JP YOU ARE SO AUTHENTIC. YOU CALL IT LIKE IT IS. YOU ARE A TRUE EDUCATOR. I LOVE COMING ON YOUR CHANNEL. I REALLY LEARNS A LOT. THIS IS A LEARNING CHANNEL. GOD BLESS YOU BROTHER TO INFLUENCE MORE PEOPLE 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿
She did the right thing thing, gone are those day that woman was to stay home, make babies and cater to men. I left my Jamaican husband for the same thing. He did not bring me from anywhere, I meet and married him right here in America.My did not want me to go back to school and educate myself. I left his ass, took care of myself and son. I retired as a nurse and our son is a cardiologist that I raised and educated by myself.Now after 40 years he got the nerves to call me and asked my forgiveness and telling me he is so proud of me for the way I raised our son.
Nothing beats a woman having her own money. Most times, whenever a man wants to support a woman fully financially and does not want you to work, it's because he's controlling and just wants someone who will be at his beck and call who just stays in one place and does only what he says. I could never deal with that, I love my independence and having my own so I completely understand where the lady is coming from. Congratulations to her for leaving him and for trying to further herself. Being a single woman who earns your own money, have your house where you live alone with no one to make a mess, no one to cook for, being free to do anything you want, especially in a country like US where there are so many things to enjoy is so precious it's like gold.
IF YOU HAVE A WOMAN and she wants to elevate herself through an education, the Man should be glad to support her with that. Allow her to achieve whatever she foresite as posible and in turn you will advance you also. Woman don't fall for being deprived or held back.
JP I love the fact you call a spade a spade you not bias. Husband not thinking if something happens to him, she’ll be able to support herself… he selfish
Thank you for being brutally honest. The same thing happened to me and when we come into the country our own husband treat us like we’re less than. Thank you for the other side of the story I’ve lived it.❤❤❤❤❤
Jay she did the right thing. America is not a place to come sit down when there is so much opportunities available to you. I was in her shoe in Jamaica and promised myself when I left Jamaica I was done with the relationship. I had a 3 year old child and working until 6pm in Kingston. My son’s father had a car and wouldn’t even come to pick us up knowing I’m struggling with the child on the bus from way up Constant Spring to CampView. When me reach home not even the kettle the man put on and sit down waiting for me to come make him tea. I left Jamaica and I was going to help him but him start show him true colors with women so I left him took my son and never looked back.
I met a man and he asked whats my plan for 5yrs and i told him to build a house in Jamaica where i can go to. His response was thats not a plan a house is not a home.. i said okay if having a relationship and marriage is your plan i will see you in a next life. Right there and the i blocked him. Right infront his face.
I am watching from connecticut.this man think that jamaica is like america .i do the same type of work like her .this lady is a cna she is ambitious she up lift her self .this lady have to put money in the sysyem for her to get her social security .one hand cannot clap this man should be glad that she want to work .
It takes 2 in these Countries if you have a spouse it’s a must that you share the responsibilities in the home when you are both working or else it will not work. We have to learn to change our thinking.
@@Humble_Boss-i7s I know because I been there too, but with my Determination and ambition he couldn't tell me nothing. And I believe when men do things like that is badmind them badmind.
Blessed weekend to you. I don't know what is wrong with some of these women/man if you know you are going to abuse, leave the person go all out to get married to just leave that person why do you even get involved stay where you are. Everytime I listen to these stories I bawl because a the same way my mom ill treat my dad and throw him out in the winter time and when they were in Jamaica they were together for 12 years for my mom to do that was pare wickedness just lowe my dad if that was your intentions and let him be. I can never understand how someone could do that to someone else's child. No matter what a person did in a life. The woman change. You see when you mek the world change you we forget the bible principles. Nothing is wrong with working and having your own but this is why the world is the way it is forget the bible principles. Just to say I want to be independent. What is wrong with working and taking care of your husband and the husband taking care of the wife. Teamwork make the dream work right. People nowadays make things too complicated in the household when it doesn't need to be.
Jay y progress it doesn't matter what ages you are to learn as long as you are still living Jamaicans people is still behind school are for everyone to continue educating our self. Here in England no-one go and look after any older people if you do not have have any education such as N V Q or HEALTH CARE social care nursing care worker other wise you will not have the job.. My blessings to you jay y progress keep helping the people.
