Holly Quarford yes! You feel the physical! I once walked into a public bathroom to just pee. I needed up being bent over the sink until a lady left. She obviously had back injuries.. I felt everything and it was one of the most excruciating pain I have ever felt. As soon as she left, I felt better. It’s so strange.
I have to distance myself from my family especially dramatic people. I'm very selective in my circle of friends and family. I really find it hard to forgive someone who has betrayed me. If I can I really never trust them again.
Every one of you ladies have described, in your individual ways, how it feels to be the victim of psychic leechers. In my sixties now, I learnt how to cut off their supply of *my* energy in my late twenties. They don't like it one bit, once you have them figured out. It's both funny and hugely rewarding. It's down to yourselves, but you may want to research auras, which is the route I went down. Walk in Peace.
Get that holly as I experienced the same and took on mothers baggage especially, feels like I spent years clearing others stuff but it can be done and then know what's yours to heal x I prefer to be an empath rather than not feel or care though x a precious gift xxxx
Also, at least in my defense, i can listen to what youre saying even tho im speaking to what you JUST said. I can still hear and comprehend what youre saying at the same time i am talking...
HEYOKA EMPATH 1) Discernment occupies them, contrary to norm and you feel the emotions of others. Mood detector 2) Always interrupt people because it is innate and will forget if not brought out now 3) Sleep solves problems or gives answers to problems 4) Preoccupied with fantasy virtues of magic 5) Often a muse to others with healthy inspiration 6) Goes the opposite or unusual direction orientation thinking is different and argumentative 7) You are creative with innovations and ideas
This video just feeds Narcissists an alternative ego! might as well relive them of their accountability by reading them their horoscope! and tell them mercury is retrograde when they are being idiotic.
Choosing to perceive that which created your gifts, from a place of victim, weakens not only the gifts, yet your spirit and heart. Seeing through the lense(s) of the abuser(s) with compassion sets you free and opens perceptions your loosing out on.
I see your point and it’s a valid one. However it’s not always the case. My sister and I had narcissistic, neglectful and abusive parents. I am empathic where’s she is narcissistic. This makes me question whether my empathy is a defence mechanism or a gift. I choose to see it as a gift. Seeing it as a survival or coping strategy would make me highly uncomfortable and leave me struggling to switch it off as there’s no value in living as a wounded soul. Seeing it as a gift on the other hand allows me to use it to help others and feel good about the difference I can make to their lives. Being empathic can be lonely at times until one realises we are all created perfect and have our niche, feeling good about our purpose helps an empath find their place in a world where they feel alien. This is of course just my opinion, hope you have healed from your experiences xxx
Water is where I get answers... in the shower, doing the dishes, sitting by a lake, walking along the shore, going under the water with my ears below the waterline - floating in a pool, or in a tub...
The truth comes from God...there is solace and peace in water. The deep isolated forest also brings peace...the world wants us to believe that people are all basically good...man is fallen and very self centered. The more isolated I am, the more peaceful I feel.
Being a empath and always having to remember these are not my feelings breath and let it go. Is so challenging and when you remember to not take every feeling so deep or personal and also a memory with feelings. Definitely a challenge Feel proud of your self and always do your best Try not to self sabotage and be proud of who you are. We are blessings
@@roxxi32 That's rather selfish. There are no doubt other people with the same characteristics as Heyoka. I meet most of these characteristics. And far from being Lakota. Although I wouldn't be shameful if I were. Too many people putting others down to bolster themselves. How sad.
Holy shit, sister you are not alone. Narcissist are Vampires - that metaphor is thorough and correct. We are usually born into a family of vampires as feed stock or become the unwilling servant to one or many later in life. They keep us drained just before death as they are greedy feeders. They do not understand the desire to be left alone. But you are not alone - take comfort in that.
How true - there are many in the world. There were two men who would stand either side of a doorway into the church to shake hands and I would feel my energy go out of me, and leave me limp and drained, one of my daughters felt the same - in the end in order to protect ourselves we would hide in the toilets until the service started before going in. They always took and gave nothing to anyone in return.
I get you !! We are too nice and we need to put up a few walls which is hard to do since we always want to help others and we can't help getting involved.
As an empath , I push people away as soon as I can feel negative energy. I can’t ignore it. I do my best to avoid family that have negative and controlling personalities. I have extras anxiety in the presence of these feelings.
I am the same way and I ghost people who give off the negative energy. Certain negative energy make me sick to my stomach to where I literally leave without saying a word to anyone. It got bad to the point where people would get upset at me for leaving and I would explain to them why and they cut me off.
I had to too! For the longest time I didn't know how to interpret what I was feeling, still working on that but I've got a couple senses hammered to that point, negativity I pick up on, assertive from a point of control and it's very different feeling counterpart, assertive from a point of confidence and belief, conviction too but that's told more in word and tone rather than direct vibe
I think the problem is we live very unhealthy lives, physically and mentally.. ( generally speaking) our societies are unbalanced so while we could enjoy people in a different setting, most people are so angry/frustrated/afraid/depressed/anxious it's pretty torturous to be around them.
I’m Irish. My great Nana, upon seeing me the very first time, announced I was a Fae and the heir to the family. I have her name and my Nana’s name as my middle, my parents chose a different name but when I was born they immediately said this should be my name. I know when family members are pregnant before they do, when someone is going to die, when a stock will go up or down, the list is endless. It’s a blessing and a curse at the same time. I can feel others are off from miles upon miles away. Thankfully my Great Nana taught me all I needed to survive and use my gift properly.
These channels are demonic and designed to make every Narc think they are a super empath. Its meant to hold empaths back, if people are pathetic enough not to understand authentication of thought and dare to call themselves a Heyoka that is why they "need" RUclips external validation.
For me, I started studying Buddhism. I found now I can still deeply feel however not get attached. I can help others through compassion, myself included.💕
I'm just hearing of this empath thing like I've herd of empthay and always just thought that what I had just an overactive emotion of empthy I never try doing magic or thinking I have extrem beauty so maybe I'm just an empthatic person although I do all the other numbers listed on here idk
For me, the worst part of being empathic has always been people telling me that I'm too sensitive, emotional and easily hurt. I struggled with this type of ridicule for years, until I finally realized these feelings are normal to an empath. Now, I tell them I would rather care too much than too little. That shuts them up pretty quickly.
Or being told that I don’t take criticism well, when the hurt comes not from being criticised, because no one is more critical of me than me, I want to be better, and so telling me how I can be doing that is welcome. Nope, the reason it hurts is because that person, often someone I care about, is telling me that I’m not making them happy, when that’s the whole point of my existence, the well-being of others. From about 15 I taught myself how to keep a poker face and keep my emotions hidden and under control. It wasn’t smart but it was survival. It coincided with the onset of severe depression, that I battled my whole life. In this world of connectivity getting to understand yourself is right at your fingertips and knowing that empaths exist, and that you are one, what that means in terms of the type of people who will surround you in this world and how to understand who they are, and to find healthy ways to protect yourself is amazing.
And I also agree, too much is better than not at all. Although I’ve just turned 60 and about 2 years ago I stepped right away from the world, don’t watch the news, don’t want to know..because it’s too much, I can’t carry it all, and caring too much was literally making me sick. My advice to young me, knowing all that I know now is a) you’re not the problem and b) step away from the world now and then, find some solace in that centre of peace inside yourself that your empathy stems from. Just shut the rest out for a minute.
@@MeelatchiDaibukti that's what it is for me too, most people are so stand oafish when they meet me, they act intimidated and that's exactly why is because they sense that I see straight through them, I always wondered why people were so intimidated by me especially when first meeting me, thanks for sharing this about you cause now I know this about me.
You're welcome 1) you can feel others emotions 2) always interrupting people 3) sleep solution 4) fantasies of having unlimited powers 5) always a muse for others 6) going the opposite direction 7) you are creative
I get so exhausted by others around me all having problems. They all turn to me. I can get short when someone does the same mistakes over the years. Apart from that i am very patient. The trick is to try stay out of negative energy as much as you can.
summary: 1-you can feel the emotions of other people 2-always interrupting people 3-sleep solution 4-preoccupied with fantasies of unlimited abilities 5-often a muse to others 6-goes the opposite or unusual direction 7-creative welcome!
Nobody that is commenting on this video is a heyoka... LOL y’all are not Sioux and a heyoka is a chosen sacred being... y’all are empaths just NOT heyoka. This fuckin channel should’ve asked a representative of the Lakota Sioux nation for permission to upload something like this because then it wouldn’t have been uploaded due to it being total BULLSHIT and CULTURAL APPROPRIATION
I am an empath, can see colors of auras around people. I re-live total strangers fear/stress & even deaths in clairvoyant dreams. I dreamed of a horrible death, the next day I heard about it on the radio. My family were bullies/ abusive & my brother is a narcissist. What a relief when he moved out to his own apt. Retired now, most of my employers were toxic, liars & vengeful Scorpios. I avoided them any chance I could.
EMPATH Scorpio here too,I feel for you having those experience..personally I've never used astrological signs to refer to the beings that have mistreated me..that's a interesting perception,have you ever considered looking JUST looking at the type of people you attract?That really helped me to really pay EXTRA attention to whom I would engage with..I rely on that.I hope you are in a good,happy and peaceful space NOW♥️sorry you had to experience the OTHERS..Namaste
We try to make people happy cause their sadness brings us down. We feel rewarded when we fix something in their life.I do feel like a magnet sometimes.
Totally relatable.. I used to be so worried sometimes thinking something was wrong with me as I always tend to attract wrecks and I have no peace until I find a solution for them.. I hate disorder and chaos and I suspected myself of having all possible mental conditions starting from OCD to depression..
@@alison2161 In my experience as a Sociopath. You Empaths flee from ME! What is quite understanding. I have dagger eyes, tall and strong physique and often dress completely in black.
@@Teufer2 ow but it´s not the way you dress orso. Your description sound like you´re a dominant🤔 we feel the vibe you display. Narcistic en sociopaths are hard to deal with bc they are very mentally draining for empats
As an empath I can feel if someone is being toxic, sincere or just downright lying. This is why I just stay true to my emotions and cut off people that needs to be cut off.
I just know their intentions, which is mostly to build themselfs up, they don´t care whats right, but how it makes them look. It´s rare to meet sincere person, most people just play some superficial role, it´s so annoing. It doesn´t even feel like talking to a real person. I just have mostly convesrsation with myself and they look where to fit in to make them look good. It´s heartbreaking and annoing at the same time. Don´t they know I know they are full of s#!t? (They know yet they continue on agreeing with anything I say without even understanding what I´m saying or not agreeing at all) So rare to meet genuine people. I learned to hate this poseur society. Fakeness everywhere.
Sometimes I really hate feeling other people’s energy. It’s hard on me especially when the person is sending out sending negative energy. I always can feel what they’re thinking too
I think you maybe are overthinking the situations where you think you can feel what someone else is thinking. Also pro tip when you are feeling overwhelmed by other people try focusing on something that makes you happy no matter what. Replay that in your head until you can calm down. If that doesn't work get up and take a breather away from the place or people giving of the negative energy. I have learned over the years how to deal with negative people and if they stay negative I just ignore them, because not everyone is going to like you no matter how much you want them too. I also learned I have read people wrong mistaking their natural grumpy or negative demeanor as them not liking me, when they were just like that in general. So don't over think, just let things play out.
It helps to stay grounded. Also protect, protect, and protect! It is possible to gain the knowledge of people while having a healthy emotional detachment from them. The power to not be affected by or feel responsible for other people’s emotions is incredible. Once you feel it, you will never want to go back. We also oftentimes are triggered being directed to our own inner work. Shining light on the shadows. Ending the resistance to our darkness expelling fear diving deep. I faced that thing I feared. I ran to it and found empty space. It was only an illusion. There is hope for us. Hold on and have the courage to do the work. The ascent is intense and so worth it. The view is lovely from here.
I think the hardest part about being a Heyoka is trusting people due to us constantly being taken advantage of. Edit: Love and light to yal, even to the negative people in my comments 😘
That word does NOT mean what you think it means FFS!!!!!!!!!!! The heyoka (heyókȟa, also spelled "haokah," "heyokha") is a kind of sacred clown in the culture of the Lakota people of the Great Plains of North America. The heyoka is a contrarian, jester, and satirist, who speaks, moves and reacts in an opposite fashion to the people around them.
But thank you for calling me the problem. That was a real encouragement. Now i feel the world is suddenly kinder after you felt overwhelming compelled to set me straight with back handed correction rather then positivity. It would have been wiser and better received if you would have sided with me partially and then lead me gently into your corrective statement. But that's assuming you had that skill-set fully honed. The skill set of bringing others out of a slump or negative perception. Keep up the good work trying to rescue taunt other people. Seems effective. 🤔
@@HansKr Its not that bold of a statement, its widely held. Love the reverse psychology of dont play the victim it doesn't suit you. You are cleaver. And i didnt put words in your month i used deductive logic to see through the underlying inference you were making. Speaking of making inferences. Thanks for spanking my butt too aka not spoiling me when i neaded the rod. Now wait there i go again putting words in your mouth aka seeing through your carefully crafted words. Time to thinkevenclearer before you scold the highly aware individual to feel superior inside.
Sweetie. Discernment. Learn to make a life focused on beauty,wonder,love,miracles. Avoid TV radio negative people. Law of lower dimensions is you get more of what you focus on. Energy is like water it seems balance. Lower vibrations will deplete you. Raise your home and office to Temple. Rose scents holy Solomon seals beauty. Study immortal masters/earther academy/Taoist masters/avoid normal life. Grace on your soul. Be a light in the darkness and the darkness dims.
@@ancientonessanctuary1139 Thanks for your help. I am aware of these awesome things and i rigorously practice them believe it or not. Im mearly voicing a complaint to see how many others have noticed what i have.
sophiabeldris I found out recently that I have pain synesthesia, so I’m apparently not alone! I feel pain when I see someone get hurt, and it does feel kind of like an echo, I guess. For me, it can be a painful, jolting, electric-wave feeling, or something like brain freeze, but in your body. And it’s not _horrific_, just unpleasant. I wonder how many people in here have it, too?
@@BellisSophia what its like to see energy? I have this information that our mind is a sort of decoder or interpreter of the energy our body is receiving externally/internally. It interprets it via thoughts and reasoning. It makes me confuse sometimes. I don't know what is purely mine and not.
@@jJust_NO_ Of course we are all interpreters of energy according to our perceptions and experience, but discernment comes with experience and doing the work to know yourself. I've been aware since the late 90s when I realized I was sensing what people would do and what they were feeling and could anticipate their next move in chat rooms. It was then I began to explore this side of life and my ability increased as I used it. But it also increased with meditation and becoming true to myself through healing of my past and traumas. As I've learned to direct energy, I've learned to know it's taste and how it feels, and it's become a very nearly solid entity to me now. It takes time and work, but I would suggest journaling to understand yourself better and to understand what and how you feel when you sense energy and I would suggest daily or every other day meditation. These are good places to start. Energy, for me, takes on different forms, at different times. Sometimes it feels like a nebulous thing sitting inside the body. Sometimes I see it as sparkling or colorful or dark/grey/muddy in the body through my third eye. The strangest and most interesting thing about my ability to feel it like a physical sensation is how it feels as if it has substance. It sometimes feels like cottony clouds, or sharp jagged rocks, or frenetic and unstable. I've felt it like pebbles of darkness or old scars, where the energy is blocked. As I have these gifts, I am now studying to become an energy healer, and I think that many empathic peoples, as they develop their gifts may eventually learn that they are in this world for some purpose... Perhaps simple to become clearer and grow closer to source so that they may hold Light or so that they may also help to heal and wake up the world... Where that leads us, I don't know... But it's beginning to happen, one way or another...
Hm...I have been in and out of therapy since I was 7 because I wasn't like my siblings. As an adult they labeled me as having ADHD...this answers SO MUCH about me! Thank you!
