the reception. It's not a wedding dress, it doesn't have to be white, no Indian bride wears white to their wedding anyways.
A simple looking lehenga can cost more if the stones are real... I also sense that the Mom wanted to fashion a lot of the wedding details herself, she seems super creative, and I do agree the Lehenga could have been designed better, but it still is beautiful.
Everyone who is critical of the daughter, please do note that she praised her mother for the wedding card, the lehenga, and did seem appreciative of her efforts in general.
One more thing, often Indians talk much more forcefully than Americans, and that outburst isn't as big of a deal as it's made out to be.... that wasn't a proper saree... so I see how she would feel kind of thrown off.
And as for all these comments about having no taste, at least no one found anything bad to say about the decorations her mom had put together... yet I don't see anyone praising the decor specifically. Bit unfair don't you think ???
I do agree about the 15000 Dollar wedding invites though... such a waste!!!
What a spoiled brat! "Sheesh Mom! I know you have spent huge amounts of time and $$ on me without me contributing at all... but waaaaaaaa!" Sell her diamonds and give the $ to a charity. The Justice of the Peace and blue jeans are perfect for her.
3:12 was waiting for I hate it, the bottom of the dress sort of looks like the chair covers just a different pink. PMSL 😂
If the daughter freaks out like that if something doesn't go the way she wants it, it makes sense that the mom is picky and over the top with the planning, but mom made her that way too.
Why do people spend excessive amounts on a wedding instead of using the money for living after a wedding? Have a good ole bbq and have fun while saving a bunch of money.
Indian weddings are usually very lavish. They seem to be quite well off so maybe they don't need to think about living after.
Bec they have the money like duh
I don't really feel that bad for the bride. If she was interested in doing something for the wedding she would have spoken up before it was all finished. I think she's perfectly happy with having her mom do it all. It's a good thing they fit together well.
Can we all say…SPOILED and UNGRATEFUL when it isn’t exactly what she wants. Maybe she should have scheduled her wedding so she could be a part of the planning.
The pattern on the two piece with the crop top, looks like a carpet
Has anyone considered the cost of mailing these invitations? This is far more than a stamp or two this is going to cost hundreds of dollars to mail to guests.
I am not surprised to see how Indian weddings really are and how privileged Indian kids are because they are literally pampered.
I want to meet her Mother. She is really great at planning. Look how beautiful her invitations are. The Mother can help me with my wedding.
Those invitations cost more than everything for my entire wedding. 🙃
My whole wedding is going to cost less than her invitations !!!
indian/pak wedding clothing is soo stunning it’s BEAUTIFUL like it’s just flavour her dresses were not it
the dress honestly in my opinion looked more like a 15 dress but it looked good on her and if that’s her dream dress then im happy for her
I'm sorry to say that but... that dress is SO UGLY. I can't be the only one who thinks that.
Also, regarding the third outfit, that is not a sari.
Right, everything single thing looked hideous.😪
her invitations costed $15,600....girl why
Those invitations alone are nearly quadruple my budget.
“I told you to get...”
Daughter definitely not appreciating mum.
I'd have been hit with a backhand long before that remark. Unbelievable. Her Mother must be glad she's getting married. 😂
*I'm a spoiled brat and this is my expensive wedding*
What was that thing that they were calling a saree?that was definitely not a saree.
Your invitations were over $15,000- and your complaining??? Do you know how much food impoverished children could eat for $15,000??? 😨😣😟
This is one lucky girl. I wish she knew it and the rest of you knew it. I hope her husband is extremely wealthy.
That bratty response at the end was totally uncalled for. Hell if my mom spent even half or a quarter of the price of her money on my wedding day, I would be so thankful and appreciative of everything she did for me. I mean damn... Suck it up sister for a few hours and wear the damn thing. Sheesh
For everyone hating on the bride & acting like mom is a saint: I think you've got it bass ackwerds. If your family was obscenely rich, & you never had to work a day in your life, would you be slaving away, studying to get your doctorate? How about if you were also getting married soon. Would you be willing to let your over-controlling mother plan your ENTIRE wedding... Even picking out your WEDDING DRESS FOR YOU?!? (One of them, anyways). They can afford to hire the best wedding planner in the world, but she lets her mom do it, because her mom wants to. She kept saying how beautiful everything was & what a great job her mom was doing. But as soon as she didn't like something, everyone attacked her. I completely agree about the saree. It looked ugly, cheap, didn't fit right, and they can afford to do 10,000 X better.
Literally expensive wedding ✴️🎉😓
All I can think about are the millions of people from their own country that are living in the worst conditions possible and to see them spend that kind of money in a wedding...its disgusting.
Melissa C. Their own country is the US 😒
She’s not the only bride to have no input into her invitations or wedding planning. When I got married years ago, my parents picked everything from the invitations to the date, the venue, the food, and even the dress. My folks picked a main dish that neither my husband nor the best man would eat, a vegetable to which I’m allergic, and overruled our choice of wedding cake flavor. Literally the only thing we agreed upon was the open bar!
Omg, im so sorry :( that doesnt sound ideal at all. Why couldnt you provide your input?
She definitely got scammed paying that much for the lehenga, even the heavy Sabyasachi and Manish Malhotra lehengas would cost less and be 100x better
I’m not even Indian and I know that last dress is not a sari.
The custom made Indian outfit is beautiful. I'm from India and your sari is beautiful. Your mom is right that's how saris look like.
Okay so everyone is complaining about the mom! I only see a mom trying to do her best do all the things the actual bride is to lazy for. Im not saying I like what she is doing, but she is trying and all her daughter can do is complain!
My eyes bugged out of my head when I saw 15,600$ for invitations
Her invitations cost more than my whole wedding!!!!
This is why you don't get married when preoccupied with other things like school. You should be involved in the planning of your own wedding unless your'e just that into surprises.
I imagine the bride would be camouflaged by wearing pink to the reception among all the pink decor.
Feel sorry for the groom.... RUN!!!!!!!!
There are working people in the USA who are struggling to survive on less than $15,000 a year and this is what they spent on wedding invitations. Makes me sick.
Why tho? If they're willing to spend this much why shouldn't they?
Bride def needed a gratitude attitude adjustment.
I feel sorry for the groom. Hope he knows what a spoiled, arrogant child he is marrying
Seems like she could’ve taken control early on but chose to be lazy and let her mom take over only to wake up a month before the wedding thinking now is the time to do something. And to add insult to injury she blames her mom for her laziness.
No baby, no. Expensive doesn’t mean it looks good.
It doesn't matter what anyone else feels about YOUR dress! It's your day!!!
That ridiculous and spoiled bride didn’t do anything for her wedding and she still throws a tantrum. 😯
$15,000+ for JUST INVITATIONS 😱😱😱😱
I kinda think the bride should be able to pick what she wants too as it is her marriage