You know how many men send them to School, and then walk away from them. 😮😢 Dont let know one use you. America is not a bed of roses, So let them come and see what America is all about. 😢😂😅😢
CNA Certified Nursing Assistant. Jayy now a days they want certification for everything. Years ago teachers did not need that but I guess the last 20 years, teachers do a state exam,, you pass and you are license by the state. YOu are now a certified teacher. Taking care of old people, you now have to do an exam. So yes, CNA.
I know people who are 5o odd years old and return to higher education to do Bachelors, Masters degrees. Yes elevate yourself. Jamaican people in Jamaica have a different mentality about school.
When u are in a different country for u to get a work to look after the elderly or small children u have to go back to school even if it’s a cleaning job as long as it’s around the elderly u have to go back to school as long as you get a certificate the job pays you better so the lady is getting a good salary that’s why the man behaved like that ❤❤❤
I don't know why people pay good with evil.The devil really played with her destiny like football.Some people will have opportunity and throw it away. Big up JAY GREATEST VLOGGER
What people fail to understand is the America you know is different when you get here. Like he said a lot of opportunities here. Some man a whole dung. Mi no wah no man take care a mi. Kmt. The amount of work me can do. Applying for a job for me is ridiculous. My boss them nah make me look no more work lol.
Im gonna disagree on this one . The man did not change he is a provider and wanted a woman to play her role that she happily did for years. She was happy to be taken care of whilst he was away and sist at home . Why did she not look to elevate herself then? The man knew what he wanted and she played that role until she didn't want to. When she came to america she did not have the freedon and space away from him so that's what she now wants. We've been conditioned as black women to act like we are the man and we are independent and don't need a man . This is the thinking of the modern woman. Unless the man was not providing then i see an issue . Other cultures have no issue with this . The man did not change period
Their should be some kind of communication. Their needs to balance. I worked as a Psw double shifts and I still find time to carter to the needs of my husband and vice versa. A woman should be a man's backbone that is why most of dem single a talk about independence. The woman is a helper. What did the bible seh but no people want to do everything the world a do. She probably have a next man. And had her plans. Most woman plan out before leaving.
It's very expensive in NYC. Two hands clap 👏 Bothe person should work together is a better deal. Things never stay the same things change. We evolve. Come on. Mask haste as the sun shine. When we get older, it's harder. Go lady Go. She has a plan to enjoy life😅
Good afternoon my friend I laugh so still I almost cry I forget am at work man u speak the truth nail on the head especially when u say eno kiss --- u know the rest 😂😅😊❤
I love the way this man thinks. I am no Jamaican; but he is so right. Women want to be a part of making life better for both parties. Want if the man gets sick; she can support the family
The woman has ambition. Even to clean sh…. In the foreign country you have to be trained. Lazy man. Thanks for putting this out there. I agree with this woman ❤
Went to look about some paperwork in JA due to the situation was told that the person is able body so it couldn't work. Might I add I have a disabled brother and he works so I don't understand why able body people don't want to work. Like a family member who the woman work and the man don't. He doesn't cook or clean he have to wait until she comes home for all that. From I was born. Big clown
Biting the hands that feeds you is ungrateful if the man did forget her in Jamaica it would be a different conversation The man is loyal and expects the same nothing wrong for the woman to work however it is expected for women to be in the position of taking care of the household is how they decided and the man brings the money This conversation is another story of deceitful and deception and untrustworthy behaviors it is said "the arms of flesh will fail you you dear not trust your own"!!!
Thay both have to work together who came home first start dinner foreign is different work together the woman tired and fedup so she left his ass he expect the woman to come tired and cook,clean,wash i will run and don't look back .He loss a good woman. Some men bring there woman or man over and thay want to control them .
You are funny!can relate to some of what you are saying.some spouse don't want you to be better, they want you to be dependent.i take a hike and never look back.
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JP YOU ARE SO AUTHENTIC. YOU CALL IT LIKE IT IS. YOU ARE A TRUE EDUCATOR. I LOVE COMING ON YOUR CHANNEL. I REALLY LEARNS A LOT. THIS IS A LEARNING CHANNEL. GOD BLESS YOU BROTHER TO INFLUENCE MORE PEOPLE 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿
She did the right thing thing, gone are those day that woman was to stay home, make babies and cater to men. I left my Jamaican husband for the same thing. He did not bring me from anywhere, I meet and married him right here in America.My did not want me to go back to school and educate myself. I left his ass, took care of myself and son. I retired as a nurse and our son is a cardiologist that I raised and educated by myself.Now after 40 years he got the nerves to call me and asked my forgiveness and telling me he is so proud of me for the way I raised our son.