I'm so glad I'm not the only one who thinks Adhd has got something to do with being a heyoka empath. I think it's a terrible gift, feels more like a curse 😢
I'm a music teacher and back in the early 90's literally from one week to the next not MOST but literally EVERY male student and a few female students parents talked to me at the beginning of the lesson to explain that their child had been diagnosed with ADHD and that they would be on riddling and trying to explain to me how it would affect them learning etc. I replied the same to all of them saying that I would teach them and approach them the way I do all my students which is individually so I didn't need any information from the parents as it is a non sequitur. Point is, I privately was freaked out and started discussing with the other teachers who experienced the same thing. This is a manufactured condition or at least sensationalized and exaggerated which from where I'm standing stinks of big pharma trying to make another dime off of the backs of unsuspecting nincompoops! I don't have kids but if I ever did I would NEVER put them on those drugs. When I was a kid all of us 'hyper' kids were told to go outside and play or join a sports team and it worked like a charm! We came home tired and relaxed and ready to eat dinner, take a shower, do our home work and go to bed. Life used to be much more simple. David Lee Roth from Van Halen was so hyper that his father called dinner time "monkey hour" but he didn't drug him up as far as I know (I could be wrong about that). Can you imagine if they tried to keep him calm and not let him follow his impulses? We would have lost the BEST and MOST energetic front man in rock music at that time. Psychological conditions should not be a fad or popular. This shit is crazy! Good luck to you!
@Tony_Ruiz Well, as someone who SUFFERS from ADHD it's really not cool to totally dismiss my whole life- the pain, the embarrasement of not being like everyone else every single minute of every single day. ADHD is real, my struggles are real. Just because the dx may have been over used doesn't mean it doesn't exist.
@@kimveazey9036 I didn't dismiss your condition. I certainly didn't dismiss your life or pain as I would never do that. I was criticizing drug companies and psychologists and most importantly parents for making it a fad instead of a condition. I had problems because even though I was not a stellar athlete growing up I was always in pretty good physical health and worked out etc. Once I was older and stopped working out I started having hyper active issues (never been diagnosed and I realize that even if I have adhd that there's a spectrum) but then I'd start working out again and things would get back to normal. Most of the kids that I saw being forced to take the drug against their will did not need it. I don't know about you but I do know about my students. There were divorces over it and the children that went with the parent against taking the drug did better than the ones that didn't. This has no bearing on your experience this is my experience and I've heard the same from teachers all over during this time. MOST not all of the kids but most of the kids during that era I spoke of (and I suspect now) did not need Riddling or any other drug.
Yes, I’ve learned to temper my observations and emotional insights and readings but not saying them. To. E co a IOU’s that others deeply affect us, and is not our stuff
Kindness is your strongest asset. Kindly but firmly ( in thought ), tell the unpleasant emotion to return to its master. E.g.You r not my emotion. Return to your Master, You are not Welcome here ". For the empath, this mantra works beautifully. "
I've never forgotten when an acquaintance told me they wanted to be friends but couldn't because it felt like I looked right through them into their soul. So glad there are lots of us !
Yes! And then there's these times when I walked away because I could see that they were starting to get insecure due knowing that I see them, but not being able to internalise as well, that I do not judge them, just because I see them. And at times, even though it hurt a lot, it meant being a proper friend by walking away and giving them space to recover from it and find friends who wouldn't trigger so much in them 😔 It's just impossible to mask the extent of insight even in protection of people once we get closer. It takes a lot of time to brief people of what friendship with me means. And we do need to talk about it beforehand for it to work. It's important they and I have ways to signal certain things in time and to be accepted as doing it with our relationship in mind! It's like setting safe words 😆
I have Every. Single. Trait. I’m blown away that there is actually a word for a strong empath. Feels kind of nice that there is a world out there with others like me.
2. We interrupt people because we know what they are trying to express and they're having a hard time expressing it so we're trying to meet them halfway, to spare them the full experience of having to re-live their trauma to communicate with us. NOT because we just can't wait our turn or don't want to forget something. Doing THAT would run counter to any kind of empath's instinct, as it would result in negative feedback from the person we're connected with in that moment.
I agree with Traya if my interruptions will fix the problem with a faster turn around than waiting for you to explain something you're having a hard time finding the words to express in true depths then yeap... better time management on my behalf now we can move on to another topic that needs fixing. Shoot....respect these free therapy sessions when greeting me lol but if the vibe ain't right 🫡 bye
It drove my mummy crazy when I was kid! She would pause, trying to come up with right words! I would say was she was trying to say! She would shake her head and tell me to stop speaking for her! Lol
every comment i read here are literally my feelings. my fragile feelings. you are my people ! now i just have to learn how i live my life not just “be”
Try being in a relationship for 22 years with a narcissist well you have all the symptoms of this type of empath.... Very toxic but we can't leave each other
I've enjoyed using Quarantine as my get out of jail free card... my family and etc has exhausted me and now I'm not letting them down by keeping my distance. I'm healing
Being an empath is not easy, I feel everything from humans to animals. Normally its the pain, struggles, not so much the joys. I am now in my 60s and can handle the feelings of dread, the tightness in my chest, which is always the first sign that something is wrong, much better than I could in my youth. I believe it is a gift but not one that necessarily brings happiness. My daughter lives thousands of miles away in a different country but I still feel her emotions and know instantly when something is wrong. Thank you for this video, it was interesting and enlightening.
Being an empath, a blessing or a curse, sometimes I wish I wasn't, as how do you fit in, in a world where people are just out for themselves and don't care how much pain they inflict on you.
don't try to fit in with them dance to your own beat be yourself and the right people will find you. Most importantly just don't care what so called normal people think of you being different its your life not theirs plus theres really no such thing as normal if your happy who cares what they think so long as your not hurting anybody or thing.
Well im 🦂. So we just cut everything off and end up misunderstood. Hense why we have 7 stages of growth unlike any other sign. The Phoenix being the ultimate mental spiritual and emotional level we can achieve! 💪🏽🦂 Be well all
We often interrupt conversation because before they finish we already know what they are communicating and want to respond before our brains move on to something more interesting.
That's typical of self professed empaths. Can't listen to others because self obsessed and so sure they know better than actual person. I have crystal shop and everyone who comes in proclaiming their empath status is actually a narcissist.
Every self centered immature (or just young and inexperienced and undeveloped person -) feel the same way. It's actually a natural lack of meaningful practicable empathy snd curiosity because it can be very difficult to set your own youthful and exuberant ego aside and think of all the original and clever things you can say that are more fascinating than the other person' s predictable trajectory (hint : many people lose faith and speak in boring template like language , imitating others, hence the element of surprise in comedy that delights us.and is a commodity nowadays and in days of court jesters etc. As you get older you become a little more reflective and realise the enormous importance and gift of being able to patiently listen with an open mind people telling you things that they have gleaned from their journey. Naturally they will rarely seem as interesting to you as you are to yourself! When a non believer in the millennial search for a defied identity along the lines of the shamans of ancient cultures e.g. Carla Castaneda, indigenous chiefs etc suggests thst they don't bother listening to others because they already know what's coming - it is both incredibly arrogant but also bland and suggests thst they don't have an original interesting personality themselves and are not well educated. Read Socrates via Plato who says those thst think they know obstruct themselves from learning and growing with their solipsism. Im sure they grow out of this but if wanting to be interesting and original and resh, read and be original and fluid, rather than a sheep buying into shallow incredibly arrogant and circular self flattering movement thst rationalizes its faults by claiming they arise through elevated superior. The superiority complex is really deluded!
You forgot another explanation as to why they interrupt people: They are able to follow people's emotions so well that they know where the conversation is going and they figure it out sooner. And as soon as that connection is made in their mind, they have an automatic reaction which results with an interruption because they're eager to respond. Just like any one would after someone tells something interesting. The reaction time is just sooner for these empaths.
@Ricardo Gonzalez No, it is not being intentionally rude, though some may view it as being impolite. It is more that the person has already figured out what to say to their friend/family member/client/patient, etc because they sense the emotions and see the pattern. And as Dawn Bloss mentioned, once the connection is made, it is an automatic reaction. An automatic reaction is something done instinctually, not via conscious thought.
Exactly what we are really reading is thought processes, it wouldn’t be useful to just feel an emotion and not know who it belongs to or why it is relevant. We feel emotions that are a response to a palpable thought process, I am jealous of that person , I am angry because this happens, I Feel lonely... When in conversation you can usually follow the thought process of the person and as soon as they have the thought you know what they are going to say.
I agree with others, it’s a blessing and a curse. From a very young age I struggled with mental health issues and it really wasn’t until I became an adult that I finally was able to tell the difference between something I was genuinely feeling VS something I picked up. I’ve been working on using my abilities to help others and it can be exhausting yet rewarding!
I've always felt different, like I wasn't meant to be here. I remember being a little girl and looking at the stars while sitting in my window frame, or into my own eyes, just feeling so small and insignificant; that this world was not for me. I would ask, "Why could I not just be normal, like everyone else?"
Me too. I love the universe and the stars the entire galaxy but being on earth I just feel like there was something missing it’s so hard to explain but everytime I try to think about it. I get a warm feeling in my chest
you don't know how much your comment helped me and the reply that empathized with it. I really felt like the only one feeling like that felt out of this world, and seeing these comments is gorgeous 💞✨
When you start to truly learn about your gifts you can learn to put up shields so you don't have to feel other people's energy if you don't want to. Use your imagination to build an energy field around yourself and while you do it, tell the energy field what you want it to do, block/ and transmute negetive energys, fill your energy field with calm and peaceful thoughts, think about carrying crystals. They can be very protective as well. Get plenty of alone time and rest. Start being mindful, and start a practice of meditation and gratitude. If you can do these things you will finally find a little peace.
Very good advice. Transmutation is the key.. This way you do not stall the eenrgy but redirect it. Gratitude is dissolving negative energies. It is possible that originally no energy is bad. Just when it stops and leads to buildup and cannot flow then becomes more and more destructive. Love stops frustruation.. When energy starts finding its own way becomes good energy.. Being close to yourself can create miracles. Your attention to oneself allows to center,. that ,leads to realization that one is one.. More love is created and then ...
@@kawagi1384 Thank you for stating this clearly. "Gratitude dissolves negativity. Love stops frustration." I've experienced this and now seeing your words I will be more mindful of how I'm transmuting 🦋
Once, long long ago, a healer told me to surround myself with a rose colored cloud (I use invisible pure love light now) that only allowed that which is beneficial to me to enter my space, and all else is returned to its source with Love for whatever is needed. It was such a huge relief and my life changed for the better after, every day for a month or so, visualizing this rose colored cloud around me. ✨🦋🤍🤍🤍🤍💜🤍🤍🤍🤍🕊✨ I love how gratitude lifts our attitude and altitude and sets us free, and how genuine pure love indeed dissolves so many veils to reveal the Truth of whatever is before us.
@@kawagi1384 true..i believe there are many that have not taken the necessary time to be one with themselves.,they can be too codependent and/or jump into a relationship too fast after a breakup or look to another person for their source of happiness and love instead getting to know and love themselves first.
Animals feel it. So many times people have warned me of their animals not liking men or other people and they immediately like me. I will be walking up to a wild animal and it will be fine, and then my sister who is an animal person will try going past me and then they will run off. Same thing with small children. I am not a kid person, but small kids like me lol.
@@joelhunter3325 that's because you are a white spirit and they know that you are good! They can see your aura and they know you will not hurt them! I have also had the same experience in my lifetime and people will say that is a wild bull stay away from it LOL and I will be in the stall padding it and loving it and caressing it and when I try to leave it will try to bust out of the stalls LOLand one time I was driving down the side of the road and I saw a zebra on this person's farm and they had had a baby and I pulled over on the side of the road and the baby was just out of reach and I looked at the mom zebra and I said please let me pet your baby and I kid you not she used her head and push the baby to me so I could pet it LOL and children love me too LOL that just means you're a good person hugs hugs hugs
@@mindrolling24 the world is changing fast and we are moving into the Golden age so please do not worry about what is going to happen to this world that we are living in right now because without change we cannot grow and what that grow we stay stagnant hugs hugs hugs my dear friend I hope your dreams get better and dream of a golden future
I walked passed a man sat on the street with a bottle in his hand the other day and my eyes just started to water instantly. And I started to feel extremely low. I turned around to talk to him but then I sensed anger and danger so I had to walk away. Sometimes being an empath can get you into bad situations. Sense the danger when needed guys. Blessings to all 😊
On one hand, it seems strange to me to think that not everyone thinks, feels, or senses this way because it’s all I’ve ever known. But on the other hand, I’ve always known that I was different; the “weird one,” so having someone who understands feels very validating. I’m not alone.
@@coutrychic I was known as the 'weird one' too and some still think this but to feel others emotions is a very special thing and we aren't the 'weird ones' ... But infact the 'blessed ones' 😊 Cherish your ability you beautiful soul x
I am an empath, and one time i was just getting off of work... long day, and this guy was at the gas station asking for a ride down the street and he looked in need of help. Of course I said yes, but when he got in I sensed danger.. and I sensed ill intentions to this ride.. I honestly got scared alittle, I didn’t have my knife ready but I embraced whatever was to come.... he actually started tearing up in the middle of the short ride and kept saying “omg you are so sweet, you are too sweet, you remind me of my mother, I can’t, you remind me of my mother” and when he got out he turned around and said “Thankyou..please be safe, don’t give out rides to people like me” I will never forget the time in his voice or the expression on his face; and on the way home I started crying. I know that man was at a point in his life where he was desperate, my intuition tells me that he planned on robbing me that night but he couldn’t bc he sensed his mother in the energy I carry. A blessing and a curse indeed, and it can definitely get you in some tricky situations.... All love Soul fam☮️✊🏼🧚🏻♀️
1. A heyoka can feel the emotions of other people; 2. A heyoka always interrupts people; 3. A heyoka is just so uncomfortable when he has an unfinished or unsolved problem; 4. A heyoka is preoccupied with fantasies of unlimited abilities; 5. A heyoka is often a muse to others; 6. A heyoka goes the opposite or unusual direction; 7. A heyoka is creative.
@@2msvalkyrie529 - I was just thinking the same thing. I’m torn between the videos describing a narcissist being abusive and an Empath being attracted to them; how can that be a bad thing? Seems like they would keep each other occupied
9. A heyoka is really just a person who has very unhealthy emotional boundries and doesnt know that being an empath was never a thing before a tv character named Dr Deanna Troy
Definitely an empath, I’ve know this from age 11 but I believe my mom knew this at an early age. I struggle most with my emotions because I feel everyones pain that I being to come close to especially little kids. I try to hide my emotions but sometimes I have to get to a space where I can release my tears to help cope with my feelings! I’ve learned not to ask questions to my subconscious mind that I already know the answers too, unless I’m ready to deal with the confirmation. I’ve come a long way, when I was younger I struggle with myself because I’ve never known anyone that can teach me how to embrace my gifts. I’ve learned to help others without allowing people to take advantage of me! Thank you for this video!
People say when you say you are like this you are trying to seek attention. Which is not the case, I seek guidance. The isolating has come to a point of almost no return. I cannot relate to anyone and I am almost always living in my fantasy world. Many has said I am too complex and well I always figure people out quickly amd they don't like it. I attract narcissist asif I am a magnet. Therefore the isolation.
Theresa, hi there💐 wow do I understand where you are at this moment in time how you are feeling 😊 for I to feel exactly the same. I can feel isolated and it can be a lonely place when trying to express who you are without feeling judged from others. It seems there are more of us than we realised 🕊💞. You are magnet for others, they are attracted to your energy of light for a reason, it is not because you act or pretend to be anything special, it is just who are, and soon you will embrace and accept with gratitude what is occurring and what you feel. You will understand it from a different perspective other than the so called normal of society. You are special, you do come with natural gifts Theresa to this world, and therefore, would feel isolated if not able to express and use those gifts. You don’t even have to fully understand it all, or explain to others. You only have to naturally be. Come out of isolation Theresa, for many people would benefit from you can share, without any effort. I definitely do not want to seek attention and would prefer a more quieter life😂yet when I isolate myself due to feeling judged or finding it far to heavy to be here, I do start to feel worse. Your world is not fantasy, but one of spiritual, so step into this world and bring fourth your gifts. You will be able to heal others without even knowing. Your presence alone does wonders. It feels heavy, lonely and like me may feel you do not fit in with this place. Everything is changing now and there will be more acceptance of what is simply true. 🤗💐 everything that has came into your life, has only moved you more into a place of knowing. This can only be achieved from experience and braving all those sad and heartbreaking emotions. You came through for a reason. Much love and light Theresa and a big hug xxxx
@@mazza893 Thank you so much for your kind words and inspiration. I appreciate it more than words will ever define. I battle to climb out of the closet. In all my years I have never met anyone similar to me, not even my mother could understand me, nor any of my family. I often thought that I was not part of them. Many many things has happened to me from losing my daughter, she drowned due to my ex-mother in law's negligence, my mother committed suicide and I was married for 25 years to a malignant narcissist from which I could break free but I had to start with nothing again and the worst part is I see my two daughters (22 & 17) only 3 times a year if possible due to financial reasons. Many other things has happened in my life that made loose trust in people completely. To keep my mind busy I devote most of my time to my work. Otherwise I will overthink everything.
He you, read your story and I relate so much... truth be told we attract what we are, birds of a feather, and our polar opposites.... through this we manifest relationships that are meant to teach us things on a soul level. This is the way God has chosen to teach us. God is good so hold on to your light... and learn from it all...love unconditionally
The worst thing about being empathetic is knowing people's truth in lies, its almost a mind fuck when you try giving them a way out, we are so forgiving and feeling those negative dark energies can become insulting .
Yes, it's very dissapointing when you want to forgive & move fwd past a lie or deception, just to see more- & lies are so blatantly obvious-( to us-) it's hard to fathom that they think we will buy it...
If most of us had been recognized as having these traits as a child and valued for them I don't believe so many of us would have suffered so many traumas that make us want to isolate ourselves. I did not know there was a special name for highly empathic people but I am glad there is. It makes me feel less like an outcast.
I don't know that it makes us less of an outcast it's simply explains why and that in itself can allow us to be more comfortable with who we are because it gives purpose
Just remember we didn't cause those trauma's ourselves. No one would feel like an outcast if the people around them cared in the first place. Love has one meaning and it has nothing to do with hate or greed.
Tracy Puydak Empaths go through the trauma and pain they go through for a reason. It's to use their pain and experiences to help others. He says empaths aren't at an advantage, he is wrong. Empaths are very old souls. Meaning developing empathy has come from a large number of lifetimes of trial and error. For example I feel like the parent when it comes to my parents and I, because I have to use tactics to deal with narcissistic behaviour to avoid battles. Those tactics are similar to that of raising a child.
Being an Empath can be terrifying from time to time. The more I learn about it the better I can adjust to situations. Knowing is the key, you aren't alone. Thank you all for sharing.
It's kinda difficult when you grow up as an empath and nobody in your family can relate. I was constantly questioning my sanity/mind because I was always perceiving the world differently from everyone else. It brought me a lot of self esteem issues, not knowing wether or not to trust my senses. It's funny how being an empath also makes you lonely because you hardly find anyone who to share your experiences with.
If it's that serious you actually need to better understand friends or playmates and attempt to adapt on their grounds, to keep that void of uncertainty a little better distanced. There is always that odd parental friend or whoever that from time to time actually connects entirely. Your inner connection can get blocked through the self isolation because you get made to feel like the ugly duckling or black sheep, depending on the extent of your personal misfortunes.
@@bertzerker747 That all sounds reasonable on paper. But how should a child have access to this kind of knowledge? Simply not possible, depends on sheer luck.
@El loco holandes errante He does exist. But not in the magical fairy type way you probably deny him as. God is everything and in all. Life isn't a random accident my friend
I’d like to clarify as well for number 2 that when we interrupt people it’s not because we don’t care about what the other person is trying to say, it’s because we already know what they are trying to convey and we get really impatient when they struggle to find the words or the right example to communicate their thoughts
I absolutely cannot stand long phone conversations, it feels as if the persons energy is being funneled into my very being. It is so exhausting that I go to sleep.
I don't do phone convo's, just text me. It's funny because in real life I'm very good at conversation. I think it's because I have to see a person's eyes, feel their energy, before knowing how to act around them. If that makes sense.
@@toniunruh2314 I have someone who has kept me on the phone 3 hours,! There is nothing wrong with setting boundaries! If they get upset, that is on them. I have had to tell these chatty Cathy types my truth.i will block if needed. Protect you!😇❤️🙏
1. Feel other people emotion 2. Always interrupting people 3. Preoccupied with fantasies of unlimited abilities 5. Often a muse to others 6. Goes opposite or unusual direction aka anti mainstream 7. Creative
I dont like it for their is alot off sick people and they just want to drain you for all your eanger even my feet is swelling when i get in my apartment from all the sick people that try to drain me i have too much.light i wish i cloud not see people wow wow too much pain
I never understood myself going through life. I’ve always felt something was wrong with me. My nickname in school started with Aunt because others were coming to me with their problems. Life has been very difficult. Only now in my 60’s I understand more of who I am. I feel others pain to the point of illness. I see through people and try to hide those thoughts because sometimes people realize I know without speaking. I interrupt during conversations but it’s unintentional and happens without me realizing it. My mind is constantly working and solving problems even-in sleep. I don’t have many friendships that are authentic so I’m alone quite a bit. Some peoples don’t like me and I never understood why. I long for authentic love but never experienced it. I don’t know why I’m here or what for. I struggle with this. Thanks for listening.
I can literally tell what people think of me even if we just met, I also can’t find “good” friends, there is always depressed people around me and people that need help. I have never had a friend that is doing just fine ya know
I agree... But everyone watching this feels they too are an empath. We all experience these feeling from time to time, it doesn't mean you are an empath. If the world could just be empathetic, that'd be a beautiful start.
Often, “highly sensitive beings” learned to be so as a result of early trauma, or events, that required them to have a hyper-vigilant focus on those around them in order to protect themselves. If you think you might be an empath, perhaps you might explore what it might be like to focus more on both what YOU need how YOU feel, so that you can begin to move from your experience of survival toward thrival!
I grew up with an alcoholic dad &. Narc mom. I wanted so much - a home that was not a war zone like the one I grew up in - I became a pleaser on steroids! I ignored hurtful behavior from my spouse just to keep the peace. Conflict avoidance constantly. INFJ + the perfect storm for a perfectionist.
I have no Trauma from my younger years, I had a very loving Mum and Dad, and beautiful family and friends that surrounded me and wrapped me in love from a young age. This armored me for all the crap that came later and definitely shaped me. XXXXX
So right we tend to put others first to the point it feels wrong to be selfish, self love is maybe what most empathy sacrifice bc their so worried about others it’s hard to see their own need 🙏
About interrupting... Being able to read someone's emotions gives insight into some of their thoughts. This allows you to finish the sentences of others at times so you see it as an opportunity to connect but most just find it annoying.
VERY VITAL!!!! But very hard to find the strength to not cry when you see the event as it's being told to you, because you know no one will believe you can actually see\smell\hear\feel the entire scenario. You could actually draw the missing pieces that the person has forgotten, but we Extro-noids don't exist. We aren't real. Another sister signing in.
@Ivan Ivanovich I find my calm in water. Float away under water in my tub, or pool. Just lay at the bottom of the tub or pool with eyes closed. No other sounds but my heart, my breathing, and my thoughts. Then I allow my power to reach out 1 inch at a time. Search out bodies, emotional states, and brains. Until I am nearly filled, and then like water.... like the tide of the beach I release them all to go back.
@@damaramcelrath-fatherree9732 i was being sarcastic. All you “empaths” take yourselves way too serious, and watched too many episodes of Star Trek Next Generation
It's a lot easier said than done especially if i'm picking up on something really intense. I usually am aware of how I feel before I go somewhere and can recognize if and when that changes. The hardest part for me is picking up on my family and friends because even if i'm not there or directly involved I always want to help.
I am a battered Empath. I have all of these qualities and more. My life has been a mystery until I discovered that I was an Empath. At 65 I'm trying to get my shields in shape so that I don't end up in a heap from all the energy.
I can too, but I don't care anymore. I just avoid them, and if they try me, I show them my power. Their energy is completely on them, and has nothing to do with me
@@paulwalker8213 its is something in the demeanor ....a shift in their energy ...a look ,they way they walk or a wave of energy surrounding them .and that gut feeling that u are encountering...also u get the feeling of predatory influence ,also u look at their eyes they are empty or dark ...there is something off with them ..instinctually wrong ....reptiluan like in their behavior
Its difficult when you feel everything. But remember even tho your feeling someone else's pain its not yours.. N we should stop trying to own the worlds troubles it just causes is more grief. Blessing n curse we are
Chrystal my love, you’re not alone. I recognise it and often saddens me to see and experience often in life how harsh ‘n mean & indifferent people can be (probably often not even knowing themselves!) and therefor it makes yourself (and most people on here I guess) even feel more misunderstood. Things can touch you right to the core at any given moment, that’s bloody tough especially when people state you as ‘over-emotional’ in the way it makes you feel weak, the tone they use. (which are often the ones that can’t even feel empathy you spell it out. But thát’s the reason we can all ‘meet’ on these channels to experience our connection. All of you beautiful people 🥰 who feel solitaire & lonely: it touches me to the core knowing & experiencing the same and I’d like to think that even listening to this brings us all together. One world One love ♥️ 🌈 YOU ALL ARE SO WORTH OF BEING! (Said the woman who -@41- Still tries to put it all in perspective herself.... I never knew until a few years ago). Sending all of you strength 🌷
My first thought: ... You can do that??? Lol. But actually I started wanting this when I was 20. To build a hut in the middle of the desert, but close enough for supplies, so I could commune with nature and people in a shamanic way and be one of those crazy guru types who will tell you strange wisdom if you dare approach them, but who is actually super friendly and makes weird connections with people in places like the mall too. Lol. I think that's still my dream?? Haha
Have vivid daydreams constantly of off grid living in different climates and terrain. Used to build homes and other projects n still build in my mind which people make fun of my "thousand yard stares" and strange urges to fix everybodies health problems. I love n hate being an empath cuz when you argue about wrong issues with wrong people u become a Target of hate n false accusations. Count me in on middle of nowhere healthy living.
Yes it’s true we interrupt because the fleeting thought will disappear also half way through explaining we have already worked out what you want to say and now what we want to say
I feel like a chameleon, colors and vibration. Sounds are important, music. I despise drama, when my patience runs out, I mirror with power. I chose empathy and compassion, integrity. I love people, periodically.
As a mature empath, ie in my sixties, grandchildren etc you do learn strategies too protect yourself, but sometimes they can be counterproductive and you can to the other extreme and appear insensitive when really you are checking out in order to stay sane. I applaud the self awareness of this generation who recognises empathy as something that needs to be understood for the sake of the empath.
Im 69 and this insight has become stronger. Knowing what your husband thinks of you or unfaithfulness is very hurtful. He passed and the children have moved away, so I m alone. I cannot be in a crowd, the scenes from people is just too much, but I believe it has kept me alive.
@@gailborden689 Hugs Gail. I am aso alone at 74. After hubby died it took me 6 months to be able to go to the store shopping just for necessities, alone. I has two friends that understood my needs and lets just say protected me. This was not an oh my I can not take care of myself situation it was everything coming at me at once. Hubby sheltered me from the people and knew when the effort of being in a crowd overcame me. Might sound silly This has really helped me. I built a shield of crystals I never take off. I researshed and chose the crystals that worked with or supported or shielded me from the external energies coming at me. It took awhile to get it right. I still hate the need to go to the store and am wipped out for hours after I get home trying to calm my crazy ass down from dealing with so many emotions coming at me. Really crazy thing is the children. I am not even fond of children. Never wanted any and had none by choice. But in a store the children tear me apart. I see them being dragged around they are tired hungry or need to go potty and mom is just into shop shop shop and scolding them when they fuss. I really just try to keep my head down get what is on my must have list and get out and home as fast as possible. A 90 mile round trip drive is not helpful but I also choose to live remotely in a tiny mountain town. My dream even as a child. Thankfully hubby also had the same dream. I am pretty sure he too was an empath and he read me like a book. I miss that dear man but there will be no more. I am so over playing house. Hahaha Stay strong and take care of you every day. Make your surrounds in your house all for you and beautiful. Create your sanctuary.
I cried. I finally know why I have trouble to not interrupt someone! I knew I was an empath (as a child, they called it a very sensitive person) much later in life, recognized myself as a true empath. I even have extraordinary occasions of premonition dreams, feeling danger before it happens.. I love and want to help everyone be happy. I meditate to help me with boundaries and not to absorbed everyone troubles. But the interrupting problem sometimes did put me in a bad category of impolite .. merci
you seem to be like me. I cant even remember dreams becasue my brain never stops while I sleep. The few I remember are either a premonition, a warning, a message from someone... In that semi awake/semi asleep movie I make movies in my head about solutions to issues, how to face things, etc... for me to interrupt people is mostly becasue I know what they will say before they say it... i dont even realize I do that until they complain
I really feel almost everything you've written. I do make large effort not to interrupt others. I just feel what they are going to say or not, because sometimes they hide the truth even from themselves and if I speak they revealed their thoughts easily, not to me- I don;t care, to them. I only want them to be happy. I can't solve everybody problems, but if I don't try I don't feel me, you know, no matter if I give much more myself to others than maybe i am supposed to according to most of people. The one that really hearts me, is that they think sometimes that I;m doing it over my powers, but most times I really try not to do more, because I understand they can;t handle it. It is so too much for some people, because they aren;t used to it. And if I speak about dreams, it;s a very big chapter. And only that. I really can feel the pain of someone, even before they feel it. But I like who I am and I really feel blessed and happy for being like this, nor even few can understand it. I just want them all to be happy!
i know exactly what you're talking about though i only recently discovered that I am an empath i have always struggled with waiting for my turn to speak and no mamtter how hard i try i aways end up being a little different. though im still discovering my other empathic abilities
@Nancy L. A quote that I try to remember when i listen to someone who is telling me about their struggles is: "Observe, Don't Absorbe" As an empath It's really difficult but sometimes we just need to observe for our own well being 🙏🏼
Same here. I came out of difficult situations in my life by reading Allah Qur'an quote, Enjoin what is good, Keep away from the foolish, Forgive the wrongdoers,do not punish them. (Allah will punish them.)
This video doesn't distinguish between healthy & well-trained empaths and those who have been traumatized &/or not yet healed or educated on their gifts. Thats a super important distinction to make.
I call it foot and mouth disease, insert quarter and go for re-ride. I never try to interrupt anyone but if I know whats behind their words and what they really think, words just pop out. When they look shocked or hurt I try so hard to explain that I didn't mean to be so blunt nor hurt you. I'm still on a learning curve and I'm old.
I kind of hate it. It’s physically and emotionally draining and I sleep a lot. I daydream a lot and can barely concentrate on anything else if I have it in my mind that I want to think about a particular thing. Also, having Anxiety and Depression just makes everything worse because then I feel everything two or three times as strong. Especially feelings of anxiety and of sorrow. Sometimes I wish I knew how to control it. I like having fun, but if there’s a huge crowd -- like in a restaurant- I feel sensory overload and want to cover my ears and just leave so I can actually breathe freely. On the flip-side, I have been told I made a difference in someone’s life either with my written word (I’m a writer) or face to face conversations. But I also tend to interrupt. My boyfriend tries to shush me but I hate being silenced and he tends to interrupt me too. But he’s made a difference in my life as well; he knows when I’m lying about a feeling or upset and don’t want to talk about it. Maybe we’re both empaths. Although I think I cry more than he does. Lol. He rarely shows it even though I told him that I respect him more when he shows emotion because I understand it and because it’s comforting to remember that he’s human too and has flaws just like me. But yeah, sometimes I just wish I wasn’t so darn sensitive.
No guys, it only hard in the first time, when you feel the unconditional love so clear, so strong, so powerful from universe with gratitude fullfill, that when you realized it such an amazing gift, please don’t let them overwhelm you guys please, everything you been through just a challenge, a test
@@godisthemostgorgeousmiracl7491 Thank you for saying that; sometimes I (or all of us for that matter) need reminders of why we should be thankful that we are creative and emotional because without people like us who empathize, there would be no compassion for others and thus no one would be helped when they are desperately in need. It's people like us who talk down potential suicide victims, volunteer at animal shelters, speak when no one else will, and give of ourselves in love and beauty. Sometimes it's just difficult to see the forest through the trees and remember that we are needed. :)
John Grey I’m okay yes. Thank you very much. I hope you’re doing well too. And yes, there will always be a special place in my heart for humanity; I haven’t given up yet. Because for all the dislike I have for most people, I still know we all have the potential to be kind, and thus I also like people.
... But have you thought about this other point of view ? ;) There is always a "BUT" and even if no one wants to aknowledge it, we're bound to remind them ... that's what make our life so excitingly painful.