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Congratulations my Dear you have done Simply Amazing!💯💯💯Blessings!❤❤❤❤
Good for you Girl. Respect to the maximum 🙏
England 🇬🇧 in the house.
Nothing beats a woman having her own money. Most times, whenever a man wants to support a woman fully financially and does not want you to work, it's because he's controlling and just wants someone who will be at his beck and call who just stays in one place and does only what he says. I could never deal with that, I love my independence and having my own so I completely understand where the lady is coming from. Congratulations to her for leaving him and for trying to further herself. Being a single woman who earns your own money, have your house where you live alone with no one to make a mess, no one to cook for, being free to do anything you want, especially in a country like US where there are so many things to enjoy is so precious it's like gold.
Exactly 💯
I love how you talk ! Real thing you are a very good young man !❤❤❤
Real talk mi general I totally agree with everything you said 💯
DEAR: JAYY! YOU ARE A REAL GENTLEMAN. A BIG HEART, LOVING CARING PERSON I JUST LIKE YOUR MIND SET. GENUINELY!!! 🙏🙏🙏❤️👍
Thank u, I try to be as real as I can, I don't pick sides 💯
You is a good man Jayy. I wish alot of Jamaican man could have this mentality of yours.
IF YOU HAVE A WOMAN and she wants to elevate herself through an education, the Man should be glad to support her with that.
Allow her to achieve whatever she foresite as posible and in turn you will advance you also.
Woman don't fall for being deprived or held back.
A coworker was complaining that his wife elevated herself so it's a man's mentality.
You must not have a life to these people you must live your life for them!!!
JayJ if i love you one more time. I love how you talk true. Keep up the amazing talent of talk to true.nuff love my brother ❤🙏
I appreciate that
JP I love the fact you call a spade a spade you not bias. Husband not thinking if something happens to him, she’ll be able to support herself… he selfish
Facts 💯
Elevation is good. I am proud of her
Thank you for being brutally honest. The same thing happened to me and when we come into the country our own husband treat us like we’re less than. Thank you for the other side of the story I’ve lived it.❤❤❤❤❤
More than welcome
Slavery days are over folks
Jay she did the right thing. America is not a place to come sit down when there is so much opportunities available to you. I was in her shoe in Jamaica and promised myself when I left Jamaica I was done with the relationship. I had a 3 year old child and working until 6pm in Kingston. My son’s father had a car and wouldn’t even come to pick us up knowing I’m struggling with the child on the bus from way up Constant Spring to CampView. When me reach home not even the kettle the man put on and sit down waiting for me to come make him tea. I left Jamaica and I was going to help him but him start show him true colors with women so I left him took my son and never looked back.
The woman is right I would do the same thing she want to be independent 👏
I met a man and he asked whats my plan for 5yrs and i told him to build a house in Jamaica where i can go to. His response was thats not a plan a house is not a home.. i said okay if having a relationship and marriage is your plan i will see you in a next life. Right there and the i blocked him. Right infront his face.
True J I have the same problem and I have to leave my husband
Blessed weekend Jayy and the JPE family...New stories but the message remains the same, open brain, eyes, ears..😮❤
Real talk 💯
I am watching from connecticut.this man think that jamaica is like america .i do the same type of work like her .this lady is a cna she is ambitious she up lift her self .this lady have to put money in the sysyem for her to get her social security .one hand cannot clap this man should be glad that she want to work .
True 💯
Exactly,if he get sick n can't worj then what!
True C N A to take care of old people
It takes 2 in these Countries if you have a spouse it’s a must that you share the responsibilities in the home when you are both working or else it will not work. We have to learn to change our thinking.
He wants her to sit down so he can monitor her, them life done
Talk truth 💯
My sentiments exactly !!!
Jay as funny as how u illustrate the news😂😂your talking the truth ..bless up uself
That's the thing, I make it fun to watch but I hope the message resonates💯
Yeamon it does
Like how you narrate the stories. good job.
Glad you like them!
I like how talk Mr. Jay team work ...I worked with the elderly in geriatric too... That kind of job drain you out....
Believe you 💯
Selfish man..cook his own food. Good for her😂
A lie dem a tell, I went to college ar age 63.
I don't wrong the woman, that husband is a hold down.
One hand can not clap. Never stop a person from working 🙌 and being able to get a better education. Stupid husband😢😢😢😢😢😢
@@Humble_Boss-i7s I know because I been there too, but with my Determination and ambition he couldn't tell me nothing. And I believe when men do things like that is badmind them badmind.
I don't blame her... "No door mat" round here.
England 🇬🇧 in the house
Word 💯
High expectations no communication formula for failure
The way you tell story! I feel it, 😂😢😮😊 she had drive and ambition respect! He should of stood by her side! 100%
I agree 100%
Nothing is not wrong with upgrading your life.
Some ppl see it as a threat 💯
Mi happy for her bless to mighty father she ga long and up lift her self god would be with her
Amen thank you sister amen ❤❤❤❤❤❤
You enlighten me with knowledge bless
I appreciate that
Applaud u J.P
Well said
Continuing high light the truth
Blessed weekend to you. I don't know what is wrong with some of these women/man if you know you are going to abuse, leave the person go all out to get married to just leave that person why do you even get involved stay where you are. Everytime I listen to these stories I bawl because a the same way my mom ill treat my dad and throw him out in the winter time and when they were in Jamaica they were together for 12 years for my mom to do that was pare wickedness just lowe my dad if that was your intentions and let him be. I can never understand how someone could do that to someone else's child. No matter what a person did in a life. The woman change. You see when you mek the world change you we forget the bible principles. Nothing is wrong with working and having your own but this is why the world is the way it is forget the bible principles. Just to say I want to be independent. What is wrong with working and taking care of your husband and the husband taking care of the wife. Teamwork make the dream work right. People nowadays make things too complicated in the household when it doesn't need to be.
True words my brother.
Jayp ur just a justice individual ur a truthful person God bless u will b successful 💖
Jay y progress it doesn't matter what ages you are to learn as long as you are still living Jamaicans people is still behind school are for everyone to continue educating our self.
Here in England no-one go and look after any older people if you do not have have any education such as N V Q or HEALTH CARE social care nursing care worker other wise you will not have the job..
My blessings to you jay y progress keep helping the people.
You know how many men send them to School, and then walk away from them. 😮😢 Dont let know one use you. America is not a bed of roses, So let them come and see what America is all about. 😢😂😅😢
Fair 💯
Mr Story Teller,Jaay! You Understand the Assignment 💯💯💯💯💯 Facts no lies Detected ! Love this subject matter toonight!😂😂😂👍👍👍👍👍❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Glad you enjoyed 🙏
CNA Certified Nursing Assistant. Jayy now a days they want certification for everything. Years ago teachers did not need that but I guess the last 20 years, teachers do a state exam,, you pass and you are license by the state. YOu are now a certified teacher. Taking care of old people, you now have to do an exam. So yes, CNA.
It happens all the time man and woman do the same exact thing it's very
Good for her.. foreign country can be boring it's not like Jamaica....people become depressed and have lots of mental problems...good for her...
Facts 💯
THANK U !!!
I know people who are 5o odd years old and return to higher education to do Bachelors, Masters degrees. Yes elevate yourself. Jamaican people in Jamaica have a different mentality about school.
Me love her, big her up 💯💯
When u are in a different country for u to get a work to look after the elderly or small children u have to go back to school even if it’s a cleaning job as long as it’s around the elderly u have to go back to school as long as you get a certificate the job pays you better so the lady is getting a good salary that’s why the man behaved like that ❤❤❤
Honestly, some men feel threatened when a woman has her independence 💯
JJJAY YOU MAKE ME CRY....
I don't know why people pay good with evil.The devil really played with her destiny like football.Some people will have opportunity and throw it away. Big up JAY GREATEST VLOGGER
To deal with the older people is not a easy job, especially when you of to take transportation
True. I couldn't get any work because I didn't drive.
Family a real thing u a talk bless up urself
BLESSINGS to U 🙏
Nothing like being independent
What people fail to understand is the America you know is different when you get here. Like he said a lot of opportunities here. Some man a whole dung. Mi no wah no man take care a mi. Kmt. The amount of work me can do. Applying for a job for me is ridiculous. My boss them nah make me look no more work lol.
Im gonna disagree on this one . The man did not change he is a provider and wanted a woman to play her role that she happily did for years. She was happy to be taken care of whilst he was away and sist at home . Why did she not look to elevate herself then? The man knew what he wanted and she played that role until she didn't want to. When she came to america she did not have the freedon and space away from him so that's what she now wants. We've been conditioned as black women to act like we are the man and we are independent and don't need a man . This is the thinking of the modern woman. Unless the man was not providing then i see an issue . Other cultures have no issue with this . The man did not change period
I know people who go through the same thing very sad
Blessed love family, continue the good work, I've seen it before
Thank you, I will
Jay tell it as it is. Bright the man bright. Glad the wife knows her worth and leave.