Neri hah. that's totally me. then i feel bad afterwards if i think i kept them from saying everything they ment to say. that could just be me over thinking things though. but yeah, do it out of love.
Does anyone else have a mind that thinks 24/7 and dreams every minute of every night? My brain never has a moment’s peace. Even meditating is difficult.
Both my niece and I, have had dreams that were a 'full length movie'. Equipped with multiple distinctly different and interesting characters, a plot - beginning middle end - with scenery and even flashbacks into the character's lives. In fact on occasions mine will be a trilogy!
Yep. I've said for decades, my mind works on at least 3 levels all of the time. As for meditating, thinking, and anything else, I don't fight it. I think of it as trying to ride a herd of horses. Of course I can't do that, so I pick one. I don't try to stop the others, I just focus on riding the one. If I fall off, I take a breath, refocus, and get back on. Just keep getting back on.
OMG This so me. I knew it wasn't in my head. I would tell my small group of friends that I could feel other people's feelings, but they didn't believe me. Forget about going to a funeral. I would get physically sick being around all the sadness. This video explained a lot. Thanks
It's always hard when you feel so much you don't feel anything anymore because it's exhausting to feel so much all of the time. Like, when you have cried so many tears you cannot cry anymore
Just learn to channel those emotions so they don’t find your soul, it’s simply by strengthening the person ie: a cup of tea, a pat on their back, a hug, always letting them know your there, but you as the empath keeping watch on your own energy or “giving” will become a draining process.. know also that what you give in the way you help ppl.. maybe no one else may see what you do.. we are observed by a greater empath above and he rewards us inwardly with a feeling of peaceful success in how we made someone’s day! Look Lady Diana was a empath, so imagine all the unrest she experienced- the good thing is she made changes in a place that really needed it! We have that ability - keep smiling :)
I neither cry, nor laugh like I used to. I also isolate despite my deep down desire to connect. I had to self protect. I had a good home life as a child, pretty crappy school like though.
I've been an empath since I was a young child . I grew up with several narcissists and was targeted by narcissists ever since . My willingness to try and help others is the bullseye on my back . I only learned about narcissists last year when I was 66 yrs. I did learn how to tolerate them and eventually leave them and now I value my alone time just thinking. I don't share much of my thoughts anymore but it allows me peace and peace is all that I desire . I feel other's emotions and sometimes cry while they are holding back . Reunions and separations really fill me up with tears because I can feel the heart breaking yurning that is or was and that pain is unbearable 💔
I'm 40 & I absolutely relate to every word you wrote.. wow.. I thought I was alone & just F#@!Ed up somehow.. lmao.. Unbelievable.. For the first time I totally get it!!! 🌸🦋🌼🐸💙✨️🙏🌞
i feel the same,ive realised too late ,wish i knew then what i know now ,my kids are parents ,i love my grandchildren to bits,,i dont have one photograph of them altogether ,any get togethers were done separately , i value my alone time now having new experiences and adventures ,free from feeling overwhelmed with their bad behaviour towards each other and towards me ,but at what cost,,i long for a family ,us all being together and loving each other
I have known for a very long time that I am an Empath...but did not realize that I was a Heyoka. Thank you for sharing your knowledge and wisdom!!! Blessings of Love and Light my Friend!!!
I just came across this and I maybe one. I cannot feel full filled unless I go above and beyond to help others around me. Sometimes it drains me hard but I still go on.
Growing up in an abusive home, I felt completely overwhelmed with emotions and felt completely broken! It took YEARS to realize I am an empath! I now realize I could feel my mothers bipolar and mental illness. Her hatred of me and all the crazy feelings she felt! At one point we didn’t speak for over 10 years. The last 2 1/2 years of her life she spent in a nursing home as, not only was she mentally ill, but she was in a wheelchair, and had dementia! I visited her everyday and did everything I could to help take care of her , including washing her clothes every evening after work, as she was incontinent. I took her on outings, bought her anything she needed, etc. In those 2 years I somehow built a wall to where her words/abuse didn’t effect me. After years I have now come to realize I’m an empath! I wish I had known what an empath was years ago. It would have kept me from so much of the guilt and shame I’ve carried all life. I’m not broken, my mother was…..
Scapegoated child and also probably an empath here. I’m not broken either, my mother and sisters are. Taken me 50 years and much confusion to learn this. God bless us who have lived this painful life. Grateful for the learnings 🙏💕
MAXIM, Holland Nederland sometimes people just need a hand also. Ultimately humans are wired to be skeptical and survival, but there is a rare fulfillment found nowhere else, than helping another, out of unconditional love.
@@maximhollandnederlandthene7640 Ok! If you are able to feel purposeful and flourish without helping others, you probably wouldn't be fighting the urge to help others. I hope your journey is graceful
Explains a great deal. Thank you. Accepting this as true, helps me understand why I am able to find so few commonalities with others, and why most everyone that I have ever known has such difficulty understanding me and my point of view.
It is my understanding that empathy this deep isn’t entirely organic. It is a survival instinct of a neglected or abused child. I was made an empath by my abusive narcissistic mother and sister. You learn to pick up absolutely everything to try and avoid their abusive blowups and tantrums. Every scenes you have is heightened to a perfect pitch. It isn’t an extra sense. I have even considered electric shock therapy to stop it. There is so much hate and anger today that I can’t be in public without panicking. I feel EVERY one of them.
Maybe look in to RTMS treatment! Repetitive Trans Magnetic Stimulation. I’m currently receiving this treatment in London UK. It’s taking a while, you need to commit five days a week for up to three months but that might depend on where you are. I think it is helping me, definitely with my really acute PMT. After completely burning out and becoming a hermit for two years I think I’m getting closer to thinking about getting back to work and actually seeing people again. Sending love and strength to you. ❤️💪🏼
Go beyond even that and the Gene that carries that memory is also carried in each following generation. Knowing animals, I'd say it is instinctual and innate.
I had to walk away from the toxic ppl in my life. Turned out it was the best thing for me. 10 yrs later, I think I'm ready to give it a try again with the family.
Being married to narcissistic ...imagine the sadness...never again. I feel like a super hero kicking butts of narcissistics and there are so many of them. Oh my word.
I also married a narcissist and abusive person. Constantly changing with their every whim. Walking on egg shells because you just.... know. That first two weeks of being separated I slept sooo good!
Being married to a covert narcissist is soooooooooooo draining. I left so many times but came back for many reasons and none make sense. I feel stuck in a cycle and tired.
I learned to stop doing that. It was really hard, but my first like free trial was this girl I met who became really obsessed with me, as she says herself. I told her that I need to build up my energy so i can handle being around her as her problems become mine too! In doing that, she appreciated how honest I was since most people just block her. But it taught me how to do the same to friends much closer to me, and when I started being honest about my needs, they showed me their true colours. And those colours are beautiful, friends who understand that you need time away, are the friends that will help u develop UR empath skills immensely.
It’s very uncomfortable being an empath. Sometimes I have excruciating emotional pain that I know is not mine. I’ve discovered over the years, the only way to get rid of is to go through every person I know in my mind. When I get to the right person, the pain lifts and I pray for them. Sometimes it makes me double up.
There’s a good reason it’s very uncomfortable... Paradoxically, the empath is OUT of touch with themselves, perhaps even more so than the narcissist. The label of “empath” is just another mask of self-aggrandizement.
It's painful being an empath and having toxic family members. No one understands 😔
I understand that, their energys jump on you. Thats true for me,
100 percent true😌😔
They're really not alot of empathetic people in the world, or it would be peaceful and a beautiful place to live and feel.
@@kaylakeith2573 yes, I agree with you! 🙏🙏🙏
@@kaylakeith2573 yesss this happens to me😭 and when you tell them how you feel they just don't care🤦🏻♀️
one down side of being an empath is that you feel peoples emotions on a physical level. growing up ina toxic family i was always sick and drained.
Holly Quarford yes! You feel the physical! I once walked into a public bathroom to just pee. I needed up being bent over the sink until a lady left. She obviously had back injuries.. I felt everything and it was one of the most excruciating pain I have ever felt. As soon as she left, I felt better. It’s so strange.
Me too!
I have to distance myself from my family especially dramatic people. I'm very selective in my circle of friends and family. I really find it hard to forgive someone who has betrayed me. If I can I really never trust them again.
Every one of you ladies have described, in your individual ways, how it feels to be the victim of psychic leechers.
In my sixties now, I learnt how to cut off their supply of *my* energy in my late twenties.
They don't like it one bit, once you have them figured out.
It's both funny and hugely rewarding.
It's down to yourselves, but you may want to research auras, which is the route I went down.
Walk in Peace.
Get that holly as I experienced the same and took on mothers baggage especially, feels like I spent years clearing others stuff but it can be done and then know what's yours to heal x I prefer to be an empath rather than not feel or care though x a precious gift xxxx
#2 THEY UNINTENTIONALLY INTERRUPT BECAUSE THEY ALREADY KNOW WHAT YOU'RE GOING TO SAY.
Simon Leland 😂👍🏽
Yes!!
I tell everyone I interrupt, this. I already know!
THANK U! I was waiting for this guy to say that haha
Also, at least in my defense, i can listen to what youre saying even tho im speaking to what you JUST said. I can still hear and comprehend what youre saying at the same time i am talking...
HEYOKA EMPATH
1) Discernment occupies them, contrary to norm and you feel the emotions of others. Mood detector
2) Always interrupt people because it is innate and will forget if not brought out now
3) Sleep solves problems or gives answers to problems
4) Preoccupied with fantasy virtues of magic
5) Often a muse to others with healthy inspiration
6) Goes the opposite or unusual direction orientation thinking is different and argumentative
7) You are creative with innovations and ideas
This video just feeds Narcissists an alternative ego! might as well relive them of their accountability by reading them their horoscope! and tell them mercury is retrograde when they are being idiotic.
I am a Heyoka and so is my boyfriend and we both do these things.. I didn't realize I was one also. I knew he was.
That was And the whole channel is em pathetic 😊
meeeee
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Suddenly I don’t feel so alone. Wherever you guys may be. I hope we meet one day.
How fabulous and empowering that would be so nice for you to say to all
Your good dog🤘💜🚬🥃
All good 💜
We are Beeing drawn together by the golden thread now as divinely planned.. plan B that is always plan A
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Or you grew up in a household where you had to learn how to read people’s emotions to stay safe and not be the target of any form of abuse.
Catherine, the conditions you outlined can help an empath to be formed, and to wake up. We can ascend, through pleasure and pain.
There is truth to your statement.
I often believe that is the reason why I have the ability to be able to read people. It’s not a gift; it’s a safety mechanism.
Choosing to perceive that which created your gifts, from a place of victim, weakens not only the gifts, yet your spirit and heart. Seeing through the lense(s) of the abuser(s) with compassion sets you free and opens perceptions your loosing out on.
I see your point and it’s a valid one. However it’s not always the case. My sister and I had narcissistic, neglectful and abusive parents. I am empathic where’s she is narcissistic. This makes me question whether my empathy is a defence mechanism or a gift. I choose to see it as a gift. Seeing it as a survival or coping strategy would make me highly uncomfortable and leave me struggling to switch it off as there’s no value in living as a wounded soul. Seeing it as a gift on the other hand allows me to use it to help others and feel good about the difference I can make to their lives. Being empathic can be lonely at times until one realises we are all created perfect and have our niche, feeling good about our purpose helps an empath find their place in a world where they feel alien. This is of course just my opinion, hope you have healed from your experiences xxx
Water is where I get answers... in the shower, doing the dishes, sitting by a lake, walking along the shore, going under the water with my ears below the waterline - floating in a pool, or in a tub...
the truth is in the water
I get strength or re-energize when I am in water
Me too
The truth comes from God...there is solace and peace in water. The deep isolated forest also brings peace...the world wants us to believe that people are all basically good...man is fallen and very self centered. The more isolated I am, the more peaceful I feel.
sameee!!!
Being a empath and always having to remember these are not my feelings breath and let it go.
Is so challenging and when you remember to not take every feeling so deep or personal and also a memory with feelings.
Definitely a challenge
Feel proud of your self and always do your best
Try not to self sabotage and be proud of who you are.
We are blessings
Well said! ❤
Thank you! That makes me feel good!😌
Awe thank you.
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❤❤❤❤❤ needed to read this
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I've had complete strangers at social gatherings tell me their most personal issues and problems.
I do too.
Me too!!
Yeah man, it’s if people know your in on the secret, this is mad
You can’t be heyoka if you’re not Lakota
@@roxxi32 That's rather selfish. There are no doubt other people with the same characteristics as Heyoka. I meet most of these characteristics. And far from being Lakota. Although I wouldn't be shameful if I were. Too many people putting others down to bolster themselves. How sad.
I find i'm a magnet to Energy Vampires, and Narcissist. Is it any wonder why we Empaths love our, "alone time".
Holy shit, sister you are not alone. Narcissist are Vampires - that metaphor is thorough and correct. We are usually born into a family of vampires as feed stock or become the unwilling servant to one or many later in life. They keep us drained just before death as they are greedy feeders. They do not understand the desire to be left alone. But you are not alone - take comfort in that.
How true - there are many in the world. There were two men who would stand either side of a doorway into the church to shake hands and I would feel my energy go out of me, and leave me limp and drained, one of my daughters felt the same - in the end in order to protect ourselves we would hide in the toilets until the service started before going in. They always took and gave nothing to anyone in return.
Im in a relationship with a narcissist who's energy is so intense my anxiety makes me throw up
I get you !! We are too nice and we need to put up a few walls which is hard to do since we always want to help others and we can't help getting involved.
Invest into wearing crystals! :-)
it’s both a curse and a blessing to feel things so deeply
Amen.
Indeed
Yep💜
Absolutely 😬
Agreed Brutal especially in such a demonic world 🌎
I reminded myself that I am who I am. I don't have to fit into any particular pattern in society. I think I am fine alone. It's less stress.
Amen
As an empath , I push people away as soon as I can feel negative energy. I can’t ignore it. I do my best to avoid family that have negative and controlling personalities. I have extras anxiety in the presence of these feelings.
Ase
Yes!!! Me too. I thought I might be the only one who did that.
I am the same way and I ghost people who give off the negative energy. Certain negative energy make me sick to my stomach to where I literally leave without saying a word to anyone. It got bad to the point where people would get upset at me for leaving and I would explain to them why and they cut me off.
Not caring about how I felt in the situation that happened and go off on me on my decision making.
I had to too! For the longest time I didn't know how to interpret what I was feeling, still working on that but I've got a couple senses hammered to that point, negativity I pick up on, assertive from a point of control and it's very different feeling counterpart, assertive from a point of confidence and belief, conviction too but that's told more in word and tone rather than direct vibe
The only thing I love about being an empath is my alone time. This is a insensitive and harsh world.
Me too, except when you find a loving friend to share with, or go out in wild nature.
OMG, so true!!
Kevin Davis I can truly relate to your statement.
Yes I can agree
So very true.
What sucks is being an empath but also having social anxiety! I love people but I'm afraid of them at the same time its so exhausting
Took the words right out of my mouth
Thank you.
I feel the exact same way.
This.
I think the problem is we live very unhealthy lives, physically and mentally.. ( generally speaking) our societies are unbalanced so while we could enjoy people in a different setting, most people are so angry/frustrated/afraid/depressed/anxious it's pretty torturous to be around them.
I agree I have the same problem it seems impossible to get over that
I’m Irish. My great Nana, upon seeing me the very first time, announced I was a Fae and the heir to the family. I have her name and my Nana’s name as my middle, my parents chose a different name but when I was born they immediately said this should be my name. I know when family members are pregnant before they do, when someone is going to die, when a stock will go up or down, the list is endless. It’s a blessing and a curse at the same time. I can feel others are off from miles upon miles away. Thankfully my Great Nana taught me all I needed to survive and use my gift properly.
These channels are demonic and designed to make every Narc think they are a super empath. Its meant to hold empaths back, if people are pathetic enough not to understand authentication of thought and dare to call themselves a Heyoka that is why they "need" RUclips external validation.
Nervousness, uncomfortable , solidarity and sadnesses are a normal things for empaths because they know when someone is lying or faking around them.
Exactly
@Bell Dora this 1
For me, I started studying Buddhism. I found now I can still deeply feel however not get attached. I can help others through compassion, myself included.💕
I'm just hearing of this empath thing like I've herd of empthay and always just thought that what I had just an overactive emotion of empthy I never try doing magic or thinking I have extrem beauty so maybe I'm just an empthatic person although I do all the other numbers listed on here idk
I'm always uncomfortable or nervous except when I'm with my bf who I trust and know ya know
For me, the worst part of being empathic has always been people telling me that I'm too sensitive, emotional and easily hurt. I struggled with this type of ridicule for years, until I finally realized these feelings are normal to an empath. Now, I tell them I would rather care too much than too little. That shuts them up pretty quickly.
I say that too but it's a lie. I'd love to not care at all. Caring is exhausting, I'm constantly tired, I don't like it.
Or being told that I don’t take criticism well, when the hurt comes not from being criticised, because no one is more critical of me than me, I want to be better, and so telling me how I can be doing that is welcome. Nope, the reason it hurts is because that person, often someone I care about, is telling me that I’m not making them happy, when that’s the whole point of my existence, the well-being of others. From about 15 I taught myself how to keep a poker face and keep my emotions hidden and under control. It wasn’t smart but it was survival. It coincided with the onset of severe depression, that I battled my whole life. In this world of connectivity getting to understand yourself is right at your fingertips and knowing that empaths exist, and that you are one, what that means in terms of the type of people who will surround you in this world and how to understand who they are, and to find healthy ways to protect yourself is amazing.
And I also agree, too much is better than not at all. Although I’ve just turned 60 and about 2 years ago I stepped right away from the world, don’t watch the news, don’t want to know..because it’s too much, I can’t carry it all, and caring too much was literally making me sick. My advice to young me, knowing all that I know now is a) you’re not the problem and b) step away from the world now and then, find some solace in that centre of peace inside yourself that your empathy stems from. Just shut the rest out for a minute.
That's gaslighting hun... Step away from those ppl even if it's family!!
I can't stand the gaslighting either
I can sense when someone lies,before they even say anything
I neva lie.
Oh yeah..im a human lie detector..i can see the lie in their aura..looks like dirty smoke around their head face area
@@MeelatchiDaibukti i really love your screen name..lol
Teresa Jones same.. I kinda scare myself sometimes
@@MeelatchiDaibukti that's what it is for me too, most people are so stand oafish when they meet me, they act intimidated and that's exactly why is because they sense that I see straight through them, I always wondered why people were so intimidated by me especially when first meeting me, thanks for sharing this about you cause now I know this about me.
You're welcome
1) you can feel others emotions
2) always interrupting people
3) sleep solution
4) fantasies of having unlimited powers
5) always a muse for others
6) going the opposite direction
7) you are creative
Erin Tran Yep, definitely describes me!
So me
Literally things that alot of people can relate too.
Erin Tran I dream through my problems. My mind never stops. I always dream that I can fly. I am sought out for advice frequently; to frequently.
That describes me to a t it's a little terrifying.
Is very painful being an empath. I lock myself in my room for days, to recover from energies and emotions that are not mines.
*mine, unless you have multiple personalities..
That's correct. Need to release those energies because not yours but the other people sometimes seems to improve instead.
I get so exhausted by others around me all having problems. They all turn to me. I can get short when someone does the same mistakes over the years. Apart from that i am very patient. The trick is to try stay out of negative energy as much as you can.
You can learn to put up a wall. Image a purple wall surrounding you. At least that is how I do it. Takes practice, but helps me to go to concerts.
Absolutely. I often say it's a double-edged sword. My husband, our two oldest kids (27 and 20), and myself - all empaths.
summary:
1-you can feel the emotions of other people
2-always interrupting people
3-sleep solution
4-preoccupied with fantasies of unlimited abilities
5-often a muse to others
6-goes the opposite or unusual direction
7-creative
welcome!
Wow i am a heyoka
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Thank yooooou!
Changes darkness into light when it’s needed🤍🦋🦋🦋
Nobody that is commenting on this video is a heyoka... LOL y’all are not Sioux and a heyoka is a chosen sacred being... y’all are empaths just NOT heyoka. This fuckin channel should’ve asked a representative of the Lakota Sioux nation for permission to upload something like this because then it wouldn’t have been uploaded due to it being total BULLSHIT and CULTURAL APPROPRIATION
I am an empath, can see colors of auras around people. I re-live total strangers fear/stress & even deaths in clairvoyant dreams. I dreamed of a horrible death, the next day I heard about it on the radio. My family were bullies/ abusive & my brother is a narcissist. What a relief when he moved out to his own apt. Retired now, most of my employers were toxic, liars & vengeful Scorpios. I avoided them any chance I could.
As a Scorpio Empath....I am very sorry you had negative interactions with Scorps. We're not all bad. I wish you much happiness in life. ✌
Lemme guess u a Gemini ♊️
EMPATH Scorpio here too,I feel for you having those experience..personally I've never used astrological signs to refer to the beings that have mistreated me..that's a interesting perception,have you ever considered looking JUST looking at the type of people you attract?That really helped me to really pay EXTRA attention to whom I would engage with..I rely on that.I hope you are in a good,happy and peaceful space NOW♥️sorry you had to experience the OTHERS..Namaste
Sure you did
Understood
We try to make people happy cause their sadness brings us down. We feel rewarded when we fix something in their life.I do feel like a magnet sometimes.
I always compare myself with a sponge😅
Totally relatable.. I used to be so worried sometimes thinking something was wrong with me as I always tend to attract wrecks and I have no peace until I find a solution for them.. I hate disorder and chaos and I suspected myself of having all possible mental conditions starting from OCD to depression..
The darkness flees in the presence of Light
@@alison2161 In my experience as a Sociopath. You Empaths flee from ME!
What is quite understanding. I have dagger eyes, tall and strong physique and often dress completely in black.
@@Teufer2 ow but it´s not the way you dress orso. Your description sound like you´re a dominant🤔 we feel the vibe you display. Narcistic en sociopaths are hard to deal with bc they are very mentally draining for empats
As an empath I can feel if someone is being toxic, sincere or just downright lying. This is why I just stay true to my emotions and cut off people that needs to be cut off.
That is so true
Yesssssss
I just know their intentions, which is mostly to build themselfs up, they don´t care whats right, but how it makes them look. It´s rare to meet sincere person, most people just play some superficial role, it´s so annoing. It doesn´t even feel like talking to a real person. I just have mostly convesrsation with myself and they look where to fit in to make them look good. It´s heartbreaking and annoing at the same time. Don´t they know I know they are full of s#!t? (They know yet they continue on agreeing with anything I say without even understanding what I´m saying or not agreeing at all) So rare to meet genuine people. I learned to hate this poseur society. Fakeness everywhere.
True. Has to be done for one's own self preservation
OK Karen whatever you need to tell yourself to get through the day
Sometimes I really hate feeling other people’s energy. It’s hard on me especially when the person is sending out sending negative energy. I always can feel what they’re thinking too
I think you maybe are overthinking the situations where you think you can feel what someone else is thinking. Also pro tip when you are feeling overwhelmed by other people try focusing on something that makes you happy no matter what. Replay that in your head until you can calm down. If that doesn't work get up and take a breather away from the place or people giving of the negative energy. I have learned over the years how to deal with negative people and if they stay negative I just ignore them, because not everyone is going to like you no matter how much you want them too. I also learned I have read people wrong mistaking their natural grumpy or negative demeanor as them not liking me, when they were just like that in general. So don't over think, just let things play out.
Nicholas I’ve heard ppls thoughts before too. Isn’t that weird when it happens?
With practice you can shut it off. (or shut them out) whether you choose to or not is up to you. There's a price to pay either way.
Isn’t it great, now we can be what ever we want to be or feel like. Been a normal human is to lame. Get the fuck out of here with that shit man.
It helps to stay grounded. Also protect, protect, and protect! It is possible to gain the knowledge of people while having a healthy emotional detachment from them. The power to not be affected by or feel responsible for other people’s emotions is incredible. Once you feel it, you will never want to go back.
We also oftentimes are triggered being directed to our own inner work. Shining light on the shadows. Ending the resistance to our darkness expelling fear diving deep.
I faced that thing I feared. I ran to it and found empty space. It was only an illusion.
There is hope for us. Hold on and have the courage to do the work. The ascent is intense and so worth it. The view is lovely from here.
Woah! I had no idea that working through my issues in my dreams was a tell-tale sign of being this level of an empath. So amazing
I think the hardest part about being a Heyoka is trusting people due to us constantly being taken advantage of.
Edit: Love and light to yal, even to the negative people in my comments 😘
That part!
That word does NOT mean what you think it means FFS!!!!!!!!!!! The heyoka (heyókȟa, also spelled "haokah," "heyokha") is a kind of sacred clown in the culture of the Lakota people of the Great Plains of North America. The heyoka is a contrarian, jester, and satirist, who speaks, moves and reacts in an opposite fashion to the people around them.
Yes!
@@volgawolfhounds741 Thank you for your teaching wisdom. For all my relations A'ho.
Sometimes an interesting life requires a leap of faith.
To me this world feels mean, shallow, overly complicated and highly restrictive. Its not easy when your highly aware.
@@HansKr Thats true to a point. But you can say there isn't truth in my statement. Its not all in my head as you claim it is.
But thank you for calling me the problem. That was a real encouragement. Now i feel the world is suddenly kinder after you felt overwhelming compelled to set me straight with back handed correction rather then positivity.
It would have been wiser and better received if you would have sided with me partially and then lead me gently into your corrective statement. But that's assuming you had that skill-set fully honed. The skill set of bringing others out of a slump or negative perception.
Keep up the good work trying to rescue taunt other people. Seems effective. 🤔
@@HansKr Its not that bold of a statement, its widely held. Love the reverse psychology of dont play the victim it doesn't suit you. You are cleaver. And i didnt put words in your month i used deductive logic to see through the underlying inference you were making.
Speaking of making inferences.
Thanks for spanking my butt too aka not spoiling me when i neaded the rod. Now wait there i go again putting words in your mouth aka seeing through your carefully crafted words.
Time to thinkevenclearer before you scold the highly aware individual to feel superior inside.
Sweetie. Discernment. Learn to make a life focused on beauty,wonder,love,miracles. Avoid TV radio negative people. Law of lower dimensions is you get more of what you focus on. Energy is like water it seems balance. Lower vibrations will deplete you. Raise your home and office to Temple. Rose scents holy Solomon seals beauty. Study immortal masters/earther academy/Taoist masters/avoid normal life. Grace on your soul. Be a light in the darkness and the darkness dims.
@@ancientonessanctuary1139 Thanks for your help. I am aware of these awesome things and i rigorously practice them believe it or not.
Im mearly voicing a complaint to see how many others have noticed what i have.
Anyone else also feel others’ physical pain?
Sometimes... Most of the time it's an echo in my own body. But then I can feel energy like it's a physical sensation... And see it in my third eye...
sophiabeldris I found out recently that I have pain synesthesia, so I’m apparently not alone! I feel pain when I see someone get hurt, and it does feel kind of like an echo, I guess. For me, it can be a painful, jolting, electric-wave feeling, or something like brain freeze, but in your body. And it’s not _horrific_, just unpleasant.
I wonder how many people in here have it, too?
@@mkuti-childress3625 Have you decided what you will do with this new gift? Or is it still too new for you?
@@BellisSophia what its like to see energy? I have this information that our mind is a sort of decoder or interpreter of the energy our body is receiving externally/internally. It interprets it via thoughts and reasoning. It makes me confuse sometimes. I don't know what is purely mine and not.
@@jJust_NO_ Of course we are all interpreters of energy according to our perceptions and experience, but discernment comes with experience and doing the work to know yourself. I've been aware since the late 90s when I realized I was sensing what people would do and what they were feeling and could anticipate their next move in chat rooms. It was then I began to explore this side of life and my ability increased as I used it. But it also increased with meditation and becoming true to myself through healing of my past and traumas. As I've learned to direct energy, I've learned to know it's taste and how it feels, and it's become a very nearly solid entity to me now. It takes time and work, but I would suggest journaling to understand yourself better and to understand what and how you feel when you sense energy and I would suggest daily or every other day meditation. These are good places to start.
Energy, for me, takes on different forms, at different times. Sometimes it feels like a nebulous thing sitting inside the body. Sometimes I see it as sparkling or colorful or dark/grey/muddy in the body through my third eye. The strangest and most interesting thing about my ability to feel it like a physical sensation is how it feels as if it has substance. It sometimes feels like cottony clouds, or sharp jagged rocks, or frenetic and unstable. I've felt it like pebbles of darkness or old scars, where the energy is blocked. As I have these gifts, I am now studying to become an energy healer, and I think that many empathic peoples, as they develop their gifts may eventually learn that they are in this world for some purpose... Perhaps simple to become clearer and grow closer to source so that they may hold Light or so that they may also help to heal and wake up the world... Where that leads us, I don't know... But it's beginning to happen, one way or another...
Hm...I have been in and out of therapy since I was 7 because I wasn't like my siblings. As an adult they labeled me as having ADHD...this answers SO MUCH about me! Thank you!
I'm so glad I'm not the only one who thinks Adhd has got something to do with being a heyoka empath. I think it's a terrible gift, feels more like a curse 😢
i thought i was bipolar then i start doin research not i’ve been woken up spiritually
I'm a music teacher and back in the early 90's literally from one week to the next not MOST but literally EVERY male student and a few female students parents talked to me at the beginning of the lesson to explain that their child had been diagnosed with ADHD and that they would be on riddling and trying to explain to me how it would affect them learning etc. I replied the same to all of them saying that I would teach them and approach them the way I do all my students which is individually so I didn't need any information from the parents as it is a non sequitur.
Point is, I privately was freaked out and started discussing with the other teachers who experienced the same thing. This is a manufactured condition or at least sensationalized and exaggerated which from where I'm standing stinks of big pharma trying to make another dime off of the backs of unsuspecting nincompoops! I don't have kids but if I ever did I would NEVER put them on those drugs. When I was a kid all of us 'hyper' kids were told to go outside and play or join a sports team and it worked like a charm! We came home tired and relaxed and ready to eat dinner, take a shower, do our home work and go to bed. Life used to be much more simple.
David Lee Roth from Van Halen was so hyper that his father called dinner time "monkey hour" but he didn't drug him up as far as I know (I could be wrong about that). Can you imagine if they tried to keep him calm and not let him follow his impulses? We would have lost the BEST and MOST energetic front man in rock music at that time.
Psychological conditions should not be a fad or popular. This shit is crazy!
Good luck to you!
@Tony_Ruiz Well, as someone who SUFFERS from ADHD it's really not cool to totally dismiss my whole life- the pain, the embarrasement of not being like everyone else every single minute of every single day. ADHD is real, my struggles are real. Just because the dx may have been over used doesn't mean it doesn't exist.
@@kimveazey9036 I didn't dismiss your condition. I certainly didn't dismiss your life or pain as I would never do that.
I was criticizing drug companies and psychologists and most importantly parents for making it a fad instead of a condition.
I had problems because even though I was not a stellar athlete growing up I was always in pretty good physical health and worked out etc. Once I was older and stopped working out I started having hyper active issues (never been diagnosed and I realize that even if I have adhd that there's a spectrum) but then I'd start working out again and things would get back to normal.
Most of the kids that I saw being forced to take the drug against their will did not need it. I don't know about you but I do know about my students. There were divorces over it and the children that went with the parent against taking the drug did better than the ones that didn't. This has no bearing on your experience this is my experience and I've heard the same from teachers all over during this time. MOST not all of the kids but most of the kids during that era I spoke of (and I suspect now) did not need Riddling or any other drug.
Being such a high level empath, it can be trying. It can drain energy.
that is soooo true!
Absolutely!
Yes, I’ve learned to temper my observations and emotional insights and readings but not saying them. To. E co a IOU’s that others deeply affect us, and is not our stuff
‘Can’ is the operative word there Kevin. You can choose to channel it otherwise💗
Every day I have to at least lay down for an hour to reset even if I can’t fall asleep I just feel drained.
I can walk into places and just get overwhelmed with energy or something and just get extreme anxiety
Mee too
Kindness is your strongest asset.
Kindly but firmly ( in thought ), tell the unpleasant emotion to return to its master.
E.g.You r not my emotion. Return to your Master, You are not Welcome here ".
For the empath, this mantra works beautifully.