You talking truth bro
Because he want to have her control, don’t want her to experience certain things.😊
WOMAN TEK OFF LIKE AH TRACK STAR,IT GOOD FI HIM RASS😅😅😅
Women we are strong. DO NOT BE ANY MAN'S DOORMAT, ESPECIALLY IF YOU CONTRIBUTE
Life don't need to be this complicated if people are more reasonable to the circumstances
FACTS💯
So true Mr. Progress
Their should be some kind of communication. Their needs to balance. I worked as a Psw double shifts and I still find time to carter to the needs of my husband and vice versa. A woman should be a man's backbone that is why most of dem single a talk about independence. The woman is a helper. What did the bible seh but no people want to do everything the world a do. She probably have a next man. And had her plans. Most woman plan out before leaving.
Exactly so. I'm glad she left him behind.
50-50 she can do it he can do the same thing 50-50 whoever reach home first cook and that’s it. ❤️💯🙏👍
That sounds familiar
It's very expensive in NYC. Two hands clap 👏 Bothe person should work together is a better deal. Things never stay the same things change. We evolve. Come on. Mask haste as the sun shine. When we get older, it's harder. Go lady Go. She has a plan to enjoy life😅
Big upiJay,true word 👍
Real talk guy
And thats why princess megan could walk away from the royal family because she came with her own money ❤❤❤ god bless the child that have their own
Talk true Jp
Thank u if he reach home first he can cook on if she reach home before him she can cook unity is the key
Mom on dad have there own bless the child that have them own....
Good afternoon my friend I laugh so still I almost cry I forget am at work man u speak the truth nail on the head especially when u say eno kiss --- u know the rest 😂😅😊❤
🤣🤣🤣🤣
I love the way this man thinks. I am no Jamaican; but he is so right. Women want to be a part of making life better for both parties. Want if the man gets sick; she can support the family
woman normally don't run from good
The woman has ambition. Even to clean sh…. In the foreign country you have to be trained. Lazy man. Thanks for putting this out there. I agree with this woman ❤
Went to look about some paperwork in JA due to the situation was told that the person is able body so it couldn't work. Might I add I have a disabled brother and he works so I don't understand why able body people don't want to work. Like a family member who the woman work and the man don't. He doesn't cook or clean he have to wait until she comes home for all that. From I was born. Big clown
The husband in America, for 4 years, husband and wife, do things together when you both work. The wife had ambition.
Talk truth 💯
I blame this women I don't want a slave a want a helper 🥰
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Biting the hands that feeds you is ungrateful if the man did forget her in Jamaica it would be a different conversation
The man is loyal and expects the same nothing wrong for the woman to work however it is expected for women to be in the position of taking care of the household is how they decided and the man brings the money
This conversation is another story of deceitful and deception and untrustworthy behaviors it is said "the arms of flesh will fail you you dear not trust your own"!!!
Exactly I totally agree a lot of bias women in the comment section, and I am a female saying this.
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Yes JP good talk. Some of these men need a strong woman deal with them.
Because he was not a citizen
Thay both have to work together who came home first start dinner foreign is different work together the woman tired and fedup so she left his ass he expect the woman to come tired and cook,clean,wash i will run and don't look back .He loss a good woman. Some men bring there woman or man over and thay want to control them .
You are funny!can relate to some of what you are saying.some spouse don't want you to be better, they want you to be dependent.i take a hike and never look back.
Very true
Hello JAY PROGRESS IF ME LOVE YOU ONE MORE TIME, TRUE WORDS BRO, ONE LOVE BLESS ❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉
Big up
So true, well said JP
He wants to keep her under his thumb. I better he will change his mentality now. Wife gwaan. Sounds good. She is better off on her own
SAY IT AGAIN😅
The man wants to control her, opportunity is in America, he should be happy he has an ambitious wife, mi nuh waah no h ole time man
J 😂 it’s about understanding and there was no understanding between them it’s sad all they had to do was to work together
Just man don't like a strong independent woman
The living in America is much different everything have to share so when come change your mindset
Real talk
She have ambition he should respect her. She is not fooling around.
One jay progress talk up the things 😂😂
No man him na good him should do and help him woman she na foul , him out place , let sit down pon that
Good morning Jay progress
Morning! blessings to u
He needs his mother to cook for him.
Mi like what ya where you looking good blessings