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That's an interesting idea, maybe I'll try that
i had to start online schooling because other people’s emotions would interfere with mine and i didn’t know how to cope with it.
Same
I've never forgotten when an acquaintance told me they wanted to be friends but couldn't because it felt like I looked right through them into their soul.
So glad there are lots of us !
OMG - have had the same comment!😳. My boss told me our district considered me the ‘sage’!
Yes! And then there's these times when I walked away because I could see that they were starting to get insecure due knowing that I see them, but not being able to internalise as well, that I do not judge them, just because I see them. And at times, even though it hurt a lot, it meant being a proper friend by walking away and giving them space to recover from it and find friends who wouldn't trigger so much in them 😔
It's just impossible to mask the extent of insight even in protection of people once we get closer. It takes a lot of time to brief people of what friendship with me means. And we do need to talk about it beforehand for it to work. It's important they and I have ways to signal certain things in time and to be accepted as doing it with our relationship in mind!
It's like setting safe words 😆
Afraid so..
"I'm gonna get myself connected. I ain't gonna go blind. For the light which is reflected. I see thru you. I see thru you" ~ Stereo MC's (Connected)
i’ve been told this thank you so much for sharing😩💌
I have Every. Single. Trait. I’m blown away that there is actually a word for a strong empath. Feels kind of nice that there is a world out there with others like me.
2. We interrupt people because we know what they are trying to express and they're having a hard time expressing it so we're trying to meet them halfway, to spare them the full experience of having to re-live their trauma to communicate with us.
NOT because we just can't wait our turn or don't want to forget something.
Doing THAT would run counter to any kind of empath's instinct, as it would result in negative feedback from the person we're connected with in that moment.
It’s understandable but still rude 🤷♀️
I agree with Traya if my interruptions will fix the problem with a faster turn around than waiting for you to explain something you're having a hard time finding the words to express in true depths then yeap... better time management on my behalf now we can move on to another topic that needs fixing. Shoot....respect these free therapy sessions when greeting me lol but if the vibe ain't right 🫡 bye
Yesssss
It’s still rude but I do it too for those same reasons. I’m not trying to be rude
It drove my mummy crazy when I was kid! She would pause, trying to come up with right words! I would say was she was trying to say! She would shake her head and tell me to stop speaking for her! Lol
I just want a relationship with someone who fully understands me as I do my best to them.
I wasn’t happy until I started dating another empath who shares the same star sign as me. It wasn’t even on purpose, either. Wild.
If you already feel this way about yourself then it is only a short time before you will attract another with this quality💗
Me to
every comment i read here are literally my feelings. my fragile feelings. you are my people ! now i just have to learn how i live my life not just “be”
Try being in a relationship for 22 years with a narcissist well you have all the symptoms of this type of empath.... Very toxic but we can't leave each other
I've enjoyed using Quarantine as my get out of jail free card... my family and etc has exhausted me and now I'm not letting them down by keeping my distance. I'm healing
For sure...
Opposite for me, I’m stuck in my home with a household of 9 working 24/7. My insomnia has gotten horrible.
May you continue to heal my friend. Peace and love to you.. ❤️🙏❤️
@@Xaforn 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏 4 U 😢
A true escape
Being an empath is not easy, I feel everything from humans to animals. Normally its the pain, struggles, not so much the joys. I am now in my 60s and can handle the feelings of dread, the tightness in my chest, which is always the first sign that something is wrong, much better than I could in my youth. I believe it is a gift but not one that necessarily brings happiness. My daughter lives thousands of miles away in a different country but I still feel her emotions and know instantly when something is wrong. Thank you for this video, it was interesting and enlightening.
Being an empath, a blessing or a curse, sometimes I wish I wasn't, as how do you fit in, in a world where people are just out for themselves and don't care how much pain they inflict on you.
don't try to fit in with them dance to your own beat be yourself and the right people will find you. Most importantly just don't care what so called normal people think of you being different its your life not theirs plus theres really no such thing as normal if your happy who cares what they think so long as your not hurting anybody or thing.
I wish i wasn't, but since I cannot change, I've decided to turn it into a blessing. Enough of suffering.
Stay safe.
Geraldine Mitchell yes thank u i feel the same
Same.
Well im 🦂. So we just cut everything off and end up misunderstood. Hense why we have 7 stages of growth unlike any other sign. The Phoenix being the ultimate mental spiritual and emotional level we can achieve! 💪🏽🦂 Be well all
We often interrupt conversation because before they finish we already know what they are communicating and want to respond before our brains move on to something more interesting.
That is what I thought he was going to say, but was disappointed.
Also, we interrupt because we want to add into the discussion and help finding a solution.
I often interrupt people because I just thought of something, and I either don’t want to forget or I’m way to excited
That's typical of self professed empaths. Can't listen to others because self obsessed and so sure they know better than actual person. I have crystal shop and everyone who comes in proclaiming their empath status is actually a narcissist.
Every self centered immature (or just young and inexperienced and undeveloped person -) feel the same way. It's actually a natural lack of meaningful practicable empathy snd curiosity because it can be very difficult to set your own youthful and exuberant ego aside and think of all the original and clever things you can say that are more fascinating than the other person' s predictable trajectory (hint : many people lose faith and speak in boring template like language , imitating others, hence the element of surprise in comedy that delights us.and is a commodity nowadays and in days of court jesters etc.
As you get older you become a little more reflective and realise the enormous importance and gift of being able to patiently listen with an open mind people telling you things that they have gleaned from their journey. Naturally they will rarely seem as interesting to you as you are to yourself!
When a non believer in the millennial search for a defied identity along the lines of the shamans of ancient cultures e.g. Carla Castaneda, indigenous chiefs etc suggests thst they don't bother listening to others because they already know what's coming - it is both incredibly arrogant but also bland and suggests thst they don't have an original interesting personality themselves and are not well educated.
Read Socrates via Plato who says those thst think they know obstruct themselves from learning and growing with their solipsism.
Im sure they grow out of this but if wanting to be interesting and original and resh, read and be original and fluid, rather than a sheep buying into shallow incredibly arrogant and circular self flattering movement thst rationalizes its faults by claiming they arise through elevated superior.
The superiority complex is really deluded!
You forgot another explanation as to why they interrupt people: They are able to follow people's emotions so well that they know where the conversation is going and they figure it out sooner. And as soon as that connection is made in their mind, they have an automatic reaction which results with an interruption because they're eager to respond. Just like any one would after someone tells something interesting. The reaction time is just sooner for these empaths.
I was thinking about this one, too.
@Ricardo Gonzalez No, it is not being intentionally rude, though some may view it as being impolite. It is more that the person has already figured out what to say to their friend/family member/client/patient, etc because they sense the emotions and see the pattern. And as Dawn Bloss mentioned, once the connection is made, it is an automatic reaction. An automatic reaction is something done instinctually, not via conscious thought.
I can relate to this so much
Exactly what we are really reading is thought processes, it wouldn’t be useful to just feel an emotion and not know who it belongs to or why it is relevant. We feel emotions that are a response to a palpable thought process, I am jealous of that person , I am angry because this happens, I Feel lonely... When in conversation you can usually follow the thought process of the person and as soon as they have the thought you know what they are going to say.
This is what I usually do.
I agree with others, it’s a blessing and a curse. From a very young age I struggled with mental health issues and it really wasn’t until I became an adult that I finally was able to tell the difference between something I was genuinely feeling VS something I picked up. I’ve been working on using my abilities to help others and it can be exhausting yet rewarding!
How were you able to tell the difference? Thanks, Amy
I've always felt different, like I wasn't meant to be here. I remember being a little girl and looking at the stars while sitting in my window frame, or into my own eyes, just feeling so small and insignificant; that this world was not for me. I would ask, "Why could I not just be normal, like everyone else?"
Me too. I love the universe and the stars the entire galaxy but being on earth I just feel like there was something missing it’s so hard to explain but everytime I try to think about it. I get a warm feeling in my chest
@sunkissedmalice Ahh Twilight zone... took the words right outta my mouth, are...are you... Me?!
you don't know how much your comment helped me and the reply that empathized with it. I really felt like the only one feeling like that felt out of this world, and seeing these comments is gorgeous 💞✨
I’ve had this exact same experience woah 😧 💚🔆
I always dealt with being home sick even at home sometimes I will randomly say I want to go home
When you start to truly learn about your gifts you can learn to put up shields so you don't have to feel other people's energy if you don't want to. Use your imagination to build an energy field around yourself and while you do it, tell the energy field what you want it to do, block/ and transmute negetive energys, fill your energy field with calm and peaceful thoughts, think about carrying crystals. They can be very protective as well. Get plenty of alone time and rest. Start being mindful, and start a practice of meditation and gratitude. If you can do these things you will finally find a little peace.
Very good advice. Transmutation is the key.. This way you do not stall the eenrgy but redirect it. Gratitude is dissolving negative energies. It is possible that originally no energy is bad. Just when it stops and leads to buildup and cannot flow then becomes more and more destructive. Love stops frustruation.. When energy starts finding its own way becomes good energy.. Being close to yourself can create miracles. Your attention to oneself allows to center,. that ,leads to realization that one is one.. More love is created and then ...
@@kawagi1384 Thank you for stating this clearly. "Gratitude dissolves negativity. Love stops frustration." I've experienced this and now seeing your words I will be more mindful of how I'm transmuting 🦋
Don't block the energy that could be dangerous, just ground yourself and let it flow though you.
Once, long long ago, a healer told me to surround myself with a rose colored cloud (I use invisible pure love light now) that only allowed that which is beneficial to me to enter my space, and all else is returned to its source with Love for whatever is needed.
It was such a huge relief and my life changed for the better after, every day for a month or so, visualizing this rose colored cloud around me.
✨🦋🤍🤍🤍🤍💜🤍🤍🤍🤍🕊✨
I love how gratitude lifts our attitude and altitude and sets us free, and how genuine pure love indeed dissolves so many veils to reveal the Truth of whatever is before us.
@@kawagi1384 true..i believe there are many that have not taken the necessary time to be one with themselves.,they can be too codependent and/or jump into a relationship too fast after a breakup or look to another person for their source of happiness and love instead getting to know and love themselves first.
This isn’t just limited to people. A true empath also feels animals and not just pets.
Animals feel it. So many times people have warned me of their animals not liking men or other people and they immediately like me. I will be walking up to a wild animal and it will be fine, and then my sister who is an animal person will try going past me and then they will run off. Same thing with small children. I am not a kid person, but small kids like me lol.
YUP yup
YES. I have recurring nightmares about abattoirs. I feel deep love and even deeper sadness when I see cattle and sheep etc.
@@joelhunter3325 that's because you are a white spirit and they know that you are good! They can see your aura and they know you will not hurt them! I have also had the same experience in my lifetime and people will say that is a wild bull stay away from it LOL and I will be in the stall padding it and loving it and caressing it and when I try to leave it will try to bust out of the stalls LOLand one time I was driving down the side of the road and I saw a zebra on this person's farm and they had had a baby and I pulled over on the side of the road and the baby was just out of reach and I looked at the mom zebra and I said please let me pet your baby and I kid you not she used her head and push the baby to me so I could pet it LOL and children love me too LOL that just means you're a good person hugs hugs hugs
@@mindrolling24 the world is changing fast and we are moving into the Golden age so please do not worry about what is going to happen to this world that we are living in right now because without change we cannot grow and what that grow we stay stagnant hugs hugs hugs my dear friend I hope your dreams get better and dream of a golden future
I’m definitely a heyoka. Tears flowing because this information has humbled me and provided me affirmation. Thank you
I laughed when he said they try to do magic cause i can’t tell you how many times i thought i could move fire 🤣
😄😄😄😄😄😄
U can
I have moved fire!! 🔥🔥🔥
I am the fire and so are you, we can move it and go through it and not burn hahaha
Lol
I walked passed a man sat on the street with a bottle in his hand the other day and my eyes just started to water instantly. And I started to feel extremely low. I turned around to talk to him but then I sensed anger and danger so I had to walk away. Sometimes being an empath can get you into bad situations. Sense the danger when needed guys. Blessings to all 😊
We are natural healers.. & we know the potential we can rise people to. We are too selfless.
On one hand, it seems strange to me to think that not everyone thinks, feels, or senses this way because it’s all I’ve ever known. But on the other hand, I’ve always known that I was different; the “weird one,” so having someone who understands feels very validating. I’m not alone.
@@coutrychic I was known as the 'weird one' too and some still think this but to feel others emotions is a very special thing and we aren't the 'weird ones' ... But infact the 'blessed ones' 😊 Cherish your ability you beautiful soul x
I am an empath, and one time i was just getting off of work... long day, and this guy was at the gas station asking for a ride down the street and he looked in need of help. Of course I said yes, but when he got in I sensed danger.. and I sensed ill intentions to this ride.. I honestly got scared alittle, I didn’t have my knife ready but I embraced whatever was to come.... he actually started tearing up in the middle of the short ride and kept saying “omg you are so sweet, you are too sweet, you remind me of my mother, I can’t, you remind me of my mother” and when he got out he turned around and said “Thankyou..please be safe, don’t give out rides to people like me” I will never forget the time in his voice or the expression on his face; and on the way home I started crying. I know that man was at a point in his life where he was desperate, my intuition tells me that he planned on robbing me that night but he couldn’t bc he sensed his mother in the energy I carry. A blessing and a curse indeed, and it can definitely get you in some tricky situations.... All love Soul fam☮️✊🏼🧚🏻♀️
That didn't seem to help him very much?
1. A heyoka can feel the emotions of other people; 2. A heyoka always interrupts people; 3. A heyoka is just so uncomfortable when he has an unfinished or unsolved problem; 4. A heyoka is preoccupied with fantasies of unlimited abilities; 5. A heyoka is often a muse to others; 6. A heyoka goes the opposite or unusual direction; 7. A heyoka is creative.
This is not heyoka you racist settler cultural appropriator
8. A Heyoka is usually a tedious ,
self obsessed bore .
Oh God, I'm one!
@@2msvalkyrie529 - I was just thinking the same thing. I’m torn between the videos describing a narcissist being abusive and an Empath being attracted to them; how can that be a bad thing? Seems like they would keep each other occupied
9. A heyoka is really just a person who has very unhealthy emotional boundries and doesnt know that being an empath was never a thing before a tv character named Dr Deanna Troy
Definitely an empath, I’ve know this from age 11 but I believe my mom knew this at an early age. I struggle most with my emotions because I feel everyones pain that I being to come close to especially little kids. I try to hide my emotions but sometimes I have to get to a space where I can release my tears to help cope with my feelings! I’ve learned not to ask questions to my subconscious mind that I already know the answers too, unless I’m ready to deal with the confirmation. I’ve come a long way, when I was younger I struggle with myself because I’ve never known anyone that can teach me how to embrace my gifts. I’ve learned to help others without allowing people to take advantage of me! Thank you for this video!
People say when you say you are like this you are trying to seek attention. Which is not the case, I seek guidance. The isolating has come to a point of almost no return. I cannot relate to anyone and I am almost always living in my fantasy world. Many has said I am too complex and well I always figure people out quickly amd they don't like it. I attract narcissist asif I am a magnet. Therefore the isolation.
@Bay Bae Thank you so much. I do hope so too
Theresa, hi there💐 wow do I understand where you are at this moment in time how you are feeling 😊 for I to feel exactly the same. I can feel isolated and it can be a lonely place when trying to express who you are without feeling judged from others. It seems there are more of us than we realised 🕊💞. You are magnet for others, they are attracted to your energy of light for a reason, it is not because you act or pretend to be anything special, it is just who are, and soon you will embrace and accept with gratitude what is occurring and what you feel. You will understand it from a different perspective other than the so called normal of society. You are special, you do come with natural gifts Theresa to this world, and therefore, would feel isolated if not able to express and use those gifts. You don’t even have to fully understand it all, or explain to others. You only have to naturally be. Come out of isolation Theresa, for many people would benefit from you can share, without any effort.
I definitely do not want to seek attention and would prefer a more quieter life😂yet when I isolate myself due to feeling judged or finding it far to heavy to be here, I do start to feel worse. Your world is not fantasy, but one of spiritual, so step into this world and bring fourth your gifts. You will be able to heal others without even knowing. Your presence alone does wonders. It feels heavy, lonely and like me may feel you do not fit in with this place. Everything is changing now and there will be more acceptance of what is simply true.
🤗💐 everything that has came into your life, has only moved you more into a place of knowing. This can only be achieved from experience and braving all those sad and heartbreaking emotions. You came through for a reason.
Much love and light Theresa and a big hug xxxx
@@mazza893 Thank you so much for your kind words and inspiration. I appreciate it more than words will ever define. I battle to climb out of the closet. In all my years I have never met anyone similar to me, not even my mother could understand me, nor any of my family. I often thought that I was not part of them. Many many things has happened to me from losing my daughter, she drowned due to my ex-mother in law's negligence, my mother committed suicide and I was married for 25 years to a malignant narcissist from which I could break free but I had to start with nothing again and the worst part is I see my two daughters (22 & 17) only 3 times a year if possible due to financial reasons. Many other things has happened in my life that made loose trust in people completely. To keep my mind busy I devote most of my time to my work. Otherwise I will overthink everything.
He you, read your story and I relate so much... truth be told we attract what we are, birds of a feather, and our polar opposites.... through this we manifest relationships that are meant to teach us things on a soul level. This is the way God has chosen to teach us. God is good so hold on to your light... and learn from it all...love unconditionally
@@The1TrueTeacher Amen 🙏 thank you 🙏
The worst thing about being empathetic is knowing people's truth in lies, its almost a mind fuck when you try giving them a way out, we are so forgiving and feeling those negative dark energies can become insulting .
Yes it sucks.
Ain't that the truth!!!💯💯💯
Yes, it's very dissapointing when you want to forgive & move fwd past a lie or deception, just to see more- & lies are so blatantly obvious-( to us-) it's hard to fathom that they think we will buy it...
@@jerryhouck2237 Amen brotha
Where kindness is oft taken for weakness..... 😔
If most of us had been recognized as having these traits as a child and valued for them I don't believe so many of us would have suffered so many traumas that make us want to isolate ourselves. I did not know there was a special name for highly empathic people but I am glad there is. It makes me feel less like an outcast.
I don't know that it makes us less of an outcast it's simply explains why and that in itself can allow us to be more comfortable with who we are because it gives purpose
Just remember we didn't cause those trauma's ourselves. No one would feel like an outcast if the people around them cared in the first place. Love has one meaning and it has nothing to do with hate or greed.
Exactly!!! 💛💚💓💙💜
Tracy Puydak it actually makes you special and puts you at an advantage to helping others.
Tracy Puydak Empaths go through the trauma and pain they go through for a reason. It's to use their pain and experiences to help others. He says empaths aren't at an advantage, he is wrong. Empaths are very old souls. Meaning developing empathy has come from a large number of lifetimes of trial and error. For example I feel like the parent when it comes to my parents and I, because I have to use tactics to deal with narcissistic behaviour to avoid battles. Those tactics are similar to that of raising a child.
Being an Empath can be terrifying from time to time. The more I learn about it the better I can adjust to situations. Knowing is the key, you aren't alone. Thank you all for sharing.
It's kinda difficult when you grow up as an empath and nobody in your family can relate. I was constantly questioning my sanity/mind because I was always perceiving the world differently from everyone else. It brought me a lot of self esteem issues, not knowing wether or not to trust my senses.
It's funny how being an empath also makes you lonely because you hardly find anyone who to share your experiences with.
I totally related to your statement. The story of my life. You’re not alone. Thank you
I relate to that
If it's that serious you actually need to better understand friends or playmates and attempt to adapt on their grounds, to keep that void of uncertainty a little better distanced.
There is always that odd parental friend or whoever that from time to time actually connects entirely.
Your inner connection can get blocked through the self isolation because you get made to feel like the ugly duckling or black sheep, depending on the extent of your personal misfortunes.
@@ruthferry7047 , and it also helps to have your guidance from someone with a better affinity connection or else you are likely to get lost... 🙏
@@bertzerker747 That all sounds reasonable on paper. But how should a child have access to this kind of knowledge? Simply not possible, depends on sheer luck.
*Protect your energy, serve others, and be a beacon of light in times of darkness. God bless you all*
God bless good sir. Been searching for any born again comments.
@El loco holandes errante He does exist. But not in the magical fairy type way you probably deny him as. God is everything and in all. Life isn't a random accident my friend
@@nicebars He Most definitely does, ty for your post! He's given us this gift to help others.
❤️ God Bless You As Well !!🥰
Was jesus an empath?
I’d like to clarify as well for number 2 that when we interrupt people it’s not because we don’t care about what the other person is trying to say, it’s because we already know what they are trying to convey and we get really impatient when they struggle to find the words or the right example to communicate their thoughts
Same for me. You couldn't have put it any better.
Exactly
You got it !
This!! I was thinking exactly this when I got to that part of the video haha
Bingo
I absolutely cannot stand long phone conversations, it feels as if the persons energy is being funneled into my very being. It is so exhausting that I go to sleep.
I don't like oh calls at all trying to has become my energy blocker cause actual talk is painful
I don't do phone convo's, just text me. It's funny because in real life I'm very good at conversation. I think it's because I have to see a person's eyes, feel their energy, before knowing how to act around them. If that makes sense.
I replay the conversation after its over, for couple days at least.
@@ninahaverdil4789 Exactly! Do friends and family resent you for only texting? I have someone that is insulted if I say I have to go after 80 minutes.
@@toniunruh2314 I have someone who has kept me on the phone 3 hours,! There is nothing wrong with setting boundaries! If they get upset, that is on them. I have had to tell these chatty Cathy types my truth.i will block if needed. Protect you!😇❤️🙏
1. Feel other people emotion
2. Always interrupting people
3. Preoccupied with fantasies of unlimited abilities
5. Often a muse to others
6. Goes opposite or unusual direction aka anti mainstream
7. Creative
3. Sleep Solution 😉
I feel all of that so hopefully that is what I am too
It's painful being an empath. I feel everyone's feelings. It's so difficult. At least I know there's a name for what I am.
I highly recommend learning Vipassana meditation for any empath to learn how to cope and control the sensations and feelings. It saved my life.
I dont like it for their is alot off sick people and they just want to drain you for all your eanger even my feet is swelling when i get in my apartment from all the sick people that try to drain me i have too much.light i wish i cloud not see people wow wow too much pain
Agreed meditation is key
I didnt even know it existed.. then they started listing the "symptoms "..i was like holy shit thats me!
Litterally i can feel what others feel so strongly its hard to tell which emotion is mine
I never understood myself going through life. I’ve always felt something was wrong with me. My nickname in school started with Aunt because others were coming to me with their problems. Life has been very difficult. Only now in my 60’s I understand more of who I am. I feel others pain to the point of illness. I see through people and try to hide those thoughts because sometimes people realize I know without speaking. I interrupt during conversations but it’s unintentional and happens without me realizing it. My mind is constantly working and solving problems even-in sleep. I don’t have many friendships that are authentic so I’m alone quite a bit. Some peoples don’t like me and I never understood why. I long for authentic love but never experienced it. I don’t know why I’m here or what for. I struggle with this. Thanks for listening.
I can literally tell what people think of me even if we just met, I also can’t find “good” friends, there is always depressed people around me and people that need help. I have never had a friend that is doing just fine ya know
When WE need the most help but no one has the ability to cater to our needs. Be well all. 💪🏽🦂
Maybe it’s because that’s what you are. You attract what you are. I say that in the most respectful way. But what we give is what we get
Chiara Slavić same... embrace ur powers though... we need u✊🏽✨but of course rest lots tooooo💗💗💗💗
If you’re in that energy maybe help those if u feel stuck then elevate ✨✨✨✨
I can too. I hate that feeling when I can tell they dont like me lol
"If everyone was truly empathic the world wouldn't be in it's current state."
Yes... thank you! Some one had the guts to say it!
I agree... But everyone watching this feels they too are an empath. We all experience these feeling from time to time, it doesn't mean you are an empath. If the world could just be empathetic, that'd be a beautiful start.
A lot of narcissists believe they're empaths. Because they see no fault in themselves.
I think everyone has a little empathic ability occasionally. But, it's like common sense...you've got to "use it"/listen to make it work.
True talk girl lol
I have to redirect my energy back to taking care of me, everyday.
Truth Serum I know right 😣
So exhausting
So true. I find myself in that situation every day.
Lets all meditate at the same hour...or take a nap together...lol...
I feel you deeply and I resemble your remarks,just a reminder,this too shall pass and you will find your path again.keep the faith above all else!
Often, “highly sensitive beings” learned to be so as a result of early trauma, or events, that required them to have a hyper-vigilant focus on those around them in order to protect themselves.
If you think you might be an empath, perhaps you might explore what it might be like to focus more on both what YOU need how YOU feel, so that you can begin to move from your experience of survival toward thrival!
@@martinanderson8808 yea I like that “from survival to thrival”
I grew up with an alcoholic dad &. Narc mom. I wanted so much - a home that was not a war zone like the one I grew up in - I became a pleaser on steroids! I ignored hurtful behavior from my spouse just to keep the peace. Conflict avoidance constantly. INFJ + the perfect storm for a perfectionist.
@@davisholman6518 the perfect storm indeed
I have no Trauma from my younger years, I had a very loving Mum and Dad, and beautiful family and friends that surrounded me and wrapped me in love from a young age. This armored me for all the crap that came later and definitely shaped me. XXXXX
So right we tend to put others first to the point it feels wrong to be selfish, self love is maybe what most empathy sacrifice bc their so worried about others it’s hard to see their own need 🙏
About interrupting... Being able to read someone's emotions gives insight into some of their thoughts. This allows you to finish the sentences of others at times so you see it as an opportunity to connect but most just find it annoying.
Lol my life
I do it to get to the point quicker by asking questions differently or moving past the irrelevant parts of peoples banter.
Me too. Formal talk is exhausting
Robin & jen same 😊 and only certain types people are gonna be able/want to keep up lol x
I agree Kisha
It is vital for us to know where others emotions end and ours begin.
Oh yes. Just VITAL.
VERY VITAL!!!! But very hard to find the strength to not cry when you see the event as it's being told to you, because you know no one will believe you can actually see\smell\hear\feel the entire scenario. You could actually draw the missing pieces that the person has forgotten, but we Extro-noids don't exist. We aren't real. Another sister signing in.
@Ivan Ivanovich I find my calm in water. Float away under water in my tub, or pool. Just lay at the bottom of the tub or pool with eyes closed. No other sounds but my heart, my breathing, and my thoughts. Then I allow my power to reach out 1 inch at a time. Search out bodies, emotional states, and brains. Until I am nearly filled, and then like water.... like the tide of the beach I release them all to go back.
@@damaramcelrath-fatherree9732 i was being sarcastic. All you “empaths” take yourselves way too serious, and watched too many episodes of Star Trek Next Generation
It's a lot easier said than done especially if i'm picking up on something really intense. I usually am aware of how I feel before I go somewhere and can recognize if and when that changes. The hardest part for me is picking up on my family and friends because even if i'm not there or directly involved I always want to help.
I am a battered Empath. I have all of these qualities and more. My life has been a mystery until I discovered that I was an Empath. At 65 I'm trying to get my shields in shape so that I don't end up in a heap from all the energy.
I can sense someones emotions, even when they are really dark, and sneaky and evil, and low key bitter and angry.
How does it feel when u sense the evil like is it just a feeling of do u notice things they do as well if so what's some things they do
same its like you know if you go near them there's going to be trouble
I can too, but I don't care anymore. I just avoid them, and if they try me, I show them my power. Their energy is completely on them, and has nothing to do with me
@@paulwalker8213 its is something in the demeanor ....a shift in their energy ...a look ,they way they walk or a wave of energy surrounding them .and that gut feeling that u are encountering...also u get the feeling of predatory influence ,also u look at their eyes they are empty or dark ...there is something off with them ..instinctually wrong ....reptiluan like in their behavior
And now I’m crying because it makes sense, people don’t get me and now I feel more normal after watching that. Thank you.
You are not alone my friend
Its difficult when you feel everything. But remember even tho your feeling someone else's pain its not yours.. N we should stop trying to own the worlds troubles it just causes is more grief. Blessing n curse we are
Chrystal my love, you’re not alone. I recognise it and often saddens me to see and experience often in life how harsh ‘n mean & indifferent people can be (probably often not even knowing themselves!) and therefor it makes yourself (and most people on here I guess) even feel more misunderstood. Things can touch you right to the core at any given moment, that’s bloody tough especially when people state you as ‘over-emotional’ in the way it makes you feel weak, the tone they use. (which are often the ones that can’t even feel empathy you spell it out.
But thát’s the reason we can all ‘meet’ on these channels to experience our connection.
All of you beautiful people 🥰 who feel solitaire & lonely: it touches me to the core knowing & experiencing the same and I’d like to think that even listening to this brings us all together.
One world One love ♥️ 🌈
YOU ALL ARE SO WORTH OF BEING! (Said the woman who -@41- Still tries to put it all in perspective herself.... I never knew until a few years ago).
Sending all of you strength 🌷
@Re A You are so welcome!! Much love 💕 Jojo
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This is the reason why I choose to build a house in the middle of nowhere.
Right there with you.
My first thought: ... You can do that??? Lol. But actually I started wanting this when I was 20. To build a hut in the middle of the desert, but close enough for supplies, so I could commune with nature and people in a shamanic way and be one of those crazy guru types who will tell you strange wisdom if you dare approach them, but who is actually super friendly and makes weird connections with people in places like the mall too. Lol. I think that's still my dream?? Haha
Have vivid daydreams constantly of off grid living in different climates and terrain. Used to build homes and other projects n still build in my mind which people make fun of my "thousand yard stares" and strange urges to fix everybodies health problems. I love n hate being an empath cuz when you argue about wrong issues with wrong people u become a Target of hate n false accusations. Count me in on middle of nowhere healthy living.
@ImBoReD Are you not afraid of the mosquitoes? :(
@@williampike5005 Have a better time soon. :)
Yes it’s true we interrupt because the fleeting thought will disappear also half way through explaining we have already worked out what you want to say and now what we want to say
I feel like a chameleon, colors and vibration. Sounds are important, music. I despise drama, when my patience runs out, I mirror with power. I chose empathy and compassion, integrity. I love people, periodically.
Wow, that's a good description. I resonate
Beautifully said Roy
Bet your a Pisces in some way. Sun moon of rising. The chameleon.
Or**
Virgo leaning on Leo the sun and earth. My experience as a spirit pretending to be human.
As a mature empath, ie in my sixties, grandchildren etc you do learn strategies too protect yourself, but sometimes they can be counterproductive and you can to the other extreme and appear insensitive when really you are checking out in order to stay sane. I applaud the self awareness of this generation who recognises empathy as something that needs to be understood for the sake of the empath.
In my 70's as a mature Heyoka I agree.
Im 69 and this insight has become stronger. Knowing what your husband thinks of you or unfaithfulness is very hurtful. He passed and the children have moved away, so I m alone. I cannot be in a crowd, the scenes from people is just too much, but I believe it has kept me alive.
@@gailborden689 Hugs Gail. I am aso alone at 74. After hubby died it took me 6 months to be able to go to the store shopping just for necessities, alone. I has two friends that understood my needs and lets just say protected me. This was not an oh my I can not take care of myself situation it was everything coming at me at once. Hubby sheltered me from the people and knew when the effort of being in a crowd overcame me. Might sound silly This has really helped me. I built a shield of crystals I never take off. I researshed and chose the crystals that worked with or supported or shielded me from the external energies coming at me. It took awhile to get it right. I still hate the need to go to the store and am wipped out for hours after I get home trying to calm my crazy ass down from dealing with so many emotions coming at me.
Really crazy thing is the children. I am not even fond of children. Never wanted any and had none by choice. But in a store the children tear me apart. I see them being dragged around they are tired hungry or need to go potty and mom is just into shop shop shop and scolding them when they fuss. I really just try to keep my head down get what is on my must have list and get out and home as fast as possible. A 90 mile round trip drive is not helpful but I also choose to live remotely in a tiny mountain town. My dream even as a child. Thankfully hubby also had the same dream. I am pretty sure he too was an empath and he read me like a book. I miss that dear man but there will be no more. I am so over playing house. Hahaha
Stay strong and take care of you every day. Make your surrounds in your house all for you and beautiful. Create your sanctuary.
I speak for the trees!
Omg please help me.. I'm already like what you're describing and I'm 38! 😭
I cried. I finally know why I have trouble to not interrupt someone! I knew I was an empath (as a child, they called it a very sensitive person) much later in life, recognized myself as a true empath. I even have extraordinary occasions of premonition dreams, feeling danger before it happens.. I love and want to help everyone be happy. I meditate to help me with boundaries and not to absorbed everyone troubles. But the interrupting problem sometimes did put me in a bad category of impolite .. merci
you seem to be like me. I cant even remember dreams becasue my brain never stops while I sleep. The few I remember are either a premonition, a warning, a message from someone... In that semi awake/semi asleep movie I make movies in my head about solutions to issues, how to face things, etc... for me to interrupt people is mostly becasue I know what they will say before they say it... i dont even realize I do that until they complain
I really feel almost everything you've written. I do make large effort not to interrupt others. I just feel what they are going to say or not, because sometimes they hide the truth even from themselves and if I speak they revealed their thoughts easily, not to me- I don;t care, to them. I only want them to be happy. I can't solve everybody problems, but if I don't try I don't feel me, you know, no matter if I give much more myself to others than maybe i am supposed to according to most of people. The one that really hearts me, is that they think sometimes that I;m doing it over my powers, but most times I really try not to do more, because I understand they can;t handle it. It is so too much for some people, because they aren;t used to it. And if I speak about dreams, it;s a very big chapter. And only that. I really can feel the pain of someone, even before they feel it. But I like who I am and I really feel blessed and happy for being like this, nor even few can understand it. I just want them all to be happy!
i know exactly what you're talking about though i only recently discovered that I am an empath i have always struggled with waiting for my turn to speak and no mamtter how hard i try i aways end up being a little different. though im still discovering my other empathic abilities
@Nancy L. A quote that I try to remember when i listen to someone who is telling me about their struggles is:
"Observe, Don't Absorbe"
As an empath It's really difficult but sometimes we just need to observe for our own well being 🙏🏼
Same here.
I came out of difficult situations in my life by reading Allah Qur'an quote,
Enjoin what is good,
Keep away from the foolish,
Forgive the wrongdoers,do not punish them.
(Allah will punish them.)
This video doesn't distinguish between healthy & well-trained empaths and those who have been traumatized &/or not yet healed or educated on their gifts. Thats a super important distinction to make.
Finally i found the reason why i tend to interupt people and go for extra miles to fix problem 😳
Haha. I feel your pain
I call it foot and mouth disease, insert quarter and go for re-ride. I never try to interrupt anyone but if I know whats behind their words and what they really think, words just pop out. When they look shocked or hurt I try so hard to explain that I didn't mean to be so blunt nor hurt you.
I'm still on a learning curve and I'm old.
@@juancifuentes9408 well i just easily forgot what i want to say, that is why i interupt people yet i try so hard to control it.
It’s so hard to stop and you notice at the same time it’s bad but you can’t help it because you don’t want to forget I can’t control it
Ha ha I know what you mean
Does anyone else hate being an empath? It makes normal everyday actions so much harder.
I kind of hate it. It’s physically and emotionally draining and I sleep a lot. I daydream a lot and can barely concentrate on anything else if I have it in my mind that I want to think about a particular thing. Also, having Anxiety and Depression just makes everything worse because then I feel everything two or three times as strong. Especially feelings of anxiety and of sorrow. Sometimes I wish I knew how to control it. I like having fun, but if there’s a huge crowd -- like in a restaurant- I feel sensory overload and want to cover my ears and just leave so I can actually breathe freely. On the flip-side, I have been told I made a difference in someone’s life either with my written word (I’m a writer) or face to face conversations. But I also tend to interrupt. My boyfriend tries to shush me but I hate being silenced and he tends to interrupt me too. But he’s made a difference in my life as well; he knows when I’m lying about a feeling or upset and don’t want to talk about it. Maybe we’re both empaths. Although I think I cry more than he does. Lol. He rarely shows it even though I told him that I respect him more when he shows emotion because I understand it and because it’s comforting to remember that he’s human too and has flaws just like me. But yeah, sometimes I just wish I wasn’t so darn sensitive.
No guys, it only hard in the first time, when you feel the unconditional love so clear, so strong, so powerful from universe with gratitude fullfill, that when you realized it such an amazing gift, please don’t let them overwhelm you guys please, everything you been through just a challenge, a test
@@godisthemostgorgeousmiracl7491 Thank you for saying that; sometimes I (or all of us for that matter) need reminders of why we should be thankful that we are creative and emotional because without people like us who empathize, there would be no compassion for others and thus no one would be helped when they are desperately in need. It's people like us who talk down potential suicide victims, volunteer at animal shelters, speak when no one else will, and give of ourselves in love and beauty. Sometimes it's just difficult to see the forest through the trees and remember that we are needed. :)
Holly Fiore Hope you be okay ^^, it hard but we’re warriors too, thank you for everything you did to healing yourself and also the community 🥺
John Grey I’m okay yes. Thank you very much. I hope you’re doing well too. And yes, there will always be a special place in my heart for humanity; I haven’t given up yet. Because for all the dislike I have for most people, I still know we all have the potential to be kind, and thus I also like people.
Empaths be like: "Ima let you finish BUT..."
... But have you thought about this other point of view ? ;)
There is always a "BUT" and even if no one wants to aknowledge it, we're bound to remind them ... that's what make our life so excitingly painful.
Hahaha yes. All love.
Neri hah. that's totally me. then i feel bad afterwards if i think i kept them from saying everything they ment to say. that could just be me over thinking things though.
but yeah, do it out of love.
YEP! We're gonna let you finish because YOU'RE NOT GOING TO INTERRUPT ME
Neri I thought he was gonna say “empaths interrupt people because they know what they’re gonna say” but everything made sense lol
Does anyone else have a mind that thinks 24/7 and dreams every minute of every night? My brain never has a moment’s peace. Even meditating is difficult.
Both my niece and I, have had dreams that were a 'full length movie'. Equipped with multiple distinctly different and interesting characters, a plot - beginning middle end - with scenery and even flashbacks into the character's lives. In fact on occasions mine will be a trilogy!
Same here it's so intense. 😭
Yep. I've said for decades, my mind works on at least 3 levels all of the time. As for meditating, thinking, and anything else, I don't fight it. I think of it as trying to ride a herd of horses. Of course I can't do that, so I pick one. I don't try to stop the others, I just focus on riding the one. If I fall off, I take a breath, refocus, and get back on. Just keep getting back on.
If you want to meditate, try doing it while keeping your body busy with walking or yoga.
The same I have to sleep meditation app
I'm also INFJ which is super rare and makes sense to why I feel like I'm alone or born at the "wrong" time.
omg same I feel like no one can understand me :/
Me too 😞
Me too
My Myers-Briggs has changed over time. I actually can't remember what I am now.
INFJ myself-I feel every word of this❤
I’ve always known I was “different” so I am beyond grateful that there’s an explanation I can fully feel and understand. Thank you so much.
Exactly! You said what I was thinking! 😊
USA4me 🙂✨🌻✌🏽
same here...only took me 42 years...lolol
Me too
Kimba M 😂🙂🙂🙂🙂
OMG
This so me. I knew it wasn't in my head. I would tell my small group of friends that I could feel other people's feelings, but they didn't believe me. Forget about going to a funeral. I would get physically sick being around all the sadness. This video explained a lot. Thanks
It's always hard when you feel so much you don't feel anything anymore because it's exhausting to feel so much all of the time. Like, when you have cried so many tears you cannot cry anymore
Yeah. I can't cry with my heart aching. But, only sometimes though, I can cry for the pain of someone else.
Preach!
So so true....
Just learn to channel those emotions so they don’t find your soul, it’s simply by strengthening the person ie: a cup of tea, a pat on their back, a hug, always letting them know your there, but you as the empath keeping watch on your own energy or “giving” will become a draining process.. know also that what you give in the way you help ppl.. maybe no one else may see what you do.. we are observed by a greater empath above and he rewards us inwardly with a feeling of peaceful success in how we made someone’s day! Look Lady Diana was a empath, so imagine all the unrest she experienced- the good thing is she made changes in a place that really needed it! We have that ability - keep smiling :)
I neither cry, nor laugh like I used to. I also isolate despite my deep down desire to connect. I had to self protect. I had a good home life as a child, pretty crappy school like though.
Everything hurts all the time 😔 There is pain everywhere. I struggle with being functional sometimes. Anyone else?
Always.
Yes. Very much so
I feel physical and emotional daily, I'm just used to it. I don't know any other way.
set borders. My believe is to say to me: No that is no my emotion and dont will carry them
I have to force myself to get up everyday I feel emotionally numb and drained 😢😭 finding happiness is the only goal in life
I've been an empath since I was a young child . I grew up with several narcissists and was targeted by narcissists ever since .
My willingness to try and help others is the bullseye on my back .
I only learned about narcissists last year when I was 66 yrs.
I did learn how to tolerate them and eventually leave them and now I value my alone time just thinking.
I don't share much of my thoughts anymore but it allows me peace and peace is all that I desire . I feel other's emotions and sometimes cry while they are holding back .
Reunions and separations really fill me up with tears because I can feel the heart breaking yurning that is or was and that pain is unbearable 💔
Me too. Im 72, my story is very much the same
I'm 40 & I absolutely relate to every word you wrote.. wow.. I thought I was alone & just F#@!Ed up somehow.. lmao.. Unbelievable.. For the first time I totally get it!!! 🌸🦋🌼🐸💙✨️🙏🌞
You was born an empath
me too,im just finding out about it all
i feel the same,ive realised too late ,wish i knew then what i know now ,my kids are parents ,i love my grandchildren to bits,,i dont have one photograph of them altogether ,any get togethers were done separately , i value my alone time now having new experiences and adventures ,free from feeling overwhelmed with their bad behaviour towards each other and towards me ,but at what cost,,i long for a family ,us all being together and loving each other
I have known for a very long time that I am an Empath...but did not realize that I was a Heyoka.
Thank you for sharing your knowledge and wisdom!!!
Blessings of Love and Light my Friend!!!
I just came across this and I maybe one. I cannot feel full filled unless I go above and beyond to help others around me. Sometimes it drains me hard but I still go on.
Growing up in an abusive home, I felt completely overwhelmed with emotions and felt completely broken! It took YEARS to realize I am an empath! I now realize I could feel my mothers bipolar and mental illness. Her hatred of me and all the crazy feelings she felt! At one point we didn’t speak for over 10 years. The last 2 1/2 years of her life she spent in a nursing home as, not only was she mentally ill, but she was in a wheelchair, and had dementia! I visited her everyday and did everything I could to help take care of her , including washing her clothes every evening after work, as she was incontinent. I took her on outings, bought her anything she needed, etc. In those 2 years I somehow built a wall to where her words/abuse didn’t effect me. After years I have now come to realize I’m an empath! I wish I had known what an empath was years ago. It would have kept me from so much of the guilt and shame I’ve carried all life. I’m not broken, my mother was…..
Blessings ' to you Michelle !
My experience has been that growing up in an abusive home is what made me into an empath. It's a gift I cherish, a real silver lining.
Scapegoated child and also probably an empath here. I’m not broken either, my mother and sisters are. Taken me 50 years and much confusion to learn this. God bless us who have lived this painful life. Grateful for the learnings 🙏💕
Yes she was. It wasn’t you. You were wonderful to her blessings to you
May the universe give you many blessings!
Protect yourself,
Then all will be better.
Go for your intuition.
People always want something from you, sometimes to use or steal from you.
MAXIM, Holland Nederland sometimes people just need a hand also. Ultimately humans are wired to be skeptical and survival, but there is a rare fulfillment found nowhere else, than helping another, out of unconditional love.
Cynic
@@kinglewisjtl24
Maybe but im done with helping others. 🤗
@@maximhollandnederlandthene7640 Ok! If you are able to feel purposeful and flourish without helping others, you probably wouldn't be fighting the urge to help others. I hope your journey is graceful
Explains a great deal. Thank you. Accepting this as true, helps me understand why I am able to find so few commonalities with others, and why most everyone that I have ever known has such difficulty understanding me and my point of view.
I love my Empaths. I wish we could all meet up and change the world
Ikr
Where's the seminar 💞💗💞
"the dawning if the Age of Aquarius"
Or just go live on our own. Let society continue to beat itself down
Me too. It's all I think about sometimes
It is my understanding that empathy this deep isn’t entirely organic. It is a survival instinct of a neglected or abused child. I was made an empath by my abusive narcissistic mother and sister. You learn to pick up absolutely everything to try and avoid their abusive blowups and tantrums. Every scenes you have is heightened to a perfect pitch. It isn’t an extra sense. I have even considered electric shock therapy to stop it. There is so much hate and anger today that I can’t be in public without panicking. I feel EVERY one of them.
Maybe look in to RTMS treatment! Repetitive Trans Magnetic Stimulation. I’m currently receiving this treatment in London UK. It’s taking a while, you need to commit five days a week for up to three months but that might depend on where you are. I think it is helping me, definitely with my really acute PMT. After completely burning out and becoming a hermit for two years I think I’m getting closer to thinking about getting back to work and actually seeing people again. Sending love and strength to you. ❤️💪🏼
@@Padraigp I’m very confused by your comment, my comment was about RTMS treatment.
@@nicholamc2629 ah yes I see that my mistake.
@@Padraigp Thank you for clarifying.
Go beyond even that and the Gene that carries that memory is also carried in each following generation. Knowing animals, I'd say it is instinctual and innate.
Yup. That's me. I wish I had known this stuff 40 years ago; it could have saved me decades of hell on earth.
Yep! Its harsh out there.
Dude, me too. Could have saved a lot of trouble!!
God isn’t that the truth!
We are just weird to everyone else. But to us We are the beautiful
Same.
I had to walk away from the toxic ppl in my life. Turned out it was the best thing for me. 10 yrs later, I think I'm ready to give it a try again with the family.
Being married to narcissistic ...imagine the sadness...never again. I feel like a super hero kicking butts of narcissistics and there are so many of them. Oh my word.
Sometimes its just bitterness that gives false emotions as a narcissists. Some people just never catch a break and it hardens them
Aneesah Haron It nearly destroyed me. I’m not kidding. I’ll NEVER let that happen again. I’d rather die. It would be less painful.
I also married a narcissist and abusive person. Constantly changing with their every whim. Walking on egg shells because you just.... know. That first two weeks of being separated I slept sooo good!
Im with a narcissist too, very draining.but things maybe changing if certain things aline ...
Being married to a covert narcissist is soooooooooooo draining. I left so many times but came back for many reasons and none make sense. I feel stuck in a cycle and tired.
Sending love to all those who need it 🫶🏻 my heart feels heavy but our hearts are still beating! There’s so much love within ❤️
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I hope you are having a beautiful day/night (idk your time zone) + may your life journey be everything you ever dreamed of and much more ❤️❤️❤️
idk why it’s using my other RUclips acc 😭😭
I need it, please send your love to me.
@@sueelliott4793 ❤
I cried when I saw this especially when the mentioned how we take on others problems and invest in them more seriously than they do.
I learned to stop doing that. It was really hard, but my first like free trial was this girl I met who became really obsessed with me, as she says herself. I told her that I need to build up my energy so i can handle being around her as her problems become mine too! In doing that, she appreciated how honest I was since most people just block her. But it taught me how to do the same to friends much closer to me, and when I started being honest about my needs, they showed me their true colours. And those colours are beautiful, friends who understand that you need time away, are the friends that will help u develop UR empath skills immensely.
Yea but they never take the time out to help me but I always give all my energy to their problems and it has a toll on me
👁 gnow man 👁 so got to get in control of that. Their problems are not our own yet at the same time as a whole it is.
It’s very uncomfortable being an empath. Sometimes I have excruciating emotional pain that I know is not mine. I’ve discovered over the years, the only way to get rid of is to go through every person I know in my mind. When I get to the right person, the pain lifts and I pray for them. Sometimes it makes me double up.
Do you cleanse your spirit and aura regularly? We must, as seriously as we must shower and wash our dishes.
Wow beautiful realization.
That is a great practice to do! Thank you for sharing that 😊
There’s a good reason it’s very uncomfortable... Paradoxically, the empath is OUT of touch with themselves, perhaps even more so than the narcissist. The label of “empath” is just another mask of self-aggrandizement.
Tip for you. Start your day with visualizing a white or golden protection shield around you. Repeat when you have many people around you. Namaste.